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Cock Carousel Riderrakiim/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 07:09 PM
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A quick list for bottom 20 percentile features on an individual level would be: Ugly (3.5/10) (A little bit more than 1 standard deviation below average) Bald(ing) before 21 (25% of men are experiencing balding before 21) Shorter than 5'6.5 (1 standard deviation below average) Morbidly obese (42.4% of US adults are morbidly obese) Roughly earning $25-35k USD or less per year (bottom 20%) 5" or less Socially awkward Having a combination of these stats without much to offset them would put you in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:20 PM
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Nice. Is your company public facing or is it more for recruiting purposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:17 PM
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What's their role?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:13 PM
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I haven't really learned anything except there being a lot of strange people out here lol. On the other hand, I've met some people who have made a real impact on my life, but that wasn't through the subreddit, it was just people who were driven and introverted who I got to know. I don't relate with a lot of the diatribe on here which comes off very online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:04 PM
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Respectfully, who gives a shit what people in reddit comments think? They're not representative of what normal people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:14 AM
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It's a different skill you need to work on. Try progressing by holding a towel for one of your hands, progressing to just holding your wrist with one of your hands, and building that body coordination and strength. There's some online resources that cover this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:29 PM
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I think it's because women's life experiences are tied to their looks moreso than men and thus women relate more or less if they're attractive or not. It's similar to how men who are players tend to clique up as well. However, for a man to get a lot of female attention, it isn't necessarily because he is extremely handsome. He could have great game/charisma. I would hypothesize it's because people who lead similar life experiences will clique up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:51 PM
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Feels good to have him and Jaylen Brown on my fantasy team last night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:06 PM
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Hope she gets banned because she got me banned a few weeks ago when she complained about everyone blocking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:51 PM
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Never understood the snowflake complaining on reddit. Who cares? Yeah they could do it but it doesn't really change my day at all, I'm in the change room to change quick, not ogle at old dude's dick and balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:44 PM
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Can't believe your friend thinks you're likeable and sees you as someone of value 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:43 PM
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I think what's more likely is that people tend to be more attracted to people who look like them, and thus date people of similar attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:42 PM
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Not weirded out but I think I generally am not attracted to women under 5'4, and even 5'4 feels kinda short. Ideal height on women to me is around 5'5-5'8 for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:54 PM
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I think it's largely because talking about race doesn't really make the conversation productive. I'm a POC man as well and I can definitely say that my race has held me back more than it has helped, and imo it doesn't take a genius to figure out that dating problems can wildly vary because of you being born the wrong colour / ethnicity. That being said, it'd just lead to people circlejerking because there's not really a solution. The only real ways of adapting to it is to become a 8-9/10 minorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:24 PM
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They have an easier time finding sex and relationships. You're doing exactly what I said -- ascribing extra bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:38 PM
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I agree, but that's really more of an incel revenge fantasy than anything grounded in reality. Similar to how a lot of middle aged TRPers will claim the Wall will claim most women, but reality is that I don't think the dating market is male biased magically upon 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:55 PM
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There's nothing wrong with that, the original video says the same. I'm just saying that the OP hasn't really added anything that I think provides value within the context of what he's said. He contradicts what the video OP says which is what my second paragraph is talking about. I don't think we're disagreeing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:54 PM
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Watching TV isn't a hobby because it's not really developing an aspect of themselves. Gaming is though if it's a part of their identity and you are developing some pace of individual progress. It's just something incompatible with me for my partner because I'm always on the go and I like to do a lot of things, and whenever I've dated people who don't really do a lot, I feel like they are being an anchor on me from achieving more things. I'd rather someone who is also always growing and doing som…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:53 PM
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"Whatever" the rest of the time like they laze around doing nothing? Or do you mean they are filling the time developing some aspect of themselves? It really annoys me when women tell me they haven't done anything all day, so if after work all they did was nap and watch Netflix, I'd resent that about them. Especially because they're hardly working as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:47 PM
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I used to be big on hockey growing up lol, I'm Canadian so I get where you're coming from. Going to put my kids into hockey when I have them, it's one thing I wish I got to do and the lingo you pick up from playing hockey is dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:28 PM
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I see how you're taking the implication but I think you're misreading what I'm saying. I agree that women have hard boundaries, don't get me wrong. I think you're projecting slightly that I'm a man who believes all boundaries are negotiable as long as she likes me enough, but that's not where I stand on it. I just think that if a woman likes you enough, she'll indulge your kinks that she isn't interested in by herself but wouldn't mind enacting with you. There's no harm in asking your partner if…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:26 PM
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I don't really care for watching sports. I keep up with them somewhat because all of my friends are athletes or on that tangent but I seriously don't care about it. I'd rather read books, pursue my hobbies, or shitpost on the internet. Sports are more fun played than watched, although that could because I didn't grow up watching sports and don't come from a family that cares to watch sports either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:23 PM
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Height isn't actually as important as women try to make it out to be, just think of it like height being part of the "handbag" aspect of men where he's arm candy for her. In practicality they don't seem to care beyond their man being about 6" taller than them (the average height differential in relationships and biologically in men and women). I do agree though that there's a lot of shit online where people are too comfortable with shaming and saying some vile stuff to put people down. People ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:20 PM
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It's just that when a woman is more into you the more she's willing to try things out that she might be a little "ehh I don't know" about because she wants to please him. I don't think this is necessarily intrinsic to gender as I think both genders behave like this to impress people we 'pedestalize' and are comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:16 PM
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The long-term implication of what? High level men being okay with a harem of lower leveled women as they can expend less effort while high level women not being okay with it? That's just because women can easily get men who put a high level of effort if they date down, which reinforces their high standards, which is why "pretty girls struggle" in the video you sent. Your point was that a 10 woman can lock down a 7 man who checks off a lot of boxes that most men can't fulfill. Remember, it's only…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:13 PM
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His video format is horrible but I'll try to respond to your overall argument. High level women would want to lock down a high level man who's willing to work with women who are "lower" than them while high level women don't want to work out for "lower" level men. To me this just seems ridiculous because the main point of contention that men have for why women have it easier is just they're offered a plethora of relationships relative to their male match (read: not compared to Chad, necessarily)…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:00 PM
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As in change people into being gay or straight? Probably never. I think it's intrinsic and that it's really hard if not impossible to condition it out of people. Although, I think with more material on sexual orientation and less stigma around it, more people have been becoming more open to identifying as bisexual which means that there's probably a greater expression of sexual orientation while there'll still always be a dominant cis straight society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:44 PM
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Average frustrated chump, TRP term. Your regular Joe who can occasionally have sex and relationships but he can't determine when he'll have one and it is entirely luck dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:41 PM
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I think at the near peak of LMS that there's little that you can do wrong (i.e., you're a top 2-5% man) but for most guys they are part of the 95-98 percentile and thus would need great game. I don't deny Chad existing but I do deny that game is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:29 PM
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Life as Chad > life as Stacy > life as Becky > life as AFC > life as femcel > life as incel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:24 PM
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It's hard to stay optimistic when you're in a drought for quality partners which it sounds like but life is a long term journey. You'll eventually find someone who'll make you happy, even if just for a short while, so the rest of your life wouldn't always be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:23 PM
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There is a 'power imbalance' with wealth gaps but women tend to benefit from those while there's not an obvious perceivable benefit to age gaps for those who are in the 'short end' of the stick. Wealthy men to women mean they have a good provider man who will likely offer them new experiences. Older men, barring women's physical maturity preference of men, don't exactly offer that purely because they are old, much alike them being "wiser" or "more mature".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:06 PM
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I really enjoy bowling sounds like a blast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:55 PM
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Red pill: This may be coming off like bl@ck pill not sure; women's preferences are increasingly converging on what the black pill has stated about their preferences. It wasn't all "common sense" as we talk about it now pre-COVID at least from what I remember on the debates on here. Race is a big one that I think wasn't in the main fray 3-4 years ago but is definitely considered one of the main leading topics -- and we had the OKC study back then, people (including me) just dismissed it. Women li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:46 PM
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They want and like the attention and modern society gives them plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:35 PM
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If I'm ordering delivery to my apartment they better haul ass and drop it off at my door.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:33 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:50 PM
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tall-ish, jacked, young, well read, funny, spontaneity good career, many hobbies, fulfilling social life fun, pretty face and good body interesting, well read, enjoys going along with me, supportive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:44 PM
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The men who would are the ones most women don't want though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:00 PM
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Maybe if you're autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:43 PM
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I never really worried about it with any of the girls I dated, generally the women I've dated have volunteered the information just with the way conversations went so that was always great. I agree though, someone who doesn't participate is ideal if you're looking to settle down. I look back at my college friends I used to party with and all the ones who are in LTRs are the ones who gradually cut out the whole party lifestyle. I don't blame people for being in hookup culture in college as it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:52 PM
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Not really but once I know her n-count it does become something I'll think about. I also support people telling their partners their body count though because if it's something that'll affect the relationship, I think both parties should be aware of it at the latest when they start feeling like things are moving beyond casual territories. Better to get it out of the way earlier than to have a fight later on that could lead to heartbreak over an unchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:10 PM
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It's likely people in their friend group that are judging them for it, especially if they are from liberal spaces in co-ed friend groups. It's likely in reality that they are not that sensitive to strangers comments on Twitter; rather, having people you've been friends or family with for years making snipes at you would wear them down. Yes, the premise still holds that if a few comments bother you then you shouldn't be in it, but in an ideal world, people would prefer to stay with the partner th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:07 PM
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If she really was into you she'd make it easy for you. Stop reading into hints that aren't there; "this random girl, she looked my way 2 times, she wants me". Yeah, maybe, but the reality is that you're just chucking attempts trying to get something to work. If a girl likes you, she'd make it easy for you and you wouldn't have to think too hard of if there's actually something going on there or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:45 PM
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There's a post on RPW which covers this exact topic which I think would be a good read for you. https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWives/a-new-way-of-looking-at-relationship-dynamics-part.208493
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:46 PM
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For a lot of men a crumb of female attention is better than no female attention. They hope that one day it'll convert to sex or a relationship -- and it may, at the cost of your self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:44 PM
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Yes but they're rare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:43 PM
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Back when I used to be on the Discord there was a pretty significant portion of black women; also FDS tended to be pretty diverse. Regardless they're still women though and the SMP issues they face wouldn't have them finding self help forums like TRP or adjacents like this one given how male-dominated it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:55 PM
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I don't think you need a woman to not be lonely, but I do think you need a woman to satisfy the intimacy urge that you have. I never felt lonely when I was single, I had a good group of guy friends and was always pretty busy so never had the time to feel lonely except when I was unemployed for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:07 PM
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This coulda stayed in yall reddit chats bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:03 PM
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I like the first two points but after that it just seems like dumb games that high schoolers play in relationships. And then point 7 is just the obvious grift lol. Think you're misusing ironically also
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:02 PM
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My girl followed me on Instagram after meeting her on a night out with mutual friends and I understood the hint and slide in her DMs. Other girls I've dated who I was friends with tended to just be obvious with their affection so it wasn't hard to make the transition; where they'd be calling me their 'best friend', texting me, calling me all the time, sending me pics of themselves, and I eventually got the hint and made a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:52 PM
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Think a lot of it boils down to people who feel 'othered' because of their ethnicity and therefore struggling until they come into their own. I can see the pressure on Asians generally because unless there is a strong Asian community, they're playing into a white SMP that may or may not like their 'type'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:50 PM
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Hold on - are you saying that it's impossible to get abs, learn to speak 5 languages, or develop skills that put you into a high income career? It's not impossible, plenty of people have done it, most people are just too lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:34 PM
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Never, it's creepy. If I make a glance at first and hold eye contact though and she smiles back though I'll approach otherwise I go about my day. As much as I do women. If they're wearing something I think is cool and I feel they're open to chat I'll talk to them about it. Otherwise I mind my own business. No, women have much more reason than men to be scared of men; and I don't blame men either who have anxiety over strangers. I don't have any such anxieties but I can still understand where the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:33 PM
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Shapiro got made fun of because he said he couldn't make his wife wet or something. These two things aren't even connected. Internet outrage culture != IRL outrage culture. This post reads like a terminally online take
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:39 PM
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By the time you've graduated university you should've had sex. Zoomers are having sex later but you're definitely in the minority afaik to where it's seen as weird if you haven't had sex by the time you graduate. Thus, I'd put the number around 21-22 is when the flip happens from "no big deal" to developmentally delayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:08 PM
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There's a lot of funny reddit-tier wordings we use here. N-count is really popular here but I've never seen it used anywhere outside of here tbh and maybe TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:55 PM
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> how can they do as much damage when they arent respected in the first place? Because they do it behind the backs of those who'd judge them for it. Men aren't a monolith who universally look down on gossipers, that is fantasy. There's a sizeable portion of men who act that way. I've found out through the grapevine of men trying to actively plot on my downfall because of the women I date. Money, pussy, and power breeds envy and believing that men are altruistic is a fools ideal. If you're viewin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:49 PM
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They overthink 'signals' and are generally leaning more on fantasizing about how successful an interaction is without the results to validate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:28 PM
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Your entire premise is based on a statistic you made up in your own mind. I don't agree with this idea of there being an apparent 'universally superior man' in her mind. For one, your world view operates on the premise that women vastly prioritize money or generally 'branded' things. I agree, there's a sizeable amount of women who will be more attracted to you for having these things; but they too will generally just hamster the rest of the reasons for why you're just a better man. Going on your…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:24 PM
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Well I don't see how these are necessarily different ideas of traditional. In traditional relationships women are women and men are men and the gender roles are pre-defined to complement each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:20 PM
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They are feminine and aren't respected by other men, yes, that's why they do it behind other mens back. They do as much damage as other women do, you're just being blinded by your pro male rosy world view where men are a big cooperative monolith. Women who talk smack and gossip aren't necessarily losing their respect amongst other women yes; but neither are men who do it amongst their own friends too. Women talk shit about other women and men behind their backs no differently than men do. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:18 PM
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Who gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:59 PM
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They know how to respond when it's the right man, they just don't give a shit if you're not a guy they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:58 PM
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Men do it too, you just don't know it yet. Men will talk shit behind your back as much as women do; it's just a faux pas in the male social matrix to let it be known that you perform these social games like social exclusion and reputation damage because men are supposed to be direct. It still happens regardless. Also, I don't think women really pay that much attention to men at the 'bottom end of the totem pole'. I may be biased but I doubt they care as much as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:57 PM
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Well they're not looking for a one size fits all solution firstly, they just want to know how they can improve themselves so they can attract the opposite gender. One of the major parts of TRP was that it was for average frustrated chumps (AFC's) to learn traits that can make them attractive. They're not saying to change your core essence of personality which is what your post insinuates, it simply explains to autistic people how to behave to be more attractive (with additional misogyny sprinkle…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:15 PM
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They don't hate all women they like women who fit a very specific box (submissive, 'feminine', non argumentative, great at domestic duties, young, attractive, etc.); their podcast advises to avoid women who don't fit this box. I don't like Fresh and Fit but this post seems to misunderstand what the podcast is or what the hosts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:07 PM
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When women say they don't like mama's boys they mean they don't want a guy who let's their mother run their life. Or gives their mother an equal or greater voice in your life than your girlfriend after a reasonable time of commitment has past. It's unattractive to have your mother run your life the same way it'd be if a woman has her father run her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:03 PM
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Mfs will do ANYTHING but have hobbies in social settings
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:35 PM
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People in North America tend to not be truly bilingual so it is a plus when someone is bilingual, even if it wouldn't really tip the scale either way in dateability. Just a "that's pretty cool".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:15 PM
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Hell yeah. I think I have a lot to offer as a partner and even roles reversed I'd be a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:13 PM
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Toronto. I rarely if ever see young fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:38 PM
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I agree that people trying to portray a chad image are generally guys making up for an insecurity. My point is simply that there's plenty of men who fit the bill that you're describing. Regarding your second point, explain to me how it is vapid for men to work out and focus on their careers? Edited to add: I'd like for you to explain what you think given that your post focuses on male insecurities what YOU think they should work on. Saying work on your insecurities to unsuccessful men is vague u…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:51 PM
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Social media has made men and women more aware of what men's competition is. It's no longer enough to just have a job. Most men I know in their early 20s are in the gym, rarely do I ever see an out of shape guy in general and the few I do are typically unsuccessful with women. The competition nowadays is more in your face, and men and women are both aware of it. Saying it is dysphoria is ridiculous. Young women don't really care too much about a young man's job, but what they can perceive is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:38 PM
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This wouldn't work because game theory would suggest the guy who is willing to ruthlessly pursue women even if they're dry would result in better results than the guy who gives up easily. While what you're saying makes sense from a self preservation standpoint, if you won't, someone else will. Reality is that men who aren't in the top 5-10% will need to pony up and just get used to the grind or face less or no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:32 PM
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I dunno, I'd say that I've observed women who I'm noticeably more attractive than would match my effort in conversations and actually seem excited to talk to me; while women who I perceived as more attractive or the same as seemed completely unbothered messaging me. Based on my own experience, I'd generally assume that women who are matching with men who aren't noticeably more attractive than them that they'd in turn put less effort. I'm not complaining though, I'd rather talk to a girl who was …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:30 PM
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I feel like you guys overestimate the difficulty of making friends to an obnoxious degree. If you've got any hobbies where you're frequently leaving the house and meeting the same people, that's a potential venue for making friends. I've made around 6 friends at my gym over the years who I can hang out with. I've got friends I've made from playing soccer on the weekends. You've got friends you've grown up with. So on so forth; these friends also have friends that you can meet. I think honestly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:36 PM
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I agree. Online dating doesn't really work for the majority of my friends, the ones who are average and it does work for is because these guys have had a fair amount of prior relationships IRL. I think a lot of guys whom struggle on online dating are men who've never had relationships IRL and thus don't know how to talk to women on the apps, and thus can't get it to "work". This makes them conclude that it's a fools errand (women will match but won't talk with them because they don't understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:37 PM
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Yeah I agree with your analysis. This subreddit comes off as too far gone in acting like average men are hopeless bums in modern dating where it's impossible. I'm not going to pretend like things are easy for the average men; but it's absurd that this reddit pretends the average man struggles this much to have sex. I'm friends with plenty of average men who are around (below/above) average height, about as average ethnicity etc. you can get for our area, average build, average everything, and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:29 PM
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Google incel websites and go have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:30 PM
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Wdym require more time to shine?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:30 PM
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literally nothing here is based on any study and is just retard head cannon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:26 PM
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agree posts here are increasingly just modelling incels vs people who live social lives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:25 PM
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Male 1) I pursue relationships but I'm open to casual until I can find a girl I'd like to settle down with. 2) I would ideally like to settle down in 3 or 4 years time but am open to relationships between now and then. I'm not exactly in any rush. 3) I would like to commit to one life long monogamous partner. They should have an attractive lifestyle where they lead their own life while still making time for me. Ideally they should be success oriented and have a view of life being "ours" -- not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:51 PM
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I'm in the same shoes as you tbh. I feel better mentally too when I stop trying because actively looking for mediocre results just isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:04 PM
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she can't earn more money than him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:08 PM
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I've got friends who do not want their girl to be outearning them point blank, this take comes off small minded and solipsistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:34 PM
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Men who arent terminally online understand this implicitly, a 5'2 bald ugly sperg was never gonna be sexually viable to anyone with eyes The actual barriers for what constitutes an attractive man isn't even that high, most men are able to meet them. The amount of men who are 5'2 bald ugly spergs is probs 0.001% of the population even if that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:34 PM
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Hip dips, big calves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:10 PM
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I can't lie I thought that the big plot reveal was that they went on a date with a trans
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:29 AM
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Another contender for the stupidest fucking post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:27 PM
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Has to be the dumbest fucking post title in the history of ever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:25 PM
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A lot of the FDSers deradicalized after COVID. COVID was making people act insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:21 PM
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How is it morally questionable? Pain is the natural biproduct. I'm already aware giving birth is painful. Why am I being taught a lesson in how painful it is to give birth for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:43 PM
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I wouldn't do it because I don't see why I should have to suffer just to make her want to have my child. If she doesn't want my child that is fine but the relationship is doomed from thereon. I don't see what me simulating myself giving birth would have to do with the actual act of giving birth, I want her to pregnant so we could have a child, the goal is not to see my wife in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:33 PM
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Can't even wear a cool hat without women judging us men sexually SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:25 PM
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They do care about looks to the extent that it gets you in the door and some women will even approach off looks, if you're exceptionally good looking some women will just immediate proposition sex too via OLD. On the other hand though, there's plenty of dudes out there who are just charismatic and have the right mentality despite being "ugly" and they pull way more than most if not all the pretty boys I know. There's definitely value in being insanely confident with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:24 PM
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I got really strong and I've noticed no difference at all tbh from when I was skinny and just played sports on weekends versus now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:12 PM
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If you believe personality doesn't matter for anyone who isn't a top 5% male then you probably are unsuccessful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:52 PM
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Low barrier work environment which is always hiring, coworkers skew younger, people generally learn to not give a shit, constant and frequent interaction brings people out of their shells
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:51 PM
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Almost like radio music is almost entirely meant to be easy listening to appeal to the masses... next you're going to discover pop music is short for popular music 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:51 PM
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Work in the restaurant industry if you wanna get laid. Easiest way to get laid is to just go somewhere often with low stakes and you'll inevitably find relationships / sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:49 PM
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Some guys wanna never be happy lol, I never understood the red pill rage with some guys just not being the type younger women go for but when they're older they're the ones in demand. The vast majority of women can't be and aren't "chad's leftovers", people just have more things to do these days than have relationships which is the frank reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:47 PM
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Agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:44 PM
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I would say looks are a contributory factor in the sense that if a girl is straight up unattractive to me, I will never be attracted to her, but if she's on the fence for attractiveness us being good friends before really makes me like her looks and her a whole lot more even if I was on the fence at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:44 PM
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Powerlifting, bodybuilding, rest, repeat. Men should focus on hitting real numbers and when they get past the noobie bump start focusing on hypertrophy with their powerlifting routines. Body comp doesn't affect attractiveness if I'm being honest for men. Most men just need good (attractive) personality. No, looks overwhelmingly don't matter unless you're some ugly outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:13 PM
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I meant fuck everyone else in terms of dating of getting what you want as in you should pursue who you want and stop caring so much about what the outcome is. A lot of guys get stuck in the nice guy trap because they don't wanna make a move and inconvenience a girl when really you're inconveniencing you and her by taking so long to rip off the band aid when they'd be happier just shooting their shot and moving on with their life. I think a lot of guys who struggle now and based off what I read o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:22 PM
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Sounds like the problem solves itself re: the last line
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:14 PM
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Reality is that tinder is pay to win and any guy who's serious about getting laid on OLD has Tinder platinum. I have confirmed this with many guys who actually get results on OLD and the commonality is that you pretty much need to get platinum unless you have the perfect combo of pics for the area you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:13 PM
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Learn to be sarcastic and witty and it's really not that different from high school humour, just a different way of packaging it with less edginess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:11 PM
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Me: internalize this specific part of the movie You:
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:05 PM
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You don't understand what I'm saying nor do you understand nuance. My point was referring to stop caring and learn to do what you want. Get off your soapbox about how intelligent you are for reading a synopsis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:01 PM
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He posts content which is intended to gain reactions and then as part of his hustle created Hustler's University where he told people they can get viral through posting his clips. These people then refer more people to his program which is partially a pyramid scheme where he gets their money through referrals, while people who go viral posting him also gain as they make money through him posting controversial / incendiary things. This led to his rapid growth, especially in a time where TRP is bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:12 PM
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congeniality There still is and probably far more congeniality to American culture now than then. Sorry to spoil the movie for you. Watch it and let me know your thoughts when you see the gun to the back of one character's head and things fall into place if you can internalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:01 PM
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Jealousy from men who can't crack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:59 PM
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Being nice; unsuccessful men interpret it as being too wary of boundaries when it really means you should be able to have firm boundaries and moral compass and operate within that schema where you exert your presence on your environment. Men who are "reliable and nice" as they think of themselves are passive pussies. Women select men who exhibit charisma and are physically attractive because charismatic men are the ones who exert their control of their environment (take morals out of the equatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:59 PM
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Watch Fight Club and internalize the message that you need to go and actually make the move and become the guy working towards your goals and it's fuck everyone else. Men who struggle in dating are too passive. All red pill these days just seems to parrot Fight Club once you internalize the message of becoming (your own version of) Tyler Durden.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:54 PM
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I don't follow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:41 PM
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The village set up I think works the best, I think a lot of incel complaints as you said stem from the world opening itself up significantly to where we live in a globalist society. With an open circuit SMP, men lose out because there is a lot more demanded of them as another man of equal or higher value is willing to settle for less for casual relationships, and women in turn get hurt because they feel entitled to these guys who they could bed but couldn't keep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:29 PM
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Well on the other hand though, a lot of my female friends 25+ do regret not settling down early when they're younger because the dating market for women who are in their late 20s is extremely hard to find worthwhile men. Most good men are taken early just like how most good women are taken early. Tangential but I thought I would add.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:24 PM
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For women if you're good enough to sleep with then most of the time you're good enough for a relationship with her, she wouldn't sleep with you otherwise. Old school manosphere theory states when you sleep with a woman that from that point on a relationship of some capacity can develop where it's all how you play it afterwards. On the other hand though men will dumpster dive to get laid (you'd be surprised how many men who appear high value sleep with unattractive and low status women) and thus …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:22 PM
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Well put
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:12 PM
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Well for them it is as men generally can get relationships with women who are out of his league for casual ONS typically, and the inverse for women where they can fuck guys even more out of their league but usually get stuck with their looksmatch or less for relationships. They probably have FOMO for not being able to fully monopolize on their sexual capital they had in their youth IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:10 PM
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It's interesting because I've had the same observations that lesbians went from being viewed as tom boy bros-by-extension (hey we all like women amiright!) to more of a feminazi stance. I agree with all your takes and I would say that political lesbians as spiritdancer said is the main cause of it where as the world gets more politicized by left-right axis with growing divide and politics are openly discussed everywhere, lesbians have grown to become the champion of modern feminist movements. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:07 PM
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Lmao right I'm reading these replies then I see the name and I'm like oh of course it's griffin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:27 PM
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Astaghfirallah woman repent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:20 AM
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MBTI is a PPD exclusive as far as I've seen not a single guy I know IRL gives a shit about MBTI and pseudoscience whereas astrology is a lot more popular amongst women I meet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:23 PM
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Facts 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:15 PM
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Guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:12 PM
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it's her mistake to regret
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:10 PM
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pink???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:09 PM
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fr this sub ain't cutting it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:07 PM
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who are you from the discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:06 PM
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wonder what the discord people are up to now that discord is down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:52 PM
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It's more so playing the field, being passive and not wanting to reject the woman (believing her not to be a considerable option) and so leading the woman on makes sense because it avoids confrontation and you don't make yourself vulnerable as you would converting a woman to a fuck buddy or FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:21 PM
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I felt that with Kobe, I never really thought I'd be affected because I wasn't a HUGE basketball fan but when he passed so randomly I felt it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:08 PM
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clubs probably won't be your scene, bars will have plenty of stem lords if its a stem lord bar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:59 PM
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guys who do favours for the expressed purpose of getting in womens pants are transactional in nature and are abnormal, plenty of guys would be willing to do favours if it's within their realm of capability. him driving an hour out to pick you from the airport however is indicative of his feelings, maybe if you have known each other for a long time it is platonic but given how you mentioned you aren't close and he went that above and beyond it was pretty obvious he was into you and just trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:14 AM
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questioning your family history?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:10 AM
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The average man isn't gonna have that reality though while it may have happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:19 PM
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if a tree falls in the forest but nobody is around to hear it did the tree fall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:53 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:51 PM
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guy would rather post a field report about his epic rejection of foid on an anonymous message board than get laid with the cardio bunny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:37 PM
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you aren't meeting women organically often which means that you either have a weak friend group socially or you do not have enough hobbies, either way you have low socio exposure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:34 PM
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you spelled your username wrong with an r instead of a u
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:33 PM
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you clearly have never read TRP or understand any of the original manospherians
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:33 PM
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complete and utter insanity by a delusional orbiter, most women date guys in their friend groups because that's who's available and compatible with them you don't befriend a woman you want to fuck (or date) off the cuff because you're going there with unrealistic expectations which comes off as pathetic and desperate rather than letting the relationship progress naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:32 PM
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madonna complex isn't actual love, it is a reverence and idolization which isn't love as much as whores aren't loved, it's both spectrums of false love boyfriend material and husband material are not the same thing because there's not a particular reverence attached and is instead based on stability factors
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:30 PM
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if she's interested in you it's obvious if she's on the fence with you then you have to make a move as you're unsure there's only 1 possible outcome to know if she's communicating and doing things for you that she doesn't do for other guys, she's into you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:28 PM
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it's not just online dating it's basic reality that everyone is on their best behaviour and presents themselves the best they can during the courting stage of any relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:50 PM
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Nothing great or bad happening in my life, but I generally feel unfulfilled. Tbh everyday just feels like I'm just surviving until the next day where it rinses and repeats. It's not bad but it's also not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:22 PM
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The overweight men are a non factor though, and that number is also heavily padded by older folks. I think that guys who work on themselves can improve their irl selves but on OLD they're more at the mercy of their geography (if they're in a obese area for under 30s I can see what you're saying apply, less so in cities or burbs in other places)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:51 PM
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I think that women base their self-worth in relationships more on for the most part in terms of average-normal person, but in the extremes, I think men far out represent women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:47 AM
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I mean you got to remember that the majority of people within this sub, or TRP are only aware of its existence due to their own lack of success with women. Thus, it's obviously going to be filled with men who are majority awkward, unconfident and unsuccessful during their formative years, with a minority group like myself of people who just are curious about random subs which are thrown around and the theories within them. It's the same reason why they blindly upvote and follow some honestly ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:38 PM
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Just look at whenever keyboard warriors get doxxed and you see how they really look, they always talk like they're 6'2, well built and trained in MMA but then they always look like one of them barrels that Donkey Kong chucks at Mario with a shitty beard and ratty moustache.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:44 PM
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I'd normally agree in the real world, but a lot of dudes in this sub in previous threads when asked about their ideal women often upvote/comment "obedient, quiet, respectful" so I'd imagine that a robot could be capable of all three of those traits. That is, until they gain sentinience or something LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:42 PM
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Lol completely not true whatever people in this sub are infatuated with. After living a year in the city, I've found that most men who are confident / know how to talk to women tend to not care about n-count, but the less they are able to talk to women and actually pursue a sexual relationship the more they value it. It's a weird inverse relationship I've noticed, even the good looking guys but can't talk to women tend to value a women's virginity. The only time an n-count begins to matter is ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 10:24 PM
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Men face similar issues though although I can't know the scale as I'm not a woman. Although, I've been raised to become a HVM so idk about other men who show low value :/ Having to choose a secure career path to make sure that women see you as desireable and a steady future with you. Having to always be confident and funny, otherwise women will look right over you as the average guy. If you're not confident and funny, expect to only have a shot with women who your friends and family will mock. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:32 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. The average person today has no idea about the nutrition they're eating and also are too accustomed to the indoor lifestyle. 100 years ago people who sat around still had to walk to each locations, now we can drive anywhere we go. People sit around doing fuck all the whole day content with their lives and then with the convenience of every quick-made food today has made life too easy for people to be content with being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:23 PM
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Being assertive and selfish works in terms of the SMP because you're outright demonstrating preselection because you can hold certain standards; but it depends on how you look. I know there's this ugly roommate I used to have who had the most ridiculous standards and never had any play at all throughout the year despite being rommates where my floor was known for having fuckboys. There's a time and place for being assertive and confident, you should be confident if you're approaching someone but…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:19 PM
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The thing is though about the unattractive point is that I've noticed that personally and with other men I know is that there is a very small minority of women who are genuinely unattractive. The vast majority of women are just an indifferent blip on my radar and in that case personality is a huge difference maker in that situation. Why women go after unattractive men, who knows? Maybe they just perceive men the same way I see women and that is with a majority being indifferent to me less their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:07 PM
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Lol it's hilarious how some men on this sub just assume that makeup is so abundantly common to the point where they think there's a majority of women who look different without makeup. Of all the women I know who wear make up daily, only a handful of them use it to redo their look and the rest just use it to add a special touch to their look. Just because there are women who go OD for special occasions to make themselves look gorgeous doesn't mean the average woman wears that much makeup on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:04 PM
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Well being able to have choice with women is a sign of preselection for most women who don't know you. It makes your intentions with them known easily (men in a relationship won't catch feelings or make advances usually, men who are known to be fuckboys are easy lays and trustworthy for hookups), meanwhile men who have no intentions known are obviously not going to be trusted in the sexual marketplace. It's called the SMP for a reason, if someone has no demand known then obviously any 'buyers' w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:01 PM
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From what I've seen this is not true lol. Dude's in the middle are either just waiting for the right girl to come along to make a move (beta), have unrealistically high expectations (see the previous statement), or are just looking for a wet hole. Same theory applies for those at the bottom. Guys on top have the ability to execute for girls they think are pretty so they can looks match or are able to hook up with ease. Either way they have to have some essence of game to be able to even execute,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 12:50 PM
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Healthier and happier don't have anything to do with the points I brought up. People were happier because it was a boom economy post WW2 and people were feeling more secure about their future, and information was limited to the people by the government and so of course with limited info they have they'll feel more happier and secured for their future. Healthier populations back then was because of less preservatives in the foods and less manufactured foods as a whole unlike today where everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:32 PM
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Lol it's because a sizeable TRP population in this sub has subtle undertones of Americana global ignorance where they assume that the 40-60s were a time where men and women all looked straight out of an American propaganda ad. America wasn't this picture perfect setting where women were docile and obedient like dogs, and the men were abusive. As well, they tend to completely brush over the racist overtones of that period and it shows in the way they think immigrants are a bunch of funny-coloured…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:41 AM
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First generation too, a lot of my cousins parents who are also immigrants are quickly becoming centrists / liberal leaning, and by the time the third generation comes around, conservatism will likely be phased out. Very few people are genuinely conservative from immigrant families.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:33 PM
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Bc some men on PPD enjoy complaining about how things aren't going there way lol Everyone wants to fuck the hot guy/girl, and now that you can now strings attached, why wouldn't you take advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:30 PM
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Lol sometimes the traditional fantasies this sub believes ever existed is sometimes crazy. I've been feeling like there's been a huge American propaganda campaign underway which glorifies 1950-1970's America with the nuclear family, white fence, and submissive/obedient wife. As far as I've known from my relatives it hasn't really existed beyond the media, so I always wondered if this version of idealist trad America even existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:23 PM
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Gay men have far more sex than lesbian women, and I don't remember the exact study but it was posted here where men are some 9:1 more hornier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:21 PM
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Completely disagree. I grew up in a lower-class area where all of my friends came from broken homes (alcoholic parents, deadbeat dads, cokehead moms, friend had FAS) and everyday I'm grateful to grow up in a stable home in a lower class area. Maybe if both co parents were wealthy, but I know all of my friends who grew up in dysfunctional homes have had far less opportunities than I've had. For example, dysfunctional families condition their kids into growing up prematurely and turning to drugs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:55 PM
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/r/deadbedrooms would beg to differ lol The only thing that will get you laid in a LTR is a combination of TRP teachings and as well as a strong sense of morals to avoid the toxic information that'd be unnecessarily poisoning your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:51 PM
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Lol right, I don't know why people still browse TRP casually because at this point it's a bunch of fantasy field report posts that are exaggerated. The sidebar and archive is a goldmine from posts from 4-6 years ago, but the newer content is either terrible spins on old advice, or just straight up terrible advice lmao. Honestly most people's dating advice could be resolved by having more charismatic male and female friends, and then just picking up behaviours from them that are desireable / prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:49 PM
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Tinder's userbase is more male than female, women have more selection than men across the board, men are inherently hornier due to higher T, for women sex is an emotional connection and requires more trust than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:44 PM
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Thought it just meant someone who was involuntary celibate; or someone who can't have sex due to social restrictions. It isn't necessarily synonymous with being ugly, but /u/woxmintari is correct because to be involuntary celibate you are 'deemed not attractive to meet even the most unattractive womens minimum attractiveness standard'. If you have the option to have sex and you choose to forego it due to your own personal standards/restrictions, I personally wouldn't consider them an incel. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:42 PM
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Yeah but a fit guy appeals to a far larger audience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:49 PM
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Yeah, and at the end of the day, women will say a 'catch' is the one who has both attractiveness and resources. If you've only got resources to offer, then that man is just betabux, and his hypothetical daughter will search for a man with attractiveness now that she's guaranteed resources. However, if you're attractive then you can still goad a pretty lady into a LTR if you can still offer good enough stimulus to her emotions. At the end of the day, attractiveness is what will carry them in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:29 PM
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Selecting for genetics goes hand and hand with finding a mate lmao. Someone with good genes would have good facial symmetry, high T and fit body if they're a man or better 'assets' if they're a woman. People with good genes show, and people who have bad genes also show. I'm pretty sure there was a study that people with greater facial symmetry have better genes, and people who are able to stay fit year round without excessive dieting / fitness work also show their better genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:25 PM
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I was referring to more phone passwords or other passwords that naturally come up when you're intimate with someone. I don't see why you'd need to share social media passwords but I've had some girls try asking for it for no reason lol All of my best friends have my phone password, but social media passwords? Pushing it. If the need arises I see no issue but just asking for passwords for no reason just seems like forced intimacy and a red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:23 PM
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Definitely, some people I know tend to be more private with their LTR's but idk I just think that if you're looking to build a future with someone at some point you have to fully let them into your life. That being said that trust should go both ways and both people should try to respect each others boundaries (like looking through phone text logs incessantly) unless they have reasonable cause to because if they're willing to break boundaries, then I don't see how they are compatible for a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:16 PM
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I don't keep anything private from LTR's however that being said them invading that privacy is also wrong. I think everyone should be open about what they're doing if they want the other person to trust, it's the only way you can have a real bond. The only time I keep things private and hidden is if I'm getting ready to move on to better things, or if it no longer benefits me to trust that individual. It's basically a matter of trust, I keep my door open but it doesn't mean barge in if I'm not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:09 PM
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I mean that some people are born into a masculine environment and they just naturally have a greater frame than the next guy. Everyone should know there are certain people you grew up with who just seem to pull everyone in. You can fake charisma and confidence, but you can't fake your frame imo. I'm not referring to the redpill's version of frame where you hold a certain standing, I'm talking about some people just having a field w people where others are drawn to be pulled into their pacing and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:02 PM
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Agreed, alphas arent necessarily born more attractive than their beta counterparts while a large amount of alphas are naturally better looking, I personally think it's just their frame they project. Some people just have a welcoming frame or a sexy frame, those born without that innate frame where people aren't interested in entering their mental space just have to fake it to become it. Still, makes you wonder about what makes an alphas charisma make everyone want to enter their frame, meanwhile…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:12 PM
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People who got nothing better to do but to comment on celebrity gossip which has 0 impacts on their lives in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:16 PM
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I think it's gentlemanly in some contexts and emasculating in some as well. It's perfectly fine to hold your woman's purse or things when her hands are occupied or if she's tired because a relationship is about supporting one another. However, this does bring to mind from when I was in highschool seeing a loser neighbour's son at the mall who was carrying a bunch of women's purse despite not even being in a relationship. If you're not in a relationship with the woman, you shouldn't. If a man ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:13 PM
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While it is a sex issue it isn't really pill related. I don't really mind though tbh provided moderators stay on top of moderating this sub. While letting a few of these posts are fine to slide to allow new content for this sub (there's a decent post every couple of hours or so), I hope that the mods will remove these type of posts if they become anywhere close to 10-20% of the content posted on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:09 PM
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Absolutely not, I'm uncomfortable with the idea of dating a man or a woman who is biologically XY and do not find myself ever getting over this hurdle. Turned off by the idea of dating anyone with an XY chromosomal set, and while I respect their lifestyle and wish the best for them, I personally can never be romantically or sexually into someone of that type. It's similar to 'large' women who are twice my weight, while I don't judge because everyone's life is their own in their own hands, I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:07 PM
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Once I realized that at some point there is a difference between natural-born alphas and the common man it made me realize that I should just focus on building myself. No point in trying to create a huge bravado about women if I'm not among the chosen few would rather spend my time more productive than look for new ways to attract women which in itself helps me to find a few HVF for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:48 PM
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Interestingly enough for alpha guys, the very few real alpha guys I do know that exist in real life are guys who are like 7-8's but they just seem to have the perfect face for women to want to start talking. My best friend isn't really that much of a looker (imo), but whenever we go out because his face looks really friendly and he's 6'2 or 6'3, women and men just naturally gravitate towards him. Anyone else who has to put in real work to get women to talk to them, while I praise their efforts, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:55 PM
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I'm with you on this one. I think it's easier to respect the attractive guy who has massive selection and then chooses women based on their value to him rather than someone who's promiscuous because they're willing to smash nearly anything with a pulse. I know a few guys in real life who are just looking to get their rocks off every weekend and I honestly just don't really find it that appealing; maybe it's a sex drive thing. Personally I'm only willing to fuck if I've got enough chemistry with …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:51 PM
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I think you're conflating women who are attractive with how TRP perceives attractive women because from what I noted the more attractive a woman is, the less they put out provided she doesn't have emotional baggage and was raised in a traditional environment. I find women who are average-above average to be the ones who are willing to put out quickly and make use, but the more attractive ones tended to seek relationships over casual sex. I think this is because the more decent-attractive women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:19 PM
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+1 Lmao modern media glorifies people sleeping around with one another. There's a huge "side" culture where people promote having multiple partners, people promote promiscuous women (see: Mia Khalifa becoming a 'feminist' icon for being a pornstar, OnlyFans becoming a real source of income for pretty women), and there's plenty more examples. Millennials and coming generations are going to be raised with vain ideas and the glorification of polyamorous relationships and in general hookup culture t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:37 PM
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Oops! I always make that typo lol, fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:28 PM
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Looking back my point was a total non-sequitur because I can't really figure out what tangent I was on when I wrote it. Deleted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:10 PM
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A lot of men and women show how their brain operates with their fixation on celebrity gossip. Things that are totally inconsequential to their lives yet they post entire think pieces on twitter or reddit lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:34 PM
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People with high-n counts don't seem to care about others having high n counts, people with low n counts care more about it. High n count people see others with high n count as being better and more experienced at sex so to them it's more fulfilling, however, some people get off on low n counts for some weird reason. It's different by gender, I notice women are more accepting than men if a man has a higher n count. Men tend to care more about a woman's n count if their's is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:27 PM
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Yeah exactly, a lot of guys seem to not understand how to match energy w women and TRP often advocates for setting the pace as opposed to slightly leading. Often times by escalating too fast it just puts you in a bad position, and most of TRP tricks only work on vulnerable/low-value women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:24 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed in lower-middle-class communities that are filled with 1-3rd generation immigrants that the kids there who are oftentimes more ambitious tend to place very little importance on relationships, especially when compared to my upper-class friends I know today. I think the worse off kids feel about their future and the events that are to come, the less risk-taking they become in favour of trying to secure a perfect future (play x amount of sports for extracurriculars, maintain high…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:19 PM
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I disagree with this as there can be love for a persons look as they grow because peoples taste obviously change as they age for most emotionally mature people and they fall for the same person they fell in love with, especially in men. The question says develop attraction, and at that point, once you're fully into someone you are basically blinded by your love for that person so to one's self you'll always see them as attractive as long as you're in love, however, if you're no longer in love th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:11 AM
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I personally think it is nearly impossible to not fall for someone by their looks, you find their look more appealing the more you look at them but there's no way you can be repulsed by them and then see them as a viable target. If some simp falls for a woman just through texts and no photos, it speaks to the actual level of social interaction they've got in real life (being near-zero beyond any familial female interaction)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:08 AM
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I'd say purple-pilled is when like in the matrix you know the truth and understand it (I notice a lot of 'purple' pilled people in this sub don't understand it / by default being a blue pilled person here means you don't understand it) but you choose to act ignorant to the truths you know in some shape or form. By this, I mean in my own perspective that while I know the truths of the red pill and try to follow some of its self-help lessons, I personally believe that I still continue the same as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:06 AM
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Correct; women prefer feminine 'pretty'-boy faces with masculine bodies or masculine pretty-boy faces. An extremely cave-man masculine face is unfortunately left to maximize their RMV and try to further their career and to build a good body to match their face, otherwise it's over for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:07 PM
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Yup, well said. A friend of mine grew his hair out to chin length and he looked quite feminine. He also never got laid and when he did manage to secure a hookup he simped over her for months. I genuinely believe that the feminine male look only works if you've got excellent fashion sense, well-balanced facial proportions to balance out the androgynous look, and a helluva lot of charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:05 PM
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> be grateful you get to be a women's last choice where you're quite literally labelled as part of the group of people that a woman would even bother choosing you after all better potions have abandoned her This has got to be the dumbest fucking bait ever on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:01 PM
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I've noticed oftentimes Karen children if they're not obese are usually quite the lookers, but when they add weight as they hit the wall they look grotesque and unrecognizable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:22 PM
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Yeah easily, there's sometimes where I get pushed to my emotional extremes but I don't think there is anything within the limits I know of that my parents and I would be able to cross to actually hurt the other. Likewise, I've got unconditional platonic love for my best friend because he and I get along too well and both are willing to always listen and compromise with each other. I think the big flaw people have with understanding unconditional love is that they add conditions like "what if he …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:33 PM
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I do believe so, obviously though it depends on how someone is raised. Some people are grown and conditioned to when they get into fights they get emotionally hurt beyond repair or aren't willing to work past it. Unconditional love does exist though in many forms for people with stable relationships and strong morals; parents and their children, humans and their pets. It exists where both parties know both their own and the limits of the other emotionally and only with this full understanding is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:24 PM
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I do believe so, while my parents themselves seem to be in a marriage where they have a high degree of platonic love as they moved away from romantic love, my grandparents have had real romantic love for the last 40+ years so I think it is possible. Unconditional love is possible when both parties are able to set aside their differences because they can love the person while also coming at odds with things they disagree with. It doesn't mean a perfect marriage with no fights or arguments, rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:17 PM
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Non-physical: Strong morals and own personal ideals, leading (I've got a dominating personality so ideally someone else who's dominating as well), quick-thinker, body count under 5 partners, no previous children Physically: Can't be heavier than me (I weigh 155), some degree of fitness because I'm really into fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:12 PM
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I personally find somethings in TRP to be accurate and others to be off-base (regarding women and marriage), but in general, it's due to wanting life-long companionship and unconditional romantic love. A long-term committed relationship to me looks like it isn't that much of a commitment because both parties don't have a level of love and trust where both parties see a future forever together and are anticipating failure which just doesn't have any appeal to my own morals and ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:08 PM
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Well that's the way the sexual market works. Women have what men want and there won't be any change unless all men are HVM which is innately not going to happen. The traditional view of men being the breadwinner and women being housekeeper/family attendant has been long gone for good reason, and with the change now where women now are also on equal economic standing means that men need to have more to offer. Women are the gatekeeper to sex, and for men to satisfy their own testosterone-fueled ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 06:39 PM
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It's pretty beg if you got to use a sex worker in almost every culture. To any other man it just looks like the person who pays is so unattractive either emotionally / physically and so they need to pay for meaningless sex, and to other women it signals poor selection and a true mark of a LVM. Ergo: paying for sex == LVM behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:10 AM
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Personally I think they'd be fine, provided the men follow the original red pill which was more about self-improvement and maximizing themselves to be HVM, as opposed to the current TRP which seems to be run by brainlets who just try to do PUA techniques. Women in FDS from what I see look for HVM, and there is plenty of people who use TRP for a relationship standpoint for things that would make them improve themselves so in general, the people who can discern good advice from bad would be just f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:07 AM
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It's bizarre that even saying that with both sexes where being promiscuous is a completely unattractive trait and should be looked down on is controversial in many young urban crowds. Like, if you're willing to bone a woman or a man after just meeting them in the club once then what do you really have to offer a relationship if you have nothing left to offer to differentiate the random lay from a relationship partner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:08 PM
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Only if the socks stay on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:37 PM
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Fair enough, I guess it depends on the type of girls you go for and the cultural norms of where we both are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:24 PM
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It depends really but a decent amount college-aged girls I've been with or known tend to not give head because they find it more intimate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:01 PM
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My best friend (F) and I share way too much information about our sex lives so I'll try to answer based on what the college-aged socialite perspective would be. ONS --> just be hot / her type (6'+, good looks, not asian). For an ONS it's usually just average non-kinky sex b.c. most ONS happens because she's drunk. FWB --> be hot / don't talk much (pure sex relationship, dick appointment). She's more willing to experiment but it's purely a 1-2 hr sex relationship and doesn't extend to a friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:54 PM
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i stopped reading after u said u started making silly faces and she reacted positively
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:38 AM
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not him, his ex girl was red pill those are all basic tactics lol
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 09:33 PM
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interesting that she redpilled him
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 05:59 PM
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