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| 0 | Did I just get deframed? I sure feel like I did. | redbarone | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 06:55 PM |
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| 5 | Digging through the dirt to find Red Pill gold.I was here at the start of this sub when Mystery Method was the way. Then a user joined and got mod status and tried to commericialize it for a while and filled the sidebar full of self help distractions. I used to contribute quite a bit back in the day but the diversion into fuzzy self help stuff only encouraged endless criticism of the things that actually worked and so the sub lost its way for many years. Mission creep happened I guess. A flood of people arrived and wrote field reports for si… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Nothing Is More Important Than FrameDo these words apply perfectly to every woman? No. Duh. Ha. Don't backtrack. You were right the first time. Women manipulate you in ways you don't even know. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/21 05:24 AM |
| 8 | Do you guys remember much of your good times? Am I the only one with a shitty memory?Most of the other advice here is crap. How memory works is that you have to be in a similar frame of mind to recall similar frames of mind. So, if you want to remember the good times, you have to be in a good mood FIRST. The feeling comes FIRST. You get yourself in a good mood FIRST. Pick ANY good memory that instantly comes to mind and step into it and recall what was said, how it all looked, what happened, what it smelled like, felt like, who was there, where were they, what did they say? etc.… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Female "friends" tells me to hook up with their friends.Kind of a shit test. Take the offer if the friend is attractive. If she is not, don't. They're judging your SMV by your response. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | 2 years ago my girlfriend cut me off because my mom died.Looking at your post history, you write really weirdly, like you've been watching Fox/CNN for ten years. Try reading a book for gods sake. You seem to be speaking in media soundbites, so that all your metaphors are borrowed language from TV. What you just wrote here is filled with ....well...it reads like things a woman would write when she's PMS'ing. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | It feels weird to approach people in UKFind, don't create. Talk to lots of women and find one you like. Don't create an ideal in your head and seek it out. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 05:52 AM |
| -1 | It feels weird to approach people in UKI think that tube trains are fucking disgusting to be in. They're hot, smelly, noisy, the air pressure messes with your ears, the oxygen drops and you fall asleep at certain points, they just horrible for speaking to anyone in. On top of that, most people use the tube for their day job which makes using it at any other time a tense experience because you're so used to stressing about being on time and finding the fastest route/exit so you don't get set back ten minutes in the morning which delay… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Hooked up with (ex)-buddy's girl. Should I tell him?Do it. But let him unload his balls a few times before you do so that he doesn't care as much about nexting her. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Dead serious: How to make friends as an adult and what to expect out of adult friendships?How to make friends? You don't make them, you find them. What to expect from them? Go to a bar with them and shoot the shit. You tell jokes, share stories of your adventure and cook up plans between you. You agree to do something to improve a skill or to accomplish a journey together, to accumulate the right resources for a project. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 06:12 AM |
| 2 | What are my options in todays societyRead the shit in the sidebar but then get out of this place, you won't find all your answers in here. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:37 PM |
| 10 | If a woman tried to shame you in public what is the best way to act?Learn to say these words: "Who the fuck are you?" | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Should I monk mode again at age 28?I think you're still missing it though. You shouldn't care if she speaks to you again but you should welcome it if she does. But at the same time, you should be finding other women and finding out what they're like. Giving an ultimatum is asking her to behave like your projection. She can behave however she wants, it's her life. Realise she is trying to tease you and just laugh. Go along with it. Tell her she's such a tease and that the other girl you're dating tonight thinks so too. (you'll hav… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Should I monk mode again at age 28?Oneitis is a projection. YOU'RE doing it to YOU. You have a search image, you're not finding reality as it is. Putting the pussy on a pedestal is a metaphor for placing the real girl behind your constructed one and behaving like she's your mannequin. The mannequin is perfect, the real bitch is far from perfect and she knows you're holding her to unrealistic standards. Stop looking at the projection and look at the chick. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 03:01 AM |
| 4 | Oneitis for ex-wife who left me. Hit on selfworth from divorce is effing up my gameDo not create your LTR. Find her. Don't create some kind of template in your head and force it on a woman. Find out what a bunch of women are like and pick your favourite(s). | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 01:51 AM |
| 7 | Girl Paying more Attention to me after rejection?She said no twice. Leave her alone. She has become a projection of what you have constructed in your mind. She is not that construction. She's something else and isn't for you. Don't chase ghosts, because you'll be really disappointed if you catch one. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 01:27 PM |
| -5 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagI am a Celt. It's a ridiculous notion in the modern world that I should get a tattoo to signify this. It's a relic of the past since, as I said, modern civilisation brought with it the end to tribes. We do not live in tribes any more, we live in societal subgroups of a nation state. Back to tats being masculine/feminine; you have to be an idiot tribe to put warpaint on a woman. Putting gang colours on your hoes is not going to protect your stash for very long. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Are friend suggestions on Facebook as a result of someone viewing your profile? Creepily received friend suggestions from 3 new plates I have just met. This can’t be a coincidence.Not to mention your phone scanning local SSID's and triangulating with GPS. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 11:39 PM |
| 7 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagTat's are ridiculous scribbles. I can't even see what most of them look like, just vague coloured blobs. Tat's on women are as ridiculous as a leg tat on a man's calf. Usually men with not very hairy legs get them done. Gayest shit I've ever seen. Totally pushed and propagated in the last fifteen years by the mass culture industry. Anyone who has got a flouncy artistic tattoo in the last fifteen years has done so because they were successfully marketed to by a culture industry reeling from the e… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 11:33 PM |
| 3 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagIts a thoughtful expression that tells a story and proves courage "Hey Sandra, why'd you get that scribble?" "Uh, I dunno, I just kinda like it, don't you think it's pretty?" "Sure, it's uh..remarkable. " tl;dr it's never any more than a fleeting thought some idiotic young woman once had. Completely transient and vague nonsense that doesn't mean anything only weeks after it's needled into her. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 11:26 PM |
| -7 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagWomen in tribal times got tattooed as well. Well, most of the world is not like NZ bruz. Nobody in western civilisation is part of a tribe. The clue is in the word civilisation. As in Latin: Civilis, which means family/citizen. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 11:23 PM |
| 5 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagThat's because they're still too young to develop their own thinking outside of what their school and popular media have taught them to find attractive. Case in point: Ruby Rose. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagAgreed in full. Apart from one small exception. I had an LTR who had a small tattoo of weird shapes. She said it meant something personal to her. Okay. A year down the track, I find out from her that she is secretly into wicca/witchcraft nonsense and it's a sigil meant to manifest something. Never found out what it was. Whatever it was though, must have worked because she's pretty successful and lives with some other douche in a nice part of town with a good job. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)Man, wtf was the film already? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 01:41 PM |
| 2 | "She looks pissed, you better get home before she does" an example on female privilageThe cop was probably wondering why you didn't slap her to calm her nerves a little. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/19 08:32 AM |
| 69 | That guy fucks. Girls know.After a workout, your pupils dilate, which is both a sign of attraction and is attractive. Obviously your posture is also immediately improved and you're standing just a little taller and taking up more space, emphasising the V taper. There is also nothing going on in your mind after a work out other than food and getting rest. No bullshit floating around in there. Someone else said it, congruent body language, because there is no second guessing your intentions by other competing motivational c… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Feeling really bad about myself, regretting past decisionsFinish things that you started a long time ago. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | How would set up your life in a new city? Fitness, dating, social etc.London is difficult to do anything in other than going to the local for a pint. So get used to planning things. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Going to have sex for first time. Any basic guide?If you've known her for a while, tell her you love her, it'll make it much better for your first time. Even if you don't like her. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 04:50 PM |
| 4 | What to expect from a girl who said she likes guy friends more than girlfriend, because they are "easier"?It means she doesn't cope well with female competition. Otherwise she would be fine with having attractive friends around. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Guys what would be an appropriate gift for a plate or someone you are casually fucking?Get her a hardback copy of The Gulag Archipelago by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with disrespect in this situationThere's no good reason not to call her a stupid cunt. There is none. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Weird situation happened at workYour coworkers looked puzzled because you didn't do anything. i.e. you didnt' assert your professional boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Old Female-friends hate me after raising SMVNice | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 07:09 AM |
| 7 | Stop crying over her - why you can't get over itGreat post, I'll take it a little further. What we do mentally is we construct an image of the person we want to be with (thanks, Jordan Peterson), then we project that on to the so-called oneitis chick. The mistake is in the image. The image should be constructed of your life's purpose. Not some random airhead who doesn't want to live up to your projection. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Plate calling me “bro”Get her to call you big bro when you're railing her. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Other Men Checking Out LTRAfter a few more seconds he shouts "You're a lucky man" You have to be careful here though. This guy exhibited bad behaviour. It was actually aggressive behaviour. He was saying your LTR had a nice ass without saying it. He was forcing a conspiratorial frame between you two to the exclusion of your LTR. You're not that guys friend. You had no need to respond to him at all. He was basically a hungry beggar and you dignified him with a response. I would have treated him like a beggar, raise my han… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Are regional racial characteristics a myth?the point is some French guy in the group Was he a spindly, greasy skinned, rat faced cretin with yellow teeth and a patchy beard and questionable employment status? These things are known as phenotypes. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Apologizing for a woman for past beta behaviorif you give her the power to do them There it is. Your fault. Move on. Never look back. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 09:13 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with 17 year olds displaying high interest?Holiday in Europe | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Apologizing for a woman for past beta behaviorAlso I struggle with whether I mean it or not cause she did really do a number on me. Which was? | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Incorporating beta behaviorsPlease do my thinking for me | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Apologizing for a woman for past beta behaviorI contacted her friends and family and told them things about her that they didn't know. Yes you do owe her an apology and honestly conveying remorse is better for your soul. IF you mean it. But forget gaming her ever again. You should pass on your sincere apologies and never bother her again. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Want your adviceLooking at your comment history, you need the following advice: if you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you. The more you find fault in others, the more you will demonstrate those faults. It's pretty bad that you have children and you're this pathetic. First things first, you have to manage your moods with exercise and lifting. Then tackle each point you made one by one. It's not rocket science. You should be very frightened of being pathetic. Get out and work any job until you hav… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.She should be put on a no-fly list and her citizenship revoked. Her father is not British born and he should assume the liability of her repatriation to HIS homeland which is some shithole country somewhere. She is HIS mess. He should also have the citizenship revoked. Turn their fucking lives upside down and backwards to teach the others a lesson or they will just repeat their cycle of hatred, born of their backward and incompatible culture. Find the RP analogy in that if you will. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How to hold frame while having tests for a terminal illness?Your biggest hurdle is the feeling of dread and the mood that you are in. Everything seems dark and immediate. It seems like you have most of your life choices cut off or shortened and that you don't know what to do with your days because of it. You're probably thinking about how to restructure your life if you get bad news. You're trying to rationalise and bargain with death. It's the first stage of grief. The best you can do is to hurry up and change the way you feel about your situation and g… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The sudden "Why?" shittestWhat a massive cuckold. Idgaf if she doesn't like me asking whether or not she's on the rag. It's her problem. If she is acting up, I wouldn't be calling her "baby" either. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | 6”2 roided chad called me nigger behind my back don’t think he would have a problem doing it again either. What to do in future if it happens again?It's high school. Let it run off your back. He's a big fish in a small pond right now. The pond has a time limit though. The rules change when you enter the Big Wide World and consequences begin to come your way. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Vaginal clench - impossible to fuckYes, let her take control of sex at the start. i.e. she goes on top. Don't rush her either or get pissed off. If she's actually a virgin she'll have a kind of vag gag reflex she needs to overcome on the first few times. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis Over a ColleagueDry humping your crotch? Trying to kiss you. Asking if you want to fuck? Short of that kind of behaviour, just leave her alone and focus on other women. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis Over a ColleagueControl yourself. If she's not sufficiently attracted to you that she throws herself at you, it will only end in career destroying ways. She's probably fucking ugly as well, but you're just desperate. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Weaponized Fraternal LanguageTotes made me laugh. Especially the part where I'M gross. Especially because I'm lying in bed and I look at myself in the wardrobe mirrors and all I can see is shitty messy room and that look on my face where I'm straining to open my eyes wide enough to see myself. I'm a pig right now. I know I could change everything in mere minutes and tidy the room, throw shit out etc. but yet here I am wallowing in my own filth. But it's warm filth. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/19 06:24 PM |
| 4 | What compels a woman to bed underage boys?Rape is a plant with yellow flowers. The ancient historical implication being that a victim may have been dragged into a field of rape to be sexually assaulted. Rape is a hocus pocus word with an historical meaning hijacked by the law society for its business. I fail to see how someone can be raped. Does it mean hit over the back with the rape plant? Thrown into a bush of rape? Let's call it sexual assault which is closer to the truth instead of using pre-logical feministic language designed for… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 12:52 PM |
| 173 | Hello TRP, Any advise for 33 year old Virgin. Its like burning volcano in my mind.If you're 33 and haven't had sex before, pay for it. Pay double or triple if you have to. It's your own fault you haven't had it yet, so it's up to you to break the cycle one way or another. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Would getting a Star Wars tattoo look too nerdy/beta?Depends. Did you make a Star Wars franchise film? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 12:17 PM |
| 3 | A reminder to live your fucking life"Now buy my book!" ...kidding. Great post. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/18 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Cockblocking yourself 101Yeh. The red carpet couldn't have been redder. You were just stuck in your head by the looks of it. You were stuck in your old way of doing things, even though you KNOW better now, you just haven't had the mental calibration. Don't worry, do this a few more times and you wont even fucking wait the obligatory five minutes to begin kino. The worst that happens is that they pull away or say something like 'you're going too fast' to which you say 'oh, sorry' and wait five minutes before continuing a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Women who say "lets talk a bit first" in online dating. What do they mean?That's great | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Vaping & exercisingVaping is about as red pilled as a Hillary campaign manager. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 01:40 PM |
| 3 | How do you hold frame when you fuck up at work?You don't need to hold frame at work. You need to stick to procedure and process. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 12:20 PM |
| 15 | Why securing the F-close doesn't always need to be the end-goal of an interactionIt wasn't even really to get another plate as she was about an HB5 and not really my type. This invalidates your entire post. If she was a 6 you would have fucked her, a 7 you would have fucked her and arranged another date, an 8, you would have fucked up your interaction and failed a shit test and fucked your hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/18 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted after 9 monthsHaving had to read through your unparagraphed mess, it's almost as if you create a burden for others. Maybe you have more to sort out than a simple case of oneitis, which could be fixed by a tinder hook up. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 05:08 AM |
| 8 | My mom causes arguments out of nothing and I can't fucking handle it any more. What do?You need social proof, bring over another mother and dread her into submission. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Did I just get deframed? I sure feel like I did.It’s not a shit test it’s a comfort test as she cares what you think of her. You already had this one in the bag she just didn’t know why you liked her. Great response, thanks! I knew I was missing something. It's not like I don't know these things but when it's happening, it's hard to track where you are sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Did I just get deframed? I sure feel like I did.Thanks for the advice. Already have a tinder set up for Tuesday. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 07:51 PM |
| -1 | Did I just get deframed? I sure feel like I did.If you were half as capable as you proclaim yourself to be you wouldn't be here on the interwebs asking for advice, fucktard. Says the regular contributor Enjoy that sexual harassment claim when it knocks you off your perch, kiddo. Later, tater. What, from hospitality? Give me a break. Everyones fucking each other. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 07:26 PM |
| -3 | Did I just get deframed? I sure feel like I did.I'll shit where I want to. "Don't shit where you eat" is great advice for the less capable. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 07:11 PM |
| -4 | Did I just get deframed? I sure feel like I did.All you had to say was you don't know. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | react to her talking to her ex without being a little bitch about it?Do you explain to your car why you want to make a right turn at the next corner? I fucking love this sub! | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?Don't hate me, son. I just say what I see. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?Is he black? Then he has a cultural legacy from Africa, passed on through genetic memory with all that that culture entails. Including: unquestioning deference only to a tribal leader or unquestioning deference to an elder. Low IQ. Children raised by the tribe, not by a father. Because the only authority they are raised to abide by is a tribal leader, like a pastor, or a dumb alcoholic grandfather, they don't respect the authority of the wider community in Western civil society. So sex with a bl… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?Smart women see a man's culture and judge him on it. Desperate women lower the barrier to entry. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?That makes zero sense. It's like denying culture exists. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?Maybe you're the racist, implying, as you are, that white people are not allowed to criticise black people for their behaviour and culture, but that the reverse is absolutely fine. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?So why the thread? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?Well then that's an obvious pattern and you really have to question where she is in life. Maybe she doesn't want to have kids with black men and it's just a fetish like WMAF. Maybe she's choosing you for that. It's up to you to know what you want from her. Also, have you tried asking her what she see's in black men that you have? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:55 PM |
| 6 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?A size queen who has fucked miles of black root? Not a chance. Far too many risks attached. If somehow she was in a loving relationship with a black man, and he wasn't a nigger, then it would be quite reasonable to chalk it up like any other ex she had. It's not like I haven't had sex with black women. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Cancel her contract?Bring a prostitute. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 12:03 AM |
| 0 | "Why do you flirt with so many women? How would you feel if I flirted with other men?""You do it anyway, cunt. Don't pretend you've magically stopped advertising your clam on my account." | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How to keep girls & social success off my brain despite being a virgin?Don't do hookers. Put the goals on the back burner for a few weeks until you find someone to fuck. Get it done, don't be precious. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 08:27 AM |
| 0 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?I've sold nothing. I haven't pointed to any commercial products. I haven't pointed to studies. Anyone reading can take my anecdote and do their own research. All you have is a strawman argument and trite caricatures. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 12:36 AM |
| -2 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Your experience was textbook placebo effect. Anyone can look up the scientific studies done in the 90's and make their own mind up whether or not to shell out a few shekels for the experiment. You seem to be trying to shut down that option for readers. The scientific studies for Androstenone were done 20 something years ago. Come on man, teenagers read this shit and might believe your idiotic claims It's not my claims, I told you an anecdote. The studies are out there that contain claims. Anyone… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 11:32 PM |
| -1 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Someone else linked the study. I recall the stuff coming out in about 1994 and it was called androstenone, they have since then synthesised several other pheromones which I haven't tried. DYOR. If you really want academic studies, they're out there. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 10:58 PM |
| -3 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Yeh yeh.. blah blah blah. I didn't produce a data sheet in the 90's. But you're a dumbass if you don't try it yourself. Simple A/B testing. Do strangers touch your fucking chest everyday? No? Well they do with synthetic pheromones. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 10:55 PM |
| -5 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Sorry, you're talking bollocks. I tried pheromones (androstenone?) a long time ago and the results were clear as day. The stuff turned certain women on very noticeably. I was a skinny teen at the time and grown women were coming up to me touching my chest and acting weird. Once, some older chick from my local scene just walked right up to me and grabbed me by the lapels while breathing heavily and kissed me. It was a stark contrast between that and the days I didn't wear the stuff, which would b… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay for a man to not have a sense of urgency?Get a dart. Get a world map. Innovate. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 10:05 PM |
| 6 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?I've worked with her for three days so far Shut up and listen. She's telling you the basics so that she doesn't have to clean up your mess. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm probably otherthinking or did I find my fault?Yet here you are, a tearful incel. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | It’s one thing to be ugly in one country... it’s another to be ugly in ALL of them.Honestly, open immigration has caused a huge and growing divide in the last five years in Europe and you're probably getting the brunt of that process. Fifteen years ago the opposite was true and Indians were cleaning up in the sexual marketplace, but now the market is over saturated. You're the victim of recent bad press, it's as simple as that and it's going to take a generation to swing back the other way. Start there, face that fact and build on it. Also...Indian women are some of the most b… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 06:54 AM |
| 5 | What is losing your father like?I lost my stepfather a couple years ago. I'll always remember saying goodbye just a couple of days before he went. You suddenly realise YOU're the father now. You're that archetype. You're the leader and you better fucking get moving. YOU carry on the line. But you're 19. 19 is still childhood. Early 20's is when you begin to think with any degree of responsibility, when your hormones calm down. Your past becomes definite and delineated. Before and after. The fire grows hot under your ass. You k… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Sick of being surrounded by losers. Advice?You'd be surprised. The thing about depressed people is that they think their way of life is just the way it is. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 11:26 AM |
| 3 | “LOL you think I just hand out my number like that?”"Yes. What is it?" | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 10:40 AM |
| 4 | How would you reply back to this message?"Neverday" and next the dumb bitch. Then next yourself you brainlet. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 09:24 AM |
| 5 | To those who have grown through breakup, rejection, fuck up’s, divorces etc. Does time heal all ?Time doesn't do it. It's what you do that does. If you wanted to change how you feel about an ex, you could do that. You could do an NLP pattern intensively for a short while to get you to feel very differently about that ex to the point of not caring about them any more. But then the question becomes whether you want to actually do that and put them behind you or not. Whether you want to remove them from your life or not. Whether you actually want to feel nothing special about them when you thi… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 06:43 AM |
| -1 | Are women almost always observing?Cool story man. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Plate’s boyfriend finds out she was cheating. Broken ?Their relationship was long distance There is no such thing. Schrodinger's boyfriend. Now that you know that's the case, then... Her boyfriend found out that she spent the night with me ....should mean something totally different to you. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Are women almost always observing?This is a field of study in itself. They are always observing, they just aren't necessarily arriving at logical conclusions. If they were always observing and making good judgments, you wouldn't have women walking through city parks in the dead of night to take a shortcut. You wouldn't have them walking in the middle of the pavement while people are trying to get past and go about their business. They're chronically unaware unless you're high status. They only respond to status. Money/resources.… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Plate’s boyfriend finds out she was cheating. Broken ?she tells me her boyfriend found out that she was basically with me. Crucial info left out. Don't talk in riddles and maybe you'll get an answer. What does this even mean? It looks like you're using female language to describe a situation. I would advise against this. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | 22yo Recovering addict. Need some suggestions on social circle growth.but I would like to meet people that aren’t sober, but also aren’t bar rats ..............that are more my age that are driven Well, they're everywhere. You'll find them at networking events. You've actually said you found some in "the sobriety community" but that they weren't the same age as you. Maybe some of them have younger friends if age is that important to you. I've said enough now. You're coming across as someone who either doesn't know what they want or had what they wanted and realise… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | 22yo Recovering addict. Need some suggestions on social circle growth.Okay, well, you say you have 4-6 plates. So what do you need a bigger social circle for? Bartenders have the easiest ready-made-expandable social circle in the world. As long as you keep yourself in shape, numbers come flying over the counter at you. You also say you're a college student. Well, you can't work and study AND have a massive social circle. It doesn't work like that. About 24-36 hours of your week are spent studying or procrastinating. You can't have it all. Either study and graduate… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 02:46 PM |
| 0 | 22yo Recovering addict. Need some suggestions on social circle growth.it just isn’t much fun for me if the gathering is centered around drinking And it's not much fun to have you there if you're standing stoney faced while others are letting their hair down over one or two beers. I have many friends but they are all people I met in the sobriety community Sounds like hell. I'd simply recommend that you study psychology and the important papers, back to Martin Seligman's dog shocking experiments in the 1970's. You're a poorly trained puppy if you can't stop at two b… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 09:17 AM |
| -1 | can someone convince me that blowjobs are normal?I want my cock sucked and I don't want to fuck Certain types of men really enjoy sucking cock and are well practiced at it. So you could try them if all you want is to have your cock sucked. They're often big guys who are well groomed, they have beards but have long eyelashes and fingernails. It's a counterintuitive display. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 03:17 PM |
| 69 | What are some good techniques for lasting longer in bed,Sleeping pills can get you up to 12 hours straight through. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Broke up with LTR, tried having sex with another girl but failedYour ex wasn't a 9. Maybe to you she was. The truth is you just blinded yourself to all her bad habits and imperfections and projected your own values onto her. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 06:14 PM |
| 6 | What are women actually good at?Sales and marketing, promotion and PR, organisation and distribution. Creative productions. Sometimes achingly beautiful art. Lots more. Client facing roles and networking. Try not to extend their biological imperative to the other 90% of life and work. Go and work with some effective women and find out what they're good at. Just putting them down because they fuck around is a miscalculation. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | (Career Related) I have a broad term of what I want my career to be, but I don't act towards it.Just lift. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with junior girl employee coworker that is lying?Mate...why are you typing all this shit without the common courtesy of using paragraphs? What it got me confused was the change in her attitude Right, well...may I suggest that she probably doesn't like you and doesn't want to learn from you because you're on the spectrum. So that's why I came here to ask for help. I'm genuinely interested in the well-being of others without having any short-term gain I don't think you are. You're interested in how you feel when you think you've maybe helped oth… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:50 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with junior girl employee coworker that is lying?You say a couple of worrisome things. I was trying to push her to improve This needs expanding. HOW were you doing this? Maybe she knows what is best for her at this time. It certainly seems like you have a company riddled with incompentence. I'm not specifically her boss, but she is under me in this project. What, have you been sitting on her all this time? Protip: never mind your fuckwit job title, communicate with her as your fellow man/woman and you'll start to get better results from people… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Do you like black girls? do you like tall girls? do you like petite girls?"Spoke English well" is to say concisely that the standard or level of English that was spoken was "well", as in "well done". "Spoke good English" is to say nothing of the level of English but just that it was good in general. Like an apple is good if it is edible, it can still be in varying states of decay. So, while the grammar is correct, the conveyance of meaning is distorted. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:00 AM |
| 7 | [Serious] What are your favorite openers you use with nice success in indirect daygame?"Hey does this cloth smell like chloroform?"...etc. and so forth. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 10:42 PM |
| 2 | LTR going on ‘girls holiday’, Thoughts?Looks like she's got options and you don't. Go get some options, organise something, whatever. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | LTR went out last night, still isn't back. Instant hard next?I'm going to go against the grain here and say that, although, yes the LTR is over, that a good position to be in is using her solely for sex, remove all non sexual attention until you are fucking someone else, when you should remove her from your life. That is, do what women do all-the-fucking-time and USE her as a dump until you find someone better. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Told my LTR to get her things and leaveCringefest here. Face facts, you weren't able to summon some friends for a couple of drinks. Your gf had every right to be embarrassed by this and act accordingly. Not only did you mess up a night out, but you affected the gf's friends plans as well and she wasn't even in the same city as you. It's a good thing for you to blow it off with this oneitis, because you can't organise a piss-up in a brewery. You need to go out and earn some friends by being a chad. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 05:08 PM |
| 11 | plate says I am "manipulative" and "play games"My question is why does she think I am manipulating her? Projection. (And because her stock manipulation tactics are not ....immediately....working on you......at this time.....for now....presently) | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Plate found "The Art of Seduction" in my bookshelf""is the image I had of who you are, fake? " No bitch, it's a projection of what you want from a man. Lrn2JordanPeterson already. What should I respond? You should tell her to stop worrying her pretty little head about things. Or how about this: "shut up idiot. don't waste my time with adversarial mindbending fuckwittery, I read books like that just to level the playing field with mind scrambling harpies like yourself. " My advice, use my last suggestion. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 10:18 PM |
| 3 | What to do when she's talking nonsense? Ignore?Because 8 years isn't enough time wasted... | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 2 | How can I check if my girlfriend is a major whore that is good at hiding it?this girl is 21 stone, it's why she..lost her virginity at 19 FTFY | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 03:01 PM |
| -2 | My best friend's girlfriend flirts with me, texted me telling me she's attracted to me, and I don't know what to do.How good a friend is your friend? If he hasn't had your back in a physical fight, then fuck her. Is he a childhood friend? Then don't fuck her. Will you know him in a year? No? Then fuck her. The choice is yours. Her pussy probably feels really good, especially when you have that guilty pleasure feeling. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Have girls ever given you any GOOD romantic advice?Again. Again. Again... Nobody asked about asking women for advice. Nobody asked about the bad advice they give. You're either projecting or reframing or both. Don't misrepresent my words please. Women DO give good advice now and again. Women DO give advice which is totally in line with TRP theory. Some women at some times. Look at OP's question before you answer again and try to parse it logically. Women DO give TRP advice the way we need it sometimes. Sure it's once in a blue moon, but it happe… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Have girls ever given you any GOOD romantic advice?This is actually a good question and one you don't see so much. My sister told me in my early 20s to use face cream if I still want to be fucking young women when I'm older. At least it was honest advice. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 02:04 AM |
| 0 | Have girls ever given you any GOOD romantic advice?OP didn't ask about bad advice. OP asked about good advice. I think it's a good question, if you can't answer it, don't wave your dick around. Of course we know women give bad advice, but some don't, some are very honest and revealing. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 02:01 AM |
| 3 | What does a girl interlocking her arm with yours while you're walking with her mean?It means she's not not attracted to you. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps getting emotional and stoping during sex; what’s going on here?Dread game her to make her behave like a fucking adult. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Peculiar shit testAlso I took this girls virginity and i'm like 99 percent sure she didn't cheat I'm sorry to break it to you... | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Since women love feeling different emotions, should you purposefully make an ltr or plate mad/sad/etc. just for this purpose?About ten minutes before sex, yes. Shout at her and dominate her over some pointless argument while laughing inside. Then fuck her. The sex is great. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend found a Selfie a girl sent me a while back, how should i handle this?Possibly? Or ...always. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for quitting pot?If all your friends smoke, it's going to be difficult. You need to expand your circle and hang out with high achievment types. In other words, ditch your dopey friends for six months and go live in another city or something. Weed is a scourge, it really is. People who smoke it do nothing. And I used to smoke it too! And for as long as I did, I did nothing. It's a major threat to your life when you consider how short life is. tl;dr: physically move away from weed and those who smoke it. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend hangs out 1 to 1 with this guy she's known since childhood. I'm not concerned she'll do something with him but I don't like the situation. How do I tell her this without coming out as insecure/butthurt?I agree with the other posters here. But realistically? It's rarely the childhood friend you have to worry about. It's the Chad she's not telling you about that you do. Maybe next time she'll tell you she's meeting childhood friend but it's Chad. Stop wasting time thinking about it and go and spin some plates. Life is too short. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Problem With Oneitis: I need TRP's Help!but hey, at least I'm graduating top of my class and got accepted to 2 Ivey League schools And yet it will never be enough for her. So it's best you choose to keep your head down and let Chad make the decisive moves. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Problem With Oneitis: I need TRP's Help!Chad is railing her cunny red raw right now, but good job, you got a hug. Thank god you didn't grab her and kiss her before you asked for permission. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | (27M) Kissless virgin who never had sex or a girlfriend. Need clarification on something that happened recently.Go traveling, fuck a hooker or two in asia. Hurry up, you're 27, you could be dead next year. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Why do chicks love dudes in bands even though a lot of them are pretty whiny, sensitive, and are usually weirdos that write poetry?As a musician, I think it's because there is an indicator of capability. I've heard women say that even if a guy has a guitar in his hand, she gets soaked. So it seems to me they see an archetype and get turned on. Just like seeing a guy with a beard identifies a man to them, even though he may be a chinless beta, so seeing a guy with a guitar is like seeing one using pneumatic tools to dig up a road, it signals survival value. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Roosh's book Day Bang? Have you tried his techniques yet? Are they really more effective than being "direct"?Don't talk down to people. You're either affected in a reactive way to 'the small stuff' or you're trying to AMOG /u/cl3537 . | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Where to find other dudes that are a positive addition to your life?Meet people at work? In bars? Organise something yourself and invite people. And learn to balance new friends with old. If you don't water the plant, it will wither and die off. Keep up with your old friends even if you think they're boring. They'll grow up sooner or later. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 10:50 AM |
| 1 | How to pass this shit test:"Yeh I'm the creepy guy, smell my armpits bitch" Thought experiment: can you imagine being pissed off that she's blatantly hitting on you? Imagine being annoyed because you're not remotely attracted to her. Maybe experiment with that frame for a while. Then you might start to speak like a smart ass to her. Stand up close to her and sniff her. "Hey I'm not sure about your pheromones, are you fertile?" Strip her confidence right off if she DARES come up to another guy to call him creepy. Let's be … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 10:34 AM |
| -2 | How to pass the “OMG, you’re still a baby” shit test when an older woman finds out you’re younger than them?Well I don't mind how old you are as long as your cunt still works. It still works right? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Somebody talk me out of sending this. Or not.She offered to meet me for a quick drink despite feeling shitty, but said she wasn’t in the mood for sex after, so I declined. Sorry, you failed. She had the decency to show you she was telling the truth but you rejected her. You could have met her and still fucked her. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:12 PM |
| 5 | "What are you, my dad?"Why didn't you put her in a full nelson and half rape her? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:45 PM |
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