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| 0 | How to go farther than just making out?Simplicity. It works | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 10:32 PM |
| -2 | How to go farther than just making out?put her hand on your crotch. If she rubs it, unzip and pull it out. Place her hand on it while making out. If she plays with it, your next move is to stop making out and push her head down lightly. She'll get the hint. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Going to Bars AloneThis. Follow this | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 08:29 PM |
| -2 | How to go farther than just making out?Escalate on yourself first. She may not be down for you to touch her sexually but she may be down to blow you. Going about it this way prevents walls from going up more often. Also even if you can't escalate further atleast you're getting a bj. Another caveat, bj's can turn women on and lead to sex because their brain gets in that zone | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Interview with Squattin Casanovayep. I had a recipe there for youtube -> reddit | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Interview with Squattin CasanovaTomorrow I have a tony d one coming out. the issue might be with IFTT | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Interview with Squattin Casanovasorry not meaning to do that | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Free texting ebookthere was a glitch. I sent out an email with the link. if you opened it, it's there | /r/seduction | 29/07/15 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Not Believing This About Manifesting Your Desires Into Reality Keeps You From GrowingYou are welcome | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Top 5 Texting Mistakes Guys Makethanks. how bout constructive in what way | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating AdviceThanks. I'll make more of an effort to perk things up in the future. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating AdviceYou have a very valid point | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Are there any good PUA Coaches that are Trustworthy & Fairly Priced? (phone coaching, infield, residential coaching)You're very welcome. His is based on reconnecting with your identity and connecting with the girl from who you are. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | 13 Girls In A Week!!! Proof!it is 13 off the internet in a week | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 11:14 PM |
| 1 | 13 Girls In A Week!!! Proof!video for my site guy. forgot reddit is part of my IFTTT | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Are there any good PUA Coaches that are Trustworthy & Fairly Priced? (phone coaching, infield, residential coaching)Steve Mayeda. Has a 3 month course. very cheap http://thesexuallife.com/ | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn to like people and women more?Stop fixating on that mindset first off: " don't have anything to say and honestly I feel like a lot of other people don't have much to say either. It's like I want more excitement or enjoyment out of conversation but it's usually just boring and uneventful and leaves me...well not interested or turned on." Everyone is interesting in their own ways. Become genuinely curious about people. Talk about the things in life you are passionate about. Find out what they are passionate about and why. When… | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How To Build A Connection With A WomanThanks man | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone succeeded with self-hypnosis for getting into state?Yes. I would feed my subconscious information of what I wanted as if I already was that person. Track on loop while I sleep | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What are your most effective online openers? Mine surprised me...We would have beautiful babies | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 08:04 AM |
| 1 | What are your most effective online openers? Mine surprised me...I destroy POF | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you go about gaining interest of a '10' if you're average?The problem with your logic is you aren't her. You don't know what she thinks about you. You may think you're average. She might think you're gorgeous | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 03:20 AM |
| 2 | A great way to demolish approach anxiety, get yourself into a social state and build social proofYes. The info is valid. People were hating on the examples so I removed them | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Online dating sites and their efficiencyLots of women have told me my profile is the best they've seen. That it's refreshing. That I'm real and know myself. As for the pics. I tested it by putting up a meme once | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few doI'd rather it be their bed or couch | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 06:20 PM |
| -2 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few dothere's a link above that shows you and explains how | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 06:19 PM |
| 14 | Online dating sites and their efficiencyTinder- Mainly sex hook up site Pof- Here in chicago more black and hispanic chicks than OKC. More girls DTF than OKC. Okcupid- Lots of girls looking for relationships. A lot still DTF. Watch out for suspicious angle pics. I've had quite a few where they look pretty good in those then you meet them and they are huge. Also you may run across dated pics from when they were skinnier. Tinder- Get the number fast Pof and OKC- If you can stand out from the crowd in a good way it's like shooting fish i… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Online dating sites and their efficiencyOkcupid and POF are the only two I use. I find them fairly easy. Took me a year of trial and error to figure out what works for me. Best bet is to treat it like a scientist. Focus on what you what to open with and talk about. (routines) That's your control in the experiment. Send to a bunch of girls. It'll help teach you what is working and what's not. Once you know that you can vibe just off the structure of what works best for you and not have to use routines if you want. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few doRegardless I still find it hot when it happens when I'm having sex with them | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few doYea never got the. complete loss of body control. HAve made them squirt. Though I've never tried seeing how many times I could make them. Maybe that's necessary to short circuit them | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few doLearned how to give women squirting orgasms from this http://www.redtube.com/15878 | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Peacocking without looking like a douche bag.pick a style that is you. Craft it. Have friends that are girls help you. Look at fashion from characters in movies (you can take pieces from that). Look at the famous (you can grab their styles or incorporate some of it). You want unique and fresh. Something that has personality to it. None of that cookie cutter shit. Ex. construction worker look the same. white collar usually look like clones with dress wear | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | My living situation creates a mental block.If you're thinking in terms of sex. Tunnel vision on "take them back to mine" There's always possibility to hook up outside, at a park, in a car, bathroom or any other place you can be alone. Use your mind and get creative. | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 05:54 PM |
| 1 | need help..making new friendshttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/33mdez/becoming_a_social_dynamo_and_getting_laid_in/ adjust it for the fact there aren't dorms in community college. Still works | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 03:34 AM |
| 1 | If you had to choose just one book to start pickup....What to Say When you Talk To Yourself - Shad Helmstetter | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Tips for Facebook?To break the ice I'd always send something like this: "We're friends of friends. From our views on life it looks like we're both awesome so by that assumption I'm guessing we should be friends" | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 02:24 AM |
| 1 | On average how many phone numbers do you pull on a good night out?"I'd much rather walk away with a single number for a solid date than 20 numbers that I didn't put the time into." or just take her home | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Art of Charm, John KeeganJohn's pretty legit. Before taking one, train your ass off bc really the main thing that a bootcamp can help you with is what you currently have going on. Example if all you do is approach and that's the extent of your interactions. The BC may help you approach better as well as have longer conversations. BUT there's a caveat. It may not be permanent. You may work harder on BC because you have someone pushing you and you don't want to let them down, but if you aren't able to maintain that same d… | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Three Reasons This Guy Believes You'd Be Crazy NOT To Use The Shotgun Approach Online!The shotgun approach works as does guiding each girl through the same conversation | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 05:09 PM |
| 7 | What's a good opener to use on girls whom you've not talked to in a while?We should hang out soon. I'm starting to forget what you look like | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming day game approach anxiety?Don't come from the PUA frame of "approaching the target". Come from a frame of general curiosity about people, wanting to meet them, enrich their lives and socialize. When you label it as approaching you put this heavy burden on it. Now think about if a girl left the table she was sitting at and didn't realize she forgot her phone, but you noticed. Would you feel "approach anxiety" going after her to return her phone? Probably not. It's the same action just a different perspective of what you a… | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 03:28 AM |
| 7 | TEXTING GAME NEEDS HELPApparently not because you're asking for texting advice | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 03:13 AM |
| 1 | TEXTING GAME NEEDS HELPexample: Do you always pick up cute white guys on POF? lol -Jared | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 03:13 AM |
| -1 | TEXTING GAME NEEDS HELPMy favorite first text is: "Do you always hit on cute guys (whatever I'm doing/wherever I met her)? lol -Jared | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 10:16 PM |
| -3 | TEXTING GAME NEEDS HELPhttp://howtoseducewomen.org I wrote a book on texting. It's free | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 10:14 PM |
| -2 | How To Build Sexual TensionRead 60 years of challenge. From what I've gathered from others that's what he preaches | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad to have a routine and to see multiple people at the same time?No. I did this for years. Just tell the truth in stories about yourself and there should be no moral dilemma. On that same note. Everyone uses routines. "Hi I'm Jared and I wanted to talk to you." "How are you today" (autopilot greeting) "Can I Have your number" All you are doing is showcasing your best self. Salesmen do the exact same thing. Same open, same way of guiding the client, same way of handling objections, same close. Some hairstylists do it too. They have regular clients and tell eac… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Planning and Setting Dates: How To Optimize Your Time For Massive ResultsI don't pull them to the house unless I've already been making out with them and we've got this playful sexual vibe going beforehand. That's all you need. Once you two are along and making out it's a smooth transition to other things. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Priminghaha yea you definitely want to gauge and use your common sense to deduce if she's remotely interested in you before busting it out on an airplane | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been interested in a person, and apparently the other way around, but you were excessively passive about it? If so, why?Do you think one person can be interested in another, but still, be absolutely passive? Yes What you described is why I make it a point to make a move as soon as I feel I can. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been interested in a person, and apparently the other way around, but you were excessively passive about it? If so, why?I enjoy the chase honestly, but when a woman is actively pursuing me I have no problem with throttling back and letting her do her thing | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:18 PM |
| -2 | What's A good Second Date Idea?Lmao...Looks like 9 people would rather end it by holding hands and if they are feeling daring, cuddling. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:14 PM |
| 6 | What's A good Second Date Idea?That's ridiculous. I live by my standards. By date 3 I want to know what type of connection we have and if the sex is good. Nobody likes bad sex. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:12 PM |
| 3 | First date advice?I agree while at the same time disagreeing. There is nothing wrong with sex without strings. Girls love it. Guys love it. I never have sex with a girl without first telling her my intentions. No need to lie about a future together or any of that stuff. You'd be surprised how many women are down with the honesty. It's like taking the job interview model, applying it to dating and trying to find the most qualified candidate for the "job". Also It's like speed dating with a twist. I always was open… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you hit on girls who are dancing with their friends?If they are really getting down with dancing I'll wait. If they are on the dance floor and in a sense just going through the motions I'll break this out. Also can be used anywhere else in the bar. Just don't use it while at the urinal. I don't see that going so well. (gotta throw that out there because people) | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:02 PM |
| 12 | First date advice?There are a bunch of factors to think about when planning these. I hope that before meeting up with her your interaction in person and via the phone/text went fantastic. Having a fantastic first interaction alone will cut down on the number of women flaking on you. I’m going to go over a couple things in relation to this. Have beer/liquor already at your place. Food is nice too Have a game plan where you structure your dates Have your date meet you for some activity that is close to your h… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | NoFap is ridiculous and stupid and dangerous.Depends man. If someone has Postorgasmic illness syndrome, it's a wise idea to learn how to orgasm without ejaculating. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Sexual PrimingThanks man. I'm about putting out quality content. Not a bunch of garbage. There's too much of that out there. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Sexual PrimingTrust me. You'll end up wanting to use it all the time. It's so money. It's also a rejection free way to state sexual intent. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Sexual PrimingYou are welcome | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you hit on girls who are dancing with their friends?What I do in that situation is first game a few all girl sets and get in good with them. Then I go over to that group with the guy/guys. I open the guy/guys. "Hey what's up. I'm here with some of my friends points to group and they've been going on and on about how they can't meet any cool guys. I saw you (you guys) and assumed you must be because you are hanging out with beautiful girl(s). You've got to be otherwise (this lady/these ladies) wouldn't be hanging out with you. I'm Jared. How do yo… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 06:33 PM |
| 8 | eye contact gone so wrongYou felt the sexual tension. She broke the tension by mouthing "what??". If she was attracted to you, you rejected her by mouthing "nothing". You would have been better off blowing her a kiss instead of mouthing "nothing". If she blushed or blew a kiss back then it would have been time to talk to her. By rejecting someone before you even know what they think you may be protecting yourself from rejection, but at the same time you are sabotaging any positive interactions that could have been. With… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Am i scaring them away?It could be a couple different things. You could be a bit uncalibrated and not realize it. You could be running out of things to say. You could be creeping them out by the things you say. She hasn't connected enough with you to feel comfortable investing in getting to know you/sharing about herself. Come up with two lists. One being ten things you enjoy doing or are passionate about. The second being ten things/qualities you like in women. Talk about those things. It does a couple things. You'll… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been interested in a person, and apparently the other way around, but you were excessively passive about it? If so, why?From what you said, she might have liked you and expected you to make the moves. Then when you didn't in all that time, your actions told her exactly what you just typed up for us. That you must not like her other than as friends because you were to passive for a person that seemed interested in her. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been interested in a person, and apparently the other way around, but you were excessively passive about it? If so, why?Yes. Before age 18, because I was afraid of rejection, ridicule and had bad self esteem. Dec 2013, alpha chick that was into me . I was doing a no ejaculation challenge to see how it would effect me. Started talking to this girl. Wasn't trying to get the puss. Even told her a bit about what I was doing when she brought up us hooking up on new years. She said good luck with that. Turns out her style was she wasn't into when guys pursued her. She liked to do the pursuing. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 04:29 PM |
| -3 | What's A good Second Date Idea?This is how I did it due to living by UFC, constantly meeting new women and getting lots of phone numbers First Date: Pool Hall (anything low cost 5 mins from my place to make pulling easy) Second Date: My place for homemade pizza (women love when you cook for them) Third Date: There wasn't a third date unless I had banged them or already gotten a blowjob. Only so much time and talking to lots of potentials. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 04:21 PM |
| 4 | How do you hit on girls who are dancing with their friends?If it's all girls, they're dancing and the music is loud I treat my target as a 1-set. Only 3 approaches I use. Instant Makeout High five, interlock fingers, spin her then pull her into my hip. Open as normal. If I catch her interest she'll forget about dancing and just talk to me. As for worrying about the friends I don't. If they see she's into me from the start they do nothing. If there are guys in the mix that's another story. I'll comment on that later as I'm off to bed. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Went to my first strip club last night.Yes | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Went to my first strip club last night.I've had my fair share of strippers picked up as well as slept with the same night. I was even engaged to one (bat shit crazy). It's on my list of videos to record. I'll have it on YouTube for you tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 02:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Can't close in a club - HELPyou're welcome | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Kissing guide for beginners?If you go out with her and she expects you to pull the trigger to kiss her, but you don't she might start to lose interest in you. Eventually if you miss enough opportunities she'll "let's just be friends" you. A confident male goes after what he wants. If he wants to kiss a girl, he acts on it. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Sexual PrimingYes it can work during day game as well as in your social group. It can be used anywhere. I've used it on airplanes, on the train, bars, bookstores, her room, my room, grocery stores and other places. It's a tool that's based on human behavior. When stimuli is induced, in this case words, the recipient of the stimuli reacts consciously and subconsciously. The subconscious response is the true response. That's what you look for and pay attention to | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 06:42 PM |
| 8 | Sexual PrimingNewhope- This isn't an opener. this is to be used to gauge whether she's attracted to you and you can move forward with the intention you placed. When gaming in a bar I would wait a few minutes before busting this out. Here's how it would go down with me. Open Routine 1 Routine 2 Routine 3 Routine 4 Routine 5 Routine 6 Sexual Prime | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Kissing guide for beginners?Sexual Priming I discovered this on accident. This was my third month learning how to pick up women. There had been a post by a guy named “cierian” about an apocalypse opener. The way it went was this. Open with, “Hey how’s it going” Follow up with, “What are you guys doing later?” Then the punch line, “That sounds like fun. Want to come home with me instead?” I decided to try it. It shocked the hell out of chicks, but I immediately noticed a pattern. See at this time I could read women’s sub-co… | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 04:38 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Can't close in a club - HELPHere's the magic words. within 5 minutes: "If you don't stop looking at me like that we are going to make out. That's bad because that leads to sex and sex leads to talking. No one likes talking" (playful delivery) Does a couple things. If she hadn't been thinking of kissing you now she just visualized it in her head and what it would be like. Screens out whether she's attracted to you or not. Confidence. Takes balls to say. Especially with her friends there. She will either be receptive or not … | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | IOIs, then IODs, then IOIs again, rinse and repeat"But, online, she takes forever to answer (even though I only text/message for logistics), doesn't seem interested, answers with single sentences/messages, I've got no idea if she's interested or not. For example, I proposed we exchange nudes, she said she'd rather not because it's better to have sex instead, then doesn't reply to anything for like three days and says it was cause she was busy." People have lives you've got to realize that. Also some people just don't give a shit about being pro… | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | I was starting to become a beast, now new fears are holding me back."what if I accidently approach someone you know?" Don't weird them out. If you have classes with that person and you come off as a weirdo or creep then it most likely with get shared to her friends and your mutual classmates. Best bet is be friend that person. It's like that saying "Don't shit where you eat". There's two bad outcomes from it and I know both from experience. Outcome 1: It goes great, she's into you and you guys hook up. It's a terrible sexual experience for you and you decide to … | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Any bisexuals on seddit?It's more socially acceptable for a woman to be bisexual than for a man. Some women are cool with it and others aren't. Even though some think a man with another man is hot they aren't comfortable dating a man that's bi. There's a fear that pops up. Women by nature are territorial and become jealous of other women. No woman in her right mind is going to be ok with her mate spending lots of time with other women (competition) and bonding with them. They can lose their "investment" due to feelings… | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 04:38 AM |
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