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If you're not sure where to begin with this, I highly recommend the structure found in The 5-Minute Journal. And while buying the book is a great way to support the authors, the structure is so simple any notebook will do. There's also an app. But I highly recommend the physical act of going old school for this. Always use paper, pen or pencil for journaling.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 04:28 PM
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Take her camping / backpacking / traveling. Observe her challenged and out of natural element. Can she cope? Does she take discomfort in stride? How does she handle inconvenience and stress?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 09:12 PM
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To add to the list, I'd add points for women who... Were raised with siblings (even better if she has experience caring for younger sibs) ...Where some of her siblings were brothers Come from an intact two-parent home ...With parents who have patterned good communication and how to get along Has respect for her father Had to work to earn what she's got (e.g., put self through school) Have some experience/exposure to foreign cultures Grew up with some religiosity or a value structure Has a low pa…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 09:10 PM
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I can't say enough in favor of the Practical Female Psychology book. ...And for those who want more from the same authors, I recommend Franco's Manual of Seduction. Also, over here's a page where Joseph W. South goes into some back-story and expansion of PFP.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/17 09:43 PM
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I agree with Phoenix. It's easy to rationalize making it just a physical thing. "Hey," your brain says, "If I can get laid regularly out of this, it's a win". But your hindbrain will associate those endorphins, oxytocin, and other neurotransmitters with your ex. It'll make it harder to make or keep that emotional break, to not get sucked in. I know I differ from other RP'ers on this--many of whom think there aren't any downsides to non-committal sex--but your big head really does think more clea…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 08:43 PM
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The solution to getting over an ex? Cognitive Behavioral Therapy! You can do this yourself. It's best done shortly before or right after you break up so that your memory is fresh and not yet polluted by hagiography. Take a card. On one side, right down all the things you like about the other person. Be truthful, but don't get overly effusive. On the other side, write down all the things you DISLIKE about the other person. Be sure to get exhaustive here. Name specific negative examples. Also list…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 10:19 PM
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I simply mean that your wife may hold a standard in her head (even if irrational) for what/how a husband ought to believe/act based on her perception of god and christ. Those archetypes may be her ideals for male-ness, her father figures. Now the fact that you've left the faith means that her assumption of you both sharing the same ideal male figure has been tipped on its head. In response, she might start getting (irrationally) judgmental on you. This might take the form of her being increasing…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 06:23 PM
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This doesn't answer your question all the way but I'm absolutely certain that Judeo-Christian religion with its depiction of male leadership--God (and Christ) as all-powerful, all-knowing and ever-present... And with the Christ figure whose sacrifice, one is taught, makes him perfectly empathetic... is just about the most optimal blend of alpha and beta that one could envision. There may be no better mix of alpha+beta qualities in literature. (Doesn't the Book of Revelation in the NT even refer …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 09:42 PM
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The switch to red-pill thinking is just like switching to any new belief system. At some point for all of us, we saw that the "old" way just wasn't matching reality. It didn't explain the evidence or the lived experience (w.r.t women) right in front of us. So, we were hungry and ripe for a change. In fact, we couldn't NOT change. The old way of thinking just no longer made sense; it required too many exceptions. By contrast, red-pill thinking (which is a huge over-simplifying couple of words, BT…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 06:43 PM
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Ever notice how most women who focus on shaming older men for dating younger women can't help but tacitly objectify the younger women in the process? Their critique is too often centered on what the MAN is (wrongly) getting from the relationship. They focus on the MALE's (bad) motives and needs, assuming HE's the only one capable of getting them met. By contrast, the younger women's volition and independence rarely figures into the discussion. How SHE could be benefiting from the relationship is…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:51 PM
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Another mid-50's here checking in. Exactly that: it takes something catastrophic. There's a psychological framework (I forget the source) that describes how one needs to be first become truly humbled or deeply shaken to in order to unfreeze from or question one's fundamental assumptions about male/female relationships One has to reach that scary realization (and it truly is unsettling) that one's current beliefs just aren't capable of explaining what's going on around you before your brain will …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 04:50 PM
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That quote has always struck me as one of the dumbest feminist wartime rationalizations one could possibly utter. Okay, Hillary, if the dead husbands, fathers, and sons truly have it so much better while the surviving women are the REAL victims, why not offer these women a cyanide pill or a bullet and immediately grant them the same "privilege"?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:14 PM
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Excellent story. It took me 15 years to get this one right. The first time I refused to leave, wife was surprised. I said with amusement, "I'm not the one upset. If you don't want to be here, you can be the one to take the couch." (About any continuation into a pattern of sleeping in separate bedrooms, I'd address it once that became apparent, once it becomes a separate issue. No need to address the issue before it's ever an issue. That sounds too beta).
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:54 AM
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