Getting noticed with Body language when speaking is impossible.

NSRAWBERRY · 2012-12-25T18:26:31+00:00

This is my problem as well. You don't seem to have any trouble addressing the shit tests, it's just that there's no game with no audible wit.

The advice below is pretty good, but let me add this to it: drink something stronger, earlier, at least a couple minutes before you hit that dancefloor, and then nothing else except water the rest of the night. By the time the alcohol has wormed its way through your system, you or your wings should have gotten a girl where you can pull her off into a quieter corner and your wit game should be back in full force.

Most of all though about the below advice:

You might get a few looks of like WTF is this guy doing, but when they see you out their not giving a flying fuck and just having fun, they will realize that this guy is having fun. One thing I noticed that works is bring a couple of girls with you. They don't have to be super hot or anything.but it just boosts your level of confidence.

Hope this gets you where you need to be.

do_u_liek_ButtSchexx · 2012-12-25T17:51:28+00:00

Yo say you can't get noticed? are you just sitting at the bar or are you out there on the dance floor dancing with all the ladies?

My advice, and take this with a grain of salt, is don't wait to be be noticed, make your self noticeable. Go out and start dancing on the floor with all the girls. I sure as hell can't dance, but when I get a bit of liquid courage in me, my feet don't stop moving.

You might get a few looks of like WTF is this guy doing, but when they see you out their not giving a flying fuck and just having fun, they will realize that this guy is having fun. One thing I noticed that works is bring a couple of girls with you. They don't have to be super hot or anything.but it just boosts your level of confidence. It works for me.

And if they say something along the lines of you're to short, just be like "good things come in small packages." To me it is more like a type of shit test, that they are throwing at you. By saying something like that, it will defuse them. It shows that you don't care about your height and you're confident in yourself. Make a joke about it too. be like "yeah i know, they have to give me a booster seat when I sit at the bar" or something like that.

My number one thing is just have fun, go out and dance and just enjoy your self. If you look stupid, who cares, you had fun doing it.

I hope this helps.

reativica · 2012-12-26T01:11:07+00:00

Its all about that body language. Walk with your big man pants on (Queue scene from, "The Other Guys.") Just have good posture, make sure you're not closing yourself off, make eye contact etc.

As well as this, it also depends on how much you want to be noticed; you can do more to attract more attention. idk just mess around with it until you gauge its the right amount of body language. Honestly, if you want to see someone who attracts the most amount of looks based on body language, and is short, look no further than lil wayne. He's like 5'6" yet he walks around and acts like he's 6'5." Despite what you think about his music, you cant deny that he thinks hes the shit and the entire bathroom. If you haven't any clue about how wayne's demeanor is, look up a single one of his music videos (mute if you need to), and enjoy the spectacle that is Lil Wayne.

Disclaimer: This is what I do, HOWEVER, I am tall. Although, if you think about peacocking (If you don't know what this is, look it up. It will most definitely help you gain attention.), its about extremes, about sticking out. This works in both extremes. Own the fact that you're short, and roll with it.

Good luck, and Merry Christmas to you!

Title	Getting noticed with Body language when speaking is impossible.
Author	SoloCypher
Upvotes	10
Comments	10
Date	December 25, 2012 7:18 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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