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Basically, yeah. Just express to her that y’all should go get coffee so you can get to know each other and get her number so you can send logistics. Texting her some is totally fine but I would save most of the conversation for when you’re actually out with her. Don’t really know why others with my same sentiment are getting downvoted, but endlessly texting her and then going out and having not that much to talk about is asking to get “friend-zoned.” So just avoid that. You seem to be doing fine…
/r/seduction02/07/18 11:55 PM
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Take her for coffee. Don’t waste a bunch of time getting to know her by texting her because once you’re on the actual first date, you’ll run out of shit to talk about. She seems sketched out by going out for drinks for whatever reason, so keep the date tame and build rapport so she gets a little more comfortable. If things are going well during the date, suggest that y’all go get drinks somewhere, or just take her somewhere else fun. This all being said, from the little snippet you provided us h…
/r/seduction02/07/18 07:47 PM
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I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels this way; feels like I am sometimes.
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:46 AM
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Charles Barkley, is that you?? (This is low key true though.)
/r/seduction09/05/18 08:44 AM
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I’m going to give you a few book recommendations because I think those are more trustworthy/reliable than online resources (even though there is some reliable information online as well). If you haven’t read this already, Models by Mark Manson helped me in several facets when it comes to seduction, mostly when it comes to feeling good about myself, which is very overlooked when it comes to sex in my opinion. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida and She Comes First by Ian Kerner are also bo…
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:50 PM
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Just to give you a little encouragement, it’s very possible to learn about sex (through means other than porn— not a good method) so that you at least have some sort of idea going into it. This is the route I took as I was very inexperienced up until about a year ago. I took in as much information as I could, mostly from books/articles and whatnot, and to my surprise after i finally did lose my virginity I was told that i was good, and the girl was very experienced with sex already. So I conside…
/r/seduction01/04/18 03:49 AM
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This. I'm also 21 and a member of a fraternity. I didn't have a whole lot of success with girls before joining, but now that I'm a member and actively meeting new girls on a regular basis, I've had a lot more success. Meet as many sorority girls as you can and have them introduce you to their other sorority sisters. It was a huge help for me.
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:08 AM
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Keep in mind, once one becomes experienced in the realm of pickup/seduction there probably isn't much of a reason to continuously be visiting the sub. I suspect that many of the regularly active users here are either total beginners or people that are still actively trying to improve in some way. What is considered a "basic" question is pretty subjective, and a lot of the time (especially with people inexperienced with seduction) it takes dissecting their specific situation and then telling them…
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:03 AM
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I wouldn’t necessarily say that I don’t like going to super crowded places like that, pickup just almost feels unnatural for me in those situations. For example, I love going to concerts and music festivals and whatnot with friends and just having a good time. I really don’t even mind the bars and clubs that much unless they’re packed to the point where it’s hard to move— they aren’t my favorite places for sure, but I’m totally capable of going out and having a good time with friends at these pl…
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:26 AM
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This was very thorough, I appreciate it!
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:27 AM
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It happens dude, similar thing happened to me last week. This is good advice to follow.
/r/seduction31/01/18 04:27 PM
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Awesome, this was pretty much what I was planning on— I haven’t set up an actual second date yet but she seemed open to going out again. Logistics could have gone a little better but I’ll make sure to put that into account for next time. Thanks for the input!
/r/seduction28/01/18 03:04 AM
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I don’t necessarily think inner game in its entirety is bullshit, but as you said I do think there is a point when working on inner game needs to be balanced with outer game and actually getting tangible results. Purely out of curiosity, what did you do to improve your outer game?
/r/seduction27/01/18 10:37 PM
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Yikessss that sounds like a place I never want to visit
/r/seduction28/12/17 08:10 AM
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I can relate to this
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:24 AM
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Preciate it dude. That’s a good plan. Sometimes during the semester it just seems like there’s not enough time in the day, which I’m sure you can relate to. That sounds very doable though
/r/seduction27/11/17 12:08 AM
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Preciate the reply. Yeah I for sure get that life requires sacrifices. The two things that take up the large majority of my time are school and work. There’s little time after that. Making time to better myself is definitely a priority of mine right now, but work and school are two “set time” kinda things, meaning I’m at school for a certain amount of time and I’m at work a certain amount of time. Not going to school isn’t an option. Am I supposed to quit my job? While having my job isn’t necess…
/r/seduction26/11/17 10:00 PM
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She’s shy, and likely that’s the only way she feels comfortable being overtly sexual around you (for now). Make the first move, wouldn’t be surprised if she were wanting you to do that.
/r/seduction24/09/17 01:29 PM
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Do not finish inside her, she is still at risk for pregnancy even during her period. If she's right in the thick of it, bring a towel. If not, there shouldn't be a disturbing amount of blood by any means, and unless you have some aversion to blood then it shouldn't be a big deal at all.
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:50 PM
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Alpha M is a spectacular start. He is basically where I started as well and at one point I was in a very similar situation to you. Improving yourself will only improve your confidence and that's one of the keys to getting further with people
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:46 PM
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Bears. Beets. Battlestar Gallactica.
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:41 PM
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I just watched all 33 minutes of this and boy it was helpful
/r/seduction21/08/17 06:05 AM
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I figured that this was for sure at least part of it, I tend to get in my own head as it is. It is comforting, however, to know now that some others have felt similarly at one time or another. I for sure never assumed that people were getting full lessons from others, I just figured that occasionally someone that one may be close with would occasionally give a friendly piece of advice now and then when it comes to seduction and whatnot. My parents gave me some advice when it came to people skill…
/r/seduction15/08/17 05:42 AM
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I appreciate the hell out of this and it's for sure a little comforting to hear that I'm not the only one here. It's also comforting to hear that it seems like I'm already going in the right direction when it comes to working on myself-- I've been improving on most of those things over the past couple of years. You also hit the nail right on the head with your side note. I too have been trying therapy due to depression, and that has seemed to help on some level
/r/seduction15/08/17 05:33 AM
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Bless. These all sound really great, really appreciate it!
/r/seduction30/01/17 04:48 PM
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Hell yeah, thank you, exactly what I'm looking for here
/r/seduction29/01/17 09:42 AM
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