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| 3 | Question for the older gentlemen of TRP: what do you do when ready to knock your LTR up?Yes, exactly. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | 5 years post pill; the ups and downsJust curious, what is it I am selling or lying about? Is it because I spent money on college and books and a house that makes me a part of consumer culture? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 04:32 PM |
| 2 | 5 years post pill; the ups and downsThere’s your problem, switch to contracts. What you lack in retirement as a contractor, you’ll make back in excess income. After some time, you’ll pull away from that problem because your pay will grow exponentially and you can dump into a 401k instead and still have money left after match what would be the government retirement. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | 5 years post pill; the ups and downsDo those things first thing when you wake up, and do them when other people are asleep if you don’t live alone. Get up early enough that you have time to do what you need to before the day starts. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | 5 years post pill; the ups and downsWas this part of your ploy to get an answer out of me lol? Come on, a simple PM to me directly had a better shot of getting you an answer. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | 5 years post pill; the ups and downsYeah, coming to reddit to boost my ego is what I care about lol. The answer isn’t vague at all. The career doesn’t matter, who you are and what you do does. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | 5 years post pill; the ups and downsMy pleasure. Now reevaluate your goals and why you’re doing what you’re doing and maybe make changes. Life needs to be painful for you to get stronger. But, you also have to want to get stronger for a reason. Make sure you know why you’re doing what you’re doing and where you will be when you reach it. Also know the repercussions of abusing yourself, and how little your goal will be worth to you when you get there if you’re not healthy and mentally grounded. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | 5 years post pill; the ups and downsDid you read what I wrote and what I did? You’ll see that 90% of it all was a product of strategy and learning power. If you read a few hundred books and get your ass of reddit, you’ll see what I mean. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)Most importantly, you changed the way you see the world around you. Without that, it wouldn't be possible. Happy for you, bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Friends girlfriend either might secretly like me but now hates me? What to do?The point is, don't worry so much. You are acting like a hero, like you're in control of this situation. Let the cards fall as they may. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Friends girlfriend either might secretly like me but now hates me? What to do?The amount of attention you're paying this is the actual problem. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Honor: The Forgotten VirtueIf teachings are taken from stoicism and applied to life, it can be a great way to live. However, I don’t like comparing it to honor. Today, that is useless way to look at stoicism. TRP is about giving eyes to those that are blind. Stoicism is a great tool to have in your toolbox, but reaching for honor is beneath the idea here. That is just another manipulation strategy that expects people to reach for a standard in a game where no standards need exist. I like applying stoicism to my life and t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | LTR suddenly changed way of speakingWhy? Doesn’t matter. How? Does. Limit contact for a while. You’re getting stale. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 12:55 PM |
| – | Have you been in a rut like this? How do you get out?He needs some Nietzsche (among other philosophy) and to start lifting weights and using mindfulness meditation. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/17 10:05 PM |
| – | How to End ItYou don't "need" to do anything, but what you want to do. Ending it in person is always better because it gives closure, she won't be confused or dropping by your house. 3 years is a long time. I would end it in person because I would want her to know I was serious, and face to face brings it life. Additionally, I would hand her any stuff I know she would hit me up about, and tell her to keep/throw out my shit and that I wouldn't be needing it. I would then block her on all social media and my p… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/17 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Getting over that heartache when ending it with someone?All that matters is consistency, nothing more. Do a little everyday and keep your mind centered always; then you'll win. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Apathy in male-female relationshipsIf you're not fucking them, then what you're doing isn't working. Period. The proof is in the pudding. You should show interest just don't be needy and on their shit. Care and interest are not synonymous. Women typically don't give a fuck how much a "man" cares about them. It's more or less if he is interested and makes himself available at least a reasonable amount of time. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 04:27 AM |
| – | Getting over that heartache when ending it with someone?Go open some new girls, meditate, lift, HIIT, be with friends and learn. You have a lot to learn, and much to harden from. You're young, man. Just relax. Focus on lifting, it boosts your test naturally and will decrease your emotional reaction. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 04:23 AM |
| – | How do you guys find out about past lovers and why do you care?You never ask, this makes it seem like you're jealous or worried. You can tell by the woman, what she does. After you've slept with tons, it's obvious who has a high partner count and who doesn't. It matters because women don't respond to multiple partners the same way men do. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 12:01 AM |
| 0 | How to drop this plate?Just do it, don't think of her side, just think of yours. Life is short as fuck, live and do for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Machiavellian advice neededIdeally, you would have came here before you walked the plank and sunk yourself. This is called losing frame and this post should be made into a sidebar post. However, mitigating damage control is understandable. So I will offer you some advice. However, do realize no one knows what to do better than you. 90% of the work of a Machiavellian is based upon creating bias and using heuristics to delineate to yourself how someone will react to something. You say, "I feel like he is the type to be push… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/17 02:25 AM |
| – | How do some betas get with HB9-10We all have a sexually strategy... But, do you feel like putting the time and money for a girl who will leave you once they get you to act beta (women inherently try to break men down, and move up the ladder as far as possible)? Those guys you see signed up for that and may or may not have the mental frame for it. I know this sub hates when I say this, but truthfully, anyone who says genetics and such don't play into whether or not you're a beta is wrong. You can slightly pull out of this catago… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 11:40 PM |
| – | How does one successfully slide into a girl's DM's?Step 1: Don't | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 11:35 PM |
| 3 | What is the "Daddy Vibe" the side bar talks about?(1) She can be sexually attracted to you, and not respect you. Respect in and of itself is a form of attraction. (2) Because she is sexually attracted to you. Would you potentially fuck a girl that was into something you would consider "uncouth," just because she was hot enough? Doesn't mean you want to keep her around, it just means she is sexually attractive and good for the short term. (3) It can, but at the end of the day, if a woman is relentlessly shit testing you, it means you're doing so… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 01:01 AM |
| – | What is the "Daddy Vibe" the side bar talks about?To answer your question in simplest form; Attraction = Respect If you don't have respect, you don't have lasting attraction. Yes, you may fuck her if she doesn't respect you, but she will shit test you until no end and refer to you as a fuck boy. To add, being called a fuck boy is just another way women manipulate men into commitment. Being labeled a fuck boy is just the same as any other label; it's a way to categorize you so that you can be manipulated into acting a certain way. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 12:39 AM |
| – | Looking for a few highly motivated, and more importantly, self-disciplined individuals to join an accountability group.Cool. Send me a PM with a few details about yourself, habits or goals you want to change or create, age (range). Be as generic as you prefer. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 04:12 AM |
| – | Extreme runner's high?I have, many times. Similar feeling. Biggest thing is not to panic and tell yourself probably at worst, you'd pass out. However, I have had a similar feeling many times, and I have never passed out. The anxiety intensified it ten fold... I also wonder if the fact that you were on an elliptical, with your legs in a more rigid/locked position, preventing blood from getting back easily, caused it to amplify. With way, let the feeling happen when it does, and don't freak, your anxiety will ruin thin… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Ask me questions about TRT (Testosterone Replacement Therapy)I agree with you. Since when does MD/DO equal knowledge of the human body in it's entirety? I'd prefer someone who is knowledgeable in chemistry, biology, and has taken TRT themselves rather than some generalized physician who looks in a persons ears all day. It does, however, take someone who is knowledgeable in interpreting blood tests... blood doesn't lie. But, interpreting the tests is not difficult. Knowing the blood work, means knowing whether you can take it without causing damage to your… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Happiness + Trivium = Amused MasteryI don't like how he is throwing morals into this. In essence, the mods are allowing him to have an affect on TRP's populace and breaking rule zero of no moralizing. Providing information is one thing. Saying why it's good and bad to do something needs to come with in depth reasoning that does not break the amoral stance that is supposedly taken here. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 04:02 AM |
| 16 | How much Dan Bilzerian understands.Yeah, I believe this like I believe he won his millions "playing poker." Dude is painting an image with everything he says because he doesn't want the public to think he is a trust fund baby. He'd be better off if he owned that fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 04:46 AM |
| – | Jobs that caused you to develop yourself most?Sales. If you can talk to people, you are already ahead of 30% of the population. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 02:42 AM |
| – | Have a step son that is BP to the fullest.You are talking at him. Stop. Take the kid out back and throw a football with him. You want him to earn your respect? Well, that ain't going to happen unless you befriend him to an extent. Otherwise, he will never respect or admire you thus leaving everything you say deflecting off him. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 02:40 AM |
| – | March 03 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadDid not went to the gym this week. I understand for many, it is difficult to juggle the gym whilst also facing a week like /u/RACCBL has had. It was busy, filled with pain, triumph, success, and sadness. You had things that took priority over others, as well as a large project finally coming to fruition. HOWEVER, do realize missing the gym is only hurting you. I do not mean so much in a physical sense, with women, even though this is also true. That part of my point is negligible. What I mean is… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 01:20 AM |
| – | askTRP Megathread March 01Doubt it. Men don't release oxytocin in the amounts that women do for starters. We don't pair bond to that level of intensity (other than onesitis, but I got that after having 50 partners, so I don't think it's the same correlation). | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 10:11 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 01Search bar on askTRP, this has been asked more times than you'd ever imagine. Also, look at the sidebar on askTRP, there is a post on approaching. You should do it literally everywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 01Just because you don't like taking it in your ass, it doesn't mean chicks also don't. Start approaching in those very places and overcome the awkwardness and anxiety. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 10:07 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 01Instead of constantly reminding yourself of AWALT, be working to prove to yourself AWALT, and do so through abundance. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 10:04 PM |
| 10 | If You're Struggling With Women its for 1 Reason and 1 Reason Only. Here's How to Fix ThatSeneca would agree; many of his philosophical pursuits combined together with the purpose of, and to result in, an end goal of virtue and rooted moral code. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.I used to do a form of his job. I just upgraded now. I wasn't like that when I was there. Feel free to hate. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.This is all that I wanted to communicate, and some how, still lost in translation. Anyone who denies this obviously hasn't been it. People who are not their best physical self, who are not meditating and working on their mental makeup, don't know that it is the key to many things. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 02:05 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.I think the upvotes for his comment also paint a sweet picture of some of TRP's population. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.You must not be able to read well. I did in my post: read, "The Charisma Myth" and take care of your physical and mental self. The rest of the dots will begin to connect if you do. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 02:02 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.One of the only comments I agree with from my post. At the end of the day, if he wants to fix it, it's hard work for him. Tried this a trillion and one times, and I don't offer help to others unless they are asking for it. It never worked out well and people are usually weirded out more than anything by someone saying, "hey you're socially awkward, and should probably fix that." Because at the end of the day, that is what you're saying. I don't have the kind of time to give him the help he needs… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 02:00 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.Username checks out. Probably friends with him. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 01:50 AM |
| -10 | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.I could see how my story may make others perceive that... but, his entitlement made that a null hypothesis for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 09:58 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.You're missing the point. Idgaf why he's like that, I care about the affects his behaviors have. Knuckle up, life sucks for lots of us unless we make it not suck. "We are not really in control of emotions... we are, however, in control of our actions and how we present ourselves." -my summed up version of what every truly Stoic person would say. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.Right? Then I'll start walking up to people at the gym and showing them how terrible their form is while their mid deadlift. If I couldn't get this guy to exchange words with me without it seeming like I asked him to build a house, how do you propose I help him with his social skills? Also, to add, most of my words would of been on wasted breathe considering the last thing he is going to do is take me up on my offer of reading a book that explains the very problem with him. People have to find t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:19 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.Nah, this dude wasn't high. He was just a loser who didn't mind being one. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:16 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.I mean to draw awareness to the present. It didn't feel as though this guy was even remotely there. Physically, yes, but not involved mentally in the conversation. Not presently attentive. Not showing the least bit of care for conversation, and stuck in his own little world inside of his head. Probably planning which video game he was going to play later, idk. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:15 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.Yep, you'll never see the stale crackers guy wining and dining clients, closing a 6 figure or million dollar deal over dinner... just in his house jerking off or whatever stale cracker people do. On the flip side, you also won't see stale cracker guy surrounded by quality people, arguably a much more important factor. Because anyone worth dog shit can do better than to have that guy who brings clouds around them. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 01:54 AM |
| – | Have you ever noticed how terrible conversations go with those who lack charisma? Yeah, don't be that guy.Personality will carry you through life very far. Without the pill, I would have had my natural self, and probably been alright. However, when you come to learn the importance of personality, of charisma, and you hone in on the skills, you can really make something of yourself you wouldn't have otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 01:49 AM |
| – | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27So do you suspect there to be, or *do you want there to be? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27I couldn't agree more with what you're saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 12:12 PM |
| – | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27there are successful relationships that defy red pill'd framework There is an issue with this... actually, this issue itself puts a giant hole in your thinking because it hinges on all other things, whether or not those things can be proven. One thing: prove it. Prove to me there are successful relationships that defy TRP's logic. The problem is, you cannot. You cannot because you do not know what happens behind closed doors. You do not know what has yet to come of these situations. You do not k… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 03:51 AM |
| – | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27Having a high score on the NPD scale... my ego was destroyed for the better part of a year after finding the pill. It had it's good and bad. It definitely caused me to want to use drugs and alcohol to numb myself, and I had an overall loss of hope for life itself at points due to the sheer amount of things that were throw at me... and that wasn't something I had ever done or had happen to me before. But, after that hit to my ego... I could give a fuck what anyone has to say and a lot of positive… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 03:34 AM |
| – | [Ultimate SHREDDING Guide]Once again, looks are deceiving my friend. His muscle appeared more dense and larger... but it was really just that he removed the fat covering it, not that the muscle itself changed underneath. If anything, most people lose muscle whilst cutting body fat. Unless you really know what you're doing, stretch time correctly, and/or are supplementing with drugs, it's really hard not to lose muscle/strength whilst losing body fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 03:29 AM |
| – | [Ultimate SHREDDING Guide]Regardless of what level you are at, the compound movements + schedule is going to make you shredded.. whilst building muscle (I gained muscle whilst in deficit - pretty sure its because of my consistent compound lifts and pushing limits - only logical explanation for gains on a cut) You cannot gain muscle while eating at a caloric deficiency. You may have thought you did, but you did not. Just imagine putting zero dollars into the bank, and getting 1 dollar out. You can't make muscle without ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 07:16 AM |
| – | Do I next or nahIf you have to ask... | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 05:25 AM |
| – | Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat Manhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TwXoDVEJtIY /u/rathyAro | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 05:15 AM |
| 4 | Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat ManHollywood has a history of sexualy exploiting women and children. https://youtu.be/1eePO_7pcw8 | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 01:54 AM |
| 3 | At the end of the day, when you take "social inventory" and you realize you are pretty much completely alone how do still push for improvement?Homie, hold out. That feeling will fade. You still have some dots to connect, but you need to do it on your own, in your own time... nothing is going to click that anyone says right now, just give it time... and remember, being alone is a healthy part of life. The more you begin to enjoy it, the less needy you will be, and the more people will flock. But, don't focus on that too much, just try to become okay with it for now, and eventually it clicks. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 05:42 AM |
| 7 | The Indefinite Quantity206 upvotes in 6 hours. That's why I think feeding people's ego does so much better than shaming whilst teaching. Well written post. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 05:21 PM |
| – | How do I make moneyI could give you a couple of very specific pointers. You could mull them over, close out of your browser, and think for another minute... then forget what I said, or apply some of it. But, I don't think that's what you need. I think you're thinking of your position incorrectly. You're thinking far too convoluted and far too ahead for your situation. Start small. You want to make something of yourself, yeah? Well, start small. You've got to put one foot in front of the other if you want to make i… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Make connections with every male you see starting yesterdayHey... if you're a little more aware of the possibilties, or if I have the reality check of not always knowing the answer and being right, well one of us has gained. So yeah, good chat either way. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Make connections with every male you see starting yesterdayLol I don't know what the other post said... but, always remember, the more social you are, the more likely your SMV is traveling in a positive direction, and the easier your life will be. As in, yes talk to everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 01:01 AM |
| – | Make connections with every male you see starting yesterdayI do know that everyone is out for themselves, but saying, "everyone must prove themselves to me" is a defensive posture in nature. Call it whatever stage you'd like, so long as you acknowledge it's a stage. I know I have been there and probably replied exactly the same way you just did when someone told me what I just told you. That's why I stick around, and other vets stick around, because we been through that shit and this wouldn't be much of "community" if that weren't the case and there wer… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Fellow RPers that have beaten addiction- whats your story/advice?Yeah, it's a big step. Congrats on making it this far, now for the real hurdle. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 06:56 PM |
| – | Make connections with every male you see starting yesterdayTL;DR: Until people prove themselves to you, as an individual worthy of your time/money/energy in some way/shape/form... they can go fuck themselves. You're in the anger stage, this is a stage that you will grow through soon. I said this same exact thing about a year and a half ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 01:55 PM |
| – | Wife left me for another man, New woman I want to plate starting out as sympathetic ear.I think seeing the issue is a big step. I think you should practice self discipline and put the idea into action. Just because it may "get in your way" doesn't mean it has to. You already know what will happen if it stops you, and you can choose if you'll let it affect you. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 01:48 PM |
| – | Wife left me for another man, New woman I want to plate starting out as sympathetic ear.To plate and have sex? What's wrong with that. See once a week and have sex. Yes, you should. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 09:42 AM |
| – | Wife left me for another man, New woman I want to plate starting out as sympathetic ear.My thoughts are... you are thinking small. You're boarding onesitis territory. Start thinking bigger scale. Go open girls. You don't feel like you're ready? Good, now's the time then. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 05:58 AM |
| – | Fellow RPers that have beaten addiction- whats your story/advice?So you're on the right track. It's best to look at this shit one day at a time. I have tons of friends who have been hooked on oxy's going back to when you could microwave the coating off in like 2007... they always went back to the shit. Even hooked till this day. But they never wanted to change. I too know what addiction is like but got out quick enough. The thing is, take it one day at a time. The other big thing is, find a new addiction. The gym. A big thing with my boys is, they would alway… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Follow up to a previous post about LTRExactly how you have. Also, block her on social media and on your phone so she can't text or call. Next time, you're calling the police and getting a no-contact if she comes. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:42 AM |
| 30 | A massive thank you!A sure sign someone has begun to internalize something is when they back peddle from asking a question they already know the answer to. Good work. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 12:35 AM |
| – | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "The beta orbiters are so sacrificial. Yet, they stand there confused, waiting... "okay, I validated you, now can I get some pussy?" And they're so confused they might even drop the line, "I didn't want to take advantage of her." Or some type of bullshit to make themselves feel even more heroic. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/17 12:25 AM |
| 45 | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "I remember reading /u/RedPillSchool started part of this sub reddit (or the whole thing, idk) because he had one simple question: "why are women so narcissistic?" And he Googled it and didn't really find an answer. The point you're making right now is actually the grounds for why this sub reddit was created. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 10:56 PM |
| – | "Like maybe I could just marry a rich dude and not have to go to grad school"Hello kind friend. What you're experiencing is called "onesitis." It is a physiological disease which leads you to believe a certain member of the opposite sex was made for you. She is perfect in every way. Some of the symptoms of onesies are; constant ruminating thoughts of her, stalking her social media or in real life, waves of emotions coming over you... The main cause of oneisits is putting the pussy on a pedestal. You did it, you put this pussy all the way up on this pedestal. So, the firs… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 08:10 PM |
| – | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "I think it has to do with why social proof works so well on women. They bounce almost every decision they make off of society and its role in whatever she is trying to do. She just doesn't understand men and women are completely different. Whereas women will base whether or not they sleep with a guy on his social proof... men, on the other hand, do not give two fucks. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 06:44 PM |
| – | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "That is it, the limitless options act a safety net to catch her fragile ego. It is not as if she ever needs to act on the validation she receives, rather these validators control the market she lives in. Remove the beta validators, and the market shall tank. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 06:04 PM |
| 3 | We sometimes forget how important abundance actually is for our mental state... It's so simple, I can't believe I am making a post about it.I think for someone in your situation, having women flirt with you and throw themselves at you, is abundance enough. Knowing that you can close that chick, knowing in the back of your mind you could go out that night you and your LTR break it off, and bring someone home equal to or better than her, is abundance enough. If you don't actually believe that to be the case (you're not confident), than you will lack that abundance mindset and you will eventually develop onesitis. Because, onesitis is … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 12:51 PM |
| – | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORI am just another brand promoter, but my brand is designed specifically to help people who can see through the marketing spiel. So a selling point in itself? Fuck those weak minds who don't put rational thought to online debate. I like to separate the emotionally weak men from the confident and constitutionally strong ones. Emotionally weak because they don't want to talk in circles with a 40 something year old man on the internets? Basically, I troll losers to keep them losers and to find the w… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 09:25 AM |
| 1 | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORThey can't google you to prove you're real, and only armchair fake alphas hide behind anonymity. Sweet edit to this two days later, faggot. Glad you're calling out other anonymous TRPer's here. Archwinger, Illimitableman, the list goes on... men who have contributed far greater amounts than you have. You're washed up, homie. Fucking hater to the maximum. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 08:43 AM |
| 15 | We sometimes forget how important abundance actually is for our mental state... It's so simple, I can't believe I am making a post about it.A light switch doesn't turn on one day with you standing there saying, "It's me, I made it." It is a process. Everyone goes through it differently. But, regardless, it is a process... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Starting lifting now or wait?I would do a full body routine... three of four days of lifting. Each day you'll have a break in between. M-lift, T-off day, W-lift, TH-off day, F-lift, SAT-off day, Sunday- Cardio. When you adjust to the lifting, you can throw in HIIT in between each of the days. For now, I would stick to explosive lifting sessions, and one day of cardio a week. Google "Full Body Routine." | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Fucking smileFind something that makes you truly happy, and think of that before and during when you become involved in conversation. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 04:15 AM |
| – | Starting lifting now or wait?Start lifting now. What exercise that you're doing has a lot less to do with what will cause you to burn fat. That is all diet. You should drop cardio, and lift, and reduce calories instead. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 04:12 AM |
| – | Disgusted with womenHere | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 04:11 AM |
| – | Dangerous blue pill lies about life western society tells young men and the red pill truths to those lies.Hard work is for suckers, having a full time job is supposed to be something to avoid at all costs. The lie is: hard work won't necessarily get you anywhere, it is better to work hard, than not to. But, you must work hard when it's in your own favor. Don't become a slave for someone else, don't go over the top if you're not benefiting from it in some way. The truth is, hard work won't necessarily get you somewhere... it's always better to work smarter than harder. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/17 06:56 AM |
| – | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORYep this reply did it, I care. Just kidding lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 07:40 PM |
| – | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORYeah... okay, think what you want, bro. Best of luck with the whole being weird looking thing and all. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 07:30 PM |
| – | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORYeah I saw your pics, you're weird looking. Hey but maybe if you type a longer reply next time, I'll care more lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 06:44 PM |
| – | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORBro, you're a fucking super dork loser. No one likes you. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 05:44 PM |
| – | Possible Oneitis preventing me from focusing on other things in life. How to get over it and Get Back in Stoic Mode.Dude, it's abundance... simple | /r/askTRP | 18/02/17 07:55 AM |
| 5 | Can you guys stand artist like Ed Sheeran/Bruno Mars anymoreSome may say these guys understand the separation of TBP and TRP, and they play into it because it earns them money. I agree somewhat, but mostly disagree... especially these guys, they talk so much blue pill shit, I think they live it. Sure, they may have opportunity for abundance, but I don't think they act on it. No, can't stand them, they're bitch made and it's annoying to listen to them whine. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/17 07:55 AM |
| – | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORYou sound like a jealous bitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 06:18 AM |
| – | [Rant] There's a darkness inside of me.No where do you state anything about becoming the unwavering stoic. But don't worry, I am sure you hate yourself enough for it to be your next fad in this never ending sprint to run away from yourself as fast as you can. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 09:02 AM |
| – | FB testing me??Yeah, let me know how that respect works for you when someone you know blast your girls face with cum. Fuck your morals, they're not universal and hold no weight in this scenario. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | FB testing me??Yes. Demote to plate, earn yourself a few other plates. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 11:12 AM |
| – | FB testing me??You're looking at this all wrong. Listen closely... your priorities in life need not revolve around what she is doing, what she wants to do, or what she likes. For the love of God, wake up. Your tunnel vision is making it hard to think clearly. You are looking at small picture items like they matter. Let me ask you this... if you had 6 other versions of her, would you even give a fuck? Think about that for a second... your problem stems from the inability to seriously focus on your own life, and… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 10:01 AM |
| – | FB testing me??Luckily, you hesitated... and made the correct decision. Never, I mean never mate guard. Do not mate guard the girl and talk to the guy, do not mate guard the girl and talk to the girl. Let it be. It's simple, use your brain. Intuition is built into our brain for a reason. Your intuition told you not to say something and it was right. Now use your intuition to surround yourself with people worth your time. Only give those who deserve your time, the bulk of it. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 09:46 AM |
| 5 | Ancient Literature Is Red Pill AFThings weren't politically correct like they are now. No need to walk on egg shells. Things just "were" back then. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How to demand more?A lot of this comes down to one idea... time. In the eyes of others, time works like this; the more your time is available, the more you pay attention to others, the less they value you. There are levels of what you can consider important in your life, yes? Well, those levels become quite obvious to those around you by your actions. So, if you say, "this is important, that is important to me" but you're not actually actively engaged in those things, then it is evident that is not the case, you'r… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Guys in their 20s, you don't have that much time!Simple rule people: Can stress what he said enough everyone. Print this out and hang it on your wall. Do not waste your time. Because once you get to a point in your career and life where you got over the "hump" and you're in some where, all you have to do is maintain. It is getting there that most people never do. Grind in your 20's and be somewhere making well over 6 figs by your 30's... but do this with the knowledge that what you do in your 20's (what you learn and study) will have a huge im… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 02:11 AM |
| – | How do I deal with the lady office manager acting like a bitch?She is begging for two things with an attitude like this... and both of those things revolve around validation and attention. So... I say give them to her. You want to game her? Then give her what she wants. (1) Tease her. (2) Compliment her. Neither of these things need to be sexual in nature. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 01:56 AM |
| – | Regularly foreplay with a chick who has a boyfriend, but won't commit to sex. Says "it would be cheating"You're overthinking it. I simply mean that he needs to have periods of intensity, and periods of aloofness... The periods of aloofness should be greater than the periods of intensity. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 01:52 AM |
| – | Late text backWait >8 hours and respond with place and time. If she flakes (which she most likely will and was acting off impulse due to late night loneliness/horniness), hard next and never respond again. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 11:02 PM |
| 2 | How would TRP handle this work situation?First, two questions: Does she know that you know this information? And, how close is she with your boss(es)? If she doesn't know that you know, leverage her. Tell your boss "in confidence" that he/she should look at who she just became Facebook friends with. Then, pretend like you never said anything when things change and she is taken off dealing with the matter. This is get fired type of shit, FYI... understand the water you're treading in. You will gain integrity there and be able to use it … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How beta is catfishing?Get a job or something and stop caring about what other people are doing. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle people who pretend to be "helped" but refuse to put in some effort?It's all over the world, it's called calculated laziness. "48 Laws of Power, never do something that someone else can do for you." Read that chapter. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 09:46 PM |
| – | Beautiful people problems, beautiful people perspectivesYou need to make yourself better, simple as that. You hate yourself because you're not good enough for your potential. You said, "I mean other than lifting, etc." What do you mean? This is everything. I think you want short solutions to problems that lie in your foundation. From the sounds of it, the only thing you need is to make yourself proud, and transform yourself. That'll fix everything. Focusing on this girl and what to do right now, aren't the solutions. The solution is to learn how to t… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 09:42 PM |
| – | Regularly foreplay with a chick who has a boyfriend, but won't commit to sex. Says "it would be cheating"Don't shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 09:35 PM |
| – | Called Off Wedding - Became Irresistibleonly to find, again to my astonishment, that this dramatically increased my attractiveness to women, who wanted to know more, and even recommended girls I should go out with. This is how I have had an astronomical amount of threesomes and slept with the amount of women I have. This has some serious weight to it, because social proof itself, even blatantly bragging about this, has caused women around me to bowed down and worship... See how men look for untapped resources (the hot chick who doesn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 09:33 AM |
| – | What are some good resources for learning to talk about feelings with women?Girls love it when guys talk about feelings, so let me know when you find out. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 07:45 AM |
| – | How to tell if a woman is a virgin?Bro, hook her up to a lie detector test since it's so fucking important to you. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Sex logistics when we both live at home, and Valentine's Day questionI am not playing when I say I will lay pipe in my car. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 07:42 AM |
| – | Advice for talking to boring people or people who have no hobbies?I think you are putting them on the defense. If you let the conversation play out naturally, then you'll find it much easier. Don't be nervous is there is a moment of quiet, just chill and stop giving a fuck. My advice is really to just stop giving a fuck and just talk to these people. I never go out with predetermined questions or phrases, I just start talking and if there is a silence so what, fuck it. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 07:39 AM |
| 5 | After 4 months, my ex texts...She's trash bro, delete and open some new chicks tomorrow. You'll thank yourself for having an ounce of self respect. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 07:36 AM |
| – | After 4 months, my ex texts...Why? Just why? Ask yourself this... Honestly, the fact that you even want to associate with that piece of garbage shows how little you've grown. Get some abundance and stop acting like a chump. Her pussy isn't worth the scum its attached to. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Unable to perform sexuallyDefinitely porn induced erectile dysfunction. Quit porn, reduced jerk off sessions to half what you are now, problem solved. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Defeating LMR?Try. Then, when they say that, back off. Then, try again 10 minutes later. Rinse and repeat, just don't get rapey. If she seems serious when she says stop, stop. There is a difference between a shit test, and you raping someone. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 06:51 AM |
| – | Girl at gym keeps checking me out and sort of moving near me, but she always wears headphones and never speaks. Wtf?Every time? What about this time? Also, maybe you should hurry up and approach when this does happen... because when you're circling her, you're looking like a creep. Focus on you, and if you see someone checking you out, don't hesitate, immediately approach. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 06:50 AM |
| – | Advice for talking to boring people or people who have no hobbies?The next time you talk to someone, enter the conversation expecting absolutely nothing. Don't hit them with interview styled questions, don't go into the conversation trying to do anything other than just talk. Keep humility in mind, it'll help. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 06:47 AM |
| – | Just broke up with my girlfriendI have a really odd personality and am very particular in women the type of personality I can be ok with. Oh me too, I thought I was the only unique snowflake out there. The prospect and feeling that I will never find another like hers is destroying me. Oh, so you're saying you have onesitis and arranged your life around women? That sucks, now you should probably fix the issues since whether or not you're with her shouldn't be one. For starters, go fuck ten other women. Then, try to make sure yo… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 04:29 AM |
| – | How would YOU respond? (Tinder reply advice)I always love these lol. (Yesterday) (Me) "Great! Did you have anything in mind? Too eager. Also, you should be telling her what you're doing, not asking her what "she has in mind." Try again and give her a direct place and time. She didn't answer in time because you fucked up by not using direction to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Obsessed with moneyListen, money has nothing to do with attracting women. NOTHING. Unless, you want it to. Do you want to be viewed as a provider? Otherwise, money does make life easier. So, get a better job with more income. Go watch "The Private Man's" youtube video posted on TRP's main sub reddit and listen to what he says about what women look for. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 02:53 AM |
| – | How long should i be lifting ?I also purchased a good supplement to help me along the way Unless you're talking T, the only thing that'll help you is sleep, good food, and intense lifts. I just wanted to know, how long should i be lifting ? Today is my rest day. I want the best results i can get, but i do not want to over do it. Good, because you don't grow while you're in the gym, you grow while you're resting. Shoot for 60 minutes a day. I would do a full body routine if you're new to this, and lift every other day. You're… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Obsessing over a slutty past is an indirect pedestal; Assume she's a slut, but don't obsess78% upvote? 22% of people apparently have onesitis | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/17 06:18 AM |
| 1 | College/Frat Life after Military ServiceI would say PA, then. Yes, the MCAT and med school are a whole other beast. It won't be as tough, but still... in order to get into a good PA program, you'll need a much higher than normal GPA, shadowing hours, and to shake hands with the right people. You'll probably want a degree in the sciences as well. It's much harder to get a 3.8 while pursing a BS in Biology, Chem, or Physics than some degree in psychology or geography. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 01:33 AM |
| – | College/Frat Life after Military ServiceYes, I can comment. The medical route, for starters, is something you may want to think more about. Ask yourself this: "Why do I want to do this? How much does money play into this answer?" The worst thing in the world is not studying for your MCAT for 4 years, and then changing your mind, because you don't want to go through 4 more years of school, but it also isn't fun either and your time can be spent better else where unless you're sure thats the step you want to take. Same goes for PA. In e… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 01:20 AM |
| – | Can you give examples for simple push?lol you think like that and you're in for a world of misery. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/17 12:02 AM |
| – | How can I be myself if I'm too aggressive? I was a nice guy my whole life.Here is the empathy, that by the looks of your post, you're requesting: most of us here have had this issue, we feel your pain. And any of us who are not like this, are so today because we have worked to change our personality. It doesn't happen overnight, but it is possible. So, that is your goal. Read, "No More Mr. Nice Guy." Read the sidebar. Begin to revamp your personality. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/17 12:00 AM |
| – | Can you give examples for simple push?If I'm approaching a girl, I think she is a GF material Doesn't make her girlfriend material. Casual sex, yes... but, this doesn't mean she's GF material. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 11:53 PM |
| – | Is it wrong to deload work-wise and chill a bit?Why are you asking for permission to do this? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 10:28 PM |
| – | Need helpI would not be able to make it to the event. I would however tell her you guys are meeting for drinks X days later at Y. Or if you're unable to drink, then coffee. Or if that isn't an option, get creative and figure out something else. If she tries to invite her friend(s) to this second one, ask her if she plans on having a threesome. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 10:27 PM |
| – | Can you give examples for simple push?Disqualify her as a potential girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Getting rid of the ol' skinny fat beer belly.Regardless, where you're at, eating healthy and getting in a routine is step one. Once you're a couple or a few months in, worry about specifics. For now, just do something. Eat healthy, lift or do cardio everyday. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Reinitiating with old platesQuick and simple. "Let's get together. Meet me at X at Y on Thursday." Or if it's your house, demand it. Don't expect anything, just demand and if she doesn't answer or says she's busy, move along and drop it. One chance. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 10:01 PM |
| – | Is contentedness the "cure" for hypergamy?Although most of your mix ups have been cleared up, I would also like to add; TRP is not an ideology, it's a praxeology. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 06:54 AM |
| – | Where is my desire for sexual exploration?No. No. No. Do what you want... just understand that not sleeping with girls on a recurring bases may kill your abundance. Not now, you're probably thinking, but just wait for the night you're sitting on the couch... alone, and it hits you. Been there myself. Slept with over 40 women one year, and was in your shoes the next year where I didn't want to do anything except chill with my bros, work on my life, and get smarter. And this is okay, just remember to be prepared to hop on the wagon when y… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 06:21 AM |
| 6 | Whenever men ask me what kind of woman they should be looking for as relationship material in future I'm just gonna send them thisGreat write up per usual. There is a hierarchy for all things in life. A structure is needed, because without it, it's not if you'll fail, it's when. It happens that men are more emotionally stable than women, and we are stronger than women. Thus, the choice of who shall lead the hierarchy is obvious. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 06:10 AM |
| – | Recovering from over display of emotionYes, anything else will make it worse. Alcohol and frame don't mix well. Next time you feel like that, remove yourself from the situation. Or better yet, don't drink that much. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/17 10:02 PM |
| – | A guy in my office takes every chance he gets to put me down but acts pissed when I talk back to him the same way... what's wrong with him?Easy. He is a certified narcissist. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Seriously starting to get depressed over heightmake up for it Buy some fucking stilts then. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 07:00 AM |
| – | Should I fuck a girl with a pretty low SMV to lose my virginity?Thought about it for a bit. Do it. Get it over with and do it, now is good a time as you'll get... And, hold frame and never deny/agree to having done it to anyone. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:40 AM |
| – | Should I fuck a girl with a pretty low SMV to lose my virginity?She a blabber mouth too? You seem to be pretty worried about it, which also makes me think you won't hold frame well if people drop it on you in public in front of others. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:29 AM |
| – | Should I fuck a girl with a pretty low SMV to lose my virginity?Deal with it if it comes up. Besides, if it does, there is no such thing as bad publicity. Let the fuckers talk. Come on, she can't be that bad if you're considering it. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:24 AM |
| – | Seriously starting to get depressed over heightIf you were bald, hair would be the most important trait. Ever seen when you buy a new car, or buy something new, all of a sudden everyone else has it too? Not the case, you're just noticing it more now. You are self conscious... and this is more of a problem then your height ever will be. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:16 AM |
| – | Should I fuck a girl with a pretty low SMV to lose my virginity?Yep, just get it over with. Better actually, you won't get onesitis for your first lay. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:07 AM |
| 3 | How to live with super-beta parentsYeah, stay away from it. If you're not doing a sport, do one. If you're not studying at the library after school, start to. If there is a club, or a friends house (preferably one where video games or drugs is not the topic) you can be at, be there. Basically, get out the house and out there learning and doing and away from your shitty parents. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:06 AM |
| – | 20 year old male slowing coming out of beta shellI'm still not satisfied and I will keep going until I am You haven't seen it yet? It never ends, so get used to the idea of working out for the rest of your life. What are the best thread I can read on the red pill? You can read all day long, the truth is, the only way to get what you want is to socialize with every single person you see. You are scared to, and you care too much, that is what is holding you up. The thing is, you already know what you need to do, so go do it. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:03 AM |
| – | People who post on TRP, then delete their post/account if it gets downvoted, WHY? ...WTF?This is my third account over the past two years. Getting doxed isn't that easy, but it's not that hard either. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 02:59 AM |
| 8 | It isn’t what she feels, it is if she feels at allEasy. The times you are around her, or are talking to her, are intense. The times you're not, are silent and distanced. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 02:44 AM |
| – | When Bloopies Attack!It was advice. that calls your ability to defend yourself No one saw you saying this one. Short of me sending a picture to inflate my ego and prove a point, I could give a fuck what anyone thinks the answer to this question is. It has nothing to do with my point. My first point is that shaming is not an effective means of teaching lessons. Yet, your goal is to teach lessons, no? So you'd have a more effective means of teaching if you tone down the shaming. Take what you will from it. And my seco… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/17 02:16 AM |
| – | When Bloopies Attack!Toot, toot... that horns getting tooted. You want to shit on the world, I get it. Shit most of should get shit on. But consistently shitting on your own community of men that are here to learn from each other is never good. So one must ask what you're really here for? If you are the best fighter in the world, and you're obviously jerking yourself off while yoh insult your own people and cater to your own ego... Either way you use shaming tactics very often. They're not that effective. If you don… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/17 11:27 PM |
| 7 | The Reconstruction IVIf you haven't been ripped open, and spent months in the anger stage, you were either already alpha as fuck, or you're in denial, not self aware, or too stupid to realize. There are those just browsing who just acknowledge and understand, and those who have had a life changing experience. For me, I am way too radical and obsessive for it to be anything other than the latter. If they haven't realized their potential yet, they never will. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/17 12:42 AM |
| – | Your favorite red pill song?"I know you don't love me" Tony Yayo, 50 Cent Shit dripping with truths | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 04:15 AM |
| – | Does the Indian guy stigma just not exist in certain parts of the USA while being a major setback for SMV in others?AGAIN? Haha I have never seen so many Indian's come to one place to ask the same question... Get over it bro. We all got problems and questions about our problems, instead just be what you can be... the answer to this question doesn't help you in any way. It would be like someone who is short asking if short guys can't really get girls. No, they can... but not with that lack of confidence and worry. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:07 AM |
| – | Got over oneitis, however now I dont feel any emotion whatsoever. is this good?What you're experiencing right now is called apathy. This too shall pass, what's more important is that you don't question the normalcy of it. It will make it worse, and your mind will work to try to fight it. If you do this, you're looking at all sorts of internal conflicts. Better idea? Stop paying so much attention to your emotions. Get busy in your life. Don't have time to stop and think. I mean onesitis (especially when you know about it) will most likely occur once. Just try to take a brea… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:02 AM |
| – | The Fraternity of MenWhat is the vetting inasmuch detail as you can give to the public? Will /u/neoreactionsafe be there. I have so many preconceived notions about what he looks like. I'm going with a 1935 private eye look for now, but I won't get too far ahead of myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 06:07 AM |
| 6 | People usually trust on me and want to take me under their wind, how to use this for my own benefit?If you want it to stop, turn up the narcissism in your personality. They want to take you under their wing because you have a low level of narcissism. You can use it to your advantage by allowing them to teach you stuff. It isn't bad, and also develop small connections everywhere you go. When you're 30 and even earlier, that shit will pay off big. Just learn from them. As far as the people entrusting you, once again not a bad thing. In the corporate world this is huge because you can pull the pu… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Machiavellian Maxims (Part 4)It's called a delta, it's an atta boy for writing something worthy enough for the mods to notice and point you for. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 02:34 AM |
| – | Machiavellian Maxims (Part 4)I personally think those people will have a great affect on the culture here. In the last two years, its has become more watered down. I believe less and less content will be allowed and able to be exposed and TRP will lose its edge. But, I believe the concepts with at least stay the same. And if the real don't get chased out of here and annoyed with the bullshit, we will be here to spit acid back in the mix. But I have been visiting and sharing less and less for this very reason. It just turns … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 12:28 PM |
| – | Machiavellian Maxims (Part 4)Under appreciated. I'm getting tired of played out content, post about "how to fuck a ten," and other bullshit mental masturbation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 08:54 AM |
| 1 | What's my next move? City to live in and finance.You read my advice, now do what you want. It'll be just like how you still didn't separate your ideas into paragraphs and wrote like a 12 year old. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 11:29 PM |
| – | What's my next move? City to live in and finance.I think your next move is learning how to use the tab and enter keys so your paragraphs are more legible. You're running from your hometown. Why? Because you don't fit the demographics and you have tried to make it with women and male friends and can't? Or because you "feel uncomfortable?" I say you get over your insecurities and overcome your past. You're letting peoples potential judgement affect you and that is the real problem. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 07:22 AM |
| – | Machiavellian Maxims (Part 4)Her first concern is her appearance, her second concern her cunning, both serve the same ends. You know how you know this post is the real? It have 68 up votes in 6 hours. I swear TRP is turning into TBP... this place gets more and more blue everyday. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Do women like skinny pretty boys, or buff masculine guys?That's cute. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 04:02 AM |
| – | Asking for some solid advice, please helppushed all my family and friends away from being too Machiavellian You're doing it wrong then. You're just a special snowflake who can't find a job anywhere else except New York. You're just a special snowflake who can't find any place to live unless it's 2.5 hours away from your job. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/17 05:18 PM |
| 3 | I am shitty in so many areas. I improve some areas, lackage in another area brings me down. I think I need help?I can see through it all. To be frank, you are pretty much a heroine addict, only without the heroine. Relapse, after relapse, after relapse. Taking it up a notch each and every time. It all stems from your inability to get out of your own way. Here is the plan. I don't want to say, "if you don't follow this starting right this minute, you're fucked." but I kind of think I should. Like I said, heroin. You need to be taken to rehab. The only thing is, there isn't a rehab to become alpha or to fix… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Approaching and delaying?If you can't squeeze a day in to see her within a week, why bother approaching her? Don't you think it'll be bit odd to get a text message 30 days later? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Without personal privacy and a smile, we seem nothing at all in the face of our enemies.I didn't say anger wasn't a strong motivator, I said that anger shouldn't be put on display. It makes you look weak when it is. Think about it; if a deal fell through that you really wanted, you might be pissed. If you didn't really care whether or not you got the deal, you'd probably be okay with it. Anger is a reaction to something not going your way that you have become severely attached to. It is a flip in power and you're at the receiving end of the potential ass fucking if you're mad. Don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/17 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Without personal privacy and a smile, we seem nothing at all in the face of our enemies.I completely disagree, there is nothing good that comes from it, ever. It shows they've won. If you have strong frame from the onset, you will never have an issue. Instead, don't show anger and just react in whatever way that may be, even if that means knocking someone out. Anger will cloud your judgment and your thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/17 01:09 AM |
| – | How closely do being alpha and testosterone level correlated?would it be too simple of an idea to up the testosterone level to being up a person's alpha game? Don't listen to the non believers. The answer to your question is yes. Hormones! It's what drives humans on so many levels. Low T correlates to so many factors. Not to mention when your T is low, your cortisol levels are usually high (stress hormone.). Very rarely will you see someone with high T, have a spare tire wrapped around their waste. Google, bro. If high T equals aggressiveness towards life… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 07:14 AM |
| – | Hooked up with HB8. She texts ME asking to hangout a few days later. Then never texts back after I offered plans.No contact for 24 hours. A man of value wouldn't even notice. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Been lurking TRP for a while, read the sidebar, I know what I need to do, but can't physically start, I am stuck in a pit of depression.For starters, fuck what every one else has. Don't think like this at all anymore. Why? Because what you're comparing yourself to is what you imagine them to be. In other words, it is not what is real. It is what your mind is painting as a picture. For example; log onto my Facebook and check out my cool life. And in reality, that person may be a loser. Whatever it is you're perceiving that "everyone else has" stop. This isn't productive and really is a waste of the time you could be spending to d… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Real evidence of TRPAre you alive and breathing? Do you regularly converse with humans? There is your proof. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 02:43 AM |
| – | Something I learned over the weekend. What do you guys think? Anything to add?When girls say, "Don't make it awkward." this is what they mean. You got nervous, and choked. I bet your ass you went into this situation feeling nervous. You've got to relax, stop giving a fuck, and let it be. That is the only way to make things happen. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Walking the thin line: shedding expectations, while still having the ability to give it your all.I agree with everything you said, even the point that my writing obscured the point I tried to make. The road to success is heavily traveled, no doubt. But I see few actually reach a pinnacle of "success" (what one considers success, obviously relative.) because of the consistent defeat they have had to face along the way. How many people give up chasing something they want everyday? If people want to pretend that it doesn't exist, so be it. I can appreciate that to an extent. However, it is ver… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 02:38 AM |
| – | Who are some great seducers to model? Preferably historical figures"The Art of Seduction," by Robert Greene. It's what you're looking for. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 06:56 PM |
| 1 | ASD and long distance- Where do I go from hereany advice Yeah, stop focusing on this chick and go open some new ones. Open more the next day. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 04:58 AM |
| – | Why do I seek drama?Because you're bored as fuck. Instead, focus on making your OWN life interesting. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 04:57 AM |
| – | Motivations; How to not let them turn toxic?Motivation? What's that? Self discipline is what you need. Motivation comes and goes. Don't do things based upon how you feel, you'll only get stuff done sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 04:55 AM |
| – | She wants to dress poorly for our first dateHahah OP should tell her to put a butt plug in too if she does shit test him after this reply. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 01:33 AM |
| – | She wants to dress poorly for our first dateThey're giving off the vibe that they're looking for an LTR, because you're acting beta. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 11:20 PM |
| – | She wants to dress poorly for our first date"I'm dressing poorly." "Sure. Whatever comes off easiest" | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 11:14 PM |
| – | getting bannedIn the sidebar it explicitly suggests that you have two reddit accounts, one for TRP, the other for your world of Warcraft stuff or whatever people who don't read the side bar do. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Alpha-Beta Communication ModesLow IQ? I wasn't saying shorten it at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 07:45 AM |
| – | Alpha-Beta Communication ModesRollo, Since we are not in person and it may be difficult to see how I am saying what I am about to, I want to start off by saying mad respect. If TRP had a daddy, you and Archwinger would be it. I've read your books, and can't be more greatd for your contributions, and not just for me, but for the men in my generation who have been lucky enough to observe and accept your teachings. My point now, and why I am writing this comment: do you feel as though it's time to start moving to a new basis of… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Girls who approach me?If you believe that a girl approaching you, or you approaching her, are the definitive guidelines for what makes a woman LTR worthy, you don't belong thinking about having an LTR. Not until you get some experience under your belt. A girl you plan to be in an LTR with must pass several tests (tests on her worthiness as a partner.) stretched over long time periods. There are not too many one off's that can tell you right from the gate whether or not a girl is LTR worthy (unless of course it's an o… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 02:36 AM |
| – | How do I discipline myself more?Here I wrote this guide a few months ago. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 02:30 AM |
| 12 | Trying to setup date, but says she doesn't drink coffee?"That's fine, they have plenty of other drinks there. What's your number?" It's not so much frame you are maintaining, ease up bro. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 12:26 AM |
| – | How To Silence Your EgoHow to silence the ego You can't. All you can do is become aware of it and understand its motives. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 07:49 AM |
| 7 | Got called a bunch of racial slurs today...Oh EDIT: (OP removed his location, so I am also removing his location.)... pff bro, you can def let that thing off on your property, no problem. Set up a couple targets in the back, near where they came from (I don't mean for you to set them up so that they are in the line of fire, just so that they can see you.). next time you hear some ATV's in the area, left off some shots. Shit, even if you don't, I would do a few days of target shooting starting now. You should have that thing on a sling an… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 06:52 AM |
| 10 | How do I increase my SMV as a female?Wrong sub. Use Red Pill Women. However, from a mans perspective, you have to look good. We fat shame girls here for a reason, because fat=lazy, unkempt, unattractive, and feminist. Any guy worth fuck all won't want to be with you or sleep with you otherwise. Your beauty is pretty much all you got, babe... it's not rocket science, eat a really clean diet consisting of vegetable and lean meats, not Pepsi's and Pringles. Go to the gym and lift weights (you won't get bulky unless you're dieting to d… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 01:41 PM |
| 8 | My first real love and relationship is becoming difficult, please help me guys I'm so confusedI thought it was bad when I started reading, then I knew it was when I ended up seeing how long this post is. The prescription is easy; read the sidebar, poke around and read some comments and posts, start lifting, start dieting, and you'll eventually see the truth. I need to stress how much I love this girl, I would be crushed, broken, destroyed if it ended, I could never see her again. My life has been totally consumed by her since we met and I'm so far in that the thought of it not working ou… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 02:32 AM |
| 5 | LTR question: When she's with me she is great but when she's with her friend's she becomes a pain?Of course she is a good girl when she's with you, you're supervising her. My question is, what can i do about this? You don't like it, get a new girlfriend with less friends. This is why red flags and heavy evaluation is crucial prior to an LTR. If she isn't cheating (or you don't think so.), then there isn't much you need to worry about. Because, well, AWALT. Let her act how she is going to. What's more important is that you're defining yourself as the unwavering stoic who is unaffected and not… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What is the long-term value of a guy?You do need to provide something; masculinity and stoicism. That and a good time will more than suffice. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:22 PM |
| 6 | What is the long-term value of a guy?Your brain is different than a woman's. Stop thinking the two are the same. If you had a job that exhibited high SMV (something social, that is what women care about.), such as the owner of a club or something that draws a ton of people in, she would be interested. Once again, she doesn't care about the sport in general, she cares about the social lifestyle that revolves around the sport. Tbh I think I rather suck at sex. Probably I am better than some average guy but I am far from Chad Thunderc… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | articles/advice/rp posts about quitting video games?It's called self discipline. Go through my submitted post history, I have a post that focuses on self discipline a few months back that was pretty highly upvoted. That, or just use the search bar and look into self discipline. Edit: never mind, it was even further back. Here it is. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Feel like Ill be stuck hanging out with college kids or people below 25 if I don't go the marriage and kids route. How do you guys deal with this?I still have tons of friends I went to high school with right on my block. I live in a tight knit community, bruh. But you should be able to be alone. What are you scared of? I am able to make aquantinces everywhere I go, but I don't need to hold on to those relationships for dear life because I don't mind being alone. Don't be jealous of my independence. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 08:19 PM |
| 65 | I've been cheating, and she found out. LTR of 5 years. Her grandma also passed away the same day.You know exactly what this is. Do not apologize for what you've done. You did it on purpose, didn't you? Never apologize for something you set out to do. Yes, reach out and keep it short. "Sorry for your loss. If you need to talk, I'm here." Then, pack your shit, bro. Time to get a move on. You feel sympathetic on many levels for different reasons, I understand. But this is no time to act like a bitch. Own what's around you. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Feel like Ill be stuck hanging out with college kids or people below 25 if I don't go the marriage and kids route. How do you guys deal with this?Anecdotal I should invite you to my house for a screening of my homemade GoPro porns. SrS. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Feel like Ill be stuck hanging out with college kids or people below 25 if I don't go the marriage and kids route. How do you guys deal with this?You ever seen a black hole, bruh? Cause I seen lots of married chicks blow me. HIDE YO WIVES | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 10:59 AM |
| 5 | Feel like Ill be stuck hanging out with college kids or people below 25 if I don't go the marriage and kids route. How do you guys deal with this?No sweat, everyone's got an opinion. Idk man, it kind of comes down to a "why the fuck would you do that?" kind of thing for me. All the girls I fuck with (longest going over a year.) never ask me for shit because they got their own. They know about each other. I kept it real and said, "I will absolutely never get married... let me repeat that for you, never. Not kidding or playing a game, never." I told them this on more than one occasion and also they need to support themselves (ones an MD, an… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 10:53 AM |
| 7 | Feel like Ill be stuck hanging out with college kids or people below 25 if I don't go the marriage and kids route. How do you guys deal with this?Parts of this are true, and they're problems I don't have in my life. Nevertheless, anything is maneuverable so long as you're willing to maneuver it. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 10:08 AM |
| 1 | "How" to play a game when you know you are gonna lose?This will help you reframe yourself. Here. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to be outrageous in day game?I think you'll be good. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 09:49 AM |
| 1 | "How" to play a game when you know you are gonna lose?You acknowledge that and think it doesn't matter, I am guessing. Yes. Because I prefer one form of curtain over the other. I don't believe in religion, and I still have wholeness. I find this through the act of self discipline. I find it through prestige. Sure, these may be releasing feel good hormones, but thats all we are, chemicals/chemical reactions. So if you reduce us to nothing, which is in essence what your "curtain" has done, then so be it, be nothing. That is your choice. No, its looki… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to be outrageous in day game?More like harassment. If someone tells you to fuck off multiple times, you probably should to prevent getting arrested. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 09:42 AM |
| 28 | Feel like Ill be stuck hanging out with college kids or people below 25 if I don't go the marriage and kids route. How do you guys deal with this?Sounds like you're choking. As someone who is about to turn 30, I'll tell you to still be that guy who is 21. But, be that guy with the ability to be alone. And the one who makes good, self disciplined and aware decisions. I hardly drink, because fuck that. Drinking fucks up my gains, and my study time, and my business, and my 9-5. Shit, I don't even put it together that my almost thirty year old ass is really fucking twenty year olds. I don't even feel like I am thirty. I integrated myself into… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to be outrageous in day game?Would I get in trouble Plan on assaulting anyone? If not, odds are you're free to do whatever the fuck you'd like. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 09:29 AM |
| 1 | "How" to play a game when you know you are gonna lose?Firstly, I suggest you fix this: When my T is high and I am active, I also don't question shit as much as I do now. Next, I suggest you fix this: Therefore I'm distracting myself with more basic stuff like internet, nowadays TRP Take a break for a while, man. It'll do your mind some good. No more internet for a while. If you have to leave your computer and/or phone at a friends house for a while, do it. Get down to the bare essentials of lifting, sleeping, eating well, and having a social life. … | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Recommend me some books and moviesSince your username says "1984," I take it you're at least 32. Bro, you're not a child. Instead of just posting a question to askTRP, try to search it first. This sub has been around 3 years, your questions probably been asked 43,135 times. Here | /r/askTRP | 27/12/16 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Depression phase of TRP. How to get out of it?Depression affects motivation, but not exclusively, so when you say: "I want to change. But I don't want to. Then I do. Then I don't want to." you're basically saying: "I am unmotivated." Sure, you may be depressed, but self diagnosis isn't always the best idea. Professional medical help is sometimes good. So long as you're not going to hurt yourself, you can try a few things before you seek medical attention. There is a concept called self discipline. Instead of listening to your feelings, don'… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/16 04:37 AM |
| 3 | I have been experimenting with narcissism heavily this past year, and here is what I have come to realizeWell, that makes two of us who get it and don't get what the fuck is going on in the comment area lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I have been experimenting with narcissism heavily this past year, and here is what I have come to realizeI've read it. We fall on two different sides of the spectrum. For the most part, I agree with what's right because it's works. Besides that, my morals are beside the point and should be eliminated from the discussion. to give and expect nothing in return. That's how I know I am far off from your thinking. It still sounds as if you're subscribing to the, "In this life, I shall fulfill what women want me to fulfill," channel. Maybe you are, maybe you're not. But, the way I see it, I've got one lif… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 03:55 AM |
| 1 | I have been experimenting with narcissism heavily this past year, and here is what I have come to realizeThe word alpha is stupid because it does have so many different definitions. But at this sub, we typically use it to describe a man who is sexually attractive. If we look at it on a global scale, it goes even deeper than your context. Really, it would be to look at it in terms of the entire population. As in, 20% of the population is alpha, and 80% is beta due to nature/nurture (but mainly genetics.). Also, check out the 80/20 rule, Pareto principle. These are the best of the best of the best pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 09:39 PM |
| 10 | I have been experimenting with narcissism heavily this past year, and here is what I have come to realizeI don't think we are on the same page.. Narcissism is not just NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) – it is a continuum of behaviors that are universally present. In other words, we are all narcissistic to a degree with some folks showing very few behaviors and others showing many traits of narcissism. If you think of narcissistic behaviors as a range on a continuum from 1 – 10, healthy narcissism would be a 1 and pathological NPD would be a 10, with varying degrees in between. When narcissis… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 06:59 AM |
| 14 | How many guys on TRP that aren't white actually believe that white guys have it the easiest of any race?Yet another Indian guy asking about a race related question. What is it with this topic? You are what you are, accept it and move the fuck on. Knowing this piece of information isn't going to in any way progress you. If anything asking these types of things will become an obsession, and it'll hinder you. Move the fuck on and swallow it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/16 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Give examples of real alpha men.Nope. But, you can learn from this guy. Besides the alpha strategy, and the non beta bucks strategy, he had a personal life that was fulfilling. We can only assume he's been around the block with how quiet he was. He kept to himself. He didn't let anyone know his next move. He never commited anything, not time, or anything at all, to anyone. He traveled, enjoyed alone time, and was very sociable. From what we pick up from this story, this guy is the real deal. It's like a breath of fresh air to … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 10:03 AM |
| 5 | Give examples of real alpha men.Yeah, this guy... Can't, man. Somebody may come here and say something like, "Dan Bilzerian" or some shit, but you can't. These guys, guys like Dan, are walking show boats. You can't compare what he's got to some celebrity or some general name we would all know, it's not the same. These guys, like the one in the post, walk in the shadows, they don't give a fuck about claiming the tittle. Don't think of yourself as emulating anyone or looking to anyone. Just shoot for success on every avenue poss… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 09:42 AM |
| 24 | Growing as a man and J ColeHonestly bruh, this shit is weird as fuck. You don't see that this dude is fucking with the mainstream media? He's selling what people want to hear, a love story, a song. He's fucking with your emotions, just like he is trying to, and you're allowing it. This is feminisms work. You're playing into his lyrics way too much. He's got you sold, man. Two choices; one, go turn on full house with bob saget, see that, you're going to be Danny. Two, cut the bullshit, drop the music, get these weird thoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Not Closing ImmediatelyRight. Just because you didn't bang, it doesn't mean you struck out entirely. Like I said, women have a sexual strategy, also. Not to come off as ridiculous, but it is the winter time. Maybe they want some hibernation dick and to ice their vagina from the beating it took over the summer. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Not Closing Immediatelyfor whatever reason some part of me is trying to invent a problem about this Sounds about right. Women have a sexual strategy, also. Actually, it behooves men to understand this sexual strategy, and tailor ours around theirs. That's what strategy is all about. I wouldn't worry about it too much, you struck out on the first date. If it's the second or third, yeah, then you move on. This time around, with both of them, detach yourself from them. Let them come to you, let them hit you up. Of course… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 07:35 AM |
| 6 | Wordy girlI respond to this question, not so that I can just answer your question, so that I may fend off the epidemic of these types of questions. You are here at The Red Pill so that you may better your life. You are here at The Red Pill because you would like to improve the quality and quantity of women in your life. I shall tell you how to do such a thing. The next time a situation comes up where you have a question about one particular girl, ask... sure, ask away. But understand, the answer will alwa… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 07:19 AM |
| 2 | This whole lifting = life or death motivation needs to stopSee if it doesn't help when you try to get out from a headlock of a man who hammer curls 65 pound dumbbells in each arm. Running won't help make someone's fucking head pop off. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Redpill and Grasping NuanceYour post scratches the surface. Lol, TRP as a whole is a walking nuance. Why do you think there are so few subscribers here? The real messages are all hidden. It does it's job well, deters the uneducated, etc. Every single time I am here, I see more than a few people preaching the wrong message, or asking the wrong questions. If you pay attention to the endorsed, you're good. If you pay attention to upvotes, you might still be good, but not necessarily. It takes quite a bit of critical thinking… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/16 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Dark triad - Your virtue is a lieThat's right. And if you live like this, you'll never need to apologize. It's got nothing to do with being apologetic... and everything to do with doing the things you mean to do. So fuck a sorry, just do whatever the fuck it is you're going and don't do things you'll regret, that are against your moral facade or otherwise you've closed yourself in with. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Dark triad - Your virtue is a lieThen the guy from the story is a fucking dope and I don't think the content did a good job of displaying that message or anything about virtuous people. Maybe about confused idiots. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | You should leave this place a puppet master, not as another form of puppet.Tho holy shit, the amount of motive guessing I'm seeing in the literature is massive. Scary, isn't it? But, you could be two degrees away from a chain Well, then I would be benefitting. Not all gains are financial. For example, power or influence gain. Maybe John's cousin owes me a favor for the liberation of your withered soul. ...There comes a time in every mans life where he must wonder if he is acting paranoid. ...There comes a time in every mans life when he wonders if someone is just sayin… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 12:26 PM |
| 1 | You should leave this place a puppet master, not as another form of puppet.Haha way to complete the circle of mind fucks. Since you'll never actually know my motive (the motive of any potential puppet master.), it could only be true if I have something, anything, to gain in the process of your acceptance. Since I do not reap any financial rewards here and never will, my motives are purely altruistic (towards TRP brethren.); I think you're safe. As for the rest of the world... well FTW. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 07:18 AM |
| 1 | You should leave this place a puppet master, not as another form of puppet.I don't disagree. That was just a summarization of what Fight Club is about, not how I entirely feel about the subject. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 04:52 AM |
| 7 | Dark triad - Your virtue is a lieThere is a slight disconnect in this post. I've seen this mixed up 10 times, so let me clear the air. Morals work as a road map. Frenchie did have abundance and options... no one forced him to stick that blunt between his lips during the camping trip. He had options to be anywhere else in the entire world. He could have stood up and left. He could have declined the offer to smoke. Frenchie didn't, and thats where he fucked up on his road map. If he truly had integrity, fidelity, and honesty with… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 04:44 AM |
| 2 | The ideal Red Pill lifestyle includes a long term relationship.What's missing from your life right now that wasn't a decade ago? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 11:37 PM |
| 1 | You should leave this place a puppet master, not as another form of puppet.This was a very refreshing post after our recent contemplations about "Red Pill Conformity". Exactly why I felt the need to write it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | You should leave this place a puppet master, not as another form of puppet.This is it exactly. You must become the master of yourself. It's safe to say when you reach this level, you also reach the level of amused mastery. Both take years of life experience and the self awareness. I see these two concepts as a level of mastery over life itself. The epitome of self control and awareness. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 11:21 PM |
| 4 | The ideal Red Pill lifestyle includes a long term relationship.Gotta stand the fuck up and push this out of your mind. If you've been spinning plates less than 24 months, you just aren't in the swing of it yet. There is nothing better than killing shit and your personal life, calling up a plate, crushing her vagina, and sleeping alone for the night. If I remember nothing else as long as I live it's this: "The only times I've ever caught myself really longing for a relationship... it's been when I was tired, lazy, or doubting myself. Overcome that shit, you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 10:39 AM |
| 4 | The Burden of FamilyIn all reality /u/TheFamilyAlpha , /u/TyrannyVengeance is right... you are hamstering it up for a moment there. I thought the same thing as I was reading the post. I have a child and even caught myself hamstering this very concept up times in the past, just as you did here. It got worse and worse as I became more and more intertwined with TRP. Ya know, you and I aren't so different, /u/TheFamilyAlpha ... actually our life road/backgrounds are almost identical, there are just a few differences. B… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 12:53 AM |
| 2 | #NoNothingNov 2016: Give Up Vices, Forge New Habits.GIVING UP TRP and the Illmitablman forum, you will be missed. Even though I don't watch porn, the only time I'm going to cum is from vagina. This means no jerking off whatsoever. Yes, rubbing my dick onto objects counts as jerking off... so unless they're a human woman, I won't be. No alcohol whatsoever. That leaves my diet clean as a whistle. Adding Spending an adequate time with the fam, cause I've been slacking like a mother fucker. Goodbye until December. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 05:13 AM |
| 1 | when is it okay to welcome back an old plateSince you're the 40th person this week to do this... You've won a prize! Come to "fuck off," at the corner of 68th street at 0545 to collect your prize; a bag of dicks. Or you could post your questions in askTRP where they belong. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here.Sun Tzu, Nicollo, and Greene would all agree, as do I. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here.This is it. Game. This is my entire point. Nice summary; well put. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 04:25 PM |
| 11 | Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here.Hahaha just because you're doing it in the open, it doesn't mean I'm watching. I'm good with having differing views. I have my reasons due to my political career path, you have yours. I bet I believe >90% of the same things you do, I just don't find it beneficial to voice it. I fancy myself more of a Machiavellian and having this view allows me to evade and be cunning more easily. I'm not hating. To each is own, broseph. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 02:24 PM |
| 10 | Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here.I'm not talking about women, that's the easy part. I'm not here to suck my own dick Seems like you've made it all about yourself, though. So I guess that's something to think about, which after all is why you are here. And let me guess. You're here because you've got it all figured out? Life? And you, you have nothing to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 11:46 AM |
| 8 | Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here.Quite simply, I think you've missed my point. You've made TRP such a large part of your identity, that without it, who are you? If it disappeared into thin air, would you feel lost? It's not the support to the ground you walk on, it is the ground you walk on. It's your life, and your prerogative, so no judgement here. But it's safe to say, most men here don't follow suit or else we'd have a lot more people exposing themselves here. To pitch what you say is dangerous. Because, this isn't a cult, … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 10:03 AM |
| 2 | My Secret Desire to be the Best SheepOne of the better posts that's been written in a while here. There isn't much to say, other than that you are truly Machiavellian. This isn't just the best way to think, it's one of the only ways to think if you want all the jewels and gold that this lovely life has to offer. You've subtly led everyone here to the water, but it doesn't mean you can make them drink, let alone understand why they should drink. The thing is, you've kept this view in line with normalcy, normal thinking. You haven't … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/16 05:55 AM |
| 4 | Oneitis BluesYou can have whatever is within your reach. You want greatness, you've got to reach for it. It's up to you. Those that don't, are the reason why I am as successful as I am. They know what they need to do to get what they want, but fail to capture their potential. If you really want it, nothing will stop you from getting it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/16 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Oneitis BluesYour message is simple: Don't get hung up on your onesitis because she isn't as great as you think she is. It is just that; onesitis. An image you've created. Good message. But, you've got a problem. You're living in the past still. If you even have time to think about, let alone write about this shit, it's a sure fire sign that you're still a loser and your life isn't as well rounded as it should be. Stop writing field reports about your dog shit of a past and go live a well rounded life and en… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Your fitness goal is within your reach. You just need to prove it to yourself. Here's one way how you can.Not sustainable. And not worth the possible ill effects. They're not as unsafe as most people make them out to be... however, we know that long term use and abuse do lead to terrible effects. I'd rather do more work for the long term, than spend the money, risk fucking my heart, liver, ligaments, and tendons up... just to realize when I'm 35, I have bitch tits, and to realize the gym isn't as fun without them. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Is congruity really what women want?There is a balance to be found. But for you, I'd go full scale alpha and self discipline yourself. If you feel the need to put a beta trait on display, use self awareness and realize it's occuring. Pull back and restrain yourself. Let yourself die a cold painful death. Then, when you come back to life, you can't find a balance between beta and alpha traits. Until then, pull back and give it the necessary time. If you aren't saying, "I'll never act any beta whatsoever again," you haven't made you… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/16 06:12 AM |
| 5 | FR New to TRP but not sure if I escalated enoughYou fucked up at, "idk I might like it." Should of choked her right there. Her vagina prepared to contract. I was impressed up until that point. Second mistake was contacting her instead of allowing her to contact you. It made a bad situation worse. However, you live and you learn. Two things: yes, escalate. And instead of allowing fear to overcome you, ask yourself this; "what's the worst that can happen?" She says no, you stop immediately, done deal, at least you tried. and number 2... this is… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 01:17 AM |
| 4 | What kind of an SMV would an Indian guy in the USA need if he only wants to date hot blondes for the rest of his life?Jesus Christ. This question must be asked at least once a week, wtf. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/16 03:39 PM |
| 13 | You should learn some skills that could come in handy in the future. Keep quiet, and with them, you can blow her mind.Haha doesn't mean I can't enjoy myself. Plus, keeps me from getting rusty. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 07:48 PM |
| 132 | If you're a TRP newbie, you absolutely have to do this Tinder experimentThis is 100% true on social media. You've removed so many factors from the equation, all you have left is attractiveness on a scale and discerning between a strategy of AF or BB. In person, you can out game a guy that is better looking than you. Regardless, one rule lies above all others, get ripped and shredded like your life depended on it. Be as attractive as your genes allow for, and stop looking for excuses in between. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 04:33 AM |
| 17 | Insecurities will eat you alive. Don't continue to throw bandages over wounds, fix it once, and fix it the right way.This is the only type of acceptance I agree with; things that you hate but cannot change. Acceptance of things you can change or acceptance of situations/circumstance in your control, to me, is a cop out, it's laziness. Skin color or something genetic out of your control, like height, isn't something you can change. Short of bleaching your fucking skin. These are the things that, if you dislike, you must learn to accept. Acceptance is an option, and there is a way to wholeheartedly accept this o… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Game: In order to bring out her desires and wants, you need some form of game. The better you play, the more control you hold.Pedagogy. The only thing that is better than learning through some type of relation, is to have the one teaching be great at relating. I just made that sentence up lol. I agree, sincere thanks for pointing it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Game: In order to bring out her desires and wants, you need some form of game. The better you play, the more control you hold.I agree, you shouldn't focus on game. You should develop yourself long before you worry about getting any sort of pussy. It comes and goes, it leaves you with nothing to show for yourself. 90% of my posts focus on this exactly. I couldn't agree more. However, when one is ready to learn about game, they should learn how to understand others. It's not playing into their frame whatsoever. It only would be if they're genuinely investing into something they wouldn't want to in order to retrieve somet… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 03:25 AM |
| 6 | Game: In order to bring out her desires and wants, you need some form of game. The better you play, the more control you hold.but the modern Feminist has often so hardened themselves that any authentic Game that is "loving" will be rejected because she hates herself as a woman. This is very true, and exactly why so many women get pumped and dumped. Feminism is so harmful. It's like when Ralphie, from the Christmas Story, finally gets his BB gun. Everyone told him, he'd shoot his eye out, but he had this fascination with getting the gun, and feeding his ego. He had to have it. It was the fantasy of getting the gun that … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 03:14 AM |
| 12 | Game: In order to bring out her desires and wants, you need some form of game. The better you play, the more control you hold.I don't agree completely; game is a part of your SMV. Good game comes from practice, so having a fundamental understanding of what game is, is good. But, you've got to simultaneously raise your SMV if you want real progress... In other words, actually use the game you're developing. Part of having "social market value," is being social. And game, whether used on men (in business or transaction.) or women, is something people will notice that you have. That's why having game in itself is an SMV m… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people on this subreddit have the wrong idea about MGTOWNot enough time. I would truly love to, I don't like the state of affairs. But, I have to use pure pragmatism if I want to make it anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | When life becomes difficult, you become overburdened, or you lose track of what's important, you should take a glance at your list of priorties... but first, you've got to make a list.If you spent a few hours that day or done everything you possibly can, in some form, working on finding a job or working towards it somehow, you've done your part, so go to the party. If the party takes away from it, I wouldn't. That's my two cents. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | When life becomes difficult, you become overburdened, or you lose track of what's important, you should take a glance at your list of priorties... but first, you've got to make a list.This is it exactly for me. For years I tried to get over feeling tired, it doesn't work for me. Even through training in the military, I wouldn't sleep (this was either on purpose in training, or due to long days.) and was told "I would adjust." I never did. Now it's priority one, and I feel so much better, and all my activities below it do well as a direct result. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 04:44 PM |
| 1 | When life becomes difficult, you become overburdened, or you lose track of what's important, you should take a glance at your list of priorties... but first, you've got to make a list.I am really happy to hear. One suggestion: don't change too much at once. Set a goal of how your priority list should look in 6 months. Make a change every few weeks or so to the way things are. Good luck and don't hesitate to ask for help. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 04:43 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people on this subreddit have the wrong idea about MGTOWFuck this in its fucking ass. It is true that I will sacrifice my personal time to help boys, young men, and even older... if they ask me for help. I do not, however, give a fuck about a movement. This isn't the MRA. I am not here to bitch or make changes to the world, I am here to become top tier elite. I suggest you all do the same. I will point out what I've done, for those who ask me to here. But my goal is not to change the world, that is far too much of a burden, and likely impossible in m… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 04:36 PM |
| 36 | A lot of people on this subreddit have the wrong idea about MGTOWPeople love to limit themselves and place themselves into little categories. The Red Pill is an information source, one cannot associate themselves with The Red Pill beyond saying they're a subscriber. Sure, you can, but then you'd be a walking contradiction. Which sexual strategy do you choose? Do you run them all? Are you here because of a sexual strategy, or do you purely enjoy self improvement, for the sake of money or prestige. Maybe you're a nihilist who enjoys getting pussy. It is not thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/16 05:16 PM |
| 16 | What To Learn And How To Learn ItTo obtain power, you must obtain knowledge. To obtain knowledge, you must pick and choose the path you'll walk down, and what you'll work to master. Decision, as you said, is at the heart of knowledge and power. And to make decisions without knowing their full impact, takes great courage. A man who can keep his mouth shut and make decisions, (not) knowing how they'll impact him or others, is a man of courage. And a man with the potential to be powerful. It is not knowledge alone that will make u… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/16 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Life is transactionalBro, can you please write something I dislike once and a while? Da fuck lol. Great post per usual. I do have a question, though. I would say this method works great when first meeting a girl to make her shit or get off the pot. However, don't you think in many situations, playing by a method similar to what you'll find in "The 48 Laws of Power," could also be helpful to really lock her in? I've always noticed that acting less thirsty and pushy makes girls want you more. I don't mean to drag it o… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/16 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Meditation is Not Red PillI don't know what you do for a profession, but I deal with serious transactions of money and equipment. I deal with those transactions in my personal life also, as I own a business that is similar to my corporate profession. On top of that, I have family members sick or dying, people breathing down my neck for money, and I've got to maintain a healthy lifestyle, a social circle, plates, and improve myself daily with knowledge and by working out, and meditating. Yes, meditating, it's something I … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 01:18 AM |
| 4 | A small suggestion...How about you just start it. Put an introduction in the label and start one weekly. If it's worth something, it will take off. If you want change, you need to take the necessary steps to create it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 07:20 AM |
| 9 | TarzanYou've done a real shit job of throwing together a definition of abundance mentality and dread game. You spent about 4 minutes to do this. You got up on your soap box and yelled at the top of your lungs and everyone kept walking. If you want to write something people will appreciate, spend time learning how to, spend time thinking. Proof read it, and eliminate nonsense, then do it all again. Until then, don't clog up the sub with your half ass bullshit that offers no insight or lessons to others… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Started a company by myself. Currently 1 month into soft-launch, 4 new employees, how to be a good boss?You lack confidence in this area, which you should considering the fact that you've never managed 4 people before. It will take some time, this isn't theory anymore, this is application. Read, "The 48 Laws of Power." Also read, "The 33 Strategies of War." Apply these two books and keep quiet about your reading them, and you will succeed at the very least in the managing of others. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 06:59 AM |
| 28 | TFW - Dumped GF, Smashing Gym, still depressed"Not my fault" Oh boy, you've got some work to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 05:02 AM |
| 14 | Went from ~12% BF to ~18 BF, and it's like I'm in a different worldI agree with this to an extent... You can't fake it though. Thus, who he sees in the mirror, and what he thinks about who he sees, is what he believes others are thinking when he is around them. It's the looking glass self in action. It's almost as if he is playing the "poor me" role in his head. But, "I'm fat," and he doesn't realize his personality is affected by this substantially. This is where true narcissism is really beneficial. But there's too many downfalls to it, to wish you had it. Re… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 04:24 AM |
| 11 | Compassion for your fellow manEverybody wants to make it something it's not. This is a big issue here. Simple put: Alpha = gets pussy. Women want to fuck an alpha. Beta = bargains for pussy. Women will fuck a beta, but it's conditional based upon what he is providing. There are other uses of the word Alpha, however, I think one should define those uses before throwing obscure characteristics out there that fit "their" model of the alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Be Not Contained by a FormulaI am anti PUA. I am anti bullshit. I want tried and true methods, I don't want to hear bullshit about pulling on her left ear lobe when the clock strikes midnight. I can't help but laugh and reject anything the person says thereafter. They're fucking desperate/bored at that point, at the point they've needed to create a method that in-depth. Then they'll claim it doesn't work because she wasn't wearing a red dress. Let me tell you what I wholeheartedly see. I see people who are so fucking backwa… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 08:41 PM |
| 24 | Compassion for your fellow manI really appreciate this post because it has the potential to strike those who need to learn humility most. It is very hard to get balls deep into someone's ego, without the person knowing it right away, but you've done it. The best part about TRP is that you are free to use all aspects of it, one or two, or not any at all. The second best part is that you will get your fucking core shaken. Some people need a reality check. Altbough this post serves a huge purpose of moving those that are ready … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Plate asked to be exclusive, am I making a mistake?Your problem is the problem I see always, your priorities are out of line. Does a man, working to self actualize, have time to worry about this bullshit? You can do whatever you want, I think the most important thing is whether or not you're confident that this won't disrupt your psyche if things don't turn out how you want them to. If you aren't sure, don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/16 05:33 PM |
| 19 | CorporateLand: The Deportment Department, or How to BehaveUltimatly, here is the deal if you want to succeed in any kind of business: You wear a mask at work, and it cannot be removed. If you want to make some friends, do so outside of work. The people at your job are people you seek to game. Each and every one of them is a possible target. Each and everyone of them is someone you can use to gain an advantage in some way, whether you realize it or not. Keep your work life separate from your personal life. Even if you find yourself hanging with these pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 05:28 PM |
| 42 | [FR] Multiple Girlfriends = Multiple lives lived in one. Reflections on a life of plate spinning. [Updated]Great and thorough post, you put a lot of effort into this. I can relate to this. So much of what you've said, felt like it came write from my thinking. Overall lack of spare time You might find your other life activities, relationships, and hobbies limited by the sheer amount of TIME you spend managing multiple relationships. Accept that women are one of your hobbies and be at peace with it. Incorporating your outside interests with your plates can help with this; for instance, keeping my motor… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 06:14 AM |
| 1 | People Here Seek Way Too Much Validation from WomenNo, I don't. I've been single for 2 years. I'm just telling you what would have to happen for me to consider it. I prefer spinning plates and I do. And I keep it easy and I don't expect shit from my plates. I attract them because I am a good looking asshole who doesn't care about them. If they wanted a relationship, they'd have to express all the shit we just talked about or it's not worth it, no matter how good looking she is. And I won't teach her this shit, needs to be inherent. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | People Here Seek Way Too Much Validation from WomenMoney is much less important, trust me. I've got it. Before when I used it, things were ugly. Now that I don't tell anyone what I do and take my other, less expensive car, when I'm around women, they appreciate me much more. You can think whatever you want, I've experienced this, and I mean with more women than I am able to count... you couldn't change my mind. If you make her think all you are is money, all she will respect you for is such. What if I took that money away, then what are you? You… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 05:35 PM |
| 2 | People Here Seek Way Too Much Validation from WomenYou're wrong. You keep looking at it from your/my perspective, look at it from her perspective and then explain to me how else you can express these characteristics. If she doesn't respect me, she will walk all over me, this is human nature. Respect = attraction It's human nature to expect things, once they've been set in place. Especially women, considering this matriarchy, and the way laws are configured. If she doesn't develop respect, you don't have a relationship. You instead have a woman w… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | People Here Seek Way Too Much Validation from WomenFor starters, this community typically embraces questions like this instead of hiding from them. So I will give this an honest shot. Why does a woman's attention have so much value to you? You've phrased the question from a point of view which misunderstands the foundation of many beliefs here. Speaking for myself, women and their attention don't matter as much as self actualization. But, if I have people in my life, man or woman, I would like to have power over them. This is the key. So, if you… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 05:01 PM |
| 11 | OwnershipSure it is, that's why I suggested to start here. But, just imagine if people got out of their head for 5 seconds and realized what I just said. I hate heights. I hate flying. I jumped from a plane... solo. I was nervous as fuck when I booked it. But nothing could compare to when I got there and they told me my plane was already on the runway, ready to go. I didn't even have time to laugh with my two buddies or second guess and back out of the jump. I was up there, alone (in my head, that's how … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 03:19 AM |
| 38 | OwnershipYou can talk all you want, and I suggest you start there, but at the end of the day, you've got to mount up and take action. Do you hate talking to hot women you don't know? Good, admit it. Now go and do it. Do you hate heights? Good, admit it. Now go jump from a plane. Do you hate the awkwardness that follows a weird conversation? Good, admit it. Now go talk to some people. Do you hate waking up at 0600? Good, admit it. Now wake up at 0500. Fear and fear of discomfort, are the only things stopp… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 03:12 AM |
| 5 | OwnershipYou forgot to say, "and fix it." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Calm The Fuck Down, This Isn't An Easy Process. If You Do It Right, It Will Take Time.Yes. And not only so I could defend myself better, but also to reap the mental and physical benefits. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 04:39 AM |
| 27 | Calm The Fuck Down, This Isn't An Easy Process. If You Do It Right, It Will Take Time.fuck yeah I made it, I'm finally alpha. No. You're not here to prove yourself to this community, that's your ego. You're not here to prove yourself to anyone, it's not a notch counting game. Do you enjoy life and want to wake up tomorrow and do it all again? Do you feel satisfied? Do you understand and appreciate your life, and the world around you? Why are you doing what you're doing? This is what matters. This is what speaks to who you are, and whether or not your actually want to be who you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 04:37 AM |
| 2 | To cheat or not to cheat?No one here should answer this. We take an amoral stance, and anyone that weighs in, would be giving you an opinion of how their morals work. What is right and wrong in their eyes. Stop looking for a head nod to cheat on your girl. Pull up your pants, and make decisions like a big boy. Leave her, stay with her and cheat, or don't, no one cares, you're the one who has to put your head on the pillow at night and be able to go to sleep. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Question about "how to manage your bitches"?What if dogs didn't fuck doggie style? What if I was green, instead of white? What if Oprah Winfrey had a 10" Dick? What if... AWALT works on a simple premise; majority. We don't give a fuck about your unicorns (those, or horses with horns.) or any dream girls you think you'll find. We give a fuck what the majority is doing, because this is most likely what you will encounter. We can what if for days, or you can go out there, collect the unicorn specimen, and bring her in for testing... 50 bucks… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Calm The Fuck Down, This Isn't An Easy Process. If You Do It Right, It Will Take Time.Happy to hear about your success, brother. PM if you ever have anything you think I can help you with or that I can possibly point you in the right direction of. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Calm The Fuck Down, This Isn't An Easy Process. If You Do It Right, It Will Take Time.Yeah, people like you usually don't... unless of course it's followed with your onesitis crushing you, then you will most certainly go through the depression phase. It's got it's benefits though, you sure won't forget what you've learned after that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Calm The Fuck Down, This Isn't An Easy Process. If You Do It Right, It Will Take Time.Yeah, unless you know exactly what you're doing, you don't want to specifically demonstrate charisma to women you're trying to fuck or hook up with in any way, LTR included. You need to show you're above them. And having charisma draws you into others frames a little. Don't look to be charismatic towards women you're trying to fuck, or if you are, make sure your game is proficient enough to allow you to still demonstrate polarity, respect, and dominance. Good work. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 12:52 AM |
| 10 | How would you guys use your laserbeam eye contact in this situation?How about: "hi my name is..." Then ask her to get together for coffee or to study, or whatever the fuck you want. The point is to show her your intent, not make her file a police report. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/16 12:49 AM |
| 10 | Calm The Fuck Down, This Isn't An Easy Process. If You Do It Right, It Will Take Time.Go to the search bar, and limit to TRP. Type; "comprehensive red pill books redux." Charisma Myth? Pff, your mind will = blown. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 12:31 AM |
| 6 | Calm The Fuck Down, This Isn't An Easy Process. If You Do It Right, It Will Take Time.Yeah, Whisper wrote a pretty indepth post (search "TRP Stages and how to read posts" if you're interested since I can't link it for some reason.) about this a few years back. I wanted to specifically touch on the milestones in the process that I encountered. Thanks for adding the cognitive dissonance piece, that will help others who may not know what it is and its relation to TRP. Really good point that I'm glad you added. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | (field report) Girlfriend kissed guy right in front of her boyfriendI don't want to get into specifics to avoid potential dox. No, it was my choice to end both the relationships, they both still visit me and still ask be back together. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 05:00 PM |
| 1 | (field report) Girlfriend kissed guy right in front of her boyfriendNo, experience. Me and a few of my close friends agreed on that number the past year or so from our experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Do workout programs help get you started?That it's up to him to develop a workout plan and diet. That he is searching for a simple way to get back in shape, when there isn't one. It's about developing life long habits, not jumping on some plan that will fall through or end. There is plenty of information on the internets about how to eat during a bulk or a cut, and how to lift as well. He's lazy, just like you are when you criticized my advice instead of doing what you consider better. Peace slobs. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 11:58 PM |
| 5 | (field report) Girlfriend kissed guy right in front of her boyfriend1 out of 200 if you're lucky. The point is, don't bother otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.Polarize and make her realize you're the prize. Rhymes for days... rhymes for days. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Do workout programs help get you started?No. Lift and eat right, stop hamstering excuses not to develop self discipline and do the work. You are the workout program. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 11:34 PM |
| 1 | At what age do men start to lose their excitement towards the fun things in life and start becoming more jaded, cynical, and way too serious?Go meditate. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 11:34 PM |
| 20 | (field report) Girlfriend kissed guy right in front of her boyfriendWant to know when you can be in a committed relationship? When you have a girl who views you as a fucking God. I've had this happen with two of my LTR's. They would suck shit off my dick if I told them to. When you have a girl who respects you so deeply, she asks to cook and clean for you, consistently asks to be by your side, pays for things, and looks up to you with the utmost respect, then these are the things you don't need to worry about. It would take someone of seriously high SMV, that sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 11:26 PM |
| 28 | Surprise visit to a LDR ex?Zero abundance. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.This is society: Lack of self awareness. Confused about morals. Under educated. Stuck in a Hollywood movie or influence of media. The lack of assertiveness is nice. That's what makes someone a "nice guy." They're a push over. Typically stems from confusion, lack of direction in childhood, and low self esteem. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.Exactly, all of that equals commitment and investment. Something you should not provide unless the candidate is vetted and worthy. On the flip side, you can provide it by doing exactly what you just said. It's a hands off approach. Sure, you may not have the same impact, but it's a trade off. And there are many benefits to its impact. This is the overall point. That we need to do exactly this given the current state of affairs. And the reasoning has everything to do with your time, your most pre… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.This is true, but it takes someone with experience to understand the difference between "let it go," and allowing someone to do something that doesn't push boundaries. Usually this isn't a good way to look at strategy for new comers, because building self respect is the first goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.No. An alpha is a man that women find attractive, and want to have sex with as a result. This attractiveness is based on traits. In an "alpha male," you'll see more alpha traits than you will beta traits, making him predominantly alpha. An alpha male, sex God, the point. No. It's all what you want it to be. This is just the truth, not looking at things in a politically correct sense, looking at them for what they are. If you want it to be more, so be it. There is no paradigm you must settle into… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 06:37 PM |
| 11 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.Masculine isn't something you're born, male is. Polarity is pull. Just because you fuck her, and keep your distance, it doesn't mean you cannot develop this polarity still. Your involvement or investment needs to be less than hers. It needs to stay this way... until something sprouts. You can begin to invest beyond small weekly interaction, when you find things out about her character, not what she says, what she does. About how willing she is to please and submit, and how good of a partner she … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 05:35 PM |
| 9 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.Masculinity is based off of one thing, and one thing only; societal influence. So, in essence, masculinity = what girls find attractive in men. Certain things won't change too much... physique, facial symmetry. The rest is horse shit society has created in order to form ideal images of men. Masculinity isn't the answer, it's dynamic and based off of women's wants, just like male sexual strategy is based off of women's sexual strategy. The key is to play the right role that benefits men the most.… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 05:16 PM |
| 10 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.Tittles aside, what choice do men have today? Today, women are raised to believe their behavior is normal, that they are the same as men. That they can ride the CC without repercussions. This is all false and puts us, with the know how, in a position where we have no choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 04:37 PM |
| -2 | Burst the Bubble. Don't be a media statistic.This is a really good question. This is a huge topic, because there is so much influence on our media. To be totally clear, one way or another, it's biased. I stay out of it almost completely. NPR is good. They are one of the most trusted. Why? Well, the biggest question, the first question we have to ask is: WHERE ARE they getting their funding from... WHO? This is what you should always look at. For example, there is a pie chart a few clicks down the page, this shows you who makes up NPR's fun… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 04:07 AM |
| 11 | Burst the Bubble. Don't be a media statistic.In 1983, 90% of our media was owned and controlled by 50 different companies. Today, 90% of our news, whether we read, watch or listen to it, is dominated by six media giants: Comcast News Corporation The Walt Disney Company Viacom Time Warner CBS Corporation Two words: independent media. Even though they may take a check once and a while to publish a certain story, they'll also put out the shit that forces people to write them checks. Regardless, it's all a vacuum, pay little attention to any o… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/16 01:15 AM |
| 2 | TRP.RED Live-update thread for the US presidential debate: #FirstDebateAny one of these make someone stop in their tracks, lose their train of thought, and start validating them self to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The Truth About Confidence. Forget most of the bullshit you think you know about confidence, let's keep this pragmatic.I don't necessarily disagree. I made the post so people could stop missing the overall picture of what confidence looks like. If they stick to a proven set of guidelines, it'll develop for certain. That may or may not be true when they pick up a few traits of a confident individual. Instead, they should pick up his thought process. The point was to do away with speculation. Not that you literally need to pick up one trait or another when it comes to confidence, but that confidence comes from sel… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 04:25 PM |
| 2 | I kicked my fwb out for bad sex. It has been four days now. Should I say sorry or nah?We're not talking about what she needs. You did something, that's that. What are you going to do, take it back? If you apologized, it wouldn't mean shit. You're getting real desperate for some pussy, huh? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 06:19 AM |
| 9 | I kicked my fwb out for bad sex. It has been four days now. Should I say sorry or nah?How can you apologize for something you did intentionally? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 05:45 AM |
| 4 | The Truth About Confidence. Forget most of the bullshit you think you know about confidence, let's keep this pragmatic.Self improvement through self discipline, I don't disagree, and I'm not sure why you thought I meant otherwise. Here are some of the lines you can find in the post in case you skipped over them... "Develop your body" "Self improvement" "As I said before, the core component of confidence really comes from self improvement and development" Confused where you got your conclusion from unless you stopped reading or jumped over words... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 04:58 AM |
| 22 | The Truth About Confidence. Forget most of the bullshit you think you know about confidence, let's keep this pragmatic.Look at these words from an outsiders perspective, from my perspective... Hate how inconvenient And I can't do things Life fucked me over You're being pretty harsh on yourself, man. I do not know what it is like to have what you have. I have my own struggles in life, as so many others do, it is relative to each individual. The mind is a funny thing. There are so many components to it, and sometimes it fucks with us. All of what you said, is a rejection of yourself. You don't accept yourself, or … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/16 04:32 AM |
| 1 | being a jerk escalated for more than 7 yearsProblem 1: Your expectations of women are wrong. Problem 2: You are worried about onestis and rejection, so you shy away from girls you actually find attractive. You only approach girls several tiers below your capability. Or, you know you're incapable, which means you need to develop yourself. This in turn leads to a less fulfilling life. Solutions: Read the sidebar and everything you can on askTRP and TRP. You'll figure out the answers. Specifically, your problem is confidence and lack of abun… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Pride and EgoListen to none of it and realize this is why women are below you. Press on toward greatness. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 10:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I get better at PowertalkUse the search bar like an adult and start reading. There are references to Gervais Principle among other things. Then practice in your life. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 10:14 PM |
| 5 | My friends abuse their self. They have no self awareness, and no idea why they're doing what they're doing.Figure of speech. I thank myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 10:10 PM |
| 3 | My friends abuse their self. They have no self awareness, and no idea why they're doing what they're doing.No matter how bad I've seen people suffer, even when I watched my friend get divorce raped, I knew I would look like an idiot if I offered advice. I said small things like get a lawyer, and don't trust her when she says she doesn't want money. But even then, I knew it fell on deaf ears. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 01:29 PM |
| 1 | "The Perfect Bata"Nah, sexual strategy still benefits her so long as she isn't getting fucked and chucked. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 11:21 AM |
| 3 | My friends abuse their self. They have no self awareness, and no idea why they're doing what they're doing.I know where they stand in my circle. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 02:01 AM |
| 2 | "The Perfect Bata"That's ironic. Because that's typically what you need in order to obtain tutelage. It's watching others spin their wheels whilst you control their moves to your benefits. Make them think they're getting somewhere, but in all reality, you're the only one moving forward. So basically, you're saying, that you dislike the game. And whether or not it's because you're frustrated or not good enough at playing people, only you know. Once you get it, it's just so easy. Not trying to attack or belittle yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Trying to gauge my SMV and attractiveness level as a minority guy. Is this the case for most?Here's the problem with you fuckers. It isn't your race or your height, it's the fact that you know what the best is, and you're not reaching for it. You know where you fall as far as limitations go, and instead of just acknowledging that, you hamster up ways to increase your confidence with the way you are now. Stop wondering, and start working towards developing the best you possible given your genetics. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 08:21 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Plate explains why Red Pill men are "different".Watch what she does, not what she says. And that is how you avoid manipulation. Don't listen to the mind worm she is planting, it's meaningless. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | "The Perfect Bata"When you say sick of the overall climate, you mean sick of playing the politics game? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 08:15 PM |
| 11 | "The Perfect Bata"So you're mostly the altruistic type, unless of course someone tries to fuck with you or the benefits you'll gain outweigh the pain another will experience. In other words, you don't enjoy others in pain. When you work in a heavily political environment, you start to develop a kind of sickness. You turn people on each other because "you know you have to" in order to get ahead. Then your morals start to bend. "It isn't that bad, they don't know what I've done, only I do." Then the sickness spread… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 05:13 PM |
| 15 | "The Perfect Bata"Having a keen insight into Machiavellian doesn't make you part of the dark side. Having immorality does. The ex isn't afraid of Machiavellian traits, she is afraid of immorality. For example, you're Machiavellian and acted altruistically by trying to show the nice guy the truth about the world, instead of gaming the 25 year old out from under him (not sure if 25 year olds are even your thing, but you get the point.). To be truly Machiavellian, it would mean that the beta here would need serious … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Failed a sbit test in more complex situation than I'm used to. Help with recovery?Next her. Go open some new ones. Don't become her plate, you're pushing the boundaries of your self respect here. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with people who start shit in the street?3 good choices: Agree and amplify. Say, "okay," and laugh. Don't say anything. There is nothing worth it. If you fight him, and win, it proves you're a better fighter. Vice versa if he wins. But, regardless, you risk being arrested or killing him, and being arrested. Who cares who is the better fighter, especially when we have the police dying to arrest people over anything. He's trying to flex on you in front of his girl, he was acting totally unnecessarily. If he touches you, then you rip his … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 04:37 AM |
| 3 | How do I handle this? GF had an affairBecause you shut the door on her, she's lost. She is throwing a fit and hates you. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 03:03 AM |
| 4 | I agreed to let my wife have sex wither exNo, you're right, she won't. Instead, she'll do just what she's doing now. Get to stay with you, suck those benefits of comfort and material, and fuck another guy who makes her pussy wet. And she will do all that because she can, because you have no self respect. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:17 AM |
| 6 | "Making him laugh is like the best thing ever" "When he laughs he's like a child"Watch what they do, not what they say. Whether it's them trying to get you to qualify yourself through a shit test, doesn't matter so much as you knowing that women say all sorts of irrational, illogical things, that don't actually mean anything. Her P on your D is what matters. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:15 AM |
| 2 | I agreed to let my wife have sex wither exSounds like you're in for a real treat, hope you guys enjoy ;) | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:11 AM |
| 5 | I agreed to let my wife have sex wither exMmhhmm. It's working for you, and it fits you well. Keep it up. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:08 AM |
| 8 | I agreed to let my wife have sex wither exLol join in... This time you'll join in, what about last week or month when she already got dicked down by him and you didn't know? She's a slut. You're a chump. It's as simple as that. You're a provider type, and you don't make her tingle. This guy does, it's why she needs him. You joining in or not doesn't fucking matter. "Afraid to take responsibility." That's why you're bargaining. You're afraid to do the work to be her tingles. You're leaving it up to Fabio. Baisically you're a pussy, but n… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 02:04 AM |
| 8 | I agreed to let my wife have sex wither exYou're letting your wife fuck another man. Whether it's the first time, or the eighth time, you're a cuck. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Learning a lot all at once or focusing on one thing at a timeIt's a marathon, not a sprint. It's good you're excited, but channel that excitement into scheduling and action. Set up a schedule or a "personal syllabus." Pick something to start with, and stick with it so you're not spinning your wheels. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 01:55 AM |
| 17 | I agreed to let my wife have sex wither exOh, so you're a cuck. So exciting. For everyone else, this guy is in the bargaining stage, afraid to take responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 01:52 AM |
| 6 | How do I handle this? GF had an affairPaternity test for starters. You're going to want your name off the birth cert if it isn't yours, right? called DHS and as soon as someone does, DHS has no choice but to start an investigation. You're calling the lawyer to cover your ass, intiate court for custody and remove your name from the kids birth cert need be. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 01:48 AM |
| 10 | How do I handle this? GF had an affairListen closely. Take the picture down, it has your name in it. You can leave the post up for advice if you're willing to take the risk, but remove the picture now. Give her stuff to a neutral family member or friend. Have them contact her. Anything of yours, consider gone. Contact a lawyer tomorrow. If you're low on money, borrow some. If you don't contact a lawyer, you run the risk of her tainting your name, in this day and age, the court and police dont think twice, they will side with her and… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 01:43 AM |
| 1 | An Interesting Documentary About a Man Who Lived Life His Own WayThreats expose your possible plan of attack and give insight of your abilities to the enemy. Exactly, in order to make it as natural as possible, you must display your ability to replace her through dread game and social proof, right in front of her eyes. She'll take nothing more serious. Words are meaningless to her, but showing the possibilities through actions will give her a concrete understanding she won't forget or take lightly. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 01:34 AM |
| 8 | An Interesting Documentary About a Man Who Lived Life His Own WayFrom experience, I've learned that threats are fucking meaningless. Don't threaten these hoes, they know when they're being shitty. Just pack your shit and bounce or don't, but don't threaten them, it shows weakness. It shows they've gained the upper hand and that you, yourself, are feeling threatened. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/16 02:57 PM |
| 34 | An Interesting Documentary About a Man Who Lived Life His Own WayFor any girl you're seeing, you should be able to walk away at any point. You can get attached only so much if you always truly believe you can do better. This is good for many reasons: If you keep this mindset, you won't allow yourself to be tied to her financially, through too many mutual friends, through too much of anything. If she disrespects you, you can stand up and walk out the door. If you have other interests, you can pursue them without feeling guilty about leaving her behind. You sho… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/16 02:21 AM |
| – | No interest in womenSounds to me like you're over thinking everything. Calm down. Do this: Go out and fuck another girl, and don't question a thing. Stop saying to yourself, beforehand, "I need to please her, I need to get it up." Instead calm the fuck down, don't worry about an impression, and be in that moment, not anywhere else, not worried. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 02:16 AM |
| 2 | how long to wait before seeing plate again?Logistics only. I'd let them come to you. Try that out. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Is this shit oneitis?Call it what you want, but at the end of the day, it's simple... you lack abundance. If you had ten girls like that, you'd be wondering which one deserves your time that night of the week more. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Any massholes out there?Careful for the dox. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 12:48 AM |
| 2 | how long to wait before seeing plate again?Once a week is good. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/16 12:47 AM |
| 10 | The Red Pill Guide To: Motivation - How To Gravitate Towards It.Motivation comes, motivation goes. You shouldn't do stuff based upon "how you feel," you should do it because you're self disciplined. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/16 12:45 AM |
| 4 | "Grow up" : Guys (even on here) who judge and attack guys their age trying to live the partying/hedonistic lifestyle are not that different than post wall women who want men in their prime to settle down.You, yourself, are telling people how to live. Who the fuck cares what they say. Next? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Be the patriarchMeditate, read, lift, get social, pick up some hobbies, repeat. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Sadness is a normal reaction after swallowing the pill. But, there is hope.Definitely fucked my psych up for a bit there. But I knew if I stuck it out and did the things people suggested here, I would be fine. I started doing some crazy shit, jumping solo out of planes and I fucking hate heights. But, now that I made it through that, not really worried about much in life, nothing stresses me or bothers me. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Sadness is a normal reaction after swallowing the pill. But, there is hope.Not at all, just read your post after I read this comment. To be honest, I took TRP quite literal when I first found it. I'm very impulsive like that, and didn't see anyone helping me out of the hole I was in as an option. Just different view points, plus I pretty much grew up alone, and I've always kind of thought of life like that. I know nihilism is a cop out. It's for those who can't fathom or find a purpose, or for those so lost in their own thoughts, they can't see a way out. The point of … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 01:13 AM |
| 20 | Be the patriarchThe slogan "real man," pisses me off more than anything. I actually cringe when I hear that. If that isn't the most manipulative shit I've ever heard, I don't know what is. "You're not living up to the standard, you're just a fuck boy." Everytime I hear it, I know it's wormed itself into another mind of the blue pill. They're not killing themselves over definitions of a word and whether they meet that definition. They're killing themselves because their lives suck. And that is entirely because t… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What do I do about a non-existing biological imperative?Don't bullshit yourself. Girls want to be approached always. They don't leave their house without doing their makeup and dressing up. This is because they want to look young, fertile, and get fucked. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What do I do about a non-existing biological imperative?What are you scared of? She says no, you walk away and try again with another girl tomorrow. Anything beyond that level of simplicity is your mind playing tricks on you. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 05:26 PM |
| 77 | Be the patriarchThe only reason women have any power at all is because men play along. And sadly, are manipulated from birth to play along. For so many, there isn't even a choice or a chance. This post is exactly why The Red Pill causes such depression in men. It destroys their view of the world. It's not love, it's dopamine and oxytocin. It isn't until men can realize "things for what they are," that they can see that their laziness, isn't laziness... it's increased cortisol. It's other hormones wreaking havoc… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Would it be sane to monk mode until I'm successful?No. You need to learn to integrate the things you do in monk mode, into your own life. This will be a failed attempt at living. Set a goal on monk mode, and timing. Then get out and integrate these things into your normal life. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 05:06 PM |
| 5 | What do I do about a non-existing biological imperative?a week ago Problem number one, you shouldn't even be asking questions until a month of reading goes by. Even though I don’t feel the need to become better, I want to. I really, really want to. Cognative dissonance. This is why you wait a month to ask questions. Spin the ideas in your head and you'll answer your own questions soon enough. You're tripping over your own feet right now. Pump the brakes and just read, absorb, critically think, repeat. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalAll I am saying is... Law 29, read that section. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersCrazy how that works. 9 see's me as alpha God and asks to eat my asshole. 8 won't look me in the eyes. Hahaha | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is BlackDragon blog authentic?I've read a few articles he's legit. However, Rollo's is great. And Illimitableman's subreddit is def worth paying for. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Can't get enough of an Arian=White pussyI can see that... I just was wondering how you even come up with some shit like that. Unless of course he tripping balls. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Can't get enough of an Arian=White pussyI read the whole thing, how does one generate that much retard? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:47 AM |
| 11 | Killing male ambitionIt validates TRP in that you're the lucky fuck who gets to see it and act accordingly. Given that most of the population lacks self awareness or the ability to discern what is truly going on. If we were in a patriarchy, TRP wouldn't exist, or at least not in the way that its currently configured. Look how many people here support the minimalist lifestyle. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Fuck I relapsedThere's pelvic floor muscle exercises, start doing them. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:38 AM |
| 1 | LTR kissing guy for play? With guy for photshoot?"Sure thing, honey." guy then sees his girlfriend on pornhub I just wouldn't put myself in this situation. But if it's for work or something, no problem. Only borrowing her snatch anyway. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Can I pretend to be social and friendly?Humility. Come down from up there, my friend. No one is going to bite you if come to grips with solidarity. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/16 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersYes. The ego. But an ego is a tool, just as much as stoicism is. And if he really can make his first good observation, he'll see I used my ego to deflect his original shit test. Which, if I might add, worked quite well by the looks of the upvotes, his downvotes, and my ability to pull him into my frame after. I thought it may have been a bit much to allude to all of this for his first lesson though, no? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Women are wonderful - But you must weed through the insecure nutjobs to find themIt doesn't exist beyond the chemical and physical aspect. In almost every sense of the word, it's misused. That's why I think it's better to teach people another way. It's better to teach young TRP'ers that they should believe in attraction, instead of love. That is, until they truly understand love=chemical and physical. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Women are wonderful - But you must weed through the insecure nutjobs to find themThat's my point, it exists as chemicals in the brain, part of our evolution, nothing more. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Women are wonderful - But you must weed through the insecure nutjobs to find themI wouldn't call what I experienced hurt. I would call it disappointment. To believe in something that wasn't real, only for the truth to be exposed later in life, is kind of disheartening. If someone doesn't feel like this after truly pursing the roots of the methodology here, then I'd be surprised. However, you get through it, and over it, and accept it. And when you do, you reframe what love is. I do know what it is now, I have a clear definition and don't think it follows the pattern of what … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersThat's okay, it's okay to be new. Everyone was once new. In a year, you'll be on the best path you've ever been on in your life. The year after that, pff even better. You just have to start reading, drop your pre existing beliefs, and you'll not only have women all over you, but your life will be much better and easier. Finding this place (obviously accidental.) is, without a doubt, one of the top 3 best things that ever happened to me in my life. Who knows where life would have went without it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 02:00 AM |
| 9 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersWatch your passive aggressiveness. You're the one acting bitter. I am writing this to help you see something, so try to think before you respond in defense again. Having an opinion is fine, but when people disagree with it, you can't combat them and get upset that they don't agree with you. It makes you seem weak and like you're socially inept. What would you have thought if I responded like this to your comment? "You seem pretty bitter towards that 8 for not giving you the time of day bro." "Na… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 12:54 AM |
| 4 | Women are wonderful - But you must weed through the insecure nutjobs to find themAnd just like that, this comment above should return you to reality. Rarely if ever, do we see field reports that tell of how wonderful and effortless dating women who have their shit together can be and it's a bit sad. It's only effortless because you've done everything to make it so. That same women you date effortlessly, has stomped someone out, somewhere. She isn't an angel, she just acts like one around you because of her perception of you. I don't know why it's so hard for some to accept r… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 12:37 AM |
| 17 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersLol I bet I am her friend too. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersThis is the true story most parents don't use to teach their kids. Mostly, I thinks it's because they don't know. They don't know what people's intentions are, or what is going on in the world, nevermind in their own head. Self and societal awareness are pillars of success. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 08:21 PM |
| 12 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersHahah no. I've been shut down hundreds of times. More to come. "I usually ask girls to fuck right when we meet. Yeah, I get slapped a lot... but I also get fucked a lot." | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 07:55 PM |
| 22 | Before she hits the wall, she will utilize her beauty to enjoy the dualistic nature she prefersBecause he was angry enough to have to take it to that level. In all reality, it's her uping her ego. It's not what really happened or what's being done, it's what she thinks happened. This, of course, always in her favor to save her fragile ego. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalI understand your point, so I only have one question left... How can you strategize, if you don't know what to strategize for? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalIt's simple, rhetoric is useful where rhetoric is useful. Machiavellianian means to be dynamic. It has everything to do with one size fits all, because it's understanding people. That's all it is. But it's never one size fits all when it comes to response, it is only one size fits all when it comes to definition. Each persons personality is different, we just have many ways of saying the same things. If you can understand what people "are really saying," then you've got it. Because if you unders… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalThat's what I mean, I didn't notice how redundant it was until after I posted it. The message is there, it's my delivery that is fucked. Delivery has got a ton to do with it. Just need to revisit the drawing board and do better. I'm more than capable and have done it before. And I can't remove it, as if I am trying to hide my faults from readers at TRP... I delivered subpar, and the mods didn't remove it, so I'm not going to hide it. I'll just do much better next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalYour ego needs a check. You're now deliberately searching out argument. How do you know he wasn't referring to the amount of downvotes? Why do you care? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalLocation, location, location. Of course your position matters, you'll have more reach and be more intimidating. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalI don't think it was a quality post, I should of put more work into it. Regardless, you get my point, it just wasn't good enough to make an impact and I need to better organize my ideas before posting. To widen the scope and get discussion where I wanted it to go... Power is very subjective. What seems like power to one person, isn't to another. If you're a mayor, you're very limited on the realm your power controls in comparison to a senator. I suppose we could say to flex power on every avenue… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Do not make your end goal obtaining power, use power to obtain your end goalEverything is meaningless, my little hamster... This is my favorite part lol. Some nihilism, maybe a trip to the doctor is in store for you. No, this post is based off of my take away from life experience in a severely political environment. It's 2016, where are you shedding blood and why? If we are talking top tier, less than 1% of the population, which I assume you never to reach (nor anyone reading this.), then yes, bloodshed may be necessary from foot soldiers. "Perhaps the greatest strategi… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 09:21 PM |
| 3 | The most effective mental model is thinking of alpha and beta traits, not of being alpha or being betaThis is absolutely correct and I am unsure why after reading this, someone wouldn't understand the point of what we do here at TRP. There is also another way to view the alpha/beta dynamic that occurs amongst animals. 100% of the females reproduce with (the top) 20% of the male population, the remaining 80% of males don't reproduce or rarely do. So alpha/beta applies to the traits a male has, not only in his behavior, but in his genetics and appearance. This is why game can be used if you're ugl… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Question on r/TheRedPill community : r/K selection and further depth.The case is this: Yes, this community wants to always expand its knowledge and challenge ideas. Yes, this community knows about these topics. It's not as if most people, I'm sure the founders in particular, haven't thought about them. But, The Red Pill is a praxeology and finds its purpose as such. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Social anxietyThat's the problem. It's not appearance, it's your mind you need to work on. Google "meditation" and read everything you can. Then, make this a priority. Study Zen related topics, relax, and stop caring what people think of you. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 12:50 PM |
| 11 | First one night stand with RP approachGood shit, man. Thanks for coming back and adding a field report. "the more you ignore her, the more she shall want your dick." Everything sounds good, except for this. It's not about "ignoring her" as much as it is about having outcome independence. In other words, just because this girl came along for the ride, it doesn't mean she is the only one you should socialize with or game. You should make yourself an integral part of the group, and include her. But, you should most definitely break off… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 12:47 PM |
| 8 | This time from personalfinance sub: A guy buys a new car, goes out on vacation, dates; thus gets into 40k debt. Then he loses his job, no points for guessing what his gf did!And he allowed her to manipulate him. Who is in control of themselves? Who is responsible for themselves? You are, I am, and everyone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 12:34 PM |
| 10 | Don't confuse your own selfishness, immaturity, and insecurity for a shit test.This is contradictory, and I don't understand your message. "The childish nihilism of TRP" Really, where did you pick this up? It's a sexual strategy, nothing more. Actually, no, it's far from nihilism... as the majority support self discipline and longevity of ones self. I hate how people view this subreddit as if it's a following, it's not. Some idiot the other day wrote something like, "a real man of TRP..." Fuck you bro, don't tell me how to live, I don't give a fuck what you consider a real… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 12:26 PM |
| 24 | This time from personalfinance sub: A guy buys a new car, goes out on vacation, dates; thus gets into 40k debt. Then he loses his job, no points for guessing what his gf did!"Chicks" don't mess up your finances. You mess up your finances. If a "chick" is going to leave, they're going to leave whether or not you "allow them to." A woman shouldn't be in charge of these things in a relationship, if you allow her anywhere near them, you haven't read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 11:31 AM |
| 18 | How do I demote my LTR back to plate status?You lessen your time, devotion, validation, and expenses bit by bit. Slowly but surely. Shh be very quiet, don't say a word, just do this very slowly. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | University choiceStart out at the closer one, take classes that can be applied to both so you can move down the line. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/16 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Just do it: A guide on Inner Game and eliminating self doubts about yourself or with womenI definitely agree with this, it's like mental masturbation, before mental masturbation. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 11:02 AM |
| 43 | Just do it: A guide on Inner Game and eliminating self doubts about yourself or with womenConfidence comes down to believing in yourself. You need to accomplish things in your life in order to be confident. This is typically done through self motivation and specifically self discipline. Unless, of course, you're born perfect, then you're good to go because everyone has told you, you are your whole life. The rest is all overthinking, get out there and be willing to be shut down. Actually, the fact that you're rationalizing why you should go do this, is too much. So guys who are readin… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 09:13 AM |
| 1 | "The world is addicted to everything." What is addiction, and how can I stop it once and for all?I said you should distract yourself because the preftontal cortex is a newer structure of the brain and is no match for the rest. The prefrontal cortex is where will power emerges from. http://www.cnn.com/2013/09/14/health/self-control-brain/ The prefrontal cortex is newer than other parts of the brain and came about due to evolution in the past 2000 years. It's actually the newest part of our brain. http://m.nautil.us/issue/15/turbulence/dude-wheres-my-frontal-cortex | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | In an abundant world, might women be the proper providers?I am talking generalities here. You're focusing on the small details yet, your post talks about generalities. Statistics: there are always outliers, there are always smaller portions that sway slightly differently than the majority. Of course there are male nurses, also. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 02:59 PM |
| -7 | Shit test: "You think you'll get the privilege?""You're the privileged one." | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Planing dates week after week, with no predictabilityWorking with her schedule doesn't mean you're walking into her frame. If you're rearranging your life around her, then you've got an issue. Stop looking at the minor details. Self actualize, don't focus on the in between. Everything will fall into place if you reach for greatness in your own life... you'll be acting accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 02:56 PM |
| 2 | In an abundant world, might women be the proper providers?There's a problem here... you're assuming women actually want to provide based upon the idea that they are willing to exchange something for protection. Only, they get plenty of protection from state, they don't need you. Additionally, women care more about being social than they do about providing. It's exactly why they'll choose a career as a nurse or a secretary, whilst men will choose data or science based careers without much social interaction. They don't contribute in society, just to con… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 02:52 PM |
| 44 | Enjoy the Destruction of the Blue Pill MythologyIf you're sad, it has everything to do with expectations. Things aren't the way you thought they were. This is how it is. The only way to get over it, is to accept it. You accept it by accepting responsibility of your own life. If a onesitis has crushed you, or you're a beta who hasn't crushed a vagina yet, there is hope. Same goes for those who are socially awkward, constantly dominated, or abused. There is hope for you to take responsibility of your own life and move forward. You shouldn't be … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 3 | I'm at a Huge Crossroads with my Inner (Alpha vs Beta)Notice any trends on the days you act more beta? Hmm... lack of sleep or appropriate sleep? Diet off? Missed a lift day or didn't go hard enough? Regardless, this transition takes time. How many beta traits you had before is a good indicator of how long it will take to unravel, the important thing is remaining self aware and prevailing. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 01:10 AM |
| 1 | ex-LTR hits me up weeks laterYep. Acting cray cray, id block and move on. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 10:07 PM |
| -4 | Jonah Hill Cancels All Interviews In France After Weather Girl Mocks His Sex Life On National TV.Pff any chick who saw Jonah hill with his shirt off would throw up in her mouth. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Women and guy friendsYes. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 03:25 PM |
| 31 | The real value of women is so much lower than betas thinkThe other thing to realize is that the only value of pussy, is that it is pussy, nothing more. At the end of the day, if you accept you're on your own, you come to understand women are just for sex. Once you realize that, you won't put your self respect on the line for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Jonah Hill Cancels All Interviews In France After Weather Girl Mocks His Sex Life On National TV.Oh, I know he does. But less than 1% of TRP is at this status. My point is to show you that even though you're funny, rich, and successful, people won't necessarily be attracted to you or respect you. Especially if you look like you've been eating KFC 3 times a day for the last 5 years. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 02:11 PM |
| 2 | ex-LTR hits me up weeks laterDecide what you want then reply. If it is surely to plate her, then you'd respond like this: "This is way out in left field." She will question mark you or something to this extent. Your reactions to her are very spaced out and aloof. The aloofness needs to reach next level considering you've only had a break of 3 weeks. Keep this theory in mind whilst replying. Nothing should be direct, everything should tip toe around what she is asking. Just be careful, don't get overly involved or turn on an… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 02:07 PM |
| 4 | ex-LTR hits me up weeks laterWhat is your end goal? You want to get back with her? Plate her? Or niether? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 01:50 PM |
| 28 | Women and guy friendsHere's the deal: Women are social creatures. They care about social status more than you or me. Women are also fragile creatures. They have huge, narcissistic egos. In order to keep this ego inflated, one thing they do is surround themselves with men who are willing to validate them at the drop of a hat. Women need to be led. They can't go without a relationship or a man in their life. So, they keep men in their circle by the dozens. She'll always have more options than you, and this is exactly … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 01:46 PM |
| 52 | Jonah Hill Cancels All Interviews In France After Weather Girl Mocks His Sex Life On National TV.Money can get you top notch hookers. You've got two options: AF or BB. If you want to be the AF, you've got to look the part, have game, and be the good time. That's all you're supplying her with, a good time, and something nice for her to look at. At the end of the day, it's all an exchange for sex. You just have to decide what you're willing to exchange for it. Regardless, the fact remains, you will never be good enough for women. If you're a provider, you're only good for providing and not wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 01:23 PM |
| 261 | Jonah Hill Cancels All Interviews In France After Weather Girl Mocks His Sex Life On National TV.So... He's a humble, rich guy. He has a massive social circle. He is funny as fuck. .... Oh, but wait. He's fat an ugly. That's why your physical attractiveness is your number one baseline. If this ain't developed, sit down and stay seated until it's fixed. Then you can turn the Machiavellian, confident, asshole attitude on and be swimming in pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Need guidance on this LTRIf you're going to leave, idk why it would matter. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Need guidance on this LTRShe's low value and all the things you've listed about her are correct. Only a little longer until this happens again, and worse. Cut her and move on. There are certain ways to go about cutting these types of girls. You want to be prepared and do it right, so don't go texting her right now and do the deed. Prepare her shit ahead of time, have a plan to call police and block if she pulls the ever so common, "I'm going to kill myself" routine. Also, be prepared to have a tape recorder present in c… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 10:13 AM |
| 6 | How do you deal with woman's anger ?2 words: Amused Mastery. Say to yourself, "Been there seen that. Let me show you how I handle a woman in anger." You agree and amplify. You don't respond. And most importantly, you don't argue or stand at a position which debates her stance. The reason why, is because you will feed into and validate her if you do. If you know game and you really demonstrate amused mastery, you've seen it all done it all. You know the game inside and out, and you do because you're very knowledgable of the world a… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 10:08 AM |
| 2 | So what now, next her?I can agree with that, you're right. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 01:13 AM |
| 1 | So what now, next her?Not an orbiter? She declines date and proceeds to complain about Chad. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Reconnected after 15+ years with former oneitis.Yeah, plate her, if that's what you want. Just realize when you go out with her after you fuck her, you're going to have a harder time taking other girls home... She'll lose the social proof value to an extent. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | So what now, next her?Your time is your most valuable thing. You're wasting it talking over text to some smut. Logistics, if she isn't down to meet up, next. That's how cut and dry this shit is. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | So what now, next her?Yeah man, your game is awful. Why are you talking about him? Why are you asking questions? You're a beta orbiter, next her. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Reconnected after 15+ years with former oneitis.Man, the fact that you've built up this whole thing isn't good. It's overthinking to the max. What this tells me is that you're worried about getting attached to her. And if you're worried and can't just "play it cool," maybe you should cut contact. If you think you can fuck her no strings attached and go about your life and drop all of this and calm down, do it. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/16 11:06 PM |
| 2 | "The world is addicted to everything." What is addiction, and how can I stop it once and for all?The first Here's one Here's another. This one shows some evolutionary features. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 03:47 PM |
| 4 | "The world is addicted to everything." What is addiction, and how can I stop it once and for all?This is backed by science and used to explain why betas won't stop jerking their dicks to porn everyday, betas who want to become the best man they can for themselves but don't know how, and why they can't control their drinking urges, drug use, and porn addiction. Here's a question; do you feel attracted to women, do you feel like fucking? Or is it that you only use the word feel when its convienent to hide behind and mask yourself with? You make it seem as if the feelings arent very real and a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Effective communication compromise?What to do? Hold frame, that's it. Ignore, change subject, tease... And do so fucking relentlessly. If you feel it's ample, I'd be willing to bet it is. She's trying to rope you in and bring out those beta qualities. Fuck that. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/16 10:58 PM |
| 2 | is this a good opportunity to escalateReady to find out, what's your number? Or Meet me at X at Y, I'll be there and that's when you can find out. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/16 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Moving Forward from First DateCongrats you did really well man, proud to hear this. You did everything great. Now, listen closely... Go do this again with another girl. Go do all of this again. For right now, I'd close this browser, don't let anything change your opinion, and take this exact paradigm and replay it again and again. Go and do this 3 or 4 more times and then come back and ask this. For right now, the rest doesn't matter and anything else is going to sway your opinion, you're doing great get out there and do it … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/16 10:16 PM |
| 5 | The more red flags the better the sexThat's because you need to train them. It'll take time, but being in an LTR is investment as it is, it's just another responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/16 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Why bother lifting when it's all about height+face?Height is a big factor. Face is a big factor. If you're lacking in these departments, make up for it in SMV traits to include a ripped, jacked physique. If you're already tall and good looking, get even better. The point is to fuck the hottest girls you can, no? So in order to do that you better exercise your genetics to the best of your ability. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/16 09:49 PM |
| 15 | A Nice Sugar Coat for Your Fat-Ass EgoThe words alpha and beta are used to describe traits in your personality, your tendencies, your actions. When it comes to women, you need to be especially careful about granting validation. Validation is a comfort trait, or a mostly beta trait. What OP means is to use it few and far between. I also take it that he means to be actually sincere about the validation so in ensures people don't expect you are providing it expecting something in return. If you ever grant validation, make sure you say … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 08:39 AM |
| 1 | As an alpha, you'll always leave her better than you found her.The underlying thing you must always watch for in an LTR is self respect. That's what matters most. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 11:00 PM |
| 1 | This week i figured out i have much to learn about trp and myselfYou let yourself down, that simple. Emotional control is about dropping it and becoming better tomorrow. The way you do this: get involved and make your life the best you can. Don't settle for anything but the best. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill burnout / Apathy.Stop asking yourself what you should do, and start living your life. Just do so with all this knowledge, it's that simple. And that means doing whatever in the fuck you want to, so go. Log off trp and go. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/16 04:34 AM |
| 2 | This week i figured out i have much to learn about trp and myselfIn these situations, hell even when I see a rando 9 walking around in public I always ask myself, "What is the worst possible fucking thing that could happen?" If she tells you to fuck off, or she tells you she has a boyfriend, or she tells you not to touch her... say, "okay." Then proceed to live your life like before. Worst case scenario=awkward situation for 2 minutes tops. Then poof, it's over. Regret... that shit last weeks lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 04:32 AM |
| 8 | Is the Red Pill "game" highly effective for a certain type of person?The point is, game all women the same. The same regardless of race, location, etc... and that is because; AWALT. Since finding TRP ive traveled to 11 different countries, other than my home. I asked a similar question on here about a year ago. Thought it might be the case, and I found out first hand it's not. They're pretty much all the same, no matter where you go. Sure, in the poorer countries, things may change slightly... but game is game, your approach and persona are what they are, and tha… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/16 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill burnout / Apathy.This is a stage, bro. It will pass. I think most people who swallowed the pill in totality, hit this point, and some of us still fuck because we are so horny... and others just don't, and that's fine too. You say to yourself, "what's the point?" But, it also seems like your sex drive is low currently. Why is it that you're not physically attracted enough to want to game women into bed to fuck them? The apathy is hitting you hard and even affecting your sex drive. Or is something else going on al… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | As an alpha, you'll always leave her better than you found her.My point exactly. Leave em better than you found them = alpha widow. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 03:57 AM |
| -6 | As an alpha, you'll always leave her better than you found her.Oh really? How about when you believe you're the alpha but reality proves differently? Took me about 2 seconds to disprove that. Oh, but, keep believing in your mind state... This particular one, to you, is that you're right. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 01:37 AM |
| 16 | Why most people do not get the real meaning of trp.The Red pill is a tool. A hammer can be used to build something. A hammer can be used to destroy something. A hammer is a tool regardless of what you use it for. What you use it for is up to you, who the fuck cares what everyone else does, care about you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 05:52 PM |
| 3 | The world you see is just an illusionI agree, great reply. It's why Taliban or other similar groups can create such a radical following with out many or any followers questioning it... they perfectly prepare their people and their people absorb only the perception they have become accustom to know. They're robots just like the rest of us, absorbing the reality we see around us, and believing what we see. So everyday I tell my kid two things: Dont do things to make people like you. Question everything. One day, when I am done teachi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Getting Majorly Shit Tested or Just Plain Jerked Around? (Advice Needed)Fucking shit, let me clear this up. but being a belligerent quasi-childish asshole isn't congruent with my style Good, it doesn't make you an alpha either. You can be alpha and have this quality, actually has nothing to do with it. You, like half the people here, don't fully understand TRP due to your nature to jump the gun and misinterpret certain concepts. Sure, call me a mother fucking misogynist, I could give two fucks about an opinion. But, in person, you'd never know I am a subscriber of T… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/16 07:07 AM |
| 7 | The world you see is just an illusionI see that you noticed my gramatical error. I am not infallible after all. I wrote the whole thing on my phone, which doesn't always pick up errors in regard to conjunctions and improper word usage. As I continue to strive to help subscribers of TRP, I will try to do so for you... Your comment is a bit harsh and over the top. Although I am truly not offended, I wanted to point out that behavior like this is exactly what will make people dislike you. If that is your aim, you are either in the ang… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 10:28 PM |
| 1 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.Created the subbreddit editing it now. Send an invite now and I'll accept you when it's done in a week or so. It's "ladderoftruth" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 05:54 PM |
| 6 | The world you see is just an illusionVery well said. Couldn't agree more. We won't call it conspiracy but we define it as conspiracy without actually saying the word... The words "conspiracy theorist" have a negative connotation associated with them, but if you look, it's obvious there is something there. It's not always just a coincidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Disabled and how to use Tinder/OKC whatever to get em to my place.Yeah... How about, "I'm sick, but it's not big deal." Then if they broach the topic, and you want to, explain. Women have zero empathy and usually take weakness as something they don't want to be around. Convey your message around that theory. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Disabled and how to use Tinder/OKC whatever to get em to my place.Don't explain yourself at all. If you feel like you have to, next her she really isn't interested. Would you be asking a bunch of questions if a smoke show wanted to come over? Do you think girls would do this if Brad Pitt was talking to them? Talk to them like you're Brad Pitt. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 10:58 PM |
| 3 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.4 or 5 months ago I messaged /u/neoreactionsafe and said that we should create a sub dedicated to red pill ideas outside of sexual strategy... The exact extension you're speaking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it unethical to keep my gf while I work on getting my SMV up?My second comment on this thread, from the top. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it unethical to keep my gf while I work on getting my SMV up?Look at the second comment. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:38 PM |
| 2 | What are best books for Power talk ?It's more than that. You can be indirect all you'd like, but why? What is the purpose of being indirect? You'll sound like an idiot talking in cryptic language if it all doesn't mean something. If your end goal is to command power, you need to have an indepth sense of what is occurring in the social situation and how to convey this indirectness into a power move to others. ...so your speech that you ultimately use can drive you toward a goal in which you've commanded attention and power, and dis… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it unethical to keep my gf while I work on getting my SMV up?Making decisions isn't difficult. You are taking it way too serious and not excited for the possibilities of life and your future. You already know what you want, you're making this much harder than it needs to be. Just go with your intuitive gut instinct and make the move. All this bullshit reasoning is you hiding behind the fear of uncertainty. Same goes for you /u/Atticus_Crowley | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 02:13 PM |
| 7 | What are best books for Power talk ?How can you keep someone's attention, and keep it on what you want them to keep it on? If I shake my head and say, "the point is..." after someone has finished explaining something, I am using PowerTalk. Power talk isn't something you need to read line for line to put into play. Power talk isn't an easy concept for everyone, but if you have the theory, you'll be able to apply it and use it. If you have the theory you'll be able to remember that one thing, and one thing only, and apply it and lea… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Is it unethical to keep my gf while I work on getting my SMV up?You feel that you are responsible for her actions? I wish this worked like this in rape cases... it's her fault, she made my dick hard and lead me on. In all seriousness, I think that you should do whatever you see fit. No one here can tell you what that is. But, this is exactly why I don't commit. No girl is good enough, so why bother. If you think it's wrong, sit down, have the talk, and hard next her. If you don't know how you'll feel later down the road, take it easy and see what happens. Ma… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:21 AM |
| 5 | Advice on what to do with 'LTR'Nope. Go talk to her with them, it'll be a good learning experience. Don't go out of your way to show them off to her. If she broaches the topic, drop it on her. Hold frame tight. Do not get defensive or angry. Do not apologize. Do not look away from her or touch your face. Do not come across as worried or afraid. If she walks away, do not chase her. Baisically, explain that you are not "together" but if you were, something like that wouldn't have happened. Have the talk then, see how that pans … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:19 AM |
| 7 | Is it unethical to keep my gf while I work on getting my SMV up?Ethics are defined by the person. Ask a murdering psychopath if it was unethical to kill someone, and they'll justify it and stand in a position you cannot understand. This is why TRP is amoral. So all walks of life can engage in a conversation and take what they wish from it, what fits their principles. Understand? Let me ask you this to help you... If you can't read the future and have no idea what is truly going to happen between the two of you... Why do you feel like it's wrong? How is incre… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:15 AM |
| 4 | [Medical School] General disinterest, purposeful lack of communication from girls in my cohort, but outside (of cohort) women are not as cold?I'm going to be honest... From what you're telling me, you sound like the butt of a joke to this group. Like they're talking shit behind your back pretty much constantly. I do not say this to cause paranoia, I say it to make you aware and leave behind any confusion. For now, stop paying them attention. Your job is school, not gaining the attention and respect of some stuck up cunts. If they want nothing to do with you, that's their fucking loss, and that's a shame for them. Work around and outsi… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:07 AM |
| 5 | How should a RP respond to "I've got a boyfriend"?Easy. "Already telling me your problems?" Smirk and tilt your head. Don't feed into it, change topic. But, the point is... you really need to next her and find some new "soft voiced" women. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/16 06:04 AM |
| 29 | The email we won't send to our oneitis exOnesitis... society has done everything to make you want it for yourself. It's in every popular movie and every popular song. But, there is no "one..." There are only some good and some bad ones. Ones that fit your ideals and personality more than another could. Because there is no best, life is far too dynamic, and you aren't the only thing changing, the whole world is everyday. Onesitis is a culmination of events. Whilst creeping up the windy staircase of onesitis, you are excited for what's a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 11:06 PM |
| -1 | Amino Acid and Dopamine, my experimentdl-phenylalanine What's this, and did you only take it once also? Edit: oh... The body changes phenylalanine into tyrosine, another amino acid that is needed to make proteins and brain chemicals, including L-dopa, epinephrine, norepinephrine, and thyroid hormones. Because norepinephrine affects mood, different forms of phenylalanine have been proposed to treat depression. So it's making more l-tyrosine... But if you're taking the L-tyrosine correctly, it might not be doing anything. I can see wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 09:22 PM |
| 3 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.It's a play on words. "I hate myself." Who is the I? Who is the myself? The "myself" is the ego. The "I" is your higher self. The constant struggle between you and yourself. When you hold two swords, one in each hand, and then try to duel yourself, you'll always end up with a stalemate. The one hand knows what the other does. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 12:38 AM |
| 3 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.Can you explain this is simpler terms? I have the same question as rayyaal, but I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. /u/entitledshithead What he is saying in another language is this: The entire world, since your birth, has trained your mind, everyone's mind, to base their value solely on where they stand in the hierarchy. Lots of times, people accept average because it's the best they can do, not because it's what they want. These same people usually live uncomfortable lives, mentally … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 12:30 AM |
| 1 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.Good point. I've written at least 10 posts over the last year geared towards this and they've all done exactly how this one has, shit. And Maybe it's not about how I'm communicating it, it's about the fact that people don't care. They're too hung up on our social order, and its value to their position, and haven't put this thought into motion enough to give a fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 12:15 AM |
| 2 | There is one thing all games have in common, and that's rules.This is spot, fucking, on. Since you understand exactly the note I was trying to hit, you should consider writing a post. I obviously didn't do a great job of explaining it, but this is what I was trying to get at... Only with more duality and more bro talk. I get exactly what you're saying here, and I think to an extent you understood my post. But saying this for others to understand, who don't yet, is the hard part. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Men: what is a mixed or contradictory signal you receive from the wider society about gender or romance that you feel one of the pills helps explain or sort out for you?That there is a "one." It's in every popular movie and every popular song. But, there is no "one..." There are only some good and some bad ones. Ones that fit your ideals and personality more than another could. Because there is no best, life is far too dynamic, and you aren't the only thing changing, the whole world is everyday. Onesitis is a culmination of events. Whilst creeping up the windy staircase of onesitis, you are excited for what's around the corner. What is it that lurks for me at t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Best Hitt cardio for cut?No, curbing your diet is. Any type of cardio can lead to great loss of glycogen stores. Because of this, muscle is the easiest thing for your body to eat, it typically consumes it before fat as a quick source of fuel. Muscle is much easier to use than adipose cells as an energy source. Instead, and to risk the least loss of muscle possible=skinny fat, lift and eat at a caloric deficiency, especially if you're only 10kg away. HIIT is good for those just starting out, helps them build some cardio … | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Had an epiphany this week about lifeThe best part; it never ends. Happiness is realizing "these are the cards, play them." And to realize pinnacles don't exist past their usefulness as landmarks or milestones. Today is just like every other day, only today you are better than yesterday. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 06:34 AM |
| 8 | What oneitis really is, and why you'll never get over it.The funny thing about onesitis is: You developed this perfect image of something, someone isn't. The irony is, out of those 10 hot girls you bang after your onesitis, some guy has had onesitis for each and everyone one of them, and you're the Chad Thundercock this go around. But, that doesn't haunt your dreams, the destruction of your ego does. This is what happens when you get onesitis. You give her access to crush you, a place no one belongs. You did because your onesitis is a projection of yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 03:40 AM |
| 3 | How to repair a blown "Trust" frame in a LTR??Bounce on the devil, put the pedal to the floor. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Disabled and how to use Tinder/OKC whatever to get em to my place.Society made you love women, "God" made you want to reproduce with them. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Please help: work meeting in 24 hours — need help learning how to control my emotions (choking up).Read "The Miracle of Mindfulness," by Thich Nhat Hanh | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....Lol love is when you can't do any better because you lack abundance like an AFC. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you prevent yourself from falling back into BP territory when in a LTR?Wake up in the morning, grab a handful of cock and balls. You feel that? That's why. "Dick drives this car, not pussy." -How High https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdgelYPyi8c | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....Do you have zero self awareness? You sound dumb as fuck right now. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Please help: work meeting in 24 hours — need help learning how to control my emotions (choking up).Let's fix your social anxiety in 24 hours... right. Id make at least a billion off that idea. The exact reason you're acting like this about it, is because you're scared of the anxiety itself. It's haunting you. You don't fix this overnight. You can, however, do some deep breathing and meditation tonight and tomorrow before work. You can also focus on the rising and falling of your chest while at work or during a conversation, you're ruminating and having a hell of a time fighting yourself. Ceas… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....No. I know nothing about them. Why, because our conversation flows well? That's because they're interested in what I am saying, or because I am attracted to them and they're attracted to me. "Halo effect." You're creating something because you want there to be something, not because there actually is. It's not chemistry so much as it may be similar interest and background if we are talking male and females. Sure, I can get along with that. But, here's where your point is proven to be wrong... if… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....Pseudoscience, nice. And I'll work on that life experience I so direly need. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | The Importance of Commanding The Respect You DeserveYou've got your ego confused in this. It's not about your ego. It's about giving to people who only deserve the return. People talk shit all the time, never let it bother you. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....So what you mean is you still believe in unicorns and fairies. No, it means they're not as attracted to you, and you're not as attracted to them. Define "chemistry" in a scientific or psychological way to prove me wrong. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I get out of my head? I'm always in my head and it drives me crazyNo I recommend it as an addition to. So... get the fuck outside. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I get out of my head? I'm always in my head and it drives me crazyI don't think you should do either. Take it moment to moment. Read that book, you'll see what I mean. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Under which circumstances it it okay to date a single mother? Widows? Kids being fully raised and indenpendent?If you commit to her, you need to make sure she understands your involvement. You also need to make sure you understand. Are you also going to be able to ensure those boundaries don't get crossed? If so, no problem. Or is it just a matter of time until you have to cut her because they're going to continually be crossed? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when she says something extremely love-y.Wink emoji. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when she says something extremely love-y.Don't say anything. Just wink. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I get out of my head? I'm always in my head and it drives me crazyI wrote some examples but realized another way to explain it. Time will seemingly stop when you're doing it. It is the only thing that matters. I think you should read "The Miracle of Mindfulness," by Thich Nhat Hanh | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Under which circumstances it it okay to date a single mother? Widows? Kids being fully raised and indenpendent?It's okay under the circumstances that it is what you want. What you're doing here is guarding yourself from the fear of judgement. You are afraid to be judge by the men of TRP, by others? The question isn't that, it is, "why would you want to?" A women with a child shouldn't be dated in my eyes. But, sleeping with them, no problem. I would never raise someone else's seed. I wouldn't want to be with someone who already had a family. Not to mention, it shows many things about her, the fact that s… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I get out of my head? I'm always in my head and it drives me crazyWhat is your passion? What do you enjoy? What are you chasing? This is what is missing. Your mind is taking you for a ride because it has nothing to focus on. You can't be alone, because you have nothing for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:33 PM |
| 7 | How to "not take no for an answer"Get a CC or officer to write a recommendation letter. Sit down with him and explain the details. Attach with this letter, yet another letter that you'll write, explaining your situation yet again describing the enthusiasm and what you've done thus far. Send to someone above, maybe the dean but not necessarily. All else fails, find a new route, man. Sometimes things like this in life happen and we need to find a new path to what we desire. To chase something different. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Was invited to a small exclusive frat party. Is this outfit ok? (urgent)Where's the Henley and boat shoes with the khakis at? Haha. Yeah, this is good as long as you think the dress code calls for it. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:25 PM |
| 10 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but...."Chemistry" isn't a real thing. It's a word women developed for men they're attracted to. They cannot explain the affects of alpha well, so they use this word. For you, it means she is playing her respective role well, and you are definitely catching feelings for her, not that this is necessarily negative at all as long as you keep your wits about you and command respect. I wouldn't do anything until she goes above and beyond. The plates I have turned into FWB have stuck around a year. Never men… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:17 PM |
| 3 | So my ex texted me after a year of not speaking to herWhatever the reason is, whether there was a package or not, just simply state, "I didn't sign for a package, I don't know what you're speaking on." Do not play into her game. How should one treat an ex? Politely, like they're a kind old women passing us in the street. Once you've squared away "business," do not speak to her again regardless of what she responds with. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:13 PM |
| 13 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....DO NOT negotiate with women, they're terrorists. You do not negotiate with terrorists or listen to their demands. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....Simple. You do less than her. Go read my post I just wrote in regards to respect. Your commitment isn't worth 6, 45 minute drives. You can give back, but not your commitment, that and your time is everything. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 04:50 PM |
| 35 | Plate wants me to drop other plates but....6 weeks? No. Let's try for 6 months of plate status, then we will see about an LTR. Read the sidebar for fuck sakes. There is a section regarding "having the talk." | /r/askTRP | 28/08/16 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Oral completely demolishes dick game. Good or bad? *PART 2* (and part1)TL/DR: Oh my good lawd. The worlds longest guide on how to eat pussy. Question for OP. Do you fuck, or only eat clam? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Help Me Understand the Endgame HereThe endgame Hahahaha | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test ??Yes that's the reply, make your focus getting jacked, rich, making friends, not women. They fall around your life. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Shit Test ??No. You made yourself available to her and asked her to make a decision. She took out a fucking agenda in front of you with dudes names in it she's planning to fuck? Didn't even try to lie and say she had a tea date with her mom? She has zero respect for you, next this sloppy bitch and delete her contact info. These games are for children and not a man who is self actualizing. He wouldn't put up with this, is too busy, and has too much self respect. Don't say anything just next her and move alon… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Can't tell if girl is interested or notLesson number 2, when people say shit like he just did, don't respond. Question: how does someone with self respect and self esteem respond when people belittle them, insult them, or display a lack of interest in them? The person has many ways in which he can respond, but the best alternative is almost always not to respond at all. This might not make sense right now, but trying to AMOG, retaliate with insults, or prove a point, is typically all a no where road. 9/10 times it's not going to get … | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Can't tell if girl is interested or notYes my friend, your time on this earth is ticking. It's the most valuable thing you are in control of, don't ever forget that no matter what you learn, anywhere. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 04:22 AM |
| 6 | Can't tell if girl is interested or notYou're talking to her too much. You seem thirsty and bf material at best... and that's if you prove yourself. Talk less, more direct over text. In person everything sounded good. Don't be afraid to kiss, touch her even when you're not being romantic on the beach. You should probably avoid the beach and dinner, seems too relationship style. Try drinks and your house... if she fails to come through, try again the next time she makes contact. Once again, the name of the game is abundance with a cap… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 04:03 AM |
| 2 | The World Is Yours To DefineThat's awesome. And yes, the two other posts cover the idea behind it, and the chemical and biological processes occurring when we get into a situation which demands self discipline. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/16 03:59 AM |
| 2 | The World Is Yours To DefineMy pleasure. Check out the other two posts I've written on how to develop discipline and how important it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/16 01:21 AM |
| 2 | The World Is Yours To DefineHow literal do you take things on a daily basis? Of course everything is temporary. Of course I'm on borrowed time. To clarify, what I meant was: The world is your oyster. You want something, go get it. I never said anything about changing it, I said to view it as if there isn't a single thing that is out of your reach. The only thing you should change, is yourself. I also said that there are plenty of influences that negatively affect us and keep us from being on top. If you want to be on top, … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 10:11 PM |
| 14 | The World Is Yours To DefineThis is the fucking success story I like to hear. No complaining, no bitching, just pure responsibility, truth, and in the best way possible... through self awareness and self discipline. Congrats my man, you're on to something 95% of the world isn't. Really happy to hear your story and where you're headed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 06:59 PM |
| 10 | In a LTR and she has had a lot of partners? How do I treat her?This is better, now I can help you. We expect users who are serious about the advice they get from TRP, to use the sidebar as a guide. It alleviates stupid questions and also makes sure the sub doesn't get watered down with trash and people who don't really care to understand anything, they just want tailored answers. This is laziness and not taking responsibility for your life, something we don't advertise here. Now... What many partners means is: she has a shady history, just like many women. … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Should I delete pictures of my ex off of my social media?For starters, I would unfollow her if it's causing you any bullshit. She's not an option anymore evidently, so why bother. Once again, the pictures up or down doesn't matter. If it's fucking with your mind state, making you want to go back to her, think about her, etc., take them down. This isn't about "how you look" to her anymore. She's not fair game, and it's more about getting yourself in the right frame of mind and pushing forward right now, opening some new girls. Base your decision off of… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 04:46 PM |
| 12 | Another Couple Of FAQs: "Salvaging" a Girl; and Rape Claims.TL/I'm too dumb to read: Instead of wondering if you can salvage something, with any girl, don't. Wonder how you can gain abundance. Figure out what this word truly means, and understand there are so many options out there, you getting stuck on any one is ludicrous. When a girl yells rape, you yell lawyer. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 04:38 PM |
| 3 | In a LTR and she has had a lot of partners? How do I treat herOh, I know, I know... Keep reading the answer is coming. It's down here. Just a little further. Post this on askTRP, not TRP. Simple instructions in the sidebar, since you haven't read the sidebar, I truly hope no one helps you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 04:35 PM |
| 27 | The World Is Yours To DefineI agree. When I've reactivated my Facebook after a long break, I've cringed at people and their reality. Holy shit, I used to be apart of that dog shit!? Haven't watched TV in almost 2 years outside of 2 or 3 shows I torrent. Don't miss any of this shit whatsoever. So much better not to hear all the bullshit that I don't care about, and I fill out my time so much more now. I have so much time to learn, focus on myself, instead of watching porn and jerking off once a day, I don't do either and wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Looking to improve my frame (and general outlook) in a LTR.If you don't understand it, read. There are 1 million puzzle pieces on TRP, put them together. I've handed you everything you need. The only thing you've got left is to figure out how to communicate things to women. How to speak their language better. I don't have 2 hours to explain it, and me tailoring replies and scenarios to her isn't going to solve the issue for next time. Learning the language is. Learning how to subtly communicate that you're better than her is. Because when she sees this,… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Looking to improve my frame (and general outlook) in a LTR.You've got the small pieces, but can't see the completed roadmap. A completed road map look like this, and is developed two ways: through training her. through not getting involved with a girl who is subpar (comes from an upscale home, alpha father, very submissive and feminine.) and setting the pace from jump street. Since the latter isn't much of an option if you want this relationship to work, you've got to train her. You don't do so by saying, "I'm going to train you." You do so in an alpha … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Welcome to the Desert of The RealYou're correct, one of the most overlooked and important components. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | You're not a statistic, so stop acting like you are one.This is a place of truth, don't lie to them. The fact of the matter is, they get enough of that, "you're good just the way you are, don't change" in the BP world. Statistics, when done correctly, show us exactly what the majority is doing. If you want to be something extraordinary, separate yourself from the majority. They should listen to statistics and they should know they're going to need to go above and beyond. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 11:46 PM |
| 4 | Welcome to the Desert of The RealThe Red Pill is living in society in a dualistic nature. You're the all knowing, all seeing, and you're stuck here, mouth sown shut, the only exit is death. But, you know what you're living isn't real, it's a fabricated social experiment that you unknowingly went on the ride for. Ego, money, status, it's all a mask... and a funny one too. The only way to live, is to play the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 09:08 PM |
| 13 | Get Your Ass Out of The Weeds. Now, let's get down to how to develop disciplineIt's not "self motivation." It is self discipline. Do NOT confuse the two. Self motivation is that hunger or desire to do something. This is all the fat fucks who join the gym just before New Year's Eve so they can get in "shape." They're motivated for change. Motivated to look better. On the other hand... self discipline is going to the gym year round because it's good for your quality of life. You will have days you're motivated, and have days you aren't. The days you aren't, you don't rely on… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 12:19 PM |
| 19 | Get Your Ass Out of The Weeds. Now, let's get down to how to develop disciplineI don't think you'll ever forget this moment, though. Actually, instead of the thought of relaxation, maybe you can think of the time you wrote this on TRP. Then there is no quandary or choice, and that'll keep you honest and focused more than if there was. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 04:29 AM |
| -1 | Being kind/gentle is not being beta, being a doormat is.You seem kind of angry, my friend. Like your ego is frustrated that the puzzle pieces aren't quite matching up. It's honestly okay if you're still wrapping your head around the concepts. Even veterans still learn things and have ahh moments occasionally. There is a definitive middle ground, I don't deny this whatsoever, it just cannot be explained with words like "supreme gentleman," or ragging dark triad. Actually, there isn't much you could explain about it at all. If I tried, I would say the … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 04:19 AM |
| 8 | Im fucking miserableAll I hear is "waa waa waa waa." I paved my own fucking way, and you can too. You're no different and don't deserve shit handed to you. If you got it handed to you, your life wouldn't be worth anything to you. Now, instead of spending your time complaining, get your ass reading. Write down all of your problems, and use the Internet and it's infinite knowledge to discover ways to solve these problems. Mount up and make changes, don't think or talk about the things preventing you from doing so, ta… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Being kind/gentle is not being beta, being a doormat is.No, wrong again. It's okay, I'll help you out. Even after all your reading, you've failed to realize it's got everything to do with a woman reaching a man better than her. Or better yet, out of her league. And ding ding ding! What are assholes? People who are typically better than you and don't have time for your pettiness. Why is this attractive? She's reaching for her best possible mate. The walk has to match the talk, or else it will all come out creepy. Now reread everything you've come to k… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Being kind/gentle is not being beta, being a doormat is.No hahaha. Look at my post history, far from the anger stage. I've slayed well into triple digits. You're just wrong, it's not about being a "supreme gentleman." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Being kind/gentle is not being beta, being a doormat is.Oh very nice, blue pill dog shit to wash down the sub. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Woman still don't seem attracted to me although I've been following TRPWhat the good sir /u/archwinger is trying to say is... get better looking. I highly doubt this plan is backfiring on you because you have ripped abs and a muscular physique. Get better style... again, you're lacking in the looks department. It's safe to say it's almost all game and looks. But, one without the other, makes things much more difficult. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 06:51 PM |
| 7 | If you're not living your life, you're already dead. Cultivating self-discipline and zen.And then there is this which turns the cannon of nihilism on itself. Thank you I'll upvote, your comment over mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 04:00 AM |
| 8 | If you're not living your life, you're already dead. Cultivating self-discipline and zen.Ahh, tempting the devil. Honestly, it's not as if I care whether you do or not, my belief isn't a shaky one. Fire away if you've got something. I've been down that path and it lead to drug use, carelessness, and made my quality of life decline astronomical amounts. It stems from depression, hopelessness, and lack of faith in oneself. On the flip side, I find life to be a giant game. A game within your own mind against yourself, and a game played externally against others in the world. But, just … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 03:28 AM |
| 2 | The Charisma Myth; This book is written by a woman. Is it applicable to an RP lifestyle?It's applicable, but don't read it thinking everything is useful. Cross reference the ideas to the TRP literature and apply like so. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Multiple repeated injuries - can't lift, how do I boost my SMV without lifting?Eat really well, keep that protein as high as possible. Atrophy is going to happen regardless. Look at alternative methods to recover from tendinitis. I know it's ultimately time, but maybe there is something that can shave a week off recovery out there. Any kind of hobby that can advance you socially. Or, shit, become a bartender, that'll push your SMV up. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Punishing a plate who flakes on a scheduled meeting: soft next, something else?Let them contact you, don't reach out to them. If it's easier to consider them cut, do that, and go open some new girls. Just remember, they're plates, they're meant to eventually break. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | A weak frame and a fragile ego will surely make the greatest of people lose respect for you.This is all a process you don't wake up one day with this. You'll have ups and downs. Aka playing the part sometimes and having self doubt others. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | A weak frame and a fragile ego will surely make the greatest of people lose respect for you.The thing is, everyone is at a different stage. Most people who come here don't believe they are the shit, so how can they carry themselves as such? When you teach this stuff, you teach what they need to be doing. A year or so after doing it, they become it, they start to believe. Fake it, until you make it. I can say, "yep, have self respect my man, it's good for you." And people will shake their head and say, "sure do, sure will." And they don't truly. When I teach people how to dress themselv… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/16 12:10 AM |
| 2 | A weak frame and a fragile ego will surely make the greatest of people lose respect for you.Exactly. I can tell you A&A all day to anything you ask... but now you know why and can make sense of this interaction, that was my goal in this post after /u/IAmGale made his comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 02:12 PM |
| 2 | A weak frame and a fragile ego will surely make the greatest of people lose respect for you.Yeah sure, it sucks but that's the way the world is. It's not as if I have created it. Look man, I know plenty of people who are good looking, successful, etc. and because they don't communicate themselves as such to the world, the world shits on them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 04:55 PM |
| 15 | A weak frame and a fragile ego will surely make the greatest of people lose respect for you.This is what the comment from /u/IAmGale is talking about, you shouldn't have needed to ask this question if I did a better job of communicating this in my post, so here goes my second shot to redeem this and add what I believe is necessary to this post. A fragile ego Envision yourself standing in a circle. Amongst you, are two good friends, four people you work with, a semi distant cousin, and a couple of girls you have come to know in passing. It is safe to say all of the people have developed… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 04:47 PM |
| 2 | A weak frame and a fragile ego will surely make the greatest of people lose respect for you.That's not why this is true. You can have a high pitched voice, if you own that shit and you're confident about it, people won't have much to say about it. It's never what's being said, it's how you own it and communicate such. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 04:17 PM |
| 1 | A weak frame and a fragile ego will surely make the greatest of people lose respect for you.Thanks for the insight, what I pick up from what you're saying is that I need to construct a better outline prior to writing so that I can delve into the individual concepts more and give the reader something more. I have done so in the past and worked to cover each aspect so the reader had all the ideas I wanted to communicate entirely. Usually, I feel like I've robbed them of their own imagination, of allowing them to pick up "the why" a week after reading the post when they see for themselves… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Red Alert!! Pls help lolCannot be said enough. Hopefully this dude isn't a moron and puts it into effect. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/16 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Position of PowerIf others can't read that article and put together what I am saying, good for me, less people to know the tricks to becoming a real alpha in their life. I shouldn't need to spell it out, it's there people just need to look deeply and figure it out, not my job to teach them word for word. You can lead a horse to water... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 01:08 AM |
| 25 | You all still think you're special - and here are the ways it's holding you back.Recently, I, a guy with a hundred friends from college etc, have started to expand my social circle even more. When I have been going out to the bar, I have been getting guys numbers also. I find the most alpha and chill bros I can, ask them if theyve got a gym partner to work out with, if they want another. I always tell them "no homo" and laugh and say I'm always trying to meet some chill bros to party with and shit. After a 10 minute convo some exchanging of stories and some laughs, I get the… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 01:05 AM |
| 2 | For anyone who's worked in nightlife: How to use a busser position to meet women?Pff I'd literally bump into these hoes and then introduce myself. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys notice any sort of relation between where in the United States a guy is from and how well he does with women? Some states just produce more natural alphas than others?People from Cali dgaf. People from Cali are also chill as shit, usually tan, and pretty lean. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Hit a bad streakYou seem optimistic overall, just down on yourself and whinny. Listen to me, cut the shit and don't even think about letting 3 bad dates put you in any kind of negativity. Fuck that noise. You're doing everything you should I only have a couple suggestions: Don't say, "I'm sober." Instead say, "I quit drinking." If, and only if, it comes up in convo, drop that line and do so without a care. None of their business otherwise, just those three words. Second thing: you say you are outcome independen… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 04:50 AM |
| 3 | How often do you guys see your FWBs?Ok. Ready? Get jacked and tan. Do it some more. Be better than the rest of the world. Rinse and repeat. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 04:35 AM |
| 3 | How to improve communication/interpersonal/sales skills?It's the state of mind in which you watch your thoughts. It's non reactionary. If a thought arises, say in your head what it is. You start thinking of eating shit food say, "I want to eat something shitty." Don't be reactionary and try to stop the thoughts, just watch them. If you do try to stop them, it'll get worse. Mindfulness is useful in interaction and building relationship, because it helps you to think before you speak. If a conversation or environment becomes akward, or they say somethi… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 11:48 PM |
| 6 | How to improve communication/interpersonal/sales skills?Physical health, mindfulness, and meditation. Read: "How to win friends and influence people," by Dale Carnegie. "The 48 Laws of Power," by Robert Greene. "The Charisma Myth," by Olivia Cabane. Here. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Loss of Interest?Firstly, welcome to the real. Glad you changed your viewpoint for the sake of a new opinion, and stepped into the lions den. No, the loss of libido is due to working out, especially at this new pace. Your test is increasing (srs.) and you are physically tired. It will bounce back soon and be more fierce than before. Everything else sounds great, physical and mental control of your life are firstly, everything else falls into place like building blocks once you achieve a greater state. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | 'I'm the boss'If it's a plate, who cares. You shouldn't be affected. You're fucking her, not training her. If it's a girl who is more than a plate, yes, bounce. For now, when she pulls that shit, don't be passive aggressive. Instead, amplify and agree in a gay voice: "Oh I know, you're such a boss. I just love when a women takes charge of me..." Long pause and stare, then get serious for a second "said no man ever, fuck outta here." And laugh while snatching the remote from her. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 11:25 PM |
| 10 | How often do you guys see your FWBs?Once a week. If they behave and do their chores around my house, buy me gifts, and cook, then twice a week. I pull away for a week if shit changes. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?That's not how you meditate. Use the search bar and research it, also try google. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Female vs male hypergamy?Hypergamy: The act of marrying a person of superior class. Where does the definition of a provider and one that is being provided for not make sense? How doesn't "class" or the superior male not make sense to you? And why can't you see that it's not much more than skin deep for men? We don't care about class so much as we care about beauty. Men are NOT hypergamous. We enjoy vanity, sure... but we do not care about social class or societal influence as much as women do. Girls will fuck you if you… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?Developing your version of the perfect body is a start. Focus hard on this. What are you learning? What books are you reading? What are you doing to make money? What do you have for a social circle and what things can you do to strengthen those relationships? What are you doing to give back to a community or otherwise that you wish to (volunteering, even just a couple hours a week, in some way, is good for the soul.)? Do you meditate? How long do you do it for? What hobbies do you have? Are they… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Female vs male hypergamy?Game - men. Resources (wealth.) - men. Attractiveness (physically speaking.) - men. Dominance - men. Social status - men. Hypergamy is women looking for these and the man with the best of them to secure her a spot in society. Looks, submission/willingness, and past history - women. This is not hypergamy. This is making sure her reach for you, or her hypergamy, doesn't negatively affect your life. Get it? Looks could be the only thing that you could compare on the spectrum. That's just reaching f… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?And I am not trying to be the bad guy but if you ask for truth and help, I am going to give it to you. I can't answer that for you. For me? It wasn't until I developed into what I saw for myself, mentally, physically, socially. It wasn't until I walked down the street and said to myself, "I don't want to die, I am too valuable. I don't want anything to happen to me, I've got to always protect myself because I am too good now." It may have not come out just like that in my head, but you get the g… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Working too many hours and feel stuck in careerIf you're not happy, change it. You want something, go get it. That's the rule. So, if you feel like discipline cannot allow you to stick this out, and the benefits aren't outweighing the costs, you make a move when you've got something else lined up. In the mean time, you've got to grind and focus hard if you want to do this. Option 1: find a job as an electrician else where. Option 2: open a new career path and study whilst working. What pops in my head first is IT. Go get certifications and r… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?Hey man, it's your fucking life. I am the fucking truth when I'm right, and I am right. There isn't one. That's fucking that. Go to some blue pill people for another answer. Once again, ego problem, onesitis, and your addiction being taken from you are the end of the fucking world for you. Fucking other women didn't do it for you? Hmm... that's because it's not the women that will make that shit fade. It's a start. But your life sucks balls, that's the problem. If it were great, you wouldn't get… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Female vs male hypergamy?Hypergamy is based upon status, SMV. This encompasses game, wealth, and attractiveness in general. I don't give two fucks if a girl has status, I'd prefer she didn't. I just want her to be hot. That and submissive, low N-count for an LTR. If we are talking about getting better looking women... pff mother fucker deserves the best at that point. I don't want her resources though, just her pussy. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?To right a wrong for your onesitis. Is that better? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:08 PM |
| 6 | How does one turn their ex into a plate?Never ever do this. Especially not if you're invested in her enough to plot it. The only way I suggest handling this is dark triad mode for experienced Red Pillers who didn't take an ego check from the girl. Ego problem number two for the day. Block her on every form of social media and on your cell phone. Delete and dispose of all remnants. Get over it and open some new girls, do not make her into a plate. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?No. You went back to right the wrong with her so it isn't after. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?There is you... Then... there is your ego. One side, it's just you, wanting and needing nothing. The other side, your ego, is battling you to become and be a certain way inside and outside. Shit isn't okay in there, there is a conflict between your higher self, and your ego. If you're going back to an ex to adjust, it's not just a lack of abundance. It's to right a wrong. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?I have a trillion examples... yet, this might be best to start. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4tmdag/how_to_use_your_ego/ This is your real problem my friend, your ego is fucked and your relationship with the self is skewed. Go on a journey to fix it and leave her behind. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?I don't know, I'm not there with you, but the balance you're searching for isn't there. Look, you jumped back in and said, "oh you're right, I did wrong." You can't admit failures to women. You even know and feel it, right? You are over here searching for this balance, but you haven't got it right yet. I think you should take a deep breath, call it quits and move on. It's really not the end of the road, more like the start of it. She has lost respect for you, I know that. So why sit there and pu… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Failed comfort tests, LTR ended. Back together now 2 years later and i'm not sure how to proceed. Thoughts?Fuck man. Bad news. You've gone back in time to right a wrong and in the process wronged again. This situation is beyond fixable, I have to be the one to tell you. And I know that because she is full of shit and didn't want to come through and didn't answer you. She had her phone and ignored you. Didn't come over because she didn't want to. We have all been in your shoes at one point or another and the truth is, you are being too centered on your ego instead of using it as a tool. You need to le… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Why this approach anxiety?Yeah.... Think to yourself right now, why am I scared? What is it that is the worst thing that can happen. Your mind is playing tricks on you, don't allow it to. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/16 12:08 PM |
| 1 | This shit is chess, not checkers.Touché. And what makes a man valuable? A man in the top 20%. And how do you get there if your not? 10% BF or less, do the best you can genetically speaking. Have style. Have a large social circle. Have goals and ambition. Have the world by the balls | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 10:45 PM |
| 4 | How to get pass the anti sIut defense?Change subject. Next time, let them think what they want regarding sex. It's not words that will tell whether you're getting the P or not, its actions. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | This shit is chess, not checkers.That was the point... who cares what women want, focus on yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 10:17 PM |
| 2 | This shit is chess, not checkers.Could you imagine how confusing it is inside there hahaha. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 11:23 PM |
| 4 | This shit is chess, not checkers.As of today, I have 6 plates (at least 2 of them are 9's.) and 2 friends with benefits... Only upgraded them to FWB because they cook and clean like a mother fucker. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 08:57 PM |
| 13 | Does anybody else find relationships incredibly exhausting?Of course. Now do a cost benefit analysis and find out 95% of women aren't worth it. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Question on value and "leave them better than you found them."In other words, alpha widow them. She'll be with the best man within her reach. Be the best a man can be. It's the beta she walks on and allows shit to go amuck that isn't going to leave her better than he found her. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:50 PM |
| 1 | This shit is chess, not checkers.If you knew what equal meant, we wouldn't still be talking. My point is that women are not equal to men, we are better than them. Science proves this, if you want proof I'll post it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Question on value and "leave them better than you found them."Are you lying, are you dishonest? What is it you're doing that is leading you to believe you're doing it wrong? You can only be a dick to people so much as they'll allow you to. If a women has no self respect, it isnt your problem to teach her. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:46 PM |
| 0 | Question on value and "leave them better than you found them."Why is this whole post centered around selflessness, instead of selfishness? You are looking at everything in the most empathetic way possible. Put yourself, in your shoes and start looking out for you. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:33 PM |
| 5 | This shit is chess, not checkers.Egalitarianism is for idiots. This is an elitist view, read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 08:29 PM |
| 14 | This shit is chess, not checkers.Doesn't make you a beta. What makes you a beta is whether or not you're a high quality male. In other words, alpha males make up 20% of the population, this is the top tier. Beta has many different meanings... typically all associated with push over, low quality life, and lower quality genes in males. It's your life do what you want, and if you're getting pussy and happy with your life, so be it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 04:40 PM |
| 7 | This shit is chess, not checkers.Yes, this is what I meant when I said self awareness and knowledge of the game is also required. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 04:34 PM |
| 34 | This shit is chess, not checkers.This is huge. It isn't just about your status as a valuable male, it's how you are able to communicate that.... AKA how you view yourself. You can be the greatest person on earth, if you don't have self awareness, graciousness, self worth and esteem, and you don't communicate that, people will eventually see you as much lower than you're worthy. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Being a Nice Guy™ is a form of ExtremismThey're called logical fallacies and eristic arguments... and it makes up way too much of the content here because of idiots like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 04:04 AM |
| – | My ex destroyed my abundance mentality in one night. Where to from here?That you're fucked up and playing the wrong game. You all of a sudden want her when she doesn't want you, textbook. Block on all means of communication and drop this. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 03:09 AM |
| 2 | A question about HotwivesNever heard that an anklet means DTF. I didn't say it was bad, I just said young pussy is way better. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 01:45 AM |
| 6 | A question about HotwivesScared about what? You want to fuck an old broad, go head. You'll realize the pussy is wack in comparison to a younger girl. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Why this approach anxiety?You're way to worried about what their reaction could be. More importantly, YOU'RE way too worried you're going to screw up. This is what anxiety is, predicting into the future and fixating on the "what ifs." Your ego is protecting itself, it tries to show you possible outcomes. It feels like there is a force field preventing you from doing what you want. For starters, get yourself in a good mode. Go out and do some HIIT or lift. Get your calories in... then, meditate. Then go out with the inten… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 01:29 AM |
| 0 | Fellow TRP'ers, how does your usual 30 minute coffee date play out?There's nothing like going to one and trying new stuff. Don't live entirely through the experience of others, get out there and do it. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsYou know that's not the point. The point is, there are a couple things he mentions that are needy and creepy. "it's only creep when you aren't Chad." I know. And Chad wouldn't get up in a bitches grill or run her down. He doesn't need to. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/16 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How can I help my husband be more happy/alpha/red pill?Smile. Ask questions politely, and offer to help. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Kill Two Birds With One Stone. Create a habit, and monitor a current distraction.Yeah don't pay attention to it. Good shit. Let me know when you're a week in where your at. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsThis was my point and critique. When I said: To me, it's a bunch of strange extra and needy shit. I don't think he's completely wrong and I don't think his processes won't help people, I just think he doesn't even realize he has the pussy on a pedestal and he is seemingly desperate and also has the body of a beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsOr that I'm trying to make a point so people don't fall into the PUA trap. At the end of the day, I could care less what you do or believe. I'm here to help people get on their feet and see the truth that high value matters most, being jacked matters most, no charging them or asking them to come to a PUA seminar. Do what you want, try what you will, believe whatever you want to see. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsI do know what I am critiquing and how to do so because I've slept with hundreds of women and I am high value. This is Reddit, I could be someone seeking validation or some chump bullshitting. But whether I am critiquing it "properly" or not isn't really the point anyway. It could just be that our opinions are different from different experience of life. The day you catch me running up to a girl, is the day I've lost my shit. I'll never chase a girl down or over exert myself. The day you catch m… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Questioning your morals?I agree. Under guise, it's a way of saying, "I want you to do this, but don't expect me to." Society can't have this, because we don't walk around with moral cards as evidence for how we do things. Instead we use the proof of others actions to prove morality to us. Through proven action and evaluation, the two individuals can then establish a joint moral code based upon right and wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 01:47 PM |
| 4 | How to make a clear intention that I want to fuck her?Logistics. Don't hesitate to set up a meet. Once you do, you'll show this intention further in person. Texts aren't for anything more for the stage in the game you are at. Once in person, escalate, kino, tease, show value by devaluing her in subtle ways. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 01:44 PM |
| 3 | "I wish I was with you tonight :*" shit test or comfort test?That's you being needy, not her testing whether you are or not. There is a difference. Shit tests are direct challenges of your value in which you shit or get off the pot. Example shit test: "I bet you wish I was with you tonight." Response 5 hours later: "I almost did earlier, then a better looking girl asked to come over." To be honest, your better off not responding to comfort tests unless she deserves it. I probably wouldn't have replied and texted her the next day to arrange a meet instead. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Was she testing me?You should have made a joke about her and her boyfriend directed towards her in a way that relieves the pressure and doesn't make fun of him directly. Added value without belittling him to make yourself look better (this actually makes you look worse.). Then proceeded to escalate and not care. Every girl greater than a 7 has a boyfriend or similar. Girls don't do "alone." | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Was she testing me?"already telling me all your problems, huh?" And proceeded to smirk and not give a fuck... escalate further. Whether she has one or not isn't the point, you getting laid is. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 01:11 PM |
| 3 | "I wish I was with you tonight :*" shit test or comfort test?In what way did you assume this to be a test of your value? It isn't a shit test at all. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 01:10 PM |
| -2 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsSome quick examples: https://youtu.be/w65qBE-5fWg 3:45 he first talks about "running." 13:10 he first talks about "getting physical." 37:00 listen to him talk about running up and getting in "her grill from the start so you can overwhelm her." 39:00ish he talks about getting physical and doing so with randomness from the start of interaction. All within "less than 20 minutes of cold approach." I can't find the other video and I'm really tired of listening to this dude talk... but he has another … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/16 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Please Do Not Act Like Men From Pickup Artist Youtube ChannelsThere are at least two RSD videos, the two I've seen, where Julian suggests this stuff; aggressive running and forcefully grabbing. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 05:28 PM |
| -2 | My Interview Podcast With MAGAPod (The Red Pill, Men's Rights, and more)Idk why so much complexity goes into the definition of TRP. It's simple: Obtaining a status of high value because women are hypergamous and we want to attract as many as possible. That's done by reaching a status in society based upon looks, money, and friends... or by getting people to view you based upon game and tailoring your delivery to be dressed to manipulate them into believing you are high value... (Note: you'd at least need to also look high value flesh and bone wise.) TRP gives the to… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Being a high value male isn't enough, you must also exhibit the traits of one.What is with you radicals here? Is there no middle ground? Always have to go to the extreme. My point is valid; confidence and self esteem make up game and a large percent of attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/16 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Being a high value male isn't enough, you must also exhibit the traits of one.I do not envy someone with low self esteem and no self worth. And, I aleady have what both Ted and Tom have. Believe what you wish, just pointing out what I know to be truth. Of course he should fill out his potential. But, look at all the potential he has with the zero self worth... Exhibiting these traits are as important as knowing you have them. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/16 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Being a high value male isn't enough, you must also exhibit the traits of one.You're exposed to the pill. Of course life sounds easy to you, and this sounds ridiculous. This happens every single day in the world. My friend is Ted. He's needy. He has zero self worth. Had a fucked up life. A bad mom. No dad. I am not saying Ted won't go get bitches soon... The thing is, he will find another hot chick, get onesitis, and be back in this position in a year or two. That's my entire point of this post and why I noted he didn't have TRP to teach him. It's a frustrating life for T… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/16 04:40 AM |
| 34 | Self-discipline and self-induced suffering are you most powerful tools for self-improvement. Use pain to make yourself better.I'll never forgot my drill instructor... when I was 18 he said these exact words to me, "Sometimes I have an itch on my face and I don't even itch it... just to see how long I will last and to make myself suffer. Discipline pussies, discipline." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/16 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Kill Two Birds With One Stone. Create a habit, and monitor a current distraction.You don't think jump rope is a HIIT exercise that eliminates body fat? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/16 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Kill Two Birds With One Stone. Create a habit, and monitor a current distraction.Well, alright then. Looks like it's me and you buddy. Message me, if you want, to let me know where you're at next week. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Come one, come all... collect your beta supreme trophies.You're wrong. It's not about the effort, it's about the way you teach her. It's not about IDGAF as a poker face... it's needs to be real. You can't care about other people, only about your own life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Kill Two Birds With One Stone. Create a habit, and monitor a current distraction.What men, the 6B betas in the world? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 02:46 AM |
| 11 | Kill Two Birds With One Stone. Create a habit, and monitor a current distraction.Some people out there are addicted to dopamine releasing activities... Most of the world, actually. This is a solid plan to help them begin to discipline themselves and also come to a realization that they are under control of their actions. It's not "here," it's everywhere. The world is riddled with drug addicts, porn addicts, alcoholics, and other people who commit to wasteful activities everyday. This is a way to reset any of those paradigms. Unless you're a jacked multi millionaire, with a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 11:53 PM |
| 1 | If you'd just keep your mouth shut, you'd notice a difference in your social community.Best reply on my post thus far. Good eye. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Manipulative Mother and the importance of AWALTNo, but it does put your energy in the correct direction; on to better things. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 08:12 PM |
| -2 | Come one, come all... collect your beta supreme trophies.You've missed my point. I dont think that's all you should say to kids, but I think you should make your main point to them not to seek validation. That's why sluts become sluts many times. It's when parents are super strict or when they don't exhibit simplicities that kids rebel. It's why so many people change to be just right and to fit in. You should base these interactions around things that are under your control, not something flaky and unpredictable like women. Goals for yourself, sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | If you'd just keep your mouth shut, you'd notice a difference in your social community.Yeah... hmm very interesting. This will kind of be long but I'd appreciate you telling me your experience with it, I think I've got the "how to do it" part down, just really curious about the experience. See, I have trouble being social to that level. I have these friends that, similar to you, revolve their whole life around "friends." In your case, it's almost like work... so it's 2 birds with one stone. But in their case, it's drinking, meeting up to drink... party some more. These guys are re… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Come one, come all... collect your beta supreme trophies.It is the same thing, my friend. I even reference children for you to look back on your childhood to see why it is that you may seek this validation. And that you can say you don't on the internet all you want, but be truthful and sure to yourself. What I am saying is that men with low self esteem seek validation. They chase hot women constantly to put "notches under their belt," instead of chasing hot women because they like good pussy. What I am saying is, the world we live in revolves around … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Come one, come all... collect your beta supreme trophies.Everything needs balance. It's not a fantasy world when you really are top 10% or better. The truth of the matter is, I am talking self esteem here... If you exhibit a high self esteem and have the tangible aspects of the top 10% covered, you are alpha. It's the guy who gets caught up in the micro bullshit and caught up committing to a low quality female that is the one that cares about the world and the people that surround him... and he cares more about them, than himself. This guy is a suprem… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Take a Break From the PillOr... you could just understand it and assist the people who are fucked up and try to show them where they should get to. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Come one, come all... collect your beta supreme trophies.This is exactly what you want. This post isn't designed to say it will be this way for everyone. This post is designed to show you how counter productive it is to have things that way and how it'll damage you in the long run. Keep at it, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 12:14 PM |
| 1 | If you'd just keep your mouth shut, you'd notice a difference in your social community.Maybe it's because I already have a shit ton of friends and some really good friends I've known since I was young that I don't really care. Idk I suppose it comes down to what I am looking for. Do I want more friends than I have? Ehh, people who come into my life and want to be here will be. Building my social circle is the least of my worries. My worries are money, education, and the gym. Ironically there are two paths you can take when you come to the pill. One that's hedonistic, and one that … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 12:11 PM |
| 1 | If you'd just keep your mouth shut, you'd notice a difference in your social community.When I read it, I saw way too many beta traits. I don't see a high value man displaying the totality of that book. In essence, it is game, but it is very needy game. I know some parts didn't lack outcome independence like, "get involved in the convo and become actually interested, etc." But, so much of that book covered this people pleasing portion I disliked. It seemed that was the central thesis. And honestly, it doesn't work well outside of business. The real friends you make that you love ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Consumerism and your inability to exit the gameExactly, and you have no choice but to view it through these angles. "The Looking Glass Self" is a good example to what I would say most people in the world define their life around. No. I meant "the game continues" as in: even if you put yourself on the bench and say, "that's it, I'm not playing by the rules of the world, I am not going to accept this is what it is and I am going to become a monk and run off into the woods." Or whatever analogy you want to use, such as MGTOW who says, "women su… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 03:00 AM |
| 8 | Take a Break From the PillYou have to understand, dudes here are going through shit. You cannot belittle them or brush off their problems as if they're nothing. This is the place they have to come. Yeah, women suck, yada, yada, yada. But me, I don't think they suck. I know how to handle them, it's nothing to me. It's a joke. Same might be for you. These guys aren't at that stage yet. They're at a stage of hatred, anger, remorse, and unwilling to hear you or anyone else. They need that, it's healthy. They also need to acc… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls ignore me after NC for 2-3 weeks?Simple... Hang the carrot a little closer to their mouth. You've gone and ripped it away from them too fast, too soon. Work on full closing the first night. Give them less detail about when you'll be able to meet up again... Leave room for interpretation. Ive seperated from my plates for months at a time. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 03:08 PM |
| 18 | Take a Break From the PillThis exactly. He doesn't seem to remember when that rang true to an extent or when he gave a "right on" after reading one. It's right for the right people, at the right time. There are stages to this shit. Open your eyes. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 03:04 PM |
| 10 | Manipulative Mother and the importance of AWALTThe only thing you can do is release the anger in the form of betterment. The only thing you can do is hold frame. There is no need to show anger towards her, it would be a waste, use the anger to springboard, don't waste it on her. Make yourself better and hold frame. The fact that you see through it, and are becoming your own man free from chains, is what really matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 01:26 PM |
| 10 | Take a Break From the PillYou did a good job of explaining someone who is at a stand still. What's happening here? You are going through a period of denial. You are looking to become a part of a lifestyle with other men you can talk about it with. You are afraid to take responsibility and action. You are chocking on the very pill you've come to enjoy and know as the realz, and regurgitating the tangible aspect. You are, in essence, a fucking hamster. It's like spinning your tires in the mud, the engine is gassed up, the … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 01:13 PM |
| 1 | If you'd just keep your mouth shut, you'd notice a difference in your social community.I agree, with my 4 best friends I've known since I was 14 I say whatever. I have a hundred "friends" that I party with, am associated with, etc. outside of work and inside work, and these are who this pertains to. My few dead boys know the true me. The 100% unfiltered version where I say whatever the fuck I want because I know it won't leave that room. Every fault, every fuck up, every regret. Not even if I did the worst thing possible. Everyone else gets the image I portray. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 01:57 AM |
| 0 | TRP and Social Media activityThe problem is, people make it their world. They isolate themselves from real interactions. It's a fake world, social media. Mainly, it's a validation seeking shit hole. Whether you are seeking validation, or women are. I don't have any of them, because I prefer not to get caught in the mix or waste my time. If you're a high value male, you won't need it. You can walk into public and bag any girl you see and get all the validation you need from your male friends. If you're not one, become one. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Consumerism and your inability to exit the gameEverything should be, that's my point. That's why it's in bold. It just so happens, when you do things, there are two avenues. Maybe I wasn't so clear in the post, so I will elaborate. One: an avenue of selfishness and wholesomeness. It's all about you and you genuinely don't mind if the rest of the world sees it, ever. Two: an avenue with actions that support or build your position in society. In other words, doing things to look a certain way in society. Either way, whichever avenue you are on… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Consumerism and your inability to exit the gameI get it bro, fight club. But, this isn't a movie, and guess what... your place in society matters much more than most make it out to seem. If it didn't, none of us would be here trying to acquire the traits of a highly regarded male, or trying to perfect small parts of our life that cannot be perfected, in chasing a status of even higher than we currently sit at. Whether it's tangible or not, the proof is in the pudding and it's what we all practice. If we weren't than what's wrong with being a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 12:01 AM |
| -1 | Relieve Them of ResponsibilityYou're on point, they're getting confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 07:45 PM |
| -29 | Relieve Them of ResponsibilityYou should have remembered the salt. If not, get the salt yourself, pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 07:37 PM |
| -9 | Relieve Them of ResponsibilityYou shouldn't need anyone, firstly. Yeah, I'm going to go out and do whatever the fuck it is with or without people. No one is going to hold up my life, male or female. If you have an amazing lifestyle, people will follow. When you're elite, people will follow, and because there are so few of me, they do. You'll probably deny what I am saying, but this is coming from someone in their late twenties who has a hundred friends and people who bend over backwards for me. Don't trust me? What I am sayi… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 06:49 PM |
| 33 | Belief that "I'm better than you"Balance, everything needs balance. Narcissism with a dash of self awareness. The irony is, you've already got the ability to look inwards and become self aware. If you didn't, you wouldn't be here asking this question. Keep at it and do what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/16 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Natural RPers, what was your upbringing?Your question is: "how do I raise my children to be naturally red pill, and should I raise them this way, as I see potential issues with having red pill knowledge from a young age?" The answer is a simple one; do whatever you think is best. As far as advice goes for your children, no one can give you that exact answer you want. You need to draw your own conclusion. You've got one of those chatty personalities, I know because I've been there. You talk more about yourself and your exceptions than … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha Grants Validation When Warranted. The Anti Alpha Seeks Validation.In life in general... Exactly, to do the hard work for yourself, and when/if they notice, then you'll get validation when necessary. Same goes for everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/16 12:49 AM |
| 0 | The Alpha Grants Validation When Warranted. The Anti Alpha Seeks Validation./u/vengefully_yours said it perfectly. Sometimes, if we are in the anger stage, we may get to this extremist side, but when you keep at it, that fades, and you begin to bring back certain things like compliments. For my subordinates at work, I give them only when warranted, which is very rarely. I don't say thank you, or praise them for things they should be doing, only when they go above and beyond. It's a reward system to ensure they fuel themselves. A bonus, like cash, is also another way. To… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/16 12:46 AM |
| 2 | The Alpha Grants Validation When Warranted. The Anti Alpha Seeks Validation.I find this to be incorrect. It's what we do that make us who we are, how we react, our actions. Sure, Chad can cry to girls about his problems, and they won't find him as unattractive as they would a beta fattie... but would Chad really do that? I don't think so. Additionally, you are making it sound easy. And that may be because you live your life as an attractive man. I find myself transparent here so I don't give bad advice. You don't want to sit here and start talking about the one offs tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | "The Day He Woke Up." A motivational guide I've written on how why you should get started, and never stop.https://youtu.be/hLvU7ppM4vE Watch this, you'll see. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 02:04 PM |
| 2 | "The Day He Woke Up." A motivational guide I've written on how why you should get started, and never stop.If you need gym or diet advice and you're just starting out, I'd do as much research as possible and find a nice full body routine, 3 days a week with compound movements. Mil press, flat bench, inclined bench, squat, deadlift, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 02:24 AM |
| 2 | "The Day He Woke Up." A motivational guide I've written on how why you should get started, and never stop.You've missed my entire point. The point of doing all of these things, it's to obtain a better quality of life, to relieve yourself of this depression. You see it and want it gone. You don't need a shrink to tell you this, or BA. All you need is to understand the activities that make you enjoy life and have a fulfilling one that is disciplined. Everything here at TRP is this: tools to make you have better quality of life. It's not all easy, it just takes you buckling down, and getting started. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | "The Day He Woke Up." A motivational guide I've written on how why you should get started, and never stop.I agree. And that's exactly what this post is, motivation to create and maintain that discipline for yourself, so you can get on that "life schedule" and take action. BA is exactly what TRP is. A way of life or activity and the tools for why and how. People over look this and probably don't look at it like this as often as they should. Sure, it may not be as cut and dry and labeled with times that you should compete each activity, but it is all based upon behaviors (discipline.) and an explanati… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 04:29 PM |
| 20 | "The Day He Woke Up." A motivational guide I've written on how why you should get started, and never stop.Go to the store, pick up a poster board. Draw a calander onto it. Hang it above your bed. Now, I want you to base every single day around three major things. Your diet, workout, and meditation. On your rest days from the gym you do either HIIT for as long as you can, or walking at a good speed on an incline for an hour. Put an X in each day you have completed so you can track your progress and have something tangible to show you, one step at a time for now. For 30 days, this is your responsibili… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The BetaIn time. You're unlearning years of behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 01:27 AM |
| 0 | If you took the internet/computers/phones (for browsing) etc. out of your life, would your social skills/dating skills drastically improve?Those of us who have for a year or longer, know that it does. I don't have social media or cable, and this is the only place I go on Reddit. Why would I when I can drive by the side of any dime I see and say, "bitch, get in my car." | /r/askTRP | 23/07/16 08:57 PM |
| 3 | The dangerous soulmate mythYeah, we're not all here because we have it figured it out. Even though of us who like to expand and find better ways to explain things, need to learn how. That's the point, I like to kill betas, piss feminists off, and build alphas, thus I liked to learn how to be a better communicator of how. Maybe a post that stresses the importance of the details we spoke about, then also helps you to build you social skills. The two aren't mutually exclusive, it is part of reaching self actualization. You j… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The BetaIt's funny. What it implies is you don't give a fuck about it and that she should probably call her mom and whine to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Wife left me but still wants to be friends. Moves out in a week. How do I react?Frame. Frame with a capital F. You handle the situation well, earlier. That's exactly how you're to handle it going forward. Your attitude then, is what it should be as far as your concern of her goes, going forward. It's not about no contact or friends or anything else, it's about frame that's strong enough to hold your ass afloat right now. Use the search bar, limit to "TRP." Search; "divorce" "frame" etc. etc. Lift weights like your life depended on it and don't react to her, send her texts, … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Got my groove thrown off by visiting my parents.You're weak, fix it and stop being a pussy or fall off the ladder with the rest of my competition. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/16 04:24 PM |
| 1 | SMV problem or wrong approach?Haha reads "most of the sidebar." You're a beta, and a heavy one too. You better lose some weight, or you're not going anywhere. I suggest you don't think about that car again, you walk your ass to the gym and start strong lifts until you're jacked as fuck in a couple of years. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/16 04:20 PM |
| 12 | How to soft next a when you live with your LTRFuck a soft next, dread game the bitch. If you're married, you're already in a heap of shit so what's the point of a soft next? Situations like these call for a hard next, or some dread game in my opinion. If you really want to get a position on nexting, go look at my second most recent post tittled, "if she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice." There is a guide to soft nexting in the first comment along with a stance on nexting in the post. Dread game her, and go out and bag some… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/16 02:57 PM |
| 6 | The dangerous soulmate mythYeah so this is the big portion I was getting at... Loneliness isn't solved by learning social interaction, it's solved by filling out your life. Albeit this worked for you, as you said, it wasn't the actually activity that solved it, it was having a purpose and activity in general. You don't have something to fill your life out. You're bored, and you don't have purpose and meaning to keep you going. You don't like whatever it is you're doing, and you probably don't have a strong circle of male … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The BetaMake fun of the situation. Yell out, "dildo." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 02:48 PM |
| 5 | The dangerous soulmate mythGreat write up. You've touched on the main topics of neediness, the reasons why they occur, and hopefully helped push someone in the direction they need to be pushed. You've also given an indepth look into the issue. The problem remains: most men don't want to do the work it takes to be "fixed," even with the tools. There isn't much you can do past this. Also, I would like to throw in, if you make a post about "developing social skills to combat lonliness," aren't you being counter productive? I… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 04:24 AM |
| 6 | Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The BetaI think people should earn it from you. Don't be mad a women for being that way, that's their sexual strategy and genetics. You've got to be the way that you choose. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The Beta/u/nsareadsmyemails gave you some solid advice. Additionally, you need to remember, part of your power is what she thinks it is because of what you've displayed. In other words, if there is a man who truly believes his value is astronomical, others may too. There is a "proof in the pudding," but most of the time you've already got enough to solidify your right, you just aren't displaying it properly and don't believe in who you are... Confidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The BetaOP here. Your comment stuck out to me. You do need to have a different dynamic in the workplace. It's your actions towards women that are being evaluated by other men who may be just as pussy as the blue pill itself. If you own your own business, or you are the boss, it's different. If a woman is your boss, or another man, you need to add that manipulative side you said you aren't too keen on. This is because you're being judged by other men. The key is: hold frame. Treat them respectfully, to a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The BetaI agree. My writing skills are a work in progress to say the least. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Us vs. Them: Sexual StrategyThis is a hard topic to discuss. But, I'll shift it, to make it easier... I am not gay, and I don't want any gay dudes messing around and trying to pull a fast one on me... but I don't dislike gays. I suppose I would befriend a gay person, if the relationship were stictly platonic. Who knows, might of without knowing in the past. They can do what they want, I don't care. As long as I'm not directly affected by it, I don't give a fuck what their sexual orientation is. If one tried something on me… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Abundance is freedom, and the first huge milestone to becoming alpha.I think, in part, you have nailed the concept. It's a really great reply. However, this is missing something... What you're talking about is, like a ven diagram, how everything overlaps and meets at a central point in the center. 1)Abundance. 2)Outcome independence. 3)The inability to get onesitis, because you've removed the pedestal. What you're talking about is a mix of all three, which gives you the death of the beta. Abundance just means having access to women who are attracted to you, thus … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 04:51 PM |
| 3 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.This right here, this is my point entirely. The thing is, they're not stupid, they're smart when it comes to manipulation. They're bullshitting you, they know what not to do, and what to do. You cannot walk around making exceptions for hoes, it doesn't work like that, and that's as blue pill as anything. Not to mention all of what you just said also. I don't think soft nexts are worth dog shit, I walk away, it's for good and I am not saying a word. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 11:37 AM |
| 1 | recurring patterns from exesYou gave a fuck and were controlling of their actions. This is alpha: He is the dude who does not give a fuck about women, their opinion, or anything anyone has to say about the fact that he is like that. Treating women like children is the easy part to understand, but how much you treat them like children, and how much you disassociate yourself from them is something else. Taking opiates (don't actually do that.) until you're high as fuck, and can understand how Chad feels, is the hard part. Wh… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 11:47 PM |
| 12 | Betas banding together ?That's right, they're diseased hamsters. Steer clear. If you're smart, you'll delete Facebook and get your ass in gear right behind them. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 11:45 PM |
| 1 | There is no best, only a better. Developing outcome independence.It wasn't, but I'm glad you said this, I enjoyed reading it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 11:22 PM |
| 2 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.I'm pushing towards 30 and I couldn't agree more with you here, this is exactly how I feel. Anything else is a justification and you are basically self imploding your own frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 10:28 PM |
| 1 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.Yes, hence the real dilemma and the actual cause for most depression in men when they've got to the acceptance phase. But the truth is the truth, and things are the way they are. I guess it's more about giving and taking and understanding your true desires and goals. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I convert great one night stands into plates/fuckbuddies?Start now. To establish a friends with benefits, it's a bit more, though. If plates are good, plates are good. Just don't expect her to stick around for anything past the last time you saw her. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 07:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I convert great one night stands into plates/fuckbuddies?I wouldn't go that in depth. A few days before hand; "Your place for drinks Thursday?" This is the talk over text. Plan, confirm the day of, meet. If she fucks up and doesn't make it to a scheduled date (without promptly rescheduling.), next her. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.Here you're taking responsibility for training her how to be in a relationship with you. Along with this, comes serious responsibility and frustration. Something I do not desire. The reward is not worth the cost, it's flakey. If she hasn't figured out how the relationship works from what I show her, and crosses the line, she can try that with someone else who is willing to put up with it. I do not want to be a father to women and teach them how to be. They are more than likely not to learn lesso… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 06:29 PM |
| 1 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.And what I am telling you is that my daughter doesn't push boundaries, if she did, it would be. This has been a long time coming and years ago, when she was a toddler, she would. She doesn't push boundaries because she knows the consequences are very real. She will make mistakes in the future but I doubt there will be a direct push against things I've taught her. I've established myself through actions with my daughter. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 06:04 PM |
| 5 | How do I convert great one night stands into plates/fuckbuddies?I did not read your entire post. I read the start of it, which asks, "how do I go from ONS to FWB or more?" The answer to this question is simple. You don't. You don't really need to do anything. Your role is quite simple, you are to contact her. The events go like this; Meet. Fuck. If she doesn't contact you, you can try to contact her to meet again, wait a week in between. Repeat over and over. Now, this is where your part ends. You only want girls interested in you, so when she starts to offe… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | She has frequent dreams of me cheating\leaving her.You're damn right you aren't and everyone in the relationship sub will probably tell you all the things you need to do, but there isn't a god damn thing... Other than: Hold frame, tell her there's nothing to worry about, and dissociate yourself from this. Do not let this bring you down, keep you head clear, and change topics quickly anytime she talks about these dreams. Do not tell her not to tell you, and do not seem uninterested, just don't make it seem like it's a big deal that she is having … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 05:52 PM |
| 4 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.Kids that know better wouldn't find themselves doing the wrong things. I have a daughter she gets this: A movie when she does well in school or brings home these things called "tiger claws" which are given is she did something outstanding. Otherwise, no movies. Something awful to eat, candy, etc. if she does something good or something that makes me say, "wow!" She doesn't otherwise. Etc. etc. there is a reward system. I ignore her bad behavior, I point out the good. if she asks me for one of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 03:33 PM |
| 8 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.You don't like what I have to say, or the way I teach it, then don't read it. People are fucked up in their thinking, and it isn't to be taken lightly if they want to improve their lives, which I hope every single man here, who swallows the pill, strives to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 03:05 PM |
| 3 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.I don't disagree with you on most of this, but punishment is not solution for hard boundaries. If she is talking to other men, you cannot issue punishment. If she is attending events you don't want her to, you cannot issue punishment. If she isn't doing things you've asked her to around the house, you cannot issue punishment. The list goes on and on. Any girl who respects you and wants to be there is foaming at the mouth in hopes of getting a chance to do these things. When she shit tests, you b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 02:47 PM |
| 0 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.My question to you is; why would you ever need to deal with something like this, if you had control from the start? If she proves herself over 1 year, she will have a very definitive idea of what respecting you means, there should be no need to correct her behavior, she should have a clear understanding of your expectations through your actions. Only when she has lost respect, will it begin. Then, there is no bringing it back to a level of respect that is deserved, so you walk away. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 02:16 PM |
| 15 | If she disrespects you once, she'll disrespect you thrice.This is completely incorrect. Never ever sit her down. Your comment belongs in the fucking relationship subreddit. I am assuming you're ignorant to some things, so I will explain. If you sit your girl down for "a talk," she will think you're a fucking joke. You think you can teach her something? Hahahahah!!!!!! You're so wrong. You can't teach girls shit. You think your talk will do something? Hahaha! That's fucking funny. You need to understand there is no talking to women. You wait a year 6 mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Been dealing with allot of anger this past year and want to overcome it, however it is used to "safeguard" me from bullshit. How do I become more positive?So what we have here is you putting her on a pedestal. We have onesitis. And we have you. And you have some insecurities, low self respect, and confusion. I think you should start talking to someone specifically about this, your thinking needs to be corrected. The main issue here, is you don't believe you are worthy of things, you don't have self worth. And all of this anger is really directed towards yourself. I'd be willing to talk to you via personnel message. Look at my comment history over … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 09:57 PM |
| – | Been dealing with allot of anger this past year and want to overcome it, however it is used to "safeguard" me from bullshit. How do I become more positive?Here is the issue I see: You listed these things in what I would assume is an order of importance. The girl is the first one and mainly what I assume this to be about. You're not a fucking robot, you are a human. TRP is here as a toolbox to help you get out of your habits, the beta pussy whimp ones. You can talk to women, just don't do things that aren't attractive, like complain or bitch. Where are your male friends? Make some and talk to them about any and everything you want to, anything you … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 09:12 PM |
| 4 | There is no best, only a better. Developing outcome independence.We have all been there man... I think what's also important, is that you know you can get girls. Knowing this alone helps you stray from a scarcity mindset. When girls don't know me, or when they don't show interest on social media, Tinder, etc. I don't give a fuck. Because I know every single one of those girls would fuck me if I met them in person. Most of the time, I do get them, but if they've got their head stuck up their ass or they're not interested, I don't let it worry me, because I wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 09:00 PM |
| 6 | There is no best, only a better. Developing outcome independence.Any activity, life choices, goals, etc. you do in excess, will eventually cause you to fail or hinder you in some way. Some you can do too little also. You can't be hyper focused or involved in any one particular thing or person. Balance is important, learning self discipline and self preservation can allow you to apply this balance to every part of your life and hit that sweet spot that you've come to understand exists. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | How to make GF more confident?These are insecurities. Please understand, these aren't your problem, they aren't something you can fix. You'll get frustrated trying. You can make some remarks, but anything beyond that, or any expectation that she will change, isn't going to do you or her any good. When she does something you like, such as wears clothing you want her to, attack her. Tell her how good she looks and say more with your body and eyes, than your mouth. Then, fuck her brains out. Later, when she has something plain … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I just took the red pill and realized that I could have it a lot worse... but looking for input/adviceI think they will help propel your life goals. Anywhere really, if you plan to read them all, it won't matter. Start with what topic intrigues you most. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | I just took the red pill and realized that I could have it a lot worse... but looking for input/adviceHaha I've been posting here for over a year... I learn new things all the time. Learning will never cease. Can you answer these right now: How do you deal with confrontation from other males in the best way possible, when they seem to be giving you a hard time? What do you do if she says she wants something, that you don't approve of, or want? Is holding frame the only answer, and what does this mean? or is there more? What do you do if she withholds sex? How can you tell if she is manipulating … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 02:05 AM |
| 1 | The Challenged Mind: Paradoxes Of LifeI was adding to your post. It's important that people picking up on this shit understand why they fell into the "trap" they did, and who set it. Most importantly, how crucial it is that we question more than meets the eye. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | I just took the red pill and realized that I could have it a lot worse... but looking for input/adviceSo basically I should lay out my goals and pursue them 100%. If she stays she stays, if she goes she goes. Yes. You need to understand that you're not able to control outcomes entirely. There are many things you can do in life, prior to meeting someone, and even while you're seeing them, but you have no guarantee when it comes to outcome. Especially with something as flaky as women. If you focus on yourself, you are taking control of your role as the dominant male, pursing his life goals. She pr… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 01:40 AM |
| 5 | Abundance is freedom, and the first huge milestone to becoming alpha.You shouldn't have assumed that was what I was getting at, it wasn't. I implied a simple statement: there are better girls out there than the current girl you see. The limit does not exist. It's not as if there is a best girl, this goes until infinity. There is always someone out there better... this is how you should reason and understand abundance. It's what lurks in the back of your mind and allows you to never settle. If she acts up, you quit her. Why? Because there's someone better out ther… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 01:13 AM |
| 11 | The Challenged Mind: Paradoxes Of LifeGood post, you've dumped a lot of info on new users, things they'll need to expand on. These aren't paradoxes, they're more ironies than anything. There is a difference. Before The Red Pill, you just did because you were following the herd. There wasn't much sound reasoning, and you didn't question much. After embarking on your journey, post Red Pill, you question everything. It's like you're at the bottom of the ocean, raking up clams, and every stroke causes dirt to rise and disperse into the … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Abundance is freedom, and the first huge milestone to becoming alpha.Can you point out where I said anything about "the right girl," I genuinely don't see what you got that from... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/16 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Explicitly ask girls out on a date?You've done it correctly, she just hasn't got the point that this shit isn't happening, unless it's just the two of you. "You're bringing your mom out with us on our date? Embarrassing." At that point, fuck subtleties. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Abundance is freedom, and the first huge milestone to becoming alpha.Hate all you want on the movement, it does nothing. All you've done is wasted part of your personal time posting that everywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/16 05:36 AM |
| 44 | does anyone else ever get pissed off at the fact that if we want to do well with women, WE have to change/improve and they don't have to do shit?Welcome to the anger phase. Fasten your seatbelt, and try to enjoy the ride. Take a deep breath. We have all been where you are at one point or another, even if it was just a moment in high school or college, when we realized how easy girls have it. In many cases, yes, they are leaches. And we, as men, are the backbone of the world. This is something you are thinking about incorrectly. You have accepted reality, that is why you are so angry. You just don't like it..... right now at least. What y… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The Will, and The Way: somethings missing when you're trying to get things done.1) If your perspective is one where you find something daunting, you find it a bother, or you find it annoying, you aren't going to enjoy the process. With that said, the work you put into the process will most likely be half ass. But, if you learn to appreciate the process, by changing your mindset, it can make things not only more enjoyable, but better quality. Example: if you diet and lift to reach an end result of a good body, you'll never get there. No, you actually won't. And that is becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Women reek of desperation. They want to be our equal, but only when it's beneficial.Get better looking. And by this, I mean: more jacked, better style, more IDGAF what people think. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 05:34 PM |
| 3 | [Mod] What to do if you're approached by a reporter for an interview about The Red PillYou forgot lube. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 11:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you all feel on only associating with women for sex? As in, no female friends- only fucking females!Walk away from every single one, and do it today. Block them. The only thing that makes a "relationship" between any two people truly different, is sex. Have male friends. Have women for fucking. Women are terrible friends so why waste your time dealing with bitching and complaining. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Women reek of desperation. They want to be our equal, but only when it's beneficial.The need to hold frame isn't "to impress them," impressing/attracting them is just a byproduct of frame. We hold frame to deter manipulation, no other reason. If anything, we are now the manipulators, not them. We do the bending, not them. You think so, but it's only because you haven't followed the rabbit down the hole yet. I used to think like this, maybe a year or so ago. I actually remember writing a similar comment saying how not all women are evil, etc. I still believe that all women aren'… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Women reek of desperation. They want to be our equal, but only when it's beneficial.Everything I've said in my post is not so obvious. Although the introduction may be obvious, as my post continues, it sheds more light on exactly what I am speaking about. I still see hundreds of askTRP comments regarding how men should directly punish a girl for her actions, when they shouldn't, they should get a new girl and not even mention it. I've also seen hundreds where men continue to confuse the phrase, "not what she says, but what she does." Here I've clarified that and explained why w… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Are pick-up videos ruining the game?No. Most RSD videos have a million or less views, there are 7B people on the planet... Even if she did see them, she won't know what you're doing, if you know what you're doing. If she does, who cares. Pick up tactics as in depth as you're talking are for lazy people or people who want to bypass hard truths, and hard work. The truth is; get jacked, get tan, have style, and just start a convo and ask for her number, that's all there is to it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 11:48 AM |
| 10 | Money Is The Life Of The MindThe point is not to get a job making money to sacrifice happiness. Keep in mind, it is important to find a balance of income and happiness with what you're doing. I found the best way to find this, is to do many things at once. Hobbies or volunteering doing something with your hands like woodworking or fixing cars, whilst going to school for IT or engineering/science, whilst working at in a lab part time. This is a great way to see what you like, it's a sampler. Then, you can narrow your choices… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Herpes and GFBad. Comes often and attacks genitals and/or mouth. Causes depression, fever, anxiety, anger, severe pain. HSV-1 is similar also, it's all just turned down much much lower. Much less anxiety, less pain, etc. most importantly HSV-2 causes many sores. They are incredibly painful. HSV-1 is much less sores, yet still somewhat painful. The only true test is a swab of the puss contained within a blister. The blood test isn't exactly what you'll want for results and doesn't tell you as much. Go to the … | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 04:00 AM |
| 5 | Herpes and GFMouth to genital = no big deal. Get it once, typically never returns after suppressants. This is HSV-1, by the way you're describing it, it's nothing to worry about, even on the genitals. Shit will go away and never come back or maybe once every few years, go research it and show her she has nothing to worry about. (Google HSV-1 on genitals and start reading.) There is a huge difference between HSV-1 and HSV-2, mouth or genitals, doesn't matter, the type does, as they both live in your CNS and t… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What are the pros and cons of marrying a "career woman"?Give up already, marriage is for idiots. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Guys with kids, do you (and when) introduce your kids when dating (eg tinder)?No. Don't bother. They're there for sex, not to get to know your family. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Opinions are like assholes, so who gives a shit?I guess you missed elementary school... you know, the part where they teach the difference between fact and opinion. I'm not taking shit down, the mods can do it if they missed my point as much as you. Oh and thanks for being an example to everyone, this is exactly what I am talking about. It is a fact that 2+2=4, I have proof. It is not an opinion when you have proof. I didn't say to shut the world out and not listen, I said to disregard opinions of others. Get better at reading. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | RSD Tyler rant on what woman really wantAnd this again is why I tell people not to follow RSD here or if they do, to take it with a grain of salt before they're lead off into the retarted land these faggots will take you. It is good to use as a tool to learn how to approach women. The value of RSD ends there. Their viewpoints are that of Mark Manson in Models; these dummies think women are logical humans who work in normal patterns. Nothing is their fault, they are just like men, they aren't different. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 04:22 PM |
| 3 | A Red Pill Framework for RPW Vetting MenI did shortly after I found TRP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/16 06:37 PM |
| 6 | What do you say to a girl who feels really slutty for sleeping with you on the first dateIt's a comfort test. "It's not a big deal, YOLO." Or change the subject and don't respond. Or ignore totally. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 04:52 PM |
| 2 | A Red Pill Framework for RPW Vetting MenWhy do you think those at TRP (or at least as the majority of us claim.) aren't in an LTR or there for backing LTR's? Anyone there will tell you that it's the reason why you don't get into one, and it is only there to help the unfortunate men who are already married and don't want to abandon their relationship. It would be shot down if you talked about accepting red flags, especially when talking partner count. It's on you to choose your path and what you accept, you know the consequences and th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/16 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Collected Advice and Methods for BeginnersThanks for putting the time into the write up. Okay. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Collected Advice and Methods for BeginnersI don't get this, why do cold showers make this much of a difference? I plan on watching the documentary next week when I have more free time at home... But can you sum this up? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Are more shit tests a good or bad thing?It means they don't think you are who you are presenting. If you pass, they'll potentially change that idea eventually. Or, maybe long enough to fuck them until it starts up again. It's a girl trying to break you and find a way to prove to herself why she shouldn't be attracted to you. And to show herself you're not alpha once you fail the shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | So you're thinking about an LTR in the future?I know, been there. It's because she's not hot, that's the point. You typically won't find smoke shows that you can settle down with. You need to date down in order to have an LTR. Not level or above. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 01:49 PM |
| 1 | "Playful Mastery" and how to achieve this state of mind?You're talking about "amused mastery." Google it. Practice it. Search it on TRP using the search bar. Practice it. And practice it some more, it will jump right into your lap eventually. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/16 04:29 AM |
| 1 | My little brother is the AMOG between us. HelpFocus on yourself, that's all you can do: Meditate Weightlift and diet Talk to every girl you see, everywhere Work on your studies Pick up new hobbies that don't involve your brother Make new friends, outside of your brothers reach Don't be bitter, just get better than your old self, and work hard to do so. Don't ruin your youth comparing yourself to him, or being bitter. Just work and work and work, and one day soon, you'll surprise yourself and your brother. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/16 04:27 AM |
| 2 | So you're thinking about an LTR in the future?No. Been outside of both, AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 04:24 AM |
| 2 | My little brother is the AMOG between us. HelpStop comparing yourself to your brother, and start comparing yourself to who you were yesterday. Stop worrying about what people think, and start worrying about what you think. Fix this within, fuck everyone else, you are the one who holds the keys to your fate. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/16 02:52 AM |
| 8 | LTR vs DogThe dog? No. Get rid of her, fuck that. Tell her to deal with it. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Pussy magnet.Fuck the rest. Be jacked and ripped, know game... You're in there. Done deal. Alpha fux. Once you start talking the rest you're playing the beta card, and that's up to you if you want to take it there. To be a pussy magnet all you have to do is put yourself around women, know how to talk, and look good. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 08:03 PM |
| 2 | When you mess up a sure thing?There isn't ever a sure thing before hand. The only sure thing is when you're inside her. You don't do it again. Next time you'll remember this. Whatever you do, don't get hung up on her because this happened, it will happen again with someone else, just make sure you remember this and actually act on it when another girl comes onto you like this. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 07:50 PM |
| 9 | So you're thinking about an LTR in the future?The real irony (and this is where I laugh to myself.): This is so obvious to us as red pill men, but not so obvious to the outside world. They cannot see what's occurred here and haven't come up with this one underlying reason why their relationships and many other relationships continue to fail. This here sums up everything a red pill man needs to know about LTR's... it is the epitome of truth and exactly why anyone who knows this shouldn't bother playing the LTR card. Now for the really funny … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/16 07:41 PM |
| 2 | i have some questionThe thing with building muscle, in my experience, is that it isn't about the amount of reps. To get stronger, to build muscle, you add more weight. This may be argued here, but that is my opinion. Accept your height and move on, simple as that. What are you going to do? Beat yourself up for the rest of your life about it? Keep reading on dread game, the only thing that will happen is improvement in English and a better understanding of game. Yes, read the 48 laws is power. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 06:24 PM |
| 6 | A Red Pill Framework for RPW Vetting MenFrom my experience, men of TRP don't want an LTR because of the lack of women without red flags, so push push push keeps it away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/16 06:20 PM |
| 9 | So you're thinking about an LTR in the future?I know it comes off like this, but my point is, it is extremely hard to find an 8 or above that isn't one of these girls. I have had a few 7's from decent backgrounds who were decent girls. And, I've been around the nerdy girls, even a couple doctors etc., they end up with a higher n count than you'd expect, and a world of stories. The point of my post is to explain that I personally haven't really run into any hot girls who weren't this way. I've maybe met one or two 8's out of hundreds and hun… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/16 06:08 PM |
| 6 | A Red Pill Framework for RPW Vetting MenWhat this and everyone here is talking about, in a nutshell, is push/pull mastery. It is the man that could make you think that he won't come through with the perfect amount of beta, and just before the rollercoaster reaches its maximum height, he does, and he melts your heart every time. Before it reaches its midpoint, he turns the alpha back on. This is the man that women go crazy for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/16 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Frame is absolute, it is always developing. Here are some things to remind you about it.Trust me, I could careless about your opinion of me, you're acting like a woman about it and continued to talk shit instead of learning something. I am merely philosophizing with you... But, suit yourself, you don't want to, then don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/16 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Frame is absolute, it is always developing. Here are some things to remind you about it.You don't know me, and because of this, none of what you're saying about my character or personal life matters, speculate all you'd like. So let's go back to your orginal point. "You must give back and you cannot just take." I don't disagree with this, as I said prior. However, what ever I give is to get a return. What you called cooperation I call selfishness. You are actually playing by the very same rules that I am. That is true because you wouldn't have stated the law unless you were doing i… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Frame is absolute, it is always developing. Here are some things to remind you about it.Showing people the door eliminates them from my life, if they're being punished, it means they never wanted to leave to begin with thus probably wouldn't leave. If they do, it's on them and I will treat them as I would treat a kind old lady. Look, man. There are two ways to go about the game of life: One: you refuse to play. Two: you understand why you're playing and do what you need to in order to succeed. I play the game of people the way I need to, which is by a means of selfishness that is e… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 06:35 AM |
| 7 | Something that remains constant when a girl starts to like me...It's because you're nervous and give a fuck, you're worried about judgement. When you're with the girl that you've been around, you're not nervous, you don't give a fuck. And this is because you realize their opinion doesn't matter, you're comfortable. You're standoffish at the start with new people because you're worried about what people think and haven't warmed up to them. Stop worrying, watch how liberating it is to be just like this with people you don't know. Give it a shot and pretend who… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/16 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Casual relationships spectrumI suggest everyone frames themselves as the exteme bad ass mother fucker that no one dares to fuck with. The one women are nervous around, yet completely aroused by. I suggest everyone does whatever the fuck they want. I suggest you do not care about people. .... And in the future, when you're done with that, listen to what he is saying... if you feel like doing that, go ahead and do it. In order to find balance, you must swing from far left, to far right... and eventually make your way to the m… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Keeping principles in mind/to remember in right momentThat's because you're new. Give it time. It will be second nature in less than a year. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Many Redpillers love RSD, yet it's been dissed by Jeffy and now Max. Why do you think it is.I disapprove. I say, walk up to a girl and start talking. It depends on your level of social skills I suppose. Someone with a zero in social skills may need a step by step. Typically what I see; men over complicating the process of talking to women and this is in fact because they're scared. If you just start talking and do it again, and again, everywhere, you'll be good at it very soon. If you worry and you have anxiety, go ahead and waste time and prolong the experience. All you're baisically … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 11:17 PM |
| -4 | Frame is absolute, it is always developing. Here are some things to remind you about it.I don't punish bad behavior, that is idiotic. If people don't fall in line, where they should, they can eat a dick and fuck themselves. I don't need them to behave, I am self sufficient. Plenty of people back me, and have backed me for years, and I never once asked them to or did anything that would make them think they need to, so the video doesn't do anything for me. I don't want to do things for a group. I may play nice and waive a stick to game them, but my goals are selfish, at the end of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 10:11 PM |
| 30 | How to Spot Male LosersThis is actually my first post in RPW. This post intriqued me because of the pure confusion I see here. The question is not, "how do you spot a male loser?" The question is, "how do you spot a winner?" You're confusing two points, and I will clarify. On one side, you are baisically asking, "when I get wrapped into something with a guy, I can't let go, he's got me mentally hypnotized, how did I miss the signs?" Well, that isn't the same as, "how do I spot a loser?" What you did was miss all the s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/16 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Frame is absolute, it is always developing. Here are some things to remind you about it.Absolute, meaning; "frame is what you are; it is the whole you." Your frame means everything to who you are as a person, it is the total makeup of your personality and being as a whole, and yet, you are forever evolving as a person. It is having one foot planted in the ground, keeping you steady and grounded. Without frame, you are nothing but skin and bones blowing in the wind, being pushed around by every other being that roams the planet. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 09:40 AM |
| 2 | The hard sell. Establishing frame and intent.Maybe if you take your spectacles off and loosen your belt, you can make a move. Relax man, that's what I am saying. Just touch her. Use the DiCarlo ladder of escalation. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 04:10 AM |
| 5 | When a guy starts being an asshole towards you to raise his own value in front of women, is this AMMOGing?It is. Me personally, I grin, amplify, and agree. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice for possible LTRYou lacked self awareness, and never killed the beta, onesitis crept up on you slowly. It's here. What are you going to do about it? Get into a relationship? Sounds unhealthy my man. Sounds needy. Sounds like you're destined to fuck your self up. You come here wanting the nod of approval. The answer is no. Because a man who is ready doesn't need one. I have to be harsh and give it to you straight, no one else in the world probably will, except the gifted members of TRP, and maybe a couple of clo… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Need some advice for possible LTRSounds like childish drama, lack of frame, and a Disney movie. Grow up, read the sidebar, ditch the girlfriend, and get your dick wet. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel that it's not worth it to put in effort to hook up with girls below your league?You should only fuck girls that make your Richard hard. That's the general rule. Do not offer them numbers, one through ten. This only further adds to the pedestal. There are girls who are hotter than others, yes. So fuck the ones you want to and don't fuck the ones you don't want to. I fuck girls that aren't so hot sometimes, and ones that are very hot. Whatever you're in the mood for. Just don't go crazy with classification so you do not pedastalize them any further. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 06:06 AM |
| 7 | There should be a site where The Red Pill networking and advice are offered.Here at askTRP? That's what this is for. The mods take care of the cunts that come in here and try to stop us or throw shit in our beautiful view of the world. What more do you need? Now, unveil your probelms so I/someone can offer some solutions. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 06:03 AM |
| 2 | ADD and LMRNot necessarily. It means you gamed her correctly and she is ridding the cock carousel. Look man, believe it or not, I've fucked (only one.) a virgin this way. Told me after my dick was in her and the hymen was broken. She wasn't a slut, she just lost control and was so soaking wet she was willing to fuck me. Regardless, assume all women are. "AWALT" is meant to keep you on your toes. It's like a gun, always assume it's loaded so no one gets shot, even when there aren't any rounds in it, assume … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Plate managementThat's how an alpha who has self respect, self esteem, and options handles shit. Good on you man, +1 to you and your life, and your comment karma. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Killing the Beta in meHere Here If there's anything else you need help with, don't hesitate to ask. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | What's incentivizing women to do better?The thing is, not with this consistency. She slaved away a year. She continues to slave away for me. I get this attention, sure. But not when I ignore them, treat them as a plate, and barely pay the time of day, they just use me for sex only... after a month or two. But before that, yes they slave away also. This girl that is still going, who is now my LTR... she never changed up. Even when I wasn't physically with her, she was begging to do things for me and constantly made herself useful whene… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Plate managementYou must set the pace of when you will see her. Not her job and she won't. Contact her again, limit interactions to a couple times a week at most, or whenever she reaches out to you, just make sure it's quick, it's teasing, it's cute. I suggest every 5 to 7 days a meet up and fuck. After a few days reach out to her and set up 7 days out and say; "We are hanging out (insert whatever day.)." | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 03:24 PM |
| 10 | Broke up with LTR 20 days ago, she met someone on tinder and theyre exchanging nudes.Stop. Open new girls. IN PERSON. Get the fuck off Tinder and social media in general. Delete distractions. Delete any traces of her as well as trashing any tangible objects. Block her. Lift. Find a hobby. Stop watching porn. Develop friendships with male friends. Quit the victim act and the self loathing bulshit. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 06:33 AM |
| 4 | Killing the Beta in meWhat are you expecting, some more hand holding? Welcome, brother. Now, stop being a pussy beta and find your way around. How much more hand holding do you need until you reach down and find your cock for the first time? This isn't a fucking training ground to help you grow up, do that shit on your own and turn yourself into the hard rock that you want to become, that's what the men here do. The knowledge is here, but you yourself must grow. You need help with a specific topic, ask. You need help… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Plate managementGo to search bar and research. Draw your own conclusions so people don't flood your mind with theirs. Look up "sock puppets guide to managing your bitches." Rollo has a couple of great write ups on plates, find them. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 06:24 AM |
| 2 | What's incentivizing women to do better?I am military, hardcore, and was pretty red pill / alpha most of my life. Yes. Got a little sappy in my late twenties due to lack of abundance. Found TRP and got right back on track. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 06:22 AM |
| 2 | What's incentivizing women to do better?Oh hahaha. Not really, society has fucked you. Unless you find a dude that is alpha as fuck, can make you cum multiple times, and puts you in your place whilst also knowing how to be masculine, than no. Society has fucked everything up. You want to know the truth? You're going to most likely find a beta or a washed up wanna be alpha and be unhappy. That or a dude who cheats on you and lies to you. You're in trouble lady, we all are. Relationships are extinct for dudes like me. Even the LTR I jus… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 12:13 AM |
| 2 | What's incentivizing women to do better?You're lucky, I am a snowflake who is special and I'm taking my time to answer this for you because what I have doesn't happen often (SrS.). No. Fuck these hoes and get money. They're mostly all disgusting. I have fucked well over 100 chicks... Want to know what? I found one chick and she is feminine as fuck. Cooks and cleans and begs me to slap her ass and SHE IS CONSISTENT. she is a solid 7/10 in looks. That's 1 out of who knows how many... 160, maybe more. She calls me sir and wakes me up suc… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Start talking lessWorthy of removal after 250 upvotes eh? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 05:37 PM |
| 6 | What to reply if she says 'we're moving too fast'?Listen to nothing she says. Not a God damn thing. If she stops talking to you, or doesn't reply on time, then you're in cold water and it's time to abandon ship and stop talking. If she says these things, you're probably all up in her shit. Back off. Aloofness is important, it shows non neediness among a hundred other characteristics that make you seem like a potential alpha. So my point is don't reply, it's time to let her come to you. Start reading the sidebar again, read comments. Find out th… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Man boobs and insecurity.Right now, you shouldn't accept yourself for who you are... it's not who you want to be. You should instead google the many ways to remove man boobs and get to it. Push-ups quite frequently, outside of your weight routine, should help start to tighten the area. I've also read vitamin C is great for tightening skin. But look, man. You are doing something most people in the world haven't; you are taking a hard look at yourself and fixing your mistakes and problems. You're doing it for better healt… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 01:07 PM |
| 6 | Start talking lessActually almost 30. I probably wouldn't be here pitching good advice as I have been if I was in high school. Social is good, talk with as many people as possible, open women. Acting cool while you do it is better. Aloof is better. Let people prove themselves to you, don't let anyone make you think it's better the other way around. The point is, don't talk for the sake of talking. Talk because you have something to say. Talking without it makes you look like you're trying to prove yourself to oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 06:05 AM |
| 8 | Start talking lessThe mysterious portion adds much to the coolness; loud mouths are annoying and give away so much of what another's mind could have imagined, imagined for the better. Say something when you have something worth saying, otherwise you aren't saying anything anyways. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | When I hook up with a girl with nightgame I don't want to hang out anymoreSounds right, tell her when you're seeing her. Walk in there like a boss and dick her down. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 04:46 AM |
| 2 | When I hook up with a girl with nightgame I don't want to hang out anymoreGoing from having sex with one girl at a time, to two at a time. Solid project. You'll figure it all out, brother. If you're fucking HB8's and above, something tells me you'll manage to work this all out really fast. Just stop worrying about what people think about you and start worrying about what you think. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 04:43 AM |
| 8 | When I hook up with a girl with nightgame I don't want to hang out anymoreYou fucked her? How's that A$AP and schoolboy Q song go? "pause a little bit, I got a little advice, if you fucked her once, then you can fuck her twice." You are giving a fuck. Stop doing that. Start reading TRP comments, sidebar, and books to understand how. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 04:35 AM |
| 4 | Just some Super Geh motivational quotes to make you guys rethink shit.I am The Red Pill. It's actually what flows through my veins. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/16 04:30 AM |
| 9 | Just some Super Geh motivational quotes to make you guys rethink shit.Dude forget the quotes, your writing is sincerely awesome. Makes me feel like you're a sales person at the top of the room yelling and entertaining people, Jesus hahaha. I do, obviously, have something to add to the post also... Chad. There is a big misconception about him. You see, Chad isn't a real person, he is just the Tom Brady type (obviously just a player version and not married.) that everyone wants to be like here. The thing is, Chad isn't "natural" for long. All he is: a man who has op… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/16 04:23 AM |
| 2 | How is promiscuity bad for women? What biological/anecdotal/scientific evidence is there that women with high counts make bad LTRs?How about historical? Why do drugs addicts need to stay away from drugs? Why do alcoholics need to stay away from alcohol? And why are murders thrown in prison? To make a spectacle, sure. But more importantly, to make sure they don't kill again. Sluts love the rush of fucking new men. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 04:05 AM |
| 2 | LTR trying to be my "equal"I think you're confused. Read what you wrote again and then read what I just told you. Then, go read the post I just wrote. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 12:38 AM |
| 4 | LTR trying to be my "equal"I've said this once, and I was fought on it here, and I'll say it again: DO NOT seek the validation of a woman. You are doing this by ensuring she does what you tell her to. Do not have punishment and reward, instead be indifferent to her. Men focused on self actualization don't worry themselves with these silly little things. Men who have commanded a position of dominance and respect do not need to tell women, they gladly fall in line, they know their position. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Just wanted to say thank you and more advice.He could change it with game and personality change, but it's not worth the profit for the cost. Not to mention the action of seeking her out is beta in itself, this is why he needs to move on, not because he could or could not win her back. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 06:10 PM |
| 0 | I can't seem to be close friends with girlsNo. Women never give valuable input don't be fooled. If they're not hot, they're not uping your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 02:59 PM |
| 4 | I can't seem to be close friends with girlsWhy bother? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Got called out for spitting game, having 2 personalities.Try meditating in the full lotus for 2 hours a day, every day. In about a year, you won't give a fuck about anything. You lack self control and self respect right now, that's the real issue. Even though you didn't act on it, what your true desires are, do not match what you want them to be, or what you wanted to do. And most importantly, this all stems from you not understanding yourself, how to handle this, and what it is you should do or should be influenced by. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 10:57 PM |
| 3 | How to not get erections so easily?More exercise. It's not about blood flow, it's about calming you down. Other than that, more sex. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | **Frame,** An In Depth Look.If he's talking about making her a plate and he keeps his distance, I don't think it would be difficult. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | **Frame,** An In Depth Look.The sidebar's definition is great, however it's general and ambiguous definition can sometimes be confusing. Frame does not only have to do with women. Frame is power, it is control over interaction. If you are setting the "frames" you are in control, and control=power. The world reality gets thrown around a lot, but there is only one reality, yours... or in my case, mine. The rest of the world doesn't matter. Compliance is everything to do with frame. If you are compliant with another individua… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I go about hitting up this girl?This is a growing onesitis. There is something important you're not seeing here. When you start to fantasize this long, you have a growing need to fuck this girl, and you're not confident you can find someone else that's just as good looking as her elsewhere. You actually have pointed a spotlight on her, and have never forgot her. How about this, do you think she is thinking about you like you have all these years about her? Don't hit her up via social media, go out and game some other chicks. T… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 01:48 PM |
| 0 | **Frame,** An In Depth Look.No I do agree. I think inner game is just as important as outter. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 01:19 PM |
| – | "You're the only one I sleep with"No. It could be honest, or it could be her trying to manipulate you into believing this. There is a 50/50 chance and no way to find out unless you try to stalk her. This is unhealthy and not what you want to do. Instead, just go about your life, and watch what she does. If she invests in you, goes out of her way, etc. decide after time has passed what it means to you (6 months or 1 year.) The point is, WATCH WHAT SHE DOES, NEVER LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 04:58 AM |
| 1 | **Frame,** An In Depth Look.Do you mean inner game? Or are we talking the benefit you receive from becoming someone who is better at game? Such as the benefits of being able to bend others, like getting them to do things for you? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 04:55 AM |
| 3 | **Frame,** An In Depth Look.I understand your meaning of frame in the context of mind. Having a strong frame of mind whilst alone. An example for that could be: Understanding of your own thoughts. Not being drawn to addiction or dopamine releasing activities which do nothing positive for an individual. Having control over oneself. Not allowing previous programming to select your actions or behaviors and the self awareness that goes along with this. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 04:44 AM |
| 1 | **Frame,** An In Depth Look.There are many girls out there, as I said. You don't need to take her back or even think about her, so don't get hung up. It's better you don't. However, you could probably take her back and flip it. It's possible, but not worth it. Yes, then you gave a fuck and had a double standard, now it seems you've got that figured out, you can't care. It's all good, we all make mistakes. My advice is to learn from it, move on, and don't speak to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 04:38 AM |
| 5 | **Frame,** An In Depth Look.If she crawls back, no. It's up to you really, do you want to take her back? If she sincerely disrespected you, there's always more women and not worth it. If you were committed and she cheats or any of that, absolutely not. Plate or FWB, up to you as I said above. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Self Improvement = AlphaI didn't say money and power, that was another user. That's for you to find out, whatever you enjoy. I don't know what it is. For me, I enjoy hobbies like shooting guns. I take much satisfaction from completing projects. Making my business go from nothing to something is very gratifying. I like fast cars and working on them, making them faster than cars they aren't suppose to be, so much more than just pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Self Improvement = AlphaWhatever you want. You probably should at least try to see more of a purpose from life. Think of it like this: you are the most successful man in the world, every girl wants you, you fuck any girl you want with in seconds of meeting them. Now what? Highly doubt you'll feel satisfaction after a short while, you're only thinking of it like this because you've either lacked pussy your entire life, or you're very close minded to the idea that there is more to life. Look man, I only bring this up bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement = AlphaNo, I could care less about opposing viewpoints, honestly all TRP is to me is a way to see the world from different angles. If anything at all I appreciate them, and apply to my life what is note worthy. This is the point of learning, to shave the curve others have struggled with and improve your life. You said: "it used to be about fucking women." And I'm asking: "when you know this is as simple as doing a few things, don't you find it to be boring, and don't you want more for your life than to… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Self Improvement = AlphaHow many ways can you write: "be jacked and don't give a fuck" until people get the point lol? There's more to life fulfillment than pussy. Fucking women is the easy part of life. Quit everything, get jacked, work on game, and you're done. Next? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Leave Yourself More Than 1 Backdoor, And Do This By Exhibiting Self Respect, People Won't Ever Want To Lose YouGoing out and starting a fight or an argument is the definition of acting like a Gronk. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Leave Yourself More Than 1 Backdoor, And Do This By Exhibiting Self Respect, People Won't Ever Want To Lose YouNo, I think you're on a "Mr. Nice Guy Trip." It is not the bible on how to be a man. It is a good beginners book for those who were stepped on in their marriage, and treated like a piece of shit in their relationship, and teen years, etc. It is good because those people were so stepped on their entire life, they turned into slaves and only know how to react one way; they don't think they deserve anything. I don't know how long ago you read it, but I think you should take a look at the bigger pic… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Leave Yourself More Than 1 Backdoor, And Do This By Exhibiting Self Respect, People Won't Ever Want To Lose YouFor me, I let go of any hopes, and I mean entirely. Poof, nothing. No hope at all. But me, I am an extremist in the sense that I know one day I will die, and to me, I will do what it takes (obviously within reason, I don't want to physically hurt anyone unless in defense and I don't want to break laws because prison would suck.) to make my life the best I can. With this loss of hope, you'll barely want to live. Except I started to realize why I did. It was that I had hope for one thing, somethin… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 12:50 AM |
| 12 | You're told you shouldn't share your feelings with women. In most scenarios, this is correct, but if you decide to for a more wholesome relationship experience, you can. Just be responsible.I can understand your thinking. But, I respectfully find it to be wrong. When you kill the need for this completely, the thought doesn't cross your mind again. You mine as well lean on styrofoam, because they won't give you the responses you want, even if it doesn't completely kill attraction. It is weakness to need this, from anyone. Besides, they don't truly care. Whatever they're telling you is to shut you up. And the world tells you it means you're strong, but they're wrong. If you get into … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Amused Mastery and the Hamster Wheel are opposing modes of thoughtInsightful. This is deep. Here's what I see; It is that men who have reached this level of amused mastery have attained a level of discipline. They are unwaivered and remain steady in a shaky situation. All while women ride oceans waves, moving in a harmonic motion, yet always striving for hedonism, regardless of where they are in the sin wave. It is that women will never truly be happy, while a man finds his happiness in the simple things, in this steady but sure path. That women rely on a man … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 08:10 PM |
| -1 | Hippies, Festivals and Burns.. your thoughts?Sounds like a bunch of individuals who have fucked up wiring in their brain. LSD can do that. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 08:02 PM |
| 8 | Leave Yourself More Than 1 Backdoor, And Do This By Exhibiting Self Respect, People Won't Ever Want To Lose YouOh boy, you're thinking small scale right now. Open your eyes. For starters; I am in no way advocating that you create an outcome around an individual or group of individuals. I am advocating that you exhibit such traits to people and I am not talking about WOMEN solely here. This isn't meant as a tool for sexual strategy alone, although this coupled with many other aspects and ideas can be used as such. It's someone like you who will blow opportunity in your work place, your personal business, … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Leave Yourself More Than 1 Backdoor, And Do This By Exhibiting Self Respect, People Won't Ever Want To Lose YouIf you aren't out to offend others, it means you are not intentionally trying to do so. If it happens, oh well. But, if you are out trying to offend people, you are most likely because you lack self esteem, and belittle others to make yourself feel and look better. I am not saying sugar coat anything, I am saying don't waste your time, be above it and understand it. When you understand that reacting is a waste of time, you'll see why. You want to prove your alpha by snapping back, go ahead and b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 05:48 PM |
| 7 | Leave Yourself More Than 1 Backdoor, And Do This By Exhibiting Self Respect, People Won't Ever Want To Lose YouHere's the thing about what you've just said, everyone has struggled with it at some point, yet you're acting like you're alone. If you were TRP and the Manosphere wouldn't exist. Things and thoughts happen like this, it is the way we react to them, the change we make that make us worth the skin on our back. That being said, there are resources galore out there and right here on TRP. I don't mean to shy you away from looking, it's part of the process, but I can tell you what I think is wrong, si… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 08:36 AM |
| 9 | Leave Yourself More Than 1 Backdoor, And Do This By Exhibiting Self Respect, People Won't Ever Want To Lose YouThere are many things that go into this equation, but you're mostly spot on with what you just said. However, most importantly, you have to set the tone of a relationship from day one. If you don't, the boundries will be stepped on until no end. It will make dealing with the man/woman less worthwhile. This is why the backdoor, or the ability to walk away has to always be there. You can't force someone to respect you, all you can do is exhibit the reasons why they should, if they don't, there are… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 05:54 AM |
| 8 | Post break up 9mo update: trust issues?hahaha welcome... welcome my friend. This is TRP, go ahead and introduce yourself, tell us your story. Don't you see? This is why this subreddit has had great success. What's the expression? "Can't see the forest for the trees." At the heart of TRP, we see self improvement. You took that away, and this is great (handclaps.). However, it is called The Red Pill, because once you take it, you are headed for reality, by taking The Red Pill, your mind is being showed the hypnosis it's endured for yea… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 02:42 AM |
| 1 | You Don't Love Them Both EquallyThis. I've been paranoid of certain things in the past when I didn't actually do those things. Watching things happen or picking up on something you're accusing someone of doing, doesn't mean you have done it. It isn't always projecting, it just could be one of the possible reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | There Is Only One Way To Win The Game Of LifeYou're misinterpreting my main point. It is that a man cannot be the best he can be if he is stuck following the herd. A man stays in touch with reality by pushing himself each and everyday to do so, by separating himself from the BP world, and by developing a healthy mind and body. It is only then that he can start to play the game of life to the best of his ability. This is the start of creating a way to win at life. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Masculine Needs Form a Hierarchy. Design Your Life Accordingly.This I agree with. There is no need to go to one extreme and say there aren't laws or rules, and there is no need to go to the other and be BP. There is a balance. There are natural, biological, and societal rules we have all been born into, understand them, and play the game of life accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 07:24 AM |
| – | Where to learn how to be a man if you grew up without a father?This is what makes you a free human, not bound by slavery. The formula is whatever you want it to be. You can't say, "poof," and come up with it. It takes years and pondering, and living in itself to figure these things out. Did you find TRP recently? If so, you might have had a world shock and you may feel stripped of beliefs and you may lack a purpose that is backed by something. If so, give it time. If this isn't the case, you need to realize something: What you're searching for is what makes… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 03:15 AM |
| – | Where to learn how to be a man if you grew up without a father?Mostly, that's what people come here for. They want to get their girl advice and move on their way, it isn't the Boy Scouts, and there isn't much comradery. Though, you can pick up much of the basics and even learn things you might not pick up on out there, but you've also got to get out there and apply it and find a "mentor" type. Finding someone over the internet to mentor you, isn't enough. I've been in the military for 10 years and apart of fraternities and masculine groups, this is where yo… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 02:55 AM |
| – | Where to learn how to be a man if you grew up without a father?Actually, you'll be surprised how much TRP is this. You obviously haven't stuck around long enough or read enough to see this. It is this. The going trend here is; be as amazing as possible, and women follow. All of the things you've listed are exactly what you will learn here, just stick around and pay close attention, give it 8 months or a year of reading a little something everyday or a few times a week, you'll be amazed when you look back and see the difference. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Male FriendsMake some and learn how to play nice, or be a lone wolf. It is evident you desire friends, as you're here asking this. If you want friends, you need to ease up a little. People are going to talk shit, and you're not being someone they want to follow when you get like that and retaliate. If you have hard boundaries, so be it (I find this stupid to have boundaries over words, and have had friends say terrible shit in a joking manor, and it doesn't bother me. This is what men do, tease each other a… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 01:02 AM |
| 6 | "Men act out; women act in."I find the analysis of Machiavellianism in females to be particularly amusing. A built in manipulation system inherited solely due to genetics. No way to test, but I wonder what level of Machiavellianism you could find in particularly fertile, good looking females due to the fact that this inherent trait can really help protect and prolong the passing of their genes. And this is apparent since strength, in particularly petite, good looking girls, is typically null. Too bad there isn't a way to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Emoji's by the truckload. Is there any relevance when you get texts with a dozen of them in a row?She doesn't care if you pay attention. Actually, you shouldn't pay attention to a God damn thing she says or writes. It is all meaningless. To give you an example: I had a girl who was "madly in love" with me. She would tell me she loves me everyday. This went on for 6 months. Perhaps she was a little more nuts than your typical AWALT. One day: poof, gone. That's it. I didn't ask why or contact her again. Just poof. UNDERSTAND THIS; a woman's emotions will change in a moments notice without logi… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Scarcity MentalityDamn, I have to work on my spelling more. But, I have to say, being able to spell Wednesday was a huge milestone. Sadly not kidding. I am phenomenal at math and science, always straight A's in these subjects without a problem... yet awful at spelling and writing. I have had to work so hard just to get where I am at with my spelling and writing haha fuck! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 10:12 PM |
| 90 | Harsh Truth Time: Porn is Made for LosersI made a similar post some time ago, and was downvoted into hell. Laughed a little inside because I could see how offended people were. The most upvoted comment was this one: "Sounds pretty fucking pathetic to me." And I'm sure lots of people give two fucks about what you think. Not saying you're wrong, but posting shit about your opinion anonymously on line about anything could be seen as pathetic. Besides assuming that the guy beating off to porn isn't getting sex, perhaps their are reasons fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Shit test "you never listen to what I say". Best answer, in your opinion?What's better is to ignore it and don't text back, or ignore it and switch to the topic of logistics. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 09:14 AM |
| 4 | Thugs exist because women fuck thugsI find it funny you wasted your time, bored or not. If you put a red dot on a chimps forehead and put him in the mirror, soon he will realize it is himself he is looking at, and know the red dot is actually on his own forehead. Put a dog in the same scenario, he will have no idea it's a reflection. Get a dog to understand he is a dog, to have any self awareness, then you'll get women to understand what they are. Anything coming from your lips otherwise is the biggest waste of breath, you'd been … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to the question "are you mad?"There is a problem with what you've done. It's come here and asked a question, yet you haven't read the "hot" posts on TRP. But don't worry, I'll help you out; Whisper wrote a post regarding this exact problem you're having, earlier this week. You should read it, and read all the highly upvoted posts before asking questions. It's a good habit to get in, and it will make you look less ignorant in the future. The answer is, dont. Do not even tell her she is doing something you don't approve of. Th… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I get out of this hole? (Recurring social anxiety)Meditate, exercise, eat healthy, stop caring what people think. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 03:29 AM |
| 8 | Should I care more than I do about LTR driving with a guy friend cross country?Paranoid? No. Real. The reality of it is that she has biological motives that don't always take the person she is committed to into account. It just takes someone to activate them so she loses herself. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 03:05 AM |
| – | Should I care more than I do about LTR driving with a guy friend cross country?I might not sound it, but I sure look it. Yeah, I bet broski, that's why you're here asking, right? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 02:36 AM |
| 1 | There Is Only One Way To Win The Game Of LifeStop watching TV, delete FB, stop watching porn, deprive yourself of the bad, and work hard for the good. It will take time, but you'll feel truly amazing soon. Create a poster board and several goals you wish to complete each day. Hang up in your room. Give yourself a smiley face when you're doing well. After 30 of them, you'll look back on your progress and smile. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 02:35 AM |
| – | Should I care more than I do about LTR driving with a guy friend cross country?I've never ever been friends with a girl, not once in my entire life. I am either fucking them, or I'm not. Sure, you can hope her friend isn't like me, you can hope he doesn't have high SMV and doesn't know how to game a bitch, and you can hope she doesn't fuck him. Though, hope doesn't get you far. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 02:29 AM |
| 13 | Can a man base major life decisions around a valuable girl and keep it RP?Oh boy. Okay, man. Let's get down to the nitty gritty... You said, "is it beta to reconsider major life decisions for a girl?" Let's worry much less about tittles here, at least in the beginning. They seem to scare you. Let's think more openly, also... because I really would like to help you. Begin I don't know what level of self awareness you're at. How self aware do you consider yourself to be? Do you realize that you just typed something that took quite the effort to type, and it was all base… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Funny thing that happened to me at my new job.What man! You fucked upp.... Should have taken your dick out, smiled and said, "and you better get used to this now that I'm here." | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Game adviceSearch bar (limit to TRP only.), type "game" YouTube, "RSD." Take with a grain of salt about anything that is not related to pick up. I'd steer clear of anything they say, OUTSIDE of pickup, such as self improvement. Follow TRP for that specifically. Read, "The 48 Laws of Power." Understand "Alpha Fux vs. Beta Bux." Read, "The Art of Seduction." Most importantly, EVERY single one of these videos. You're welcome. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 03:52 AM |
| 31 | Skinny Guy Gains: You have no excuses now.Good motivational post, keep up the mentality. Just remember to maintain discipline and do not confuse it for motivation. This is key when times/scheduling gets tough or your motivation drops. You forgot sleep and rest. Resting is equally important as lifting. You don't gain muscle at the gym, you gain it whilst resting. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Advice on resources for where I'm at? Kino/dread"DiCarlo Escalation Ladder" Search bar (set to TRP only.), "Dread" There is way too much stuff on Dread that you should read, can't give you a single guide. Also search "Alpha Game" | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Advice on breakupIf you just do it, and don't look back, you'd be surprised how easy it really is. Do not act on impulse or emotion like a hamster. You just said "right decision." Base your actions on logic. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Advice on breakupSounds like you're mostly feeling sympathy. However, don't be fooled by sympathy. It usually starts out as, "I know I'm such a great asset, this will hurt you when I leave, and I feel terrible, but I have to go." Then it turns into, "Damn I shouldn't have left her, things were so great." Don't play yourself right now. She is a slut, you're getting caught up in your emotions. Fuck that noise. Go deadlift and refocus your attention to goals that center around yourself. Be done with this nonsense, … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Maybe My Opinion On This Will Show You The Future For Us Men At The Red Pill, Isn't Something To "Worry" AboutPeople ask themselves if they're going crazy, when they've been gaslighted. People call them conspiracy theories, because whoever did it... well, you get it. It's almost always too late to notice when you're manipulated. Until you become a master of manipulation, then you know every tactic there is and with great self awareness and knowledge, you can turn the tables. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Maybe My Opinion On This Will Show You The Future For Us Men At The Red Pill, Isn't Something To "Worry" AboutIt won't reflect everyone's; just like those who had sub duty, when compared to those who do weather readings on shore. Everyone's experience is different, mine included. My point was to use induction and retraining as a guide for understanding. If you're in the military, or have been, you know that's the program. If you aren't, I hope my explanation served some purpose and explained this. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/16 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Maybe My Opinion On This Will Show You The Future For Us Men At The Red Pill, Isn't Something To "Worry" AboutTelevision is literally a form of hypnosis, access to your subconscious. It's brainwashing you. These things are not real life, they're an escape from it. Whoever wrote it is taking you for the ride they want you to go on. Sure, you can try and make a valid argument and say, "anything is good in small amounts." But, statements like this are argumentative hamstering. They're logical fallacies. The element plutonium is never good to inhale, no matter the amount, neither is crack. Edit: It's also e… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/16 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Everyone Has Something To SayIf you grin and say, "ok'" after they talk shit, you've done your job. For me, I think knowing that I am stronger than their opinion is what is most important. If they can get to me, who's to say it's not true? Fuck their opinion, only my own is of importance to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Learnings from Models: Attract Women Through Honest by Mark MansonI don't think it's important. I think it is pointless. The things that you need to do, are right here. It's easy; clear up your problems in life, firstly. Then, raise SMV, kill neediness by becoming 100% self sufficient, create focus and goals that do not revolve around women. Once you have worked towards this, made yourself mentally and physically strong, and learned all the knowledge, you realized you never needed Models, that it could have stared you down the wrong path if you started thinkin… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/16 08:46 PM |
| 3 | I'm just really fucking unhappy since I was 11 and I don't know how to stop it. I'm on anti-depressants, meditate and lift. I'm still unhappy. Any tips?You've asked a one line ambiguous question, expecting some simple answer. So, I will give you just that; something to try. Most of the time, these types of things take great effort and digging from a psychologist or similar. Or do they? Our society has made a big deal out of depression. We have commercials, and consistently make you feel self conscious about your feelings. For one day, today, just try to become "okay" with how you feel. In other words, accept how you feel and don't say to yourse… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 12:19 PM |
| 2 | If I approach a slut, will mimicking their father's personality up my bang rate?You should treat all women as children. What will pick up your bang rate is amused mastery. Amused mastery and aloofness works wonders with sluts. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Learnings from Models: Attract Women Through Honest by Mark MansonRollo, TRP, Manosphere, etc. Yes. And this is what truly allows you to develop a plan for yourself. As said before, TRP is here because much of what men do (subconsciously or otherwise.) stems from "trying" to create female attraction. Suffice to say most dudes were doing the beta bux game hard and heavy, increasing bank and dad bod to no limit. But, did so because they didn't understand. It's society, it's normal. Learning this, understand this idea, and seeing women, the world through this len… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 04:08 AM |
| 8 | Learnings from Models: Attract Women Through Honest by Mark MansonFor starters, good to hear you went monk mode. It helps you develop so much of yourself and really take the you time that's needed. And, for some, that you time could be a year or longer after finding TRP, to revisit alone time again and get some serious focus back that you may have lost, or spent working on attraction and understanding, instead of pure development. I've been around a little while, over a year. Only at TRP, I never got involved with seduction. During this time, I've seen much cr… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Everyone Has Something To SayUltimate slavery. Most people work just to survive and are discontent with what they're doing. There is a big difference in reward and satisfaction when someone says; "I need this done asap," compared to, "I like owning my own business and creating my own schedule, what should I complete today." The latter has you much more enthused. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Are You A God Amoungst 7's, but can't get an 8 or above if your life depended on it?Just from looking them up the short time I did, it seems as though that's not their number one priority. I honestly didn't even know they did, so it's good to hear they addvocate that stuff at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Are You A God Amoungst 7's, but can't get an 8 or above if your life depended on it?Obviously. It's not the same as yours. But we can agree on most factors when it comes to physical attraction such as symmetry. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Are You A God Amoungst 7's, but can't get an 8 or above if your life depended on it?It's whatever works for the person. See, there is a big problem here, though, that I have come to notice. I spent well over a year meditating for longer than an hour each day. Running sprints for miles, evaluating my own psyc and learning about my intentions and the world around me. This is what I constantly write about, almost every post I write is specifically about this crucial topic. It is overlooked and mostly doesn't get the attention it needs. I dedicated hours of my day to this. I went t… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 09:52 AM |
| 0 | Are You A God Amoungst 7's, but can't get an 8 or above if your life depended on it?No. I am much more physically attracted to certain women. There are girls that I would fuck and say, "yeah, that was good, you can go now." And then there are girls that I would fuck, and desire to fuck immediately after it was over again. I am full mast right away. There is a level of physical attraction, thus there is a level which follows it. Your level of attachment is based upon the beta within. Your level of attachment is based upon your abundance. If you're opening and fucking many women,… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Are You A God Amoungst 7's, but can't get an 8 or above if your life depended on it?For some, it very may well be viewed this way. I wrote this to drive home a point. That you won't get better at gaming the randoms that you really want to fuck, if you don't take action. That social media is not real life, it is virtual and takes away from many of the aspects I've pointed out that occur in a person to person interaction. And that these things will hinder your game. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Are You A God Amoungst 7's, but can't get an 8 or above if your life depended on it?Asking where the bathroom is, acting like a male friend toward her, asking for directions. These are examples of what not to do. Your engagement with her should be that of a teasing nature. You're not there to ask for directions, you're there to fuck her. You're trying to make a move on her and show that you're interested and you can do this by being dominant and maintaining strong frame. If it's natural to touch her during the interaction, then do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Are You A God Amoungst 7's, but can't get an 8 or above if your life depended on it?All I meant is that it's too elaborate. It really isn't hard, jump in and get your feet wet. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/16 05:29 PM |
| 51 | For Those Questioning The Red PillThat's why the golden rule then comes into play: Above all else, never care more about anyone or anything (this will include your own children, your own family.) more than you care about yourself. Never give too much of a fuck; never become reliant on outcomes that are dependent upon another's decisions. If you follow this, above all else, you're the one who is CONTROLLING the [mind] games. The key is; make others play to your tune. You do this by engaging them to their tune, and showing them yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/16 02:50 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.Still there is a problem here. Answer this: If you have to buy it, enslave her, how is it that she is following? How is it that she is on your fishing line being reeled in by you? Enslaving/buying something doesn't make you alpha. That's forced. In order to be viewed as alpha, you need to give space and freedom. People feel less inclined to follow when they're trapped or enslaved. It isn't natural and it is forced. This makes up the majority of my point. The only way to remain truly alpha is to … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 02:04 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.Before we get too far ahead, I do agree that alpha does correspond to two different meanings: The alpha in social situations. The alpha mindset. However, we are speaking about it on two different levels. So, yes, Trump is an alpha. He is a leader and has alpha traits. BUT, when is he an alpha? When he is in social situations that warrant it. And what does his wife view him as? A provider, not an alpha. He can be an alpha all day long, but if the person living under his roof sees him as a provide… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 02:08 AM |
| -5 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.One that gives women nothing but hard dick. In exchange, he only grants her the privilege of absorbing small amounts of his time when she has earned it. Never will a cent leave his pocket. Never will a compliment go unwarranted. There is no small talk, she gives zero disrespect. She knows who he is, she walks on thin ice and knows she needs him, he doesn't need her. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:55 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.I think you're confused brother. An alpha only is viewed as such when it is in a social setting. Thus, the views of others will determine whether you're alpha or not. What you're describing seems to me to be that of a provider. That of a door mat, also. Seems as though the wires are crossed in his mind and he is not living in reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:51 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.I'd rather get new plates, this is a winning strategy. I don't need to nor care to hold onto any women. If she wants to leave, I gladly escort her to the door and tell her if she wants to come back, that she better do so on her knees with her mouth open. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:50 AM |
| 3 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.It is absolutely possible. Taking great care of yourself, working out, not drinking heavily, dieting, and having an amazing life/lifestyle could easily bring someone well below Hugh's level these things. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:15 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.So baisically you're saying he is a provider, and only viewed as such? Thus, he is not an alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:12 AM |
| 3 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.I do agree that he has opted for another game... only, one that is on the losing side. It doesn't have an affect on me regardless, and I think people should do what they choose... but, that it is also good to do so whilst noticing these ideas. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:11 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.I'm honestly, happy someones read it in-depth enough to poke holes in it. I do think someone should poke holes in this with something worthy, to prove me wrong. Though, scanning the small details isn't going to do that. Because I thought it was pretty evident; it's a hyperbole. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:08 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.I did not use or reference the word "social" once. What I am talking about is in regards to biological drive; it is a rule of nature. It is that women will take chances to get the best thrills and genes possible until they can no longer. That they don't want commitment, ever, but that they're forced into it because they couldn't dare be alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 01:04 AM |
| 2 | There is no Alpha Bux. There is only 100% alpha, stop male hamstering an excuse for commitment, stop trying to envision a world with new rules.You're in denial if you truly believe there aren't rules. Just like there are rules about physics, there are all sorts of constructs regarding life. If you'd like to call it something else, such as a "limiter," so be it. But don't kid yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Your ego, the two blindfolds, and life on earth with women now that you're aware of the paradoxIn a way, yes. But more or less, the internal conflicts that are occurring and all the levels that they occur on. There is a giant game going on with the world, a dick measuring contest, if you will. And internally there is one with yourself, as well. The one inside, if played incorrectly, can make life misserable. When played incorrectly, you have the perfect form of self defeat, slowed progression, and an inability to get out of your own way. If you look at this, and what fuels your decisions … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Mindfulness Challenge. Are you sure there isn't anything lurking beneath the surface?Alan watts... prepare for the mind fuck. Guy is amazing. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Stop acting like a victim, in EVERY sense of the word.It isn't positivity, it is reality. There are many sides of you within. And if you don't understand them, and play the inner game for the rest of your life, you will defeat yourself. When things become hard, there absolute worst, you've got this to stand on and lift you up. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Stop acting like a victim, in EVERY sense of the word.Thank you for adding this clarification. It is your that will conquer yourself if there is not a balance. Because, it isn't as if both sides cannot exist, it is that we must understand that they will, that they are there, and that we are both. And of course, how we will take action based upon this. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with craving tenderness?It is my opinion with things of this nature; desires and cravings that take away from your outcome independence and make you seem needy, that you should eliminate them from your thought process as much as possible. There are certain biological desires/needs that are almost impossible to do such with. You are young and this is natural, you are starting to envelop yourself in TRP. It can be difficult at first. But, it is now that you can put an end to cravings and jealousy of this nature. This wil… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 03:37 PM |
| 11 | College or military?Do both. Join the military and get a job in an information technology related career (yes, I mean in the military, they have computer operators and programmers.). Whilst in, after initial training, take classes at nights for programming, they pay for it (depending on your country.). Save money whilst going to school and working, see the world and travel for free. Make close friends that you will die for. Get disciplined and in solid shape. Pfff what the fuck more could you ask for? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Unveil your inner alphaAccept and understand that they are closed. Then open them and accept that pain awaits you. Once this pain comes, learn to enjoy it. Become one with the pain and the need to "push" will no longer need exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Unveil your inner alphaYour quote at the end is amazing. Great reply. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Unveil your inner alphaFor example, a cheat meal. We desire delicious, fatty food at many times. If you're on a diet and you are eating clean in order to get lean for the summer, you arrange a cheat meal once a week to "allow" yourself to binge. Just because you desire it, doesn't mean it is in line with your goals. The difference between allowing yourself a reward, and stopping yourself from doing it, just because you crave it. Defining the difference between discipline and desire and when the two should act. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Frame is FreedomFrame is separation from the herd. Frame is separation from women If you don't set yourself apart, you are just another face, you are just another weakling. You are getting pushed around without a solid foundation to keep you in place. You're a pawn in the game, not the magician within it. Frame is strength. Without it, amused mastery isn't possible, and you can not look at the world in a positive light. All the seriousness you have within will be pointed at all the wrong targets. When the only … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/16 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part IIHere is how TRP works; I have morals, you have morals, everyone has morals. For each person, these morals will be different, whether slightly or extremely. TRP is kept "amoral" so that way we do not get into a discussion of what is right and wrong. I cannot tell you what you "should" do, nor should anyone else. All I can do is tell you what I would do and my reasoning for such. I tell all my plates and FWB's that I fuck other girls WHEN they ask me. If they broach the topic (I make it quite obvi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part IIIn a way, yes. They are reaching for control to try and get you where they want you to be; holding onto their pocket. They want to take back something. It's more like they are "testing" your frame, than anything else. So, yes, a shit test / comfort test rolled into one. Your answer should be one that is in line with your reality so that you remain in control of the frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part IIOnly in an LTR. Because what this shows is that she is promiscuous. When Oxytocin (the bonding hormone.) is released with many different men, the affects it has on her aren't as meaningful as if it were with 1 man. It's harder to pair bond. She has most likely also been alpha widowed, meaning; you are just the beta bucks or reliability card and won't reach a status of "the best fit" in her mind (speaking in terms of hypergamy here.). It's like she's walking around bitter that she lost her highes… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part IIIt's not that women perfer assholes, it's that there are so many nice guys, and barely any gentlemen that command, dominate, and control. So be an asshole, or find the balance of the gentlemen who is a boss. I use the 48 laws of power to uphold people's opinion of me, reputation is everything, you want to win people over. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/16 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Whiny responces from some peopleThrow a witty tease out as soon as the whining starts. Enjoy a good laugh and set the tone. What do you think leaders do? They motivate and instill mood in group settings ;) Think of a commander of troops that are stuck in the shit. What will he do? He's going to set the mood and push his troops to make it through. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Examples of good, confident body language?Paul Walker has always had great body language, check any of his movies. He has this confident, "you have no idea what I know and who I am," walk and pause that he does. Head up, chin up, shoulders back, face forward and not looking all around the room (desperate or insecure looking.), one foot in front of the other without looking at the ground. Two things will help you walk into a room with confidence. Watch US honor guard. Any branch. These guys are the best marchers. Also, Google walking med… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Turned down by plate for the first time. Where did I go wrong?I understand what you're trying to do here; learn. You want to evaluate this situation, pick it apart, and learn from it. But look at yourself... you are writing an indepth story about a night out with some 30+ chick. Not only that, but you're talking about her like she is your only option. How about; cut the shit and go open 30 chicks. Believe me, you've got a lot to learn, we all do. Everyone is forever making mistakes and learning, those who believe they aren't, are the truly stupid. There's … | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Do women care about focus?Getting denied won't look good, but you can always spin shit in your favor with the right finess. Besides, there are 3.4B other girls you can hit on if it does. If she accepts and you don't take her up on it, it doesn't matter she will never know anyway. If she shows interest and you don't, generally she won't want to put herself back out there. If you step to the plate again, you'll have to ease yourself in to win her. However, depending on how you've played it, and depending on how obviously s… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 03:48 PM |
| 12 | Is this is a shit test?she said "friend" then mentioned the whole hookup aspect. How should I respond to this? Don't. It's childish, for one. For two, enjoy the time you're spending with the girl you're with. Get off your phone. If you're not with anyone, study, read, learn, lift, get out in the world and experience it. Get your head out of your phone for Christ sakes. If not that, for the simple fact that her opinion or words are absolutely worthless. Why do you care? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Rational male article on Women 'Improving' MenI think you've maybe taken a model, and stuck with it. In the blue pill life, many of us had these models, these ways of thinking things would go, paradigms if you will. We outline them, and think of our lives going a certain way. It seems as though in your thinking, you may have erased the old paradigm and wrote a new one, one involving a certain way to be. The Red Pill isn't about being perfect, nor is it about training people to be a certain way. It is, however, a tool box, a bunch of tools y… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Let me tell you about these gamesIt's not the electrons, it's my perception and awareness of them. The path is only dark when it's defined by others and their view of it. In other words, people's "morals" are what defines right and wrong. What I may see as a normal or a "not so dark" path, you may find treacherous. My freedom is what gives me the power to define right from wrong. As long as I am aware of my ego, as long as I watch it, I am free. I am free, thus no one can tell me what is right and wrong. Becoming aware of the g… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How can I Use TRP to get girls to like me at school?You can use TRP to better yourself. There are many tools here. The key is to let go of this notion, at least for a little bit, and hit the ground running hard. By the time you're a sophmore in college, you'll have the whole school wondering when they get a turn to suck your dick. So... Forget about the party in high school, work hard, lift, read "The 48 Laws of Power" and get to be friends with the right people. Save money, and focus on your career. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Rational male article on Women 'Improving' MenI'm up to talk about it more. Personal message me with your thoughts or post them here. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Rational male article on Women 'Improving' MenI think I explained the narcissism quite well. It's the boldness and the belief in oneself that causes magnetic pull. And read this to get the rest of your questions at least somewhat answered. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Let me tell you about these gamesI don't think being full of yourself is a bad thing. I think people can and will abuse others at will. I think this is just what women want; game that is only allowed and accepted when it's beneficial. This is probably what the average "red pill women" wants. I think knowing game, different types of game, and it's affect on people is good to know regardless of your goals. I think part of the freedom that comes with TRP, is the ability to make your own decisions and learn on your own, developing … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Let me tell you about these gamesIn a perfect world, we would see consistent betterment of his game, and isolation of this knowledge. Spending more time increasing his game, and worrying less about everyone else's. Of course this metaphor mainly pertains to "the man" of the blue pill, but as RP alphas, you can apply the same tatics the BP man once did to us. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 06:22 PM |
| -3 | What kind of a physique do women generally prefer? What is your ideal physique?Yes, a year. Before that year came, I lifted for 5. Shit diet, but I lifted consistently throughout. Taking small breaks due to illness during the year maybe a total of a month off during each one. And dead in the middle, a 3 months straight break due to a broken bone. When I got serious, I did a cut diet. Throughout the year of the cut diet, I looked deflated and started to lose muscle. I carbed back up for a month and started back over. Repeat. Repeat. I took pre workout, vitamins, fish oil, a… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Constantly TiredStill, I don't think it's a terrible idea for you to see where you score... it may help you explain some things further. Yep, it's an ego boost. I knew that before I took mine. Well, there is your purpose. Doesn't matter what it is, it just matters that there is fuel. The only problem I see with this is that you know tiredness. In other words, you have a point of reference of alertness. Either drug induced, or this may just be serious depression if that is the case. If it's not the case and you'… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Constantly TiredI find this very interesting. Hmm. You're doing these strenuous activities without joy. You must have an end goal or a reason, think really hard, what is it? Have you honestly ever taken a real IQ test, I mean the one that takes over an hour and uses pattern to express its questions. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 11:32 AM |
| 3 | What kind of a physique do women generally prefer? What is your ideal physique?You don't need to be 230 at 8%. That's not Brad Pitt in fight club nor is that the most attractive body style. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Constantly TiredEver seen a psyc? You sound like you might be a sociopath. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 11:25 AM |
| -10 | What kind of a physique do women generally prefer? What is your ideal physique?Yes, you can. If you have the mental strength, yes. We're talking months and months on a cut diet. You have to have muscle prior as well, lots of it. It can be done without roids, just needs to be calculated and you can't let up. I've gotten that ripped before and I was semi fat in high school. It was about a year long cut-bulk process because I kept losing muscle. But it happened when I stuck it out and made it my focus. But yes, he is 100% correct about the ideal body, Brad Pitt in fight club.… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Rational male article on Women 'Improving' MenTRP does teach this, in fact, it's the baseline of many teachings. That of a narsacist and that of psychopath behavior. The aloofness, over confidence, and cocky attitude. It's only part of this, not the whole thing. But teachers such as illimitableman teach how to be a dark triad in its purest form. You can't make yourself "lack empathy..." But you can act like you do. It is attractive mostly because of the narcissism. If I am this confident in my abilities, everyone else will be. If I am this … | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Too Invested In a PlateYou'll get it, just be patient and work towards it. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Too Invested In a PlatePlaying games is not childish, it is what makes you Red Pill. However, you aren't playing the right games. And, you are not focusing on yourself. Think of a male celebrity, your favorite one. Think of how he would handle this. He would be cool, calm, collected, aloof, and people would come to him to try these things, and he wouldn't be affected. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Too Invested In a PlateYou ask questions that no where here can or should answer. You should answer them, and you should do this because it's a big part of being sure about yourself and your decisions, it's one of the major factors of confidence, and there is no better time to start working on this. The reason why you're flip flopping between how to deal with this and coming here to ask, is because you're losing yourself. You don't really know how to handle this situation and you are getting emotionally involved and a… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Looking for hair advice.What hair style makes you feel most confident, do you like it? I am sure there are certain ways to place your hair so that women will find you more attractive, but don't you think confidence or believing that your hair looks good is more important? If you are questioning the way it is (which you are.) then go with a change to something that you think or feel will look best. You say your shoulders are weak... military press and Arnold's in a 3/4 day FBR will fix that. Get on a "full body routine"… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | SMV is all you have at the end of your day.Haha honestly, I don't write whatever I do for gratitude or appreciation, I could give two shits. I get boat loads of useless validation in my life based upon my performance and looks that I consistently nod at, I could give two fucks what people in the world think. And it's why my post history is random, and the amount of likes I get, are the amount of likes I get. And I hope that is based solely upon its accuracy and usefulness. I write what I want to write about, not what people want to hear.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 06:16 PM |
| -1 | SMV is all you have at the end of your day.I posted it, dude commented literally within 2 minutes, he didn't even read beyond the tittle. I actually went to put the flair on it, and he already commented. He's a dick bag, and I say that for the second time, once again, extra stoically. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 05:00 PM |
| -10 | SMV is all you have at the end of your day.Finish reading the post you've totally missed the point dick bag. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How would you deal with this in the workplace?Don't pick it apart. Become totally aloof and actually think or believe that this has no purpose, because it truly does not. Just go open some girls and totally ignore her. If you start thinking of it, or she acts weird in person, just point it out to yourself and then change your thought process to something more important. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I Dont Want To Appear Clingy Anymore, Please Help!Acceptance takes time. You must remind yourself until it's engrained. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 12:19 PM |
| 2 | I Dont Want To Appear Clingy Anymore, Please Help!Death of the beta. It can be considered to one of the most difficult parts for the young. The part of actually taking on all this responsibility. Monk mode. Breath. Breath in the very concept of loneliness. Become one with the fact that you are alone. Accept that you do not need anyone and this in fact is your mind scared of taking responsibility. Read my recent post titled "The Red Pill Has Trouble Going Down. The Red Pill Has a Bitter Taste." | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 11:39 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with losing despite being right?This isn't about losing this argument. Although that question is another topic and centers around your ego. This one is about; TIME. You're in the anger stage right now. The day you've given up hope entirely of what women are, is the day that you can start to rewrite your own script. You're holding onto the ledge, let yourself go. Let what you once knew, go. Then... Rebuild. And rebuild with the notion that they are children who need guidance. They need you to understand they don't know, that th… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 11:32 AM |
| 3 | How would you deal with this in the workplace?You're jealous. Watch what she does, not what she says. When she said that, it was her trying to rake you back in, all for her control. Women don't talk to me like that, they only ask when they will see me so I can dick them down. Because they know they will never have an ounce of control over me, I am the puppet master. Your game and understanding needs a revamp to get you to that. Hang around here for a bit, everything will click like the worlds most amazing puzzle. Your understanding of women… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Mind FullMy purpose was to tie mindfulness into one picture with those who have recently swallowed the pill or have struggled to get a grip on bad thinking habits. Not only that, but open up more thought process for those who enjoy it and already have much experience. It won't be a success for every reader, but I can imagine one or two will wrap their mind around my point. Yes, write down your thoughts, you'll prove and work on how aware you are at the time that they occur. But allowing your mind to wrap… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Which all, and how would you use social media to project higher value?If you want to use it to your benefit, you must understand something: Do not expect validation from it. Do not expect anything from it. Do not yearn for anything from it. Erase all traces of this from your thinking. I say this because social media is right in line with brain washing blue pill madness. The shit people post regarding woman (especially the shit woman post.) is completely opposite what you need to be doing. If you're to have it, expect nothing from it. My advice is not to, but if yo… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.I suppose I do want them hopelessly addicted to me. And I do that by using lots of discipline. I rake them in hard and mind fuck until they are confused and distraught. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.Of course, every system has random events that are bound to occur. There are tons of math theories, as well as scientific theories, that agree. However, game is calculated. You start with game, and end with it. Knowing how women are, and what they want, is what makes it so. Of course there are plenty of different things that occur. So much so, that you could say the same thing about being a beta and finding "true love." That's possible too, right? The difference is, I know what a game is, and I … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.I take nothing she, or any women says seriously. However, she understands what she said, whether she meant it or not isn't the point. What matters is that she said it, and has a clear distinction between who a provider is, and who an exciter is. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.Almost every one of my plates offers to pick up dinner for me, and I let them. Yes, it can be. However, as long as you're following the 2/3's rule and doing less than her on all fronts, you're safe. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.It's like hanging a hotdog attached to a hook above the animals head. You've got to make them work for it, even if they grab a bite of it once and a while, they won't stop chasing it unless they think there are better pieces of meat around or they've eaten it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.I agree. Albeit, I view things slightly different. I never want to forget I am playing a game. I never want to forget everything in life is a game. It behooves you to be constantly reminded, this way you're not caught up and taken off of your feet by any individual player. Natural or not, there are players everywhere, inside us (emotion, anger, lust.), and outside us (these are the much easier players, until they pair with our emotion/personality/empathy and team up against us.). What largely se… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.Meditation also works. It will teach you discipline and help you break through your current ceiling. If you have an itch or an urge to adjust during meditation, focus on it, but do not adjust or itch. Accept the fact that you're going to sit through it until it is gone; become the itch. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 08:40 PM |
| 12 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.Let me clear this up: Idc if you're mid stroke, if she says stop, STOP AT ONCE. But where in the rule book does it say anything about initiating a second, third or forth time. This is how LMR works. Once she says stop, stop. When she warms back up to you, turn the heat back up. If she says leave or that she is surely done with any part of any of it, then be gone. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 08:37 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill has trouble going down, The Red Pill has a bitter taste.You hit the nail on the head. Kind of wish I had what I wrote and your added information when I first got here. Not that I care, but I don't know why this post didn't do better. It's really great for those who are experiencing it but don't truly understand it yet. Hopefully at least a few of those that are lost or over the top angry run into this. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Where can I find a good RedPill therapist?As usual, it costs something hahaha | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Where can I find a good RedPill therapist?Lol touché. However, someone I was mentoring went and got a woman therapist... He said it was "great," because she was agreeing with him on points hahahaha | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 03:46 PM |
| 11 | Where can I find a good RedPill therapist?I thought about this some time ago when I first found the red pill. Problem one; there isn't one. Problem two; he or she may influence your thoughts in a negative way (even though this isn't their job, they're not suppose to, it will most likely happen.) So I became my own therapist. I practiced mindfulness and meditation every moment I could of my day. Hit the gym harder than I ever did. Ate the best foods, vegetables, and supplements possible. And after a year, I pulled out of the worst fuckin… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Variations to close a cold approach to get her number.Do not create a script the whole thing is disingenuous. You'll be less centered around the conversation itself and more centered around how not to fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Variations to close a cold approach to get her number.Point something out about what she is doing or wearing, and do it without hesitation. The biggest thing and the smallest thing are initial approach. Just get in there and say anything. In other words, it doesn't matter what you say, just say something. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/16 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Any Youtube RP live Demonstrations/ PUAYouTube; "RSD Julien How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close." (Real Social Dynamics.) WARNING: take what this guy says with a serious grain of salt. I find that his in depth look at approach from open to close is great and logical, but some of the shit he says or throws in around the theory is a bit much in my eyes. It violates some of TRP's principles and ideas. I think this, with baseline TRP knowledge is great. Just go into it with that understanding and you should pick out what you need and… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 05:05 PM |
| 6 | How do I flip the script in this situation?Don't do anything just hold frame and maintain outcome independence. Do no apologize. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 04:59 PM |
| -5 | This is why you need to accept your weaknesses once and for allI used a FR to show why my theory is correct. I stuck to the format. The only thing I am missing is the lessons learned section which has been added for your inability to see the lesson I pointed out by using "point X:" I'm pretty sure a third grader, or anyone who actually reads my post, could wrap his mind around my point and the lessons I am communicating. If the mods don't agree, so be it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Treat them like they're nothingInitial attraction; go hot, very hot. Then, go cold, very cold. Do it again, and again. Make the periods wider and make them shorter. Mystery and confusion. I don't mean to lock yourself in your house, I mean to treat her like she needs to see you; to look up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 12:28 AM |
| 6 | [FIELD REPORT QUESTION] I played it out like with a HB7 this any comments on my game mistakes/improvements?You weren't "Red Pill before." People need to be politically correct so others do not get confused. TRP isn't something you are, it is something you use as a tool, and may live your life around the many truths that exist here. I get what you mean; you were somewhat alpha. I wanted to clear this up so others reading don't sit and think they are Red Pill... that isn't a thing. It's a praxeolgy. You care too much about what she thinks. You are trying to be the center of her attention... but, one do… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | No, don't ask her out like that, ask her out like this!Hence the quotation marks around date each time I used it. I don't suggest anyone does date; I do suggest they play the game accordingly and fuck in less than or equal to two nights. I also suggest no one puts any sort of money into a date, as I tell every chick that I don't Netflix with that we are splitting the bill as soon as she gets there. With HB9 (sometimes even 8.) and above, even with supreme alpha game, sometimes it takes a little more fineness. Pump and dump on HB8 and below, as you s… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 01:30 AM |
| 1 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlaceYes, I agree. I touched on that heavily in my post just before this: "Your Tomorrow Will Never Come." I should have detailed that calming feeling better in this post, thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/16 04:01 PM |
| 2 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlaceIf you try to stop them, they will become more prevalent. Go into my post history and read the post I wrote before this one; "Your Tomorrow Will Never Come." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/16 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Can you ever reach the level of a natural alpha?Writing a post about this 6 months in the making, since I started my journey over a year ago, this has been my one post I haven't given up on and want it to be my share of knowledge for TRP. Although, it's turning into a fucking book at this point. Yes, it is 100% possible without a doubt. There are several facets that come into play. Death of the ego, rebirth of the ego, the ever changing abundance realization, the factors of hard life without any other humans to help you, and much more. And on… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 01:16 AM |
| 3 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlaceAnd yes, we cannot stop these games. It is almost like forces not only exist outside of us, but inside of us. If we try to stop the games, they will only get worse. If we recognize the games are there and watch them, they become easier. Once you start to do it, you won't need to be told why this is the case anymore. It takes time, so don't give up. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/16 01:12 AM |
| 2 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlacePost to follow about world 2 | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlaceI think you're lost in a loop, I once was too kind sir. You've failed to realize a key point. Even those who don't play games are playing a game, you see? It is the, "I am too good for games," game. They are playing, everyone always is. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 09:17 PM |
| 16 | 30 Days of Discipline - An RPR RecommendationSomething as simple as tracking your progress each day allows for an "atta boy" to yourself. Write down whatever it is you'd like to complete each day. Number each one, 1 - X. (30 mins of meditation. 22 pages of book X. 75 minutes at the gym. Teeth whitening. Opening 7 women.) Get a large poster board. Hang it somewhere personal you go everyday; bathroom, closet. Make a 30 day calander from whatever dates you choose. Write the number of each that you competed that day. Forecast out what you want… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlaceThis is creating a strong frame for every aspect of your mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 03:22 AM |
| 13 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlaceCouldn't agree more... not to mention; the boat loads of women I am able to sleep with because my personality and my understanding of it has evolved to new levels, my work has increased, my productivity in general, physical fitness, and the lives of those around me. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 02:38 AM |
| 8 | You Fail To Realize There Are Many Games Taking PlaceI've heard people say you can't reach a level of true consciousness without dosing or microdosing shrooms, LSD, etc. I disagree entirely as I never once in my life have done any psychedelics and believe I have started to reach a different level then I've ever been on before. I didn't meditate until a couple years ago, and not seriously until a little over a year ago, and I used to laugh at hippies, etc. I still do laugh at them, I just don't laugh at those who take meditation and consciousness t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 02:33 AM |
| 3 | I have Klinefelter's?!It was never a nurses job to do anything related to diagnosis, they practice under doctors. Not her fault. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Field report - Bar and ClubWow man, I really like your dedication. So many people and their self defeating bullshit, you overcame it all, kudos. Problems: Stop comparing everyone to your ex. When you do, say it to yourself and stop. You were running day game at a bunch of night game spots. Probably coming off as too eager/needy, even if you really weren't. You did great, however, I've always noticed when I go out to party, it needs to be to party. Getting girls is good and all, but social proof in these situations is the … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Red Pillers what is the most important thing men need in today's societyBINGO. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.I have been writing a post for many months on all these topics. I will be posting it soon. Although it may be long, it will break all of this down. Almost done. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Red Pillers what is the most important thing men need in today's societyKnowledge of society itself. The notions that things aren't what they think they are and never will be. It is that men are not playing with a full deck of cards. They are at such a huge disadvantage lacking the understanding of the very field they play on; and I mean more than just the field women are on... the many fields of life. It's safe to say they're a bunch of fat fucking slobs who thumb their ass all day long whilst jerking their dicks to porn... and the pool boy and his assistant are DP… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/16 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Well I'm fucking embarrassedYou're spending the time up to the experience worrying about the outcome of the experience, whether or not she will like you in bed. You're too focused on the fact that you want to get hard, you're not just getting physical and being with her in that moment, you're focused on the possibility of not pleasing her in some way. All of this are indicators of anxiety. How do you stop things like anxiety from occurring? You develop tools to shut it down, and then spend time practicing and applying thes… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/16 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Plate problemYou're missing the larger picture. It is not her that you must try to control... it is the social groups opinion of you. I suggest you read "The 48 Laws of Power." This may help you to plant subtle messages in social groups. Ones that will not make you look like a snake, yet, still allow you to deliver a message about someone else (your plate for example.). Just realize that her status as a plate is for a reason... when comments like that come, she can fall off just as fast. This is the beauty o… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/16 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Your Tomorrow Will Never ComeJesus, had no idea what it was until I looked it up. Thank you. I've always thought everyone did that when they meditate. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.You're looking at the fundamental ideas of each incorrectly. MGTOW: refuses to play a game or game women. Understands there is a game, however, refused to involve themselves in it. TRP: understands the entirety of life is a game to include interactions with men (workplace, school, groups.), and more so with women. TRP accepts and understands that you must use game, frame, and improving the self in order to obtain a high status in life. I 100% believe the entire universe is a game and I am 100% p… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.Just wrote one somewhat similar yesterday, check my post history. Not surprisingly, it got no attention, but it's there. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.A. I do not feel the need to associate myself with MGTOW or TRP; it isn't something to be associated with. I think you've confused the purpose and jumped on a bandwagon. B. We are talking about validation in a nutshell. This man is saying that one cannot be happy without getting this validation to move forward in life, that he will always be backwards if he doesn't achieve it. He is wrong. C. The rest is negligible to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.Your life isn't worth living then. You're not living for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.I kind of figured this response since I didn't accept you like you so badly need me to. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Your Tomorrow Will Never ComeI don't care if anyone does it, it's not me preaching. It is only a guide to help those who have related it to something it is not, or to expand on the knowledge of someone who understands only certain aspects of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 04:09 AM |
| 23 | Loser! - Why late bloomers still retain those negative feelings even after they start doing well in the game, and majority of it has nothing to do with women or sex.You keep saying, "must." I disagree, there are always plenty of solutions to these types of "problems." That is to realize; this is not a problem at all. You're talking; ego this, ego that. That a man must prove himself to society. Why don't we all just get on the feminism train and prove ourselves to women while we're at it? How about going to the gym for them, and improving for them? And all so the tiny, now insignificant life I lead, can be filled with empty, validation seeking bulshit that m… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl with "undesirable" boyfriend like a me.Yeah, sounds right. She's coming to hang out. Watch for; branch swing, problems at work, boyfriend issues. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/16 11:24 PM |
| 1 | "We can never be together"Jesus Christ. How about fuck all of this? You have onesitis. You do not belong Skyping this chick. Read "The Rational Male" ASAP. Wake the fuck up, this isnt about you getting her, it's about you realizing how pathetic you are and how much growth is needed. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/16 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is monogamy natural, or have we been fooled all along? Is it we have been fooled so far as to say it isn't even a consideration when we actually do come across that one in a million we are attracted to?Oh yeah? Is it natural for humans to breath under water? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 12:45 PM |
| 2 | How to Win at Life Through Emotional DominationGreat. Now how can I do this? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/16 03:21 PM |
| 9 | I hurt a girl for the first time and it sucksEmpathy is your ability to see things from anothers point of view. The closer you are to someone, the more you're able to see their point of view. What you're feeling is normal. What you've done is obviously against your morals. You've broken something and now you're feeling guilty about it. You learn from this and move forward, don't get involved with someone seriously until you're sure you won't cheat on them, it's a lesson, so learn. Just be honest going forward. Do not reach out to her to ap… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with constant shit testing/criticism on one date?Tease the shit out of her, yes. The kino will stop her hamster from wondering so much, it's like petting a cat. Tickle her too. More eye contact, but at specific times so it doesn't get creepy. Look at her until she breaks the eye contact. Grab her behind her head, all of hair. Pull back on that shit a bit. Then kiss her, then stop and release. Go hot, then cold, hot, then cold. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Advice on hot girlLearn better game, improve SMV, stop acting as if you're the victim. You have every tool here you need, put them into action. No one said this was going to be easy, everything in life is a game. Even right now I am playing one with you by teaching you something (my game of giving back to TRP and convincing you of what's right.). You've got one with the world and everyone in it. You've got the information you need to move up and take what you want, instead of playing the victim, play the role of … | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Advice on hot girlYou did the right thing, soft nexted her. I had this same thing happen with a 9/10, she initiated and fucked my brains out after a week. If she hits you up, let her in. Pick up where you left off, only this time, the odds of her fucking you went way up. Still, it's a soft next, so remember, abundance. If she doesn't come, oh well. If she does, see what happens. Never sweat a girl, there will be more girls "out of your league" that you can and will fuck in the future and plenty of girls to open n… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with constant shit testing/criticism on one date?Ahh, you're on the defense this whole time, so get on the offense! This doesn't mean shit test her (if that's even possible.).... Use your game to preemptively stop shit tests from occurring. Seduce her, don't get frustrated, just get sly and seduce the shit out of her. I know you know enough about her and your more than comfortable after 3 dates, so get to it. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Can there be balance between the red pill and blue pill?It turns into a slightly different dynamic in an LTR. Here, you're correct in many ways, TRP has two playing fields. But it may not be what you think, it's the 2/3's rule. I never say never, but I just couldn't do an LTR again... I'm pretty young and had 3; they all lasted over a year. I just wouldn't now that I have TRP. However, I can still provide you some understanding. For starters, TRP has a dynamic that is used to attract women. Ideally, you practice the praxeolgy and women assume levels … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Date in the distance (both time and space) worth attempting?That's a long ways out. She'll most likely set up 3 more in advance. Unless you want to beta up and skype/text her the next month, making yourself seemingly available, and then in turn blow your chances even more due to your neediness... Oh wait, this is why we have abundance theory... If she comes through, great, if not, oh well. You're in control no matter the setting, it could be at her dads house, you're still putting your hands on her and doing what you want. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 11:38 PM |
| 2 | When she asks suggestive things?It honestly doesn't matter. Things like this make up about 2% of what matters. When she is asking about scenarios; be subtle When she is asking about events (i.e. things you're in control of like what you're watching.), be more direct, yet, not overbearing. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Can cold approach but can't pull in normal social gatheringsOf course talk. But yes, touch and isolation are always more impactful than talking. You do so by making yourself viewed under the spotlight. You're playing a game, my friend. You're a magician. So you must cast yourself in a light that best fits your persona. You paint the picture as you'd like for her to see it. If you understand women, you understand the picture she wants painted. You see? If you do not understand women, or you're unsure about certain things, back to the drawing board to lear… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Can cold approach but can't pull in normal social gatheringsYou're completely ignoring and secluding the ones inside your social circle (be it that directly or indirectly in the circle.). You need to include them in it somewhat if you want to build rapport. Not completely ignore, but not overly engage either. Once rapport is built you can up the ante. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Need strategy on hypergamous wedding coming up.You're too attached. The goal isn't what you can do to her, it's what you can do to yourself to remove the attachment... this is of course to game other women. If she fucks whilst you're gone, well, who cares. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Ex loves beta orbiters, but withdraws instant offer for a friendzone after I block her for a month.No. But, I am well aware I am fucking with your reality to wake you up. Don't be naive, meditation is the reboot. I used to think like you, not having the patience for meditation. But you like almost all the world fails to see its what brings you patience. With mindfulness, you'll be able to notice all the times you're subconsciously/consciously thinking of her, letting her images get in the way of your life and your seamless reality. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 05:35 AM |
| 35 | Ex loves beta orbiters, but withdraws instant offer for a friendzone after I block her for a month.Ahh. The mind is a tricky thing, isn't it? Here you are, at war with yourself and you have no idea why. You are thrashing around, beating yourself up and looking for answers to all the wrong questions. It's okay, I am an expert on this matter. If you listen to my advice, you will see that your problem isn't whether or not you can find someone to answer these things, it is that you're asking them. Okay, it's self awareness time. Oh boy, this is going to be a lot. Also, please realize I will not a… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 04:50 AM |
| 4 | It wont get hard on the first nightYou say, "I've relaxed and everything..." Well, isn't it quite evident you have not? You're too focused on the fact that you want to get hard, you're not just getting physical and being with her in that moment, you're focused on the possibility of not pleasing her in some way. Instead, focus solely on her and yourself, your breath, where you are, what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop talking?Your status is meaningless in this context. His brain wants to communicate ideas, masking it by lying to himself will leave him nothing. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 03:28 AM |
| 13 | Most Guys Give Up Way Too Easy + FRHere: The ENTIRE world is a game. How can you best play your cards? There is no one size fits rule to everything. What this guy did to this girl at the gym, may not have worked with someone else. The point is, what do you want? What are you willing to do for it? And what is the best way you can do it? Really, it all comes down to how well you know the games and understand people and how much you give a fuck about their opinion. In this situation, like most, it was a standard shit test. Of course… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 12:52 AM |
| 1 | She Does Not Want My Last Name, Just My DickSubmissiveness, understanding, empathy, compassion, neatness, trustworthiness. These things usually don't happen, if they do, the girl is typically young with a low partner count. Women have trouble controlling their urges and desires, they have no idea what they want. The paradox exists when they intentionally start to provide these things to a man and then wonder why they're unhappy. A man has to game a girl into many of these things, it doesn't happen on its own. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 11:58 PM |
| 1 | She Does Not Want My Last Name, Just My DickWomen love mystery, not knowing anything about you. It's part of what turns them on, come to their own conclusions. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 11:54 PM |
| 3 | She Does Not Want My Last Name, Just My DickFor the short game, I agree. Any girl who has those two qualities can pretty much have sex with any guy they come into contact with. Actually, all she really has to be is hot. For the long game, girls need to have some form of game too and ways to please their man. There are many more qualities that come into play once we talk about long game. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 01:02 PM |
| 2 | She Does Not Want My Last Name, Just My DickMy point was more or less how much she enjoyed it. After saying that, she didn't even ask my last name, even when she potentially had an opportunity to. Here's the add on: Girls get off on mystery more than anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 12:54 PM |
| 4 | How can I stop talking?Mindfulness. Become aware of your reality and actions. Notice when you're getting the urge to speak and calm yourself with breathing. Accept that you want to speak, but do not allow yourself to say anything. You should also try not saying much of anything for a few days and see how you feel. Limit yourself to X amount of words for just a couple days so you can count them on two hands and get more in control of your speech. There are 1000 reasons to do this. You need to be mindful of what you're … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 04:17 AM |
| 5 | She Does Not Want My Last Name, Just My DickShe's got plenty. "Rail me." "Fuck my boner garage." hahahaha "Yes. I'm a dirty slut." | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 04:14 AM |
| 1 | She Does Not Want My Last Name, Just My DickNo. I game her and tease her the whole time until she is frustrated and biting her fist and laughing. I tease her like every other girl. I build it up slowly, under the radar. It's like I'm flicking her continuously, instead of punching her (metaphorically for you SJW's out there.). She gets physical, I leave, the end. If she wasn't around her friends and I actually would allow her over my place? She'd probably be a lot better and maybe we would have more to talk about. Otherwise, we fuck, I lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Can you buy male testosterone on the black market?If you want to be really sure, a blood test every couple weeks during a cycle is not a bad idea at all. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Going With Party/Drug Type Of Girls Can Take You Down?You're right on key with those things. When you think of her, and get distracted, you can try a simple exercise. Bring your awareness to your breath. When I was young, I might not of understood that or really took it seriously. However, if you google mindfulness and read some books regarding it, you will see it is a great way to get yourself acquainted with how to deal with distractions. There will be a lot of them in your life, trust me. I am 30 and deal will distractions daily. However, I cont… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What Are You Doing Right Now?Couldn't agree more, mindfulness leaves me with the biggest smile on my face at all times. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Can you buy male testosterone on the black market?I don't disagree whatsoever, it's idiotic if you're unaware of it. Should be under the care of a doctor whilst getting blood tests bi-weekly. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Can you buy male testosterone on the black market?"Black market." What about the "yellow market?" Ever heard of Google? Almost anyone I've known personally to do roids finds them online. There are plenty of sites that sell test and syringes. Google and find some discussion boards and proceed with extreme caution if you were to do it. This means a long long long time of researching. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Going With Party/Drug Type Of Girls Can Take You Down?If you're questioning this, then it shows me something; You're worried she will rub off on you and define you in some way. You're thinking way too far ahead and way too much about a girl. Your fears are relevant, you should never become overly involved with a girl to a point you lose sight of yourself, especially not this young. I get that many go through this at some point until it totally destroys their world, this is so you can learn. This is called onesitis. This is called beta. However, you… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | how to powertalk with womenWhy convolute the topic of power talk and refer you when I can explain it in a short few sentences? Broken down simply, you have two facets of interaction; game, and frame. Game is the offensive. With game you use an understanding of women and apply it to your personality. They enjoy teasing, push/pull methods of confusion, and attraction/desire without neediness. They love confidence and being taken control of. Some may even argue they enjoy the dark triad persona. One that encompasses a lack o… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 04:58 PM |
| 13 | Are muscles an essential in attracting women if you have high facial aesthetics?Don't be fooled, they care just as much about a mans body. However, good game is also essential and some think it to be equivalent. Also, lifting for women is the most stupid thing I've ever heard. Never do anything for them, do it all for yourself. "If you can only have two of these; game, looks, status/wealth, make sure game is one of them." | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 04:53 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate betterNo, you're scared to. Do it. If she pushes back and give LMR, then back off. If she doesn't, what's stopping you is only the fear of doing it. Make more eye contact and do just the steps you listed, only this time, without fear stopping you. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 01:57 PM |
| 2 | What Are You Doing Right Now?Of course. The difference? Mindful people are not afraid of death. You need to understand death in order to understand life. Life will not have much meaning if you don't contemplate what happens when it's over. It is those who are not mindful and not in touch with reality that avoid death for what it really is. Those same people then avoid life for what it really is, the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 01:15 PM |
| 3 | What Are You Doing Right Now?Once you train your mind (after a year, you'll see results) to live in the moment, the last thing you'll need is to get high; it's like you always are. You are nothing but a mess of chemicals assembled together, spinning on earth in dark space. That's the reality of it. What this does is help you accept reality for what it is and stop contemplating everything. Do away with fear and uncertainty. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 10:55 AM |
| 3 | What Are You Doing Right Now?Haha the better question I see; why do you feel the need to categorize what you just did? Instead, just do. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I just go MGTOW? Can you ever really be an alpha?Huge problem in our world. It's a very strange paradox when you think about it. People will do everything they can, except the thing they need to, in order to be happy. They're listening to their desire instead of their rational thinking. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 05:04 PM |
| 16 | Should I just go MGTOW? Can you ever really be an alpha?Look, man... there's more too it than that. Many might argue with me, but alpha is nothing more than a mindstate, one you're obviously lacking. I've seen it time and time again, it's guys like you who lack hope, confidence, and have the zero balls. You want results and when you see nothing after a few months, you look at yourself and cringe. "If they don't accept me, why should I?" That's the exact opposite of alpha. You want to be alpha? Let go of bitches for 5 minutes. It doesn't mean to go MG… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Social Life Went to Shit After Swallowing TRPSo this breaks down to your desire to be wanted. Is this a normal thing to yearn for? I think so, most people in the world want to fit in and be wanted. But, what are your goals, and why is this important to you? For me, I simply don't give a fuck. I have 3 close male friends, no social media, and about 15 girls I cycle every few months. I spend my time making money, enjoying hobbies, progressing in life and in those hobbies, learning, lifting, and fucking. It's all about what you want and what … | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 11:07 PM |
| 1 | You're still watching porn, huh?I don't disagree with your statement, my opinion doesn't mean shit to most on here and probably in my personal life. And that's fine with me. However, you've completely avoided the point I was trying to get across. Let's change up the scenario, so you can use some more rational thinking. Guy is fucking a girl, you're in the corner jerking off watching... What do you think about that? Plenty of men go without sex and don't need to masturbate, that's not a valid qualifier and you're justifying use… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 08:22 PM |
| 1 | To the guys on here who have high lay counts and have slept around with a lot of different women, what made it possible for you?Never stop approaching. When you do, you spit the right game and get points across in a short window. Approach, approach, approach. Tinder, cold approach, approach. Keep moving. I don't even set up fuck time anymore, I let them do it. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/16 05:08 PM |
| 3 | PsychologistI don't have personal experience with shrinks, but I do know the job of a psychologist. Their job is to help you sort through your issues by asking questions. Good shrinks will shy away from giving advice. The whole point of psychotherapy is to change your thinking to a more "correct" mind state. Depending on how good the shrink is, they should only help you become more red pill and come to the conclusions you need to on your own. However, you're not dealing with someone who has the same know ho… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/16 04:14 PM |
| 2 | I Can't Believe Its Not AlphaIt's the same problem most of the world deals with, avoiding the core issues. It's funny to watch people work so hard, to not work. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 04:07 PM |
| 47 | Haunted by your Past: Self-Sabotage and the Fear of SuccessThe view of yourself is shaped by the outside world in many cases. It's exactly why most yearn to fit in by following new trends, styles, and activities. I do X. Doing X makes me cool. People appreciate and respect me for doing X. If I didn't do X, would those same people like me as much? If I didn't do Y would she really want to fuck me? Which brings me to an extremely important point. Your foundation. It is everything when it comes to confidence. You should KNOW, it's not that X or Y is what m… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | where are you guys from?Give it a year, you'll stop caring and realize you are responsible to fulfill your life. You let go of the notion that a relationship is in anyway going to satisfy you or bring fulfillment to your life, and if the right girl came across and proved herself to you for a long, long time, you'd decide then what you wanted. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Nazis are FollowersBut you break free due to the Red Pill... that's the point. Whatever the reasoning is for the group, or what the group does, does not matter. It's the fact that they were sucked in... and here, you release yourself from that thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 04:04 AM |
| -2 | Nazis are FollowersBut we are not talking about Illimitable Man's posts right now, we are talking about this one. I didn't say that they didn't understand, I said they didn't care. The unifying characteristic of Communism and Fascism (Nazi) is that the model for the citizen is to be a follower. Stating here that communism is a method of common ownership where all members work together. The ones who benefit the most in communism isn't so much the people as it is that <1% who decided to make it communist. The Blue P… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Workout help for gains on machinesGet a gym membership at a real gym. PF is a joke. There is no way around this. You need a machine to do military press on, a squat rack, a bench, and an olympic bar to deadlift. Use the smith machine for now... if they don't have a smith machine, you should hurry and get a membership somewhere else... even faster. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 02:09 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys do to break free from social conditioning (feeling trapped in your head)?Hahaha yeah man, the whole world. It's almost like mindfulness meditation is some kind of secret. How in the fuck did people not pick up on this in our educational system and make 10 minutes of meditation mandatory after recess? Oh, that's right, they don't care about you. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 02:06 AM |
| 2 | I'm going out with a girl tomorrow any advice? haven't done so before, am 22 she's 21It's simple really. Go on the date and remember one thing, "I don't give a fuck." Depending upon what happens tomorrow, revisit what occurred during the date. If you fucked her, right on. If she seemed uninterested, start reading and find out why. I could spend 25 minutes writing exactly how to act tomorrow, but that won't help and will be a waste of my time. We learn from our experiences and getting better at things by finding our errors and tailoring ourselves. So, tomorrow, who gives a fuck. … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Nazis are FollowersIt's not an ideology. It's a praxeology. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 01:58 AM |
| -1 | Nazis are FollowersNo. You're making an assumption here that I am stating my intelligence level is higher than others. I have no way of measuring that, nor do I care to. I am stating that 90% of posts aren't based upon the larger picture like this one is. They are based on how to get a girl and how to get SMV higher; that's what I see and the boards/askTRP are flooded with it for proof. When a post comes along like this, every college kid or otherwise who wants to improve his game, frame, and SMV overlooks this. A… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 01:52 AM |
| -3 | Nazis are FollowersThe reason his posts aren't upvoted heavily is the same reason he needs to explain this. People, even here, don't understand the larger picture and that's because they don't want to bother having to digest it. In all reality, they don't really give a fuck, and that's fine... That is, until they relapse or end up going back to their shit life after 5 months of improving. They seek something for their life, then, use red pill knowledge as a means to obtain it. I doubt most are here for something l… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 02:35 PM |
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