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I guess it depends on how far you went, but if its a minor offence I always ask her why she's so sensitive about it (in a curious way, not being a dickhead) and then maybe relate back to a similar experience of mine.
/r/seduction25/06/17 01:30 PM
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I think this falls under the "putting the pussy on a pedestal" category. You're assuming that the girl is somehow more interesting, more charming, and more intelligent than you are, when really she's just a regular person with strengths and weaknesses like the rest of us. If you weren't so attracted to her, you wouldn't be insecure about yourself. Start screening them for flaws and you'll start to relax.
/r/seduction25/06/17 04:04 AM
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Yeah, theres an unsubscribe button there, fella. You click it and then you don't have to deal with it anymore.
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 07:31 PM
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WTF are you guys doing on2 xchromosomes anyway? You have nothing better to do with your time? This is Men Going their Own Way, not Men Who Can't Stop being Angry at Women.
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 12:59 PM
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1865 was a fine time to grab a wife. No bullshit laws, men were the default head of the household and women knew their place. Whores were whores, and good women were kept in line by society.
/r/MGTOW23/06/17 03:38 AM
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That gave me a headache.
/r/MGTOW23/06/17 12:49 AM
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You didn't lose anything special, my friend. Just a well crafted illusion. I agree, cut out any unnecessary contact with her. If you do have to communicate, show zero emotion and keep it short and to the point. Yes, she can buy your old phone. It costs exactly the same amount as her half of the rent she owes you. Playlist? lol. Get the fuck outta here. Take the cat if you want it and then move right on with your life like she meant nothing to you because she is not worth another minute of your t…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I keep a few around for amusement. They make for shitty friends. They're completely pre-occupied with themselves and after a minute or two of feigned interest in my life, they spend the next however long unloading their problems on me at which point I give them advice that they don't listen to. The only one of these female friends that hasn't been a cheating whor--sorry, that hasn't been "curious' and 'wanting to explore herself" --is the post-wall plump one who can't get a dude. It's grea…
/r/MGTOW22/06/17 06:31 PM
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"I told her no, then she brought it up day of as expected of course." I'd say, "Okay, beautiful! Have a blast tonight!" then I'd never respond to her ever again. She'll be freaking out for a week or so. It'll be amusing.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:02 PM
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It's just crazy to think you'll meet a girl, marry her and keep her interest for the next 35-50 years. Sooner or later, that marriage is going to start sucking bad. The sex will dry up, all of her attention and love will be focused on the kids and you'll start feeling like her personal employee. She's going to hit the wall and start feeling like she's not sexy, so she'll run out and seek validation from anyone who will give it to her. Innocently at first of course, but then a night out with the …
/r/MGTOW21/06/17 01:53 AM
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I don't bother arguing over social media anymore. People aren't there to have thoughtful discussions, they're there to show everyone how amazing and forward thinking they are. If you challenge a snowflake in public, they're going to double down and you'll solve nothing. If you really want to talk, you're better off having a private conversation where you can feel it out -- back off if they get hostile, or pursue it more if they're willing to keep an open mind. Keep in mind that anything said on …
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 08:46 AM
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Wow, that's heart-wrenching to read. The poor guy still thinks he's in love. Someone in the comments said it best - he's in love with the idea of her, not the actual person. The only people worthy of your love and sacrifice are your children, and maybe your parents and family if you're on good terms. There are a few (male) friends that I'd take a bullet for too. Never a woman.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 04:30 AM
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I hear ya, man. I've dated a few of IG model/whores and I have no taste for them anymore. It's not the attention seeking or the complete lack of morality that I find off-putting, as much as it is the duality of the women themselves. It's shocking how easily they can switch from the sweet, loving girlfriend, to the trashy whore persona. You start to wonder which is the act and which is the true personality (Pro-tip: a whore is a whore is a whore. Don't be fooled). But why get angry about that? Wh…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 12:54 AM
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Good for you for saying no to her crazy itinerary. Keep saying no. In fact, start making plans for her day.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 12:24 AM
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I enjoy gf's and even the odd female friend, but my general rule about women is to not take them seriously. Women make for shitty friends, they usually just want someone they can cry to about chad, they don't really care about what's happening in your life, and once they find a LTR they're more than likely going to stop talking to you. You can count on a call when they're single again though. They are useful for meeting new girls to fuck. I date girls for about 4-6 months and then move on to a n…
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 12:07 AM
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Have you actually made a move of any kind on this girL? "why do you hate me?" "I dont hate you. Let's go out for dinner this Thursday." Then make a move on her. If she denies you, lose her number, she's not interested.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:13 PM
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Keep your sense of humour instead of getting mad about it. It's all a shit test to see how you handle things and what they can get away with. Think of them as a bunch of bratty 6 yr olds and treat them as such. She knows she's being ridiculous.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:57 AM
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"Be comfortable with the uncomfortable." If you're confident and relaxed a little pause in the conversation can be powerful as it'll make the girl feel nervous. If she's at all interested she'll equate her nervousness with liking you because you're creating feelings in her. Take a moment to look around the room; comment on other people, make a game out of guessing what they're saying/doing.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:58 AM
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Sit down and make a bucket list of everything you ever wanted to do or try and start ticking things off of the list one by one.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:18 AM
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5'10 here. Not only is my height not a problem, but I tend to go for tall girls... most are between 5'7-5'9. I've dated about 3 that were 6' and one that was 6'3.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 02:27 AM
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Yeah, I think an introduction would have done the trick nicely. Whenever I am in a situation where I don't really know what to say - especially if I suspect the girl might be mad or jealous -I look her in the eyes, smirk, let it hang in the air, and wait to see if she'll say something first. I know if I speak first and try to offer some kind of explanation, I'll come across as though I'm a) seeking approval, and b) admitting to doing something wrong in the first place. If she speaks first then s…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:59 AM
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If she completely ignores you for more than a minute either introduce yourself to her friend (maybe make a joke about how rude girl is being), or lean in and say that it was good chatting with her and leave. Clink glasses later on when you see her again. You don't want to be left standing there like a chump.
/r/seduction17/06/17 01:44 AM
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If she completely ignores you for more than a minute either introduce yourself to her friend (maybe make a joke about how rude girl is being), or lean in and say that it was good chatting with her and leave. Clink glasses later on when you see her again. You don't want to be left standing there like a chump.
/r/seduction17/06/17 01:44 AM
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If she completely ignores you for more than a minute either introduce yourself to her friend (maybe make a joke about how rude girl is being), or lean in and say that it was good chatting with her and leave. Clink glasses later on when you see her again. You don't want to be left standing there like a chump.
/r/seduction17/06/17 01:44 AM
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Women are flakes. If they're strangers, who cares. They did you a favour by not showing up. The rest though is on you. If you're letting a woman use you and treat you like shit, you're doing something wrong... probably failing shit test after shit test until they lose all attraction and they know they can walk all over you. Pass all their shit tests and they'll treat you well. When you get good enough at it they'll even come up and thank you for not taking their shit. Women will test your bounda…
/r/MGTOW16/06/17 02:20 AM
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I've had several females tell me I was their "best friend" over the years. All of these "best friends" of mine ditched me the minute they found a serious bf and really haven't spoken to me since. I don't bother with female friendships now. To be fair, a lot of my male buddies stopped hanging out as soon as they got married too, but I cut them some slack. I know they'd rather be out drinking, playing video games and having fun, but they all have to report to the boss ...their wives. I was there o…
/r/MGTOW14/06/17 04:11 PM
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If your ultimate goal is to get them to leave you alone just say, "I'd love to help, but I'm a little too busy right now." Repeat until they stop asking. Case closed. Anything else is just a function of your own ego. It's you wanting to put bitches in their place, which might cause you trouble down the line. So yeah, this is your job, you have to think about the big picture. I think it behooves you to play nice in an office environment.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:47 AM
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At 30, you're in a prime position to date 20-25 yr olds that have no desire to get married or have kids. If you stay in good shape you'll be able to date younger girls and keep the LTR's at bay until your 40s and beyond.
/r/MGTOW13/06/17 03:44 AM
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chances are that most, if not all, of what you tell your buddy will get back to her ears anyway. That's how couples work so you may as well throw her a bone or two by way of polite conversation. You're not going to win if you put him in a position where he has to choose between you or her. Also, keep in mind that if she doesn't like you, then its going to be harder and harder for him to hang out with you without getting flak for it.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:30 PM
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Oh, dude. I know what you're talking about and guys like that need a savage beat down. It takes a lot to make me mad, but little fuckers like that showing me bitchy attitudes will do it every time.
/r/MGTOW12/06/17 04:41 AM
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The less I try to have sex, the more women initiate it. At my age, I honestly don't give a fuck if we have sex or not. Next time or the time after... I'm in no rush at all.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:42 PM
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Yeah. I have a few friends that are natural alphas and no matter how much game I've developed I'll just never be able to command a room like them. It can be frustrating, but it's also a fantastic opportunity to learn. Of course, sleeping alone sucks...
/r/askTRP10/06/17 04:39 PM
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Yeah. I have a few friends that are natural alphas and no matter how much game I've developed I'll just never be able to command a room like them. It can be frustrating, but it's also a fantastic opportunity to learn. Of course, sleeping alone sucks...
/r/askTRP10/06/17 04:39 PM
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Oh, that sounds fantastic. I can't wait to get out into the country and do some riding. Thanks for the tip on the V Stars, I'll check them out.
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 03:18 PM
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Thanks, man. I've been looking at used Honda Shadows... something cheap to get me started. Do you ride?
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 07:58 AM
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Awesome! Fellow guitar player here. have fun, enjoy!
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 07:57 AM
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Nice! Is snaketits your concept?
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 07:55 AM
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This month I'm looking forward to completing my Motorcycle driver training course, buying a bike, having my kid come out for a visit, and capping it all off with a trip to Australia. One by one, I've been ticking off goals on my bucket list and it's been way more fulfilling than any relationship I've ever been in. There is no substitute for personal accomplishment and achievement.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 03:18 PM
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Yikes. You don't even have to be red pill to know that you don't stick your dick in crazy. Lose her number immediately.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 02:08 AM
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I'm all for dating and enjoying some female companionship, but why would you want to settle on just one? All she's going to do is age (badly, most likely), spend your money, and either she'll stop having sex with you or you won't want to have sex with her because she's let herself go. I can't see any benefit to taking a wife anymore. IMO it's much better to sample the buffet, enjoy a short relationship, and move on to the next one.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 01:56 AM
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No natural Alpha is hanging out in TRP on reddit looking for advice on how to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 07:46 AM
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Holy shit, people, every other reply is "he's only getting away with it because he's good looking." He's getting away with it because he's confident. If you're sitting there thinking that you can't act a certain way because you're not attractive enough then you've already lost. Stop focusing on how unattractive you think you are and start seducin women.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:29 PM
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He's also bulimic and secretly believes he's a piece of shit. No amount of MDMA or alcohol will ever change how he feels about himself but at least it numbs him. The pussy that's being thrown at him all day long only adds to his frustration and self-loathing because he's done so many drugs that he can barely get it up anymore. He's a stupid, impotent, bulimic, drug addict that wouldn't have anything if his daddy (who openly despises him) didn't hand it to his worthless ass on a silver platter. S…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 06:15 AM
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Haha. Awesome
/r/askTRP06/06/17 05:46 AM
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Yes, it's too soon, especially at the beginning. Set dates for once a week for at least the first month. The only exception is if she makes the plans and asks you out (assuming you're available). If she's chasing you, then you're exactly where you want to be.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:05 PM
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Being close-minded is also a form of self-sabotage. Everyone has to come to their own conclusions about this stuff.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 04:19 PM
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lol. just laugh it off. your gf is being a wanker.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:44 AM
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I'd have to watch it again to be sure (haven't seen it since it first came out) but I seem to recall that Zac Efron of all people was pretty alpha in 17 Again. Also, Russell Brand in Get Him to the Greek and Forgetting Sarah marshall.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:20 AM
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Well said. "For those foolish enough to think that women, family and marriage will bring them joy and fulfillment, will certainly be gravely disappointed. Nature is amoral; there is no good, there is no evil, there is no right and wrong. There is only what is." I love this thinking. And it's knowing this that allows me to date and enjoy women while remaining unaffected by them. I may feel some kind of temporary feeling of "love" but I know it's just the biological process at work. With a little …
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 02:17 PM
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Don't make the mistake of thinking you can let your feelings show and you can be vulnerable. Go to your male friends if you have problems to sort out, not your gf. To her, you're her rock. You have to show her you can handle everything. I like to keep a few close female friends around that I can whine to when I need to get shit off my chest. Make sure you still take the lead. Plan dates, trips, and outings like you would any other girl. Maintain your personal life outside of your relationship. i…
/r/seduction04/06/17 06:37 AM
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That was a great read, thrown1520. Thanks.
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 01:41 AM
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Do it in person. That way she can't talk shit about how you were too much of a coward to do it to her face.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 01:30 AM
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Oh. haha. Sorry. I met most of the girls I dated in my 30s at coffee shops, bars or through friends-- the same way I've always met girls. You have to put yourself in a target rich environment and think about your demographic. How it became easier is because of everything I said earlier. Men are in their prime in their 30s and early 40s and women are more attracted to men than boys. And I don't think there's any taboo about it unless it's around the 15-20 yr age gap difference.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 11:30 PM
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Most girls tend to date older guys because they have careers, money, have learned how to keep their apartments clean, drive a nicer vehicle, can control themselves, are more sure of themselves, have more life experience and are able to hold interesting conversations. Plus are probably better at sex.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 11:19 PM
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Fuck that noise. Don't respond.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 11:11 PM
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Don't be distant or weird. That's weak. Do flirt with other girls right in front of her and ask her to wing for you. She may get jealous and decide she likes you after all, or she may help you pick up other girls. Either way, it's a win for you.
/r/seduction02/06/17 11:06 PM
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I'd be pissed that my "best friend" put me in a situation where I have to fight at all. If he's getting jumped, sure, I got his back. If he went in looking for a fight and expecting me to bail him out, he's an idiot.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:54 PM
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"I wouldn't have sex with you if you were the last person on earth." continues to make out with her
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:41 PM
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I got married young (21), had a kid at 23... divorced by 26ish. I'm 44 now and that was the last time I've lived with a woman, the only child I have is fully grown, and I've since dated lots of women. Early on I had a few LTRs that lasted a couple of years, but I prefer to have short 4-6 month relationships now and then move on. This was obviously way before MGTOW was a thing... it was just never worth it to me to get trapped in a relationship/marriage again unless I truly did meet that one of a…
/r/MGTOW02/06/17 10:52 AM
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"Be comfortable with the uncomfortable." The reward isn't getting the girl, it's making the move. That's what will build your confidence, even if you have just blundered through it. Girls expect some nervousness, it isn't a deal breaker. As for kissing or sex, same thing. Make the move. Don't tell them you're a virgin. Go slowly if you're unsure and let them guide you through the kiss and reciprocate, don't stick your tongue in the back of their throat, don't immediately grab for the boobs, work…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 09:43 AM
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You need to sit down with yourself, make a list of objectives and goals, and then take immediate action. Taking steps towards obtaining your goals will give you confidence and a sense of pride and as you start to gain momentum Your life will change for the best. For starters, go get a job and then go get your license. Get a passport while you're at it even if it doesn't seem like you'll be able to use it any time soon. Get a motorbike instead of a car - its cheaper and chicks love that shit. Mak…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 03:33 AM
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I married my first gf at age 21... divorced 5 yrs later. Didn't hook up for an entire year after that. Finally started getting the hang of dating when I was 28 and have bedded lots of girls since. You've got lots of time - men hit their prime in their 30s and if you take care of yourself, you can be successful well in your 40s and 50s.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 03:19 AM
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In my opinion, if all you can focus on is how shitty women are, then your life is still being controlled by them. Educate yourself and be aware of how the system is stacked against men, but also beware that anger and resentment make you bitter and waste years of your life. I'm after peace and contentedness. I'm after a fulfilling, purpose-filled life and I'd love to see more posts devoted to helping us better ourselves.
/r/MGTOW02/06/17 01:10 AM
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The big problem here is that you kept talking to these low-lives well after they revealed their true nature. Should have cut and run immediately.
/r/MGTOW01/06/17 02:06 PM
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when you break it down to its bare essentials, you'll see she just gave you the "It's not you, it's me" routine. She's not interested.
/r/seduction31/05/17 06:29 AM
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This is correct.
/r/MGTOW25/05/17 09:28 AM
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I think your openers were kind of weak and out of context. The first opener sounds like you just insulted her and you had no follow-up question or comment or anything clever to say at all. The second opener probably would have worked better if you just asked them whether they like beards on guys in general and started threading from there. It takes a while to get the energy up and get in the zone at a party; start small, clink glasses, say hi, smile, wait for positive responses and then build on…
/r/seduction25/05/17 09:20 AM
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You can lose a lot of weight very quickly by eating at a 20% caloric deficit. I've been using the Kinobody system (around $50) and found it to be the simplest and most efficient program I've tried yet. It outlines a very simple and easy to maintain diet, and I'm in and out of the gym in under 45 mins 3 times a week. And the results have been great. I went from being the heaviest I've ever weighed (206lbs) to having abs in about 3 months time (I'm now at 182 lbs)... and most of that weight was sh…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:31 PM
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Jesus, no. Don't do it. Once you move in, it's like a marriage. She'll suddenly be nagging you about shit you don't care about, making you do stuff you don't want to do, making you spend money on shit you don't want to spend money on (like that cute chair that you sure as hell don't like)... and because you're living for free, you'll always always feel guilty like you owe her something. Plus, every time she sees your smelly socks on the floor, or your unwashed dishes in the sink, or your pee on …
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:39 AM
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Freeze her out. Don't text her again until she texts you... for as long as it takes. She's going to miss your attention more than you'll ever miss hers.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 12:10 AM
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Focusing on inner game is way more important than anything else. When you have that down pick up is almost effortless.
/r/seduction17/05/17 01:39 AM
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I just took some voice lessons. The big take aways for me were: Opening the throat when you speak, as opposed to constricting it. It is quite common for us to constrict our muscles when we are exerting ourselves (like we do when we're trying to speak loudly). Constricting means you're forcing air through the vocal folds and its why you'll have a sore throat the next day after shouting in a bar all night. Opening the throat allows air to flow freely and you won't be straining your vocal chords. F…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:25 AM
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You're not afraid of your heart being broken, you're afraid of your ego being shattered. If you focus on making your mind, body, spirit, and your empire strong, your heart will grow and your ego will shrink because you will have nothing left to prove to anyone; your worth will be apparent to all. Women will begin appearing in your life and you'll find you don't really care. Most of them will just be annoying and in the way, trying to suck up your time and resources. Occasionally a few good ones …
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:03 AM
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I've read that something like 70% of black children in North America grow up in single parent families. I wonder how much of the hypergamy we see in black women has to do with the probability that they grew up without a father in the picture. It's not hard to imagine that their mother's taught them to hate men and squeeze whatever they can out of them.
/r/MGTOW09/05/17 01:00 PM
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You already made the plans with her, she knows you have a date. You texted her to remind her already... she's blowing you off. Fuck it. Walk away, never look back.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:18 PM
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Love everyone... not for their sake but for our own. It's exhausting to carry anger and resentment all the time. It sours our pursuits and taints our experiences. If all we do and all that we achieve is just out of spite for women, then what's the point? We're still a slave to them and not truly thinking for ourselves.
/r/MGTOW29/04/17 03:10 PM
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What about his responsibility in it all? He created the conditions that allowed her to act that way. Being "alpha" isn't solely about cutting and running. You say she doesn't deserve him... but do you really think his actions and decisions up until recently warranted anything better than what he's been getting? If you act like a weak beta male, then how can you be surprised when someone takes advantage of that? Women are like children - they want to feel resistance. They want to know where their…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 05:26 PM
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Remember that all of the shit she's pulled with you is your fault in the first place because you've been acting like a weak beta since the day you met. You created the conditions that allowed her to treat you like an underpaid employee and walk all over you. And now you're mad at her because of that? What did you expect? It's great that you're finally starting to define some personal boundaries with your wife, and it sounds like she's starting to realize that her shit doesn't fly anymore. Establ…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:35 PM
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You'll have to be in the gym consistently for the next 4-6 months before you start looking fit. Consider the next 4-6 months as day game practice. By October you'll be looking great and you'll have your game down. Start now.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:41 PM
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Paul is clearly not your friend. What he did is an act of war. Never trust him with anything again. As for what to say to your gf? Keep your frame strong. You don't need a gf. As always, you can take it or you can leave it. She should be more afraid of losing you than you are of losing her. That said, I believe a man should take responsibility for his actions. If he expects others to abide by a code, then he also must abide by that code or it means nothing. At the end of the day, you lied and yo…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:27 PM
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Advice one might expect from a guy who calls himself "awkwardtouching".
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:03 AM
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lol. Dude, I'd start gaming her when she makes comments like that. Say something like, "Sounds like someone has a crush on me" or "I wish you'd told me about these feelings you had before when we could have done something about it" or "Look, we're just like Pam and Jim from The Office". you could wink and smile at her when she makes shitty comments. Have fun with it and just fuck with this chick. Be prepared though, she'll unleash a flurry of insults trying to maintain her power, but if you trea…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:55 PM
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start at the top and work your way down (without asking). She'll let you know whether or not to keep going.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 10:09 PM
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As long as youre not into metal. Hot, single girls that want to fuck you don't go to metal shows.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 04:35 AM
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Are you confident or not? Alpha means you don't back down from anything including 6'4 rugby players.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:32 AM
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My dating life didn't start until my late 20's. Prior to my 27th birthday I was only with 1 girl ever. My 30s were awesome for dating. I was generally with girls who were around 10-12 yrs younger than me. I never had much money and I never really gave it much thought until I hit 40 then suddenly, I felt too broke, too old, not good enough, etc etc. Now at 43 I'm finally realizing the only one who gives a shit about my age and lack of material goods is me. Girls 20 yrs younger are still attracted…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 04:44 AM
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