why do women say this?

chasingsnow · 2017-06-03T17:09:50+00:00

Projection - They defend their own fragile egos by denying it exists in themselves and instead attributing it to Men.

allowsnackbar · 2017-06-03T18:26:58+00:00

It's a manipulation tactic.

Refuse to do something she wants you to do, or you're behaving in a way she disapproves of? Masculinity so fragile!

thrown1520 · 2017-06-03T22:55:40+00:00

It's called a "shit test." They say a bunch of shit to see what the man says or does in reply. They do this to see if the man is boyfriend material.

Boyfriend material is primarily determined by the man being handsome and disrespecting the woman. The way to pass a shit test is to say something that disrespects the woman in such a way that does not quite cross the line into danger or hostility, but going up to the line is usually OK. Other things come second but are still important, such as being able to and actually providing money, status, and resources.

Modern women want to be disrespected because that matches how they feel about themselves.

Women hate themselves. Women hate all women. Women know deep down that they need men. Modern women specifically. They are taught to hate that by feminism and modern culture.

Feminism teaches modern girls and women that they must be as good as or better than men in every way, physically, mentally, and morally. Biologically, women cannot be better than men physically. For every Serena Williams, there are 1,000+ men at her physical level.

According to science, men and women have the same IQ on average. The standard deviations of IQ are greater in men than in that of women. This means that there are many men who are smarter than most women, and many men who are less smart than most women. Deep down inside, all women know that there are many men smarter than almost all women, and the rare profound female genius like Marie Curie, Hedy Lamarr, and others are so different than almost all women, that they can only serve as inspiration to almost all women, not as role models.

Due to technological changes, modern society places a premium on intelligence. Intelligence confers some status, but its main importance to women is that it is often linked to money and wealth.

Modern society has replaced the worship of God with the worship of feminist government. As a result, a woman cannot find emotional solace in being part of a community that accepts her as she is. Instead, she can only find acceptance as a citizen, which results in hierarchical status. There is a big status difference between homeless, welfare poor, working poor, middle class, and rich. This does not even get into political classes. This makes being intelligent even more important to status seekers like most women.

Women cannot admit that men are superior in anything, as that would go against their modern religious belief of feminist government.

Girls are raised on Disney princess movies, which teach girls that they don't need to do anything but be a girl to have resources thrown their way. Girls and women understand that in this society they need a man to give them those resources, because those resources are locked up by those who have higher intelligence, and who are mostly men.

The modern girl/woman is desperately searching for a companion. She may have settled on finding one in feminist government, which gives her handouts. A rich boyfriend, however, confers higher status, as that may result in her getting more things.

Feminism teaches women that they should be able to get things on their own, but cannot because of sexism. The Disney princess movie effect and their own natural nesting instincts lead them to crave resources, protection, and status.

The modern woman tends to be horny all the time, as most men and women are. Feminism teaches her to trust only her emotions, however, and not her logical brain. This leads her to prefer some men over others based on "the tingles." The tingles are her "sexy" emotional/physical response to men. The tingles are tied to handsomeness, aggressiveness, height, and penis size, among other factors. The aggression needs to be sometimes directed to her because of her self-hate, but mostly directed at the outside world for her to get the tingles.

By the way, regarding penis size, that came about due to the porn industry. In fact, the porn industry routinely uses prostheses (fake penises) to make the men look larger. Women do not know about this little-known fact. Based on viewing porn, modern women assume there are many men with large penises.

Men are simultaneously the best and only provider for women, falsely believed as sexists and rapists that keeps women from achieving their true end, and about 10% of them give her the tingles.

The modern woman therefore hates men except their boyfriend right after the boyfriend has given them something, like food or a gift or money or a backrub or a compliment or a fun evening spent together, as she may want.

Modern women hate their husbands because their husbands can no longer give them anything they don't already have. Their husbands can only earn something in the future that the modern women might be able to take. The uncertain future is not an obvious win for the women.

Finally, modern society teaches men and women to be happy. We are taught that to be happy, we must achieve all our dreams. It is only possible to be happy if you are successful in your career, the teaching implicitly states. This teaching falsely implies that if you care for children you have failed in your purpose. Women read this very clearly.

Women have many more men to choose from than men have women to choose from, because many women have taken themselves off the market to become welfare government wives, get fat and lazy, or become cat ladies.

In order to satisfy all of their wants and needs, those women who are on the market want a man who is rude, aggressive, handsome, disrespectful, rich, tall, intelligent, and gullible to her, but not gullible to the outside world. Since a number of these features are not obvious at the outset, women start with a funnel approach. They will consider a wide group of men, and then narrow them down. Women shit test men in part to narrow men down, eliminating those who don't seem aggressive, disrespectful, intelligent, rich, and gullible.

Since having a boyfriend is so important to women, women will routinely have a couple of "backup" men to go to if their current relationship ends or goes on a break.

Women will also try to bring in "satellite men" or "white knights" who are friendzoned. The purpose of these men are to provide backup resources to the woman, such as money, wealth, and emotional support. Since these men do not give her the tingles, she does not see them as boyfriend material, or as backup boyfriends.

While in the actual relationship with her boyfriend, or sometimes husband, the woman will naturally seek emotional support from their partner. This is in part a shit test, because after she receives emotional support from him, she will stop getting the tingles from him, and the bedroom will die. If he does not provide emotional support to her, she will complain bitterly about not getting emotional support from her partner, and this helps her feel morally superior to men.

Women stop developing emotional maturity at about age 18. This leads them to have wild emotional inner lives. They do seek emotional support, but what they really need is stability of emotion. That is why a boyfriend or husband who acts as her rock, while not showing emotion himself, is what she wants.

The boyfriend or husband who actually thinks that is a two-way street with the woman is acting foolish, though. Women do not want to be the emotional support of their partner. They don't love their men enough for that. Women have contempt for a man with emotional difficulties, since they think men have easy lives.

If a man needs emotional support, he is best advised to talk to a buddy or keep a journal or voice recordings that she doesn't know about. She cannot know that he is emotionally fragile or she will ultimately stop being interested.

Many men do not understand that, and show sadness or emotional weakness to their woman. Of course, a woman's shit tests may actually bring this out, as they are designed to do.

And that is why women say men have fragile egos.

Let's talk about love, and specifically, non-sexual love. We can make the following observation. Men love women like women love their children. What does this mean? It means that the non-sexual love of a man for a woman is greater than the non-sexual love of a woman for her man. It is about the same amount as a woman loves her children, which is absolute and total. The non-sexual love of a woman for her man is not absolute or total. It never can be.

Men are raised wrong in our society. We are raised to believe that a woman will love us like our mother loved us. In fact, that will never be the case. No woman will ever love a man as much as the mother did love him.

For men who were not loved by their mothers, I am sorry. It is a real tragedy that you will never personally know the power of a mother's love. That is not something that can be solved for you.

This all leads to no end of problems. Men think that their women are supposed to love them like their mothers did, but their women never will. Men are expecting emotional support from their women, but that leads to the bedroom dying.

Women have a beautiful stage of their lives that starts ending in their late 20s. Even before that, and during their beautiful stage, women in modern society receive special treatment. They receive compliments, resources, the aid of white knights, and much more. They walk around and doors are held open for them, crowds open up for them to walk through, seats to sit down magically come open, and all of their cares and worries are easily met by society throwing down a virtual red carpet for them wherever they go. Most women do not understand that this is temporary for them, and they assume everyone, including men, receive the same treatment. This is of course false. As they hit the wall, they get depressed about not living such easy lives anymore.

Jos_Metadi · 2017-06-03T17:15:09+00:00

Because if people accept it, then any attempt by a man to defend himself against against her slander can be used as "proof" he is weak.

phantommaster1999 · 2017-06-03T17:29:04+00:00

If we try to respond to their BS with facts and stats they get insecure and simply try to invalidate our knowledge by saying "men have fragile egos/you sad man/which woman dumped ya/u have a small dick etc".

360GnomeChild · 2017-06-04T05:27:15+00:00

A girl that wanted to be with me for years eventually came at me with "I think we should just be friends." We already were friends, she just said that so she could convince herself that she wasn't a hopeless orbiter. They do stuff like this so they can pretend they don't have an ego or whatever.

aaronimpact · 2017-06-03T18:44:55+00:00

I see a lot of this on Facebook.

Mini_Bot · 2017-06-03T20:16:25+00:00

idk maybe it's bcuz so many men fall for the small dick and the "real man" memes?

asillynert · 2017-06-03T21:51:41+00:00

Manipulation shaming "corrective behavioral programing". Challenge you make you seem like a bad person if you don't switch to their pov.

Cicuta · 2017-06-03T22:22:00+00:00

Because they think being an insulting bitch towards men is totally okay. And the moment he objects he has a "fragile ego."

a17c81a3 · 2017-06-03T23:18:13+00:00

Just more shaming language. Ignore or respond with a clever quip.

We could also re-introduce the old standard "Shh don't speak around men, woman".

FREE_PALESTINE_NOW · 2017-06-04T02:22:52+00:00

Because it's a way to belittle any man and any argument that a man makes. Have a point about women? You just have a fragile ego. You say you have an actual point? Well, you're just defending your ego, because it's fragile

It's like parents who tell their children they have "oppositional defiance disorder". If the child says that they don't, that's seen as proof that they do, because they 'had to' contradict mommy and daddy

There is, literally, no way way to win these sorts of arguments. This kind of tactic is used explicity to create circular reasoning loops where you look like an idiot no matter what you say

mdcrubengonza · 2017-06-04T08:39:49+00:00

Its a shaming tactic. Own it. Agree and expand. I'd say "my ego is so fragile it walks around with a handle with care sticker" and keep it moving.

2017-06-04T03:30:19+00:00

That's ironic, considering if you call a fat woman fat, somehow you're the asshole for pointing out reality.

Dank_Meems · 2017-06-05T18:10:46+00:00

They're projecting their own insecurities. It's the same way a child argues when they have no real legs to stand on. Just laugh and remember your life will just be getting started as hers is coming to an end.

the_unseen_one · 2017-06-05T23:38:36+00:00

It's just another way they can shame men. They talk a lot of shit about allowing men to be vulnerable and express their feelings, but if a man is ever insulted, sad, or mad about something, he is accused of having a fragile ego and shamed for not being strong enough.

Title	why do women say this?
Author	be_the_kiwi
Upvotes	48
Comments	27
Date	June 3, 2017 4:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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