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| -4 | I've come to the conclusion some guys go out solely for the purpose of cockblocking.Maybe you need to talk such guys and turn in to a wingman so that they at least get occupied enough to not cock block you . | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 03:00 PM |
| 13 | How do I attract white womenNewsflash, buddy!! | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 02:08 PM |
| 2 | What's the most effective approach for initiating conversations with girls on Bumble, Hinge, or Instagram's explore page through DMs?Knock knock jokes | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Delete and remake your dating apps if you’re striking out.That will last temporarily, if fundamentally your profile isn't able to get matches then you are back to square one. Moreover you could get a much higher ELO score in the long term with more profile updates and more matches acting like a feedback loop. Deleting and restarting your profile has its limits | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Delete and remake your dating apps if you’re striking out.Updating pics is the best way, even dating profile bio. Like keep taking good pics at different locations and add them to your profile. If you found a funny line add it to your bio and keep changing it every other week or something. Narrowing down the girl is hard to convey, everyone has their own preferences. Maybe try not to swipe right the girls you know will never Swipe right you back. For me I narrowed down to girls who like to go out to party because they are more likely to be extroverted … | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 01:13 PM |
| 6 | Delete and remake your dating apps if you’re striking out.Don't delete your profile, you will lose the ELO score you built up. Just keep updating your profile frequently, like once a week and narrow down types of girl you swipe. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 09:10 AM |
| 4 | is walking away the powerful thing to do or salty thing to do?Her leaving you on read is your out with her. You don't have to contact her again till she responds to you | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | I am able to sleep with a lot of women but only because they approach me. I have no game whatsoever. What should I do?Why don't you start approaching women you like? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | what's the nicet/kindest way to tell a girl you're not interested? (without actually saying it)Ask them if they have any single friends | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Before I left, I got out of my car and asked for her number. In front of her mom.Is that you Berchtold? | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 03:04 PM |
| 5 | dajting apps and some women who enjoy leading desperate guy on for attentionYou'd be surprised how many loaded simps would swipe right to that | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Is this a test?Asking her to reschedule the date on another day makes more sense. You don't want to be the one that keeps checking whether she is done hanging out with the guy who is moving away | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 08:08 AM |
| 13 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Netflix and chill | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | First time approaching a girl in 5 years - Nerdy Introvert Infield - First recording everI agree here, OP could still have persued despite her having mentioned the bf Sure, but the bigger point is her mentioning the bf that early is an IOD/shit test which means his approach needs to improve to avoid that in the first place | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 10:56 AM |
| 1 | First time approaching a girl in 5 years - Nerdy Introvert Infield - First recording everbut i disagree with you about op's approach. It wasnt perfect but for 5 years gap that was pretty good and he seemed to have talked more than I had expected him to. I just wanted to encourage OP for taking the step he did. other times it will just be a rejection while other times it'll be a shit test. lots of things it could mean, but treating it as a shit test pushes boundaries and builds experience and that's all good shit. This is why many great PUAs consider mentioning bf a shit test no matt… | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 07:05 AM |
| 1 | First time approaching a girl in 5 years - Nerdy Introvert Infield - First recording everI have lost almost all hope for this subreddit. No one even discusses the core basics of pickup | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 08:15 PM |
| -7 | First time approaching a girl in 5 years - Nerdy Introvert Infield - First recording everHer mentioning the bf is a shit test, regardless if there is an actual one or not. If the girl is mentioning her bf pretty early it means she thinks the approach is a bit strong I am not suggesting all girl's cheat, but all girls react to pickup predictably. Thats the point, you need to be aware about what you are doing right and what you are doing wrong based on her reactions. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 11:10 AM |
| -4 | First time approaching a girl in 5 years - Nerdy Introvert Infield - First recording everYou did an awesome job here given your first time in 5 years Just remember that she mentioned her boyfriend pretty early, which means you need to improve your approach. Good luck and dont stop trying | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?I'm halfway through models right now Read one model fully to understand the whole game once, then read other models to see where you can tweak it to what suits you best IMO Mystery Method Model i.e M3 should be the starting point for knowing all models. It simplifies the entire game into 3 phases, with 3 level in each phase. So you can basically finetune your game levele wise when you realize at what level you have sticking points | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | In an extreme girl/guy ratio at a party, how to focus attention on one?Right now I just divide attention equally, flirt/dance with everyone which loses the attraction when girl A sees me treating her friend the same way I interact with her. You are supposed to go for the hottest one every time. Quickly rate them when you see them and when you figure out which one you think is the hottest. you give most of the attention to her in the beginning i.e Attraction phase. Now in case an obstacle comes in between you two, give attention to them, this will also work as a tak… | /r/seduction | 27/11/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How are some people able to get laid on tinder even without a date?Its fool's mate | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 02:30 PM |
| 5 | [Serious] What do you say when a girl calls you hot?I agree with this, the proper way for guys to handle compliments is to not make a big deal about it. If you try to make a big deal about it then it show that you dont usually get compliments so you are demonstrating lower value. People with higher value get compliments all the time so they just say thanks and move on Getting a compliment is also clearly an Indicator of Interest, escalate accordingly | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 10:11 AM |
| 1 | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itI just feel like a little pussy, and I hate it. I don´t want to feel so miserable anymore. Please help me crawl out of this miserable, probably self-made pit. Make more/new friends and also look for more long term relationships with your new partners. You dont have to be stuck with the same friends | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Advice On Sealing The DealSo I'd just like to hear a few suggestions regarding what would have been a good move in this situation. I didn't know whether to just kiss her, ask if she wanted to go upstairs to her room, be honest about it, or whatever else. Would appreciate any suggestions. You should have moved to a slightly different location where you two can be relatively alone or atleast farther from her friends and kissed her. Now there is a somewhat of a rule that you need to spend anywhere between 4-10 hours with he… | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Creating sexual tension and attraction during the day vs. at nightIt is comfort only when you are doing it properly. That is build attraction initially then moving towards comfort with the game which includes physical escalation To us escalation has mostly seemed sexual but to women if done right it will be comfort because that is where the PUA is taking the game. I think its better to escalate with that mindset as well or chances are you will either be incongruent or just straight skip to seduction which isnt always a good thing depending on what your goals a… | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Creating sexual tension and attraction during the day vs. at nightIOI's don't matter blah blah but there was no physical indication of interest. IOIs kinda matter but the rule if thumb is you should start escalating within 20 minutes. Or else the chances of you getting flaked rises Also with 4 hours, I didnt mean all at one time necessarily. Lets say you were only able to spend 1 hour 10 minutes with her on one day. Then attempt an F close only after you have finished spending 2 hours & 50 minutes of comfort (tl;dr of the 4 hr comfort rule - if the average tim… | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 06:09 PM |
| 14 | Creating sexual tension and attraction during the day vs. at nightTo create sexual tension you need to move her to a relatively more private location and escalate a little (touch and kiss), this is after you have been fun/flirty/funny etc in the initial stage of the date What to us guys is sexual tension (kissing/touching) is actually 'comfort' to women Attempt an F close after clocking totally 4 hours of comfort with her | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Zero joy last nightTry to get a wing man than can help you keep your targets friends distracted | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 06:46 PM |
| 10 | I got the farthest last night. Here's how it went.I just got out of a 6 year relationship 2 months ago.. This has been very hard, but I wanted to boast a bit about my success last night, even if there was a bit of failure. You did pretty good if you are just starting out. The only problem I see is you paying for other people. It doesnt matter if you know someone there and pay less but people you are with are seeing that you are paying for them and thats bad It comes off like you will pay to buy time from them | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How to keep a conversation going?In the initial approach phase you shouldnt be talking too much anyway. You only need to worry about talking during comfort Initially just talk some to get her attention, then just stay silent if you dont have anything to say but project a good body language in doing so. Before comfort you can speak any nonsense as long as you are not coming of needy or desperate | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Good answers when being hit with "I have a boyfriend"?No | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who can't move if the girl is not attractive enough?I know I wouldn't feel too great to be "learned on" by a girl. I guess it feels ungenuine if I'm not actually attracted. Thoughts? What is your ultimate goal here? For me my goal is being able to go to any girl I like and make her mine. In order to do that I must have my game in order. I want to have control over myself and control over the entire situation rather than fumbling and worrying about what I did wrong or what I could have done differently The best way to do that is to do it over and … | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Good answers when being hit with "I have a boyfriend"?Dude value is subconsciously noticed by everyone not just the girl you are talking to. If you have demonstrated low/lower value to one girl in the room, its likely most girls in the room have noticed simply from the way you are behaving/reacting | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Good answers when being hit with "I have a boyfriend"?Are there things I can say/do or do I take it as a sign that she's not interested? Its an indicator of disinterest Just say anything that will keep your value high like, "Oh you think I was hitting on you?? how adorable" OR "Do you want an award for it or something?" and then continue talking to her Or just straight out ignore her and continue talking to her normally | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Am I the only one who can't move if the girl is not attractive enough?You should practice on all types of girls to calibrate different techniques and perhaps recognize different patterns among them The way you behave with 9s & 10s could actually make you obnoxious with average looking girls. So you need to prepare your game with all kinds of girls. Practicing game with girls you are not attractive should actually be a lot easier because you are doing it for the skill/knowledge rather than the outcome The motivation should be the improvement of your game | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 07:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I'm old and out of practice, but inner game goes a LONG wayI am more interested in the false time constraint | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Should I try to talk to/date women immediately after ending a LTR or should I purely focus on myself?I'm basically a rookie when it comes to game. I have no idea what I'm doing and I fail miserably, but that doesn't stop me from putting myself out there and trying Then focus on your game purely from skill point of view rather than getting a women. If you managed to take things far and you are still not ready just let them know you are not ready | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I have more times that I can count got a girl from club to my house, only to find out at my house they do not actually want anything. Where do I go wrong??You most likely need to build more comfort/rapport before you go for an F close | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Pickup isn't about trying to impress others; it's about having fun with rejection and being confident whether people like you or notMaybe | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 06:21 AM |
| 1 | I finally had the eureka moment I've needed for a long time. I know what I need to do, I just don't know where to start. Someone point me in the right direction? (inner game)Eventually though, I just told her that I want to date her again. I said that I know I behaved in a needy way and that was stupid, and it won't happen again. Then I just said if you wanna go out for drinks again, that's awesome. If not, that sucks but let me know if you change your mind. She didn't reply - but that's fine. I've made my position clear, and if she contacts me again, I'll deal with it there and then.' I think you shouldnt have conveyed you were interested in her. But whats done is … | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Pickup isn't about trying to impress others; it's about having fun with rejection and being confident whether people like you or notLong time lurker first time poster here. Look at Pickup/Seduction or whatever you wanna call it as video game. You are doing lot of things in the video game and having fun, rejection is like dying in the video game. It sucks a little but hey you can play the level again and its more fun when you passed that hurdle without dying and also learn more skills that prepares you for future levels. When you realize how dying in the game is improving your skill you will even consider it as fun when you s… | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 07:02 PM |
| 10 | 30 years old, just got laid for the first time. There is hope after allHow did you meet? | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do people like eye contact?People try to read others through their eyes especially women. There are certain cues you can pick up from eye contact, it basically gives you an idea or an impression of what the other guy is feeling/thinking in a sense | /r/seduction | 09/04/16 02:02 PM |
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