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Uh... One doesn’t just “turn” lesbian...? Unless you meant that sarcastically, of course
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 02:27 PM
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Woah the comments give me hope tbh 🌸
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 11:39 PM
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Your examples read like false equivalence, or a slippery slope, or something that I can’t seem to name right now, but okay. Fair point @ the first and last sentences
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/18 11:19 AM
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Probably after reading this article: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/bisexual-men-women-dating-better-sex-in-bed-women-in-relationships-with-bisexual-men-dr-maria-a7678156.html “Research has found that men who are bisexual - and feel comfortable being out - are better in bed - and the relationship develops - more caring long-term partners and fathers. Some women who took part in an Australian study even said they would never be able to go back to dating straight men at all. It …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/18 01:17 AM
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I love everything about this answer
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 04:16 AM
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This is a perfect description imo very relatable
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 08:13 AM
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You’re welcome :) You sound a lot like me — the good thing is that both of us are actively working on our shortcomings! Sometimes I think our tempestuousness comes from frustration in dealing with the way human relationships go about — with how trivial certain nuances and expectations are, and how much easier it would be for all of us to just be frank and direct with what we feel without having to filter ourselves out of fear of certain repercussions. Kinda like, “Why can’t you people just be au…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 07:46 AM
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Thank you :) ✨
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 07:30 AM
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Southeast Asian, Muslim-majority country, Muslim family.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 03:51 AM
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Definitely this. With the last guy I had feelings for, watching his eyes light up as he unwrapped the book of his dreams in front of me felt like hitting the jackpot at the lottery, and this is coming from someone who has never actually tried gambling.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 07:58 AM
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When a friend of mine came out to me as gay after I confessed having romantic feelings for him, he told me that “I’m not saying this simply to console you, but if I were straight, I would definitely date you.” Heck, even if he was bisexual, I would still date him anyway. It wouldn’t affect my perception of his masculinity. I love that we can connect on a deeper level than I ever have with any straight man. Plus, I identify as bisexual myself, so it would be a bit odd for me to say that I wouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 05:21 AM
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My romantic life has always been characterised by the second option, and it is unlikely to change at all. And as far as I know, this is how it is still largely done in my culture/society, although you would also find an increasing number of couples going down the “modern” route, especially in the capital city where I live, and that is also dependent on their socioeconomic status and how steadfast they are in terms of upholding their religious/cultural background. The modern way is still highly f…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 04:32 AM
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I don't know about that... I always feel that if nothing is right with almost everything and everyone around me, it means that something is wrong with me. I tend to factor in my shared history with them, as well as loyalty towards them and loyalty from them. I think it has a lot to do with me undergoing significant changes in my way of thinking (e.g no longer having the patience to engage in the WhatsApp group chat that is rapidly becoming a place to vent about microaggressions / casual sexism a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 06:00 AM
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😂 Guilty as charged. Actually when I came back to this entire thread I was like “why was I hamstering so much??”
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 11:12 AM
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It's really not about keeping yourself together or bottling any emotions away. It's meant to help you live in a way ruled by values rather than reactive emotions. Yea, I have read an explanation along this vein elsewhere -- probably on the Internet Encyclopaedia of Philosophy? -- and admittedly I have not ploughed through any (canonical?) material on Stoicism myself -- I will certainly do so in the near future once I have finished reading the current Schopenhauer book. My post was based on my ob…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/18 11:41 AM
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Keep yourself accountable, take your meds, do self care (like diet, exercise, getting your blood tests). This will ensure they are more willing to listen and aid in your journey, because your honest effort honors their investments in you. It has never been very difficult for me to get myself back on track when I slip up, and that is probably why my loved ones are still sticking around. My mother, for instance, is willing to pay for a psychiatrist at a private clinic despite my ongoing record at …
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/18 11:34 AM
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Yeah, I'm probably Blossom on the outside but actually Bubbles on the inside (a Powerpuff Girls reference), to put it simply.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:41 AM
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Solid advice - one that would have saved me an entire universe of heartache several years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:48 AM
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When I first took a MBTI test a few years ago, I got INFJ. Took it again last year and got INFP. However, I think in reality, I’m actually similar to the OP, in that I have traits of both personality types. Either way, it shows that I am predominantly a “feely” person. I’ve been learning to tone it down though and to let my logical side show up a little bit more often nowadays. Also, people often mistake me for an extrovert — I had a teacher who insisted that I was one, in spite of my explanatio…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 05:11 PM
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I was going to post something along the lines of this comment but you beat me to it 😂
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 05:32 PM
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Thank you so much; this year has really been an emotionally harrowing year for me
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 11:43 AM
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It's WHEN you get married. I know I'm quite fragile right now because of the bereavement but this legit made me cry 😭 Thank you for having faith in me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 11:43 AM
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Do you notice men more/less when they wear a wedding ring? More, and I find it alluring, mostly due to the symbolism behind the wedding ring, and partially due to a superficial aesthetic point of view.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/17 07:05 AM
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Thanks so much for this comment. I'm saving it as a reminder for those rare and sporadic periods of nostalgia; like you, the thought of being with him makes my stomach churn for the most part.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/17 12:49 AM
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How To Love by Thich Nhat Hanh
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 06:32 PM
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I think it is a shame that the Red Pill Women community is often so misunderstood by critics and detractors as a cult made of women who are plagued by deep-seated "internalised misogyny" and Stockholm Syndrome, and who are held hostage by straight men and the "patriarchy". It would help them a lot to view the theories and anecdotes espoused by this community as a "toolbox" (as I have read somewhere within one of the RP subs) or as thinking points instead of seeing those concepts as non-negotiabl…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 04:21 AM
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I couldn't agree more with this. How can one tell if it's over? He doesn't trust me at all and continuously brings up topics such as: "You only want me as a shoulder to cry on" and "How can I trust you didn't cheat on me?" That is when you know it's over. One might be able to trust someone without loving them, but in my opinion, one can never truly love someone without trusting them. What good is a relationship with someone who seems to be irrevocably suspicious of you? u/crater01, you're a fres…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 01:30 PM
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There isn't anything in the way of advice that I can give here other than what other people have already said in their comments, so I just want to say I'm glad that I live in a socially/culturally moderate-to-conservative but secular Southeast Asian country where no one would probably bat an eye if one has never dated / been in a relationship / had sex in any way beyond one's 20s. No one would assume that you're lying about being a virgin in your 30s, and rarely would anyone actually see it as a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 03:07 AM
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Of course. Pardon me, I must have forgotten we are on the Internet.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 09:02 AM
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It's not fair to bring someone to life who does not consent to the possibility of being born with a potential mental illness. Why not extend this to the principle of suffering as a whole? Suffering almost always outweighs pleasure, and many of the things we do are ways for us to justify enduring suffering, or to bring relief to ourselves for having to endure an existence filled with injustice. Many people just don't want to admit this out of fear of being perceived as whiny and ungrateful, and e…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 08:51 AM
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Women don't have much in the way of personalities so you're all pretty interchangeable depending on hotness. I could easily say the same thing about men, to be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 08:07 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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