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| 2 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpI blocked him yesterday but thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpHe has seen my IG stories of me hiking lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpBlocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:37 AM |
| 9 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpBlocked blocked blocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpOn my way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpUmm so should I block him? Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:31 AM |
| 6 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpI suck at boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpIdk if he’s a friend. But I’m not interested in anything romantic like ... ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpNot a random. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | AVOIDED A POTENTIAL LVMNo offense but I don’t get how people are actually dating during covid. Like you can’t really go to restaurants , I wouldn’t even dare try. And you have to wear masks. Home dates and car dates are out of the question. Park dates now too. What’s the point of dating lol? I haven’t taken any guy seriously since the pandemic began. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?I didn’t see any red flags up to this point 😒 it’s always something isn’t it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?Yeah and now I’m so turned off I don’t even want to ask why he’s not speaking with her. Because I did ask him some questions about it and his answers were telling. I casually said “so have you spoken to your mom” he said no I have not. I said oh. And then I said “did y’all have a good relationship before... and he said “Me and my mom? Pretty much grew up with my mom since it was just us at home most of the time. Dad at work and sisters were in hostel. Not sure if it means good relationship, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?His reaction to him not speaking to his mom doesn’t even sound like he cares at all.... I casually said “so have you spoken to your mom” he said no I have not. I said oh. And then I said “did y’all have a good relationship before... and he said “Me and my mom? Pretty much grew up with my mom since it was just us at home most of the time. Dad at work and sisters were in hostel. Not sure if it means good relationship, but yeah whatever 🤷♂️🤷♂️” Now I don’t even wanna speak to him anymore or waste… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?He doesn’t have any remorse and that’s why I’m a little worried because... he doesn’t really seem to care about why he’s fighting with his mom. I casually said “so have you spoken to your mom” he said no I have not. I said oh. And then I said “did y’all have a good relationship before... and he said “Me and my mom? Pretty much grew up with my mom since it was just us at home most of the time. Dad at work and sisters were in hostel. Not sure if it means good relationship, but yeah whatever 🤷♂️🤷… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:28 AM |
| 7 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?Ermmmm..... well I tried to ask when we were speaking yesterday and his lack of feeling for it really made me wonder. I casually said “so have you spoken to your mom” he said no I have not. I said oh. And then I said “did y’all have a good relationship before... and he said “Me and my mom? Pretty much grew up with my mom since it was just us at home most of the time. Dad at work and sisters were in hostel. Not sure if it means good relationship, but yeah whatever 🤷♂️🤷♂️” Ummmmm doesn’t sound l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?Yeah and now I’m so turned off I don’t even want to ask why he’s not speaking with her. Because I did ask him some questions about it and his answers were telling. I casually said “so have you spoken to your mom” he said no I have not. I said oh. And then I said “did y’all have a good relationship before... and he said “Me and my mom? Pretty much grew up with my mom since it was just us at home most of the time. Dad at work and sisters were in hostel. Not sure if it means good relationship, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Don’t mix someone having high education + wealth with being HVIt’d be funny , but my ex is indian. Is yours? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Don’t mix someone having high education + wealth with being HVLol it’d be funny if it was the same guy but my ex is indian ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Don’t mix someone having high education + wealth with being HVAre you talking to me or the girl that made this post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:32 PM |
| 20 | Don’t mix someone having high education + wealth with being HVWow this sounds like me. Except for the cheapskate part. But I dated a broke ass high school drop out for 8 years he ended up cheating on me. Shortly after I met this great fun guy on an app and he would spend all this money to come see me. He had his masters degree and was working at Facebook as a software engineer. Truly brilliant but this guy was a narcissist. Love bombing, all that. But basically he was obsessed with sex and things like BDSM. Like OBSESSED. Not too bad until he started makin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:48 AM |
| 31 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?I feel a lot less stressed with no dating apps and all the time in the world for me. 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 8 | No one that loves and values you will allow you to self-sacrifice like this...My first ex was so broke and his parents never helped him. I had to pay his phone bill just for us to talk. I did this repeatedly, for like 3-4 months. Thing is I stole my sisters money to do this because even myself didn’t have a job. What a pick me thing to do. I was 16 and an Idiot. :) We stayed together for 8 years because he was my first bf and I was so naive and dumb. He started earning more money so thankfully I never had to pay any of his shit anymore but he did end up cheating on me! I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:53 AM |
| 6 | Good advice!Ya this is ridiculous. Been lucky to have both exes that pay for everything. I offer money and they refuse. But they’re still exes for a reason. They have set the standard for me about men paying though. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | I’m trying to be a good friend but now this is getting on my nerves.See I feel bad for her in a way because I feel like something isn’t right with her mentally now that I’ve gotten to know her better. But maybe like I’m just making assumptions like I’m not perfect either I’m gonna have to put my foot down somehow . I think she knows I’m over this topic but I’ve noticed a lot of my friends who are girls get obsessed over guys really easily. Like realllly easily. I’ve had two bad breakups and I just can’t be like that again. It just makes me feel bad. But anyways … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:26 AM |
| 5 | I’m trying to be a good friend but now this is getting on my nerves.Yes I am I have too much going on. She has her own personal problems and she just explained it to me . I feel like such a mean person but it feels like her mental status has her.... obsessed. But also I’m trying to have compassion because these are crazy times and we might all deal with stress differently. It’s not my battle to fight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Anyone that’s stayed single on purpose to heal , learn, grow!? How did you do it?Wow this is so impressive!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....Yeah your right.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:54 AM |
| 3 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....Yup!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:52 AM |
| 0 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....I really don’t know. I don’t know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 04:03 AM |
| 0 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....Ugh but idc if he ramps up, he reminds me a lot of my first ex who cheated and got someone pregnant. Only difference is this guy has a full on education and good career going for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....I feel like I’m being used again. & I feel kind of stupid with not seeing red flags. I was with a narc for 8 years & he cheated then another kind of narc for 2 months & he emotionally cheated. I’m not good at picking up red flags & if I do I think I ignore it. This really sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:56 AM |
| -7 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....I’m not gonna block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:42 AM |
| 6 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....The problem is I don’t know what I want & he reminds me a lot of my first ex & i know that’s not a good thing.... But I really don’t know what I want. I don’t know. I’m trying to distance myself & it’s not working. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:33 AM |
| -4 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....He’s not taking up my heart just a lot of mind space that shouldn’t even be there. And you’re right about the red flag .... but idk what he could be hiding ... he seems like a pretty straight forward guy & he’s sent me live video of himself. I’m really confused on what I want from him. I think I’ve opened my self up to him so vulnerably & for that I thought maybe it’d lead to something. I sound so dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:31 AM |
| -1 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....Well see.... he lives in Cali & I live far away.... so I don’t think we’ll ever meet. I’ve been trying to distance myself but I can’t for some reason.... Sometimes the friendship does seem one sided but it always balances it self out somehow.... I just wanna keep things light & airy, nothing in my life has ever been light & airy & for once I just want it to be light & airy. Friends is fine with me. But as soon as I start dating someone I’m done with the friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:16 AM |
| 7 | I really wish I could’ve seen this thread earlier.... I didn’t know we shouldn’t tell men we’ve been in abusive relationships. A guy friend of mine that I’ve been talking to for 6 months knows basically everything about my exes ... there’s no going back now....No women friends that I know of... & none that I know of that he’s tried to sleep with... he doesn’t sleep around . He’s a real boring guy. & no we don’t always talk about relationships. We used to, not anymore. Honestly we haven’t really had really sexual conversations either.... Seriously it feels like a friendship. & I’ve told him maybe we should talk on the phone if we are interested in each other & that’s never happened. I have my doubts .... because I don’t know if anything between us will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Guy is bringing up how we will pay for dates , & we have not even gone on one date yet? Is this a red flag?It is such a huge turn off. Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Why Men with a High N Count are Low ValueDamn this sounds so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | For some reason, guys do not want to date me, just fuck me and move on.I seriously do not have sex with men unless they’re my bf. Just recently I broke that rule for one guy. And I’m 24. No I don’t dress sexually anymore. Maybe I used to in high school Maybe the vibe thing is true. I don’t have good self esteem | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 12:43 PM |
| 4 | For some reason, guys do not want to date me, just fuck me and move on.I don’t sleep with men unless they’re my bf. I just broke that rule at 24 years old. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | For some reason, guys do not want to date me, just fuck me and move on.I don’t sleep around. I said that | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 03:01 AM |
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