| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 90 | I'm treating myself ✨ | QUEEN SH*T | redpandanation_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Oh man. This is just upsetting. | PICKME CULTURE | redpandanation_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 09:02 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?"Before they bite, they bark. Before they hit you, they hit near you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 11:55 PM |
| 9 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔I hate this. Sounds like my ex. Total narcissist, definitely was only cancelling because he was going on dates/sleeping with other people. I hate men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:25 PM |
| 7 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsWhat the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:31 AM |
| 2 | This is a new TV show...the bar is drowning nowNo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:09 AM |
| 22 | A Question For Those Who Like to Interject “Not All Men” into conversations about bad men. Someone do the math.100% of the straight men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Hypocritical male dating/marriage standardsWhat a perfect description of the LVM I just dated who was very convincingly disguised as a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | The Utility of Gaslighting and How It Covers Up Weak CharacterI just ended it with what I thought was a HVM. He checked a lot of boxes early on, but recently he had progressively been putting less and less effort in. I shamefully thought it was just because he was on a tough rotation (he's a second year resident). It turns out he was shopping around for other women while we were exclusive. He then tried to gaslight me after four months of reassuring we were exclusive that we somehow were not and I had gotten the wrong idea. Dispicable. Weak is exactly the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:55 AM |
| 34 | wage gap isn't realI originally wanted to scream at the beginning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 4 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?My first thought - send this to any contacts you share on LinkedIn. What an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 13 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleI will also call. That's ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | This is what male entitlement looks like. In response to WhY DoN't YoU WoMeN JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE MoRe. Men don't freaking listen.This has me rolling 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Is Charlie an FDS follower (not quite there but he is getting close)!!Right... How about don't tell me how to live my life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:26 AM |
| 18 | Ohio State Grooms Students into Sex WorkUhmmmmmmmmmmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 11 | I have no wordsI knee jerk laughed OUT LOUD and immediately thought "wait what the fuck" immediately after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 06:12 AM |
| 74 | I love it when men recognise LVM!Sort 👏🏻 your 👏🏻life 👏🏻out 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:05 AM |
| 4 | We all promiseI am extremely attracted to him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 74 | This is why we don’t take the risk with LVM. Soon as he shows any red flags 🚩 DUMP HIM or you might end up this mans wife.Oop. Found my new hobby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:45 PM |
| 8 | I'm treating myself ✨Well that's a good point. I hadn't thought of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 7 | Thank youYes. Absolutely. One of my favorite sayings is: "When you're seeing them through rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags." I'm so happy I have this sub to remind me when I'm making excuses for a guy now, and to stop because it's not worth my effort in the long run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 10 | Thank youThis sub is an absolute lifesaver. I am dating a HVM for the first time and cannot believe it. It's crazy to think about what I've settled for in the past. Just know that when you find one, you won't be walking on eggshells wondering. 👑 Rise up, queens. I'm still in disbelief most days, but I know I damn sure deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The audacity. (Found this on another sub)At first I thought she said "nah it's all good, I don't want you to get to know me" which is what I would have said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 15 | Not sure if this was posted before, but I feel most of us can emphatize...I'm dying. 😂 A few months ago I kicked a guy out because the sex was so quick and terrible... Like get out so I can take care of myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | My friend is all set to marry an LVMChiming in to say I lost a friend because she wanted to marry a guy she met online who proposed to her before they met in person, they only spent two long weekends together before they got married, and he was British so he needed a green card. He was extremely unfriendly and ultimately they got married and I was kicked out of the wedding party for telling her I was concerned. Flash forward a few years and he has been using her for years. He's "working on his drawings" and never got a job. She fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 3 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.This is on HBO! It's called "X" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 14 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.He's really not anti relationship, he's actually in one right now. In his special, he says very clearly he's not after the people who are happy and in love, he's saying a lot of people settle for less when they shouldn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 11 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.I cannot say enough how much respect and admiration I have for this man and his talent. His X special is so amazing. I've never seen him speak out of turn against women, even in his silly podcast with Kai Humphries. He takes accountability and holds others responsible. Fucking exquisite gentleman, with a spot on humor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 50 | She hit every nail on its head!!Really had the knee jerk reaction like...I'm about to send this to a guy I used to know. 👀 Not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 55 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:Dude YES. Just cut off talking to this guy who never finished college, still works as a server, has no plans/goals at age 30... and couldn't stop telling me he had low self esteem and he's so "weird." I knew him from when we were younger but ultimately I just said we were not compatible and of course he got pissed 🙄. Like please grow up and see a therapist for your issues. I've spent the time to better myself already. I'm not here for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:41 PM |
| 12 | Lvm readers will be so triggered lol but she's completely right and now I want one tooSAME 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:08 AM |
| 95 | Cuddle dates 🤢🤢🤢It means pressure, which means rape. 🚫 Stay clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:35 AM |
| 86 | Absolute QUEEN Energy!Men typically only leave a woman when they have someone else lined up. It's pure weakness and a huge sign of codependency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:59 AM |
| 19 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.Horrific story alert. One time my alcoholic ex took me (after I begged) to a winery on a date, and bought us two glasses and three bottles of fancy wine to take home. One was specifically a sweeter wine for me. After going through both of the other two bottles one night, I hid mine so he wouldn't drink it and I could have some of it another night. He rummaged through the house screaming at me asking where it was. I was so scared I finally gave it up and he drank it all. Know your worth ladies. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:15 AM |
| 78 | Suggesting couples counseling can be a form of gaslighting. This lady could have died in the shower while pregnant and her husband got mad at her for being upset he wouldn't answer her, after her begging him to just answer his phone. It pissed me off to see "counseling" suggested here& it's upvoted.I don't see why she's still "debating" divorcing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.This is so well written. I'm so glad you feel empowered. Ecstatic the trash took itself out. You are a true QUEEN! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsYep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 23 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsCan we talk about the sheer amount of scrotes on dating apps I come across like "I want kids someday...not looking for anything serious." TF? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:09 PM |
| 6 | I literally don’t even have wordsCircle jerk logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 16 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!"In that case, no." Did it for me. The blatant disrespect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:43 PM |
| 9 | All of these are instant dealbreakers for me, what about you?Also literally had a HVM friend tell me once that It's Always Sunny is a show about psychopaths for psychopaths. I've never found it funny. A lot of LVM men do though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:39 AM |
| 28 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Absolutely goodbye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 34 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Yep! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Self-Sabotage! Don't Underestimate Your Subconscious.I'd love to start a counter statement thread ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:52 PM |
| 145 | I got you, babe.THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME. This guy was trying to take my very drunk friend who could barely walk home from a house party and I was like nah dude, I don't know you and she's single. Another friend and I got her cozied up in a spare bedroom and made sure she had water, a snack, and a trashcan in case she got sick. This dude tried to come in to get her ! I literally had to lock the door so he couldn't get in. She woke up the next morning very confused and didn't remember anything or where she was at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:47 AM |
| 36 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖I'm mad. Endlessly angry at men in general for the nerve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 8 | Patriarchy 🤮I screamed! The terrifying truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 13 | I never get a good vibe from the “brutal honesty” guys."don't take things too seriously" 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾Literally a friend of mine just bought her boyfriend a TRUCK. I can't. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Love yourself first ladies👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Is he really too busy?It looks like the handbook link is disabled? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:24 PM |
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