So I started working on day game. I'll divide the text in 3 parts.

PART I

The first girl I approached with a simple question and after she answered I ran away from her as fast as I could Conversation Time - 10Sec

After that the second girl I approached I tried to ask her the question and then a follow up question. Conversation Time - 20 sec

The third girl I approached I asked her 4 questions the conversation Time - 50 sec

Fourth girl I approached was when we were waiting for boarding the flight. We talked a lot. I literally was nervous as hell and just finding it hard to control my anxiety and bring good topics. Conversation Time - 7 mins

Fifth girl was a facebook girl who joined my college as fresher. She wasn't very responsive. I asked for her number she gave me, but never replied back Conversation Time - 3 mins

Following this were next 4 girl and conversation time was under 5 mins for most.

After this I talked to next 5-6 girls but never asked for any number or anything, just trying to learn how to make the conversation

PART II : Making the move

  1. Metro Girl - So I saw this really cute girl in Metro of a different city. I was anxious. She was reading a book and I went in and asked her what book she was reading. She told me the name and the author. I asked what the book was about. She said it's about intellectuals should speak out against conservative politics. I asked her if she was from arts background, she said she's a Journalist. We started talking, about books and a bit about Politics. I said " I'm not very good on social media, I hate Facebook and Instagram" She said " I got on insta recently,not so interesting"

While departing I said " well would love to remain in contact with you give me your Facebook" She said " not on Facebook" I said " fine your number then" She said " I'll give you my email, you'll have to work hard for Phone number , and also my name incase you come to insta" I laughed. Then she said " bye, I hope I receive your email soon"

she never replied to my email lol

  1. College girl : So there was a free eye check up in my college. This girl sat next to me. I just started conversation normally...with a small joke about how college life is going to suck. So after some conversation she left. The I met her again while walking towards canteen. Just 20 sec conversation.

After that I met her again while the orientation of a club I was integral part of. I sat next to her and talked with her. Being the senior most in the room, i was having fun with my juniors and she could see I was respected etc. After the programme I asked her if she had lunch, she said no. I said ok let's go. We had lunch then exchanged numbers.

After that I met again during a college function. We went out roaming and put my hands over her. Some of my friends saw it and starter teasing us with cliche love songs.

After this i was at a social event, near her dorm. She saw my status and " CAME TO ENJOY THE EVENT". We roamed the campus. Then she saw bicycle and said she doesn't know how to ride one. I tried to teach her. There was a lot of touching.

After this we went to have a pizza. She told me she came to many dates at the same pizza place prior joining college. And then she started talking about her ex HUGE TURN OFF

PART III - COLLEGE GIRL ( ADVISE NEEDED HERE)

After that evening, we didn't talk. No text nothing. I posted about some mental health importance. She texted again and told me she was depressed. I texted that she could have texted me anytime. She called me up we talked till late night. She then asked me to come for a programme in college I said I was busy. Same evening she asked to go for tea. I was close by and went there.

We were supposed to go out for bowling yesterday. But yesterday morning she called me up and said she had other plans. I texted " Naa you're just scared of losing at bowling" She said she has genuine plans, I asked " so any family function?" She said " yes "

Later evening she sent me a video of a guy with long hair playing with a puppy. And then she started texting me how much she's going to miss him, he's leaving for Spain etc. I sarcastically texted a bit and then left her on read when all she wanted to do was talk about him.

Today morning she called me up asking if I was still on for bowling NOW I GENUINELY WANTED TO GO FOR BOWLING EVEN WITH A FRIEND SO I SAID YES IF IT WAS FOR LUNCH OR SOMETHING I WOULD HAVE SAID NO

We went, she talked a bit about the guy and that she " is seeing him" and that he's rich as fuck too he has 3 elephants and so many hospitals and restaurants but still wants to work and study instead of taking money from father. Then we went to bowling

Lots of touching and challenging. I made the bet that the loser will have to carry shopping bags. She lost three times by small margin.

After this we went shopping. I called most of her dresses ugly. And then to one dress I said' oh God, just marry me already "

Then while walking I said "am I an asshole" she said " you definitely are"

After this I was little bit roasting her again at pizza hut. Then we got on bus to college. She asked a few questions about my exes and tried to tell about hers. And told me she was checking out a guy sitting away.

When we got on the bus, I was quite sleepy and she wouldn't stop blabbering. She showed me her art , I didn't pay much attention to it. And then her Instragram pics - I gave no response or negative response.

Afterwards she asked me to show her my poems. I showed her some, she got emotional over those poems. Then she talked about losing her father and started crying when I gave her some advice to cope with the pain.

SHE REACHER HER ROOM AND TEXTED ME THAT TODAY WAS "VERYYYYYYYY NICE" I never got such message till date

__TLDR PART III___

I maybe acted too much insensitive with the girl by roasting her many times. But told her that I'm not good at expressing my emotions easily and do it through poems

She said she's seeing another guy. Maybe she was trying for him for a long time and finally he said yes to her yesterday, that's why she ditched me yesterday for him.

IF ANYONE ACTUALLY READ THIS ALL I was thinking of writing a small poem for her to cope with her father's loss and then go away with no contact for her for weeks.

I don't know how to get her to stop dating that guy. Any advise?