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redshoetom/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 11:23 PM
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redshoetom/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 06:33 AM
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Hey, you might get lucky. Never be afraid.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 12:22 AM
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Will it go away? No. That’s male DNA. Shit, that’s human DNA to look for the best looking partner. But it’s either celibacy or well….divorced women. Both suck. And for motivation, I banged my first fatty after the divorce….wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. Won’t happen again but it got me going again.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 12:13 AM
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You’re wasting your money. The attorney can’t and won’t do anything. And if you do get in front of a judge, they won’t do anything. Stop caring what she is wearing. I understand you want her to be a good role model for your daughter, but it’s clearly not going to work. So take it on the chin, and move the fuck on.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 09:38 PM
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Disgusting
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 02:28 AM
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It’s all good. I’m still here lol. Not sure what his credentials are. I will tell you, ALL “father support” pages on TT, are 100% a rip off and only pray on uneducated(yes, me too) dads who know nothing about the system. In my opinion, he’s like the rest of them. Just cash grabbing, giving you a “light general” knowledge of it all. I wouldn’t waste my money again.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 07:55 PM
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Jesus it thought that was a clear joke😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 04:23 AM
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Donate that shit to me. I’ll help
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 01:58 AM
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Talk to a fiduciary or financial advisor. They’ll ask for income, and all bills then will go from there.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 05:29 AM
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As soon as I filed
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 05:49 PM
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There’s a lot of ups and down in this post. Not really sure you’re “genuinely happy” about the separation. You say you’re happy. But still crushed. How do we navigate Navigate what? Being happy? You already said you were. But then also crushed. Again, gotta be real with yourself here. Time to tighten those bootstraps. how to be the best parent Bro, dig deep down and become the person you want your kid/s to be. If you’re sad, you’re sad. Don’t pretend. If you’re happy, be happy. But if you were t…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 11:04 PM
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They run on pure emotion. No logic. Bingo.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 06:04 PM
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I disagree 100%! We thrive when we work together, not be supported, or support someone else. You will fail every time. You’re confusing companionship with relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 01:43 AM
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Why do you “crave” a relationship? Work on yourself my man. Do life for you! No one else! Be happy alone, Love alone, live for yourself alone. You’ll be happier. I understand you want someone to love you, and to cuddle you, and hold you, to be a rock in your life. But you have to be your own rock first. But not going out to dinner? Bro, even in a relationship, you have to go out for dinner. It’s called a date. And yes, you can go on dates with you SO. Build yourself up first though. Stop dependi…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 05:24 PM
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Advise. Shut up. Ignore ALL messages other than about the kids. Let her dig her own grave or use it against her as her harassing you since she’s “constantly” hounding you about it. You have a great opportunity and I hope you capitalize on it. Her dragging it on for this long, I’d go after her for lawyer cost. Yes, that’s a real thing. And clearly you have proof. If her “constantly” asking to meet with you is a real thing, then I’d use it to. But redshoetom, I can’t do that, men aren’t dirty, men…
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/24 11:41 PM
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Not even if Jesus himself came down from the heavens telling me he would cure cancer would I ever eat a steak like that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 04:29 AM
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Who cares. Light the grill. Throw on a well season, salt and pepper only, tomahawk. Cook 3 minutes. Turn steak 1/4 turn. Cook for 5 mins. Flip. Cook 4 mins. Turn steak 1/4 turn. Cook 5 mins. Throw on top rack for 6 mins. THEN DEVOUR! Do not use steak sauce. Do not use ketchup. Eat until youre miserable. Wipe away the meat sweats and go kick back in your recliner in your favorite pair of sweat pants, a big hoodie and trusty fleece beanie.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 02:58 AM
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By your response, maybe you should go ahead and file. Cause you’re right. Donald Trump has everything to do with the decline of your relationship. You go girl, pick the bear!
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 11:21 PM
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Since you don’t have kids, here’s my take on what I read. People grow. People change. I get that. IMO being married, it’s a you grow together, you change together type thing. And we all know it should be a give and take thing as well. 2 things that stick out to me are 1. His family influencing him. 2. He has no job. 1. He’s a grown ass man. He can leave his mommas tit! If he’s not will to even think about moving, or even have a conversation about moving, fuck it, leave him. 2. I get people love …
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 08:31 PM
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Yes. Spend MORE money than he already has in the last 2 years just to have the judge not care. This isn’t something for a judge. The courts don’t care, and he will never stand in front of a judge for this reason.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 09:08 PM
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Get audio and video recording of her. And if it’s audio make sure you’re describing the environment. If she throws something say it or pushed you or does it in front of the kids. Voice that so the recording picks it up. As far as no place to stay….no clue. IMO, stay in the house. Record it all. Let the courts tell her to get out if she’s that crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 03:22 AM
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I have updated my experience. I said I wouldn’t do it again. Look at the previous comments.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 03:37 PM
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Not sure why she’s not in jail for DV ALREADY!
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 02:19 PM
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I didn’t find it helpful
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 12:40 AM
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I wouldn’t do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 11:59 PM
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I wouldn’t do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 07:08 PM
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Because they are all greedy cunts that don’t give a fuck about the child having a father. All they care about is the money and “single mom” attention. It’s literally the only way to make a woman happy.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 10:38 PM
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Get a lapel mic off of Amazon to hook up to your phone and record everything when you talk. When and if there is a phone conversation, get another device and record that. After saying all that, DO NOT TALK TO HER!! DO FUCKING NOT TALK TO HER! Dont question your kids about her or try and get info from them. You’re alienating yourself at games. Fuck her friends and your old friends. FUCKING GO! No one can stop you. Go through incriminating messages and print them off to show the judge. As for mone…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 05:38 PM
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It’s funny when other posters have said guilt and shit like that. Dude, she “played” nice for how long before she filed. She fooled you then, and is putting on a show now. WHO. FUCKING. CARES! Move on kings.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 09:43 PM
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Like I said, some decent information. But in my case nothing mattered when the judge didn’t listen or look at my evidence. So to me it was a waste.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 05:45 PM
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Tbh I never lost my confidence. Because I’m a man. Before getting married, out of my friends, I was the….”friendly” one. I was the one who was hated by my buddies wives because they thought I’d rope them into my conquests. But after the separation surprisingly I got more ass than before getting married. And I don’t live in a large city. I don’t know what you do outside of work, but start jiujitsu. Get a motorcycle. Do something. Go out. Don’t throw yourself at females, clearly you’re not ready f…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 03:41 AM
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I get where you’re coming from 100%. It’s an open threat telling her you’re not getting any of my money, have fun trying to fund your life now and you sure you wanna do this because “I’m not happy.” But on the other hand, signing over your rights being looked at as a piece of shit from family and friends. I couldn’t do it. But I get it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 01:58 AM
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My resources state single moms are for recreational use only.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 09:37 PM
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You not healed because you’re not letting yourself be healed. You have to build your confidence and self esteem. You say you go to church. Let god do his work and heal you. Get into jujitsu. I literally tell that to everybody, even guys not going through a divorce. Reclaim your manhood and you’ll heal.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 05:46 PM
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Go through his YouTube, he has a ton of great vids on there. You can also search for other specific topics dealing with custody too from different creators. Just make sure they are giving legitimate tips by cross referencing online with your state laws. To answer your question though. I’m on the fence. He does have other vids that give different, or more in depth explanations rather than the YouTube vids that I did find helpful. You don’t get one one one with him. So it’s literally a PowerPoint.…
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 05:05 PM
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This is FUCKING GOLD!
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 11:23 PM
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Go to a jits class and roll till you die. You’ll stop thinking that depressing shit REAL fast.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 04:56 PM
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I didn’t even read your post, but I 100% believe every man going through divorce needs to seek mental therapy, physical therapy, and join the closest Jiujitsu gym.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 06:08 PM
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Jesus Christ. Get into therapy and get a hobby.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 04:37 AM
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Jits. Jits. Jits.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 02:36 AM
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Get an attractive, slightly recovered, drug addict pregnant. Have child. She’ll no doubt fall back into her old bullshit. Get her rights taken away. Bam. That’s my plan.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 12:09 AM
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Is it really being reported?! Do I not get notified if and when a comment gets reported?
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 01:48 AM
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Learn how to love being single and doing things alone. If you get lonely, go to a bar or where sloots hang out. You literally don’t need them. Your life will be a cheaper and less stressful. I loved single life. Then was fooled. Was sad for about two weeks, remembered who the fuck I was, became happy again and slaying.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 06:49 PM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 12:35 AM
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I am going to trial. After her not showing up to mediation twice. That’s why I was interested in his program.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 12:33 AM
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Well I bought it. $397. So I’ll keep you dated if y’all want.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 01:23 AM
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All those women want on those apps are attention out of boredom and a compliment to make themselves feel good.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 01:21 PM
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Cut booze, cigs, weed, fast food all out. Cut every unnecessary expense out. I don’t know what your mos was, but pretend you’re an 11B and adapt while bettering yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 08:40 PM
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Stop it. Get therapy. Find the closest place to get jiujitsu in your life. Get her out of your mind and life. You put her on a pedestal making her out to be a queen when she’s really just a sewer rat. Charlie mike my man!
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 08:24 PM
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Therapy and jiujitsu.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 02:25 PM
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