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reacon2016/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:43 AM
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How do you hide these things? When a girl comes round to my fancy apartment, bought from my accountants career wages, it's hard to hide. Girls can always 'see' I have my life in order. My place is gorgeous - large spaces, balcony, en-suite master bedroom, nice furniture etc. I have collage photo frames of my epic life (travel/parties) on my walls - they are staying up as it's like a 'trophy' cabinet for how much I've improved my life. I still don't see why hiding these things would help?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:23 AM
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I like her, but I don't think she's irreplaceable 'special'. She's someone I've liked the most from the last few months worth of meeting people through social events and via Tinder. If she rejected me, I would be a little gutted, but this isn't oneitis or anything! Thanks for your input, appreciate your guidance.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:59 AM
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Yeah I'm planning on ghosting her. Damn, I'm kicking myself now for not escalating further when she came round. Would you really suggest nexting her altogether? I'd like to arrange a further date with her but escalate 'properly' this time instead of taking baby steps. Then if she isn't DTF, I would just cut my losses and next her then?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:37 AM
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So you're saying that the 10/10 Victoria's Secret model would fuck a dude on the first date the same as some chubby 4/10 college slut? I just can't see how this can be true? Maybe I've just not seen it enough but I've worked with tons of girls and heard the more reserved one's talk about "making them wait" etc?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:08 AM
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You are another of my favourite posters, I thank you for your advice and appreciate your comments. Reading them through, wow, shit, I've fucked up. I'm kicking myself right now. Probably explains the text exchange last night. I asked messaged her saying "Lets go for drinks and dancing on Saturday", but she came back with "I don't think I can play out this weekend, I'm literally exhausted from this past week and just need to rest and relax". She did mention this when she was at mine as she's been…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:04 AM
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Loud and clear. This is what worries me. I'd have usually banged by the 4th date, but I've never met a girl like this before. The longer we go without sex, the more likely we'll end up as friends. Or will this amplify the sexual attraction?! "God I want him so badly, why won't he make a move?"
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:47 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Would she be kissing me if there was no attraction though? The next time I see her is make or break really.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:45 AM
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I just casually said she could stay over I meant this as plausible deniability for her to stay in my bed. The advice I'm getting is that if nothing happens on the next date then I should next her. I don't feel I'm in the worse place possible, it's not like we haven't kissed or anything?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:43 AM
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Hey, I like your posts and appreciate your comments. Have you never met a girl like this that just isn't as slutty as most girls? I had a date with a different girl a few weeks ago, we met at 7pm and by 12.30 we were back at mine having sex. I actually laughed at how easy she was. This other girl just isn't cut from the same cloth. Like I say, it's obvious she has a lot more self respect. I do feel some women just take longer to get into bed than others?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:38 AM
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That's the one!
/r/askTRP13/07/16 11:59 AM
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Haha I'm in the UK!
/r/askTRP13/07/16 11:41 AM
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Fair enough, I just thought it showed she wasn't selfish. Was nice when she asked if I was hungry then made me a nice pasta dish. Not what I've been used to with some girls!
/r/askTRP13/07/16 11:02 AM
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I've been looking for red flags, hard, but I can't see any yet. I'm sure she will have some though. Green flags include: Dancer + gym goer Offers to make me food/coffee when I visited hers Charity work Close to Mother & Father Has lots of female friends Calm, considerate Well spoken Masters degree Doesn't drink often Can laugh at herself, doesn't get irritated easily
/r/askTRP13/07/16 10:51 AM
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We talk about sex a lot when we're together. She brings it up as much as I do. If she's talking about sex with me, then she's thinking about having sex with me right? I feel she just has a high anti-slut defence. Maybe next time I'm with her saying something like "It's so hard for me to stop myself just tearing your clothes off right now"? Or is that too strong?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:44 AM
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I feel like I've held my frame well so far. I must be doing something right as it's got to the 3rd date and we're very touchy-feely and kiss often. I'm just very rusty on developing this further! You are correct though, I need to remain alpha. Would be very easy to slip into beta mode right now and wreck it all. What should I suggest for the 4th date do you think?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:38 AM
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If I do want to LTR her, should I carry on being fun and aloof or just outright tell her I'm into her. Like I've said, she's into the romanticism of past era's so would maybe like someone to sweep her off her feet? Except this just feels very beta to me?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:12 AM
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I think she's definitely LTR material so I would yes.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:10 AM
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once you hit height-weight proportionate Do you have any more information on this? I'm interested in ideal shoulder to waist ratios and ideal height to weight ratios.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 07:28 AM
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She didn't come inside my place, she just dropped me off and I had a kiss in the car. There isn't any parking near my place but she just wanted to check it out from the outside. Her talking about dating other guys just makes me want to run a mile, I don't know why women do this!
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:02 AM
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A date did this to me on Sunday. A took it and said "This looks way better on me than you!", she laughed and playfully hit me. Then when she tried to claim it back I said "No chance, I've always wanted my own man bag", then strutted off like I was walking down a catwalk. She laughed at me, then about 2-3 minutes I gave it back on my terms. I felt I handled it well and in my frame.
/r/seduction06/07/16 01:58 PM
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I dated a depressed girl for 2 years. It's hard. They are masters at "wearing a mask". You'll never really know what's going on behind their eyes though. I ignored the signs initially of her telling me she has crippling anxiety and a history of mental illness, because all I could see with my own eyes was this sweet, fun girl that's always smiling and laughing. Oddly, I think some of her BPD characteristics are what attracted me to her like when she was happy, she was ecstatic, and was the most l…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 10:20 AM
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When a girl that dumped you, texts you, they usually don't do this to be back together. In your opinion, why do they text? When she dumps you, you must cut all contact, block numbers, etc. I agree, and this is what I've always done in the past, but I've found it hard this time. Probably due to the reason behind the breakup. I witnessed first hand her suffering, so when she broke up because of that I didn't feel like it was right to block and delete her from my life. Whether you think that's me b…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:03 PM
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I suppose it's my abundance mentality is like me having an apple tree. I have lots and lots of apples, but none of them compare to that delicious, sweet apple I tasted a while back. I have women in my life, let's say our connection is a 7/10. The connection with my ex is a 9/10. This isn't oneitis, this is just comparison.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:47 AM
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That link is incredible. I could definitely relate to a lot of those stories! I think I will read that every time I think about my ex. Thank you.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 09:52 AM
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I had that with my depressed ex. The amount of times she said to me "I am never letting you go" was astounding. Then a year or so later, while in the pits of depression, she tells me she "can't be with anymore" because "I deserve better than her", "she's a burden to me", "she's dragging me down" and "a relationship is too overwhelming". Remember, don't ever believe a word a woman says.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 04:25 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree. I too was with a depressed girl for 2 years. If it's not one thing, it's another. First she was depressed about her university course, then that finished. Then she was depressed with getting job rejections. Then she got a job and she was depressed about the thought of people not liking her. Then she started her job, made friends but was depressed that her temporary contract might not be extended to a permanent one. She was the victim in everything. She saw the worst in ever…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:47 PM
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Stupid comment, we should remove unhelpful comments like yours. OP has had a wobble and just needs a bit of help and guidance from our community. I'd say that 80%+ of the guys on TRP are here due to having a woman collapse their world. I know that's the reason I found this sub.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:37 AM
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I don't know why women do this. I think it's something to do with them trying to feel less guilty about breaking up with someone. Like if they know you're okay in life, they feel better about themselves. But I don't think they're being genuinely nice, I think it's more of a selfish thing to do with them. My advice: Ignore her or reply with 1 blunt, to the point answer. Then ignore.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 11:36 AM
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She could mean "walking depression", there are a few terms around to describe the condition where basically you have depression, but are still able to hold down a job, get up in the mornings etc. This is what my ex had. She wasn't diagnosed officially with bi-polar, but I'd say she definitely had some of the symptoms. Oddly, I think some of them are what attracted me to her like when she was happy, she was ecstatic, and was the most loving and attentive person I've ever met. Yet when she was dow…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 09:34 AM
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I dated a depressed girl for 2 years. It's hard. They are masters at "wearing a mask". You say she's fun to talk to, laughs a lot and does well at work; that all sounds like my ex. You'll never really know what's going on behind the eyes though. I ignored the signs initially of her telling me she has crippling anxiety and a history of mental illness, because all I could see with my own eyes was this sweet, fun girl that's always smiling and laughing. Then the slightest trigger occurs and the dow…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:09 AM
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I was at a wedding the other week thinking exactly the same thing. The engagement was for around two years. Imagine how hot she could've looked if she'd used that time to exercise and eat right. Sheer laziness.
/r/MGTOW07/06/16 06:54 PM
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I love your honesty. I love honesty in general. I'd prefer a girl to tell me "they just don't like me", rather than just give me the silent treatment. This is their childlike mentality again. Cowardly.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:33 PM
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2 girls, 4 midweek dates. I've been busy at the weekends recently, so midweek was the only option. And I find girls are more receptive to the idea of midweek drinks initially, rather than some crazy weekend blowout until 4am.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:32 PM
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The dates have been during the week, my next step would have been to see them at the weekend, where we can be out for longer and not have to get up early the next day.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:46 AM
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I've considered this, but I'd say it's unlikely. Both were messaging me first most days and asking a lot of questions etc
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:44 AM
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Your post resonates with me a lot. It's like I could have written it! Something to remember is that rejection isn't necessarily a bad thing. If you are being rejected, it shows you are trying. I know a guy that hasn't been rejected by a girl for over 10 years, but he also hasn't banged a girl for those 10 years as he never games! My advice is to keep busy. If you're busy, you won't be ruminating about women. I work Monday to Friday but after work I hit the gym, go to the cinema (on my own someti…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 07:45 AM
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I agree with both. But I do think she's doing it to try and make her feel better about the split. She doesn't really care. I'm sticking with no contact regardless.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:36 PM
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What goes through a woman's mind when she initiates the breakup, but then still tries to keep in touch with her ex? My ex broke up with me. Long story short - she suffered from depression, felt a relationship was too overwhelming while on meds, I think her depression killed her feelings towards me and life in general. I went no contact, but then every 6 weeks or so, she'll reach out to me with some mundane excuse to talk to me followed by a "hope you're ok x x" line. She doesn't hope I'm ok, she…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 09:02 AM
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I had zero experience. I used various generic finance jobs to enable me to apply for a Purchase Ledger position. It's only a small department so once a Management Accountant position became available internally, I applied and got the job. Continuity through promotion helped me, as I knew the people/procedures/software etc. If I'd known I'd wanted to do accounting at 16, I would no doubt be a Finance Director by now, but hey, can't dwell on the past!
/r/askTRP26/05/16 10:20 AM
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Not a problem mate! I'm 31, only got into accounting about 2 years ago, wish I'd started earlier but glad I didn't start later!
/r/askTRP25/05/16 09:13 AM
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Tell them you're a Financial Analyst if you think accounting is boring, sounds "sexier". You do after all, analyse finances as part of accounting. I'm an accountant in the UK, currently studying CIMA. Girls are impressed by accountants, it's a credible professional similar to being a lawyer or a solicitor. Girls like my drive and ambition when I talk about studying and having a plan (pass my exams, become a Financial Controller etc). Plus they know I'm good at looking after my money, which is ho…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 08:44 AM
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I can imagine! Met on Happn (the dating app). Went to some cool cocktail bars. I'd say she did about 65% of the talking. Aside from dating I have an incredible life. I have a great career. Own my own city centre apartment. I'm fit and active (gym/running/football). I read a lot. I play guitar. I have a great social life. It would just be good to find someone to share this with!
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:11 PM
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Thanks for the responses, but look, there is no way that a date on a Wednesday night, with a girl who is a teacher, that has to be in work at 7am the next day will be giving anything more out than a kiss. This to me is a date where I need to K-close, then set something up for a Friday/Saturday night for her to come over. Just gotta negotiate the kiss first!
/r/askTRP17/05/16 11:02 AM
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How can you keep escalating when you're both sat at a table? I find it easier standing up or dancing, but we're going to quite a chilled out bar tomorrow night?
/r/askTRP17/05/16 08:11 AM
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Thanks for your post. I feel like I do all the RP things right now again. I lift, my career is exactly where I want it to be, I own a mortgage free property, I have cash in the bank, I have tons of friends, I travel (5 holidays this year). Everything I can control is going great. Things I can't control (women), just always seem to blow up in my face! Maybe her depression forced me to be BP. But, I had no idea how to cope with someone I cared about having depression. What do you do when the girl …
/r/askTRP12/05/16 02:44 PM
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Here in the UK, divorce rates are at 42% (and rising). Now I'm not saying that all divorces are caused by women, but that is nearly 1 in 2 marriages where a couple are declaring their love "till death do us part". AWALT. Statistically, you only have a near 50/50 chance of staying together forever. Why would you?
/r/askTRP12/05/16 02:31 PM
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has been faithful for 4.5 years Opens can of worms....
/r/askTRP12/05/16 02:20 PM
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My family live in a different city. I moved away when I was 18 as the job scene in my hometown wasn't what I wanted.
/r/MGTOW09/05/16 11:29 AM
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Random question, how tall are you? I have this exact problem and 100% believe it's because I'm 5'7 and girls just prefer taller guys.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:36 PM
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I'm with you on this. I have a pool of around 40 very good male friends. I'm 32 now. I'd say around 10 years ago, about 30 of them would have been single. About 5 years ago, I'd say 15 would have been single. Right now, there are 5 single guys in my social group. It makes things extremely difficult. "Fancy grabbing a beer Friday night?" "I can't, I'm seeing the Mrs" "How about Saturday then?" "We're visiting her family, sorry" And "I've seen a really cheap holiday deal for a week in the sun, fan…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:13 AM
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Please elaborate. I was under the impression that your goals and your mission are the same thing?
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:24 AM
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I needed to read this. Thanks OP! Something I'm struggling with is that I recently went through a breakup, she was my 3rd 'proper' LTR. I've had a few FWB over the years too, but I genuinely felt my ex was 'better' than all of the other girls I've had in my life. Better body, better face, better personality, better sex etc etc etc. I know I'll get accused of calling her a snowflake/unicorn, but to me, she's easily been the best girl I've had in my life. I know I have bad scarcity mentality right…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 08:13 AM
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I'm the same as you bro. I think the key is to have hobbies that you can do on your own, that don't need anyone else. Mine now include: Playing the guitar - I can lose hours learning a new song! Gaming - This gets a bad rep on here but I enjoy it and it helps me unwind. I think as long as you're not spending hours and hours a day it's not too bad Cooking - I love trying new recipes out. It's a great skill to acquire to create tasty food for 'dem gains. You say you're in college. In hindsight, I …
/r/askTRP28/04/16 03:54 PM
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Yes I posted about trying to shrug off the 'boring' accountant label! Maybe I do need to use internet apps more. Your LinkedIn profile story is a great shout, I'd have never have thought of that. And I suppose it could also advance my career as an additional bonus. I'll look in to that. Thanks! I love how positive and helpful people are on this sub.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:25 AM
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I've never approached a girl during the day. How would I go about doing that? If a girl is out shopping for example, won't they just instantly turn on their 'bitch-shield' if they're randomly approached? If more expected on a night out?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:23 AM
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My ex had depression issues that were really hard to deal with. It's funny how their dependence on you makes you feel so close. This is so true. Feeling like you can 'help' them and supporting them through a terrible illness maybe did bring us closer together. Even though I know now I can't fix her. How did your relationship end? What happened after?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:03 PM
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Thanks. You are right, I'm just having trouble 'feeling' that this is the right thing, even though my rational mind knows it is. What happened with your LTR? How did you get over her? Do you still hear from her?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 09:25 AM
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Combination of things. Low self esteem, job interview rejections, unhappy work life, pressure. She broke up with me. I thought that at first, but watching someone suffer as much as she did was horrific. She could just look 'dead' behind the eyes sometimes.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 09:24 AM
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I feel like I've given up on someone. On a human to human level, obviously I want to help. Would you bail on someone if they had cancer? Physical illness is the same as mental illness.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 09:23 AM
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Thanks for the link, I'll take a look
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:28 AM
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First of all, well done on the progress and the positive changes you've made to your life. Props! You are heading in the right direction with kicking the booze, eating healthily and hitting the gym. Now onto more serious matters. Am relatively new to TRP, but despite the initial impression I had (that it was about increasing your value in the eyes of our female counterparts) it seems this sub is ultimately about making yourself the best male possible. So with this in mind, I was hoping for some …
/r/askTRP15/04/16 07:47 AM
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Thank you! Good point! Having only come out of a LTR in January, I'm a little rusty in this game. Where do I go from here then?
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:51 PM
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Hindsight is a wonderful thing. That's a great line too. I suppose she caught me off guard. With me K-Closing on the 1st date, I guess I (wrongly) assumed it would be a formality to do the same on the 2nd date.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 04:10 PM
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Can I repair this?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:24 AM
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Damn. This would have been great. "Rules are there to be broken".
/r/askTRP14/04/16 09:02 AM
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Yeah you're right. Althought, outside the bar when we were saying goodbye, I tried to subtly re-escalate and go for another one, but again she kinda turned it into a hug? Confused.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:41 AM
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One date + the initial meet. Key word = could. She's not done anything wrong so far so I'm willing to give her a chance.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:47 PM
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Thanks for the good advice. I don't only want sex, I feel she could be LTR material, but I like to sleep with them first. If they're terrible then that's a deal breaker for me. I like to remove the 'build up' to sex as early as possible. She wants it, I want it. I'm taking her to mini-golf on a 2nd date, so I'm thinking of laying down a fun rule/forfeit that whoever loses has to cook the other person a meal. Then that's a 3rd date sorted, and it will be at one of our houses.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 10:46 AM
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What are the best topics to discuss? My life is awesome, and I want her to know this without seeming like I'm just bragging.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 12:12 PM
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Gold! This is exactly how I will come across! Thank you Sir.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:27 AM
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She was never yours, it was just your turn. *Are you shredded? If not, get there. *Are you where you want to be career wise? If not, get there. *Are you financially secure? If not, get there.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 11:12 AM
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Yeah, I work from 8am to 4pm, with an hour's lunch. 35 hours per week. I never take work home with me, and had stayed beyond 4pm about twice in two years. Are you in the UK? Most of my accountant friends are like this?
/r/askTRP06/04/16 07:39 AM
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Financial Analyst sounds way 'cooler' than an Accountant, and is less likely to attract the boring stereotype! I'll use that! Thanks! Yeah I'm in the UK, like you say, I work with some cool accountants and some boring accountants myself. I just got tired of the following exchange with guys and girls: Them: What do you do for work? Me: I'm an accountant Them: Ohhhh so you're boring?! (smiles + laughs)
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:58 PM
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I am proud. I'm proud of the way I've worked my up from a £15k a year dead end job to become an accountant with lots of prospects. I have been extremely driven in this mission. I set out a plan, and smashed it. That's a lot to be proud of.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:05 PM
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I suppose I just have what some people might call a boring job. A job to me just gives me money to things I love outside of work. I want to work as little as possible for as much money as possible, Accountancy allows me to do this. I wouldn't class myself as a boring person. I travel a lot (5 holidays booked this year), I eat out with friends a lot, I'm in a running club, I hit the gym, I play the guitar & ukulele, I read a lot etc. I feel I have more hobbies and interests than most people. It's…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:04 PM
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To echo what's been said on here. For me, it's all about being selfish and holding your frame. If they do something you don't agree with, tell her, don't be scared. Modern BP logic would dictate that she won't like you if you disagree with her, when in RP reality, it'll make her "feel" you are strong and dominant. You don't have to be horrible, you can say these things with a smile on your face! Also, don't do anything you don't want to do. If she can only see you on a Wednesday, and you're busy…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:47 AM
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This is also what I should have done. Ah well, I know for next time!
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:38 AM
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I should have said this! She was wearing 4 inch heels!
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:38 AM
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I did the first time round, then this was the 2nd conversation when she wouldn't let it lie. I felt I had to respond or it might seem that I'm insecure about it.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:37 AM
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Being aloof and keeping some mystery by teasing her was working and always works for me.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:37 AM
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This is a great point. Duly noted! Thank you Sir!
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:53 AM
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You need to figure out a way to meet more women you find attractive. That's the holy grail! I guess I don't care about the rejection, per se, but knowing that it could take weeks/months to meet someone that ticks the boxes for me again is what I struggle with.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:27 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Maybe I didn't explain myself effectively, or just need to provide additional details. I completely get what you're saying, in terms of "practising on the easy ones", but I'm fine with that. I know that "some you win, some you lose". It's easy to "next" a load of girls that you aren't overly keen on, but those rare moments (for me) where someone ticks your boxes don't come along very often. Let's say I was to meet 20 women, I'd maybe like 1 a lot, then there might be 2 or 3…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:26 PM
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I like that quote "she was never yours, it was just your turn". I'll have to remember that. The thing is, genuinely, she didn't have many major flaws. I have to count anxiety and depression as a major flaw, but personality wise she is exactly what I'd look for in a girlfriend again, but girls like that are extremely rare. My life is sorted. I'm doing great on my own. I have a career, physique, a social life and my finances sorted, the missing piece is some plates to spin.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 05:04 PM
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Thanks for the reply. We were in no position for a baby, we were living lost distance at 2 hours drive apart and she had just finished her masters degree and was up to her eyeballs in debt. We couldn't have done that. Interesting in what you say about when a woman has a lot of sex but no baby. I guess I have to tell myself I've had a lucky escape. I suppose she's some other guy's problem now. I'm so rusty when it comes to dating someone new now after 2 years of a LTR. How do I get back into the …
/r/askTRP24/03/16 05:01 PM
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