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Did you take both the Redpill and the Bluepill at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:47 PM
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Be easier to reduce men to 10% of their current amount, However achieving this would be problematic. Only allowing 1 boy to be born out of every babies, may fix it. Then men will be a rare commedity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:27 PM
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What if you are "Exclusive" and I don't mean a covert contract or saying "But I felt like it was serious". I mean actually having an exclusivity talk and agreeing to be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:55 AM
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Best example I can give was when I somehow ended up dating a director for a bit. I ended up breaking it off, as she had a very time consuming job which basically meant she was never really available due to dealing with firefighting crises at work and due to that her whole life revolved around her job. She was always mentally "On the job" even when she wasn't working. Also Big Law firms and their lovely 80 hour weeks. Not had anything to do with anyone who works in law, so don't know if its as ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:44 AM
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I'm actually in total agreement. Like I said Some careers can make a woman unattractive though. Don't understand how your comment relates to this? Although its more the attitude to work life balance, but some careers demand it. Again, Don't understand how your comment relates to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:18 AM
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I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:26 AM
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To be fair, this sub is bad for mental health. But like most things that are bad for you it's addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:15 AM
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I had a rest day to let my muscles recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:48 AM
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True. If Debbie is unattractive. A career cannot add to this. If Debbie is attractive, well she is attractive. Assuming she is not entirely focused on her career only, then she is attractive. But if Debbie is attractive and just has a job that pays for her lifestyle that meshes with mine, it does not matter that she does not have a career. Why is this so hard to grasp????
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:41 AM
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Some careers can make a woman unattractive though. Although its more the attitude to work life balance, but some careers demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:39 AM
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What is a "successful career woman"? Someone who is never around, who stays up till 2am doing powerpoint presentations for "The man" so he can buy a new yacht. Why not just stay single. You will never see the other person anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:39 AM
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I dunno, I'm not really into law and order.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:21 AM
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I don't see why your being so pissy with them tbh. Like the whole flair thing is a bit cringe, but you seem a bit too affected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:11 PM
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WHat about the person you are actually in a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:53 PM
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You forgotten your meds today?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:52 PM
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Men don't need to use societal shaming as a weapon. They will just use their fists and beat the shit out of the "other man". Shaming is a weapon, used when being physical is not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:48 PM
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SO what are your views on people repenting their past sins? Do you not believe that your lord and savior forgives people for their past. Do you not believe they can be forgiven regardless of their past? Maybe these women are ashamed of their sinful past?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:54 PM
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Ironically, you probably are NOT a Christian. PS: I have no issue with religious folk, but this is some serious level of hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:50 PM
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Are you even a Christian?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:50 PM
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Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? As a Christian man, do you not believe that once a person accepts Jesus into their life, their past sins are forgiven? Do you believe as a Christian, that you should be judging others for their past sins, instead of repenting on their own. Also, as a Christian man, why are you trying to lead your fellow Christians to a life of sin. Do you not believe as a Christian, you should wait fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:45 PM
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I dunno mate, I don't go round asking women if they are virgins to be honest. Regardless of if I am attracted to a woman or not, that seems a pretty low value question. I sure as hell am not going to spend my time arguing with women over their virginity either. You really should get a hobby or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:38 PM
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Because they are in denial that there partner will cheat on them. So they blame the other person. This then gives a green light to the cheater who will do it again possibly. At this point I have no sympathy for the person being cheated on, they are a fucking idiot. Feel me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:12 PM
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Then it was mentioned, and the convo just went elsewhere completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:50 PM
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Look I am not speaking for all men here. But a while back I went on a hike from a meetup group. There was a pretty hot Northern Irish Woman (damn I love the accent, but thats a different story). It was after 1 hour of conversation the topic of jobs came up. Can you please stop saying that some of us have nothing else in our lives to talk about but how we make money. Sorry, the gaslighting on here is really getting to me today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:18 PM
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Fair, just reread. I honestly cannot answer this one. Nah f**k it, still go with number 1. No-one cheats with the intention of being caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:25 PM
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If partner cheats with someone who does not know me, well nothing to say about that person, they are a stranger. However relationship is over. If partner cheats with someone I know who is a friend. Relationship is still over as well as friendship. Not sure about responsibility, if someone cheats, there is no blame game to be played, its just the end of the relationship.... period. Placing blame on the other person, especially if it is a stranger, makes it sound like the partner in question has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:16 PM
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Well woman 1 of course. She sounds super clingy and will probably still love me when I cheat on her with woman B.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:04 PM
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If a fat person falls over in a forest and noone sees it, is it still funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:56 PM
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Can only talk from my experiences. I like my life at a certain level of chill. I know what my incomings and outgoings are, I know how much to save to get 1 or 2 holidays a year, I can keep my car on the road easily enough, etc and I can afford a social life I enjoy. This relates to a certain level of chill, work wise. Basically I don't need to bust a gut in the workplace and I can relax. Now when I have dated women who are more successful than me, I am complained at and "encouraged" to leave my …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:33 PM
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Look if you don't want mutual sex, go become an escort. Then you will not need to give away freebies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:55 AM
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Who gives a fuck, why does it matter so much. They can either afford a lifestyle that meshes with yours or they don't. I know people who work as tech support in law firms and banks who out earn System Architects in other firms. The Job Title means Jackshit. If someone can't afford their lifestyle, yeah thats something I want to avoid. But for me personally, someones level of debt is more important than their job/career. As well as do they have a work/life balance. Level of physical attraction, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:37 AM
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Because they exist, can and do happen. I am not looking for a SAHM or a "Housewife". If I can get a 50/50 relationship, then why is becoming a sugardaddy going to appeal to me as an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:53 AM
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It’s not just about money though. I value work and life balance, so I’d prefer to date someone with a similar attitude. I wouldn’t date someone performing dangerous jobs, because I don’t want to worry about their safety all the time etc. This. I'm one of those peeps who uses the phrase "Career Woman" and to add some clarity, what you have just put is what it is in reference to. Do I want to date someone who has no job/career, no, I am not a tradcon, I'm not into the man must pay for everything m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:46 AM
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Its a question of when. If its the first thing out of a persons mouth and they dwell on it for longer than a couple of min. Then the first date is the last date. Bye Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:37 AM
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The guys I have know it to help just had to make a few tweaks or could even take it way too far. Where as some guys tried and tried and tried, and it probably fucked them up even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:12 AM
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Do you think men don't make fun of fat men? "Yeah he may have driven us all to the match, but he is still a fat fuck". What is your point? Fat women and fat men get shamed equally. There is no inequality here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:41 PM
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you say you are one of the good men. what makes you good? I can only say I am good insofar as there is some shit I won't stand around and let fly IRL, which some other guys would. There are also some attitudes on this sub, which I strongly disagree with, the latest of which I just hid the thread. Thats really all I can say. Other than I can probably be a good listener one day, a jerk the next, etc. It is what it is, us men are not perfect beings. Yeah we act and behave like pigs at times, hell s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:11 PM
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Look I am not going to go onto reddit and post "thats bad" on every piece of shit comment I see. I get enough shit on here from men and women, hell some guy thought I was a women. I do not need to add to my shit collection. This place is actually a cesspool and saying "Thats bad", "thats bad" will just be pointless. Yes, in RL, if I see something bad happening and its a guy who I do not feel threatened by I will step in and or I will fetch a bouncer. Thats probably as far as my special treatment…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:17 PM
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believing that the strong should just be able to take advantage of the weak bc they can is what barbarianism is. men who are leaders and protectors would not think like this. leaders and protectors look out for the little guy. they don't say "well i got mine so everything is good". thats, again, what a barbarian does. Yes I have read books on Natural Selection, I know how nature works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:44 PM
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uh men not acting immorally and exploiting women? Yeah you know that would be nice, but you see, I am not the God of Men. I am not in charge of what other men do. I am flattered you feel I am that powerful. and since bad people will exist no matter what, the "good" men who aren't "all men" could say "uh that's bad" like the women in this comments section are. What and that would change anything? Do you honestly think they would care? I do not come on to Reddit to police men. I again am flattered…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:43 PM
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No I just don't know what the alternative is. Speaking for myself only (not "All Men"), I am a strict believer in setting boundaries. Break them once have a chat, break them twice, its over. Like the saying goes "Fool me once, shame on me. Fool me twice, shame on you". I don't even see the point in saying "Women should do this, women should do that" as a guy. To me at least, the only persons whose actions I can control are my own. Its easier to wear slipper than to carpet the world. So if someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:20 PM
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Oh I totally agree. But the guys onshore cannot even get to that point yet. So baby steps and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:07 PM
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Ironically, I am actually a guy who was into PUA and who also agrees with a lot of Rollo Tomassi's works. However I don't see it as doom and gloom. It just means I am going to have to put myself out there and deal with rejection. However having "The Rationale Male" explain things, makes the field easier to navigate than just having nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:44 PM
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Yeah. And I have also gone out to social places with female friends, female family members (cousins as no sisters) and I know its a totally different experience to going out solo or going out to social places with male friends, in the way other women respond to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:23 PM
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A woman with you is a woman with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:05 PM
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I'm beginning to think that those people for whom redpill and PUA advice works for, already had it in them, and it was just a case of bringing it to the spotlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:03 PM
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Why not. If a person can do it consistently they are probably the best example. Would you ask a fisherman that catches no fish, how to catch a fish?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:01 PM
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What do you actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:54 PM
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OK, you mean Taking a shower Ironing some clothes Putting on said clothes Spray on some nice cologne or aftershave Making sure your shoes or trainers are clean before putting them on THEN opening the door Going somewhere where there are other people Sooner or later someone makes small talk Then you just take it from there Is that better for you. Do I need to provide the specific muscle movements for your robot brain to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:52 PM
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Its the obsession with it that it somehow makes you more attractive. The USA unemployment rate is 4.3%. So you have a job, wow so do most people. Now what actually makes you interesting other than you have something 95.7% of the population have,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:49 PM
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And a lot of the “personality” traits and “social skills” that people talk about are the result of being preselected anyways. So... just let a girl friendzone you. Actually be friends, then goto social places with her, with zero intent and be preselected by her. Fucking hell. It really is that simple Pre-Selection and being friends with women go hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:00 PM
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You mean "Open the front door"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:57 PM
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Neither is he. Anyway, enjoy your excuses, they serve you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:55 PM
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Oh right, well I live on this planet called Earth. The other month I went on a mountain scrambling trip, with about 40 other people. Next month I am going to a giant yearly festival. On saturady nights we have these things called cocktail bars. There are also loads of other social activities, sadly there are onbly a limited number of evenings per week, so I have to choose what to do and what to skip. Sorry "reality" isn't as interesting a place as the Planet of Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:54 PM
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Well AWALT is correct. This is the point of AWALT. Just because you meet someone and get with someone, you still have to get off your fat lazy ass and put in effort. Otherwise the woman will leave you..... AWALT. The bitch bit.... yeah I disagree with that. More like she had better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:50 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:48 PM
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Ive got a mate, who us obese, short, smells, dosn't have a job, lives with his parents, hoards loads of shit. He also does Viking Reenactment, basically swings axes at peoples heads (probably too scarey for you as it means leaving the beasement), due to this, women who watch shows and exhibitions are quite willing to get fucked by the mad hairy viking dude. Also, the vioking group he is in, has a band. He is their roadie, so goes to all their performances with them, which are full of women and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:46 PM
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It's very rare for a man to have ZERO interests outside of silently hiding indoors and playing video games. Reading this sub, I am not sure anymore. Maybe leaving the basement is a rare thing that only some of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:42 PM
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How can you stay sane having these conversations on this sub. Sorry, its just a waste of time, effort and energy. Some people choose to be hated, its their choice and they work hard at achieving it. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:34 PM
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What is the weather like on your planet? Genuine question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:24 PM
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What are your hobbies, do they involve leaving the basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:22 PM
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Reading this sub, I am honestly thinking either everyone who leaves the house is a magical chad or this forum is full of burn victims suffering from elephantitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:17 PM
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Status to whom and in which community? What gives someone status to you, may mean Jack Sh*t to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:04 PM
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So do these "BangMaids" have no agency? Is Divorce illegal where they are from? Is Breaking up a relationship illegal? Sorry, if you are from Sangin DC in Helmand Province, yeah I get it, its shit. But if your from a developed country, you are choosing this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:54 PM
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Thanks I also needed that. Shifted my perspective a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:33 PM
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Yeah....thought that was normal father son bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:39 PM
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Did your dad never take you to the pub for a Sunday afternoon drink, start talking to girls, introduce you, then just leave you to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:10 PM
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Only time will tell. Not my kind of cup of tea tbh, but each to their own. If it works it works. If it backfires somehow, we can all get a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:16 PM
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Blue pill dating rejection at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:07 PM
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Lets just hope that guys with higher value than yourself dont suddenly show interest. Hypergamy and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:05 PM
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No one is on about ugly dudes. If you really are ugly, soz bro, its game over as far as dating goes. Dating advice is not for ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:42 PM
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Yes you can. Most things we do are formed by habit. Just make a logical list of little habits you want to do every day. Then sooner or later your brains neuroplasticity will take over and it will be second nature, However, there is no magic one off thing that will make you more attractive. Its lots of little lifestyle changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:41 PM
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Men are not a monolith, for some of us, there is truth to this. However as we are individuals and have different experiences, I guess it is only natural we may disagree. However I am not talking on behalf of anyone but myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:37 PM
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The larger issue is the very narrow minded approach on how to be attractive, instead of focusing on being your most confident, well put together and fun to be around self you’re more focused on “how can i pull as many women as possible” which is a viable strategy…. if you were in sales. Yes the solution is "on being your most confident, well put together and fun to be around self" but if you don't initially ask yourself “how can i pull as many women as possible” or just "how can I bang any woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:15 PM
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If she did the approaching and made all the moves, sure I wouldn't reject her. But as far as making moves myself, I probably wouldn't notice her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:29 PM
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What planet must you live on to have men revealing that they value looks to be some sort of epiphany.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:27 PM
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What belief do you need confirming. Men are attracted to looks. This is hardly rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:27 PM
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Once it totally stops working for you, it is irrelevant to you. However, as far as Millenials go, some of us are still in the dating market. So if it works for us, it still works for us. I still don't bother with dating apps, I really don't have the time or interest to just swipe on app when I could be out talking to people instead. So I just do what works for me. If it works it works. This is the thing with advice, it is just advice, not set in stone rules. Try it, don't try it. Find what works…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:10 PM
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Of course it won't. Its just information. What will solve your problems (maybe, nothing is guaranteed in life, except death), is getting off your ass and taking action. If you don't get the results you want, analyse your actions and change them. Maybe TRP statements will align with your experiences, maybe they won't. Thats for you to find out, the field holds all the answers. Or do nothing... and keep not getting, whatever it is you have not gotten. Your life your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:35 AM
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Sometimes you just have to do what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:04 PM
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I'm 6 foot and I know it gives me a crutch in regard to attracting women. However, the disconnect comes when shorter guys seem to claim that height is ALL that matters. Its as though us 6 foot tall guys have never faced any problems or issues ourselves, because being 6 foot tall is magical and everything is perfect right? Life is just fucking wonderful when you are 6 foot tall and nothing bad ever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:04 PM
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Hows does agreeing or disagreeing with what someone says or believes make that person any more or less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:42 PM
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I see it all the time on the internet. Its funny for a while but then gets boring. My favorite was "I have a lot of classic cars but no man wants to date me" blah, blah, blah. Anyway, if you have never seen or heard these complaints, I envy you. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:21 PM
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Last time I came on here, I was arguing with some guy who was "Man must pay for everything", all I could get out of him was "My dad taught me that". I think the reality of the matter is whatever your beliefs, reality will merge itself to fit them. So guy who believed he had to pay for everything as his dad taught him that women were incapable of doing so, then cool his reality will reflect that. For me, I generally only attract women who are willing and capable of paying for themselves, so whate…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:15 PM
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To be fair, a lot of PUA advice did seem counterintuitive as though it shouldn't work. RP is the only thing so far, that makes it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:05 PM
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A lot of us are not saying women "Have to" do anything. We actually don't give a fuck, its your l;ife your choice. But once you start dumping your problems, "Why can I not find a good man", "Why does no-one want to date a successful careerz woman such as myself", we will give you answers and solutions which you may not like. If you like your lifestyle, then why the complaints. Its what you wanted right? You should be happy not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:55 PM
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