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Women are the gatekeepers of relationships and sex, so in a sense men will always have to put up the significant load of attention giving and courting in the beginning. Not gonna lie, as an average guy, it is pretty depressing. Sometimes I wish a women would court me and show me attention. A lack of that leads to feeling pretty unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:02 AM
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Both men and women are disloyal in different ways. If a man ascends in social status/his SMV goes up and he gets an opportunity to be with a more attractive women he is gonna inclined to take that opportunity. Same thing but if a women is with a man of a low status/SMV and she gets is approached by a man with a high SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:51 AM
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But men's selectivity isn't necesarilly a choice. Men naturally just find a much large proportion of the female population attractive than the female population do for men. Sure you could try to hope that hope that billions of men simultaneously try to suppress their natural biological urges to pursue every other women, but I think that is quite improbable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:39 AM
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Everyone is shallow. Men may be more shallow are certain things (physical appearance, youth, etc), but women are significantly more shallow on other things (social status, money, height). You just have to take a step back and realize that the things we are attracted to are not our choices, and generally are just byproducts of some evolutionary logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:27 PM
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The average PPD post: Post: "The average man has to face [insert x issue] because of the skewed dating market which feminism ignores! This is all while [insert x advantage women have] and they refuse to acknowledge that! This is why [insert rant on why redpill and blackpill are becoming more popular while distancing themselves from both] Comments: user1: "Hah! Why do men think they are so entitled to sex! Maybe they should start improving themselves instead of being so mysognistic! Women are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:16 PM
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I never justified or attempted to say that the current dating market is moral. I merely described it for what it is. The natural female advantage has been restricted before, for most of human history in fact - that is exactly what enforced monogamy is. Now that it is gone, however, women's natural dominance will show through. I think that it is quite unfortunate, as it essentially means the average man will lead an unextremely unfulfilled dating life, jerking off to porn to satisfy his libido wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:40 PM
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The thing about female privilege vs male privilege is that male privilege in most cases IS societally constructed, so it can be removed. Much of female privilege is just the result of natural dynamics between the genders, such as the female domination in the dating market and the near infinite options they have. There is really nothing you can do about that, as it is in some ways just part of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:29 PM
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As a man who came from an abusive household, I 100% agree with you. It is never as simple as simply "leave your abuser". I think one point the more red pill audience may get right though is that being abusive/violent as a man clearly is not the disqualifier society presents it as, and that many women will preach morality/being a good person as a way for men to succeed sexually but then date decidedly immoral men, meaning other variables are far more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:24 PM
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Speaking as a man in college, there just seems to be a cultural hostility toward men that drive them away from left-leaning politics. Any issues on gender are presented as "you are the oppressor, do the morally right x thing, and suck up any issues you have on your own". As for issues other than gender, I think that right-leaning politics in general is more in line with the stereotypical male character, emphasizing individualism while protecting social values the men may hold dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:15 PM
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How many left-leaning feminists view and speak on issues facing men in relationships, essentially telling them to "get over it and just work hard" while ignoring more structural issues, is ironically the same way their ideological opponents on the political right speak about poor people. Both sides seem to not make the connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:08 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/xd3rjb/guy\_has\_meltdown\_over\_his\_friendzoner\_getting\_a/ Why use one example to try to mislead guys into thinking the rule isn't true? Yes, short guys can absolutely get girls. But you should always be realistic and acknowledge that if you are short, the mass majority of women will hold that against you in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:03 PM
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I don't know if there is one for women, as men are just more inclined to see romance/relationships as a competition, hence there existing an "accomplishment". Women might just see it as a process without a necessarily superior accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:28 AM
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And I respectfully disagree. I dont think its wrong, even in a healthy relationship, to reflect and realize your partner would act so much different if you were a different person, and for that to make you insecure. And simply pointing out that some women truly seem to lack the capacity to sympathize with men isn't "playing victim".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:07 PM
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This is exactly what I mean, great summary of my point. And yeah I doubt any women would want that either, but because of gender dynamics its almost always the man in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:05 PM
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Why is every single time a guy has an issue with dating dynamics or the market, he's "insecure", or "entitled"? Why cant he simply have an insecurity, voice it, and be validated, just like women? I think it is unfortunate that how it is perceived is guys wanting to be entitled to something, or viewing women as objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:58 PM
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No one said that women are not human beings. No one said that they are obligated to treat every guy the same. But can you not see how a guy realizing he being treated differently can lead to insecurity? As a girl is entitled to choice, a guy is entitled to feeling that. And your instinctiveley negative response is disturbing. Is it so hard for you to believe guys can have genuine trouble without resorting to bashing them? That there are genuine arenas where men have it harder than women, where y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:48 PM
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huh? First of all, when did poppy_blue even reveal that they were a women? How was I supposed to know that? Secondly, if someone comments something in a rude tone, I am going to respond in a rude tone. Thats how life works. If you want to have a cordial conversation in a comment section, dont start with mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:37 PM
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I would say it would apply to a 33 year old men just as much. Say a guy meets a girl who had a formally promiscuous past but now wants to settle down - there will always be that underlying insecurity that if she was still in her phase where she went after the guys she lusted for, he wouldn't have a chance. Rather, he only has a chance because he provides security and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:49 PM
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Lmao exactly. It is frustrating how many women downplay guy's experiences while guys are expected to always validate a women's negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:47 PM
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What are you talking about? Have casual sex with someone isn't something for nothing. Its a mutual consensus among both participants that each is sufficiently attractive enough to sleep with without much other to consider. If a women thinks a guy isn't attractive enough to hookup with, but only becomes attractive through investment, then it is perfectly fine for the guy to be insecure about that. Think before you comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:42 PM
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Yep. Women generally don't have to experience this but in this case, she did, and it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:39 PM
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Gotcha, having a reasonable and logical insecurity makes you non-marriage material. Hope that mindset does you well in your search for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:38 PM
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Yep, this is essentially what I am getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:35 PM
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This is exactly what im talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:35 PM
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Thats a little bit of an overreaction. A general insecurity doesn't have to be a relationship ender, but it is an issue on the guy's part regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:34 PM
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Not necessarily, even if a women is not promiscuous there are guys who she would be willing to go on a date with 10 seconds after meeting him, compared to a guy she makes wait and proves himself before allowing the relationship to turn romantic/sexual. But yes, you are right that this insecurity generally applies to promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:22 PM
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I've seen you comment multiple times on this thread and I feel like you are missing my point here. Its the fact that men often have to put in considerable time and effort in order to get a girl attracted to him in the first place, simply because she didn't consider him that attractive in the beginning. Therefore, if you are a man, it is logical that you would feel insecure about the fact that there are other guys who she clearly did not need to have that sort of investment before having a decent…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:14 PM
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Then the guy can rest easy knowing that at least she finds him attractive enough to not force him to put in significant effort before sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:10 PM
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Bad faith response. I am not talking about literal sexual access, but the feeling of being desirable enough to not have to put in such significant effort in order for the women to be sufficiently attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:08 PM
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I honestly dont think most guy care a bit if you mock them as long as they can sleep with you. I mean, at the end of the day the girl still lets them into her bed with little to no effort from the guys part, right? So how much can she really talk shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:04 PM
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There's a difference between neuroticism and a general insecurity that can arise from a moment's reflection of you and your partner's history. Obviously it is better to just not stress about things you cannot control, but thats probably not realistic considering we are human
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:27 PM
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I agree with this. Women being treated as the prize and the object of pursuit can be a positive and negative thing; positive for them in that it lends them essentially infinite options and and easy way into getting intimacy if they want it, but negative in that they are in many ways, stripped of their humanity and just become this object to be persued.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:53 PM
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as I said in the post, positive does not = good. What I meant is that he places a set of theories for what a man should be, hence a positive and substantive vision for masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:46 PM
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I've heard about the allegations. Regardless of whether they are true enough, I doubt with his money and connections there isn't a way for him to skirt the relatively lax Romanian Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:30 AM
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Yeah it also makes it clear why most women seem to rate themselves (looks wise) much higher than the average man would rate themselves. If you constantly receive positive validation of course you will think you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:39 AM
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Definitely not a good cexammple, being famous worldwide with millions of dollars tends to cancel out normal sexual marketplace dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:38 AM
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The rate of divorce skyrockets when the women makes more than the man. Everyone likes to think they are the exception to the statistical rule, but chances are if that sort of income disparity exists between you and your wife, your marriage will experience difficulty. I personally wouldn't like it that much, being a stay at home parent is not fun (speaking on watching my stay at home mom take care of 3 kids) and defiantly is not the relaxing job people make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:36 AM
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Its things like this that makes me grateful to be 6'2. I've talked to women in real life before (candid conversations, not surface level convos which lead to people just saying what is socially acceptable) and most of them admit height is very, very important. The idea of their guy being "small" is a complete turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:34 AM
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One of the ways in which he has gotten so popular is that he pays people enrolled in his course to posts clips of him online with a link to his course (affiliate code), and if someone joins through that link the poster gets a cut. Therefore there is a pretty strong financial incentive to post him. It definitely is some sort of multi level marketing scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:26 AM
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Maybe just leave a note in Italian with the tip asking her out with your number. That way, she doesn't feel pressured by the constraints of her being at work to respond a certain way, and you can just sit and relax, if a call comes, it comes.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:46 PM
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