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| 12 | What do you think about paternity test?I'm a huge fan. Doesn't get talked about a lot but in the US you can generally get the hospital to facilitate sample collection. You're also not required to sign the birth certificate at the hospital and can choose to legally acknowledge your fatherhood after confirming paternity. We've also come a long with with safer paternity and dna testing during pregnancy. Unless you aren't told she's pregnant, there's little reason in 2025 to not have your fatherhood confirmed before the kid is born at le… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/25 01:32 PM |
| -9 | In many countries retirement age is much later for men - some by 5 years, some even 10 years. Does anyone know the reasons behind this? I primarily want to know the official reasons of countries, but assumptions are also very welcome!In many countries it has to do with traditional gender roles and job opportunities available to women. In many places a man at 65 may still be able to find work that pays well enough to not need the state pension but some women may not. In some cases it's also due to less attachment of women in the work force and many women having had to leave the workforce to care for kids. The long and short is that many countries have cultures that view gender roles a certain way. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Modern Dating Sucks For MenDating apps aren't rigged against men, the average ones just give more selection power to women. I can't remember the name but at one point there was a dating app geared towards high income men where the women had to meet certain requirements to join. It was like a match maker but online. In that case the men had the majority of power because they had to do the choosing and the women had to be selected. On apps like tinder problem is that because women are bombarded with tons of male suitors for… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 07:20 PM |
| 7 | Am 17 male, I have autism and I’ve never had a girlfriend is there any hopeAh the game. I think this largely only applies to men looking for a certain lifestyle and willing to exhaust themselves to get it. There were several former PUA who became what women wanted, had lots of success with women and ultimately unalived themselves. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Am 17 male, I have autism and I’ve never had a girlfriend is there any hopeAutism is a very wide spectrum. If you're seeing a therapist then have you spoken to them about your concerns? There's a chance that they can help you take small steps towards being more social, understanding what you want from a partner, better understanding social signals...and potentially most importantly setting boundaries. Now, most of the time I don’t even talk to my friends because I can’t think of anything to say. Sometimes life is less about having things to say and more about being in … | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 04:24 PM |
| 8 | Am 17 male, I have autism and I’ve never had a girlfriend is there any hopeHe's potentially a young man asking for advice or at least someone to listen. Part of men's rights has to include us being willing to have some level of fraternity beyond hoping for things like more equitable legislation. FWIW taking this sort of response, especially for a younger person often leads to forms of extremism. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.I think it's closer to 60% on average with the number being higher for college educated women. Look if we're honest about it there are pros but also risks to marriage. There have also been massive cultural shifts and marital expectations for some people haven't caught up. There's also tons of people who get married and start families without actually planning or considering what the after will look like. The reality is that most people under 50 who are married in the US are likely in dual income… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/25 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez @AOC body shames and mocks a man for not being as tall as she would like "I cannot believe they aired this and made him listen to it live 😂 I am crying".. "AOC calling Miller a clown and saying he is angry that he is 4’10”"I'm 100% on board with that line of thinking | /r/MensRights | 08/10/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez @AOC body shames and mocks a man for not being as tall as she would like "I cannot believe they aired this and made him listen to it live 😂 I am crying".. "AOC calling Miller a clown and saying he is angry that he is 4’10”"Any human siding with Miller should rethink themselves. What she did was wrong and she should apologize but let's not pretend that he hasn't said worse | /r/MensRights | 08/10/25 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.if it is.. waaaaaay more weight is given to the woman's side of "Equal split" You guys constantly say this but it's not the woman's side, it's the lower earner's side. When the woman is the higher earner, we see lower earning men, especially those who left the workforce at the direction of their spouse, also receiving an equal share. The man is often the one pressured into leaving the family home, losing half his assets which includes things like 401K, savings and any monetary assets he had BEFO… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/25 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Feminist US Presidential candidate declares it’s not her fault she lost. It’s everyone else’s.What does this remotely have to do with men's rights? Bill Maher has a very long career as a comedian and tv host. Maybe go back and see what he and his writers said about the last men who lost the presidency. News flash, most of them didn't take any accountability for their loss either. One of them is still peddling conspiracy theories about having the election stolen from him. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.No one made a claim attempting to state what marriage 'is about.' Marriage, in the west, in practice, IS effectively as described. The OP gave their views on why marriage is advantageous to women and disadvantageous to men. Really? I mean, you fully admit that you have to go to a completely different culture to find examples of men being the source of the dead bedroom. LOL. You know you have to go to Japan to try to make this point. Read again. I gave a single example from Japan. That doesn't re… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/25 12:14 AM |
| -11 | Marriage is just a way to give women a sense of security by holding a man’s assets at gunpoint.Out of curiosity how old are you? Assets in a marriage have generally been seen as shared familiar assets with an order of succession. I know that some people have gotten very transactional with relationships but a traditional marriage was not and is not about a gold digger finding a target. Generally it's two people sharing values and working towards a common goal even if they meet for the first time at the ceremony. Yes lots of men and women end up with dead bedrooms. The reason varies from th… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/25 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Seek Opinion: Is this really rape?I've never had sex with a partner who told me something was painful and I just kept going unless it was something we'd talked about earlier. Obviously they're young but it's pretty easy to recognize verbal complaints of pain as a sign to stop | /r/MensRights | 04/10/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Seek Opinion: Is this really rape?Yes, that's rape. The moment someone tells you to stop a sex act you stop because they've withdrawn any consent you had. I've had a good amount of sex and no it's not hard to stop when someone says hey that hurts stop or don't do that. Unless I'm misunderstanding it sounds like she clearly indicated that he needed to stop and he didn't. I'm going to share a story that a lady friend shared with me once. When she was in HS she went into the woods with a popular boy and told him they could kiss whi… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/25 06:02 PM |
| 6 | why do women lie about rape?its not thinking over the consequences that i don't get, its the OKAY i am gone think up this WILD reasoning why i need to lie about this, is lying really so commen place in our society that our default reaction is to just cook up reasoning for why we need to lie and then lie right then on the spot? like you would have to be not thinking over things while also thinking things over to even get to this line of reasoning. Have you never been so upset that you just act? I never falsely accused anyon… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/25 01:59 PM |
| 5 | why do women lie about rape?Crystal Mangum the duke lacrosse accuser is an example of a woman who eventually admitted to lying. Brian Banks, who was less well off than those Duke boys, did years after being falsely accused and his accuser confessed later. Fannie Taylor triggered the Rosewood massacre likely to cover an affair. really? that sounds like really childish reasoning to lie about something that huge............... There's no article because things were different back then but when I was in HS (late 90s-early 00s)… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/25 01:18 PM |
| 13 | why do women lie about rape?yeah but how is what i don't understand, like what benefit does lying about this give you? and there other things that benefit you, not just lying about rape. There's no single answer because women are individual people. You can look up cases and often when caught the women or men will admit why they lied. In some cases it's regrets and in others it's as simple as revenge for a perceived wrong. They benefit by watching the consequences impact the person they think wronged them. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/25 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Where in the world can I go that I will matter?What do you have to actually offer? You say you're tired of the expectations of men in the US and feel like a second class citizen, can you expand on what's happening to you? The reality is that many people who leave the US don't experience much of a change because they don't change. If you really want a place where the value of your work is what matters more than skin color or what's between your legs then ask yourself what you can do. Most merit based lifestyles are going to involve you living… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Stop Paternity Fraud!Running genetic tests on the child will tell if there were issues with the father or mother | /r/MensRights | 26/09/25 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Stop Paternity Fraud!Women do go to jail for non-payment. Women also lose professional licenses. The problem is that in the majority of cases women are the primary care giver as well as the lower earner. Those extra overnights often results in them being the one to receive money. To dispel your beliefs I'll offer a doctor I knew who got pregnant by her HS sweetheart after she became a doctor. When things fell apart she actually ended up paying him 250/month in child support despite him only having every other weeken… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Stop Paternity Fraud!First off MFs need to stop signing things they don't understand. Unless you're married, paternity will not be assumed if you don't sign. Second, paternity fraud should be a civil matter and men who are victims should be allowed to seek financial restitution. Lastly, we need to rethink child support. We need legislation that ensures parents are the first line of financial responsibility while not making it profitable to have kids by certain men. Putting caps on child support, having default 50/50… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Stop Paternity Fraud!Even when men are able to prove they are paying support for the children of other men, the courts and state agencies often force these non-fathers to continue payments . It's because the alternative is the state taking over the slack. If you really want off then the best things you can do is find the real father and get a good lawyer. Aside from the situation where you're married and your wife gets pregnant by another man, most states don't assume paternity unless you sign. Married or single, yo… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/25 09:14 PM |
| 0 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menWhat part of what I said is a lie? I can't speak for outside the US, but in the US you can find tons of examples of women facing discrimination when applying for technical jobs. Are you going to tell me that women like Dorothy Vaughan were just made up by feminists? Do you think things like Title VII were passed because some male members of congress were trying to get votes? Get off the internet and go speak to people in real life. I'm sure you can find a man who is between 60 and 80 that you ca… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/25 12:23 PM |
| -12 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menAs to your other point, what major tech doesn't have a majority of men, much less doesn't have a self-sustaining minority? There's still women alive today who wouldn't have been allowed to hold certain tech jobs that are available today so I'm not sure what your point is here. There's obviously physical professions that IMO women can't do or would rarely if ever volunteer for. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 06:26 PM |
| -9 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menI met a woman in West Virginia once who was a miner in the 70s. Last year I was speaking with a guy about trades and his daughter is training to be a welder and the union she wants to join has to do with oil rigs. Let's not pretend like women can't work a mine or on an oil rig around other women. I stand by what I said which is that if all of one gender went bye bye either way there'd be a technological dark age | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 06:10 PM |
| -18 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menWhile they're the minority, there are women who work in mines and on oil rigs so I'm not sure what that has to do with anything. All men or all women there's a good chance that we'd see a technological dark age. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 04:54 PM |
| -28 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menHonestly I never heard of women on shows like alone or naked and afraid getting more resources. I do know that some of the shows are largely scripted, especially the ones attached to big names. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 03:47 PM |
| 13 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menI could be behind on the science but I think IVF still needs a woman. So if a group of men had access to sperm and eggs they couldn't produce any children. If a group of women had access to sperm and eggs they could. Either way it's a dumb conversation to have. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 03:39 PM |
| -93 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menDo you have a link? Shows like naked and afraid have shown that a lot of men when put in stressful situations turn into whiny little bitches and a lot of women step up. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 03:36 PM |
| -8 | I heard someone say that women could survive hundreds of years without menScience says they could. If they could freeze enough sperm then reproducing wouldn't be an issue. We have women in most fields that men are in. FWIW I don't think an all male or all female society would thrive or even make it 100 years. The genders do a lot to balance each other out. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/25 03:35 PM |
| 9 | Should i eat pussy of a prostitute ?Are you kidding me? A prostitute has sex for a living. That means that you're likely not the first guy that day and depending on the price range you play in she's not washing between johns. So at best you're licking the flavor of condoms and at worse you're licking another man's semen. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/08/25 04:01 PM |
| 10 | Why are so many young men struggling with erectile dysfunction?Younger men are more likely to be undersexed while having been exposed to pornography than older generations. That puts them in a position where in addition to arousal being difficult the parts may have atrophied due to misuse or no use. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/25 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Am I wrong for assuming she wanted sex after we booked a motel?I guess it depends on where you live, what time you picked her up and who she lives with. I'm sure in her mind going to a hotel with a stranger was a lot safer than having you in her house even though you picked her up presumably at her house. Personally I think if she'd led with "I don't want anything physical" that would have been worse than the evening playing out like it did. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/25 08:49 PM |
| -4 | Is it just me or are women absolutely dominating the Fast Food field?tl;dr What you're feeling is valid but some of the things you're saying aren't true. If you're struggling to find work feel free to dm if you want another man to bounce ideas off, vent to, get harsh truths from...And now for the long part... Where do you live? It sounds like you're trying to extrapolate a trend from your anecdotal experience. Women absolutely get the cream of the crop pickings when it comes to any entry level job. This is untrue. What is true is that women will often work for le… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35That's false. The Durham Rescue Mission in Durham NC provides a men's only shelter. I've known 5 individuals who told me they stayed there and others who have received services, including help with clothing from them. About 10 years ago I dated a young lady who was a social worker in the Baltimore area and she told me they had men's shelters. When I was in Vegas last time I was talking with a homeless guy who told me they had a couple of shelters there that accepted men but he only went during m… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 12:03 PM |
| -3 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35You're right, courts are biased against men, especially for certain charges. With respect to shelters, there's a huge reason for that. Most shelters for women are meant to house women and children. While females can be predators to, even many fathers will tell you they'd rather not have their young daughters and sons around strange men. I think the number of mens only shelters depends on where you live. Unfortunately men have always had it harder than women with getting help when hard times happ… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 09:29 PM |
| -1 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Go find it yourself if you want to argue. I can supply some, but it's been my experience pro feminists refuse to even give it an honest look. Okay, so you have none. That's fine. You've heard of Title 9, right? That is exclusionary against trait hot men and white men. Please actually read it. While there are a few exceptions, title 9 applies regardless of gender. There have even been cases of men suing due to the protections they have from title 9 for example. It might shock your world but some … | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 09:22 PM |
| -2 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Let me be more clear, DEI as a program that throws away merit to boost numbers from certain groups has largely been disproven. While many companies set diversity targets, those were not quotas. Please see the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Diversity targets are not the same as discrimination. Supporting women and minority businesses by seeking them out is not the same as only doing business with them. Large companies like Target who had programs to purchase from women owned businesses also purchased … | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35First, settlements aren't admissions of guilt or wrongdoing, they are two parties reaching a mutual agreement. I'm familiar with the NYC case and it was more about political backlash to DEI than anything else. Compared to the number of suits brought to ensure equal rights for women, blacks...there aren't many suits for discrimination against men and many of the more successful ones have happened since Trump and are likely the result of the current political climate moreso than wrongdoing. It's i… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 08:28 PM |
| -7 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Many colleges, most actually, despite Title 9 saying they can’t do it, still advantage women in getting into college over men. Find me data to substantiate this being a systemic issue. It varies from college to college. You can't claim discrimination of men in this case without also saying women face discrimination at some universities. And support women with financial aid that is unavailable to men. The only scholarships and aid I'm aware of that specifically exclude men are funded by private d… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 08:19 PM |
| -10 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Prove it with data. Women are more likely to seek out higher education. They're more likely to seek out certain work opportunities. They've also discovered and been willing to jump on some traditionally male opportunities that happen to be lucrative. I have no idea how old you are but recently I was listening to a podcast and the guy talked about speaking with college age kids about the future and ai. He said most boys wanted to go to eastern Europe and try to make money online and most girls wa… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 06:19 PM |
| -6 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35If it's related to discrimination then why aren't we seeing tons of lawsuits won? The majority of school teachers are women because men choose not to do that work. Often men in education go into leadership positions for the better pay. A lack of male teachers has been an issue for a long time and while it has contributed to certain declines in boys and advances in women, that's not the fault of women. While female students will have more female teachers and counselors that push them towards coll… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 06:15 PM |
| 1 | If a married man gets drunk and has sex with a woman, did he get r*ped or did he cheat?It doesn't prove you were raped anymore than a female examination proves you were raped. The examination can tell if you've ejaculated, it collects things like saliva, hairs, vaginal fluid and other secretions...So just like when females are examined, it provides evidence that you were likely intimate and can provide dna of the person you were intimate with. For situations where a male is raped by another male or is sodomized they can also check that area. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 06:00 PM |
| -1 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35It's probably industry specific. I'm in tech and women have always been a huge minority. It's also fair to say that as of late women are the most likely to pursue advanced education and that's definitely had an impact in some sectors more than some alleged discrimination against men | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 02:27 PM |
| -7 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35It's funny to say women were referenced in education and employment. Even with the protections and initiatives you listed, there were still more men in power than women and more than enough opportunity for both. The reality is that people hire and help people and those people will often choose someone they like, who is like them or they can get something from. The rest of us have to work twice as hard. It's also worth noting that we've seen a rise in fields that were once women dominated because… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | If a married man gets drunk and has sex with a woman, did he get r*ped or did he cheat?This is a situation where both can be true. Just like with a woman, he has a degree of responsibility for the situation but that doesn't mean he could have consented. So if a married guy gets drunk with his single female co-worker and she has sex with him while he can't move, push her off, consent...then he was raped but also put himself in a situation where he was okay with cheating. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 02:14 PM |
| 0 | If a married man gets drunk and has sex with a woman, did he get r*ped or did he cheat?Then it's a good thing the cops aren't the ones who bring charges. The reality is that most male and female SA victims never come forward because of concerns like yours. And yes, there are medical examinations done for male rape victims even when the alleged attacker is a woman | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Got fired, colleague got promotionSounds like you were in a potentially hostile work environment. If you have the time, I'd call some employment lawyers and see what they think. I'm NAL but I've had to fire someone before. My megacorp was very thorough about how things went. If they fired (not laid off) you on the spot then something is a little odd. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/25 04:24 PM |
| -1 | "Girls should be mobilized to stop boys from becoming a waste of space"I'm going to end this by telling you the difference between the two of us. I'm a man which means I can have a conversation without name calling. It also means I don't say anything behind a keyboard I'm not willing to say in real life. It also means my reading comprehension is strong AND my worldview is built on my experience and not what I read of other's lives. Travel the world and you'll see that there are just as many weak men as there are women and you'll see that social norms play a huge ro… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/25 04:21 PM |
| -2 | "Girls should be mobilized to stop boys from becoming a waste of space"I guess the Kurdish women don't exists. I guess African countries don't have women soldiers that have given interviews echoing what I typed above. Lots of women joined the Ukrainian military and many of them took combat or direct support roles. Of my Ukrainian colleagues there were more women under 35 who joined the military than men. If you ever want to know why people ban members of men's rights from their subreddits or view men's right different from feminism? It's comments like yours. Your w… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/25 02:05 PM |
| -6 | "Girls should be mobilized to stop boys from becoming a waste of space"Or maybe you should just spend some time outside the US. There are places in the world where instead of scrolling on reddit or tiktok people are remembering relatives who were killed by war and wondering when their turn is coming. In some of those places women choose choose to do all they can to avoid a life on their backs. There's also places where men turn into pretty bad people because it's easier to make someone else the victim than to be one | /r/MensRights | 11/07/25 08:33 PM |
| -29 | "Girls should be mobilized to stop boys from becoming a waste of space"If women ain't shit then neither are men. As to the rest of what you said, there would be men and women getting ran through and over if SHTF. Women may or may not catch it worse but history tells us it doesn't always go that way. When it comes to women begging for protection, sure men have always been stronger but frankly there's been times in history where women opted to protect themselves and each other. A lot of gender roles we see as traditional are cultural. There's places I've been to wher… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/25 03:01 PM |
| 0 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodWhat do you mean? In this situation the man or his family would be the one raising the kid because the mom wanted to take the adoption route or straight up abandoned the kid. I've known 4 men in this boat and all but one definitely did their best. The one who didn't was just as bad as the women he knocked up | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodThey can do the collection at the hospital and send off the samples. The samples can then be destroyed. The only thing that needs to be given to the government is the birth records that are signed by the mother and maybe the father. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodAs a male you can use condoms. There's also never really been a push for male birth control although there are options available aside from just condoms. FWIW if you're willing to be the father of record then the woman can't just put the kid up for adoption because you have parental rights, that includes the right to seek child support | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodThose outright abandonment stories only happen when there's no father of record. If you know you got someone pregnant and she gives you the kid or you get it out f the system then you have the right to pursue child support. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 03:03 AM |
| 0 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodSo the guy should get to walk out and the government/tax payer can foot the bill for his choice? Pawning financial responsibility for your child off on a woman is no different than a woman baby trapping. I'd support men being able to give up parent rights in exchange for a financial penalty but unless there was deception involved, you shouldn't just get to walk away. Yes it sucks if you don't want kids, don't like the woman...but any many having sex should be well aware of the potential conseque… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 03:02 AM |
| 4 | How is it legal that I have to pay my wife’s lawyer to build a case against me while I still pay for everything else?I'm in the US but generally each spouse is responsible for their own legal fees. I'm NAL but AFAIK you would only have to pay her legal fees if something egregious happened or you lost a judgement and paying the legal fees was court ordered. So my question is are you paying because the court told you to or because someone else told you to? If there's no judgement saying you must pay then stop. If you can't afford your own attorney then stop. Put the money in an account and pay the purge if it ev… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it ever worth it to date single mothers for the long term?You need to ask yourself what you're looking for. The reality is that if your dating range is 35-45, most single women will have kids or not want them. If you do want a family then I'd recommend lowering your dating range to below 35 or looking for career oriented women in larger cities who froze eggs. Nobody can tell you if it's worth it. If I could go back, I'd tell myself to not necessarily avoid women with kids but vet the hell out of them. I'd also tell myself to avoid women whose kids were… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 04:01 PM |
| -1 | Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement?I can't remember the name but there was one that banned me a couple of years ago for daring to point out that's it's not okay to glorify financially abusing men because of the fictitious patriarchy. Look OP asked why people are disgusted by this subreddit as well as some men's rights forums and I answered it. With all due respect your response asking my why I don't make these comments on misandrists subs is a huge part of the reason people don't like this sub. Move beyond the notion of someone e… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/25 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement?But it's not only women, misandrists or feminists that complain about the comments on this subreddit. I'm a guy and am telling you that I've been berated for not falling in line on certain opinions. So in my opinion it's that kind of behavior (which is sometime labeled as venting) that causes the disgust towards this subreddit | /r/MensRights | 24/06/25 12:00 PM |
| -7 | Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement?That's fair but when you vent publicly you have to realize that people may mistake your venting for aggression, hatred...Perhaps a public subreddit isn't the best place for men to vent vulnerable or controversial feelings. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 02:11 PM |
| -3 | can we talk about the shame regarding male masterbation for a second?Where do you feel you're being shamed for masturbation? If your partner is shaming you then that means they aren't interested in you sexually and need you to be asexual so you won't leave. If it's society then it probably has more to do with what you're masturbating to than the actual act. I read a self reported study last year that found lots of young men now masturbate to abuse porn instead of the titty mags and porno many men over 30 grew up on and it has bad effects on their relationships in… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 01:07 PM |
| -4 | Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement?I say this all the time but the overwhelming majority of comments I read on this sub have zero to do with men's rights or advocacy. They're bashing some other group or blaming some other group. Just look at how often one man is verbally berated for not falling in line with what others are posting | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Michelle Obama says she’s ‘glad’ for not having a sonYou're reading way too much into this and it's probably because you don't like her. By the way they were last seen in public about a month ago. The reality is that his presidency wasn't easy on either of them. They were also young by modern presidential standards. She was also called a man and had to deal with a lot of public abuse during his presidency. She endured that while also not furthering any sort of career. Are you really surprised that after all of that she might want to carve her own … | /r/MensRights | 21/06/25 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Should men give up their seats on public transport for women? Battle of the sexes breaks out over Londoner's divisive clip of her Tube journeyPeople won't like to hear this but many tales of chivalry are bs. FWIW when I'm on a crowded bus or train, I generally give my seat to anyone who looks like they need it more regardless of their gender. I'd also add that the entitlement of some men and women is crazy these days. I was on a bus a bit ago and moved over for a woman to sit down. Her boyfriend expected I'd get up and move so he could sit by her. This was after I'd been on my feet for over 10 hours by the way. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/25 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Zero Alimony/ MaintenanceBuy seemingly worthless things. I'm pretty sure most people wives unless they're petty or knowledgable aren't going to think twice about that box of magic the gathering cards you have. Probably the best thing you can do is to only marry a woman who has a similar or higher earning potential to you and don't encourage her to leave the work force unless you think you'll never split up. Most people I've seen who got screwed over earned significantly more than their previous spouse and/or did things … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/04/25 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Zero Alimony/ MaintenanceYou're still at the mercy of the judge or more accurately your legal team. I believe many states can consider your earning potential when doing calculations. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/04/25 11:12 PM |
| 2 | A men only city. Would you consider it? There have been many women only communities in the USA, but no men only.While I feel like the US is big enough you could fill the town, I wouldn't want to live there. Personally I don't see myself wanting a life where the only women I can see are on a screen or in print. I also wouldn't want to live in a place where my female children or relatives aren't welcome. Last thing I'll say is that no amount of background checks are going to stop the inevitable violence and pettiness that will happen if you put 10,000 men who aren't comfortably retired into a small town. Es… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/25 03:19 PM |
| 0 | How big is the wealth transfer gap. Statistics are needed for the wealth transferred by men to women in private lives, then later by courts.Marriage is a business contract, where generally speaking, men are unknowing/willfully ignorant of the fact that they're basically signing a piece of paper that says if they divorce, he's giving up half of everything (or more). I'd argue that doesn't apply to all men. Most well off men and women I've met protect their assets in the case of divorce and many will also reevaluate during the marriage based on career progress. IME the guys who get fleeced are generally the guys who chose a woman who … | /r/MensRights | 02/01/25 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Common Law Marriage - How Gender Roles Are Legislated Upon Men By The Feminist Movement.Can't speak for other countries, but in the US it had practical reasons. Common law marriage made it easier for couples to share things like health insurance and also helped with situations where someone died and didn't have a will. I'll also say this isn't forced marriage because of the series of conscious decisions you make to get in the situation. Should the higher earner really get upset if they decided to live as spouses with someone and then there was a split? Long and the short is don't h… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman?Men will never stop being hateful towards each other until all men enjoy and abundance of women and wealth. Like it or not, as men we are forced to compete with each other for various things. For many men that competition drives them to tear down or try to get into direct conflict with other guys. For other men, the focus becomes self improvement and/or at least not blaming other guys for what they don't have. On the plus side, many women ignore white knights and sometimes exes as well. Back in … | /r/MensRights | 24/12/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | false ACcuSATiONs aRe RarE: Duke Lacross accuser admits, she made it all up.I feel like you pulled that number out of you know where | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 01:56 PM |
| 11 | false ACcuSATiONs aRe RarE: Duke Lacross accuser admits, she made it all up.I'm not sure there is one but any judgement would likely only be symbolic because I don't think she was very well off financially. In addition, given they went to Duke and were from IIRC well off families, I'm pretty sure those guys have long since moved on with their lives | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 01:08 PM |
| 0 | This man hires a lawyer for 8 hours to represent black men lined up outside the courthouse being sent to jail for child support and keeps them out of jail. This is true men's rights activismTrue, but does that happen? Yes it does happen. It's definitely not uncommon in situations where the woman outearns the man. I've even known high earning women who have majority timeshare and still pay child support because of the income disparity. IME it's most common after divorce and when the woman was the high earner. A woman can get child support, section 8 housing, SNAP , WIC if she qualifies .easy to do . Section 8 generally has a long waiting list and men who are primary caregivers can g… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/24 06:36 PM |
| -1 | This man hires a lawyer for 8 hours to represent black men lined up outside the courthouse being sent to jail for child support and keeps them out of jail. This is true men's rights activismWe blame welfare but absent fathers happened in many communities long before welfare. It's really about culture and values. Even without welfare, you'd still have some poor families calling teen pregnancies a blessing. You'd still have women and men trying to baby trap each other. You'd also have men and women who just don't want to work or care for their kids. Even with welfare rules, I've known several people whose partner lives in the home and vacates at certain times. I've also known several… | /r/MensRights | 07/12/24 02:53 PM |
| 5 | This man hires a lawyer for 8 hours to represent black men lined up outside the courthouse being sent to jail for child support and keeps them out of jail. This is true men's rights activismMaybe but both parents need to contribute so I as the tax payer doesn't have to. Arguably more weight should be given to parents contributing their time and child support should never result in arrest or loss of license | /r/MensRights | 07/12/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?I think I get it, you want them to have more time as engineers so they're better at the technical? If you don't mind me asking what kind of engineer are you? I'm a software engineer and IME lots of software engineering and software test managers have very limited technical chops. Depending on how hands on they need to be, that can be good or bad. I will say that when you move people to senior SWE too quickly it can put some people into a sink situation, especially if they don't have someone who … | /r/MensRights | 05/12/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Guys, ‘You don’t know what she’s going through!’ Empathy shown by staff yo a young girl demolishing a store.They definitely do start out with absolutely no social conscience. Mental health problems aside, most kids don't just sit silently and do what they're told. Even kids who want to please their parents often have meltdowns if they think they can get away with it, they're hungry, they don't understand something... IMO this has nothing to do with men's rights. It's just more people grasping at straws pretending that all women get some level of empathy, compassion...that men don't. I feel like some p… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?The problem you're creating is that the people who are being denied access to (say) training or advancement are not going to be the people who have denied those things to others. I think it's important to consider alternatives instead of dealing in absolutes. For example, if a young man was turned down for a training opportunity that was exclusively for women then does that mean there are no other programs? If that is the case then who should we blame or ask to do better? In the US I've found th… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 10:52 PM |
| 0 | Birth control access is the one right we should push for.It's been years but IIRC the survey asked questions like "would you take a male birth control pill?" "would you take a male birth control pill daily?" "would you take male birth control in the form of a shot if it was only once per month" | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 10:15 PM |
| -15 | Birth control access is the one right we should push for.So you think it's women who have blocked male birth control? The reason we don't have male birth control is that most men wouldn't take it. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 03:50 PM |
| 11 | Birth control access is the one right we should push for.Sure but good luck actually having the money to prove that she stopped taking birth control or that there weren't issues with the efficacy of the pill, IUD...Instead of contracts most men should focus on wearing condoms and being careful with what ink they dip the old pen in | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Birth control access is the one right we should push for.It's funny because I read a survey once where over 90% of male respondents said they wouldn't take male birth control if it were an option. Personally I'd love to see male birth control options but it's clear the market doesn't want them. I can't even think of one that's made it past clinical trials. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?You're correct that I'm in the US where programs that exclude white men could end up with law suits. We do have grants and scholarships for certain groups but those are generally funded by private donors and therefore don't require "fairness" or "equity". We do have unions and companies that have recruiting events that target women and minorities. I've never seen one where men or non-minorities are forbidden from attending. Undoubtedly there has been preferential programs where someone may want … | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?I don't favor quotas. In a fair world, if a woman engineer applies for a senior job then she'll be evaluated on her skills and potential contributions alone. There won't be a situation where the entire panel agrees that as a married woman in her 30s they'll have to pass because she probably can't work nights and weekends. In a fair world around promotion time one worker won't get passed over because they're the only black employee at their level and therefore doesn't get invited to the out of of… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?Is your argument that you think the women who are promoted are less qualified? Are they ultimately bad managers who aren't getting results? If say they have 10 women in the grad program do all 10 become managers? The people they hire as experienced engineers are mostly male, so they still don’t get this “parity”. Many DEI programs are in their infancy. Stats show that there are far more male than female students getting STEM degrees. It's going to take a while and effort for many companies to re… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?And what companies were those? Direct quotas are generally illegal so maybe you misunderstood something? Meritocracy is so that the best get the job, not the one with the right color or gender. I think I've already explained this. DEI efforts that don't include quotas are meant to increase the applicant pool. More qualified applicants means you will likely find a better candidate. You got this wrong, you have the onus to explain how racist and sexist policies could be possibly be just, not me. I… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:36 PM |
| 3 | "all girls should learn self defence"Many "trained" male police officers fail to hit shots under stress. I'd hazard a guess that if you dead sprinted 400m and then let me punch you in the stomach, you'd struggle to write your name neatly | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:15 PM |
| 4 | "all girls should learn self defence"I knew a woman who was a victim of sexual assault and got really into personal safety after. Her advice to women wasn't that some magic class was going to teach them to defeat a larger man in hand to hand combat. Her advice was to reach a state where your first instinct is to fight back. Where you can and will hit him in ways that hurt and you'll keep trying until help comes, he gives up or you give out. I'm not sure if you've ever been in a fight or done self defense but I can say from experien… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?Does your company have quotas? Because mine does not. And I'm not familiar with any airline that has quotas. Even if they have quotas those wouldn't allow any pilots to get around needing a license. Even Biden's initiatives didn't call for outright quotas. Can you explain how the world before DEI fostered meritocracy or was just? | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?Where did you see this exclusion happen? And were they actually excluded or did they not ask to participate? My company has been bullish on DEI and with the exception of allowing mentors to choose their mentees, has not forbidden or stopped white men from participating in training, shadowing...Even our targets are just targets and have no consequences if missed nor are we told when hiring to favor certain candidates. I've spoke with a few DEI coordinators who say their company has the same polic… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?Let's imagine that someone uses statistics to identify that a certain group is underrepresented. They realize that every member of that group they've had has been a solid worker but can't figure out why so few people from that group apply or are qualified. So they create a policy where they increase outreach to that group, ask people to mentor members of that group...That makes the policy racist? It's not saying that group is better than others, it's simply trying to increase representation for … | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Financially abused men don't even know that they are financially abusedWhere I'm from we generally say guys thinking with the small head | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?HR departments don't generally get a lot of male applicants. I'll also mention that for many jobs HR couldn't historically push through a lot of women because many jobs received few women applicants. Many DEI programs aim to address the shortage in certain types of applicants. Here's some food for thought in case you've never hired for a position. A few years ago I was hiring for a junior test engineer and a senior test engineer. Roughly 30% of the junior applicants were women whereas less than … | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?While we do have laws that give people who can prove discrimination a way to "fight" back, those laws aren't always enforced and proving you were discriminated against can be an uphill battle. IMO DEI is a way some companies are dealing with discrimination being a real thing. You get better by overcoming challenges. Something people have done over millenia buddy. Again, bias is everywhere and you are not going to somehow make life "fairer". Go find another company to work at. Start your own comp… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Financially abused men don't even know that they are financially abusedWhile I don't agree with calling people low IQ I generally agree with what you're saying. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Financially abused men don't even know that they are financially abusedBecause many men's decisions are driving by their ego and moral code. As a guy who has been financially abused, I think a lot of us just got the wrong messaging with respect to being a provider, who to treat women, being generous when you have more...I'll also admit that there was a time when I was susceptible to certain lines like "well if you can't afford it then..." and "I know you have extra so can you please help me out because I really need it". I definitely used to go for the old "well if… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Financially abused men don't even know that they are financially abusedDepends on the type of financial abuse. Not much can be done if you voluntarily give your money away or if you're married, but if she's stealing money, opening accounts in your name...there can be charges. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Financially abused men don't even know that they are financially abusedI think financial abuse is unfortunately not talked about enough. What's more unfortunate is that most of what you described is often written off as a guy being a provider when in reality he's being taken advantage of. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?In many cases DEI policies are done by private companies. For public companies it's sometimes in response to governance policies put in place by the board or shareholder votes. With respect to how the government should intervene, the government should absolutely hold companies responsible for discriminatory workplaces practices, especially if the company does business with the government or takes advantage of government provided services. Deal with it. Get better. How can someone get better when… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:30 AM |
| -5 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?So it's funny how often we see complaints that DEI disadvantages white men when the previous system largely disadvantaged most others. Also, by and large white men are still over-represented in many areas where there was a strong DEI push. I agree that there has to be a middle ground. However, I believe that middle ground won't be found as long as white males rail against any DEI efforts because they prefer the old system where they received preferential treatment. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 02:11 AM |
| -30 | Walmart says "goodbye" to DEI policy. What are your thoughts on this?Almost everyone I know including me has no fucks about who you are and / or think you are. That's cool but do you make hiring decisions? There's clear evidence that people tend to hire people who look like them or share a similar background regardless of qualification. Evidence also shows that as you rise in the ranks there is less opportunity, especially for those without connections. Does that mean every company needs a DEI program? No, but companies empirically benefit from diversity so if yo… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Crazy how it's socially acceptable to openly hate white straight menI cannot think of any other demographic that it is socially acceptable or that people will turn a blind eye to openly hating. History strongly disagrees with you. There are still people alive in the US who grew up they could get killed for looking at certain people the wrong way. In the early 2000s there a was a lot of direct hatred towards muslims and people who looked arab and it was largely ignored. I'm early 40s and can tell you that not too long ago few people would intervene if a homosexua… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/24 03:01 PM |
| -2 | Anyone else notice how since Trumps election slander towards men has increased exponentially?Again, did you read the article? She's not saying to feel bad if you worked hard. She's talking about the inherent privilege that allows people who look a certain way to succeed. I'm sure that in your white working class life you've seen other white males born into more privilege work less hard than you and your parents to get to the same point or father than you. That's why she's calling out. If you're better then she's saying that you deserve your shot, credit, rewards... Even while I worked i… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/24 10:51 AM |
| -8 | Anyone else notice how since Trumps election slander towards men has increased exponentially?Out of curiosity did you read the article? Or her book? I didn't read the book but the article is the antithesis of devisiveness. If one can't have a fact based discussion of difficult issues then we're doomed. While there definitely has been vitriol aimed at ALL men, that shouldn't overshadow the need to discuss privilege or that the advancement of some people is often framed as a threat to others. We should be willing to acknowledge that some people coasted by despite being mediocre (yes white… | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 04:34 PM |
| -12 | Anyone else notice how since Trumps election slander towards men has increased exponentially?Have you considered that many of those conversations and posts aren't happening from real people? At your job or in your day to day life are you seeing those conversations happen? I hope I'm not violating sub rules but Trump largely won because men, especially white men, came out for him. He's also promised he's going to essentially run his second term like a dictator or autocrat. In order to do that he's going to need continued support from that same group, a group that has historically oppress… | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities?The guy asked a question specifically about fraternities and that's what I've answered. I didn't demonize all men's communities or organizations. Depending on how loose you want to get, it's fair to say that many fraternities (especially at undergraduate universities) are far from perfect with respect to behavior | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities?Most people benefit from having some sense of community and from organizations that provide that. What sets fraternities apart is their behavior. I'm in my 40s and while there are no examples that come to mind of the shriners, masons or bowling leagues acting out of line, every year of my life there has been a story about a fraternity getting out of pocket. When I was in college there was at least one fraternity on campus that was openly racist and over my 4 years there were several that got sus… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | 2 dates $200 and 1 kissIn the areas with the most drugs. I don't recommend you doing it but I hear tale you can get it still get it for around $20 on Kensington Ave in Philly. Again, I don't recommend you do that because it's not a safe area and the chick will be high but I can't stop you if you want to make that bad decision. FWIW if you live in a moderate sized city then you have certain hotels/motels. Those motels will have women who aren't hardcore drug users but live on the edge of life in a way where they do the… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 04:29 PM |
| 2 | 2 dates $200 and 1 kissI'm going to treat you like a man and tell you that you're the problem. You were clearly willing to invest more in some women than they are in you in you but you couldn't see the signs. There's almost no reason for your first date with any woman to be the kind of situation where you're paying over $100 for the date. Even if you're looking for casual sex an ice cream or meeting for lunch at a place that closed can tell you all you need to know. For the most part women know who they want to fuck a… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | if around 86% of men are sexually violate towards women, they why the hell do these women feel a need to point it out since 86% of the men listening won't give a fuck?why do people keep thinking am trolling today? i wonder for real what am doing to come off like that. IMO a lot of posts lately have been anti-woman in a bad way and this read like one. So I assumed you were trolling/soapboxing moreso than trying to have an actual dialog. well am glad he changed, still why the fuck was that so commen to do? you think people would realize thats wrong and not do it..... I'm north of 40 with a daughter now. When I was in HS a lot of what I did was things I saw olde… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | if around 86% of men are sexually violate towards women, they why the hell do these women feel a need to point it out since 86% of the men listening won't give a fuck?I'm trying to figure out if you're trolling or asking in good faith. Look the number is probably high because it's self reporting. That means the definition of violent towards is probably fairly loose or subjective. So mixed in with women being sexually assaulted may also be situations where a man go aggressively close or perhaps touched the woman in an unwanted way but perhaps not in a sexual way. For example, I was talking to a woman at a night club once and her friend came up and pretty much … | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Survey finds 1/16 women call their first sexual experience rape. What are your thoughts on this?I think more men, especially adult men, should talk to women about their first sexual encounters. I won't say I did girls too dirty in HS but there was definitely a time or 2 where I put getting laid above doing the right thing. I was nowhere near the worst person at my school. FWIW I know a woman who lost her virginity at 11. She and her cousin were at a carnival and opted some teenage boys. When saying you're so pretty and grown up didn't work he used threats which she as a child caved to. Tha… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 01:17 AM |
| -2 | For the first time in my life, I believe men have it worst than femalesI didn't have to look too long to know that's not women jobs. That looks like an aggregate source where the site owners has a relationship with certain employers. At best applicants through the site might get a different resume filter or pre-vetted applicants might get an interview. Employers aren't generally hiring grossly unqualified women for the stats. What many are doing is finding ways to get more women applicants hoping the number of competitive women will increase. At least at my job, st… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | "How women are bearing the brunt of the male loneliness epidemic"Maybe instead of asking a group of men, ask the women in your lives how they feel about it. One thing I hear from women with young adult sons is some feel like failures as moms. One lady I talked to has a 25 year old son who has moved back home. He won't talk to women and he won't go with her to social functions at her church or to fellowship with other young men. She's in her 60s and her ex-husband has a new family so doesn't talk much with his son. Her big fear is that when she dies her son wi… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | 4 women have died since 2021 because of the abortion ban. By the lowest estimates (CDC refuses to track cases) circumcisions kill 10 boys a year. We need to stop allowing women to control the narrative. Mens rights are human rights.Child support is still a problem in the US to the point that men are going in debt. I always feel compelled to say that while last I checked more men pay child support, women also get ran over the coals by it to. In my life I've known more women than men who had a professional license threatened, were threatened with jail...due to child support and in all cases but one they had to go into debt. The mainstream acceptance of men seeking therapy is met with hatred from feminist. I'd argue this is a… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 08:14 PM |
| 1 | 4 women have died since 2021 because of the abortion ban. By the lowest estimates (CDC refuses to track cases) circumcisions kill 10 boys a year. We need to stop allowing women to control the narrative. Mens rights are human rights.I'm not sure what rights you're referring to but IMO over the last decade there's been progress on mens issues such as alimony and child support. We're also thankfully starting to see women who prey on men and boys labeled properly in new articles. There's has also been a massive uptick in the mainstream acceptance of men seeking therapy as a form of positive self improvement. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | 4 women have died since 2021 because of the abortion ban. By the lowest estimates (CDC refuses to track cases) circumcisions kill 10 boys a year. We need to stop allowing women to control the narrative. Mens rights are human rights.It's not a zero sum game. You don't get attention for and improvement of mens issues by downplaying, demonizing...women's issues. Historically, when one group has gained more rights then others have as well. When one group has lost rights then others have as well. There's tons of bandwidth for mens and women's issues if men could just focus on broadly applicable ones that affect most men and aren't based around family health decisions. I'd really encourage those of you who are younger men to rea… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 02:26 PM |
| -13 | 4 women have died since 2021 because of the abortion ban. By the lowest estimates (CDC refuses to track cases) circumcisions kill 10 boys a year. We need to stop allowing women to control the narrative. Mens rights are human rights.I'm sorry you're getting downvoted for this because it's true. Unfortunately that seems to be the state of things around here | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Women in mens toilet.I wanted to tell a security guard but I didn’t want to cause a drama. If it made you uncomfortable or feel like you couldn't use the bathroom then you absolutely should have. There's a reason that some places don't have gender neutral bathrooms and being a woman or just putting on makeup doesn't mean they don't have to respect that. Depending on what kind of music you do they might have had no problem with being there while you used the bathroom but would have left if being there made you uncomf… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!What examples do you find of me bashing someone? I'm not looking to have bad faith conversations nor is my post history full of insults, sarcasm...If you can't or don't want to answer my question or talk about your views that's fine but don't use the excuse of accusing me of wanting to have a conversation in bad faith. There's tons of posts in my history of me not agreeing with someone but you're not going to find a lot of examples of me being disrespectful or overly dismissive of someone else's… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!Thanks pal but I can't help but notice that you ducked the question of how not voting for Trump means a man hates himself. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!You said you voted for Obama in 2008. You said you then saw the democrats become too extreme and the party left you. I assumed that meant that in 2012 you didn't vote democratic and at the time Obama would have been the "leader of the party". So I'm asking what the too extreme was that turned you away? What thoughts do you feel they're suppressing in an effort for a diverse looking photo? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!Really? In what way was Obama too extreme? He deported illegals. He was fiscally conservative enough to run around the damage done by Bush. He opted for war strategy that put less US lives at risk. The health care plan go coverage for millions of additional people. He left the economy better than when he came into office. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!How does not voting from Trump mean you hate yourself? Name three Harris policies that would have actually discriminated against you as a man? It's easy to blame others when your life doesn't turn out how you wanted but generally the only person who can and will turn it around is you. There is very little in the Trump plan that's actually going to help men in any substantive way beyond making some men feel they can speak freely from their natural position at the top of the heap. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!Apparently so do conservatives but that's politics. FWIW many of those liberals you guys are blasting have been organizing community programs that don't discriminate and will provide things like food, legal assistance...in the years to come | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!They won't provide a source because it's all bullshit. You have a group of people who are upset because their candidate lost so they're asking why. They're angry, frustrated...so many are asking how could you in addition to why. There's no widespread calls for deportions of Trump voters or any of other bullshit being said. And frankly those questions are valid. Trump and RFK literally said they'd control womens rights. In his last term Trump tried to push for denaturalization and it looks like i… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!Define communism and marxism. Stop peddling the bullshit that you're fed without taking the time to look into what it actually means. Obama wasn't a communist or a marxist and neither are Biden or Harris. Simply highlighting the income inequality caused by capitalism or wanting better social programs for workers moving the gears of capitalism doesn't make one a marxist. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!Nobody on the left demanded that latinos in swing states get deported. People justifiably asked why. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Stay strong my Latino brothers!The same thing they're saying about latino men. They're asking why because many of Trump's policies are harsh on women and Latinos. And before you give the line about how all Latinos aren't illegally here, something like 1/3 of Latino US citizens under 35 have a relative who is here illegally. It's also fair to mention that Harris didn't have much in the way of truly anti-male, women, latino...policies. There were a lot of protest votes for trump and abstentions from voting based on other polici… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Explain like I'm 5It's not always women's rights but it is generally more about the rights of a potentially marginalized group than the economy. I'm not going to call it a problem but the democrats clearly see championing rights as their primary platform. That means they're always going to look for the potential victim and put their plight (current or potential) front and center. I think apart of that approach has to do with the number of older democrats in safe seats as well as the facts that it's hard to run on… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/24 01:40 PM |
| -1 | Can anyone tell me where they get into this concept that fathers don't want children's custody?I think it was the historical trend in developed countries. Imagine in the 1920s in the US. You're a man who loses his job and maybe you don't like your wife. So you leave NY to find work in Chicago. You then never return. That story while I wouldn't say was common, wasn't uncommon throughout much of modern history. The big problem came when the government stepped in to provide support for the woman and kids. It's also fair to mention that when relationships traditionally broke up the man was ab… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/24 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Literally almost beat up for taking pictures on the sidewalk at HalloweenI disagree. Most white knights I meet do it in hopes of getting laid. There's no amount of reasonable men's rights that will get a guy who is not desirable by women instantly laid. I don't go out much anymore but many of the white knights I've encountered have been very privileged guys who were afraid to talk to women outside of their group and weren't desired by the women in their group | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Literally almost beat up for taking pictures on the sidewalk at HalloweenI feel like this has more to do with white knights than mens rights. Poor SOB probably thought looking tough would get him laid but went home alone | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 12:50 AM |
| 3 | How can Men unite to drive a constructive gender conversation forward?The first step is that men have to be kind to each other. Nobody gives a shit about men's rights because many spaces that champion men's rights can be just as toxic as the misandrist spaces. You can check my post history to see me being called names by other men just because I don't tow a certain line or have a different opinion. Men who want to be treated better need to learn to engage with other people in a respectful manner. I remember years ago reading a list of things all boys should master… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 10:26 PM |
| -13 | Drafting is just inhumaneHow exactly is it stupid? In the event of a conflict a government is going to need people to fight. Should they choose from a pool that's most capable or just from everyone? Should women register? Yes but the lack of that requirement doesn't make registration for a draft any less necessary if you want to ensure continuity of your country in the event of a conflict (obviously this excluded situations like Vietnam where there was no real threat to the US) | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 05:59 PM |
| -7 | Drafting is just inhumaneUkraine is an example of when drafting isn't appropriate. Even during the draft large numbers of young men were allowed to not be forced into uniform. How do I know? I worked with a large number of Ukrainian men under 30 who due to their job and income didn't have to join up. Many of them have gone on to immigrate to parts of Western Europe where they are paid more than even before the war. So if you're a young guy and you're seeing other young men live it up in Poland, Spain...while seeing wome… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 02:02 PM |
| -5 | Drafting is just inhumaneThere's a comedy show called Chickens that speaks to this and was hilarious. FWIW it probably didn't make much sense to conscript women during WW1. That was pretty hands on warfare that I don't think women would have fared well in. Just like with WW2 many women did provide non-military support functions. There's books that talk about the role of women during WW1 and WW2 working at factories and whatnot | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 01:49 PM |
| -28 | Drafting is just inhumaneI'd argue that the draft exists because men are seen as more valuable than women. If you want to expand your empire or protect your borders, who do you call? You call the men. Even in modern warfare where physical size is arguably less important than logistical support, you still largely rely on men even though women can fly planes, operate tanks, work communications...I've never been to war but a book I read once said that men are capable of surviving war because they have to fight or die. Wome… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How to ignore the stupid, toxic things toxic women say about men?Start by asking yourself why you care. Especially if it's the internet then it could be a woman or it could be a group of teenage boys seeing how pissed off they can make people. If it's really bothering you that much then maybe if you see one just unplug from the internet for the next hour. Or if you find that you're more triggered by content on certain sites then block those sites. Last thing I'll say is that many socially driven sites are engineered to keep you engaged. The best way to keep p… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 11:48 AM |
| 51 | Men Who Use Sex Toys Are Labeled 'Perverted Creeps,' While Women Are Seen as 'Sexually Liberated'I can't argue with this. As much as a good women can improve a man's life 100 fold I feel like statistically most men (myself included) encounter women who are a net drain. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/24 02:42 AM |
| 70 | Men Who Use Sex Toys Are Labeled 'Perverted Creeps,' While Women Are Seen as 'Sexually Liberated'Female sex toys are often seen as a necessity as many women say most men can't get them there. So they're not meant to replace men as much as they're meant to "help". Sex toys marketed towards straight men are straight up made to replace women. Who needs to argue with the wife about why she won't blow you after you did all the chores, paid all the bills and bought her flowers when you can just pull out the old stroker or the anatomically correct doll. So in other words I think some women see mal… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Don't ask for relationship advice on RedditReddit's an echo chamber. The only thing that separates it from talking to friends is that friends will echo your views 99% of the time and with reddit that percent goes way down if you're not on specific subs. Honestly AITAH is one of the worst subs for actual advice because you're not required to only give advice on things you know/understand. The sorting is based on popularity which often marginalizes people who want to give hopefully helpful advice in favor of people who parrot popular talki… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/24 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so focused on controlling their boyfriends free time?Last I heard (well over a decade ago) they'd gotten married and moved into a house her dad got them. I think he also went to work at one of the dad's restaurants. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/24 01:12 AM |
| 45 | Why are women so focused on controlling their boyfriends free time?I went to college with a Vietnamese guy and his girlfriend was as you described. More so than caring about him being a broke ass (her family was rich) she was afraid he'd cheat. So to keep him from cheating she convinced him that all white girls are whores, girls who smoke are whores, don't dance with girls at clubs...and she gave him money for hobbies, made him read books her dads business friends recommended... She was also very guarded with who he was allowed to spend time with. For example, … | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernIf no disease is present, then cutting off a portion of a healthy penis does nothing but inflict an injury to the organ. I never said it's for correction, it's for hygiene. Without the foreskin babies and older men are easier to keep clean and avoid infections in that area. Look talk to some pediatricians and talk to some people who work in elder care. If possible without judgement ask for their opinions or resources you can check up on to make a decision. The circumcision rate is declining for … | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 11:14 AM |
| -2 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernWhat are you basing that on? I have several relatives in healthcare including a couple in pediatrics. The overwhelming majority of patients they see who have their sons circumcised are secular. Further there's literature to support the hygenic benefits of male circumcision while none exists for female circumcision. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 09:13 PM |
| -4 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernThere's no law for or against it, it's a decision up to your parents and will largely be based on family tradition. And no, that's not a fair comparison that you're making. I'd argue that you don't understand the role of parenting. Allowing a parent to make the choice to circumcise boys for reasons of hygiene (far more common than religion) is far different from forcing a woman to carry a kid to term or cutting a woman's genitals just because. As a kid your parents make tons of choices for you t… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 06:58 PM |
| -2 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernTons of young men from both of those countries fled. Out of all of my Ukrainian and Russian coworkers the most consistent ones to join on either side were over the age of 40 and they volunteered. I really don't understand the obsession most people who want to champion mens rights have with the draft and circumcision. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 06:52 PM |
| -2 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernIt does matter how long it's been because the draft as a major inequality is generally brought up by men who are too young to have been drafted. And I didn't say women cannot or should not serve in combat roles. Were it up to me everyone would have to sign up for the draft. My point is there's much larger issues with respect to mens rights than the possibility of being drafted and circumcision | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 06:48 PM |
| -1 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernJust so you responses like yours are why most people don't give a shit about mens rights. If two men can't even have a civil conversation on something they disagree about then why should women or "others" want to engage with men about mens rights? | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernThe goal of each president is to make sure the people they choose align with their ideology. Was it ok when Biden chose judges who aligned with his ideology? But why is that reasonable? The president is for the whole country and not just the people who share their beliefs. Further the supreme court gets lifetime appointments so it's not like selecting an agency head the next person can replace. Because of that IMO we need a better standard that includes justices who aren't tied to ideology. If m… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernYou know what I mean. The goal of the people making the picks for him is to fill the court with justices aligned to their ideology. Doesn't matter what you call it, it's wrong and dangerous. There was no proof I'm aware of that he gave back the salary. Even if he did, do you not think he benefited from making the secret service book rooms at his hotels? Do you not think being president helped with the brand deals he had while in office? Personally I'd gladly hand back 250k or whatever the presid… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 02:18 PM |
| 68 | A disturbing trend in my social circle:Historically that's how it's always been. The saying women marry up didn't come from nowhere. Marrying just for love or romance is a concept that was once largely the domain of the poor who couldn't marry up. Most other women married in a way that improved their social or financial status and most men married the woman they could get or that they considered the hot chick. To paraphrase a woman I knew, it's better to fall out of love or never be in love than end up homeless. And to paraphrase the… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernHe definitely packed the court with conservatives whose values are based on fundamental religious views. He's also committed that he'll choose a similar justice if given the chance. He enriched himself financially and there's clear evidence of that. We also got a tax plan that for the middle class was largely smoke. Which accusations are things he didn't do? | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls think they're better than boys everything?I think what we're seeing is an overcorrection. I was born in the 80s and can tell you that most young girls didn't get STEM opportunities. They were also treated far differently than boys. For example, ADHD diagnosis in girls was often not done and they were called chatty or unfocussed. I don't know many educators who call girls falling behind boys gender discrimination or vice versa. But girls are getting better because they're given more opportunities and some are remaining focused as they ge… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls think they're better than boys everything?Actually most daughters are taught to work hard. What happens is that the world conditions them to expect things for free. This often falls in deaf ears in these kinds of forums but the average girl will be given something by a boy before age 7. She will experience sexual attention as young as age 10 and often that sexual attention will have form of quid pro quo added to it. By 13 most girls know they can get guys to give them stuff and do things for them in exchange for little more than attenti… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernMaybe you should ask them some whys. It's ironic to hear someone call Harris shallow when she's against Trump whose rallies have devolved into him swaying to music. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernUnless you're super conservative and religious then the idea that the supreme court could be pretty much all conservative religious zealots and justices willing to take bribes should scare the shit out of you. If you're struggling financially, seeing how Trump mismanaged the economy he inherited from Obama should scare you. If you're struggling or treading water then the idea of more trickle down should make you wonder why you're paying taxes. It's easy to see how Trump could be worse because we… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 12:50 PM |
| 0 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernWhat do you mean she has no platform? She's largely running on being a stopgap against an outright abortion ban, protecting the supreme court from becoming all conservative and fiscal policy that benefits the middle class. You're right though...many votes for her will be against Trump but that's modern life. Sadly since Obama it's been about choosing the person who you think will do the least amount of damage if you don't want to just not vote | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 12:48 PM |
| -36 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernWhen was the last time we had a draft? When you talk to men in combat roles, how many actually want women in those roles? On the subject of circumcision, have you ever looked into why female circumcision is banned? | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 12:44 PM |
| 10 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernI'm pretty sure you got that backwards. Roe v Wade was never codified because neither party wanted to be the one to end or fully codify abortion. Between the tea party, a packed SCOTUS filled with conservatives and a push to court evangelicals, the GOP caused the current election's focus on abortion. Those on the right went straight nuclear at a time when many on the left were fairly centrist. I can't believe people call Obama super liberal with a straight face | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 12:43 PM |
| -2 | Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvernCome on man and you think Trump, Vance or any other politician is more in touch? And let's also be fair, she answered the question in the scope of abortion bans. Even the difficulty many men face getting a vasectomy comes down to doctor preference and not legal hurdles. You also mentioned circumcision. There's no law that requires it. Unlike abortion, it's left to the families and medical professionals. FYI most people don't give a shit about male circumcision because not only is the decision le… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 12:40 PM |
| 7 | Why is that in a relationship, going 50/50 (splitting bills, chores and work) is considered bad or 'feminine'?Have you ever noticed that when women and to a lesser degree men, question a man's manlyness it's to belittle him for not sacrificing himself for them or for independent thought? The reality is that social media is driven by people trying to live or show a lifestyle they can't afford. While you do you have guys on social media showing expensive things, I feel like it's largely women and those women largely are doing it on some guy's dime. As the number of people struggling financially increase s… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Female entitlement in club/drinking sceneThis has never not been a thing. Throughout modern society men have paid to court women. I'd say the biggest shift I've seen over the past decade or so is the number of women willing to take from Steve and then go bang Stephan who won't even buy them McDonalds. At least back in the day most women gave it up before expecting certain things unless you were a straight sucker | /r/MensRights | 04/10/24 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Sister is falsely accusing meI'm not a lawyer but I don't think it works that way. If someone accuses you of a pattern of behavior and you can provide you didn't do it once then they're not defaming you. Depending on the circumstances you recorded them under you might also have some extra questions to answer | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Sister is falsely accusing meIn the OPs case it was an accusation of a pattern of behavior. Sure if someone says Nemechow touched my junk yesterday at 9pm and you have a video showing you didn't then the person is clearly a liar. But what if they say he's been doing it pretty regularly for the last year? Are you really going to have video of every interaction? | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 05:12 PM |
| 0 | what are some things women can get away with but men can't?I think you should rephrase it to what can the average woman do that the average man can't. Looking through the examples so far I've seen attractive, athletic, wealthy and popular men get away with all of it. The only fairly universal that women get away with is how they're treated in the justice system and media. I'm frequently still appauled by how reluctant the media is to call women rapists, predators, pedophiles...when they're caught with students. Even though an accused man may be called a… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I asked a radical feminist about whether she had ever been SA'd to try and better the conversation, sh starting DM'ing me and did this:I'm really sorry that happened to you. To be clear I'm not saying people shouldn't be believed or should feel unsafe talking about what happened. What I'm saying and stand by is that asking a stranger if they've been sexually assaulted is going to trigger a lot of people in a less than positive way. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Sister is falsely accusing meThe reputational damage is already done if people believe her. All a camera proves is that you didn't do it during the times you filmed. Also meeting in private with a camera still leaves the possibility that you didn't film certain things or orchestrated the moment to capture what you wanted. I'm NAL but when the whole me too thing started I listed to videos several lawyers made. One said never meet with your accuser or attempt to get them to walk back their statement on camera. Obviously there… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 03:09 PM |
| 39 | Sister is falsely accusing meNo do not do this. With this kind of accusation no good can come from being in private with the accuser. If I were OP I'd sit down the the parents and my sister. I'd then let her know that I really wished we had a better relationship and that she thought more of me than she clearly does. I'd then let her know that until she's ready to apologize and sees me for who I am we're going to be low to no contact. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 03:39 AM |
| -15 | I asked a radical feminist about whether she had ever been SA'd to try and better the conversation, sh starting DM'ing me and did this:Personally I think it's an inappropriate question to ask a stranger especially in a contentious environment. Even if you are the victim of assault, on the internet she has no reason to believe you. This is one of those situations where you probably weren't going to get what you hoped for. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How can men learn not to need women?I think a hugely funny thing about a lot of these debates from men and women is that we're all here because an man and woman found and needed each other. Look men already don't need women. Some men want women for sex, family, comfort...but none of us need women unless we want to reproduce. FWIW I'm in my 40s and have met several men who haven't had a romantic relationship in their adult life. Most seemed pretty content or happy in life. Some weren't complete social rejects either. Personally I'd… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 04:28 PM |
| -20 | I asked a radical feminist about whether she had ever been SA'd to try and better the conversation, sh starting DM'ing me and did this:Just so I'm clear you got these after you asked her if she'd be SAd? You also didn't include how you said it to her? This is definitely call the authorities or your parents if you're really 13 territory but it's never going to help a conversation when you ask a man or women you don't know if they've ever been SAd before. Many women these days, especially depending on the context, will assume you're threatening them. And some men might assume you're challenging them | /r/MensRights | 27/09/24 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Is Feminism beneficial for women? Thoughts?I guess it depends on how you define feminism. If you restrict it to attempting to achieve gender equality then yes it's a net positive for some women. Women have more financial opportunities, can do things without men...because of advances in equality for women. However, that equality hasn't happened for all women equally. While high educated and career driving women benefited greatly, some women have suffered under newer expectations for women. So many women now are considered failures if they… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/24 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Young women are starting to leave men behindNo, a man who allows himself to be taken advantage of is weak. A man who is willing to trade all or most of his income, youth, vitality...for the possibility of maybe having regular sex is weak. A man who convinces himself that he needs to pay all the bills and do x, y, z to be a "real man" is weak. It's not shaming others for caring, it's calling some people out for allowing themselves to be taken advantage of. There is no female breadwinners, where you get this? What do you do for a living? Ma… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/24 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Young women are starting to leave men behindMan money it's family money, woman money it's her money. I'd say that's the result of weak men. The majority of people I've known who have working wives and successful marriage pool the majority of earnings and both get their own fun money. Any guy who allows his wife to keep all of her earnings so he can feel like a man is weak and you can't blame a woman for taking advantage of a weak man. The reality is that men need to choose women who want to be a family unit regardless of who the top bread… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 04:17 PM |
| -6 | Young women are starting to leave men behindMaybe there is many older white men, because they worked harder than women in their generation? There's empirical evidence showing the in the boomer generation there was heavy discrimination and not necessarily that men worked harder or were better. Maybe you need to start asking if women in their generation was willing to work as much as them, or they prefer to be stay at home mum, because moat of the time if men is up at least one women benefit from it, but it's not the true other way around H… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 11:04 AM |
| 10 | Young women are starting to leave men behindWhat have you personally witnessed? I think lots of women and men love to blame other people when the truth is they often didn't work hard enough or someone else was just better. That said, I've definitely seen women, single men above a certain age, single parents, non whites...get discriminated against and passed over. Hell I work in tech and over the past 10ish years I've started to see some of my white co-workers experiencing discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 11:40 PM |
| -62 | Young women are starting to leave men behindI think lots of men overestimate the advantages that women have especially for top positions. I work for a pretty large company and it's still largely dominated by older white males. When you look at the numbers most of the female quotas tend to be early and sometimes mid career. Even when they try late career programs for women, they generally can't fill the slots because those women are few in number so have options. I also don't think public assistance has anything to do with the article. For… | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 11:34 PM |
| 10 | Young women are starting to leave men behindI think it depends on the woman and the degree. It's also fair to mention that for women of a certain economic level, college was where they met their husband so the debt was worth it because he'd be paying. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 11:30 PM |
| 42 | Young women are starting to leave men behindI think deep down most men and women want companionship and some form of a family. For many women, success makes that harder. Not only does success tend in increase their standards but they also at some point have to decide between success and a family. I've met several women who are career driven and successful but have no kids and/or a string of infidelity. Ultimately too many women are finding themselves taking on the role of man in their lives. When they date boys they become tired of playin… | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 11:29 PM |
| -1 | Despite the stereotype that men cheat, more, study finds women are more likely to cheatSlut shaming and dire dating/marriage prospects for divorced women and single mothers has always been a thing. To say women have never been held accountable for their actions ignores that a large amount of women historically didn't get away with things many women today do. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/24 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Despite the stereotype that men cheat, more, study finds women are more likely to cheatEven before paternity tests were a thing, getting pregnant by the more desirable guy was very uncommon. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 04:24 PM |
| -12 | Despite the stereotype that men cheat, more, study finds women are more likely to cheatI think society does hold women accountable it's just the ways we do it matter less and less. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Despite the stereotype that men cheat, more, study finds women are more likely to cheatLooks like a lot of self reported data but it stands to reason that women would cheat more because they have far more opportunities to cheat. Arguably women also stand to lose less if caught cheating. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 04:21 PM |
| 51 | why is their currently an epidemic of women raping underage boys and dogs ?It's not a new thing. I think what's going on is that the majority of people no longer see a male child as some kind of stud because he's taken advantage of by an older woman or would consider this the woman making a man out of the boy. I'm an 80s kid and can tell you that growing up people were more concerned about priests and homosexuals raping boys than women even though it happened. In fairness modern technology has also helped. It seems like in a lot of these cases we're seeing parents find… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Woman receives $1200 child support on a 50/50 custody from her ex husband… she also complains that it’s not a fair amount.That's why we need politicians who are willing to take income out of the equation and put caps on child support | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Woman receives $1200 child support on a 50/50 custody from her ex husband… she also complains that it’s not a fair amount.Does she pay the out of pocket medical expenses? My kid's mom carries our kid but largely because she has other kids and with her plan it wasn't any extra. I pay a lot of the out of pocket expenses | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 11:48 AM |
| 5 | Woman receives $1200 child support on a 50/50 custody from her ex husband… she also complains that it’s not a fair amount.The answer isn't hard. First we have to stop calculating child support based on income and a generic formula. Child support should come down to nothing more than the needs of the child. So if a child needs school clothes then we both pay half or one chooses to buy more. All children need toiletries so we each are required to contribute a certain amount to a joint and auditable account that is used only for the child's needs. Children also want toys and extracurricular so again we both contribute… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 11:47 AM |
| -3 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceWhile I think the child support system is terribly broken, I don't agree with you on this one. As a man you know the risks associated with dealing with certain women. At most I'd say we need a legal framework that allows a woman and man to agree that neither wants kids. If they have that signed and one wants to move forward with the pregnancy then there should be a one time reasonable payout. FWIW I feel like the main focus is on women because as much as we hear about guys like Tyrese paying 20k… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 12:29 PM |
| 7 | Punched by a womanWhy the double standard? Because there's always some white knight willing to stand up for the woman. This emboldens some women who think they can do whatever and lean on a guy to fight their battle. Most of those white knights tend to be guys who quietly hope the woman is going to sleep with them. Unfortunately lots of men are willing to put the potential of getting laid above doing the right thing. Devil's advocate...there's also the possibility that people didn't see her hit you and just heard… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/24 09:39 PM |
| 27 | We have a generation of men who don't know what they are doing wrong.Realistically men have to understand what the problem is. If they don't then they're just deluded. Like it or not women have more control and power than ever in US history. That control and power nullifies the impact of the majority of men who frankly have always been at or below average. That's not to say most women deserve better than average but there's less need for either side to meet in the middle. Last thing I'll say is that we have a younger generation of men who watched my generation of… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | American wife, 44, dies after 'extreme sex' as cops arrest her husband, 50, claiming 'risky practises' during their vacation in Spain.I don't agree with considering this a crime against women unless the guy has some pattern we don't know about. Ironically, I think a lot of consensual sexual violence outside of porn is done against men. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | American wife, 44, dies after 'extreme sex' as cops arrest her husband, 50, claiming 'risky practises' during their vacation in Spain.It does make homicide which is just killing someone regardless of the circumstances. I have no idea how Spain's legal system works but in the US every homicide charge isn't murder. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | American wife, 44, dies after 'extreme sex' as cops arrest her husband, 50, claiming 'risky practises' during their vacation in Spain.I can't say they'd be convicted but in the US there's a chance you'd catch similar charges if your spouse died depending on your county. I feel like if a husband dies from being choked and wearing stocking during rough sex in the bible belt she's going to catch a charge and whole lot of public shame. Unless they're rich or politicians then cause of death will be a heart attack while he was working | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Society (and men) have long since deemed that expecting a woman to fit the “housewife” role in a relationship is unacceptable and sexist, but for some reason women still hold it over us?women ironically are the ones that still assume that men want women to fill the housewife role even when it’s not the case anymore and hasn’t been for a long time, and they hold that to use against us Why don't you think this is the case? Most people I know in healthy relationships who can have one stay at home parent, especially when the kids are young, do it. Often the working parent helps a bit more with traditional roles like cooking certain nights, driving kids to sports...but the majority … | /r/MensRights | 31/03/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Men in relationships are innately more attractive?It's funny that you ask if there are studies. There's books on the topic. Moving away from studies done by actual researchers there's tons of more anecdotal books. I don't advocate you going too far down the rabbit hole, but pre-selection and having women around was one of the fundamental principals of pick up artists from 10ish years ago. I like to hope the trend stopped but for a bit there were even professional wing women who'd go to clubs with guys, talk them up to other women, sometimes pre… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit menSure dating on average for men is rougher than women because more often than not we are doing the pursuing. In addition, more often than not, many men make the mistake of pursuing the same kinds of women. I stand by my experience as an average guy of being able to improve my odds by targeting certain women or going to certain places. I know that's not doable for everyone but I haven't met a lot of guys who haven't found more success through better calibration. FWIW I think dating site data is pr… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit menThat's fair but historically hasn't always been the case. Historically many women have had sex out of necessity and/or obligation more so than actual joy or wanting to make their partner happy. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Dating culture is entirely one-sided and doesn’t benefit menI don't agree with this. While the average man has to put in more effort than the below average woman, he does gain benefits. The largest benefit is sex. If you have an active dating life and are calibrated to the right partners then you will be able to have sex. Probably not as often as you want but it will happen. Another potential benefit is companionship, which may or may not be bad. To touch on the one sided nature, it all depends on who you are as a man and what kind of women you go for. U… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodThat's messed up man. That other kid didn't ask to be born so why punish them? I'm not saying that you need to talk your current partner into raising the kid as their own but many kids whose parents clearly hate or don't want them have pretty negative outcomes. The sad part is I’m not exactly wealthy This is going to get me downvoted but in my experience, the logic for many women is that you don't have to be wealthy you only need the perception of it or something they want to get trapped. I knew… | /r/MensRights | 16/03/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodOh yes you do see that and the initial assumption is almost always infidelity. As to your last point, women are generally the default parent. So unless a woman opts for adoption or hands the kid off informally, she'll be the parent. Anecdotally, I've met women who were treated as badly by the court system as men, especially when they were the high earner in the relationship | /r/MensRights | 16/03/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodHonestly I'd be all about more social programs and entitlements if they were more equally available and had certain limitations. This is going to sound terrible but to this day I don't get why free breakfast and lunch weren't expanded instead of the social programs that incentivize being a single parent (cough mother). | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodSure but a woman being on the pill or having an IUD doesn't mean a man shouldn't wear a condom. Especially if you don't know her very well, you're taking on a huge risk. Correct that...you're choosing to take on a huge risk. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodNothing is 100% short of not being able to have kids. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 01:33 PM |
| 11 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodAt least flush it in the toilet or maybe spray the inside with hand sanitizer or rubbing alcohol. I'm old enough to have heard of more than one woman who retrieved a condom from the trash and got pregnant | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 01:31 PM |
| 49 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodAlso be careful who you sleep with, especially if the woman is not your socio-economic equal of you're a relatively high value guy. Like it or not a good man is an average woman's meal ticket. A good man is also the quickest way for a single mom to give her kids a better life. You really have to protect yourself by making better choices. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 01:29 PM |
| 7 | Consent to sex does not mean consent to parenthoodI feel for you but I'm not sure I can support this. AFAIK there are already laws that cover things like stealthing, poking holes in condoms, coercive sex...and make them sexual assault. It doesn't abdicate one of parental responsibilities and could cover more though. IMO when you have sex you consent to being a parent because you realize it's a possibility. If it's one you don't want then women can take birth control and men can get a vasectomy. If anything we should have a law that forbids doct… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How is it still even legal (or socially acceptable) to have "women only" groups for things like career or investment resources?Quiet as kept, especially when they're at a company, those women's only groups have to let you in. I think if they receive any government funding they also have to let you in too. They simply rely on you feeling ashamed for attending to keep you away. For you white students the same goes for NSBE and SPHE. Even if you're not black or hispanic they have to let you join and they can't stop you from attending the conferences. When I was in college a white kid joined NSBE and got a good internship b… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Vivek Ramaswamy wants to "codify sexual responsibility for men into the law" and make them fully financially responsible for the child AND the motherCareful who you vote for because some people have some extreme values. I also notice he didn't say anything about if she has other kids or what full responsibility means beyond dollars. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 14 | Why do some women act like all men are terrible people except for their boyfriends and husbands?For the same reason some people act like all black males are bad except for that guy they know from work who always smiles and is polite. The reality is that most of us suck at seeing people we don't know as individuals instead of part of a group. Those women see bad things done by SOME men and attribute it to all men. They see the men they know as the exceptions because those guys would never act that way. The other thing that happens is people love bitching about how bad their lives are and pe… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I feel like men today are expected to live up to a stereotype while other genders can express themselves freelyI have been called a faggot for much of my life by straight women. I'm sorry you experienced that. In my experience I've found that men who want to act a certain way now have more freedom than ever to do it. I'd even argue that men who choose to act feminine can do it and get away with it more than women who act masculine. There's plenty of women who want a man who gets manicures, dresses a certain way, is happy getting a facial, goes to the barbershop weekly, cleans...but most men won't want th… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | (repost) "If men were the ones pregnant we could get abortions at a vending machine" is dumbHonestly I don't disagree with women on that one. Objectively the pink tax is real. The treatment of drugs like viagra vs birth control is night and day. I have zero doubt that if men could get pregnant there'd be an easier way to get abortions if for no other reason than some politician not wanting his wife to know the intern had knocked him up. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 01:11 AM |
| 0 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceCurrently child support is largely based on two factors: overnights and income. It's a terrible system where if either person is making substantially more they will pay child support even if they have the majority of overnights. I knew someone who was a doctor but had a kid with a bum. She had majority time share (he did 1 weekend/month, 1 week over the summer and the day after xmas). Despite majority timeshare the math worked out where she owed him child support. Fortunately her lawyer was well… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceBut what if there’s a substantial economic imbalance between the two households? That's bound to happen but doesn't mean that you need to drag dad down to elevate mom. It means that if mom wants to provide the same standard, she needs to figure out a way to make more or hope that dad is the kind of man who will voluntarily give more in order to give kid a better life in both places. In most cases the kid will favour going to dad’s, and that’s where it’s unfair. The only fair thing about life is … | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceI live in NC and the number of unmarried couples living together was increasing last I checked. There are also more companies now that offer what were once spousal benefits to a partner who lives with you. As far as I know in my state you can't get alimony if you weren't married but there is some other fuckery if you live with a partner. For example, in my state it's easy to evict your partner but if they have kids under 18 you have to jump through more hoops to get the kids out | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceI'm sure there's more nuance than that. I'm actually surprised we don't' see that more in the US considering how many people live with a partner and all the common law benefits people get. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:56 PM |
| -1 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceAnd there in lies the rub. There is no such thing as equal upbringing because everyone is different. A better system would be coming up with reasonable expenses and then allowing parents to contribute more based on their values. Let's say I made 500k/year and was ordered to pay 1200/month in child support to a woman making 60k. I'd happily spend more than 1200 on my kid because I want them to have a good childhood. But only having to pay 1200 gives me the freedom to determine what that more is b… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceIn theory I agree. For normal working people you'd be right for the most part. It seems that with many of these celebrity and high income cases, the person left paying doesn't actually want to be the full time parent. Chances are that with his schedule and lifestyle he doesn't want the kid around all the time. Also, from a best interest of the child point of view if both parents will hire nannies, cooks...you choose physical custody to go to the parent who can be the most present and whose lifes… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceThat's pretty rude. Back in her day she was a stunner and for a woman her age, she's still good looking. Yeah I'm sure that with his wealth and status he could bang 20 year old groupies but some men don't want that. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fiancePersonally I'm in favor of not pegging child support to income but it's important to understand why. The system knows that the average person isn't well off. The system also doesn't want millions of people coming face to face with just how much they don't have. We know that estimates for the cost of raising a child are higher than most people can afford. Breaking child support down to income allows the system to not be stuck in a situation where mom + dad is less than what the state says is nece… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceI don't keep up with celebrity bs but from what I read on twitter they were engaged and he cheated. Chances are they were seeing each other for a while and this wasn't some random slip up. So yeah I think the amount is egregious but so is his salary for coaching a sports team. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceThere was a case where the dad found out the child support wasn't all going to the kid because mom was asking for more. In court mom was forced to admit to using some of the money for things like car payment, getting her nails done, clothes for work...The judge ruled she was in the right because although the money wasn't being spent on the child, she had spent her money on the child so had the right to use the child support for herself. Really the system is just broken but nobody writes their me… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Actress Nia Long to get $32,500 per month in child support from NBA coach ex-fianceThis is going to sound shitty but I think that often when men date or marry down the perception is that by turning her into a kept woman you're stifling her ability to have a career and make her own way. When a guy opts to be kept, it's seen as he had no ability to make his own way to be stolen. Of course it's complete bullshit though | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 03:38 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about "nice guys" ?It depends on the woman but in my experience, nice guy is often code for a guy I can control. It's the guy who won't cheat and will feel thankful to be with her because she's the prize not him. It's the "beta" provider who will work tirelessly to get her what she wants. As you said, nice isn't kind. There's a massive difference between woman who want a nice guy vs a guy who is kind or treats them with respect and dignity. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Wife had an affair and disappeared, a substantial number of people asking what I did to cause her to do this. Why don't women receive this response when their spouse has an affair on them?My guess is that you're getting questions because you're the only one around to ask. FWIW blaming the person cheated on or assuming they caused it is pretty normal. I knew a guy who cheated on his wife for years and eventually got caught when he stopped paying informal child support to the two side chicks who got pregnant. His wife never got pregnant and as a doctor worked a lot. Even her own mother accused her of being responsible because "if she'd have given him babies and focused on being a w… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Does Short Height is considered as a men's issue?I haven't been in years but I used to sometimes go to pick up soccer games on weekends. The guys generally chosen first were around 5'6, wirery, fast and never got tired. None would play pro but they were running circles around the rest of us, including the taller guys. With respect to leadership on the job, I've seen short guys do well. Yes there are some people who gravitate to the taller guys but there are others who want someone who can do the work and not just look a certain way. I would sa… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 11:15 PM |
| 12 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?Because everytime i comment asking those questions, i get alot of angry comments(from both men and women) and downvoted to death. You get a lot of the hate because of cultural things. Even Ukrainian men I know who ducked fighting because "they work" don't think women should be allowed to fight. The reality is that while things were really bad at the beginning, some of the fighting has been pushed back so some people in the country have less fear of cities being bombed again. IIRC must of what th… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't.Next time instead of AFAIK how about I list off links to articles I've read. The reality is that I wasn't there nor have I followed the case super closely. My knowledge comes only from reading articles, summaries of the trial and briefly watching the video presented at trial. She chased after him and assaulted him. He fought back. Even IF the injuries you mentioned are real (which they aren't) then he is still in the right. Unless you're saying men should just put up with being assaulted now? Th… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Scientists are on the verge of a male birth-control pill. Will men take it?I guess immense is subjective but I'm circumcised too and have found that certain condoms feel better than others so maybe try different brands. FWIW females I know say they get the condom lines from guys both circumcised and not. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 02:50 AM |
| -6 | Why isn't it deemed predatory when an older woman seduces or dates a much younger woman?Since when has it not been seen as predatory? Every guy I've ever known who dated a woman more than 10 years older than him who had a sister or close female friends definitely heard about it. We've also been seeing women get prosecuted for years for raping young boys who were their students. Sadly the language is too soft but they rarely get a pass for it. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 07:16 PM |
| -3 | Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't.He didn't walk away. He RAN away when the argument started. How do you run away with someone holding onto you ? You're saying it's a good thing for men if we're not allowed to push people's hands off of us? I'm NAL but my understanding is that's not why he was found guilty on the charges he was. He was found guilty for what happened when she grabbed his phone. Him trying to get it back is what resulted in the injury to her finger and he may or may not have struck her. It doesn't matter if I or a… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Scientists are on the verge of a male birth-control pill. Will men take it?So you're really trying to argue that male circumcisions causes so much lack of sensation that a man wouldn't be able to nut and/or stay hard with a condom? I'm guessing you have scientific studies to back that up? | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't.No, it shows you're damned if you make bad choices, especially if you're a high profile man of a certain cut. Look the reality is that he fucked up. Unfortunately our law is written in a very nuanced way that is open for a lot of interpretation. It's pretty clear that he unintentionally caused harm and unfortunately there's a law that covers that situation (if my non lawyer brain is understanding the verdict correctly). If anything, this is proof that the average man should do the smart thing an… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't.AFAIK when the cops arrived her finger was broken and I believe she was cut behind the ear. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Scientists are on the verge of a male birth-control pill. Will men take it?I'd say yes. There are still tons of people in relationships that this could help. Also, given the types of female birth control and the impact some have, it'd be great to give couples another option. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 02:30 PM |
| -1 | Scientists are on the verge of a male birth-control pill. Will men take it?You don't really lose a significant amount of sensation. In addition there are tons of condom brands and makes. If you're wearing the durex they hand out at the health clinic then yeah it sucks and doesn't feel as good but there are some types of condoms that are close enough. Beyond that you can do other things to increase sensation like put a warming lubricant in the tip of the condom. Guys who say I can't nut or feel anything with a condom are full of shit and the only people dumber are the w… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Is it OK to be sexually attracted to a female body?I've always thought it was natural to experience physical attraction when I see an attractive woman, but now it seems like there may be something unnatural and even harmful about it. It is 100% natural and normal. Even as a straight male it's normal to feel intimidated by or maybe physically attracted to some other guys. I'd even argue that as a male it's natural to see an attractive feel male and think thoughts that go beyond she has a nice ass as long as you don't act on it in a criminal or an… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Imagine the uproar if this was done to women.Except the powerful classes exploit men for fighting. Because they generally opt to not allow women to fight in the same way historically women have been excluded from parts of the workforce. Every group with military power always directs their bullshit at men. This is false. While some opt to only see men of fighting age as a threat, when the cameras aren't rolling, you'll find atrocities committed against men, women and children. Look I get this is a men's rights sub but the guy asked if this … | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 02:41 PM |
| -10 | Imagine the uproar if this was done to women.Generally when women are rounded up like this they're being taken to be sold into slavery, raped...I remember reading an article about Kurdish women fighters who straight up said they'd eat a bullet or dig their own throats out before capture by Isis because it meant endless rape and torture. I'd imagine that if Hamas had a lot of female fighters, Israel would do the same to them though | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Imagine the uproar if this was done to women.Don't be fooled...Lots of the men didn't have to fight or were able to leave. Even within the country every male of fighting age isn't fighting and some are still working office jobs for foreign employers. I'm not going to doxx myself nor do I think it was wrong but I knew a few Ukrainian males under 40 but over 18 who aren't just not fighting but have taken vacations this year. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Imagine the uproar if this was done to women.Honestly I think the uproar would be because of assumptions that doing it to women would be sexual in nature not because it's only wrong when done to women. While I'm sure there's a degree of sexual humiliation being done, this is likely an attempt to limit their ability to flee. Even if the same were done to women IIRC women are more likely to be victims of SA in situations like this than men. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Sons bio mother is ruining our livesWhy is there nothing I can do to protect myself, my family?! This is insane. You need a better lawyer. If she's excessively filing motions and losing, the judge/magistrate can stipulate that she pay your legal fees. In those cases she owes your lawyer directly and not you. Failure to pay results in contempt of court and going to jail. Unless she has money, most people stop after the first time they have to pay the other person's lawyer. You should also consider a restraining order against her. A… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/23 07:25 PM |
| 2 | How is it possible there is such a divide in regards to acknowledging men are oppressed?For the same reason you'll hardly meet anyone who'll say culturally pretty women are oppressed. Most of us measure how good or bad someone else has it based on what we have. When you look around at who's likely to be wealthy, have a position of power...it's generally going to be a man. Most people also live in a world of poor generalizations so they unfortunately make the jump from those men are wealthy and powerful due to oppressing others so men as a group are the oppressors | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 02:19 PM |
| -2 | Men should not be forced to pay for child support if women have the right to an abortionThat's only fair to the man though and arguably it screws over any society that doesn't have the proverbial village or a strong safety net. I feel like a big question should either potential parent have the right to terminate rights with no financial cost. In my personal opinion, no. If you don't want to parent that's cool but you have to pay. What goes along with that is women needing to inform a potential father of the impending abortion though. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Men should not be forced to pay for child support if women have the right to an abortionI have been thinking about this on and off for a while. Women have the right to opt out of parenthood, but men do not which is incredibly unfair and counts as another right women have that men do not (reproductive rights) I'd rephrase that as women have the right to opt out of the financial and social aspects of parenthood via abortion. The legal system really only allows men to opt out socially as you will always be required to pay unless another person adopts the kid or the mom and state don't… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Men should not be forced to pay for child support if women have the right to an abortionI'm not sure why you were downvoted. IIRC the person (a lady I think) who started the child support system as we know it listed the government needing to be the provider of last resort as a primary reason. If guys could just nope out of child support and being a parent, there would be a lot more people relying on the system. Don't get me wrong I'd love a strong safety net but we don't have one. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 02:15 AM |
| -3 | Men should not be forced to pay for child support if women have the right to an abortionMy counter argument to this is that I shouldn't have to pay because some other guy doesn't want to. The only fair thing about life is that it's unfair to all of us. Yes a woman can decide to keep the kid and make you pay but you didn't have to put your dick in that crazy. I do think there should be legislation around women lying about being on birth control though. I'd also heavily favor a revamp to child support laws that doesn't make income such a large factor. Edit: I also don't think the gov… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 02:11 AM |
| 2 | "Teach girls to prioritize feeling safe over being nice."Yes, boys and girls should be taught some form of this. The huge problem is the historical notions of what makes a "nice girl". One huge reason that women often don't report SA is the fear of being slutshamed or blamed. Nice girls don't wear certain outfits. A nice girl wouldn't have messaged her high school crush on facebook and then went on a date with him. A nice girl wouldn't have said something to make her boyfriend/husband feel embarrassed. A nice girl won't just ignore a guy trying to tal… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/23 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women think all men want is sex?If his cell phone was about to be shut off one of the women he was seeing would generally pay for it. Car stopped working? One of them would let him drop them at work. He'd pretty much bounce between staying with whoever he was dating, his mom's house and sometimes an apartment with someone in our friend group. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/23 07:09 PM |
| 15 | Why do so many women think all men want is sex?League tends to be subjective at times. In many cases it's not that the guy is out of their league but that he's pursued by more than one woman. I knew a guy who was 6 foot 5, 26, worked out all day, bounced around on friend's couches...and he consistently had gainfully employed women trying to be with him. Aside from being in shape and satisfying a height fetish he had nothing to offer. To nobody's surprise he wanted nothing but sex and money from them. Even when he got a couple of women pregna… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/23 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women think all men want is sex?At the risk of the scarlet S or M the reality is that many women don't have much to offer men beyond just the p-sleeve. This video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3H_IaD72SQ sums up a lot of what I've seen from many women around my age (I'm 40) including my kid's mom. Especially when you get beyond a certain age or start dealing with women who have kids, you realize that in many cases they don't have the capacity to do much for you because their life is full. They can't offer you compassion or … | /r/MensRights | 24/11/23 10:21 PM |
| 3 | When talking about men being victims of violent crime at higher rates, what’s a good response to those who reply that it’s men killing menThe best response is the truth which is that men's lives also have value and men have a right to feel safe. It doesn't matter who is doing the killing, it's still an issue | /r/MensRights | 24/11/23 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportThere was a case where a father was upset because the mom had spent the child support getting her nails done, paying for a new car...According to the judge, it was fine to spend the child support money on herself because it was to offset her having less of her own money to spend on herself because of the kid. Essentially the law doesn't seem to recognize child support as specifically for the kid. I don't agree but the law sees it as the obligee's money to spend as they see fit which is why there… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportShe can afford it too. If I had to guess I'd say there's a chance maybe he doesn't want the kid, he plans to keep touring or maintains a schedule not conducive to raising a kid. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportOne has to wonder is he actually mentally unstable or just a whole lot of eccentric. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/23 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportDid you ever try for a modification? | /r/MensRights | 23/11/23 01:51 AM |
| -3 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportSounds like he didn't want or got screwed out of a lot of overnights or there's some issue with the kid. Honestly though this is just another sign of why there needs to be a major reform. He has the net worth to cover this even if he never works again, most people aren't that lucky. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Please tell us. CEOs explain why single women in the US own more homes than single men — even though they “still earn less.”Personally I don't paint with the broad brush of saying one gender is overall more productive than the other. As men I think we excel at certain things women don't based on biology. Even an overweight man can generally lift more and carry more than smaller women who might workout regularly. When it comes to mental tasks like engineering I've seen men and women both suck big time. IMO a huge differentiator is actually liking the work. I've met multiple women who were software engineers or testers… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Please tell us. CEOs explain why single women in the US own more homes than single men — even though they “still earn less.”Let's be honest about a few things...Historically most men were woefully average or below. At many points during US history you could be an average guy and have a pretty good life. You could find a wife, get a house, have a car or two...As things have gotten more expensive, it's harder to make it when you're at or below average. Women in some demographics also tend to be better educated than their male peers and we've seen an increase in pay for some fields that are female dominated (especially … | /r/MensRights | 18/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Please tell us. CEOs explain why single women in the US own more homes than single men — even though they “still earn less.”Cause they work less hours and tale lower paying jobs. This isn't always the case. The gap is closing but companies that show the data have generally had a trend of paying female software engineers less than their male counterparts. Anecdotally a lot gets lost during negotiations. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/23 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Well, "The Marvels" movie tanked...now get ready for the "it's all the sexist mens fault" blame gameI don't think most people genuinely care if it's a male or female lead I'd argue that heaps of people like seeing leads that look like them. Can we overlook it for explosions and/or a good story? Sure but people love to project themselves into the role of hero. Years ago when I was in college we read about a study in my psychology class where they gave a group of people a story to read. The story gave no physical characteristics about the leads beyond gender. When asked to describe how the leads… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Well, "The Marvels" movie tanked...now get ready for the "it's all the sexist mens fault" blame gameThen what is? I'm seriously asking because like I said I only casually watch these movies and personally didn't think the trailer looked bad. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Well, "The Marvels" movie tanked...now get ready for the "it's all the sexist mens fault" blame gameI'm not going to blame sexist men but I'd hazard a guess that most super hero fans are male and not interested in female leads. I'd also guess that most fans want to see the heroes they remember from the comics on the big screen. Maybe it's me but I don't recall the movie being heavily marketed towards girls and women like Barbie was. Hell I see more ads for Wish and the new Trolls movie than I do for this one although that could be due to the age of my kid | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Did the dating scene become worse than a decade ago? Did feminism destroy the online dating?Then I'll call you the 1%! | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Did the dating scene become worse than a decade ago? Did feminism destroy the online dating?I'm 99% sure you'd gladly have sex with a 40 year old woman who had a tight body and beautiful face. To be clear she wasn't dating those young guys. We're adults so based on conversations with her and the messages she showed me it was generally her getting compliments and sometimes money from these young guys and then deciding if she wanted to fuck them. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 12:11 PM |
| 7 | Did the dating scene become worse than a decade ago? Did feminism destroy the online dating?There are now more choices for online dating than ever. In addition to online dating women have other platforms online to get attention. Women are also making more money than ever which allows them to shift their dating priorities and be more discerning of men. This might not apply to you but we're also coming off a period of people living good lives. So over the last 10 years the number of men between 20 and 30 who are taller, spend more time working out than working, have fancy stuff to show o… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 09:16 PM |
| 4 | As men get older do their sperm result in birth defects?As you age it happens. Last time I checked though most men are in their late 50s to 60s before major mutations that can cause birth defects happen. For women IIRC it's late 30s to early 40s. To be fair I don't know if autism has been linked to the age of parents and schizophrenia is largely genetic IIRC. IIRC down syndrome is the biggest risk as partners age. On a personal note I think most men should stop having kids around 50-55. Anything older than that and you run a huge risk of not even liv… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 0 | White men are actively discriminated against in the job market right nowFrom my experience this isn't true. While you may find more women and minorities on the hiring panels, that doesn't mean you're discriminated against. Women are notorious for not hiring other women and many minorities groups are the same with their "own people". What you're seeing is just a tighter labor market, especially for certain tech companies. As good as your resume is, you likely weren't even the best person from your company who was let go and that's who you're competing with. Some comp… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/23 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Why aren't more men marrying in western countries? Reason #58746-23The sad part is she doesn't mention nice he was before, what he's been doing or when the change happened. They just had a kid 6 months ago so it's possible that even without the weight loss they'd be at a point with less stress and perhaps more niceness from him. With that said if it really is just that she's gotten more attractive then arguably she has a reason to be pissed at him. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 05:30 PM |
| 2 | I am a member of the Boy Scouts of America and I'm not a fan of girls joining.What do you think it takes away besides the feeling of a males only space? Also, do you think telling dads who only have daughters "just put them in girl scouts" is reasonable? Not to take anything away from the girl scouts but their programming is different from boy scouts (at least when I was a kid). If I wanted to do the same things with my daughter that I did in the scouts, we'd pretty much buy a boy scouts manual not sign her up for girl scouts | /r/MensRights | 05/10/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Senate Democrats propose requiring women to register for military draft( i dont think anyone should be drafted as the draft is slavery)The draft is only slavery when people are allowed to opt out for things like college or flat feet. IMO the draft isn't necessarily a bad thing. If there were a direct and prolonged attack against the US I don't think people should just be able to sit it out and keep their citizenship. I don't agree on using the draft for situations like Vietnam | /r/MensRights | 01/10/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | If it's considered OK for women to wear make up to give a fake appearance {which men are usually most attracted to} should it be considered OK for men to lie about their wealth {which women are usually most attracted to}?The only reason not to say you're worth 100 million or you're a CEO is that it's easy to disprove. Guys go hatfishing and wallet fishing all the time. I used to know a guy who'd go down to Miami, rent a sports car, rent costume jewelry and tell the women he met that he was a hip hop producer (he really worked for the post office). It got him laid by women who wanted to ride in a sports car, hang in the VIP section... Back when sugar daddy sites first started I met a guy in his late 20s who would… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Wow, some western women live in a fantasy.Im a man and I do whatever it takes for my family. It isn't ideal but I do what ever I need to. I see you drank the same koolaid as me. It's funny how many of us are conditioned to essentially be door mats and sacrifice ourselves at the alter of being a man and putting family first. Not sure how old your kid is and how much of your home life you don't enjoy but you have to put yourself first and set boundaries as well as create an escape plan. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Wow, some western women live in a fantasy.It's rare to see a marriage of equals, especially when it's not arranged. That means one person is marrying up and the other down. So would it make sense for the person marrying up to want to continue their existing lifestyle? Or does it make more sense for them to want a life they associate with their new found household in come? Like you said, men and women need to stop marrying financial losers. The unfortunate thing is that many people can hide their bad financial choices until it's too late… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/23 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Wow, some western women live in a fantasy.You guys act like this is something new. For every man who had a wife who cooked and home kept, there were tons who didn't. Even now the idea of a man who can "take care of the house" is often code for a man who does maintenance as well as many chores. Even in the 50s for some women home making didn't extend beyond cooking and cleaning certain rooms. For many families it was very common for dad to do the dishes or for them to be done as a family. I grew up in the 80s/90s so more 2 income househo… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Wow, some western women live in a fantasy.The problem is that you asked on reddit. You sought advice on your situation from a forum where likely less than 10% of people can empathize with your situation and less than 5% have been in that situation. So what you got was a bunch of answers based on what they would want in that situation and who wouldn't love to be a stay at home parent who "just did enough". IMO the better place for advice is to speak with a therapist. A good couples therapist can talk you through your feelings, give you s… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Young men today feel they must be six feet tall, make six figures, and have six inches downstairs to get a girlfriend—so many have given up tryingMy big takeaway from a lot of this is that the majority of guys need to get off dating apps. Dating apps, give 99% of the power to women. If you do opt to use dating apps then I'd say pay a consultant to help your profile because that's what's attracting women. For the rest of men I'd say find some hobbies and approach women in real life. There's a psychological effect of having a man in front of you that works in the man's benefit. Beyond that, work on improving your social circle. As much as p… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido?Women have all the rights and opportunities(if not more than men) at this point but they selfishly push for an unfair advantage (I can elaborate on this). Please do elaborate on it. From my perspective women don't have all the same rights as men but they do have certain other rights and opportunities that for some women offset the advantages some men have. We hide behind social responsibilities (sometimes cannot be avoided) and use it as an excuse for neglecting individual responsibilities (can … | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on trans (FTM) people?Personally I'm all about treating people as their preferred gender as long as they choose to live their life that way. So don't say you're a man, take hormones and then backpedal when they try to send you to men's prison. The only time I am less accepting is when it comes to relationships. I feel like people should disclose their birth gender as it can have impacts later on. I read an article once about a man who married a post op MTF and she didn't disclose until several years into marriage and… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/23 03:02 PM |
| 2 | My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido?Ignore that guy. Don't move out under any circumstances whatsoever without speaking to a lawyer first. Leaving the home, especially if you have kids, could be seen as abandonment and have huge negative consequences. Years ago I read the story of a guy in the midwest. He had 2 kids with his wife who was a SAHM because of his income. She cheated so he, not wanting to disrupt the kids, moved out but continued to pay all of the bills. He filed for divorce and she lawyered up so he did as well but th… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/23 10:55 AM |
| 1 | My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido?Letting her employer know isn't illegal. But demanding something in return for not letting the employer know is textbook definition of blackmail. There's definitely a bit of rules for thee and not for me with this one. When lawyers are involved there are often agreements made to not disclose certain things in exchange for something. It's kind of funny when you think about it that something done by two individuals with law degrees would be called quid pro quo but would be considered blackmail or … | /r/MensRights | 14/09/23 10:43 AM |
| -1 | My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido?There's nothing wrong with marrying or dating a feminist. IMO feminists aren't the problem misandrists are. I'm a guy and by definition I'm a feminist in so far as I support women's right as well as opportunities and don't think they have to come at the expense of me as a man. I really think we should all work towards applying the correct labels to some of these behaviors. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido?File for divorce. Unless she's in the military or an executive and he's a direct report, there's no guarantee that she'll be fired. I work for a fairly large company and when a similar situation happened the lower level employee was simply moved laterally to another org. Turning her in to her employer may hurt you in the long run because the person who files for divorce usually has a huge advantage. Is there a reason you think her affair involves an abuse of power? The whole I felt like I had to… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/23 10:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you protect yourself against being accused of sexual assault.Like the other guy said it's pay for play aka strictly transactional sex. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/23 12:45 AM |
| 8 | How do you protect yourself against being accused of sexual assault.That's only going to get you so much protection because either of you can withdraw consent at any point. The best thing IMO is to be choosy with your sexual partner or choose p4p. With p4p she's more likely to have told you her boundaries and if you stick to them less likely to withdraw consent | /r/MensRights | 10/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 0 | How do you protect yourself against being accused of sexual assault.I guess technically you can't really protect yourself from being accused of rape in a p4p or normal situation. The other party can always claim they felt coerced, that they withdrew consent... One huge thing you can do is not disclose private information for screening or any other purposes. That means provide fake work badges, use apps to alter your ears and nose in photos, use a burner phone...You can also do your best to dispose of any condom that you use after the deed is done (one guy I used… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedOne of the interesting things about adhd, autism and several other neurodivergent diagnosis is that often we use one word or label to describe a broad range of symptoms manifesting differently in tons of people. For example even though the other kids aren't bouncing off the walls, their ability to play for long periods may fall into the hyper focus territory that can lead to an adhd diagnosis. With that said, my non-medical opinion is that most kids who are diagnosed with adhd, odd...at a young … | /r/MensRights | 05/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 4 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedI do actually and up until a few years ago I used to volunteer with kids a fair amount but thanks for your typical reddit response. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 09:39 PM |
| 7 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedOne thing I've found as a parent that I took for granted as an adult is that kids often don't know how to respond to their feelings. An 8 year old might cry because they're tired and don't want to go to bed. A 7 year old who starts to get a body buzz might lash out physically because they don't know how to process how their body is feeling. It's not really a huge leap to think that a child won't know how to "appropriately" respond to a drug in their system | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 02:37 PM |
| 11 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedADHD is about more than just being hyper. I can't speak for when you were a kid but now parents, teachers, coaches...fill out surveys and the kid is given an assessment. It's likely that you were given an assessment and/or your parents didn't fill out the forms in a favorable way. Things like in attention, hyperfocusing on the task, how you emotionally regulate...all contribute to the diagnosis. FWIW, some of the questions for various diagnoses can be a little odd. For reasons not going into my … | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 02:35 PM |
| 6 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedThis isn't about feminism or toxic masculinity. It's generally about parents wanting to take the easy route or do the opposite of how they were raised. I'm a parent and while I don't agree with a lot of the changes going on in society today, there is no boys are boys and girls are girls. There's nothing wrong with playing with a barbie as a boy or woodworking as a girl. By the way healthy children aren't hard to control. Oppositional defiance happens in both genders and it's often a sign of thin… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 02:28 PM |
| 6 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedWhich is a huge reason that standardized testing has been so bad for lots of kids, especially middle and low income kids. While it's important to learn to sit still and focus, there's no magic switch and it happens over time. Now it seems lots of kids get less recess and rigid instruction time because of the penalties if too many kids test poorly. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 02:22 PM |
| 31 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happened"girls are more intelligent/calm than boys" No, they are more SUBMISSIVE to authority, it's not the same. They seems easier because they actually listen to their parents. This actually isn't true. Gender doesn't determine if a child will be more eager to please or not. What often happens is the reward cycle is different for girls than boys. A boy who does what he's told often gets no praise and is doing what's expected while a girl often receives a reward even if that's just love and positive at… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 02:21 PM |
| 13 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedI'm 40 and when I was in young many kids were put on it. My parents, steadfastly rejected that route because sitting still and paying attention is a skill. On the plus side, especially for younger kids there's more of a reluctance by many professionals to suggest drugs before therapy and home changes. Of course many kids get the drugs but there are more alternatives than when I was a kid. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 02:18 PM |
| 9 | I coach a girls and boys basketball team, this year something odd happenedThis is going to sound out of left field but my advice is to see if any child therapists in your area will meet with you. I'm 40, my kid is 8 and I can say that parenting as well as kids today are different from when I was young. One huge difference is covid. My daughter missed out on in person kindergarten and had a very restricted in person first grade. That combined with her mom not allowing her to go to preschool meant a huge lack of socialization which includes learning to lose, be told no,… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Man paid over $19,000 per month in alimony and child support for 16 years... Was sent to jail after being unable to pay anymore and ended up killing himself in prison.Those wives won't leave because not many Chads and Mario van Peebles can provide the life their husbands can. Given what we know about the wives of successful men, it's hard to imagine that at least a quarter of the wives of congress haven't had an affair at some point | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 11:48 AM |
| 7 | Man paid over $19,000 per month in alimony and child support for 16 years... Was sent to jail after being unable to pay anymore and ended up killing himself in prison.So it tends to do no real good but write your representatives. If they have a town hall show up and make sure they know the name Thomas Doheny and the names of others. Members of congress aren't generally divorced or paying child support. They have no skin in the game nor can most of them put a face to the problem. Also don't shy away from asking candidates about family laws. Yes the economy is important but so is the family | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 11:12 PM |
| 37 | Man paid over $19,000 per month in alimony and child support for 16 years... Was sent to jail after being unable to pay anymore and ended up killing himself in prison.Where do you expect them to go? Many other western countries where you'd have a comfortable living will send you back to the US to face charges. The only way this really works is if you're happy with a meager life, can work online or are okay with never seeing your kids again. The truth is that I think most men stay and bear it for their kids. I met a guy once who was pushing 50 and hadn't had an overnight with his daughter in over a decade. He kept paying, even though it meant bouncing between … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Man paid over $19,000 per month in alimony and child support for 16 years... Was sent to jail after being unable to pay anymore and ended up killing himself in prison.Dating and marrying down has always been the norm. I hate to say it but some women really have a way of convincing you that despite not being your socio-economic equal they want to work towards the exact same things as you. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Ridiculous family expectationsWhat the hell is with the lopsided expectations of men? I'm not sure I'd say it's lopsided. When women walk off on their bio family they're treated equally as poorly if not worse than men who walk away. When women date/marry into a blended family situation and leave they generally catch far more heat than when a man walks away. It's more socially acceptable for a man to not father someone else's kids than it is for a woman to not mother someone else's kids. To be fair to your dad, you should hav… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/23 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Dating or meeting peopleThe reason why I see they do that is because they don’t reply to the messages so the single men write a message back to them which would look needy or desperate I think that a lot of women write this kind of vitriol because of the amount of male attention they get. Some dating apps and even live dating events have more men than women. In addition, most women legitimately only want 5-25% of the men on the platform but will still receive attention from well over 50% of men. So that extra attention… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | One of my friends has to pay alimony to his ex indefinitely, and I think it's insane.What's worse is now she's planning to move with the kids east to the other end of the country in very expensive city NAL but assuming he can still afford a lawyer this isn't likely to happen since it would require the current court giving up jurisdiction as well as introducing more instability in the kids' lives. She also can't do it without going to court which would give him the opportunity to push for other modifications including readjusting alimony, increasing his overnights... True change … | /r/MensRights | 15/07/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Kevin Costner's ex-wife rejects $52,000 per month child support offer and demands six-figure monthly payment. It's never enough for modern women, no matter their background or class.Nobody says they can't still have that life without 100k/month in child support. I'm sure their dad will continue those services and they can take advantage when they visit him. Their mom can also in theory find a way to make money to cover those things. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Kevin Costner's ex-wife rejects $52,000 per month child support offer and demands six-figure monthly payment. It's never enough for modern women, no matter their background or class.Child support, in theory... should be literally the bare minimum for that child to be fed This is how I feel too because it gets the kids what they need while also giving the parents freedom to contribute to a certain lifestyle for the kids. It also keeps on person from abusing the other. I think what athletes make is ridiculous but there was a baseball player who messed around on his wife for years. He had 3 kids with the wife and 2 with the mistress. I guess he decided to stop messing around o… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 08:46 PM |
| 13 | Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signs a bill ending permanent alimonyI'd love to see what their alternative plan was. While I don't like the idea of older people having to take low pay jobs and potentially end up homeless, there's very little reason to spend 20 years of marriage not working unless you're really well off. And if you're that well off then you probably made off okay during the divorce when assets were split. FWIW I know someone whose mom gets alimony although I'm not sure how much. It wasn't that her husband forced her to stay home or that they were… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 11:08 PM |
| 12 | Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signs a bill ending permanent alimonyI used to know a guy who was happily married for over 20 years at the point I knew him. It was clear that sex wasn't a big part of their marriage but his wife was nice to him, didn't interfere with his hobbies, had her own money...Anyways when he son got married he gave him two huge bags of jolly ranchers (the son's favorite candy). He told him during the first 3 years of marriage put a jolly rancher in a jar each time you have sex. After 3 years take one out each time you have sex. By his admis… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 11:04 PM |
| 7 | Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signs a bill ending permanent alimonyRight and on a certain level alimony makes sense, but it should never be permanent or go unchecked. There also needs to be a better way to consider things like pensions and retirement accounts at the time of divorce. Both parties should benefit from financial gains made during the marriage and the higher earner shouldn't be able to leave the other person destitute. That said, the higher earner shouldn't be forced to support the other part for life or even for the period of the marriage. I know i… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 11:01 PM |
| 0 | US Supreme Court stroke down affirmative action based on race. Will this be good for MRM in the long run?Because they think it's going to improve their chances of college admission to certain universities. What they're ignoring is that many of them, despite paying services, aren't great whole students. Often if you have 100 Chinese applicants, you'll have 75 that on paper are exactly the same. Even if you ignore race, you don't really need 40% of a cohort to be all students with the same gpa, same sat score +/- 5%, same musical instrument played, same volunteer resume...One really shitty thing was … | /r/MensRights | 30/06/23 12:54 PM |
| 4 | US Supreme Court stroke down affirmative action based on race. Will this be good for MRM in the long run?This is one massive problem. Allowing race or gender to be a factor in admissions or other decisions doesn't equate to discriminations. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 07:08 PM |
| 3 | US Supreme Court stroke down affirmative action based on race. Will this be good for MRM in the long run?If you're a wealthy white man then it will be good for you. For men as a whole this isn't going to be a good thing because affirmative action wasn't the primary driver keeping men out of a lot of opportunities. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Declining female dating standardsAm I an oldhead, or can others relate to this? Do I just have terrible taste in women, or have standards for behavior really fallen this far? To this I would say to evaluate your dating record and ask what some women may think of you. The truth is you're not necessarily old and you definitely don't have terrible taste. As you get older and date older women you're going to run into women who have lived life. Living life is going to include things like getting married, having kids, having multiple… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/23 10:57 AM |
| 3 | The way society treats sex.When you say "the bummiest guys" that's from a guy's perspective. We could never understand why women go nuts for thugs, convicted felons and drug dealers. But women throw themselves at assholes with no future all the time. I've met enough women to know that the reason are usually shallow (eye color, height) or they go deeper. For example, some women love to think they can change, tame or save a guy. In other cases, it's the access to fast money and the things that come along with it. I dated a … | /r/MensRights | 22/06/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | The way society treats sex.This isn't true. There's tons of women out there who are bold and assertive with the guys they want to have sex with. Chances are that you haven't found a woman yet who you fall into that category for. I've met very few women under 40 who actually have low sex drives or truly don't care about sex unless there's an underlying medical issue. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/23 11:11 PM |
| 6 | The way society treats sex.He's saying is that sex can cause mental health stress. Let's say you're a guy who is committed to having sex. How will you feel if you you can't find it for free? How will you feel if you pay for it? What if you have sex and the woman laughs at you or ghosts you? While I don't think I'll stop having sex unless my dick falls off, I've met some people who it's had pretty bad effects on. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/23 11:08 PM |
| 10 | The way society treats sex.I wouldn't say higher. You'll often find that some of the arguably bummiest guys get laid more than guys with their shit together, especially when in the early 20s. Women also tend to have more choice which gives the illusion of higher standards. A friend of mine has a daughter in her early 20s. I'm not calling her promiscuous or whorish but she enjoys sex and when she goes out there usually no less than 20 guys trying to get her attention and especially when she's on vacation she's getting laid… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/23 11:06 PM |
| 7 | The way society treats sex.I feel like it's going to depend on what you want and where you are in life. I turned 40 this year, am not looking for marriage and I don't want any more kids nor do I want to have to foot the bill so that makes me comfortable with having a higher age dating range. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/23 11:02 PM |
| 7 | The way society treats sex.I think 18 is a bit young but I wouldn't bat an eye at a 45 year old man dating or marrying a 21-25 year old woman. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/23 11:01 PM |
| 8 | The way society treats sex.tl;dr Never feel shame for having a high sex drive, wanting to have sex with women or liking sex. Never settle for a women who will withhold intimacy from you unless you have a good reason. Realize that women and men go through phases where they may have less interest in sex but someone who cares about you won't shame you and will find a balance This is anecdotal but IME women who feel this way tend to either want something from the man but have no interest in him romantically or they want somet… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/23 10:53 PM |
| 6 | No home for you. Kevin Costner vowed to have ironclad prenup after being left homeless from first marriage.The main thing I'm getting from that is that about 20 years of marriage cost him $2 million in cash. That means he paid 100k/year for a wife not counting the things he did beyond the upfront money and divorce payout. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/23 08:30 PM |
| 0 | 1/3 of all men below 30 have never had sex, my brother being one, how do I help?Here's how stats generally work...A group of a certain size is sampled and based on the responses of that group often the researchers will generally draw conclusions about broader society. So if they survey 1000 men and say that 1/3 below 30 have never had sex then that seems dire until you realize that that 333 men out of millions who they can reasonably confirm fit that category. The more important part is helping your brother. First off keep not shaming him. As much as I love sex even I'll ad… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 07:55 PM |
| 6 | I've paid what I can to Child Support.Child births in the US aren't going to plummet. The only difference will be that less productive men will get trapped. Chances are that we're going to eventually have the idiocracy kind of situation where people who are less well off and don't want to work have ever increasing numbers of kids with each other. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 3 | I've paid what I can to Child Support.I'm not a lawyer and this isn't legal advise but even without a lawyer you can go to the county courthouse and someone will usually tell you what to file based on your circumstances. While you may not win or get a court date in the near future, your county likely has motions you can file to potentially ease your burden. With a new job you should be eligible to file for a modification based on your new income. They may not forgive the arrears but it may change what you have to pay moving forward.… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | She thought she was getting byYour bac has nothing to do with how you look or necessarily how you're acting. For the most part it's just biology. As a roughly 200 pound man I can drink 3 beers and have a lower bac than a woman who weighs 120 pounds. That's the reason people are often told to have no more than 1 glass of wine, 2 beers or 1 single mixed drink over a 3 hour period if they plan to drive. I know someone whose mom actually had 2 glasses of wine (we were al at dinner for around a 1.5 hour period), didn't fail the f… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/06/23 12:43 PM |
| 3 | She thought she was getting byLargely depends on where you live and where you think you are on the 0-.08 scale. There's some places where refusal to take a field sobriety test will lead to instant suspension of your license and result in you being arrested on the spot. If you're drunk and at risk of a DUI then by all means turn down the test, stfu and hope you can afford a great lawyer. Where I live when the guy was pulled over, he "went to sleep" preventing the officers from doing a field sobriety test or administering a br… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/06/23 12:39 PM |
| 3 | We should stop paying for dates and spit the billOver the years I've definitely changed my rules when it comes to dating. Those changes are largely the result of personally being taken advantage of as well as how open some women are about taking advantage of men who date them. For me, the first date is always simple because dating is an investment and if you'll only invest your time to get to know me at a fancy dinner then you're not for me. On the first dinner date, we either go dutch or if I pay you tip and/or buy the dessert and/or drinks. … | /r/MensRights | 10/06/23 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Spanish woman wears beard to feel safe walking at night, even though about 2/3 of homicide victims in Spain are menI didn't read the whole article (my spanish isn't great) but what's she actually afraid of? I'd imagine the beard might stop unwanted sexual attention but I doubt it'll stop violent crime. I'm a man and there's tons of neighborhoods I won't go into because I know nothing about me is going to stop that person with less to lose from taking what I have because they want it. I'm guessing this was largely done for tik tok views | /r/MensRights | 08/06/23 11:38 AM |
| -1 | Spanish woman wears beard to feel safe walking at night, even though about 2/3 of homicide victims in Spain are menIDK man it's not too often you hear about a violent gang rape in the US but I read about it happening in India at least once a year. In the US we don't really have women's only cars on our trains but they have them in India and I've overheard more than on male Indian co-worker mention it being okay to grope a woman on a crowded train if she's in the wrong car. As messed up as the US justice system is, from what I've been told you're more likely to be believed here when you report a rape than in … | /r/MensRights | 08/06/23 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Spanish woman wears beard to feel safe walking at night, even though about 2/3 of homicide victims in Spain are menThat seems to fit with what I remember although I think 90% is on the high side even for the US. It's not widely reported but lots of young boys and girls are sex trafficked because they're more vulnerable and in some cases easier to move and exploit. With that said, in some areas it's definitely a legitimate concern for women. I remember several years ago women in southern Texas were being abducted for sex trafficking. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?I some reason didn't even think to link to the sources of the info dump. Sometimes my stupidity outshines my intelligence, sorry about that. NP and at this point I'm just happy to have a conversation with someone who's not calling me names for not disagreeing. You're telling people to have different personal preferences without taking any of their concerns seriously. I mean this entire write up is just telling me to stop rather than addressing what I'm saying. I'm positive that you want the stud… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?Can you provide a link to the study you're referencing? It would be interesting to read about the methodology especially since the sample size of people married for 30+ years is getting smaller every day. I'm also curious about where the respondents were found, who they were and if they included men. You need to assume that you'll have an average life with average situations. What would you consider an average life with average situations? On average women have more opportunities to date than … | /r/MensRights | 04/06/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?If a woman then goes and has sex with numerous low value men she demonstrates that sex with her is not very valuable. If a man is able to have sex with many women he is shown to have a lot of value. What about when a man has sex with lots of low value women? Does that mean that he or sex with him has no value? It could be that the person likes having sex and opts to get it from the most available partners because a higher value partner won't necessarily mean better sex. And no, a man who is able… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?How so? Aside from not having sex the married couple had a very healthy relationship. My personal count is relatively high and I’m a decent human being. A sex worker I knew who had a high body count ended up marrying a guy who eventually got cancer. She stayed with him and took care of him until the end. A guy I was friends with had slept with over 400 women before he got married. He’s a devoted husband and father now who has never cheated. Your body count like many things doesn’t have to be who… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?A woman having sex with a man is nowhere near the same level of accomplishment as a man having sex with a woman. Women do not talk guys into sex, they allow guys to have sex; there are always guys thirsting after her, and it is up to her to get as much as she can from a guy using this as she can. What is success for a woman is less concrete, it is emotional. Have you ever asked women about this? While at times the road to the prize may differ, many women view sex with men they pursue or men of a… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 04:47 PM |
| -4 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?Sure...I can say that for me and I've met women who indicated the same high sex drive has been a driver at times. So at various times in my life it was better to have 2-3 casualish sex partners in order to selfishly be able to have sex everyday of the week and at times more than once a day. Ego has also played a role and I've met women who will say the same. In other words the same way a man may high five over smashing the blonde that all his friends were afraid to talk to women will feel the sa… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 04:36 PM |
| -6 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?The difference though is that men's height is a biological fact, while n-count is a behavioral one. Arguably biology plays a role in some of the large body counts. Yes, we as humans can exercise self control and constrain ourselves to social norms but that doesn't mean there's not a biological imperative to do the opposite. On the height thing, there's tons of factors that go into a person's height. There's a reason that you'll see some families with 6 ft sons and 5 ft 1 daughters and others wit… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 02:36 PM |
| -8 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?I don't really agree with this. There's lots of reasons for a man or a woman to have a lot of sexual partners. What's important is honesty and understanding why the person did what they did. There's a huge difference between I had trouble finding a consistent whose drive matched mine and I just don't feel comfortable saying now. There's also a problem when someone essentially gate keeps or refuses intimacy with their current partner but not past ones. There's also men and women out there with hi… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Why do some people on Reddit call the men who care about the number of sexual partners a woman has had incel?Because people often ignorantly throw around labels and names in an attempt to insult others. The other day I disagreed with someone and they tried to insult me by calling me a boomer. I think a problem is also that often when men start talking about the number of sexual partners a woman has had, the tone gets pretty vitriolic. It turns from mentioning just the number to making comments like "she's for the streets", "she's a hoe" and so forth. From that some people start inferring that the guys … | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 02:27 PM |
| -2 | First date ran me through Are We Dating The Same Guy. I'm conflicted.While I don't agree with these sites there's more info than ever online about people and since many people now meet as strangers and not through social connections there's nothing wrong with a little caution. Personally I'd ask her what she planned to learn. Based on some stuff I've seen on youtube lately there's women now who are in their late 20s-40s and looking for serious relationships so don't want to risk getting pumped and dumped. So if she was going to say opt to not have sex if you were… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/23 08:58 PM |
| 26 | Was I raped this morning?I'll start by saying I'm NAL. There is often a concept called implied consent. So if we're kissing and I touch a woman's vagina, I haven't violated her but must stop if she says so. If I go home with a strange woman, lay in the bed with her and then wake up with my penis in her mouth then she must stop if asked but the act of sleeping over can be viewed as implied consent for intercourse unless I was under the influence or had previously indicated there was no consent. I'd say that if you guys f… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/23 08:38 PM |
| 6 | It will never be creepy for a man to look at a half-naked woman. This is the human sexuality. Nudity is not neutral in homosapiens, it is a neurobiological activator of sexual arousal. Feminism is trying to normalize BDSM fetishes, feminization of men and "no looking!" of doms.I disagree with this. While attraction and sexual responses to those attractions is normal, that doesn't mean it can't be creepy. Did you know that even in the US women as young as 10 report being propositioned, cat called, asked out by older men (men not boys)...So while I don't think people should be shamed for urges, we do need to constantly evaluate our social norms. With that said, women who police adult men for enjoying the adult female form should stop, especially if the form they're enjo… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/23 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Family court is absolutely stacked against men. A personal story.My only recourse to this is to go to the court and file a motion for contempt of court where they can give her a court order to obey the court order that she's already not obeying. I'm NAL but this in my experience isn't true. While police outside of GA may opt to not enforce an order from there, many won't. In fact my kid's mom has other kids and when she tried not giving them back her ex showed up with the cops and the order. As the order said he was to retrieve the kids, she was given two cho… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Crime and punishment, the feminist edition. Elizabeth Holmes spends Mother's Day with her two kids and partner while sentencing is pushed backI guess maybe a white pussy pass. There's tons of black and brown women who give birth while incarcerated all the time. The baby will go to the father, a family member or into the system. If she didn't have money backing her, then her ploy would not have worked. And I don't think she's broke. Apparently her husband's family is wealth as well as probably connected and I'm sure she probably made money off of selling her story. FWIW looks like she's been ordered to report to prison. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 11:57 AM |
| 3 | I was basically raped and I don't know what to do about it.Apps on the phone tend to have the ability to collect metadata beyond the IP. Yes, having an IP alone is often not enough because you could be using someone's wifi...but other data like your phone's hardware address, imei...won't change and chances are that they store that. If the app was downloaded through something like the apple store there's also likely a trail there to follow. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | I was basically raped and I don't know what to do about it.I'm really sorry this happened. I'll preface my response by saying I'm in the US so if you're not some of what I'm saying won't help. If you haven't already, make sure to take pictures of your genitals, bag any sheets/clothing and go to your local hospital to get checked out. If you still have the condom and by chance haven't showered you should bag the condom and ask the hospital if they are able and willing to swab your genital area for her dna. Second, if the local cops acted that way then yo… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Child Support is 52.54% of my paycheckI'm glad you got a lawyer, just remember to stay on top of them and understand their fee structure. Depending on your state they'll need permission to drop you as a client but some can be ruthless in how they tie any work to payments. I'm NAL but I'd assume your best bet is to get the courts to input her earning potential instead of what she claimed to make and to increase your overnights. You would think they’d want the supporting father figure to be able to survive long enough to actually ma… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Random question : I am expecting a son in 7 weeks should he be circumcised or uncircumcised ?Instead of listening to a bunch of strangers on reddit, talk to your partner and your doctor. Get the facts and details about circumcision for males and make your own decision. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Crime and punishment, the feminist edition. Elizabeth Holmes spends Mother's Day with her two kids and partner while sentencing is pushed backDidn’t he run low on funds around trial time and sentencing time? FWIW I feel like this has more to do with her having access to money than anything. When she got knocked up with kid 1 I seem to recall it being made clear that wouldn’t help her. It also sounds like she was set to go in but having the right lawyers delayed things. Personally I hope she does her full sentence and more for what she did. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Crime and punishment, the feminist edition. Elizabeth Holmes spends Mother's Day with her two kids and partner while sentencing is pushed backI’m sure you can get away with it if you’re rich and probably white. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Being forced to pay child support for the months I have my daughter by myselfOn the plus side at least your hearing is in the state you reside in. I can tell you that makes a huge difference. There's also a really good chance that when school comes, you'll get majority timeshare since PA has jurisdiction over your case. FWIW they might side with the woman a lot but most jurisdictions are hesitant to relinquish power. Again I'm NAL but I'd say to get your daughter as many ties to your community as possible to make it easier to ask for majority timeshare when school starts… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Being forced to pay child support for the months I have my daughter by myselfNAL but AFAIK there's no real appeal process for something like this. At any point either of you can request a modification to the child support amount, overnights...I assume that by fought and won the guy means he didn't have to pay child support. One thing I've learned is that judges and magistrates have tons of leeway in these situations but how much they give usually depends on how well connected your lawyer is. My dad knew a lady doctor who had to pay child support even though her ex hardly… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Being forced to pay child support for the months I have my daughter by myselfYes there are in all states. I think the big problem is that when child support was conceived they made a lot of bad assumptions and like many laws, there's not much done to keep them up to date. For example, when you have a kid you can scale up your apartment by getting another room. That generally doesn't double your rent but some child support formulas don't take that into account. Another bad assumption is that the child should have the same "lifestyle" in both homes. In other words, better … | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Being forced to pay child support for the months I have my daughter by myselfHave you spoken with a lawyer in your state? I'm asking because you mention that you're in PA and she's in Texas. I assume that means your daughter is currently in PA with you. If that's the case and your original hearing was in Texas then speak to a lawyer about a change of jurisdiction. States differ, but after a certain amount of time your daughter can be considered a resident of where you are and not Texas. That makes it easier for you to get hearings, benefit from family laws in your state,… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 01:17 PM |
| -1 | Company Gone WokeThis last week our chief diversity officer announced to a room full of employees that white men should be stopped from being leaders AND that women and POCs are more capable of leading than white men. If this was their exact wording then call a lawyer because it doesn't get more hostile than that. They have created support groups for every conceivable identity group except for men and/or one for white people, this means white men are the only group in the company without a support group, even … | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 02:31 PM |
| 10 | Education assistant who set up OnlyFans account to make ends meet told to shut it down or risk firingA combination of ordinary men who are willing to send money to internet women they'll never meet as well as wealthier men who are willing to pay internet women to meet them in person. There's tons of articles about this as well as first hand confessions from the actual women. For a time there were even a couple of sites "exposing" instagram models who were pretty much hookers. I couldn't find the article in my 30 seconds of googling but I remember one where the "model" was saying that over a 10 … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/05/23 02:52 PM |
| 28 | Education assistant who set up OnlyFans account to make ends meet told to shut it down or risk firingI'm not sure I'd call this PPD. Presumably if they found out a male teacher had an only fans account they'd react the same way. FWIW I think these kinds of rules are bs. Especially for only fans, if parents are seeing her content then chances are they're subscribing. If students are seeing her content then somewhere there's a parent who is not monitoring their kids and that's the person to blame. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/05/23 11:52 AM |
| 42 | Education assistant who set up OnlyFans account to make ends meet told to shut it down or risk firingWould it surprise you to know that many women don't pay for their own plastic surgery? I'm speaking anecdotally of course | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/05/23 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Boxing in heels doesn't work out as expectedI'm hoping this is WWE fake otherwise that guy's a douche who doesn't even hit that hard | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/05/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do women hate short men so much?So you’re saying you want more short men and bald men on tv? I’m not sure that will really fix things since seeing more blacks and minorities on tv had a lot to do with helping to humanize them because lots of people never interact with any in real life. I don’t think the same can be said of shorter men | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do women hate short men so much?What exactly would you be influencing though? While I agree media has an impact, so does women's liberation. Even without the media defining what is an is not attractive about a man, women would be able to set their standards. Without the media those standards would probably be set by looking at other women in their lives, towns... Look men and women both set odd standards. I don't think it's an education issue as much as it is an access issue. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 12:53 PM |
| 7 | Why do women hate short men so much?Obviously not every woman in the world hates short men. So the real question is, why, and how do we address that? You can't really address it because you can't control other people. You can live your best life and realize that not all women are that shallow because some women recognize the value of who someone is and not what they are. And if you can't find that in the US, the world is a huge place filled with countries where beautiful, intelligent women can't get a date after 25. As long as wom… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 11:19 AM |
| 5 | Why do women hate short men so much?This is why they only have great respect for men who make six or seven figures salary, are over 6'2", drive a big car, etc., etc., etc. So a bit of delusion then. I remember someone ran the stats on how many men are aver 6'2, between 22-30 and make six figures. The number compared, to how many women say that's their ideal was abysmally small | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 11:14 AM |
| 11 | Why do women hate short men so much?Ignoring how that's pretty much saying they want to feel like a child, the irony is that it's been a long time since size would actually protect you. Even when men swung swords in battle, the largest guy wasn't always the victor. In my youth I went out more than I should have and it was often the larger guys who were afraid to fight because they'd never had to. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 11:12 AM |
| 0 | Why do women hate short men so much?Let's be honest, it's not all women. While travelling, I went on a couple of dates with a woman from the Netherlands. She brought up how she was surprised that compared to Dutch guys men in the US were shorter (this was over a decade ago) but my height wasn't an issue for her willingness to date me. In tons of other countries it's not unusual to see short fat guys with beautiful wives. I think we see it so much in the US because women have different goals than in the past. Historically, women wa… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 11:10 AM |
| 2 | You ever notice how when a woman talks about getting a divorce, other women immediately pitch in to suggest how she best get financially reimbursed?Depends on a lot of factors but the short answer is that it can be more of a trap because you may find yourself up against an even more hostile judicial system (check youtube for stories from the Dominican Republic). For the longer answer...most marriages have trouble over money and sex. If the country you go to is less well off than your western country then you might be able to make things work financially. There's places where you can live off 1500, give your wife/gf a "salary" of 500/month a… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Walked on by a crying girl yesterdayEven before the whole me too thing, there was little reason to offer a strange woman carrying bags a ride no matter what her age was. Especially if she's on the phone with someone then she, in theory has someone who can help her. Beyond that if she needs help, there are always police officers. I know I sound bitter but even if she needs help, it's not advisable to get in a car with a strange guy or take money from a strange guy | /r/MensRights | 20/04/23 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Comparing short men to fat women is damn insulting.Naw son, those jockeys had money and status. I said this elsewhere but often the women who obsess over a man's height aren't the top tier women. Top tier women are pursued by all kinds of men so they choose based on a variety of non-superficial measures. Sure the 6'5 guy with an 8 pack looks great in instagram photos with you but when the guy can't even afford 3 beers at the club, he tends to go down a bit on the datable radar (doesn't mean he won't go home with her that night though). | /r/MensRights | 16/04/23 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Comparing short men to fat women is damn insulting.Honestly where you live plays a huge role in that. Being overweight in some places is still seen as a sign of wealth because you can afford to eat and live a life of leisure. With respect to height, in many countries I've been to it's not a huge deal. In many parts of latin America and eastern Europe it's not uncommon to see shorter guys with gorgeous wives because the ability of a man to financially take care of the family is more important than him towering over you like a child. The reality i… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/23 01:16 PM |
| 0 | Comparing short men to fat women is damn insulting.Being fat shows that you are lazy and lack self-respect to take care of your own body. This isn't always true for men or women. Some people have biological issues that make it hard to maintain a certain weight which is why some folks have to turn to surgery. There's also the nutrition aspect where some people only have access to certain foods that aren't exactly the best for keeping the weight down, although some of this is choice. On to the topic at hand...you're right. I think a huge problem i… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | How is using "the best interest of the child" to force a man who DNA shows is not the father, to continue paying support, any different than just pairing any random man with supporting any random child? It would be just as much in the interest of that child wouldn't it?IIRC the way someone described it was fucked up but far less punitive than the US because France has a strong social safety net. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/23 01:16 PM |
| 2 | How is using "the best interest of the child" to force a man who DNA shows is not the father, to continue paying support, any different than just pairing any random man with supporting any random child? It would be just as much in the interest of that child wouldn't it?That's why you never sign a birth certificate without a dna test. It's also why if you're separating you never leave the house, give your soon to be ex money...It's also why you don't spend years living with a woman you don't plan to marry. There rational life and then there's the law. People too often ignore that the law is written in many cases to oppress the lower classes who are actually bound by those laws. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | How is using "the best interest of the child" to force a man who DNA shows is not the father, to continue paying support, any different than just pairing any random man with supporting any random child? It would be just as much in the interest of that child wouldn't it?It's because in this case best interest of the child is coded language. They're saying that the best interest of the child is to have financial support that doesn't come from the state. The reality is that if the "not the papa" stops paying, many women would struggle to afford a kid on their own and depending on their income qualify for aid. As there's no father for the state to pursue, the tax payer would be completely on the hook. For some context, the state will often require the non-custodia… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/23 01:09 PM |
| 40 | Man denied school superintendent job because using “ladies” as an email salutation to two women was a microaggression and “the fact that he didn’t know that as an educator was a problem.”I'm trying to understand what he was supposed to use. Good afternoon women reads weird and Hey Guys seems like it would be called a microaggression. I guess he could have named them both but then where do you draw the line. Would you individually name 4 people but not 5? I'd hate to see what happens if those people who called this a microaggression go looking for a public bathroom | /r/MensRights | 03/04/23 11:20 PM |
| 4 | shamima begum (terrorist rat) can stay in Syria, haThis is honestly a tricky situation because she was so young when she left. 15 year old girls can be pretty impressionable and it's not uncommon for them to run away after promises from older guys and end up hooked on drugs or being sold. On the one hand I think she could genuinely have made a mistake but on the other it's terrorism. Her one life isn't worth the safety of a western countries. I can't imagine there are no majority Muslim countries that won't take her | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Paid menstrual leave for women in spain without specified limitsNorth Carolina a state where the legislature is far from liberal. If assume most states have some similar domestic violence laws. My problem is that in my experience the male isn't always the aggressor but AFAIK the law as written seems to not care and IMO there's no need for a law differentiating assault on a female from just assault. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 06:16 PM |
| 43 | Paid menstrual leave for women in spain without specified limitsI wonder how common that is. In my state we have a charge called assault on a female but there's no assault on a male. In addition, in some counties if you catch that charge you do a mandatory 48 hours in county. And yes that's before you are tried or convicted and with zero fucks given to your innocence. I knew a guy who caught the charge and in the two days he was locked up his girlfriend and her brother stole all of his cash, furniture, tvs...and the cops did nothing because "she was moving o… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Are We Dating The Same GuyWhat benefits? If the person engaged in criminal behavior towards you then there's already databases you can check. There's also pretty straight forward ways to know who is married, divorced, has a child support order against them...The only benefit is giving people a place to vent which would be okay if it could be done anonymously because there's three sides to every store. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Are We Dating The Same GuyIDK but service like pimeyes are pretty good with facial recognition. It's funny because prior to their scrubbing of a lot of content, there were a lot of women on pornhub who didn't really consent to being there | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 01:57 PM |
| 7 | Are We Dating The Same Guybut a woman posting a man's picture with his personal information, followed by other women providing more of his personal information, is absolutely fine? It's not fine which is why the disclaimer OP mentioned exists. Look things aren't perfect and complaining is often seen as "unmanly" but many places have laws governing cyber bullying and some prosecutors will use existing harassment laws to hold people accountable for what they put on the internet. We play by different rules because nobody wa… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 01:56 PM |
| -3 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesWhere'd you get your medical degree from? Have you ever worked in a hospital? How about spoken to people who work in the medical field? Live in ignorance of things you disagree with if you want. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesNo one needs to make an argument against it. Those that want to circumcise others have to make an argument for it. And the argument for it is the medical benefits that derive from it, you know things that can actually be quantified. The arguments against seem to be it's mutilation, it decreases sexual satisfaction, it's painful...I'm sure the millions of men who are circucised don't feel sexually inadequate or robbed of the ability to get sexual gratification and as odd looking as the device oft… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on passport bros marrying foreign women rather than western womenMy big thought is the only people complaining are western women. Men have been marrying foreign women for years. Big difference now is you more men, especially black men, vlogging about it. Sure some are critical of western women but I've found that most are just looking for something many western women don't or won't offer. As long as it's not predatory there's zero wrong with a guy going to the place where he can most importantly find a woman who has values he wants and also be able to maximiz… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesName one doctor or medial association in the western world that says there's medical good for female genital mutilation. They're not the same thing as they're meant to accomplish different things. Male circumcision is to remove the foreskin which can house bacteria, hide things like lesions and warts, house fecal material...Female genital mutilation has ZERO known medical benefits and no, removing a part of the female body they can derive pleasure from is not a medical benefit. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 04:39 PM |
| -8 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesThat's not really apples to apples. Infant rates of appendicitis are far lower than rates of UTIs for non-circumcised boys (same applies to later life when many men need to be taken care of). Regardless, it's ironic how often I get slammed with downvotes here for pointing out a medical fact. Male circumcision isn't a men's right issue in the western world. It's a medical information issue in that according to some of you, you believe parents don't have enough information to make an informed deci… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 04:35 PM |
| -11 | Anti-Circumcision Selfiesno medical reason I still struggle to understand where you guys get this from. Even in Europe doctors acknowledge the medical good that can come from male circumcision, they just agree that it's an elective surgery. When you guys say this you sound as ignorant as people who think vaccines have no medical reason | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 03:51 PM |
| -15 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesConsidering circumcision doesn't stop the ability to produce sperm or generally achieve an erection that's not really an argument against it. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 02:09 PM |
| 3 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…I think family laws on a whole are different there because they have a different safety net. One huge reason for the laws we have in the US is that the government doesn't want to be on the hook financially for the kids. Back in the day if a husband left and the wife had not family or couldn't find a new husband, the state had to provide for the most part. If we had universal healthcare, free school meals, free education, access to food assistance for all kids...there would be less need to call o… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 02:08 PM |
| 3 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Honestly, for men done having kids a vasectomy is the best thing to do. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…I'm NAL but I think what's happens is that any child that is born or conceived while you're married is considered yours. If you get an affidavit of parentage from the real dad then you're good to go. Again NAL but from what I can tell you usually only have to pay for a kid that's not yours if you can't afford the legal process and in rare cases where a biological father isn't named and the judge wants to be a dick | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 02:05 PM |
| 13 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Is she saying she'll leave if you guys don't have another kid? Ultimately it sounds like your wife probably doesn't want to work. Honestly I'd recommend maybe trying some couples counseling if you're having trouble getting your wife to hear you out on your dreams or vocalize hers. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 02:02 PM |
| 0 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…I feel for him but I doubt there were no signs before she did this. In addition, as a married man who didn't want kids, he should have gotten a vasectomy. As men we don't talk about it a lot but a vasectomy is really the only way men can control not getting a woman pregnant. As a husband it's a better long term birth control solution as than many options available to women. While I think it's more trouble than it's worth and would potentially harm his relationship with his kids, many states have… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 01:57 PM |
| 6 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North AmericaI feel for the guy who wrote the post, especially when he talked about feeling like a consolation prize. Personally, I'd argue that there's no real decline. Many men have often found that love comes later in life when they start to see success. I do think one big change is that now there's more pressure from women to find someone your age. While age gaps have never been viewed in a positive light in western countries, there was a time when as a guy pushing 40, it wouldn't be frowned upon for me … | /r/MensRights | 28/01/23 09:21 PM |
| 0 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North AmericaIt's always been a thing. Social media is the reason it's getting more attention. In addition, to men posting their trips, you've got women communicating with each other. At the risk of sounding petty, the negative voices largely come from women in the west who feel left behind because they're not ready to settle down and foreign women who feel they have lot of choices and men traveling to their country demeans their value. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/23 09:16 PM |
| -5 | Woman went on six dates a week to save on food: ‘I didn’t buy groceries for two years’It's wrong because it's sets and unfair standard. Essentially do what I want and like or you'll pay for yourself. That's no different than back in my mom's day when guys would drive their date to a cemetery and say give it up or get out and walk home. I feel like in this day and age where women work and in some cases out earn men, going dutch should be the default unless one person says it's their treat ahead of time. Coming from the generation where we were taught to wine and dine women to trea… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/23 05:29 PM |
| 44 | Woman went on six dates a week to save on food: ‘I didn’t buy groceries for two years’Depending on where you live a drink can be pricey. A good trick to to get their first and already have something be it coffee or an adult drink. That then puts some pressure on her to get herself a drink, leave or try to get you to pay. I learned the hard way to avoid any woman who can't afford the life I want to live or isn't willing to make up the gap through non-financial avenues (and not that's not a reference to just sex) | /r/MensRights | 25/01/23 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Good aspects of being a man?I don't really agree with this. While there's a lot of press regarding how special women and aren't women have tons of advantages, in tons of situations being a man and especially a white man is significantly better than being a woman. While men many not be actively encouraged in some communities to seek mental health services beyond marriage counseling, they have equal access. Women actually have significantly more competion with respect to online dating from a numbers perspective. 10 men or 1 … | /r/MensRights | 17/01/23 12:43 PM |
| 2 | I posted on a marriage thread about my wife's effort in the bedroom vs mine an it's all my fault apparently!Depending on what sub you used, many of them are echo chambers filled with young people and folks who aren't in your situation. If you think the comments you got were bad I'll raise you the hate an animosity a guy got for saying he wanted to kick out his 16 year old daughter for sneaking a boy in, having sex in the house and then being disrespectful to him. Apparently he should have been happy she was in the next room getting railed because lots of people commenting wanted to have sex when they … | /r/MensRights | 17/01/23 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?Speaking for my country, the US, I think we just need better family laws. There needs to be a way for men to opt out without criminal consequences. There also has to be some degree of accountability for women. Honestly I think if we did default 50/50 timeshare, made not paying child support civil instead of criminal, put a cap on child support, and paid it into a joint account instead of to one parent we'd see huge changes. Giving benefits to the kids in the form of meals and clothing for school… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?Wait so you guys don't have child support? If two people have a kid and aren't married, does one have to pay the other? Does a court decide who the kid stays with or how many overnights each parent gets? Sometimes the more I hear about some European countries, the more screwed I feel living in the US. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 03:48 AM |
| 10 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?Just to clarify I mean with respect to what the father is responsible for. In the US if I'm listed as a kid's dad then I have to pay child support for 18+ years depending on the state. Even if found to not be the bio-dad, I'm at the mercy of a judge allowing me to be removed as the father of record. I can also be told to pay for health insurance for the kid or told that I have to cover any out of pocket medical expenses. I've personally known people who pay over 50% of their net income in child … | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?I'd bet real money that number is 5-10% higher than that. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?In the US you don't have to sign anything in the hospital. Many hospitals will also do the dna testing for you after birth. There's not much reason to get it done prior to birth unless you really have doubts or are planning to financially support the woman during pregnancy | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 03:28 AM |
| 14 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?I know nothing about family laws in France and Germany but I wonder if they have the same impact as in the US. In the US, we don't have much of a safety net, so you could easily end up paying child support and health insurance for a kid that's not yours and that can cost a lot | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?It's taboo because every women claims to not be that type and in many situations if you aren't the dad, the woman is screwed financially. I'd say a huge reason is also the state. The state hates to be the baby daddy and that's why laws are written to ensure there is one on record. Honestly I can see how some women would see it as a lack of trust but to paraphrase my friend's dad the only grandkids he knows are really his are the ones that came out of his daughters. I have a kid and I'm not marri… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 03:24 AM |
| 3 | blatantly sexist rhetoric in r/FunnyandSad.Now I want to see the comments. FWIW it's always amazing how members of many groups assume that without certain groups the world would be a perfect place. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/22 03:37 AM |
| 6 | I was accused at the age of 9She likely knew you had no ill intentions. I know someone whose sister is autistic and has a bad habit of getting really close when she talks to people. If she gets really excited she's even been known to put her hand on someone's leg or tell a joke and put her arm around someone. Both sisters are in their 20s and the person I know has had to explain to numerous male friends that her sister's not hitting on them | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | I was accused at the age of 9To be fair he never said it was an adult. It could have been someone around his age. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | I was accused at the age of 9I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm not sure how old you are but the evolution of women being free to report sexual harassment hasn't been without it's hurdles. I'm pushing 40 and at one point remembering everyone being told that unwanted attention was sexual harassment and so was anything that made you comfortable. That girl probably heard for years that a guy only wants one thing or that when a guy tries to give you something he expects something. While I'm not saying some guys aren't li… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 10:57 PM |
| 9 | If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?Honestly there's still some "traditional" relationships in the US but with the cost of things and lack of safety net you almost have to have two people working. Even most young people choose relationships because they can't afford to live alone. FWIW most of the people I've known with a traditional wife live a very humble life or are completely miserable. The miserable ones have usually been that way because the wife wanted a life they couldn't afford on one income and refused to work. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 01:25 AM |
| 3 | If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?It's sad but true. While I always advise guys to be realistic when they do p4p, it's a great option for guys who don't want a relationship or who aren't at a point in their life where they can identify and sustain a healthy relationship. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 01:23 AM |
| 18 | If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?Honestly child support can give her and extra 10-20k tax free. Add to that the child tax credit she probably gets every year as well as a low tax bracket and 40k is pretty sweet. Dollars to doughnuts the doctor's married though | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 01:19 AM |
| 8 | Elizabeth Holmes gets 11.3 years in prison, despite getting pregnant in an attempt to sway judge. Denied.I came here to say just this. Defrauding investors is one thing but people made medical decisions based on faulty results. I'd imagine that lives were lost behind her fraud and ego trip | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/22 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Can men not use all gender bathrooms?I'm glad you got your apology because her response wasn't okay and neither was what the RA did. I've found that for some reason women can be pretty aggressive over bathrooms. I have a daughter so when she was smaller whenever possible we used the family restrooms instead of me taking her into the mens. She went through a phase where she wanted to be alone in the bathroom but still had trouble with some things so I'd generally go in with her and then leave when she was settled. I remember one day… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Misandry is becoming so casual and accepted amongst womenI don't feel incentivised to support women in their plight when their hatred of me and other men is so outward and profound. They can handle it all on their own if they hate us so much. I've said this before but the big incentive is that even some members in the so called group in power face discrimination, lack of opportunity...Historically when a marginalized group gets any sort of rights, you'll see the lives improve for marginalized members of the minority or dominant group as well. Over the… | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 12:10 AM |
| 11 | Female colleague at work told me "Imagine how great it would be if all men stopped existing for like, a month..."Why would they not have a source of income? Even if we ignore the amount of women who rely on a partner or male parent for income, you're essentially removing a large number of customers. Less customers mean that some businesses will close. And even so, why would their response be crime? When faced with an inability to feed oneself or loved ones, most people will resort to getting food, money, shelter...the best way that can. For large numbers of people that's turning to crime. Men do it, so w… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 07:17 PM |
| 8 | Henry Cavill hesitant to flirt so he doesn't get accused of sexual harrassment. Twitter then accuses him of being sexist for not flirtingThere's no universal definition of flirting and some people have become a little extra for lack of a better word. While some of the behavior is out of line (looking at Bill Murray) some is fairly harmless but seen as harassment because the woman isn't into the guy. Honestly we really need a reset on what's reasonable and appropriate interaction. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/22 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Republicans move to strike Dem proposal to include women in the military draftWhat exactly are you asking? FWIW while travelling I've met several young Israeli women who had finished their conscription. Most went through initial training and then had pretty mundane support jobs. One I met was a krav maga instructor. I say this with all due respect to everyone who was/is in the military but not everyone in the military, even in times of war, is going to see combat nor need to be in direct combat. If shit got really bad though there'd be no reason to not have and expect wom… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/22 02:45 AM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with MGTOW?I'm not saying men who want that life should care. The OP didn't ask why men should care. They asked why women seem to have a problem with it. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | What’s wrong with MGTOW?Because people want to have their cake and eat it too. The standards for men and women have changed over the years but ultimately the vast majority of us don't want to be alone. That means that most folks are going to have to settle at some point. Likely the men who go their own way aren't going to the men who were most desirable during many women's primes so when they go away those women loose a lot of options. My guess is that some women misunderstand it just as much as some men misunderstand … | /r/MensRights | 08/10/22 09:32 PM |
| -6 | Should we refrain from voting on women's health issues?I learned a long time ago that if I put my dick in a woman she might get pregnant. We all know that pregnancy is a potential consequence of sex. So no matter how you cut it and even if she pops up 11 months later with a baby in hand, you're still responsible for your part. No you may not have had a say in her keeping it but you had a say in not having sex with her in the first place. As a guy I can say from personal experience that getting trapped sucks but it doesn't mean you're not accountable… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 01:05 PM |
| -8 | Should we refrain from voting on women's health issues?Yeah but then you not keeping your dick in your pants affects me because without at least one parent with the means to pay, the state becomes the provider and the state is funded by my tax dollars. There's no perfect solution to this but limiting rights isn't the play. Perhaps the better thing to do is to allow men to sue women for not consulting them before an abortion and to allow men to sign on to be sole parent. I'd also say that both parents should have the option of noping out of responsib… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Should we refrain from voting on women's health issues?Why can't we be appreciated and encouraged as allies? Because we have to be the evil oppressors to maintain the narrative? How many women are in your life? Of that number, how many treat you like the enemy just for being a man? While misandry seems to be on the rise with some sub groups of women I don't think the majority of women feel that men are the enemy any more than I think the majority of whites are truly racist. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Should we refrain from voting on women's health issues?History is full of people shunning those who should be their natural allies. Often when that happens both groups are shooting their feet because expanding basic rights for one group is generally a win for others. For example, while the civil rights movement is often framed as a movement to get rights for black people in the US, many other groups in the US benefited from the expanded rights. That included individuals who opposed civil rights. For many women's health issues, allowing the governmen… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 12:47 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is the biggest issue men are facing right now?I'll throw out a few...The first and most important is finding genuine friendship. I'm introverted but as I approach 40 it's kind of scary how few avenues I'm finding to cultivate genuine friendships. I'm good by myself and spending time with my kid but I've seen men my age crying over having no real friends. The second is the number of men who struggle to find romantic relationships and especially relationships where they don't feel used. For so long men were conditioned to think that being a p… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do people tell unattractive guys to be “nice” to compensate for being unattractive?You can be a nice guy without taking shit or being a doormat. Being nice is about how you treat others and carry yourself. Often people confuse being a nice guy with what you do financially for women or how quickly you defer to them. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do people tell unattractive guys to be “nice” to compensate for being unattractive?There's a limited number of top tier men and women. Most of us fall in the middle or slightly below meaning we have to compensate in certain ways if we want a relationship. For some women that means working out. For some men that means being nice. IMO it's also an age thing. As women (men to a degree too) get older and want to settle down how they're treated and taken care of often trumps looks. The nice guy with a steady job becomes a better option than the chisled guy who constantly has women … | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Does female privilege exist?Depends on what you mean by privilege. In the same way that being white male has certain privileges so does being a woman. For example, when shown a photo of a white male and a black male with tattoos most will assume the black male is the one who is a criminal. When shown a picture of a woman and a man and saying one is a child molester, most people will flag the male. More concretely, most women can walk into a bar without money and have someone buy their drinks. A woman panhandling will often… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 8 | Apparently, women can’t be rapists.Because tons of laws, especially in the US, are pretty anachronistic. For example, there's still some places where if a man rapes a man it's classed as an assault and maybe sodomy. IIRC some places do have laws for situations where a woman pokes a hole in a condom or lies about birth control but none of those laws are guaranteed get you off the hook for child support. I'm NAL but apparently some counties have laws on the books against sex with windows open, infidelity...they're just not really e… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesI'd say about 70/30 with women being largely responsible. For a long time men perpetuated the idea of buying a woman's affection. You brought flowers on a date, you paid for the date...As time went on that standard became less achievable and instead of talking about it too many guys flocked online to do shit like buy only fans memberships and to simp endlessly over the photos of women they'll never meet. I'm pushing 40 and one thing I've seen a lot in mine and the younger generation is also a ha… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 12:40 PM |
| -7 | True dat!IDK man it's a reasonable question. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/09/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | What should a man’s role be in deciding whether to have an abortion?Plain and simple as a man you should get to voice your opinion. If you want the kid and she doesn't then you should be able to enter into an agreement where you cover her pregnancy and will take on sole parental responsibility after birth. You should later be able to amend your agreement to allow her timeshare based on financial support or just because. If you don't want the kid then there should be an agreed upon amount that you have to pay over an 18 year period. All payments should stop if at… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 09:23 PM |
| 6 | My X put a lean on my home!Obligatory NAL and I don't live in your state. What I'm going to say below is solely based on me having spoken with lawyers in my state as well as what I've seen happen to people I konw. I hate to say it brother but it sounds like you were in the wrong here. You knew your wife was vindictive but you didn't save up a large cushion before buying another house, knowing it would infuriate her. You also didn't do anything to protect your current family from the potential fall out if you did fall behi… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Been blackmailed"Mom and dad, I did something stupid. I met a woman online and she asked for nudes so I sent them because I thought she liked me. Now she wants money or she's going to put them on facebook. I'm really embarrassed and freaked out, can you guys please take me to the police. Also, I get that my actions have consequences and I'll accept any that come but please help me." Feel free to just read the above to them or write your own on paper and read that to them. What the other person is doing is a cri… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 01:15 PM |
| 65 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesI 100% blame women for this change in dynamic. I'm not sure what charges guys are afraid of catching for chatting up strange women, but frankly some women have become downright cruel and in some cases aggressive with their rejections and protecting their friends. I remember one night at a bar I was talking to a woman in her early 20s and her friend came over to ask if I was harassing her. That was the exact word she used, harassing. Maybe I just look creepy but I've had other situations where si… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | If a man seeks to protect himself from false accusations by moving to a country with more favorable laws he is accused of being a rapistIgnore those people. They're just making assumptions and stuck in their bubble. If they're happy in that bubble then more power to them. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Wife falsely accusing me of domestic violence after I told her I want to get a divorce?First thing you should do is lawyer up. In addition to your divorce attorney, you should consider having someone on retainer who can handle things if she does have you arrested for DV, files for an order of protection...I'm NAL but there's likely some civil means for you to handle the false accusations. Personally, I'd probably focus more on the divorce FWIW your lawyer can advise you on the value if any of your recordings. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Spoiler alert: More women are single now because more men have stopped tolerating their bullshitLol, like a guy can control a woman’s body. So insane. Chick's got to eventually go along with it for the baby to happen but reverse trapping isn't uncommon in some communities. When I was in college there was a guy whose gf was model pretty and planned to go to law school which frankly meant leaving him. Senior year she got knocked up (twice) and the second time he convinced her to keep it and that they should get married. Like a dummy she went for it and they moved in together. She finished he… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 11:45 AM |
| 6 | Spoiler alert: More women are single now because more men have stopped tolerating their bullshitI think it's cutting both ways. IMO life's way too short for men to hop through hoops for a woman who likely doesn't give a shit about them. With women's ability to attract men now extending well beyond the traditional "shelf life", it's also pointless for them to spend time trying to change a man or save a man. FWIW while I don't like some of the incel bs I do think it's good to see men young and old stop putting up with some of the bs that would have once been seen as the cost of courting. For… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 11:38 AM |
| 7 | Serena Williams is upset she doesn't get paid to be a mom.I doubt he'd want to do that since he's a high performer in his field. That said, they're wealthy enough to both have careers and hire out help with the kids. She's quitting because she wants to or feels she can't compete anymore. Her essay is a huge slap in the face to people who have to actually stop working to have a family because their two incomes don't get them over the child care hurdle | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 14 | My wife (married 6 months) got a job in a pharma 70k/month salary and now she thinks she don't need me anymore. I myself am a cs and earning almost 30-35 lakhs annually. Arrange marriage sucks..The truth is that a woman making more, getting beauty treatments...has a higher chance of and easier time moving up partner wise than most men. As a woman making more, she can attract higher caliber men who have their own money, she can travel and date who she wants...Even rich men don't always have access to the highest quality women and often when they do it's only as long as they will pay or shower with gifts | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 12:33 PM |
| 14 | Do you think feminism is hurting women in the long run?Women needs to get married more than men, they want love and affection, and children. Most men would be fine just masturbating to porn for the rest of their life. This is false and studies have shown that men need relationships as much as women. Men also have a higher natural drive towards procreation than women do. I feel like modern society has muted that considerably though since technology has adversely affected women's preferences. To a degree men's standards and preferences have changed fo… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | "Men should not be making laws about women's bodies" is full of fallaciesI don't mean to give them impression that it's no discriminatory for women who not want men writing laws on women's health. I do believe that given history, the discrimination is justified. A large number of representatives have shown a desire to legislate only for people who feel their way or who are in the voting minority and not write laws for the "greater" good. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | "Men should not be making laws about women's bodies" is full of fallaciesThe problem is the current group of people making the laws. It would be one thing if they made laws based on science or even human decency but they do it based on religion and ideology. That results in a group of mostly men willfully making laws that frankly have no impact on them. From that perspective it makes no sense for them to write the laws. Following onto your point, for the same reason I outlined wealthy whites shouldn't vote or make some laws for blacks. During the height of stop and f… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?Yes, they do. Just like there's women out there who don't want to work, there's men who don't want to work. Life behind closed doors seems to vary based on the guy's drive and their dynamic. For example, one guy I used to know was a SAHD but once the kids hit 13 he went through a really bad depression and said he felt like a loser. One female doctor I know through a friend got divorced because her husband habitually cheated because he felt she treated him like a child (no kids married less than … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 5 | GF who doesn't believe in men's rightsFeminism is the fight for female equality within the world. How is that representing and fighting for men? My parents grew up during the civil rights era. My mom once recounted a conversation she had with a southern white woman who pretty much thought she shouldn't care about civil rights because they were just for "the blacks". My mom didn't get through to the woman but taught me that civil rights extend beyond just black people. There wasn't a single right or protection granted for black peopl… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 12:50 AM |
| -1 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?Completely anecdotal but I've met no shortage of "high" earning women who don't demand their husband or boyfriends make more. In some cases they actually seem to prefer the man make less or have less of a career in order to not interfere with theirs. Again, it's anecdotal but many high achieving career women I've met who have or want a family seem to prefer men who won't interfere with their career goals. It seems to be mainly women who don't want to continue their career, want to be DINKs or wa… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 12:39 AM |
| -1 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?- men usually out earn women - childcare is expensive so the lower earner usually becomes the stay at home parent - when the woman is the higher earner or has a better career, they're usually vocal about the man staying home If taking care of home was so hard, then all women would fight for men to be SAHD, but we all know it's not true Most women don't want this because they earn less, not because the job of stay at home parent is easier (especially when the kids are young). | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?Most formulas take into account more than overnights. When all is said and done the state comes up with a flawed number the represents how much is needed to care for the kid(s). This is based on insurance, misc costs, housing...depending on your state. The state then determines how much each parent should contribute and income becomes a factor. So if you make 100k and the other parent makes 50k, even with 50-50 you will generally pay them child support. With a sympathetic judge you can offset th… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:43 PM |
| 0 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?Where do you live? Most programs aren't technically geared towards women so much as they're designed for the kids. Since women generally end up with majority timeshare, that's why fathers often don't get access to social programs. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?Since women spend 80% of the money during marriage, and men can live more frugally than the women I know, I can imagine men doing better after divorce even with alimony and child support. I imagine this largely applies to men who are high earners. If you're paying child support and alimony on less than 60k/year, chances are no amount of frugal living is really going to help you live comfortably | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:39 PM |
| -2 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?In all fairness women are more likely to marry up than men are. Letting the husband be a SAHD isn't an option for most women because they can't out earn their husband. At the risk of sounding like a chauvinist, I've met very few men whose wives out earn or come close to their pay, even with lower-middle earning guys I've met. I work in software and many native US people I meet who didn't marry a wife whose also in software will generally have their wife stay home because she can't out earn the e… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?I mean depending on the wife it is. Been a long time since I've met any guys like it but I once worked with an older guy whose wife was a hell of a homemaker. She never caused waves and frankly outside of major financial decisions and working, he had little in the way of responsibility. She also gave him tons of space to have the life he wanted. Considering she was a HS grad who had long since lost her looks I feel the arrangement worked for them both. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?Far fewer than you'd think. Having a par amour is a recipe for getting nothing in the divorce. Anecdotally I've seen it play out both ways. In one instance the guy was continuing to pay his wife's rent during the separation even though she was actively dating so the judge ordered alimony. In another the guy got majority timeshare with the kids because the wife moved in with another guy before the divorce was finalized. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Was told that men suffer less than women financially after divorce. Thoughts?I call bs on that for many men out there. Let's do some napkin math...My income is 100k, my wife doesn't work and we have 2 kids (1 boy and 1 girl). We get divorced and split our marital assets (which is everything) and we agree that she can keep the house to ease the disruption on the kids. Also, we split physical custody 50-50. Let's say that after taxes, 401k, insurance...I take home 6500/month. Due to income gaps as well as her not working during the marriage, I am ordered to pay 1000/month … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 11 | Mens restroom locked at McDonaldsI'm pretty sure they're bullshitting you. Chances are that the homeless or drug addicted population where you were skews male. Personally I've never seen a fast food restaurant lock a bathroom door unless one was broken or being cleaned. I think you should have knocked on the ladies room and if no answer just used that one. I've used the ladies room more than a few times in my day and it's been rare that a woman actually complains, especially since if I hear someone opening the door I say someth… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | A movement to force a minimum of 40 % female employment in the most dirtiest and dangerous jobs.I get that some trade and manual jobs pay a lot. I used to know a welding inspector who made enough in 6-9 months to support two families and take the rest of the year off. I also met a lineman once who with overtime and holidays made close to 6 figures but he worked significantly more hours than many people do. So I'm not shitting on the wages but there are many trade workers who over their lifetime don't make more than many office or "knowledge" workers. So how do you force someone to take a j… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | A movement to force a minimum of 40 % female employment in the most dirtiest and dangerous jobs.How would you force them to? Further why? Also, how are you going to choose who is forced into it? After all as a man I wouldn't want someone to tell me I have to take a pay cut and become a garbage truck driver in my area. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Mother tries kidnapping through the courts. No consequences. Nothing.Luckily I was able to afford a lawyer This is where the current family law system really falls apart. Without a good lawyer some people can't even get a hearing. You'd think that in 2022 far more of the process would be automated. There are several things that could be done efficiently through an automated system or worse case allowing private sector solutions. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Chelsea Handler: White men’s opinions on what its like to be a women "are pretty irrelevant"It's a play on the notion that white men make laws not black men. In case you're wondering people like Clarence Thomas had their black card pulled a long time ago. For a more serious point of view, IIRC black men had (in law but not reality) the right to vote long before white women and black women. Arguably the push for black and minority rights in the US has always benefited women because throughout US history women, yes even white women, have often had very few rights. At various points that … | /r/MensRights | 04/07/22 12:08 PM |
| -5 | All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it.I think a lot of folks are painting with a broad brush here. Outside of the odd misandrist who's probably equally hated by both genders, I rarely hear women saying men should get 0 say. I'm not sure what's wrong with most guys here but it's crazy how many of you seem to be experiencing a huge amount of shameful joy over this. What happened affects us all. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:01 PM |
| -1 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseFirst off restrictions on men have nothing to do with the restriction that has now been placed on most women in the US. Second the only thing that stands between men and the ability to nope out of financial and parental responsibility is the state. Women's reproductive rights aren't the hurdle keeping men from renouncing their parental rights. That hurdle is the state not wanting to pay if the woman needs social services and some judge or magistrate blocking you. Out of three guys I've personall… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Female rapists faces additional charges| people in comments are saying that getting raped is a teenage boys dream.When I was around 13 I had a huge crush on my math teacher. So yeah in my 13 year old having wet dream mind I would have loved to have been raped by her. In my adult mind, I realize there's massive psychological trauma that would have been done had my fantasies come true. So yeah many teenage boys may dream about being seduced/raped by adult women they find attractive but that doesn't mean that adults running society don't have to protect them. FWIW girls have inappropriate fantasies as well but… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 11:53 AM |
| 9 | YupI'm a straight male so I can't say this for sure but I'm guessing women selling nudes have a much broader market than men. For example, I read an interview of a chick who during the pandemic was making 6 figures on only fans. She wasn't sucking dick or even getting all the way naked in each video. She was a plus sized white chick who shot videos of her doing things like eating cake in a messy way. I feel like the market for fat dudes eating cake is far smaller or non-existent. So can we as men s… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/06/22 09:32 PM |
| 13 | YupAbsolutely. I'm a dude and I'd gladly trade most of my make privilege for the ability to charge 100-1000/he slinging dick | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/06/22 09:24 PM |
| -3 | YupIDK I feel like more white dudes would fight each other over a hot Asian chick than a hot white sorority chick named becky | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/06/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | As long as you are 100% sure she is based in the US, you can file out an anonymous 4187 tip to the IRS in order to shutdown privileged whores and get paid 8% of the fee/bailWhat are they taking too far? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/06/22 11:32 PM |
| 2 | As long as you are 100% sure she is based in the US, you can file out an anonymous 4187 tip to the IRS in order to shutdown privileged whores and get paid 8% of the fee/bailI feel overtaxed a lot but I've yet to meet a person in the US (my country) who doesn't benefit from a government that collects taxes. Also, having been to countries with no real taxes, I'd hate to have to pay fees and/or bribes for everything | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/06/22 11:32 PM |
| 2 | NBA player reportedly required to pay $200k a month in child support after his wife secretly filed for divorce 2 weeks after the birth of their son and refuses to let him see his own son.Before everyone gets all up in arms this reeks of absolute bullshit. Parental alienation is taken pretty seriously and with his income he can afford the kind of lawyer that gets the case heard quickly. Also in many of the cases where the dad is an athlete and the moms not exactly their financial equal, it often comes out that the dad doesn't want the kid full time or can't really accommodate having the kid full time. That said in 2022 there's no reason that the law hasn't progressed to the point… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that in western country generally speaking, if a woman trying to falsely accuse a man of domestic violence by hitting herself to make real bruises, she will likely to success?This was years ago and honestly not exactly in the best area of town so everyone minded their own business. As far as his name getting cleared goes, he ex personally apologized to him but he still has the arrest on his record. No conviction IIRC because he attended the anger management classes. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that in western country generally speaking, if a woman trying to falsely accuse a man of domestic violence by hitting herself to make real bruises, she will likely to success?It depends on their definition of success. In some counties in my state, when there's the accusation of DV, the accused will have a mandatory stay in the local jail before they can post bail. The arrest itself can also lead to losing your job and can have a negative impact if you're having custody issues. Would she succeed with respect to the accused being convicted? No way to tell since 99% of the time in the US you buy your freedom. Because many can't afford to buy their freedom, many will tak… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | If white only establishments are not okay why female only (gyms,hospital)areDespite comprising only 13% of the population, black people commit 52% of the total number of murders. Those crimes are generally clustered in certain areas. If you don't live in those areas then your chances of being murdered are significantly less. If you are a white person living in an all white community you are significantly more likely to be killed by a white person than black person. In addition, crime states that note the race of the perpetrator are based on crimes that are both solved a… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 11:18 AM |
| 0 | If white only establishments are not okay why female only (gyms,hospital)areI don't know man...there's very few days that go by where someone isn't posting a video of some guy hitting on a chick at the gym and it going wrong. I used to know a guy who taught self defense and womens only classes tended to work out pretty well because in the mixed classes you'd often have to pair a man with a woman. The reality is there are fundamental differences between men and women that make women working out together more practical than working out with a man. Contrary to popular myth… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 05:39 PM |
| -6 | If white only establishments are not okay why female only (gyms,hospital)areI've never heard a person articulate a valid concern for a whites only establishment. On the other hand there's solid reasons for women's only gyms and facilities. Women's hospitals AFAIK specialize in treatments common for women but I'd imagine they wouldn't turn away a man who needed a procedure they do | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 10:53 PM |
| 5 | "How do I force my reproductive slave to stay?"Isn't this rape by coercion or something? Purposefully not taking birth control is like a guy poking a hole in a condom | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Homes for Ukraine: Don't match female refugees with single men, UN saysWho do you think stands to lose more? The woman who gets to move in with a guy who might want to marry her? Or the guy who marries a woman who doesn't actually love him? Even if we assume more guys are looking to get laid by this than women are looking to sleep their way to an EU passport, safe haven...I'd argue that the guy stands to lose more and is more likely to be taken advantage of. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 02:57 PM |
| 43 | Homes for Ukraine: Don't match female refugees with single men, UN saysThe irony is this probably does more to protect single men than female refugees. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 01:13 AM |
| -2 | The Father CrisisSystem or not you have to be a shitty person to decide you don't want to be a parent anymore when your kids alive. It's one thing to realize you won't have the relationship you want but throwing in the towel is a cowards move | /r/MensRights | 12/04/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | The responses to this rape case are fucked. up.I'd be lying if I said that at 12+ I wouldn't have willingly fucked a chick who looked like that. I'm a grown as man and can say from awkward situations that there's far too young girls who'd gladly fuck me. Those laws don't exist because a child can't be talked into sex with an adult. Those laws don't exist because a child can't convince themself that they want to have sex with an adult. Those laws exist because even if the kid thinks they want it, it's probably not good for them. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | The hate campaign has already begunI don;t know what you're arguing about, I wouldn't really say I'm arguing anything I'm just pointing out a fact. Yes, there are selfish and terrible women but there's men who do the same shit and in both cases the kids suffer. I'm pretty aware of how fucked you can get by having a kid with someone who you're financially better off than. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | The hate campaign has already begunI've known of several situations where a guy trapped a chick. Generally it wasn't about receiving child support so much as it was having a car to drive, place to stay not have to work...In some cases it was just about power and not letting the chick do better. As far as biological urges, I'd argue that I as a guy am less discerning about putting my seed in women than women are about whose seed they take if you know what I mean. Personally I'm all for male birth control | /r/MensRights | 03/04/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | The hate campaign has already begunThere's no upside for and there's probably no upside for you but don't underestimate the number of women who also get trapped. Obviously many are lulled into keeping the kid with lies and promises, but there's tons of guys who purposefully get women pregnant. I have a female cousin whose boyfriend stealthed her to stop her from going to college. Of course she was dumb enough to ignore her parents suggestions and trust he'd get a job and whatnot. I haven't talked to her in years but last I knew h… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place to ask for help, but my ex is going around slandering my name by telling people at our college that I sexually assaulted her. The only "crime" I committed was breaking up with her over 2 years ago because she was clingy and manipulativeMany lawyers will do a free consultation. There are also legal aid organizations. It can be dicey but your university likely has campus police as well as a student court system. You can ask the police about a restraining order. If she's done any of this online you can also speak with your school about their cyber bullying and general bullying policy | /r/MensRights | 01/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | The reaction to the Oscars is downright disgusting and very telling of what kind of person someone isI've only seen a couple of edited clips here on reddit so I missed the threats. That said, it still seems like an act to me. Anger or not, they've both got way too much to loose to go on like this. I'm not saying it wasn't real but it seems staged. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/22 01:45 PM |
| -9 | The reaction to the Oscars is downright disgusting and very telling of what kind of person someone isI just watched it a few time and it looks like acting to me. There both really good actors who have both done physical comedy and improved over the years Also let's be honest, if someone is upset enough to walk on the stage and slap someone it usually doesn't end there. Perhaps the clip I saw was heavily edited but I've seen real life fights over stuff like this and it rarely ends so (for lack of a better word) peacefully. Again, the clip I saw may have been really edited though. And yes comedy … | /r/MensRights | 28/03/22 01:43 PM |
| -10 | The reaction to the Oscars is downright disgusting and very telling of what kind of person someone isI can't see how it's not real. Will Smith is a fairly large guy and I doubt Chris Rock gets hit regularly. For Will Smith to have the time to walk up, plant himself and then hit Chris Rock out of anger I don't see Chris Rock just taking it on the chin and making more jokes. Over the years I think they've both been vocal examples of breaking some negative black stereotypes so I'm 99% sure it's a joke | /r/MensRights | 28/03/22 12:41 PM |
| 9 | Please stop with the hate on male birth control pill trials. They are a huge boon for us.Probably not. My guess is that many guys will be just as inconsistent as many women. I'm all for male birth control but I'm guessing that some communities will see pregnancy rates go up | /r/MensRights | 25/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againI'm just a random internet stranger but fuck them. There's many reasons for a person to not fight and they don't all come down to being a coward or less than a man. It's also pretty easy for people to say what they'd do when they're not in the situation. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Yeah it's about Ukraine againSerious question...who's shaming men for taking aid? | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | That fact that a wife can abort their child without the father's knowledge or consent is deeply and disgustingly evil.Yeah but as a guy you know the risk whenever you have sex. The child support laws we have need to change but you shouldn't just get a pass because you don't want a kid and neither should the woman. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The Ukraine war — like all conflicts — will hit women and girls the hardest, U.N. warnsI think you guys are kind of doing a straw man. The article isn't implying that there's no hardship on men, it's talking about the fallout for women. Ukrainian male soldiers who are captured likely won't end up slaves in Russia or elsewhere. If this thing goes on for too long, there are going to be some women who end up sex slaves, marrying foreign providers...Is that as bad as facing death? Who's to say but it's a potential hardship none the less. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Don’t go watch the new Batman film unless your a pervert !! r/FDSI'd say that if teenage boys see batman and turn into peeping toms there's going to be some real problems when they see a movie like fight club | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/03/22 04:07 PM |
| -1 | I am sick and tired of hearing about men ‘volunteering’ in UkraineHopefully we'll never find out. Realistically if the majority of women (especially those under 45 without kids) did decide to flee instead of fighting, working in support positions, helping in hospitals...the news of that would probably be overshadowed by the number of people from meal team six trying to get across a border or getting caught because despite all their "training" they struggled to shoot and breathe resulting in a large number of heart attacks and strokes. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 02:36 PM |
| -1 | I am sick and tired of hearing about men ‘volunteering’ in UkraineI feel like some men and women would yell "women shouldn't fight because if they're captured they'll be raped". On the other hand I don't think, especially if US cities are under attack, women volunteers for front line combat will be turned away. I do think that some may be put in segregated units but I don't' think women, especially those who are currently in the military, will get a full pass. Given how the US is these days I wonder if we'd even see many people not fleeing or giving up dependi… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 02:21 PM |
| 5 | I am sick and tired of hearing about men ‘volunteering’ in UkraineCall me crazy but that seems like more lip service than anything given recent events. IIRC many Ukrainian women do register for conscription yet young women have been allowed to leave the country. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | I am sick and tired of hearing about men ‘volunteering’ in UkrainePerhaps I wasn't clear enough...What I'm saying is that it's definitely sexist but that sexism is built into their culture. It's similar to what we saw in parts of the Arab world where out of all the militias, freedom fighters, national armies...you don't hear much about women fighters beyond the YPJ (I think that's what the Kurdish women were called). Even with their world literally burning around them you had men saying women have no place in war. I'm also saying that the world has chosen to o… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 02:02 PM |
| -3 | I am sick and tired of hearing about men ‘volunteering’ in UkraineMy guess is that it's not being talked about because people don't want to offend Ukrainian culture. Countries who bar women from military service or who would essentially turn women fighters away are seen as sexist and Ukraine is being touted as the global underdog. I can't say for sure but I imagine that if the Canadians got tired of having to say sorry and invaded the US, women wouldn't get a free pass | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | You get what you deserve...There's that saying that men age like wine and women like milk. I'm in my late 30s and still run into women my age who are unmarried, unhappy but still have "standards". There's nothing wrong with standards but all of us have to flex when we've gone past certain aspects of our prime and IMO many women just don't get that. FWIW I don't think there's anything wrong with women chasing money, dick...in their 20s and even 30s. I do think lots of them need to change the types of men they seek out if t… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | You get what you deserve...I presume that those marriages were not going well anyway, and one spouse was just waiting for the right exit strategy to materialize. This is spot on in my experience. IMO many adult relationships often devolve into a situation of convenience more than true love. Once that convenience factor is gone or the person has a better opportunity that's actually tangible they leave. I think all adults should in relationships should be careful about assuming things are good and be honest about when it's … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | You get what you deserve...NAL but I don't think that argument always gets you alimony. Most people I know who ended up getting or receiving alimony were in a situation where as the result of the divorce one person was in a struggle to maintain anywhere near their current lifestyle. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | You get what you deserve...Unless she has the kids considerably more than him, he'll likely get child support if she's making double his salary. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | You get what you deserve...Get together with the family and get him the best lawyer you guys can afford. While I don't like the current system we have (assuming you're in the US too) a good lawyer can make sure he gets to be present in his kids lives without going broke and that she's held accountable for any alienation, neglect...that often comes as the result of divorce and especially high pay/high stress jobs. FWIW most people who get divorced after a promotion, degree, kids graduating...were not happy to begin with. T… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | The tinder swindler on Netflix is an amazing example of hypergamy.It's pretty messed up but as a society we tend to view men as wanting something tangible from women (sex, youth...) and women only wanting love. That makes it easy to vilify the tinder swindler because the poor woman was looking for love and he took advantage of that. Yes she was only into him for the potential lifestyle but because she loved him she would have stayed no matter what /s. On the other hand people don't vilify Anna the white nigerian princess because if those men hadn't been such p… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/03/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't countries compensate men in some way for doing military service (especially as it may mean they will be more likely to be conscripted)?I don't know about all countries but in some conscripts don't just get a gun and join the general infantry. In some they can receive more specialized training than they would have going straight to college or the workforce. I live in the US and while I don't think everyone should be forced into the military, some form of compulsory service before the age of 25 to maintain all rights of citizenship would probably go a long way. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Ukrainian soldiers stopping cars and 'yanking out any man aged 18-60 to conscript in army'. Being forced at gunpoint to fight.Because obviously modern militaries have no support positions. Realistically giving women a pass is pretty short sighted since they make up a significant chunk of the population and are more than capable of doing many jobs. I dare say there's tons of Kurdish women who could probably outshoot you | /r/MensRights | 26/02/22 02:29 AM |
| 5 | What male privilege looks like in UkraineThis is probably one of the best responses I've gotten on reddit. While I don't agree with the US being as corrupt as Russia we definitely have our share of politicians and oligarchs who'd feel right at home under Putin. Again, great response. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 05:59 PM |
| 4 | What male privilege looks like in UkraineI'm going to ask and take the downvotes...would you be willing to fight for the other country that you'd rather be in? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What male privilege looks like in UkraineA foreign army invading is different than your leaders trying to nation build for cash or attacks from terrorist groups. While I hope to never go through it myself, I'll never forget a conversation I had with a Syrian refugee who told me that Syria will always be his home but he didn't feel it was a country worth him fighting or dying to stay in. I'll also never forget a conversation I had with a black WW2 vet. He told me he signed up hoping for the double v and because as bad as he was treated … | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 04:25 PM |
| -22 | What male privilege looks like in UkraineThen why do you stay? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 03:09 AM |
| 2 | I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virginsThat's my point. as guys we get overly concerned about sleeping with tons of women but when I talk to women especially those in my age dating range, they dont exactly get wet in the panties hearing that a guy has been with tons of women. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virginsI'd say you have to pick better friends. Believe it or not young girls in many sub cultures face just as much pressure, ridicule...for not being sexually active as young boys do. Even thinking back to high school we joked about girls and there was the usual banter from us male virgins but even the couple of people in the friend group who'd had sex before didn't shame the rest of us. I'd even argue that in society as a whole where I live (the US) being shamed for being a virgin or not having slep… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 9 | Took you long enough...I haven't been on a dating site in years but setting the bar at a 6 figure income was always the funniest thing to me especially from women who barely finished high school. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 7 | How do I help my male neighbor? he's being abused by his wife (Domestic violence)Since he has a child with her that could be why he stays. The system isn't too kind to men even if they're not the bad parent. This is going to seem odd but having been in a similar situation I can say that sometimes a random woman being kind to you is enough to realize that you can do better. Don't overstep but just be nice to him so he can see the difference between how his wife treats him and other people do. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/22 11:28 PM |
| 10 | Just falsely accused of rape, in need of advice.I'll start by saying the only advice you need is to talk to a lawyer and strongly consider putting one on retainer as well as talking to a close family member or friend in case you need to plan for bail upon arrest. FWIW your situation isn't all that weird. In the age where more and more people are seeking therapy, it's not uncommon for people to be told to process trauma by writing it down and in some cases expressing their hurt to the people who hurt them. It could be that the "written stateme… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything a man can do to protect himself against a false accusation?Yes and no. You can preemptively find lawyers in your area and even put one one retainer if you want. You can also make sure to build up a strong enough financial safety net that you can go 3-9 months at least without a paycheck. For close friends and family, don't neglect your relationships with them so in the event of an accusation they have no reason to even entertain the notion of the accuser being correct. For work, I say read your employee handbook and maybe don't work at certain places. M… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 146 | On tihi this has an nsfw tag and several highly upset individuals in the repliesWhen one kid gets bullied the majority joins in. Even those who have been bullied before tend to join in on the "fun". It seems to be common for a lot of people to target someone else out of fear of being targeted themselves. Chances are hardly anyone wanted to give up their seat for her so better to pile onto that guy than get called out. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/01/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Having a personal opinion of potential partners wrt sexual past is now "slut-shaming" apparentlyYou should have asked what she'd think of a guy who had sex with over 50 women. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 4 | USA: Ohio man, 83, is acquitted of his wife's murder after spending 45 YEARS in prison: 'This is America. How could my fellow man treat me like this?'Worse for him is that when he was found guilty the case was closed. His wife never got justice he wanted for her | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 12:54 AM |
| 4 | USA: Ohio man, 83, is acquitted of his wife's murder after spending 45 YEARS in prison: 'This is America. How could my fellow man treat me like this?'Realistically dna and evaluating allegations of mistreatment or outright racism would probably free a lot of people | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 12:54 AM |
| 0 | I got slapped by a girl and laughed upon and couldn't do anything.Not sure how old you are but next time call the cops. In 2021 I'm guessing someone recorded it so you've got that going for you. If you're in high school then go to the principal or your counselor. They have an obligation to take your accusation serious because at least in the US not doing so could make you a rich man | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Another Example And The Most Stupid Of Them AllThen you would be one of a small number of human beings who is immune to unconscious bias. Studies show that after years of being bombarded by negative images of blacks in the media, there has been an effect on society as a whole. That effect is that many PEOPLE (even black people) harbor unconscious biases and fears of black males. I do agree with the rest of what you said. Skin color mattering and a lot of other divisions are nothing more than a way to keep people ignorantly bickering among th… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 02:50 PM |
| -3 | Another Example And The Most Stupid Of Them AllI agree with you up to a point. The sad reality is that because of lies like this, all black males are generally looked upon as criminals and potential rapists. This happens because those in power as well as currently the majority of the population in the west is white. When white people see an accusation like this they easily associate crime with black males. When those same white men hear about 3 white males committing a crime, they dismiss it as behavior of all white men because not doing tha… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Boy gropes girl at school. What should the consequences be?What the fuck is wrong with you? Don't talk down about people taking having something done to them a certain way until it's been done to you. I guarantee there's a whole host of shit that someone could do to you that'll scar you for life that someone may ignorantly say shows you have the mental strength of a toddler. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Boy gropes girl at school. What should the consequences be?I mean no disrespect but you're wrong on this. I'm a guy in my late 30s and I hear stories from women my age that may seem trivial to a lot of men but left massive impacts on the women from a young age. I can't read this chicks mind but I've met more than one women who told me about feeling ashamed after or having deserved being sexually harrassed. While getting smacked on the ass might seem trivial to most of us, we don't know how it made her feel or how it will impact how she's treated by othe… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Boy gropes girl at school. What should the consequences be?I'd be onboard with suspension and no contact. I'd say that some sort of deferred prosecution ending if the boy graduates on time, completes training for sexual misconduct as well as community service. I'm not saying this should follow the boy for life legally but the consequences should be strong enough to stick with him for life because this incident will probably stick with the girl for life. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Woman has been sentenced to two concurrent 99-year prison terms on the felony charges of sodomy and sexual torture. Assistant District Attorney and lead prosecutor said. “it made your stomach churn watching these videos. It is so violent and so aggressive".Judicial and prosecutorial discretion. It's the reason I'd probably get 10+ years for rape but a rich person might just get probation and treatment. FWIW it sounded like how disturbing the prosecutors deemed the case to be was a huge factor. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 2 | A true king!Providing an anecdote doesn't mean that one's argument is based on anecdotal evidence. If you'd ever travelled beyond the first world and taken the time to talk to people then you'd know that while love is nice, many marriages do not start based on it. Even in the US when you take a look at divorce records you often find that love wasn't the driving motivator between two people saying I do. And I'm so glad that you can read your wife's mind to know that she wants nothing from you from companions… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/08/21 01:17 PM |
| 0 | A true king!If that's the most ridiculous thing you've ever read then I genuinely feel bad for you. Perhaps once things calm down you can do some travelling or maybe try to meet people beyond the current circle that you have. While getting married for love is nice and happens, it's not the norm around the world and likely not even in the US. Even in the US if you take a look at not just divorce rates but the reasons people list for getting divorced as well as comments they make, you realize that love isn't … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 37 | A true king!Very few marriages the world over are based on love. Even in the US a scary number of people get married for convenience, safety or frankly money. I used to work with a guy who got married at 20 when he was in the military. He's still with his wife but one night had a few too many and admitted that she didn't want to work and saw marrying someone in the military as the easiest way to meet a guy her age who "was together". | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 123 | A true king!I think the word you're looking for is marriage | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/08/21 03:48 AM |
| -1 | Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby?Yes and there's also medical professionals who believe in conversion therapy. What someone believes in doesn't negate the statistics. Your link is from 2013...like I said to another, we'll just have to see what happens over time. As it stands, those who aren't circmcised have higher rates of the things I mentioned. In studies their partners also showed higher rates of cervical cancer and IIRC higher rates of bacterial infections. Considerably more time and larger sample sizes will show if there'… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby?You're right in that as a non Canadian I'm not overly familiar with your medical system. That said, how likely is it that the statistics I mentioned are made up just to appease the English speaking part of Canada? I guess if we're going to start ignoring medical science based on bad outcomes for a minority of patients then we better stop fixing cleft pallets, treating congenital heart defects, setting bones...I'd love to see the science you guys have backing up that circumcision on the whole cau… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby?Religion has a lot to do with the allowance of such a barbaric tradition. Not really. While circumcision has been a religious and cultural practice for generations, it's use in western medicine was largely to promote genital hygiene. Frankly it's more difficult to care for an uncircumcised penis than a circumcised one, which is why you find significantly more infections among uncircumcised males. The concensus is that it is NOT necessary for neonates and therefore should NOT be practiced Even … | /r/MensRights | 11/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby?Sure thing guy. And what does your province not being religious have to do with anything? Even though circumcision is often conflated with religion, the modern justification for it is based on science. I never said it's a necessity. I even mentioned that it's a choice for parents. The AAP doesn't say it's a necessity. What the science tells us is that a large number of men who don't get a circumcision will have one or more infections at some point in their life related to their foreskin. What th… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/21 01:11 PM |
| -14 | Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby?So it's ignorant to believe in science? It's very telling that you and the anti-circumcision crowd never actually link to evidence based research to validate your beliefs. While circumcision isn't required, doing it has documented and legitimate health benefits. Male babies and adult men who aren't circumcised are at much higher risk of infection in that area, the results of which can be deadly, especially for older men. Western Europe has a considerably lower rate of circumcision than we do in … | /r/MensRights | 11/08/21 12:53 PM |
| -19 | Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby?Where are you reading that? I personally know at least 10 doctors or nurses and they all recommend circumcision for male babies. In addition, all of their sons are circumcised. Circumcision's up to the parents but as far as I know there's been no reversal of the medical stance that the benefits outweigh any risks. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/21 12:14 PM |
| -18 | Why is it illegal in the U.S. to circumcise a women before 18 but perfectly legal to do it to a man when he is a baby?Because one has a medically backed reason for doing and the other is just mutilation Edit: I get that much of reddit skews a certain way on some issues. That doesn't negate statistics or make people who believe differently wrong. The reality is that from the perspective of science, we live in the most advanced age ever to walk the planet Earth. It's easy to call a practice barbaric or to dismiss certain stats when you have treatments to negate them. The reality is that a boy getting an infection… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/21 11:53 AM |
| 11 | DNA test proves man who paid 58k in child support isn’t the dadThe problem is that we haven't corrected/adjusted family law at the federal level. When a lot of these laws were first drawn, the notion that a child might be the result of infidelity by the woman was pretty unheard of AFAIK. So most laws were written in a way to stop the man (primary earner at the time) from hoisting financial responsibility onto state. Because of that there's no guardrail that says prove you're not the dad an you're off the hook. This is largely because the state wants to avoi… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/07/21 06:12 PM |
| 18 | Big oof!It looks like there were 6 guests and it's Miami. Given the number of people who pay 500-1000/night for hotel rooms there I'm sure there are people willing to spend $1k/person on a dinner. FWIW rich people and wealthy people aren't the same. There are tons of rich athletes and entertainers who do shit like this while not being very wealthy. I used to know a guy who made over 150k/year and was always broke because he drove luxury cars, took lavish vacations, bought expensive closes, went on expen… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Fat fuck gets denied by own brotherMeasures for things like standard BMI also don't take body type into account. While we do have an obesity problem we also have to realize that you can carry some extra weight and still maintain a healthy lifestyle as well as fitness level. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/21 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Apparently in Sweden, it’s legal for women to BUY sex but not men.It's definitely an interesting strategy. To play a bit of devil's advocate I guess it could maybe reduce pimping and trafficking. By stopping you from buying sex directly in theory it means you have to cultivate a relationship/agreement with the hooker. At the risk of sounding a bit cynical that means that you become a sugar daddy or one or many suitors supporting the hooker, which I think for many people is acceptable because frankly it closely mirrors some marriages. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/21 04:13 PM |
| 3 | An OnlyThot Gets AuditedThis is probably the best response I've ever seen for something like this. I think that from now on when I get calls from dealer services I'm going to ask them to call me back on my landline which will be the number to the IRS. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/07/21 12:22 PM |
| 120 | Play games? Pass denied."Get asked and don't do the asking", the top strategy employed by people who become resentful for being single. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/07/21 12:35 PM |
| 314 | Play games? Pass denied.I think the problem is that too many women have a messed up fairy tell vision of what romance actually is. It doesn't help that as a guy the line is in sand on a windy hill. By that I mean that if she likes you then it's okay to push through rejection but if she doesn't like you then pushing through can easily mean a restraining order or being crucified on social media. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/07/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Guy makes girl split the bill on a dateI mean she never said she'd fuck him. Honestly that friend zone shit seemed like the stringing along thing women do to men not a you were getting laid before you decided not to pay thing | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/21 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Guy makes girl split the bill on a dateHonestly I feel like the LVM is the one asking her to pay or watching her eat and not ordering anything. It's funny how women often associate high value with how much a guy spends on them. I don't know a lot of rich people but the ones I've met are generally tight with respect to spending money on bullshit and courting women who aren't on their level and they're not in an actual relationship with tends to fall in the bullshit category. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Guy makes girl split the bill on a dateBased on the look on his face he clearly didn't have a good time. I'm actually surprised he sat through the entire date given how unenthusiastic he looked. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Guy makes girl split the bill on a dateI'm pretty sure there's no shortage of women and beta men out there telling her how great and gorgeous she is. But you're right, no sane person expects that an invitation out means you don't have to pay unless the other person says it's on them. Hell even then you could offer to cover the tip, taxes, dessert or something | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | The privilege of being a stay at home parent, and why the govt doesn't want any stay at home parentsI think they're saying that being a full time parent is equally if not more difficult than working many jobs. Unless you're above certain means or cutting corners, being a stay at home parent is far from easy. Hell I'd rather be in a meeting of gassy engineers than spend every 15 minutes over a 8 hour span having to try to get my kid to focus. If I've learned anything over the last year it's that elementary school teachers are freaking saints who deserve to get paid more than professional athlet… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The privilege of being a stay at home parent, and why the govt doesn't want any stay at home parentsI think it's obvious that women get the better side of the deal in traditional (and even contemporary) marriages. I feel like that's heavily dependent on who you're married to or have kid(s) with. I've met stay at home parents who do it because they can't afford childcare even with both parents working. Even when they have one kid it can still be a struggle when they have limited resources. Hell after pretty much having to be a single dad during much of covid I'd gladly take working 10 hour days… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Textbook example of a PP denial.Depends on many factors but if say she's on the cheap end for what she's offering unless she says you only get 10 minutes. It's funny because vice crimes really through a wrench in capitalism. Ive seen older over the hill hookers in mom major metros advertising's 500+/hr. That's more than some lawyers who get you off in a more meaningful way. I'm not knocking guys who pay lots of money for hookers but personally I'd rather have an apple watch than an hour with a hooker at today's rates | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/06/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Textbook example of a PP denial.Nope and for some people it's a better deal. I'm not sure if things have changed but some plans used to let you upgrade your phone every couple of years and trade in the old one. For people who always want the new phone it was a sweet deal since they didn't ever actually need to have 1-2k up front for a phone | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/06/21 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Textbook example of a PP denial.Not really. Looks like the regular 60-80 for service and then the rest for the phone. I know someone with a family plan paying over 300 a month but she just had to get her kids those iPhones | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/06/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Textbook example of a PP denial.I live in a country where it's not legal and can say that the only people who make you pay up front through something like cash app are looking to scam you. Yes you have hookers the cash before the deed bit you at least know they're real and likely to perform when you are seeing them in person. I read an article about a guy making almost 500/day pulling these cash app deposit scams. While I won't pretend to be willing to turn down some reasonably priced p4p no way sending some stranger money thr… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/06/21 06:58 PM |
| 8 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.I get what you're saying but maybe have some empathy for the guys buying the drink. While I get that some guys try to ball out and impress women by spending but have no real expectation, there are some guys who buy drinks hoping to get to know the chick. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:50 PM |
| 6 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.I'm shocked she didn't try to befriend some of the girls in the group and try to get them to slide her a drink. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:47 PM |
| 10 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.That's ridiculous. Even if you earn more than women that doesn't mean you should quickly and easily spend money on them. Doing so is a quick way for you to go broke. The mindset is problematic because buying drinks and to a degree dating in general has a low rate of return for most men. It would be okay if women had something to offer in the equation but honestly some can't even provide great conversation. I'm older now but I used to be all about buying drinks, paying for dates...until I read so… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.The only people who believe that are people who don't know any better. It's funny because we have a lot of weird logic that if you think about it makes no sense. For example, you often hear how you have to spend money to make money but I rarely meet rich people who are excited to spend their own money | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 37 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.I dated a girl in college who was okay looking. She was Asian which I guess was rare for a lot of guys to see so she generally got hit on. She also had a smoking hot sorority sister. I remember one night I was at a bar and because her sorority sister was dull as dirt I opted to talk to other people. It was weird because my girl kept bringing me drinks. At the end of the night I asked what I owed and they started giggling. Turns out that all night guys were just buying them drinks. Apparently the… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:34 PM |
| -3 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.Your friends all either have good relationships or aren't comfortable confiding in you. There's a huge difference between complaining about and trash talking a partner. I've never met anyone who didn't at some point have something bad to say about their partner. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 24 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.You forgot that chunk that wants to sell nudes or sex services. Seriously though tinder and online dating in general provides a huge false ego boost to a lot of women. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:29 PM |
| 45 | A group of female friends last night told me they genuinely feel entitled to be bought drinks at the bar by men.I wouldn't call it amoral when you consider some of the things science has found about how women subconsciously perceive men quickly. Most of us don't turn down free things and in a social situation there's no real contract for saying yes to getting something for free. Ideally most men should follow the plan of actually talking to a woman before buying her things if they don't want to get played. I'd also advise avoiding women who ask for free drinks or who expect a first date to be somewhere th… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 17 | My ex girlfriend cheated on me, then called the police. I'm not allowed in my own house.This is correct. Give your friend your keys, tell her you want to meet somewhere public to give her money for future rent (to lure her out of the house), and have your friend get all your shit while she’s out. NAL but this seems like pretty bad advice and will likely result in her calling the cops to report being robbed. It's one thing to have the landlord go in with you or to have the cops there while you remove your belongs, but luring her out so someone else can go in is pretty shady. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 03:44 PM |
| 15 | My ex girlfriend cheated on me, then called the police. I'm not allowed in my own house.My condo is in my name only... If my wife goes off the deep end, then the landlord will be very instrumental in getting her out of the property or I will give proper notice and that's it. A little unsolicited advice...this will depend largely on where you live. Where I live we have some odd common law legislation that keeps you from just being able to one day kick your partner out and adults over 18 are also supposed to be on the lease. I've actually known someone in my city who had to formally … | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 7 | My ex girlfriend cheated on me, then called the police. I'm not allowed in my own house.Are you not allowed in the residence or are you not allowed near her? Are there formal charges against you? Is there an actual restraining order or did the cop just say don't go back? Regardless, don't stop paying rent until your name is off the lease. Speak to your landlord and explain the situation and ask if they will allow you to be removed from the lease or if you want to stay if they will evict her. You also need to try to make an inventory of what all is in the apartment and consider goin… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 03:36 PM |
| -1 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...If your argument is factual then you'd provide facts, yet you're not doing that. To say that women were not oppressed in the 50s and beyond ignores large chunks of US history. Black women throughout much of US history knowing that if raped by a black man they'd get likely get no just ice is a clear and factual example of the oppression of women. If you're going to ignore that the aforementioned is factual then you're beyond ignorant. While many men throughout history have taken on the role of pr… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...Seeing as how there have been some men who have benefited from common law protections I guess they've done what you've asked. Turns out there are some women who are better off financially than most men | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 03:09 PM |
| 0 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...He referred to her as a spouse, proposed and gave her a ring. According to the article she frequently stayed at his place. Reading between the lines I think the only reason they didn't full time live together was that they both had kids. Again, reading between the lines it seemed like whenever she didn't have her kids she was at his place. In addition, he essentially treated her like a wife, paying for everything and taking her on trips. In addition to financing her lifestyle, he did the same fo… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...Keep in mind that in the eyes of the law marriage isn't about love, a ring or saying "I do". Common law protections more than anything are to ensure that after a breakup someone doesn't put their hand out for government money and to make it easier to estate plan or make end of life decisions for long term partners you're not married to. I'd say this couple met a reasonable standard for common law marriage. Not needing to live together is a reasonable standard for common law marriage, especially … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 6 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...I don't think this will work. I mean if you spend it all on hookers and betting on black you won't have money but that won't stop a judgement that says you have to pay $X or be held in contempt of court. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 01:50 PM |
| -4 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...Factually speaking they were. In the 50s there were jobs women couldn't get and in parts of the southern US good luck being a black woman raped by a white man and getting justice. FWIW alimony and child support laws are good in theory (have the people and not the state pay) but definitely need some caps and updating to reflect the world we now live in. In addition to women easily being able to find work and attend school we know the wrong formula was used to calculate child support | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 11 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...It wasn't a loophole and according to the argument there is past precedent. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 01:46 PM |
| 3 | 6 million dollar payout for woman who never married and never lived with man... oh Canada...While I think extreme amounts of alimony are bs because once a relationship is over you should have no responsibility for helping your ex keep up their lifestyle. Saying you owe X% because they helped you earn it or agreed to forgo a career for homemaking is one thing but paying them because you got them used to luxury is bs. That said, this is a sobering example of how people with a lot to lose should treat relationships. Even though they weren't married and maintained separate residences, the … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | today my friend was rejected from a job at a coffee shop because he’s a manAre you sure there wasn't more to it? Unless they had an exception to discrminiate like I think Hooters does then I'm not sure what employer would outright say that. NAL but I do think you can get away with having a preference if two candidates are equal. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/21 04:05 PM |
| -1 | Thanks, I hate EqualityIt's funny because one never really considered giving up a seat for a pregnant woman I didn't knock up or we I don't know. Unless she's the Virgin Mary there someone else involved if that person can't afford to give her enough money to bribe me out of my seat then she clearly made a bad reproductive choice which isn't my fault. With the risk of sounding heartless throwing in single mom usually means nothing to me. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/04/21 12:29 PM |
| 19 | Thanks, I hate EqualityBecause it's more acceptable for a woman to tell another women to fuck off than it is for a man. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/04/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Thanks, I hate EqualityOld lady I feel like most people over 60 who are still having to ride the city bus have dinner shit to be tired about | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | King shitHonestly even if a date goes horribly neither person owes the other anything. If you know you're not having a good time or don't want to continue then politely excuse yourself, find the server, pay your share and then let the person know you've paid your share, don't wish to spend more time with them and leave. There's no obligation to spend time with someone you're not getting along with and of you didn't bring money then you're an entitled asshole | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/04/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | "MANimony" Rich women are angry that they have to pay their husbands ALIMONYThat's a better argument for division of assets than alimony. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/21 04:01 AM |
| 0 | "MANimony" Rich women are angry that they have to pay their husbands ALIMONYThe whole housewife for life thing is a cop out. While you don't have to start a career once your kids are out you can generally invest your time I'm something that may be an employable skill without breaking the bank. This will sound harsh but asking someone to financially support another adult for a prolonged period of time is ridiculous. I can understand helping to pay for 1-2 years of community college but alimony much like child support doesn't have enough checks on how the money is spent. … | /r/MensRights | 18/04/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | The average child attends a school where most Teachers are Women and most Janitors are Men.Is this anecdotal or did you look up actual stats? In elementary education I think there's generally more women but it tends to balance out once you hit high school and university. With respect to janitorial work, I think it's sad we still look down upon janitors and sanitation workers. While neither requires advanced education, both are generally benefit eligible government jobs, so while you don't make six figures you generally have job security. Back to the teacher thing...historically there … | /r/MensRights | 03/04/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | futures security guard protecting him from a crazy thotIn most of the US 5k net income puts you well above the median and no it doesn't take that to raise a kid if you live a life you can afford. There's 2 huge problems with child support in these cases. 1 the person paying can't always sustain and can get screwed later when they go broke. 2 nobody should be legally awarded more I'm child support than they could reasonably make. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/03/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | futures security guard protecting him from a crazy thotAnd child support is tax free | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/03/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Get a job hoeI'd say the male equivalent of the ass photo is the ab shot and there's no shortage of those. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Get a job hoeAre we really saying women dont want dick anymore? I refuse to believe every woman online is selling pussy or nudes if they are then old Uncle Sam's missing a lot of revenue | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/21 09:57 PM |
| -8 | Man Wins Custody Of His Own Daughter After She Was Adopted Without His PermissionSpoken by someone who has never been adopted or adopted a kid. FWIW it sucks all around. For many couples the adoption process is both long and expensive. In some cases you even build a relationship with a kid as the process goes on. That means that for the adoptive parents in many cases they've developed a bond that they don't want to let go. I remember reading an article years ago about an aunt who raised her niece pretty much from birth until she was 6. Essentially the mom had a lot of issues… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | A legit pussypass deniedSeeing as how women tend to get majority timeshare and claim the kids on their taxes, chances are a lot of women are at least getting a larger check than their child support paying nanny daddies | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What a bitchAnother one is that nobody with class ever has to say they have it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/02/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | What a bitchThis isn't PPD. Wanting someone do what you want but not what you do isn't a woman thing. I used to know a dude who was broke as shit and only messed with women with a car. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 2 | In 9th grade they installed two gender neutral restrooms at my school. The girls complained that is was Sexist, and Within 2 hours they changed the sign on one door to female only, and left the other one gender neutral. We now have 2 girls restrooms, one boys and one gender neutral restroom.It's high school. Teenage girls don't anymore want to risk a group of guys seeing them take a shit than you do/did a group of girls seeing your wang dang doodle. FWIW, I think one is about the number of gender neutral bathrooms. If there's an uneven number of the others then it should probably go to whatever gender has the most students. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Get finnesedOften 2nd generation plus have seen the money lose value and know they can't necessarily get it back if lost. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 19 | FinessedShe's probably got more than him and that's if she's a she. Imagine if you ask 200 new people a day for $20. How many have to say yes for you to make a living wage. Young girls on Facebook and Instagram can easily have thousands of followers and friends. I read a post months ago about a guy who posts ads for prostitution and asks for a booking deposit. He said on good days he cleared about 500 of asking for $20-50 deposits. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | The army is one of the best examples of gender inequality towards MENThere shouldn't be and there isn't specifically which is why it's good to see women getting more opportunities in the military | /r/MensRights | 14/02/21 02:25 PM |
| -4 | The army is one of the best examples of gender inequality towards MENWho do you think is making it that way? Look at history. Traditionally in many cultures women fought alongside men. FWIW the ability of non white males to have certain combat roles is fairly modern in the US. I also think some branches are allowing women to have combat jobs of they're capable. Many men can't carry massive pack for hours at a time and in the minds of some that's still necessary. I want to close by saying that women have died in combat and nobody tried passing legislation to preve… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/21 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Offered pictures in exchange for letting her win.I feel like anytime someone tries to offer nudes for sell or trade no words should be said, instead the response should be a picture of a cat or dog doing some funny animal stuff. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/02/21 01:25 PM |
| 21 | Offered pictures in exchange for letting her win.I doubt only fans releases stats but I'd say 2-4/month is probably about right for most of the content. Anything around 10/month and you're competing with legit porn producers. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/02/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | They have standards that can’t even attain themselvesI think the guy comes off as a douche but conventional wisdom is that women can date/marry up and that man should date/marry down as long as she's cute. Calling out that men should look for well rounded equals instead of going for the hot chick with no GED is a good thing. Also checking women on the fact that many have too high standards is a good thing. I'm not a member anymore but there was a subreddit that was for the most part women's dating profiles that were ridiculous. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/02/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Matched with this chick on an online dating app, switched to IG and then she hit me with this 🤣I'm sure that chick didn't feel a shred of embarrassment. Of anything the ones who should be embarrassed are the grown ass men supporting this kind of stuff. I mean women used to slowly con a guy bit now they just come out and ask for ridiculous shit. I can't knock the hustle and honestly they probably save guys like me from wasting too much cash on bad relationships | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/01/21 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Yes he didI'm all about opening a car door but if that chick can't reach over to open my door too from the inside then it's a wrap. I'm not going to stop seeing her but I'm going to stop opening the door. With respect to opening a restaurant door it really depends. I'm not going to jog in front of her to do it but if I get there first I'll open it. Honestly I'm guessing the idea of letting a woman go first just came from some guy who was willing to let his wife get shot so he could run off if there was da… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/01/21 02:48 PM |
| 6 | LMFAOOShe implied it's wrong for men to only be after her for sex but it's okay for her to be willing to use her sex appeal to get money from men she'll never actually do anything for | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Womp-wompYes there's a Max contribution to your 401k provided by your company. There are other retirement plans that you can contribute to beyond the 401k it's just some won't give the same tax advantages https://www.irs.gov/newsroom/401k-contribution-limit-increases-to-19500-for-2020-catch-up-limit-rises-to-6500#:~:text=401(k)%20contribution%20limit%20increases,up%20limit%20rises%20to%20%246%2C500 Edit: the max above is different from the max your employer will match. I'm not expert on any of this but I… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Womp-wompAgain I'd say culture plays a huge role. I know an African guy whose dad has 4 wives. With the exception of the first wife I don't think any of them actively chose to be with him. He was wealthy and their dads facilitated the marriage. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Womp-wompI'm guessing it's because the men often outnumber the women and the quality of the women is likely lower than the competition they face in the real world. It's easy to think you're the shit when you have tons of flattering messages a day. When I was in my 20s I had a friend whose approach to women was to date larger gals or ones who weren't traditionally pretty. He tended to not be the only guy with that idea and more often than not the average (IMO) girls would have tons of guys approaching whi… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Womp-wompI'd say it is a lot for most people, especially if you live alone. Most people I know struggle to even max out their 401k. I'm guessing the guy wanted to put something she was likely not going to have that seemed somewhat achievable. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Womp-wompThe case of you and your brother is one of the reasons women wanting tall guys to have tall kids is so ridiculous. There's tons of factors that go into how tall we end up. I went to school with a kid whose mom got knocked up by an NBA player. The guy was hugely uncoordinated and when we finished HS he was 5 foot 5. On the other hand I dated a girl who was 5 foot 11 and towered over both of her parents (mom and dad were both about 5 foot 6). | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Womp-wompI guess my question would be at what point do you address the personal insecurity to expand your pool of potential partners? While I have no doubt you can find a guy taller than you who ticks all of your boxes, you're probably passing over a lot of guys. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:33 PM |
| 31 | Womp-wompFrom what I've seen most women drop those standards quickly as they get older or stay single. I'm well under 6ft tall and got straight blown out by a chick at a bar one night. She was really rude about and pretty much let me know that she doesn't want guys she can't wear her tallest heals with. Her friend was pretty drunk and called out the fact that I was the only guy that actually talked to her that night. I don't think I've ever seen anyone turn so red. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 14 | Womp-wompSimps made it worse but they didn't create the problem. I think women themselves created the problem. Even before the ability of a chick to post one picture on instagram and get a flood of dms, there were women with unrealistic standards. Many of them had dated shitty guys in their youth and then set high standards because they wanted something better and at times something better than they could provide for themselves. In other cases, it's been women wanting to outdo their friends or maybe just… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Womp-wompIn humans I think culture plays a big role. While we can't buck biology (the urge to procreated with someone with traits that will prolong your bloodline) we can't ignore culture. There's a good reason you more often see a man with extra wives than a woman with extra husbands. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 10 | Womp-wompIf it's the okcupid study I'm familiar with then that was one of the findings. IIRC men on the whole sent more messages to white women, as a group I think black women were more likely to send a message to guys first and white guys fared best among men. I also think the data was a bit older and given the number of specialized dating sites now I'm guessing that some of the advantages have decreased. For example, if you're a black guy and go to a dating site that specifically has women looking for … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Womp-wompPersonally I think it's refreshing when people are face up about this kind of stuff. While I think her requirements are kind of ridiculous, it's best that both people not waste their time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Womp-wompIgnoring the height thing, I'd venture a guess that most women who have the guy owning a house on their checklist don't own one themselves. In addition to most people not actually owning their house outright, it's hell when you have a steady relationship with someone who also has their own place. While I guess you could evenly split time, it also ends up in a situation where one of you is essentially paying for a place that you no longer really live in. My guess is Lauren wants a dude with a hou… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/21 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Woman brags about body count, gets dumped (usernames removed this time)So you never nutted in a condom? It was an odd choice of words but didn't necessarily mean she got raw dogged by each guy. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Woman brags about body count, gets dumped (usernames removed this time)Well that's a bunch of shit I wish I could unsee | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Woman brags about body count, gets dumped (usernames removed this time)No way you'd share? I'm curious what the replies she got were. Anyways I'll respectfully disagree on the rest. I remember living in a large city and over two months I went on dates with 20 women. Most went nowhere but of the 20 I had sex with 5 of them and I think that's a pace and lifestyle I could have maintained for at least 5 years. At that pace which is not inconceivable I'd need therapy by your logic pretty quickly. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Woman brags about body count, gets dumped (usernames removed this time)So would you be laughing if it were a dude who had smashed over 100 women? Also why is having a large number of sex partners a bad thing? It's unlikely that you'll have that many partners and be std free but you can avoid pregnancy and avoid major stds like hiv/aids. Also let's be honest, averaging 10 partners a year can get you to 100 between the ages of 20 and 30. While most people never hit that number, it's feasible that many people, especially those in major cities or who travel a lot will.… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Woman brags about body count, gets dumped (usernames removed this time)The girl literally said "nutted in her" so she, by her own admission, isn't practicing safe sex by using condoms. She certainly isn't practicing safe oral sex by using dental dams, because even the vast majority of people who do use condoms don't even think to use dental dams due to poor sex education. Nutted in doesn't have to imply that she wasn't using condoms for oral, vaginal or anal sex. FWIW very few people use dental dams or other forms of protection for oral sex. With respect to her hav… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | [Forbes] Canada Stimulus Package: Second Stimulus Checks Plus A Dose Of SexismI used to have a friend with several nieces and nephews. Her dad loved all of his grandkids but would occasionally say he really only knew the ones from his daughter were his actual grandkids. The optimist in me hopes that moreso than sexism or discrimination against same sex couples this is a hat tip to the possibility that many men are raising a kid that's not theirs. FWIW as a US citizen I'd swallow a bit of sexism to get more than 1200 + 500 in a pandemic | /r/MensRights | 24/12/20 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Doctors to the ER. We have a total destruction over hereI've seen lots of cases where a parent ages well but the kid doesn't and vice versa. A lot goes into how we age beyond just genetics. One woman I know is in her 40s and her mom has always looked better than she does. The mom just takes better care of herself and actually gives a fork. The daughter got married and pregnant young then never really recovered. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets?Not everyone sees combat. And given the wars of recent decades, none of their actions likely made the US any safer. Hell I'd argue that good teachers putting kids on the right path makes our country far safer than a soldier fighting Islamic extremists or holding territory for a foreign government | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets?If we're sharing stories...I know someone whose cousin signed up for the marines at 18 because he couldn't get a job or go to college. He got hurt before leaving boot camp and over 20 years later still calls himself a proud marine and hates anyone asking for a handout as he gets a disability check that has allowed him to never work a day in his adult life. Is he too disabled to work? Given the amount of time he spends working on cars, riding 4 wheelers, fishing...I'd say no. I'm guessing if they… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets?If that really happened then it's because they're our only ally in the middle east /s Seriously though it's because of a combination of AIPAC lobbying and a large number of Jewish voters in states like Florida. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets?What would you say is the solution? Medicare for all would likely address your medical needs and so would potentially reevaluting the necessity of carrying that much weight. With respect to the government handing out money to people who refuse to work, much of that has been debunked. While there are people who cheat the system, the vast majority of welfare recipients don't | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets?Maybe at the founding of the country. One of the worst things about the US is how we adhere to doctrine that is anachronistic. Given the state we're in, the government should be helping to provide many things that individuals once provided for themselves or went without. While I don't think the government should give everyone a house or necessarily even a paycheck, allowing homesteading, giving direct loans instead of the government buying them later, taxing the hell out of people who hold land … | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets?It's ironic because much of the budget indirectly goes to improving the lives of former service members. The US pays a ton each year to private contractors, many of whom are former military. To be honest getting the right job in the military is like picking the right major when you go to college. Get cyber transport and you'll likely leave and walk into a 6 figure job. Get in as a driver and your transition won't be as easy unless you can and do put time into getting the right education when you… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets?I'll risk the downvotes and say I don't agree with this. As someone else mentioned, you can do a few years and then be a vet with a host of benefits you qualify currently. That's in contrast to a teacher who can teach for 10+ years and not even get a subsidy for classroom supplies. FWIW, many of the vets I've spoken to who are holding signs in my area often signed up young and were assigned a job with limited correlation to the private sector. They also tend to have in common a youth of debt whe… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Shut downWho says she's a stranger? For all we know he's the guy who was friend zoned for years. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/12/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Smart man makes smart movesIf everyone operated on that logic then the bulk of pictures on Facebook as well a good chunk of porn hub wouldn't be there | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 32 | Netherlands Will Promote Shared ParentingGiven our divorce rates it's amazing this isn't a kitchen table issue. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Just witnessed murder on this Twitter thread.How attractive we perceive ourselves to be is often based on the amount of interest in us. Even moderately attractive women are hit on by scores of men online these days often distorting their perception of how they look. It's like back before social media when a busted looking chick would hang out with overweight girls and then think she was a model because she got most of the attention. I think it's shitty for her to be calling people out on their looks but it's understandable. I remember livi… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/12/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | OnlyFans whore in shambles after her sugar daddy’s checks bounce (Repost because I had to censor names)I get what you're saying but I think that for real prostitutes the customer is getting something tangible in return. FWIW I do hope that one day soon the tax man comes knocking for a lot of these people | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | It goes for everyone no matter what!Looking again at the picture I guess her sitting on or next to and too close to the student is more likely | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | It goes for everyone no matter what!Illegal physical contact was an odd phrase so it's not surprise most of us are confused. FWIW, it could be that the kid sat on her lap or perhaps she ran into them in a way that may have caused a degree of pleasure. Should be interesting to see what happens as a result of this. I'm really starting to think that a big focus needs to be on helping teachers cope with insecurities and attraction issues that seem to rise. Even some of the prettier offenders seem to be trying to live or relive some hi… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried Ontario couple had no children and no house but man must still pay support, appeal court rulesThe real lesson here is to be careful getting into a relationship with someone who is not your financial equal. If you do then it's best to make sure they keep working (unless you get married) and to scale down to the life they can afford with few exceptions. People like this dude and Lionel Richie get screwed over because they essentially provide their women with a life that few can afford and nobody would want to turn away from. Do I think these judgements are fair? No but they make sense on a… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 8 | Unmarried Ontario couple had no children and no house but man must still pay support, appeal court rulesGetting some degree of support is fair but the amount is punitive. Even though she quit her job, she's likely going to be getting more every two months than she previously made in a year and that's ridiculous. It also doesn't count the mortgage he paid off and the money he's given her so far. The problem with these kinds of judgements is that they're windfalls not support. Support is giving her money to ease the burden of getting on her feet over a 2-5 year period and should really amount to no … | /r/MensRights | 12/11/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Unmarried Ontario couple had no children and no house but man must still pay support, appeal court rulesIt's all loonies right | /r/MensRights | 12/11/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | A well mastered techniqueYeah and then the kickboxer comes up and kicks the bjj guy in the head while he's trying to do a heel hook on the aikido guy. Then a chick who does krav maga comes along and kicks the kickboxer in the nuts and then eyegouges him when he goes down. Finally a 10 year old walks up and tries to do a hodoken only to realize that life's not a video game so they run off becoming the real winner. Seriously though a lot of the which MA is better arguments are pretty funny. Moreso when they set up a chall… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 4 | The Netherlands revises the rape laws, changes it to a completely non gendered law!I live in snowflake land aka the USA. If a law like this were passed in my country then it would come down to under what circumstances a prosecutor was willing to go forward with charges. I get your concern...the wording opens a woman up to cry rape when in fact she just made a bad decision. Worse the no penetration requirement could lead to someone claiming rape for being kissed or something. That said, more likely than not the law will be used to cover men being raped by women or more generall… | /r/MensRights | 05/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Outrage as Finnish Court Orders Man to Pay Alimony for Child That Resulted From His Wife CheatingThe courts aren't siding with here, they're going along with the law as written. There's a huge difference. If for example, the statute of limitations is up for a crime I commit when a witness comes forward and I'm not prosecuted it doesn't mean the court is siding with me. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Outrage as Finnish Court Orders Man to Pay Alimony for Child That Resulted From His Wife CheatingThat's kind of ridiculous to say that if you cheat you can't get married again. By the way, infidelity is usually listed in divorce papers which can generally be found if you dig deep enough. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Outrage as Finnish Court Orders Man to Pay Alimony for Child That Resulted From His Wife CheatingNo offense but I'm pretty sure you'd knuckled under like the rest of us. There's very little in this world worth doing jail time over. Further, at least in the US, failure to pay child support can have some far reaching effects like losing your passport as well as professional licenses. FWIW I read about a case in the US where the court denied a guy's request to terminate parental rights after a DNA test. Apparently he was able to in the short term find and sue the real father. Since he was marr… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 01:12 AM |
| 8 | Outrage as Finnish Court Orders Man to Pay Alimony for Child That Resulted From His Wife CheatingThere's nothing saying you can't get one and many hospitals will do it for you. According to a married co-worker of mine, sometimes the first one is even covered by insurance. As cynical as this sounds there's no reason not to get a paternity test no matter how good your relationship is. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 01:08 AM |
| 7 | Outrage as Finnish Court Orders Man to Pay Alimony for Child That Resulted From His Wife CheatingI don't think you can really call this anti-male. It seems the court made their decision based on a legally set time limit but the guy has a lot of support in the country. Chances are that the law will be changed so you don't have only two years or at the very least you have two years from the time you get a paternity test done. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Also , it’s very easy to pleasure a man , most women just lay there like a doll and then take credit for making him coom.I won't lie this is funny. That said, there's a really good book called "The Naked Ape" that adds some color to the importance of the female orgasm. As humans we walk upright and there's a thing called gravity. If you've ever seen a woman stand up after ejaculating in her then you've probably seen some fall out because of gravity. Women who have an orgasm are more likely to just lay there instead of immediately getting up which increases the chances of conception and thus your dna living on, or … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/10/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Choose wiselyI prefer a blow job to jacking off but not enough that I'd pay a crazy amount for one. Call me crazy buy I think 50ish is the mosh I'd pay for one | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | My husband earned less than me for a decade, so I paid more towards our expenses. I want him to repay meI don't know...this sounds reasonable to me regardless of if it's a man or woman asking. IMO the biggest mistake was agreeing to let income dictate who pays for what. That sounds like a recipe for one person to take advantage of the other or for one person to feel salty if the other has a come up and then doesn't start contributing more. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Women who make false rape allegations should be sent to prison. For life.Life sentences do nothing but cost tax payers large amounts of money and should be reserved for offenders who are beyond the ability to return to society. I don't think most false accusers fit that mold. In addition, an overly punitive sentence will stop real victims from reporting because let's be honest convictions aren't 100% for rape. I feel like there's better consequences and better ways to reduce the number of false reports as well as the consequences for people who are lied on. > It brea… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Imagine getting the blame because your girl cheats! Honestly what would you all do in this poor guys situation?Why? There was a time when orgies were the norm. IMO cheating is cheating. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 12:21 AM |
| -2 | Imagine getting the blame because your girl cheats! Honestly what would you all do in this poor guys situation?I can't call her one without calling myself one. I've never fucked 4 chicks at the same time but I've had enough sexual partners it's hard for me to be pious. The truth is that we all have our reasons for doing what we do. I used to know a chick who got spit roasted and dp'd once because she wanted to try it. Last I heard she was happily married and I doubt she's the type to cheat, it was just something she wanted to do. I also used to know a guy whose ex-girlfriend sucked off a few of his "frie… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Imagine getting the blame because your girl cheats! Honestly what would you all do in this poor guys situation?40, 4 or 1 it's all the same. I don't get why people are hung up on the number. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Imagine getting the blame because your girl cheats! Honestly what would you all do in this poor guys situation?Loneliness doesn't have shit to do with a situation like this. She either wanted a bunch of dick, didn't want to say no, liked feeling popular or some other shit. It's not the dudes fault and he didn't make her do it | /r/MensRights | 13/10/20 06:29 PM |
| -8 | Imagine getting the blame because your girl cheats! Honestly what would you all do in this poor guys situation?So if 3 chicks at party push up on you and line up to all suck your dick that means that you've been cheating all along? I have no idea what her reason was but it doesn't mean she's a ho or has always cheated on the dude. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Women who are proven to have lied about rape should be required to register as sex offenders.IIRC, no access to the internet tends to be a condition of probation and parole for people who are convicted of computer crimes so I see it as an extension of that. I agree though that without clearly defined laws it could be a slippery slope and get misused | /r/MensRights | 02/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Women who are proven to have lied about rape should be required to register as sex offenders.By harsh penalties I don't necessarily mean putting them on the register or prison time. I mean things like no access to cellphones for X years, community service, possible fines, perhaps banning them from social media platforms for X years...The aforementioned is for most cases. When it's done as an act of revenge porn or some kid transmitting images of another without consent then I think they should feel the full weight of the law and possibly so should their parents. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Women who are proven to have lied about rape should be required to register as sex offenders.AFAIK those cases where someone peed in public and get on the registry are rare and generally because the person peed in certain places. Those places are generally places where kids are around or kids frequent. With regards to a kid kissing another kid many states have Romeo and Juliet laws to reduce the impact of that. That said, I agree with the harsh penalties for kids who transmit nudes of themselves. That behavior needs strong consequences so hopefully kids stop doing it. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/20 12:19 PM |
| 6 | InterestingJust because I didn't doesn't mean other guys don't. I remember years ago there was a stripper who had a private snapchat and what she'd do is offer guys 1 week of access in exchange for buying a certain number of dances. She also sold underwear and nudes. There was no shortage of guys buying that extra shit hoping to fuck her. I guess it comes down to who they're trying to sell/barter the nudes to. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | InterestingI feel you. I'd have done the same then either resold them or posted them on reddit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | InterestingNaw that's still the case. Stores like target get them sometime but from what I've seen it's usually just a couple so if you miss it you miss it. My guess is that it's used and he wants cash. FWIW the system alone is about 300 if you buy it from a reputable retailer | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 6 | InterestingYou'd be surprised. I had a stripper one time tell me that for $100 I could get her number and some nudes. I politely declined. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | InterestingI really hope that some economist does an evaluation of what the market value of nudes actually is. I've paid for some porn sites but in over 3 decades of watching smut I've never paid for nudes. There's just too many high quality nudes for free these days. I had a chick a few months ago ask me to join her only fans when her strip club closed. Chick didn't seem to understand that there's a huge difference between me forking over cash at the strip club vs buying nudes. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 0 | InterestingPedophiles aside has it occurred to you that were prostitution legalized, regulated and stigmatized a lot of trafficking would stop? I know that countries like Netherlands have their share of EE sex slaves but let's be honest, most customers don't wake up and say "damn I want to go bang someone who is clearly being forced to fuck me." That's not to say that some guys aren't happy drilling someone who is drugged to the point she's barely moving because it's cheap. Those handlers and customers sho… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | InterestingI doubt most of the rings are even coming off. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | InterestingJust because someone is a prostitute doesn't meant they're good at sex or sex acts. I'm not too proud to say that I've seen a few hookers in my day and on the overall I'd have been better just staying home to jack off. Many people (men and women) who are in relationships but see hookers do it for something specific. Maybe their wife doesn't swallow or their husband won't even go down on them. Some also do it purely for attraction reasons since all the surgery in the world won't make your 40 y/o … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | InterestingI'd venture to say that most prostitutes aren't good at it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | InterestingNAL but I don't think offering pictures counts a sexual service. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | You mean raped a 14 yr oldJust further proof that much of our justice system should be controlled by algorithms not people. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Big oofOh so she's a hooker asking for $1000/night? I completely misread | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/08/20 04:32 PM |
| 5 | The inherent sexism in "women get more dates, but men get more quality dates"I don't really think it dismisses men's feelings. If anything it probably offers some degree of encouragement to men. As a group we (men) face far more rejection from women than we do acceptance. To me this quote reads like "don't worry about all the women who turn you down because it's the high quality ones who say yes." Personally I don't really agree. For most men, myself included, we often end up dating the women who say yes and not necessarily our first choice. While for some men as we get … | /r/MensRights | 06/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 4 | The inherent sexism in "women get more dates, but men get more quality dates"I think they mean women as a group not individuals necessarily. Think about it...a moderately attractive woman who is not financially successful will have far more dates than a moderately attractive man who is not financially successful. In most modern societies it's men who chase/pursue women not vice versa. This leads to most women having more opportunities to date and whatnot than most men. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Man gets paid child support from this ex, is this happening more often now? Where?I didn't mean for you to take it that way. I probably could have been less combatant in the wording but I was just looking for info. A positive of these discussions is they may save someone else from getting the short end. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Man gets paid child support from this ex, is this happening more often now? Where?NAL but I've looked at the child support formula for about 15 states (I was going to change jobs and possibly move states). I didn't find a single one where someone making 50k would pay so little unless the other person made close to what they did and had a lot of overnights. So her income would need to have been substantially lower or there were other factors. Regarding refusal to change the amount at the contempt hearing that's a discretion thing in the state's I looked at. The other parents i… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/20 12:58 PM |
| -1 | Man gets paid child support from this ex, is this happening more often now? Where?With all due respect at 325 either her income is very low compared to yours, she gets a lot of overnights, you're stars formula is really fucked, she has many other kids or you're both low earners. While I hate the system yours is the gate of having a kid with the wrong person moreso than a broken system | /r/MensRights | 04/08/20 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Man gets paid child support from this ex, is this happening more often now? Where?Depending on your income and state you're likely entitled to apply for welfare which she'll get billed for. In some states her access to welfare (not her other kids though) can also be cut of she's delinquent on payments IIRC. If someone beyond the state is supporting her they can also end up on the hook. In some states IIRC in addition to wages tax refunds can be intercepted. Again depending on your state she's well into the can be arrested and lose your kids territory. Sorry about your situati… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Group of girls harass guy and his family, and one gets creamedSo you think it's only black women? Why don't you hit youtube and use the search term Karen. I'm sick of certain behaviors that are shared with low brow people of all colors and cultures being painted upon all black people. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Group of girls Harass guy and his family, and one gets creamed (edited)Our legislators are often misogynist morons. I believe assault on a female is separated because they wanted a clear difference between when women fight each other and when men and women fight. The presumption seemed to be that most male-female fights would be incidents of domestic violence which is why in some places, an assault on a female charge carries a mandatory amount of time in jail before you can be released (by release I mean bail or of your own recognizance). I've actually seen guys ge… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/07/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | That comment makes me pukeSociety labels them as such because men don't like promiscuous women for serious relationships. There will be trust issues. Yeah I think a lot of guys like to ignore the fact that if they could have large amounts of sex at will they would. Most women with promiscuous pasts have various reasons that can be somewhat interesting when they choose to share | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/07/20 02:53 AM |
| -5 | That comment makes me pukeHonestly I've met no shortage of women who are slutty or had their promiscuous phase. One thing I've realized is that it's not them that has the problem it's society that labels what they did as bad. It's not slut shaming because the women are actively hiding from what they did, it's slut shaming because of how other people treat them. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | That comment makes me pukeHow is this PPD? He went after the mom not the daughter and chances are the daughter faced no real consequences. I mean really would we call it PPD if the girl's mom fucked the boy's dad leading to a divorce because his mom also raised a cyber bully? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Where's Prince Charming cuz she sleptDepends on what happened first. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/07/20 03:07 PM |
| 16 | Where's Prince Charming cuz she sleptWho do you fear more the huge guy that's never been hit or the small guys who's never not had to fight? Personally I'll fear the little dude who's happy to mix in and know the pain of being hit so hard your teeth ring. I remember years ago there was a chick at the bar talking shit and when a guy she was bullying stood up for himself her boyfriend came over to regulate. Dude was at least 6 foot 4 and looked pretty built. He tried to flex on the other guy who was around 5 foot 8. The shorter guy t… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/07/20 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Ghislaine Maxwell pleads not guilty to sex traffickingImagine if she really was on an estate somewhere while her double is in prison. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 4 | Another day, another example of hypocrisyI don't really agree with this. The fact that we call women who pursue younger men cougars is a pretty clear indication that we view them as predators. As far as why it's different for society...for the most part we view men as wanting to have sex as often as they can from a young age. We also know that the vast majority of men struggle to attract women, especially women who are beautiful, rich, powerful...therefore when a woman of that class pursues a young man we consider him getting what he w… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 11:08 PM |
| 76 | Ghislaine Maxwell pleads not guilty to sex traffickingI give her two weeks at the most. Given that she had hired private security that didn't gun it out with the cops or do anything to really help her flee I'm guessing she knows people are coming for her. I'm actually surprised we're not hearing about her being under guard. That said my guess is she'll have an altercation with another inmate instead of an apparent suicide. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Ha ha ha Random Acts of Assault are Hilarious!!!And I'm 99% sure it was staged. Also while abuse isn't a good thing sometimes physical humor can diffuse tense situations and yes there's a huge difference between benign physical humor and abuse. I get where you're coming from and I too believe that abuse is serious but I don't think I know any couples who haven't had some degree of physical playfulness like in the videos. I used to know a guy who took responsibility for doing yard work at his house but would spray his wife with the hose when s… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 10:59 PM |
| -6 | Ha ha ha Random Acts of Assault are Hilarious!!!I'm going to take this as further acknowledgement that you don't have a kid and aren't around a lot of average families. There's vast difference between doing things like sitting a fussy baby on a sleeping parent so you can both share in the joy of getting the child back to sleep and doing something like forcing a kid to choose between parents which is actual using a kid as a prop in parental disagreement. There's also a huge difference between using a child to club the other parent and just lif… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 07:26 PM |
| -14 | Ha ha ha Random Acts of Assault are Hilarious!!!It's only one kid and she disagrees with your assessment. Like I said I'm going to assume that you've never had kids or maybe the other parent handles the bulk of the care. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 05:53 PM |
| -24 | Ha ha ha Random Acts of Assault are Hilarious!!!As a parent that's the only one I really see humor in. If you have kids then you know there are definitely times when neither of you wants to lift that joker up, especially out of the back seat. My kid's mom never used her to smack me in the face but I'd be lying if I said I've never had a diaper tossed at me or somehow my kid end up magically dragged over me when I didn't want to be the one to get up to calm her down | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Ha ha ha Random Acts of Assault are Hilarious!!!Most of them did so I'm actually wondering if this is a thing especially given how hard some of them were hit. If it's not staged then clearly those guys have been living with it for so long they've knuckled under | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 14 | Imagine if a man did this. Who helped him?Is there a backstory on this? At first I thought maybe it was her skateboard or she was going to do a trick but then it just turned into pure violence | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 02:09 PM |
| -4 | A woman is trying trap me and I'm learning very quickly that I have no rights.I get what you're saying but for many people safe sex is being in a relationship. Hygiene goes a long way but shit happens literally sometimes. If I had a son I'd opt for circumcision but to each their own. I think that if two families talk through the implications (hopefully with a medical professional) and decide against it then more power to them. Just to be clear since we're on the interwebs I'm a guy with a circumcised penis and it's never been a hindrance for me | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 12:59 PM |
| -4 | A woman is trying trap me and I'm learning very quickly that I have no rights.Debunked by whom? I've seen no research disproving the effect that male circumcision can have on reducing some female sexual issues. Much of it is more so protecting your partner than yourself as a lot of bacteria can be trapped in the folds of an uncircumcised penis. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 12:25 PM |
| -6 | A woman is trying trap me and I'm learning very quickly that I have no rights.Obligatory NAL. You do have rights, lots of them in fact depending on where you live. Simply listing you on the birth certificate does not establish paternity; however, you signing is YOUR acknowledgement of paternity. If you think the kid isn't yours then don't sign and wait for her to establish paternity via dna (be prepared to be held accountable for back child support). With respect to child support, the system sucks but you have rights there too and there are ways to reduce what you pay. As… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | 400 Million and Spousal Support?!? Ridiculous...Yeah I don't have stats but essentially courts tend to leave kids with the parent they're currently with. The primary breadwinner also generally is the man. It's also fair to say that often it's the primary bread winner (man) who moves on when the divorce is pending often leaving the kids with the mom. Honestly the best legal advice I've gotten on this is to keep your dick in your pants until the divorce is final and under no circumstances vacate your home even if you have to sleep on the couch.… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.In my experience most of the bad shit comes out when the person can't hide it anymore, feels comfortable or wants to hurt their partner. All those scenarios take time. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/20 10:56 PM |
| -17 | 400 Million and Spousal Support?!? Ridiculous...Divorces are stacked against men I'll correct that for you...Divorces are stacked against the higher earner and/or the person who spends less hours with the kid. Tons of women get fucked over too because they're the bread winner. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 10 | 400 Million and Spousal Support?!? Ridiculous...Depends. I don't live in a HCOL state by any means but it's fair to say that if your combined income is less than 70k before taxes, it's better for one person to stay home until the kids can go to free school because of the cost of child care. If you have two kids you can easily end up making an exotic car payment a month for full time day care. The parent who leaves the work force will have a harder time going back so alimony for a short period of time makes sense in that case. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | He didn't deserve that "high standard" girlI used to go to strip clubs too much and there was a stripper I was really into at this smaller club. It was one of those hood clubs where overtime you can get to know a chick because during the week and especially before 11 things were pretty dead. Well I remember asking this stripper out to dinner and apparently she wasn't happy with the place I named. I tried to impress her by being willing to take her to one of the better steakhouses in town but she had never heard of it so thought it was a … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | He didn't deserve that "high standard" girlDepends on who you are, what you do and where you live. I've known people who have family friends who are lawyers and that's who they're usually referring to. In other cases I've met people who have had several run ins with the police and keep a law firm on retainer. I also once knew a guy who had several domestic issues following his divorce (think things like his ex trying to alienate him from the kids). He maintained a retainer with a family law firm and when she did shady things he'd call th… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 02:17 PM |
| 3 | He didn't deserve that "high standard" girlDepends on the person. If you ever have time, look into how community housing or "projects" started in the US. There was a time when getting accepted was seen as an achievement and you worked hard to keep your home and community looking good. I've seen people run free shit into the ground because they feel like they'll be given another. I've also seen people take care of free stuff out of appreciation and the knowledge that they might not get another. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | He didn't deserve that "high standard" girlI think I was about 30 when I realized that dinner for a first date is a terrible investment. Imagine if this guy had named the nicest restaurant in town and took her. After that she'd likely expect that to be the normal until he went broke. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 3 | He didn't deserve that "high standard" girlIn my experience most black women who spout off that shit usually do. Of course the bmw is rarely brand new (may have been bought new) and unless they're older most of the stuff they own they're still paying on. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.It depends on what you're looking for. IMO you can grow to love someone or at least enjoy being with them. I think doing that is significantly easier when you have things in common, the same goals or complementary goals. If you're from a good family or have significant means then you'll be spoiled for choice when it comes to arranged marriages. While you may not have the benefit of getting to know and living with the person for years before marriage, you'll likely get to do some vetting yourself… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.Honestly the limited action we're seeing today from our overlords was more the result of large numbers of unaffected people seeing the plight of the abused minority. Unless somehow the divorce rate for members of congress increases I don't see much action happening until large numbers of people see just how fucked up the system is. The majority of mainstream examples are of athletes and entertainers not the millions of everyday people who are truly being screwed over. That said I give you my wor… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.Yeah I can tell you from personal experience that who you have a kid with or marry can make or break your life for a very long time. I used to believe that whole milk and cow thing but the reality is that you can have a very successful and fulfilling relationship without a marriage. Hell many companies are allowing you to carry someone you're in a relationship on your insurance | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.In the US most jurisdictions will calculate what you pay on your earning potential. So unless you have no work history and no degrees or certifications, your plan won't work. They'll just calculate your income based on your last job and say find a way. One of the worst judgements I've ever heard was a doctor who lost his license because he missed too many payments. This cost him his job and the judge told him he'd still be paying a support amount based on his prevoius 6 figure income | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.You pointed out a huge difference between you guys and the US. In the US we act like social welfare is a bad thing and as a result often put a huge financial burden on poor and middle class individuals. FWIW in the US if I have a kid with someone and they get social welfare, the government can come after me to pay the cost of that but the other parent doesn't need my permission to apply nor am I consulted. I know someone whose ex husband lived in a different state and got medicaid. She had agree… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.> How can he get a lawyer on that amount of money? There in lies the rub. For most people getting any type of adjustment requires a lawyer or missing work which can cost your just and ultimately your freedom. However, most people can't afford a lawyer so just knuckle under. In 2020 there's no reason 90% of the process should involve a judge or can't be done online. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.Those people need to grow up. A person I know in real life who was most fucked over by the child support system was a woman. Blame the law makers and judges, not the people who benefit from bad legislation | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.Because in theory your kid has food, clothes and shelter that aren't provided by the state. In reality you have no say over how the money is spent and are likely alienated from your kid because you can't afford to provide an environment they can spend the night in | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.NAL. The US system is similar to a degree. A big problem is state's rights. Individual states have a lot of caveats (for example, IIRC there's no federal law for default 50/50 but some states have begun doing it). Just like you guys we have ways to get the amount paid down but the process can be very slow and difficult. Two big things "obligors" can do are push for more overnights and pay insurance. Some states will also consider the other persons earning potential in lieu of income which can he… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.> But you can't tell me that all ~50% of marriages involve domestic abuse and cheaters, and that ~80% of those divorces the husband is to blame. (Women initiate divorce 80% of the time) Most people get married too young, for the wrong reasons or thinking they can change the other person. There's also a large number of people who get married to someone who hid baggage. IMO in the US marriage isn't worth it unless you both have financial interests to protect since outside of church marriage is not… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 11 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.We the people allow it. I've yet to see a candidate at the federal level address this. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Reminder, Men. You are nothing but a paycheque to women and your survival doesn't matter. Be homeless, starve, and if you complain, you're a deadbeat. If you don't support this, you hate women. There is no winning against a system designed to make you want to kill yourself.That wage garnishment could also include taxes. Depending on where this person lives the other parent must make nothing or this person must get little to no overnights. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | E-thots must be getting desperate, they're branching into other subs.A lot of people don't think that way. I remember years ago I knew a stripper whose was 25 with 2 kids. She was in school to be a phlebotomist. It didn't pay as much as stripping had when she was younger but it would be steady income and a steady schedule. There was another stripper at the cub who was also mid 20s. Instead of going to school or having a plan she said she never planned to stop stripping. The one in school looked at her and said "don't you realize that the chicks you'll be competin… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/06/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | E-thots must be getting desperate, they're branching into other subs.I think a lot of people want quick and easy money too without working. The internet has also made far too many people think they're more attractive than they are and that their beauty alone is actually worth something. What I've gathered from knowing young women who stripped or were hooker, once you get the taste of quick and easy money it's hard to go back to a 9-5, especially since let's be honest most men and women don't have high value skill sets these days | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/06/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Notice her level of delusionAll Lionel Richie as he chokes back tears I'm sure he can tell you | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/06/20 11:09 AM |
| 13 | The president of an e-sports team speaking facts.90% is way too high (anecdotally). IMO the big problem is that as a country we've been unwilling to have a real conversation about what constitutes sexual assault and now even rape is becoming murky. When I was in college, I took a chick by the hand and led her to my room with no objection from her. Nothing happened and it was clear she was uncomfortable so I walked her out and nothing came of it. By today's standards she could say I sexually assaulted her because I "forced" her into my room. I … | /r/MensRights | 27/06/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Get a job brokieBlack Hood culture. This is what I was looking for. Far too often all blacks get lumped in together during talks about culture. While for some reason or another many people have a hood life phase, I'd say that black hood culture is really only the culture of a small percent of blacks in the US. Sadly though it's what dominates in the media and pop culture. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/06/20 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Get a job brokieWhose culture?? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Get a job brokieIt was on page 3 after the discussion about how to turn Sammy Sosa's skin dark again. But seriously I get what you're saying and everyone's experience will be different. I've personally heard it happen several times. I can't remember her name but there was a black comedian who even had a bit about how she likes to call her white friends the n word. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Get a job brokieWhat's gained from using the word? Racism in the US hasn't stopped because blacks say we can use the word and now nobody else can. Other people use it and they often still use it as a way of dehumanizing and demeaning someone. I'd argue that using the word often makes things worse because the people who generally throw the word around play directly into the stereotypes associated with the word. IMO the gratuitous use of the word nigger drags the black community down. Following slavery the vast m… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Get a job brokieWell scholar find me a book that clearly proves the positive benefits of a people of coopting a word or behavior done to oppress them. When was the last time you had jew calling each other kikes? Do you think it's bad for a straight person to call a gay person faggot but okay for a gay guy to do it? Words have power and meaning. There's no sense of power or control because black people call each other niggers and then say that non-blacks can't use the word | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Get a job brokieHow many non-black friends do you have? If the answer is more than 10 and you're over the age of 21 I find it hard to believe you've never used the n word when referring to one of them. While they may not tolerate them saying it back I've heard many black people refer to non black people by that term even people the don't know because for them the term is largely synonymous with people. edit: I play a fair amount of video games and I hear not shortage of white people dropping the n word. Most sh… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Get a job brokieJidenna has a song that'll tell you all about it. But seriously if we're to associate nigga with the actions of say hood black people then the white equivalent are rednecks, trailer trash, oxyqueens... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 177 | Get a job brokieNaw son they're the worst. You might think they're interviewing for a job with you but in reality you're interviewing to pay them for something they did for countless other dudes for free. In my experience the complication, hoops...of dating down socio-economically aren't worth it. If you're just looking for sex that's one thing but IMO if you're looking to actually date then it's not worth it. For most people who want a provider, the more you do for them the more witholding they get to try to k… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 01:43 PM |
| 41 | Get a job brokieIt's weird but the part of the community that uses it that way doesn't do so as a pejorative and for them it's no different than the word guy. Personally I think it's stupid especially since those are the people most likely to get upset hearing non black people use the word even in a friend context | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 01:38 PM |
| 18 | Get a job brokieI think of physical as affection which can be far different from sex. I guess it's that whole idea that every time a chick wants to cuddle doesn't mean it's time to take your dick out. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Girl offer sex for weed and gets denied then freaks outProbably but not for him. I've met no shortage of women who view sex and sexual acts as transactional. I used to know a chick who was straight up bummy (no job, bounced from couch to couch...). I remember one time she needed a ride and I told her no so she offered to suck my dick. She said if I waited for her and swung by mcdonald's on the way back she'd fuck me too. Not to get too deep but for many women the only thing they have of value is their bodies. Same goes for many men it's just that … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/06/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl offer sex for weed and gets denied then freaks outIt's because she genuinely doesn't understand why someone would turn down her pussy for something she probably views as trivial. Having possibly sold drugs before I can say that IMO it's never good to trade drugs for sex. While I never did it there was a coke dealer I knew at the time who was big on it. Let's just say he gave away more coke than he actually sold. I'm pretty sure it was cheaper for him than getting hookers every night though | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/06/20 12:00 PM |
| -3 | Funny how that worksI'm not big on slavery but IMO if you falsely accuse someone of rape then a period of indentured servitude should follow. Not only because it's arguably more punitive than prison but because the person you accused might be in a really bad situation where having a servant could help. Just to be clear, by indentured servant I mean someone to do dishes, run errands, mow grass...not a bang maid. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | You get what you f*ckin' deserve!The worse is when she's calling the other guys pussies for not fighting him. For one a vagina is a lot more resilient than a dick so personally I'd rather being called a pussy than a dick. For two it's not their fight. If some chick expects me to fight somebody for some conflict that's not mine she better be putting some cash in my pocket or have a contract out committing to ingesting a couple of gallons of my sperm over the next few weeks. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/06/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Child supportIt's actually pretty common. The reason most guys get fucked is that either the relationship ends before the kid is born or the kids go with mom while the divorce is pending. Some guys also fall for the bs where the wife says she wants to make things work but needs to some time apart so she's going to stay with her parents in another state for a bit. She then files for divorce and the guy is fucked because all proceedings are out of state and his kids are now residents of another state. The long… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Child supportI think someone else put in the math for their state. In addition to the lady making 6 figures the guy would essentially need to make less than 50k and she'd have to choose pretty much 0 overnights and to not contribute to childcare. I'm sure the post is fake too but it could happen. I'm also going to say that having money doesn't mean you can handle raising a kid. Some people just don't want to have kids and it's as simple as that so they pay a bit more. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/20 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Way to deal with gold-diggersImagine I sell tacos out of a truck. You then decide that you want to sell horchata out of my trucks. In addition, as long as we're together I will advertise your horchata whenever I advertise my tacos. Also, people will associate your horchata with my already established and strong brand so you'll get instance recognition and sales. You're going to make money in large because I'm providing access to customers and tieing you to my already established brand. I very well may ask for a percent of y… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/05/20 12:48 PM |
| 3 | what will it be boys, gay or a rapist?With that attitude you'll never be president | /r/MensRights | 18/05/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Also sugar babies and gold diggers don't get to fuck who they want.I disagree with this. Sugar babies fuck the daddy who is willing to pay as simple as that based on the dynamic. Same for gold diggers, they ultimately choose the guy they're willing to fuck. With respect to guys marrying who they want to, the guy might choose who he proposes to but she ultimately has to say yes. So to a large degree guys marry who they can and not necessarily who they want. I'd say that for marriage and sex there's a lot of settling going on for both participants. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/05/20 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Not TodayHonestly he could walk to the other side of the train giving her the option to stop or pursue him. It's possible there's also some sort of panic button. In this situation the best thing you can usually do is take out your phone and dial 911. It shows that you don't want trouble, are asking the authorities for help and had no choice but to use force when the person wouldn't stop | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/05/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | BOOM! I got custody!!!!Where do you live? Do you not get visitation or is the other parent refusing visitation? NAL but many jurisdictions have ways to hold parents accountable for parental alienation as well as violating court orders | /r/MensRights | 23/04/20 01:34 PM |
| 3 | If I get pregnant while you’re gone it’s your responsibility 🥴Depends on where he lives and being in the military might make residency murky. FWIW there seems to be some places where he could sue the person she cheated with | /r/MensRights | 22/04/20 02:37 PM |
| 0 | If I get pregnant while you’re gone it’s your responsibility 🥴> No one should be forced to pay child support - if the government thinks it should be paid it should pay it itself So do we let the kid die in the street of hunger or does uncle sam pick up the check? I think the concept of child support is appropriate. The problem is the way the number is determined as well as the lack of control you have when you pay. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/20 01:39 PM |
| 4 | If I get pregnant while you’re gone it’s your responsibility 🥴Correct. That said, the true father can be compelled to sign a legal affadavit of paternity. In addition to that you can get divorced prior to her giving birth. There are ways to get out of supporting a kid that's not yours but it's a legal process which means you either spend money on a lawyer or risk making costly mistakes. FWIW, some hospitals offer you a free paternity test. If the kids not yours then you don't have to sign your name on anything (which you really shouldn't in this day and ag… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/20 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Classic double standardsPlus size and overweight are two different things. In the same way there are new who shop at big and tall, wear xxl...but aren't overweight same applies to women's sizes. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How can you "accidentally have sex" with another person?And I'm saying that's the only situation where the person isn't at fault. No matter what situation you put yourself in you don't choose rape. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 9 | How can you "accidentally have sex" with another person?I mean it's obviously too hard to talk to the person you're with and leave if you can't work things out. Seriously though I've never had sex by accident. Unless you happen to be at a nudist colony or in healthcare there shouldn't be random moments where you're seeing strange dicks in person. If you cheat and weren't raped it's because you chose to | /r/MensRights | 20/04/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why did this die so quickly?Again NAL but IIRC freedom of speech while not protecting you from self incrimination lets you say pretty heinous shit and get away with it so long as you show no intent and there's nothing tying you to existing crimes. Many rappers who eventually get arrested get into trouble because they continue to do stupid shit. Some have also been arrested and then let go for rapping about real events that happened but they weren't involved in. My point is that artists have a lot of creative license and ma… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/04/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why did this die so quickly?What I'm saying is that if multiple victims come forward then there will be an investigation. She won't just be able to say it was a song or publicity stunt and everything go away. Right now she's skating because there aren't a lot of people coming forward and there doesn't seem to be much pressure applied to the authorities. Most of the recent sexual assault cases lately that have resulted in jail or prosecution have all had several victims coming forward. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/04/20 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Why did this die so quickly?NAL but I don't think freedom of speech protects you from self incrimination. If a rapper does a song about robbing a bank, giving details only the robber would know and was in the area at the time then they might get arrested. There's still the need for evidence but the whole I was just telling a story thing doesn't seem to hold up. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/04/20 12:16 PM |
| 13 | Why did this die so quickly?Wow I didn't realize there was someone who came forward. He needs to be talking to every media outlet possible in addition to putting pressure on the cops. Cosby didn't get in trouble because of some kind hearted prosecutor or cop, it happened because of media outrage. I'm guessing a civil suit would bring out other victims and dry up her endorsements. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/04/20 11:57 AM |
| 5 | Equality lvl. 100AFAIK it's not offered on the US because it can have some really negative long term consequences. The guy above mentioned physical therapy but I've read of people not walking normally after having it done | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/04/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Boy raped at 14yo is forced to pay child support to his rapistThis is a great explanation. I don't know the details of this case and I'm NAL but judges tend to have some degree of discretion. The boy could always be awarded restitution from his rapist that would wipe out any child support he personally has to pay. Hell my guess is that being raped as a minor is one instance where no judge would oppose signing away parental rights. This situation sucks big time but as you said, child support is to make sure the government is the last resort of funding for k… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/20 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Someone was definitely deniedI can't argue with this. From my own experience of being too free with money as well as talking to other guys the reality is that it's cheaper to buy a hooker and a lot cheaper to jerk off than it is to deal with a lot of women if you even remotely have your shit together. Obviously the type of women you meet, attract and date play a big role though | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/04/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Someone was definitely deniedI'm in my mid 30s but if I were in my 20s and looking for commitment that's what I'd value as well. At my age I care more about someone being honest about their sexual history and not holding double standards more than anything. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/04/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Someone was definitely deniedI'm not going to call this PPD because it's largely true. Most dudes would be proud to have fucked 100 women but likely would call a chick a slut or cum dump if she had fucked 50 dudes by the same age. From my perspective unless you're a top tier guy, involved in the sex scene, pay for hookers, travel...then you will likely end up with women who have had more partners than you have. It might not be fair but as a rule women have easier access to sexual partners than men. I can say from conversati… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/04/20 11:36 AM |
| 6 | Get deniedIt's the internet and especially social media. There are tons of guys who dm chicks and some of them give money. In many cases these are guys far away who will never see the girl again and will get bored with her quickly. It then puts the thought in their heads that they can live like that. FWIW, prostitution seems more dangerous and rampant on instagram than it was on backpage. I remember a few years ago I met a stripper who made a lot of money off a private snapchat, selling panties...Seems li… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/03/20 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Get deniedHonestly I have more respect for people who choose prostitutes. Most of these chicks think they aren't hookers because as a rule they don't fuck the guys. They usually just send nudes, videos or legitimately give time. I remember reading on a forum about a dude who went on a sugar baby site. By the time he realized he wasn't going to get the pussy he had taken her to dinner 3 times and shopping once. Chick flat out told him he paid for her time, she's not a hooker and only fucks her boyfriend. F… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/03/20 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Get deniedIIRC it was a former president that had that conversation with a woman. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/03/20 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Get deniedSounds like that guy bought his way into married life | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 7 | Get deniedI'm going to agree with this but I'd apply it to young men and young women. Personally I've been fucked over more than once being too generous with money and women. I can say with no hesitation that there's very little upside to getting involved with someone who's not on your financial level. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Get deniedIs this a largely one sided conversation or did the dude just edit his comments out? While I think it's stupid to send a random chick money through cashapp or anything else, I'm not going to knock the hustle. Hell I wish the IRS would start collecting taxes on and counting all this grey money as income. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/03/20 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Men's bathroom at Taylor swift concert. This would never be ok with roles reversedI'm not really seeing the issue. If you're a guy and need to pee there's tons of urinals. If you need to take a shit then either wait or go to the front since it's the men's room. Chances are that in this case there's 3x as many women as men at the concert so it makes sense to let women use the men's room. Unwritten rule here is that if women don't want to see dicks they can wait in the ladies room or stay home. There's a bar in my city with unisex bathrooms, essentially they took the signs off … | /r/MensRights | 01/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | AZ Senator that was face of #MeToo movement is now facing sexual misconduct allegationsI've only read the one article, but I'm not really sure what the big deal is. It sounds like the lobbyist went out for drinks with the wife and there was some unrequited attention. While we all have the right to say no and ask someone to stop, I don't think any reasonable adult should get upset because someone makes a move. I mean am I missing some offer of money, jobs, retaliation... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Bitch lostIt is and it isn't. One of the biggest reasons people stay in bad marriages is fear of being ruined financially. In some cases it's because one person earns significantly less and in others it's because one person fears loosing most of their income to the wombo combo of child support and spousal support. While I think she should have given him say 20% or so, I see no reason she should have had to stay just because she got lucky | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Proof of the fucked up systemWhere do you live? Getting a hearing without a good lawyer is an uphill battle but parental alienation is usually taken pretty seriously. Also with regards to child support you can push for a reduction if you ever get a hearing so make sure to save all proof of anything you buy for your kid. Now tht sad devil's advocate part...child support in the US at least is based on flawed assumptions regarding expenses. Her mom not buying shoes will be ignored and at best result in you paying more if the m… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Local five guys changes men’s bathroom to gender neutral while keeping women’s exclusiveIt looks like the gender neutral one might have a handle and lock. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Whatcha think would happen, princess?Man or woman cops are still supposed to show some restraint. If she's swinging at that point chances are she did something else before then so carrying her out like that was plain stupid. They should have cuffed her before moving her. As satisfying as it is to see her get what she deserved, this is really just an example of more shitty policing. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 31 | Pass denied in India of a women over adulteryLike others said, probably similar to alimony. The thinking (which is bs) is that you should continue providing your ex with the lifestyle you have allowed them to grow accustomed to. Lionel Richie got fucked over really bad by this. For nothing other than having married the dude, his ex will get more in a month for life that most working people make. IIRC what she got paled in comparison to what she asked for which was an amount so large, the judge should have questioned if she was capable of g… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/12/19 05:09 PM |
| 20 | Pass denied in India of a women over adulteryWe need lots of changes but some states are getting better, including automatic 50/50 child split. A lot is also about making sure to understand the process which includes things like being first to file and making sure the other person doesn't leave the state with your kids and establish residency somewhere else. IMO many people get fucked because they get caught off guard and don't work the process. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/12/19 05:05 PM |
| 65 | Pass denied in India of a women over adulteryPersonally I feel like if you cheat prior to divorce not only should you not get alimony, you should end up paying the other person. I've heard some horror stories of people's inability to trust and form relationships after being cheated on by a spouse, can't put a price on that. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/12/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Most women already dress casually compared to men in the workplace; now feminists are fighting for the "right" to wear leggings to workYour coworkers sound like dicks. At least being in better shape probably means you'll live longer. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | News Reporter, DeniedIf you haven't been drinking then absolutely. I was speaking about the situation where you've had a few drinks or especially if you've had more than a few. Believe it or not the margin of error on the handhelds can be pretty high and some unrelated stuff can cause higher readings than expected. So yes if I had a few shots and a beer in the past couple of hours I'll probably decline the breathalyzer. As a personal anecdote I had a friend who had one of the devices in his car. They're not exactly … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | I don’t care that you are a single mom.It's not just women on facebook, it's people period. I'm not sure what's going on but more and more people seem overly entitled these days. A couple of weeks ago I was stuffing food in my mouth trying to get back to that place most of us spend too much time at, work, when a person approached asking for money. When I told him I didn't have any instead of just ignoring him dude followed me for a couple of minutes yelling about how I was selfish and ungrateful because I chose to buy food for myself… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/19 02:28 PM |
| -2 | Most women already dress casually compared to men in the workplace; now feminists are fighting for the "right" to wear leggings to workI think it's largely guys applying a double standard where one may not exist. Male and female fashion is different. Leggings are a part of women's fashion and can be a part of a business appropriate outfit (as long as the women wears an appropriate top and the leggings are not see through or ripped). Contrary to what some guys think, leggings are not workout gear like yoga pants and I'm guessing that in those offices where yoga pants are allowed, the men could wear workout attire as well. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Most women already dress casually compared to men in the workplace; now feminists are fighting for the "right" to wear leggings to workWait...what kind of engineer are you? I'd say what she's wearing is the female equivalent of male engineers who wear oversized khakis and shirts so large they can actually fold the bottom over their waist when it's tucked in, which is very common from what I've seen of business casual engineering organizations. Like someone else mentioned, she may have serious weight issues or other problems as well since most women don't really wear muumuus. Regarding the flip flops, I have an overweight male c… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Most women already dress casually compared to men in the workplace; now feminists are fighting for the "right" to wear leggings to workOut of curiosity is there a reason for that policy? My office is pretty casual for the floors that don't get client visits and earlier this year I saw a chick wearing leggings. My first though was "wow, that looks like what I dressed my 4 year old daughter in this morning". I'm assuming it has to do with potential sexual harassment since if the woman doesn't wear an appropriate top you can likely see somethings that aren't workplace appropriate. Hell as a dude I was pretty uncomfortable when I s… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Most women already dress casually compared to men in the workplace; now feminists are fighting for the "right" to wear leggings to workDid you try wearing leggings too? I mean it would be a bold choice but leggings were once considered appropriate male fashion | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Most women already dress casually compared to men in the workplace; now feminists are fighting for the "right" to wear leggings to workYoga pants aren't the same as leggings. It would be ridiculous for a woman to walk in wearing yoga pants and expect it to be okay outside of a workplace that allows casual clothes. I mean she might as well truck in with a sports bra too. Leggings on the other hand are pretty much tights and unless you're a young girl (young being middle school or below) generally should be worn with a dress or shirt that falls below your butt | /r/MensRights | 23/12/19 01:58 PM |
| 0 | News Reporter, DeniedAgain I'm no lawyer and I've had a couple tell me that if you think you're on the border don't take the breath test. The breathalyzer has a margin of error and if you blow .08 or over they're probably not going to let you blow again. I hope it never comes to this but I'd rather lose my license for the chance of not getting a DUI than to get charged with one and likely lose my license anyway. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | News Reporter, DeniedI'm pretty sure my state is .08. Delaying isn't going to save you if you're at .1 or above but if you are slightly above .08 then it might. AFAIK there's no real gray area, if you blow .08 or above you're charged anything less and you're free to go. The officer isn't going to tell you that you blew .085 so just wait and try again, they're going to cuff you and take you in. In my state a DUI/DWI can easily cost you $5,000+ to mount a decent defense on your first charge. Stalling a bit to save tha… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/19 01:46 PM |
| 6 | News Reporter, DeniedI think it's the fact that for most police officers most of the job is boredom so when some calls go out they all show up hoping for some action. That likely explains why most are standing around talking instead of actually doing anything worthwhile. At the risk of sounding flippant, I think some of them are worse than a bunch of old women when it comes to gossiping. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | News Reporter, DeniedI wouldn't call this PPD unless anyone thinks she really thought crying and apologizing at the end would reverse the arrest. I've been in a similar situation and the field sobriety tests can be a bit humiliating, especially on a busy road when people are honking. Despite her attitude he's not supposed to retaliate and it seems like that's what happened. It's been a while since I had to take a field sobriety test (I hope to never take one again) but I don't recall being asked to stand in what is … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/12/19 02:19 PM |
| 7 | News Reporter, DeniedNAL but there's no way justify a 40ish minute field sobriety test. She didn't seem to be slurring her words or showing other signs of inebriation. She did have an attitude but they were pretty dickish from the start and from the body cam footage seemed to take joy in humiliating her. Also for two passengers, who I don't recall being asked if they were armed or showing signs that they may be armed or dangerous, the number of officers on scene is absolutely ridiculous. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/12/19 01:49 PM |
| -1 | News Reporter, DeniedWe have breath testing but you generally have the right to refuse it. There are tons of reasons to not want the breath test, including being at the mercy of the machine working or the cop doing the right thing. I was once told by a lawyer that unless you've had 0 drinks, don't take the breath test. Apparently breath and blood results are hard to challenge in court. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/12/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | News Reporter, DeniedI think many states have that law but if you win your case, you get your license back. I'm pretty sure that in those states you lose your license if you get pulled and charged with a DUI/DWI as well. NAL but I think challenging the stop is a lot easier than disputing breathalyzer results (which can get messed up for a variety of reasons) especially when a jury is involved. Turning down the breathalyzer also gives you time to sober up, especially if you think you're on the line and they're going … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/12/19 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Mother getting custody without even showing up.How's your relationship with him? The shitty thing about this stuff is that the way to get what you need is really tribal knowledge because the process is needlessly complicated. It's hard when you're working but there's often someone at the courthouse who will tell you what papers to file but not give legal advice. Also if you're in a state where judges are elected then consider reaching out to the campaign of the judges competitor. Or fundraise for their party all the while telling your story … | /r/MensRights | 14/12/19 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Mother getting custody without even showing up.Yes you can appeal on your own but the complicated pretty is knowing what papers to file. Since your lawyer pretty much fucked you, they should at least point you in the right direction. Also get a copy of everything they filled to get your emergence hearing. Doing that will help you know what to file when she fucks up again. Also how did your kids mom afford a lawyer? Child support cuts both ways so if she has means beyond yours then you're entitled to request a modification. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/19 01:16 PM |
| 5 | Keep dreamin'!Yup. It happens a lot on hooker websites. Guys send money for a deposit and get ghosted. Honestly I'm surprised this the of panhandling isn't a crime. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/12/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Dollar store qualityI hate when women like this are called ugly names. The truth is that sexual marketplace value peaks as well as ebs and flows differently for men and women. Her thinking this way is no different than a divorced guy in his 30s deciding he'll never get married again because he makes 6 figures, drives a nice car and has no problem finding fit women in their 20s who want to be with him. As far as why settling? Men likely won't chase her forever because they're probably after her now for her beauty … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/12/19 01:23 PM |
| 20 | How dare you not give me a better deal! I’m a woman! You’re a bad person!A lot of people try to erase a shitty year with expensive gifts for their kids. I personally think a kid will remember that year the family got evicted before the year Christmas was lean | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/12/19 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Maybe this ridiculous rationale might help some people understand circumcisionA shocking number of people don't use condoms, my dick works fine circumcised and I think the benefits are higher than that. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/19 05:37 PM |
| -1 | Maybe this ridiculous rationale might help some people understand circumcisionNot really. Many of what we classify as STDs are skin to skin viruses or bacteria that can also get in the throat and anus. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/19 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Maybe this ridiculous rationale might help some people understand circumcisionhttps://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/circumcision/about/pac-20393550 It's not listed but IIRC it also helps reduce infections passed to partners. Alot of bacteria can hide in the foreskin apparently | /r/MensRights | 05/12/19 05:35 PM |
| -39 | Maybe this ridiculous rationale might help some people understand circumcisionIIRC circumcision actually has health benefits especially for men who are sexually active. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Know your worth. Seen on Twitter.Put it this way if a woman can't afford to go Dutch you guys are picking the wrong place for a date or you've picked the wrong woman. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Didn’t know having pain receptors made me inferiorNot if she's been hitting or threatening him first | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/12/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | "I have 1 hour visitation with my son through some place that's called "kinship". Where I'm monitored by 3 people..pay to be drug tested...because my child's mother said I'm "crazy, abusive, and a drug addict". I've show physical proof that she is lying"I don't think it's really about that. You have to keep in mind that the foundation of many of our family laws was written in a much different time (ironically not long ago though). They were written at a time when women's earning power was far lower than today and for many women having a kid out of wedlock or getting divorced meant financial destitution without support or outright reliance on the government (which is what many of these laws supposedly seek to prevent). It's sad to say but many o… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/19 02:17 PM |
| 2 | "I have 1 hour visitation with my son through some place that's called "kinship". Where I'm monitored by 3 people..pay to be drug tested...because my child's mother said I'm "crazy, abusive, and a drug addict". I've show physical proof that she is lying"Exactly. The system isn't fair and that's something we all have to accept. Knowing that doesn't mean that you can't find ways to work within or manipulate the system. We can't easily change a biased system but we can make sure to show exemplary behavior and tell our story to anyone who'll listen, especially those very people who may be able to make an impactful statement on our behalf. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/19 02:09 PM |
| 4 | "You wanna be a man, I'm gonna treat you like a man"Honestly I think a lot of fights between adults come down to luck. I'm far from a big dude but I haven't been punched in years. If a smaller guy or gal got in a good swing it might not knock me down but I'll get staggered. If they then do the smart thing and start pummeling me I'll likely not recover. I've seen fairly large guys get knocked down as well as out by smaller men and women. More often than not they had hardly ever been hit and when it happened the other person was smart enough or luc… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/11/19 02:33 PM |
| 7 | The way it should be. Ramelton, Co. Donegal, Ireland.The sanitizer to clean toilet seats is one of the things I miss the most | /r/MensRights | 23/11/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Fighting this fight on the daily. *sigh*If it makes you feel better chances are that she's done growing. A lot of kids seem to be peaking in height earlier and earlier these days. My daughter is 4 and she's projected to be taller than me and her mom. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/11/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Calling someone useless while begging for money 🧐🧐It depends on what she's promising and how old the people are | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/11/19 04:43 PM |
| 12 | Calling someone useless while begging for money 🧐🧐It's the dudes paying them. I really feel like cash app should ban people who do this and so should platforms like Instagram. No way to really know but I bet more prostitution happens on Instagram than Backpage | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/11/19 04:42 PM |
| 38 | Centuries of adultery exposed: New DNA evidence suggests that the historic rate of women committing paternity fraud is between 1 and 4%.Undoubtedly men still cheat but I think it's become a lot easier for women to do it. Think about it...there was a time when even if the woman worked she was still the primary child carer. Meaning that after work she went and go the kids, fixed dinner...now more and more it falls on the person who is not working, has a more flexible schedule, it isn't their day to go to the gym after work...Because women work, go to the gym, have friends...beyond the home, there is also more free time and unaccou… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | X-post from r/BrandNewSentenceSort of. On the rare occasion that a guy tries to fight me (I'm in my mid 30s) my first response is to try to deescalate and walk away. When that doesn't work I do everything I can to avoid actually hitting the guy. I think the worse it's gotten in the past few years is I pushed a guy against a wall and grabbed his trachea when he wouldn't stop coming at me. In my 30s there's only been once that I actually got close to fighting another guy but fortunately the bouncers showed up and kicked him ou… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 2 | X-post from r/BrandNewSentenceIt's pretty shitty that guys are conditioned to take abuse but women are constantly told to report it. Seeing as how you said was in I'm guessing you got out of the relationship which I'm glad to hear. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/11/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | X-post from r/BrandNewSentenceI think the line is how seriously she's trying to hurt you. When walking away doesn't work you're left trying to restrain her or keep her off you. If she's coming like she wants to kill you then knocking her the fuck out, breaking a bone or smashing her face in is really the only way to ensure you get home safe. Realistically I've rarely seen someone attack someone larger without being willing to hurt them bad so it should cut both ways. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/11/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Can't be my manI read your post and I think it's very well written and insightful. The start of the drug war that seemed to target black men. Took men out of the neighborhoods and into prisons. Probably effected their ability to make a living once released too. I agree with this. The drug war did target black communities and largely black men. Even today, you will often find a heavier policing presence in predominantly black neighborhoods full of working class people than you will white suburbia. That said, th… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/11/19 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Swap the gender roles around and see what happens.And I'm guessing she's feel the same way if you wanted one right? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/19 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Can't be my manHow so? A lot of the association between the black community and welfare is little more than hype. IMO the cultural shift in much of the black community did far more than any welfare restrictions on unwed couples living together could ever do. We (black people in the US who are decedents of slaves) essentially went from largely pushing kids to be literate professionals to wanting them to be hoodlums, athletes and entertainers. No welfare program put the notion in a black kid's mind that it was c… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Can't be my manI don't really think that's the case for most of Western Europe. In WE countries where I've seen low starting salaries they have pretty expansive safety nets, often including stipends for students and access to free health care. Between taxes and healthcare some people in the US lose about 40% of their wages. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/19 06:21 PM |
| 8 | Can't be my manI'd rather see more advances in male birth control and complete reform of our family and welfare laws. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Can't be my manI wish her names wasn't blacked out I'd like to see her other tweets | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Can't be my manI'd say it depends on her station in life as well. If you didn't finish hs, aren't working, have other kids...can you really demand a partner who makes 6 figures. FWIW minimum wage sucks and people should aspire to more but men and women who are partners as dollar signs IMO usually aren't worth much themselves. I'll close by saying some people make that amount because they have no drive, others because of ignorance or personal circumstances. While Im living proof that dating below your socio eco… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Can't be my manYeah but I mean if neither is working then likely the judge/magistrate will enter amounts for both them at their earning potential and then calculate what percent each is responsible for based on that and the number of overnights (other factors too like if one person covers all healthcare or daycare costs). So if she's like a lot of black women and has a degree but he doesn't then even not working she's possibly fucked. Of course since most states don't do default 50/50 he's probably screwed unl… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/19 03:43 PM |
| 18 | Can't be my manDepends on her income, the state they live in and the number of overnights. If they do 50-50 and she makes double his income then she'll be paying him. Hell if she makes a lot more that dude could have no overnights and still get paid. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/19 02:48 PM |
| -3 | Is this here already? Girl begging for someone to take her out to eat despite being taken out multiple times because "sushi doesn't countI can't tell if you're fucking with me but I didn't think my state was out of the ordinary with bogo sushi. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Is this here already? Girl begging for someone to take her out to eat despite being taken out multiple times because "sushi doesn't countI mean if you're asking a friend to take you then you better be choosing happy hour. FWIW where I live most places do bogo all day but some are dine in only. Only the trendy ones restrict it to certain times. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/10/19 09:28 PM |
| -4 | Is this here already? Girl begging for someone to take her out to eat despite being taken out multiple times because "sushi doesn't countWell it's usually bogo so unless you're friends a dick technically their sushi is free if you were going to get sushi anyway | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/10/19 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Pass denied, bitchYou're hardly going to find a country in the world that wasn't at some point under the rule of some European empire. To make the assertion that those countries owe all of their modern development to influences of European is a reach. I'd also argue that it's not Western ideals but the work ethic of the people in those countries that got them where they are. There's a stark difference in the mentality of former colonies that are considered first world vs not. Advancement is generally get a techno… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 03:43 PM |
| -2 | Pass denied, bitchSmallpox is far from the only modern ailment that's been wiped out. Regarding my statement about experimentation on non-whites, the atrocities by Gregory Pincus as well as the Tuskegee Syphilis come to mind. I will admit that the political and aristocratic structures of many European societies helped with their advancement. It allowed a small portion of the population to focus on learning and advancing technologically without being concerned about food or shelter. While it sucks to be on the bot… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Pass denied, bitchMost of the world did and still does practice slavery. Here in the US you can still buy a slave (although fortunately not in the town square anymore). The big difference with slavery in the "new world", especially the US was the treatment of slaves and some of what was done to keep slaves subservient and not revolting. I'm not historian but from what I gather, outside of war like cultures there are few instances of slaves being worked to death consistently and mutilated for pleasure. Let's als… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Pass denied, bitch> We're all fighting for equality, yet people like you still think that past events should be associated with the present. This may be true but at least in the US, people who should be natural allies still often divide themselves based on race and other bullshit. It cuts both way though. I remember some black students were very rude to whites who attempted to march with them during the height of black lives matter. On the flip side studies have consistently shown that whites have trouble recogni… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 11:33 AM |
| -4 | Pass denied, bitchTo be fair, many but not all modern medicines came from whites. It's also worth noting that the reason we have many of the medical breakthroughs that we take for granted is illegal (by today's standards) experimentation on non-white people. FWIW there are examples of credit going to the white guy while a minority or woman contributed a significant amount. With regards to eating, people the world over have been feeding themselves for years. If Africa was always a pit of starvation then how did … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 11:29 AM |
| 4 | Pass denied, bitchI think it depends on which parent raises them and which side of the family they spend more time around as well as their community. Black kids can be IMO horrendous when it comes to race and ignorance. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Pass denied, bitchWhile it's not some concerted effort or conspiracy, most people in the US can probably trace their current woes to something done by A white person not ALL white people. That's just the way things are when the majority of large corporations and government are run by white people. It's not racists to say it nor is it technically wrong when a lot of people say it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 11:19 AM |
| 74 | Repost but I feel like this belongs hereOr tell her boyfriend to get a job. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/10/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What did she expect?We're not being gay. It's dudes walking around with their underwear showing and buttholes exposed who are being a bit gay. I mean really what would you think if a chick was flashing her underwear at you? FWIW, sagging started in prison. It was a way for inmates to signal they wanted the attention of another man and for that other dude to get some easy access. Chances are those first guys doing it were either trying to get up on the guys they convinced to sag or were advertising their booty holes… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/10/19 06:58 PM |
| 14 | What did she expect?Exactly. When all those booty warriors get released it's going to be really easy for them to get that young butt | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/10/19 12:19 PM |
| -1 | Logic!While you can argue that punishments and application of the law isn't equal for men and women, I think it's pretty disingenuous to compare the actual institutional racism that exists in the US with the bias against men. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/19 04:33 PM |
| 21 | Logic!Rich white man commits a crime: not guilty, no trial, suspended sentence or minimum security prison at worst Rich white lady commits a crime: not guilty or no trial Black man or poor white man commits a crime: prison FTFY. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Bully brings her tugh white knight friend to physically abuse a high school boy. Gone terribly wrong.I wouldn't call this restraint. As you seem aware from your edit, putting someone in a rear naked choke until they pass out can easily kill them or cause brain damage for life. There's several moments before someone passes out that you can let them go with limited risk of them coming back at you. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/10/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | MeToo has made men paranoid in virtually any situation involving interaction with womenI think the big problem is that nobody is having the conversation about what is and is not actually appropriate behavior. We all have our lines, but there has to be a baseline. Just because one woman feels uncomfortable when men stare at her for too long doesn't mean that guys should be punished for that because too long is subjective. Just because a person (man or woman) doesn't like the person who asked him out or flirted with them, that doesn't mean the person did something wrong. I'm not say… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | WutI guess in the US there will probably be an attempt to shame men who choose a love doll over a relationship. I doubt that will stop the inevitable though. The truth is that things are getting bad economically for most guys and that's effecting the value men and have in a relationship. Also as women have more access to capital and social media their expectations are getting pretty fucked up. I was talking to a 22 year old college drop out the other day and she was saying how when she gets married… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | WutWhen a guy is ugly you look at his car and bank account. When a woman is ugly you look for the beauty within while hoping you're a high enough value man to find someone prettier or that you like. FTFY On a serious note , depending on what a guy wants looks rarely matter. Women generally can't say the same. I guess that's changing though | /r/MensRights | 24/10/19 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Real talkDo you really feel that way? I'm a mid 30s guy and I feel that each year for the most part my value increases. Depending on what life obligations you have, traveling to places where your dollar goes further has also never been easier. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/19 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Just had this exchange on TwitterThis is just plain stupid. A bar is a public place. Of you can't stand the idea of strangers talking to you in a public place and are an adult then don't go out. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/10/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Apparently TwitchCon Can't Be a Social EventI don't agree with this. I think that if Clooney was running a production company or people found out he was "coercing" young women into having sex with him in exchange for roles he'd be seen in a different light. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Not saying both offenses are equal..but its just amazing she got away with it consequence free.> cardi you could say was in a position of vulnerability but that might be going a little too far You could say that but that argument rarely holds water, especially since she was of age at the time and based on what she said not exactly being forced to do it by someone else. Despite how some bleeding hearts like to portray things, many women are voluntarily in prostitution and regarding who has the power, it is generally the woman. While bad things like rape, murder, assault...happen to hookers… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/09/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Not saying both offenses are equal..but its just amazing she got away with it consequence free.IIRC she was the one who admitted to doing this and freedom of speech AFAIK doesn't protect you from self incrimination. So yes one can argue that there's no complaining victim but still I think she could be prosecuted. FWIW, I don't think many guys would come forward over this. It's actually pretty common for hookers and pimps to rob johns and worse. In my city there was a young guy (early 20s) who responded to an ad for a hooker. The hooker and her cronies ended up blackmailing the kid for a f… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/09/19 08:30 PM |
| 12 | You literally can't win.In the US we don't really have a solid judicial review process, which would essentially be judges decisions being evaluated by everyday people. However, we do have the fact that many judges are elected our our side. While it's not 100%, you can write to the judges party and tell them that while you generally vote the party ticket, you won't be able to if they run that judge. Let them know that you'll also be telling everyone you know to no longer support the party and give reasons. You can also … | /r/MensRights | 08/09/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Noone is stopping her, yet if the guy attacked her everyone would go wild.And then those 6'5 guys would all end up in jail. Not saying it would be worth it for the 5'5 guy but there are serious consequences to trying to be a white knight. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Saw this comment on a video of a girl repeatedly assaulting a guy who didn't fight backOne thing people haven't been saying is that police make an arrest but the district attorney's office choose the charges. So had he made the video and defended himself then likely he would have been arrested and then would have needed to himself or via a lawyer try to get the district attorney to not charge him. Realistically your best defense man or woman is to try to retreat to somewhere public with a lot of witnesses or cameras and as loudly as possible let the other person know that you don'… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Saw this comment on a video of a girl repeatedly assaulting a guy who didn't fight backBut you guys did have a bit of discretion right? I remember I was dating a chick after college and it turns out she was seeing another guy as well. As you can imagine this resulted in an unfortunate confrontation where the police were called. When the police arrived one tried to white knight and tell her that she could have me arrested if she said I hit her. When I told her there were no visible signs of a struggle and if he did arrest me I'd sue him and the police department he backed down and … | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 11:29 AM |
| 5 | not a pedo?I was thinking she'd probably end up doing at least 7 years. I'm also pretty sure that kid's family will show up at every parole hearing and strongly oppose her getting parole. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 10:40 PM |
| 5 | not a pedo?Yes sexual and other types of assaults happen in women's prisons. A lot is going to depend on where she is ultimately sent but with a 20 year sentence she will probably be serving with women who have committed pretty serious crimes (not saying hers wasn't). It probably won't be an easy or rehabilitating time for her. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:14 PM |
| 11 | not a pedo?Oh no you see tons of pictures of men crying when they get sentenced. I'd say it's probably one of the few natural responses. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Sexist and biased judgeCorrect and for the most part there's no real checks and balances. When they aren't appointed, you could say the ballot box is the ultimate check and balance but it's not like anyone can run against them. They're also never required to explain/justify their decisions to the general pubic because apparently that would be dangerous and risk overturning previous convictions. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 01:12 PM |
| 2 | STEM trip exclusionI'm not from Australia, but I think here in the US if you go to the administration they'll have to let your kid go or help you find an alternative program. FWIW, in my state we have programs geared towards female and minority students but they're not really allowed to discriminate. The closest they can generally get away with is picking one kid over another based on socio-economics which just happen to generally correlate strongly with race. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | STEM trip exclusionDepends on where you live. I'm in the US and we still have tons of public schools with very discriminatory programs. I remember reading about a school a couple of years ago where the schools population was mostly black but the AP and other advanced programs had very low numbers of black students. It turned out that most of the black kids who expressed and interest were pretty much shut down. I graduated high school around 2000 and still remember the majority of girls being ushered away from coll… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Harvard thinks discrimination of men should be the defaultBe fair though, how many guys would you trust to carry your 240 lb carcass out of a burning building? I live in a southern state and I've seen some first responders who I feel like I might end up having to save if they come to get me. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 01:52 PM |
| 23 | A picture I found on: http://www.realsexism.com/ And this is one of the reasons why I hate feminism.It's really sad how often situations like this happen. What's more sad is the number of people who are simple oblivious to this reality. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/19 09:15 PM |
| 12 | I’m so sick of the venom that these shameless feminists spew just to spite menBoth the man and woman want the baby, he must pay child support. FTFY They both pay child support based on the child's actual financial needs. Other than that this is really reasonable. I think the double standard currently exists because I as a guy can say whatever the fuck I want and then to a degree walk away scott free if I don't sign the birth certificate and she can't leverage the legal system. There's also a lot of strange technicalities regarding paternity that can happen that are hard t… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/19 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Emily Lindin just won't stop with the stupid tweets.Don't most women have this power in the modern workplace? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | We Need MenI'd first ask if that was acceptable to you and do you feel that you would be in your child's life enough, seeing them once every five to 7 days It's absolutely not. My point was not to condone the current system but to say that as parents we have to do the best with what we can no matter how unfair the system is towards us. Look at crime stats and what the absent father has created An absent father is only one of the contributing factors. I was born in the early 80s and in middle and high schoo… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/19 11:11 PM |
| 0 | We Need MenActually no, and there is a mountain of data demonstrating so. At the risk of sounding combative I'd like to see that mountain of evidence. Funny thing about human behavioral studies is that you often find conflicting results because people rarely fit a mold. Anecdotally I can tell you that some parents who don't have majority time share make the most of the time they have and go on to have very good relationships with their kids. I've also met non majority timeshare parents who spend what littl… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/19 11:18 PM |
| 5 | We Need MenSix to 8 days a month is not fatherhood, It depends. There's a lot you can do with your kid in that 6-8 days a month especially when those days are on weekends when you're not working. Personally I favor default 50/50 and reevaluating the way child support is calculated, but having less days is no excuse for being a shitty parent. I think the fatherhood rights movement has a lot to do with the fact that laws haven't kept up with the times. The original child support laws were written when most w… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesGotcha. I read the article (not the 2004 paper) and it doesn't seem to indicate that students are being awarded or deducted SAT points. It reads a though they took a comprehensive score and tried to put it in terms that everyone can understand by using SAT scores. IIRC Harvard and other Ivy league schools create a score based on the notion of a comprehensive student and allow some leeway to create diversity, legacy preference... | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesIt probably varies from state to state but I've never heard of programs in my state getting cancelled under those circumstances, they generally just start admitting more privileged kids and then some legislator bitches about "diversity" and the next year they increase recruitment efforts at some schools. That he as a white male student applied and received recommendations from teachers tells me that it's not just a program for minorities and girls or the teachers didn't know much about it. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesWhile those terms often mean race and/or gender, they can also be about economics. If you were excited about the program I still encourage you to reach out to them about a wait list or what other opportunities may be available. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesAre you sure it says they only accept minorities? Or does it say that preference will be given to minority applicants and applicants from group traditionally underrepresented in STEM fields? There's a huge difference. Having worked with similar programs I'll let you in on a few things: 1. Programs designed for kids who are from underrepresented groups often cover basics. So if say you've been programming since you were 10, currently take all the CS classes your school offers, do python in your s… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 11:55 AM |
| -3 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesIs there actual proof that the last part is true? FWIW one reason a lot of asian kids catch a penalty is that their applications are often pretty cookie cutter. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesIn regards to opportunity in the US for education and access to the banking system, some groups of Asians receive as much and in some cases more positive biasing than whites. I once overheard a conversation between two managers for a well known chip manufacturer talking about hiring interns. One said his preference was for Chinese/Japanese/Korean kids then whites and everyone else was the bottom of the barrel. A couple of weeks later (it was a popular lunch spot) I saw the same manager offer a j… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 11:45 AM |
| -2 | Summer engineering program that doesn't accept white malesLikely no. Generally these programs don't discriminate against white males but give preference to others types of students. In other words, if a program has 50 slots and there are only 10 applicants who are not white males, they don't admit the 10 and then cancel the other 40 slots. That said, there are some programs that are only for girls, kids from certain areas (generally a polite way of saying for blacks or hispanic kids only)...but those will generally make an exception for certain kids wh… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you think this young man sentencing of 12 yrs in jail for "rape" was fair?I haven't read a trial transcript but it seems the only physical evidence was saliva on her chest that belong to him and IIRC some bruising. He admitted to kissing her there and making out with her. I didn't read anything indicating how any bruises on her were definitively tied to her but maybe it wasn't included in the articles. The video doesn't show him forcing her and I haven't seen it but I imagine that had she been so drunk he was carrying her or dragging her it would have been reported so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this young man sentencing of 12 yrs in jail for "rape" was fair?We weren’t there for the trial, I trust the jury weighed the evidence carefully before coming to verdict. That's not how jury's work, most jurors enter that box with personal biases as well as a limited understand of the technical definition of the law. Like you said we weren't there, but based on the evidence mentioned consistently in various articles it's hard to say that beyond a reasonable doubt he raped her by force. Personally, I wish each juror had to write a statement explaining how they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Albert Wilson; a man sentenced to 12 years in prison by a majority-female jury despite not having sex with the accuser.He's a 20ish year old black kid accused of raping an underage white chick in a red state. Oh and he can't afford a decent lawyer to speak for him. It's sad, but not all that uncommon nor an indication of guilt. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Albert Wilson; a man sentenced to 12 years in prison by a majority-female jury despite not having sex with the accuser.True, but there are ways to tell if a woman has had intercourse within a certain time period. I haven't seen that mentioned in any of the news articles I've seen. If she was raped there would have been evidence of penetration. Of course, that doesn't prove it was him but... | /r/MensRights | 25/05/19 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Albert Wilson; a man sentenced to 12 years in prison by a majority-female jury despite not having sex with the accuser.This is going to sound terrible, but more so than who the woman is, who the guys is really decides who easily this bullshit can happen. I found out that the kid had a public defender. A public defender for a charge that if he was found guilty apparently in that state had minimum sentencing guidelines of over a decade. I'm not a cop or a lawyer, but I'm pretty sure that if his family was rich it would have been hard for this to have happened. For one, the jury composition seemed off. In addition,… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/19 08:04 PM |
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