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That is one of the problems. Someone beaten within an inch of their lives is given less consideration and interest, in the media and elsewhere, than any form of sexual assault (or even just the allegation) against women. I don't know if it is partly American 'puritanism' around sex, a way for certain groups to garner more 'victim points', or even a bit of both mixed in with some other considerations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:30 PM
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What you describe sounds much closer to a pseudo-familial relationship than most of what is missing in the romantic/sexual realm. It is even, in ways, not far off a long time married dead bedroom situation, which has its own level and type of loneliness. Lack of being physically wanted, lack of physical touch, etc. While in that dead bedroom situation, certain important things have been lost, in your situation they never existed and also have little to no chance of existing. For many men, you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:17 PM
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It’s the fact that (a very, very, very small number of) men are overwhelmingly in ‘ruling’ positions of power (and often their families, which include the wife who picked him (with his power being a major factor) and any offspring male and female benefit). Most (including most men) have zero influence on that and do not benefit from that. The elite men don't give a fuck about other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:42 PM
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"The problem is that politics changes the dating environment whether you want it to or not. And regardless of your personal view, the meaning of a movement is descriptive, not prescriptive. If the overwhelming majority of people recognize a pattern, that pattern becomes part of the movement's public identity." You could easily make that exact argument about Feminism. Similar with other things you have raised here about Red Pill. Sects of feminism that want to cosplay as Humanism or Egalitarianis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:31 AM
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Like? Women who "give me" sex. The problem with your "men love sluts" is thinking that the vast majority of those "sluts" would consider having sex with me or someone like me. I am neither handsome, charismatic, exciting, or have status. Lucking into a one night stand at the bar was something only (rarely) done when younger. For some men (including myself) getting any physical freely shown attraction and affection is like winning the lottery. Words are cheap. In theory (though I suspect it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:21 PM
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and how often does the female friend group try hard to sway that one woman's opinion on that man, the one that she may have some attraction to but the others don't find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:45 PM
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like them? then they'd be much more often be dating their male friends and acquaintances. more attracted/excited/impressed than like. the qualities they look for in a friend are not what excites them in a partner, they can be a bonus but they don't give the primary visceral attraction most often needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:01 PM
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some will then look for more "functionality" to up her lifestyle, and/or for more "security"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:55 PM
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"The illusion of understanding is a product of distance and perspective. True understanding requires involvement."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:52 PM
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retire earlier, yet on average live longer. sounds fair /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:45 PM
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I'd say some men on the extreme end of physicality, risk taking, etc. are the vast majority doing the very extremely dangerous very physically demanding jobs. If you've got for example a deep sea welder or someone fixing or building hydro towers from a line from a helicopter in some remote area, the odds of it being a woman are likely about 20 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:36 PM
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be a bit closer if everyone around you was told and believed you were performing at a low level. You being seen as lesser inside the group plus having that reputation spreading outside that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:14 PM
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off the top of my head the closest I could think of within a group of women is the "mean girls" kind of reputation destroying - one where they get tagged, within and outside the group, with a likely unearned or at least highly exaggerated reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:11 PM
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Their behavior and disrespect is sometimes a result of their dealing with the behavior and disrespect of women. Men (and women) don't have anywhere near a monopoly on "bad" thinking and "bad" behavior. Instead of being as vulgar and sexually inappropriate, they tilt more towards shaming and guilt tripping. For someone of the less blunt and vulgar sex, you sure didn't word your premise neutrally or with tact. Also, the anonymity of reddit and the internet will have things said that would less oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:03 AM
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Less options doesn't mean many of them won't be just as picky or very picky. Some will do without sex and/or relationships, some will only respond to those several points above them (even if their outcome is far from what they wanted).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:29 PM
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Hell, you may see large uprisings related to work and workplace laws and retirement age laws in places like France but in the U.S and Canada, so far, we're complacent as fuck. It would take a hell of a lot, and special circumstances, and the right organizing, for it to happen - at that is with men as the primary ones. Any violent uprising I strongly suspect, would come from disaffected men directly being affected by an important effectively more life or death living experience. Even that would t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:51 PM
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Probably ideal advice, but much, much easier said that done. Those guys less attractive and/or with less social skills are more often seen as "weird" (and not in a good way). Any odd or weak appearing teen aged guy is going to be taken advantage of and/or harassed by both sexes around his age. If possible, get in the dating game earlier - when you're younger and inexperienced more leeway is given and less is expected of you (the stakes are also usually not as high); along with having the school …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:44 PM
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At most, she can do a hell of a lot more than that. She can make very minor things at work in our gynocentric HR workplaces into job destroyers - where her word and slant is the given narrative. If you think all the sketchy characters hanging around that can lead to problems are men; just check out who is opening doing meth at a downtown bus shelter - that isn't gendered. Sure if you're aware of your surroundings and in physically good shape, odds slant to the ones causing you direct trouble are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:07 PM
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In your title and description there is zero mention of it being both ends. It's all about you being THE option for him with you being wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:00 AM
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I'm a novice on therapy, but from my small experiences and what I've heard from others I know, there does seem one more common type experienced, and more commonly prescribed. Support groups and group therapy I would guess would be more specialized for a specific particular issue. As far as "theory" red pill, manosphere and feminism can define themselves however they want. When the rubber hits the road, they'll be defined by how they appear and by their actions, inactions, levels of complete self…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:58 PM
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The thrown out phrase without at least a tiny bit of nuance and explanation is about as useful as the advice of "be yourself" - especially for those that struggle socially, "romantically", and in other related areas. The small steps to getting somewhere are missing, as well as the hard advice to not be too hard on yourself - it will take time, effort, and often seems one step forward, two steps back. The difficulty and lack of leeway given to awkward well meaning boys and young men is missing; t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:14 PM
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Therapy is not the panacea it is too often presented to be, especially the typical types of therapy, in its usefulness for men. Also, not all of us have that kind of money to throw around. Also, "get therapy" when given as a response online is too often handed out as a thinly veiled "get fucked" (and not in a good way). Red Pill, manosphere, etc. certainly has its flaws and bad actors, but feminism (especially what it has devolved into these days) is at the very least as equally flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:06 PM
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So in the Western World, where the vast majority of us on here live, misandry is then the bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:54 PM
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depends on how you define friends. Oscar Wilde — 'A true friend stabs you in the front, not the back.'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:29 PM
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More outgoing male friends/closer acquaintances with many acquaintances and friends, a good percentage of them women, can sometimes help quite a bit. Female friends/acquaintances are often marginal to no help to detrimental in the realm of helping you date and mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:24 PM
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Social media is more extreme (by design, it is clickbaity for clicks). Saying that, those "gender war" views to a lesser degree are wide spread in general and colour the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:51 PM
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supposed to??? that and a buck or so will get you a coffee at McDonalds. Radical feminist are for pretty well on board for any type of advocacy for women no matter the topic, no matter the cost to men or mankind. "Patriarchy" is most often used by them a club against men in general. They'll take from both the buffet of feminism and "patriarchy", trying to only take what immediately benefits themselves. Both selfish and trying to stay upon their moral high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:40 PM
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if you are average and putting in the right effort, possibly. If you are below average, slightest bit isn't going to move the needle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:45 PM
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Maybe, but I've got my own personal pet theory on why some may be attracted to incest/taboo porn and erotica. I think part of it for some may be that to actually be physically wanted by someone who has lived with us and is very aware of many of our shortcomings, but also will not only push past the societal and other taboo but still has a real physical and otherwise attraction for us - even knowing things about us that we don't like about ourselves and certainly don't want known by most others, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:42 AM
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Off the title, BP/Feminism pushes for equality in all aspects of society ... and keeps pushing after the numbers are flipped and men are on the low end, and also generally ignores situations/laws/etc. where woman are the severely advantages ones. Feminism's main and often only priority is advocacy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:58 PM
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Yes, let's throw in some physical violence and implications of rape for some "nuance". That will dial things back to a more reasonable and welcoming view for nuance. That's not extreme, most men hit women on a daily basis - it's a warmup for their daily workout. Let's also throw in "patriarchy" and use in the all too common feminist use - for essentially man bashing; not mentioning how women use and manipulate it for their benefit. In general, corporate capitalism is a bigger influence and one y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:14 PM
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If she blew 30 different guys, more than likely in 30 different situations, she must at the very least not minded giving blowjobs. Now she's not bothering because she has the option of only doing things she really likes sexually? (or even just opting out altogether). No need to please him in that way if it doesn't come to her "naturally" ???? The lust and real physical attraction are no longer there for him to "qualify" for a bj - he's just a workhorse keeping up things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:56 PM
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what about looking at some of your closer male acquaintances? or recommendations of some your friends? especially if you have any female friends with a similar mindset to yours. I guess it also depends on your criteria for attraction. and of course there are always worries of qualified "fuckboi" types not being worried about your pleasure, and at the other end worries about more "simpish" guys getting attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:49 PM
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Certainly a possible strategy with those with enough social skills and charisma to pull it off. Assuming B. wouldn't be one of the types to kibosh it for whatever reason, but B. is described by the poster as a "pleasant relationship" and hasn't appear to attempt the quell the rumours of sex between you two, so I'd be leaning towards an interpretation of possibility of her directly or indirectly helping - or at least not actively "cock blocking" you. On the other hand if she isn't having sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:17 AM
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The odds of me keeping woman A. around beyond short term are slim; I'm going to screw that up, and likely quickly. The odds of me being able to wrangle some way of capitalizing on the reputation with B. to obtain sex from others is also slim. I'd ride A. for as long as it lasts. Couldn't give two shits, at this point, whether anyone thinks I'm a virgin on not - or for that matter what most think of me in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:09 AM
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Everyone should try to be civil, in public at least, until given reasons not to be. Kindness is certainly expecting a few degrees too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:19 PM
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I think it could be a lot of both. Though currently I've become more drawn to the theory of the vast majority is her on the spectrum along with some deep rooted mostly unresolved traumas. I think, partially from the narrow focus of her posts and replies, the baiting is just the icing on her cake, but I easily could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:42 PM
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The holding hands and kissing is a small escalation in itself. Breaking the touch barrier (guy is most often expected to judge and make the move/escalation) fairly early is a required first escalation. Nice when that goes smoothly and enthusiastically; even better when she makes the move or a very blatant invitation. If that attempt goes awry, both often become aware and take that as an indicator that it is "game over" for any likely possibility of anything continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:55 AM
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"But am I gonna get laid?" of course is part of it. Maybe not necessarily the PIV sex immediately or very soon, but some physical attraction shown in a physical way very early on is necessary (anything from hugging and kissing to making out or other forms or sex - digital, oral). Desire and sexual desire are, for most, a necessary part of any "romantic" type of relationship. Words, most learn eventually, often mean little to nothing. Someone who isn't attracted enough very early on is essentiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:06 PM
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I'm curious for the response, with that criteria for good people, do you consider yourself one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:33 PM
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They are often blaringly obvious to those with "no skin in the game". To counter her points, it's not "victim blaming" when you willful choose to ignore or dismiss concerns and completely ignore and dismiss possible problems brought up by friends and family regarding the guy. Wanting to give yourself a gold medal in the "victim olympics" doesn't make you a winner or have some moral high ground. Any adult should know at this point words mean little and if it seems too good to be true it almost ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:20 PM
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I'd add to that taking actions but failing, and having unintended social consequences happen (in your already small social circles). The very small 'grace for error' doesn't get larger for men as you get older, often quite the reverse - more is expected of you, and you are supposed to "just know". Those men less outgoing, charismatic, and are "late bloomers", are on their back foot. "threading the needle" (presenting not enough or too much of a quality) can be generally difficult for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:21 PM
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Like everything else, no guarantees there. "chemistry" could be partially just a shared lust, some shared interests and some new relationship energy. If you're talking long term, many married couples eventually fall out of love and grow apart, and the fault is rarely only on one side. If you're talking early on, probably one thing to always keep in mind is: If it seems to good to be true, it very likely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:11 PM
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The level of irony is off the charts - a post by her about social tact and agreeableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:19 PM
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Another thought - the "self improve" can be interpreted too much on the "self" part and leave out a difficult part that may very well make a huge deal: socialization - building connections - friends and acquaintances, etc. Someone with few friends, been low or completely off the "totem pole" of the social structures in school, low self esteem, etc. is going to be at the least well behind the average socially. A lot of advice when given seems to minimize this or show an a attitude of "just social…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:47 PM
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Is this about actual real everyday average men or some supposed high value man or fantasy man cobbled together from some often contradictory ideals? The so called "high value men" mostly have standards for a relationship that are as picky or more picky than most women, and some are far off from the things women are looking for in men. No one with any sense or experience is saying give all average men a chance. But I'm sure examining what is truly important to you in a partner and realizing which…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:20 PM
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Even better if she isn't dressed up or made up for a first encounter. More comfortable and less of an act. If that is boring, then I'm not the guy to amuse and entertain her. Odds of a first date being a "waste of time" for all involved are high; a low stakes gamble on basic compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:03 PM
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Inviting someone you don't really know and haven't met in person for a first cheap or free date in this day and age is a given. Large Incompatibility or disinterest in person and even being used are commonplace. The baseline of basic respect or even politeness has dropped. I'd more call this a basic cost benefit analysis, but I suppose it is a small "shit test". Of the top of my head likely the only one the average and below average guy does. Maybe there is some I missed or some unconscious ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:00 PM
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Things like being lazy, flakey or simply not that interested are all too common in both sexes. As a man I see plenty of people (and more with time), in dating/relationship situations and even more in general life, that are lazy, flakey, and uninterested. You want a man to outright say there are men who are just lazy, flakey or not interested? Here you go: There are men who are just lazy, flakey, or not interested. They exist. But sometimes some of the things seen as "flakey" or "lazy" is just re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:15 AM
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From that definition it sounds like some long "dead bedroom" marriages might qualify as just family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:15 PM
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Hard to say if they are still dying, but they haven't certainly significantly shrunk in numbers and popularity over the decades. Younger generations and everyone in general drinking and just going out less. Long before that there was the big crack down on drinking and driving, and a smaller factor of eliminating smoking inside. Bars/nightclubs for cold approaching for the younger below average guy was a very low percentage game, but at least it was one where you could luck out once in a blue moo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:01 PM
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"blacks" - obviously was short for black pill in that context. no need to start something that isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:25 PM
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And there aren't just as many women out there who are "horrendous villains"? - manipulating for attention and financial (or goods and services) gain, implying without really having some attraction - and those are just the more common relatively benign examples. This isn't even getting into "mean girl" behaviour that some continue and ramp up past high school. Of course it is completely 100% the guy's fault for falling for it, but in any situation it is never any of the woman's fault for falling …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:50 PM
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Easy to say, difficult to do. Somewhat more realistic to try to concentrate less on it. Even if you ignore a bunch of things: the probable social situation and skills (or lack thereof) of the young man with trouble with dating, the peer and societal pressure, the feelings and "status" of worth compared from being physically wanted for man vs not wanted at all, the very high levels of testosterone and the drive that is, etc. there is still another problem. Odds are good some young man who is havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:26 PM
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You've got them, I put them inside one of your private jets, the blue and red one. Updates coming at next weeks meeting at our usual secret private island for this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:51 PM
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Depends. They could not really enjoy or be indifferent to the sex with him (or the act of sex in general), but get some sort of status boost with their friends/peers and/or some sort of ego boost since they consider the guy "hot". They could also semi-directly or indirectly "trade" the sex with him for other favours (i.e. fixing her car or something mechanical, expensive dinner, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:13 PM
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That would be ideal. I go along with what she wants for the majority of things, some because I don't care that much or at all, some because I feel it isn't worth the argument, some as a real concession for something she has made clear is important to her. Anyone that is that picky and quarrelsome over every little detail in their life, would be more grief than they're worth, for me. If almost everything has to be a fight or compromise on my part, at as some point I'm at the very least walking aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:05 PM
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Many young guys would like a relationship with someone more on the stable side, but certain would also really desire sex, quickly and passionately. Getting the latter, with a little luck, in the right situation Pursuing the "good girl" takes a lot more finesse and continual social engagement and skills. Back when there was a real bar scene at least, even the shyer below average guy might luck out with getting a one night stand with a "bad girl" or a "good girl" trying to be a "bad girl" with her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:24 PM
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Men may be less generally fearful of violent assault, but overall more likely than women for it to occur to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:44 PM
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Through work? these days opposite sex ones are potentially dangerous, so kept at a certain distance with some formality; wording and what is discussed not open on my part - certainly at work but even if running into them outside work. Even the same sex ones there is more distance. I'm more likely to be open with certain players on sport teams (hockey, co-ed slo-pitch) I've played on for some time. Most of my female non-familial relationships are either very distant and/or transactional first, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:47 PM
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Why is this a gendered question? Look at the one posting it and all she has posted here in the past. In there the answer will be revealed to you about as subtle as a giant neon sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:32 AM
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♫ baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more ♫
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:01 PM
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"What they often want, though, is for it to develop gradually and organically—starting from genuine friendship rather than an immediate rush toward romance, a drawn-out situationship, or being strung along." If you're an average or below average man women going from an actual friendship (and not just more distant acquaintances or friends of friends) rarely happens. If you don't push early, you'll be in the "friends at best" box (if you do push early there is a minute chance for something). Excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:34 PM
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Not near enough information to do other than wildly guess. So why not? I may be way off in my queries. Do you show in any real way you are attracted to men? Do you dress/have a hairstyle/act in ways that could be seen as more "butch" or androgynous? Is you criteria for dating women a lot more flexible and "lower" than for dating men? Are you looking for strictly heterosexual men as well (since bisexual men will be a very much smaller pool) If those that are your acquaintances have only seen or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:38 AM
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Not always about sex right then. Many men need some indication of some physical attraction early though; if she won't so much as hug or kiss you early that's a pretty good indicator for adult men that she isn't really into you. Also, a lot of the time if the man doesn't give a little bit of pushing, she decides he isn't into her that way (or his lack of "assertiveness" puts him out of the "romantic" category and into the "friends only" one for her).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:34 PM
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In the western world there is generally far too much concentration, pushed by the rich and powerful, on getting us to divide by reasons of race, gender, etc. to distract us from the much larger problems and systems set up for and more directly related to divisions of class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:35 PM
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Men in general care a hell of a lot less about the wedding (other than the cost$$$$$$, especially if it will fall on them) than women. The wedding day is NOT their fantasy or dream. Maybe be true overall that most men aren't the planners they may be stereotyped with, but you gave a piss poor example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:50 PM
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Should always keep in mind If it looks and sounds too good to be true, it almost certainly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:22 PM
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That is also ignoring all the failed attempts, the analyzing if an attempt is remotely possible and how to do so, how far and hard to push, the amount of times things don't get to an actual in person meeting, or past a first date or second date. Those "failures" have an effect on ones that "succeed" in some way. For all too many men there are "mountains" of failures for every molehill of "success"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:02 PM
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The wall painting makes a fair analogy in some ways as well. The actual painting part overall often isn't as vexing, the time and effort of the prep work (choosing paint and getting supplies, moving and/or covering furniture, taping things off, etc.) before you get to actually painting, I find, is the considerably more troublesome and arduous part. The painting part while not necessarily easier, is simpler. Falls apart because relationships are continual work and often a lot of compromise, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:46 AM
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In the more charitable definitions feminism is first and foremost woman's rights advocacy. At its worst in practice these days it is closer to misandry than egalitarianism, or humanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:33 PM
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If only, they'd give a child much more leeway, and give a child answers with more thought, tact, and real care & concern - certainly not the default of contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:46 PM
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The "jumping through hoops" boys/men with any experience and at least some self esteem will at some point try to avoid at all costs. Doing "nice things" above the "bare minimum" is something you are more inclined to do for someone who does that in kind and doesn't demand or regularly expect it. The "jumping through hoops" is something that for most guys is not even sustainable medium to long term - you end up heavily neglecting you finances/family/friends/hobbies/etc. in pursuit of hopefully ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:14 PM
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Interested in what sort of thought process you went through to think that they would the kind of places that would take critique? I'd figure after a very short time you would have found out many of those places are most often primarily very dogmatic and/or just looking for others to reaffirm their experiences and offer sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:44 PM
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Even as a non-American, in my limited education on the subject, I'm aware that in early periods of the U.S., if you weren't at least a landowner as a man, you most often didn't have the right to vote. Also, laws varied greatly by which U.S. state and time. As expected these day, gender often a distraction/priority for division when the major underlying one is class. Patriarchy, when used as a term in social media and media, is often used as a blunt tool against the average man. Your average man …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:13 PM
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"Ain't nobody got time for that"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:57 AM
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and that truly reprehensible may never be realized since they'll all too often bend over backwards to believe all the woman's justifications and only consider her stated viewpoint as gospel - even when they are personally aware of her less than stellar character, self absorption, and her stories often being elaborate works of fiction with her starring as the main character and perfect heroine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:34 PM
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Hence her going to 9! different dating events??????? Sure seems it is a current priority in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:22 PM
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Wonder if this rings true in the 21st century as much as it did previously, when there was much more of a bar/nightclub culture and presumably more opportunity overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:21 AM
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and when you tamed it, what did it turn into?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:27 PM
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Some of us are working Christmas Day, Boxing Day, and New Years Day. On the plus side, for those "stat days" it is time and a half pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:27 PM
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You're in a typically crowded darker more anonymous venue. rhythmic music cranked up, where the dancing can become "dirty", and many people are looking or hoping or wouldn't mind for something leading to a hookup, with a fair amount of alcohol consumed that can and often does lower inhibitions. Even me who was, and to an extent always will be, to put it charitably below average with women lucked out that way a couple handfuls of times decades ago at local bars/nightclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:22 PM
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For the shorter answers: 1. Yes, 2. partially aware, I suppose. Yes, long time married (but putting happily in there would be a crime). Too put it charitably, experience in relationships and dating prior to that was below average and later than average. Probably much more black than red. All too, intellectually at least, aware of the far from ideal natures and tendencies of people and women, and maybe even some of the reasons behind those. Still have to beat down the blue pill "rose coloured gla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:57 PM
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Pissing away millions trying (very ineffectively) most in a shitty advertising campaign to get their vote, certainly didn`t show in any real way they gave a shit about them. At the very least, their methods and message, to put it charitably, were very ineffective (less charitably - they drove many away). They came off to most as only wanting their vote for the sake of their vote - for the numbers to get power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:39 AM
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White men have ALWAYS been able to vote IF AND ONLY IF they owned property. Apparently for a long time is was a patchwork of laws that varied by state. A select very, very, small percentage of mostly men (and the corporations) have and looks like always will hold the vast majority of power in the U.S. and elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:30 AM
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"men having chances and fumbling it" often because the margin for error with women and unlikeliness of forgiveness of error from women increases with age. Those below average also all to often have a late start in the dating and mating world, and similar to the job work getting the job with no experience at an age older than average is difficult at best. Add onto that if your social circle is small and also is it is small with mostly men similar to yourself. That being said leverage what little …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:59 AM
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Nah, I neither swing that way nor have any desire for receiving (or giving) humiliation, nor any interest in pet play. Like many I've already experienced an unwanted excess of the former in life already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:45 AM
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Why not just up the stakes then? I'm sure you could find some guys out there to wear a collar and leash for the date (as well as pay for the date), if you're into that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:33 AM
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and of course a Guchi baton for when she leads her parade down Rodeo Drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:29 AM
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Ironically, gaslight is a great current example of a word that is being heavily misused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:34 PM
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or not so subtle "hints" when he's outgoing, charming, above average looking, and can tell a hell of story (but obvious to many early on that the stories and him in general are often completely full of shit). If it sounds WAY to good to be true, it likely is. Then there is the "exciting" and dangerous type, where for whatever reasons she vastly underestimates the potential future danger to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:42 AM
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One huge problem in that is getting the opportunity for "getting really good at sex". All the steps before that in attracting women for flings or relationships are giant hurdles for the average and below average young men. Even if you go above your age range the so called "cougars", while more likely to know and communicate what they like, aren't generally much more attracted/receptive to the average and below average young man. Even if you obtain a one night stand, having the awareness and abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:15 PM
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In my case, and much of the time for many if not most guys, yes. It doesn't matter if it "doesn't go anywhere". Getting the hands on experience, and a modicum of success on that front, learning from mistakes, etc. if nothing else helps set you up to not be "behind the 8 ball" for all intents and purposes "romantically". Here's a quote "The illusion of understanding is a product of distance and perspective. True understanding requires involvement." If all you've left high school with relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:24 AM
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Already got a vasectomy quite a while back. Neither have, nor have ever wanted children and being in a developed country with a tax supported national health care system (but I repeat myself) the procedure was of no cost to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:26 AM
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Many men aren't getting a real opportunity to "fuck around" much in their youth. Getting to make mistakes they can learn from is the ideal. Making mistakes where they are ostracized to an extend, and getting "one step forward with two steps back" is common. Those that get into the dating/mating game later are behind the 8 ball in far too many ways - opportunities are harder to come by and certain mistakes and inexperience are rarely tolerated. If you have no or little in the way of social groups…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:43 PM
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If it looks and sounds too good to be true, it very very likely is. ALWAYS should think twice, with this being your first thought. Forgivable in the very young and naive, but nothing beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:11 PM
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Male Romantic Fantasy somewhat addressed in top commenters reply in that decade old post later on: The Male Romantic Fantasy ... A man wants to be loved for who he is, not for what he does in order to be loved ... When he can finally let go of the crank he continually turns day after day in order to earn love and, even if only for a moment, it turns by itself to nourish him in return, that is when he will know he is loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:32 PM
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This decade old reddit post says it better than I ever could. Why don't men get as much of a thrill over fictional romances as women do? Men fall in love too, so why don't they enjoy a good love story? And if you do, what are your favorites (TV, books, movies)? : r/AskMen "To generalize for the purpose of an easy answer, let's think in stereotypically gendered terms. When it comes to love, men have an active role while women have a passive one. What are the implications of this? It means that wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:49 PM
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A slow burn still needs to have some burn. If there is zero physicality early on, many men (rightly) will think that indicates a lack of interest and zero desire for them - anything from indifference to worse. All too many learned the hard way through experience talk is often cheap, messaging texting is dirt cheap. By zero physicality early on, I mean a shown aversion to even hugging or kissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:49 PM
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It is mostly not an aversion to stating the obvious (many women in everyday life have no problem stating the obvious at great length), it is more a form of women not wanting to appear shallow or as shallow as men. Harder to try to both make a point and troll for sympathy when you are not elevated by your moral high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:44 PM
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and sometimes that lottery ticket wins the grand prize. buying several every day for three months is a great strategy that will (probably ... maybe ... possibly ... almost certainly not) pay off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:08 PM
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This whole woman peddling the "friends first" are either defining casual acquaintances who eventually they grew to think of as "friends" ONLY after time after actually being a real romantic relationship with them - the "friend" part was a "bonus" tacked on only after being with this once near stranger for a while. It is often completely revisionist thinking - they think and regard them as friends only when looking back through some sort of rose coloured glasses on the past; they were misremember…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:01 PM
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If that 5-10% didn't often give a positive outcome, you think it would stay at that? If you completely took that part of the relationship off the table, do you think it would be "smooth sailing"? You could more easily find men wanting sex with you that wanting to be a friend, and that is part of why you put much more value on the friendship than sex. Many men could more easily find opposite friends or so called "friends" than a "romantic" partner in whatever form. If having friends didn't help i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:48 PM
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I'm curious. Are these quotes or references from somewhere? poetry, philosophy, something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:11 AM
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Why? Because his pool for sex or relationships is already so small as too appear empty. The vast majority of women aren't okay with it and don't want to hear about anything concerning escorts; the ones that don't mind are rare (and possibly even rarer to have sex with a guy like him. likely often choosing even more for charisma/status/great looks/etc.). Because he's looked down on for more than just his views; he is considered in some ways even less of a man and a "loser" (by society in general …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:19 AM
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As long as you have a clean STI test, that's all a future prospective partner really needs to know. If she probes into things, portray that experience as a one night stand - have some plausible story ready. In fact, not telling anyone about it would be your best bet. People far too easily get on their moral high horse when it comes to prostitution (but unsurprisingly are far easier on their own possible moral failures in actions and words). That being said when choosing an escort, really do your…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:51 AM
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If he's what you call an "average man", he's not going to have little to no sexual/romantic experience. The reasons for an average man, in just looks, not having that are more often social reasons, where he's below average in that important category. It far from pretty easy for average men to get into a relationship with a desperate below average woman. These woman often will have their sights aimed higher, plus the reasons for him being inexperienced often include not having a social circle and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:22 PM
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Tell her being shallow on multiple levels doesn't make you deep.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 12:49 AM
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"How often do you think men dump their 25 year old girlfriends because they are too old?" What percentage of men do you think are Leonardo DiCaprio or remotely similar? in looks, status, options, and then in personality type/values? Odds are good she aiming WAY out of her league (plus someone who is the longest long shot for anything beyond very short term) if this is even a remote possibility for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:02 PM
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and the reverse you are showing it certainly isn't any more generally true. Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely. Beauty certainly has power. Also, the richer and better off certainly don't have better character; certainly not prone to be more empathetic. CEO's are much more likely to be psychopaths than your average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:19 PM
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Mostly, yes. I'm sure there are exceptions - situational: where either of them is in a relationship for a long period and not having both of them single long, or he's a very far above average in looks/charisma/etc. Also, much of the time woman talk about how they got into a relationship with a friend or how they were "friends first", they weren't really friends and often not really close acquaintances. Often they were acquainted and then started a physical relationship. Men much more often will …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:59 PM
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Feminism, in its most charitable and positive slant, is essentially a female advocacy movement. It has nothing to do with humanism or egalitarianism, or anything like that, except sometimes by coincidence. At its worst extremes in practice it is openly anti-male in all too many ways. Especially true in western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:52 AM
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"women are the purehearted narrative-based attraction gender" The "purehearted narrative-based attraction" includes the narrative delusion of Hallmark movies and Fifty Shades of Grey (where if he lived in a trailer park, she wouldn't even consider getting near him), than my grey/black heart must be 100x more "purehearted" than many women; probably 1000x more as a young man and older teen. Women are almost as shallow on the looks front, and more shallow and all too often Machiavellian on the perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:18 AM
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My first thoughts? Depends what you mean by boundaries and how far they are being pushed. If men don't try to push against some "boundaries" a little, often nothing will happen. You have to be actively showing interest and progressing things or you can be thought of as not masculine enough and/or not interested enough. Verbally asking for each move with the vast majority of women would be a turnoff for them. Now if we're getting into men jumping steps in escalation or ignoring expressed behaviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 11:17 AM
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I'd say that is likely true to a great extent. In my life I've had a couple or so handfuls of one night stands, a few relationships, but never have had a FWB or regular "fuck buddy" (and likely never will). Depending on the category, I'm average at best, and with women definitely have always been below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:05 PM
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By that same logic, the men who are Fortune 500 CEOs/board of directors care about and have the same issues as your average man. And the average guy has that much power to change anything And the next quarterly "men controlling the world meeting", when I fly out on my own personal jet, I'll just ask a bunch of them for their private numbers. I must have lost those.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:47 PM
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Except in some of these cases you are actually "their mommies". The whole thing starts with how young boys are treated. Unless you're a-okay with having your young sons "thrown under the bus".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:38 PM
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Probably much more the case with teen boys and younger men. Many if not most men when older will not let friends or others influence their taste in the opposite sex, though if asked about how attractive a woman is may give you an answer using the general conventionally attractive scale (possibly with a caveat) unless you specifically ask "Do YOU (heavy emphasis on "you") find her attractive?" My personal preference leans a lot more heavily towards chubby than thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:28 PM
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It's the rich and elite, whether they are mostly men or not is irrelevant (also, the wives marrying these guys hands are not any cleaner). The rich and elite certainly don't give a shit about average men, they only care about their rich and elite connections, friends, and family. An offer to shit on someone else, can be tempting when you're not offered much of anything else. Offering young men the feeling of getting to shit on someone else, is similar to how radical feminist women have given wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:46 AM
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Plus I'm sure some voted the other way in disgust for how the left has, at the very least, framed itself as being far more concerned with identity politics than the working man. Trying (and failing miserably) to at the last minute attract young men votes while showing nothing but contempt for anything for the men themselves and their issues, was at the very least a strategic election advertising/marketing fuckup of epic proportions. I suspect some held their nose and voted left, some turned away…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:25 AM
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Spoken like a true lady as expected, elegant and refined. May you receive tenfold what you truly deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:11 PM
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Vasectomy then should be a "value-add" (or at least eliminates her "value-ad") because it virtually eliminates pregnancy and children from the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:10 PM
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Respect and care is both needed reciprocally and is earned. Women these days no longer get the benefit of the doubt, from men's own and shared experiences, women have earned just the doubt. Ladies? Most of the women that could be called ladies out there are in my parent's generation. Very few women of generations younger than qualify as ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:59 PM
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Those is charge benefit from us lower class "peons" fighting off each other - the whole women vs, men dynamic in the western world is just one example (black vs white is another). If 1/10 of the energy, effort, thought and purpose went towards class warfare instead of gender warfare, misogyny and a great deal of other problems would lessen to a degree (misogyny, misandry, prejudices, injustice will ALWAYS exist to agree - some sort of utopia will never happen). Also, legally to an overwhelming d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:21 PM
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"love glam and wearing a lot of makeup" Assume they are stuck up and mean? maybe, maybe not. Assume they are high maintenance, will take forever to get ready, and will want to spend a lot of time/effort/money on going out to show off this glam and makeup, and a lot of time/effort/money on having things "looking good" - very good chance. Guessing they'll only want someone who both is very good looking and will have to dress up regularly; very concerned with looks and appearances. Guessing they'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:17 PM
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Very little fucked in the good way, very often fucked in the bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:21 PM
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And yet many (especially young) woman either can't see it or more likely willing delude themselves and/or tend to put way too much of an importance on only words. By delude I mean either getting themselves to believe he is someone he is obviously not or thinking they can change him. There is also the factor of him being "exciting and dangerous" thinking that behaviour or consequences won't ever come in their direction; thrill seeking behaviour/adrenaline junkies. The old adage if it seems to goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:31 AM
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I think I've also heard it sometimes in regards to his dressing/style. Someone with a haircut that doesn't really suit their face, wearing mismatched or sloppy clothes. Of course, these are the opposite of some the people you see on those house buying or flipping shows who reject a house because of the wrong paint colour or can't picture a room empty or with different furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:04 PM
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Is this couple Ward and June Cleaver? Is this the television of the 1950's or the 21st century I've heard so much about? Even my parents who are a Silent Generation and a Baby Boomer had my mom working half to 2/3rd time much of the time after we were school age, way back then. The "new normal" doesn't often have only one income coming in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:53 PM
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paying half the rent/groceries is being "economically used"? paying your share of living expenses where you are living as an adult is being "economically used"? and here I thought one person paying for all that is being economically used. silly me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:04 PM
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Admire and move on. Just like the women in a revealing and/or tight outfit with a large chest without much support walking past in high heels. The view and bounce are hypnotizing and appealing for the moment, but nothing is going to happen. The visual is just a momentary thing of secondary importance. touch > talk > just visual. For example, when I was younger first going to the strip bar I might find the stage show appealing; now it does little for me, sensual lap dances are why I'm there. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:05 PM
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If she couldn't have PIV sex, but was sexual and liked touch, gave and received oral sex, I'd at least entertain entering a relationship with them. Not interested in visiting the institution of marriage again with anyone. But if she had no interest in anything sensual/sexual in general, or with me, no. The reason why doesn't really matter that much. Friends is the most we could ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:56 PM
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and that is mostly either a complete fabrication by her or she is misremembering what actually happened - there were often distant acquaintances, not friends, when they started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:28 AM
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there it is. "and a lot of them are also average" and most of these average men are being passed over by these similarly average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:38 AM
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"It might be sort of true in the beginning stages of relationship" ... "BUT aside from the beginning stages of a relationship, women don’t actually have these high/exceptional expectations for men" Way to dismiss the main and often hardest part for many men. The part where the reward to effort is minusculely low. The part they often experience the most, over and over. Except for the beginning of the race, where you have to jump across a gaping canyon, it is not that hard. The stages up to and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:08 AM
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A lot also don't feel attraction at all the way men do. They have two vectors running and if they man doesn't have enough masculine/"bad boy" traits he is in the friend box for good (at best). Men often are running on one scale; they'll be attracted to opposite sex friends. This guy explains things better and in much more detail (in a chart) than I could: https://youtu.be/n4aMiAesXjE?si=h67WSQemvFndz8k- The things about women being attracted to men they are already friends with is mostly non-exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:38 AM
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Two things - emotional doesn't equal emotional intelligence. Very many women are the former, some are the latter. Is managing and putting up with the often volatile and constantly changing emotions of some women not considered "emotional labor" (boy, do I hate these buzzwords) You think many men, in this day and age, don't have to walk on eggshells - for example, in the modern work environment for fear of saying or doing some small thing that (with nothing said or done by the "offended party" at…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:10 AM
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I'm likely decades older than most that will answer, but if you ask if women have never directly approached me that wouldn't be very far from the truth. Did I very rarely get laid in my late teens and very early 20's, yes. Mid to later 20's, once in a while, along with getting in a couple relationships. This is from a socially below average guy who had (as still has to some extent) lower self esteem. If I waited for a woman to approach and actually directly show even the tiniest bit of interest …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:11 PM
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The very crudest of men's language objectively isn't much worse than the worst psychobabbly sociologically adjacent buzzwords that have expanded in common use "definition" as to be near meaningless and useless, and the shielding of self by layers of virtual signaling and vague language. Sure, tone it down a little bit for the internet, as to be less rage bait and closer to what you really feel and think when you've calmed down somewhat after a handful of seconds; tone it down a lot in real life.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:12 PM
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Very small percentage are interested or show feigned interest (other than some in trying to attract him at first) in sports compared to men. A man's achievements in work directly or indirectly will benefit her, so that's not a surprise. Many men like certain female musicians (especially when the lyrics aren't blatantly anti-male). Much media created by men is geared more towards gender neutral or sometimes directly towards women. Woman, like men, don't throw away any advantages they get from mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:45 PM
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change a few words and it is also true of women. (men to women, sex and domesticity to attention and financial benefit, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:24 PM
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"Your social skills don't have to be perfect or charismatic (although, tbh, this is one that most men can get better at for basically free, and will yield them pretty decent results)." You think it is possible for an uncharismatic man to become somewhat charismatic? If so, how huge would the change in the amount and quality of social connections, sheer determination, and personality change would be required? How much effort, luck, finding good circumstances, finding helpful and not super judgeme…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:14 PM
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Some women enjoy casual sex, in and of it self - especially is her and her partner are giving and willing to communicate. Some might enjoy all the things considered foreplay (those leading up to the PIV sex) quite a bit, and/or other sex acts besides PIV. Many women use or have used it as a means to an end - anything from validation, to hoping to get her foot in the door with an attractive man for more, possibly to attracting "higher value" men for brownie points in her social circle (depending …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:16 PM
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Most men and women are good people? I'd say most are not inherently bad people, but as strongly positive a word as good may be pushing it. You could define them on a spectrum closer to self interested than just right them off as completely selfish. The selfish level is probably exaggerated. At least some of the outrage is from those repeatedly hurt from poor experiences and outcomes. On the internet, there is also a lot of trolling. If you think everyone is being sincere and forthright (much les…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:58 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but this could possibly mean, if introduced directly or indirectly through a friend/acquaintance, was it his friend/acquaintance or yours that allowed you to initially meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:00 PM
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If you listened to all the advice, it would have you trying to thread a rope through the eye of a needle, and that's just from similar people - never mind the contradictory advice when you listen to a lot of variety of opinions. By the "eye of the needle" thing I mean advice like be confident without being arrogant (though depending on your goals, closer to arrogant might well work a hell of a lot better in most situations than appearing timid). You have to discount some advice using both critic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:21 PM
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You likely encounter the base number of those, the kind that have been around for generations, if you think back a little. Think back to high school and the three geekiest, nerdiest, most shy awkward guys in your grade. Think they had a date? Think they lost their virginity in high school or several years following? Think that even if they did in years following the gap between the first and second time may have been years. Or did you not think of them at all or show up as a person on your radar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:59 PM
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Can some men be cruel, Oh most definitely, Is it more than a verbal comeback equal or greater to a snarky remark the woman gave 99% of the time? Absolutely not. In fact, very often many men will just take the uncalled for out of pocket remark without saying or doing anything and just walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:04 PM
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I'm sure some would have more empathy if they thought about it more and related it to behaviour at large. Those men approaching women openly disrespectfully are likely many of the same men who you can see being needlessly unpleasant to strangers in public - the ones who harass someone's grandma on the bus, try to start fights with random guys just to get a reaction or they like fighting, etc. In short, aggressive assholes are everywhere. Just ride public transit for a while, and you'll encounter…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:49 PM
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Most guys that approached women in real life when young only rarely, have more than one experience of a woman being hostile and malicious. Most likely and common in high school age, and with the whole social dynamics there, but for some that behavior continues well past that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:16 PM
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There was the angle there and not just in the title. Prime example is in the sentence "There are statistically not enough good men out there for every woman" What that is saying (about how few "good men" there are) and fails to say (about the lack of possibly negative perceived qualifiers and descriptors before the words woman) puts an overly idealistic view on women. Some "women are wonderful" and a wee bit of bias of the author towards her own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:39 AM
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more selective? sure. but what about self aware, perceptive, with both good judgement and analytical skills? What makes you think most are, or are even capable of, using the best criteria for the goal of a life long or long term relationship? And at least among the younger women, are they even wanting or thinking or working for relationships that long?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:45 PM
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Even when back I was as social events, and had something like what you could liberally call a friend group, very rare. Friend group was mostly guys. Haven't been at much for social events in the last decade, but when I have been there has been zero flirtatious interaction. In the preceding decade where I was somewhat more social, I think I can recall twice where it happened. If you want to count the time (and I don't) where I was trying to chat up a woman up at the bar and after a bit of friendl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:38 PM
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Rarely, and the desired innate characteristics are both much rarer, and the work to get there appears to be much more. That man often needs charisma, shown strength, and often be conventionally handsome, and socially adept, etc. A woman often doesn't; looks alone will often do it. Many men, can have that sort of immediate physical attraction and real lust towards a much larger amount and larger variety of women - with many 7 out of 10 woman, and some men even those not conventionally attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:57 PM
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If only the pregnancy one was fully intellectual instead of just biological/emotionally/mentally hard wired for women. If that was the case, me having a vasectomy plus using condoms, might actually greatly viscerally increase my attractiveness to those among subset of women who don't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:36 PM
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To start off, I've never purchased Onlyfans, or paid for cam shows. Don't know anyone that has, or at least if I do they haven't ever spoken about it to me or even insinuated the possibility. I have however paid for in person services (lap dances at strip bars, "happy ending" massages, escorts). I can personally understand having vices, sex related and not, but as long as in person ones exist where I can get some in person, physical touch, I'm going to much prefer them. Touch deprivation I'm sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:52 AM
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I can't say for sure for Norway or Sweden, but I doubt you can lump Canada in with them. Canada socially in regards to women, dating, socially, culturally, gender roles, etc. is a lot more like the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:16 AM
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"a lot of women have been trying to move away from traditional ideas of womanhood" but are they truly attracted (and not just say they are, because either they think they might be or because they are virtue signaling) to men who move away from traditional ideas of "manhood"? and attracted sexually???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:10 AM
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No to the first, Yes to the second question. Attractive in some way to me appearance-wise is usually more than enough. Her showing physically some attraction to me adds at least a "couple points" to her attractiveness to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:47 AM
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Most of that seems very good to ideal (Verbal or written means less to me than most people. Doesn't plan dates would mostly be good if she rarely wants to do dating activities; I certainly don't mind doing informal things and staying in much of the time. We can ignore Hallmark holidays, especially the hated Valentine's Day ??? Huge Bonus!!!. If there was a lack of touch and physical affection (other than when having sex) when together alone, that might be the one thing I'd find disappointing. As…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:58 PM
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I'll make a guess. When you perceive very few women (whether in general or in your present circumstances) would even possibly consider dating and/or having sex with you and even then only under the right conditions with very little room for error on your part, eliminating much of that already small potential number seems like a severe detriment to an already apparently insurmountable task. If you eliminate those people who are sometimes hypocritical, rationalizing. and virtue signalling, (knowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:00 AM
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True to some extent; sympathy in itself won't help at all with dating, but I wouldn't say in dating everyone is alone - in every possible aspect. Those with some small social circle at least have the possibility of getting introduced to opposite friends of friends; those can be potential dating partners. My second and third girlfriend I got introduced to in situations when I was hanging out a fair bit with a co-worker/friend or at least close acquaintance (my first girlfriend, I lucked out with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:21 PM
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Well often some woman will have a sex with a virgin (knowingly or not) in his very late teens, or 20's or older. We'll have to look at how that might happen. In my case it was an acquaintance (friend of a friend at the time) at a party when I was close to 20 and the somewhat bored designated driver for a group of friends at a house party. She asked me to go for a walk and things progressed from there (eventually making out and eventually sex, both a first for me at the time). Previous from that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:05 PM
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You're missing the woman who wants to keep her guy "friend" around for validation, attention, performing services, being an emotional tampon, etc. If that guy gets a girlfriend then at best these things he gives her will dramatically decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:21 PM
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As far as dressing up, shaving, makeup, etc., those matter very little to me most of the time. Dressing comfortably and not getting made up is a okay with me. Just some basic standard hygiene works for me. Other than a long term girlfriend where we are going to some special occasions I wouldn't expect dressing up. Also, I don't expect the original passion to continue to that high of a degree long term (after the "honeymoon phase"), but I'm certainly disappointed when certain sex acts "drop off t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:06 PM
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yes, maybe, yes, probably not, no, no, no, no, maybe, yes, probably not, no, probably not, yes, no, probably not, yes, maybe, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, n/a since I have no best friend but if I did maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:49 PM
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I can confirm it is brought regularly at our quarterly meetings, where all men meet in secret locations. Those many homeless men you see (or don't see) are just in disguise - our best spies. They work in shift and return in secret to their penthouse mansions and vacation hideaways on private islands.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:22 PM
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Because your definition of a Feminist is way off. If you believe in equality, you'd be an Equalitarian, not a Feminist. Any definition of Feminism begins and is concentrated on the advocacy of women's rights. Often in practice to the exclusion of all else, including true equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:17 PM
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and the few that have followed are mostly things done as a teen/very young adult they learned from and grew out of - with only very minor things mentioned as an adult, often with them doing the socially acceptable appropriate apology and response. No displaying of any current real personality flaws, and the actions or inactions that must have followed. Acts of indifference, withdrawal, selfishness, pettiness, manipulation and betrayal must all magically disappear. Completely even tempered most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:04 PM
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Almost no one, man or woman finds ALL body types equally attractive. However, there are certainly a hell of a lot of men who find a large variety of body types attractive. Many or most women are the ones that are a lot more narrow in what they find attractive in men's bodies. Also, though you may group some of them in as "fetish" there are considerable more men that prefer chubby or obese than woman who do. Also are you actually talking about real average common men, the full variety of all men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:18 PM
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I'll chime in. Of course there are a number of genuinely creepy men who have no problem approaching women. BUT maybe sometimes it is just a shy and awkward guy fumbling his way through the attempt (and maybe sometimes, some of you are insulted in a man perceived "below your level" even making the attempt and how that reflect on your perceived "value").
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:28 PM
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Part of that is in the past more younger people regularly went out to bars/nightclubs and got drunk. Your average/below average guy might not have done well if going by batting percentage, but many of those did "get lucky" once in a while. Just look at the number of bars/nightclubs around now to a few decades ago. There has been a significant decline. Local and regional and touring bands were common place at one time, and the bars were often packed certain nights. Drunk and/or drugged in a packe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:58 AM
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Not unreasonable, but if you are making six figures it is unreasonable for most men to give a shit about either your demands or your "problems" in finding what you desire, especially those that don't live in or desire to live in a very HCOL city.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:38 PM
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A good example is Hoe Math on YouTube's Zones chart. Has the two axis for "good guy" security and "bad boy" attraction for women with just the one meter for men's attraction to women. One of his videos on Zones: https://youtu.be/n4aMiAesXjE?si=Xsc1UY6HbtSN4OFo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:09 AM
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It is not necessarily or usually encouraging it. It is tolerating ignoring or dismissing it; letting it completely slide, while the reverse with men doing the equivalent is much more likely to have dire consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:03 PM
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Best option for some men much of the time, sure. You have to consider if you have the disposable income to do so. Also, you have to find the type of escort you want where you are. If you're in a smaller more isolated city or town your choices will rapidly dwindle. There are a lot more out that does a variety of sexual acts than ones that gives a good GFE (girlfriend experience) if that is what you're looking for (especially in the low to mid tier slots, the "VIP" ones have always been out of my …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:28 AM
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If I had to guess, I'd say many would if their marriage or common law situation isn't going very well. A lot less if it is going okay or better, a lot less than this if in a situation where leaving is an easier option with little financial/family/etc. consequences. Your "dating apps and casual sex" applies only to women and a very small percentage of men. You are vastly overstating things for average and below average men. For the rest, it would approach the odds of a lottery win.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:24 PM
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Because ideally they want (at at least think they want) those they are already attracted to, to be nicer. All too often women's advice leaves out the important part. It is advice that assumes they are already attracted to the man (they don't say the important first step). As far as the later leagues comments, one problem is you can't assume the average man and average women are considered in the same league. It is more likely the average women is considered a 7 and the average man is considered …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:36 PM
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Happy depends at least partially on expectations. You can also be happy, at least short term, in situations than many others objectively might not think are all that great. You could be happy just getting one or a couple things out of a relationship. I'd say the foundation of respect would correlate more directly with what is generally considered healthy relationships than something referred to as happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:19 PM
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Ideally, (and most certainly ideally covered by some form of universal healthcare) paternity tests would be a mandatory part of the whole birthing experience at a hospital. Lot less of legitimate offense if that was the norm. In our current world, he is going to have to get it done sneakily, without her knowledge to avoid the real possibility of genuine offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:36 PM
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Does the average man have FWB relationships (or even fuckbuddies)? I have been, at least socially, a below average guy. Never been that good with woman but I've likely had a couple handfuls of one night stands in my life (usually bar/nightclub related - alcohol was involved). I've had 3 relationships, but never ever had a FWB. I have had closer acquaintances as women (but never any interest in that way from them).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:26 PM
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In the post you linked read this part over and over again "compliment him by saying he is not someone who I would hookup or be a fwb but marry" Then try excluding the last two words if you still don't get the point. That one sentence was it, no matter how much back peddling (which she didn't quote) that she tried after that. If you can't figure that out show it to several male friends or even family members if the male perspective is something you either aren't aware of, can't conceptualize, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:44 PM
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If you've had little experience with girls/women (and all of that bad) in high school that certainly makes it tougher. Odds are then higher you have a small or non existent social circle, no real friends, and lower self esteem. It is tougher to meet anyone after high school and college years in the best of conditions and you're behind the 8-ball already. One thing you may be able to try is trying to date women many years younger in your mid to late 20's (even early 30's) and you might luck out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:09 AM
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Also they all too often leave out the important part - that the stated preferences are things they'd like in men they are already attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:06 PM
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The most charitable definition is a women's advocacy movement. Sure they'll say they want equality in areas where men have more, but in the reverse situation it's a hell no!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:37 PM
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I'd like to see a Lilith response to this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:34 PM
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Young inexperienced (and often insecure) men unfortunately have to learn that the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:04 AM
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Good luck doing that with young women, it would completely go against both their nature and socialization. A certain cohort of charismatic men will always get enough positive results with women being "assholes".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:07 PM
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The mistake in that thinking is thinking the election was only a one issue vote, and also thinking that one issue was abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:02 PM
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The long election campaigns are ALL about marketing. That should be no surprise in this day and age. Image is of supreme importance. For the Democrats to do such a shit job of it, and then to have a 11th hour half assed tone deaf attempt supposedly to attract men (but came off as them only caring about their votes and not them) was the cherry on top of their shit sundae of a campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:57 PM
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I used to have a delivery job and once delivered to a bona fide "cat lady" (I'm sure she must have had dozens) where just her opening the door a crack you could smell the ammonia, and I have a crappy sense of smell (genetics and/or having had my nose broken several times). When I delivered pizza I couldn't smell any pizza smell in my car when driving around on my day off but most passengers could and would mention it. If I had to guess, for being a 'smelly dates' I'd say it is probably a small p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:12 PM
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A guess for general answers, the smelling bad could be because either he doesn't use deodorant normally and didn't think of it or he did but not an effective one for him and his nerves made him sweat a lot. As far as those two issues combined, could also be he fell out of the habit of regular hygiene (habits continued from COVID era, rarely goes out, works a physical job and is dirty/smelly often and doesn't notice or care, etc.) and didn't even think of it, or even just generally hangs out with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:39 PM
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A lot of the influence of "Red Pill" is from a reaction to what late stage feminism and social media and dating apps has influenced women. Add to this the crab bucketing when attached women listen to their terminally single women friends. Most men aren't hard core red pill/mra/black pill/whatever, in practice to much of an extent but those have certainly coloured men's beliefs and behaviour to an extent. The reason men have turned in those directions is because a light has been shone both on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:34 PM
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Why would women care about why men they'd never look at don't want to date? Just for the attention and validation, and sometimes to collect cash and prizes (including services). In short, to use them to feed both their ego and their pocketbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:03 PM
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The value is in the sex itself - being able to get sex on a regular or semi-regular basis is the value. Talk is dirt cheap, and actual attraction from women is backed up by her in a physical way, including sex. That shows to some degree he is actually wanted. Beyond the teens and early 20's women shift priorities more to more bloodless things (regular $$$$$$ ="stability"), but the raw physical attraction and having that expressed physically is always of importance. "Sex is like air; it's not imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:21 AM
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Only way I can see it being remotely possible is if the activities of the event are something you would really enjoying doing and any dating or "dating" is just a slightly possible bonus. Kind of like going to a bar/nightclub when there is band you really like there. You're not bored to tears being there for hours and outcomes with the opposite sex become less important to whether or not you enjoy your night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:26 PM
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If a man's chest brushes across a women's breasts in a packed bar that's probably in the numbers. If a woman decides the next day, after the fact, that sex with him wasn't a good decision that's likely in the numbers. “There are three kinds of lies: Lies, Damned Lies, and Statistics”
/r/MensRights10/10/24 12:15 AM
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Just change that to dress codes that aren't always enforced if it makes you feel better. Maybe, just maybe, you can continue on beyond that hiccup to get the large picture of what he is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:50 PM
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Here's a rough translation to something more palatable for some: She is physically attractive, doesn't have an abrasive personality, frequently initiates, enjoys and makes a huge priority out of sex, is faithful, and is overall low maintenance. Is that any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:54 PM
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Getting to know the women first isn't going to do much of anything for him. Odd are with his romantic skills (or more accurately lack there of both that and social skills) the best he'll acquire is a female friend who has zero attraction to him or one that gets pissed off because he didn't make a move early on - when casual acquaintances and not friends. If he didn't try early on, she'll likely accuse him of being a bait and switch (or whatever the term is) and not believe he grew to be more att…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:30 AM
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If you're talking about barrier on anyone becoming U.S. President, not being rich with the right connections is a bigger preventer of that - even among those that party members who have shown they are both willing and capable. Then you have the whole bureaucracies of the two parties, and all their back scratching too. On top of that, there are likely those that appeal in many ways to all of the above but don't have the personality to get elected - sure they might be great at actually governing b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:17 AM
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and many of those aspects of feminism, in the western world, legally and socially have been pushed far enough or too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:45 PM
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If they replaced 'patriarchy' (which is often used as a cudgel on all men) with 'corporate capitalism' they might find more allies. Those are the very top don't give a single shit about the common man. There is a very, very small number of people at the top and most of them are men. The is a much larger number of people at the bottom, and the majority of those are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:42 AM
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Misjudging is going to happen for those inexperienced of any age. Socially awkward doesn't necessarily mean purposely ignoring signals. Chances are if he's socially awkward he's often more afraid or making a wrong move. I think the ones you are describing are a lot more socially hostile than socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:36 PM
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These days the whole language/terminology/lingo has become so vague and used all too often in such a far reaching way as to be almost useless. Whether it be "enthusiastic consent" or even more so what is considered sexual assault - hell, some consider a quick wolf whistle from across the street "sexual assault". We can't even get specific terms/words to give you a basic general range, much less something approaching a more precise definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:14 PM
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Can you blame a slightly older socially awkward guy going for a conventionally average/below average woman a fair bit younger who shows slight interest, when women his own age appear disinterested and he has little experience dating and in relationships. It is a life stage issue and some of us were behind in that; someone of similar experiences, and who is willing to give him a chance, is likely to be younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:03 PM
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No. Yes, I'd say a majority of my closer male acquaintances often have girlfriends/wives, but also ex-wives No. A couple closer acquaintances. Get along well enough with all my immediate family and extended family. Platonic friendships? No longer have any of those. Acquaintances, still holding onto a handful of those. Networking? never had much of that,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:58 PM
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That's all fine and dandy. But the question is if you're paying for yourself is that a good sign of him not getting a second date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:10 PM
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That last part - it's not the plate spinners (because they're regularly getting something out of dating), it's the men who, when they actually get a first date it rarely leads to a second. On top of the futility, you get the privilege of paying for it. (These days I'd never, and I'd recommend the same, go on more than a coffee date for a first date. Only exception is if the date was with someone I already know)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:58 PM
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Coffee dates for at least first dates make sense. You can pay for your own meal BUT if you're paying for you own is that a very good sign of you not wanting another date? That is the gist of part of what he is saying, if the woman pays at all it's game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:48 PM
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Sure don't think it is common at all in any typical middle class culture. Haven't even heard of claims of this from acquaintances of mine in locker room talk - some seriously weird shit, and stuff just to get a rise, but nothing along those lines. Think it must be specific to whatever subculture these Fresh n Fit characters engaged in. The most I even heard told to me is of second or third hand stories involving higher level sports teams. Once in my life I had an opportunity for a threesome with…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:06 PM
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I have a favourite quote that relates to that. "The illusion of understanding is a product of distance and perspective. True understanding requires involvement." - the character Vlad Taltos from Steven Brust's book Athyra (part of Taltos series).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:12 PM
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Size 22 Becky isn't giving any googly eyes to a guy who isn't at least a 7 these days, and will ignore a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:44 AM
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the wage gap doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:37 AM
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The correct answer is NOT men. It is the elite, though they are most often men, don't give a shit about the common man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:04 PM
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For the most part getting them to accept something as fact is of minimal value, if they are accepting it only in an intellectual way (if many are capable of truly doing that, is debatable). Unless they are accepting it deep down to their emotional core, the lip service of understanding is of little value to you. "The illusion of understanding is a product of distance and perspective. True understanding requires involvement." Even if we get to that level of understanding, having true empathy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:57 PM
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It is for the most part just people using buzzwords. Their personal definitions of the words expand and contract whenever it works for them, and/or the group they are in. Someone that uses the words "misogyny" and "internalised misogyny" in everyday usage is someone, most often, I don't want to interact with on a daily basis. Someone who is likely to have a radically different view on how society is put together and how it actually functions. My somewhat similar flaw to casually throwing out the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:04 AM
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What would they do? I think you are over estimating the time I'm actually doing something that would be considered remotely interesting by most. Shallow/boring/uninteresting - sounds like me to an extent and even acceptable in her as long as she isn't often those in a way that annoys me a lot. Having her expect me to entertain her a lot of the time - sound like a circle of hell. Likely have a companion for the some of the drudgery that is the time that isn't their sleeping time, work life, chore…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:50 PM
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Sounds like events even the hard core masochist men would say "I'm out. Not that type and degree of pain and humiliation for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:32 PM
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Have no personal knowledge of single events these day and only a vague idea of what they are like. One question I do have is in general are any of the activities things the average men will actually enjoy? If the numbers are now so far from equal, is this being addressed much? Can't see the appeal for most men in this day and age. At least if the event had activities that appealed to many men it might be something some would got to for that part of it - since we know the rest of it is likely a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:29 PM
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How does that compute? Ah, you actually think straight logic has a place here. Mankind is a rationalizing animal not a rational animal. Womankind is a part of mankind, on average not particularly known for its straight rational thinking. As far as lowering standards, that probably isn't the best way to phrase that. Think about your standards and prioritize them, maybe eliminate or lower the completely irrational, possibly even introduce new standards while eliminating some of the old. Some of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:19 PM
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You haven`t really brought up much to discuss other than the vague statement of "genders think differently". Sure, they do. Her looking at how some men see would be helpful to a small extent. I'll admit some of that is my opinion and viewpoint, which is more than likely biased by my experiences. There are other men out there that will compartmentalize women as either "the virgin" vs "the slut". I'd like to think, and I may be completely wrong, that most have moved beyond that in the process of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:20 PM
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Just because you have a "night of fun" doesn't mean you can't develop more than that after, or have more than one "night of fun". No rules saying what in your mind you had as a "one night stand" has to stay as that. Also, newsflash, shy truly good guys and thugs with dark triad traits and guys in between generally enjoy "a night of fun". Even if that night doesn't go perfectly, doesn't mean it isn't enjoyable or repeatable. If you're internalizing some sort of Madonna-Whore complex, I don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:09 PM
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Basically - I'll have sex right away with someone who I have an immediate animal attraction for; I'll throw away any roadblocks or rules I have for them. But for you, I don't have that much of a physical attraction and you'll have to jump through all the hoops. I don't find you more than moderately, at most, attractive physically, you're not enough to stoke my fires that way, but I think you might make a good provider and/or father eventually. There is nothing stopping a physical connection to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:56 AM
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Nope, has no bearing as to whether a relationship will follow or not. At least I have an idea she is somewhat physically interested in me, and sex isn't at the bottom of her priority list. More likely to lose romantic interest for things that are made apparent. as far as personality and more, outside of the bedroom getting to know her with time. Only sex will not make a relationship, but for me lack of at least some physicality early on certainly will kill the chances of one. Also, drunken one n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:32 AM
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First dates should ALWAYS be (assuming it is a stranger you haven't met) a coffee type date. Why should anything beyond "low effort" be put on what is essentially a stranger I'm getting to know? That is supposedly the goal of first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:00 PM
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Agree with this. Women don't generally date friends. Part of the confusion lies is what is defined as friends, and part of this is the amount of time it takes to be what I would define as friends (which may be a higher bar than most these days) and how your perception of them solidifies. I think, on average, men's definition of what constitutes a friend differs to a fair degree to what women's definition do. Women will date acquaintances. Between becoming casual acquaintance and friends the man …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:37 PM
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You can, but how often are those that call themselves feminists actually that way? Not all that often. If not openly misandrist, they almost always have a "home team" bias and sometimes little to no empathy, or even the capacity for empathy, for men. Personalizing everything, which is too often the default, is the opposite of empathy. Some women don't get that. Some are queens of virtue signalling and think only women are allowed to play the victim card. Some just think women by nature are moral…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:53 PM
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Wasn't trying to say just that. I'm sure many women would love to have men's nature and priorities more closely match their own, and it is not just the reverse. Some of it, especially in the past, was the brain washing with the "sugar and spice" narrative of girls and how many young men still pedestalize women. How being a "good man" if he isn't strong and charismatic one is a MAJOR turn off for women. There is some disillusionment when boys clock on to the fact that the things that might make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:42 PM
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The most charitable definition of feminists is that they are a woman advocacy group. They sure as hell aren't about "evening the playing field" when the field is tilted their way and they might have to compromise or give up anything. The less charitable is they are openly misandrist. Before someone chimes in about non-industrialized countries, I'm talking about feminism in western countries - where the vast majority of us here are from and are living in. Their essence of what they are for is rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:02 PM
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If your most or all of your dating or "dating" experiences with women don't go well, or often go at all, you're eventually going to not only dislike yourself, you'll start disliking women (and the nature of women) even if you're attracted to them. Men's attraction to women is completely different from the reverse - just on the physical side and the lack thereof in a general sense (men attracted to more women, women attracted to a very small percentage of men). The whole process of trying to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:40 PM
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You don't even have to leave the internet or search all that hard, just go to almost any entertainment/news site online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:22 PM
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The further left at least where I am seemed to be more concerned about both unions and the general working man and woman, and general social welfare. Now it seems more concerned with placating extreme feminist views along with very vocal minorities and special interests of many sorts, throwing money at any and all perceived problems (because none of it is coming out of their pocket) seems to be their first, and often only, resort. They certainly haven't done fuck all for the declining middle cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:59 AM
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Female 3's often don't think they are 3's and usually have the standards of 7's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:59 PM
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Hell me, as a middle aged man, am now more likely to be considered conservative to an extent, even though up to relatively recently my voting was often far left and my views haven't changed to a great degree. What the left has become, what they hold dear, and what they push for has increasingly become not what I would want. They certainly aren't welcoming in any way to the generation of young men coming up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:46 PM
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Wages have stagnated since the 70's and taxation burden has shifted mostly to the individual with the corporate side now having little. I'm guessing the current actual cost of just living, never mind bring up kids, has to be at least part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:39 PM
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Is that a typo? Shouldn't the last paragraph start "Feminism didn't" instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:34 PM
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For a job for a year, fire hydrant maintenance sounds like it might be more than alright to me. At least it sounds like it might be comparatively less boring and better paying than some of the McJobs I've had in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:32 PM
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and how many are 9's and 10's? It isn't a one for one for each number category. 20% of the population certainly isn't a 9 or 10 by any metric. In woman's eyes towards men, that is even more true. Your average men might (or not) fantasize about fucking 9 or 10, but even the more clueless would eventually see all the day to day problems with dealing with such an individual for even a short length of time. If you're asking a 9 or 10 man not to sometimes "dumpster dive" for a lower effort quick lay,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:26 PM
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Success is relative. From being a complete and utter failure to getting a tiny bit of success once in a while for a relatively short period, I suppose is a minor success. A small step towards not being completely behind the 8 ball. Revenge? I had and have neither the ability or desire for that? I just wish I had some good friend/acquaintance groups back then; on second thought even some mediocre ones. Teens to mid 20's was a wasteland. After that there was only 3 relationships and maybe a couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:58 PM
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Here's an interesting though: Maybe many men wouldn't be behind the eight ball on this if they were offered as more than possible theoretical study on this and some early practical on hands training with a woman who communicates, in words and sound, what works for them. Maybe if he's given more than the one time (or more often zeroth time) to work on it before being discarded for perceived shortcomings and mistakes; being more forgiving and allowing for some more trial and error with feedback. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:22 PM
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Unless you`re an attractive guy doing it more smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:54 PM
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Friends of friends or acquaintances are possibilities. If you get to where you are considered a friend of hers, you're fucked - actually, you're not fucked. You usually have to approach and make your interest known very early. The advice is mostly useless since if you already have a large circle of friends (with a larger potential for meeting friends of friends or new acquaintances), odds are good your dating problems are comparatively minimal. If you have a guy friend, close acquaintance or eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:42 PM
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To point number one - the vast majority of time: No, no they didn't. They often started out as acquaintances or friends of friends, then into dating and a relationship. Looking back they might say they were friends first, but that likely isn't true and is just some distorted perspective (or having a vastly different idea of what qualifies as a friend). Woman generally are a lot different from men, once you're firmly put in the "friend box" with her, unless there are some really drastic changes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:21 PM
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Sure, just help me dispose of these couple of bodies and I'll take the remainder of the summer off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:19 PM
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Long time married, some years deadbedroom. Pretty well like room mates. Often not in the same room when home. There is no real touching, must less anything more happening between us. Pay for the GFE once in a while, now that I've found one that is good and not overly pricey considering. Get massages regularly. Get "massages" less regularly. But I'm in my 50's, and have the experiences of those years well behind me. Luckily or not I no longer have the energy/testosterone/naivete/lack of experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:20 AM
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A hall pass is almost useless. If this is a girlfriend, why stay? If it is a long time wife, the only way this could work is if she truly cares about my sexual needs and she knows or can find other women interested in my physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:41 AM
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Look I'm WAY out of the loop in many ways due to being a now somewhat overweight middle aged and long time unhappily married man. For what it's worth 2 of the 3 girlfriends I had in my life I met through a younger guy co-worker at the time I was hanging around with a bit after work. Met one of his friends when we went to his friend's house after the bar. Don't remember exactly how I was introduced to the other one. The third one was asking a woman to dance at the bar, getting her number and actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:24 AM
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Some men do say that and mean it. Many other straight men find the supermodel thin unattractive; you're more likely to have women think that is attractive. If you're going with generalities, hip to waist ratio is generally a good place to start. Many men don't mind a bit overweight (not obese, that's a much smaller subset) especially if the breasts and or butt are larger as well. Personally I'm much more attracted to chubby than rail thin. If you're talking about talk on the internet, some might…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:04 AM
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and in a truly polite society we'd see those women behind bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:16 AM
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You only give as much as you are willing to (which is probably a bit more than you theoretically should), and expect less in return. How much less and where it is less you'll find out. If it works out as something you can live with for while, you're doing good. If she can keep it at level for a while, even better. Trust only so far and by degrees. Be prepared to be let down. Don`t give anymore than you are willing to lose. Everyone has an agenda and is transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:55 PM
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People, at least some of them, have developed beyond just their base instincts. The base instincts of women are no better, if you want to judge in a moral/ethical way, than those of men. If you're making decisions primarily with your lizard brain, you're likely going to have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:37 PM
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With limited social skills you can include average guys around even "below average" (unconventionally attractive) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:28 PM
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I've had friends as a child, and as a younger teen to a lesser extent. I thought I might have had friends after that period, but those were mainly classmates, workmates, and closer acquaintances at best. At the age of my seriously developing interest in woman, friends were non existent, interest from girls/women even more so. When you are a 'late bloomer' on the bottom of the totem pole (or not even on the pole and off to the side), you're doubly fucked with the lack of friend, lack of good outc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:16 PM
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Wages for the middle class and below, when adjusted for inflation, have flatlined since the 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:36 AM
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On the generic version of Lexapro. Has had the side effect of delayed ejaculation for me (which is a mixed bag, but okay), but that might be it for sexual side effects. Not sure about side effects for libido since I'm out of shape, middle aged, and still depressed/numb to an extent - and not getting much sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:33 AM
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Fair? Life is far from fair. Fair is just a word very close in the dictionary, and in real life, to fairy tale. Another problem with the 80/20 reasoning is that if every guy improved a lot at the same time most would still be in that 80%. Being attracted to only men that are straight out of a Hallmark movie in looks and money is equivalent to men only being attracted to some super unrealistic looking and acting anime girl. You want to only be attracted to what your basest instinctual mind wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:24 PM
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They can be shallow on a lot more levels and call that depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:22 PM
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Maybe some black pillers mean "choose me" but I bet a lot of them think they won't be picked anyway and are just intellectually saying use common sense in your choices and not do everything completely by feel: If it seems to be too good to be true it probably is, If you're only getting the answers you want that should raise suspicion. Don't believe every line of bullshit. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:53 AM
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Problem with that happening is a large percentage of men who use the services of a prostitute are married. That usually isn't going to be admitted except anonymously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:04 PM
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Many men in their life would, at some point, have liked to turn girl/woman acquaintances/friends into more. It is very often that woman have men placed into the boxes of friend OR relationship or sexual with the two rarely meeting, very rarely for the average guy. So the starting point for men in developing a 'romantic' relationship is, how should I word this, a "non-friend" one. It has a different dynamic than the ones starting from a distant acquaintance along the way to friend. Also friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:37 PM
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If you think the average western man has any real power or anything in common with the elite that control things, I want some of what you're smoking. Also, just look up, read, and working on comprehending the term "apex fallacy".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:18 PM
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A woman who isn't overly picky about things having to be exactly a certain way. If you want to be a perfectionist, most of the time leave me out of whatever task then. A woman who "picks her fights" and isn't hard and set in all her opinions on every little thing that, that if she really thinks about it, matters only a very small amount to her. Compromise is well and good, but when most everything has to be a discussion/fight for a compromise becomes exhausting. Even when I don't really care tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:15 PM
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"kindness" or outward supposed politeness. Where the politeness is often just a thin layer of social formality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:47 AM
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You can get off it at any time lol, you just have to admit fault and take accountability. Think you have better odds of that type of woman giving a polar bear a full tooth flossing without incident.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:38 PM
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"not led to the outcomes we'd have liked" Immediate First thought to that is "Play stupid games, win stupid prizes". For the gender that seems to nitpick about words, phrasing, tone and intent, you sure don't practice what you preach. The tiniest bit of logic and forethought should have seen men's possible responses miles away. Shitting on men has moved from a light hobby to a pastime for all too many. Second thought regards "... fix your shit men!" - what makes you think your average man, for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:26 PM
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Because this is almost never a sincere honest good faith statement by them. It's their supposedly "polite" way of just saying they don't give a shit about him and it is not at all their concern or problem. Even if it somehow was, honest practical advice (if they have any to offer) won't be forthcoming from them. Most advice will come from a point of view of some guy she's already attracted to, to make things better for her. Even when it is a sincere reply it purposely misses all the other things…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:38 PM
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Yes, same here to a certain extent in my youth. Toss in an unhealthy amount naivete, lack of confidence, and eventually some self loathing into that mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:52 PM
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Agree. There is a difference between fuckbuddy (only mutual casual sex) and a FWB (FRIEND with benefits). But terminology and definitions are all over the place in this day and age; even when they start out strictly defined some groups spread and abuse them so that they are unrecognizable from what they once were.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:21 AM
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Depends. If the younger women isn't conventionally attractive and have average to below average experience and experiences themselves. I was behind the curve then and my 3 relationships in my late 20's to mid 30's were with women 7, 9, and 13 years younger. Two of those were connections with a younger guy friend/co-worker who was already acquainted with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:42 PM
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The start of your sentence partially answers your own question. One type of men that would go for and possibly be better suited for a younger woman is one who is in some ways the opposite of you - one who is behind in some of his stages in life. If a late 20's/early 30's man has little to no dating, relationship, and even social experience, he may have better luck and relate more with some younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:04 PM
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Bored? try some Candy Crush, the circus, a cult, turning tricks on a street corner, random drugs laced with fentanyl, play some Russian roulette. Got to be constantly entertained. Or better yet go on a quest to find that intelligence you say you have (or had).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 05:27 AM
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do a flip!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 05:20 AM
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Man (as in mankind) is a rationalizing animal not a rational animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:11 PM
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Hate? I don't think so. They don't notice, think of, or consider them much at all. If they do, it is often as a slightly defective flesh robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:22 PM
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Smart, if you can do it. Toss in not cohabitating and you've got a winner. Unless you want kids, what's the point of marriage, the positives outweighing the negatives, for men these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:13 PM
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If looks and makeup are now of secondary or little importance to me, and I've had a vasectomy and use condoms, are you now more attracted to and willing to have sex with average middle aged old me? Are you willing to change your preferences for the sake of equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:20 AM
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Yes, at least in my limited experience, you're going to have a bit more luck with younger women. You've likely already proved to yourself that those women very close to your age usually have zero interest in you. My three relationships from my later 20's/earlier 30's were women who were 7, 9, and 13 years younger. I wasn't a virgin by my mid 20's but was damn close to it with very little dating experience, none of it positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:41 PM
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Ideally, no. In this fantasy land, you are the bigger person who very quickly gets over the rejection and indifference they had from the opposite sex for a decade or more. Realistically, how can you not take it personally, at least for a while? That experience, at the more extreme ends of it, is going to be a big hit and leave some scars on your self esteem. It is a long period where you are likely both in your physical and socially available prime, along with being the horniest you'll ever be, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:56 AM
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"Do something to support women. Stand by women who are facing that, in the way that women stand by men." So, with many conditions attached, and only when we feel like, it doesn't give us the "ick", and it also directly benefits us?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/23 05:08 PM
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They are primarily appealing to the basest most animalistic non-thinking desires. Why would they not use a term, like "the tingles" that matches that energy? It is a force that is neither "bad" or "good" in of itself. They just don't try to pretend it is more than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:41 AM
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because they recognize it as a very shallow lizard brained desire and use a term like "the tingles" to match that. "butterflies" is too romanticized a word, implying some sort of love that isn't there, for such a base level lust. If you wanted true equality and to be just a vulgar we could have the woman's version of "thinking with your dick" and have "thinking with your twat (cunt, or whatever else)"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:39 AM
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As far as having physical attraction, I think the bar is lower on average for many men. They more often find some part(s) of most women they like, rather than having one small thing on a long checklist exclude someone. For the most part, it is the personality and how they act that will exclude women. I'm probably speaking more for men past their mid 20's (more life experience with less influence by peer pressure and testosterone) The interests don't have to be deep to share. A mutual like of cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:41 PM
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You're not going to get a intellectual fully rational and unemotional debate on a post that includes a teen girl's very recent death, nor should you expect to. There is a time and a place for this. That is definitely not the place for it, or for sure not for trolling either. That being said the boys that resort to real violence and murder are a very, very, very small percentage of boys/men. Much, much more common for those feelings to turn inward and if a life is taken it is the boy's or man's b…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/23 01:50 PM
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The women that are knowingly or unknowingly (or just think what they have is a relationship) with the same man as other women. Also depends on how they define what a relationship is. Just like the term 'friend' everyday definitions widely vary at what that actually is - especially between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:27 PM
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Hmmm. That's a tough one. Most things I can think of right away are major red flags and far from trivial. As far as the more trivial: long fingernails and having a septum ring are a major immediate turn offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:42 AM
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As an unremarkable guy, I fail to see the logic for my situation. Those I have cheated with were not as physically attractive as the wife. My ever first girlfriend was out of my league in looks; that's the only time it happened - where I wasn't paying for it directly. Even if for some reason I found someone better looking by society's standards, odds are that would both be a very rare occurrence and very short lived - much like any confidence boost I could possibly get. I have neither the looks,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:14 PM
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I think friends is overstating it, more like acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:03 PM
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Chubby, hell yes. Personally that's right in my usual wheelhouse and I much prefer chubby over stick thin. I suspect I'm a bit away from the norm of men in my general tastes for women. It also depends on where you divide the lines between chubby, overweight, obese, etc. In general, if the stomach is a lot more prominent than the T&A, the vast the majority of men will find that unattractive. I suspect those men that constantly work out or do other things on a very regular basis to stay in top sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:11 AM
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To paraphrase a Simon and Garfunkel lyric: "Still a woman hears what she wants to hear And disregards the rest"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:31 PM
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Given what you have pictured as "fat" 20 year olds, based entirely on physical attributes, I would be overjoyed to have sex with some woman looking like that. But my attraction has usually leaned more towards chubby girls in general. I'm in the same age range as the 50 year olds but wouldn't come close to being described as fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:01 PM
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No tats, nose piercings, or dyed hair??? These days with anyone my age or younger that would be unusual and above average. I'd be wary, because I know there are several catches hidden somewhere. The questions are what are the catches - will they effect me and do they matter much to me. No, her 'desperation' if anything increases her attractiveness. Any attraction towards me will automatically increase my attraction to her at least a bit. Take it while it lasts because odds are great her attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:54 PM
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I'd say in some ways it is like putting a Honda emblem on a Lamborghini that you can't sell - she's going to cost you as much as buying, insuring and maintaining a Lamborghini while she insists her rates are at a Honda level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/23 07:25 PM
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Have you considered the possibility of improving your social skills, emotional intelligence, and learning to project confidence a bit better? Good luck!" because you're going to need it, and don't expect much help with it. Contrary to advice from already sociably adept people, it is NOT easy. On top of that it's going to be a LOT of hard work with more disappointment and rejection along the way; expect a lot of failure along the way (and odds are you've had a lot of this already). If you're stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:42 PM
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Men saying things to make them look like they are obsessed with fucking often is because: A) they don't want to appear soft or like a "simp" or "nice guy" by talking of things connected with love B) sex is one thing that aren't getting. scarcity mentality. C) sex is more than the physical act to them - one of the ways to feel closer to a woman, one of the ways they get any form of touch, hopefully a mutual act of physically pleasing each other, etc. As far as the romance part, the top commenter …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:53 PM
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Ah yes, the bug eye sunglasses. Part of me can't believe that is still a trend, part of me figured some celebrity would have enlarged it to a modified helmet visor by now. When makeup no longer can hide all the fine (or not so fine) lines arounds the eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/23 04:34 PM
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I didn't read through all that - just woke up. I may be missing something is all that lies below the summary, but one thing jumped out to me at the top that is lacking. "Getting matches/dates and being complimented does in fact solve this, even if it doesn't lead to actual sex. If men got more matches and dates, they'd feel less lonely even of they remained single." What it is missing is the mention of the physical at all (and not just sex). In my experiences, talk is often worth the paper its p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:14 PM
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Clear fully defined definitions for terms? What if they want to change the definition to fit a different situation or even just how they feel? Can't have that. That would be forcibly holding them down (to a definition) Theirs is an Alice in Wonderland world: `When I use a word,' Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, `it means just what I choose it to mean--neither more nor less.'
/r/MensRights23/06/23 04:07 PM
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Weird. No problem for me (on laptop, Windows 10, using Edge). Sociologist is named Arlie Hochschild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:26 PM
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Here's one article showing what the sociologist who coined the term defined it as, and how the term had been bloated and abused to include many things (to become more of a buzzword like so many things have) since then: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/11/arlie-hochschild-housework-isnt-emotional-labor/576637/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:41 PM
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"Also, we won't also get your tubes tied (muh reproductive rights!), so feel free to get knocked up again and possibly repeat this"
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:30 PM
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Now if they had child abuser tattooed on their heads and were imprisoned in the general population of a maximum security jail is about the only time 1 year should possibly be considered.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:25 PM
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Obviously, he has feelings for you. Could in addition be touch starved AND unsuccessfully fighting those feelings. He may be intellectually aware of your lack of interest that way, but otherwise have something inside him pushing for more. You'll have to set hard boundaries on what you allow, and not take any thing over that line. If he can't accept that, you'll have to seriously consider ending your friendship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:39 PM
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“There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics.”
/r/MensRights13/06/23 02:44 PM
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I'm not sure about that. As the saying goes they lack both the depth and warmth.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:20 PM
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Maybe you hear "manipulative men" more than "manipulative women" because the latter is a given - to a point that the two words together are often redundant. On average, I know which sex I'd place my money on being more manipulative. I'm not saying some of the reasons for it aren't good ones but outright denying it would be laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:11 PM
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There are men who would impregnate a brick wall if they could figure out how to do it. ♫ Ow, she's a brick house ♫
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:26 PM
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I think the social stigma affects younger men (teens to early 20's) much more than older men. While older men may (or may not) take into consideration the judging of friends, family, and society at large, it becomes only that - a consideration, and often a very small one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:23 PM
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Personally, I am (and for as long as I can remember) more attracted to what you show as a "plus size woman" than a thinner woman. Give me chubby over rail thin any day and all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:28 AM
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Even if they were created there (and that is debatable) what do these boardroom of men have in common with the vast majority of men???? Of course corporate capitalism is exploiting the fact that most disposable income is spent on and/or by women. Creating insecurities to sell products is Marketing 101.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 04:52 PM
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"Even for well-meaning men, it's hard for them to understand what it's like to be placed below them on the social value hierarchy by design" The average man isn't all that high up on the social value hierarchy. The below average man is considered in all to many ways worthless. Plus, there is only so much room at the top. Those at the top are a very, very, very, very, small number of men. They sure as hell don't represent men in general, and their concerns about men in general are close to nil. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:24 PM
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"not because she doesn't love you" + "a woman doesn't want her man to cheat or use porn, even in such a scenario?" doesn't add up. Sounds like this "love" is more opportunistic than idealistic. First, use porn??? If she thinks porn is in some way cheating, at best, she's got a lot bigger issues going on. Second, if she truly loves me and is no longer physically able to have sex with me she should love me enough for us to come to some sort of arrangement of me having sex with someone else. Unreas…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:08 PM
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Both are interested in me? Physically interested in me and actually desire to show it in physical ways? What strange Bizarro universe have I been transported into? Have I gendered flipped and increased my physically appearance and personality traits many-fold? I'd like to think I'd go for Person #2. For Person #2, if I and/or and society at large consider them average looking odds are very high that I would find things I am physically attracted to in them. My standards and the emphasis I place o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:50 AM
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Good point. I find that women also value boldness and directness. They are related to authenticity, but yeah, not the same. I do think indirectness is eventually interpreted as inauthenticity or even dishonesty by women or as a lack of masculinity and a feminine trait that only women should have, since indirectness is all too often in their wheelhouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:34 PM
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All of Reddit? That's the least of where it is. It is saturated in everyday news, "news" and entertainment, social media, mainstream media, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 03:50 PM
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Boys with unusual tastes very often will hide their preferences. When we get out of the boy/very young men stage, I strongly suspect this drops off to a great degree. The peer pressure becomes much less of a factor with the men. Now with women, that peer pressure is all too often still a big influence and consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:10 PM
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I think this is also true of junior high/high school boys, but that generally ends or at least tapers down when they are young men. They might care what their peers or so called friends think of her and what she looks like then, but guys generally grow out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:06 PM
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Possibly. I might be the exception or there might be large minority that were in sports/clubs in high school but much of high school had few to no friends and a severe lack of any positive reaction from girls/women. I was on the indoor and outdoor soccer team, ski team, and hockey team (the ski team might have been co-ed but the others were the 'boys team') but has zero success in dating in high school and was near the very bottom in the 'social hierarchy' there - when I was noticed in that rega…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:53 PM
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Like and care doesn't necessarily be wanting to be tied down to a track for a life long commitment in a legal and very binding way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:30 PM
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and plenty of married couples no longer have sex with each other. Many no longer even touch each other. They are more roommates without benefits and more restrictive. No does or will love me, certainly not more than anything in the world. This sounds like a fantasy world almost as improbable as the some members of the opposite sex having a strong sexual attraction to me and acting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:27 AM
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and if you have all these good social connections and are socially adept odds are you don't have much problem, in comparison, getting either sex OR an intimate relationship. So it's not a really worry or concern of yours. For all too many guys though they aren't getting much in the way of sex OR relationships. If you think that is easy you're obviously living in a completely different world from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:24 PM
1

"If I look at a 40y/o man who has been in a committed marriage for 10-20 years, vs a 40y/o man who has no SO, but gets laid a lot, I know who’d I rather be." Me too, I'd rather be the second one. Much better than being stuck in a long term and now deadbedroom marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:06 PM
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If only it was seen as an annoying chore she has to perform; it is much worse than that. At least with an annoying chore there is some possibility she would put some real effort into getting it done properly, or happily subcontract the job to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:06 PM
5

Kissing, in relation to sex, shows that you are at least physically attracted enough to have some physical contact with him. It can give some indication of whether or not you meet a certain threshold of attractiveness from her - either just in the act itself, or in her reaction to the kissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:58 PM
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No, no they are not. They just spread that shallowness into other areas besides just looks.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:09 PM
1

I'm sure an acknowledgement would be that much of a positive. Now, if they didn't usually frame woman's basic instinctual nature as by default "good" and men's as by default "bad" that would be something. If more women outright acknowledged their own shallowness (towards looks and otherwise) that would be a refreshing change. A little less actions that lean strongly towards "plausible deniability" and more direct action would be a huge surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:03 PM
1

My "hairstyle", such as it is, consists of me using a 3/8" or 1/4" clipper all over my head. Likely not bad for my face/features but very likely far from ideal. Partially for convenience and laziness (no need to brush my hair), and partly because of my oily hair giving me greater possibility of breakouts on my head when hair is longer. Since I rarely "go out" anymore, my everyday wardrobe is usually dull and uninspiring, sometimes sloppy, and sometimes obnoxious (t-shirts with sayings). If I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:52 PM
1

And I'm guessing you consider kissing is more into the sexual category than the physical affection category ???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:20 AM
1

It's one thing to not be comfortable with sex after a few dates, it's another not to be comfortable with any physical affection. I'd assume a large degree of disinterest on your part by them. I'm guessing where ever you are must be radically different socially compared to North America. If you want to get to know the man first, has every male friend or close acquaintance already been disqualified?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:22 AM
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The thought of it becoming sexual is out of the question? That's a step too far to seriously consider. Unless the guy is head over heels for someone, and the feeling is returned, the odds he's going to have at least thoughts about a woman he finds attractive are very good. If it is a friend who he really likes as a person even more so, not less so. If he's one of the "top tier" guys who always has lots of choices for women, I can't say about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:04 PM
1

#1 and it is not even close. Big part of that is a woman in some way showing she's attracted to and into me raises her attractiveness to me by several points.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:43 PM
2

Woman who reply "just go get a prostitute" I suspect are often just dumping that phrase as a "nice" way to tell the guy to fuck off or just crawl in a hole and die. They give less than a rat's ass about him; they don't even think of him as human. They know sex means more than just the sexual act to guys but will pretend it doesn't and play their little word games just for the hell of it. If he spells out every aspect of what it means to him they will just nit pic that and/or offer advice that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:44 AM
4

If you took out the abusive and violent, I'd likely go for it. In fact relatively recently I have gone for it when an unattractive, not really mentally stable woman made clear sex was available. If you're trying to make close to a fair comparison I think you're going a bit too extreme. You're going to get a percentage of women who are attracted (not barely tolerating - really viscerally attracted) to those kind of awful men. The extremely abusive, mentally unstable, violent parts are a turn on f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:22 PM
1

Here's a basic start if he's right off the bat telling you what you want to hear exactly the way you want to hear, he's likely full of shit. Think of when you're buying something - when the advertising pitch is too good to be true ... If you get a wide-on for the attractive guy with the good (or not so good) lines, use your head a little bit "and you're good". Being young, inexperienced, and naive is a problem just as much for the young guy as the young gal. When you're beyond that stage you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:09 PM
1

Not necessarily. This past summer I was doing some local research and located the gravesite of the person I was researching with the help of the cemetery, no headstone for him. Well most sites had headstone there was plenty of other unmarked site there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:46 PM
1

I'd be saying more for the average and below average guy not only are ONS rare, but relationships are. More likely for her to not want more than a ONS and for her to break off the relationship early on for any of number of stated and unstated reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:53 PM
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Both are less common: the one night stand, and the relationships. I think more of the former occur in comparison of straight numbers. So, a scarcity for both while being young and inexperienced may cause you to likely put up with a lot more than you should and make some less than ideal decisions - some that may be life changing with unforeseen, to you, consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:59 PM
3

I'd say most men can't expect a high or medium probability of sex by going out. More of a long shot. Odds are strongly against it, but sometimes your number on the roulette wheel comes up. You might judge it worth the effort when you're a younger hornier guy, especially if you have lots of free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:26 PM
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The #2 one reminds me of an old saying that goes something like this: "Fat chicks are like mopeds - They're fun to ride until your friends see you" Likely more of a thing with younger guys. Often older guys go with their preferences and care little for their friend's opinions are in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:18 PM
1

Part of it is everyone has some ulterior motives. This isn't saying just because they are ulterior they are automatically against you, some work in your favour but the majority don't. Women, whatever their rationale, have developed in recent times more of a reputation for increasing their hiding or distorting of these motives. The "watch what women do, not what they say" saying has become common place for a reason. I try to take most things of somewhat importance with a grain of salt, sometimes …
/r/MensRights24/03/23 04:15 PM
1

At least two problems with that just off the top of my head. Those women on social assistance that are getting paid for popping out yet another unit. Could be the cash, could be the "unconditional love" from a baby, could be those or something else. Even if she has generic problems, that all too often won't slow her down or stop her. Excluding that, there is always the point that women will always want the top men. Doesn't matter if you're more attractive than 95% of men from hundreds of years a…
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 09:49 PM
11

Only way you're going to get men in general to change to become "good people" and be more concerned with "inner beauty/personality" and more of the morally upright things is to have most women to reward that behaviour and characteristics early on instead of rewarding the opposite (whatever in the moment naturally "feels good" instead of what is good). If you think swipe apps are designed more for dating/relationships and not more for "hooking up" (and ultimately on a bigger level for failure for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:30 AM
9

The mainstream media news has long veered away from investigative journalism. The corporate powers that be just give them a script and they vomit it, I suspect often word for word, up on the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:07 PM
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... or even ego stroking
/r/MensRights08/03/23 10:03 PM
1

So the courts value housework so much, does she now have to clean and do housework in his house/apartment for the rest of his life? Quid pro quo, Clarice. If not, he's not getting the "lifestyle to which he has become accustomed" while paying everyone involved a "pension". Funny how housework in the past is valued but not considered for the future - after they have divorced.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 09:55 PM
0

For most of my life so far I was and voted far left politically. Watching the right in my country I haven't seen them be any more fiscally reliable than the left for most of my voting life - they just end up tossing our money to their corporate cronies instead. They always talk a good game but they never walk the walk. If the current leaders choices federally for me stay the same for the next election, I might be voting for someone on the right for the first time ever.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 06:57 PM
2

The only 3 relationships I had were with women 7-13 years younger. There was zero interest from my peers in my teens and early 20's and I didn't see that trend ending anytime soon. Being in my mid-50's, I couldn't imagine any sort of serious relationship with anyone in their 20's at this stage of my life; I certainly couldn't see them being interested in my at all anyway. Settling? Almost everything I have and will experience in my life is loaded with compromises. Ideals and near ideals are and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:54 PM
3

Part of it is likely the different definitions of "friends" being used. More often than not these case would qualify, for me, more closely to casual acquaintances than friends. I doubt that in many of these cases they were close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:57 PM
1

Do average/below average men need to avoid it? The more extreme behaviour, sure. The more innocent and innocuous behaviour I'd generally wouldn't worry about the overreactive (and especially those actively trolling for a reaction) getting their panties in a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:38 AM
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If she was in philosophy should have asked her "If a man dies in a forest, and his body isn't found, did he really die?" or if a woman didn't die with him did anyone die? Have her try reversing "men" and "women" in her statements, speak it out loud, and see how much she likes the sound of that. Did she study really hard to become that oblivious and stupid or did it just come naturally to her?
/r/MensRights14/02/23 09:18 PM
1

Being courteous is just simply stating they are not interested. Making up some bullshit reason is neither courteous nor polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:50 PM
1

If she no longer could have sex, the immoral and reprehensible thing would be her not wanting him to have sex ever again. If she was a decent loving person she would encourage him to have sex, in some agreed on manner, with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:40 PM
10

That six months wasn't her "saving herself" for passionate unrestricted sex once they tied the knot. That six months is the best sex he'll get out of her, and I bet it to him a lot of work to get what little he did. Better get him to sign up for a lifetime of even less than that. She'll get someone her friends and family approve of, a status boost, financial security for life, and he'll get ... What is he getting again? Oh, yes someone that will reluctantly have duty sex with him - until she's d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 11:42 PM
7

Just find another "strong, independent women" who fucked up in the same as you and move in together. Good luck on finding her and getting her to come to a real mutually beneficial agreement that will be full of compromises - especially if she has your mindset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/23 10:56 PM
2

"People who start as friends often end up dating" Doubt it. If the man is an acquaintance, sure that is possible. If it has gone on long enough to be considered friends he's likely lost his window of opportunity (where there is a slim chance she would have considered more) - at least for an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:14 PM
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I felt my IQ dropping each second I listened to this. Maybe in several decades time she will look back at her journals of tho(ugh)ts to try to figure out where she went wrong. She'll come to the wrong conclusions, of course, but at least she'll have plenty to read when she's annoyed every single person out of her life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/23 08:26 PM
1

Much more likely is some bullshit claim to HR that could have you fired and possibly blacklisted. Fucking up your livelihood IS a giant deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:44 AM
6

A wide variety of groups/pills of men and some groups of women have at least some disparaging views on feminism, at least as how it is commonly talked of and practiced in the 21st century. When I was much younger, naive, more socially inept, and celibate - certainly not by choice, you could have thrown me in the black and blue pills (appropriately enough in more ways than one) if "pills" existed back then. Was far left leaning - especially if you're using American political and social standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:29 PM
6

If she tries real hard and perfects her skills maybe she can be a "biker bitch" for an aging motorcycle gang.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/23 02:43 AM
1

Looking back any female friends I had when younger, I'd now classify them as acquaintances or close acquaintances. None of them helped in any way actively or inactively to help me get laid or enter a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:12 PM
1

Ah, that bring to mind another point. In divorce, if he's the main breadwinner and she's mainly the homemaker, why should she be getting alimony and not coming over to cook and clean his place? That's the "lifestyle for which HE has become accustomed"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:29 PM
2

SOL is on of the few acronyms I immediately recognize (it's an oldy) - Shit Out of Luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:34 PM
3

A sublime, sexy surprise? or in my personal experiences: small subset of a statistical anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:31 PM
2

Children at my age? Why don't you just throw a drowning man an anvil? Never wanted them and besides I no longer have the patience and energy. I'm mostly just coping day-to-day, week-to-week. Getting my fleeting moments of joy in every so often. I'll leave behind a decaying corpse or some ashes. Not many give much of a shit now, can't see why it would be any better when I'm dead - especially if I outlive my parents. Maybe some false bullshit will be said at a funeral or a "celebration of life"; w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:21 PM
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alimony (aka spousal support) and child support are two completely different things. tossing kids into the equation changes everything. if you want to talk about just alimony just go with a pure alimony post and not muddy the waters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:14 AM
1

Modern conditions have deteriorated largely because corporate capitalism continually attempts and eventually succeeds to claw back any advantages gained. Also, most men don't have any more power than most women. If you want to rail at men for not rebelling against the system, you are missing another gender that is just as much to blame for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:08 PM
5

We all choose how we feel - maybe, somewhat. We do all choose how we react.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:17 PM
7

You could fit all the football fields in Texas lined up end to end between "her truth" and the truth.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 02:47 AM
22

Nothing like "burying the lead" with her little toss away sentence near the end mentioning her kid. It is like you're making out with a woman, you're led to the bedroom, starting to get undressed, and she mentions "Oh yeah, did I tell you I have herpes? How do you like my lingerie? Do you think it is the right colour for me? ... Where are you going???!!!!" Here's one thing to consider lady - compromise. I'm sure you deal with it raising a kid and in your day-to-day relationships. Inconceivable i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 12:44 PM
10

"What's the problem? It's me? or I ..." She went past that "It's me" at warp speed. I'd say it was word salad but it is more like a piece of lettuce fell from the salad she was eating while walking in the street. Considering stopping to pick it up wasn't even a thought; too disgusting to contemplate and in her eyes not worth it. "Maybe I should be less clever or less beautiful to have a boyfriend?" English isn't your first language so here's a hint: I think the words you are looking for are less…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 10:55 PM
1

Surprisingly no one has replied with the obvious: I would call you a cunt, but you lack both the depth and warmth.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/22 02:56 AM
2

One in my city. Run by a great guy who goes above and beyond. Fitness related also. Underground Gym & Youth Centre - provides free activities and meals for youth. https://undergroundgym.ca/
/r/MensRights01/11/22 05:57 PM
1

You had me in the first six words, then you lost me.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/10/22 03:40 AM
1

10/25 targeted troll storms were quality ones from wonderful people they want to hear from.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:52 AM
3

I'm going to guess he is using DD to refer to due diligence but could be almost anything. Complete words and sentences are becoming a rarity, and more and more we're flooded with every "flavour of the week" acronym and short form.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:20 AM
2

Wouldn't say I'm Redpill, but as I have become older and had more experience and became married, I have a lot more empathy and understanding for my dad. As a child I leaned in far to taking her side by default. After teen and young adult experiences I can certainly say I'm not blue pill (or certainly try not to be). The rose coloured glasses on the so called "fairer sex" are long gone. She's definitely not like other women of my era or younger. By some definitions on the very tale end of the Sil…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:51 PM
17

The jester is not just being funny or having a sense of humour. Her wanting a jester is her wanting to just sit back and have someone constantly entertain her. Dance monkey dance.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:21 PM
1

Suspect it isn't. No effort put forward in being mean; just comes by it naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:25 PM
1

Think most everything I can think of has been addressed - at several angles. One thing that hasn't yet is the masculine looking woman as a type for gay women. If she is emphasizing her masculine look in dress, hair, etc., and he doesn't know her, there is a strong possibility he might think she is gay. While many men have no problem with that for an acquaintance or friend some do. Also, there would be zero chance of anything developing romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:05 PM
12

Is that really her best photo or did someone crank up the thermostat in a wax museum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/22 09:28 PM
5

I have read "The Boy Crisis" but my introduction to Farrell was a couple of his previous books: "The Myth of Male Power" and "Why Men Are the Way They Are". That along with a book called "Not Guilty: The Case in Defense of Men" (aka "Not Guilty: In Defence of the Modern Man") by David Thomas were the first three books in my introduction to books on men's issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/22 12:55 AM
1

You better work extra hard to avoid a lot of the ever-present advertising then. Not just for women as sex objects, but also showing grown men as mostly just incompetent idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:16 AM
1

Dating, as in dating towards looking for some sort of relationship, is very often miles away from a hookup. A hookup could lead towards dating but that isn't necessarily the goal or sometimes realistically a possibility. Things that you'll dismiss or put up with for a hookup are sometimes things that you couldn't live with in a relationship where you're eventually with and around her constantly. It could be looks but more often it is something in her personality/attitude/habits or lifestyle. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:46 AM
6

She didn't ace that one. Game, set and match with her getting contact with a lot of fuzzy balls that were returned after service.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 08:31 PM
9

Settling down was "... the final frontier" after decades of missions on the USS She-ain't-no-prize NC-17-to-XXX
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 08:26 PM
2

If he seems too good to be true, he likely is. If he's giving you all the right answers, in a smooth way, the same applies. I can listen to certain guys talk and my bullshit meter goes off the charts in seconds. If he's charming/attractive enough, enough gals either disregard theirs or it takes bullshit to the nth degree to offset the attraction and get that needle moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:00 PM
0

Spousal support aka alimony laws are different in different countries and jurisdictions. If you're the main breadwinner and near a couple decades into a marriage you could be on the hook for life. If your marriage has developed into a deadbedroom, and she's made it clear that she won't accept an open marriage, there ain't much else left.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:14 AM
1

You can be her acquaintance, maybe even a closer acquaintance but generally a woman isn't interested in her guy friends in that way. If the relationship has developed long and deep enough to be considered a friend, she generally won't be interested in him being any more than a friend - if he hasn't made an obvious blatant move by that point he's out of the running. Either she isn't physically attracted enough to have him as more than a friend and/or doesn't want to risk making the friendship awk…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:00 AM
3

Had forgotten about that movie; LONG time since I've seen it. Your wording reminded me of the Monty Python 'Spanish Inquisition' bit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/22 03:13 PM
4

Nothing contrary there. I'm sure she thinks men don't qualify as people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 08:44 PM
6

If this was true, a true Friends with Benefits would be common instead of the rarity it is for the average guy. You're average guy isn't going to get a relationship through a female friendship; if he doesn't make some sort of "romantic" interest early he's almost always put in the "friends only" box - never to get out. I think part of the problem is how men and women in general have different definitions of what a friend is. Women may turn male acquaintance into relationship members, friends not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:10 PM
1

Likely she'd have one less finger also.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/22 10:05 PM
2

Is there now some process out that makes your cremated ashes into diamonds? Only way she's getting any diamond is if she gets a large enough insurance policy and has a clause in her will for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/22 10:04 PM
2

If she was, she would have been of some use - you could have rested your drink on her head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/22 09:58 PM
13

Yes, yes it is. Just tying using some rational thought to mitigate the "women are wonderful" effect. Plenty of men whose looks would qualify as good. As far as the number of women that look (never mind act) as high as the category of beautiful, they are few.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 03:52 PM
1

E - Male
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:32 PM
1

Until paternity tests become mandatory after every birth there is no point in saying "their (sp) is such thing" I have many flaws but I'm not one of the guys obsessing over n counts. The only time I would care is indirectly - when by her having that lifestyle for a long length of time has affected her ability to have a somewhat healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:17 PM
2

I wouldn't say 30+, maybe as a guess 40+ or so, there are those women that don't lower their standards (in fact likely up them) for a man for a relationship, and just do things more things with their female friends and often own several pets. Their interest in sex is very conditional when it exists at all. Casual sex or FWB for the most part aren't considered. They might make many social media posts where they bemoan they are lonely and don't have a man AND also make posts about how they don't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:00 PM
1

Fair is just a word in the dictionary between fable and fairy tale. Fair in modern dating or "dating" for the average man is even more mythical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:55 PM
1

Middle aged guy here. Don't watch that much porn anymore; once in a blue moon look for clips of certain genres. Not really into the more commercial looking porn. Just like erotic stories there is as LOT of crap out there no matter the category/genre. When younger did rent porn on VHS and then DVD as well as buy magazines. Guess my start with erotica predates the internet (and likely VHS) and with magazines like Penthouse Letters and things similar. In much more recent times have read manga/henta…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:35 AM
2

If he's making the lion's share of the money and been married a long time, depending on the jurisdiction, he could be on the hook for spousal support (aka alimony) for LIFE. If children are involved this just raises the problems (financial and otherwise) exponentially. If it was only losing half of current marital assets, that would be a deal many men would take. Support two households when you can just support one would be crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:37 AM
9

Exactly. A friend of a friend when I first met him I talked to him for 10 seconds - was more than enough to tell while he might have a "good line of bullshit", it was obvious that he was full of shit. If someone is giving you the answers you want in a smooth way don't alarm bells go off in your head? Double the bells if this person is well above average physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:50 PM
2

While it is not hard to not be a piece of shit for many, you failed miserably (in both contexts) with your profile. If you want to hate rage do it with a bitch fest with your girlfriends not on a dating or "dating" ad. Condense the "Describe yourself?" so called answer and just say angry bitch. Looking for something casual but doesn't want hookups ... hmmm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/22 05:44 PM
2

Both a head strong woman and empathetic ... sure she is. Now there's a common combo. Only way the empathetic part is true is if her name is Emily and goes by 'Em'; we already know she has the pathetic down pat. An old soul?? with a second child newly in the works and not with either father??? Either her old soul must have had its memory wiped clean by electroshock or there was a major factory defect. Or just maybe she transplanting it to herself from one of her patients; if so, her life choices …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/22 01:59 AM
1

I certainly hope so. We sure don't want to see that invasive species infecting the rest of the world.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/22 05:16 PM
26

Oh lady, I already know you are a high level of rank.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/22 05:13 PM
4

Part of this is not necessarily the lowering of standards, just realizing on whatever laundry list of "standards" you have are truly important to you for a long term relationship. Also realizing what habits and reactions are to damage from things that happened as a teenager/young adult. In addition there is this Mark Twain quote: “We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it and stop there lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid. She will never…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:35 PM
3

Approached by a beautiful woman? Likely figure she's trying to sell me something, trying to get something out of me, or playing some sort of game (last one especially if she's young). I'd apprehensively play along for a while to see how things pans out. Only strange women approaching me are the ones downtown panhandling for money and/or smokes. Less common - similar women may approach me in a dive bar for similar reasons (buy them drinks or whatever). If an around average woman approached me I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:42 AM
3

The ones pumping out the most kids are the ones who are getting government money to do so. If that well ever dries up you can bet your ass they won't be having that many kids - or at least be allowed to keep that many kids that can't financially care for on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:44 AM
8

Good social life and a few hookups a year? First, not sure if a truly average young man has a social life that would be rated as high as good. Second, if he has a good social life only a few hookups a year? After how many situations and attempts? That's what the main problem is - the amount of work and failure for very few successes. I don't think many of them are actually saying it isn't possibly, just it isn't very much of a likelihood each time you go out. At some point, even with hormones at…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:09 AM
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Then there are those that look like they are trying to resemble a graffiti laden wall. Plenty of low quality tattoos randomly thrown on with zero theme or coherency. As much forethought, prudence and wisdom in tattoo selection as they have in other major potentially life changing decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/22 01:42 PM
1

Had one early in a marriage so we wouldn't have any kids. Saw no appeal to having kids - the cost, the responsibilities, plus constantly dealing with the demands of a kid in general. I'd think it would benefit both parties about the same. If you're in a relationship where you don't want any or more kids, it is the less invasive operation for that (benefits the woman who doesn't now have to get her tubes tied, and both for knocking the probability of children down a whole lot). For those guys out…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:55 PM
2

Logically you are significantly reducing the risk of an unwanted pregnancy, but that bonus doesn't move the needle at all on the "feels" level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:36 PM
3

not REAL feminism!!!! Which argumentative club should we use on men today? Hmm. what do you suggest? Pulls out the tried and true old "no true Scotsman" fallacy. Get a lot of yardage with that one with the bonus that it is par for the course.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:23 PM
2

It is right there in the name. FEMinism. FEMale. Certain groups pushed to name change job titles, terms, and even objects to things more gender neutral; others to change the name of how you refer to some oppressed ethnicity over the decades. The ones in those groups that are self described Feminists certainly seem dead set against changing the name of Feminism. Easy to see what their true objectives are. Now I suppose you could make a case for keeping the term when applying it to conditions in t…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:06 PM
5

Woman: "I am not like other women" Man: "So you must know what you want to eat then"
/r/MensRights23/06/22 06:48 PM
1

Maybe a little surprised immediately, but less so thinking about it for a few seconds. I'm making the guess that the gender studies courses included a bit or more of the "you go girl!" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:36 AM
1

Standards are probably below average. Average to overweight to a bit obese woman is good. Stick thin or a SSBBW not so much. Age range quite wide open - from about a decade and a half younger to a decade older (I'm a middle aged guy); what little interest I get almost certainly won't be from the extreme end of this in either direction. Showing a bit of attraction and being friendly gains you many points in attractiveness. Showing a lot of attraction would likely at least temporarily drop most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:43 PM
1

I think part of this is a misunderstanding of what women refer to as friends and men consider friends are often two different things. When some women say they began as friends to whoever they are seeing, often it is more just casual acquaintances that quickly became more. From my limited experience and observations any guy that has crossed the line into being considered a true friend and hasn't made any 'romantic' gestures early on is generally screwed (and not in a good way) on that front. Sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:16 AM
6

Not in the Western world, or at least not in the United States and Canada. That historical trend is now running in the opposite direction https://www.artofmanliness.com/character/behavior/the-decline-of-male-space/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:56 AM
1

As a different older guy: What what I've seen, some really do enjoy the thrill of the hunt. Even the ones that aren't particularly skilled at it. There are even some who still like throwing the coins of time, money, effort in that slot machine even when the payouts are rare and always less than what you've put in. To even further mix metaphors, at this point give me a "fish in a barrel" any day. While the liking women has some validity, in my experiences the physical affection can all too often …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:46 PM
3

“We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it and stop there lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid. She will never sit down on a hot stove lid again and that is well but also she will never sit down on a cold one anymore.” ― Mark Twain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:05 PM
1

Not in the case you describe, but in other cases the man may be looking for a fellow affair partner. The lack of a profile photo could sometimes be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:06 PM
3

I pretty sure I can guess "how the sausage gets made" as far as how Reddit is run (or isn't run) from the top. Sad, but not surprising, to see how they've run things in the wrong direction and are looking to make the mods feel like the main character in a Kafka novel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/22 09:23 PM
3

A FWB for a most men might as well be a mythical creature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:14 PM
1

They can smell it on incels but not on chad. Is it his flowery prose (or perhaps looks and arrogance) that is overpowering the obvious stink of bullshit underneath? Great looks and a mediocre line of bullshit can go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:09 PM
3

If she really cares about me she should be willing to show it - physically. The actually sex part I'm willing to wait a while, but if she is playing coy or some other game, has physical touch way down on her "love languages", or isn't that physically attracted to me - and hopes in some way it might grow (ha!), I'd rather have a hard no from her off the bat than her stringing me along for attention whoring or some sort of junior high level dating games, or whatever other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:16 PM
7

"I'm not here to talk for a couple weeks, hook up, and then get ghosted" The right (read the guys she's bitching about) guy can move the talking down to a couple seconds. When she knows not of what she speaks, her mouth is much better used for ...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 10:04 PM
3

Quite a subset she's narrowed herself down to - those who will accept her looks, her attitude/racism, and presumably already have herpes. Even those guys that have a room temperature IQ, and are desperate, generally still have enough wisdom to avoid those that outright declare they have herpes. I suppose some of those guys with an incurable disease without long to live and live in her area might think about it for a second or two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 08:48 PM
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The photo and her words say it all - She's an ass, and her ass is all she has to offer. She's "fucking OVER men" - let's see how long until she's under the next fuckboi she meets. Think we'll only need a stopwatch and not a calendar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/22 10:50 PM
2

but she needs that state intervention for another cheque for another kid paying her way - especially if she couldn't guess who her kids' fathers are if someone gathered together in one large room all the prisoners, cons, and all the assorted ne'er do wells in a 100 mile radius. She might get a giant wideon for the "cream of the crap" in that room, but her bedroom is a revolving door of all these "exciting" guys and between the drugs and just sheer numbers how can keep she keep track, or remember…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/22 12:52 AM
1

Practically for me as an unhappily married middle aged guy - blackpilled to a great extent. If you want a percentage number, I'd guess 80 to 85%. Any sexual life I have left will likely be me paying by the hour. Online "dating" was almost entirely a waste of time (especially with my looks/age/personality/marital situation) and effort pre-COVID and I can waste my time online and otherwise doing more enjoyable things (like beating my head against a wall) Theoretically I see more red pill than blue…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:13 AM
3

I'm guessing either some sort of online college, a cosmetology or similar college, or perhaps her community college is offering a GED course (which she is failing ... badly) She's looking for "a sd a REAL one". I'm guessing in this case sd stands for sexual disease, and a real one is one that can't be cured by a prescription. If she's trying to get her shit together she's got a long road ahead, and she's heading in the wrong direction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/22 12:49 PM
2

Good point. The other guy just decided to cum and go. I lacked the ability to see you as you truly are and foolishly got into a relationship with you. I have found the error in myself and rectified that kind of thinking. Sorry I didn't realize it much sooner. I'm now a much, much better man without you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 02:16 AM
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"I have a double chin. Get over it." I only have a grappling hook. Going to need some ropes, harness, and other equipment. Men have died on less challenging mountains. Wish me luck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 02:08 AM
2

I'm smitten. A scarce genteel lady of good breeding with such a coquettish expression. Fine garb to equal her expression and compliment her physical attributes in such a classic and timeless fashion. A refined discerning palate that will only appreciates the most sophisticated in drink. I would endeavor to attempt to win her affection through love letters in the post, but regrettably lacking the requested Brobdingnagian stature prevents me from such a cause. Alas, my heart weeps with such deep l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/22 02:06 AM
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Neck tats win your heart? So you're looking for someone that has made life choices as poor as yours? Willing to take on you and your baby is a next level poor choice. Was wondering what that weirdly coloured ratty scarf was doing around her neck. Thought that was a weird fashion choice with the dress and boots, and then I realized that was her hair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 03:23 PM
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don't have time and resources for meaningless connections. I need someone I can TRU$$$$T, RELY ON, feel $$$$$$$$AFE with. ... someone I can lock down for life in a legal and binding way. She better have HUUUUGE ... tracts of land.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 10:59 PM
1

Slightly better that is private vs truly gone; truly gone would have more regulars of that place participating more often in subreddits like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:24 AM
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Now if she had the hookup part in the same sentence as the fish at least it would be slightly amusing (and show even if she doesn't have sense, she has some semblance of a sense of humor). How is disrespectfully swiping left going to appear any different than just swiping left? Does she have a designer smartphone that mimics a rotary phone so she can slam down the receiver? Less attitude and gut pic needed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 11:59 PM
3

"Hey Chad, do you mind if I call you Steam tonight?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 11:47 PM
1

Does the situation really make much of a difference (other than meeting logistics) if she has kids or not? and I'll go WAY against the grain here and depending on the marital situation it is very possible that it isn't all that wrong. Is my moral compass broken? No, but it has been beat up and bent in certain ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:11 AM
1

As long as you want those 3 things (love, husband, kids) in that order and in that order of priority you should be fine. Just don't push the kids and marriage too much early on. Even guys that (think) they are soon ready for and want marriage and kids want a girlfriend first. If you make it seem like your main priorities are to rush into a marriage and pop out some kids that will drive every guy off. Desperation isn't attractive in either sex. Also, I know it's a crazy idea, but men like to at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:30 PM
1

Actual runway models often appeal more to women and certain gay men than heterosexual men. Often stick thin, sometimes with unconventional faces. Now if you used something like Sports Illustrated swim suit model I think that would be closer to the tastes of the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:52 PM
2

and actually starving after being with that one partner long term because the wife has decided to essentially "close up shop"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:43 PM
1

She should have done a lot more thinking and unbiased research before putting out #5. If she had a clue what women and society at large actually treat the average man like. She wouldn't wish that on her worst female enemy.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 09:19 PM
6

but it was a romantic walk to get behind the dumpster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 08:39 PM
5

From her profile I was thinking lobotomy patient who had someone photoshop out the scars.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 11:29 PM
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"Everyone is having fun, getting fucked up, and hooking up I'd only notice hot people." When they say a high percentage of men are invisible to women they ain't kidding. Most guys are only wishing they are "hooking up" regularly at a night club; it's a low percentage quest at best. This "low hanging fruit" is all too often still out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:06 AM
1

Oh yes, extremely more likely to be homeless along with all the health issues that come with that. Never mind the addiction problems and mental health problems. When it comes to social safety nets it is women and children first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:17 PM
10

As opposed to all the privileges lower class men get ???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:57 PM
7

While women on average live longer, the retirement age for men is higher. Can't you see the logic /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:51 PM
1

How the term is being used for too often is quite far (and I wouldn't be surprised if it spread even further - to become a completely meaningless buzzword) from its original more precise narrowly defined meaning. https://www.refinery29.com/en-ca/2021/02/10307238/what-is-emotional-labor-definition https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/11/arlie-hochschild-housework-isnt-emotional-labor/576637/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:24 PM
2

Do you think it is slightly right leaning on the average of developed/industrialized nations or slightly right on the United States political landscape?
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:15 PM
5

"Hate saying good morning all the time. Hate people that don't respond to messages." So? Don't text in the morning - problem solved. Looking for travel partner? Funny how travelling shoots way down on their priorities when it is on their own dime. That seems to rank near the top of most common interests on the majority of women's profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 10:35 PM
6

I think some of them are working with Celsius room temperature IQ.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 10:28 PM
10

Not up on all the psychology terms, but cluster B sounds like a combination of Cardi B & cluster fuck (as redundant as that sounds).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/22 10:24 PM
3

If you're in a situation where you can afford it and can find a local or at least regularly returning escort to your area, I'd say go for it. Depending on what you're looking for finding the right one may take a bit of work (if doing it online find a review or recommendation site that is half decent for your area). In my limited experiences finding one that is open to a variety of sexual acts looks to be easier than finding one that will give a true GFE (Girl Friend Experience). I've seen one a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:45 PM
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She supposedly did "those things" repeatedly for validation, but she isn't willing to validate or explore sexually with him. Since he isn't an 'exciting bad boy' those are off the table. Wouldn't want him expanding his sexual horizons with her as a loving teacher; that would be "emotional labor" or some other such clap trap. Besides if she did it once she would have likely have to do it again ... and without "the tingles" ... the horror! If he gained sexual experience and some confidence her cas…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 01:30 PM
6

The potential mother-in-laws won't have to live with you, pay for your travel and upkeep, or really care if you're taking off who knows where all the time to do who knows what. Sure you can keep them entertained for a short period of time but they wouldn't be the ones signing up for the responsibilities for a white elephant such as yourself. You may have appeal to some in small doses but the side effects of long term use are debilitating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 12:50 PM
2

What's the sound of one hand clapping? If you could be any animal which one would you be? Ah, let her first consult her tarot cards, read some tea leaves, and then the entrails of some poor creature to find out. Either a LOT is lost in translation or this chick is smoking some premium stuff. Maybe a career in politics is in order - she can start her own Mystical Party. She uses a whole lot of words to not say much of anything. Most of what she conveys is that she is a picky flake well past her b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 10:56 PM
5

or he has seen his behavior matching the tenets and the spirit of the religion while hers has not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:09 PM
4

Haven't yet explored the hell that Tinder is reported to be, but if it is like the others I'm guessing you are missing the infantile animal face, butterflies, sparkles, and other filters. One I saw on my local POF with some hostile tag line warning about how she's only looking for something serious yet she has animal ears in her main and only photo. The disconnect is strong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 01:19 PM
8

Septum piercings are becoming all too common, and cleavage and face tattoos not being uncommon enough, plus bizarre hair colours (my least favourite is green - that looks like dead seaweed after slightly fading) are now ubiquitous. I wonder what the next defacing/deforming trend will be. Will those ear gauges become more mainstream? Possibly getting branded like cattle but in more visible locations? Will something completely new start up or a revision of some ancient practice? I shudder to think…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 08:46 PM
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In the picture, is the shirt tied off at her waist or breasts? (I believe the correct answer is "yes!"). How my tries did she take to get just that perfect photo? or did she go on a professional photo shoot for that? Sweet as can be but with a whole lot of attitude? Place your bets. I bet that roulette wheel has only one number in the sweet spot. Small town girl? If for some crazy reason I got stuck with her, I'd take the midnight train going anywhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 07:57 PM
10

I see life partner, talk, laugh, offer support. Nowhere do I see any physical contact of any sort explicitly mentioned. Even if I don't care about having sex as often, as a middle aged guy, I still care about sensual touch and yes some sort of sex semi-regularly. Bluntly put I have no real use for a life partner who is indifferent to or now repulsed by my touch. If I had the choice between dropping the talk instead of the touch/sex it would be a no brainer for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:07 AM
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but, but, but, ALL that "emotionally labor" is SO exhausting. After a couple years I had to go down to part-time and then quit my paying job. You can Just get a second job, you know - that easier thing that gets those pesky pay checks and I'll selflessly contribute my "emotional labor" when my television shows aren't on, and I'm not on my phone, and ... I wonder what the next bullshit buzzword is that they'll pervert the meaning of next.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 12:07 PM
2

Great photo ... if you're applying to be a store mannequin. With the supply chain issues, your pose and plastic look will surely win them over. Highly Sensitive Person - guessing that means ever minuscule thing effects her sensibilities and sets her off into an emotional meltdown. Joy! Oh, and you're not looking for sex? Exultations!!! like to find a true love relationship? I can't even contain myself!!!! Please just come find me when you're fairy godmother appears. At 55, it has to be soon, and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 11:51 AM
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"Have you ever asked yourself: how difficult it is to find someone normal ?" Great opening sentence for your thesis! - states your topic and conveys what you're going to provide about your topic. While you never explicitly define what normal is, you display both in your language, your priorities, and both what you say and don't say how far away from an idealized normal YOU are. At least natural disasters usually have an ending time frame; you're a disaster that will continue to be one for your w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 11:35 AM
1

I'd say you don't get all the same benefits, but typically get a LOT more of them for your efforts. Easier - less wasted time, effort, and disappointment; less games and bullshit. Less constant compromise, and much easier to walk away from if things are no longer worth it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:17 PM
1

The chances of "finding a non overweight, emotionally pleasant partner" for myself are a lot closer to none than slim. Hell, I'd be content with an overweight, not conventionally attractive ,non-bitchy partner who thinks I'll do for now for some making out, touching; sex would just be a bonus. Finding a hooker that is close to worth what you'll likely end up paying is a bit or much more than a bit of work - especially if you live in a smaller city or town. Those that give a proper GFE aren't all…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:05 PM
6

Unlike what some of us were taught/conditioned in our upbringing, girls are just as (if not more) shallow, and are not by default sweet, kind, giving and nice. Some of us find out much too late what some of them say and what they do aren't in the same ball park - hell they often aren't in the same solar system. As far as the "ropes of psychology and manipulation", the whole 'mean girl' phenomenon can start quite young. Boys generally are more direct and simple with their confrontations. I'm sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:30 PM
6

What is WOF? Wall of Flesh? or did she just misspell woof! looking it up online I found one of the more probable definitions - Australian slang for a foolish person -> from w(aste) o(f) f(lesh).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 09:58 PM
3

I'll be sure to compliment your tits while I fuck them on a regular basis because I'm just that kind of caring guy. If I ever get liposuction, I'll donate that and some third world doctor can get you up to a F cup.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 01:49 AM
2

A cunning psychopath will be able to make it seem like no red flags exist. If it seems way too good to be true, that should be at least a yellow if not red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:24 PM
2

More like the Walrus ... Goo goo g' joob
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 01:45 PM
2

From her shape I was thinking bean bag chair instead of bus seat, but you could make a case for the middle of her (stomach/butt) being shaped like a balloon. If she said she was well rounded, I guess in a technical sense she'd be correct.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 01:41 PM
13

"I'm not Shakira ... I'm better, hahaha " hahaha HA HA HA ... what? you weren't joking??? So you're a famous singer/songwriter/producer that is in great shape with a net worth of several $100 million??? In what facet of your life do you think you are superior to her? ​ "fun, spontaneous ... in for a bombardment" = bored, flighty and generally unstable. Now dance monkey dance!! - not you!!! the alpha monkey. Why aren't (rich great looking) men throwing themselves at my feet? ​ "some days I'm amaz…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 01:30 PM
1

How can people separate love from sex in regard to casual encounters? If it is a casual encounter you don't know them well enough for love to occur: physical attraction, lust, maybe you think the beginning of some sort of connection - sure. love? no. Sometimes it is just a cocktail of hormones, lowered inhibitions, and wishful thinking - there is a reason why the term "post nut clarity" exists. ​ How can people separate love from sex in LTRs? Check out the low libido partners in the dead bedroom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:23 PM
1

More realistic if you replaced "supermodel" with "3".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:17 AM
16

Two for one for her: pyramid scheme plus virtue signaling. That is all. Her having actual real concern or, heaven forbid, actual giving money or anything to these Chinese woman (insert laugh track).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/22 02:04 AM
7

Only the darkest parts of the original screenplay happen all the time. https://www.thethings.com/how-julia-roberts-pretty-woman-was-almost-a-very-different-movie/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 02:02 PM
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Not just women like that - most women speak in euphemisms or try to be as vague as possible. The vaguer the word or the vaguer they can have the meaning of the word now be, the better. Let's use "hook up" when we mean fuck or have sex (think at one time for the younger teen crowd hook up was used from anything to kissing or making out to sex). When its not being vague it is trying to "cutesify" words often by adding 'y' or 'ie'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:26 PM
28

No, It's not to much to ask. Sounds fair. You can send me naked pics of yourself and I'll send you pics of engagement rings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 01:46 PM
15

Her idea of Independent is she wants to be able to do what she wants, how she wants, when she wants, but those pesky bills are getting in the way. Why isn't a man taking care of those for me? Doesn't he know that a real man makes it his job, responsibility, goal and purpose in life?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/22 04:25 PM
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And even that will likely just be a limited time offer that expires when she feels it expires.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/22 04:18 PM
5

When talking about mankind: “Man is not a rational animal; he is a rationalizing animal.” ― Robert A. Heinlein, Assignment in Eternity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:17 PM
13

Poor bastard. I suspect he hasn't had much (or maybe any) experience dating, much less sex or a relationship. Hell of way to possibly get introduced to it; if he figures things out or his parents somehow get him out of there before he gets trapped (maybe even baby trapped! - with likely her getting pregnant from someone else) he'll be much better for it. She's going to string him along for any and all use she can get out of him and maybe even his family. Disaster brewing there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:17 AM
4

Sorry, he didn't get out of jail early for good behaviour; you'll have to wait another 10 years. In the mean time you can write some letters and go out and get some tattoos to match his.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:08 AM
12

They usually are omitting something. Wish I could remember the exact quote or at least where I heard or read it. Something to the effect that: "leaving out the parts of the story that make you look bad just ends up making you look like an idiot instead".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 02:00 AM
6

So classy. What a shame! Looks like she must have fell asleep on the beach and some hoodlums tagged her ass. Hope that vandalism washes off ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 01:49 AM
4

You're done with the long term dating of douche bags. Now you're going to try and bag a long term wallet, and then you can "date" douche bags part time. Bad habits die hard. A win/win plan ... for you - the cliche life, or if you can't find the right sucker you'll have the new cliche life ... aging into a life of wine, whine, and cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 01:15 AM
12

Judging by her comments about the men's responses sounds like her looks are more Danzig than Zaftig.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 05:00 PM
4

Instead of setting aside rephrase it as in addition to then. Was on a work break (like I am now) and probably didn't take enough time to word things precisely enough. I just said "setting aside" as sort of another way of saying "not to get into the blatantly obvious in your face things". The biggest part of her past being a major issue is how it shaped how she is now and how she will likely be in the future. You may be blind to how she really is now (or she'll hide it somewhat by limiting speech…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 04:58 PM
9

Setting aside the numbers and assuming she has no STI's that can't be cured, it is the habit and mindset that won't change that is the issue. Think she'll continue having frequent and enthusiastic sex when it is just the "same you" year after year instead of a different and exciting Chad she just met? Aside from the sex (though that is a big one), she'll very likely also create drama for no good reason - just for her excitement. Always more concerned with chasing the next thrill instead of helpi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 03:25 PM
6

I know you're not that great looking but make an effort with your photos. If you don't have a lot to work with choose some clothes that at least fit well and are not wrinkled, and try to do something with your hair. Oh, I get it now. You're trying to convey the effort in your pictures = the effort you'll give in a relationship. Plus you're a basket case with a kid. Perfect. I was planning to get tortured in a Turkish prison, but with you I can get more pain for longer closer to home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/22 02:21 AM
9

Reading that is like flushing a clogged toilet. Give her a CAPTCHA test. Should keep her amused for hours trying to pass it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 04:26 PM
6

If you want to say ugly things about women, you have to go to the darkest, places on the internet. If you want to say ugly things about Men, you don't even have to make your facebook group or your tweets private. If you want to say ugly things about men, you might be able to get your own column in a magazine, newspaper, etc.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 03:02 PM
3

Well rounded unicorn? I can do horny overweight jackass; close enough?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 01:49 AM
28

Try an adoption agency to accept your son.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 06:18 PM
6

When a 'box lunch' would be too risky? ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 12:11 AM
9

But that happened on vacation so of course it doesn't count.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 12:08 AM
16

Since I belong to that group of "fat older man, of modest means, with a vasectomy", I'm going to speak for most of the group and say we'll have to pass - unless there is someone else in the group who has had a lobotomy or recently had several blows to the head? anyone, anyone? Buhler? Buhler?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 12:03 AM
1

Very rarely use "agreeableness" as a descriptor, but it is certainly a bit more specific than the ever vague "nice". What do I think men that use this mean? Someone who doesn't make every little thing or decision an opportunity for a disagreement or big debate. Someone who isn't super picky. Someone that doesn't constantly have to have things their way, and if they don't they make sure everyone involved is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:49 PM
2

No kidding. I had one friend of friend that had my bullshit meter into the red zone within hearing a sentence or two from him, and my bullshit meter wasn't that sensitive at the time. He did alright with women then. Take a stereotypical used car salesman on a t.v. show - times 10. Either the women didn't clue in or didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:39 PM
13

Looks like an editor didn't look closely at a quote and can be interpreted as something that isn't pro-woman relationship wise: "Women are more loyal to a company than men, they don't follow the biggest pay cheque and companies are starting to wake up to that and to develop and look after those kind of women. And they will have got where they are in their careers by juggling far fewer balls on the way up." If they stopped and looked at what "Women are more loyal to a company than men" really say…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 05:27 PM
4

'I was in a relationship with someone — a guy who was so gorgeous and stunning. I couldn't believe my luck. We saw each other for about 18 months but he would flirt with girls and I didn't like it. 'Call that insecurity or a jealousy thing or whatever but I believe that wasn't right. It didn't make me feel good about myself. 'I suggested breaking up. I really wanted him to fight for me and he didn't. He bloody didn't. 'Afterwards, I was an emotional wreck. About a year after, he'd met someone el…
/r/MensRights02/03/22 04:19 AM
2

Ideally she at least got to physically show some sort of attraction very early on. If she's not willing to kiss or even hug me, that's shows me a lot more than any of the words she's saying. Love? not even sure if that exist anymore. If someone likes me somewhat and physically shows it, I'll likely still notice any red flags but may dismiss them in a quick cost/benefit analysis. I don't expect anything to last very long, especially anything that seems too good to be true. I don't mind that much …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:22 AM
2

Yes, looks like the quality has declined. Where's the nicer and nicer fitting dress, high heels, and a smile? Send this one a notice from the TLB council to shape up quick or their membership will be revoked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 05:33 PM
6

She won't stand on ceremony
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 06:32 PM
3

Long term marriage - dead bedroom, more like roommates. If I had any realistic hopes in general, I might be towards red but for the most part I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:12 PM
6

1) Yes ... sigh 2) Haven't read up on all the colour variations but, as of late, I'm likely more black pill than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:22 PM
6

I lost a pair of glasses like that back in the late 1980's. So that's where they went. Nurse and hairdresser? Seems odd - you don't see a man saying he's a doctor and barber; at least not in this century. The photo she chose does some great advertising to her hairdressing abilities, among other things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 06:30 AM
9

One slightly awkward situation at a bar and she's swearing off all bars, and hookups ... sure, that must be the reason. You had plenty of fun in your 20's and 30's, now it is some of the men you didn't have fun with in your 20's and 30's to have some fun. Try some guys in their late 50's or 60's. They may want a monogamous relationship - as long as you live apart and each of you pay your own bills. Odds are they've been burned before and have wised up. Oh, you may also still have to engage in "f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 06:13 AM
24

It also really looks like she'd be a harsh mistress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 05:08 PM
5

Just have Judge Elizabeth Brimer share a cell with her for a couple months because "a strong message needs to be sent".
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:43 PM
7

but that was the extremely sacred boner of Tyrone! begone heathen and do not blaspheme the prophet Tyrone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 10:54 PM
6

Sexuality, now that it has died down in me, is sacred and connected to the heart (where previously it was connected a bit lower). It is so sacred now that I'll only do it now if the moon is in a certain phase, the stars have aligned, and you have performed the proper rituals (which I will not speak of).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 10:52 PM
4

"hungry for the best of the best" hungry like the wolf? NO hungry hungry hippo? YES so if you're rich and have lost all your marbles she's the one for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 02:03 PM
2

Exactly. What someone means by a friends varies. Often what many women refer to as a friend and what many men refer to as a friends aren't even in the same ballpark. What many women refer to as friend is two or three steps from a good friend much less a true friend. There are often just acquaintances and not even close acquaintances. "A good friend will help you move, but a true friend will help you move a body."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:25 AM
8

Hits the 'reset' switch. Hey, why am I no longer in easy single player mode???!!!! You're playing for two now. Abort, retry, fail?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/22 10:53 PM
0

"I have a hole and you can't fuck it. What now incel??" Think you're missing a couple; the other two open for business? If not, and since you appear to up for suggestions, if you've got tits the size of the ones on Billie Eilish, how about a quick tit fuck then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/22 12:03 AM
6

At the risk of making a rye comment, I suppose she is a "rare bread" - don't think barley bread among the most common. Though I'd say she qualifies as more of a pita bread (Pain In The Ass); nobody want naan of that. It is entirely likely she is a bread that is more dense; some kind of loaf. I thought of saying banana but she isn't nearly that sweet or that much of a treat; she's missing a lot of ingredients to approach anything palatable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 11:58 PM
18

"for those guys who wonder why 'people don't say what they mean; they're trying to do you a favor" No they are not trying to do you a favor, and whatever lie and/or platitude they spew isn't doing you any favor. Mostly is a face saving gesture on the other side to try to save themselves from a possible uncomfortable verbal (or in rare cases other) reaction to the true reason of the rejection. Trying to get you to go away and trying to lessen the possibility of a scene being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:06 AM
5

In some way they could be in the same life stage - as far as dating/relationships. Especially if that 25 year old that didn't date in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:35 PM
30

"met up", "hung around", "hooked up" Just own up to it and say you fucked. I know, I know, the panty hamster won't let you; it's stuck in a spin cycle. Spin those rationalizations, spin. Maybe you can spin some gold from straw while you're at it, or power a small city.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 09:04 PM
5

All his karmic debt? Which ruthless dictator was he in a previous life?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 03:11 AM
3

She's a super model. Didn't you know they made models of all kinds of boats and ships including this garbage barge. Think she's been sniffing the model glue a bit too long though if she thinks she comes anywhere near super.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 03:06 AM
3

"No matter how thin you slice it, it's still baloney."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 02:51 AM
4

She's only an ocean away ... from using the right word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 02:49 AM
5

Queens were all to often once "princesses" (pampered, sheltered, and spoiled). When their youth and looks deteriorated, they just increased their delusion, expectations, insufferability, and maintenance level up more than sufficiently to attain the coveted noble title of "Queen".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 02:41 AM
4

Clippy can appear and say "If your parenting skills are anything like your grammar skills, I'd recommend you getting your tubes tied post haste."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 02:24 AM
5

Better off trying to get with her mom; at least it sounds like her mom has learned something. Also much better odds on her mom not having young kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 03:32 AM
15

or the Erma Bombeck book title "The grass is always greener over the septic tank"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 03:23 PM
10

She did change her cat to a boyfriend. Since her expectations for him grew to even a greater extent than his growth in mass, he high tailed it out of there post haste.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 02:15 PM
1

"Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power." Oscar Wilde
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:50 AM
6

Every man? Pedophiles? Rapists? Abusers? Chronic losers? You sure about that? Likely all those described like desire chad's lifestyle more than the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:42 PM
14

If you’re an average man. You can settle with an average woman who thinks you’re hot and will provide you consistent sex Average women thinking average men are hot??? Even below average women thinking a sizable minority of average men are hot. Where on this planet does this paradise exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:37 PM
18

Unless Chad tells her it is good for her hair, then she'll leave it in and use it as a conditioner. If Chad gives her some lines of bullshit that nobody with half a brain would fall for, what little thought, vetting abilities, and reason is pushed into a far away corner and replaced entirely by the tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 03:35 PM
1

Have I ever cheated by having sex with a stripper? No. Most I've gotten were lap dances; never asked any of them if paying for sex was an option for them. Have I ever gone to the strip bar - both single, and as a boyfriend/husband? Yes. Mostly when younger and seemingly permanently single. Have I ever cheated? Yes. Not on any girlfriends, but many, many years into a deadbedroom marriage (not that I expect anyone will give a shit to the circumstances, let the downvotes commence) Have I ever paid …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:50 AM
1

honest answers, I won’t be judging So much for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:38 AM
8

Whether or not he did a favour, I suspect he wouldn't have taken the rejections great. Not taking it great likely has to do with not getting a positive reaction, and some frustration with that (likely along with some immaturity); likely along with some frustration with himself for not doing it face to face like he planned. The favour he likely saw as a good opportunity to finally take a chance with you; odds are he valued the chance higher than the favour. Might be possible, if you want, to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:32 AM
21

your tits? where are they? lower, lower ... way lower, like where her capacity for logic is and where her expectations should be. Some advice - try fitting those tube sock tits into an industrial strength bra. Might be almost like trying to put toothpaste back in the tube but the effort will be worth it. Currently with that camera angle and lack of support it looks like you could almost put a ruler in a straight line across where her nipples and belly button would be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 11:48 PM
3

from "tastes great!" to "less filling!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 11:31 PM
7

For some reason I immediately thought of the laugh of Joaquin Phoenix in "The Joker" movie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 06:58 PM
25

Sure, just marry her. Reroll the dice for personality and if you get a higher number, she'll magically be better forever more. She'll change her character and on a roll change into the role of a good wife then. In the real game of life it isn't that easy to change characters from an ogre to that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 06:54 PM
11

I don't like it that much when they type "come and showed out" "acted batshit crazy" is more to the point
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 06:46 PM
9

No matter your station in life, you too can become a patron of the arts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 05:06 PM
3

Sure I'll be someone for them. I'll be their "uncle" that blows into and out of town for the day once every few years, and then "maybe something better in the future".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 05:02 PM
2

Can they become a registered charity? Would a stage name of Charity help that? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:04 PM
4

The nice guys on the East Coast have rid themselves of barnacles like you off their (relation)ship and either have already caught their 'white whale' or are only doing catch and release now. You spent the majority of your young adult years in a "abusive relationship". Since you seem to be attracted enough to that dynamic to stick with that long term, you might as well give that another go. Instead of you being "the catch", you have been relegated to fishing the murkier bottoms now - better get y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 11:16 PM
3

Think that is more a thing with boys/younger men. After some life experience/maturity/awareness of self/ men attracted to fat women will date fat women and not care all that much about what their friends, family, etc. thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:28 PM
1

911 operator -- "I guess he's trying, in his own perverted way, to make it HIS St. Bernard" :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:38 PM
7

I've already married a non-carousel woman quite a while back. Can't say it has been going well for some time. Would I get married again to a carousel (or even non-carousel) woman? I sure as hell hope I'm not that stupid to marry anyone again; certain not that naive anymore. Less than 5 or 5-15 makes no real difference to me for sex or a relationship; co-habitation (which where I am would all to quickly turn into common law marriage) or marriage forget about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:06 PM
1

I certainly wouldn't say I'm red pill in many ways but just living over a half century of life has given me exposure to red pill or just some red pill like truths has certainly has taken women off the pedestal I had them on when I was much younger. In my situation it is too late for me now in many ways. Try to find small moments of joy once in a while that aren't too physically/emotionally/mentally and financially destructive. Am I a bit bitter and pessimistic? Yes to the first and surprisingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:06 AM
5

Stable housing, wants kids, wants 6'3" - The Clydesdale at the farm says neigh, and the goat said I have enough garbage and I'm not letting my kids near you. Go ask the pigs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 11:21 PM
8

Since you don't have cash and need a ride, I'll pick you up - that leaves you two options (ass, grass, or cash. no one rides for free)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 01:51 AM
2

If they included listening or even pretending to listen to a woman's never ending pointless yammering as "emotional labor", they wouldn't have a leg to stand on in that department. If you have to use '6 degrees of Kevin Bacon' for me to have a clue who you're talking about, I'll either take the very abridged version of the story or wait for the movie to come out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/22 03:23 AM
16

Okay, I'll commit to a second hookup in advance. Guess we're good then. If you want something more than a hookup maybe mention something about yourself, or something beyond the few things you supposedly don't want. I know, crazy idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 06:34 PM
9

"because I am such a forgiving and understanding person." That is a hilarious ending; maybe she should consider a career in comedy. Her understanding and empathy for her husband and children shines through so strongly in her diatribe that I had to put on a pair of sunglasses to finish reading it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 07:47 PM
19

"I still had that feeling that I had missed out because I got pregnant so young, and I still blamed my husband for it." Didn't read through everything. Was she using birth control? Did she consider abortion or putting up the kid for adoption? She had options - she chose not to take them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 11:30 PM
3

typo or Freudian slip? "going trough hard times" and gained 10 kg. So she spent some time eating like she was at a trough and turned into a heifer ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 10:34 PM
1

Give her a little time, then they can be both. In front when strapped in that way, sliding to her back when freed and laying down. Then she can be even more versatile - top, bottom, front (tits), back (tits).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 02:23 AM
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"When you’re used to privilege, equality feels like oppression. The reactionary influence of these ideas doesn’t stop at dating, though." Are you referring aging women, and their online dating profiles? because it sure sounds like it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 02:17 AM
3

por favor? When her and her brood get into your wallet, I think you misspelled poor forever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 01:59 AM
2

In one definition from Japan, she is Christmas Cake. https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ChristmasCake
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 09:15 PM
7

Me too, that's why I pay one woman that offers massage an extra $20 for that service.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 09:03 PM
8

It is the introduction page for the first day when you are let into that prestigious group. They exponentially add pages on every year's anniversary. The lumber companies give you a high special priestess award (a cuckoo clock) if you make it to your 25th anniversary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:44 PM
8

You're okay. We can just say it is a princess manual on how to be out standing in a field. Behold the field in which I grow my fucks. Lay thine eyes upon it and thou shall see that it is barren.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:37 PM
7

It takes many nails to build a crib, but only one screw to fill it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:30 PM
36

"chemistry" AND a "good person" tingles plus someone to put up with your shit longer term don't usually come together preassembled as a package deal. "miss having a partner" ... to entertain me, listen to my bullshit, and of course to pay those pesky bills. With what you've shared, as I peer into my crystal ball, I do see you soon meeting a suitable long term partner* (*batteries not included)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:22 PM
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"manifest the right guy for me" Are you going to get out the old Ouija board, perform some blood rituals, or just post and pray for Captain Save-a-hoe to appear?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 02:48 PM
4

Also on "passionate about tattoos" - not good tattoos, just more tattoos. Quantity over quality, passion over thought. Think this might apply to many other decisions she's made in her life. "Looking for something more serious" Then why did you decide on a look that is a cross between a clown and a parody of a carnie?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 05:33 AM
1

"As for men in relationships, it should be much easier to have female friends since you already have your fill of sex with your partner." You're making a big assumption with that. Check out the dead bedroom subreddit - won't take you long to find some long time married guys there. ​ Anyway, depending on the guy and girl involved (and their views on sex) I suppose there could be a true FWB situation where both friendship and sex exist, and some sort of friendship would still exist without the sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:36 PM
3

The irony is she is a technician at an eye clinic. Time for her to get your eyes checked and then look in the mirror. When you're through looking at your body, look at your life and what you have to offer a man that he might actually want. Think she needed a full back tattoo of wings to get by the suspension of disbelief. When I get into a good work of fiction I can believe in fantastic creatures, magic and a whole lot of unbelievable things. But their ain't no magic strong enough to have those …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 07:00 PM
19

"find someone on the same maturity level as you" Sorry lady, there are laws here against you "dating"/banging teenage or pre-teen boys - at least in the western world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 06:46 PM
3

want more than men, no argument there. allowed to want tall attractive fit men with masculine personalities, sure. deserve ... on average, no fucking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:13 AM
2

I think we'd be better off if you turned into an actual frog - those are becoming less common worldwide, women like you on the other hand are a rapidly growing invasive species. https://www.usgs.gov/faqs/why-are-frog-and-toad-populations-declining
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/21 07:36 PM
3

Or if their children get taken away, not allowed to be responsible for any children. Tubes tied or any children they have put up for adoption. I know. Muh body, muh rights ... to pop out another unit for some "unconditional love" and of course a cheque to live off of. How about if you've proven you can't care for them, don't have them. Tubes tied and kids taken away. People you wouldn't trust to take care of a goldfish "raising" children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 11:40 PM
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Wonder if the four guys knew each other? Instead of a title, could just give her a trophy of 'Most Recommended Side Chick for 2021'. There is a special afterparty in a hotel room for her after the award show; all the guys she was a side chick for are willing to show their 'appreciation' one more time. Wouldn't that feel special?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 09:23 PM
13

You want a real title? How about my personal Chief Director of Pub(l)ic Relations for the Southern Zone? If you put in the right work, I'll even make you some business cards and a sign for your door or desk; you can even earn a better title.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 09:18 PM
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But I could definitely be a bit more discerning with the men I date lol a bit? try much harder. what is with the "lol" in these women's statements all the time? nothing funny about it, sounds juvenile, and it looks like you are trying to downplay your deficiencies. You just forget about what you said, and move on; continue on you being the same you and not working on changing things - just add a laugh, that will make it all better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 09:53 PM
10

He has his child 50% of the time and is a shit dad. What kind of a shit woman/mother would you have to be then for the judge only gave you 1/2 custody. You admit he's providing you money; are doing anything with the time without your son to financially provide? Don't see any mention of you working and your attitude about your ex providing money for the child's clothes gives me the impression you have no idea what a job is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 02:05 AM
1

which subreddit would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:42 PM
4

Sorry we're not all part of a 'guy collective'. Try making Chad pay. I'm not his guarantor. If I'm part of a guy collective you must be part of the gal collective. I didn't get my share of "fun" in my teens/twenties so when you start paying up with that we'll talk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 06:45 PM
7

Not interested in random one night stands, but if you give her a certain 💥spark💥(gives the panty hamster a tingle) all bets are off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 06:30 PM
6

In fact she doesn't have a MBA; she has two. She's a Manager By Accident (Peter Principle) with a Mighty Big Attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/21 12:40 AM
3

If the female teacher got a "titty twister" after that and then you said "Isn't that funny? No, I shouldn't do that? I'll know for next time."
/r/MensRights14/12/21 11:03 PM
4

Canadian. Had it done in my home city over a decade ago. Total cost to me $0.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 10:26 PM
5

Of course I know what a fancy date is. Nothing sets my heart aflutter then be accompanied by a lady of such refinement and beauty such as yourself. I consider myself blessed just to encounter this rare siting of elegance, class, and femininity; your personality just shines through. Please let me shower you with diamonds and roses when I arrive in my limo to pick you up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 05:03 PM
1

Can say I have, or had in a long time, anyone I'd consider close enough to be truly considered a friend (male or female) but I know I'm not exactly the same around everyone or every group. I sometimes keep quiet or tone down responses and language with certain people/groups. I've had a few best friends in my life; they have all been guys. Have I had more than fleeting thoughts of having sex with my closer female acquaintances; surprisingly not with all of them. Also, I'm not about to spout off e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:10 PM
5

I love a woman who is rich, loves spending money on just me, and her favourite hobby is to get down on her knees and blow me when I enter the door. Looking for a woman who will treat me like she really loves me at all times with unquestioning loyalty, respect and desire. Also looking for her to arrive on a multi-coloured unicorn that shit rainbows and vomits Belgian chocolate. Sounds about as logical and likely as her demands being met.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 06:07 PM
1

One other way it would be "fair" is if she first had to find another woman agree to have regular sex with me before finding another guy or guys for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:40 AM
5

Loves adventures ... on someone else's dime. Adventures but no fun (casual sex) for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 01:29 AM
1

Unless you're John Holmes, in most positions once you get past the flab, that is likely all you'll get in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 01:25 AM
2

I admit it. I have a little bit of morbid curiosity to see what they'd look like 'unfettered and wild'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 01:23 AM
2

but you repeated yourself at least once, maybe twice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 01:22 AM
3

I will find you???? Who would that be? The surgeon to do his, hoping to be her, bottom surgery?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/21 01:17 AM
5

If you're trying to get your life together, here is a radical thought maybe working on your issues and personality just a wee bit may be a place to start; online "dating" not so much. Some men might like a challenge but even world class masochists would back away from you and all your issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/21 05:35 PM
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You want a divorce or open marriage ... while you have a pair of toddlers. I can see that working out well for your kids. You are wondering if divorce is an option with "respectful co-parenting". If you think respectful co-parenting is going to happen when you husband finds out the true situation, I've got some swamp land in Florida to sell you. Respect is the last thing he'll feel for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 03:36 AM
17

How many spiders sacrificed their legs for that look? ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 10:48 PM
1

Check out the deadbedrooms subreddit if you want one big reason why certain men cheat that are in relationships. If he isn't getting it at home ...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:34 PM
2

as well as being in a consumeristic society which tries to use male sexual desire to get them to buy products. The saying "sex sells" didn't come out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:47 PM
3

We're try to run 21st century software on stone age hardware.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:33 PM
0

you realize most men who watch porn aren't addicted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:53 PM
0

If you are that much against fantasy, and following your reasoning, women then should stop reading romance novels and avoid Hallmark movies. Men in the real world aren't anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:02 PM
1

Not even that. She keeps you company and gives you loving when she feels like it. One of the easiest things for her to withdraw later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:01 PM
3

You don't have time for a hookup? If you're being truthful (doubt it) that is all you do have time for, and from your attitude that is all you're good for - at best. In the last pic it looks like the wax museum sculpture of this 'queen' got WAY to close to a fire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 02:39 PM
5

using "baby daddy" unironically is up there also.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 02:29 PM
6

I don't mind some tattoos, a couple small ones or even large if some theme is kept (it is getting so that women younger than me without tattoos are becoming quite rare) - plastered on your body like a wall of random graffiti on the other hand ... neck, face, and even hand ones are always worrying. Quality trumps quantity and I'm not just talking about the tattoos; you're not 1 in a million you are 1 of a million. FYI, just because you are a character doesn't mean you have any character. What I s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/21 05:16 PM
1

or as economists define it and corporations use it and bloodlessly call it - externalities. one definition: "The corporation is an externalizing machine (moving its operating costs and risks to external organizations and people), in the same way that a shark is a killing machine." - Robert Monks (2003) Republican candidate for Senate from Maine and corporate governance adviser in the film "The Corporation".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 07:00 PM
1

If it is all talk and expressive animation and there is nothing at all physical she IS nothing but "dead weight". PIV sex doesn't need to happen early but some physicality does. Talk alone is worth the paper it is written on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:14 PM
1

Chad blinded her with science - science.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 02:22 AM
9

The pool of men you're looking for, aren't looking for you. If he wants to START having kids do you think his best bet for a mother of his children is a woman who is as old as her mid 30s??? and a corporate type at that??? If he wants the double income no kids, you're not for that either. When your 'babies rabies' has worn off who is taking care of the baby? Would you now hire a nanny and exclude yourself mostly from the traditional role of motherhood you say you're looking for? Temporarily or "…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 06:12 PM
27

Maybe it is buy-sexual. When you start buying her things and paying for her and her mistake you might get a little bit of that sexual part at the start. She's yet to find a woman to buy into that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 10:43 PM
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Because talk is worth the paper it is written on. Talk could just be meaningless blather to pass the time, or could be lies and manipulation. Talking about something without any physical follow through is essentially meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:37 PM
1

reminds me of that Kevin Bloody Wilson song: "Do you fuck on first dates Does you Dad own a brewery Could I feel Your tits Or would you show 'em to me If the answer is no To me questions above Then be a good sport and give me the name Of a girlfriend who does"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:34 PM
3

but she'll make sure it is the longest 5 years of your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 01:55 AM
2

I'm hoping you feel compelled to return the favour of buying your coworkers lunch or dinner in the future when they have bought yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:52 PM
6

Lack of success in OLD - must be talking of her lack of success in locking down a long term wallet, because unless a woman's profile pics look somewhere between Jabba the Hut and a dog's shaved ass she'll get all kinds of attention in OLD ... even then she'll get some attention. If all your friends are already married what does that tell you? that you started looking too late while sleeping away your youth? that they have some qualities you lack? that their married lives aren't as great as they …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 10:59 PM
3

A matriarchal rule where they don't have any of the responsibilities of rulership. More like they want to prop up a man as a puppet ruler. He must instinctively know what she wants at all times, and she has veto power - which she better not have to use to often. If she does, toss out that man to the wolves when he stops mindreading or she gets bored or she thinks things aren't going completely her way ... and repeat with the next sucker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 10:49 PM
7

Hippy dippy single mom looking for some mythical love with a lot of conditions along with the added bonus of 'money' and 'getting money' as her interests. She's also funnier than shit. By that she means she is funnier than her stepping in dog shit and dragging it inside your house all on your carpet. Sign me up right now. If the position is full put me on the waiting list. Oops, sorry I'm a Libra. Oh well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 10:53 PM
52

separate lights and darks!!!???? you laundry racist, you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 03:36 AM
2

Based on what little you've provided and clearly stated we will watch an action and adventure movie or band concert dvd at your place and then fuck? No? We can order a pizza or chinese after.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 02:38 PM
8

A year older than me - early childhood in 70's, teen years in 80's. From the sounds of it though not sure if she ever grew up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 02:32 PM
7

If only she could cut back on her constant chase for the next tingle high. She should try to replace it with something less damaging and addictive - heroin or crystal meth perhaps. Don't think electroshock or a full frontal lobotomy stand any chance of getting rid of the tingles addition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 12:47 AM
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"I know that spark/click thing is not something to put too much weight on at our age" ... but I'm going to completely contradict in everything else I say. Maybe she should scour the streets to find a winning lottery ticker that was thrown out, or get out a metal detector and check out the local beach for buried pirate treasure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 09:49 PM
6

Chadaquickdick?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 09:34 PM
1

or just ask her if she wants something shoved up her ass without warning or any lubrication by a random guy. could tell her to imagine that with a beating and life threat to make it a bit more real.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 05:57 PM
2

Yes, it is right there in their name: FEMIN(E)ism. Those same ones wanting to change the language from manhole cover to peoplehole cover (I exaggerate only slightly for effect with this example) have a shitfit if you even bring up the idea of changing the name of Feminism to anything else. Changing the nature of those supposed Feminists and tying them down to a definition they support and advertise as well as follow in practice is a whole 'nother ball of wax.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 05:52 PM
1

Ultimate win for the father? If she doesn't have a "primal urge" for the father, the answer is likely no. For a variety of reasons this will often lead to a dead bedroom marriage. Unless sex is WAY down his priority list he's going to be in a losing situation. Describing the situation is a cold clinical basic scientific way leaves out a hell of a lot. There is a lot more to life then "passing on genetics". If that is all that is important you could make the argument that a serial rapist who isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:25 PM
3

Sure I'll consider still staying around you if your friendzone includes you sucking me off several times a week. You already say you consider blowjobs not being real sex so what's the problem? You'd be Just helping out a friend. A small price of "not loosing me forever" since you think so highly of me to consider me husband material. I excluded any talk of marriage for good reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 04:35 PM
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face like a bashed crab - I'll have to remember that one. Friend of mine uses the expression "She has a face like a can of smashed assholes" (or maybe it was arseholes)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 02:21 AM
4

If she works the right street, I'm sure a quick gum job in some back alley for some poor souls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 12:23 PM
19

Thanks for that. After a couple read throughs had no idea what they stood for - thought as a long shot that maybe they were initials and REALLY didn't want to try and look up what they might possibly be. I figured it would be something really stupid and lo and behold you showed me that was the case. She cut out so many details of her actual situation it makes her appear to be a bigger idiot that she actual is (that in itself is quite an accomplishment - she should be proud). Little mention of th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 12:14 PM
1

53 (married for 17). So, not born yet/grade school it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:56 PM
2

Zoodles are animals noodles. Tell all your friends, tell the whole bunch. I just watched a hippopotamus eat lunch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 04:42 AM
2

Is that one real hour or the industry "one hour" (which often means PIV sex until you cum once). The worst of those try to get you off as quick as possible and make you feel rushed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 12:57 AM
1

For my city/area the best review site unfortunately is more of a recommendation board (with only positive "reviews" - excepting one seldom used section for bait & switch and scams). Lyla (previously Cerb) at least has a place for advertising where at least you know the escort exists. The discussion section mainly asks if the escort on other sites is legit or not and if anyone has seen her. The recommendation thread's information is vague at best. A different site that is a review site - Terb - h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 12:53 AM
3

Know how that is. I'm in a smaller Canadian city and it is very slim pickings for local escorts at the best of times. Ones that offer truly GFE ("girl friend experience") are likely non-existent. After a certain price point paying more usually isn't getting you more - she may be a lot more physically attractive and dressed up but doesn't mean she'll be any good. Going through review sites can help weed out the fake ads and scams. Think you best odds may be finding someone good that comes into to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 01:14 PM
3

Scoobie Doo and Astro both say "Ruh Roh! " and hightail it out of there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 08:37 PM
9

Leo looking at his threadbare, full of holes, crusty old yellowed "wife beater" undershirt "I don't know, I'll have to get back to you on that one"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 08:29 PM
6

At a party setting of course the woman that are obviously more in a party mood will get more attention. They appear to be in a good mood having fun and look more receptive to possible advances. If you end up in a corner just sitting with a bunch of girlfriends (which will intimidate the shier/less experience younger guys) and are in just serious looking conversation, possible with some having 'resting bitch face' approach is less likely. Like the average introverted guy at the bar, you're going …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:33 PM
5

they are hot shit ... a big steaming pile
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 11:53 PM
2

Without looking it up I think real wages have been pretty well stagnate since some time in the 1970's.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 11:43 PM
4

So do most women you know? I'd ask where you were in my teens and 20's but I'm guessing the answer is either in grade school or not born yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:23 PM
3

Can't talk about him and his reasons because she thinks the effort for the amount of spin doctoring to make her look good is too WAY much work for her. She could just look on FDS or do a very basic internet search and just do a copy and paste job; she's not as unique as she likely thinks she it. or she could admit he had good reasons for leaving and her head would explode. either way, problem solved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 03:04 PM
9

These dating/hookup sites must have some sort of predictive text/autocorrect pop up for certain words or phrases. As soon as a female profile types in single mom (or mum), The sentence "My kids are my world" appears in her profile description.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 11:22 PM
7

came to her or came in her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 11:15 PM
4

"didn't fully understand the compromises needed to date a single mom"Her weak languages tries to obfuscate what is happening: it isn't the compromises, it is HIS compromises. Compromises that HE makes, and he is making strictly and directly for HER. Own up to that. Even If truly sharing bills 50/50 - he is paying a lot more than 50/50. There are bills for 3 people: you, your kid, and him. Do the math. Do you want romance and passion or do you want to maintain a standard of living that he helps m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 01:50 AM
2

Just say "Sorry, I'm not interested". If you want to give a reason, bonus but not required.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:13 AM
3

Looking for someone good looking (and rich of course) while being the exact opposite. Hope for her sake she has some fully body pictures and a body well above average to try to begin to make up for that face. Not much could begin to make up for the attitude, entitlement, and self delusion. Anyone here too content with their their life and want to permanently get rid of that problem?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 01:25 PM
12

The authority to overrule your suggestions without coming with any of their own - That's the wrong dance monkey! You have to guess what might be the right one for this minute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 12:25 AM
1

Shortened from "she in not naive but has a head like a sieve".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 03:26 AM
6

Showering? Golden comment. or would it be golden showering? Ah who really cares, piss on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 03:21 AM
4

This space cadet wants someone to buy her a ship and put her in charge as captain. She'll burn through money faster than the Pentagon would if given a blank cheque. "BE REAL!" - from what she wrote sounds like her grip on reality is tenuous at best. A little less of a profile sounding like a failed test on random word association and a little more faking being a real functioning adult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 02:22 AM
1

Educated no, stupid yep And when I say stupid, I mean ... a real space cadet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 02:01 AM
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All, for the most part, doesn't exist. Most is the closest you'll get. Most does well enough to tar, almost all but whatever very select few you decide to exclude, with the same brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:37 PM
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Sexist talk on this sub runs both ways. Sexist talk on other some other subreddits, not worth naming, runs against men or most men. If you don't think women don't generalize on this forum and other reddit forums I don't know what to say to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:13 PM
2

"You go to da box for 2 minutes, ya know, by yourself...you feel shame...and then you get free."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:23 PM
16

"nice to have some kind of affection. Every guy I meet in person ends up just wanting to be physical" So you say you want some affection from a guy and want it to be non-physical ??? Without being physical what is the point of affection? I guess having him spew some meaningless platitudes would do the job for her. Could even just get a bot to text her some of her favourite phrases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 07:52 PM
13

No, it is her first kid. Behind you is part of the unique and one of a kind art she makes and sells as a "strong independent" woman. In fact you now owe her money for viewing the low-res edition; for a small additional fee you can get a print; for a large one, the original.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 04:47 PM
21

If you think a strip club visit is in the same league as choking you without consent you have some way bigger issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:49 PM
6

Ah, a lot lizard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 01:20 PM
6

Come as you are, as you were as I want you to be, as my ATM, I will spend and intend to become a huge liability
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 10:14 PM
6

From the second photo, she should trying dating a guy like Lars (from Lars and the Real Girl- I haven't seen but have heard of the movie) if she starts acting like a real doll. She already has the look down pat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 04:11 PM
3

No kidding (pun unintended, at first). Reproductive rights shouldn't be sacrosanct. If you can't financially care for children on your own you shouldn't be having them - too often used as a cash cow for the woman and as some delusional mental crutch in the expectation of some sort of unconditional love. A cat hoarder is more likely to lose their cats than a baby hoarder their kids. Even if she has children taken away, she will just pop out another unit with zero repercussions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 03:48 PM
8

In what way is it false? you are withholding sex and you are wasting his time and money. No matter how or how fast the hamster spins, that is what you are doing. To help the guy, help him find a girl just like the previous version of you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 02:51 PM
6

I zoomed in a bit. What the hell even is that thing??? Is it a dog faced boat wearing a jesters hat with a scorpions tail???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 01:29 AM
8

With the amount of projection she's doing she can compete with IMAX. If you go out on 30 first dates plus some additional dates and you are finding them ALL boring, gee what's the boring conversations/times all have in common? couldn't be you? you're carrying the conversations just like a trooper. You're only the bored one; you couldn't be the boring one! You found even the intelligent and witty men not stimulating enough? Maybe you can join the circus or perhaps just try sticking a fork in an o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 12:35 AM
6

Root, Root, Root for the Chad team. If you don't fuck it's a shame. It's one (cash for her), Two (cash for her kid), Three (no sex for you) strikes she's out, and my balls aren't game (for that Instagram filtered mess).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 12:11 AM
6

You're 40 not 14. You want a relationship but your priorities are butterflies and living in the moment? That fits a lot better with "sex or pump and dump". No man that you want, especially close to your age range, is going to put up with all your shit and try be your continual dancing monkey. Do you want a relationship or constant tingles? It is obvious what your choice has been and continues to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 10:56 PM
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Knows Tinder is for sex, but some part of her wants to use it for a relationship. It is like having to nail boards together but you choose to use a screwdriver to bang in those nails instead of a hammer. Then wondering why it is so difficult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 10:35 PM
1

If the quiet ones show signs of interest, I prefer them by a wide margin to bitchy loud girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:46 AM
16

Her gunt is a big part of her 'huge tracts of land'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 07:26 PM
6

2x convicted felon? Go for that third time - you'll get a kind of long term relationship then. You'll have a place to stay and 3 meals a day at no charge to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 07:14 PM
3

Well obviously you would need high morals - makes up for what she lacks so there is enough morals together as a couple. She has none so you need twice as much as the average person - and they say these women can't do simple math ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 12:26 AM
1

Wants effort but is she going to put in any effort to become a mature adult with something more to offer a guy more than a quick lay? - Ewww, like, whatever, like, gag me with a spoon. Entertainment me, be more fun for me, exist just for me. Well enough about me. Let's talk about you. What can you do for me? This "valley girl" is already spoiled, listen closely and you can hear the flies buzzing around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 01:26 PM
2

well there goes my theory that the hamstar definition was going to include one with top tier mental hamstering abilities along with being physically a hambeast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:34 PM
6

Here's some coaching on spades: let's call a spade a spade and just call you a hoe. Don't have to dig any deeper than that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 10:24 PM
3

Insert the applicable "hotdog down a hallway" trope here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 05:48 PM
4

Which would be a better business decision an expensive ring and fantasy wedding that will put you both in debt right from the start or say perhaps a down payment on a house which, unlikely your dream fantasy Disney wedding, is more than a one day "investment". Disney messed whose head up???? Yes, what can we do for each other? Get back to the drawing board and figure out what you can offer him other than your rapidly depreciating body (which you will take away whenever the mood strikes), and a p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 01:13 AM
10

Is this like Name That Tune except instead of naming the tune in so many notes, it is how many seconds of video until you can figure out if she's a crazy bitch or not?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:10 PM
2

What are you talking about? She has plenty of curves; in fact she's one big curve - so, a sphere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 01:08 AM
3

"Old schools morals of respect, loyalty, and manners" respect - no respect or thought to what a man might want - whole lot of 'must accept'. on a good day you'll be 4th or lower: after her kid(s), her dog (prominently pictured), and of course her. loyalty - single mom, where was that 'stand by your man' loyalty? manners - besides the whole post full of demands, "loud one in a crowd" sticks out to contradict this. how loud and obnoxious can she be? you don't want to find out, she'll make the yipp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/21 12:08 PM
1

Looking for something serious and real - for him it would be that. Like a heart attack, but more life threatening and harmful to his overall health.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 08:21 PM
8

One telling omission - 1 husband, married 8 months, 3 kids. Do the math. Either likely 2 kids out of wedlock with the husband (doubtful) or 2 or 3 men she is making no real comments about that likely reflect badly on her. Guessing she married the one guy when she got knocked up for reason$. A telling word "I've waited my entire life for unconditional love and to feel wanted." Waited; nothing active, nothing she has worked towards, just waited. Just like she waited for so long for things to get b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 08:09 PM
3

spoken with a New England accent. "Say it, Frenchy. Say chowdah"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 12:41 AM
12

Like the arcade game Gorf 'Play Gorf insert coin ... Bad move Space Cadet ... You lose Space Cadet. Ha Ha."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 11:54 PM
3

I think her ideal 4lifer is some thug that is doing 20 to life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 02:03 PM
1

Be honest? Where is the plausible deniability in being honest? Plausible deniability is a big part of the mixture of the fuel they run on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 01:49 PM
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I think the organ you're looking for is further down "About that special feeling we get in the cockles of our hearts Maybe below the cockles Maybe in the sub cockle area Maybe in the liver, maybe in the kidneys Maybe even in the colon, we don't know"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 01:34 PM
18

What was that online study a while back that had women over 3/4 of men as unattractive? Think the men's view of woman's attractiveness was more evenly distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:55 PM
1

You sure it ain't Falco? Gives a whole new meaning to "Come and rock me, Amadeus"
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/21 08:18 PM
3

Oh goody! I can work myself up from 'new man' to a position with a fancier title while loosing any and all possible benefits along with any remaining piece of mind and discretionary income. What a deal! You'll now be with some company that is growing ... literally each day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 11:11 PM
1

Some reasons I've heard: She doesn't really have much free time to date. Raising a kid that is not yours (and having little to none of the authority and/or respect and all of the responsibility). The "baby daddy" may still be in the woman's life and all the "drama" that may entail, plus the feelings she may still harbour for the "baby daddy". In some jurisdictions the financial sink hole you may be entering if you live together for a while. You'll be way down her list of priorities - after her, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:57 PM
2

Monty Python's The Meaning of Life has some examples of this: https://youtu.be/PDBjsFAyiwA https://youtu.be/mWWAC5ZMKeM
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 03:10 PM
2

They want to have sex and never speak again? Must be monks of The Order of Chadus Hasbetteroptionus. They take their primary vow of Catch and Release very seriously; comes along with a very particular vow of silence towards you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 11:21 PM
1

"I'm looking for a commitment, I'm tired of being lied to." pick one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 11:16 PM
2

With the septum ring she was trying to distract us from her face. Sauran's ring wouldn't have enough power to accomplish that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 11:15 PM
2

I was thinking Kim Jong-un really let himself go, but maybe yours in more accurate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 11:11 PM
11

Okay, I'll bring along the Spanish Inquisition for our "date". Great my best friend is having his bi-annual bring the most stuck up, self-entitled, deluded gold digger you can find to a party; shortened to "bitch-fest" back when it was still annual. Your "time is to precious"? Time too precious type another 'o'? Is it also you're too precious to even touch a guy much less ever give him another 'o'? Trying to date you would be the cherry on the shit sundae of a life of bad choices - is your reaso…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 11:07 PM
2

a pear at worst? How about a blob? Think Michelin Man left out in the hot sun to long and everything melted and sunk down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/21 04:02 PM
1

How about if you falsely accuse someone of rape you do the same time as a convicted rapist would?
/r/EverydayMisandry03/09/21 08:14 PM
1

School of hard knock ... ups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 12:51 AM
1

She's missed her period so many times she resents all punctuation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 12:45 AM
1

and not all finished high school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 12:35 AM
3

"She enjoys the nightlife ..." Oh, she loves the night life. She got to boogie with Chad and now she's knocked up and 'round, oh yea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 12:31 AM
12

That part of reddit - don't go there .. There be dragons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 12:27 AM
1

Jane no speak good. Tarzan brain hurt. Stop Jane, Stop ... See Dick and Tarzan run, Run guys Run!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 12:22 AM
4

"fed up with your incontinence" - pissed off? having a really crappy time? losing control? ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 10:39 PM
1

With a statement like that you've got to believe she is experienced at talking out of her ass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 05:31 PM
3

The sister in law, a high school grad, wrote a short grocery list that include braid, and chicken noozle soup (she may have spelled soup wrong also - I don't remember). That was accurate example of her general spelling ability. Sad state of schools these days - afraid to fail anyone and just pass them on through to the next grade.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 05:27 PM
3

then the hits just keep on coming!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 05:14 PM
3

If that doesn't work, she can always just join a cult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 05:10 PM
2

Know your worth? Think it is past time for you to get reappraised.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 10:45 PM
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Sure looks like it. Think she's shaped like one now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 10:43 PM
2

https://i.imgur.com/Shbss2N.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:32 PM
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They were hosting friends in a party in their house. He just temporarily left to another room. She at the very least showed close to zero tact and discretion. Thoughtless immature cruel cunty behaviour; whether she thought he'd hear it or not. Already spreading it to several friends and might get back to him in one way or another. Even if it doesn't they might think of him differently. I'm guessing you wouldn't condone him dry humping and making out with another woman in a room used as a dance f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:57 AM
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For some it rates well below a chore. At least with a chore they can often be willing to do it on a regular basis and do a satisfactory to good job doing it. She rather take the time/energy/trouble to do a good job regrouting the tile in the bathroom than have sex a blowjob or even a handjob, enthusiastic or not, with her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:41 PM
1

Yes, in a second, if I could drop her without paying any spousal support. She can half of everything we have now, no problem. If it happened decades ago, I'm sure I would have dropped everything for as much sex as I could take. Being a middle aged guy now, my sex drive is much lower and I would cherish a couple or few times a week without changing much about family, hobbies, etc. Would be a dream come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:39 PM
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Even those men at the apex don't have control on how the game is played (whether the business world, the sexual marketplace, etc.). The game to a large degree is rigged in their favour but that is about it. Beyond an apex fallacy. What is that saying about human beings? - not sure of the numbers. Something like running 100 year old software on 100,000 year old hardware.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:33 PM
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and if I said my ex was thinner, had a more pleasant face, and had bigger and nicer tits would you try to change to better fit that ideal? or would you just be more "emotionally frail" If every woman did the stereotypical "Does my ass look fat in those jeans?" and the man gave an honest answer do you think the woman on average would be happy about it or would she be a "dainty thing". Your fiancee blabbing about your sex life and comparing you unfavorably in both dick size and how you are in bed …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:15 PM
2

Where is this from? If you mean the 37 dicks comment it is from the movie Clerks. Dante Hicks : 37! My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks! Customer with Diapers : In a row?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:54 PM
2

Date her so you always will have the same answer to the question in the Capital One commercial: "What's in Your Wallet?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 04:08 AM
2

now if the owners of Ticketmaster were in a cage fight I'd pay to see that ... as long as they weren't part of the ticket selling. well ... if it was fight to the death I'd allow them their cut.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 02:57 AM
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I think it may be like the gambler who is losing and decides to double down on their next bet. That would be like a former old NHL'er who thinks he still deserves an NHL salary when he is now playing in some Jules Verne league (20,000 leagues below the NHL)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:21 AM
3

no hookups? why? your nose ring broken? we'll try a 9v battery. if that doesn't work, maybe we can jump start you with some emergency cables and a car battery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:15 AM
18

possibly a competitive swimmer? (wouldn't know personally - I swim like a rock)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:13 AM
11

and if she's lucky she can work her way up to her own weekday night. Not weekend, that's for the top tier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:11 AM
2

challenges her ... to a fist fight. no holds barred. winner takes all!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:09 AM
2

Did the green colour wear off on The Grinch or did it just get filtered out?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:38 PM
2

She wants to be spoiled? She's moved on well past the spoiled state into decomposition. You may recognize some of them below. "A carrion study of the baby pig, Sus scrofa Linnaeus, was conducted during the summers of 1962 and 1963 in a mixed mesophytic hardwood-pine community at Clemson, South Carolina. Six stages of decomposition were delimited for carrion exposed to arthropods: fresh, bloated, active decay, advanced decay, dry, and remains. Five stages were recognized for carrion protected fro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 03:08 AM
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"His 5 year plan: to get married, have kids, buy/own house" With you? He'd better off attempting to meet the quotas of Stalin's first 5 year plan. Goals would be more achievable that trying to match up to her laundry list of wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 02:57 AM
1

No photo from the back, but if her ass isn't sagging down yet it is on the way there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 02:36 AM
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"the guy I'm meant to be with" Build-A-Bear has expanded into Build-A-Man. Just go online and pick out all the physical and personality qualities you want; if the qualities contradict each other that will just cost a little extra. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 02:24 AM
3

So, you must be putting your kid up for adoption then ... right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 08:37 PM
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My first thought after SO WHAT! would be "is she going to regularly spend any of it on me?" or is it the usual case of her money is her money and my money is our money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 08:11 PM
23

From our perspective, without thinking about it in depth, it does seem odd. More interested in the sizzle than the steak.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 01:28 AM
17

No "childish games"? With 8 kids, you'd think that would be right in your wheelhouse. Medical Assistant - here's two words WAY too late you should have been familiar with - tubal ligation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/21 03:15 PM
1

If she was a hoe, she'd at least be making money. There is an empty street corner somewhere downtown just waiting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/21 01:48 AM
5

Night with that? "It is pitch black. You are likely to be eaten by a grue."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 10:20 PM
2

Got that reference, but then again I'm an old guy (over 50). Think Genesis used the same or very similar style puppets in their Land of Confusion video. https://youtu.be/Yq7FKO5DlV0
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 10:09 PM
6

Nah, I think she just made a typo. She's looking for a guy who has had a lobotomy. Good target group for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 10:01 PM
1

Her outfit befits her: "She's a cold hearted snake. Look into her eyes"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 02:52 AM
2

Mama can you take care of the boys for the night? Thanks, I'm going out now. I'm gunna borrow your nice stage show clothes for my "date". They are nicer than mine. Yes, I'm gonna try and baby trap a man for me - wish me luck, third times the charm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 02:34 AM
2

Majored in the Visceral Arts in Collage. No intellect or thinking - just whatever gave her the "feels" at the moment. Her bedroom floor is likely a work of art. The carpet: an ingrained collage of moldy leftover fast food, cigarette butts, and pieces of broken toys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 02:20 AM
2

So that's what she's referring to when she mentions settling down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 02:25 AM
4

If you're looking for a gentleman you better act like a lady. and from her tirades we can tell whatever thing she is, she ain't no lady. Escorts have more class - she's more on the level of a methed up street walker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 06:40 PM
2

I was thinking she's the definition of a vile cunt but gold digger falls within that too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 06:34 PM
1

No I don`t care if I find my looks match. Looks have become less important to me as I`ve gotten older. Problem is many average or below average looking women have the same looks (and other) standards as those very good looking (by societal standards) women. If they are of a certain age there is a subset that rather live her life mainly without guys, spend lots of time with her girlfriends and pets, and just supposed wait for a guy to come around that "checks every box" to fall in her lap. Men be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:28 PM
2

What's my view on my mother? Is my opinion of her consistent with all women? Second answer first. No, but she is of a different generation and in many ways fits some stereotypes of that generation. She's a great cook and keeps her home spotless and presentable. Eldest child and still takes care of her younger siblings in some ways. Would I want to be married to someone like her? No, even if I exclude my present views on marriage and current spousal support laws in my jurisdiction. I strongly sus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:21 PM
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"I am on all the apps and make an effort to an effort to interact with them everyday" I'm sure you're interacting with the apps; likely along with every type of social media out there. "Great convos" by whose standards? yours? I'm sure they listened to you vapidly drone on and made a small effort to keep the conversation going - that gave you some of the validation you crave. You're no longer a cute young thing they'll put in EXTRA effort for - expect to have to start pulling some of your weight…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:23 PM
2

Discounting her stated age (which I sincerely hope she is lying about), everything things she says (and you'd need a full frontal lobotomy to even start doing that) and her first three pics, and let's just concentrate on the last picture: I realize she has little to work with but let's start with what we can see of her facial expression - cross between fish lips with attitude and a discount manufactures defect blowup doll. What can you say about the purple dress, the pièce de résistance - Well .…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 02:45 AM
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Government and baby daddies not providing enough cash for the "lifestyle" she is dreaming of. She'll try her luck again on her favourite carnival game/ride - the cock carousel. Let's see if she can win some bigger cash and prizes when she pumps out another unit with baby daddy number six. After 5 kids, what's one more? She won't have to work and pay for them anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 05:01 PM
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Have seen something similar as a couple of Titanic memes a while back: Absolutely no one: old lady from Titanic "Listen up about this poor guy I fucked on a cruise" Titanic is just an old woman telling a story about some dick she got on a cruise.
/r/MGTOW227/07/21 05:20 PM
2

Is she one of the several species of small furry animals gathered together in a cave and grooving with a pict?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/21 02:35 AM
2

maybe she meant she is a blunt. must be cheap skunk weed that has burnt down to near the end; all that is left is a roach - this roach.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 08:58 PM
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I'm guessing the censored word before College is Clown; the only way her hair and eyebrows qualify as professional. Ready to move forward!! ... I hear the circus is in town and is hiring. You can compare tats with some of the carnies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 04:49 AM
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Alas, I am but a common landowner and have not the rank of nobleman. Ah my good lady, mayhap after the two of us perform the beast with two backs for a fortnight, or perhaps thrice that amount of time, the friendship you desire could quite possibly develop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 04:41 AM
7

“Listen, three eyes, don't you try to outweird me, I get stranger things than you free with my breakfast cereal.”
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/21 12:58 PM
5

community service for that crime is a magistrate 'slamming' her ???? more like a "slap" on the wrist with a feather.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/21 08:43 PM
1

To the average virgin man in his early 20's - you already know you're below average in many ways. The hardest and most useless advice on the face of it you'll get is to "socialize more". Odds are you have few friends - and most if not all of them are more like acquaintances you have minimal trust with, plus you are quiet and introverted. Make the most in either your post-secondary education or workplace in making some sort of friends - preferably ones more outgoing than you are. If you completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:52 PM
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https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/half-your-age-plus-seven/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:24 PM
2

Also the cases where her interest in sex (or at least the idea of sex with her husband) drops off over time. What once was common is now uncommon and a very low priority, which then changes to never. His resentment of her lack of any physical interest to him makes it so he is no longer attracted to her. There are likely more problems in the relationship but this is what it boils down to for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:19 PM
1

Even the extreme masochists would be quoting the ref from the movie Slap Shot https://memes.yarn.co/yarn-clip/486cb12f-5db4-4f66-8aea-b331cdf8e68f
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 05:11 PM
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"Enough about me. Let's concentrate on you. What can YOU do for me?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 04:29 PM
1

More likely she has one of those "sexy nurse" outfits when she's up on stage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 01:08 AM
1

I'll give her the benefit of the doubt and say for her "pre-med" means she went out and bought a first aid kit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 01:07 AM
3

Always can up the awkward. He could be in the same room watching.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 12:51 AM
2

"I caught a live one!" Better not release it, I think it qualifies as an invasive species.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 12:47 AM
6

The majority is the men in between the two. Also, there are more incels than chads out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:46 PM
5

Never mind the hots guys, they are now longer 'wife material' to the average guy in her actual age range and league. They either learned the hard way or are going after women with less baggage and expectations (I never said little or no, just less).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 10:44 PM
18

Like that bit from Reservoir Dogs "How many dicks is that?" "A lot"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 10:28 PM
3

Too Bad. I was looking for ways of getting a stereotypical Italian to shut up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 07:04 PM
2

So if we tied her hands behind her back would she shut up then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 06:20 PM
2

It was supposed to be one of those self driving U-Hauls just like she asked for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 06:17 PM
1

"This is what happens when you fuck with a Sugar Daddy" Yes it is. Did you learn anything about your experience in trying to fuck him over? Didn't think so. How about start with don't bite the hand that feeds you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 06:14 PM
3

They let her out on bond again? Nice for extra confirmation that my country isn't the only fucked up that way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 06:08 PM
2

You were in a state of denial (/s). You were so together. She dreamed about it so it must have happened. Have to hold someone responsible for those icky thoughts going through her head when she was sleeping.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 05:59 PM
4

Picky however you want to spin it is still picky. You can call it "Matured and have a clear definition of themselves" - doesn't change the end results for guys. Ah, yet another one from Medium. I'll say it again - good name for them: neither rare nor well done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 05:48 PM
4

Unless you answer that with a fancy headstone. A response to that pizza commercial: "What do you want on your tombstone?" Be like at a funeral where she's saying how great you are and wished she spent more time with you and really got to know you, but couldn't give two shits about you when you are alive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 05:44 PM
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A lot of people are surprised when they find out your age because your maturity matches someone much younger. The same as you were 7 years ago - except more mileage and expectations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 05:32 PM
2

Oh, she thought it was Kinder not Tinder. That explains everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 07:23 PM
3

The Grammarly app tried, had a seizure, and died.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 07:17 PM
9

"Why don't you wish (desire) in one hand, and shit in the other. See which one fills up first".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 09:51 PM
6

I'm not sure but I'm just guessing it is the latest trend to try to appear "different, unique, out there, edgy". Has progressed from multiple ear piercings to tattoos (from small less visible to some of the graffiti walls I've seen to facial and neck tattoos), facial piercings (nose, eyebrow, lip, tongue, etc.) Out of any single one of them (except multiple very badly done tattoos), for me, I think septum piercings are the least attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 04:40 AM
9

kids: have & want more ✅
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 04:29 AM
3

Old values? So she's making a homemade dinner to be on the table for me every night exactly at 6 pm. Sweet. Looking forward to the made from scratch bread fresh out of the oven, all the preserves, and baking just like grandma or great-grandma used to do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 08:31 PM
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1 - Okay I'll nominate her for the suffering. I suspect she has provided more than a lifetime of contributing to the suffering of others and has had lots of "fun" - someone else's turn now. 2 - I don't talk much, so no problem. Even better (but very unlikely) if she doesn't talk much. 3 - if we have less time the preferences should be less because we'll only have to put up with each others' bullshit for a shorter time period. 4 - have to change things up. drunk every other week and stoned the op…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 08:25 PM
3

I need that spark ... https://media.giphy.com/media/MibgO6xYeVLig/giphy.gif
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 08:13 PM
7

stop looking for a father for your kids (including the big kid that your are). put your kid(s) up for adoption. get a job and support yourself. work on becoming an adult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 05:08 PM
1

You're going to give Baltimore Colts fans flashbacks. Let's just say she has enough baggage to overwhelm LaGuardia Airport.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 10:59 PM
2

Sure. How much do charge for "an hour's" service? We've decided what you are but we haven't established a price.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 02:39 AM
4

that should be the reply when the radical feminists start going on and on about the repression of women for hundreds of years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 02:37 AM
2

I didn't know that rafts came in leopard print. and who pulled the rip cord inside on this one?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 02:33 AM
5

"Society is not equal for men and women"You got that part right; if you're a woman society has all sorts of safety nets. If you're a man you're lucky to get one near the bottom after hitting every branch on your way down from socie-tree. "important that your man is willing to meet half way" I'm sure her idea of "half way" is Vancouver, B.C. being halfway between Victoria and Gander, Newfoundland.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 11:59 PM
5

Is that a quote from somewhere? If not, it now should be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 11:48 PM
8

There are two Thai women I get massages from (legit massages, unfortunate in some ways, but on the other hand a great massage by someone who is trained and knows what they are doing). Not much of sample size but both are quite attractive and have very pleasant personalities.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 02:41 PM
6

She could have put in a few minutes of effort for a better picture, but why would she do that for a picture when she doesn't do it with anything else in her life. A bit of effort takes a bit of work and work is something she avoids like the plague; in her case, likely avoids more than a plague.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 02:35 PM
1

Hand ground by myself, followed by pouring nearly boiling water over twice. A 1/2 tsp of milk and sugar to make it slightly less bitter than me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 01:41 PM
1

Women are marginally more likely to believe what they are saying when they don't add the "haha" or "lol". They are Just backpedaling when they add that to the end of their statement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:13 PM
0

needs therapy? therapy not working? electroshock therapy might be for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:08 PM
1

Too bad the "that was then" doesn't apply to the idea of the money he worked for - alimony at "a lifestyle in which she has become accustomed". So, she was cooking, cleaning and giving blowjobs at the beginning of the marriage? After divorce, shouldn't she come over and cook and clean the divorced guy's place - he can graciously allow her to contract out the blowjobs to one of her friends or a pro.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:02 PM
2

Keeping it real as a heart attack. ​ Play Gorf, insert coin ... bad move Space Cadet ... you lose Space Cadet, ha ha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 12:58 AM
2

Even the providing something gets taken for granted. Oh, you're just work full-time and paying for the house and all the utilities - married and living together (big mistake). That's just a given, why aren't you doing X,Y,Z?
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:25 PM
4

Was the old reddit romance post this one or something very similar? https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3z8o75/why_dont_men_get_as_much_of_a_thrill_over/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:26 AM
0

Just as bad if not worse in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:10 AM
4

Wanted a husband since age 16? Think we have a Disney princess wannabe. Wouldn't be surprised if she thinks animals will do the housework when she gets married, or that she can turn a beast into a prince.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 01:56 AM
3

"athletic asshole with tattoos" took that literally for a second. shows how my mind works (or doesn't work). asshole can stretch out to fit the wide end of a louisville slugger in an instant or clamp down and cut off the circulation in a finger. tattoo circles around with flames and with letters that read 'ring of fire'?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 05:21 PM
1

or are now considered damaged goods from being in a relationship for any length of time with women like her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 12:46 AM
1

For them, fun and adventurous = angry fucks with mental illness. The 'drama' (fuck, I hate that word but I'll use it anyway) and instability is what keeps the hamster fed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 12:36 AM
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I’M ALLOWED TO HAVE HIGH EXPECTATIONS BECAUSE I BRING A LOT TO THE TABLE. "I feel like I’ve earned the right to have higher expectations because in the absence of a committed love life, I’ve commanded my life in all sorts of ways. I’m pretty proud of the woman I am, the career I slay and the life I’ve built around me full of hobbies and earnings of my own free will. I know what I bring to the table and until I find the guy who matches my hustle and morals about love, I’m not afraid to eat alone.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 11:12 PM
17

Family Feud style - Who could the 'baby-daddy' be? top ten answers are on the board she's waiting for the fast money round.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 05:47 PM
28

"Born in Alaska, Raised in Japan, live" ... in that river in Egypt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 05:41 PM
5

He checks all her boxes except her box. Her box needs another hit of excitement and danger; time for it to hit the local biker clubhouse and have a train run on her. Here's the problem he has his shit together and you sure the hell don't; you're an attention whore and excitement junkie looking for your next hit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 04:27 PM
1

"if he can't even pay for the date how would he ever support her if she got married" If you're offering to pay for something, don't be surprised and offended when he takes you up on that offer. If your offer is only a token gesture and a test, realize he can use it as a test of your character. From the sounds of it your attitude/personality/character shown on the date was already sub-par ("close minded and pushed her way through") and he just fully confirmed it. Bullet successfully dodged by him…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 04:21 PM
3

belongs to the streets? just change her post from "tricks she learned" to "tricks she turned"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 11:54 PM
2

"I'm awful at making plans" At 5 kids already, her first plan should have been Plan B
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 11:48 PM
1

Oh, they have hobbies. Some of the hobbies are mainly to get the hell out of the house and away from the wife for a while.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 11:36 PM
3

The father is not in the picture? Go buy a wide angle lens. You fall hard and love unconditionally. So I guess you'll pay all the household bills for a man, yourself and your kid, and love doing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 11:25 PM
9

If you are looking for marriageable men on Tinder (of all places) you're going to have a bad time. It's funny, no matter how many time I look at the KFC and McDonald's menu they never include fine dining as an options. Quit getting on apps designed and used mainly for one thing and expecting to use it for something else. Expecting to use screwdriver as a task where a hammer is needed isn't going to work out most of the time. "Spend a little time with single women in their early to mid-30s" ... a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 05:30 PM
20

If being "not hot" and being truly average in looks was her only problem, she would have interest from many men (likely not the very top ones she very likely wants though). She sounds like she might just an attention whore. If she is what she says she is and the opposite of how her personality appears in this rant, she should be doing more than fine. If her idea of being feminine is faking a bit of positive attention at first, cutting that back after her commitment, and proceeding to just being …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 05:07 PM
1

dodged a bullet, a very high caliber (bullet) you want gracing your life according to her. you better hope it only graces you, letting it get any closer to you could be detrimental.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 01:11 AM
1

that could be dangerous - considering how long some of those "ladies" nails are these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 10:26 PM
1

Wasn't there some quote about cats that applies from some comedian's sketch. Something like cats are funny but they have no sense of humor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 10:23 PM
1

Clap? Why? Is she in the market for one of these https://youtu.be/sRWtFVFSx5I
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 10:19 PM
3

No reddit award but here are some gold and silver short small related gods ;) https://i.etsystatic.com/23684260/r/il/050602/2741350680/il_794xN.2741350680_s12j.jpg available on etsy and elsewhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 09:56 PM
5

or she just wants to get cornholed - a common rear end game ;) though I suppose you could also do that in the back yard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 09:36 PM
2

but she needs a Chad with a 10" plus cock to get past the physical (fat) of her and be able to enter her somewhat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 12:08 AM
2

women's rage is also all the rage these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 12:03 AM
4

Who better? their mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 11:57 PM
3

"Plant based" Because she doesn't qualify for even the lowest animal based intelligence. Take another hit and hit the reset button, gamer girl. Then pump out another unit, because I'm sure the 6th time is the charm on getting this parenting thing down right. There has to be someone that can give her some cheat codes for this ... right? right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 01:54 AM
5

You've heard of the pay-as-you-go plans? This is a blow as you go plan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 01:23 AM
3

Sorry FDS, the only shit we're going to give you is in the verbal criticism sense. If you ask "nicely", could add a flaming bag of it on your porch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 01:16 AM
2

Enterprising ... beam me up Scotty, only thots down here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 05:02 PM
1

Maybe-ish. Even in my remoter small Canadian city there has been a growing population of non-white ethnic groups this century, many of those from India and Asia, and not just the university students only here briefly for education.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 04:44 PM
1

Since she has huge tracts of land, she should marry royalty. https://tenor.com/H32l.gif
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 04:33 PM
3

they value labels as long as they can constantly change the meaning of the labels to suit them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 03:30 PM
2

Is she hanging outside the homeless shelter offering the men there dates? If she's paying for a dinner date she might have some takers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 10:08 PM
5

I'll take her salary out the money she didn't pay on the mortgage, house repairs, utilities, etc. over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:58 AM
6

Then she if she's collecting alimony while not financially supporting herself she should be coming over to her ex's place to cook and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:44 AM
1

They actually like people and men. People (women and children) and men in that order. More often these days it is tolerate or dislike men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:40 AM
1

So if you're an opinionated, nasty, busy woman who doesn't have a ton of time to waste, not sure you even believe in monogamous relationships, have run the gamut on single dudes in your city and you're looking for a "good man" for what reason ??? My first guess would be to spread your misery. What's everyone else's guesses?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 04:15 PM
16

women's solutions: increase the demands and standards, complain about what other men have "done to her" in the past and be more bitchy in general, and then put your ad in the casual dating category while mentioning that you don't want hookups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 03:57 PM
2

For some perspective make a online dating profile as a truly average guy and give that a spin for a while.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 03:47 PM
-4

"They laughed and seemed so carefree, they caught the eye of everyone on the bus. (Not in a creepy way)." Not is a creepy way? If this was a regular city transit. unless the demographics of bus ridership are radically different there, I guarantee there were some that were looking in a "creepy way". Also depending how loud and annoying the girls were, looks of mild disgust also.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 03:39 PM
2

She doesn't look like she's twelve, but she sure sounds like it and acts like it. Whenever by some random quirk she spits out a logical deduction, she immediately dismisses it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 02:09 PM
1

So you're saying you're Christian and a mother, a Christian mother? Sorry didn't get that the first dozen times. You're more out of it and repetitive than Lister from Red Dwarf in this scene: https://youtu.be/Cl2pvI1nQVU The guys at your local church aren't just lining outside with wallets open trying to wife you up after your Single Christian Mothers Ministry finishes? Shocker. You built your kids and life by getting knocked up three times without marrying the guy(s). The foundation was tingles…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 12:30 AM
3

Instagram - K? Are you on Ketamine? That would explain the writing in your ad. You're too old for games and players, but not too old for the idea that there is "the one" or to call yourself "mummy". Wipe off your face, deflate your lips, and make another attempt to up your ad to the level of mediocre.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 12:06 AM
1

Fun ass energy? https://youtu.be/-Jl_z6AlAAA?t=257
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 05:50 PM
3

horse hockey. Haven't heard that one in many, many years; very likely on a rerun of a M*A*S*H episode - Colonel Sherman T. Potter https://youtu.be/BPVsKI3nQqk
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 05:41 PM
4

She'll have to work harder to find and to appeal to that rare asexual man. Downside for her: she better be able and willing to cook and clean and be able to consistently present a personality the opposite of what she's showing here. She needs to be offering something of value to him - Quid pro quo Clarice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 05:29 PM
9

Sir, you're not allow to test the produce. You have to buy it first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 05:22 PM
3

"the men I seem to keep running across are worthless" So, I see you've found your level then; they're "worthless" and so are you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 04:36 PM
4

Plausible deniability seems to be at the heart of too many women. Weasel their way out of things because they only strongly implied something (which they often even deny - "you must have misunderstood"), denied saying something they actually did, promise a next time or tomorrow that never comes, or pull the old 'woman's prerogative' of "I changed my mind". For supposed adults, all too concerned about how they look to their friends and society. All too willing to take advantage of any situation -…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 04:31 PM
6

thots and prayers, thots and prayers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 05:20 PM
199

All those reasons for dinner and she didn't mention me paying, so her paying it is. No, she's not a dog. Dogs are often loyal, affectionate, and don't need the kind of upkeep she is looking for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 05:18 PM
83

Hey "lady"! You posted this in the wrong place, try the help wanted ads and include a starting wage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/21 05:26 PM
2

Only going off what I`ve seen on OLD with profiles of women that are past their 20`s in my area. From what I`ve seen a very high number of them mentioning wanting vacations and trips - I`d classify that in the excitement/entertain me category. No idea on the men`s profiles - if it is the same? less (my guess). Maybe you'd know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:13 PM
4

"Im not upwardly mobile in the sense that Im okay where I am career wise and have no desire to chase a higher paid stressful position-in this field or any other" I'm upwardly mobile in the sense that I want a man who is in a higher paid stressful position to pay for everything in my life, and futilely attempt to remove any and all stresses from my life - financial and otherwise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 05:04 PM
2

Grimace would grimace and then break out into song: ♬ I don't want her, you can have her she's too fat for me ♬
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 09:39 PM
2

Must have been another subreddit because there is no way now how she'd ever fit in a submarine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 09:35 PM
2

If her ass drops on you, you're dead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 09:33 PM
26

Ooooh I get a hawt guy to fuck me AND I get to be a single mom. What a deal! I can get "unconditional love" from my baby and even more money from the government.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 04:15 PM
4

"Missionary only for the expressed purpose of procreation" Now that is truly degenerate. You'd have to go to the real extremes of kink to turn me off more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 12:04 AM
14

What's wrong with an actual FWB? Is he not giving you the tingles and constantly entertaining you, do you actually have to be somewhat of a friend and not have the goal of latching on to suck his resources dry, or do you have the delusion that entering a relationship will magically fix everything wrong with you and you'll he happy and content with no effort on your part?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 01:09 PM
8

Way too much work to flip image and crop it. That would show making a tiny bit of effort. Putting a little effort into wardrobe choices would be way too much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 03:24 PM
6

She doesn't want to smile, because with her shape, the resemblance to Grimace would be uncanny. If she was wearing all purple McDonald's would be sending her a lawsuit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:16 AM
9

They are Humpty Dumpty (usually in more ways than one) ‘I don’t know what you mean by “glory”,’ Alice said. ‘Humpty Dumpty smiled contemptuously. ‘Of course you don’t–till I tell you. I meant “there’s a nice knock-down argument for you!”’ ‘But “glory” doesn’t mean “a nice knock-down argument”, Alice objected. ‘When I use a word,’ Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, ‘it means just what I choose it to mean–neither more nor less.’
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:04 AM
13

Romance? For men romance is labour. (One of only a very few threads I've bookmarked) https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3z8o75/why_dont_men_get_as_much_of_a_thrill_over/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:50 AM
2

Full speed ahead, never mind those icebergs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 05:39 AM
7

Fuck, if Hollywood wants men back in movie theatres in full force when the pandemic ends this is the movie they need to do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 05:35 AM
12

Fresh start? Are you seeing a professional to get your mental issues properly diagnosed and treated? Going to put your baby up for adoption when it is born? or are you going to continue on the "still be me" path? three guesses, first two don't count. I find the additions of Snapchat AND Instagram AND Tiktok to her personals ad help complete it - just ads an exclamation point or two to punctuate her overall condition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 05:17 AM
3

goddess? perhaps Eris: Greek goddess of chaos, strife and discord? More likely closer to one of the Gorgon monsters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 08:31 PM
4

with the car analogy, my first thought: old muscle car been in several accidents and written off at least twice. body, frame, engine and transmission shot, but the stereo still works ... mostly ... well, the subwoofer still thumps loudly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 06:05 PM
8

she says she doesn't drink or smoke. the mention of drugs is conspicuous by its absence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 05:48 PM
1

her own version of Duck, Duck, Goose: Dick, Dick, Dick, Dick, Goose ... and repeat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/21 09:30 PM
5

"Maybe cold but men are wired differently and that is just the way the world is." No colder than their typical attitude towards the "below average man" (those not in the very top percentages). If the tingles aren't there, you can bet any another choices will be at a mercenary level looking for someone who provide$$$; her giving as little and for as short a time possible to get that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/21 03:07 PM
2

I think even the extreme BDSM people would pass on this one. They wouldn't be looking for that kind of abuse and would prefer hourly whipping with a cat-o-nine tails. Of all the ones I've seen on here, she ranks somewhere in the bottom 5% for me. Rank is also a good descriptor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 05:03 PM
33

Was it Henry Ford who paid his workers a wage enough that they could afford the vehicles they were making? Don't know who is paying for the upkeep of those 4 units. My guess is either the father(s) and/or the government (you and me). Probably not the manufacturer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 04:45 PM
1

Are you really sure you want to see what her bathroom looks like?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 04:14 AM
2

Speaking of blows she has to end her tirade with "dating blows". Considering the amount of attitude and entitlement in her profile anyone crazy enough to try dating her, that will be closest any guy with be getting to getting any "blows" from her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 03:58 AM
3

The rationalization hamster must be putting in full days in the gym to keep up with this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 07:49 PM
3

As far as the text of the post, she lost me at "Baby daddy". The rest is just the obviously delusional ramblings of a disturbed mind. Whatever planet she is living on sure isn't planet Earth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 02:43 AM
1

"I don't like drama" She must hate her life; I see nothing but "drama" there. As always, those that complain about "drama" have nothing in their life except "drama". Sell crazy someplace else; we're all stocked up here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 02:39 AM
31

Status seeker with a case of baby rabies; he dodged a bullet. More worried how she'll appear to her friends than any regard to her boyfriend of years. She really love$ him. "If I need money I can ask her" Suuure. Her attitude really screams willing to compromise and work at being a couple during and after the pandemic. Even if she was willing to give more than a token amount towards supporting him can you imagine the nagging and entitlement he'd have to deal with from her. She only wants to give…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 05:48 PM
4

and with any repeat offenses tack on tubal ligation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 04:36 AM
5

"Product Manager" The product you're selling is well past its real best before date, is of inferior quality, and poorly advertised at that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 04:28 AM
3

physical very likely has gone down but on average has likely starting to hit his financial peak at 45 (unless he's been divorced raped)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 09:46 PM
2

and it is your turn to clean the litterbox
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 09:24 PM
1

They are participation medals from a primary school spelling bee. With her literacy level they let her participate several years running. She was out in the first round, even with allowing her an extra 3 tries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 03:16 PM
4

"join the fun now" There must be a disconnect on what is meant by fun. Whenever women mention fun in personal ads it doesn't ever seem to be about wild passionate sex; that followed by some peace and quiet on the home front would be fun for me. Their idea of fun usually seems to be some guy putting in work to entertain them, or in this specific case I think it means come join the chaotic mess in the household of her and her kids. How "fun".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 03:09 PM
16

Ma'am you aren't allowed in here. You'll have to leave the fire station.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 09:13 PM
14

If you're "old school" someone must have penned some graffiti on you while you slept - better go and try to wash it off. Same people must have put that thing in your nose for testing 9 volt batteries; you need to hang out with better people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 05:25 AM
5

"I'm a country girl" Too many letters in the last two words. If you want to make an attempt at be honest with yourself, you only need the 1st, and 3rd to 5th ones.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 05:14 AM
2

No. Didn't date at all in high school and not all that much for a while into at least my mid-20s Yes, but more so for getting some practical "hands on" real life learning experiences as a teen or more likely as someone in my 20s with dating, sex, relationships, etc. Wasn't close to ready for anything in my early teens and by later teens didn't really have any more than a few acquaintances, had some moderate acne develop at that time and was a scrawny way too shy guy with little self esteem. Neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:31 AM
2

If found roaming the streets a good man would call the pound to pick her up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 04:49 PM
2

Ack-ack-ack-ack-ack ,,, And it seems such a waste of time If that's what it's all about Mama, if that's movin' up then I'm Movin' out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 03:39 AM
18

Don't need to limit that to age 39. Women of any age with those filters shouldn't be taken seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 10:58 PM
2

HEY YOU GUYS ... Sorry, this isn't the intro to the old Electric Company; turn off the caps lock. If some of you guys don't get the reference, she's old enough to. Beards only? Does she want to hang around with a gay guy that uses her as a girlfriend? No Cheap Skates. Okay, I play hockey often enough that I get some mid-level skates for comfort and I hope to last. Those Walmart quality ones won't cut it. No Shorts Guys. Why not? You're wearing shorts. Don't you mean you need a guy wearing a spar…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 07:52 PM
1

I wish we had those roller rinks back; used to have one in my city many decades ago. Was named Saints and then changed to Wheelies (think lawsuit threatened with roller rink elsewhere of same name). Think there is still one over the border from me a few hours away (at least it was there years ago - pre-Covid) in Superior, WI. As far as 'Cheap Skates' I have a couple pair of mid level CCM skates. Likely the level of skates I have is above my declining skating and hockey playing ability. I miss pl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 07:39 PM
7

It's somewhat like being at the roulette wheel and betting in all on red 7 thinking that all the other red numbers must be 7 and wondering why they aren't winning. Then doubling down the bet when they lose. The odds of her finding what qualifies as a HVM that meets her demands are much, much worse than red 7 winning. The odds of this HVM wanting her are less than an unrigged wheel hitting red 7 seven times in a row. You're out of chips lady. Go spend a little bit of time on the nickle slots with…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 01:29 PM
8

"This queen won't be on the market for long" and I read through this whole thing hoping for a mention of a factory recall. no such luck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 07:31 PM
23

"I'm looking for true love, my soul mate, my best friend, my partner in everything. I want friendship, love, passion, romanticism, someone who loves the simple things in life" ... "I have one son, age 27, who lives and hour from me. I have other distant family members" You're looking for someone who loves you (the simple things in life) because you've got to be simple if you're still looking for and expect all that in one person when you're pushing 50. After two failed marriages doesn't sound li…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 10:56 PM
1

If you're serious get a friend or family member that likes you (if they exist) and has a backbone to help give you a kick in the ass. Maybe they could be your 'gym buddy' or better yet hire a trainer. You don't want anything casual and you don't offer one single thing to be more than that to any guy; you're nothing but a liability in every way. Here's a quote that all too many women use mindlessly online "Don't waste my time". A rare correct use would be from guys when applying it towards you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 02:02 PM
12

she is searching for a electric connection; one that really excites her - an electronic bank transfer to her account.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 04:17 PM
2

One of a kind. If only. Can she make it so she is one of a kind? Is she now not truly pregnant but has absorbed all those like her into her body? Is she going to sacrifice herself in a volcano to appease whatever god she chose? About the same odds as her being one of a kind; oh, but to dream.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 11:11 PM
2

Must have first lived as a dung beetle and then after several other failed reincarnations worked her way down to her present situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 10:54 PM
2

Here's a translation that is a bit shorter: Your husband picked up your slack when you got your ass canned. Since he wasn't around as much to cater to your whims you found some younger guy at your new job to get a 'wide on' for. You found some guy a few years older than your kids that gave you the tingles and you wanted to fuck (or already were fucking) and were annoyed when your husband didn't jump on board the open relationship idea you blindsided him with. When you couldn't convince him to ho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 10:24 PM
1

What is with that first picture and the whitish makeup all over her face? Is it a punchline to a joke? Something like what do you get when the wicked witch of the east tries to cosplay as a geisha girl?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 09:47 PM
5

She has a fantasy of a man carrying her over the threshold, but is realistic enough to know that it will take at least two guys to do that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 09:38 PM
5

And the forklift is a special swiss army forklift - one retractable tool is a giant fork to shovel in the hash browns and omelettes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 09:48 PM
3

how about clank then? ;) suddenly feeling nostalgic for old video games for some reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 09:34 PM
3

Ion - means any of her charges to your credit card you'll consider a net negative deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 09:24 PM
1

like that line in a Tom Petty song - a rebel without a clue
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 09:17 PM
2

She wants someone with a suit and tie in the same pattern as the chair in her picture. Not sure if she could spell old fashioned correctly or even make the drink of the same name.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 11:59 PM
1

She should think back - was she interested in the guys a couple years younger/her own age in high school? (which wasn't all that long ago for her) or the older guy? I'm guessing door #2, so what's the problem now?? With her attitude she better work hard on finding a husband because it is going to take a LOT of work to find someone to come close to some of her criteria that will put up with her bullshit; when the babies rabies kicks in it will be too late for her - and she'll just double down add…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 11:47 PM
4

Don't worry about the crazy eyes; they won't last long. It looks like those eyebrows are ready to go on the attack.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 11:33 PM
3

Did you spend 3 months of your salary on it? (or whatever the stupid standard is from those hocking those things) Are you going to go into debt spending your own money on your dream wedding? If you break up with yourself, do you still pawn the ring? Do you still see a lawyer and try to divorce rape yourself? Go for it. You need the full experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 11:24 PM
26

what the hell is "sock ques"? A quest to find that missing sock that disappeared in the wash or dryer? Don't ask you this shit when it's right there? The only thing there I see is you're sayin you're 40 with two kids and are one hell of a bitch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 11:18 PM
15

Be honest? As much as I can appreciate bigger girls that is one big stomach roll too much even for me. When you have to physically pick up your stomach to get to your groin area, you're dating/relationship life should be a lower priority and your weight/health a more immediate concern.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 09:08 PM
5

After zooming in, I'm thinking it is by design.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 09:02 PM
15

Pay her $20 or more? complicated relationship? Let me simply that for you: Unless you're getting down on your knees, nobody got time for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 10:46 PM
15

"writing for women the internet has forgotten about" She must be doing a supremely shitty job with her Google search terms. The last thing the internet has forgotten about is these women. You have to swim through a sea of those articles to get to anything about men in any sort of positive light. It is like the sidewalks and surrounding ground in Spring in some neighbourhoods; you have to look very closely to find the navigable areas and are hard pressed to avoid the thawing dogshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:33 PM
9

Think I already used this quote about television somewhere on the internet this week but I'll do it again. If her articles are an indicator, "It is called Medium because it is neither rare, nor well done."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:30 PM
10

"Why don't you wish (want) in one hand, and shit in the other. See which one fills up first." what she wants is in one hand; often what she deserves will fill the other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:27 PM
16

I see. Everything balances out. She makes up for her deficit of sheer physical beauty with her lack of emotional/mental stability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 11:02 PM
6

and all too soon falls "out of love" and takes for granted the wallet, house and big car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 03:49 PM
15

She needs to be a little more concise and direct "Need a bad boy to fuck me when my kids are away"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 03:45 PM
1

It is like the saying about television as a medium - neither rare nor well done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 03:41 PM
3

The only time I want the "blow softened" is when she is using her teeth to much. Give it to me straight - my teenaged days are far in the distant past. It is rarely her worrying about the effects of the words on the man, it is her worrying about how she will be perceived by others for using those words. Any bets on whether she is perceiving herself as a lot more attractive than she actually is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 03:37 PM
2

No you're not a catfish. Looking at your face I was thinking more of one of those deep sea fishes, the angler fish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 01:47 AM
2

If the terms "fat" or "morbidly obese" offend her, she should go with rotund. Rotund is fancier sounding but at least approaching the truth. She can expand her vocabulary instead of just expanding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 04:14 PM
2

"at 69 she blows a rod" Any guys named Rod looking for a gum job?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:49 PM
2

This town ain't big enough for the two of us That would be her and her ego. Only way it might be is if her town includes significant suburban sprawl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:47 PM
6

If my car needed that much regular "maintenance" I would be looking around for a new one, and looking to sell my old one to someone as a parts car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:37 PM
3

in some cases could also be an oral fixation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:28 PM
7

Blank would be a big step up from her irrational ravings scribbled in crayon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:25 PM
1

I thought she was trying to be the female equivalent of Mr. Fruit Breezer https://youtu.be/pVKBwVOBOh8
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 12:54 AM
1

Great job. Looks like you purposely applied your makeup to accentuate your flaws. Kind of how the makeup artist retouched and highlighted Terry Sawchuk's scars for that famous Life magazine photo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 12:33 AM
3

Fuck! after 6!! of her kids are in foster care she should have her tubes tied. Too bad the legal system would NEVER mandate something like that (mah rights to have kids, no matter what) - even if all her kids came out damaged from hard drug/alcohol abuse/substance abuse. She can't come close taking care of herself and any child she has will need a herculean effort to obtain an even average life with her as a mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 10:15 PM
8

If she is placing demands at the very beginning, just always remember this is her at her best; she'll only get worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 05:45 PM
4

I'm far from an early adopter. Use a 10 year old Blackberry for texting and phoning. Got it for $30 - barely used, if used at all, with all the accessories in the box. Works for me. If only the dating market had something comparable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 05:42 PM
2

Wherever you are with the young Romanian prostitutes sound like a great vacation destination or possibly a place to spend some retirement time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 05:38 PM
1

Or consider other countries than the U.S., Just ask anyone living outside the United States where alimony is alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:34 AM
2

She should be looking for a 70 year old with bad taste and doesn't have Viagra contraindicated for his medication.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 11:22 PM
5

She'll take the big red one on the wall. "Ma'am that is a fire extinguisher"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 11:19 PM
1

She got it wrong. She was supposed to have a peach of an ass, not the whole body shaped like a peach and acting like an ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 01:53 AM
9

Haven't seen 'The Handbook' How does it go? Step one: collect underpants, Step two: ?????, Step 3: Profit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 01:31 AM
3

So these tea bags must be really working out to have abs that could hold the gas pump nozzle at the station.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 03:29 AM
11

As far as I can figure, I think it must symbolize the sheer quantity of bullshit you'll be putting up with if you choose her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 03:19 AM
2

Yogi: Boo Boo I think she's looking for you Boo Boo: I'd rather have Mr. Ranger shove a whole picnic basket up my ass. Yogi: Boo Boo, you've tried to stop my brilliant ideas with common sense a thousand times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 03:16 AM
3

I'd have to go back to my grandparent's generation for something similar in the freedom area. My parents have been married for almost 60 years but since my dad retired I suspect the primary reason they are still married is because they spend a lot of time apart doing their own things. There has been a lot of compromise on his end (I'm no better in my marriage). Have to pick your battles to fight on what is important to you. Now saying that, my mom and most of the relatives of her generation are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 06:10 PM
6

In her mind, there is only her money and (y)our money. Take that (y) away this instant; were you actually thinking the money you earned actually working at your job/career was your money?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:51 PM
2

First thought after a quick attempt at reading that: English, Motherfucker! Do you speak it?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:44 PM
17

She must be on some serious shit if she thinks any of that is appealing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 05:37 PM
1

Here's a counteroffer of equal value, have some swamp land in Florida to sell you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 09:28 PM
3

gorilla grip pussy? using G I Joe with his kung fu grip as a dildo might be a match for you. "I'm crazy on a good way" ... to completely insane.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 09:19 PM
3

For that you have to real between the lines. No, not figuratively. Literally - It is in the space between - the blank space.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 10:00 PM
1

OOh ... is this a more detailed version of the Family Feud game? I'll go out on a limb and say the number one problem on the board is "daddy issues"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 09:49 PM
1

"I think they must not want it that badly or that would have tried to have sex with me at some point, as I saw them do with other female friends." Do you think it was because they didn't want risking somehow ruining the friendship with you (possibly had a closer friendship with you), because the other female friends may have approached them or at least gave very blatant obvious signals of interest, or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:01 PM
1

Pffft ... romance. Oh well, another chance for this top answer gem again. Why don't men get as much of a thrill over fictional romances as women do? Men fall in love too, so why don't they enjoy a good love story? And if you do, what are your favorites (TV, books, movies)? : AskMen (reddit.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:31 AM
1

Also, I want to travel the world if I can find a sucker to pay for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 09:12 PM
2

If she isn't able to have sex and if she does truly love me, she would want me to find sex elsewhere. Cutting off all sex in my life isn't at all a loving thing to do to me. The very least she could do is a "don't ask, don't tell" situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:35 PM
2

You no longer need shots in the stomach if you contract actual rabies. Is there something in development to treat "baby rabies"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 12:25 AM
4

Tricycle with training wheels level rejection/dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 12:11 AM
1

If you ever made the mistake of hooking up with her it wouldn't be that she "came in like a wrecking ball". It would be that you came inside a wrecking ball (she's that shape, hardness, plus made to demolish the structure of your life). I'm disappointed that I know a couple lines from that song. Needs a parody rewrite with alternate lyrics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 12:05 AM
7

Alternate meaning - she is as attractive and feminine as Klinger was in drag trying to get out of the Army.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 11:55 PM
2

I'd pay good money to see this reply posted in whatever forum/website it is from. There would be a shit storm of epic proportions but very little to refute any of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 08:12 PM
7

Most of the qualities she says she's looking for would have the guy she's looking for ruling her out of the picture right off the bat. If he has high self worth, self confidence, and self respect why would he want to be anywhere near her pathetic greedy needy ass?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 02:58 PM
5

The bigger problem wouldn't be getting sex with an enjoyable woman; it would be to keep getting regular sex with an enjoyable woman. As soon as her feelings for me changes for the worse and/or she bails, I'm back to square zero. If there was ever a period in my life where the possibility of getting a regular FWB wasn't close to zero, I would be a much different person than I am now. Getting back to your very hypothetical situations and one of your direct questions, yes I'd be a lot happier for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:17 AM
1

pay to talk to you? you should be paying me for having to listen your bullshit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 12:44 AM
3

If you are truly "independent, live a peaceful, fun and happy life", I'm sure you don't need a man then do you. Independent should include financially independent - $uport your$elf. If you life is so great and all you want is for someone for your son to look up to, doesn't the big brother program still exist?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 12:42 AM
2

"what the f*ck is that sun, moon, rising shit?" Think it more likely she is a Bad Moon Rising: ♫ Well don't go around tonight Well it's bound to take your life There's a bad moon on the rise ♫
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 12:23 AM
9

What is your formula for getting money without working for it? (Divorce X 4) + kids = $$$$
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 12:16 AM
2

and if you want a more neutral statement that avoids an appearance of moral shaming in it, you would avoid that word also. I realize there is a lot of shit posting, trolling, and emotional responses but if you are saying you want a discussion above that level ...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:49 PM
2

The most entertaining and true thing I've come across on euphemistic language is George Carlin's skit - especially the opening 'shell shock' bit. https://youtu.be/vuEQixrBKCc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 09:53 PM
6

I've also heard "previously enjoyed"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 09:48 PM
2

I'd up it from being the dealer, to being more like the house - making easy money off of almost every customer. But, of course, with pushing the paying for the running of the casino and its taxes and all 'externalities' onto the other sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 09:45 PM
1

In the original statement post, the choice of words like 'fuckboys' has morality in it. "Does your partner know how you'd answer these questions?" doesn't directly attach morality to it but certainly implies it. may be just me but the term 'romantic attraction' is overused and not defined precisely in the original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:24 PM
2

Spoil you? Your are past spoiled and beyond rotten. You're the equivalent of an old blown open black banana turning to a festering pile on the kitchen table attracting flies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 11:34 AM
2

I'm not going to tempt fate. If I say narcissist three times (like she did in her post) she might appear. Just a wee bit of projection by her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 10:34 PM
2

just need to add that she has the emotional maturity of one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 09:02 PM
15

too long, didn't read. I'd don't have the patience right now to read that giant word vomit. She needs to edit it down and make paragraphs with line breaks - it ain't rocket surgery ;) Rub those two brain cells together and get cracking; with a little help maybe she can get up to a grade 3 level. This stream of unconsciousness writing really needs to die out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 12:38 AM
3

Replying 'dude' is right. In the picture she has with the bull statue you have to look at least twice to think you might not be looking at a dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 11:45 PM
1

they'd much prefer to fuck over the winners (marry and then divorce rape)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 11:38 PM
1

"keep your horniness to yourself" while have neon red devil horns overlaid on top of your head. real cute /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 03:57 AM
2

She's working towards getting some exposure on television - assuming my 600 pound life is still going.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/21 06:11 PM
6

God help the post-secondary institutions if she was an English Major or if she passed any introductory courses in formal logic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:52 PM
11

I think Uncle Buck said it best "Take this quarter, go downtown and have a rat gnaw that thing off your face."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:47 PM
1

Do they make pig ones for those animal ears and nose filters? That would be closer to real. Everyone line up in an orderly fashion to throw away all your money in her bottomless trough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:26 AM
3

I can't believe I read the whole thing. That was painful. Some ambulance chasing lawyer has a new product for a future commercial or billboard - "If you of loved one read this personals ad you may be entitled to compensation ..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:15 AM
12

First interest - Disney. "Just looking for a husband" Just try singing "Someday my prince will come". If that doesn't work start searching for seven dwarfs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:04 AM
4

I just see a 9 volt battery tester.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:46 PM
10

"I am very sorry for what I did" Okay then, a simple one sentence apology should make everything all better. Did you try wishing for a multi-coloured unicorn while you were at it? Don't worry, just wait for a minute; your ex will come in riding that unicorn any time now. The unicorn then will magically convert the DNA your thug has in your unborn kid to your ex's and you can all ride off into the sunset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:23 PM
36

CON - spending time with my daughter (kid that is not yours with all the problems that will entail), talking (does she ever shut up?), trying new restaurants (which she'll want you to pay for, plus indicates she doesn't cook or like to cook), obsessed with Mountain Dew. 5'2" height is not a CON. Her thinking she only has one CON is a con job - whether she has fooled herself or is only trying to fool you is immaterial.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 10:15 PM
2

Something serious? Is that even possible? Nothing says serious liked dyed purple hair and 'making the effort' to take a picture by hauling your ass up on top of a bathroom sink. If only the rest of your choices in life were better and not worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 10:29 PM
27

where someone ripped off the tab that said 'Pull to inflate'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 10:24 PM
4

A solution for a dead bedroom would be divorce, if divorce laws in the whole of the western world would move into the 21st century i.e. regard both parties financially as fully functioning adults and eliminate or cut back severely alimony aka spousal support and ignore anything to do with 'maintaining lifestyle' b.s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:28 PM
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