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it only helps in the fact that theres more options for you to do... sure u can go the no money, walk around a park kinda date, and that is PERFECTLY fine without having to have spent a cent... but if your perfectly loaded you can invite someone to go skydiving for the hell of it.... what you have to NOT do is supplicate and use your money trying to impress someone. You pay for your own shit, she pays for hers...ie buying a girl a drink at a bar... hell fucking no... unless she is genuinely a nic…
/r/seduction16/09/14 03:08 AM
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establish logistics straight away... you want to determine how long you will have to interact with her on the train, u might end up taking it slow without knowing that shes headed off the next stop.
/r/seduction05/09/14 12:06 AM
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looks like people have provided the right answer already but just to reiterate, youve expressed your sense of humor, she didnt like it.. therefore its up to you to decide whether she is still worth pursuing. If all your looking for is the lay then she doesnt have to be compatible with your personality. A girlfriend on the other hand as previously mentioned should be someone you can be yourself 100% not watching what you say in case she gets pissed at you for it. If you want to save face in that …
/r/seduction28/08/14 06:14 AM
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let it go and move on.. if she messages back and tries to set up a date then good, if not then what ever youve got other plans anyway
/r/seduction26/08/14 04:02 AM
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no... if its only been a few months... then its the same.... if were talking back in the days of "the game" then yes pick up has evolved from "tips and tricks" to inner game (for the most part)
/r/seduction20/08/14 11:44 PM
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wow sorry for the late reply man, since you didnt directly reply to mine i hadnt checked this post back. Anyways whats included in simple 30 is the following - 30 days of challenges (obviously) video of the team explaining the challenge, why your doing it, and demonstration of them doing it, along with some motivational words to go along with it. journal section - to write your progress direct feedback from the team with any questions or FR's you post in the comment section of said day. You migh…
/r/seduction19/08/14 04:12 AM
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i agree..it depends on your family...my family know i do pick up...and they would just applaud me
/r/seduction19/08/14 12:42 AM
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see people always give the same advice... to be able to approach women, you have to approach women, to be attractive just be yourself...though fundamentally these are the right answers, you have to delve a bit deeper to actually be able to accomplish it. meta of what your doing at the moment: Why can you high 5 people randomly but not approach women? the most likely answer is youve set a micro goal. So rather than working on the macro, the big picture which is (picking up women), youve set yours…
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:34 PM
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you answered your own question... and the guy who answered over complicated the answer... "hi i just thought you were cute and wanted to say hi"... what ACTUALLY varies is the response, as the response will be based off random variables, such as where you are, how shes feeling, whether shes had a bad day, whether she has a boyfriend...etc etc... in which case for the most part, these are things you cant control anyway. You merely present an opportunity, what happens after happens
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:57 AM
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a situational opener is exactly what it sounds like, its a comment about a current situation... its kind of an extension of an observational opener. umm the best way to explain it would be with an example. So for example, if your stuck in a lift, then being stuck in a lift is a situation...so you would say something like "how long do you think its going to take for them to come get us?" or if you want to play with dark humor a bit "how long do you think itll take before we run out of air"... tha…
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:56 AM
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there are actually a few of these out there, as mentioned already neil straus' 30 day challenge (which is free), simple 30 by simple pickup (400 dollars), which ive personally completed (paid 200 as part of the initial picking process, where i got instant feedback from the guys), and im sure there are a few others.. Im not gonna write any of the challenges, but my personal review of simple 30 was that it deffinately got me off my ass and start approaching. I had done two approaches before i star…
/r/seduction25/07/14 05:56 AM
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what i took from your FR was that you open, then small talk...which leaves no impression of you on the girl. lets bring it back to basics - your question was whether opening with a compliment was bad or not. No. Why? cause your opener is never going to be the most important part of the interaction. You could open with anything you like, cause its litterally just to get you interacting with the girl, Ive opened with "i like big butts and i cannot lie" and ive opened up with "i thought you were cu…
/r/seduction25/07/14 05:31 AM
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eye contact to smile is just another way to open... theres a youtube video from the 21 convention, i forgot who spoke about it though about "throwing hooks out" which is basically things to make someone notice you... saying hi is a hook, eye contact and smiling is a hook, buying a girl a drink is a hook.... the idea is to throw out hooks everywhere and see what "attaches"... but again, its still up to you to follow through... just cause something(someone) attaches to your hook (notices you)... d…
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:17 AM
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Not sure if this has been said cause i dont want to read through all the comments posted already, but for me i use cocky funny since its just my personality... Ill say things like "people are staring...maybe its cause im looking so sexy" no matter what she says after your going to be able to play off it... She'll either call you out on it, or agree in either case as long as youve said it as a joke you can both laugh about it.
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:48 AM
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when she stops smiling
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:43 AM
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im 24 and dress up to everything... full blazer, collared shirt etc etc... my reason is two fold... 1 i like to stand out... everyone will be dressed casually etc to most occasions... i dont... and when everyone dresses formally (ie my brothers engagement party thats a bowtie event) ima go and down dress with a suit, and fancy ass floral shirt and bowtie... Yes its peacocking, but i dont neccessarily do it for that reason.. just like being different. and secondly....dressing up makes me feel goo…
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:28 AM
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to everyone saying that theyre getting numbers but lots of flakes... This was a fricken huge hurdle for me to get over... if you want less flakes, focus on the interaction, not the number or any other form of closing. When i first started i was so caught up with getting numbers and not making my interactions better and i would despise the fact that heaps of girls werent answering back. Eventually i worked on making a better interaction instead... i spoke with random people, and would only ask fo…
/r/seduction02/05/14 06:09 AM
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i do kickboxing, so i have some gear lying in my room...i guess that relates to your DJ and teaching...plus beating each other up, theres a park like 5 minutes down the road from me as well so thats always an option...umm this really boils down to individual hobbies i guess... I have a bunch of videos and photos on my comp connected to my TV that i could show since thats what i do for a living... and on that note my DSLR is there as well so spontaneous photo shoot (could be done with a polaroid …
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:40 AM
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cocky funny
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:11 AM
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you play the gentleman, say you'll walk her home then you ask to use the bathroom to get yourself in the house.
/r/seduction24/04/14 12:55 AM
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just to add, i ALWAYS make conversation with my barristas during my 5 minute (which i turn to 15) coffee break. Told one last week that she had gorgeous eyes.
/r/seduction22/04/14 10:50 PM
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yep yep, usually when i reply to people i try cater for the OP rather than a general populace, as each case is always different, though the answer is usually always the same just at varying depths. I actually wanted to articulate it better but i tend to visit seddit while at work and try not to get caught so was a bit rushed =P Anyway by practicing in the office, i only meant on the basis of conversation which you seem to be doing which is fine. Im in an office of about 100+ so theres a few peop…
/r/seduction22/04/14 10:43 PM
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hey man, i have the same issue in that time is very hard to come by cause of full time work. Unfortunately the issue isnt really time, its that your making excuses as for why you cant approach...EVERYTHING you think about is an excuse as to why you cant do what you want, I have to work through lunch, i have to go to the gym etc etc. If you really wanted to approach, you would find the time. Last year i had to work full time and part time, i had a 20 minute window in which to do anything, so i wo…
/r/seduction22/04/14 06:42 AM
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the secret to LMR = take off your shirt first trust
/r/seduction22/04/14 04:58 AM
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i use cocky funny in my interactions... just happens to be my personality... but i always make sure it comes off as a joke that "im awesome" and i find that no fap increases my concentration...at first you have that urge to do it..but you hit that point where you just dont NEED to do it anymore..and when your faced with the option to do or dont... its alot easier to just not do it
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:17 AM
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"ALL" pua's are weird... the whole point of being a pua is that you put yourself outside of what society considers "normal" Approaching a stranger just to talk is "weird" to NORMAL people...to those that know better, we know its actually stupidly normal. as for noobie mistakes...for me it was definitely ejecting too early. As soon as i would run out of things to say, or i would feel slightly uncomfortable i would just say, well i better catch up to my friends, nice to meet you" and leave. outcom…
/r/seduction22/04/14 02:39 AM
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i know this is a bit late, but if i can help, its an issue known as uptalking...what you want to do is actively practice "down talking" which is where your intonation at the end of your sentences goes deeper rather than higher in pitch. i CONSCIOUSLY practice this everyday while i talk to everyone, when you consciously think about it, ull notice when you uptalk and can fix it immediately
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:44 AM
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i alternate between low and high energy, dependant on the situation, but im deffinately naturally more geared in low energy. To escalate, what you want to do is build sexual tension with how you portray yourself. Talking slowly, gazing into her eyes, holding her hands etc. If you want example of a low energy approach i reccomend u watch james marshall or liam mcrae (both from the same camp) theyre both great at it
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:30 AM
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ive actually done this already... while we were both overseas together, basically i told her who do you like me or him to make it easier for everyone. she ended up replying with why do i have to like anyone? thats why recently ive been taking it relatively slow, just going out having fun..with the mentality t hat if something happens itll happen..and of course i always make my intention clear that i do like her. i might do it with the third guy who she seems kinda close with though.
/r/seduction16/04/14 05:23 AM
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i actually needed that, thanks! its easy to give advice when its not your own life... then when its me i cloud my own judgement cause of emotions... always good to get constructive criticism from a level headed mind
/r/seduction16/04/14 04:33 AM
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ill ignore everything else but your questions. frames are like a little switch in your head... you can easily CHOOSE to be happy, angry, dominating, etc etc with a little bit of control. Unfortunately the hard part is maintaining that state, once its flipped it is easily switched back due to situations or enviromental factors. as to how to act, its a fake it till you make it situation... if your frame is "im the best thing thats ever happened to her" then you act like your too good for her, use …
/r/seduction16/04/14 02:03 AM
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your mistake was definitely asking.... you should have just gone for it... A good way of doing it is to verbally tell her things like, you know i dont put out until the 4th date right? or were not gonna make out so dont get the wrong idea, or lets take things slow.... but physically you want to be doing the opposite. Its a little push pull technique, where verbally your pushing her away, but your pulling her in physically. telling her a kind of "i dont normally do this, but your just that hot" k…
/r/seduction16/04/14 01:34 AM
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yep this happens to me..not a fair bit but on occasion.... doesnt matter who im speaking with... i litterally stop.... and shake my face around violently with my lips flapping with the head shake... its just a way to reset myself... i look stupid doing it in front of people...but they get why im doing it... cause they can clearly see i cant seem to get what i want to say out...so this was just my way of resetting...and starting from the start
/r/seduction16/04/14 01:31 AM
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This is more common than you think, and people fall deeper and deeper into the PUA thing and lose themselves in it. Honestly sometimes the PUA scene can become highly toxic, its a natural progression but eventually you find yourself in it all, and it becomes a struggle of gaming other people to gaming yourself. I experienced this for the past year, where i just didnt feel a connection with anyone. I ended up dropping the whole HB scale and it was either a yes or a no for every girl.... right now…
/r/seduction16/04/14 01:25 AM
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like what was previously said you win some you lose some... i disagree on having a horrible success rate though... success is subjective... and your already going about it all wrong if your basing your success on whether she was happy to talk to you, or you get a number, or you kiss close etc etc... your success should be measured in things that YOU and you alone control... so for me, approaching is what i consider a success... doesnt matter what happens from there cause i did all that i needed …
/r/seduction16/04/14 01:15 AM
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two ways... one, is a continual approach until you desensitize yourself and build your inner game so high that you realize you dont care whether they want you or not, cause your happy with who you are and that you dont need them either way to be happy... the second is get into a relationship with one of these girls... enjoy it for as long as you can...then get your heart torn to shreds and feel the deepest darkest hell of despair, before turning cold to those emotions and attachment to love. not…
/r/seduction15/04/14 11:39 PM
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yep...first come first serve... you need to establish your rules if you all have the intention of picking up. Course when my mates do it, we like to fuck with each other sometimes and rather than wing we just go and out "alpha" each other until the other guy finally has nothing to say and just stays silent the rest of the interaction. We try and encourage each other for the most part to approach though, with those that have AA the worst going with one of the stronger PUA's as a wing.
/r/seduction15/04/14 11:34 PM
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dude...i laughed my head off at this idea... but i was under the impression it was for someone you already knew, not havent approached.
/r/seduction15/04/14 06:09 AM
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i read the game first, but its not what got me into pick up... reading the game was great if you dont take it too seriously... so many outdated techniques etc etc... now my suggested book as like everyone else here is saying will be models by mark manson... it builds a new mindset, and works your inner game and values rather than external techniques that work in the short run, though i wouldnt disregard those techniques all together
/r/seduction15/04/14 05:52 AM
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hey man, welcome, and good luck! its going to be rough, and your gonna have ups and downs... but dont give up! You dont have to party to get girls... all i ever do is day game... cause i hate clubbing and i go with more of a low energy "james marshall" approach rather than a high energy "sasha daygame" style.... Remember to take it in strides and best of luck
/r/seduction15/04/14 05:44 AM
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you escalate kino systematically..anywhere from a hug to hand holding etc etc...I suggest if you want to get physical you hold her body close to yours and adjust how close your face is to her... so for example if shes smiling and happily reciprocating, then you can have your lower body touching and have your faces inches away from each other... if she seems a bit hesitant, you can still hold her from the waist in a friendlyish manner, but give her space by leaning back a bit instead...with this …
/r/seduction15/04/14 05:40 AM
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your mistake was telling her without establishing a connection first... My advice if you had already established some sort of a relationship/friendship would have been to persist since thats exactly what im doing and its going pretty well... but by the sounds of it gonna have to agree with everyone else and say move on
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:03 AM
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if you think "is this the right time to kiss?" then the answer is yes
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:00 AM
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set small goals... its DIFFICULT to just jump straight in cause your head is swimming with all these techniques and things you have to think of... your thinking, what opener should i use, what if she says this, is that an IOI, is this time to physically escalate? If the approach is currently your sticking point, then start off with simply saying hi to everyone, or have an opener already in your head and just use it over and over until u get desensitized to the approach... once your over your AA,…
/r/seduction15/04/14 01:42 AM
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hmm.. in which case sounds alright... that text though... i would take out that "fun" bit...sounds like your referring to sexual intentions and thats all you want...UNLESS thats the established relationship you have already built up. If theyre going cold after a while, need more information as a way to isolate the problem...sorry...it could be that your being needy after some affection, or that you portray a player attitude that turns them off..could be the type of girls your with.. umm personal…
/r/seduction15/04/14 01:14 AM
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It seems like you have initial game down pat so ill ignore that aspect... To me though just a feeling... so i cant be 100% sure, but sounds like it could be an issue with "being real" so your fine with initial approaches, you guys have a fun time, but it sounds like you continue to focus on game, rather than showing who you are, and cutting out all the "ok shes given me 3 IOI's, time to physically escalate" or continuing to tease when you should have serious conversation. remember game is fine, …
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:54 PM
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i only actively started doing pick up last year, though i had known and continued to read up on it for a year prior. What finally got me off my ass and effectively got me being better, was a 30 day challenge by simple pickup...yes i forked out money, no i will not advertise for them, cause there ARE free 30 day challenges you can find online, OR you could easily build them or ask people here for advice as to what to do for it. You have to have a goal for each day which was the main point of the …
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:58 AM
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if you want to be more talkative i suggest doing a machine gun approach to fire up... talk to anyone and everyone to really get yourself going.... 30 seconds between each interaction... thats my best way of warming up. In regards to being in a group situation where your being isolated cause of a more dominant personality, have you tried isolating the girl? not even to the point where you take her off somewhere else, but rather just directly ignoring everyone else and having all focused on one gi…
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:57 AM
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generally you get her number as a sign of dominance, you want to show you lead and are not submissive. If your asking for her number and she persists that she'll take yours down instead, then shes not comfortable enough to give her number out to you in the first place, so what makes you think she'll call you? By getting her number, you also have the position to initiate, rather than wait whether she will or will not call. Next point, is you should never be focused on the number in the first plac…
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:48 AM
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