I have a feeling that every time you don't feel like going out, it's a sign that you are gonna have a breakthrough if you do go out.

It's Thursday and I was kinda tired after the gym, my buddy called at 11pm telling me to come to the bar because he has a reservation, we still don't have full nightlife yet so super hard to get into a venue, just been running street game at night the whole time, which is like playing on veteran mode.

Arrived at the bar, he was talking to 2 blondies outside, I jumped in, clearly see the girls confused, so I tapped him and he introed me, didn't really go anywhere so we went back into the bar.

I started talking to some random dudes and then just some odd approaches, I'm still very obnoxious because I'm naturally sooo energetic, I'm always in the party mood. So as I was talking to this one girl and the beat dropped, so I jumped and yelled: 'That's my fucking beat!!!". I def need to tone that shit down, because the girl was clearly frightened.

Couple more approaches that went nowhere, one thing I noticed is I'm starting to leaving pauses after the hook, and a lot of times girls are carrying the convo and asking me a bunch of questions, I'm starting to get a little bit on how to flip the script now.

I then wandered to the corner and saw this girl covered with tattoos with a bleached flat bang wearing glasses looks like a thiccer and older version of Emma Stone. So I went in with: "Hey!, You look like a mafia boss.", She was quite receptive on the open, in fact, the 5 sets I did only 1 kinda rejected me and I didn't even bother plowing. This is sooo much easier than street-game.

After shooting the shit with her for a bit, her friend said: 'I wish you guys are married.". So I asked her to wed us. in which she did and we made out The whole time my girl was quite physical.

We talked for about an hour, keeps on reengaging the friend. At one point, my girl said: "I hate to cut this short because I really like you, but I haven't seen this girl for a long time." I said: "How do you know this is it?" For some reason that just cracked her up non-stop. But I guess that was a shit test because we continued.

Her friend bought me a drink and me and my girl made out more when the friend went to the bathroom. She kept rubbing her hand on my back when I was talking to the friend.

Comes closing time for the bar, all 3 of us sat at the corner and talk more, more 3-way bantering, the friend was supper supportive and keeps saying I want you guys to have fun, etc.

So when we left the bar, the friend took an uber and left. This is when I started to screw up, I have no idea where to grab food and it's like 10 min drive from my place. So basically she was leading me and pulling me for pizza. I could start to see attraction dropping. She kept saying "oh let's go on a date on Tuesday when I get back" and then "Yeah let's go crazy it's the last time we see each other" back and forth. Lesson learned, just fucking LEAD!!

So she pulled me for pizza nearby and it started pouring. We went into a little corner to hide and as soon we went in, she started leaning in, so I grabber her hair and pinned her to the wall and madeout with her. That shit turns on girls like magic (with conscent). The whole time I tried for the pull she wasn't having it, she keeps saying she has to go out of town tomorrow morning, etc. So I decided to just call an uber and see if I can get her to come. She kept waving for a taxi but no one was stopping.

Come the uber, she tried to convince the uber driver to drive her back but the uber driver said my place is closer so me first. When she realized it costs 35 bucks to uber to her place she started saying I'm gonna call my ex bf to drive me home, poor guy :(.

Finally, I got her to my place she called her ex bf immediately after entering, so I just chilled because it ain't happening.

I went to sit down on my couch, she sat right next to me super touchy and seductive. But when I grabbed her hair and pull her in for the makeout, I could see her hornyness and guilt for the exbf fighting each other.

We shoot the shit a bit more, she said: "You know what, I'll go on the date with you if you show me something I haven't seen" I said: "How about you show me the town first, it's an awesome city, and then I'll show you some authentic Chinese food." I think I passed that shit test? Because she said ok I have your number I'll message you.

Then she started freaking out because she wasn't sure what to tell the exbf on why she's at a guys place, so we figured to tell him: "Oh I met this guy at the bar and went back to his place but wasn't feeling like having sex.", I figured that was a horrible narrative, so I followed up with: "Or he is too hot to you". A little bit try-hard probably.

Ex bf came, she hugged me super tight and left. :(((

What have I learned?

  • Well, I guess I could have just bite the bullet and told her to chill for a bit and I'll call and pay for the uber for her right home after we went into my place. But I didn't wanna feel needy, but not getting laid is worst.

  • One thing I find myself tripping up is I love playing the innocent game and avoiding explicitly telling the girl that sex is happening, but when a girl starts to talk about potential sex happening between us I get confused.

  • LEAD LEAD LEAD!!! So fucking important, there are still a lot of beta traits in me, leading is something I don't get enough reps in.