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Around 1500 cold approaches, 15 lays
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:01 PM
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There is an old school term called the secret society So essentially if you are in the secret society you get to have all kind of crazy sex and a lot of it. However, if you are not in the secret society, then you are the boyfriend material. You goal is to be in the secret society and kind of downgrade to being a boyfriend. It doesn't work backwards. If the guy is not gay, go for it. I be done it, read it in my post history, it's actually really fun.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:33 AM
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The FR seem very fast paced and chaotic, but this is was a span of 4 hrs. Even from Fakedoc7 told me she's Muslim to me re-engage Mayan 9 has a good 10 min in between. I prob spent close to 2 hrs with those 4 girls. I def should have locked in on some of the girls early on.
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:55 PM
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Watch magic Mike But it's body roll, run her hands from my chest, abs to my ass, chest poping, hip thrusting, knee in her thigh grinding, knee down and sniff from her crotch to her head.
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:08 PM
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I've been practicing game for 7 months hardcore now, it's all momentum. I'm usually pretty anxious naturally. The first set is just so fucking hard
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:35 PM
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I came with a buddy but live separately, we go daygame together a lot. but I'm usually solo in nightgame.
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:20 PM
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Just work on losing weight, 90% of the hlgiels have the base, just need to be not overweight, keep pushing and keep tracking your weight.
/r/seduction11/12/21 08:08 AM
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So I was thinking how to explain to guys how game works, and I came up this idea Guys judge girls by is she's good looking Girls judge guys by is he COOL Good looking does contribute a bit to be a cool guy, but it's way more than that.
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:23 PM
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Saw your edit, I agree on bettering your self everyday, I agree. But how did Kobe get good at shooting 3 pointers? By going to the gym? By watching videos? By meditation? Those helps yeah but the main one is he shot a lot of 3 pointers, a looooot. Also don't forget which sub we are in, this is not r/selfhelp
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:49 PM
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Honestly # are just like that, fucking exhausting, but even it 10% conversion rate, it's still worth the time though if you think about it. You'd go crazy if you do any form of high ticket sales if you only take the hot lead. After my first 2 months of game, I was getting flaked left and right, so I justvstopped taking numbers and go for same night pulls, it kinda worked but now I've restarted taking numbers and I noticed my results are much much better. Simply more leads to work with
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:17 AM
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This is what I've been following for the past 4 years, it lead me to no where. I've made 100x more progress in the last 4 months then I did in 4 years "focusing on myself" Seductiom is just a skill, skill needs to be honed, simple.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:50 AM
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Look up verbal, physical, and logistical escalation. I'm a big fan of Todd and Julien, but my style of game is very technical (Todd) and obnoxious (Julien), you can check them out if you want.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:15 AM
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I've gotten my small shares of girls getting too forward with me, it does trigger an alarm in my head. If a girl approach me, I know it's ON already, overtly stating it is not nessasry. Unfortunately I haven't banged a girl who approached me yet, something weird happens to my game when a girl is being too nice or too intentful, I lose the dominant frame.
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:23 PM
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Just jump around, make sure to extend your full body, gotta be more than everyone else.
/r/seduction14/11/21 05:06 AM
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She fucked up PickUpAlpha aswell, what a shame. Pickup is a dying art.i just hope Todd won't get cancelled.
/r/seduction13/11/21 09:00 PM
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So you don't have issue with flirting and getting the attraction, so you don't fall into the beginner category. You need technical game, shit you can use to move the interaction forward and closer to sex. Especially in night time venues.
/r/seduction13/11/21 08:56 PM
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Does the girl know you have a penis? Are you escalating the situation, verbal, physical, logistical? Are you closing the deal? Number, date, sex, etc. 3 monst common mistakes guys make.
/r/seduction13/11/21 08:47 PM
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I run most my nights dead sober, unless I got into a long convo with a girl then I'll grab 1 drink, or when others people offer me drinks. My exp are mostly clubs, where I just jump straight to the dance floor and dance like a dumbess for 15 min, same effect as having 3 drinks. Then you can go talk to girls.
/r/seduction13/11/21 08:40 PM
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I run night game sober, unless people offers me drinks. Read me FR in my post history, it's all about momentum.
/r/seduction12/11/21 08:38 PM
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What a shame, I'm starting a blog soon and I'll repost all my posts on reddit, I'll link it to you.
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:11 PM
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Well you do these to warm up, and then you start approaching. You can read up in my post history, I do them all the time and then crank out 15 proper approaches.
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:05 PM
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4 month of pickup You need action and feedback to fix your inner game. I tried to fix it without action for 4 years, I fixed it more in 2 months than I did in those 4 years.
/r/seduction11/11/21 08:44 PM
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Mostly do, pick up is played in the field. I did 700 approaches in 4 months, that's it, I write them down and analyze them and learn how I can do better, you can read about some of them in my reddit post history. I was a very awkward person before, I have a speech impediment as well, heavily bullied before middle school. If you have no issue talking to people unlike me, all you need is London Daygame Model. And practice that for the next 100 approaches. FYI, most advanced dating coaches with 100…
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:58 PM
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Please read through my post history if you want are interested in the journey of an Intermediated pickup artist, I'm in no ways a natural. I learned this stuff.
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:38 PM
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Tell the 7 dates I had this, most of my approaches are me chasing down the girl. I've scared the shit out of girls on the open multiple times, but I tell them exactly why I'm there, I have a calm and playful vibe, if you are stiff and seems like a serial killer, no matter how you approach it won't work.
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:18 PM
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100% agree, do not follow girls. Give yourself 3 sec, if you can't approach, let her go. When approaching in uncomfortable locations, always tell the girl exactly why you are there, and call out how bad the location is. This is called statement of empathy. Tbh all these encounters OP had are with cold approach hobbyist, someone with experience will never make a girl feel this way. So I'm sorry OP for you bad exp.
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:15 PM
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I don't buy it at all. You think Kobe got confident shooting 3 pointers by going to the gym? He got confident shooting 3 pointers by shooting them so much and landing them. I had the same problem for a long time, it was mostly resolved now by me going out doing night game consistently, the first month sucked. But as I get into state more often, I stopped giving a fuck, and girls would read my vibe and approach me, or I'd approach some smoking hot girls and they'd fucking love me, that was a majo…
/r/seduction11/11/21 06:42 PM
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Progressive desensitize yourself. Say hi to random dudes x5 Compliment random dudes x5 Tell random dudes a fucked up stories x5 Say hi to girls x5 Say hi and compliment girls x5 Now you are ready for an approach. I've been doing it for 4 months and some days I still need to do these warm ups.
/r/seduction11/11/21 05:58 PM
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Yeah man, so many peoole don't understand the grind. You should post your field reports.
/r/seduction11/11/21 05:50 PM
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OK no this is not a numbers game, it is because you suck, and I suck too. That's why its a numbers game, when somehow we didnt suck on the 20th approach of that day, we get result. Now you need structure, london daygame model will change everything, go read it up. It's the core of my game now.
/r/seduction11/11/21 06:24 AM
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Let's do a thought exercise, because you don't have the resources to implement techniques. Imagine a version of you, but he is 10/10, whatever that means to you. What would he do in every step of the situation? Then just do that. It will be scary.
/r/seduction11/11/21 03:32 AM
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It's more about learning the skill than actually tryna get laid. I have a very obsessive personality, learning pickup is #1 priority now over everything else. I make enough money to survive and I own nothing.
/r/seduction11/11/21 03:24 AM
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But it works. I've never practiced any lines, if I can't say it right I won't say that line. I use the intent lines on pretty much every set that hooks, it really kick start the escalation process. You have your mind pretty fixed on not following game, so I won't try to convince you. It does seem you are still in the beginner stage dealing with approaching and AA, based on your post history. If you are getting the result you like, keep doing what you doing. We all take different paths to the mou…
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:58 PM
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I get what youre saying but its cringy Hook up a mic to a natural friend of yours, and listen to their convo with girls, it's very cringy. Think about it, 2 logical human being communicating with emotions that haven't evolved for 10,000 years. That shit is cringy by nature. It's cringy because you are using your logical brain to understand the emotional brain What would you say when she asks you what do you mean by that? If she asks that, then you said it wrong, I haven't had that happen yet. Un…
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:44 PM
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Yup that's completely normal, and well documented in the PUA community. From Beginner to Intermediate you should run more "Be your self" game, because your subcomm is very off and it comes as fake when you use these tactics. Once you are in the Intermediate range, you need to start incorporating these techniques, but these techniques will not work without a personality, which is what you've developed from beginner to intermediate. My most used line is the push/pull intent line. So we'll have a c…
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:35 PM
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90% of rhese guys commenting have less than 50 approaches. Just field test it on your next 100. My personal input is it can work, an opener is just something you say to grab attention.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:40 PM
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It doesn't seem you have a lot of exp, push/pull is the foundation of good verbal game. Pickup techniques works, watch any naturals talk you will start to identify those. Even though they've never studies pickup.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:18 PM
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At least you are practing push/pull on reddit, and getting better at typing, so props to you.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:05 PM
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Well it was supposed to be just 2, and my wing is quite advanced and he is having fun so we kept on going. I don't usualy do these long days, it's exhausting.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:03 PM
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I'm even more cringy in real life daddy.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:02 PM
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Actually most of the time I use them it actually works, but there has to be a purpose, I'm just using them to try to get attention, the sub comm was prob needy af. My intent lines are all push/pulls, before tonight it worked wonder.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:57 PM
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I wanna learn cold approaching, night game and day game, and I can say that I'm just starting it. Online Dating doesn't exist to me. Next weekend I will try both night game and day game. Unsure of how you do with women, A very social person should take a very different route compares to a awkward nerd, I came from the awkward nerd side, FYI. Again read my previous post to set yourself a realistic expectation. Let's call them Curly and Blondy If you are gonna go to the cold approaching route, the…
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:42 PM
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Stop doing and learning things for women, Learn things that interest YOU. Do what YOU want to do. You’ll attract women naturally. I was refering to this, this advice will make you feel good, but you may or may not get more women in your life, probably not if you don't have the skill sets. You sound like a classic logical STEM person, I am too! So lets break this down logically. Can't someone with more experience than me show me a better way? More experience in what? cold approaching, this is the…
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:59 PM
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It's social proof, good job on having a 9 in your life that would do that for you. I had this 2-set like me so much but the hotter one has a bf, so I just introduced them to another group of girls and pivoted from there, they automatically assume I'm a high value guy because there are already girls around me.
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:10 AM
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The advice is good advice if your goal is to be happy in life. It may or may not involve women. If you want to get the women stuff handled, you need to go out of your way and practice. You didnt go out of your way to learn abstract math for yourself right? You learned it because it opened more doors for you and those doors lead to happiness. This is the problem with dating advice nowadays, it's makes you feel good instead of slapping your face and tell you the truth. Are you good with girls natu…
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:04 PM
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That's why most PUAs are very narcissistic, and most billionaires are not very attractive because they are humble. How funny is that. I'm considerably more narcissistic than a few months ago, and it feels fucking goooood.
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:17 AM
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Just watched the video, that accent dam! But that is NOT how I approach, no body should do that. This main stream pick up idea of just walk up and ask for number is fucking stupid. At least strike up a convo with the girl, let her have a feeler of your personality, from the outside it should look like 2 people just having a fun conversation. There are structures you can follow to make the "striking up" less stressful for the girl, because everyone has a stranger-phobia. they also have things you…
/r/seduction04/11/21 10:27 PM
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Do not give up, record yourself, keep learning and implementing. If you are in North America don't follow EU coaches, and vise versa, because your need more value in your sets in NA where EU it's more comfort as it seems. ​ Ways to track your progression assuming day game: are your sets getting longer and longer, aim for 10min for # close? Are more girls qualifying? are more girls receptive when you seed for the date? Are more girls texting you back? are you instadating girls? getting more dates…
/r/seduction04/11/21 10:11 PM
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It sounds like you have this idea pretty ironed in your mind What you do is perfectly fine and it's a decent way to meet women. But please stop discouraging other people from cold approaching, because you don't know what you are talking about regarding it. Every point you make in your arguments are elementary level PUA myth. Or keep discouraging people, less competition for us.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:55 PM
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you go up to a complete stranger with NO interest shown on her part (hence "cold"), lay out a stupid insincere line on her, beg for a phone number, run away if you get it Yeah no that is not how proper cold approaching is done, what you are describing is mostly done as pranks or challenges. Open - Hook - Evaluation - Comfort - Close, you are basically skipping 3 crucial steps. It should look and feel the same as what you are describing in a social situation. No wonder you dislike cold approachin…
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:53 PM
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Congrats man, Todd V talked about it, anything related to leadership is great, starting a hobby club, start a side hustle. Get a sales job. Acting and public speaking aswell to improve communication.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:56 PM
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Sorry I meant Van, Mtl and Toronto are the only 3 major city. Do you travel within Canada?
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:43 PM
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How is it begging? in a mall perhaps or out on a busy street, going up to every woman in sight, and basically begging for sex. "Hi, you're cute, can I sleep with you get your number?" Don't know where you got that info from but that is not how cold approaching works at all. Have you read the post OP is mentioning? Because I wrote it, and in no way am I just straight up asking for number. This is literally to be considered the worst practice. make some smiles, chit-chat begins, feel out her situa…
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:41 PM
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You are a natural based on your other moments, so your advice won't apply to us. If someone is born rich, he won't understand why people can't afford a brand new car.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:15 AM
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It's technically still cold approach but we are drifting to the warm approach realm. My second lay basically gamed me after the dj shouted out my name which built massive social proof. But I couldn't have fucked her if I didn't escalate, built comfort, pull, etc.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:04 AM
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Acting, public speaking, sales are all good ways to learn game without the grind But the process is the same, also required the grind. However, game is very fun, and money is not an issue for me, and immersion is the best way to learn any skill, and I get to party like mad. Most people will just focus on this other thing and forget about game entirely.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:00 AM
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I'm the guy OP is referring. I had no lays until I hit 380. All I did was running up to girls and tell them they are cute, and dry stack the set, asking for number when I run out of things to say. Well it worked wonder :( From 400 or so I started seeing patterns and implementing what I was learning from YouTube. At around 550 is where I can very comfortably hook most sets on the street, but I had one major sticking point which was I wasn't number closing, for some reason I had this pull or nothi…
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:42 AM
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Are you a natural, if you had good success before then keep doing what you doing. Otherwise learn game asap. One big thing is show intern covertly. I like you you cute is a very low value way of showing intent. You can still be direct while not overtly stating things. My first 400 some approaches were all dirext you cute I had to meet you. I get blown out left and right. Now I give the girl some time to learn my value before showing intent, and even then it's very subtle.
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:23 AM
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If you thinks looks is all girls care you are missing 95% of your shots. As the only other guy mentioned, learn game, learn what makes a girl attracted. Here is the secret, attraction is not a choice.
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:20 AM
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I'm a digital nomad ish aswell, also Canadian. There's only 3 cities in Canada. I'm assuming u travel all over North and South America?
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:15 AM
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You mean for the rest of the year? Pff keep going, prob gonna hit 1k by new year. But I'm slowing the numbers down as I'm working each set harder now.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:26 PM
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Gonna write as much FRs as I can and compile them into a book. Imagine reading them when I'm old: "Fuck I can't believe the shit I did when I was younger"
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:25 PM
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Yeah the major problem is state, Once I'm in the flow state, I don't have enough computing power in my brain to monitor my speech, that's why practicing is so important to counter the bad habits with good ones. Self-monitoring put you out of state real fast and then I'm back to this stifled little boy. I'd love to connect with you, would you mind connecting over DM? Thanks!
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:20 PM
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yeah 4 a week is not gonna cut it unless you are a natural.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:13 PM
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Every coach teaches the same shit now aways, as long as he doesn't preaches be yourself, or be natural, he's good. Read mystery method if you want, that's where the modern technical game is from, but it's too technical sometimes.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:09 PM
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mouth excercises, to train up the muscles. Breathing exercise to help remove tension. talk in front of the mirror to remove any unwanted flinching which is also caused by tension
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:08 PM
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your height being 5'7 is no issue at all, Todd V, Jesse and a bunch of other coaches are all short, I don't understand this height being the only determining factor coming from. I heard guys say if you are 6'4 then girls will be all over you, like wtf? It matters of course but prob around less than 5%. My 6'2 good looking wing get blown out left and right in a club. If you walk and talk like you are 7', you are 7' in the girl's emotion.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:06 PM
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Too bad I'm not in NYC, I'd love to visit though if visa doesn't take a year wait time
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:45 PM
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Yes I've seeked professional help, it boils down to habit, If I monitor my breathing, stand in front of a mirror watching my mouth, completely relaxed, I can talk for hours without mumble and stutter. It's a beta male trait to talk fast, because subconsciously I think I'm taking up peoples time, which result tension in my body and mumbling, tension causes stuttering. I can see major improvement after doing some drills at home for a week, but it's hard to stay consistent with the training. I got …
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:40 PM
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Very interesting, how were you before game? Were you quite a social dude before? 25 lays from 200 approaches is insane, this is the kinda result I imagine a super advanced guy would get. I'd like to learn more details about you.
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:23 PM
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you lead with attraction, and at some point you should get to know the each other and tone town the interaction. Value - Comfort are both important to sleep with a girl.
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:56 PM
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read erik everhard's book, and sex god method. first one is outergame, second one is more innergame. And buy a magic wand, that shit fixes your performance problem.
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:18 PM
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Yup!!! My tonality is pretty good, very dominant in sets. However, I'm very reactive, I have the dancing monkey syndrome, it's getting better now compares to a month ago.
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:11 PM
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If you read them I miss out on a lot of good sets that had the potential to go somewhere. But I keep on cockblocking myself, entitlement issues. I give myself assignments now before I go out to practice these specific thing, only been doing that for a few weeks though. I knew all about the structure of game, just need to properly implement them. I'm not too concerned about the results atm because there are way too many holes in my game, both inner and outer game, once I patched those up I'll be …
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:57 PM
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Shhhh, don't advertise the private group man. I'm farming karma :).
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:02 PM
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It's called disqualifying when someone talk shit to you, me and 5_7pickup are buddies.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:49 PM
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If you have a way to practice these skills, like sales, public speaking, acting, etc. It would also be good, but it prob won't take less time to acquire the skill set. Advanced pickup artists all have 10k+ approaches. And guess what? It's very fun, very, very fun.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:43 PM
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2 recurring, 3rd one is from out of town. All 3 left me 5 star review though :), for how good the sex was.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:32 PM
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Thank you dude, people love nit picking words.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:31 PM
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Chill down guys, it's called passing a shit test :)
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:16 PM
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You are referring to a different guy, he's 27 I'm 24. I have mad repect for him, 0 respect for you though.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:15 PM
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We are both losers
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:08 AM
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You are referring to 5_7pickup right? We are not the same person. We both post a lot of FRs though. We both East Asian too :) I still have a long way to go, but the only way forward is keep going.
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:05 AM
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read the rules of the sub first before you comment.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:55 AM
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yup, you know what's up, most of the early sets are very short, 3-5 min, or 30 sec blowouts. Once I started running longer sets it's when things started to improve.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:34 AM
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TL;DR: approached, got laid.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:17 AM
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Yes, the most powerful word in verbal game is WE.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:32 AM
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I'm intrigued by you -> You are interesting -> I kinda like you but not sure -> I think I like you now I -> you -> we. these are the 2 main verbal escalation process I follow, you can use it together aswell. Note: some of these verbal escalations can happen within seconds. Example: "I was just waiting for a friend, but you are very intriguing me with this ${observation}, but something about you makes me feel we are never gonna get along." You see how it went from I to you to we in 1 statement? Y…
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:52 PM
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Turn off your filters, say whatever thing you notice about the girl. Even it can be offensive, you can get away with way more than you think by being playful. Keep escalating the conversation, dont stay flat the whole time Keep notes of lines you come up with, the odds are you are gonna say the same stuff a lot of the time, why not just write it down and use it when you are not smooth this one day. Take pauses and let the girl talk too, like pause for 2 sec after each statement.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:44 PM
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I don't number close girls who I think it's pullable.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:47 AM
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Nah it's always bad to not pick a target. I'm above average in the dancing category. You handshake spin the girl, and bring both your hands above your own head and land her arm on your neck. hard to verbalize.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:20 AM
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Perfectly fitted Suit, no tie, undo the top 2 buttons, dress boot, pimpy pocket squares. This is called peacocking, I don't recommend it to a total newbie, the amount of attention I'm getting is too much even for me out of state.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:18 AM
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Go through Todd V daygame program, it's about 10 hours, and then watch them again but this time watch one video and do everything in the video in the field. For a ex-chode like me, it's gonna take years to master everything.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:15 AM
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I'll write up a 4 month review of me in game tomorrow. I'll post everything about me there.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:12 AM
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I used to shuffle dance when I was younger and go to a lot of raves. Most of the time I'm just doing crazy shit, I'm at best an amateur dancer.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:12 PM
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It's a field report of my night out.
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:28 PM
2

This guy is something.
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:39 PM
1

thanks man! Keep plowing!
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:39 PM
1

Pff, it's a really high end club in town, you can't get in unless you on the guest list, even the girls has to pay if they only has reservation.
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:38 PM
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Todd V once showed a infield of a girl said something quite offensive, he just drop everything and stared the girl dead in the eyes for like a good 5 sec. Then the girl broke and apologized. There are 2 ways to pass shit tests, with value or with comfort. Her:"you are ugly" Pass with value "Yeah I know, makes me more obtainable" low energy set "Yeah my mom didn't fuck my dad right" high enery set "Pff I also have a tiny dick too" high energy set Pass with comfort "You know, objectively I conside…
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:40 AM
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I've been going out solo quite consistently now read my last field report on my profile, its a solo nigjtgame pull. It's hard, just got back from anothee solo club night, didn't pull or even make out, lots of good opens though, then I had a massive stomachache so I left. One great thing about solo night club is you are incharge of your night.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:18 AM
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Do this for a bit, if you are natural this should all you need to start getting result. Otherwise if you are like me, you should start learning structured game, highly recommend Todd V. He was my foundation, and now I've added in Julien and Jeffy into my vibe. A few of my buddies swears by Todd V, it just make sense without all the voodoo sell help bullshit
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:14 PM
2

Canned lines are useful but its not what pickup is focused on. Learn the techniques with enable you to build reference experiences which in turn will reshape your inner game and basic social skills. Take push/pulls for example, if you are a boring person and incorporate it in your convo, you will learn girls love it. Then your brain will think hmm me being light hearted and not afraid to give compliment and negative comments is a good thing! Then you can naturally do a push/pull without thinking…
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:33 AM
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going out consistently and writing field report to analyze is the best way to improve. A lot of advanced guys swears by writing field reports, that's why you have RSDJeffy who has 3000+ reports.
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:33 AM
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Great job man, I'm so jealous you got your first lay so quickly, took a lot of us hundreds of approaches to get that. This sub is very anti field report, keep posting though, you will find like minded people who truly take actions.
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:55 AM
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You just discovered what us hard-core pickup guys called a "flow state". It's a state where you gives 0 fucks, words flow from your mouth without thinking, you are so confident, witty and flirtatious. People who hates on you are just jealous that you even have the balls to do it.
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:49 AM
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Attraction is not a choice - Todd V
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:44 PM
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If you are making out then the next logical step is building some comfort and logistically escalate. Get to know her a bit and sprinkle in some teases to keep it light hearted, and baby step her to your place. casually mention you are going for some drink somewhere else later, and not making big deal out of it during the convo, this is called seeding the pull. Hey come outside for a fresh breath of air/too loud here etc, And LEAD! let's go grab a bite/drink somewhere else, and LEAD!!!!, just wal…
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:53 PM
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I just text "Sup girl", she knows why you are texting, and just back and forth a bit. DO NOT confirm it like an appointment.
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:10 PM
1

3 biggest mistakes guys make with women per Todd V Not escalating 30min convo going nowhere Not closing How many did you make?
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:05 PM
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Good fucking job my man, this is how I started, fuck all these people hating on you. You are gonna become a god a year later. Remember the 6 months rule. I can already see it 4 months in.
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:00 PM
3

Because a year later he's gonna slay it.
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:48 PM
1

Look up Todd V value and comfort model, it literally explains every single male female strange behavior. It's my foundation of game.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:56 PM
2

Did you see the word beginner?
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:51 PM
3

Did you see the word beginner?
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:51 PM
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You need to get that idea out of your head asap, or stop saying it to other people because of your limited belief.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:50 PM
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which exactly why it's so dangerous, nobody wants to be told you need to become more narcissistic and sociopathic, but guess what? For a nerd, it's the best way. But people love hearing the fluff and all the "be yourself". Don't get me wrong, looks DO matter, do dress well, do work out, but people spend 100% of the time worrying about that and have the most boring convo with a girl who finds him hot for 30 sec and lost interest. I'm very well dressed, but I can't even count how many times a girl…
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:09 AM
11

Tons of free resources online, pickup can be taught in days, but to implement takes a loooooong time.
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:12 PM
4

Thanks man. It was a very insightful night seeing everything from the girls perspective. Now I understand why girls are so grumpy sometimes. I'm def more comfortable now with opening girl in a more chaotic environment. Still, a long way to go though, but overall very happy with the night.
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:05 AM
2

I'm way worse than that daddy.
/r/seduction23/10/21 01:05 AM
1

hard to explain, youtube it. It's like a handshake on steroids.
/r/seduction22/10/21 07:07 PM
0

Of course daddy.
/r/seduction22/10/21 07:06 PM
1

standard back stop.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:32 PM
3

Shhhh, keep the competition low.
/r/seduction21/10/21 12:58 AM
1

Yeah people don't understand, these kinda set happens all the time, literally had to plow 5 min straight on Sat with this French girl who acts just like these 2 girls in the vid, and then she complied one my frame is established.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:41 PM
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See people just wanna talk shit about him here cuz most guys on this sub want to hear "be you self". Game is cringy by nature, literally I cringe on my own infield lol. But guess what, it works.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:39 PM
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John Anthony teaches the same stuff Todd teaches. But the dude keeps talking shit about everybody. Alex dislike Todd but he also doesn't make sense sometimes, his stuff is very good though. Honestly as long as the coach teaches actional stuff instead of the "be your self" gurus, they are all fine.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:26 AM
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Do you think Todd's stuff is valuable to you game? My fundation is literally Todd and now topped with Jeffy. As an ex marketer, I'm OK with Todd even if those are fake, because his stuff works. Although I don't think the in field is fake, James tusk recently said they bough a super discrete camera and they are filming much closer now. Maybe the camera man joined as a wing later who knows.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:22 AM
0

Flirting is extremely fun once you get a hang of it.
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:26 AM
1

Most people on YT actually teach guys to grab a shit ton of numbers and stay in 1 set for the pull afterward, I'm so traumatized from my beginner daygame days where I get 10 numbers and they are all ghosts, I don't even close most of my sets unless it's a long set, which I know is very bad. Speaking of which, you just reminded me I should get back to my old habit to run the chill night game sets like daygame, because I did have a few dates out of it. The high energy sets just fucks my brain up c…
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:29 AM
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I tried to lead them to my place but it failed, but yeah I should have seeded the pull, win the group over more. and isolated. Totally my fault and now I'm salty my wing is gonna bang my girl. Can't pull the set if I'm not in set you know.
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:35 PM
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I agree, as someone who is socially retarded before learning game, daygame def helped. I still recommend getting into nightgame as soon as possible, you learn to deal with chaos and bullshit in nightgame. And how to show intent without verbals.
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:47 PM
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Classic example on how to pass a shit test.
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:43 PM
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There is a reason why a lot of pua are very narcissist, it's a process you have to take become a high value man. After going out consistently for 3 months, I am a full narcissist now too, but my open to hook rate is also so much higher, because the sub communication changes when you think like that.
/r/seduction16/10/21 06:09 PM
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Read through my comment again, I mentioned in the second part everyone is wearing a mask. See the reason why Brad Pitt can say hi so confidently is becausd he knows he's high value and hes the shit. And girls can pick up on that even if he was wearing a mask, see what I mean? It's the way you carry yourself, now game is designed so an average guy can skip the process of becoming rich and famous and still have that kinda vibe. It's hard, but not as hard as becoming rich and famous. A good convo I…
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:45 AM
2

It's gonna sound very voo-doo but it's all in your vibe. Think about how Brad Pitt would say hi to a girl, and compare that to homeless guy. Girls cream their pants from the first hi because it's Brad Pitt, and the vibe is:"yo I'm the shit and you are so lucky I said hi to you", where as the second one is :"pleas, please please look at me and I beg your attention". Now think everyone wear their mask, and you hear this guy's hi is so confident and non needy, what does that convey this guy to you?…
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:10 AM
1

Not uncommon in night game for guys to get approaches if you are radienting value. I don't find it good beside a ego boost, my game is still very structured where I feel more at ease approaching girls, girls sucks at approaching. This chick tapped on my shoulder while I was going nuts on the dance floor and tries to show me squid game on her phone like wtf smh. No I cannot link this account with my identity cuz I post a lot of field reports. The key is my vibe and being very well put together. T…
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:56 AM
1

You know how some guy are skinny and their body language is kinda awkward? It's a very feminine and insecure kinda body language hard to verbalize. Then you get for example Julien Blanc who is also not big but his body language is very open and confident. You face is not a problem if doesn't have missing parts or disfigured. Again get a heir cut, dress up with fitting clothes. Work out in the mean time because it does help knowing you are fit and healthy. Start learning game asap. You can't do s…
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:40 AM
1

Is it bad? As long as you are average it's fine, just overhaul your style and improve everything as much as you can. Dm me if you want.
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:23 AM
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I strongly advocate in non-naturals to formally study game. Why? Because you learn what a truly attractive men is like. If you are making friends with hot girls but not fucking them, it's your escalation or too much comfort not enough value. I strongly recommend you not relying on information on this sub though including mine, as the majority here are anti pick up and anti cold approaching. You have no idea which one is the guy that gets laid and which one is the keyboard worrior.
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:05 AM
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I'm bulking and building muscles right now too, raw physique only accounts for some, however, as you get bigger, your body language and mindset can also shift, which makes you more attractive, which I think a lot people fail to realize. Haircut, clothing style and your facial care is also very important. Take Chris Hemsworth for example, pbotoship him off 20 lbs of muscle, it's still good looking, but now add a bunch of pimples and messy hair and poorly fitted clothing, you get my point. However…
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:32 AM
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Triggering flashback on my first daygame date. French Mexican girl was so hot on the approach, instadated and had a date planned the next day. Show up to the date, she was curled up outside of a church using the wall plug to charge her phone, dressed like a homeless 14 yo boy. I literally walk passed her twice without recognizing her. The entire date was me trying to picture her in bikini so I can trick myself into flirting with her, I can't. I'm literally staring at her sweat pants with holes a…
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:46 AM
1

I mean think about it, half of the pop are female, 20% is in the right age group, and you find 30% of them cute. 55000 * 0.5 * 0.2 * 0.3. You have 1650 girls to approach. The number keeps going down when you shrink your radius. You are gonna run into a lot of the same girls, it's a major problem if you are a beginner because you are gonna have a ton of bad sets. If you are advanced then it's not a big problem, but you need 10k approaches to go near that level.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:26 AM
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55k pop is not enough, you need to move or you are fighting an uphill battle. Yeah like those Hitachi Magic Wand.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:57 AM
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There is no difference in UK to the US game wise. Do you live in a big city though? Your city need to have at least 1mil population to learn cold approaching, once you are good at it then it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:01 AM
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I think there is a misconception with UK, I have a friend that games in Manchester and London, he is slaying it. And yes, when in doubt, whack that badboy out! Don't forget to charge it up lol.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:25 AM
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What tips do you have for getting “everyone to love you” at the clubs? I literally am the craziest guy on the dance floor, when you dance like no tomorrow, people will love you. I say hi to the DJs and be as supportive as possible and yell their names and be the biggest fan of them. Also say hi to the bouncers and say goodthing and thanking them for being there, etc. The key is to bring a lot of positive vibe. any advice on the approach, breaking ice and escalating? I find night game approaching…
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:15 AM
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I think most of them have low to mid hundreds of lays. With approx 20k approaches. This is guys like Julien, Todd, squattincassanova, etc.
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:28 PM
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For a natural or someone with already decent social skills, it can come pretty quick. Todd V mentioned you can track your approaches for daygame but nightgame you should just approach everyone and be social and count that as one whole night. If you arec like me, ex nerd with bad subcommunitmcations and is learning game and cold approaching together, expect 400 approaches based on James Tusk and Squattincassanova. I got my first lay at 380. 7 approaches in a week? If you are already good with wom…
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:19 PM
2

The thing is, if you are fat, or super skinny, the ROI for going to the gym so you are at a "Normal" physique is very good. But from a normal decent looking dude to a male model physique, I haven't seen a major improvement based on my observations from a few super-fit friends. Going to the gym and getting in shape is only 1 piece of the puzzle in your looks, I highly believe in dressing well, good hairstyle, and in fact, I am usually the most well-dressed man in the whole goddam street. The peop…
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:31 PM
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Maybe go to a 3rd world country? Much cheaper.
/r/seduction06/10/21 07:06 AM
2

And why are you on this sub than? It's proven good looking is important, but not nearly as important as you think. Unless you already have game paired with looks. Why do people always get hung up with 450 approach and yet nobody actually goes out.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:49 AM
1

Dude what? Is this tested?
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:38 AM
1

If you look like shit going to the gum helps, but if you look average, the small % gain over raw flirting skills is not worth it. My male model friend banged 2 girls in 3 months doing daygame, and he has 1 year of experience. Why? Because he doesn't believe in game. He only believes in be you self and approach. When we go out I dress up like Asian James bond and I get way more girls approaching me than him aswell.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:36 AM
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How did you ask them out? I Have 1 lay from 500 some approaches but I could have slept with so many more if it wasn't for ogistics. So many dates and so many nightgamr near pulls. Are you building the attraction?
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:24 AM
1

I'm the suit guy, I would wear full suit in a trash bar. Peacocking at its finest.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:21 AM
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Are you fit? If not bulk or cut. How is your style? A good modern hair cut, and dress up with FITTED clothing. Do you have good teeth? Invest in braces right now, it will change your life in 2 years After these you should be considered decent looking. While you work on these, start talking to more girls.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:19 AM
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My style is totally cocky funny, and I have the same problem. Sometimes my lines land and you can see the attraction spikes. The thing I learned from Julien is the statement of empathy, when my lines backfires I would actually apologize. Still not great game though but I hope it bring out some insights for you as an intermediate.
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:13 AM
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Yeah a hundred in 2 months is not gonna get you anywhere, aim for 15 approaches per session 3 times a week. More if you can, the reason is you need to do a few shit sets to warm up. Use london daygame model if you have no idea what to say, it's a very power framework. Beginners need structures.
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:07 AM
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Based on squatincassanova(pickupalpha) and James tusk, it takes around 400 approaches for you first lay. I got mine at 380. It's a process of continuous improving and testing. Ps: To haters: fuck you, do you even cold approach bro!
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:04 AM
1

I'm interested to know how you were able to get girls to come straight to you place on first date? No dating coach ever talks about that.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:48 PM
1

Yeah this is very interesting. I've been looking for strats on how to do daygame more often with higher target demographics density. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction27/09/21 07:10 PM
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Yeah looking at your two talking I feel like I'm doing daygame all wrong, notwonder my results are shit. If I'm getting 10% number close then someone with better game should in theory be getting 30%? A.G Hayden on youtube claimed to have 50% number close on this sub. I mean if I really try to plow my sets I could get a higher conversion. I'm just researching about campus game and now grocery store game. Because it seems like the concentration of girls is much higher. The best I did was 15 approa…
/r/seduction27/09/21 06:29 PM
1

Wow this is insane, 15 approaches with 10 numbers? I'm 3 months in with 500+ approaches in this biz and all my day games sets are on the main streets. My number close rate is 10%. And my structure is pretty much the same as you on a different comment. I know number means shit the approach has to be good but Is it common for you to get 66% number close rate?
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:13 PM
1

Refer to the guy above who is in his 40s, You know exactly what to do to be more attractive. What have you tried to meet woman?
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:28 AM
1

Actually most dudes are super cool when you socialize with them and just shoot the shit. I wear a perfectly tailored suit, no ties and a pimps pocket square. That night was on the street. I couldn't make anything happen because my game still sucks ass and poor logistics. I cant send you picks but think Asian James Bond :))). So many people also come up to me compliment me too.
/r/seduction26/09/21 01:29 AM
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Yeah, well as a beginner I'm taking whatever I can get, makeout, free drinks, etc. I have a regular girl now so not nearly as needy for sex as a month ago. But you got good points, I def need to work on those
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:13 AM
2

I have. I know the basics of pulling. Just didn't expect it to happen so quick and a lot of covid shit is ruining logistics. Bars close down at 1.30 can you imagine that shit?
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:01 AM
2

I fucking tried every line on the pull. My first pull what you expect right? I'm gonna start leading more. Just call the uber and lead her smh.
/r/seduction25/09/21 12:59 AM
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just shoot the shit with everyone, I even roam the main street at night solo. It's scary but just talk to dudes first to get into the social state and then do your approaches. Do dress well though, had 3 girls approach me in the same night because I was solo "easy target" and the best-dressed man on the whole street.
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:51 PM
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2.5 months is totally a beginner, I think anyone with less than 30 lays from cold approaches is to be considered a beginner. I have soooo many holes in my game, I struggle with building comfort. Which is what 90% of what game is right? I'm just telling OP what worked for me, what my exp and a few of the others guys I talk to that went from total newbie to getting laid. Too many people in this sub don't even go out and just talk shit about other people. I thought my results were trash cuz 380 is …
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:46 PM
1

Are you attractive though? I mean don't get me wrong you travel that's awesome, but men view looks way more than woman. Once the loo bar is met, then comes personality. And if you are not it's so easy to be attractive for a girl.
/r/seduction23/09/21 04:07 PM
2

You need a model dude, beginners need structured game. Todd V daygame model or london daygame model or whatever proven model. Or just say, we should grab a drink sometimes. If the girl is into you she offer her number, if not you ask, how do I get a hold of you.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:55 PM
0

I know about pickup since simple pickup, just never took action till 2.5 months ago. I still have a lot to learn, but I'm slowly checking things from my bucketlist. From getting numbers, instadates, dates, skipping on the street holding hands lol. To night game makeouts, Amoging other dudes, daygame pull, plowing through harsh rejections. At this point sex is just a bonus, Game is so fucking fun. Still need to learn how to do night game pulls properly though, fuck when I'm in the moment falling …
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:51 PM
1

Fuck all the woke shit, you need techniques. Look up stacking, basically you stack the girl by making observations about her and associate thing from that, be ready to do this for 1 minute straight, can you monolog for 1 minute under pressure? It feels like an hour. You need to carry 90% of the convo in the beginning until she actually starts to contributes. Which is the hook point. This works for non sexual encounters with strangers as well. Practice this and your inner game will follow natural…
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:33 PM
10

What steps are you taking to be more attractive? And to meet woman?
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:11 PM
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Dig through my post, you can see the progression, but I post a lot of my FRs in an exclusive sub reddit though. I prob should start a blog about my journey, improved a lot in the last 2.5 months, from an awkward shy boy to a man.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:08 PM
1

Oh yeah if you remove blowouts, warm ups, out of state approaches of course you get high conversion rate.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:06 PM
1

Totally possible, but not common. Need bigger data pool to be statistical relevance.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:03 PM
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I'm assuming 10-20% conversion means from approach to sex. It's just not possible. How many cold approaches have you done? A friend of mine did 2 approaches and banged one girl, yeah that's 50% but then the next 100 approaches all went nowhere. You are just putting out very basic advice, of course I'm building rapport, making a connection smh. I doubt you go out much, I roam this sub for a few months now, very grateful to meet a few people that go out and hone their skills, it also taught me how…
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:08 PM
1

Find me a single person on planet earth that is getting 10% conversion on cold approaching, unless it's celebrities, which in that case they are doing warm approaches. Honestly man if you even go out you won't say things like this. link me your field reports or infields.
/r/seduction22/09/21 05:49 PM
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If you have decent social skills, just have a conversation with the girls, make sure she knows you have a penis. Keep moving the conversation forward. And at some point suggest a date. If the naturals way doesn't cut it for you, you will need to get deep and technical and do it the proper gamey style. As far as the odds goes, if you are good I heard it's about 4%? The average first lay for beginners from cold approaching is 400, I got mine at 380
/r/seduction22/09/21 04:19 PM
3

Good for you bud, these spontaneous approaches are the best. I still have to do sessions otherwise my AA is still quite bad.
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:01 PM
6

I won a amog war against 2 super good looking dudes last weekend. Obviously I'm also relatively good looking and the most well dressed guy in the venue. All I did was basic push/pulls and pseudo friend zone the girl, those 2 poor dudes jumped in and started qualifying to the girl. You can just see her having the ewww moment. My game is pretty bad still but looks alone is nothing. However, looks + game is where it's at.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:42 AM
-8

Yeah no, just fuck someone already, virginity is nothing special. Once that's out of the way you can start looking for someone truly special.
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:19 PM
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Yeah you sound like you've brain washed yourself, we are humans, we are suppose to crave sex. If you are not getting any, you need to do something to get it.
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:18 PM
4

Do you have facial diafigures or is it just pimps and back skin? Nobody is ugly
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:16 PM
4

Alright how about Brat Pitt hitting on you then? Leo Dicap? Chris Evans? Or whatever you celeb crush. I'm sorry you never got approached properly, it takes a man thousands of approaches to get good at it. You are prob the one in the pre "thousands" pile.
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:00 PM
1

Like in bars and clubs? Or during normal day time? If it's at bars and clubs, you need to up your makeup skills. If it's during the day, then there not enough pickup artist in your town. If you want to boost your self esteem, try tinder.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:52 AM
40

Ohh I'm so stealing it, Smirky face: 0 right now, 1 tomorrow morning.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:39 AM
3

Dude you are dime in a dozen, it's unbelievable how fast you are progressing. I don't know a single person who can beat your consistency, good job my man. Now go restock your condoms.
/r/seduction14/09/21 11:33 PM
1

Dude I'm literally talking to my buddy right now from Mancheste, he's been doing daygame there for about 10 months. UK is not the problem, it's the size of city.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:45 PM
1

You fucked if you don't move, I spent 8 years during my high-school and post secondary years in a 250k city, i wish I moved earlier. I'm having the best time of my life right now.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:15 AM
1

But hoe many of us have that courage out of state to do an approach? I can crank 20 persession with proper warm up, I gotta really push myself to do spontaneous approaches. Guess this is the difference between 500 vs 5000 approach counts.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:00 AM
1

If you are good yes, if you are still learning no. Ie you can spam approach in vegas all year long without issues, but if you do it in a 20k population town you'd be in the spot light pretty quickly. Check out this video, the 4 keys are super spot on in getting good with this, the population being #2, jump to 9:17 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omerlUjuuYQ&ab_channel=PickupAlpha I'm at 500 approaches in 2.5 months, still not getting laid consistently, but I have and I'm getting pretty consisten…
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:14 PM
3

Tell me anyone with 12% conversion rate, I'll buy anything he sells.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:38 AM
2

I agree, 3 is the minimum, for daygame, night game you should be aiming for 15 at least.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:35 AM
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If the attraction is sooo high then shouldn't have a prob with number though.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:07 AM
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Yeah fuck what if you are both in set doing 2 or 3 sets? Me and my wing both forgot our girls name after 45 min lol.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:04 AM
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Most decent puas have 20k approaches, on average the lay count is in the low hundreds, let's just say 200. That is 1 in 100 conversion. These are the top guys. 12 in 100 is impossible with strictly cold approaching. This 1 approach a day nonsense is insane and need to stop, if you have done any form of approaching you know it's not viable. It's like going to the gym and do one squat.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:56 AM
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You need 1mil population min to do cold approaching.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:41 AM
1

honestly man if it's just one instance don't worry about it, if it happens all the time then you should start reconsider, keep doing what you are doing, and look for patterns
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:55 PM
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Just leave man, plenty of other girls.
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:30 PM
1

You need a few hundred to a thousand approaches to get the jist of it if you are not very smooth with woman prior. And please learn some basic theories about men to woman interactions too.
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:28 PM
1

This is where structured game comes in. Nature game is dangerous because you have to rely on the biggest unknowns, that is your spontaneous mind. London day game model is a good one for beginner, the word is stacking.
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:25 PM
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I literally have a buddy doing it in Manchester with about 200 approaches and got 2 lays. Oh and are you doing it in a small town?
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:21 PM
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Are you getting dates? how about long sets? instadates? If all your approaches are 30-sec rejections then it's your looks and vibe, if you are getting long sets but no dates then it's your escalation. There is no reason for you to get 1000s of approaches with no results whatsoever.
/r/seduction12/09/21 02:14 AM
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Wait, this is insane, how did you get arrested? Are you doing heavy physical escalation? Verbally insulting people? If you have a friendly conversation with a girl this cannot happen. How many approaches have you done?
/r/seduction11/09/21 05:43 PM
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I mean most coaches have 20k approaches under their belt, todd just happens to analyze the fuck out of all his, so he came up with a lot of theories to jump start a student. His theory and game is legit because plenty of us field tested it. Same thing goes with London daygame model, the guy used to hire girls to shoot videos, but who cares, you try it and it works so it's legit. Don't mix up marketing tactics and real pickup skills, they can exit together.
/r/seduction10/09/21 04:17 PM
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These people telling op is a simp are surely having sex everyday. Fuck them OP, I'm in my mid 20s, I have a hard time with 18 yo cuz they miss this mature femininity. However, but girls who are 21 ish are usually a lot more mature. My wing is 35, he has no problem with 20 yo, just run your game with more value less comfort.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:42 PM
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I approached this lawyer girl once, she was so confident, gazed straight to my soul, and super non reactive, but still showing enough interest for me to keep going. I've never been that nervous during a conversation. Usually it's pre approaching. I had to leave cus I literally can't handle her intensity, I feel bad for her and for myself. So the keys are her calmness and that soul gazing eye contact.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:35 PM
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There is a reason you are on a reddit called Seduction. How does a deer know the best way to hunt a deer? Appearance is only the barrier for entry, you still need to talk and get to know each other.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:27 PM
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you can't, even top pua uses the same lines over and over again. Think Julien, todd, watch their infield. The key is to say it in a genuine way, sometimes my lines just come out so forced, and sometimes they come out so perfect and my wing was so surprised how well they worked.
/r/seduction07/09/21 08:19 PM
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This dude literally bashes everybody. If you have been doing cold approaching, you know Todd's theory works. Todd openly admitted he has been rejected tens of thousands of times. Tbh I don't believe in any coaches until I try their method, unfortunately they all teach very similar stuff.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:25 PM
2

You much have 100+ lays,
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:21 PM
2

I came up with a lot of lines while I'm in state, and I just kept on re using them. Lines that I've taken from others don't really work because my delivery is off.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:15 PM
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Yeah if you were a girl in that situation what would you have done? Prob the same right? These things are best done in private msg
/r/seduction05/09/21 05:14 PM
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Excuse me, but you advice is not very valid based on data? How many girl have you dated? None most likely. There is a reason why you are on this sub. Cold approaching is the hardest way to meet people, but it's doable. Just think about it, if Brad Pitt approached you, you'd be screaming. The reason it never worked for you is because all of them sucked, and the sad truth is it takes thousands of approaches to become comfortable doing it.
/r/seduction05/09/21 05:07 PM
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Better than staying home and jerk off you know. It's called taking action and reflect to it.
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:17 PM
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I had the same thing last night, waitress come in between me and my girl:"last call, all in one or separate". Literally had to stare at my girl for 5 sec to process if it's worth it. If a guy is doing this 4x a week that is a lot of money spent. I don't mind buying 1 drink, but 3 is kinda alarming. OP was thinking about the same thing. But in that context it's already ON so might as well buy that 3rd one. You live you learn.
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:15 PM
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There is no such thing as pre-election unless you are the center of the party. If you are a normal dude, just do the approach. It's just a rejection man.
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:05 PM
1

Well value comfort is everywhere even talking to guys you know, everything about game can be applied to a stranger that you just want to meet and not smash, even a guy. If your numbers are dying off, you need to figureout if it's lacking value or comfort. This should be ingrained to your brain. You need to constantly adjusting your game, tune it, just blindly approaching won't get you the improvement. As a beginner, I use the london daygame model outside, and in my mind I'm balancing everything …
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:48 PM
1

I'll be attending acting and public speaking classes once covid is over, I think that is one of my biggest weakness atm, but yeah thanks for the recommendations, I'll check them out.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:29 PM
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Just look it up on YouTube, dm me if you want some of my infield exp. My wing learned so much watching me game and his game is so much better after. Because my style of game is too much value, now that learned how that works, I finally started seeing results.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:05 PM
1

Are you getting laid?
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:01 PM
1

Yup, someone finally gets it. Now it's just about optimization.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:00 PM
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Can't get the confidence with out the numbers though right? I can see a personality shift and my game is progressing. Honestly I would do 1000 approaches if I need to for this change.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:59 PM
1

Are you getting laid?
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:57 PM
1

Are you getting laid?
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:57 PM
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Yeah, this is a journey to morph myself more than getting laid. 3 dates were actually from one daygame session, I felt on fire that day.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:57 PM
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Interesting, I could see ny game progress as I rack up more ànd more approaches. Are you building enough comfort? Or are you building enough value? This is the most important thing I've learned.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:56 PM
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So I'm assuming you are the nice social guy before learning game? If so you problem is your you are not spiking enough emotions, learn push/pull, teasing, verbal escalation etc. Throw these in whenever convo stays platonic for too long. I'm 2 months in, the opposite of you, you undergame and I overgame, my wing is like you, we kinda learned from each other and now our game is much better. Do you know the Value - Comfort model? You have too much comfort very little value. You obliviously take a m…
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:58 AM
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Yeah dude this guy need some serious help, I thought I was insecure before, come to this reddit for a few weeks and dam.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:36 PM
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Yeah agree, do need to dress well and be well presented.
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:24 AM
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And how many daygame sets have you done? Did you try to get good at it?
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:23 AM
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Fuck whoever disses daygame. Just learn how to do it properly. Make sure you are running every sets to its fulliest with respect, people fucking envy you. 99% of the guys here never done daygame. Open properly, stack them right, fix your looks. Literally the most life changing thing Ive ever done my whole life.
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:21 AM
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I don't know why people hate cold approach so much, literally the only way to reshape your personality. Keep going my man. And keep improving yourself as well.
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:52 PM
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I think that's common for guys who are socially well calibrated, I'm less socially calibrated so I don't have that problem or I havent met a 10 yet maybe. Willy Beck from back in the day had a trick, he'd go to the washroom and jerk off without finishing on the date. When he comes back, his hormones out powers his nervousness. And he can now run proper game.
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:29 PM
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I have issue even escalating on girls I don't find attractive. Literally blew a date cuz the girl dressed down significantly to the point of unattractive.
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:12 PM
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Start posting field report here, someone will invite you to an more exclusive sub for hard-core gamers.
/r/seduction18/08/21 05:51 PM
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Lol dude I archived 50 texts conversations this morning, they are all either, ghosted, stopped replying, or rejections, mostly ghosted. 7 weeks in game. You got a long way to go man.
/r/seduction18/08/21 05:49 PM
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Good work man, write FR and analyzing is the most important thing other than keep going. Beware of people on this sub though, a lot of people dislike cold approaching. I did a nightgame marathon last wrekend as well, which was my 6th nightgame session. So much fun, so stimulating. Much more fun than daygame. Although the only solid number close was a 17yo cutie SMH.
/r/seduction18/08/21 02:01 AM
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Still need to flirt, escalate, maintain man to woman dynamics. Tbh being yourself is the worst advice I've ever taken. Because nobody know who they truly are.
/r/seduction18/08/21 01:41 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that you think men get vindictive when rejected, and it's probably true. I wish one day this stops becoming an issue. I actually admire girls who can confidently reject people, that says something about her character. Good luck with this guy though!
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:40 PM
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Don't ask a deer how to hunt a deer.
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:32 PM
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If you have no success in cold approaching, or you are a natural, please don't give this advice. Cold approaching is such an important step to develop personality and learn the fundamentals of game. Especially lesson number 1, rejections. Online game is good for when you are at least decent with woman. Then it's the most efficient form of game.
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:30 PM
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OK OP, fuck everyone that disses cold approaching, you chose this route, and there is a reason behind it, so many people here talk shit about cold approach and yet they barely don't any. Next, I'm slightly better than you result wise where I've had a few dates and some intimate moments from cold approach, so I should qualify to help a little. I have a speech impediment as well. Are you actually having a conversation with girls? What is the average time in set? Do they know you have a penis? Are …
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:20 PM
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I mean I still suck at it so I don't wanna be the pick up guy, but the only way to get good is to do a lot of them tho. I mean I still suck at it so I don't wanna be the pickup guy, but the only way to get good is to do a lot of them tho.
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:43 PM
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I mean I'm in Montreal, a similar situation here with St Catherine. I think during the beginner stage we just need to talk to more people. Are you only talking to the hot hot girls?
/r/seduction10/08/21 08:29 PM
1

Where about in Vancouver? Isn't there a main street with a lot of foot traffic?
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:22 PM
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Actually I was thinking the same the other day. I think some CRM will do for now like Hubspot. But then how funny would it be to hand your phone over to girl and she gotta fill in her digits in hubspot lol.
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:20 PM
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The first one is usually shit tbh, I as a beginner aim for 10 per session, 4 to 5 sessions per week. If you arent socially aware just like me, you are in this for a looong journey, I know guys that go at it for a whole year without results and finally something clicks.
/r/seduction09/08/21 01:48 PM
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This journey can be lonely, if you want to talk about it, feel free to pm me. I've met 2 other gamer here that we exchange experiences and ideas all the time.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:27 AM
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Oh Boi I feel like one now too, honestly it's freeing. Guess we need to be a sociopath first to get good.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:23 AM
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If you just hate the taste then buy a cocktail or even virgin cocktail.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:46 AM
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One of 4 pillars of success in cold approaching is a city of 1 mil population. Cold approaches works because we not in tribal age, small town kinda put you back in the tribal age.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:52 PM
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My game is off. An advanced guy should be getting dates 1 out of 5 solid approaches. I met a wing yesterday and I am doing some pretty absurd shit that I was not aware of .
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:47 PM
1

I'd argue practice social skills first then practice game. But I agree social skills are sooooo important for game.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:32 AM
1

Dude I'm just starting out, like sales, your first 6 month at a sales job are gonna be meh, one you develop you skills and the top of the funnel has leads in there, that's when the fun starts.
/r/seduction27/07/21 12:03 PM
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Feel free to, I'd be happy to help
/r/seduction26/07/21 05:55 PM
1

I agree, now my AA is handled, I'm gonna start optimizing my approaches.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:59 PM
1

Done it twice, it's super loud in Montreal, can barely hear each other. I'd love to do it in a quieter metro like Vancouver.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:56 PM
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Oh yeah, situational opener is the best, that's just my default if I can't come up with something on the spot. 1 in 5 ish set where I can I try to do situational openers. Some time I will even cut off the default line and use situational opener if I did come up with something.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:15 PM
2

Just downtown, I don't speak French.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:09 PM
1

flake == "Girl agreed on going out for a date but didn't show up or cancelled last min"
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:47 PM
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Yeah, it's tough, you need to open up your personality and start talking to more girls. Hard to change your personality in school because the social circle is so closed. Do you hold strong eye contact when talking to people? If you don't that alone can boost your status by a lot. I remember my high school years by faking this douche bag persona for 5 min and gave these 2 random girls a hug resulted in one girl asking me out. And another girl went out with me just by me cold approaching her in th…
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:41 PM
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Oh no I'm doing exactly what you described, Open-hook-small talk-banter-asker her out-close, in real life running daygame. But after we exchange contact I need to nurture them, the one really smooth set where I set the date right there and she confirmed with me over text was a flake, and I had to build more comfort later on and then I fucked up.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:31 PM
1

No, no one wears masks outside in Canada.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:26 PM
1

Well, I'm an extrovert masked by shyness, so I'm naturally high energy once in the state, so I am usually the loud mathafakka in a group, my wing told me I'm too funny and it's not good. And honestly, it's not as scary as it seems, people will respect you for going up to a group, they will give you the time to talk and listen to you, not sure if it's the right way to do it but I shift my eye contact and attention around the group to engage all of them.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:21 PM
1

like what Nordkindchen said.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:16 PM
2

Feel you man, if I chicken out on a approach especially a front stop, I actually feel like the girl is mocking me: "Yeah right pussy, you have no balls approaching me don't you?"
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:15 PM
4

Just compliment strangers and talk to random people, you don't even need to stop them, just say nice shoes and fist bump. do that 10 times in 5 mins, that's how I first started, I can do an approach after that, some people need an intermediate step. So you can do a soft approach like asking time or direction to build up your state.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:14 PM
2

well, I'm getting paranoid about quick number closes now. So many ghosts.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:12 PM
1

Yup, I do ask her out and the number close is because she agrees to go out or she's a maybe. But I find myself needing more comfort building over text, so prob not doing a good job in set.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:06 PM
1

OK so no rapport building just straight asking her out? Mind sharing you conversion rate and stats?
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:49 PM
1

There are no ugly woman, just lazy woman, I have yet to see a women who doesn't have potential to be hot. Unless she is obese, she can still workout and lose weight. If you want political correctness you are in the wrong sub.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:38 PM
1

25, 5 10, 170, slim/athletic build.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:35 PM
1

Doing something consistently.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:33 PM
1

I think I'm shy but extroverted. Meaning I enjoying talking to people and I can be a loud muthafakka. Now my shy part is peeling away.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:32 PM
2

I'm actually pretty gooe with people, I can get people to like me pretty easily. But that skill is not optimized to get people to fuck me tho.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:26 PM
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Well if she stayed for 30 sec more I'd get to that step, I have no problem managing groups, sometimes I even get too caught up with fun conversations with the friends and forgot about the main girl. The moral of the stories is I need to be more persistent.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:20 AM
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I see, yeah cold approach is by far the hardest way to get girls. I've had my tiny share of success with warm approaches. The problem is I can't scale it, nor can I take risks to optimize my game/personality, so I'm stuck getting these 6s at a super slow pace. My lifestyle doesn't put me in contact with a lot of women, to be fair Tom Toreo who is to be considered intermediate day gamer by a lot of other coaches claims 1 lay in 40 ish (can't remember, but something close) cold approaches. Right n…
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:17 AM
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Well, so what happened was I opened this 2 set, good eye contact, before I get to say my cold read 2 more girls join the set, so I redelivered my opener again in what I consider a very confident manner. Girl #4 was noticeably hooked and asked me what am I doing right now, as she was asking that, girl #3 said hey we gotta go, and started walking, I kept engaging girl #4 by just talking and girl #3 actually walked away like 15 feet and just stopped there and wailing. #1, #2 started walking very he…
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:09 AM
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curious, do you actively run day game? if so what are your stats? how long have you been doing it?
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:54 AM
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Ever done sales? Or starting a brand new marketing campaign? Look up sales funnel, MVP, product-market fit etc. Please don't take my numbers as a typical result, I know a guy who's been at it for a year and he claims he is laying 1 in 6 numbers. I'm going hardcore on the PUA stuff, I don't recommend people go through this shit if they just want a gf. People who want to fuck many other people have a hole in their hearts to fill.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:52 AM
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referring to things like lack of eye contact, poor vocal projection etc.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:46 AM
4

Well still a newbie, live and learn.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:27 AM
5

We had a pretty pleasant convo, I asked her what she does, she told me porn art first, I dug deeper she told me she's a porn actress. I talked about Eric Everhard's book that I recently read and blah blah. totally forgot about establishing man to woman dynamic and all my normal game stuff, just fascinated about what she does.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:16 AM
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Well cuz I suck, someone advanced can do 100x better. The reason I resolve to day game is that I want to hone my women skills. My personality will never change if I just hang out with friends. I can already see my personality changing and I'm more ballsy now. Online dating was an option but what am I learning? Texting? My beta shy personality will never change doing that.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:10 AM
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insta date is easier if the girl is down tbh, because it's easier to persuade in person than via text.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:05 AM
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What do you open with?
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:04 AM
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She told me. Not a porn "start" tho.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:02 AM
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If the girl is hooked and comfort is established, I don't think it's that hard, the 2 insta dates I've had are both within 10 min of talking.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:37 AM
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yeah, one of the girl actually hooked, fuck next time that happens I'm walking with the set.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:36 AM
9

I can't even remember lol, I don't think she is that well known.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:35 AM
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insta date == "going on a mini date immediately after meeting a girl."
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:34 AM
9

"Hi, you're cute, so I had to come by and say hi" + cold-read. I doubt it's my open, I'm still nurturing some leads from some of these numbers, but I lack a lot of the high-value man attributes that I'm working on. Mind sharing your stats?
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:32 AM
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How much do you know this charming guy though? Very few charming people I know are always charming,, getting into state is one way to be charming but once out of state its all gone.
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:50 AM
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just whatever, guy/girl/couple, just say whatever they are wearing looks amazing or they look cute together, and keep walking, don't forget to smile and project your voice so they can hear you. This is called progressive desensitization. Yeah I work tech job and a good day working will leave me super analytical and unable to talk to people, so I feel you, just gotta push through. Well, you are just pretending to listen to music while talking to people, you could do this with wired headphones too…
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:53 PM
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Oh the first 30 min of the session is rough. I just compliment random strangers every 30 sec and the flow kinda kicks in. Then the first few actual approaches will put me in state. I prefer 2 hour sessions like work outs 5 times a week, consistency beats intensity. You can use wireless earbuds and only put one on and record it. Make sure to close the recorder when you number close. I'd recommend you record sooner than later, there are so much tonality and pacing and mumble and stutter and weird …
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:15 PM
1

Montreal, no French. 90 approaches in 3 weeks, most are friendly, had 2 insta dates. Lots of insta blow outs cuz I am still a beginner. Pretty much the same as what I see on YouTube. Did a little bit in Calgary, hard to scale because there is not that much foot traffic.
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:07 PM
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Good job, the feeling of being in state is one of the best in the world. I'm in my 3rd week doing daygame at around 90 approaches. I can 100% relate to everything you described. One thing I did yesterday was record my sets via audio, and I cringed so hard and noticed so much shit I was doing wrong that I didn't realize. Keep the momentum going man!
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:54 PM
1

Just standard Todd V daygame stuff, open, wait for the hook, banter etc, are you asking for specifically what ai do in set or how I go about my daygame session?
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:00 PM
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Oh yeah, Montreal is not fully open yet.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:29 PM
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From my understanding, a set is just 1 - N number of people in a group that you are engaging in a conversation with. So opening 1 girl is a set, opening 2 girls (a 2 set) is a set, opening a group with guys and girls (a mixed set) is also a set.
/r/seduction14/07/21 05:00 PM
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I'm going full hardcore in this stuff, my problem with the setting based approach is I can't scale and I can't utilize the traffic to get into state, I think they can be beneficial when I hit the intermediate stage, but right now I need to learn how to consistently get into state and get my fundamentals right. Yeah I find it super hard to assume familiarity after a full day of analytical brain processing. I can't say it enough but whenever I get into state I can chat up anyone.
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:49 PM
1

Yeah, I could build some pretty scary stuff with the right motives. But unless there is a good ROI of time, I'm just gonna keep grinding for now.
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:04 PM
1

Yup, I think 70% to get my dating skills sorted out so I have more options when I am ready to settle down. 30% to get laid cuz I am 25. Thank you for the advice!
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:03 PM
1

yup, I am very weak at qualifying girls, this is next to work.
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:27 PM
2

Yeah online game was on my radar, but I also wanted to work on my men to women skills. And man do I hate texting. But I should probably go hire a photographer and get my profile ready.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:47 PM
1

Thanks, I'll start recording my sets and let myself cringe.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:45 PM
1

I literally was thinking about making a CRM once I have scale to follow up with girls for me lol, maybe one day.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:43 PM
1

Hmm like hanging out in the bar or stand outside?
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:42 PM
2

Yeah, I don't go out with another dude. I find that to be quite creepy.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:41 PM
1

I have a good career, I am very healthy. I am at the point of my life where I literally sold everything with 1 suit case 1 backpack left. This part of my life has always been sticking, so I have to fix it, this is why I'm immersing my self with mass approaching.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:41 PM
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I prefer daygame solo most of the time cuz I find it creepy to tear up the street with a group, but it's always good to have someone to talk about it tho. Where can I find the fellow daygamer in town?
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:38 PM
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Honestly I don't even care right now if I get laid, yeah it's good to have. I just want the skills, being in state actually feel better than sex.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:36 PM
1

Yeah I heard state comes easier as I get better. Def something i keep in mind.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:34 PM
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Yeah man, not sure wtf my brain is up to. I'm gonna start really hammering on the fundamentals and try to improve time to state and open to hook ratio.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:32 PM
1

Do you actively daygame?
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:30 PM
2

The flow state, aka God mode, when I feel 120%, 13/10, just pure confidence and happy.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:27 PM
1

I'd like to meet these guys too, a girl told me she was stopped at the same spot a month ago, forgot to ask her his number lol.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:26 PM
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I'm still in the beginning phrase, I need to open at least 3 sets before I can feel comfortable and stateful
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:22 AM
2

Yeah, only 3 weeks in, 70 ish approaches, 10 number closes with 2 replied on positive convo, 1 instadate then date but I blew it. I find myself to be quite charming when I'm in state with almost 0 approach anxiety. But it sure as hell tough to get into state. Daygame out of state is just brutal. What were your experiences when you are starting out?
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:59 PM
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Do you count instant blow outs in your data set?
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:03 PM
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Do you count in instant blow outs? Still pretty new to this and someday I can have a streak of blow outs.
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:02 PM
1

Interesting, in a day to day life, do you just not think about it when approaching?
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