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No that’s just female nature. The key here is that women will try to distract you by saying “oh I went to Harvard! Or oh I worked at Goldman Sachs!” So ok what did you major in? “Psychology” How long did you work there? “One year” My point being don’t marry/date for accomplishments because most women will end up wanting to be a stay at home mom or work an easy job. Marry/date for personality and alignment with your life goals
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:25 PM
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Women enjoy working towards obtaining a status symbol, a prestigious degree or job. But don’t want to grind it out to make a lot of money once they’ve gotten the status. To them it’s about the status not the earning potential. Why work hard for years for money when you can convince someone else to do it for you. When a woman says “oh I graduated from XYZ or I did work in Investment banking”, your next question should be for how long? What do you do now? Most often they just did it briefly for th…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:21 PM
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Shows extreme emotional neediness. She needs 8 dogs because she needs that many things needing her and giving her attention. She has such a large hole in her sense of self not 1, not 2, not 3, but 8 dogs are required to fill it
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:22 AM
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People like this don’t understand that social connections are more valuable than money. You’re not paying for a drink you’re paying for their friendship which is invaluable. When people do this, don’t freeze them out just don’t buy anything more for them. Because they have shown they are not interested in a reciprocal money relationship. You can still hang out with them just don’t give any money. Don’t get angry because long term this will pay off for you and it will bite them in the butt
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:14 AM
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Dump her. Major red flag. These women never get better only worse. She has a domineering and controlling personality type. She will nitpick at you until you just default to doing everything how she wants it. This is a deep personality flaw and can’t really be fixed. Even if she does a lot of therapy to chill out it will still be who she is deep down on the inside
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:55 AM
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Don’t go home. Go to the library. Don’t let yourself go home until you finish your work
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:26 AM
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People will attempt to correlate your inner and outer value. This is why you dislike those weird guys who are super cocky but also a dishwasher at Arby’s and 35. Their inner confidence and outer achievements do not align
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:50 AM
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Source: GF makes a lot more than me Making him feel needed in some way will help. My gf always makes me feel needed as a masculine man in her life, just that she needs someone who has masculine energy. She has very good girl game. This makes me feel better about the money. She almost never just pays for everything outright. She is very sneaky about letting me pay for small things for her like coffee or lunch so I can feel manly. Then when we go to a really expensive dinner I can’t afford she’ll …
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/21 02:33 PM
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Being right and being seen as being right are two different things. The person who answers every teachers question in class isn’t the person who scores highest on the exam, it’s the person who is in the library studying the most. You are conflating two things that seem to be related but don’t necessarily have to be. Be great at what you do, ace all your tests, work hard. But when someone talks about something you know about, it isn’t a test at school or a work assignment. So arguing and being ri…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/21 02:22 PM
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There really isn’t much neuroscience in clinical medicine it’s mostly memorization. Have you shadowed a clinical neurologist/doctor for a significant amount of time? It may not be as scientific as you are imagining it. It’s a lot of slogging through memorization. You could go to medical school and do an easy residency if you want to have kids. You could have kids during medical school or residency if you did family Med or peds. Both are easy specialties. Unsure if neurology is light on hours
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/21 05:45 AM
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Do not live with her!!! Omg this is a very obvious and clear sign you are going to have a bad time if you sign a year long lease with her. There is no legal way to stop her from moving her boyfriend in or being weird af. The only way to prevent certain disaster is to just not sign the lease with her. Don’t do it
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/21 05:40 AM
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Women don’t care how old you are as long as you’re attractive and don’t make a big deal about the age gap
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:33 AM
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https://thepowermoves.com/female-relationship-control/
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:03 AM
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Dating market is better for men in big cities, better for women in small cities
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:28 AM
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It’s ok to assume the worst just don’t verbalize it. When someone asks, “oh yeah I trust you no worries man” And then double check to make sure they did it without them knowing. The problem is not that you don’t trust people the problem is people perceive you as not trusting them
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:37 PM
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Female friends is not the answer. Comes from a place of weakness. The answer is to stay good looking (gym) and continue to work towards making more money. After that you need to be good at dating. If you have good game you can easily pick up a new girl off of tinder in a few days. Making female friends is taking time away from gym and work.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:27 PM
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I don’t get jealous because I know I could easily replace her, so it’s not a big deal
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:59 AM
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Don’t re-read, unless you are just refreshing yourself on your notes. Write your notes, and therefore what you are going to re-write in a manner that most matches how you will be tested. So for geography I would just print out blank maps and write down the countries of memory. Assuming my that’s how the test will work. Mathematics is trickier. For that I make a sheet of formulas and then just do as many practice problems as I can, using the formula sheet. Don’t look at the answer and work backwa…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 11:51 AM
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You don’t memorize things by re-reading them. You memorize be re-writing them without the original source material Attempt to re-write your notes from memory and you will see how little you remembered. You can also use anki. It’s basically a flash card app online. But re-writing is better for memory.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:04 AM
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Amazing
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:44 AM
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Understand what does and doesn’t matter. Overall anything that happens in bowling doesn’t matter so just enjoy it. A serious project at work is serious and you should take it seriously. Overall assessing each situation and saying “does the outcome matter” will help. Because 99% of the time the outcome doesn’t actually matter. Understand no one cares about outcomes, your life, your feelings. They are worried about their life. So whether you hit the pins or miss they don’t care. So just do what yo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/21 06:05 PM
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Don’t contact her. When she reaches back out pretend as if nothing happened. If she asks about it say she was being annoying and then drop it
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:51 PM
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Takes practice. Even if it’s awkward stand up for yourself. Will be weird at first and won’t go well. You will think I shouldn’t do this. But with all skills you will get better and better as you move forward. Look at each opportunity as a chance to practice, rather than a chance to get it right.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:21 AM
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Translation: you’re currently a maybe. She hasn’t decided yes or no yet. You can get her to yes with several different approaches. No single answer
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:56 PM
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Stop feeling the need to punish people. Comes from a place of feeling weak and powerless. Your life should be so fun and exciting you don’t have time to punish others
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:56 PM
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You’re 22, need to dress like a rich 22 year old. Ralph Lauren, hilfiger, etc. all cheap at tj max. Chinos from the gap. throw away Hollister Abercrombie American eagle
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:48 AM
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There’s gotta be some goal that will be difficult to accomplish you can work towards. You are unhappy because you don’t have a worthy goal to strive for
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:44 AM
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Lol obviously not
/r/askTRP02/04/21 12:42 AM
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Respect bro. I understand where you are coming from. I think the answer comes is somewhere in between per usual. One should always be ready and able to confront others but usually should choose not to.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:47 PM
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The hipster intellectual girl and the thot want to be treated by men the same way they just have different mating strategies in getting those needs met. Once you’ve gotten to know girls of both types well enough you will realize they are the same deep down on the inside. Hipster girl wants a soft relationship the same amount of time the thot does like 15-30%. Wants dominant male majority of the time. While initial game will be different with either, long term game will be the same.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:57 PM
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This argument comes from the perspective that your respect and character are based on a third party viewpoint. As if someone is watching what you do and judging your character and if they respect you. I would challenge you to think of this and think about what it would look like if your respect and character came internally. And you didn’t care what others think of your external actions. I would then challenge you to ask yourself what is more important external respect/character vs health/financ…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:53 PM
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Encouragement / motivation doesn’t work. Repetition and a schedule works. Make a schedule at night for the next day and stick to it. Don’t make it to hard or you won’t do it.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:46 PM
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Frugal male fashion
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:44 PM
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The ask trp women one
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:44 PM
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Charisma matrix YouTube How to make friends and influence people book Stoic philosophy in general Jordan Peterson lectures and books, don’t watch clips watch the entire lecture
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:43 PM
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Don’t engage. Keep walking. Keep them in line of sight in case they try to attack you. They aren’t worth your time or attention.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:41 PM
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Being in the military messes your body up, something you can never get back. Also do you enjoy the day to day life of a navy seal or do you just enjoy the idea of being a seal? Are you running 3-6 miles a day right now and weight lifting? Do you wake up at 6am to work out? Personally I wouldn’t join the military because it messes your body up and you aren’t really well compensated for your time. Especially if your dad already has a business up and running you would make wayyyy more money spendin…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:36 PM
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I don’t think astrophysics is a real major. You mean physics or astrology? Anyways a good starting point is to be real with yourself about attainable goals. The first one being honest with yourself about what your major is and what good reliable jobs may result from said major
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:22 AM
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Doctors have very little free time. They will therefore try to optimize dating with dating apps. Get tinder, hinge, and bumble. They will likely use hinge or bumble. Then find the major medical training centers in your area. Major medical training centers are university affiliated hospitals (example: Ronald Reagan UCLA medical center is the hospital affiliated with UCLA). Regular hospitals will not have young doctors your age. Then run hinge bumble while you are physically near these hospitals. …
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:40 AM
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You might want to look into engineering sales, might be easier. Would still need engineer in degree tho
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/21 11:30 PM
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If unwilling to break up and move out at least search “dread” and read up on it and how to tactfully apply it. Decrease verbal interaction.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:59 AM
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If he ever subtly insults you just don’t respond and walk away without making eye contact. The worst feeling you can make someone feel is that you don’t care about them and they are I significant
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:55 AM
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Agree with this, just ignore as much as possible. He sounds like a weirdo. Limit contact. I wouldn’t do anything else, don’t want to make yourself look bad
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:53 AM
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Very relaxed. You should rarely have to enforce your boundaries around friends and family if you have chosen good ones
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:41 AM
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People want to talk about things that include themselves. So I always look for things that include both of you. You see her around, assuming your at a bar or something. So you’re both going out drinking. A good intro would be “ hey how has your night been so far”. You’re asking her how her night out is going, because you’re both drinking and out. You can use this method anywhere. At the supermarket, “oh hey, what are you making tonight for dinner”. You’re both buying food so what are you going t…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:36 AM
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Accounting is easy, they don’t have a lot to deal with. Public accounting is a lot of hours but you can easily switch into corporate in 5 seconds, they are just whining to whine. Accounting is a solid easy career. It will be very numbers, excel, desk heavy. What do you find interesting? What do you read magazines about or spend your free time investigating. That will show you why you find interesting. The from there choose a stable career that is the closest related to that. Math/numbers/busines…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:16 AM
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If you want to marry her: dump her, you can’t marry a woman that will be sneaking around texting other guys considering hanging out with them If you’re young just having fun: enjoy her company but in the back of your mind remember you have to dump her eventually
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:38 PM
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Think of a time when someone sent you a really really long text message. Did you respond right away? No you were overwhelmed and exasperated that they just sent you this mega message you now have to reply to. This is the reason for the 2/3 rule. All people, not just women, prefer people who talk less because more is overwhelming and annoying. Compliments: you are missing the nuance on this. If you legit think a girlfriends hair looks really good then compliment her. This rule is to combat the gu…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:45 AM
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No
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:56 PM
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Gotcha gotcha, thank you a lot for your time. Yeah I can meet more women, just really worried about losing such a good personality connection
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:55 PM
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Yes, always the same weight. She looks aesthetically pleasing in like dresses and stuff, it’s more that I don’t feel a raw physical sexual attraction to her. Now discovering: I thought that attraction would grow with time but it has actually decreased. I also have a hard time understanding my own true wants and desires, takes longer for me to understand myself than the average person.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:52 PM
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Thanks for the response, I appreciate it
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:45 PM
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Gotcha gotcha, so the lack of physical attraction never really improves with time? Did you find physical attraction more important to the foundation of your relationships than mental? That’s kind of what I’m struggling with now
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:45 PM
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You probably should chill. Aggro guys are annoying over time
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:47 PM
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What’s worse than being hated? When someone doesn’t care that you exist
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:49 AM
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Ignore them. Refuse to make eye contact. Quickly move her to a new location. Try to act like you’re not flustered.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:55 AM
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Sounds like you just need to prove to yourself you don’t need this job to survive. Make spreadsheet that shows where all the money will go if you get fired and how long it will last. Figure out how you will find a new job. Sounds like you just have high baseline anxiety about housing/money, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Can push you to high success in your career. Only way to reduce this anxiety is to prove to yourself you’ll be ok if you lose your job
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:26 PM
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If you actually want him to increase assertiveness recommend he try BJJ or boxing. He likely is not assertive because he doesn’t feel high in the dominance hierarchy. If does either of these for even just a few months he will be able to beat up most other men fairly easily, which will increase his confidence in social situations therefore increasing his comfort in asserting himself as he now knows he can back it up. You can’t assure him to higher confidence, he has to develop his own confidence.…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 02:40 PM
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I think this is a great answer. A loud, gregarious girl isn’t unfeminine if it comes from a place of genuine confidence and joy. However if your loudness is just and expression of anxiety it can be very annoying and off putting, to everyone not just men! I think the above answer is great, and also remember not to beat yourself up if the second is true. Everyone has vices and was annoying when they were young. The difference is that as you grow older people become less tolerant of social taboos s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 02:30 PM
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The best hair gels use beeswax, just look on the bottom of the container for it in the ingredients. Best haircut is a few inches on top, fade on sides
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:19 PM
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Do your best work in your current job. That way if your boss seriously complains or fires you, you can tell yourself, I did my best, there was nothing else I could do Be confident you won’t be fired. If unable to do #2, do this. But also you should do this even if #2 is true. You will have confidence even if your boss is upset because you can just get another job. This means staying on top of your resume and improving your qualifications for other employers. Have 3 months of emergency funds. If …
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:16 PM
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There is an imaginary line where women will say, this guy is so high value, I would rather be with him and share him than be with someone else and not have to share. You have to be high enough value you trigger that in five girls.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:34 AM
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“I work at the hospital” People usually don’t ask anything more after that
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:21 AM
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I work at the hospital If you’re actually successful you underplay your job because it’s annoying having to talk about it all the time
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:08 AM
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Indicator of interest. Paying shows her you think she is worth $10
/r/askTRP21/01/21 11:35 PM
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Give her as little attention as possible. That’s all she wants. If you arent legally required to respond to her then don’t
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:51 PM
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Avoid at all costs
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:46 PM
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Go to social gatherings for 30 minutes then come up with an excuse to leave. If you don’t go people at your job won’t like you because they’re sheeple
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:47 AM
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No lol, you’ll be fine with an accounting job
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:44 AM
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Choosing signals for most women is looking at you two times in a row. That’s it. You most likely just aren’t picking up on it if your stats are true.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:34 PM
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Just like anything it takes experience. Try doing one thing every day that makes you uncomfortable. Then next month two. It will feel weird, and that’s because all new things feel weird. As you grow more and more comfortable it will be less and less. Accept that it will be uncomfortable, accept that you are learning. If someone makes fun of you, just be like “hey I’m learning and trying”.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:32 PM
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Everything described in superstitious terms can be broken down into a complex subject that is more easily described in terms like “soul mate”. Partner compatibility can be broken down into: MBTI personality compatibility Physical attraction Life goal compatibility Hobby compatibility Tons of other things When people say soulmate they talk about how they just clicked or everything just worked. What they are describing is meeting someone with an MBTI type that was highly compatible with their own.…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 04:32 AM
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They have strong frame in the context you see them in
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:40 AM
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Mbti personality type. Mate 2 is likely an ESxJ. Naturally extroverted, prefers to make quick judgements and decisions, he prefers things to be done his way. While he is a natural “alpha” his personality type peaks quickly and doesn’t mature well. ESxJ types have a difficulty adapting to change and do not like new situations as they are unable to quickly navigate them. As such they often do not put themselves in new situations and don’t have as much long term growth as other personality types. A…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 04:06 AM
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You are thinking of how to keep verbal connection going whereas you need to be thinking of how to keep action connection going. As in when with a girl don’t worry about the conversation but do worry about what you two are going to do next. You need a plan so you can always be leading her. With a girl you just met at a bar, this would be: let me get you a drink at the bar, or I know a fun drinking game let’s play, or I know a different cool bar down the street let’s go. You should be focused on h…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 03:55 AM
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No he’s def in the wrong. He is nagging you, he needs to chill.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 10:20 PM
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Long term attraction is more associated with personality than looks. Looks are just a threshold. You are focused on the wrong thing
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 10:18 PM
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You most likely have an SJ MBTI personality type
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 06:30 PM
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Pretend on the exterior you respect women as men’s equals But they will always escape accountability as you said. Just move forward knowing this and try to get past the anger phase
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:24 PM
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Brown and blue khakis from gap Ralph Lauren polos and button ups from good will or tj max Sperrys That’s it your good, cheap and simple
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:21 PM
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A masters isn’t that difficult to get, it’s just expensive. You probably don’t make an absurd amount of money, statistically. Your problem may be that you are overestimating your value and are a bit pompous. Try just going on dates with guys you meet in real life, this may help.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 02:44 AM
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Also I’m not a coding person so I could be wrong
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:51 AM
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Oh your money might be better spent on brand name coding courses from google and such. Unless you think you can get into a good state school after a year.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:51 AM
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Sounds like you have self esteem and perfectionism issues
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:48 AM
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Depends on the school you get into. Brand names are worth it if you’re aiming for a high level career
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:44 AM
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This isn’t good girlfriend behavior. This is toxic and a red flag that this girl is not LTR material. I would break up with her as her behavior will never improve, only get worse. Do you want to put up with 20 more years of this in marriage? No. Need to vet more carefully in the future for girls with a good attitude.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:07 AM
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A true high value man compliments his friends around new women, not tears them down. Compliment and raise your friends up and the women will see that you are so confident you do not pull others down to your level, you bring them up to your level
/r/askTRP25/10/20 05:00 AM
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No offense but they aren’t committing because they are not interested in you enough, for whatever reason. They are interested in sex with you, not a relationship. Men like this will enter a relationship when they find the right girl, until then they just continue this game over and over again.You need to figure out how to differentiate between men interested in you for a relationship and men interested in you for sex
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 04:11 AM
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Ok yep I understand what’s going on now. You’re in their home, not the other way around. You don’t get to boss them around or tell them to do certain things. Guys only do that for girls giving them sex. They’re not getting anything from you so why should they follow your rules? So they don’t. And I’m not trying to be mean just trying to help you understand what’s going on. Guys only follow girls rules/demands if they’re getting something from them. Some random girl tells me to do something? Not …
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/20 01:56 AM
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Kind of sounds like you’re intruding on bro time. No offense but I don’t really want to talk in depth with my friends girlfriends. I want to say hi and ask how their day is, then I want them to be quiet so I can talk with my guy friends. It’s kind of like someone bringing they’re kid to a barbecue. Do most people find other people’s kids cute? No. Do most people enjoy spending a lot of time with other people’s kids? No. Do you like your friends kids because they’re your friends kids? Yes. Do you…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 04:15 AM
0

A 1tb external solid state drive is like $80 lol...
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:50 AM
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I had never thought of this before but I think this is actually the correct answer
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 03:35 AM
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This is ridiculous, no offense but most PhDs are not difficult to obtain, there are just a certain few that are difficult. Chemistry, engineering, etc. Also most PhDs pay far less than a software engineer salary. In my opinion being a self taught software engineer is more impressive than having a PhD unless it is in engineering or math or something like that. Paying for a college education doesn’t make you smart. Learning, understanding, and applying knowledge makes you smart.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 03:09 PM
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Be courteous while at the same time minimizing all interaction. Example: when they ask you a question give a polite but short answer
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 01:54 AM
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MD > DO > PA > NP. Look at their medical school and residency. Make sure it’s a recognizable name brand.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:43 AM
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Lol Jesus dude
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:28 AM
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Very fun but super difficult. Like super difficult
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:07 AM
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You sound a little immature. I would try to chill a little bit and take things less seriously. Try to figure life. You are young. Humility makes men very attractive as well. I would work on that.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:23 AM
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You should take an mbti test. Sounds like you might have a XSTX personality type which can seem robotic and dull to most other types.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 01:19 AM
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Depends on your skin tone
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 11:51 PM
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Most likely aren’t interpreting the questions well
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 02:03 PM
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Most likely one of you is a sensor and one of you is an intuitive. The two don’t connect well
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 04:34 AM
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Most likely incompatible personality types. Take mbti tests and look at the descriptions. Not all personalities can become close with one another. When people say “sparks” or “soul mate” they are referring an interaction with another mbti type that is compatible to theirs and they are also attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 02:13 AM
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Day trading is like going to the casino idiot
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:01 AM
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Delicate balance between keeping your cool and enforcing your boundaries
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:58 AM
1

Also your gf isn’t an actual model. I would chill a little bit. An actual model gets consistent gigs. Lots of people get asked to do one photo shoot. I think you are getting yourself worked up. Not that big of a deal
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:03 AM
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There will be some women you can connect with but it will be very rare. They will also have low empathy. Difficult to find.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:54 AM
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A lot of business clothes rules are simply due to following tradition. I am unsure as to why people don’t wear dark blue or black shirts but no one does. Yeah I do think light blue looks better
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:28 AM
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When they said blue shirts too they meant like very light blue. Like a light Easter pastel blue. Don’t buy dark blue shirts
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:36 AM
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Yeah you just need two pants Navy pants are more conservative and traditionally worn than gray. So buy navy (blue). When they say grey then mean like a really really dark grey btw. Traditionally referred to as charcoal.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:35 AM
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Spend less time with her
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:13 AM
1

Should not wear black pants or shirt at a business job. No one at big 4 accounting firms does that. Tan and blue dress pants (do not buy khaki material, must be dress pant material) Uniqlo has the cheapest that are still quality A few white shirts, maybe colored shirts if you want (blue white stripe) Jos a bank the cheapest brand that’s not horrible quality Goodwill in an expensive area Cole Haan dress shoes
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:12 AM
1

Try to find what they are interested or know a lot about that you want to hear about. Just keep digging until they find it. Questions like “what do you do for fun” or “how do you spend your free time” find this. In general everyone will have at least one interesting aspect of themselves. If you can’t find it in most people you need to work on your search methods. In the people that get on your nerves or are particularly awful I always try to get their opinion on stuff I know I’ll disagree with a…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:31 AM
8

They are mistaking their smv for their rmv
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:27 AM
1

48 laws of power is how to interact with co-workers and acquaintances Red pill is how to act with wife and kids Both arenas require different strategies
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:09 PM
1

Lower your standards. Game 5+ just to get experience, with the knowledge in the back of your head it’s for experience. This will help you in the long run. Try to only go for 5 with great personality. When you go down to 5s you can find some girls with great personalities
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:27 PM
3

Plan a date or hang out, aka your time. Put effort into entertaining her during this
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:11 AM
0

PhD pays no money. No more valuable than BS/BA
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:35 AM
2

Lowers everyone inhibition so people are more likely to say/do ridiculous things. You have to have people you are actually good friends with for it to be fun. Also usually most fun 20-25 age range
/r/askTRP26/04/20 01:14 PM
9

Common of cluster b personality disorder, it’s love bombing
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:20 AM
1

If you’re in the medical field you want to live in a low cost of living middle tier city. Your salary will go up as the city size goes down and salary down as city size goes up. This is the opposite of most jobs. Take advantage of this and live in a smaller city with low cost of living.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:05 AM
3

Software sales Medical device sales Lots of money in both
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:27 AM
22

He sounds immature
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 03:05 AM
1

They’re looking for a fight because they’re an idiot and are going to choose the person stupid enough to stare back at them
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:30 PM
30

You want to be seen as humble and hard working at work, not arrogant. At work you want to be viewed as promotable not bangable
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:28 PM
9

All interactions are transactional
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:30 AM
86

Working 40 hours a week is actually super easy. Most people with jobs over 50k work more than that. If you didn’t work 40 hours a week you would honestly be super bored with all the free time on your hands. It’s honestly not that hard to get a 50k business job. Just get an accounting degree from literally any college and apply to literally any company. You are working yourself up, take a deep breath and solve your problems one at a time.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:50 PM
4

The final stage of red pill nirvana: you accept that cheating is inevitable and therefore don’t care if they cheat. Why worry about something you can’t stop
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:07 PM
1

No, just find masculine hobbies. Sounds like you have a great easy job. You will want that in 15 years when you start getting old and tired
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:38 AM
3

4/10 Fat and her face is messed up
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:22 AM
4

Sounds like you’re a type A personality attempting to push your controlling personality into others. What really helped me in my dealings with others was Buddhism. Read up on prajna and annica. Essentially the idea that nothing is permanent, therefore the more you try to grab on to things, the more frustrated you will become. You are attempting to force other people into your world view, and people, like all things, are impermanent (annica) and therefore will slip through your fingers. You need …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 03:08 AM
16

Men are always trying when they court a woman. It is a very difficult skill that few ever learn. The ask trp sidebar was recently made into a pdf and it was 1000 pages. It is much more difficult to consistently seduce women than most people understand
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 02:51 AM
9

I meet very few truly confident people. Most people who view themselves as confident are this. Confident people don’t have problems with insecure people because they recognize what’s wrong and then quickly move to avoid the annoying insecure person. So if you find yourself having a problem with insecure people you are most likely not as confident as you think you are.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 02:45 AM
2

“I love the idea of being the one person someone depends on” This is not a good reason to choose a job. Eventually all jobs become just that, a job. You need to choose a job because you enjoy the daily routine. Not because you like the idealized version of what they embody. You need to shadow a firefighter for a week or something to see what being a firefighter is really about. I doubt you have a good grasp on what the do day by day hour by hour. Don’t choose a job based long term idealization. …
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:37 AM
6

Yeah I would not be friends with someone that continually hits on my girlfriend
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:19 AM
1

Break up with her. Find a woman who doesn’t do this. Easier to buy a new car than fix a 3 year old ford
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:37 AM
2

This might be splitting hairs, but I feel like it’s more that you expect nothing of the world. And therefore are so grateful for anything you do receive/experience. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:17 AM
5

Sounds like you’re too intense. Need to chill out.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:56 PM
0

I would have bought the coffee
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:50 PM
3

You are getting there. Good job Spend less time with losers, as you are able to identify. Start focusing on making a lot of money.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:53 AM
3

She just talks about her job past dates to fill the awkward space. Simply ignore and steer the conversation to something you’re interested in. Touching women should feel normal if you have good game. So this tells me you have bad game. You need to go on sidebar and find some kind of “kino” or physical escalation guide. Basically you just touch her progressively more and see if she reciprocates your touch or withdraws. But more in depth guides can be found. It feels cheesy because you’re bad at i…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 09:03 PM
1

Stop eye contact. Reply with curt but polite answers
/r/askTRP01/04/20 10:18 PM
1

Correct answer here
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:28 PM
2

This is the answer
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:19 PM
1

Reduce interactions to as short and generic as possible
/r/askTRP31/03/20 03:50 PM
2

One thing I remember from the studies was that women are attracted to confidence bordering on arrogance whereas men do not respect arrogance. So you should be cocky around women and humble around men. Aside from the study I would say a big difference is that men respect competence over confidence. Women will see the most confident man in the room as the alpha whereas men will see the most competent man in the room as the alpha. Another thing outside the study is that women see leading as alpha. …
/r/askTRP30/03/20 09:18 PM
2

What is alpha amongst all men and alpha around a woman is different. Best way to figure out the difference is to see what male traits are viewed positively and negatively by men and then by women. They are different traits. Can’t remember exactly what they are or the papers name but at one point it was posted on trp
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:37 AM
1

Got way hotter girls, with better personalities, and better jobs. It’s worth it to move for just a few years to snag a wife. They’ll move to a low cost of living area afterwards
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:09 AM
11

If you are a high value male it significantly increases your value and the value of the girls you are able to date. In small towns women’s value is artificially inflated because no attractive single women 20-30 stay in a small town. Law of supply and demand
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:07 PM
1

This is the correct answer. Just steer the conversation away from this topic
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:33 PM
50

Just cause you do yoga and crafts doesn’t mean you’re feminine. I’m sure you can find some traditionally masculine activities you enjoy and just emphasize those when with women
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:31 PM
3

Tattoos are indicative of lower class taste and lack of the ability to see long term consequences. Obviously this is classist and there’s nothing wrong with being lower class as long as you pay your taxes and don’t commit crimes. Generally higher class people make more money though and people want to hire/promote those similar to them so they will do so to people who show higher class social attributes. TLDR: nothing wrong with showing lower class social attributes but they can end up negatively…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:03 AM
1

I don’t think it’s because you’re female and if so you’ll never convince anyone else this is why. Considering you have a 13 year positive track record I think this is an example of someone who doesn’t mesh with you. For whatever reason this guy just doesn’t vibe positively with you. Whether that’s your personality or how you accomplish your work. You will always find people like this in the world, no matter what. You have to trust that the majority of the people in the world (ie your company) fi…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:59 AM
1

No more important to have your outfit just overall flow well. Example: do your shoes match your belt? Does your shirt go with your pants? Most people won’t care enough to know shoe and watch brands
/r/askTRP21/03/20 07:09 AM
1

“I only talk to this one girl about my feelings relationships”
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:12 AM
1

You are using each other as emotional sponges. Unhealthy
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:18 PM
2

You are not knowledgeable enough about this subject matter. The problem is that it overwhelms healthcare systems, that is what they are trying to prevent. I would recommend increased humility and curiosity in the future
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:01 PM
2

Sexy faces with suggestive captions
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 03:54 AM
8

The hotter the female, the more other guys will attempt to add stress to your frame to see if you crack. They are doing it because it costs them little and the potential payout is huge: possible sex. This is one of the downsides of having a hot gf/plate. The key is as soon as you see it happening to shut it down. The best way is to refuse to make eye contact with him. He will try to do the “ape staring contest for dominance”. If you avoid this without looking scared you’ve told him he’s so benea…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:46 PM
1

Avoid him at all costs. Don’t invite him to family gatherings at your house. If he shows up, lock the doors and call the cops. Tell them he is trespassing.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:20 AM
1

Toyota camry
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:37 AM
3

Position yourself between your woman and the whistler so she feels physically protected. And to prevent physical harassment. Ignore the man but also keep him in your line of sight in case he tries something. Make her feel safe by being ready for a physical attack, not by mouthing off to the guy. Take your hands out of your pockets so you can bring them up fast. Basically just a bunch of subtle movements that tell him you’re ready for a fight. Actions speaks louder than words.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:21 AM
1

Start working out, specifically weight lifting focused on the lower body. This is the one way any girl can become more physically attractive. You can workout to give yourself a big butt and so few women do it you will stand out. Best way to do this is probably to find a fitness Instagram girl and follow her workouts. You should also do protein shakes/high protein meal plans.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 01:10 PM
16

Semantics. Actions are more important than words. That paragraph is just some English major going off on a tangent that has no real substance.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 12:04 PM
2

Sounds like you either 1) have some personal issues surrounding sex or 2) have a personality high in neuroticism / type A. I would try to fix 1 or relax 2, as opposed to finding a man that’s ok with it. That should increase the number of possible suitors for you
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 04:13 AM
2

I think it’s ok to save your girlfriend. However I would make a positive comment about her rather than a negative comment about him. You always want to avoid unnecessary negative comments as they bring the mood down. An example of a positive comment about her would be, “hey that place has great vodka sodas tho, I’m gonna have to back my girlfriend up on this one!” Say this in a half joking half serious tone. It will diffuse the situation without having to directly attack the guy
/r/askTRP02/03/20 02:52 AM
1

Guys and girls cannot be friends in the sense of a same-sex friendship. Guys and girls can be “friends” in the form of acquaintances in the form of interacting due to shared work or club membership. However, spending time together outside of shared groups is disrespectful to significant others as it opens up the possibility of cheating. One may argue they simply connect well with this person. Part of the connection between a male and a female is sexual tension. Males and females are drawn to int…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 04:47 AM
2

Part of being a leader is responsibility as well as rewards. As leader of your woman it is your responsibility to make sure she is sexually satisfied
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:59 AM
1

If you want to attract women, dress wealthy. Aka the highest level of dressiness not considered weird in the situation. So for college this would be frat casual. Lots of chinos and polos/button ups. Doesn’t have to be expensive. You can get Ralph Lauren at tj max for $30. If there are no women to attract, dress however you want
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:57 AM
2

Maybe a good way to put it is don’t give him your respect but also don’t be aggressively mean. Just withdraw your respect without announcing your doing so. I think that’s a better way of phrasing it. Edit: Can you rephrase the edit question?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:07 PM
1

Yeah you don’t want to be rude to your teammates or even him really. It’s more about not being nice to him than being rude to him if that makes sense? Just give him the base level respect you would give any human but nothing more.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:00 PM
14

Don’t make a big deal about it, he’s not worth your time. But make a mental note to not do him any favors, don’t small talk with him, don’t dap him up, be uninterested in him. You’re not interested in associating with people who are disrespectful
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:28 AM
12

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and I know many people carry this same opinion. However, I respectfully disagree. It is a huge turn off to me when women do this. They already have a boyfriend/husband so they are very clearly attempting to trade female attention for male attention (that is not their significant other) or favors. This gives the male a chance to hit on her while doing her the favor. I understand I have to trust her to turn down men hitting on her, but I do not appreciate…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 03:17 AM
1

No struggle. Try doing boxing or something really grueling
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:00 AM
1

This is the correct answer. The end of the tunnel of self improvement is that you’re an open book but you don’t care about opening up to others because you know that most don’t truly care and it won’t end up improving your day to day life. Ultimately no one cares about your hardships
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:58 AM
3

It only impresses unintelligent / low class women. A high value women will be put off by you bullying your friend / acquaintance
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:32 PM
3

Be less direct in flirting. Women communicate indirectly. Example: instead of “I want you naked in my bed” you could say “I think you know what I want”. You’re not coming out and saying directly you want to have sex with her but it is very heavily implied
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:24 AM
3

Don’t text afterwards about it. That makes you look weak and immature. Just don’t laugh or make eye contact when he puts you down.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:10 AM
2

Look for genuinely good people, be polite to the rest but don’t give them the time of day beyond that. Try to give your time and attention to your family and friends of a long time. Don’t waste time on acquaintances. Find a difficult career that will constantly challenging and makes a positive impact in the world. Something in healthcare perhaps. Look to do good in the world in general, accept that no one will do good for you.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:02 PM
3

1-2) I feel like this has been adequately answered 3) no you want an unplugged alpha who wants a family and is therefore willing to settle down. However these are rare and expensive. Plugged in alpha will struggle with game and “knowing what to do” as women say. RPM men will eventually trade plates for a family you just have to be a very high value female. You marry to support children, for support in times of hardship like surgery or illness, and for company.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 06:54 PM
5

This is a common point at which I see a lot of intelligent people get stuck. The problem is that you think that the prefrontal cortex can “out think” the hindbrain. This is not true. Human needs and desires (food, shelter, sex, offspring) are still driven by the hindbrain. The prefrontal cortex is simply a system to help you figure out how to get these things. When you think, but some people don’t want sex/offspring. Well one of the things people also desire is a feeling of success and control o…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 06:50 PM
1

That’s a good point. One aspect of a rock solid frame is accepting who you are and being ok with that. Psychopaths have a falsely strong frame because when you test it they are unable to back up why they are the best, smartest, best looking. They simply get angry and throw a tantrum until you stop testing them. Therefore their frame isn’t rock solid, they just bully anyone who applies pressure to the frame to go away. So they can only interact with those that believe their fake frame. A real trp…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:34 PM
13

Women can only have like 15 kids and men can have thousands. Therefore women are more selective in who they mate with. Women are attracted to the dominant male in the situation they are in, while men are attracted to pretty much any fertile female. Women are innately hypergamous because like all living organisms they are driven to pass on their genes and give those genes the best chance of survival. Hypergamy gives them better genes for future children and secures increased resources for current…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 04:10 AM
2

They have a “strong” frame in that they will reinforce it 100% and very convincingly but it is a fake reality where they are the best and the smartest, not the real world. This is the difference between the perfect man and a psychopath. A perfect man has a strong frame because he is a surgeon and looks like a male model. A psychopath has a strong frame because he has a mental disease that releases the same chemicals that are released in the mind of the man who is a surgeon and a male mode, makin…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:57 AM
1

You think you are a loser therefore you are. Men who allow others to determine their destiny are losers, you must take responsibility for your own fate
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:46 AM
1

You are probably annoying af in real life. A good way to humble yourself is that your income and notch list only matter to women you want to have sex with. For most other people you encounter in day to day life, your income and sex list doesn’t matter to them because they aren’t going to get some of your money or sex. So they don’t care about your money or sex. They care about how you make them feel. And you make them feel bad. So they don’t like you. And when most people you meet don’t like you…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 12:40 AM
1

Don’t take headphones out, mumble a “oh my bad dude” and get away from him. Avoid eye contact. People like that aren’t even worth your time
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:44 AM
3

You care about ig followers. You may be a little immature and have poor game. Not trying to insult just give you insight as a means to change
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:10 AM
2

Ask her about career goals. If focused on career drop her. If focused on family keep her. You will make enough money if doesn’t matter what money she makes. And all women in medicine eventually take low paying jobs that are low stress, don’t delude yourself that you’re not going to end up supporting her
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:29 AM
2

Based on personality type. Feeling types are more emotion based as opposed to logic. Your are most likely thinking type. Feeling types appear retarded to thinking types, but when you think about it (duh duh dun) they are 50% of the population. So it’s important to understand things from their perspective
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:19 AM
2

Stop hanging out with her. Toxic people will drag you down with them, don’t allow them to. You mentioned you have an LTR so you don’t even really need her for pre-selection. Also she mentions all this stuff about height and it makes you mad. You need to stop getting mad at what women say, it’s easy for women to have sex with someone but the equivalent difficult task for them is getting a boyfriend/husband. And as you said with pua guy she can’t do that. When she says stupid stuff you should see …
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:11 PM
2

Im in sales
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:10 PM
5

At first under sell yourself then later oversell yourself. Looks like humility, which you then get a double smv boost for both having a great job and being humble about it. So you would first say I’m in sales, then you would say you are training to take over your fathers company
/r/askTRP30/01/20 12:56 AM
1

They are messing with him to try to figure out what kind of man he is. The comment isn’t about you, if you were a super model they would have made fun of him for something else. Once again the comment has nothing to do with you. His coworkers are testing him to see if he’s a bro or not a bro. I still understand how that would be frustrating / hurt tho.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 02:58 PM
1

Your greatest undoing will be low consciousness. Being able to focus on one task for long periods of time is a skill you will need to develop to hold a high paying job. Also “manipulating others with ease” will only work on low value people meaning it’s worthless. I would stop trying to manipulate others as high value people will recognize you quickly and simply avoid you, decreasing your ability to receive help from them. Those you are able to manipulate will have little to give you compared to…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:15 PM
0

One easy way is to go out of your way to help your co-workers. If someone needs a ride home from work, be the first to volunteer. Someone needs a shift covered volunteer. While changing your interactions is difficult and takes a lot of time, this strategy is easy and you can start immediately. While people may still think you are socially weird they will recognize your actions are kind and they will be a little nicer to you
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:08 PM
3

Main difference I’ve noticed is that they flake super easily when first knowing them. Very difficult to get them to the finish line
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:13 AM
1

Sometimes being selfish actually means being altruistic. The best long term outcome often comes from the option that is socially cooperative self interest as opposed to negligent self interest. Is the most powerful king the one that all his subjects fear or all his subjects love?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:52 AM
2

You are taking your desired answer, and working backwards trying to find a way to make it correct. This is called “hamstering”. If you truly want to improve as a person and increase your smv you have to look for the truth in the world, not bend the world to your truth
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 05:07 AM
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