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2	As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender. That analogy isn't correct. People can learn to become better with money. You are saying there is no way someone who was bad with money at some point in their life can't be a millionaire. You do realize that there are so many ways to be become a millionaire, and it's not 100% dependent on money management skills. Sure, ONE of the ways to acquire wealth is to save, but it's not the only way. Companies make mistakes with money all the time! They invest in something bad, lose a shit ton of money. D…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 06:31 PM
3	As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender. Because I've learned that giving it quickly isn't good for what I want. It doesn't change the fact but if someone is upset by it, they are being unreasonable. There is a reason for my action and I gave it to you. If you're going to continue to hold it against me, then that's your problem, not mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 06:25 PM
5	As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender. But it still ignores the point that people can change. When I was younger, I was dumb, naive. I had a few guys show interest in me, I didn't want casual sex, I wanted a relationship! But I wasn't clear about that, I didn't have as many boundaries, I wanted to believe the best in people. You know what happened? I got used by these guys. I learned through my experience and now, I don't fall for such tricks. Here's a recent example, I had a date with a guy, he kept telling me how cute he thought I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 04:40 PM
1	As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender. What is it with this group being obsessed about n-counts? Seriously though, people can grow, they can learn, they can change. People make mistakes. Also this whole topic is just damned if we do, and damned if we don't. This sub talks about how they don't like it when women won't have sex with them/make them wait. Yet they demonize the same people for having sex. They talk about how sex is important in a relationship/to judge compatibility and yet lord forbid if someone has a high n count because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 04:25 PM
2	Is there a certain looks level a guy can have that will automatically beat out any High Status/High earning male? You make a very good point about the disconnect between what men think women want/do and what women actually want/do. This subreddit is one of the worst I've seen in that aspect. The men in this group completely ignore what women actually says about these topics. It's not really a debate, it's more "I believe this, and if you don't agree, you're WRONG". Women don't care about looks as much as men think we do. If anything, I would say it's equal for both genders because attractiveness is a qualit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 03:06 PM
2	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier I (29F) don't do casual sex, it's not for me. I am happy being single because although there's still a lot of progress to be made on the equality front, women today have their own independence, something they did not have before my time. I have a great job where I have an important role and am valued, I pay for my own stuff and often treat myself, and I enjoy my own company. I am much happier being single than I would be if I didn't have all these freedoms and needed a man (women couldn't vote o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 02:21 PM
2	It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional. There are a couple of issues with OP's argument: The reason friend approval is important for women is that we have a different kind of relationship with other women. Most guys I know do not have the same level of emotional connection with their male friends. I tend to get swept up when I like someone, and thus ignore their red flags. While I wouldn't stop dating someone because my friends disliked him, I would still take their feedback into account, especially if they point out things I may have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 02:23 PM
1	Q4W: On Male Friends, Part I - How do you make and keep male friends? --Do you want male friends? Do you specifically want some of your friends to be men? --If so, why? If not, why not? Idk why but I've always got along better with men, I think it's maybe that they are easier to communicate with. This goes for both gay or straight men. Women are far more complicated and difficult to gauge. I had a female friend that I thought we were getting really close, we hung out often and I recently moved to this city so I was desperate for friendship. She ghosted me, for wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/21 06:02 PM