Pretty sure I'm getting a shit test.

username_1_1_1 · 2017-06-02T23:11:38+00:00

Fuck that noise. Don't respond.

Docbear64 · 2017-06-03T00:21:34+00:00

what could you possibly say to that ? " Sorry babe I will quit my job so I can sit on the couch with you " or " Fine After one of my ten hour shifts let's hang out I'll be in a great mood" .

The correct answer is neither . Be silent , she's bitching let her bitch . You told her your schedule she's going to either work with it or not .

MattyAnon · 2017-06-02T23:32:11+00:00

So she responds with, "I feel like we hang out when it's convenient for you and less so for me. It's cool you're getting overtime and all." and thats it.

Oh god, this. She means she's making every effort to see you, and feels you're not doing the same. But really, you don't need to change anything.

Respond with "Sorry, work first, play second". A subtle way to say "mission first, YOU second".

Personally I'd be more convoluted and respond with "when would be perfect for you, princess?" and whatever she says say "sorry, can't make it then, I've got to take my pet rock to the vet".

RyderThune · 2017-06-02T23:19:16+00:00

This chick sounds like she is Literal Diarrhea... I say give her the situation and let it simmer off for a few days. Let her come to you. Till then, sit back have a beer and start swiping.

Metalageddon · 2017-06-03T01:57:37+00:00

Classic mistake.

Remember, she's attracted to who you are now. Don't start cowtowing, changing yourself, deering, etc. She's just talking. It's worth nothing.

At the end of the day there's two options, she's working the shaft or she's not. Either is quite acceptable. Don't ever change you for her.

juliusstreicher · 2017-06-05T23:02:51+00:00

Yeah, you work fucking 30 hours in 3 days, and she's pissing that you only want to hang out when it's convenient for YOU.

SkimSTi · 2017-06-02T23:10:32+00:00

i wouldnt respond. go focus on your path. your mission. WORK. then hit her up on monday. "when are you free to get together" (let her pick a day).. she can't say its inconvenient for her if she picks the day?

edit: i mean honestly, to complain about something like that only knowing each other for 2 months? (i duno how many times you have hung out in those 8 weeks) but jesus... she should be happy at any moment she gets to spend time with you and your busy schedule. if shes creating flak over something like that now, what happens in 8 more months? "i feel like we need to have a baby".................... ha

Title	Pretty sure I'm getting a shit test.
Author	A_Pesky_Squirrel
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	June 2, 2017 11:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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