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What do I do of the rumors reach the people in my circles? I can easily explain to my closest friends and they would understand, but I don’t know how to claim my innocence to everyone around me whom I am dependant upon my reputation towards.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:31 PM
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She claims I have done things bordering on sexual harassment, which is not true. We had a bit of a flirt going which ended on a weird note, and now she’s going hard on taking out my reputation.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:01 PM
166

Get proof, then tell him
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:51 AM
2

You’re right. Thanks for the solid advice cheers
/r/askTRP21/06/20 04:26 PM
6

Forget her and learn from your mistakes, you can't save this one. Don't be bothered to look through girls phones. Whatever is in there doesn't matter. If a girl is not acting the way you want, withdraw attention and make sure to cultivate other options. You put all your eggs in one basket and that basket tipped over. Now go read the side bar. Best of luck OP.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:58 AM
2

Not bad per se, but you should have kept it shorter and left her excited and wanting more. Now you spent an hour of your time talking to a girl you met online who should be nothing to you yet, AND she had to end the call for you. Play it cool for a bit and I'm sure you'll be fine. Cheers OP
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:28 AM
6

Sorry to hear. You need to break it up and let her go. It will not be easy but you will pull through. Be glad that you realised before you were committed with kids or worse. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:38 PM
3

"I'm starting to run out of patience" with a smug grin on your face. Proceed to playfully wrestle her and give her the best fuck of her life You did alright though, nothing to worry about OP
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:42 AM
-5

Couldn't fathom to read the whole thing. Ultimatums are a low value move. You decide what happens to the relationship, you don't leave it up to her.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:46 PM
7

It's natural to slip up every once in a while. Just acknowledge your mistakes and keep working on yourself and you'll be fine. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:35 PM
3

Hard to say, you're not providing much detail on her receptivity of your kino after the fact that she said she didn't want to be touched. If she continued to reject your kino then she wasn't interested. If she was getting more receptive you might have had a chance. Chill for a bit and try set up a new meet. Best of luck bro.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:41 AM
0

The key to experiencing meaningfulness (as a man) is to take on responsibility. For yourself, for your family and those you care about.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:24 AM
7

Just keep in mind that the girls replies are merely going to be what they feel in that very moment. Next time they get that question from another guy they're likely to say (feel) something completely different. Not much to learn from that imo.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:12 AM
9

Low value move to "fire back and shut them up" as you phrase it. Remove that need.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 09:07 AM
1

Sure. I find that every time I have to reschedule a first date with a new girl, she is so much more into me when we finally meet.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 08:26 PM
4

She either made up an excuse or actually had an appointment booked. Nothing strange imo.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:11 PM
1

What kind of reasoning is that. Some guys may have done LTRs and learned the hard way why they are not desirable. No reason why they shouldn't advocate that.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:10 PM
4

Probably the reason she started to disrespect you if you put yourself in that position.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:40 PM
3

Not responding to texts is rarely ever defined a shit test. If you knew you were gonna see her there again at one point you shouldn't have texted, and your choice of text was poor. Best move now is leave it and don't initiate again until she does. If you run into her again, escalate like you should have done the first time. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:08 AM
1

Epic intro. Analysis of your mentality as requested. 1. Get your priorities right 2. Don't invite girls to lunch dates if you're planning to fuck them 3. Read side bar
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:59 AM
3

Be less agreeable. Sure you can be friendly and easy going but you need to have boundaries and put yourself in the first room. Also care less what they think. All of this comes easier with more experience. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:47 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:24 PM
2

Leave it at that. Sending a snappy hurtful text is a low value move. You can do much better.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:19 PM
4

Escalate if you want to fuck her. If you won't someone else will. Keep it discreet though. And don't even think about having an LTR with this girl.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:16 PM
3

Makes sense. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:10 PM
2

Sure. Just keep in mind that the "corporate overlords" don't just dictate what's gonna happen in their business on a whim. They are forced to make decisions for their corporation that many times are not what they would rather want to do, but they have to do it anyway to avoid losses or even to merely keep their business running. I run my own business in a creative field. Most projects are completely dictated by the client, and that is where I make good money. Every once in a while there is a pro…
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:22 PM
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Starting to work for someone else and get your own thing going on the side is a good idea, unless you already have a big buffer of savings to rely on while starting your own thing - then that might get you going quicker. Remember that even if you run your own business you will still always be working for someone else; you will have clients and business partners to please, many times making what you do completely dictated by an external party and beyond your control. I still do prefer running my …
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:40 PM
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Sounds good to me. Thanks man
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:07 PM
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Some girls are extra sensitive to friction. Try lube and you should be fine.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:06 PM
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This. These people seem to care about you, and accepting the gift will strengthen your bond as family. Shouldn't be underestimated.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 12:44 PM
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Laughed out loud on the part where your mom spotted you for pushups, lol. There are lots of good exercises you can do at home. Keep doing them and get your diet straight and you will definitely see results. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:54 PM
2

That stings man. Nothing you can do except learn from it. Good thing is, you will never make this mistake again. Make sure to sincerely apologise to the girl, and then move on. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:52 PM
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Just smile back. If she gives you more than one IOI, go talk to her. This won't be a problem when you have gained sufficient experience, i.e acquired abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:33 PM
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Humanely, lol. Just have fun with them. Look for intellectual companionship in other men, not women.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:05 PM
2

That is what it feels like to realise that you need to make improvements in your life. It is a good thing that this feeling exists in us humans, since it drives us to improve ourselves. Keep working on yourself and you will be fine. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:00 PM
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It is true that sleeping with lots of women will not fill the void. It is also true, that at different stages in life we value different things. Having casual sex with lots of women makes perfect sense in your 20-30s, because that is what you will be biologically inclined to want to do. In your 40-50s you will not have that same need anymore, and might want other things out of life instead. This doesn't mean that either of those approaches are right or wrong, they will just be right or wrong for…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:57 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:42 PM
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Nexting means you don't interact with her.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:26 PM
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A good face makes for easy initial interaction with women. If you can find your own ways of starting interactions with women and spit exquisite game you will be doing great.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 12:13 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:58 AM
1

Exactly. That is my point. Now what do you do about it? You feel bad for a bit, you eventually brush it off, and you go out and try again. A little bit stronger this time.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:56 AM
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Stop caring about things like these man. Shouldn't be occupying your time.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:44 AM
1

It's all about experience. Once you have done a lot of things in your life; put in hard work, been with lots of girls, felt many rejections, seen some successes, it just doesn't phase you anymore. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:41 AM
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Question is, do you want good game because you're on some drug, or do you actually want to internalise good game? There are no shortcuts bro.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:34 AM
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Agree and amplify. Have fun with it. Shit tests by males are essentially fitness tests. Men do this to each other naturally, as a means of making each other more tough. Men can not risk having a weak member in their group, and fitness tests like these are meant to put you through tough times to end up stronger and more fit to serve the group better. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:30 AM
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True, and it goes a lot deeper. From an evolutionary standpoint, a woman can not be the initiating part in a male-female relationship. Why? By waiting to be approached by a man, she filters out the loser men who are not capable of taking action and approaching her. She can not risk mating with a loser partner and get loser genes for her offspring. Think about this for a second, and understand what it actually means. You, as a man, have to be the initiating part. It is basically engrained in the …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:25 AM
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It's normal. Don't go out of your way to show that girl anything. Keep working on yourself and that need will go away. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 09:45 PM
2

Yeah, that one was kind of weird. IMO the whore post hit a perfectly good point.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:19 PM
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Why did you do that. Hope you manage to salvage it. If not, be sure to learn from it.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:11 PM
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Talk to girls you encounter when you are out doing what you would have done anyway. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:08 PM
1

Point is you are not respecting yourself if you chase this one. It's about having principles and sticking to them. This creates good frame and abundance mentality. Good luck bro.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:06 PM
1

If it's not affecting the results you want out of your life then you don't need to change a thing. However, if it's becoming an obstacle in the way of getting what you want, socially or otherwise, then perhaps it might serve you to adapt a little. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:22 PM
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Just invite her to your place (inside, not your backyard), give her a lil tour of your apartment while casually touching her and you should be good from there.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:29 PM
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Only you know the answer to this one man. Sounds like you're looking for us to validate your choice, which is not the right way to do it. Keep working on yourself and next time you don't feel the need to come here and ask for validation; you decide for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:07 PM
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Nothing you can do man. Happens to the best of us. When you have better options you will not let yourself be bothered for a second in a situation like this. Just keep gaming other girls and you'll be fine. This one might come around or she might not. Whichever should be fine by you.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:58 PM
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Sounds like a perfectly good thing to do. If you feel it'll help you internalise it then go for it. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:47 PM
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Wrong approach. If you haven't even slept with her that text shouldn't be worthy of a reply from you. Acquire more options and you will not feel the need to "win" this, as you're phrasing it.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 07:41 PM
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Good thing. She approached you didn't she. Ideally you want to project the image of being capable of violence, but choosing not to use it, unless necessary, because you are a civilised man.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:36 PM
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Not important if you dance or not. A lot of top guys dance and a lot of top guys don't. The important distinction is this: if you enjoy dancing, you dance. You are not in the frame of a woman for doing so, because you enjoy dancing and would have done either way. If you don't enjoy dancing but do it anyway just to find girls, you'll be more likely to end up in a womans frame since you're essentially there because she is.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:53 AM
3

Moving up an old social hierarchy where you've had a certain position for a long time is not easy. You'll still be the same in their eyes unless it is apparent that you have progressed in some obvious way; looking better, acting more secure, IDGAF mentality etc. You should definitely not be confrontational, unless you are being directly disrespected by someone. Agree and amplify, amused mastery is key. You don't need to prove yourself to these people.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:23 PM
1

Soft next, yeah. And she's right, you shouldn't change who you are to fit what she wants.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:15 PM
1

Tinder. Most girls on there, if not all, will fuck on the first date. Then find 3-4 solid ones and keep rotating.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:11 PM
1

At their place. A bit harder to pull off but usually works. Just say let's go to her place and she'll often agree. If you have a car that's a great option too.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:56 PM
4

Yep, this is probably it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:53 PM
3

Can't see your problem really. She is clearly into you. Go on that date and keep doing what you're doing, and don't worry about giving her things. Show her your appreciation in other ways, like taking her home and fucking her good, for example.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:51 PM
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Don't talk about the red pill with anyone, even your closest friends, unless you are 110% sure they are going to receive it well. People in general will not be receptive to the concepts we are discussing at this forum, since it fundamentally questions their whole core belief system. People in general do not like having their core belief system questioned. They would much rather have you be a misogynistic loser, and keep their belief system intact. Failing to understand this will have you end up …
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:44 PM
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Taking responsibility. Keeping frame. Taking care of yourself (and those you care for). Pursuing your mission. Working towards overcoming whatever obstacles you face. Setting goals and following them through. Building the life you want for yourself. Whatever that is, is up to you.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:35 PM
3

Note to add: if you are truly depressed, seek professional help. It's very worth it.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:19 PM
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At least you're aware of it man. That's a good first step. We all slip up every once in a while, just keep working on yourself and next time you'll be better at bouncing back. You got it bro.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:14 PM
1

Firstly, by doing exactly that. Learn to respect yourself and also relax a little. Look out for yourself and don't give her so much attention. Be fun to hang around and don't let what she does phase you. It will be harder at first and easier as you go. Best of luck bro.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:25 PM
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Welcome to the Red Pill. Furthermore, a lot of times girls will say they have a boyfriend even though they're finding you attractive. That's called a shit test. Now go read the side bar, best of luck bro.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:15 PM
2

It's not all looks my friend. Good looks make initiating interaction easy, but as long as you can find ways to have interactions with girls and spit good game, looks are not as important as one might think.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:04 PM
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You're approaching it wrong. Make sure you are not an incel and there's no problem. Does not help to blame women for it.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:00 PM
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It doesn't just "happen". You are actively doing it, even though it seems like you know perfectly well that it's a problem. Start taking responsibility for your actions and just don't do it.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:00 PM
2

Sounds like you're on the right track. Everyone has downs every once in a while, sometimes they hit hard and sometimes for no apparent reason. Keep working on it. You're being too unclear about the details of what happened with your LTR to provide any good advice. If she disrespected you, a soft next, minimum, is a good response.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:40 PM
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Set up a date within a few messages, get her number and have further details of the date done off tinder. Only logistics, if needed build some comfort and tease around for a bit. Being overtly sexual in text before meeting rarely works.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:19 PM
0

Sounds good enough I suppose
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:18 AM
2

Seems like you're aware of what you have to do, which is a good start. Fully accepting and adapting a red pill mindset takes a long time, but it becomes easier as you keep implementing it and realise that things are the way they are. Starting by working on yourself seems like a perfectly good plan. Keep reading the sidebar and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:26 AM
3

Sounds like you're on the right track. Text her back in a while and set up a new date where you can escalate better. You've got it man.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:19 AM
2

Of course being muscular is not what it's about, but being a solid man. This encompasses a lot of things, and having a fit and able body will be one of them. Unless, say you're sky-rocketing in another area of your life. Then you might be fine without a muscular body. Bottom line is, nothing will guarantee you not being cheated on, but there are certainly things you can do to narrow the risks.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:38 AM
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Glad to hear that OP. When I first started taking the pill I initially felt pity and resent towards my bluepill father. Later on I realised that it's the only thing he knows, and I can't possibly blame him for it. It's too late to show him the things that I've learned since he was done raising me to the very best of his ability, and I know that he put everything into raising me and my siblings. I truly love him for what he is and stands for.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:32 AM
2

Sorry to hear this. Bottom line is, she is not respecting the boundaries of your relationship. Trying to make her stop texting him won't fix the problem. You have to withdraw attention from this girl, cultivate other options and focus on yourself. Easier said than done, but this is what is necessary.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:22 AM
1

As long as you don't find an RP-aware therapist, I guess you're somewhat correct. However, I don't see how treating issues other than relationship dynamics would touch very much upon TRP values.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:12 PM
2

Keep doing the things that you enjoy doing, and recognise that there are things you will have to improve on to reach the goals you set for yourself. You don't need to do drugs or go to night clubs to get women. Wherever you decide to meet girls, learn how to escalate and build attraction with them and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:53 PM
9

The health of your eyes is more important than what others might think of you wearing glasses. I'm sure you can find a pair that fits you well. Shouldn't impact your SMV if you're going about it confidently.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:35 PM
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I used to do this a lot. Working on yourself a lot by lifting, socialising (building male relationships) and foremost pursuing your mission will reduce the amount of anxiety in your life. You will initially see some quicker, small results and over time the more important, lasting results. For me the insecurity will come back every once in a while, but every time less and less. Just feel it out and it'll go away. Good luck man, you've got it.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:30 PM
1

Soon as I've slept with a girl I always do straight to mine/her place. No need to do the date again unless you particularly enjoy that.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 10:00 AM
1

That is literally the definition of fwb. You fuck and hang out but are free to fuck others.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 09:52 AM
1

Do you want to be exclusive with her? If yes, then go ahead. If not, then leave it be. If she stays she stays. If not, appreciate the good times you had and move on. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 09:46 AM
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This is it. Knowing that all relationships are inevitably going to end shouldn't stop you from enjoying them while they last. I know the feelings of OP, and these are the last bits of Blue Pill that are very difficult to get away from. However, learning to accept this is the way to find peace.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 09:37 AM
1

True, thanks.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:12 PM
1

Cheers, thanks. This is what I do as well. Been away for work for a month and haven't been in touch with the girls I'm currently seeing since I left, which had me ask myself this question.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:12 PM
3

Probably right, thanks.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:13 PM
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It doesn't matter what she says she believes. Watch her actions, not her words, and keep going. Girls say they believe all sorts of things, but it doesn't matter as long as she's still having sex with you and not giving you extensive drama. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:41 AM
1

I had forgotten what a truly great community this is. Thanks all for bringing some clarity. Much appreciated.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:50 AM
3

Increased SMV for me, for sure. Depends on what you looked like before, but shaving my head really was a benefit to my look and self confidence. Wish I had done it much earlier, looking back.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:50 PM
1

Ah, gotcha. Thanks, I'll check that out.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:17 AM
1

Thanks for the advice, appreciated. On a side note, what do you write to get girls texting you these things? I don't get these, only in person after sex.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:37 PM
1

Thanks, I'm sure you're right.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:29 PM
1

You're right. I'm not so much worried about her feelings, but rather just coming off as a total loser. I know I shouldn't be worrying about this either. I appreciate the input.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:48 PM
1

Great feedback, thanks. Here to improve.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:48 PM
1

Makes sense, thanks buddy.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:13 PM
1

Great point, thanks. She did recieve a healthy dose of PiV prior to this.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:12 PM
1

Point taken. What would've been a healthy way to handle this?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:42 PM
1

It does make sense when you put it like this. What I used to reply to these messages is so far from how I handled it this time. Thanks TRP.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:43 PM
1

Cheers mate, appreciate the input.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 01:11 PM
1

Cheers to that. The only downside I see is that she might have interpreted it like I was lying and trying to get back at her. Her response suggested that was the case. Any more advice on how I could have handled it more smoothly is appreciated.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:54 PM
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