Back in grade school I "dated" this girl for about a year. We were 12, we held hands, made out, etc. Whatever. I dumped her because she was "hanging out" with other boys. Even though I was the one who dumped her, I was still obsessed with her. Anyways- she grew up to be a huge slut in high school. I was your typical good looking, nerdy "nice" kid. We reconnected a few years ago and have gone out partying a few times recently. She's prob a 7.5/10 in face and body. We've flirted hard but I've got a few plates spinning so I've never wanted to make any moves on her even though some heavy kino while dancing (ass, tits, etc.). A couple nights I went out with her and left with another girl. Easiest way to describe it is I've basically friend-zoned her. I still think about how much of a slut she was in high school which is a huge turn off.

Anyways, she invited me to be her "date" to some big event that involves an overnight stay. Is that a stupid move? Is this just going to force the issue between us? I envision this going two ways. A) I fuck her and its a ONS and everything is cool? B.) I fuck her and she becomes a plate for a while C) not fuck her and look like a gay.

My main reason for asking is I'm trying to build up my circle of females that I can invite to events/parties etc..