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But... So will men. Die out I mean. Who will give birth to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:20 PM
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Women imo need emotional validation. I think they're cool with hanging out with girlfriends until all of those friends get married and leave them behind. So I think many use marriage as a way to have a social circle (not be the loser unmarried woman) as well as have a husband as a companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:46 PM
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If they are built that way in the first place. I can also see that being disastrous, such as a glitch turning the terminator 2000 against her accidentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:05 AM
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It'd be interesting to see if more are okay with single parenting if baby mama drama disappears.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 03:01 AM
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Lol i mentioned to someone else that my comment was very tongue in cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:34 AM
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Exactly why I don't think male bots will be that popular. Women don't care about sex anywhere the level men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:20 AM
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To be frank, I wrote that in a very tongue in cheek sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:17 AM
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I am waiting for the day the "crazy cat lady" types stop being looked down upon as a joke. They'll probably become the majority lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:54 AM
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Because I think there's proof that men may not require validation as much as women. E.g. the Herbivore men and others. Women still reach out to others for emotional support in droves, even if they are "undesirable" by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:47 AM
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Interesting. Do you think male bots may also take off to the fullest extent after the acceptance period has begun? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:42 AM
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So what do you think women would decide to do at that point? Back to my original question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:32 AM
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Could a male bot fulfill the female emotional needs? Sex toys do not do this. Hence why women are complaining about the current dating market. Men are more sex focused, and women I think are more emotional validation focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:29 AM
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I mean i do agree with what you're saying, but this isn't really the sort of answer I was looking for. I wanted to see what people spoke of the details/practicalities, i.e. what behavior would women engage in at that point; what would they decide to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:27 AM
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I can see some type of turbomaid taking off. Imo I am still not sure if a male bot would take off, especially if it hurts a woman's social status. Compared to men, women are more sensitive to that sort of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:17 AM
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You're telling me you know more how I personally, and subjectively, relate to a description than I know myself?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 09:41 PM
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you organize rave parties? Yeah virgos are known to be very rational and logical! Very smart people :P I'm not sure how much I believe in the astrology thing, but I can relate relatively well to the Sag description.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 02:02 PM
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Thats... a very rigid way of looking at things. Its a bit odd to me, to be frank. I mean good and bad are pretty subjective terms. Maybe to you, you really dislike sarcasm and see it as an inherent flaw, a form of evil. I don't because, as I've mentioned, it's about the context. In my experience, a person can seem "good" and non-sarcastic, trying their best not to offend you, and constantly sprinkle you with compliments, but it may be a manipulation tactic. I personally prefer people who are aut…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 10:55 PM
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I agree with what you wrote! I think I am way too closed off, trying to live in my own bubble of happiness and I frown whenever the real world doesn't match to these expectations, and end up closing myself off further. The world may have some nice things out there. I just have to find it i suppose. Keeping your eyes and ears open as you say. :) And sagitarius! Are you a virgo?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 08:55 PM
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While it's great thay you can look to celebrities for inspiration on what to do and what not to do, I really don't think comparing myself to another woman is going to help me with my situation. I'm focusing on healing and becoming more receptive and open to people, rather than a bit... catty. Thanks though.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 03:00 PM
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I'm not sure if I'll "kick ass" necessarily as I really have a lot (a LOT) to get over. While lots of these messages are inspirational, I'm waiting to see tangible results before I can actually remain hopeful. Good for you, though. I'm very happy to see people, men and women alike, get out of the "anger phase" and actually evaluate themselves truthfully. As you've written, the only way to go is up from this point :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 02:58 PM
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Eh... not "heavily". I don't think sarcasm necessarily indicates a toxic person but rather the intention behind the sarcasm. It can be used for good humor and to lightly tease one another. Or it can be used to hurt people's feelings. I've encountered both situations.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 12:08 AM
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If it makes you feel better, I've turned down 2 guys in the past week who seemed interested in me just because I was freaking out after all the self reflection. I imagined myself dating right now, and I could not handle that mental image. I honestly am kinda looking forward to be focusing on myself for a while. I've always been "relationship oriented" so now being "single and unavailable till I'm well healed" doesn't sound bad at all. I'm sorry for what you went through with those women. I can s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 09:04 PM
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While I think you make some interesting points, I wanted to point out this line which is taken directly from the sidebar: This one should also be relatively self-explanatory. If a woman doesn’t respect a man, all of a man (including his ego) he will not be properly satisfied in a relationship. Everyone has an ego and everyone loves to have someone else build them up (particularly if that other person is attractive). To be a woman who not only won’t build him up and stroke his ego (no matter how …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 05:31 PM
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Thanks again for your response. It must've been tough for you to stop talking to your sister and the other people. Good that things worked out for you in the end. I am curious why you deem "sarcastic" in the "toxic" territory though?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 04:16 PM
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While your post makes sense, I still don't think I am quite off the mark with what I wrote. I can't find the post, but an endorsed contributor on here wrote something like "Men want women who are passionate about them". I also read another person write on here about how men seem to be turning to porn and fantasy women more and more because there is little risk for sexual rejection. They can pretend that this beautiful woman wants them no matter what, and does things to cater to his wishes. By gi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 03:55 PM
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I just want to point out that, while I agree with what you said, the problem isn't so much "can I do those things", it's "can I do those things continuously for the rest of my life without resentment or jealousy?" Currently, I am not at the point where I can, and it's not fair to either me or potential men in my life. I agree with your other post and I greatly appreciate what you wrote about what defines someone being "toxic". I will certainly keep those things in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 03:44 PM
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Lol no it does! You make it sound so simple and straightforward, and my brain is trying to make things very, very complicated. It does help to be able to confirm that I'm one among millions of women and I'm nothing special in this regard. Definitely will refer to your post in the future to keep me going :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:31 PM
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Thank you so much! What you wrote is very inspirational indeed. It's strange to think I could possibly live an "anxious free" existence. I'm glad you have a good relationship with your parents. I eventually do want to forgive them for how they've treated me. They aren't bad people, but I honestly don't think they should've had children to be frank. My brother even agrees with me on this. While I want to say my introspective skills are terrific, they're still pretty... eh. I currently am very unc…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:29 PM
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I never asked internet strangers to fix this in my post lol. I was asking about the experience of women similar to me and if they bothered continuing to date.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:17 PM
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It's not so much I want a guy to "put up with me". I, quite frankly, don't think it's fair to any man to be with someone like me, and I'd rather he find someone who genuinely is able to like him for who he is. He should be with someone who can actually give him what he wants.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:15 PM
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Sorry for my late response, but this is terrific advice! Definitely true that they're more do-ers than listeners; I've always suspected that women may bond with men better in activities rather than formal dating. I will certainly do some research regarding body language!
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 12:21 AM
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I will check that book out! I agree about the off putting part. It's possible I am doing so without realizing, making people feel uncomfortable with me in return. While women are easier to talk to, I do struggle with them as well. I disagree with the last part. It's not just applying things to my face that's enjoyable. I do lots of research in my own time. I used to read a lot about the pathophysiology involved with acne, for example, and current research involved.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 12:18 AM
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Possible but I don't think so. I've had terrific conversations with men I wasn't interested in. I think this is more so my social awkwardness than anything else, as others indicated.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 12:13 AM
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Never thought of it that way! I think I'm starting to understand what "vetting" is lol. Thanks a bunch :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 08:50 PM
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Ah I see. So I look for character traits and not so much to connect with him over his hobbies. Like try to get a well rounded picture of who he is overall.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 06:35 AM
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Sounds rough! Why so much trouble over a coworker of your husband if you don't mind me asking? I'd be drained after a few attempts
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 06:32 AM
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I don't really mind. I'm more of a hands-on person. I'd rather give a man physical gifts, i.e. baking him something, or being a source of comfort. I don't care much for conversation. However, the modern day world, one has to actually chat before moving to the next stage, especially via text. And this can be stressful lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 06:01 AM
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They approach me first generally. I meet men online or irl I'm guessing they agree to a date or chat because they find me physically attractive. RMV is my struggle here. I can be a feminine woman. I can be submissive and feminine. My job is to make a man feel like a man, to make him feel appreciated and supported for who he is. However, initially establishing this is difficult, and to move beyond simple "hi" and "hellos" If a man wants a feminine woman who looks like me, that's what I offer. If …
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 05:57 AM
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I found it a turn off. If I ask about you I want to learn about you It's possible you're right. It's a bit odd in terms of RP theory. Women are replaceable. Women are not valued for our individual identity; we are valued for our femininity and the support we offer men. So it's surprising to me that a woman who shushes down her interests, knowing it's something you really wouldn't give a crap about as a man, is a turn off.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 05:46 AM
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If that's going to be the case, please be aware of STDs. Safe sex practices are crucial here! He will need to get regularly tested if he will continue to sleep with you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 03:14 AM
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True! I do worry though. Some of those conversations can shut down pretty quickly. E.g. "Do you have pets?". "Yeah a cat. X breed." "Ah. Cool. How long have you had the cat?" "5 years." "Nice." It's just me asking questions here. It's easier with women or with gay men as they tend to blabber and carry the conversation. With straight men, it feels like throwing a ball at a wall haha
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 03:03 AM
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If my ditziness is detrimental to my attractiveness to men, then sure haha. Otherwise, I am pretty okay with who I am. I've tried other things and it didn't work. I would love the top if it occurred. Somehow I meet men who end up "mumbling" more than engaging. They reach out to me, and provide one worded answers, forcing me to ask all the questions. I don't enjoy doing that; I like to listen. So I'm here figuring out how to properly engage with them in the way that they want.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 03:00 AM
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Yeah I'm pretty passionate about female smuck lol. I like to design things. Make things look pretty, i.e. makeup, fashion, interior design, little arts and crafts. I like rom-coms as I mentioned. I'm a sucker for things involved with family, friends, or romance. I like relationship oriented themes. I'm not an intellectual type or care much for "art" that hipsters rave about. I know what you're saying, but that magnetism seems more for men than for women. Women like me prefer to observe and recei…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:56 AM
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female targeted smuck But... I'm a woman. That's what I like. I'm not interested in the things men like. Of course not all women like those things, but most do. I've tried to get other hobbies, believe me, but it never really worked for me. I also find that whenever I try to get into male hobbies, men become extremely competitive with me and try to put me down. So I just gradually lose interest. It's easier for me to stay in my circle.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:35 AM
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This is really fantastic advice! I wish I had heard about this movement sooner. Thanks again :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:13 AM
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Frankly, I don't really like to talk about myself hahaha. I'd probably ask them "What are you interested in?" And try to tailor my response to their interest rather than say what I want. I've always been a people pleaser type
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:08 AM
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That sounds neat, thank you!! Would men get turned off by questions like that, though? Some big talk questions seem a tad invasive
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:05 AM
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Ah ok. If he uses a bunch of sports jargon that I have no clue about, e.g. "Oh yeah player x made a good play, but then y did some sports thing and it fell apart. I don't understand why they put player z in the game, he was bad this season blah blah", not really sure what to do then. Usually I'm dumb founded at that point haha
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:03 AM
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If men liked romantic comedies then maybe haha. I also have a very varied taste in music. I like random songs from random artists, but I'm not a "fan" of anything. So I kinda struggle here too
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 12:57 AM
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So he says something like "I like to watch basketball", it's cool to say "I don't know much about it. What do you like about it?" Cuz I've done that, and it seems lots of guys don't really like talking about their emotions. To that they'll say "Idk it's cool I guess" and leave it at that. And I'm not sure what to ask next.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 12:56 AM
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So I asked someone else this, but my question is: Can your SMV be okay but RMV impossibly low due to looks? Seems like most men of all looks and sizes, even ones who are considered to be beta and omegas, aim to commit to a PSL 7+ on that subreddit, at least from what I've seen. The few average women I know in relationships seems to have just gotten lucky tbh...
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 12:35 AM
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That makes sense. Is it possible, though, that your looks can make your SMV reasonable, however impact your RMV? Meaning many types of men will sleep with you, but you're not pretty enough for him to commit?
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 12:32 AM
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Great advice :) thank you
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 09:18 PM
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That's actually where some of my concern lies. I've been given the "lose weight" tip before on reddit... one guy said lose 30 pounds. However, RPW says a woman should be healthy. If I lost 30 pounds, I would be underweight which is certainly not healthy. My doctor on the flip side tells me she has no concerns about my weight. Also, as you wrote, my weight fluctuates depending on my cycle. -sigh-
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 09:17 PM
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RPW are looking for commitment, not NSA sex. If I am below a certain threshold of attractiveness, a man may not want to commit. A man's standards for sex is no where near as high, however many men are weary to commit nowadays. The only way a man would commit, from my understanding, is if she's "worth it" and would rather be with her forever with marriage or exclusivity than simply plate her. This is certainly not more than half of the men, for an average woman.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 09:13 PM
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Funny enough, I naturally think most women around me are more attractive than I am, which probably doesn't help my case... but I will have to stop being so critical of myself now. :) Thank you for your comment
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 01:58 AM
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Thank you, this makes me feel a LOT better :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 01:56 AM
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Maybe, but I don't think so! Online dating was pretty weird for me. Many guys aren't that great texters tbh so I have no clue what to say generally, and the convo dies. Easier irl when you can read body language
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 04:24 AM
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I've tried that and unfortunately I don't think I'm attractive enough to enjoy the benefits of it as a woman haha. But thank you tho! Certainly glad it has helped others :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 12:01 AM
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Interesting idea! Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 06:36 AM
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Ooh... I wanted to get into gardening! (Probably will have more motivation once I leave the parent's home...lol) And love music. Honest, anything. Generally it could be about me/my future or an ideal situation (usually romantically, at times professionally. I might, for example, day dream about being an Olympian while watching the Olympics lol). I feel this is normal. Other times, it's about fictional characters I like and scenarios I make for them
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 04:42 PM
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Not a bad idea! How does one find people to connect with after they've already graduated from college, though? haha
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 04:40 PM
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How did you find those things you like? For me, it's been searching (and praying) that something opens up the fire within... but I feel pretty 'meh' overall unless I see an attractive man. Or I get excited by daydreaming about random stuff. haha.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 01:01 AM
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These sound great! I will definitely check out the books you mentioned :) >Decide what kind of life you want to live and what direction you want to head in. Having clarity about yourself and your goals will help you to properly vet men to see if your goals and dreams are compatible. This has honestly been the biggest struggle in my life. Honestly, my life has been about being relationship/guy obsessed, even from a veryy young age. I never really was passionate about much except for fictional rom…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 12:31 AM
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Thank you for your response! Sorry about being broad... the main problem is: I don't really know WHAT to ask. My understanding of RPW, as a sexual strategy for women, is that SMV is based on age, looks, past history of sexual partners (I'm good here), character, and domestic abilities. Some of these things make sense to handle. For age- I gotta capitalize on my youth and try and find someone sooner rather than later. Perhaps men who are slightly older are the best bet (although, it seems like me…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 11:52 PM
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Hey! You might be right about the TRP thing. The thing is- 'someone that makes them sit up and take notice' = attractiveness. Attractiveness is something genetic. A pretty face; someone who makes their loins tender. Inner confidence only helps somewhat. Which is why there are confident women who are still single Edit- It's possible you're completely right, but yeah...tough for me to know when I'll be able to attract to someone when I see so many beautiful women around me
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 11:40 PM
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I didn't realize being picky about personality was having high standards when I really don't care about things like looks or how much he earns?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 05:02 PM
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Lol I mean I am VERY picky about personality to the point that just from things like body language could turn me off from a guy. Hell, even appearance can cuz I have a feeling a guy, just from the way he acts + dresses, is going to be a particular "type" who I am not going to be into (I know that sounds judgmental, but that's just how it is lol). I don't see anything wrong with that, since I want to be realistic about things
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 07:52 AM
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Weight loss is definitely a priority! While I personally don't see anything wrong with getting plastic surgery, I have financial and personal reasons for why I decided to not go that path. Trust me, I've been considering a rhinoplasty since I was 17, and then found something which stopped me full-force. I wouldn't say my face is...UNFORTUNATE. And this is the problem- looks are so insanely subjective. There was a time I thought I was attractive, then started comparing my face to the pretty, whit…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 04:50 PM
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I agree, but there are things you can mention that will give a good idea. Height, weight, measurements, hair style, clothing choices, etc. Eh...Maybe I'm wrong in this, but I still don't think only those things give a good idea. My issue is mostly with my face than anything else. I'm not black- I'm south asian, and I have the stereotypical nose of that area, plus darkness around my eyes. I don't really wear makeup since it really doesn't help my face too much (if anything, I've always felt I loo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 04:14 AM
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Do you only swim? Did you try any other physical sports or activities?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 05:56 PM
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Wow, thank you again for going so in depth! you are not special This is something I can accept, and frankly I lean towards nihilism anyways. What's tough for me is the whole being confident in myself despite the 'opposition' type of thing. E.g. Meeting a girl who is prettier than me, let's just go with 'seemingly' smarter in the way she carries herself, is very popular so probably more charming personality, etc. I'm not really sure where to still hold myself to high esteem if someone else is obj…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 06:44 AM
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Thank you for responding :) Yes, you really need a man and you should search in earnest This MAY be more for PPD than for here...but what is a man (or a women for the case of a TRP member) for if not for social validation? Why would I want a relationship with one if it's not to make me feel good about myself? Like 'Look at this guy who absolutely loves me and says nice things to me!'
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:12 AM
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What is it you really want from life. Thank you for your response! And...No freaking clue. It seems I just want to be loved and adored by people >.< That is what takes over all my fantasies haha. I don't know who I really am without other people involved. It's been tough to figure out.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:10 AM
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that is nice of you to say :D thank you so much! and yes, there were a few I am trying to get back into- I was really into creative writing, but, yet again, only stuck to the romance department... Really wish I could venture out so that I don't keep sighing every 5 minutes about the perfect love story and how it's not real
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:08 AM
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150% relate, and I think TONS of women are like us LOL. We are our own worst enemy, to be frank. I spend more time worrying than enjoying life as is. Like- "If I spend more time on video games, reading about philosophy and any other interests I seem to have, how will I spend time on "hobbies" which will actually improve my SMV, such as fitness, beauty, and cooking?? Will I spend the rest of my life alone just due to my hobbies?" urgh.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:06 AM
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Thank you for responding! until you learn to focus on someone else instead of yourself. Definitely agree with what you said! I suppose if you are into RP theory, perhaps you have gone through self esteem issues yourself (or you know people like this)? How have they focused on themselves and changed their mind away from comparing themselves to others?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:05 AM
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Thank you for your response! How did you focus on hobbies outside of daydreaming?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:01 AM
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Hey! Thanks for your response :) Now, you don't mention anything about your SMV or looks in this post. This, imo, is pretty difficult to determine over the internet tbh. I obviously am extremely harsh on myself due to the inferiority complex, so it's possible I will rate myself lower than the truth? (Or perhaps I am right on the dot...who knows). For men, it's more so the "best" guy I can get- aka, a guy who I can respect as a person due to his character as well as someone who I have lots of fun…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:01 AM
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