| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion? | reade2 | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 04:49 AM | |
| 11 | Here are some limiting thoughts that sometimes hold me back. Do these resonate with any of you? | reade2 | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 11:37 PM | |
| 8 | How do you deal with other guys who subtly treat you disrespectfully? | reade2 | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 02:24 AM |
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| 16 | "Will you take a picture of us?" A shit test?No, it's not a shit test. They want to have their picture taken, so naturally they ask a normal-looking person in their vicinity to take it. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 02:47 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with other guys who subtly treat you disrespectfully?It's not necessarily disrespectful. It depends. You can call someone "bud" or "guy" and it's perfectly innocent, while other times it's condescending. Ordinaryhatwontwork posted this vid of Dane Cook (I know...) where he talks about being disrespected by being called "pall" (min 3:30 or so). I don't take great offense, though sometimes it irks me a little bit that some people aren't very well socialized in this manner. I've worked customer service, and I would never call someone pal, dude, buddy… | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with other guys who subtly treat you disrespectfully?Thanks. For the people who don't understand what I'm talking about, Dane Cook is talking about it at about the 4 min mark :) | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 05:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with other guys who subtly treat you disrespectfully?I don't have an inferiority complex either, but there are times when people use a certain tone to elicit condescension or derision. It doesn't happen a lot, but it is something that happens occasionally in the course of interactions with people, especially people with low self-esteem who try to assert their dominance or whatever. If you never sense this then it is hard to convey here. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Need help guiding a female friend toward a better view of seduction (also a little rejection story)... I went in for the k close... I'm not trying to be a dick, but it's kinda silly that we say things like this when, "I went in for a kiss" will suffice. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Here are some limiting thoughts that sometimes hold me back. Do these resonate with any of you?I really appreciate you writing this. I'm going to check out some of your past posts as well. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Here are some limiting thoughts that sometimes hold me back. Do these resonate with any of you?Thanks - I'll check out the doc! | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Here are some limiting thoughts that sometimes hold me back. Do these resonate with any of you?Yeah, I'm in a couple classes (guitar and salsa), and it's great for meeting new people. I find that I'm often the guy initiating conversation and helping to generate a more social atmosphere in the classes, so I've really improved in that regard. But it's not really approaching. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Here are some limiting thoughts that sometimes hold me back. Do these resonate with any of you?Thanks - I'm doing things like what you suggest to get over these limiting beliefs. I'm writing out some of my thoughts (such as in this post) to show myself how unrealistic they are. I'd love to hear about how you started this journey? Was it just recently that you started living the playboy life? | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 06:13 AM |
| 0 | As a recovering nice guy, I thought I'd share the best pieces of advice I've learned throughout the last year or two.Yes, get a life. Join classes and stuff if you're not already in school. At 35, I'm taking salsa and guitar lessons. I suck at both, but it's a challenge and it's nice to meet new people. I also go to a bunch of Meetups. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Here are some limiting thoughts that sometimes hold me back. Do these resonate with any of you?Thanks for your response. I'm not being defensive when I say that I'm not that insecure about myself. Sometimes, I feel like the most comfortable guy in the room. I can chat-up people pretty damn well, and I'm very confident on my ability to have fun, creative conversation on the fly. I've done some cool stuff, am confident in my looks, and I take good care of myself, so I don't feel like I have very low self-esteem. But what I posted were just some thoughts that sometimes pester me a little, an… | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion?Thanks. What is the Seconds video? | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion?I liked this answer because you're talking about transformation, which is what I was inquiring about. When I was younger I felt really awkward chatting with the grocery store cashier. Now I'm better (sometimes I still feel a little awkward), and I don't have the same anxiety I used to have. I'm wondering if I can make the same transition with approaching women in the day. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion?How much did you have to psyche yourself up before doing your first day approach? | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 10:31 PM |
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