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Most women who are attracted to men on a date are waiting and hoping for a move. Make a move. If you fail, learn.
/r/seduction12/04/25 12:56 PM
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Read Mark Mansons “Models”
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:36 AM
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I read that post on boundaries: excellent thread 🧵
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:36 AM
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Well, you can always become a different person but you can’t change yourself for them
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:53 AM
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Read Models
/r/seduction23/01/25 01:37 PM
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Normal people don’t treat seduction like an art practice.
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:56 PM
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This post doesn’t deserve upvotes, imho. It’s not only not helpful but actively discouraging one of the best ways to improve performance by identifying and addressing blind spots.
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:57 PM
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Thank you for cleaning up 🧹
/r/TheRedPill06/05/24 12:33 AM
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Call it what you want, divorce can destroy you
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:15 PM
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How is it better than just being long terms partners with out a contract?
/r/seduction15/03/24 01:11 AM
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With other women, especially
/r/seduction08/04/23 12:22 AM
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Hormones are probably primary here. They can lead to socialization of certain behaviors.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 02:21 AM
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Interesting question
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:01 PM
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Polarize. Figure out if she’s down. Move it forward. Make your move.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:16 AM
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It means that you need a boundary around flaky behavior as your next level of seduction growth.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:30 PM
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Every relationship has some kind of negotiated terms of what each person wants. Be clear that you want the sex but not a relationship. Also, for maintaining the frame, don't start to do relationship things together. Go have sex with each other and keep the focus purely on sex without building an intimate friendship. That's the pitfall.
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:27 AM
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Everything is a paradox in life. Whatever works works.
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:04 PM
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Yes, I’m 38 and 12% body fat. I train with kettlebells primarily. Paleo/keto/Carnivore/Fasting is my food spectrum these days.
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:01 PM
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I’ve lost 80lbs and been off sugar for a decade bro. You lack knowledge and experience.
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:57 PM
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So you’ve never overcome metabolic derangement and yet you have the top comment here
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:00 PM
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How old are you? Were you ever overweight?
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:55 PM
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It’s both, these are all hard coded signals that you are leading a life of high value that she could probably benefit from as a prospective mate to you
/r/seduction08/09/21 10:08 PM
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The absolute best way I’ve seen social circle is by throwing your own regular small events like BI-weekly (food, drinks, hobbies, music, etc) and inviting new interesting people to network and hang out. Build a cool network you vibe with with plenty of both sexes. It’s fun.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:05 AM
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One of the pillars of Red Pill is to build up your life and capacity over time so that you do this automatically, as part of how you operate from your core. Know that you’re going to need to both grow your capacity for naturally occurring alpha behavior for it to really stick with the 10’s but this is how to start.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 05:12 PM
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Sorry but he’s right, these are not beta behaviors. They build up your capacity and social influence. Beta is the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 07:49 PM
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Memetic desire is a bitch tho
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 07:20 AM
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Check out Tim Ferris and the people featured in Tribe of Mentors and Tools of Titans; those are also phenomenal books
/r/TheRedPill01/05/21 08:12 AM
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You’re clearly doing good things for the wrong reasons. This post makes it sound like you’re a butt hurt little bitch who expected something in return for a nice gesture. I bet you still expect to learn some tactic of game that will make you succeed with women, too. Like there’s some magic secret that you haven’t learned yet. That’s the secret, you still act like a boy. This post is weak AF.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 07:10 PM
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The sooner you can define what you want in your life and are willing to manage it by setting boundaries, the sooner you will have a relationship with someone who you want and fits your life. I think there’s a degree of leadership needed for sexual success that you should work to cultivate and you should think about boundaries sooner than later.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 06:45 PM
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No, I see with your two questions that you’re probably not familiar with poly. No relationship is easy. I build my life that way I want and they enjoy it with me so it’s a beautiful thing. Completely open and honest, no lies. They’re free to go if they don’t want to be here, and they know that. I’m happy that they love me and want to be in my life. It’s a very beautiful thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 05:41 PM
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Love is love
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:11 PM
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I always just laugh and say “yeah! Man in his prime! No 20 year old boy with a mans body can compete with a man in his prime” and that’s that.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 09:31 PM
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Poly is my blueprint to intimacy and freedom
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 05:57 AM
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Have girlfriends like a lot of other older alpha men I know. And lots of friends. I’ll also probably be quite wealthy so I’ll probably just do whatever the fuck I want. Edit: I’m also quite poly and if I want the father experience, I’ll honestly probably adopt a kid. I’d be an incredible person for that. But certainly not pulling that trigger or seriously considering until I am on the very wealthy side of my pursuits. I also think more red pill men should consider poly as a way of intimacy with …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 04:12 AM
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Fuck yourself with your projecting your own goals on others. Lol. I absolutely never want to get married and have kids.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 05:38 AM
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Phenomenal post! I’m similarly a man in his prime and was just talking to one of my 2 Latina girlfriends about how I don’t date typical American girls. They’re boring, entitled and drama queens. My girls worship the ground I walk on in a way that I’ve never had with a typical American born and raised type of girl.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 12:56 AM
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I’ll weigh in because I’m 10/10 living my dream and attribute this to goal setting as the master skill/ Currently: I am in top 200 in the world for my career and make a very substantial income. I have 2 girlfriends who know about each other and are happy with this situation. I am fit and athletic. I am the life of the party and a leader of men. Background: I dropped out of high school and never attended university I started my adulthood obese, shy and with zero confidence because of abuse in my …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 08:12 PM
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Work that pipeline baby. Abundant pipelines of candidates are what put you into the buyer’s seat. Always be talking to and warming up new leads, and always keep your game sharp when you’re in a relationship. Know that you can walk away anytime and just start working your next list.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 07:21 AM
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Like most things in personal growth, this is a bit of a paradox. Yes, you can “game” or “technique” initial growth. It’s like practicing a skill. Over time, as the behavior is integrated into an identity, you can move to having the new behavior flow from a place of flow and congruence.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 10:16 PM
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Calibre is a software program that converts e-books. File types matter for devices to decode them. Mobi is the file type to convert to for kindle.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 02:11 AM
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Disagree. Context matters. You should be man enough to discern if the tattoos are reflective of poor decision making or if they’re artistic and thoughtful. Additionally, they could poor decisions in youth with a woman who has made a string of strong decisions and built herself into something a bit more self realized. Be a bigger man than looking skin deep.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:29 AM
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It's like making a new friend, only this friend knows they're going to be a sexual friend
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:57 AM
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Agreed. I've got a group of 10 ish wings that accumulated over the years who can really consistently pull. There's so much infield footage these days, too, that it's impossible to call bullshit.
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:49 AM
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No pickup advice says to wait months.
/r/seduction02/11/15 05:08 PM
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It's super fun. You'll be more creative on your feet and be better at self amusement in addition to social situation awareness. It kind of helps you think about ways to make things fun or funny.
/r/seduction01/06/15 03:02 AM
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/r/Meditation can help you
/r/seduction18/12/14 11:06 PM
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Study pimpology
/r/seduction09/05/14 05:08 PM
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Sometimes you just have to be the last dick standing
/r/seduction24/04/14 10:57 PM
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Pro tip: try to hang out with her after sunset as soon as possible and set a sexual frame. Daytime can be such a courting thing if it stays in the daytime.
/r/seduction19/04/14 12:44 AM
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As a date.
/r/seduction17/03/14 12:30 AM
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I went to his hot seat. Blew my mind. While I haven't been out there and consistent, last time I was out I had my first 20 minute pull. He is mind-blowing in the field.
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:19 AM
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Find a way to get her off the dance floor if you're genuinely vibing.
/r/seduction26/01/14 11:30 PM
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Yeah, it does take two to tango.
/r/seduction17/01/14 05:33 PM
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Great examples of "What Not to Do" dear lord.
/r/seduction06/01/14 06:33 AM
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RSD is pretty good right now. Big fan of Hot Seat.
/r/seduction13/12/13 09:22 AM
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My best wings came from an RSD free tour.
/r/seduction13/12/13 09:21 AM
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Social circle game. AFC Adam built his whole game on social proof from having lots of hotties and social proof.
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:51 AM
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One of the experts on social circle game believes in flirting with your circle but not closing them. They love it, you love it and they want to see you succeed. The best wingman is a hot wing-girl who knows the game.
/r/seduction30/11/13 02:42 AM
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I think you should make your social circle girls your wings.
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:44 AM
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100% agree. Being vulnerable after projecting your attractive qualities and creating some tension/release moments is just hyper attractive. In this case, being vulnerable about the V card will be attractive.
/r/seduction27/11/13 11:06 PM
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Emotional intelligence my friend. I am also too smart for my own good and a late bloomer. I had enough understanding of dynamics to build on and get reference points but I think what you are looking for is emotional intelligence and social calibration. Have you ever tried an improv acting class? That's a great way to experiment without rules and kind of play social games without a scorecard. Generally, those clubs are full of quirky people who have also been outcasts and won't judge if you stumb…
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:01 AM
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I just googled and read up on this. I gathered the difference between the sexual alpha/lover and the provider man but how does that tie into her mothering the man?
/r/seduction27/11/13 07:57 AM
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I always think of pushing as creating tension, I am not so sure the direct opener does that?
/r/seduction02/11/13 06:53 PM
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True, but we're talking about daytime openers. Give an example of a daytime push pull opener.
/r/seduction02/11/13 07:48 AM
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Hey, you, you're cute! Who are you?
/r/seduction01/11/13 11:31 PM
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I find they like it to be very direct.
/r/seduction01/11/13 11:30 PM
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http://youtu.be/KmKhy6dO5nw
/r/MensRights11/09/13 09:45 PM
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He didn't do anything to spike her attraction other than being bold enough to approach in daylight and be enough of her type. He's also REALLY lucky that she STOPPED TO TALK TO HIM.
/r/seduction08/09/13 09:00 AM
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Use Humor if you can Use the environment, or situation: "that looks ....", "this place..." Be direct "Hi, I thought you were adorable and had to come talk to you". It's higher risk but also higher reward.
/r/seduction22/08/13 05:54 AM
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Please add this to the sidebar for future reference
/r/seduction01/05/13 07:08 AM
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Absolutely has worked for me. I'm legitimately hoping to find my soul mate and tell them that, if they're not the one, they know I'm still interested in having fun but they're not the one. Seems to work pretty well.
/r/seduction10/10/12 08:25 PM
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If I have them over for a movie, I don't finish the movie. You might start playing scrabble but you've got them alone in your home with you. Time to escalate and close before the game is over!
/r/seduction10/10/12 08:23 PM
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I had my first FWB this year. I went out on a date with her and had a nice regular date. I typically go over qualifying the girls, telling them about what I'm looking for (qualities, soul mate etc). When I followed up with her, I let her know that I really enjoyed myself and loved her personality and how beautiful she was. She was great company. While I didn't feel that soul mate connection, that I thought she was fun and beautiful and we should keep hanging out. Hung out with her at her place, …
/r/seduction10/10/12 08:21 PM
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I LOLed hard at this. I'd be really proud of that, too!
/r/seduction09/10/12 04:59 AM
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He's amazing in field.
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:31 AM
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Alright sir, Brad P had a great set of 18 exercises with the exact program you need to overcome shyness and experience social freedom (well, that's the name of it and it worked for me). It seems some kind soul has put it on scribd: http://www.scribd.com/doc/7651901/Brad-P-Approach-Anxiety-and-Social-Freedom
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:46 PM
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