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By enjoying the conversation yourself. People often reciprocate the feelings of others, especially socially. Enjoy yourself, (smile, joke etc.) she's likely to reciprocate. As far as mutual interests, just ask.
/r/seduction07/07/14 10:28 PM
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If she isn't reacting to playful kino, then its a sign you two aren't quite on the same page. It could be one of two things: One, she likes you but is nervuos/doesn't know how to reciprocate. Some people are just bad at flirting, even attractive women can be. For this you need to take her out of her shell. Joke with her about it and try to loosen her up, before showing interest in her sexually or otherwise. Two, she just isn't into you. I'd argue this probably isn't the case, especially if you w…
/r/seduction07/07/14 10:26 PM
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You seem to try to hard at impressing the woman/people in general. Don't worry about how they feel about you, just enjoy yourself on the date and she will mirror you. Whenever you get thoughts like "oh god shes not having fun, idk what to say" etc. take a deep breath and relax. If you find your at a loss of conversation, just be interested in her and it will flow well. People are narcissistic they love talking about themselves. That being said, being reserved isn't a bad thing at all.
/r/seduction05/07/14 02:32 AM
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Lack of kino isn't necessarily the reason of losing interest/attraction getting fiendzoned etc. I'd argue it has much more to do with portraying intent. Granted, this is why kino is such a good thing because it portrays intent easier than other things (eye contact, how close your standing, topic of conversation etc.) That being said a lack of kino isn't a bad thing, but its more of the why behind the lack of kino thats important. Are you not kinoing her due to some various reason such as venue, …
/r/seduction05/07/14 02:24 AM
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As far as achieving being comfortable single/not having romantic encounters, I barely believe it's possible, Well, the way it happened to me was the more success with women i got, the less it mattered to me. I feel like thats pretty common as well, but you have a very defeatist attitude about it. "I barely believe its possible," come on man. We put a man on the moon, of course its possible! It may take longer, but everone is different. This applies even more so in seduction becuase its taking wh…
/r/seduction23/08/13 09:40 PM
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Its not rejection in high school its rejection period. The rejection ia the same after you graduate. As for how much it'll affect you, I couldn't say. Its different for everyone. When i was your age honestly the worst part was actually asking. The rejection, if it came, wasn't as bad because at least I asked her. What's worse than both asking and the rejection is wondering later if it wouldve worked or not. So do it, and if rejected dont think long on it. Learn from any mistakes that mightve occ…
/r/seduction23/08/13 02:06 AM
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I see where youre coming from, but in my experience its not worth it. There are plenty of other conversations thay are less hot buttoned, but can still gauge how well two people will mesh
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:54 AM
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Just do it. If she says no no biggie, find someone else to ask out. You're in high school. Even if you get rejected, its still a good thing. Learn the importance of rejection early. It will help you tremendously when it becomes more important.
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:47 AM
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I'm in nearly the same position, and hopefully this thread will explode a bit to give me some more ideas. If I were you however, id host a apartment party asap. Inviting any college tenants you meet/live near. It would go a long way to gaining a social circle and having a good influx of potential women to date.
/r/seduction22/08/13 10:50 PM
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Well, you say you want this. What have you done to achieve it? Also what is it you want to achieve? Its impossible to achieve a goal you never set, but infinitely easier to achieve once its on paper.
/r/seduction22/08/13 10:46 PM
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people still get laid after saying this shit yes but it'd go better and they'd find more success if they were better with their words. I've done a lot of research on body language, power dynamics in social situations and how much your body conveys meaning in conversation. The amount of meaning that comes from your body in conversation is no lower than 40% of whats said and could be up to 70%. (The fluctuation is due to the differences of the ratio of body language to what's said per indivual and…
/r/seduction19/05/13 06:13 PM
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You have to understand a couple things when it comes to these openers, especially something that is worded exactly as you want to phrase it (i.e. are you as interesting as you look?) 1.) This is the internet. We are communicating through text, so everything that isn't situational is going to look a lot more plastic. Which brings me to my next point. 2.) It doesn't matter what you say, more how you say it/how you appear. Using this opener could backfire terribly if you give the wrong vibe, when d…
/r/seduction19/05/13 05:55 PM
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taoofsteve brings up some great points, however, I'd like to add on. There are different levels of how well one can hold conversation. I'd say, especially if you follow seddit and practice, you are probably good at holding conversation, telling stories, etc. Essentially, better than the average Joe trying to hold conversation. If you're having problems with silence, and like taoofsteve said some silence is not bad, you're going to have to beat this plateau you're at. Instead of being good at kee…
/r/seduction02/04/13 10:43 PM
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Well, that depends. Are you happy with yourself as a whole? If not, than you should fake it till you make it. Become the person you want to be, because that's the person you're meant to be. That's you. That might not be you right now, but just because it isn't you right now, doesn't mean it's not you. If you're unhappy with something you can definitely change it, and while some people might say, "that's acting, that's not actual who he/she is," I disagree. I feel it's the other way around. If yo…
/r/seduction27/02/13 01:40 AM
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Honestly, my biggest A HA (one I've had many times before, then found something else that I thought disproved it, only to find it true once more,) is to be yourself. Ugh, I get a bad taste in my mouth saying something so cliche, but it is so true. Some people might disagree with me, but let me give my reasoning of why this is the most important thing I've learned from seduction: Seduction is all about picking up chicks. You learn to pick up chicks by calibrating how you act/live your life to one…
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:29 PM
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Be more specific, and I'd be happy to answer any questions. The psychology behind why seduction works is very fascinating.
/r/seduction25/02/13 11:52 PM
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So a lot of people have posted some pretty good tips to help you start, but I have a little to add as well. First of all, I make a fair deal of social interaction every day but again it feels really shallow and I never feel like I'm making a connection to people. I feel really damn boring and average This is your problem, believe it or not. You make small talk (not a bad thing), but you do it for the wrong reasons. You make small talk, not to check up on people you care about, but just to make i…
/r/seduction12/02/13 06:14 PM
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This would be the first time I've downvoted anything on Seddit. It's just false, even if the sample size/way the experiment was set up wasn't faulty. Looks aren't everything, and they sure as hell mean less to a woman, than to a man, imo at least. I'm not going to spend time trying to convince you, it'll just be your word versus mine. I will say, the only way to find out for certain is to go out there and try, and by learning seduction, I promise you it'll turn out that looks really don't matter…
/r/seduction04/02/13 10:42 PM
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Roflllll, god dammit. It was like 3 am when I wrote this FUUUUUUUUU. I'm keeping it though
/r/seduction04/02/13 03:54 AM
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I don't have any issue with going back to her if she calls you crying. Then again, I live in Atlanta, right around where that bad ass security guard is kicking ass and taking names. I don't know about where op lives, but I would be more worried about her safety than whether or not it was a huge shit test. Going to get her, imo, is more "alpha" (god I hate that word) than keeping the tough guy posterior. If it turned out to be a huge shit test, and she just pretended to be upset, I would leave ve…
/r/seduction03/02/13 06:50 AM
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As everyone else said, it's how you interact with them. I was/am in the same situation now, my female friends outnumber my male friends, but the male friends are usually closer with me, and there's sexual tension between most of my female friends. It can look bad if you twist it that way, but it's all a matter of perception. If James Bond hung out with only women, nobody would think he's "gay" or "incapable to get women. He's James Bond, certified women boner. So, don't worry too much about it, …
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:49 PM
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Calm down man. Understand we are all follow sedditors trying to get some tail. ;) That being said, I agree with u/Sed-Throwaway, you do come off a little angry/hostile. That being said, she insulted you technically. You have a right to be put off, so your reaction makes sense. It's better than validating you being her type. I would argue its not the best response, at least for me. I have a laid back approach to women, I try to be a suave as possible. I would respond with something like, "For how…
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:10 AM
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/2. There are two cunts. Edit: Cool little auto correct. You can't type "2." without it automatically turning to "1." as if you were listing something
/r/seduction01/02/13 04:55 AM
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COMPLETELY IGNORE THE FRIENDS COMMENT. That is what my text is doing. It's like she's texting, "ya I would love to hangout with you." Without the friend, and without the estranged "it would only be to exchange orgasms." Don't bring logic into this. Dude, this is seduction, literally the science of pick up. Logic is the basis of all of it. REMEMBER THE GOLDEN RULE: IGNORE EVERYTHING WOMEN SAY. ONLY PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR ACTIONS. I disagree with this. It's more like take everything a women says w…
/r/seduction01/02/13 01:23 AM
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I wouldn't ignore it, or text her with your true feelings, both warrant a reaction. If you text her saying you want her, it might work, but you're once more chasing her. If you ignore it, she could read it as a reaction as well, less likely,however, and more safe. What I would recommend doing is the middle road. Keep her guessing about how you feel about getting "friendzoned. (This isn't what that is, but I'd reckon to her it is.) Instead answer something along the lines of, "Lol okay see you th…
/r/seduction31/01/13 05:06 AM
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Bonne chance! You're going to need to learn the language, at least conversationally. When you do, don't try really hard on accents and such. Keep whatever nationality you are, and be that forbidden foreign fruit.
/r/seduction30/01/13 11:02 PM
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Delay, makes it seem like your busy, (although, hopefully, you're becoming more busy anyways.) I'm ADHD, so when I get a text, my attention goes to it instantly. What I do to counteract this is read the text, then write the response, but not respond right away. I lock my phone, and when I remember the text, I text back. Plus, if you don't like what you said, or want to say it a different way, the second look is very helpful.
/r/seduction22/01/13 03:01 AM
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I'd love to give it a gander
/r/seduction17/01/13 04:27 AM
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Eh, watch what you say and how you say it. Don't say anything that could allude to a LTR. A more powerful way to do this would be to make your intentions known early. Also, smile more. Strange bit of advice, I know, but think about it; a serious individual would more likely be inclined to want a LTR (on the surface anyways), as compared to a more laid back individual. Portray your intentions through verbal and non verbal communication, don't give any mixed signals. That's about the best advice I…
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:52 AM
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I've got one that tops all of these worst pick up lines: Damn girl, do you shit out of that ass?
/r/seduction03/01/13 07:03 PM
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That is completely uncalled for.
/r/seduction03/01/13 03:27 AM
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Because I gain no benefit for knowing the message that would come from the article, as I would not use it. Also, pick-up is the name of the game, but not necessarily how you play, at least in my opinion. At this point, it doesn't matter to me how many numbers I can get, or f-closes, or leaving the bar with the hottest chick. These things have become irrelevant to me becoming more self actualized and getting closer to the person I want to become, which is the reason I tried out pick-up in the fir…
/r/seduction02/01/13 08:49 PM
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Here is the thing - some of this red pill stuff is true in theory. Ya, I meant to allude to this in my original post. (Kinda failed tbh.) It works in terms of seduction, but it doesn't mean its right; that was the main idea I wanted to put across. It works in theory, and even in play. I've seen it done. Imo, it's like justifying genocide due to over population, to a very lesser degree obviously. Just because its effective, doesn't mean it's the course of action to take.
/r/seduction02/01/13 07:29 PM
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The latter, and after reading the book, some of it was fabricated or at least expounded on. It just becomes even less believable when he comes off the way he did. That being said, I do believe he became a pick-up artist, but he also was trying to make a book sell. So it makes sense he would try to make it a juicy as possible. Honestly, I wish he wouldn't of been so embarrassed and frazzled when asked about pick-up. He should've been "Style" when he was interviewed. He wasn't, so he began to be p…
/r/seduction02/01/13 06:57 PM
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I disagree, this is nearing the more dark side of seduction. This article is filled with a passive aggressive misogyny about women, and all of it is objectifying. I don't know about you, but I don't use this type of thinking when I try to seduce women. In fact, if I ever did, I would be the very thing that I dislike about the seduction community. Pick-up is much more than that. It's focused on self improvement, while also training to pick up on social cues. This is the side of pick-up that is br…
/r/seduction02/01/13 05:59 PM
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Idk, if you listened to what he was saying, he was trying to let go of the Game. He even said he had to switch it off, and it's not like he was trying to get laid by anyone in the room. I think that was the real Neil Strauss, without any pick up modifications. That being said, if I were someone who hasn't dabbled in seduction, I would wonder if it was legit. He definitely didn't seem like a poster child for it in the interview... Also his girlfriend is hella hot
/r/seduction02/01/13 08:09 AM
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Maybe I'm totally off base and maybe in the future I'll change my mind but I don't think I have the skills yet to pull off really flamboyant peacocking. Meh, don't force it if you don't feel it. Peacocking might not be a major part of your game, no biggie. However, as this bothers you, this would be one of the ways to fix it. Gauge it to you. if it makes you feel uncomfortable, it will be worse than not peacocking; it will throw you out of state.
/r/seduction26/12/12 04:15 AM
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Its all about that body language. Walk with your big man pants on (Queue scene from, "The Other Guys.") Just have good posture, make sure you're not closing yourself off, make eye contact etc. As well as this, it also depends on how much you want to be noticed; you can do more to attract more attention. idk just mess around with it until you gauge its the right amount of body language. Honestly, if you want to see someone who attracts the most amount of looks based on body language, and is short…
/r/seduction26/12/12 01:11 AM
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It's simply because they misunderstand the main goal of seduction: This is a community of people wanting to become the person they want to be. It's not learning how to flirt, picking up on indicators of interest, being able to speak sexually without stuttering, or getting a 10 into your bed. These are just some of the possible outcomes. This community is focused on improving the individual, so they will be comfortable in their skin, thus, becoming a person that women enjoy to be in the company o…
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:36 AM
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I really like this because I carry around a Nokia-esque brick of a phone that I call the 'iPhone 7.' I could follow with it reminds people outside of me of my plans.
/r/seduction15/12/12 05:36 PM
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Best one word answer ever. This will let her know before anything else. ninja edit: punctuation
/r/seduction15/12/12 05:27 PM
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You could say it about the lamp, as long as you make it funny. If you don't, she might look at you strange.
/r/seduction15/12/12 05:26 PM
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Well, start with the opinion of yourself. You've explained to us like three times in this post how you are shy, insecure and awkward. In one post, you said it three times. Stop this type of thinking. It will get you no where. How do you change your opinion of yourself? Find your successes, focus on them; find your mistakes, learn from them. Never dwell on your mistakes, it gets you nowhere. For instance, the interaction you had today, see what you did wrong and be determined to do it right the n…
/r/seduction13/12/12 07:16 AM
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and root for you FTFY
/r/seduction11/12/12 01:37 AM
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Sure, I met two women a few nights ago in a common room inside my dorms. They asked where I was from, and I told them Madrid. I made it painfully obvious I wasn't from there, making them laugh. In one of my stories about my 'hometown' I mentioned a girl I used to know who had the most beautiful green eyes. (One of the girls eyes were green.) I delivered this with a slight inflection on green, a tilt of the head towards her, made eye contact, smiled, broke eye contact and continued. This all occu…
/r/seduction10/12/12 02:02 AM
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A lot of people have said that you shouldn't compliment on physical features. I, partially, disagree. Compliment her on what sticks out to you. Saying something generic (you are beautiful, amazing eyes etc.) is something she has heard loads of times. How to compliment is a different ball game, depending on on the person doing so. I like to keep smooth type profile when seducing, so my compliments are delivered through clever innuendos and such. I hardly ever compliment flat out, it would break u…
/r/seduction10/12/12 01:21 AM
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Just do whatever you feel. If anyone says not to text her tomorrow because she said so, they say it to make you not seem needy. If you want to text her, by all means. It won't be a deal breaker either way, its a pretty miniscule thing. Also, keep the texts to a minimum, text game is hard to pull off (due to misunderstanding and such.)
/r/seduction09/12/12 10:21 AM
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Well, imo, the most important thing about seduction is self improvement. It's that moment when you are the most comfortable with you that you attract the most women. Due to this, find your answers within yourself; this career speed bump seems the largest obstacle in your way atm. Answer it for yourself, be satisfied with the answer (whatever it may be,) and continue from there. If you become okay with not having career aspiration, which its clear from your post that's not the case, then it won't…
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:28 AM
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Not necessarily the last thing, but ya you get the idea. Google it for a better scope of how to do it, just be wary because it can get obvious if you parrot too much at one time. It should help you find ways to contribute with people you don't know.
/r/seduction05/12/12 01:40 AM
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Just be comfortable with you. Don't seem nervous, don't fidget, the scenario may change, but the game doesn't. Be easygoing I'll also add that making conversation with complete strangers is a good idea. I love doing it, and same for the host/ess, so long as they aren't too busy. As for actually relating to people, try parroting. While its just a tool to make small talk, and shouldn't be done a lot, it has made me much better at small talk with people I don't know.
/r/seduction05/12/12 12:35 AM
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That's not the kind of company you should want to be around anyway. This. Honestly, even if you can get it, why do it? I recently went through a similar thing, and just dropped her. Among this, her random boyfriend didn't do anything to you, you're causing unneeded hurt to that guy. Plus if she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you. Who's the winner then?
/r/seduction04/12/12 01:49 AM
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DAMMIT I REALIZED I DID EVERYTHING RIGHT UNTIL THE ESCALATION RAMP. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. feels better now.
/r/seduction28/11/12 08:40 PM
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A subreddit dedicated to a bunch of naked men talking about showering, sounds delightful.
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:17 AM
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Nope, fuck that. Had a friend who completely told a story from a comedian, even lied about having a brother. I could've destroyed him soo many ways if I was a dick. That and he butchered the joke anyways.
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:55 AM
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This whole shower thing is completely off topic, however, I did just have my first cold shower and it was awesome! EDIT: Fuck my spelling
/r/seduction26/11/12 03:50 AM
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Lol, that's too good. Take what you can from it, two girls were obviously interested in you, one enough to take you home. So there's that. Just try not to do the whole screaming part, I feel like that's a bit of a mood killer.
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:50 PM
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Also, when you’re done eating, wash the dishes together: another way to make her wet This is gold. Although in all seriousness, thanks for this post. I've wanted to work on my cooking for a while now.
/r/seduction20/11/12 04:57 PM
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Like I said, it is really a small part of seduction. But that is, imo, the way to go about it.
/r/seduction14/11/12 07:07 PM
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There is some danger to that, due to the fact that then you'd be slowly slipping in line with other guys that have complimented the same thing. This is why you don't compliment often and keep them short, your words mean more, when their's (the other guys) don't. And due to this being one aspect to game, and a rather small one at that, you could screw up complimenting her in a variety of ways and still easily close in whichever way you want. Edit: answered my own question.
/r/seduction14/11/12 03:20 PM
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To answer your question
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:26 AM
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If you are going to compliment her, do so on something specific on her that you actually like. You do this for two reasons: 1) By complimenting her on something specific it becomes a compliment that sticks out in her head because it isn't generic (you're beautiful, or something along those lines.) Be specific, I love your smile, you should smile more. Or Your hair looks good up, you should do it more often 2) Also, by complimenting something you actually like will increase the chance that she wi…
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:22 AM
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I think I read about that somewhere in the paper..
/r/seduction09/11/12 08:19 PM
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