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One of the toxic women I went out with, used to juggle among 3 men. I told her directly that I don't want to be part of the circus. But now I see she's dating my college junior and they are in a loving relationship. She came to know that guy through me lol Recently I fell in love with a girl who constantly claimed she's is trauma from her ex. And then I found her flirting with a guy on text while I went to buy drinks for us in club. She was acting super cold and I blocked her.
/r/seduction05/06/21 02:00 AM
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Care to explain more (1)
/r/seduction07/05/21 04:19 AM
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Please do a TL;DW
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:49 AM
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I'm a fatty obese dude and I'd second him. Secondly don't see every girl as a target to sell yourself. Rather just a person with whom you're trying to have a fun conversation with.
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:36 PM
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Someone said this same thing here to me. I met yes girls and no girls. The yes girls are better, they are more extroverted and open to the idea of dating or going out Cons - you don't know they're just friendly or interested in you (or maybe I found this difficulty as I was a bit young) I dated a girl, whom I texted over at Facebook, just before pandemic started. She was the elder sister of my junior, so she had some idea about me. I asked her, if I had approached her in person, what would have …
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:33 PM
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Good luck. Just dont attach any emotions now. I once read it here " expectations are resentments waiting to happen" And that's it. Your agenda should be simple, " I'm going to meet him and the days we spend together should be fun and interesting and we both learn about each other" Keep this in your mind And may Allah bless you with a healthy life.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:25 PM
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Exactly brother
/r/seduction17/12/20 12:26 PM
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Bro Like I hate nail polish And I let the girl know about it If she stops wearing it, after a say, I take it as a positive sign that she's into me. Like that I have conversation and try to see how she reacts to my likes and dislikes. Then only I express it. And once they get the attention, they say it was just friendly. Or she's not attracted to me or stuff like that. I know they are lying. But I don't know how to repair it
/r/seduction17/12/20 12:25 PM
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I meant expressing interest after months or weeks.
/r/seduction16/12/20 11:57 PM
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You filled the hole in my heart that was eating me up
/r/seduction16/12/20 11:56 PM
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Man I really needed this. Thank you so much <3
/r/seduction29/09/20 10:30 PM
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I read about it constantly in this sub And since I'm not having sex with the girl, Our relationship turns into friendship. But there are so many girls i know whom I could have had as my gf. Girls who were not into sex And I just didn't know when was the right time to bring up the question.
/r/seduction28/09/20 09:28 PM
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Just that? Nothing else??? I kept girls waiting for months Fuck I did big mistake man
/r/seduction28/09/20 09:21 PM
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That's the point. When I learnt from this group, it said you'll just know when it's time for relationship. And I shouldn't ask a girl for relationship, just tell her to live in the moment. Here when you approach a girl, she gets conscious, if that relationship would work for marriage. So many times girls rejected me just by hearing my name ( aka denoting I'm Muslim) or not of preferred caste. The handful , educated girls I get, I face difficulties in asking them for relationship. How do you prop…
/r/seduction27/09/20 09:05 AM
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I've known people who didn't have sex 2 years into committed relationship. And it's not like, people who have sex in relationship, do not cheat lol.
/r/seduction27/09/20 09:00 AM
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I'm an Indian Muslim. And religious. So I don't wish to have sex before marriage or be involved in hook up or just physical pleasure. I want an emotional bond. No doubt hook up culture exists in India, I just prefer not to get involved. And I meet Indian girls who are not into sex. The problem comes that they had bad emotional state after break up and sometimes are very hesitant for another emotional relationship. Plus having bf/gf is still frowned by many Indian families. It's done in secret.
/r/seduction27/09/20 08:59 AM
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It happened multiple times. That's why I do not know when to ask for a relationship? And how to ask for it? I saw this girl for 6 months. Got romantically close. But at the end she tried Gaslighting and saying we were friends. So how to ask a girl for relationship????
/r/seduction27/09/20 08:56 AM
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Yeah. Just talking. Having fun. Sex isn't fairly common in our society.
/r/seduction26/09/20 11:23 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction20/08/20 07:57 PM
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Thanks man. I'll delete the post.
/r/seduction20/08/20 07:57 PM
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Not brother I want direction She's flaky What to do?
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:17 AM
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She did reach out after 2 days. I didn't reply back. I felt the vibes man, she is into me. I've never felt stronger vibes from a girl.
/r/seduction20/08/20 11:12 AM
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I know man. Should I let her know that I'm done with her? Cause I really want to let her know. Cause I wanna see what she has to say about it. I'm so fucking done with her man. I want to tell her no matter how much special she was to me, I am done with her
/r/seduction20/08/20 10:39 AM
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I did meet brother. But I felt she was being flaky and if I tell her I'm done with her, she would come to her senses. Have you ever dated someone out of your league
/r/seduction20/08/20 10:38 AM
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I felt she was being flaky. And if I tell her, that I'm done with her, she would understand the loss and get back
/r/seduction20/08/20 10:36 AM
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Lol How to do chemotherapy?
/r/seduction20/08/20 08:06 AM
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I moved on that way. As I said, I started talking with 4 other girls. But if I wish to move on I want to move on completely. How about I text her that I am done with her bullshit. And no matter how much I liked her and cared for her a person and not as a sexual object, I cannot tolerate her Gaslighting me
/r/seduction20/08/20 07:52 AM
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That's it? How? Block her? Isn't there a way to get her?
/r/seduction20/08/20 07:37 AM
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The first day i asked her a question, she replied and i ran away The second day, i asked the girl a question and had a follow up question The third day, i asked the girl a question and asked about her, 30 sec conversation The fourth day, i asked the girl a question and had conversation for 5 min The 5th girl i approached, didnt talk at all the sixth girl was hostile the 7th girl was responsive and had some enjoyable conversation with her for 20 mins long talk, i had to go through more than 20 gi…
/r/seduction26/07/20 06:48 AM
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20 21 aren't men older to you darling they are perfect for you. Even men as old as 24, 25 are okay You are more mature than men your age, it's scientifically proven. That is why , most couples have the male older than female. Chill. And your friends are going through infatuation. Trust me you don't wanna date an 18 year old man. I was immature as hell at 18. You'll end up getting hurt. Let your friends be friends. Date someone in their early or mid 20s. Edit- Men at 18 finally open up to women, …
/r/seduction26/05/20 07:30 AM
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In short, you got friendzoned by men your age? And you attract older men, but you don't wish to. Can you be less vague? Like what's your age and country? And what is older men age?
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:59 AM
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okay read the whole thing now. didn't know it was a girl. many man lust for casual sex and many wish something permanent. if you want something permanent, your smile and personality are the two most powerful tools. conversation- fun ones can make anyone attractive. have you accounted that you maybe too good looking and many men are scared to approach you ?
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:16 AM
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tig ol bitties
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:11 AM
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Proud of you mate
/r/seduction21/05/20 07:43 PM
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Recommend some books? I've read 3% men and models.
/r/seduction24/04/20 09:58 PM
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Do you know what we say about white women? They are too kind and nice. That they behave with too much etiquette. Indian women don't. They have too many men chasing them that's why most girls don't even develop a personality. They never needed to act nice/kind unless they felt like doing it
/r/seduction24/04/20 07:36 PM
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Are you accounting from the view point of Indian society? Cause usually in Indian society this shit doesn't happen. Men get obsessively crazy for girl if she shows little interest My heart doesn't accept that she's doing this
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:51 PM
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Naa man Won't say that She has shown interest and flirting. If she wanted she could have just shunned me. Plus she's hot and got 1000s of men texting her. So I won't say she just wanted attention. We connected ideologically.
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:01 PM
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Thanks man. Will become a bigger Coquette.
/r/seduction23/04/20 08:48 PM
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Fucking fuck! You gotta preach man!
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:21 PM
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So many myths being burst today. Am I on Reddit or some muth bursters show? Lol
/r/seduction08/04/20 04:37 AM
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Brother just the other day, I posted about it. Been texting a girl now she's ghosting me.ofcource it's my texting skills.nothing else. Fuck me.
/r/seduction08/04/20 04:27 AM
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Fuck! You're me in some other city and country (?) ! Damn man! Same shit with me. Can't text. I text like an ass. Can't keep a chicko interested. Even my sister told me " you're the only men in my life who texts me such long words to convey yourself, men generally text small " And I literally can't write short! I literally fucking can't! But if I already met this girl in real life, and can call her, I could keep her interested. But maintaining attraction over text is argh.
/r/seduction08/04/20 03:59 AM
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Maybe he's following the old technique where people suggested never to text a girl for at least a week or else it would make you look desperate. Or maybe he is caught up in some shit. Happened to me I took a girls number but I was so busy with a project I completely forgot to text her and after 4 days suddenly I remember and texted her. She didn't text back tho. She saved my number but well we are not on talking terms .
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:03 PM
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Can you share any torrent link? Without virus and good seeds
/r/seduction24/01/20 08:03 PM
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Boobies are like doggies, Big or small they all deserve love. Men want to play with them, Irrespective of size of their size Boobies are like sunsets, It's always pleasing to see We may have seen it many times before, But everytime it sparks joy in our heart. So miss milf, your boobs are fantastic I even got an erection and a big smile Just by seeing this pic Don't worry.
/r/seduction20/01/20 10:39 AM
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Will keep that in mind
/r/seduction28/12/19 01:03 PM
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She was onetis man. Not a normal one, she was onetis so I couldn't have kept thing like it meant nothing to me, I started suffering.
/r/seduction28/12/19 01:02 PM
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I really really really really wish it was what you think it was. She sent me pic of her in arms of the guy. She started talking about how much she's gonna miss him when he leaves for Spain in summer She tells me how she's been seeing him for a year now She calls him up when we're in that part of the town where he lives ( he was out otherwise I'm sure she'd have introduced me to him saying " ah my nice friend ") When I tried to hold her hand, she didn't want to What else is the symbol of being fr…
/r/seduction28/12/19 12:57 PM
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No one should. I think you're going through a lot of mental health issues and insecurities that make you act just condescending, I've been there where I used to be like you with" dont be a pussy " attitude. Hopefully you'll get better and mature as you progress in life
/r/seduction28/12/19 05:45 AM
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Yes both statements are true and how you deliver it says more about you as a person. And if you're at the same level as me....Good luck getting girls over 25 with this disdainful attitude.
/r/seduction28/12/19 05:37 AM
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Telling truth is good Insulting an aspiring individual just to SHOW OFF that you're better than him while being disdainful and immodest is not. There is a difference between saying " your father died" And " you're mum is hot single now "
/r/seduction28/12/19 05:02 AM
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The motive of this sub is to help guys like me, not to make fun of them. The motive of this sub is to help us grow. You're one of those guy who laugh at the fat guy in the gym instead of encouraging him. Kudos to you
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:57 AM
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Yes thanks. Hopefully it wasn't my game that was sucking. I was going through self doubt and a dip in confidence.
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:53 AM
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That's really useful advice. Try being a little more immature and arrogant next time
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:46 AM
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I do that with most girl. Never cut ties just take step back and wait. But I was kinda getting obsessed with this one. She seemed perfect....she was onetis kinda. I just want to get her and what she did out of my head and need my old self confidence back
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:46 AM
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I did that unconsciously to act as repulsive as possible. See I'm very inexperienced in the game, I'm still learning
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:34 AM
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I was told by men in this sub only to not waste my time with her and tell her clearly that I don't wish to be friendzoned. And yes I'm very inexperienced as I started trying to date women at 20 and studied in only boys schools. So I have very less grasp of women mentality
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:27 AM
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So how do I stop women from doing it? Like if I approach a girl with aim of dating and she sees me as a friend it was a waste of my time. How do I stop women from wasting my time?
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:25 AM
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I guess I wasn't clear. I didn't ask her for relationship or marriage or anything. I wanted to keep it light as well. But she friendzoned me and got in committed relationship with someone. Plus I live in a conservative society and hook up culture isn't as dominant here like in America. My question is was there a fault in my game, did I misread her signs or was she just using me till the other guy finally committed with her
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:12 AM
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I told her I don't wish to meet her again and asked her not to approach me in college. I think I did the right thing or else I'd have dwelled in the hopes that her bf will eventually dump her and she'd come back to me. You know secretly rooting for her relationship to end which would have made me miserable
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:02 AM
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Damn. Thanks for sharing man! Real picture of Detroit!
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:56 PM
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Thanks man for your advice. I stopped talking to her She tried texting me a few times But I responded very cold Maybe she's my onetis cause I really enjoyed time with her and really wish I could have had her. My exams started after that date, so I tried hitting up a few girls online but I guess I suck a lot at texting Game was low!
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:51 PM
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Cool. Btw do you get to see the area Eminem was from? And the hip-hop battles like in 8 Mile?
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:03 PM
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Lol Non American here. Till date all I knew about Detroit was , y'all make cars and hip hop albums Detroit vs everybody
/r/seduction01/12/19 07:08 PM
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rightly said u/humanbuttplug69
/r/seduction27/11/19 08:06 AM
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me too u/pm_me_some_love_bby
/r/seduction27/11/19 08:05 AM
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r/ihavesex You belong there
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:53 PM
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Man He ain't Jesus that you should be blindly following. Just some random guy who achieved success READ LEARN IMPROVISE
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:39 PM
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Dude Idk what slutty chicks you go for who kiss right on first date but NORMAL CHICKS don't kiss. Tension needs to be built up. I posted a comment with a link about how to kiss a girl on 1st date. See if both guy and girl are planning for short time sexual future it's easy. But if you really want to SEDUCE a girl who isn't there for one night stand , that tension and attraction is necessary.
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:30 PM
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https://medium.com/@stensootla/the-art-of-kissing-on-a-first-date-7f096ed10605 Try this And do tell me if it works
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:27 PM
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Delete
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:24 PM
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Dude open my profile you'll see my face I weigh 95kg I had the same mentality as you But this whole sub reddit is about not giving a damn about your looks and focusing on the game. The first principle of Seddit : Develop self confidence Second principle of Seddit : Develop self confidence. Stop the over thinking. Stop having an ideal mind. You're imagining bullshit. You got this man. The little coward voice that tells you to run away is lying.
/r/seduction24/11/19 04:58 PM
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man you need help your worst enemy is you. If all day you think about yellow taxi, when you get on the road the first thing youll notice is yellow taxi. if all day you think you are not good enough, when you get out and see a girl the first thing that will come to your mind is that youre not good enough.seduction happens when you know it well that you deserve this girl. first start with basics: boost your confidence and self esteem. Give it months or year. Experiment what makes you proud of your…
/r/seduction24/11/19 03:33 PM
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Is it free?
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:02 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction17/11/19 02:34 PM
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If you're an introvert, you shouldn't ask for TL DR, it's not like you got people to meet or hangout with and can use that time to read.
/r/seduction10/11/19 03:26 AM
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Weight matters brother! Slim people look better! But weight isn't the only factor that women care. You seriously have a lot of work to do. Starting with " women not finding me attractive" ...fuck that shit! Do you find yourself attractive? Repeat everyday "no matter what anyone tells me, I'm good looking and I love myself. No matter what society tells me I'm perfect in my own way. Validation from external means is a sin. I can be anything" You need to develop a strong personality before approach…
/r/seduction05/11/19 01:07 AM
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Firstly! You need to be stoic in the game Dating is totally a stoic game. You need to accept rejection and learn you don't control other people. You need to constantly develop yourself...become a total stoic. So fucking no, you ain't giving up stoicism. Secondly you're asking how to be playful in the title and asking if " sales man trick" works in description. I call it sales man trick " hey that's a 20k guitar it's got X Y Z features" " sorry can't buy it" " okay here's a 12k guitar it has X Y …
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:18 PM
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From my experience, proposed meet-ups always get cancelled! Don't ask her directly for date. Just make the conversation over texts such a way that you two have to meet up. And preferably do it a day before you're going to hometown. Casually put in , " hey I'm busy now, and will be in the city tomorrow, let's try to catch up tomorrow". And always set the time and location, don't ask her Do tell me if it works for you
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:12 PM
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I'm like 200 pounds with a jute bag size belly and still was able to pick up. The trick is conversation and attitude. The girl need to feels excited while have conversation with you. You need to have the attitude of being confident and open to rejection, ready to jump on the next one. Also have an alpha male body language, no need of 6 packs abs etc. I have a friend with the best figure but too shy to even say hello to a girl
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:49 PM
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Big Daddy helping big egg xD
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:46 PM
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Delhi it's much easier than other cities. Girls are bakchod! But with every guy ogling at girl it makes it a bit tough too. Would recommend you to be confident. Delhi girls know how to put a man down. They aren't nice as Mumbai or Bangalore girls. I tried picking up at Delhi a month back. I got the contact of 3 girls. None replied back after I texted them...so can't say.
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:44 PM
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You have no idea. Women aren't generally friendly towards strangers unless you're living in a metro
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:41 PM
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https://medium.com/@stensootla/the-art-of-kissing-on-a-first-date-7f096ed10605 Maybe this can help
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:40 PM
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Let me try and see how it rolls
/r/seduction20/10/19 12:32 PM
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Man! I'm starting on this shit And just want to say, maybe it's the vibe Your vibe may not be good enough That's it. You need to come off more confident and smart and macho.. that's it
/r/seduction07/10/19 01:39 AM
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Depends if it's of same sex or opposite! Like mostly I might just nod along and smile.. Unless the conversation is interesting Holy fuck! How do I make it interesting?
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:13 PM
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What exactly did she ask advice about?
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:33 AM
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Ok Sensai. Btw any task you want assign me for next few weeks?
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:43 PM
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Let me try on next two and get back on you. Btw I was asking was how do I get the fresher ? She over respects me I think I'll just tell her, " just because I'm older to you, doesn't mean you need to respect me, I seek respect through my work not through my age" And how many times should a guy ask a girl out on date if he's really into her?
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:24 PM
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u/kevfhd
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:17 PM
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So yes it's been 2 months nearly And wanna share my experience So after you said this, it took me nearly 10 days to approach a girl directly cause it was hard to find any girl walking alone in the street and I was in a different city then, for my internship. The first girl I summed up the courage to approach, I asked her " Quick question, do you think brown shoe or black shoes" she answered black and then I ran away. After that day, I approached the second girl and when she said " black shoes" I…
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:14 PM
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LMAO! Well, I will! And report back.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:59 PM
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Haha I do that ! Listens to jazz, dress smartly and also a lot of suit and tie, and easily get friendly with women. But I realise where I fail today..... The shit tests. I should learn a bit more about conversation with women I meet. I think there is still a bit of a nice guy in me, which acts up at extreme situations... Any advise sensai ?
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:52 PM
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India. eats curry
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:41 PM
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Haha. I wish I could say this. I live in a bit conservative country. So women find it hard to trust strangers. A good and bad guy both look the same. I have noticed that women who watch more Hollywood movies are open to chatting up in Public, but rest get spooked, well technically most get spooked out. So how to give off a comforting vibe, that's sexual and fun. P.S not a good looking gentleman here,so the game is what I depend on
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:36 PM
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Really great reply. Thanks. Wish I read this one prior
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:31 PM
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We text a lot and when we call it lasts for hours. But texting is constant. I haven't texted this much in years. Also I feel I'm being too nice and understanding Having deep meaningful conversations and constantly teasing her sexually. She's a bit childish. I'm in college, interning far from home. And when my internship ends, her's starts. And we probably are gonna be busy till October I'm scared, such sudden too much affection, can actually hurt and destroy what we have. We aren't officially in…
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:30 PM
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I use mostly Facebook as my tinder. And usually use a smart ass intriguing line as opening statement. How about pick-up lines? And to what level can we use? I saw one that suggested marriage. Also I read, that acting and playing with her likes she's your wifey, works a lot in getting her interested.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:47 PM
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Thanks man! I feel I should post more of my doubts in this group.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:39 PM
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It was over texting. It's so sad, that our lives are such that our dating world is now over phone. But yeah I got it, to exaggerate the things. And what to do when physical contact is not possible? Just an emoji? What's about when you're in a relationship? And she says something like " you hate me right?" Still exaggeration?
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:35 PM
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No I mean ,when she says " we are friend right?" What's the best reply? What's the best reaction?
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:26 PM
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Sure man. And yes I'm open to failure Through failures I've learnt a lot. Like once I fucked up when a girl said '' so how many girls are you saying this to" I replied rudely. Next time another one said it, I replied " just 69 women" Kinda kiddish but it made her laugh
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:25 PM
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But what's the alternative reply? What should one exactly say in such situations?
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:22 PM
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Damn! This is cool. I knew I fucked up but couldn't figure out where. Much needed thanks man.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:19 PM
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I said " hey are you friend zoning me now?" And then said " you can trust me with some secret of you want to share" She said " you will think why is this girl talkin'with me, people tend to think I'm interested in them, I'm not, I'm just into friendship" I said " I don't think that way, you have wrong idea about me" P.S two days back she started sending kissy emojis and now she's saying all these. Maybe she found someone?
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:06 PM
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I said " hey are you friend zoning me now?" And then said " you can trust me with some secret of you want to share" She said " you will think why is this girl talkin'with me, people tend to think I'm interested in them, I'm not, I'm just into friendship" I said " I don't think that way, you have wrong idea about me" P.S two days back she started sending kissy emojis and now she's saying all these. Maybe she found someone?
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:06 PM
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When you're courting, it's suggested not to reply right away. Not to have deep conversation, not to get too.emotional and stuff But we are going well now, I think I have to reverse those things?
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:12 PM
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