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The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now. You're over thinking it. If you want to see her, go for it. However, why did you forget about her? Is she not that hot? Were you not really interest? or were you just genuinely too busy?
/r/askTRP28/04/17 08:51 PM
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I read here somewhere that women would rather have just a piece of an alpha over all of a beta. Like you said, keep doing what you're doing. It's not your place to decide what she can deal with. You don't have to answer her either.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:06 AM
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Yea, I had a similar situation along the lines of "I need more relationshipness from you and you're not giving it to me so I think we shouldn't see each other anymore". My reply. "Ok. It was fun babe." She text me 3 days later "I'm horny- you should come over".
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:51 AM
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I had a similar LTR once. She would threaten to leave when I said shit like you did (A&A) when talking about other chicks from my past. I would calmly walk to the door, open it, and look at her while shrugging my shoulders. She quickly calmed down. A few times she left, but always came back crying. She wanted me to chase her so she could feel "wanted". I'd venture to say that the same is true for you.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 12:21 AM
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Had a girl do it once in the theater. Sitting in the back row right under the projector. She just pretended to lay on my lap for a bit then put a jacket over her head.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 12:12 AM
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"So...?" ... and continue what you were doing. It may be a shit test. I've had girls tell me that to then go to the bathroom and come back naked and ready to go.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:36 AM
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I like this idea. I"ll arrange something two weeks beforehand. If we fuck and she acts cool about it afterwards, I'll go with her. If she doesn't, or if she acts possessive/clingy afterwards, then I will skip it. Good plan. Thanks
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:11 AM
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Nah, she blew me during a party last year, and she tried to come over one night more recently, but I had already made plans. I've got her in the friendzone, not the other way around. I'm 99% sure she wants to fuck. Just debating if its worth it and looking for other opinions.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:09 AM
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I may have been a bit too thorough in my description just to avoid off the wall answers. I get what you're saying though. Thoughts on not fucking her to keep her around as social proof? Or is that what you meant by saying fuck her no strings attached and then maintain the status quo.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 11:31 PM
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You're aiming for low quality women. Raise your standards.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 11:00 PM
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No problem with trying to kiss her so soon, but once she got awkward about it the first time I'd wait until the end of the date to do it again. All in all I'd say you're on the right path. Even if you never hear from this girl ever again you learned something. Like /u/PragmaticRedTruth said below, don't text her anymore unless she texts you first. To add to that, if she doesn't text you for a few days, then wait to reply and if she proposes something for you guys to do, i.e. "lets hang out frida…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 10:27 PM
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Overthinking it. Have fun at wakeboarding and keep the kino heavy. Do you have a bbq? Would be perfect opportunity to grill out at your place. Take care of the main course and put her ass to work on a side dish. "I'll make some chicken/steak/fish, you make a side dish, let's see what you got"
/r/askTRP11/09/16 09:46 PM
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Whatever you do you can't act butthurt about her stopping you. Just play it cool, stop for a bit, try again. Also, next time you hang out and try to escalate if she doesn't go further than the time before, then just play it cool, say goodbye like normal at the end of the night, and then don't call/text her for a few days (~4 days maybe more depending on prior frequency). She will text you first. When she attempts to hang out next, you're busy so don't even think about it. A few days after the da…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:51 PM
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Let this sink in: You will never score with any chicks during your SECOND year if you don't change now. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:44 PM
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Thats fair. No reason to not flirt with them and be playfully sexual. Mix it up a bit. Isolate one of them, talk for a bit, dance. Rinse repeat with one of the others. "Hey lets go check out what's back here" "Come with me, I want to show you something (grab her hand)". Three girls and 1 guys is a great ratio. You can isolate and the other two can still hang out together. This works two-fold. You can build attraction with the girl you isolate, and then make the other two jealous. They'll start t…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:41 PM
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Forget them if they don't embrace you. Join a new club, organization, whatever.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:36 PM
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I used to get sad when I was LEAVING uni. Why? because its a magical fucking place. Girls are hornier than you, and they live just a few steps away. You're depressed because you're self conscious about something. Figure out what it is and fix it. If its physical, start working at it NOW. If it's mental, fake it until you make it. Don't let these years pass you by. You'll regret it without a doubt. I missed the majority of one semester of fun freshman year because I was acting like a little bitch…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:34 PM
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When I was younger I thought my parents would care. One night I had a girl sneak in around 5am and we fell asleep. My bedroom was right next to the kitchen and when we woke up everyone was having breakfast. I wasn't about to throw the bitch out the window (even though I thought about it), so we got dressed and went outside. Said hi to the fam, she left, no big deal. You're a fuckin grown ass man. I would advise you to get them the fuck out of your house before the family wakes up though. One- yo…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:29 PM
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I think it's a good idea but see if you can get a few lessons in without her first so you don't look like a total buffoon. That is of course if you're as bad as you're making it seem. If you have at least a little bit of rhythm just go with the flow you'll be fine. Don't tell her about the earlier lessons though if you do that.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:25 PM
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Why didn't you want to fuck any of them? Maybe they were trying to get dick that night and you made it obvious you weren't interested? Always escalate, make it sexual, make it fun, even if you decide you for some reason predetermine you don't want to fuck them. Have fun with them. Not sure exactly where you went wrong. What's your SMV like? Normally hanging with 3 hot girls you can get in anywhere if your SMV is high enough. Look in the mirror and be honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:22 PM
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Agree on everything related to escalating. Seriously that was like a fuckin lollipop she handed you... "I bet the view looks better from up there (shit eating grin)" Disagree about making firm plans for next time. Seems too clingy/desperate. I like to make them wonder if they'll ever see me again.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:47 PM
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One: Don't ask her if she will meet you. Tell her. Two: As others have said, just have fun man. If you are scared she will smell like shit on her upper lip! Three: Don't drink too much! Four: If it's a "latin" style dancing place, its not uncommon for random guys to ask random girls to dance. DO NOT get butt hurt about it. Go dance with another girl.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:00 PM
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To be more polarizing, combined with what many others have said about DGAF attitude. Guy I used to know would say the most ridiculous shit and get people so angry at him but the way he just laughed it all off and combined it with being super playful and using push/pull it was like watching art in motion.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:45 PM
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Edit: Any of my plates have always just felt like "a girl that I know that I get along with who I also fuck"... They know they're not my gf, but they don't really know what it is we are. We're just having fun. Always be fun. Some guys like to be very forward and say "I'm not interested in anything serious", I prefer to keep things ambiguous as long as possible. Depends what you like to do. I'll do a coffee date first, meet for a drink next time, invite her to my place after that. Maybe come over…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:09 PM
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You're not getting the point. Let her say what she has to say and then change the subject if its bothering you. Who cares what she thinks?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:38 AM
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If she's a plate, that means you've already fucked her at least 3+ times. I may have her bring over some food and I'll have wine at my place ("I've got a great bottle of cabernet. You should come and enjoy this with me on my deck. Bring food.") Sometimes she'll just come over to fuck ("You should come by tonight after work"). Its not that complicated, really. Do you want to do more with her? Then do it. Just don't go overboard taking her out to dinner and shit like that. Unless that's what you l…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:26 AM
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How would you approach a conversation with her if she were to exclaim that all women are special snowflakes who should be treated like princesses? Treat this the same way. Like she's a child making up a magical story about dragons and fairies.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:18 AM
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In regards to your 2nd question- If you fuck them well you won't have any complaints. The other thing that has helped me is to always be considerate and maintain some BP characteristics AFTER sex. I will pull her hair, slap her ass til she's bruised, choke her, and then cum all over her face, but then I'll get her a wet rag to wipe off the cum, a glass of water, and pick her clothes off the floor for her.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:09 AM
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You get through this by fucking other women. Lots of them. It's that simple. Fuck 10 women and you won't even remember her name anymore.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:05 AM
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You have to ask yourself what your goal is? Are they your superiors? Can they help you advance your career? If so, being charming and overall someone they are attracted to can help. I'd recommend casual gaming but always maintain plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:02 AM
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If she's going to fuck someone, she's going to do it there or somewhere else where you'll have no idea. No sense in worrying about it. You have to live your life so that she wouldn't want to risk losing you because you're so valuable, and be ready to move on if she does.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:59 AM
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Not looking for a pat on the back, pal. Just looking for ideas on how to approach this. Soft next is what feels natural but those tits are probably worth the hassle haha
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:53 AM
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Gotcha. I see what you're saying. I think I'll give it another go this weekend and see how things shake out. If she's not receptive then screw it. Can't say that I didn't enjoy the ONS!
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:50 AM
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That's Mr. Badass to you, pal
/r/askTRP10/08/16 07:59 PM
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Do you have to pay to use Audible? I have some of those books on ebook format I downloaded from torrent, can you just load them in audible?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:44 PM
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There are a lot of posts on this in the main TRP sub. Do some searching and you'll find them pretty easily.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:07 PM
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I've been able to successfully juggle relations with two girls in the same "group" often times interacting with both of them at the same event/same time/same convo even. You have to be a smooth MF to make it work without any hiccups but you have to realize that eventually it will all come crashing down one way or another. If you're lucky, one plate will just stop spinning and you can keep the other one going. The key to all of this is you have to frame your relationship with them from the very v…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:26 PM
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If the only thing you guys had "wrong" was she wanted to get married/settle down, then you should just let her go and be happy. If it was that combined with other stuff, then figure out what YOU did to let those other things happen and learn from it. Remember, she was never yours, it was just your turn. As others have mentioned, get rid of the oneitis by finding 3-4 more girls to replace her.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:34 PM
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I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying. She didn't say she wants to fuck this new dude. She didnt even refer to him at all. Even if she did, I don't really care. I just don't want her to stop fucking me haha.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:45 PM
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That's the thing, she never said she wants to date anyone else. She once joked about dating the dork and I said something like "You should, I can probably set you up with him just let me know". She knows I don't care. She's a good lay though, and I'd like to keep her in the bullpen. I'm usually so IDGAF that sometimes on these 50/50 situations I'm pushing them to the side where they fuck off. If I can give 1% effort to keep her as a lay then yea that makes perfect sense. I'm not going to give 90…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:36 PM
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As others have mentioned, starting from behind usually works best. No issues with stank breath either. I start with rubbing the outer thigh, work my way up to breasts, then back down to the vag. Biting softly on the neck below her ear and pulling on her hair at same time with your "bottom" arm also helps. Once she's ready to go, slam it in. Bonus points for seamless transition to reverse cowgirl.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 06:49 PM
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... with your dick
/r/askTRP08/06/16 06:03 PM
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This! It's exactly how I feel every time I sleep with her. Like maybe today is the day the switch will flip and no more food/BJs haha. I had 2 other plates but those are no longer spinning unfortunately. Working on recruiting a few more but have been traveling for work a lot the last two months. Had a few ONS but nothing local.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:52 PM
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There are some red flags related to her family that automatically disqualify her from LTR status my book.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:47 PM
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I don't have a problem using condoms. Last LTR we didn't use them but she was on pill and I think she wanted children less than I did (at least at the time). What did you mean by ways to make it more enjoyable?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:45 PM
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Eventually, yes.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:44 PM
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If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it's a bitch about to hit the wall. Agreed. Def keeping it casual, but I probably haven't been 100% honest about my intentions. Marriage/kids convo hasn't come up, just the one "what are we" chat that i mentioned.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:11 PM
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I think she felt a little insecure about my past. We ran into a previous ex of mine who is a smokeshow (but dumb as rocks unfortunately) one day while we were out at dinner. I said a short hello in passing, but no convo/introduction. My girl squeezed my hand so tight as we walked by (she knew who she was), and then gave me a fucking 10/10 BJ in the car on the way home. Anyways, like I said in my post, I've been pretty active in dating since our breakup, but I just don't give a shit really.Total …
/r/askTRP03/04/16 04:04 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I see what you're saying, and that's the reason why I told myself I would not get back together with her unless it was her who made the first approach at it. I know that my life would be 100% fine even if I never talked to her again, and the extra free time has been amazing for my personal development. Is there anything specific you'd recommend outside of the normal TRP stuff that would be absolutely essential to make it work? I think I would have to plate her first and ess…
/r/askTRP03/04/16 03:57 PM
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Stop being lazy. Go get more/better girls. You're obviously not happy with this scooter. No need to cut her off completely but limit your time with her because if you're fucking her every day or every so often then you will be satisfied just enough to not want to improve your situation.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 07:56 AM
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Was she really a plate or is she the only girl you're seeing? Not trying to be a dick, but it sounds like you're just with her for convenience and don't really want to be in a LTR. Totally fine, but be honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 06:51 AM
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Fair point. Thank you for the reminder. I've tried to be very logical about this, which is part of the reason I decided to post here. Unfortunately my closest friends, while very loyal and fun to hang out with, are all pussy whooped betas so they aren't much use in this area.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 05:26 AM
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Is she a fucking wildebeest? Why are you afraid of making anything "public" if she's worthy of a LTR? More info might help with strategy here.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 05:08 AM
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/r/askTRP03/04/16 04:54 AM
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