There are a bunch of factors to think about when planning these. I hope that before meeting up with her your interaction in person and via the phone/text went fantastic. Having a fantastic first interaction alone will cut down on the number of women flaking on you. I’m going to go over a couple things in relation to this.

  • Have beer/liquor already at your place. Food is nice too

  • Have a game plan where you structure your dates

  • Have your date meet you for some activity that is close to your house. Five minutes preferably

The closer the place, the easier it will be to bounce them back. If distance is the issue, try for car sex.

When I was living in Orlando, I was getting plenty of phone numbers.

Realistically too many for me to handle so what I did was I would setup a date with anywhere between 1-3 women on a given day in 2 hour blocks.

The reason for staggering these was to be time efficient. I would setup girl A for the 5 to 7pm block. Then girl B for the 7:30 to 9:30pm block and finally girl C for the 10-12pm block. I’d invite them all to the same pool hall.

The reason for this was to build comfort during that time and get to know each other to see if the vibe was right.

I would have some of the latest movies that were still in theaters downloaded on my computer in my room at home.

I would spend the first hour just vibing, teasing, qualifying, and sexually escalating lightly.

At about the hour mark I would ask if she had seen “XYZ” movie (which was on my computer). If she said no, I’d ask her if she wants to grab a six-pack, pizza and watch it.

Girls would come back to my house if I did my job right.

Immediately on arrival after leading her to my house, I’d bring her right up to my room. This is where it got fun.

I’d put the movie on and start coming onto her.

If by the 2 hour marker I got laid or it looked like it might happen,

I’d excuse myself to the bathroom and text the next date and push back our meet time by half an hour.

If I hadn’t been laid by ten minutes to that pushed back time, I’d tell the girl I’m currently with that I had to go meet some friends and would schedule another date.

As soon as she left, I’d hop in my car and go to my next date. From here the cycle continued. This is just an example of what you can do.

Couple of things I want to address.

For a first date, keep it casual. Fuck dinner. Fuck going to a movie theater.

These both have their own problems.

If you go out to dinner there is a problem with the waiter interrupting you, the table being in the way, no privacy and it’s harder to escalate.

If you go to a movie theater, the problem here is you both end up in complete silence for 2 hours instead of being able to get to know each other; very counteractive when seducing a woman.

Pick something you like to do that is also interactive.

It doesn’t matter if it’s bowling, pool, darts, or any of a number of interactive activities. You NEED to be able to socialize and allow your personality to shine.

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