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Definitely, most men have even less options
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:04 PM
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Florida
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:04 PM
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Women have an abundance of options for sex but when it comes to men they actually want to be in a relationship with the pool of candidates narrows quicker than you think.
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:55 PM
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I wouldn’t say an ugly guy but I do see average looking men with hot women very often
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:53 PM
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Really? I feel like the majority couples i see are an attractive woman with the most average looking man you’ve ever seen
/r/seduction30/09/22 08:51 PM
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What about right in the middle at 25?
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:16 PM
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I have this exact same issue, i think it stems from a fundamental lack of confidence at least for me. Same for you maybe?
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:26 AM
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I’ve done a similar experiment on IG and can confirm I also got more responses from the models
/r/seduction14/06/22 08:19 PM
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I’m actually really curious how you managed to end up in finance doing so well after bouncing around other industries first? I’m in my 20s and just graduated but still feel kinda lost career wise at the moment
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:14 PM
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I’ve followed girls on ig before that didn’t originally follow me back but after some time dm’ing they did and i actually went out with a few of them. Its always worth a shot at least
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:39 PM
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I’ve followed girls on ig before that didn’t originally follow me back but after some time dm’ing they did and i actually went out with a few of them. Its always worth a shot at least
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:39 PM
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I’m not ugly, just average looking. You are absolutely right that i was an orbiter tho
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:23 PM
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Eh idk when i was in college i hung out with pretty girls in my friend group alot and i never once had any female friends try to set me up with anyone
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:14 PM
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I’m only 24 but tbh i probably get more interest from girls around 21 than ones my age
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:27 AM
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I’m only 24 but have had even less success in my 20s than my teens, i guess i still have time to turn it around tho. You’re wrong about early 20s girls not being interested anymore once you’re 30. Most girls are really into older guys and i’ve heard of many men who did better in their 30s than their 20s
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:26 PM
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How do I do that?
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:07 PM
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Tinder since thats basically the only way to meet women especially now that i’ve graduated
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:28 PM
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The top tier of men are having enough sex to make up for the average and worse men having less
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:58 PM
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So my only option is to go after older women? Thats even harder considering women do not generally like younger men
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:57 PM
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I’m not the guy you replied to but i’m in basically the same situation as him. All the girls ive been interested in are between 18-25 and they have all been like OP described. I’m 24 for reference
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:49 PM
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Yup same here, everything my mom taught me about how to treat girls is 100% wrong and has fucked me over for years.
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:47 PM
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The average girl sleeps around way more than the average guy
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:42 PM
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I feel like i could have written this post i related to it so much. How old are you now? I’m 24 and still really struggle with all these issues
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:40 PM
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I could try hiking forsure, i do love to travel too. Not really a clubbing guy but i can adapt and try it at least. Boxing and rock climbing are no gos for me tho.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:43 PM
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Painfully true lol, how exactly can one become exciting though? I have alot of hobbies but they’re probably all considered nerdy and/or boring
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:14 PM
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Women never want to be wingmen for guys tho, no matter how much women friends claim to like me not one of them has ever showed any interest in helping me get other girls either.
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:55 PM
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This 100%, women always say “you’re such a good guy but im just not attracted to you”. Yet they will NEVER want to set you up with one of their friends either
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:52 PM
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Thats fair, ideally he could meet someone interested in the same things. Generally tho you are absolutely right that women tend to want more excitement in their life than men.
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:37 AM
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Don’t some people just genuinely prefer a quieter life? Like tbh none of the things you said George does (rock climbing, hiking, boxing, clubbing) particularly appeal to me. Just because Ali is “boring” doesn’t mean he doesn’t also enjoy life in his own way
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:37 AM
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You’re getting downvoted but you’re right. I recently graduated and its honestly a downgrade when talking to girls. Being able to answer “what do you do” with the promise of being a college student compared to the harsh reality of post graduation career prospects is a huge difference
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:23 PM
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I’m a 6 foot tall white guy that is decently good looking but i definitely still struggle with girls cause of my anxiety. I’ve had dates that i just never showed up for cause i had a panic attack :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:17 PM
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I was talking to this girl for 6 months, it was long distance but she would call or facetime me literally every single day for half a year and then all of a sudden she just ghosted one day and i never heard from her again 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:10 PM
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Yup this is literally me
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:45 PM
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I’m good at being “friendly” and pleasant to talk to but i consistently fail at escalating and taking things further
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:56 AM
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Take better pictures and dress better?
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:25 PM
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As a 6’0 white guy reading stuff like this is honestly depressing. Like apparently i have built in advantages for online dating yet still get almost no matches
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:57 AM
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I honestly have more success through instagram dm’s than i do on shit like tinder. Its absolutely a numbers game tho, you will get rejected and ignored alot but don’t let it bother you. Best bet is a witty reply to a story post, if she then responds and follows you back thats a clear sign to advance
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:38 AM
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If you have good chemistry
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:12 PM
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You’re right but i also completely get what he’s saying about the resentment building up too. Its just a shitty situation all around
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:22 PM
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What do you mean by act in a way perceived as needy?
/r/seduction27/12/21 04:55 AM
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No good ever comes from knowing about your gf’s past hookups. I would rather just live in blissful ignorance about it tbh
/r/seduction26/12/21 02:18 AM
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“You need to make her feel more alive, make her spin and fall and laugh and forget where she was or who she was with” This is a SUPER high bar to clear. Like even if she thinks you’re attractive its still nowhere near enough. Also on a personal level, i know for a fact that i have never made a woman feel that way.
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:58 PM
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Yeah this post is bullshit tbh, it doesn’t work like this at all for average guys
/r/seduction25/12/21 05:42 PM
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This was supposed to be inspiring but i honestly found it depressing lol
/r/seduction25/12/21 05:40 PM
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Are you actually attracted to the average girls or is it just cause you’re horny and want easy sex?
/r/seduction20/12/21 08:04 PM
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What do you mean by not showing weakness?
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:39 PM
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I wish i read this comment a few years ago
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:48 PM
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