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What's crazy to me is that I saw a ton of women defending go bags in the very first iteration of this go bag v. Pat test saga. I know you may not've been one of them but how is it possible that 3/3 responders say "oh yeah that's crazy for women too" and 0/100+ had it to say a couple days back?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:59 PM
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I don't think paternity test proponents have cheating on the brain like the detractors tend to think they do. It's something that could've happened, just like you could've left the oven on even though you're pretty sure you didn't. Maybe you check the ring camera over lunch, or drive home real quick, but you aren't late to work over it and forget about it pretty quickly when you're there. Are women with go bags or secret accounts walking around the house petrified their husband is about to haul …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:20 PM
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Why do women keep an emergency fund even though they trust their partner won't beat them?(You know the OP of this thread) Because you can trust all you want, reality may not align with that trust though, and wanting protections against a reality that may run counter to what you feel(trust in this case) is very fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:41 AM
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Men have far fewer and far more involved methods of self improvement than women. Men who used typically 'womanly' improvements would cause the opposite reaction they wanted with women in the vast majority of cases. If I started wearing shape wear, hair pieces, and shoe inserts for height as a man, I find it very hard to believe that a woman would react well to this. Bloops say 'women actively maintain their appearance far more commonly than men' which on it's face is true, but seems to both come…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:36 PM
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They could, but be realistic for five seconds. Would a man who did experience the desired outcome in most cases? I hate these "men could wear make up too!!!" arguments. Yeah, sure, they'd look flawless and presumed gay by 99% of women, who even if they didn't make that assumption would not want to date a man who engaged in that anyway. It's such an interesting line of logic from blue pillers, they see the societal constraints around women that make certain things possible but incredibly unfeasib…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:25 PM
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There's shitty people with all sorts of faces lol. I never made any claim as to the accuracy of what an internet man might suggest, only parroted their suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:54 PM
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I'm happy that women are getting more autonomy, but at the same time as I said in my OP, I think it's a responsibility that people examine what they are attracted to and why. For instance I've said before that when people are talking here they're primarily talking about white, attractive people. Is this because of a certain image that's been pushed by media? Is it because they themselves are white? Is it a bias they have against other races? Not to say that any of the above are true or even bad/…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:28 PM
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By your definition of 'approach' I could see your opinion being realistic, but not by your definition of average. I find it very hard to believe that these guys have had eyes made at them or been approached outright. Maybe 50 lbs and 15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:30 PM
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I think a lot of men are saying more "You would be attracted to a larger subset of men if not for the influences of the [whatever they think]". I do think people have a responsibility to examine why they're attracted to what they're attracted to and if that's realistic, healthy, leads to mutually beneficial relationships etc. From the men's side, it's clear that many men are 'attracted' to certain women enough to have sex with them, but not enough to commit to them. This is a problem women are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:39 PM
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I've seen you all over this thread. We need to specify terms a bit. What is a woman's approach? Are we talking anything that could conceivably be showing interest? I.e. eyes from across the bar? Or are we talking walking right up to you, "Hey I'm [name], I think you're cute"? What is average? Do you mean by looks ALONE? Or in all facets average height, average income, average social ability etc.? I don't think it's extremely unlikely that an average man that is 5'8" maybe 5'9", significantly ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:26 PM
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TRP is not for women 'to listen to'. If a man 'listened to' the Pink Pill he'd be a good boy beta wallet for some girl. Same same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:12 PM
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That's kind of the point of TRP. The callousness that women see is meant to break men out of the ways they've been allowing women to be callous to them. There was a time in TRP when the men reading had never 'done it too' and the fact that women 'do it' at all was a revelation that resulted in an 'anger phase'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:14 PM
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Do you think the men in women's social groups aren't noticing she's got legs for days etc.? I just don't get how 'a guy who's name I know who thinks i'm hot and is therefore talking to me more than anyone else' is functionally different from 'a guy who's name I don't know yet has just come up to me because he thinks i'm hot'. Even if in their social group they spend months getting to know each other and that first man comes to appreciate her for all sorts of things aside from looks, it's borderl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:25 AM
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Why do men assume all men are good? I'm annoyed at the people here pretending in-group bias isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:29 PM
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There is a male trend accompanying this one and the men tend to fare a lot better with comments under their vids like "bi-panic 🙀" "transition right now" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:42 PM
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I've discussed RuneScape, WoW, and other nerdy niche stuff on dates and still gotten laid. This idea that women don't wanna hear about this or that is so dumb. On the physical it's why I say all the time men should pick a self improvement hobby that rolls everything into one. Surfing as opposed to lifting for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:13 PM
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Where does OP blame women for men's thirstiness, it seems like they have just used men's thirstiness to explain why in their view the bar is in hell for women. Do you disagree with this claim? If so why didn't you address it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:38 AM
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Where does OP say it's women's problem to solve? The only claim is that the bar is in hell for women. Do you disagree with that claim? If so why didn't you address it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:35 AM
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Why are people in their teens and early twenties in general cruel with the other genders feelings? Do you think young men are not experiencing similar cruel treatment from women? ​ People are dumb, especially young people, and do dumb things like date people they aren't attracted to and then take out frustration they have with themselves or with their situation(not being able to date someone they're attracted to, or not even knowing what they're attracted to) on their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:29 AM
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In the interest of good faith I didn't bring up the droves of older women booking flights to African countries that might align more with this rebuttal. Can you do that as well? FWIW Thailand was just an example and not necessarily a specific place to rebut against, could've just as easily said Japan or one of many other(hopefully, no research done on my part) less rampant people peddling countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:07 AM
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This is a bit of a disingenuous take. Of course your job interviewer isn't asking you if you've railed any stacies, but who's more likely to be more confident and therefore secure the position in a job interview the guy who does date/is sexually successful or the guy who is a 32-year-old incel think for one second before you post in the future please. It's a very interesting supposition that if something is never explicitly mentioned by the people around a person it must not have any weight eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:34 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you're saying but I don't know that a lot of women are ready to deal with the man who's more involved in the house and the lives of the family members. I think men are accustomed to and fully expect their wives to come to them with bullshit annoying 'problems' many times a week and placate/supplicate "you left a fork in the sink again", "Timmy went to school with a black sock and a dark grey sock", "did you pack an orange and not an apple in little sarahs lunch? She ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:59 AM
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I think you list the ways that women have become equals in typically masculine ways. Earning, career. But I think a facet that is rarely discussed when it comes to women wanting a partner is that being a partner can mean offering support for nothing, financially, emotionally etc. I don't think women are ready to be a partner in that way from what I've seen lest they be 'parenting an adult male'. It's interesting to me I guess that women having seen success that rivals or surpasses men's in what …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:35 AM
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I'm pretty sure Shawn can do 1-5-9
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:18 AM
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This is just not true. Daniel Woods, Rabatou, Nalle, Megos, Stefano Ghisolfi. Ondra is actually an outlier as a tall climber, and Ghisolfi who is 5'7" is right on his heels as the 'best in the world' and before that the discussion was between Megos and Ondra, Megos also being 5'7". Basically 95%+ of climbers people would consider great are shorter than average, the best right now is taller than average, but the best is subjective to discipline I don't think many would call Ondra a better boulder…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:52 PM
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I don't think it's a recent phenomenon that men would try to dress how they think women might respond to them, or how they think looks cool. But it is recent how instant and plentiful both of those pieces of information are and how perfectly spot on a man can be to more women than ever before. This is from my OP, maybe you should've read it. Another was idea hinted at too, that what comprises a 'sharp dressed man' spans many more subcultures than it used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:57 PM
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That's basically what I'm saying. But adding that 'will women like this' is now a factor in clothing more than ever and it leads to women who feel they've been hurt by some cool dressed dude, who in the past due to subculture and popularity/mainstreamness associated might not have ever been in that situation. Were goth women being pumped and dumped by D n' D nerds in the 90's? This bleeding of subculture and gender spaces has caused more men than ever to have a window into what women want and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:42 PM
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*Give a concerted effort to appear as though they don't care much about fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:34 PM
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I don't think that subculture clothing is dying, it's just bleeding into others and being bled into. Guy below me talks about an attack on titan shirt or whatever. Now two things have changed about that. ​ First there are concerted efforts by retailers to make subculture clothing more generally aesthetic(read: women might like it) than it might've been in the past. Say a nice hoodie with a subtle nod to some in the past 'nerdy' group, vs in the past just a black tee with the name or some gawdy l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:34 PM
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Not defending the people here seeking sympathy, they're idiots. But do you really think men have that in their lives? That their dad or their brother or their bros want to commiserate with them in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:23 PM
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No, since they fuck their frumpy gfs anyway it's not. Is someone who really wants steak but eats McDonald's instead picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 02:22 AM
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The post wasn't about pickiness but how many men here perceive success and failure in dating. To your point about pickiness you've really only implied that women have more power to exercise that pickiness not that men are any less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:07 PM
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Because women are overtaking men in the highest paid jobs and see no need to marry anymore except for 'truuuu lurrvvv'? You're really naive if you think it's men opting out, when it's actually men not meeting women's standards(whether those are fair is a separate discussion).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:04 PM
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Your main point seems to be that sex is the only way you're sure personally if a girl is attracted to you, or as attracted to you as she has been to other men in the past? The answer to that is nearly definitely no. But you can always go for some physical action that signals attraction? A kiss, physical closeness etc. no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:42 PM
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How can one not use the things capitalism has brought about. How can you try to change the system without using modern tools? Are only people who walk everywhere and don't own phones or ever buy anything 'true communists'? Interesting that this hypothetical communist is the least able to enact change? This whole chain is this, and you should all feel stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:33 PM
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Is this your journal? Are we your gaggle of girlfriends? Date the best you can get for what you want like everyone else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 07:58 AM
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Your example is way too extreme. You're basically butting up Buck Angel as a 'woman' and then trying to play gotcha off it. The truth is the performance of masculinity and feminity allow a much narrower deviation from the norm. Remake this thread with a masculine woman within the norm, and do the same with a very effeminate man for women. Also no I wouldn't date that woman. I dislike some aspects of traditional masculinity, say the equivalent of a woman not liking makeup, or only wanting to dres…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 10:14 PM
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None. I don't think you can find anything in the sidebar that you can't find not on trp. Women like men who take care of themselves and aren't pushovers, who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:13 PM
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A woman did a terrible thing, surely it's the end of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:06 AM
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How does the advice consider men incapable of having a "complex internal life"? It says not to share that life with your SO, not to not have one, not even to not share it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:59 PM
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Never been to /r/menslib ? Why judge an ideology by user comments in a sub-reddit and not the writing of academics who subscribe to it? I'm not familiar with MRA stuff, but if you could find me articles advocating for drafting women(seriously advocating, not just to show it's unfairness to men) I'd be surprised. People who call themselves feminist, or MRA's, or Red Pillers don't necessarily reflect the theory and I'd say this is a case of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:49 AM
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When do you think women first learn the majority of men would fuck them? When do you think that attention gets old? Do you think the number of women getting validation from men on social media is higher or lower than the number doing it on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:57 PM
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Put 4.62m over however many women are in the 18-45 age group in America. You'll come up with greater than 1/40, but still a smaller fraction than you'd like to prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:54 PM
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Whenever this comes up, people talk like it's at least a majority of women. It's dragged out as an issue that's impacting dating everywhere. "We only meant a few women" is a smokescreen so they can escape to the next thread to complain about how all women only want chad because of Tinder. Of course you do, that's fine as I break into approximations pretty quickly. Tinder themselves won't put out exact user numbers so people have to estimate that based on their earnings and other factors. Even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:59 PM
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I've shown that very few women are on OLD to have their egos inflated by it in the first place, and the women who do use OLD don't often hook up, and are using it for a relationship. What more do you need? How would the majority or a significant chunk of women be having their egos inflated by OLD if they aren't even on it? I even said that the women on OLD may be having their egos inflated, I found statistics that say many people use it as a time waster/entertainment, but if it's ~1/40 American …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:45 PM
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If so few women use Tinder, how do women in general become narcissts because of that? Glad to see you've been following along...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:39 PM
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What percentage of women really use other social media that way? What percentage of women actually get an ego boost from a horde of desperate men wanting to fuck. I knew this would come up, and I couldn't find any data on it, but it seems even more baseless than OLD bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:36 PM
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How does it not, If only ~1/40 American women are on OLD, how do they women as a whole or the majority of women which seems to be the argument here get their egos pumped up by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:34 PM
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An hour maybe? In short chunks throughout the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 04:28 AM
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Unfortunately, the more i learn about OLD, the more I think it has been a terrible mistake. It's inflated the egos of women to such an extent that you basically have to walk on water to stand a chance with them. And it's turned men into bitter people. Average height, non white, homeless, weird nerdy dude in a predominantly white and affluent area and I get 2-3 matches a day. Either my face is god tier(it isn't) or OLD isn't that bad? ​ Maybe i'd say bad in that it's just one more factor making f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:05 AM
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Some do, but I think less care than the number of men who care, and the number of men who care is greatly exaggerated here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:01 PM
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It's a silly question. This, but to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:58 PM
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We have the freedom and ability, as humans, to attach moral weight to actions and behaviours. To some people, travelling around the world while homeless is a positive, to others it's a negative. It's not up to you to decide the legitimacy of my personal moral weightings. If I insist on finding a virgin to date, that's myprerogative based on my personal moral compass. Sure, I may end up single and alone because of this unduly restrictive dating criterion, but that's my cross to bear. You could've…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:55 PM
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It says something about you, I established this in my OP. But are the things that it says about you positive or negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:49 PM
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How is this the same as choosing how many people you have sex with?? In that it speaks to your ideas, your personality, your socialization, but says nothing *positive* or *negative* about you as a person. ​ Anyway, no one thinks STDs are a positive. Or higher relationship/marriage risk. All of this is shown in data. This stuff is decidedly "negative." Safe sex is a thing. Link to study. Why is higher relationship/marriage risk negative? Negative to people who want that maybe, but not everyone do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:44 PM
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*You* have attached value. Is there an inherent value one way or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:35 PM
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How can you possibly think that n-count says nothing positive or negative about someone? Choosing when and who you have sex with is a more important decision than say... choosing where to eat lunch. It says something about a person but nothing positive or negative. Is let's say living in a commune positive or negative? How about being purposefully homeless and traveling around? These things just represent different takes on life, which you may or may not be compatible with, but they're just a th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:10 PM
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There are tons of hobbies which have fit attractive women(though they may be a minority but only in a 40/60 way) and most men could take a genuine interest in. Hiking,climbing,running,gymnastics,yoga, mountain biking, skiing, snowboarding, even kickboxing is getting a big influx of women. It's not like you have to try to infiltrate knitting groups or have a battle of the chuds at your local robotics meetup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:21 AM
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I agree but how do women determine who's who? Do you think they're ever wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:21 AM
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Everyone's attraction is conditional what is going on with men on this board?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:17 PM
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Matches are extremely rare, I'm one of those average height brown guys who live such a terrible life and get 2-10 matches a day when i'm actively swiping and appealing to the Tinder algo. ​ endless ghosting or otherwise lack of interest, them doing all the heavy lifting so little return I mostly just stop talking to girls if they aren't putting some effort into the conversation, or try to move straight to meeting up as quickly as possible(with mixed results but still better than 100% of chance o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:57 PM
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Some guy tried to fight me at a party a while back(girlfriend wasn't there). I actually escalated with him after his initial provocation then realized how stupid I was being. Drank for a while, pulled him aside and told him I'm sorry. Enjoyed the party and he fought some other dude later that night. ​ Told girlfriend the whole story and she's still fucking me half a year later so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:35 PM
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An ugly girl getting guys who want to fuck her and never speak to her again is like a man getting women who want to settle down now that they're older when he never got the time of day in college. The idea is repugnant to most women, ugly ones included. ​ As to the title of your post, I agree. But what're women supposed to do about it? They're mainly the ones supporting their ugly sisters. Maybe go offer your shoulder to some incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:03 PM
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I think you can fuck a lot of girls without swallowing the red pill. There's lots of good in RP, there's zero good in RP that isn't found elsewhere. ​ That said I do agree with your OP. I just also see why someone would be offended reading it and don't think your OP is a sufficient reason they shouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 08:51 PM
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Most women are being supported, usually by men to one degrees or another. I disagree completely. I actually think women do the vast majority of emotional supporting for each other *and* for the few men who seek it out. The root of the issue is what causes men to not seek it out, and I think many of those factors women are just as responsible as men for propagating. Women losing attraction when their man opens up etc. ​ Men on the other hand are expected to support themselves, and have enough exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 07:50 PM
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Man here. ​ Sex in a relationship is higher quality usually, you both know what you're doing with each other and you both like each other so care to try harder besides. ​ But the excitement of bringing a new girl home the first time you meet her is pretty cool too, and the sex can be great. ​ Both are great really, if I'm single it's fun to bring home women. If i'm with someone it's fun to come home to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:30 PM
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I read the source titles and didn't find one that seemed directly related to approach rejection hurting either gender more. If you contextualize rejection to a divorce or breakup, then the article you linked is relevant. That's not the context we're talking about rejection in though. ​ On the article linked though, hasn't it been shown that men handle divorce and breakups worse because they have no social support system, or a weaker one than most women? It's mentioned in the article you linked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:23 PM
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Maybe to add to point one, women don't realize that a successful approach is the beginning of the work not the end. So men may interpret an approach and no continued interest is as no interest or aren't as keen to keep up interest on their end like they would with a girl that they approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:10 PM
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I think that the argument of power imbalances, life stages, and stuff is a valid argument. Agreed. ​ But I've seen plenty of posts by men claiming that it's just saltiness from women. Do you believe that is the case? More often than women want to admit, but not all the time. ​ Or do you also understand the arguments behind why large age gaps aren't very feasible for serious relationships? Serious relationships is where the misunderstanding is. Do you really think those 50 year olds out there wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:26 AM
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Modern America has created an unnatural dynamic for relationships by trying to live up to new age liberal standards while still clinging to traditional beliefs. Growing pains. ​ The "strong, independent woman" thats looking for a stable marriage. How are these two ideas at odds? ​ The young man who lacks backbone but expects a woman to follow his lead. What do you mean by backbone? ​ Our culture constantly tells us we can have it all. It tells young women they can always do better and everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:45 PM
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You have only liberated men from the expectations and judgment placed onto them by other men, and not male liberation from women. I wouldn't say this is true necessarily. Progress is slow but I've seen people trying to push back against it, with articles from lefties about short men being worthy, your worth not being tied to your production(Marxist),expressing your darker emotions not making you any less worthy. As an aside on the emotions thing, I actually think men and women are equally bad at…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:27 PM
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You said AWALT as if it had been refuted but then went on to say that AMALT is “just as real”. AWALT is vastly overstated, and men are just as shitty as the women who are shitty. Shouldn't be such a red pill panty twister because it's really not bad. ​ WaW? What’s that one I’m not familiar with the acronym. So you disagreed but haven't done much reading? It's only one of the most talked about things on this board. ​ Branch swinging refers to moving up in status. Men don’t go for status they go f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:42 PM
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Work with women, hang out with women friends. See my girlfriend when we can find the time. Chase unicorns on tinder. ​ Many big RP ideas can be dismantled pretty easily if you just leave the house. AWALT: Yeah lots of shitty people out there, lots of cool ones too, also AMALT is just as real. WaW: Women are the biggest critics of this theory lol. Branchswinging: about as woman specific as liking apple pie. The list goes on. ​ More time with women in any context could be a huge benefit to some of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:07 PM
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I think most women are able to recognize that the things that made that 'alpha' attractive are probably not sustainable long term. I also don't think that men who aren't super 'alpha' are any less capable of inspiring the same level of attraction either. I've known women absolutely destroyed by breakups with quiet homebody sensitive types. ​ 'Alpha widows' sounds like an excuse not to try since she 'just wants chad's cock anyway'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:06 PM
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Did you really need to put "Watch what they do not what they say" in so many words?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:23 PM
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I think it's in how a woman expresses their sexuality. A demure, reactive girl who goes home with a dude who chats her up at the bar every night could be seen as feminine. A girl who rocks up like she's hot shit and starts grabbing dicks(proactive) could be seen as masculine. One is more obviously trying to 'fuck like a man' even though lets say for my hypothetical they're getting bedded in equal amounts. These more masculine sluts tend to be the only sluts the typical user complaining here woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:13 PM
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As you all know, I'm am so old I should just die already, I have lived long enough to see what appears to me to be the overnight development of the ideas that there is none kind of "ethics" or "morality" (not sexual morality) to dating. Is not cheating and not toying with peoples emotions in the realm of sexual morality? ​ Where did you all get the idea there is some ethics or morality to dating? Reading your post I think you have a bigger problem with the language than the underlying right and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:17 AM
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You're 100% right. If people put half as much energy into focusing on what they can do to get better instead of who's out being terrible they'd have a much better time of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:47 AM
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Hobbies wise, I don't have fun at anything unless i'm really good. People who play sports 'for the fun of it' don't make sense to me...the fun is winning and being good. Life goals wise, meh. Enough money to go get really good at things I wanna be good at and i'm set.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:40 AM
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Women will keep fucking the men they want to fuck, who have no problem fucking women, and the men with sex bots will die a little less miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 06:38 AM
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Hard agree. If you're not fat, just work on being interesting and fun to be around. Get some tattoos and go to some bars. You'll be alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:12 AM
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There was one comment on a thread about bad boyfriends being assumed to be a "Chad." Whatever that means. And the comment, in summary, said attractive people, girls in particular, can't use the internet since they won't have men swooning over them like they do in real life. And they'll be too soft to handle it. Sexist. It's probably true that the super attractive are used to being handled more softly in meat space. That goes for both genders, but moreso for women. Still though, I think they'd ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:05 AM
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Women are screwed. Most men would overpower a trained woman martial artist semi to very easily. If they have a gun, it's likely it will be taken away from them and used against them. ​ Women's fear is completely justified here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 06:23 AM
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Imagine how wrong you have to be to actually be arguing that this isn't 100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 06:19 AM
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I think menslib has a bottom up approach, and mensrights a top down. Menslib is about helping the individual man with his problems, and hoping that from that base he goes out and helps someone else. A lot of posters there do volunteer work, hoping to directly tackle the issues men face with homelessness, lack of support for domestic violence victims etc. MensRights is about changing the system and hoping the benefits trickle down to men in unfortunate situations. Whether they go about it the bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:34 PM
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MRA's and a lot of the posters you see here start with a valid and true nugget of hardship that if people are feminist or sympathizing should be able sympathize with as well. Then they roll it through shit until no one wants to touch it like some idiot dung beetle. If people brought up the facts without then saying "so fuck women!!" afterwards there'd probably be a lot more sympathizers. That's from the post you're responding to. It's all a matter of opinion, which way you think actually enacts …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 08:12 AM
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Well there's /r/MensLib. There's definitely a rise in men banding together and trying to enact change without resorting to blaming their woes on women or feminism. It's hard to resist that urge though when you've seen the way some feminists and women act or what they say. The "well yeah but you do X, and that sucks too!!" is pretty tempting. ​ MRA's and a lot of the posters you see here start with a valid and true nugget of hardship that if people are feminist or sympathizing should be able symp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:54 AM
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I was just reading this https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2015/1/16/rats-with-jacket-fetishes-what-animal-sex-studies-reveal-about-the-origin-of-unusual-sexual-interests . A couple days ago. ​ Maybe to these TRPers the increase in these kinds of fetishes points to some societal shift or something in their subconscious and they feel visceral disgust as a result. ​ Personally I think it's porn. You start watching people fucking 'your girl' from 12 years old, and you develop some weird fetish. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:00 AM
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That doesn’t mean that all men are bad or that women don’t do their fair share of unsavory things. The way people react to the unsavory things is where I've always thought WaW was aimed. You've gotta be a loon to see stats on men murdering left and right and think 'WaW!!' ​ I also imagine maybe these men didn’t have sisters growing up. So they didn’t see girls fight. They didn’t see what girls do when they get angry or moody. This is what's gotten me about the guys who post they had no idea how …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:38 AM
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I was raised by my mom and grew up with two sisters. That women are just people was a lesson I never even questioned, it's in the firmware. ​ For me, I was raised to view women as perfect little innocents who could do no wrong. As angels who had just temporarily put away their wings. Which didn't quite fit in with some of the behaviour I saw from girls in my age group. Any specific experiences that imparted this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 02:33 AM
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TRP teaches men how to act in certain ways to get certain women. I have a unique perspective in that I have BPD Type I and that a lot of the 'behaviors' that TRP instructs a man to engage in are behaviors I naturally emulate when in mania. But act completely different when I'm in other states of mind. Here is what I find: your personality dictates the TYPE OF PERSON you draw in, not the attractiveness of the person you draw in. Why do so many women here say just the opposite? That physically ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 02:12 AM
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I'm seeing a trend where youngish (30s and younger) liberal women in my part of the US just seem so anxious and fragile, but when I think of the older italian lady or the young muslim women they actually seem grounded and strong despite coming from backgrounds where I assume were less empowering for women. I think we've gotten better as a society about letting people hang their mental issues and life stresses out there. Whether it's growing pains or actually a problem that makes me think it's ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:58 PM
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That's a good theory, I hadn't considered that their story is just widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:11 PM
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I've got no ulterior motives, just interested. Not trying to lead you into some argument trap. This is probably one of the only comments i'll make in this thread in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:08 PM
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It seems that some ideas are based on the idea that women's self worth and value is based on what kind of man they are with and especially on the idea that women consider their men as trophies. I thought about it when I heard a woman boasting about finally getting a tall guy with abs and she really seemed to think that someone would care. ​ People do care is the thing. I'm not really RP but I at least acknowledge that being masculine(sometimes in shitty ways, self destructive ways), being confid…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:32 PM
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Normal people don't care at all about this. If it's not your bag it's not your bag, but I know there are high N-count men falling all over themselves to get to her. ​ I don't know what pill you gotta be to give a shit what women are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 04:54 PM
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Yup, this has got to be really common. I dated a girl who only voiced concerns when she was at her breaking point with them. After like 50 almost-breakups, number 51 stuck and I changed some of my behaviors along that wild ride for the better or so says my dating life now. ​ But I've always been one to take criticisms on board fairly easily, or at least have a discussion about them. I don't think a girl I'm dating coming to me with some frustrations would make me hurt, or if it did i'd be over i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 02:47 AM
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Sure. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 11:38 PM
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Men are most attracted to Waist-hip ratio. Look at the ideals for all countries, some are skinnier, some are chubbier, some have bigger boobs, but what is consistent across all of them? ​ Thickness in some women makes for an even better WHR. Overall though I think thickness vs non-thickness being attractive is more determined by society, see Italy and China, but the 'thick girl' is in right now in the US. WHR never goes outta style.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:59 PM
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A trend i've noticed is that fuckboys tend to be higher SMV men so why women are surprised their stay in the big leagues is temporary is beyond me. The only conclusion I can come to is that people who fall for 'fuckpeople' are deluding themselves. >One common complaint from women about fuckboys is that they only want to have sex, with zero interest in romance. They say they are hurt by the fact that they’re romantically interested, but the guy isn’t, and he uses it to his advantage to get more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 08:28 PM
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Women watch porn, and often weird porn too. It seems to me like this sub skews older/partnered. Being younger and asking women i've been with what porn they watch i've gotten gloryhole, gangbang, those czech videos where it's a room full of women who are strapped down and have only their lower halves exposed and men just come in and fuck them, i've known women who get off on watching ugly guys fuck hot girls, women who watch hardcore BDSM, the list goes on. Women porn searches ​ Are men supposed…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 07:56 PM
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