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then i say : Nooo, I dont want to interfere. just wanted to say hello =D and see if you are doing alright, we did have a lot to drink that night haha. I don't know but this whole part comes over a bit needy, you probably did not intend it that way though.
/r/seduction08/04/16 03:47 PM
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Dude the gym is not a social place if you don't want it to be, I don't even notice people there and just listen to music on my phone while getting the gainz. So no, you don't have to worry at all, the only interaction you will have is someone asking if you're using some machine right now. People make fun of what philosopher Drake said in his essays: ''you only live once'' but dude got a straight point. You can join the gym in your next life, oh right, there isn't one. Make a promise to yourself …
/r/seduction07/04/16 02:19 PM
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So you said you are free those days and she said yes? Then I don't see any problem, just ask her for example ''So, thursday 8pm?''
/r/seduction04/04/16 05:07 PM
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Hitting on girls 'for practice' is not really my style, but I guess everyone has different goals.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:00 PM
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No why would I be mad, I just gave my opinion on what you posted.
/r/seduction25/03/16 05:34 PM
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Why do you hang out with women you don't want? Your description is really cringe to me.
/r/seduction25/03/16 03:26 PM
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This is going against the mainstream idea of this subreddit of ''assume attraction'' but the following might help. Already assume a strong possibility of a negative outcome that is not personal and be perfectly okay with it. So as you approach realize that it's a very possible scenario that this girl, for tons of different reasons that are not personal, could reject you. This removes the fear of rejection from the very beginning because hey it's already something that can definitely happen, righ…
/r/seduction24/03/16 01:06 PM
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A 10/10 personality is very subjective. You can be a 10 to some girl while being a 3 to another personality wise. This means that you first of all have to decide which personality traits you value yourself and which you don't. Ask yourself, are there any things you don't like about yourself? Work on them. Are there any things you love but others don't? Fuck that, keep owning them unless it's clear that those things are very toxic. (i.e. alcoholism, overweight, ... ) So the point I'm trying to ma…
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:09 PM
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Totally agreed, shisha is really a great thing to do while learning to know eachother. Unfortunately it is indeed unhealthy (I guess it's acceptable if you do it like a few times a year) and we have no great spots where I live.
/r/seduction21/03/16 12:09 AM
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Lazy and fat are not defining characteristics of who you are. By accepting yourself one does not mean to accept these things, especially if you don't like them - these are all things that can change. Accepting yourself means to accept things you can't or don't want to change, like the past for example.
/r/seduction18/03/16 08:21 PM
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Yeah sure the line might be bad I just tried to get my point across about being able to play the question off jokingly if OP didn't feel comfortable with it. The line wasn't really the point but thanks for pointing it out.
/r/seduction16/03/16 11:46 PM
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Hey not sure at all, you'll probably get better responses, but maybe you can play it off as being really eccentric?
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:54 PM
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Maybe she was just interested in a one night stand with you? Either way, she already flaked twice so I'd just leave the ball in her court and add something like ''last chance though.''
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:27 PM
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I'm not an expert but I would say don't, but you can play it off if you are uncomfortable about it, example: ''Have you had many girlfriends before?'' ''Yeah, actually she doesn't know I'm here * joking intonation* '' Most of the times she won't repeat the question, if she does, I would just honestly say that I haven't had any serious relationships. Either way you bring up a really interesting point I'd like advice on myself, what to do when the truth/honest you is something that you're pretty s…
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:18 PM
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You described this as meet new girl, ask number, flirty texts for a while, ask to do something. To me it's clear what this is, I suppose it would be to her as well.
/r/seduction15/03/16 09:31 PM
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Just be honest about it to yourself. If the reason you didn't do anything was because you really think things like that are annoying then you did the right thing. If you wanted to say something but didn't and came up with that as an excuse for yourself then you didn't.
/r/seduction15/03/16 08:55 PM
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I'm from Europe and people my age (early 20's) don't really call it 'date' usually, but it's often clear from the context. The way you described it sounds like she won't be surprised if you hit on her, so that's the only thing you need. she made an excuse but said weekend is free I'm just wondering how do you know it's an excuse? For some reason the wink disappeared You are overanalyzing things in my opinion if you make a conscious note of such things.
/r/seduction15/03/16 08:52 PM
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You know the song Don't Stop Me Now by Queen? There is this line ''I'm a sex machine ready to reload.'' there that I always found interesting. It's not focused on the climax as you see. What I'm trying to say is that if you can just tell her that you need a few mins to go for round two.
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:07 PM
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She didn't look that hesitant to me bruv. If she was hesitant she'd say something like she has to be somewhere brohim.
/r/seduction13/03/16 11:23 PM
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If flakes, offer a second chance to reschedual since it might be legit. If straight up declines move on, either she is not interested or she does this to play games and that shit is not worth your time - unless you are into that of course. If she agrees on a date but acts all not interested, or even on her phone all the time, then I'd just straight up ask if she'd rather part because she is wasting both of our times.
/r/seduction13/03/16 11:07 PM
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On the other hand, the fact that he posts this means that he has a desire to change. If you don't enjoy some aspects of your personality, why not work on them? I agree, if you are superficial and you like that and not being an ass about it then that's perfectly fine.
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:04 PM
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Yeah I have tried that as an experiment once, but I found that it was more of a placebo effect for me personally. So as long as I believed that it helped it really did help but after thinking about it for a while I realized it was all in my head. However I'll keep it in mind thanks.
/r/seduction13/03/16 02:00 AM
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You are absolutely right, time-wise it's doable as you pointed out. It's very difficult mentally though but I guess I'll just have to go for it.
/r/seduction12/03/16 08:15 PM
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Yeah I'm not sure what I'm looking for exactly either, just hoped people in similar situations could share some tips. Thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction12/03/16 07:21 PM
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Do you mean to find someone to study together with? I don't see how this would help much except for spending some of my studying time in a more social setting.
/r/seduction12/03/16 06:59 PM
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I really like this style, it feels much more real than some of the stuff you see (not saying they're faking it but it wouldn't be me if I did that). Does this type of casual but confident approach work well in general?
/r/seduction12/03/16 06:58 PM
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Similar problem except with something alike to grad school in a very demanding subject where I have to put in LOTS of hours in my free time to preform well. I would love some good advice on this because right now I have unconsistent periods where: 1) I have a drive to improve myself socially, I go out, try to meet new people and so on. In these periods my academic performance suffers hard because I just can't find the energy to do it consistently. These periods are often very short 2) I focus ve…
/r/seduction12/03/16 06:09 PM
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Don't stare. Any tips on how much eye contact is enough? Because of a lazy eye I was always self conscious to hold eye contact and never learned to do it properly. Lately I've said fuck it and have been focusing on it but I feel that now I'm overdoing it, i.e. staring.
/r/seduction11/03/16 06:47 PM
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Anecdotal but this didn't prove true for me. Have a big passion for an activity that is usual not social done by very few females, though I really enjoy it. It never changed anything about my confidence outside of it though.
/r/seduction11/03/16 11:44 AM
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