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I’ve found that the “traditional” male tasks like mowing the lawn (once a week for several months per year) and shoveling snow (sporadically) are in no way comparable to amount of time it takes to do the “traditional” female tasks, like: grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, laundry and childcare (many hours per day, everyday).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:29 AM
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And the devil’s advocate guy can fuck off too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 04:51 AM
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If you, “think you need to break up with him”, do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:04 AM
62

In my opinion, high value men and women do not physically strike other people PERIOD. The only instance where it’s warranted is in self defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:08 AM
54

To add to your excellent list, if a man promises to give your dog immortal life, run, run for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:13 PM
15

Men don’t ask us about what we consider to be appropriate behavior for men because they don’t care what we think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:37 AM
24

I am a gun owning liberal. There likely are many of us out there, we just don’t talk about it much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:44 PM
16

Save your time. Move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:43 PM
55

Some examples of historical women who were extremely HV would be Harriet Tubman and Susan Anthony. Visionaries who were committed to improving the lives of others in significant and lasting ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:49 AM
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I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. It makes working 100 times more miserable. I might just quit now before I find another job because I’m getting fed up. I’m also becoming more lippy, angry and aggravated on a daily basis. They COULD fire me first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:07 AM
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I know you’re right. Also, I’m not sure if the breasts mousepad would be considered harassment. Displaying sexually suggestive photographs/items in the workplace SHOULD be harassment, but I’m not sure if it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:03 AM
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Omg. That’s amazing! That article was just written a few days ago. This gives me a much better chance to hold leverage over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:15 AM
23

As a condition for employment, you have to sign an arbitration agreement. Through this legal agreement, you sign away your rights to sue the employer and agree to resolve disputes through an arbitrator which is provided by the company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:11 AM
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Unfortunately, with this employer, it is a forced arbitration situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:34 AM
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I think most men feel the same way as this OP man, that is if a woman is assaulted then she had it coming. They’ve realized that no woman will have sex with them if they openly profess these types of views, so they keep them hidden most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:25 AM
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One of the most important things that I wish older women had told me, “DO NOT EVER PLACE THE OPINIONS, LIKES AND PREFERENCES OF MEN OVER YOUR OWN.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:56 AM
158

Blocking is far less exhausting than having to deal with them in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:55 AM
58

Most men have no boundaries, they’ll do whatever they think they can get away with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:40 AM
21

I wonder what percentage of men would rape, murder and assault if these things weren’t against the law?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:13 AM
41

It’s tough when you come to the realization, but it’s accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:22 AM
151

Exactly! And often they refer to children as “young women.” It’s infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:31 AM
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One of the ways I’ve noticed, in regard to men’s abusive/illegal/disrespectful behavior toward women, is how the press consistently refers to Epstein’s victims as women when many are, in fact, girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:51 AM
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Let’s strike!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:15 PM
308

What kind of dumb@ss would even think up this stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:42 AM
59

From experience, if he’s friends with many of his exes; run, run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:12 AM
109

It’s sounds like you WISH your brother was HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:20 PM
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I feel like most times I object to something in a logical and reasonable tone, no one listens to me. I’m forced into getting really nasty and acting like a lunatic in order to get results or to be taken seriously. It’s infuriating. Whereas, a man can just merely state something and they are immediately taken seriously by others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:46 PM
17

Stop interacting with a loser and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:44 AM
182

Men are mentally and emotionally less healthy than women. Men kill, rape, assault and abuse at much higher rates .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:47 AM
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He’s so butt hurt over it. Hilarious. “She seemed lost, no direction, no idea what she wanted or where she wanted to go/do in her life.” What’s odd is that nothing about her behavior seems to bear this out. She decided that she wanted to have sex, so she did. Then she decided she wanted nothing to do with him, so she blocked him. Her behavior seems decisive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:49 PM
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This ^ ladies. Who cares what men want? We don’t need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:44 AM
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Lying about having kids merits disqualification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:11 PM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if the powers that be have decided Maxwell is the scapegoat for all of the gross, old, wealthy guys who also sexually abused these girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:00 AM
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When are we going to find out about the other abusers? Is there a separate FBI investigation or DOJ investigation? There are more Epstein/Maxwell associates out there who need to be held accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:23 AM
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And some weren’t even young women, but girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:20 AM
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You are correct. I am not a crabby bitch, but I am right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:53 AM
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If it doesn’t benefit me or enrich my life, then it’s a no. I’m a crabby bitch and I don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:15 AM
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I blocked Reddit Cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:40 AM
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True. The way to really irk a guy is with indifference and imperturbability, because it leaves them with the impression that there is nothing they can do to make an impact on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:58 AM
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I’ve learned some not no pleasant lessons. Like several other posters mentioned, no more second chances. One red flag, one niggling sense of discomfort and I’m done. No more of this girl who gives the benefit of the doubt type of nonsense to men who don’t deserve it. The next guy I meet who is still friends with his ex girlfriends, ex wife, ex fiancée, ex f buddy, etc; I’ll know better. Block, delete, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:02 AM
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Yes, this was my most recent relationship experience. While we were dating, I had been sexually harassed and retaliated against by my employer. My boyfriend was a civil litigator who I now believe is a narcissist. I think he liked that I was being tortured by my employer on a daily basis, this left me too exhausted to maintain firm boundaries with him. He enjoyed that he could give me legal advice and impress me with his litigation skills and intellect. He wasn’t my attorney though, I had retain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:23 AM
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Nope, not changing my name. I already have a name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:55 AM
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Crush ‘em, stuff ‘em
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:00 AM
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Men, of any color, were extended voting rights in 1870. Women, of any race, were not allowed to vote until 1920.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:35 AM
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I agree. The WTA has threatened to pull out of the women’s tournaments that take place in China. Whereas, the ATP hasn’t mentioned anything about moving their tournaments out of China. They don’t want to give up the Chinese money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:21 PM
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It would be nice if the men’s professional tennis association, ATP, would also make a statement on the disappearance of Peng Shuai. I won’t hold my breath on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:19 PM
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Ditto. I’ve never placed much importance on societal traditions like patriarchy. Possibly, I’m a bit autistic and certainly, I suffered as a child for having rejected these social norms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:32 AM
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Yep. There are men who are: short, fat, bald, crooked teeth,bad skin, and poorly dressed; and those men are fully convinced that they deserve nothing less than a woman who is a perfect 10!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 09:49 PM
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Hair is inextricably linked to femininity and good health. I’ve always had long, thick full, shiny “Pantene” Hair. My hair was so good that I never even gave it a second thought. Until...two years ago when I was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease that causes scarring of hair follicles and progressive baldness. I haven’t developed any scarred areas...so far. I’ve been very lucky. I guess I’ll shave my head and wear a wig or shave my head and wear a head wrap when the time comes for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:59 PM
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I agree. I’ve given up on the idea of meeting, dating or having a relationship with a decent man. The cure for me is to focus on myself. The reality is that it’s me versus a piece of crap guy who drains my psychic energy, my resources, my mental health and my time. There are worthy guys out there, but the probabilities aren’t great. It’s like finding one needle in a million haystacks. I simply don’t have the energy for that odyssey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:21 AM
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We have to minimize our contact with unknown men, especially when we are somewhere alone. It’s just not safe to engage with them like this. From the conversation you posted, I can imagine him thinking: could I grab her, knock her out, drag her over to my car, put her in the trunk? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:00 AM
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This whole conservatorship situation smacks of misogyny. I haven’t heard of ANY male pop stars requiring a legal conservator in this manner. Look at all of the male rock singers, pop stars and actors who behave poorly; I don’t recall even one who had a conservatorship foisted upon them. This was a legally sanctioned maneuver to access her wealth, control her business decisions and even to control her ability to bear children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:11 AM
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Men don’t want you to think through your own thoughts and deliberate on concerns. They know that the more time you have to consider something, the more likely you are to dump them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:33 AM
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Same. I’m not that professionally ambitious, but I’m extremely ambitious about preserving my freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:23 AM
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Me too! It’s harsh and it’s sad, but a naive and inexperienced child needs to be warned and educated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 11:32 PM
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Just because you are honest and forthcoming with others, don’t assume that others operate from this type of mentality. Just because you don’t abuse and manipulate others, don’t make the mistake of thinking that others aren’t attempting to abuse and manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 10:46 PM
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Yes, you’re right. No one will help us, we’ll have to watch out for each other. The reports are chilling of the October 13, Philadelphia rape that occurred on mass transit; there were numerous witnesses present to the sexual assault but the bystanders did not intervene or dial 911.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:17 AM
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You are doing what is best for you. Acting in your own best interest cannot be considered a failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:48 PM
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I hate to have to say it because I’m generally a pacifist, could be time to think long and hard on your personal security and how far you’re willing to go to protect yourself. I believe in the coming ten years or so, there will be progressive collapses of varying types: societal, political, financial, medical, supply chain, and environmental. The future looks pretty scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:32 PM
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Big nope on men who are friends with exes and if he’s friends with multiple exes, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:55 PM
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Conversely, does being married to a man shorten a woman’s life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:02 AM
9

The fact that she was so ill prior to her death means, at the very least, he was negligent. One of the LA coroners who worked the autopsy said that her life would’ve been saved had she only sought medical attention within days of her death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:41 AM
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I hope he gets assaulted while in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:50 AM
10

Yes! Seemingly, he was friends with every ex he ever had: ex wife, ex fiancée, ex girlfriend, ex f buddy etc. He tried to act like it was totally normal, when actually it’s totally gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:41 PM
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I had an ex who was this way with his female friends and exes. It was the reason I dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 01:22 PM
7

Thank you. Fuck those guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:53 PM
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I’m a big believer in making recordings. I worked for a private equity firm, it was a very good job aside from the fact that many of the partners and officers were sexually harassing me. Once I reported the claims of harassment, they began to retaliate against me. Of course all of these older and very wealthy men provided cover for one another. They thought they could simply lie their way out of it. What they didn’t realize is that I had recorded many of their illegal acts of retaliation. It was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:03 PM
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He wants to be a more discreet porn addict. Scrotes with lofty goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:24 AM
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It’s stomach turning when you realize how adults protect other adults versus protecting abused children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:09 PM
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On the subject of men protecting men, the US women’s gymnasts who suffered repeated sexual assaults at the hand of their team doctor makes my blood boil. None of the adults helped, none of the leaders in US Gymnastics helped, even the FBI told them to keep confidential their experiences of abuse. While these gymnasts were being quietly obedient other gymnasts were being sexually abused. Don’t be quiet. Don’t be compliant. Of course they want the gymnasts to be quiet, so that men can get away wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:48 AM
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I think it will naturally work itself out as you become more familiar. Like you, I’m an introvert and activity related dates seem to work better for me, at least in the beginning stages of dating someone. Like a ping pong bar/restaurant. Some physical moving makes me less shy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:07 AM
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I would never trust a man to responsibly use any type of male birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:48 AM
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Acting in compliance and submission to your oppressor is never a good strategy. It’s never worked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:29 PM
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I would also add: residing somewhere in the Western Hemisphere, being on earth, existing as a living organism within the Milky Way galaxy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:49 PM
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Don’t give multiple chances to men who don’t deserve it. First sign of red flag, move on. Don’t attempt to understand, give second chances, figure out what’s going on or try to get them to see your point of view. This is a waste of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:21 PM
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I try to have all woman healthcare plus vets. I have to involuntarily deal with so many annoying men at work, so when something is 100% my choice, I’m choosing a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:24 AM
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Clown, he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:20 AM
40

They are the disposable ones. We don’t need them. We block, delete, ignore and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:25 PM
65

Regardless of religion, social values or political affiliation, a man is a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:15 AM
167

My narcissist ex was friends with: ex girlfriends,ex fiancée, ex wife, ex f buddy. I now consider this to be a red flag of narc behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:10 AM
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Men are more likely to be alcoholic than women. Men are more likely to abuse all types of elicit drugs than women. Men are more violent and more likely to have been incarcerated than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:53 AM
2

It’s their brain cells oozing out of their pores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:26 AM
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For me, cracked rib = assault charges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:00 PM
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My brother, who I always considered to be high value is married with two daughters. He is thoughtful, kind, hardworking, smart, educated, and very involved in parenting his daughters. He buys food and does most of the cooking and most of the housework and yard work too. Last week, I found out that he’s been cheating on his wife. I’m crushed. He was one of the only men that I ever looked up to as being ethical, moral and trustworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:11 PM
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Yep and he’s still adamant in proclaiming his innocence. AND Bill Cosby, now a free man, who drugged and raped untold numbers of women. It’s all so gross and wrong; it’s infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:38 AM
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I am so happy you saw it through. Laws are some of the only ways that men can truly be forced into compliance. Otherwise, left to their own devices, they would likely rape and sexually abuse even more children than they do already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:33 PM
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Men sometimes shave their face and sometimes use soap. That’s about the extent of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:26 PM
6

So much intensity for cheating on his wife and kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:32 AM
8

Why is he making both hands into a fist? Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:15 PM
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Women’s stuff is more expensive: shoes, clothing, razors, makeup, skincare, nails, any waxing, birth control pills, tampons, gynecology appointments, perfume. It’s already more expensive to be a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:13 PM
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Because men are raised to believe they are perfect as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:58 PM
14

One of the biggest signs early on, so many of his exes were still in his life: ex girlfriend, ex wife, ex fiancée, ex f buddy, etc. At the time I thought, WOW what a mature, adult man that he is still able to be so friendly with so many exes. I remember how odd I thought it was when I considered that I wasn’t friends with any of my exes. I thought, well, he’s just a better and more accepting person than I could ever be. Of course, he was a total narcissist. The whole nine yards. He kept his exes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:23 AM
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I made the mistake of thinking that I could make them understand how they were wrong and how I was right, but that’s really just a waste of time. F*ck em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:00 AM
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They believe swiping is a sufficient effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:05 AM
7

We’ve all made mistakes, it’s normal. Please forgive yourself. If you had a friend that had made some mistakes with a man in the past, I know you would forgive her. So be kinder to yourself. Treat yourself as you would a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:24 AM
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It was infuriating that the judge would not allow evidence of the sexual and physical abuse that Lorena suffered, over a long period of time, due to John Wayne’s abusive behavior toward her. It is almost like the justice system set it up to make it appear as though she committed an unprovoked, violent act, completely out of left field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:03 AM
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This notion that we are to always be devoted to family members based solely on shared blood is damaging to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:37 AM
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They also denigrate women athletes and women’s sports. They’re just sad and dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:58 AM
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Totally agree! If a man isn’t improving your life, then move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:23 PM
13

One thing I noticed while dating my narc ex, you are forced to go over the same issues time and time again because nothing is ever satisfactorily resolved. The reason there is never an actual resolution to any concern is because there is no benefit to the narc in resolving it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:15 AM
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“physical chemistry” = he wants to get a look at her to see if she’s fuckable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:32 PM
9

I don’t see or speak to my father. I feel better not seeing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:14 AM
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Do you believe that only young women are victimized, abused and harassed by men? Grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:45 PM
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I’m not young. I’m still harassed and unsafe at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:37 PM
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He’s a total right wing, gun nut. Sometimes, he even wears camouflage to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:34 PM
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There’s literally nothing they won’t try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:17 PM
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Unfortunately, it’s a real thing and it’s becoming more common. I can sue them if I’m no longer an employee, but I can’t sue them while I’m still employed there. I needed a job so I agreed to it. I’ve noticed a lot of service related companies are also including arbitration agreements under their updated “Terms and Conditions.” For instance, when your cell phone provider makes you agree to the updated terms, you may find that you have inadvertently agreed to arbitration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:44 PM
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It’s infuriating. I was able to pressure my first employer with threat of a Federal lawsuit. Plus, I had recorded evidence of numerous incidents of harassment and retaliation by using the voice recorder on my cell phone. They knew I held all of the cards. As for my current employer, because of the restrictive arbitration agreement, I’m unable to pressure or threaten them into doing the right thing. I wish Congress would ban arbitration agreements. You shouldn’t have to forfeit your legal rights …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:14 PM
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I have been sexually harassed at both of my last two jobs. The first one, we ended up reaching a legal agreement through a mediator. If we hadn’t, I would’ve sued them in Federal Court. My current employer has arbitration, where you basically sign away your rights to a judge or jury trial. This is done through the hiring agreement, you must agree to arbitration or you won’t be hired. I filed a complaint with HR about five separate incidents of harassment. Four of my complaints were not substanti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:50 PM
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Yep. It takes all of my strength to get through the work week after being surrounded by men day in and day out. After that, I have no wish to voluntarily see them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:50 PM
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Unfortunately, I’ve decided they’re all the same, regardless of the ideologies and preferences in which they cloak themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:30 PM
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When he realized you weren’t going to immediately have sex with him, he moved on. He wasn’t interested in getting to know you or dating you over a longer period of time. His thought process: comedy tickets > kiss > sex. It’s actually a good thing he was so transparent because otherwise you might have wasted more time on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:49 PM
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They think it camouflages their gut. It doesn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:27 PM
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Plus: made the kid’s lunch, made all appointments, organized all social events, gatherings and holidays, purchased all gifts for friends, kids and relatives, watched kid’s sports, drove kids to and from sports practice, it never ends. Sounds like misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:50 PM
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A lot of the beauty standards ARE related to good health. Long, thick, shiny, hair shows a long period of good health and nutrition. A small waist with little abdominal fat is healthy. Having very little abdominal fat protects against many diseases. Having fatter thighs and butt as the main fat stores IS healthier than having an accumulation of belly fat. Straight teeth are easier to care for in regard to dental hygiene than crowded, crooked teeth...etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:42 AM
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Chief (C) Executive Officer, Chief (C) Operating Officer, Chief (C) Legal Officer, Chief (C) Financial Officer, and so on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:23 AM
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The thing that most drives crazy the LVM, a woman who knows that he wants to have sex with her and she STILL won’t do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:15 AM
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These days, the standard of beauty doesn’t even occur in nature. It’s truly bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:35 PM
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I think short, petite women are fetishized just as much as tall women. Men are really good at making just about anything into a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:13 AM
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Canadian law: Section 184 of the Criminal Code states that recording private conversations is legal as long as one of the parties involved in the call consents to the recording. It’s called the “one party consent” exception. So it’s legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:08 AM
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Are audio recordings legal in Canada?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:13 AM
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If you live in a US state with a law allowing for one party consent audio recordings, I would start recording him using a voice recorder app on your phone. Document and collect evidence. I did this with a employer in a matter of sexual harassment and retaliation. I made those f*ckers pay, literally. The recordings were considered to be incontrovertible evidence of violations of my civil rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:29 PM
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It happens everyday when each of us decide not to take any shit from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:31 AM
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This also translates well into other life situations, like: dating, men, relatives, etc. It’s a flexible strategy. IGNORE HIM. IGNORE THEM and keep on keepin on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:36 PM
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Is seeking one traditional wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:41 AM
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This was written by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:44 PM
14

I hate this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:31 PM
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Scrote: “Today, I really put my foot down with my girlfriend. I told her she is too loving toward her pet.” GTFO-that’s some funny sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:42 AM
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I wanted to explain to man how wrong he was. I wanted him to understand. Now, I don’t give a f#ck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:22 AM
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Humans are unpredictable. That’s why the vetting never ends. Many people who are convicted of murder haven’t been convicted of violent crimes in the past. He wasn’t a murderer...until he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:13 PM
75

I suspect my ex to be a narcissist, but at the time I didn’t know about narc traits. While we were dating he was still in contact with numerous exes: ex wife, ex fiancée, ex girlfriends, ex f buddy, etc. I remember thinking it was odd since I’m not in contact with any of my exes. There was one ex who he was very reluctant to introduce me to, but I had met several other of the exes. I had brought up this ex a few times and expressed how unhappy it made me that he had an ex that, for whatever reas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:34 AM
8

You’re so right on this. Everything is an attempt to diminish your agency. It’s gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:06 AM
11

Not surprising at all, the men in my office think I should “talk” to my harasser and “communicate” to him that he needs to stop harassing me. The thing is, I’m not this man’s mother. It’s not my job to explain to a grown man what is and what isn’t appropriate behavior. I’ll let HR do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:47 AM
27

It is. Today, the HR partner told me that it would be considered harassment even without the parking lot stalking. HR will now do an investigation. All of the parking lots are covered by cameras, so that part should be easy enough to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:22 AM
34

Yes, I’ll park in different places and leave from different building exits. I does anger me that I’m the one who has to alter my schedule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:07 AM
45

I’m forty, tall, slender, good looking, I suppose. He’s about 15 years older, much shorter, fatter, balder and grosser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:41 AM
39

I can’t avoid contact entirely because we work for the same company. Would de Becker view my reporting him to HR as an escalation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:24 AM
127

I reported it to HR today. The parking lot stalking incident was the last straw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:19 AM
33

I agree. If they don’t provide an enhancement to my life, then why bother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:21 AM
38

Hey preacher guy. Did you know that fat produces estrogen in the body? Maybe you should lose weight in order to appear more masculine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:46 PM
37

I know. It’s gross. Soon Yi is 35 years younger than Woody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:03 PM
42

I don’t want ink anywhere near my genitalia. Yuk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:05 PM
23

...and doctors, and clergy, and police officers, and CEOs, and politicians
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:13 AM
5

Women want to date similarly aged men. Men want to “date” children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:43 PM
16

Because men, as supreme beings, are always perfectly acceptable in their natural state. Whereas women, being the underclass, must go through all manner of unnatural gyrations in order to be considered acceptable. It’s maddening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:24 AM
5

I’m sorry to hear you were hurt. I do think men will do or say most anything to get away with stuff. You are their last consideration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:13 PM
15

The legal system is made up of laws thought up by men, ratified by men, enacted by men and then judged in a court of law by men. The courts are rigged by men for the benefit of men. The audacity of these idiot scrotes is never ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:03 AM
14

It is so sad, pathetic and disturbing that men need to be reminded to not rape their daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:54 AM
9

...by saying anything that a man doesn’t want to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:21 AM
21

I don’t have the stamina that it would take to date 100,000 men in order to find 1 decent man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:23 AM
66

Yep same. I also believe that they are completely indiscriminate in regard to sex. Just about ANY man will have sex with ANY woman who’s willing to have them at ANY time, whether or not they are married, have a girlfriend or are in a committed relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:08 AM
3

I doubt that having to decide whether or not he wants to date Miss Universe is something he will ever need to worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:54 AM
6

I guess I need to give the anger response more consideration. If a man does something I don’t like I will usually remove them from my life without explanation. Most times, I will not give them any emotional response because I like leaving them with the idea that there is nothing they can do that will leave any sort of impact on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:46 AM
5

I totally understand. It took me a long time to get over my narc ex. I was so disappointed in myself that I acted in a manner that was not in my best interest. At the same time, I wasn’t really aware of what a narc is. Well, now we know. You and I know exactly what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:12 AM
26

He doesn’t necessarily get off Scott free because he’s never going to be anything other than a narc, everyday, forever. Whereas you will go on to meet new people that you love and are capable of loving you back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:15 PM
68

Poopy butts are for infants and toddlers only. Adults are expected to be competent enough to deal with their own butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:55 PM
37

I worked for a private equity real estate investment company. It was privately owned, with about 35 employees. Over the course of about one year, there were 10 or so incidents of sexual harassment. My sexual harassers were: CEO and President, COO and CIO. They were very powerful and wealthy men. The type that has multiple homes and pays to have a walk on role on the tv show Seinfeld, friends of the rich and famous. Eventually, after one year of my reports of harassment, my boss, the General Coun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:58 PM
28

She should collect evidence and sue the company for violation of her civil rights. I did. I made my harassers and retaliators pay, literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:24 PM
10

I don’t even think men have a type. Their “type” is any woman who will have them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:58 AM
95

People who are very good looking when they are younger often are still very good looking when they are older. Aging by a decade does not magically transform them into an ugly person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:52 AM
46

When men say, “I’m in the middle of a divorce”, what they mean by this is, “I’m a married man.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:45 AM
1

It’s infuriating how Diallo must repeatedly recount and justify the evidence of the assault. Whereas, Strauss Kahn is NEVER ONCE required to justify his own behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:36 PM
7

Better off alone! Better off alone! Let’s all cheer it! I can’t even be bothered with these selfish, porn addicted, smooth brained, idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:33 PM
57

I agree. There is no point in calling them out on anything. I wished I had learned this lesson when I was younger. The only plan that makes sense: block, delete, move on, do not look back, and no second chances given.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:30 AM
1

He doesn’t care about you and he’s miffed because he went on THREE WHOLE DATES WITH YOU, and you were still unwilling to have sex with him. In the beginning, he behaved as though he was interested because he thought that was the best strategy to use in order to get sex from you. Good for you in holding your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:55 AM
3

I think what is natural is beautiful. These days, the epitome of female beauty has become something that doesn’t even occur in nature. Whereas a man is considered to be very attractive in his unaltered, natural state. It’s maddening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:13 PM
26

All the ones I know, aside from blood relatives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:25 AM
26

Demonizing, dehumanizing and minimizing women are the most commonly used strategies of the lvm, that, and the threat of physical violence. I wish there was a way for men to comprehend exactly what it would be like for them to be threatened by a being with twice their size and strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:22 AM
6

FOR WHAT!? Indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:14 PM
24

Because our boundaries aren’t a benefit to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:03 PM
2

Same. Poor grammar and word usage is a no go for me. It’s unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:17 PM
6

It’s perfectly fine for your roommate to feel bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:23 PM
6

It’s acceptable behavior in our society at all levels, even at the highest level. The US is a cesspool of misogyny. Our president has stated, “Grab women by the pussy, they just let you do it.” We have one Supreme Court justice, Kavanaugh, who is a rapist. There is another Supreme Court justice, Thomas, who sexually harassed a work subordinate. It’s almost like sexual harassment isn’t just tolerated, it’s rewarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:58 AM
31

I agree! “Men’s” tasks are much less time consuming. Grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, childcare; these “women’s” tasks are literally ongoing without end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:24 PM
13

Kind, intelligent, consistent behavior over a long period of time, well mannered; these are things that all men COULD do as none of these attributes are based on physical attractiveness or genes or anything deemed to be outside of one’s control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:33 PM
1

It is so time and labor intensive. I can’t be bothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:32 AM
140

I’ve notified wives and girlfriends of their partner’s lying, cheating behavior. No qualms about it. Fuck ‘em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:46 AM
17

I agree. I bet a huge portion of men would commit rape and child rape if there were no legal consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:52 PM
25

They look like a needle in a haystack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:57 PM
23

Men are less healthy, physically and mentally vs females.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:15 AM
37

They believe they are so awesome that no improvements can be made to their natural state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:14 AM
3

Guys don’t matter. Do what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:55 PM
28

I’ve never regretted having dumped a guy. HOWEVER, I have regretted wanting to dump a guy and agonizing over the decision if I should or not and then continuing to date him. Always, in the end, I end up dumping him anyway. I regret not following through on my initial instinct to beak up with him WHEN I FEEL THAT FEELING. The feeling is the reason to dump; no waiting to see if he improves, no rationalizing about how he’s a good guy, no waiting to see how it goes. That’s just a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:49 AM
10

You are absolutely correct that we should be prepared and educated on narcissist’s traits. Unfortunately, there was a time when I was not. Having a relationship with a narc was a confusing and disturbing time. I should’ve put more stock in my gut feelings and not dismissed them. If I get even a whiff of narc traits, I’m gone. I know better now. Live and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:37 AM
12

Henry Cavill was 33 yrs old when he met his last girlfriend. When they started dating, she was 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:27 AM
9

Not much. I believe it’s, in part, lazy behavior that’s reinforced by the ease online dating and how easy it is to find sex partners online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:29 PM
13

Somehow men are considered to be attractive in their natural state. It’s infuriating. In order for a woman to fulfill the beauty standard, she has to be a Frankenwoman combo of both skinny and fat. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:37 PM
68

It kinda bugs me how this combination RARELY occurs in nature. Most women who NATURALLY have huge boobs and a huge butt do not typically have a very skinny waist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:54 AM
12

Me too. I’m at the point where I don’t think they’re worth the bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:44 AM
7

I was confounded about why the exes still wanted to have anything to do with him. Were they still possibly unaware that he was a narc? Or they knew and didn’t care? I remember telling him at one point, “If we break up, it won’t be like it is with your ex girlfriends. You’ll never see me again.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:46 AM
46

Men who are friends with numerous exes. I found it to be a narc trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:28 AM
45

All I can say is I commiserate. Cross-culturally, cross-racially, in every way; men are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:53 AM
8

Charming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:31 AM
14

It’s possible, but with the amount of time you’d have to commit it’s probably not worth it. I have no cold hard stats on this but, anecdotally, I suspect you’d have to slog through thousands of them in order to meet one decent man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:25 AM
28

Yes, this hits home in a brutal way. Starting googling some of my boyfriend’s most confounding behaviors, had to find out via Google that he was a narc. Grrrr, oh well, at least I did figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:09 AM
18

In a word, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:03 AM
49

You neg them by ignoring them. Never speak, see, text, email, social media; none, forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:01 AM
17

When you have to spend time in an effort to understand them, decode behavior, figure out what they’re thinking about you, if they’re into you or not, etc; then it’s a no. Ain’t nobody got time for that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:52 AM
8

Men receive too much external validation from society. They all, regardless of how smart or attractive they actually are, believe themselves to be totally awesome and deserving of a girlfriend who is a perfect 10. We are now stuck with a bunch of substandard men who are convinced they are total studs. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:55 AM
3

Good for you on dumping him :) If I’m being honest with myself, during the narc relationship I was not displaying high value attributes. I should’ve told him ONE TIME that his relationship with the ex bothered me. Instead I had several conversations about it, tried to break it off a few times unsuccessfully, AND THEN I dumped him. I wasn’t aware, at the time, what a narcissist was. I wasn’t educated on their behavior and manipulations. Now I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:18 PM
5

Ha ha YES! Similar scenario for me. He had one ex that, for whatever reason, I wasn’t allowed to meet. I had several logical, straightforward discussions with him about how I didn’t like it and how I didn’t understand it because I didn’t have any friends that he wasn’t allowed to meet. Then I dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:42 PM
5

Early in the relationship, I naively thought, he is so mature and adult. What a grown up he is that he is able to remain such close friends with so many of his exes. Aw shucks, what a great guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:12 AM
24

A “harem” that they keep around in case the narc needs attention. My narc ex was still in contact and friendly with many of his exes: ex wife, ex fiancée, ex girlfriends, ex f buddy, etc. When we first started dating, I remember thinking that it was strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:55 PM
39

I wouldn’t bring up wanting to schedule another date. He needs to figure that out on his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:00 AM
32

I think men’s attraction to women is simple minded. They are attracted first to a physically attractive woman, any other attributes that a woman may possess are secondary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:04 PM
8

I think these over the hill online dating guys have nothing to lose. They’re used to being rejected anyway, so it’s not like they have any self respect to preserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:38 PM
11

My ex cultivated past relationships with single mothers of young children. I believe it afforded him a great deal of control. He babysat and gave them money. Eventually, the beneficiaries became dependent. He had many narcissistic personality traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:06 PM
59

You can never win with a man like this. She has taken over the role as sole breadwinner and works up to 65 hours per week. In addition, she’s very mindful about being safe when she’s at home in an attempt to keep her loved one’s safe from the virus. HE is the complainer, not her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:03 AM
22

Unfortunately, I think it’s real. He makes numerous replies in his post to defend his indefensible position. It’s actually in r/relationship_advice. It’s so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:57 AM
13

Ivana Trump, model; Marla Maples, model/beauty queen; and Melania Trump, model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:41 AM
38

Men overestimate themselves, in: attractiveness, height and intelligence. I believe this is a societal issue because many are treated as being worthy and important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:45 PM
6

I’ve never wanted to be friends with an ex. Ironically, my last boyfriend was great friends with his exes: ex wife, ex girlfriends, ex f buddy, ex fiancée, etc. He was a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:40 AM
69

If I am confused by a man’s behavior because there are mixed signals, then it is a hard no. I am not spending one second of my time trying to decode a man’s behavior. It is not worth the brain damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:19 PM
12

He voluntarily lied. You did not cause him to lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:15 PM
5

We’ve all done things we wish that we hadn’t. It’s okay. Give yourself a break. All is not lost in one mistake. Get back on your horse; keep on keepin’ on. Block, delete, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:29 PM
11

Keep on keepin’ on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:11 AM
35

Women that maintain their own standards and ideals, despite the dominant patriarchy’s standards, threaten the patriarchy’s au thor i tay. Why won’t women bow down to men? Men try everything at their disposal to exert dominance: physical assault, unequal pay, deny them agency over their own body, rape them, cheat on them, enslave them, and traffic them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:00 AM
38

Yes, my ex was a covert narc. Thank you for giving me this term for it, because he was definitely an intimacy shamer. He would tell me all the time that I was too loud and that other people could hear me talking. For the record, I’m quite soft spoken and not one person has ever told me that I spoke too loudly prior to my relationship with him. The kicker...he would often tell me that I orgasmed too loudly. So happy I dumped that narc mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:30 AM
2

Ummm, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:32 AM
24

Yep. He’s a certified troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:03 PM
7

Good luck fella
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:26 PM
10

Yep, it’s like the whole species of Homo sapiens females are just spare interchangeable parts for their pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:28 AM
16

I think most ANY man will take ANY opportunity they can get to have sex with ANY woman. I don’t think there’s much of decision making process going on in their brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:19 AM
48

He needs an immediate replacement to do all of the things he can’t or won’t do. You know, like a mom; someone to make his life easier. Poor, needy baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:52 PM
83

Sports jerseys are so unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:14 PM
70

Every man, regardless of his looks, believes that he deserves a beauty queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:07 PM
57

If they are flaky at all about following through on plans, then it’s a no for me. If they try to touch me very early on, handsy behavior is a no. If I find that their political philosophy is opposite to my own, then no. If they are still “friends” with: ex wife, ex girlfriend, ex fiancée, ex f buddy, nah. If they have exes in their life that, for whatever reason given, you aren’t allowed to meet, then no way. If they seem to be controlling, then it’s a no. This may be an unpopular opinion, but i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:46 PM
15

I work full time and go to therapy at 5:30 pm. He takes appointments even later in the evening. So it’s possible to find someone who will work with your schedule. You may need to wait for the virus issues to resolve before seeking in person therapy. There is also web based therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:33 PM
61

Would you consider therapy for porn addiction? There are specialists that can help you manage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:36 PM
11

Yes! Exactly! I’ve noticed disgusting, fat, bald, old and gross men who honestly believe they are the bees knees. They themselves are repulsive but are fully convinced that they deserve a woman who is a perfect 10. That’s a lot of self esteem...or denial...or delusion...or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:04 AM
61

I get this a lot. It’s rude and somewhat illogical. I mean, ugly people pair up and get married too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:54 PM
38

In responding, you communicate to them that what they say to you is impactful. No reaction, no response IS the most hurtful thing you can do to them. It renders them powerless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:23 PM
107

Not responding or engaging with them. Not giving them the time of day. Not giving them ANY emotional response. In other words, continue doing your thing as if they aren’t even there, as if their presence makes absolutely no impact on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:02 PM
26

Sounds like a 50 year old man that married a 21 year old. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:35 AM
4

Their only excuse is that they’re half retarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:00 PM
13

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:55 PM
3

He’s such an awesome guy that he has to make certain that his “smart” genes live on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:45 AM
13

Because these same men are making unwanted advances on other women and in their lunatic minds they’re imagining that women enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:53 AM
24

Yes. Tall women, fat, short, attractive, unattractive, old, young and every type of woman in between are all harassed by men. At some point, every woman on earth has been harassed by men. Most all models and actresses are tall, I’m sure they are stalked and harassed by many men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:50 PM
2

If a man is unable to construct a logical sentence that’s grammatically correct, then it’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:05 AM
5

So true, ladies. I gave my ex a chance when we first started dating even though I felt zero physical attraction for him. I felt so adult and mature giving him a chance. He did have admirable qualities: smart, attorney, gift giver, always planning dates and in consistent contact. HOWEVER, I came to realize after 9 months of dating that he was likely a covert type narcissist; liar and manipulator. He had no male friends, not one. His “friends” consisted of: ex wife, ex girlfriend, ex fiancée, ex f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:52 PM
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