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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Good from when starting out? Frame is basically this: Do what you want to do. Don't do what you don't want to do. Think for yourself. The tricky part is figuring out if you actually want to do/think something, or if your motivations for doing it aren't actually for you. For example, cleaning the house because you want to have a clean house (being your own judge, thinking for yourself) vs cleaning the house because you think your wife will like you better if you do (letting your wife be your judge, living in her head). If yo…	/r/askMRP	25/07/21 02:49 AM
2	Woman admitting that nice guys get the leftovers I think that how women "love" betas is definitely closer to how kids love their parents I think that's possible for certain couples... but I think it's more of a rare case because it implies that she has respect for him on some level. I think their love for a beta is closer to how they love a family pet. He's there to give attention, validation, physical affection on demand. He doesn't really have a say in what goes on. If he starts shitting all over the house, she'll either hate him for the res…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/12/20 07:50 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - December 01, 2020 You should also tell your son that it is not okay for grandma (or anyone else) to yell at him or use physical force/hurt him for any reason. This teaches him that he does not have to accept shitty treatment from other people. Tell him that if anyone yells at him, including grandma, mom, or dad... he can tell them something like: "You are yelling at me right now and I don't like it. If you want to tell me something I will listen but not if you are yelling." This teaches him how to set and enforce…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 04:43 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - November 03, 2020 I think a lot of it comes from being raised with a good amount of autonomy. A lot of people I know who grew up this way, given freedom to make their own choices without judgement, always had a similar mindset in regards to deciding what it is they want and going after it without being inhibited by fear of failure. Getting there as an adult is just reconditioning/re-raising yourself this way (i.e. you can do anything you want and judgements/opinions of others mean nothing). It's nice if you had t…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/11/20 09:53 PM
2	Marriage rekt after PPD, failed comfort tests, emotional affair, jealousy/controlling behavior and aborted pregnancy Yup, because she was the problem here. I'm sure your next relationship will be an ideal fairytale.	/r/askMRP	01/11/20 06:06 PM
3	Marriage rekt after PPD, failed comfort tests, emotional affair, jealousy/controlling behavior and aborted pregnancy On the bright side, at least she didn't get you to raise that other dudes kid as your own.	/r/askMRP	01/11/20 05:11 PM
4	I feel like a dancing monkey The sex felt really inauthentic, disconnected, and I wasn’t able to finish. I started to question the authenticity of all of the affection and sex I’ve been receiving. This is why you are a dancing monkey. Based on what you said, the "authenticity" of the sex/affection is just your interpretation of HER desire. You still NEED her to want you. Because of that... everything you do here to improve yourself is motivated by that need for her validation. Not only that, every interaction you have with …	/r/askMRP	30/10/20 02:47 AM
7	Is STFU misunderstood / mis-advised? STFU is a quick fix for guys just starting in order to prevent DEERIng, validation seeking, victim puking, arguments, and so on. The idea is that you STFU until you learn: to not DEER to seek validation to not victim puke to not argue Once you learn those things you don't really need to use STFU as a general strategy anymore because you no longer say stupid shit.	/r/askMRP	27/10/20 05:03 PM
1	When She Uses Your Love Against You By "love" do you mean neediness due to oneitis?	/r/askMRP	27/10/20 06:34 AM
26	Wife expects me to lead her through nearly all aspects of her life, and gets upset when I am unable to deliver You are choosing to do these things over doing things to meet your needs. She is not "pulling you thin"... you are doing that. You need to be the one to balance your life out. By coming here and saying "she is doing this to me", you are shifting that responsibility to her. Waiting around for her to assign you an acceptable amount of tasks isn't going to work out for you.	/r/askMRP	26/10/20 10:56 PM
8	Experiences with tattoos and deciding to get one Why not just get an actual boob job? That'd get you even more attention!	/r/askMRP	26/10/20 05:16 PM
3	Failure is the only option Learning by doing = Learning by failing	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/10/20 07:33 PM
2	Tactics for ASD during Comfort Test does giving that comfort lessen desire "Whats the best way to do this to get my wife to want me?" Also... do you think that providing comfort to someone is inherently submissive?	/r/askMRP	07/10/20 09:13 PM
2	STFU and Couple Therapy? The idea is that a person only feels threatened by attacks and becomes defensive IF their ego is fragile. If you are 100% confident in your choices, attacks have no effect on you. If you are not sure of your choices and own that fact, you can look for the value (which may or may not exist) in what people are saying without feeling threatened. If you are not sure of your choices and cant fully own that, you become defensive. Defensiveness shows up when a person believes there is something inside …	/r/askMRP	06/10/20 05:18 PM
10	Is responsive desire still genuine desire? The problem with this focus on her desire is: desire = validation Instead you should be focused on figuring out and getting what it is that you desire. And if that's something like "I want her to want me".... you are going to have a hard time.	/r/askMRP	06/10/20 04:53 PM