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I respectfully disagree with your point. I entered in Seddit driven by the "I want to have a lot of sex" mentality but as I started reading (especially Manson's books) I realized I'm not that into frequent hookups. Still I didn't leave the community and learned a lot of things. Seddit helped me realize many things I was doing wrong, not only with girls but in my life as a whole. I really believe a big part of the Seduction process is the self-improvement, and once that starts to come, you'll sta…
/r/seduction24/04/18 11:07 AM
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Man... This sub sometimes
/r/seduction21/03/18 07:12 AM
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Hah, good luck trying to get a girl kicked out of a club after slapping you. It's literally easier for her to say "this dude is harassing me" and you'll be out before you can say a word.
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:32 AM
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Read "Models" from Mark Manson. You'll hopefully know what to do after. If you don't, read it again.
/r/seduction28/02/18 03:37 PM
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Sometimes things go wrong and there's nothing you can do about it. Don't get fooled; girls have her own life too and events happen outside of you both. And most of the time, you cannot control them. So accept them and move on.
/r/seduction27/02/18 10:39 AM
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No. If you act like another person, you'll constantly compare yourself to them and get disappointed because your results will not be the same. Act like yourself, get confidence, fix your life, be happy. Women are not the objective, women come along the way. Find the way, then let women come if they may.
/r/seduction14/02/18 09:12 AM
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Girls are a side effect of what you as a person are. Focus on yourself, get to do what you like, be happy, care about you, your health, your style, your happiness. Get your life worked out and that will attract women.
/r/seduction14/02/18 07:55 AM
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Not necessary but worth the try
/r/seduction03/02/18 09:33 AM
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Generally Scribd is a good place to get them for free. Googling them (+ "pdf" ofc) should sometimes work too. I have all those books downloaded for free on Internet because suck so have 0 money independence. You can also buy them. I will probably do so once I finish college and start getting some money, even if I have already read them.
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:03 PM
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That very one, haha
/r/seduction25/12/17 02:09 PM
12

👉😎👉 zoop!
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:21 AM
1

I'm gonna say a lot of comments imply not disrespect directly but more like selfishness. For instance, I've seen countless times the "numbers game" argument, and while I agree with it to some extent, I think women just shouldn't be treated as a number.
/r/seduction15/12/17 09:45 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 Ikr? 😬😬 Lmao 😳
/r/seduction13/12/17 03:00 PM
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No it's not.
/r/seduction02/12/17 01:38 PM
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Well I find it exactly the opposite. You look for some weird tricks or last-resort strategies just to get a girl so your ego is not shattered. That's the same monstrosity than the "just talk to all girls you encounter over the night and some will end up hanging out with you". Yes, if you only look to your own benefit and ignore the rest of the world and treat other people (women) as objects or numbers, it is an option. I, however, believe that the point of this whole seduction and pickup communi…
/r/seduction30/11/17 10:28 PM
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Lmao these all seem like an awful idea, if she doesn't text back just move on dude, your life doesn't revolver around her
/r/seduction30/11/17 08:09 PM
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Don't you have issues like blue balls or cumming while sleeping? (Assuming you didn't have a constant sex source throughout those 5 years(
/r/seduction19/11/17 07:40 PM
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Don't change something you believe in. Women and pickup is not an objective, is a part of the process which is enjoying and living your life - the one you decide and based on values and beliefs of your own.
/r/seduction12/11/17 10:58 AM
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Well I found that relevant because many, many times throughout every day I find something funny and I don't actually laugh at it. I just smile, do a little smirk or even do nothing while thinking it was funny. I don't know if it's a normal thing but at least for me it's useful to know.
/r/seduction11/11/17 09:39 AM
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Does she still talk to you like that after turning you away these times? I mean flirting, etc. If yes, she might be genuinely busy. In that case she probably should've told you something not to come off as flakey or whatever. You can ask her directly if she's not interested in meeting with you anymore. Not angry, not disrespectful, just ask her and hear what she tells you. If not, just stop talking to her altogether. Don't ask her anything because she's not interested. Just erase number and mayb…
/r/seduction03/11/17 09:16 PM
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I would go to therapy and hopefully get this problem sorted out with time.
/r/seduction03/11/17 02:40 PM
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I think Models will point the steps out to you in a much better way than I could. It's a fantastic book with a lot to teach.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:02 PM
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Well, I'm no expert on the topic so take my advice with a grain of salt. If you feel you are lacking "basis", probably a good idea is to read some of the books available. Best for me are: Models by Mark Manson: General advice about mostly all topics, from lifestyle to mindset to style to demographics. Good if you have no clue where to start to focus your effort on. The definitive guide on body language: Self-explanatory, extremely useful, will probably re-read it again soon. Unfu*k yourself: Sho…
/r/seduction01/11/17 06:54 PM
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We've all been there. Stay strong
/r/seduction01/11/17 06:40 PM
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I once had sex with a considerably fat girl which I'd known for a long time. It was not a "I was drunk and things happened" at all and it was probably the best sex I've ever had. Some dudes can be stupid with those topics, even those that genuinely think that size doesn't matter, because they think that "guys should do that". I had some friends that made fun of me having sex with that girl and, honestly, they stopped from the beginning as I told them that yes, she was fat, I enjoyed it as fuck (…
/r/seduction01/11/17 06:31 PM
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That part about accepting compliments... Ouch. That hit home. This post is all great info.
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:19 AM
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She wants to date Pitbull.
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:50 PM
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It's really hard to explain. Most of the time we simply just don't know. Not everyone reacts the same to the same type of comments, jokes or behaviour, so you need to do your best to assess how each environment will react to your behaviour and probably the most important thing is to find a group of people that you are comfortable with instead of trying to fake your behaviour to please them. The only situation in which you should genuinely change something in your personality is when you believe …
/r/seduction20/10/17 08:49 AM
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You know, the thing is that you should have an actual reason to talk to people you don't know. She knows that 99.9% of unknown guys that randomly talk to her are trying to "seduce" her. The thing is that you should try to have an actual, normal conversation with her. Instead of the "I wonder if she will like me" mentality, try to change it to something like "I wonder how she's like and if we will get along together if we talk for a while".
/r/seduction17/10/17 08:45 PM
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I call it being profoundly stupid and stubborn.
/r/seduction27/09/17 06:37 AM
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Even if it did make things weird, it really doesn't matter too much with girls. Generally girls care about the present, and 2 minutes after a "weird" comment (as long as she didn't go away lol) she can be having a blast with you. A close example: One of my girl hookups was also meeting with a guy that was potentially abusive. She was a close friend too and told me some (very weird and creepy) conversations thinking nothing of it because they later usually had a good time. I would just told her t…
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:30 AM
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I know a couple guys that are bigger than me and never stepped on a gym. Sports and also nutrition are really important and people that have been doing things right for 10 years have a natural advantage. Also, he was honest about it and is trying to change for the better. Go elsewhere with your rudeness.
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:25 AM
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I don't know you, but sounds like you still give way too much importance to sex and getting laid. The seduction mindset sees sex as something that comes through the journey, not as the journey itself. Stressing out about how many girls you meet, close, etc is only going to do that, stress you out, effectively making you unhappy, nervous, or whatever negative emotion that is but going to snowball. Maybe take your path away from women for awhile, at least consciously. Go to bars to have fun, not t…
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:22 AM
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Which talk?
/r/seduction16/09/17 07:34 PM
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Great post; have a question, though. How do I self-assess if my body language and tonality is correct?
/r/seduction16/09/17 11:55 AM
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Me cago en mi madre, estoy en clase y casi me cago de la risa
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:48 AM
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I'm 21. I've always been in relationships since I was 15 (almost continuously lol) until one year ago or so, when I decided I wanted to have fun and be more "free" about my sexual and romantic life. Now I just regret all the parties I didn't go to, all the nights out I didn't live, all the hookups I didn't have because "it's not my thing". When you have a girlfriend and you love her and she loves you (I mean for real, not like an average 18yo dude "loves") you'll figure it out. The only real adv…
/r/seduction05/09/17 07:16 PM
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If you have your own car parked at 1 minute from your sofa it's easier (still rain can bloom the mood to some people) but many people (including me) have to go to the gym by foot or public transportation. I do love going to the gym while raining tho.
/r/seduction26/08/17 07:52 AM
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Do you mean that she has no control over her appearance? Did I get that part wrong?
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:05 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:52 PM
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Walking is a fine way of doing cardio. I track all my exercise daily and my pedometer adds easily 300 kcal every day to my daily intake. Nothing to laugh about.
/r/seduction19/08/17 01:52 PM
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Being horny is completely ok. What is not ok is the feeling of neediness and emptiness that some people show when horny and (try to) hide otherwise.
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:41 PM
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Be a loner, but work on yourself. Dating people you don't genuinely like is but detrimental medium/long term and will make you even more loner. Enjoy what you like, focus on you and basically ignore everyone that tries to control you and how you live. Work on your life, go to a gym if you want, try to further your career if you want, start learning about something new if you want. Love yourself and treat yourself with love and care. If you do this consistently and long enough, girls will start t…
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:39 PM
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Have you read "Models" by Mark Manson? It's a great start if you want to make a change. Tbh attitude is the most important thing, forget about looks, achievements or past. That book is really helpful.
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:30 PM
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Welcome to online gaming
/r/seduction04/12/16 07:58 AM
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NoFap is great when you have sexual problems related with your perception or sex, penis sensitivity, etc. For instance, maybe you take way too long to cum when having sex because your penis is desensitized (does that word make sense? Ugh). Look for "death grip" issues. It's not as rare as many men will tell you.
/r/seduction23/11/16 08:07 PM
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You can have feelings for girls after a ONS, but those feelings should not be exclusive.
/r/seduction30/09/16 11:42 AM
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It's probably worse at a cemetery...
/r/seduction25/09/16 12:16 PM
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Maybe you are paying too much attention to girls and if (and how) they respond to your approaches. Focus on building a great life that is fulfilling for yourself. That's your #1 priority, or should be, in my opinion. Once you get into that, you can see the act of approaching as "letting a girl play a role in your great life". The importance of that role depends on how the girl is and if she is worthy, which is ultimately decided by you. Also, we all fail sooner or later. You can't change that, b…
/r/seduction24/09/16 11:18 PM
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I don't think there is any special trick involved other than just paying attention to you environment and interact with it if you feel like it. It's not about looking for things, it's about finding them. Of course, you shouldn't interact in a forced way... That will only make people look awkwardly to you.
/r/seduction24/09/16 10:49 PM
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That will probably get you no response unless she is quite interested
/r/seduction24/09/16 10:43 PM
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Just send her a picture of you doing something (preferrably something social) and see if she says something or sends a pic back. Saying "hi" is another option, but if you don't have an actual reason behind it sounds creepy or needy, imo.
/r/seduction24/09/16 10:42 PM
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Definitely, I always try to be as much polite and respectful and possible. But feels bad when the other person's purpose is only "hey I'm right and you are not, I don't even care about what your arguments are because I'm right". And if you try to actually debate with them they get offended or respond harshly at your comments.
/r/seduction20/09/16 07:52 AM
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Why don't you say it first? :)
/r/seduction16/09/16 11:52 AM
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Better now. Thank you :)
/r/seduction16/09/16 10:27 AM
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I'm not sure if I understand this sentence properly (I'm not English native). Could you rephrase it?
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:56 AM
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I got your message from the beginning and precisely I like being critizised (as long as it's not with a destructive purpose rather than constructive) because I try to be realistic with myself and how I am, but an external opinion tends to be better most of the time. I still don't think there's any big problem with me in terms of social skills, but that may be exactly the problem. I definitely will take a couple long thoughts about this.
/r/seduction13/09/16 10:26 PM
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This is precisely what I expected and wanted to hear from you guys. If I share these things with you it's not to hear "yeah that sucks" comments, but to really try to put my situation into perspective. Thanks mate.
/r/seduction13/09/16 10:05 PM
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Yeah, but it even happens with a few people on my class, with whom I have had a few short conversations. I really feel bad for it, like I'm socially awkward and there's something I'm not getting and that's why they pretend to like me when talking then refuse to say a simple hi.
/r/seduction13/09/16 02:20 PM
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If they look away I can't. And when I see them I'm usually far away from them, and to me that looks extremely awkward (especially if you are walking towards each other). That's why I look at them and smile, like saying "I'm gonna say hi when we are closer so this is not weird". I generally say hi first when they don't look away.
/r/seduction13/09/16 02:10 PM
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The signals are pretty clear to me. Make a move now.
/r/seduction10/09/16 01:53 PM
1

I have to admit I didn't remember the "no" part (:P), so I guess this is better!
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:34 AM
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I've read somewhere this advice: ask her if SHE wants to kiss you. Not in an asking-for-permission way, but more like being curious about her feelings. That way, if she says yes, you kiss. If she says maybe, you say "lets find out" and kiss her. And if she says no, you say "it's okay, I just thought you were giving me some signs; seems I was wrong". If that happens then pretend nothing important happened :)
/r/seduction30/08/16 09:11 PM
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Maybe your lifestyle is too focused on picking up girls and girls can soon see that and perceive you as a flat or empty person, thus leaving you. Just a theory, I don't know you, but sounds like that.
/r/seduction27/08/16 12:06 PM
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That you don't have much to go after. It's a metaphor: You don't have a lot of room to "go up" (think of more height as more "progression" with the girl)
/r/seduction26/08/16 06:17 PM
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I really don't think there's much difference between text game and "normal" game. Some girls will play games and ignore you for some time, then answer, etc. Same happens with real life, some girls will pretend they are pissed off when they aren't etc. I personally suggest you step away from these girls, but it's your decision based on your likings. Besides that, it's the same as chatting in person. If you have an interesting life and genuine knowledge about topics to discuss and talk about, most…
/r/seduction10/08/16 12:30 AM
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I look at r/sex sometimes but I wouldn't say it has "changed my life", simply I find some things useful from time to time, although I ignore most posts. I strongly recommend r/fitness though, especially if you are into fitness (obviously), but there are some posts that are about overall health that I think might interest practically everyone.
/r/seduction10/08/16 12:22 AM
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I do this to have fulfilled the only aspect of life that i cannot fulfil by myself: the emotional one. Having a girl (or more than one, you don't need to be in a closed relationship or even in a relationship at all) who you trust and who also attracts you and has sex with you is incredible. And yes, I include sex in the "emotional" aspect of my life.
/r/seduction07/08/16 12:03 AM
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Dinner and movie are probably the two worst plans for a first date. Anyway, in that spare hour try to escalate things carefully but surely and see how it goes. If it goes bad, you go to the movie, if it goes well, to hell with the movie and just fuck her.
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:59 PM
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Well, that's a problem. First, try to identify signs of interest. Most of them are subjective, but here comes your intuition; if you see a lot of signs from a girl, well, chances are she's into you. If you literally have no clue about what those signs, it'd be great to read a book about body language. Some seduction books cover the area too, although much lightly. If you can identify the signs but are too afraid of making a move, you know what's the problem: Making the move. That's entirely up t…
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:57 PM
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You don't need to live alone to be succesful with girls but it definitely helps. As for your question; you've read Models, right? I highly recommend that book. I assume you have, since you've been reading the subreddit. You've already started to "re-build" your life, and that's great. Just keep doing that, and be critical with yourself about what you have to improve the most. Do you focus too much on girls when going out at night? Wrong, you should first and foremost have fun. If an interaction …
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:51 PM
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Start by realizing that white girls are basically the same as hispanic girls and every other kind of girls. Of course there are differences between cultures. But I'd say that white and hispanic girls are not that different at all (and it is not that relevant anyway even in more pronounced examples).
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:42 PM
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Well, I'm definitely not a master, but I believe the first step to take is just to be social. Forget about girls and seduction; first step is to have fun by yourself. If your main goal is to pick up a girl, they will notice, and trust me few will like it. What I mean is, go out to have fun with your friends. If you see a cute girl and you definitely have something to work from (cold approaches without reason are not the most succesful technique, but if there's no other option, nothing stops you …
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:39 PM
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Some people think one is to love one's family just because they are that: your family. But if your family is bringing you down, you have literally no reason not to cut ties with them. Same applies with friends: if they're fucking with your new lifestyle, goodbye to them.
/r/seduction06/08/16 03:11 PM
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¿? I actually had fun with this guy, but on the other hand he made it difficult for me to make a move and I was mad, that's all.
/r/seduction06/08/16 10:34 AM
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All the good advices are probably said already so all I wanted to tell you is to keep doing great as you definitely know how. Best of luck!
/r/seduction04/08/16 08:46 PM
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Approaching itself is not a goal, but a way to achieve something. There are a lot of ways of "getting" girls, and cold approaches are but one of them. Try other strategies, like going to friends' parties, or go to places where approaching feels more natural, like bars.
/r/seduction03/08/16 10:22 PM
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This was great.
/r/seduction28/07/16 01:09 PM
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Well, she was friend of a guy I know, and I broke into a conversation betweet those 2. Seems the girl thought I was nice or something and followed me, so I followed her back and began talking casually. Nothing special tbh
/r/seduction24/07/16 08:25 PM
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If you managed to get on a date with a girl through Tinder, you definitely have not a shit personality. Either that, or you are extremely handsome, or she was extremely desperate, but I will assume these were not the cases. Maybe you were nervous, maybe she likes to play it cooler (kinoing all the time is bad as far as i know, if she doesn't react positively you should chill for a while, not keep kinoing her). To me that was probably the mistake and she got scared because you were too "aggresive…
/r/seduction24/07/16 04:13 PM
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Honestly, I think your answer was perfect. One thing a lot of guys do is not set boundaries to please the girl. In other words, you established clearly and maturely what your position on that is. Now she knows clearly what you think about that. Many guys would evade the question because of being afraid of the consequences, or would just half-answer (think something like saying "well it depends", etc) which is a BAD answer. Definitely you are overthinking it. One of the most important things in a…
/r/seduction24/07/16 03:49 PM
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Yes, I know, thing is I'm not yet to the point where I have other 10 girls to work on. Definitely working up to that, but still not there.
/r/seduction24/07/16 02:31 PM
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Thanks man! Wish luck for you too!
/r/seduction24/07/16 02:30 PM
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Well, my native language isn't English so I don't think that's the case. I use them because I try to blend in with the community. Sorry to try to blend in.
/r/seduction24/07/16 02:29 PM
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I don't really agree with that, I believe confrontation only makes things worse. Just my opinion, tho, but I think trying to get answers the hard way is not a good way to get them.
/r/seduction24/07/16 01:01 PM
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Yes, I tried to be careful when escalating because lots of girls get scared or even angry when meeting with online strangers. One of the things she's said to me is that there wasn't my fault at all, ok it could be a lie, but at least she seemed to care a little bit about me by trying to explain herself. Still sucks, but it's better than a girl that disappears out of nowhere and you never know if it was your fault, I guess.
/r/seduction24/07/16 01:00 PM
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I used to overreact over these things, but I've learned that it gives literally nothing. Maybe you feel better for 10 minutes, but that's it, and it potentially closes you a lot of doors that shouldn't need to be closed. Better to end it in good terms, even if you don't ever talk again, in my opinion.
/r/seduction24/07/16 12:58 PM
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I agree with basically everything you said. We kept texting a bit and tried to end it in a nice way; after all, if she bothered to explain that to me, it means that she has some potential interest or at least shows that she's a good person. I don't plan to text her again anytime soon, but I don't like reacting angry to these things. Looks childish and gives me nothing in return. Thanks for the long comment :)
/r/seduction24/07/16 12:55 PM
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Yes, I definitely think that is a good strategy. It's what I try to do, however my options are not a lot so far. Gonna be working on it through the months :)
/r/seduction24/07/16 12:52 PM
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