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Are your friend and I married to the same woman
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/26 03:31 PM
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This sounds like my wife right here. I was active duty military for 24 years. When my kids were young I would help a lot. I admit, as they got older and more self-sufficient I was more focused on my job and career. But I still helped out where I could. But it was never enough or it was never good enough. When my 2 kids were in elementary school to high school her only real responsibilities were grocery shopping, paying bills (which were all set to auto pay), cleaning the house, and ensuring the …
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/26 03:27 PM
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At least she owns up to it an admits it. Sounds like she tried as well, although we don’t know how long or how much. I know this is an unpopular opinion but for me at least she didn’t continue to ring him along
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 10:11 PM
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Yeah your temper and record will definitely be used against you in divorce court and custody hearings. However, I would think a decent lawyer would be able to counter that your wife wad too busy to pick up her daughter so that you could go to work cause she was cheating on you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:44 PM
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Your temper and record will definitely be used against you in divorce court and custody hearings. However, I would think a decent lawyer would be able to counter that the mother was cheating on you and too busy to pick up her daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:40 PM
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This hits, so much so almost made me cry thinking of how I’ve felt in past instances and 22 years of marriage
/r/MensRights19/07/25 05:41 PM
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They’ve been talking about the epidemic of the divorce culture for a long time now, at least 10-15 years if not longer. Not to get religious or political, but this is one of the many reasons why religious people say the U.S. and Europe has lost its way. Because as you pointed out, until recently, couples found a way to make it work. Marriage was a bond that was meant to last forever. At one time in the religious-socio world divorce was frowned upon by everyone in the community and your family. T…
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 09:11 PM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 01:31 AM
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Yeah I’ve thought about an open marriage. But there’s a few reasons why I don’t think it would be a good idea. Everything I’ve read said you need great communication with an open marriage. We have none. Afraid she can use it against me if we ever get divorced. We’re in the south and my imprisonment they take marriage more seriously here. We’re in the south…most women in my area are married. And the ones that I don’t think the ones that aren’t are looking for fuck buddies. Also, most women my age…
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 01:29 AM
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Thanks!
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:42 PM
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Georgia
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:40 PM
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No child support needed. Both kids are on their own or about to be. Wife has hardly worked, partly due to health reasons but also due to her standards about what she wanted to do. According to the lawyer, all the judge cares about is if she worked or not
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:39 PM
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So I don’t have a ton of cash. We’ve been paying off a lot of debt and only have about $40K left. As far as reasons for divorce- about 5-6 yrs ago everything became contentious. Arguments about nothing. She became more and more passive aggressive and communicated less. Then about 2-3 yrs ago she said we should stop saying “I love yous”. Then about 2 yrs ago all intimacy, affection, sex, etc completely stopped. The bedroom was already pretty much already dead, but this solidified it. We have 2 ol…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:36 PM
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25K for 18 months is crazy too. Do y’all have kids or something? Why is it so much?
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:30 PM
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Over 100K in lawyer fees is insane. What ended up happening with the lawyer fees? Were you stuck with them?
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:29 PM
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I’m in Georgia. There are 4 judges in my county. I feel like the lawyer did a good job explaining worse case scenarios. I was in the military for 2 years prior to meeting my wife, so according to the lawyer, they would most likely account for 22 years of service and he estimated it about 45%. As much of a pain in the ass she’s been and the headaches she’s given me, I still don’t want to completely screw her over. I know it sounds strange but I do want this to be as amicable as possible- I just d…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:26 PM
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Thanks for the great ideas!
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 02:18 PM
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Thanks! This is my thought too that keeps me going.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 11:38 PM
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Yeah I have a few ideas I was thinking about, such as letting her keep the house, paying the mortgage for a year, and paying a little more in alimony for longer so that my pension isn’t touched
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 11:37 PM
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Yeah, but still. I am not trying to be stingy and I actually want things to be amicable. But 45% of my pension is insane. It would be different if I was getting extra due to being married- then I could see her being allocated some.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 11:17 PM
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What does the divorce decree say?
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/25 03:19 AM
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Sounds tough and sorry that you’re still feeling this 3-4 years later. I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but it does sound like you are better off. You even said yourself: dead bedroom, only focused on her and her family, controlling, cold, mean, and dismissive. I know exactly what you’re describing with what it was you were wanting and what it is that you’re missing from her memory. But it sounds to me that even if you were still together with her she wouldn’t give 2 shits about anything…
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 08:35 PM
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Do you have a lawyer yet?
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 09:51 PM
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