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I’d say avoid meetups. Look into clubs at your school. There should be a directory. Look into stuff like Austin social bike rides, board game nights at local gaming stores, neighborhood adult kickball leagues, weekly groups or events at stores you like, hackathons, dance classes at the Texas women’s federation or Latin nights downtown. Just look around and be creative - I don’t know what your interests are. But roller skating is very hip right now and at one point nearly every new girl I met was…
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:15 PM
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Do you have medical insurance? Consider speaking to a therapist. This sounds like a deeper issue than being single or stressing about work life balance. UT also has councilors - I saw a few when I was in school. You might struggle at a social outing, but if you don’t go through that pain, you won’t meet more people. The whole point of a regular group activity is you slowly ingratiate yourself into a group of people who are all there to do the thing first, and to socialize second. Don’t worry abo…
/r/seduction11/07/22 09:00 PM
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No I’m not in Austin. I am curious why this was something on your mind 4 years ago that is still giving you anxiety today. I guess you can message me - but figuring out how to live your life happens outside of an Internet forum.
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:36 PM
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Okay. So we were in the same program, I think, in Austin. Austin is a phenomenal city with super friendly people, tons of great bars, clubs, parks, hiking, activities, artists, nerd shit, dance events, etc. Last time I was in town my SUPER hot programmer friend got picked up by a dude who was into the same niche app as her. Austin Is a city where most people are open to conversations with strangers. Most adults you meet will work 9-5, this will not kill their social, dating, creative, or sex liv…
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:03 AM
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I wrote this comment four years ago. Are you not done with college/approaching finishing it?
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:04 AM
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Yeah idk why people are acting like this is a bad idea. Most of my friends are women and most of them LOVE board games - several couples I know met playing board games and they’re all very attractive people. I recently bought a lil simple two person card game that looked cute just so I could have something quick and fun to play on dates.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:55 AM
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I mean I’ve been on these forums since I was in high school (which tbh I think is far too young) so it’s hard to say how much of my conversational skills are learned here versus picked up in real life. I will say that putting myself into situations where I had to interact with a lot of new people all the time definitely helped a lot more than any theory - which is kind of the point of this post. When I say the convo he outlined seems like a normal convo that’s more just observationally from conv…
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:35 AM
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Lmao I literally just said that what he’s describing is a normal conversation with a new person, except people forget what that’s like because they get all in their head with PUA lingo that makes it cold and mechanical… then I come up and you’ve got literal abbreviations for talking about how much you enjoying traveling and making assumptions about where someone is from. Lmaooooooooooo.
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:02 AM
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Again I think what you’re a describing is pretty normal conversation that people have, peppered in with some lingo picked up through PUA circles (like social proof - more like relatable person) that could make someone forget that’s what talking to someone new is like… rather than this scary mechanical cold approach opener more lingo etc EDIT: also wow now I’ve seen your penis gnarly bro alt accounts
/r/seduction11/12/21 01:55 AM
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You still are talking to new people and initiating conversations - which I think people forget is cold approaching, but the normal kind that everyone does, not the prescribed weird kind taught here. I think if I have the thought in my head “go approach this person” it’s going to lead to a bad outcome, I mean, who uses that kind of language. But whenever I have fun talking to new people who look cool or cute, it’s almost never taken poorly, even if it doesn’t lead anywhere.
/r/seduction10/12/21 11:02 PM
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Based juggalo
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:51 PM
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This is why people hate this community. You better not have an ounce of fat on you if you’re posting this.
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:26 PM
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It’s kind of insane. So like 35 with 25, sure. Totally see that sometimes. 20 with 30, rare but happens. Anyone over 40 with anyone under 30, super super fucking rare. My ex married someone 35 years older than her when she was 24, but that guy is next level successful - he got rob zombie into directing films, produced a bunch of shows I like, and owns property across the USA… plus she’s a super rich girl who values money a lot. Statically, any guy reading on Reddit can’t do that.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 12:01 AM
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I know a bunch of hot single women.
/r/seduction20/11/21 01:48 AM
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I rewatched hitch recent and it is SO CRINGY. The advice is terrible.
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:14 PM
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My brother is going through a divorce right now partially because his wife spent 35000 on clothes and lied to him about it… he’s about to get fucked to the tune of a few hundred thousand dollars.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:24 AM
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No. It’s much easier to transmit with an outbreak but It sheds asymptomatically. I have GHSV1 and I’m contagious between .5-2% of days, depending on the study you look at.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:23 AM
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My man
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:22 AM
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80% might be high but 60-70% - getting more likely the older you get. Most people have it asymptomatically, and in the population that gets outbreaks they’re still it’s very rare. Herpes, even genital herpes, is a big nothingburger for the vast majority of people.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:22 AM
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They’re in a literal cult/pyramid scheme which is based around drinking. My biggest regret in my life is involving myself with Greek life. If you feel like you can’t talk to these girls, maybe they have really different values than you and they’re not worth the time.
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:54 PM
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To me this reads as - this tip is related to me wanting to date you and it’s not a charming move
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:46 PM
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I have dated several people I met while they were working… I also have had two housemates and a band mate that I met the same way. Generally I approach staff with a “can I be the best part of their day” or at least be a highlight - cuz being a waiter or cashier is stressful yet a lot of people who work these roles are fairly social. When I have gotten numbers of waitresses it has been OBVIOUS they were interested. It was never the first time I met them either. When I have been having a positive …
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:45 PM
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Lmao I’m almost half a foot shorter than you and don’t even consider myself that short
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:23 PM
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I’m 3 inches shorter than you and it’s rarely a dealbreaker. You have a limiting belief that is becoming a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:47 AM
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I’ve picked up a girl talking about DnD, and know several guys who have hooked long term gfs playing DnD. They normally met them somewhere else, like a street fair or a roller rink, but hooked them playing DnD. World is changing. Everybody loves video games.
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:30 PM
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Yup. I find occasional larger age gaps, but its waaaaay more common for people to date people in the same stage of life as them. A five year age gap is pretty common 25+ ... because theres not so much difference between 25 and 30, 30 and 35... but how many 18/19/20 year olds do you know dating 30/40/50 year olds like this would suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:03 AM
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Oh it's for sure an addiction. I even have a lock box for my phone. I just think that's much easier said than done. Especially in a global pandemic when almost all communication and much socialization is electronic. I also live in a small studio, so I dont even have another room to put my phone in. I'd say five seconds after putting my phone down the overwhelming urge to check it sets back in. That's definitely a generational problem too.
/r/seduction25/02/21 03:54 AM
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Since this is Instagram/Tinder I am talking to a lot of people. But replies come at differing speeds. I actually cant go to the gym in my area, but do have home workout gear. I write a lot, host a podcast, workout, learn programming, work 40+ hours a week, have a social life, see my family - so the problem is not hobbies.
/r/seduction25/02/21 12:59 AM
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If I poured a tiny bit of water on a guys head and got punched I'd be shocked. Way out of proportion.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/21 01:52 AM
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Both of his ex wives say that he wasnt like that with them, but that they believe the survivors. Interestingly, almost all the abuse allegations come from after his second divorce, when he really got deep into drugs. Totally believable for me that he would become more abusive as his addictions deepened. Its behaviour that I've seen in other people with drug problems that stretch on for multiple decades.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/21 08:39 PM
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Um... dude hes not a judo rafting rockstar hes just giving some clearly exaggerated examples
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:27 AM
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... are you serious... that's clearly hyperbole
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:27 AM
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My friend took acid with a guy as a first date, yeah. I will say, I often overestimate how into me a girl is when I'm tripping.
/r/seduction09/01/20 11:21 AM
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Damn dude you say dont text a girl too much then reply that to me disagreeing? Mad skeptical.
/r/seduction07/01/20 03:50 PM
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Idk I've had way more threesomes being a nice open dude than following all the shit you outlined here.
/r/seduction06/01/20 04:54 PM
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Work is a social circle. Also not a smart idea. It happens, but absolutely terrible idea to persue. Better to make friends with your colleagues, go to events they invite you to, and maybe meet someone there.
/r/seduction06/01/20 04:40 PM
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I think social circles is broad enough to encompass hobbies, or things like that too. Totally agree. Great point. I was just talking today about how the biggest thing younger me would be disappointed about it how I no longer talk to people in public places like bus stops, trains, lines, and in the street (men and women). I'm much more self conscious than I used to be about this - before I met bandmates, roommates, and girlfriends in places like that... now I'm just worried people will think I'm …
/r/seduction06/01/20 04:39 PM
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I will say I tend to talk more casually to more people, and less deeply with a couple. Like at a party I'm more likely to talk to 30 people briefly than 3 people for an hour. I think this works against me cuz I've found often the secret is just finding a girl who is enjoying talking to me, then talking until she is willing to come home. Since I bounce around a lot I have ultimately hurt myself.
/r/seduction27/11/19 07:33 AM
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Met my first girlfriend and three women I've slept with regularly while they were at work as baristas or waitresses. I've also met bandmates, roommates, and many good friends the same way. Your mileage may vary. Two of my former roommates, who were girls, met a bunch of guys while they were on the clock too.
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:10 PM
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yeah honestly, even though me and a lot of my friends of both genders have done it, real connection in public places is very rare.
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:58 AM
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The people I tend to strike up conversations with in the street do have stuff in common with me, the people who don't want to talk tend to not have much in common with me. But I think what you feel is so valid and I am happy you shared it. I've definitely met both friends and lovers in the street, but it is the minority of women who are receptive to this. And actually, it is a very very very small minority of women who'd like to date me at all, so it is the minority of this minority. You are the…
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:56 AM
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man hitch is so bad
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:53 AM
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I met a few friends of mine in the street, but I didn't hit on them, I just commented on like stuff they were doing and struck up a conversation. Like I saw a girl carrying a cactus down the street, going the same way as me, and struck up a convo about the cactus. We still hang. The only time I slept with a girls I met in straight public places we always talked about other stuff first, and they always hit on me first. Most girls 100% are on the same page as you. One of my friends I met in the st…
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:47 AM
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Yeah I live a pretty active life and have good photos. But tons of the girls I've dated are pro or amateur models. Seems like a great hobby, taking pictures of beautiful women. And some girls I've met thought I was a photog at first and were pretty disappointed we couldn't do photoshoots. Plus, I'm a music journo and would be neat to be allowed in the photo pit.
/r/seduction16/10/19 09:30 PM
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We were playing on my submissive's back and the non binary person wed played with both of us has kissed in the past
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:54 PM
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I tried to star a 3some with a game of magic the gathering... it didnt work
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:10 AM
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Join a crossfit gym and a book club. Or go to book tour events at book stores, which are predominantly attended by women, and say hi. Don't be weird about it.
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:10 AM
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I wish I was into photography. Theres so many cool opportunities. But at this point in my life I've got to focus on other skills I've been building up.
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:09 AM
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Hey Laz. Can you DM me some good running groups in the bay? I'm currently living in the area and training for a halfer.
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:07 AM
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🤣🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:06 AM
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Do you feel comfortable just talking to women at the studio though? Without the intention of anything other than being part of a community?
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:05 AM
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Bro you are literally a foot taller than me and your little brother is half a foot taller than me. Neither of you are in any position to talk about the realities of dating as a short person, neither of you are short. An ideal man for many women is "dark, tall, and handsome". I see at least 20% of profiles online with a height requirement and most girls are either taller than me or my height. I very rarely meet a girl shorter than me, and girls like to wear heels and many cant if they're dating a…
/r/seduction01/10/19 06:43 PM
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yeah, once a girl is with a guy she's not going to leave him over his height. but there's definitely girls that wouldn't date him to begin with because of he doesn't meet the height requirement on her mental checklist. ​ as a relatively short guy ever now and then (like once every 2-3 years) I'll meet a girl who says to my face I'm too short, and I know there are women who were not interested where that was a factor, but once someone is with me theyre not going to leave because a taller guy walk…
/r/seduction30/09/19 07:01 PM
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*5'4 ​ and I am single right now and it's not ridiculously easy but it's not super hard either.
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:31 PM
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I've lived in the bay area, texas, new zealand, and australia. girls I like have been from all of those places - plus mexico, asia, and many parts of europe. so it's not a shallow girls issue. ​ where do you live?
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:20 PM
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pretty solid advice here dude. nothing to nitpick at all.
/r/seduction11/09/19 07:57 AM
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I'm four inches shorter than that and have gotten laid with plenty of girls I like.
/r/seduction11/09/19 07:56 AM
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it gives both an advantage to guys who are tall and something out of control for people to beat themselves up over. ​ there are tons of girls who say they don't want to date under six feet tall, so it does matter. but not to everyone, and not as much as people make it out to.
/r/seduction11/09/19 07:55 AM
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I picked up a girl by sitting down, talking to her, asking if I could put my hand on her leg, and asking her if she wanted to go home, and making out in the uber. way over complicated it. ​ meeting, grabbing a drink, sitting somewhere else, and taking a girl who is now alone home is very reasonable. everyone overthinks this shit.
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:45 PM
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lol what on earth is fishy about this?
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:43 PM
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do you let these girls know the way they look makes you nervous as one of the first things you say when you talk to them?
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:24 AM
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man I live in a hippie commune in new zealand and it was the most amazing time of my life... then I moved back home and just felt withdrawn and kind of ashamed. I spent most of last year in australia, which i didnt love so much, now I'm thrilled to be back home and yeah need to get back into the old abundant playful mindstate. I used to laugh at the idea of eye contact being intimidating.... now I need to remind myself to do it haha. ​ once I get a job though I think my confidence will come back…
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:21 AM
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you seem like zero fun in real life
/r/seduction19/06/19 01:56 PM
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Or his two new York times best sellers
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:11 PM
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man I just had to throw away my staff cuz I didn't know it wasn't airport safe. but looking forward to getting another one, mine was a bit bent. never taken it seriously enough but it's good fun and everyone looks better when they're illuminated by fire. ​ someone offered to teach me fire eating not that long ago... but the mouth cancer stuff scares me too much. think it'll just stick to the contact.
/r/seduction03/06/19 01:52 PM
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I've actually heard this like thrill ride first date suggestion before... and the girls I've asked have been like wtf go karting/paintball... nah bye. Think it boils down to personality type. I'm not an adrenaline junkie, most girls I date are not, therefore we have different interests.
/r/seduction29/05/19 11:56 PM
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I've had some really great first dates like looked at used music in a cd store or grabbing dinner or taking ecstasy at a military bunker rave, don't have to be super edgy ;)
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:19 AM
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update: time and opportunity worked. one of the girls I was assuming was hooking up with two musicians actually turned them both down and we had a really amazing encounter. she was into the stand up, would have me do jokes when she was busking and wanted a break, and liked how I made her laugh. do think that physically escalating in a comfortable way was really the most important aspect though.
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:16 AM
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what is the advantage of a surface level convo? how would you describe one? do you pick up girls without making them laugh?
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:56 AM
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Respectfully, I really couldn't give two shits if a hobby I enjoy is going to get me laid. The novel I just finished writing doesn't have enough comedic relief so I'm doing standup to get better at writing jokes. Nearly every day some girl comes up and tells me she loves my set and that it's super confident of me to do comedy, but nah I don't get the vibe they'd rather fuck me than some muscly dude who can play flamenco guitar. I do think I should play to my existing skill set, I'm 25 I'll never…
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:09 AM
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Hmm... only really in the last two years. 90% of the subreddit but currently I'm not getting results. I've only had sex a handful of times this year, and only with one girl I really enjoyed being around. I'm hoping someone who is not frustrated would have some insight, but yeah actually I do care too much if it's making me frustrated. And I'll lead it if I think it's a situation to lead, other times I'm either not feeling it enough or have a reason not to. Think you did actually hit the nail in …
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:43 PM
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Man I'm short and a little overweight and I do fine. I'm not like a player but dont have that many problems getting nice girls either.
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:45 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:44 AM
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I'm not gonna lie man - it's becoming a bit of a pattern. Not just with girls but with people in general. In the last week I've made plans with 8 people, only one of them hasn't flaked. A lot of the time they're suggesting it and life just gets in the way. In the meantime I've gone to two really amazing events where tons of people showed up to celebrate my friends. I think about where I was last year, and I really was at the center of a huge vibrant community. Now I'm in a new town and it's pret…
/r/seduction04/03/19 11:19 AM
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it's Sunday here and two girls who separately suggested getting drinks with me today have both separately stood me up. honestly, expected it. ​ I should be writing.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:53 AM
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yes but I could tell she was actually too busy the first time and wasn't making excuses. 99% of the time no way.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:43 AM
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whats your career like? I've been very unsatisfied with most of my employment through life but the rest of my life has been kick ass. now Im definitely in a more career oriented phase.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:38 AM
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literal adonis confirmed.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:36 AM
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Austin has a 300+ people who.come out the big dance every week ranging in ages from teens to old folks. Most in their 20-30s. The blues scene is much smaller. Most people still range from 20-30s.
/r/seduction23/02/19 02:29 AM
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man this is a great post in terms of just good advice for life but WTF is with all the high level technology analogies? Just imagine your brain is a modem and your subconscious is an IOS loloolol. Those type of analogies work in a post targeted just at nerds, and while they're are tons of nerds on reddit they definitely it still a bit over the top. ​ anyway I need to start journaling again and don't practice enough gratitude so I am very happy that you made this post and that I can start to bene…
/r/seduction24/12/18 06:17 AM
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As for the joy in talking to people - just be curious and self amused. Like find out about them, talk about stuff you're interested in. Man I was just talking to a girl who trains falcons for a living how cool is that? We were talking for like an hour before that even came up just about whatever. Nothing you say is really that important but talking and meeting people is 80% of the joy in life. Idk if you have a problem with finding joy in conversation you've gotta examine yourself and figure out…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 02:16 PM
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Just go alone to some swing dance classes then hit the actual social dance. Or blues or salsa etc. Really really social fun active vibe without an alcohol emphasis. One in Austin has 300-400 people weekly. The dance literally is just you being physical with a girl alone for like 3-5 minutes and she agrees to do this with you. Bit of a learning curve but my dancer friend has gone home with a guy who was at his first class. I will say you cannot actively run "game" at these things when you are new…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 02:13 PM
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Honestly it doesn't matter that much you just have to get talking. One that I got laid off of recently is "hey is there a band playing later? I just paid 10 bucks to get in and it doesn't seem like it." I NEVER use pickup lines or anything cuz I just talk to everyone basically the same. It's just a matter of being brave enough to talk to someone. ​ Also! For me it's really easy to spot people who are alone or aren't talking to someone or a little out of place, then just get chatting to them. Rea…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 02:04 PM
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Negs dont work. Like at all. I only started getting laid when i stopped negging. Girls are super insecure. They are insecure about a million things that your average dude wouldnt even notice. A girl who you insult over something shes insecure about isnt going to try to make you like her unless she already likes you or is a child (18/19). Shes not going to wonder why youre not sucking up to her, shes going to wonder why youre an asshole and how to stop talking to you... unless shes already into y…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 05:38 AM
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Hey man if you're in the Bay Area and like dancing I highly recommend you look into blues and blues fusion events. SF has the best blues fusion scene in the US and maybe the world. It's the hottest thing you can do with your clothes on, blues fusion is kind of a mix between electronic music and traditional blues.
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:35 AM
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intent.
/r/seduction07/01/18 12:15 PM
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really glad to see Minneapolis on this list! long time dream to live there. Living in New Zealand now, then thinking Germany then Canada... but settling down in Minneapolis would be amazing. I can vouch for Austin, way better than California for meeting girls.
/r/seduction07/01/18 12:13 PM
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spent 6 of the best years of my life in Austin. amazing. went from a virgin to dating a girl who was in a 30 seconds to mars music video. not to mention the music is out of this world.
/r/seduction07/01/18 12:12 PM
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working holiday somewhere in the world. New Zealand, Australia, and Ireland have great programs until you are 30. Save for 6-12 months and you can do it easy. Also download the app couchsurfer and use the hangout feature. Please don't try and fuck the girls on there it's just for friends.
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:48 AM
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Hey dude you're not alone. I was there. I used to be so awkward my parents actually sent me to classes to learn how to socialize better. I still have difficulties reading social cues but I'm much better because I've practiced and worked on myself. The girl I was seeing just moved, at this party on Friday I met an amazing girl: talked, connected, got her number, made plans. Then I got too drunk and apparently after doing all the hard work got too forward, was asking if she was single, asking her …
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:39 AM
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Yes you sound like a total neckbeard. Get off reddit, get into the real world.
/r/seduction10/12/17 11:07 AM
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Duuuuuuuuuuuuuude wtf It ain't so My older brother is 5ft4 like me and has been with literally hundreds of women. I know dozens of average height players and I'm a short guy who does alright. I do worlds better than when I was insecure about my height.
/r/seduction07/12/17 06:02 AM
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I personally think tinder is a waste of time. I have met girls off of it but the amount of effort you have to put in, versus meeting someone in real life, is ridiculous. I do not list my height. It's irrelevant. I swipe left on girls that say only 6+ feet. The girl I am talking about came directly to my house. She voiced some objections about my height which I immediately laughed off then busted her balls about her boobs, which I would NEVER EVER DO IN ANY OTHER SITUATION. That girl was crazy th…
/r/seduction07/12/17 05:38 AM
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oh one time I did have a tinder girl come to my house and start talking shit about my height. I stared at her boobs and said they were small... then we went upstairs and banged.
/r/seduction07/12/17 02:20 AM
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5ft4 have literally never gotten this in my life. height is only an issue if you're insecure about it. slept with plenty of girls taller than me. I do occasionally get called gimli but it's actually pretty funny I do look like him.
/r/seduction07/12/17 02:18 AM
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Ummm did you even watch the video? There's no tricks or manipulation unless smile, have a good time , and introduce yourself = manipulation
/r/seduction29/11/17 12:56 AM
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also way more people play guitar than rock climb. climbing is way more interesting imo. all marathon runners I've met are really awesome people. most of the girls I could see myself marrying are marathon runners. guitar players are egomaniacs generally. if you are really good at guitar you can view yourself as the musical center of a band instead of just a member. I get along much better with bass players and drummers, but that's just me.
/r/seduction28/11/17 12:46 PM
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netflix is badass tho...
/r/seduction28/11/17 12:44 PM
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man I do a million things. I am extremely happy, extremely interested in my life. I would be bored doing one thing. in the last week I've: sailed with disabled kids, worked on my book, won a pub quiz, made money on cryptos, slept with a beautiful european girl, hung out with many friends, climbed trees, programmed. if I only worked on my book I'd be further but I'd be sad my dude.
/r/seduction28/11/17 12:43 PM
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if you are doing a heavy degree... I'd say you maybe need to wait my dude. It's more important than picking up girls. Being focused on your life and future is really important. In college I prioritized school over girls and my dating life suffered. after college I had my shit together + free time and slept with more girls in a few months than I had in the years of being a computer science major. I will say this though: college provides opportunities that are not available to many people. Now you…
/r/seduction28/11/17 12:39 PM
1

what kind of hobbies do you have? how are you meeting people: online, in real life, etc? Do you ask guys out ever? How old are you?
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:21 AM
1

I prefer other styles of hot yoga but after doing bikram for literally a month I was able to touch my toes for the first time in my life and still can, even though I don't practice anymore.
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:20 AM
1

I mean no disrespect, because I grew up near that area and moved away because it's too expensive. I know you're very committed to your company but have you considered moving somewhere cheaper? There's places in America where you could pay 350 dollars a month in rent... I've lived in one before.
/r/seduction23/11/17 12:40 PM
6

Also my dude, you are talking to some cool people. You've got a friend who plays on the hockey team? Or at least a dude you talked to long enough that he's bringing up cool stories trying to impress you. You've got a girl you're talking to who is comfortable enough to tell you that she's having a huge halloween orgy. Things aren't as bad in your social life as you make them out to be.
/r/seduction23/11/17 12:10 PM
8

If you want to have an orgy go to burning man or to sex clubs. Life doesn't end after college. I slept with more girls the year after I graduated then the last two years of college. But that's because I had my life together. That didn't happen overnight. I worked hard to have awesome friends, to learn how to be social, to get a good career. And part of that was assuming 100% responsibility for my own life. You need to assume responsibility. Don't feel helpless. Also my dude there's a lot of cool…
/r/seduction23/11/17 12:00 PM
6

Ok. Where do you normally take girls if dinner is so terrible? And that's 150 in what time frame?
/r/seduction23/11/17 06:27 AM
4

I'd say I've gone on first dates with 30+ girls.
/r/seduction23/11/17 06:07 AM
3

Too many to count bro. I went on back to back dates on Tuesday - just moved to a new city in New Zealand form America and not having any problems meeting people or getting dates. In terms of my number count, 10.
/r/seduction23/11/17 04:59 AM
25

Lol this entire sub is anecdotal
/r/seduction23/11/17 03:53 AM
11

Wow that sounds like a psycho dinner. Normally we just chill, talk, pay for our own dinners then go for drinks or go home together.
/r/seduction23/11/17 03:43 AM
7

I've had many lovely restaurant dates!
/r/seduction23/11/17 03:42 AM
1

It's really more of a book with a good story than a self improvement guide. I'm rereading it just because I found it in Salvation Army and it's really entertaining. I'm glad you are getting so much out of him, none of those ideas you listed are ideas he came up with. Almost any "guru" will encourage you to be abundant, have self respect and seize the day.
/r/seduction09/11/17 02:23 AM
1

Read the Game. It's not a pickup book it's one of the best books ever written, in my opinion. The story is insane and they guy who wrote it was a really successful writer before he went into pickup. It provides an in depth look into who the people giving advice actually are. At one point Tyler, who is jealous of the author Style, actually breaks down his mannerisms and teaches a bunch of people to act and dress like Style just to cockblock him. These "random assumptions" are all talked about in …
/r/seduction07/11/17 08:35 PM
-1

I don't need these losers. I am just wondering how they became the go to resource when it's so obvious that their founder had serious mental issues.
/r/seduction07/11/17 12:30 PM
1

I've known a handful of sociopaths. They don't grow out if it and the idea of any of them having followers is straight up scary. They also have an incredible knack for understanding people, but have fun fucking with people's heads.
/r/seduction07/11/17 12:14 PM
3

I know plenty of dudes who just watch movies at their place then that leads to sex, pretty normal not necessarily boring
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:04 AM
0

Sure player
/r/seduction01/10/17 12:26 PM
0

Ey, I'm like this sometimes. I can fuck things up with three girls at the same time. Adding more fuel to the fire won't necessarily put it out.
/r/seduction01/10/17 12:16 PM
1

The 28 year old dude in my frat was definitely a weird guy, but slept with some girls and got an amazing 18 year old girlfriend who was in love with him. My advice is not to be really forward, to have more sexual patience and let them come to you.
/r/seduction30/09/17 01:15 AM
4

Yes they do, they just don't have code names for it.
/r/seduction30/09/17 12:50 AM
1

Bet I'm shorter than you and get laid pretty regularly. Only time it's an issue is when I make it an issue.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:49 PM
1

Boooooo you're bitter
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:33 AM
1

Yeah dude I feel ya so much. I've slept with girls I have met while they're working or girls that I've talked to just going around during my day to day life. But I feel so strange just walking around hitting on girls. But tbh I probably should do it more, feel less weird about it, then integrate that into my day to day life more.
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:09 AM
1

Gotta be honest, I've had a very nice social circle many times in my life. And it helps. It helps when I go out because I have a base of my people to return to. And I think that times when I am alone I have much more of a tendency to look for outsiders to talk to at functions and to stay at the periphery of groups of people instead of in their center. I am currently solo traveling and nights are always better when I have friends than when I need to constantly put in a ton of effort to make new f…
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:06 AM
1

In the book the Game he can't get laid and literally teaches people to act like style so that style has less chances or succeeding. He's always seemed weird to me and I hate his advice.
/r/seduction20/09/17 07:02 AM
2

Every year I sleep with more and more girls and and more and more comfortable with my height. Tall as you. It's never been an issue with someone I was interested in.
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:59 AM
1

They're SUPER hot but you're not going to take my word for it. There's plenty of girls who just aren't that attracted to white skin tone. Some prefer Indian dudes specifically, some just prefer general brown dudes. Out of all the Indian dudes I know the only ones who have a real issue with girls are awkward in some way. So your knee jerk reaction there tells me there's def something else going on... "I hate being brown. I wish I was born a white male." Sounds like some serious self hate. I know …
/r/seduction16/09/17 10:38 PM
1

Gotta have something else that's an issue, cuz I know plenty of white girls who prefer Indian dudes. And I know a couple fit Indian dudes who have extremely hot girlfriend after extremely hot girlfriend.
/r/seduction16/09/17 01:20 PM
2

The dudes i know who I believe have slept with hundreds of women always have girlfriends, many in open relationships
/r/seduction16/09/17 01:17 PM
0

He's an interesting dude. Ghost wrote Marilyn Manson's autobiography.
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:59 PM
2

Sounds awkward already
/r/seduction24/07/17 05:37 PM
2

How much older were the husband, generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 07:27 PM
1

Dude it sounds like you are making up a story about my life to defend your book full of shitty advice. Where are you getting any details like I "lost frame", "she said what you're doing", and "I became all apologetic"? Or way more ridiculous! That a person being uncomfortable with being picked up and thrown onto a bed during foreplay wasn't REALLY uncomfortable they were giving me a "shit test" to see if I was genuine or just "heard it somewhere". Seriously you sound like you're a wannabe guru d…
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:08 PM
2

Like honestly what advice did you get out of that book that worked?
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:48 PM
2

Picking her up and throwing her on the bed. She went from 60 to 0. My friend who showed me the book completely agrees that it's garbage. I should say I don't have any issues making a girl cum and I've always had pretty rough sex (though I do calibrate, what's light for someone could be too rough for someone else)
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:42 PM
1

Get a kettlebell at least
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:32 PM
2

Bullshit that will make you seem like an aggressive rapist
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:12 PM
2

Doing shit from the sex god method actually made a girl go from making out with me with her boyfriend in the other room (presex god method just me naturally) to her literally never wanting to talk to me. That book is full of crazy advice, do not take it.
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:12 PM
1

It makes you incredibly open and connected. You can work past some serious relationship issues, fall in love all over again. The sex is great too, if you can get it up.
/r/seduction13/07/17 10:45 PM
1

In all seriousness, would he be willing to take some ecstasy with you?
/r/seduction13/07/17 05:43 PM
1

He's moved away from pick up and blogs about all kinds of things now. Check out his site he has a ton of articles.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:39 PM
1

It's basically a printed version of his blog, a lot of the chapters were posts I'd already read but he digs a lot deeper. Overall I'm a huge fan of his and read most of what he puts out, was happy to finally give him some money.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:57 PM
1

Buy it! Mark Manson is a legit dude he's not a con artist. I stole Models, you can download pdfs all over the place, but I bought The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck (great read) and also am going to subscribe to the members only paid section of his blog.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:45 PM
0

I'm 5 " 4 and you are not short dude that's pretty average height. Also I have a ton of female friends and get laid every now and then. Do you try to fuck girls you want to be friends with? Bad idea. Mmm idk what advice to give: be friendly and interested, ask questions, make jokes, see if they want to chill and or do activities with you.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:41 PM
1

Idk I've dated several people I've met at work and I think that being direct isn't always the best idea when they're literally being paid to talk to you
/r/seduction01/06/17 09:32 PM
1

Like I said - I don't think he's trying to sleep with that girl. He's just really comfortable with touching people. He left that night to go sleep with his partner, is currently banging a chick I would love to bang on the side, and dated one of the most gorgeous girls i've ever met for 2 years. Also, what prompted me to write this is when I saw him go home with two girls whom he'd been cuddling with at a cafe. What I'm saying is I have tried the whole I touch your arm, you touch my arm, back and…
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:23 AM
1

Nope it's definitely a regular issue. Think /u/recyclablebanthas had a very insightful response.
/r/seduction21/02/17 01:25 AM
1

sure thing boss.
/r/seduction21/02/17 01:25 AM
1

what I mean is I saw a girl who, when he initially asked if she was alright with touching, said she really doesn't like being touched WAS LITERALLY SKIPPING DOWN THE STREET HAND IN HAND WITH THE BRO after he'd been cuddling with her for like 10 minutes. I am also reminded of this sort of pagan sex priest I know. That probably sounds weird but I've seen how girls act around him, he has an aura. I went out with him and he was telling me about his open relationship. He told this friend of his that …
/r/seduction21/02/17 01:23 AM
3

Four examples: I know a guy with a very noticeable skin condition that absolutely slays because he's the shit. He's sleeping with multiple people at my house. He's like the friendliest and most passionate guy - he is also really tall tho. My older brother is 5"4 and has slept with hundreds of girls - I've never seen him without a girlfriend for more than a few weeks. He's very intense and kinky and also is pretty good looking. I look really similar to him so can't blame my lack of success my hei…
/r/seduction21/02/17 01:11 AM
1

Hey thank you. This response is why I asked this question. Also you're a nerd. Went out with my friend again tonight saw him HEAVILY FOCUSING ON VERBAL CONSENT to his touching. Saw girls who were resistant to touch skipping down the street with him. And also, I don't think he's trying to fuck any of them. That's what I mean by intent. My intent is I'm touching you so you can get comfortable with me getting physical, his intent is I love human warmth and want to share it with everyone. Bro's got …
/r/seduction20/02/17 09:20 AM
2

I think what makes it creepy or offputting is the touching dude. I'm extremely social and good at talking to people, opening, getting a date or a number. I'm also no expert but verbally and body language wise I'm fairly calibrated. This has been my main sticking point for years. I made a post like a year or two ago saying fuck kino it doesn't work it's the creepiest thing. Now what I'm seeing is it does work but it's the intention behind the touch that matters. And my intention is very much a me…
/r/seduction20/02/17 04:57 AM
2

Man we were up in my room! Idk what the fuck we were talking about - i only did it twice. She was in my bed the first time. Second time was at a restaurant, my buddy was all over her friend so I figured it would be a good idea... a bit later she got up and went over to sit next to him so they could all be cuddly. I feel like that kind of arm/shoulder touch is just sooooooo forced! It's never like I'm naturally Touching a person's arm or shoulder when I just meet them, it's always like I consciou…
/r/seduction20/02/17 01:02 AM
1

I'm shorter than you and mostly have been with girls taller than me. Chill dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 03:29 AM
2

I am super happy when a girl does suggest an alternate. It's a real green flag. the absence of it is not enough to say things won't work out or that I should give up. There's certain currents you can pick up - if you know someone is genuinely busy and wants to meet up or if they are ghosting you.
/r/seduction01/02/17 11:43 PM
19

Brad Pitt rule is stupid. It's saying seeing a random dude is more important than school, work, plans with her friends, that concert she has tickets to, etc.
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:38 AM
1

I normally get a verbal confirmation before I kiss - not always a direct question but something flirty. Almost every time I've had a girl at my place and asked if she wants to make out she says yes, I don't think it's a bad idea to get verbal. I've had girls get pissed at me for going in for a kiss without asking too.
/r/seduction30/01/17 06:16 AM
3

yeah it's nice. I like it when I get laid but not enough to deal with a person who is acting shitty towards me. I'm having one of the best weeks of my life and counting my blessings. maybe that cute girl in accounting doesn't want to go out again but who cares - I got a free ticket to a sold out show of my favorite band tonight.
/r/seduction21/01/17 02:06 AM
1

I've seen a bad boy (tall tats and gauges) pass a girl a note saying "I want you to have my babies" and she straight swooooooooned. Biggie smalls "I see some ladies tonight that should be having my baby"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 10:50 PM
1

I've seen a bad boy (tall tats and gauges) pass a girl a note saying "I want you to have my babies" and she straight swooooooooned. Biggie smalls "I see some ladies tonight that should be having my baby"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 10:50 PM
1

I think a great example of listening being effective is the movie Boyhood. Ethan Hawke tells his son that to be miles ahead of other boys his age he should just ask questions to the girls he's interested in. And when his son applies this lesson he listens to what the girl says, talks about her, talks about himself for a bit, then shifts the conversation back to her with some questions. Really natural and fun conversation.
/r/seduction17/01/17 07:14 AM
5

...you legit list watching netflix as one of your hobbies
/r/seduction14/01/17 12:02 AM
1

I also disagree. I think Bella Thorne is a 10 and many people think she looks basic or not that attractive. Beauty is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 09:48 AM
2

Have them, haven't been told to "man up" in years.
/r/becomeaman03/12/16 04:44 AM
3

don't.
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:47 AM
1

every context I've been told man up is someone trying to get me to do something. including one time I was arrested after listening to a dumbass who told me to man up.
/r/becomeaman25/11/16 10:46 PM
1

"hey dude you want to take some shots" "no I'm pretty drunk already" "man up you pussy bitch"
/r/becomeaman25/11/16 10:45 PM
9

"Man up" is something dudes say to control other dudes/get them to do something dumb because they're a man. Ive never said I'll just man up and deal with it and had a liberal shame me for that phrase, the only context that happens is when some douche is trying to control me by implying if I don't do what he says I'm not a man. Fuck that, don't care.
/r/becomeaman25/11/16 12:42 AM
1

watch a movie at your place - my buddy has been dating a girl about two months and that was their first date
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:46 AM
1

"I like you and want to have sex... lol nvm jk" = leading on "I'm busy all the time when you hit me up but then you see me hanging out with other people" = not leading on but still annoying
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:03 PM
1

I don't think it's that bad. I get angry when stuff happens like the girl whose been leading me on starts dating another guy but I live with her and have to see them everyday, or if someone repeatedly ignores me it'll make me angry. The aggression thing is like, I talk to a lot of people and try to understand and empathize with where they're coming from. This leads to surrounding my criticism with softness or indirectly talking about things that are bothering me. Or talking about someone behind …
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:56 AM
1

Dude I've been reading these forums for a long time, won't say they're why I'm good with people but definitely helped. Listened to way too much counter productive advice in super sleazy books growing up but have sifted through a lot of it. Talking to people is no problem most of the time (bounce out of awkward conversations find better ones) but being sexual is not my forte. Forward is too forward, slow is too slow. Actual connection beyond superficial conversations is rarer. I feel like I meet …
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:00 AM
1

It's pretty easy - most girls will at least agree to one drink or one meal if she's any semblance of single. I still have a block in my head that I can't just meet someone and take them home later that night - it's like that's just not an option I believe. I think the secret is just to talk to someone for an hour or two, then try to keep the conversation moving either at a different spot or on a different day. I do have difficulty with all kinds of things related to dating because I am angry, je…
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:09 AM
1

If knew that I'd be set dude. Idk why things like this happen other than just the loop of they've always happened like this. As much self awareness or self improvement that I muster seems to not change much.
/r/seduction15/11/16 03:16 AM
2

I do understand the passive nature of many women. I do not have second dates - I have not had one in years. I am reaching out, they normally will talk to me quite extensively for weeks after the date, even expressing interest in going out again - but without offering up alternatives if they are busy our interactions quickly become a dance of frustrating scheduling and I never see them again. I feel like if someone wants to see me they will make an effort to, plain and simple.
/r/seduction14/11/16 10:11 PM
1

you're using a shirtless pic, which has some gross connotations. this is just a regular dude who happens to look good. some of the girls are my type, some are not. I have had a female friend tell me on two separate occasions - "all of my friends think your roommate is hot" and "none of my friends think you're cute".
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:57 PM
1

I've been on tinder for 3 years and met up with a dozen girls off of it, never have been lucky off of it - have had girls tell me I'm too short in real life. that girl had a lot of issues though and I didn't take it personally.
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:52 PM
1

the guy I know who bangs the most girls off of tinder legit only has a maple leaf on his profile and he just happens to look good. used to live with him, brought 3-4 girls over a week, showed me his convos literally the most boring conversations.
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:50 PM
1

this isn't an epiphany. it's something I believe I need a partner to work though.
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:47 PM
1

what?
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:42 PM
1

I don't think my height is a real factor and I'm definitely not insecure about it to the point where I need to stretch for a half inch or w/e. I've had a lot of different peer groups - rich Jewish kids, the high school outcasts, metal heads, musicians, ravers, sober buddhist, freshman dorms, fraternity bros, hippies, now a coed cooperative. People really aren't that different. I have a wide circle of friends of both genders. I have also dated a girl so beautiful that an oscar winning actor legit…
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:38 PM
2

That being said I live at a large cooperative home and this guy who has a skin condition but is dripping with confidence and sexuality is lowkey banging the hottest chick there everyday - so yeah youve got a point.
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:26 PM
1

Girls are shallow too, all things considered they'd rather be with the more attractive guy. Girls gush about hot dudes - whose ass is juicy, whose the hottest in a band, etc. "when a British guy talks its like he's speaking directly to my vagina". I don't often meet guys that aren't attractive who get laid a lot - but I do have girls tell me about how creepy dudes message them on Instagram and hot dudes message them, they bang the hot dudes.
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:25 PM
1

Girls are shallow too, all things considered they'd rather be with the more attractive guy. Girls gush about hot dudes - who's ass is juicy, who's the hottest in a band, etc. I don't often meet guys that aren't attractive who get laid a lot - but I do have girls tell me about how creepy dudes message them on Instagram and hot dudes message them, they bang the hot dudes.
/r/seduction08/11/16 08:22 PM
1

I mean I've had sex a couple times this year. I look like chubby lil dicky, so I think I'm attractive not classically handsome. I can only speak to my own experience and I am my own worst enemy when it comes to love and sex, I know plenty of guys who aren't extremely well rounded that girls like.
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:34 AM
1

I will also say that I hate myself, I have wild mood swings and an insecure attachment style. I am also involuntarily celibate and get lead on and stood up by virtually every girl I've ever pursued. People have layers - I am not a ball of positivity all the time, that seems fake. When I am positive all the time people say I'm full of bullshit.
/r/seduction08/11/16 03:10 AM
1

I do love myself bro! I am very confident and extremely social. In most situations I can talk my way into free food, drinks, tickets to shows. I am really good looking - I am an excellent writer, hilarious, with a shit ton of friends. I am also good looking. Now if I am starting to see a girl, and we've fooled around and she's said she's into me and wants to fuck me - but I haven't because she's normally so smashed she can't remember the evening and I don't like how she acts around other men, th…
/r/seduction08/11/16 03:02 AM
1

yeah that's definitely a huge issue. I also just have some pretty severe intimacy issues - these guys typically are pretty open about how they feel and I am not.
/r/seduction08/11/16 02:30 AM
1

I think I am a very attractive guy, but I look at the guys the women I'm interested in end up with and they are taller, more muscular, and also play music. I can believe I'm the most attractive person in the room, doesn't matter if there is a more attractive person in the room.
/r/seduction08/11/16 02:12 AM
1

lol yeah, and also kink is fun but not necessarily the thing you should be looking for in a lifelong partner. my brother is very kinky, has no problem getting laid but has lots of problems finding stable partners. I have problems with everything with love and sex so can't really comment or give advice.
/r/seduction08/11/16 01:54 AM
1

I think the ugly dude who is delusional about his attractiveness is not going to bang anyone. That said the point you are making, with lots of hyperbole, is be confident in your own attractiveness and I'm just nitpicking at that because the whole tone of the post strikes me as not cocky but arrogant, which is not attractive.
/r/seduction08/11/16 01:52 AM
2

damn dude what's up with that? I meet dozens of girls a week who really enjoy talking to me and none of them ever want to bone.
/r/seduction08/11/16 01:23 AM
1

some of this advice is good tho btw.
/r/seduction08/11/16 01:20 AM
0

some of this advice sounds like encouraging delusion - if you're an ugly fucker and you think you're the most good looking dude on the planet then you are delusional. also I know some incredibly charming people who walk up to groups and go "I hate myself" and make a shit ton of friends and bang girls doing that. if they were not so honest and true to what they actually are they wouldn't be so charming. I'd rather be in touch with myself and aware of how to improve than in denial of my faults.
/r/seduction08/11/16 01:20 AM
1

in terms of advice - what to say, how to act, internal attitudes, all that jazz I think that men provide better advice to other men about how to pick girls up. but girls aren't fucking clueless and if they aren't providing generic - be yourself advice some of it is really good. I had kino explained to me many times online and the way I was touching girls was not properly tuned until a female friend spent 30 minutes going over different types of touch and how they are received. there's a school o…
/r/seduction07/11/16 06:28 PM
1

again, returned from a weekend where I met literally dozens of people - sometimes running into 5 people I know per 100 people I pass. introduced myself to a ton of girls. some I tried and got no's, which I accepted gracefully because consent is key. there was one I was vibing with pretty hard, she was staring at me for a while before I talked to her, but nothing happened. another girl I tried to dance with, and was pretty nervous about approaching to begin with, pulled my sweater hoody down and …
/r/seduction07/11/16 07:35 AM
4

She's straight up saying get consent and you're saying don't listen bro. Wtf dude?
/r/seduction07/11/16 01:18 AM
1

Last night I probably talked to 3-4 girls with the intent of hooking up with them, and another dozen or more without that intent. If I'm being honest I have a lot of intimacy and sex related issues that I have no idea how to resolve because I cannot find a partner willing to work through them with me.
/r/seduction23/10/16 07:03 PM
2

What advice do you have for a person who is already extremely social and fairly attractive who still seems to struggle with sexual connection and vulnerability.
/r/seduction22/10/16 03:12 AM
2

life goals.
/r/seduction27/05/16 07:31 PM
2

wtf does that even mean?
/r/becomeaman26/04/16 06:01 AM
13

Damn look at this hamstering
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 11:10 PM
1

Really depends. I've had some girls who gave really good advice - including a friend who spent almost 30 minutes going over different types of touch, from friendly to sexual. And girls who have made me approach women less as objects and more as people, which I've noticed has had a huge effect on my success. And I've had dudes give me just god awful advice. And a dude once gave me advice so good I used it to fuck his girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:24 PM
1

but that's not what a lot of the advice about kino is - decarlo and that section from models are advocating overt touch without social intelligence.
/r/seduction05/04/16 08:41 PM
2

a lot of this advice about touching doesn't say you should build up enough attraction first - it just says touch early and often even if the girl isn't down. I cited one passage above which you sort of just laughed off but that's the kind of advice I'm talking about.
/r/seduction05/04/16 08:40 PM
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I'm here because there's all kinds of online methods saying exactly that - "touch = get laid" and no they really don't go into social calibration. the whole premise of the decarlo escalation ladder is touch these ways and you'll get laid, this section in models is advocating no tact. of course you need to touch in order to get physical - but that is not at all what a lot of people advocate. and, since this is the internet, people can be full of shit and give bad advice.
/r/seduction05/04/16 08:35 PM
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you're a charmer.
/r/seduction05/04/16 08:33 PM
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What you said is - watch someone's body language and touch if they are receptive. What he says is touch girls right away and if their body language says stop then keep doing it, and do it more actually. But you're defending him, saying he's right. And I don't believe that passage for a second. I've had A LOT of girls who were interested in me say that I came off way too strong because I touched them too much too soon.
/r/seduction05/04/16 08:12 PM
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This is the kind of advice I'm talking about - from Models. Which everyone talks about like it's the Holy Grail. "I have a friend. He’s a decent-looking guy. He almost never approaches (except when he’s drunk). He’s awkward to talk to. He has a strange sense of humor. But he gets physical with women. He touches them early. He touches them often. And even if they don’t reciprocate or move away. He tries again. He’s always going for it. And you know what? He gets laid, constantly. Hot women too. I…
/r/seduction05/04/16 08:06 PM
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Stopped smoking in July, hasn't effected me for better or worse
/r/seduction01/04/16 06:31 AM
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Yeah that's actually not a bad explanation. There's generally one girl I'm focusing in on and though that girl changes the approach does not. When I was doing well earlier this year I had a bunch of different dates lined up. I do think things will be easier after I graduate, just right now I'm surrounded by gorgeous girls and not getting laid. For you, how much time can normally pass between a first and second date... Or meeting someone and a first date?
/r/seduction23/02/16 05:02 PM
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Dated usually involve dinner and dancing, with some kind of third activity thrown in. I don't date as much as I should, mostly becaus flaking is really discouraging. Also throw onto that I'm a Cs major and am extremely busy, most girls work and scheduling is a discouraging nightmare. Like right now I'm talking to a girl, we had a great first date and she said she wants to go out again - last time I hit her up she was sick, this time she's working the night I picked and i feel like a text or two …
/r/seduction23/02/16 04:21 AM
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I read the game for the first time when I was 13. Have read the sidebar and a dozen other books. Way past the reading stage. Don't approach like its my mission in life but do talk to new girls every day, when I go out, etc. have had a friend tell me he's never met someone who is able to meet so many different types of girls and connect with them. Am generally pretty positive, hard sometimes though.
/r/seduction21/02/16 05:51 PM
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Sure.
/r/seduction21/02/16 01:55 AM
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Yeah it's a fine line. I have been too cocky in the past but have dialed it down, people tell me I'm much more pleasant than I used to be. To be honest, I was pretty drunk when I wrote this and the girl I was going after had a history with the dude she left with - it has nothing to do with me.
/r/seduction21/02/16 01:45 AM
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I wish I'd developed skills earlier on. Good habits. Like guitar - I've been struggling with learning guitar, and if I'd started in high school I'd have the time to learn it. When you're younger your brain is developing and you can pick up skills easier. Work out, get fit, you have more energy. Skateboard! I'm too brittle to do that shit now. And just go for it with girls. I had so many missed opportunities because I just wouldn't go for it.
/r/seduction27/01/16 04:19 AM
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sup?
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:20 AM
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Drone strikes create terrorists. Period. The murder of innocents in the middle east creates the enemies we fight tomorrow. I don't think this really has to do with feminist theory. We've been killing people in the middle east for over a decade, it's not because of feminism. It's because America's moral values are fucked. As for why educating women in the middle east is important - it's because they are ACTUALLY living in a patriarchy. Not the bullshit that women whine about in the US, but the re…
/r/MGTOW02/10/14 07:20 PM
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negs are absolute bullshit. that's not flirting.
/r/seduction08/08/14 03:08 AM
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