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7

Exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 11:06 PM
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He needs to go to therapy
/r/MensRights06/07/26 04:35 PM
8

If you want a more feminist-aligned view on men but that is still a charitable take, try "What about men?" by Caitlin Moran. I feel like a diagram in Bell Hooks. When I listen to Caitlin it feels she is inviting me to her livingroom for tea. She really treats men as humans not as creators of patriarchy. She still centers women but does not blame men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 03:12 PM
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Yeah. He said controversial stuff in the 90s that now is reflected in CDC data today: women are majority of SA victims but male victims are a non-neglijable quantity. Also he created around 300 orgs for women and 300 for men. He had 1000 apearances on tv talking about gender, most notably from a feminist perspective. He was 3 times elected in the board of National Organization for Women. He is willing to talk to anybody about boys and men, including JP.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 03:09 PM
15

Myth of male power or anything by Warren Farrell. He really understands men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 07:27 AM
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I see how it ignores men and help women but does it hurt men in any way?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 06:25 AM
1

Sounds nice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 11:16 PM
7

Fuuuuuck.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 03:23 PM
5

Wow /r/misandry is banned
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 07:24 PM
10

25% of police killings is black people -> racism. valid 95% of police killings are men -> not misandry since "misandry is just words" George Flyd was both a victim of misandry and of racism. For me misandry is when your teacher beats you and the other boys but not the girls. When you got jumped, have a scar on your face and parents did not go to the police. Erasure is misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 09:58 PM
1

This is the same "black on black crime" type of argument. It divides us rather than unite us. It downplays violence against men and boys. It does not solve the issue or move the conversation forward. The point is that the algorithm feeds men and women different stats. Because of this, they have different views on thecworld and end up hating each other. Same with boys and girls.
/r/MensRights17/05/26 11:32 AM
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Their internet is different. They don't see 70/80 % of violent street crime victims are men and boys. Plus men and boys never report.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 10:29 AM
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Honestly? Will be downvoted for this 😅 Tell an AI all of this. Not joking. LLMs are good at language and progressive spaces are a mine field "misandry" is a mine. AIs can tell you how to phrase somethings, share how you feel, without landg on these stupid mines. You must give it context.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/26 10:25 AM
1

Dairy is seen as a feminine food, but it requires the killing of male calves. Terrible. Meat is manly, dairy is feminine. Meat is not the only "gendered food".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/26 07:07 PM
2

The photo has women in it. It's a male only draft photo with WOMEN!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/26 07:02 PM
4

It's the progressive version of "black on black" crime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/26 05:05 AM
2

I watched Mistery videos to learn how to approach women. It was simpler to filter out the misoginistic stuff than find some leftist with useful advice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 05:45 PM
1

"not just the body" ..... until you are a short king or bald...
/r/MensRights03/10/25 06:31 PM
7

It's not a debate. It's a conversation. The comission got the experts and is asking them things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/25 07:58 AM
1

"But we called them toxic. Why are they still being mean to us?"
/r/MensRights28/03/25 07:08 AM
1

Yes! Calling boys toxic will certainly stop Tate. These people know teenagers very well.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 07:05 AM
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It's simple. Stop calling them "toxic" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2VUNYgaRygQ Feminists want men to be involved but ignore men's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/25 04:09 PM
2

Thank you. It seems very few reviews actually have a positive view on men. Most reviews are "toxic, toxic TOXIIIC".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/25 07:01 AM
1

pray the gay away 😢 pray the masculinity away
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/25 11:56 PM
3

This is called "the original sin". It's fine. You only need to pay penance in order to be one of "the good ones" 😀
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/25 11:55 AM
1

Welcome to the patriarchy and congrats on passing as a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 03:30 PM
1

One of the best books on men and boy's issues is written by an old school feminist: Caitlin Moran "what about men". We should all fight together for gender equality. I want more women in IT and politics. I also want more male teachers and psychiatrists. We are all fighting the same battle. We might disagree on some aspects. For example the term "toxic masculinity" is terrible. It brings shame to what we are, it is vague and it does not decrease gender issues in any way. It does not add to the co…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/24 09:07 PM
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Wow. Congrats. I can't believe this 🙂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 08:07 AM
9

This is just perfect "capitalism hurts capitalists, too" 😂🤪
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 09:30 AM
1

What speech?
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 04:40 PM
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Link?
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 04:34 PM
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Source?
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 04:31 PM
1

Source?
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 04:28 PM
7

Like this one? https://x.com/KamalaHarris/status/1843035822011896272
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:22 PM
6

Yes. Male disposability plus gamma bias.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 11:52 AM
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They care more about "masculinity" than they care about boys and men.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 09:57 AM
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I got bullied a lot as a kid. By bullied I mean punched in the face, not called names. No clue what they hated about me. One night 5 other kids attacked me, one "punched" me in the face with a rock and I fell down. I think that for a few seconds I was unconcious. I woke up being surrounded and kicked when I was down. No clue how I got up but when I did, they ran away scared. They ran away when they saw tons of blood on my face and clothes from the rock "punch". After the event my mom asked me if…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/24 02:56 PM
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Well. She clearly labels manosphere as right wing.
/r/MensRights17/10/24 09:09 PM
1

Holy fuck. I really thought it's too dumb to be real.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 07:31 PM
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Link?
/r/MensRights08/10/24 06:53 PM
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FGM is illegal. MGM is not.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 06:46 PM
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Nobody mentioned pension here? In many countries you need to work more years for pension, compared to women. Not sure how it is in the US.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 06:37 PM
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This. Get a male therapist. They get things without you needing to ellaborate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/24 01:07 PM
3

Yeah. We need more positive energy.
/r/MensRights28/09/24 06:54 AM
4

Congrats!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 05:18 PM
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Link moved. Here is the archive https://web.archive.org/web/20230919145122/https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/NISVS-StateReportBook.pdf
/r/MensRights21/09/24 08:46 PM
3

Yes. Sephora selling vibrators is teaching women to objectify men 🤪😅
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 08:26 PM
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make it "black men" so it's also racist 😅 It's like a hateful combo, you get more discrimination points 😀
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 07:52 PM
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The majority of jobs where people die for others are male dominated. After disasters men save the survivors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/24 11:58 PM
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Sacrificing yourself for strangers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/24 11:48 PM
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"by other men" is basically the same as "black on black crime" they are not different from conservatives.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 03:50 PM
2

This!
/r/MensRights30/08/24 04:23 PM
7

Ahhhh I see "your issues are legitimate but you are doing activism the wrong way".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 10:14 PM
5

Thatis the scary bit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 05:25 PM
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The left does not talk to boys and men. The right does. And then they are all "why are boys conservative? MASCULINITY!" It's frustrating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 04:19 AM
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You are a man and you are welcome here. Thank you for sharing 🤗 Pssst there are also cis women in this group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 09:56 PM
2

I started to listen to "what about men?" audio book and I think it's the most empathetic feminist take on men's issues. It's an exception, not the rule. Hope more femminists follow the lead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 03:56 PM
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Men will open up when society will be willing to listen and act.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/23 09:11 PM
4

Wow. This is soo true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 03:13 PM
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men start wars. Sure but men are also draft dodgers. Countless stories of men shooting in the sky not to kill the enemy in WWI, WWII and Vietnam.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/23 01:03 AM
2

Source? Maybe we should send email complaints. Do you know that a lot of men in WWI and WWII actually fired above the enemies not to kill them? Who did the wars? MEN!
/r/MensRights20/08/23 09:23 PM
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Loved that one
/r/MensRights11/08/23 04:16 PM
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wtf? these days everything about masculinity is "toxic". How should I know when people actually believe it and when it's satire? :))
/r/MensRights11/08/23 04:15 PM
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So nice to see women that understand us ❤️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/23 10:07 AM
2

Well being phisically strong is toxic masculinity. https://onlyfeminists.com/2021/03/19/dear-men-stop-working-out/ Need something to be lifted? I'll use my toxic masculine strength.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 12:54 PM
1

Totally agree. This place is a gem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 08:30 AM
1

It was her house at the start
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:34 AM
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Ken is a bum. He is homeless. They say this at some point "Where does Ken live? I don't know."
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:33 AM
1

Wow, that's harsh
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:32 AM
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That we are toxic
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:18 AM
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The fact that all women around me have no clue of all the issues men face. Men tend to know a lot of the issues women face. For me it was the empathy gap. Both the men and women around me told me as a kid that I should know how to fight. "What if somebody picks up on your girlfriend or wife? You need to protect her!" Nobody picked on my girlfriend, it was always me who they were punching in the face for no reason. I followed the advice and punched back. I guess that's "toxic masculinity now". Al…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 08:18 PM
6

Make sense.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 04:59 PM
8

They actually ask in the movie "where does he live?" "I don't know". The beach was my asumption.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 04:59 PM
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Is Ken homeless? I'm pretty sure he has no house and I think he sleeps on the beach.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 04:04 PM
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Or Rocky 1. It has it all: male disposability, empathy gap, presure to provide and more!
/r/MensRights30/07/23 04:01 PM
1

That's bad framing: mom vs dad. It should be about the child. A child has the right to bond with both parents equaly.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 02:55 PM
2

Yeah, you are right. But over 90% of police victims are black. Over 90% of police victims are men. Nobody said that George Floyd was a victim because he was a man, just because he was black. Somehow the gender aspect was erased. There are non-black men being assaulted by police also.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 09:29 PM
0

Anti-trans stuff is pretty messed up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/23 03:23 PM
1

What is the Duluth model? What is wrong with it? How would you fix it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/23 03:16 PM
0

No. It's the exact same dumb M&Ms game that needs to stop.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:08 PM
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I got punched in the face so many fuckin' times as a kid or adolescent. I had to lear to be violent. Adults did not fuckin' care. "You should learn to fight! What if somebody picks on your girlfriend or wife?" They never did! You know who they picked on? MEEE! I got knocked out for a few seconds with a rock in the face. I got stiches. I'm a priviledged white guy. Hell knows what happens to poor black kids without a father.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:06 PM
5

Yeah. Love the new logo :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 06:31 PM
1

Thank you for all the work you have been doing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 06:30 PM
1

I think a future wave of feminism will include men's issue. Feminism is a software that gets an update every few years. There is nothink I love more than seeing women acknowledge our pains and issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/23 09:13 PM
5

Get your foot in the door with "patriarchy hurts men too". I understand why that is wrong but it's good to show them more and more feminists recognise men's issues. I would avoid talking about DV and men by just stating facts. Try to get them questionong: "hey are there any stats on men?". Or maybe try to get them to acknowledge other issues besides DV like male genital mutilation, life expectancy or work related deaths. If you want to fight the empathy gap make them see boys and men as victims …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/23 08:50 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/23 10:45 AM
0

toxic gender roles, not toxic masculinity
/r/MensRights14/07/23 03:11 PM
1

It's actually the other way around. When friends share sexist stories they have then I listen. Changing the subject would be really dumb and unkind. When I talk about my issues people try to convince me that "it's because of toxic masculinity". Not sure how masculinity gets the blame here. What if we gender swap this? What is the woman equivalent of "toxic masculinity"? Pretty sure it's not "toxic femininity". I think a good equivalent is "sexist gender norms and expectations against women and g…
/r/MenSupportMen13/07/23 02:51 PM
2

But if she had more money then you could ask her for money?
/r/MensRights12/07/23 11:37 AM
2

Alimony is for her, not for the kids, right? If she started the divorce, would she pay you? What amount?
/r/MensRights12/07/23 10:36 AM
6

Super frustrating.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 03:40 PM
1

Why is this labeled as "Humor"?
/r/MensRights20/06/23 06:39 PM
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He is destroyng the image of MRAs since he is associated with this movement. He is not an MRA, he just hates women.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 03:35 PM
2

Hmm kbin plans to integrate with Mobilizon? Sounds interesting. https://joinfediverse.wiki/What_is_Kbin%3F
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/23 09:12 PM
2

Like this? https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/udsdmg/is_toxic_masculinity_the_modern_equivalent_of/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/23 03:09 PM
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Don't talk about men's issues. Learn about men's issues to understand the issues you are facing. Talk about your experience and issues. Nobody can say 'you did not experience that'. After you talk about your issue make sure to link it to the wider pattern. Another approach is to force them to see the man's perspective with short one liners. For example we were discussing bald men. I was supportive of hair transplant. The women were like "men should accept their changing bodies". I asked "what wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 09:00 PM
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We are happy you are back 🤗
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/23 05:41 PM
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I don't think this post negates sexism against women, it just highlights the sexism against men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/23 05:33 PM
6

Putin is the worst
/r/MensRights30/05/23 05:43 PM
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It's misandrist. She is not against trans women because they are women. She is against trans women because they WERE men.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 05:40 PM
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You make a good point. We should not fight for trans rights until we fixed all gay issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 03:31 PM
9

This is a good one. Manspreading vs gun violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 03:29 PM
2

By the same logic we should avoid black people. How come avoiding men is not sexist but avoiding black people is racist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/23 12:50 PM
2

I learned a lot from PUA. I met my wife in a club. If you remove the mysoginy some of their advice are pretty good. I was watching Mistery videos.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/23 04:51 AM
5

No circumcision. It's a form of unconsensual violence towards men and boys. It will make the child edgy and not trust adults for a period of time. It's just as bad as FGM
/r/MensRights17/05/23 08:17 AM
2

There are 2 JPs: the self help guru and the philosopher. The self help guru tells people obvious stuff like the above. He is ok. Some people need this. The philosopher tells us how the world should work. "Don't protest for social change! Stay in your lane!" The philosopher is the problematic one. The issue is that you can only get 2 for the price of one. I think we can find better role models. Matybe Waren Farel or Richard Reeves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/23 02:58 PM
1

Is eating 2g of protein per kilogram of body per day an ED? If you do that in 5 meals or more per day some of which are liquid meals like shakes and adding lots of calories with ice cream and other sweet food.
/r/MalePsychology24/04/23 06:52 AM
5

My teacher was hitting some kids every fuckin' day
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 07:23 AM
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AIs are not 'unbiased'. They just promoting the dominant narative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 07:58 PM
3

Thank you
/r/MensRights04/04/23 07:10 PM
2

Volunteer your time. Best way to learn while being useful. Find people who need your skill level and offer it for free. I volunteered to run a web site dedicated to a special interaction between citizens and public institutions. The program was free software and dedicated to a specific task. It was a web app written in a language that I was unfamiliar with. I got the domain for the site, found some NGO people who wanted to promote the site. They were non-technical. I started work on deploying th…
/r/MenSupportMen19/03/23 09:53 PM
3

If women graduate from college more than men it is natural to expect some of them to hook up with less educated men now. Same with income.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:09 AM
2

There is nothing masculine about either of them. Some women are violent (falling under toxic masculinity) and some women are leaders (falling under positive masculinity). Toxic masculinity was created just to attach negativity to a gender just like female histeria. We should see toxicity and positivity regardless of gender. If the individual or the family are happy then it's positive, otherwise it's toxic. If a man sees his role as a sole provider and is happy about it then it's positive. If the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/23 07:23 AM
1

"The Aliens from Keflon 4 told me to do it." That's not a valid reason either. It's probably a more severe mental health issue there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/23 07:18 AM
3

Read or listen to 'How minds change'. It might make things clear as to why evidence not only is ignored but some times can push people in the other way. It's the same with men's rights, atheism or veganism. It also gives some adive on hot to help people see things differently.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/23 07:07 AM
6

So you can have a kindergarten with only men to correct the imbalance?
/r/MensRights05/03/23 10:38 AM
5

wtf is man flu? :)
/r/MensRights03/03/23 06:05 PM
3

I got attacked by Roma people in the past on the street. There are aa lot of situations in which I feel unsafe on tge streets especially around Roma people. The issue is that if I feel unsafe around a Roma group it's unfair to them if I treat them differently than any other stranger. I try to find a balance between being beinng fair and friendly but not putting myself in danger. It's tricky but possible. I'm guessing you are in a similar situation.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 06:01 PM
1

Here is another one https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Gvj9ebIePIM
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/23 08:57 PM
1

Try to find a hobby where girls might be. Someting like dancing, volunteering or whatever you find interesting. Any activity that will help you interact with more people is better than apps.
/r/MenSupportMen26/02/23 10:22 PM
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The female gaze is all of Lizzo's 6 pack men https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XaCrQL_8eMY&t=80 Traditionally beautiful women in movies are healthy. Traditionally manly men in movies have fucked up endocryn systems due to steroid use.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 07:23 PM
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He is both. Read his 2018 book. You can fight for women's rights and men's rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/23 12:24 PM
2

The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It By this guy https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warren_Farrell He is a feminist. There is also an audiobook on audible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 08:00 PM
1

I posted this since I thought the difference between men and women's life expectancy was biological. It's not. If you remove all elements that you listed men and women live the same amount of time.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 08:14 PM
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passing a law that says they are not allowed to look women in the eye like human beings. What?!?!
/r/MensRights10/02/23 08:53 PM
1

Oh... it works for me also now. I thought it got removed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/23 10:37 AM
8

I think that the 27% is included in tge 81% so 19% are jerks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 07:00 PM
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do you stand for law and order? you're a fascist mic DROP!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 06:58 PM
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My aunt showed my her breasts out of nowere. I was visiting her house. She kept asking me if I had a girlfriend or if I were interested in girls. I was a teen and very much interested in girls. Girls that age were not interested in skinny, shy, geeky boys. She was like "don't you LIKE girls? don't you WANT to see boobs? Here are BOOBS!" And she lifted her tshirt, she had no bra. I was shocked at the moment. I ddon't think I told anybody besides my wife and this post here. I don't think my mom kn…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 06:08 PM
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