How to End It

PragmaticRedTruth · 2017-06-03T10:17:17+00:00

You don't "need" to do anything, but what you want to do. Ending it in person is always better because it gives closure, she won't be confused or dropping by your house. 3 years is a long time. I would end it in person because I would want her to know I was serious, and face to face brings it life. Additionally, I would hand her any stuff I know she would hit me up about, and tell her to keep/throw out my shit and that I wouldn't be needing it. I would then block her on all social media and my phone and press forward.

username_1_1_1 · 2017-06-03T01:30:14+00:00

Do it in person. That way she can't talk shit about how you were too much of a coward to do it to her face.

oldsoulkt · 2017-06-03T02:17:06+00:00

In person, also make it clear that you are over, and you don't owe her any explanation other than the fact that you and her are simply not compatible the way you thought you were. Then hard next and ghost. Don't go back on your choice because by then it'll be too late. You'll be in her frame.

Terminal-Psychosis · 2017-06-03T09:34:23+00:00

You sound pretty sure she wants to break up. Maybe she just wants to tell you she won the lottery and will pay off your college debt? ;)

Do it in person, let her talk enough to make it positively clear, and just be like "Ok, we're not exclusive anymore. Was fun babe." Totally nonchalant. Maybe even flirt a little. Maybe one last romp in bed "for the road". Then if she ever misses you, the door is open to platehood (but never, ever exclusivity, and never without condoms. That was her decision).

Or if you're too wrapped on her to let that work, just be quick and concise, break up, and don't look back. Do NOT let her take up an hour or 3 of your time talking things out... what a bummer.

If you're gonna split, do it quick and go on having fun.

shitwiththatass · 2017-06-03T05:08:05+00:00

Don't give her an explanation. It's far easier.

Title	How to End It
Author	Inhprthrow
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	June 3, 2017 1:14 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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