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| 15 | Choose men similar to how the International Olympic Committee chooses athletes to compete in the OlympicsThere's a man on the fencing team who has been accused of rape by three different women and managed to appeal his suspension to be allowed to compete, and was successful. So, yeah, I won't be choosing similarly to the Olympics committee. To be fair, I get what you're trying to say, but the Olympics is as shallow and problematic as any other organization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:14 PM |
| 15 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningI just did this, and my (ex) partner is apparently really upset with me for not "staying to work on" a relationship I had no interest in any more. No regrets, and even happier that I left someone who seemed to think I owed it to him to put effort into something that was no longer serving me for his sake alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 12:43 AM |
| 8 | The new dating scam.Omg i read this as "four steaks" at first and was like HOW IS NO ONE BRINGING THIS UP lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Did you hear about John Mulaney's divorce? I'm shocked.So weird but I just looked at the pictures and two of the four wallpapers festured were wallpapers I had saved in my top 4 (out of thousands), and a third one was not that much father down the list. I dont know if she chose those wallpapers but damn do we have similar taste | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:50 PM |
| 4 | How FDS changed how I view every day interactions with a partner.🤣 oh man that last line got me. The rest of that is super relatable though. I've had partners do the same thing to me ("help me! But as soon as you try ill resent you!") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 20 | How FDS changed how I view every day interactions with a partner.A whole new problem tho - he's such an addict he can't wait a few seconds? A car ride is too long? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Disney vs. Barbie princess moviesYes as far as I remember there is absolutely no romance, and it focuses on her relationship with her mother and younger brothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 30 | Disney vs. Barbie princess moviesWhat about Merida from brave? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 63 | Don’t feed the trolls.Worth mentioning also that punching anyone is a punishable offense. You arent "allowed" to punch men, so no, you aren't allowed to punch women either. What world are these idiots living in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:26 AM |
| 16 | Remember to love yourself first and don’t let anyone dull your sparkle.Big oof. Sometimes I feel like I made it out just in time. Other times I'm not sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:07 AM |
| 6 | I have no words...What the actual fu k | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:37 AM |
| 17 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?So, just some things I've learned: NEVER panic-delete anything someone else has sent you or someone else's profile. Screenshot anything sus that they can get rid of, or screenshot everything if you must block/unfriend/delete. Google everyone before meeting. Get their Facebook or insta before meeting and go through photos and posts to see who their friends are (make sure they have lots of legit friends!) Try to have a "professional" profile that you do this through so its authentic without having… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | MuahahahaThe wording on this is kind of weird to me. I'm not in science but like how common is it really to get your own lab? How common is it to get grants? That being said im pretty poor so 60k seems comfortable to me lol. Being an immigrant and a woman is certainly an obstacle to overcome in the sciences in America and this is incredible, im just curious why the other things made it in. What's the average salary of someone else in her field? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 21 | Men want to humble you so badly, they’ll defy logic to do it. Stay woke.Already lost it at "first of all, I can't swim. Tell my uncle I said hi when you get to jail". This woman is awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:47 PM |
| 7 | My covert narcissistic ex resurfaced yesterday with claims of changeTrying to claim a relationship with her cats and imply that they might be suffering for lack of his care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:48 AM |
| 6 | My covert narcissistic ex resurfaced yesterday with claims of change1) i got an email so much like this from my ex after they realized I blocked them. Same "sorry I was too focused on myself to care about you" same " these are all the ways you helped me" same "heres some problems I had with you even though you've given no indication that you care" same "I just want to talk and be there for you" and same attempt to guilt me into a "response, just so I know..." Its really unbelievable. Also eff this dude for telling you how to take care of your own cats! What a to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:40 AM |
| 5 | This is what male entitlement looks like. In response to WhY DoN't YoU WoMeN JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE MoRe. Men don't freaking listen.He really is! We've been friends a long time, and he is besties with my partner too so its nice. Was a real facepalm moment tho haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 13 | This is what male entitlement looks like. In response to WhY DoN't YoU WoMeN JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE MoRe. Men don't freaking listen.That or they're only half listening and just hear "dark chocolate" and think " oh she loves dark chocolate". (Still a shit partner because they don't actually listen to what you say.) But as an example: The other day my male friend/housemate(?? We live on a ranch together) was picking up beer for me and asked what I wanted. I said "anything but tecate". He comes back with...Tecate. he is an absolute sweetheart and I know it wasn't on purpose. Just wasn't actually listening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 5 | The Most High Value Response I’ve Seen on RedditThis guy nailed it and I hope something nice happens to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:32 AM |
| 8 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteShe said the first draft was already with her editors and that is a total red flag. It was never about how FDS feels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 09:23 AM |
| 18 | That update tho 🙌Pretty much every guy I know would be STOKED to have a claw machine. It blows my mind that she managed to find one who didn't. There must have been so much about that match that was bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 4 | I’m waiting until someone tells her that if a man is willing to rape a woman he wouldn’t care what her underwear says....and that rapists know exactly what they’re doing. Also yes that is a woman victim blaming in the comments.Imo this is what the woman in the comment is saying. I didn't see it as victim blaming, just like...aware of this fact. Maybe I got it wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:31 AM |
| 4 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.are you me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:12 AM |
| 20 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactWtf could he even have to talk about? this is such a weak attempt at manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:11 AM |
| 42 | Scrote Tropes decoded Part III am a horse girl so that explains a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 02:07 AM |
| 61 | Scrote Tropes decoded Part IIMy current partner has the only OLD profile I've ever liked. We were friends for a long time before we dated and I came across his profile once - all it said was "Strong as an ox. Good teeth." True to form, he has great teeth (im secretly really into teeth so...) and regularly helps me move things and lift stuff. Very sweet and placid. Its important to me for someone to have an original profile that does not engage in any of these played out "code phrases". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesI kinda thought so but wanted to make sure I wasn't missing out on something lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesWhat is woodmaking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:43 AM |
| 10 | Eternally Irritating: Condescending "Help" At the Hardware StoreSeriously. I had a paint employee tell me that the entire righthand bank of the spray paints was for "metal only". I had no idea what to tell him and settled on "I've been using this on wood trim for years and it works great". I think he thought that "metallic" meant "metal only" and didn't know what a metallic finish was. A separate time, I was working on a job and had been painting flats the same color of pink for a few days. Just so much time staring at this one color. Ran out to get more and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:19 AM |
| 40 | So trueI love this sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:46 AM |
| 12 | Red flags that I didn't know were red flags, from my "perfect" "conflict-free" relationshipUgh. Second to last one reminds me of my ex. Would regularly bail on plans we made because something more interesting came up, or they just decided they weren't feeling like it. Last minute. Like, once I was ready to go, with no warning. Its obvious now that they were just trying to trick me into going places without them so they could do whatever "better" plans came up alone. Just thinking of that relationship fills me with embarrassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 7 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.Honestly I think ordering a small drink is totally fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 12:34 PM |
| 5 | What being mixed race taught me about menThis was a super interesting read! Not sure why it's too much for some people. Nicely organized. If you're having trouble getting through it; find the bold headers, and scan the beginning of each paragraph. It should be easy to discern which paragraphs are "info" and which are "storytime". I do recommend just buckling down and reading the whole thing though! (Pretend its a chapter in a book?) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 32 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?Incredible how he can string so many words together and still say nothing. This is him ending it but trying to keep his option open for later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:18 AM |
| 3 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsThe only true male friends I have are men that I got to know slowly through my social scene and work over a matter of years, are friends with my partner or I am friends with theirs, etc. In some of them, we had moments (pre relationships) where we were flirting and for whatever reason nothing came from it, but both of us still put efforts into a friendship. It helps when you live in huge houses with 10-12 housemates. I find it does a lot to teach people how to create lasting bonds that don't cen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Why do straight women even bother tbhBy this metric I was a virgin til I was 25 but since then I've had a LOT of sex. Say what you want about punk kids and artists but in my experience they definitely like to make women cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Learning how to control your emotional response and attachment to men is POWER.Such good advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:43 PM |
| 2 | 4+ years and I JUST walked the door with a small bag and without even a glance let alone a goodbye!Coat the furniture with chicken grease | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂A child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:12 AM |
| 4 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellAt least you planted the seeds of truth. I just got out of a relationship with someone who lied and cheated and was generally horrible. I had people tell me what they thought of him and it was those words I would hear whenever he was awful. They helped me fight attempts to gaslight and eventually gave me the strength to call it quits. Maybe it didn't work immediately, but it doesn't mean it fell on deaf ears. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 4 | What talking about preferences on the internet as a woman is likeGuy on the top left is right about me tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:29 PM |
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