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Yeah, I was just there again tonight. I socialized more but I mean another few misses. At some point I know luck will strike. It’s only a matter of when really. Also thanks! I was initially kind of scared by the name of the subreddit before I started to see a lot of the advice here is pretty general and just about how to improve someone’s ability to land more good interactions. Sorry for the ramble, always glad to talk though!
/r/seduction07/11/22 07:09 AM
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Yeah hopefully it goes well I think I’ll try again tomorrow, also I think I sent you a dm. I look forward to talking further about this.
/r/seduction04/11/22 11:48 PM
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Well I’ve gotten out there a few times. And got to say cold approaches are hard. Hopefully one of my next ones I can actually land a date or something out of it. All this work is so hard but I hope I can get that reward of a second or even third date sometime soon.
/r/seduction03/11/22 09:01 PM
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Got shot down, bad timing this time. Maybe I can try again but it’s pretty empty here tonight compared to last night.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:10 AM
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Well I made the attempt and got a nice shot down. But ehhh cold approaches is hard to pull naturally.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:09 AM
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Permission not to fuck granted
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:34 AM
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Yeah like I don’t mind going for some kind of move be it kissing cuddling or even making out. I just feel like the whole sex thing I want to have a date or so to just figure out if this is someone I want to do that with. And it’s not like I’m going to kill all momentum if it’s going there organically. But like I don’t want to force it. I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I forced something like that faster than I would want anyways. I just see so much around here about how if you don’t do …
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:05 AM
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100% agree. The emptiest period of my life was when I constantly had one night stands. It was like I was trying to fill a void.
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:42 PM
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Cool can’t wait to get back at it after I get over this little cold. Maybe I’ll even actually get passed the rejection part for once. Trying to have a positive outlook haha.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:54 PM
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Would a place like an open late cafe be a good example of a place to do this if you’re a bit less comfortable with adding booze into the equation?
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah I just hope I can learn soon enough. Like as is I definitely have not a lot of game. But maybe at some point I’ll be able to be interesting enough to be able to get passed just the first date and then move on to the whole other complete lack of experience I have hehe…
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:05 PM
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Yeah I just guess I misread her signals since she said I was a little bit too strong, but I thought she was digging it, still it’s just a matter of finding my happy medium and the fact is I’m sure it’s different for every girl. But that’s what practice is for, to help me get better at this whole reading thing.
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:35 PM
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Yeah I had a nice little first date yesterday, but it ended up that spark just wasn’t there for her. Still I guess it’s part of how the game works. Maybe next week I’ll have a bit better luck. It still sucks because I feel like I’m some ways I’m starting from behind, but I mean what is a guy gonna do sometimes. I can’t just sit there and say that I am a 19 year old virgin so that is that, I want to learn how to be a charmer to women as much as I feel like I am a good friend to the platonic relat…
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:14 PM
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I think more guys really need to take this one to heart. I agree it is nice to be able to gain skills like flirting and getting a ball rolling but that’s not the be all end all as I have been learning.
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:38 PM
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Yeah I’ve made a baseline little progress log here too now, so hopefully I’ll be able to track my own progress. About learning how to build my game. Wish me luck!
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:53 AM
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Yeah, I can see that as a good way to think about it. Now I guess the next step is actually succeeding in getting more second dates and being able to pick up on stuff in the right places, but thats what the tips on this subreddit are for even if Im not in it for the immediate sex. hahaha.
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:17 AM
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Yeah that’s fair, I’m just not a fan of all the “casual” stuff the idea of no strings attached just doesn’t work for me. So I’m guessing you mean casual a bit more in the don’t take love too seriously way rather than the other way I’ve kind of learned to interpret that? Again sorry if this whole conversation seems dumb I’m kind of new to the whole talking and asking about this kind of stuff thing.
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:35 PM
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Oh I should have clarified I’m actually a man looking for women. And yet still a lot of the women around me and my age (19) have “just casual” or likewise on their profiles. But I’m guessing from this especially around my age that a lot of women kind of want to “fix” their man as you said? So I’m guessing that I really should be okay if I don’t really find someone who I really hit it off with just yet? Or is there some other takeaway? Sorry for some of these edits I’ve just gotten a bit of caffe…
/r/seduction18/10/22 04:24 AM
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So what should my approach be if I am really not interested in a first date hookup kind of situation. I am just not very comfortable with going straight to that, especially given that I am still, well, a virgin. I still would prefer a longer-term partner, but I am just not as huge on the immediate sex thing. Is it still mostly the same, but with just adding that boundary? Or does it change the whole thing too much?
/r/seduction18/10/22 03:27 AM
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