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Red Pill Theoryreigorius/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 06:06 AM
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reigorius/r/seduction28/10/12 06:01 PM
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Blue Pill Examplereigorius/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:59 PM
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LTRreigorius/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:15 AM
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reigorius/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 06:21 PM
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Red Pill Theoryreigorius/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:42 PM
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reigorius/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 09:27 AM
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Metareigorius/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:46 PM
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Field Reportreigorius/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:33 PM
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Basic Questionreigorius/r/askMRP19/10/15 07:06 PM
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Sciencereigorius/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:43 AM
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reigorius/r/seduction28/08/12 12:42 PM
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reigorius/r/seduction26/08/14 02:48 PM
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Rant/Ventingreigorius/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:10 PM
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reigorius/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/16 07:35 AM
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reigorius/r/seduction21/11/14 01:18 AM
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reigorius/r/askTRP13/12/15 11:06 PM
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Field Reportreigorius/r/seduction30/09/12 11:41 AM
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reigorius/r/askMRP24/11/15 07:19 PM
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You have to see it a little different. If a guy is an '8' he can & will punch way below his weight if he is Mr. Nice Guy. Every girl tell they like these nice guys, but how come the nice guys don't get lucky, like OP? It's because a '6' can easily punch above his weight with humor, confidence and the general 'I don't give a fuck attitude' that usually comes with it. All three are intertwined and outweigh attractiveness. Or see them as enablers or multipliers. Without it, you won't find much luck…
/r/seduction07/09/23 04:04 PM
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Looks like you have work to do. It is the stark reality.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 04:44 PM
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This is not a LTR. Honestly, just pump and dump.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 05:32 AM
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It's not aggressive behavior/tone. She is displaying utterly unrespectable behavior and that must be dealt with accordingly. Point is, she knows you are more invested in her than she is and is playing with you. She knows this is safe to do, as you call a 5 month thing a frigging long term relationship. That is not a LTR. Most girls would still be head over heels and totally in love with you five months in. Texting other dudes would not be on her mind. Apparently it is and she probably is unsure …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 05:01 AM
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Overly verbose. If the linked book is full of that, I wouldn't want to read it. Also, I can't understand why guys put up with this shitty girl drama, let alone write about this trash and at the same time radiate some misplaced sense of pride when hollow vessels like this cum-dumpster are fucked in the asshole and calls him daddy. Woohoo, quite the achievement my man. Next achievement, filter at the gate. Fuck the right ones. You know pretty fast when a girl has a sense of humor, is intelligent, …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/21 09:26 PM
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I did and read about shriveled balls, loss of hair and wacked fertility.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 04:16 AM
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TRT = testosterone HCG = ? HRT= ? Help a fellow out here.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 09:00 PM
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40 chicks in 20 years. This sounds like rule no. 1
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 08:07 AM
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A woman talking about opening the relationship should always be an instant hard next, man. Especially if you care about not getting dick-rot, which has always been my priority.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 07:39 AM
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When does it get bad enough that people start returning back to more traditional values? When that niche becomes profitable enough.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 10:36 AM
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Girls are still water and guys are still the bottle. OP allowed his partner to settle in a certain shape for a long time and she got frozen in it and/or couldn't change as quickly as OP could, which OP reflected on. Perhaps in another timeline where OP had his shit together from the beginning, she could have been shaped into a supportive, working and compliant partner.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/21 05:29 AM
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Well, low effort comments here mainly, so this is for whoever reads it. Hope it helps: I used to do the date&drink in a bar thing. But somehow this never really led to awesome experiences. Untill I read, probably years ago here, that dating should be a fun and an enjoyable act for you first and second to your date. In that order. I stopped going to bars and instead starting doing things I liked. And I had one rule, wherever I was going, it had to be something new. Somewhere I haven't been before…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:54 PM
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Don't ask me why, but I still have this unshakable image of women being the one who are more careful. Nothing is further from the truth than that. But I fear STDs, even more so after hearing the horror stories of some friends. The more careful I become, the less the girls get, especially after a date or two. Mind you, highly educated women. Bizarre. Also, Do Not Stick Your Dick In Crazy.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 03:32 PM
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I truly love and loved it and miss it (in LTR now). But I noticed after awhile those awesome long, beautiful legs, great firm tits and slim bodies start to lose their specialness, oddly enough. Personally, it's the dynamic that makes a good time great in and out of bed. I prefer both to be awesome.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 03:27 PM
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Inner game is bullshit. Fuck your books. Fuck your philosophy. Fuck your meditation retreat. Fuck all of this. Inner game is all about self-confidence, which in life only comes from FACING YOUR FEARS AND DOING SHIT. This. One can read a billion books, follow guru's online, pay for courses and still stand at the exact same spot years ago. Go out there and face your fears. Avoiding something? Postponing something? That's fear trying to steer you away from possible failure. Your monkey mind is tryi…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 03:20 PM
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Yeah, I think this is either a cultural phenomenon (US I presume), a screening-error on the guy's side or both. Where I live I always go 'Dutch' when dating (I'm Dutch). It's a red flag for me if a girl thinks she is entitled to a dinner or a drink. Which I don't do anyway as it is boring. I prefer to do things I like. These are my experiences and I'm sure there are scores of women here expecting men to pay for dates. I never encountered such entitled women to be honest. Perhaps because I screen…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 01:48 PM
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Unnecessary direct perhaps, not harsh. I have walked out of a dates if I felt it was a no-go. Why waste my and her time? But women are totally unprepared to being dumped during a date, hence the vinegar she spewed about him afterwards. Handling this subtly is a learned skill. I think it is pretty clear from the outset of any date, that every guys aim is to get his date naked as quick as possible. I mean, she wants it as well and it's the whole underlying reason why people date. Dating is just an…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 12:07 PM
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I've read a few motivational books and it most of them boils down to just start or just do it and baby steps.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 05:29 AM
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Without context, the above is useless or bullshit. Also, this post is sending strong mixed signals: it claims education doesn't bring you ladies. Muscles doesn't bring you ladies. Money doesn't bring you ladies. Cold approach shouldn't be done. And then you paint yourself as muscled, having income and educated & that 'you're on' when apparently cold approaching women. Well yeah you, you condescending millionaire. But what the fuck is your message actually? Here is my take. Successful interaction…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/21 11:14 PM
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Awh, that explains the click-bait title. Polarizing works wonders though.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 09:58 PM
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Uh, sarcasm is lost on you?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 09:53 PM
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Probably, if he has an online presence he monetizes.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 09:48 PM
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This sub has been a wasteland for awhile now. It is entertaining though.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 09:45 PM
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Given that Tinder Tinas are retarded and spend most of their free time glueing fake eyelashes to their faces and learning TikTok dances, the bar for sleeping with them isn't high. If one can't filter or if the only filter is the dick-filter, and gets drama as a result, he shouldn't be dating in the first place. Stick your dick in crazy if you're curious, lack IQ or if you're new to the game and it just happens. It's half worth it, if you're enjoy risking ruining your life. Sex with crazy is like…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 09:41 PM
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Thanks for posting this. For myself the red pill journey is way more than just getting women in bed and getting a long term relationship to work. For me the journey starting with going full war on my inner demon. I figured if I ever wanted to attract someone mentally sound, healthy and in balance, I better work on my automatic thought process as losing weight, dating smart women and riding on their waves of them being in love was my cocaine. It felt good, really good. But it didn't do anything b…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/21 09:17 PM
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You still don't get the principle behind AWALT. Is not a spectrum; is a warning. I've shown with my paragraph you refer too that I am fully aware what AWALT entails. I also specifically stated to deal with it and plan ahead throughout my comment. It naturally is a warning or matter of fact first, a spectrum second. Just read all the field reports on the married sub I can't mention (which is RP next level). It's rife with men not grasping the finesse of AWALT. Brute forcing AWALT strategies as a …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 04:12 AM
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The major flaw of the redpill is trying to accommodate our growth to those that are not willing to see what this sub is. To add to that, unasked advice that is given, often falls on deaf ears. Hence the futility to convince someone on Reddit. I foolishly try again and again. But, in my defence, I keep doing it with the idea that silent redditors who reads an opposing post or comment, suddenly makes it click in their head and sees a new perspective.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 04:01 AM
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disagree. Red pill is a strategy in regards of the intersexual dynamic. Hence you cannot divorce it from terminology so connected to its escence. Not OP. OP has a point and so do the ones that disagree, like you. The fact that you can apply its core wisdom in other spheres is irrelevant. It is especially relevant, as it put things in a much broader perspective. Kids, men, most friends, colleagues, bosses, business associates, etcetera all inadvertently focus on what's in it for them in the short…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 03:43 AM
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The whole dating thing learns one to be able to discover the ins and outs of dating relationships and women in general. It takes years for many men to learn what works and what doesn't, even when redpilling. You should start as early as legally/comfortably possible to get the knowledge and experience and especially the realization that women aren't that special. And once you do find a person that fits your long term relationship goals & personality, you know how not to fuck up and have a blast. …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 05:52 AM
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This. This is why I left a well paying job as an engineer to become a primary school teacher. I hated designing plastic crap that just ends up in the garbage one day. Teachers pay is meager in comparison, but enough. What is million times more fulfilling, is the connection with the kids and the ability to help the ones that need help. And I train kids in climbing gym for free because it's plain fun. Every girl I dated I made clear from the get go, if you're in for wealth, the house, the shiny ca…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 08:10 AM
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Seems like no one in the redpill can really agree on this subject, some swear by being super direct and telling the girl all you want is sex and some swear by being indirect and implying your intentions. I like to be reactive in this. Whatever her ears want to hear (women usually smash your face with it), I'll say whatever it takes to get my hands filled with boobies, unless she says some weird shit I don't stand for. Than I'm out. But if she's nice and puts up a token resistance, which most of …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 11:04 PM
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Out of curiosity, if I would transplant hair from the region down under, would the hair follicles that used to live near my penis adjust themselves to match the hair around them, or, in deviance of the laws of attraction, would I have a scalp with normal hair and with tufts of oddly colored zigzag camel hair at my temples? Thoughts? Discuss.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 10:22 PM
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Yeah, the red pill is a toolbox, not some kind of code of conduct or to better oneself morally. Some do it for validation, some do for god knows what. I take from the toolbox what suits me and my partner.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/21 04:51 PM
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And married redpill sub. Those are some tough mentors in there, but well worth it as a toolbox.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/21 03:33 AM
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Yeah, the whole improve thyself is getting burried deep down in irrelevant dribble.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 01:30 PM
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Your missing the point. Let me put it more harshly, since it seems you prefer it that way. But first this part from your post, which is the gist of the entirety of it: Alas, in my pursuit of looking for redeeming qualities in attempts to validate their worthiness, I have arrived empty handed, much like their worth. No. It's you who suck in filtering the good ones from the bad ones. And I suspect you fail in attracting them in the first place. Instead, you double down on why the bad ones suck. Ho…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 09:26 PM
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Good insights, but, and it is a big but, the whole tirade about how western women suck can only be interpreted and extrapolated to ones inability to filter out the good ones and hints at an underlying bitterness. Why focus on the unsuitable ones? They are irrelevant and of zero importance. I see them at work, in the climbing gym and met them while dating. They were either a mere blip on my radar or a good reason to prematurely end a date. Why waste time on something that brings no value to life.…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 08:22 PM
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You know the old "why?" "wahhhyyy 😭😭😭?". Unfortunately I do. I say unfortunately, because I had my share of cringe-worthy & shamefull moments. On the other hand, learned from it and came out on the other end, miles better.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:38 PM
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TRP is nice for a while. But after a while you know how girls really work and the sub becomes a bit repetitive. Haven't been here for some years. Last time I stopped by, the sub was banned or something to that extend. Was surprised to see it active again. Although it seems the user base is massively inactive as top-post are from long time ago and nothing new reaches the top.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:37 PM
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True, but some guys come from a life-long blue-pill indoctrination. They don't know any better.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:34 PM
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Takes a skilled & experienced guy to do a pre-emptive break-up. But then again, it would be a contradiction anyway. More skilled and experienced guys would let it get this far on purpose. Best way to get rid of a girl for life is do all as mentioned in the post.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:33 PM
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Ah, the hamster wheel at full speed. Gotta love it.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:30 PM
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We need those scars to learn and grow.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:28 PM
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Welcome to the real world. Girls don't do this on purpose, it's natural behavior.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:27 PM
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The irony of this advice is the men and boys who need to hear this are usually emotionally unfit to use it, if a woman did enough damage on the way out hope is only gonna make the pain worse. But once those guys get a few scars it might start making sense. Absolutely perfectly worded. And it is the irony of this whole subreddit. Advice usually rings true once the moment you could have used it has passed.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:25 PM
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Whatever, not bad or good. It just happens or not. You should always strive to get her naked and wet. It is of no importance what she thinks of you, regardless if you do her or not. I'm a bit of an addict in regards to the honeymoon weeks/months. Nothing beats a girl head over heels for you and it's often miles better than a one-night stand, although I have had memorable one-nighters. I like to call a girl in love a non-one-nighter: an one-night-monther. Especially because of this: first time se…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 10:15 PM
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Depends if you're a manipulative bastard or not. ​ In general, I would say good.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 09:47 PM
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We all started somewhere, but you straight up walked into a motorcycle gang clubhouse and hoping for some understanding and sweet words.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 08:05 AM
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I teach kids and it's what I do all day. Don't date female teachers though, that's MRP elite level.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/20 03:29 PM
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From a European (Dutch) perspective: She wants a phone call to chat first. Tell her you prefer meeting in person, see what she says. If she insists on a phone call, delete her. If she isn’t willing to follow you for a first meeting, it’s only downhill from there. You’re really trying to determine if she will follow you. Along with you staying off the damn phone, it’s not your friend. Concur. It's a meeting or nothing at all. Requesting a call first is a signal of doubt or damaged goods. Did it, …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 05:17 AM
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This. Wim Hof breathing exercise explains just that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 12:23 AM
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Hm, my nephew is homosexual and that doesn't bother me the slightest. What does is the fact he has been beat up too many times for the simple fact of being himself. The unjustified hate being spewed towards homosexuals literally everywhere is my hook, my trigger. It keeps the wheel of violence in motion. I know you mean well, but there is no gift in calling someone a faggot, I can only see stupidity and ignorance.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 04:45 PM
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Thanks for the reply, but I was triggered by the needless faggot name calling that this sub is rife with.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 03:47 PM
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Often they will simply initiate in their own lame way This and I'm always amused and fascinated by it. Most girls are anything but subtle about it. I had girls hammering my soft weener or shoving tits in my face out of the blue, thinking that's is how it works. Luckely I'm a sucker for tits. There are however some girls that are experts at it, which initially feels fantastic. But you have to have8 a working borderline alert system as to not stick your dick in crazy. Those borderliners are medusa…
/r/askMRP03/11/19 05:36 AM
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What's up with the influx of homofobic RP-fanatics on askMRP? This sub needs more MRPers like you.
/r/askMRP03/11/19 05:15 AM
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You realise this is askMRP where men are working hard to find their way back. OP is spot on, at least you acknowledged that. But only retards, and not-out-of-the-closet-yet make a connection with faggotry and it's a sure sign of ignorance and stupidity.
/r/askMRP03/11/19 05:06 AM
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You've been away for three hours, there's your time out. Just get back to your house, pat her on the head and go watch Netflix or something. Don't feed captain dramatic by talking about what happened endlessly, you enforce her behavior that way and you missed the opportunity to set your boundary anyway. If you can't hold yourself back, just say, without labelling it, that her behavior doesn't fit with you, I've got better things to do and move on. This is not a discussion, just you stating the o…
/r/askMRP03/11/19 04:55 AM
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It's your damn house, isn't it? MRP is all about being the oak and rock. But you do you.
/r/askMRP03/11/19 04:38 AM
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You realise you didn't enforce your boundary, do you? You enforce your boundary on the spot, move on like nothing happened. If she acts up again, give the girl a time out, no literally, but just walk away, throw her out of your house if you don't trust her with your stuff and do something you enjoy without her. Next her if that didn't fix her behavior and reassess & review you boundary setting skills. Be hard on the boundaries and soft in the relationship.
/r/askMRP03/11/19 04:35 AM
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So, she slams the door in your face, realises it 30 seconds later it was silly and now you refuse the apology and you're being emotional for hours about it. You're supposed to be the oak that can withstand any storm with ease. When in the car you had a great opportunity to accept her apologies, say no biggie, you allow it once, and that you're on your way to do something fun and see you tomorrow dear. Enforcing your boundaries like you did comes across as overly dramatic as far as I can tell fro…
/r/askMRP03/11/19 04:21 AM
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Love it, although it doesn't last long, couple of hours at best and it is indeed very pricey. Which is the main deal breaker for most fragrance. Overhyped walletsuckers. But, Aqua = guaranteed compliments from people, even guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 05:32 AM
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Any reference you can provide?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 07:34 PM
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Even though your post is spot on, the "STFU" and the "GTFO" is unnecessary. It's overdone and doesn't make your point better, on the contrary. Also, besides good food being also about portion control, good food is anything but boring, taste wise and making it. If anyone calls it boring, he or she seriously need to invest some time in finding good recipes, doing the work in testing them and/or do the calorie math for your total daily target and make your own recipes. It's not hard, practice makes…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 09:54 PM
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To go off-topic, as a middle-aged climbing instructor myself, it is all about technique. Except speed climbing, efficient climbing is knowing when to push and when to conserve energy. If you climbed a lot, you know instinctively when to push and when to take a break. Another thing that needs a lot of time adjusting are your hands and the skin on your hands. You need a tough skin to last through a day and you don't build it in one week. Climbing is a great complete body workout, love it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 12:24 PM
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Is it thus one? https://youtu.be/U2mSl7ee8DI
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 06:35 AM
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I hope you get successful and famous, to spread the word.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 06:33 AM
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It is a weird and liberating thing having a girlfriend who doesn't do the shit as described by OP. Such a difference with my previous girlfriends. Or maybe it's because I have zero tolerance for bullshit like shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 05:42 AM
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Certainly, but he could have done so without putting others down. To me, there is no value in that and waters down the message.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 11:45 PM
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Were you in need of an ego boost? Because your post sounds like it. I don't see the value in calling other men chumps, beta's and blabla. What good does it do? And who cares?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 12:17 AM
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Ahh, the cruelty of women disguised as them being honest and forthcoming.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 09:04 AM
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Meh, it's not that great of a breakdown of the comments actually. Top comments are in favor of dad, wondering how things would be if the genders switched roles or talking about the vitriol inside other comments.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 08:33 PM
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I've lost interest due to the echo pit this subs has become. Alternative views are mowed down relentlessly and, well, after a time you've read it all and new stuff isn't there anymore.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 06:17 AM
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I lost interest in the comments section as the hate that is spewed here and the black & white way of seeing how things should be when OP tries to talk and learn about failures. If one thing is certain, you only learn from failure.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:22 AM
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Hm, you could dodge it by saying your not feeling to drink this night or you have a rack ball competition tomorrow or for whatever you need a competitive edge.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:03 AM
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I appreciate it. Pointing out the obvious flaw in derogative fashion by the armchair redpillers takes away the honest tale about a personal fail and what to learn from it. Thanks for the read OP.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 08:59 AM
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and melt the key. LOL... So true. I usually prefer to know the gory details before I stick my dick in a possible habitat for STDs, but girls confess much more and better when you fucked them senseless. Catch-22. And I'm amazed how willing girls are to have sex without condoms. The type of women I date have a decent educational background, so one would expect otherwise. Yet the moment they notice I'm overly paranoid with safe-sex, the instant they don't care about it. It baffles my mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 05:14 AM
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You're partly right. But the starting scenario's are undeniable different and the losing fat is easier than gaining muscle mass. Hard work is still hard work in gaining muscles, I'm the last to deny that. But don't confuse the different body types you're born with.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 04:57 PM
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The one thing about dad bods is once the fat is stripped away, there is an underlying muscled dude just waiting there. I really appreciate your effort and it commands respect. But for the skinny ones out there, it's a different story to get to the same level.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 09:12 AM
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I'm more convinced when a redditor here says he meditated for two years and that his life has changed for the better and here is how:
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 12:54 AM
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Meyer? Could you provide a bit more information of the studies and the subject and the complete names of the researchers?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:30 AM
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I was referring to intermittent reinforcement and if it works with children, honest question.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:25 AM
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Isn't this the classic push-pull?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 08:42 AM
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Does this work with kids or highly educated women as well?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 08:29 AM
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The incongruous thing about her is seeing the problem, but putting the blame and the power to change outside of her. Feminism, her father, her mother in laws, etc. Not for a moment does she consider stepping down that corporate ladder and settle for a less paying job. Not a single iota of responsibility. Women. Always blame outward, never inward.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 07:12 AM
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Most redditors come here for thing only, and that's is more pussy. Care to enlighten those pussy hunters in what way TRP was beneficial to friendship and self-respect?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 07:07 AM
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His ability to not give a fuck what people say or think about him. His own narrative doesn't change when somebody attacks part of his identity or perceived part of his identity. He totally loves and accepts himself. Being calm and collected without spiraling out of emotional control is the obvious outcome. Plus, this may seem like a defeat by not kneeing that little cunt and laying down the beard guy. But both aggressive actors must feel defeated because their words had zero impact. Hence the to…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 07:33 AM
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Mwah, he did the proper thing. Ignoring is often hiding one's inability to maintain proper frame when being provoked. By not engaging them, but calmly repeating his wish not to be bothered and to be left alone, he showed, or better, displayed superior frame.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 07:24 AM
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Married red pill. It's the only sub dedicated to long term relationships in RP light. It's called married RP, but the content is applicable for any relationship that is not solely aimed at getting the dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:36 PM
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MRP, add / r / for it and then the reddit URL. Can't direct link.....
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:27 AM
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Basically it's a Buddhist saying: nothing is permanent. Get that and your free to wander around and enjoy the fruits of life. Except, it is in our nature to attach ourselves to other beings.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:24 AM
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Detailz on her being psycho please.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 06:03 AM
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Oh, totally this. Especially the part when you disappoint them. Not sure if she was BPD. Maybe a light case. Beginning was truly awesome. Best sex ever. She came easily and often and it was just mad sex heaven. I'm a sucker for girls being caring and nice cooks. Add the sex and her looks to the mix, I started picturing a future with her quite easily and fast. When I disappointed her, in whatever unknown benign way, the payback was subtle, put totally tailored to my weak spots. When things didn't…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 06:02 AM
18

I enjoy that one meme: If you can't take me at my worst, you have healthy boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:25 AM
10

Dated a BPD woman once. Met her a the climbing gym and we started out as climbing partners. I found her attractive, but didn't consider her an option. For no particular reason. When I mentioned, for fun, she should take me out to dinner, she jumped on the chance. I didn't take it too serious, but when meeting up for dinner, it was obvious she did. Dressed to kill and ready to seduce. She insisted on paying and in the end we kissed, I grappled her fine titties and called it a night. During the we…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:05 AM
2

His first book is taken from his blog and occasionally repeats itself. His writing style is overly complex, so I needed a dictionary and a surgical knife. Didn't bother to buy his second book.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 10:20 PM
1

if I ever have the mindset of complaining about it, it's almost a guarantee I will not learn about it. Avoid that mindset at all costs. It can only hold you back. That's true and point taken.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:17 PM
5

Screen-addiction isn't necessarily a women's phenomenon. Guys feed their instant gratification monkey equally, whatever the content may be. Whether it being news, a response from someone, the next level in a game or another Tinder match. Screen addiction is a real thing and a gigantic waste of time and thus of one's life. However, the premisis of the article is that we men need to reign in women's out of control sexual freedom, just like in the old days. When we actually didn't need to as women …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:08 PM
5

I hear you. By draping the message in obscure words or concoct terms like 'feminine primacy', you're not really addressing the majority here. In my view, you're doing it to sound knowledgeable and conveying a superiority of the subject and it's corresponding content. Which he may well have mastered, mind you. Not here to attack him as a person or his view on current cultural phenomenons. What I'm about to say will be downvoted; but the problem is well-known in legal advocacy. A lot of advocates …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:02 PM
1

That would be nice of you! I'll PM you my article.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:09 AM
2

You're missing the point, but whatever.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:01 AM
4

In my humble portfolio of experiences, women seem to enjoy when I am unapologetic, confrontational and self-assured. And it is miles better than my old: 'What's wrong babe, I'm sorry and how can I make it better?' style of communication. That brought me relief in the short term, but gave me nothing but misery in the long run.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 06:24 AM
1

I think the two sentence paragraph is there to improve readability from small screens and small-width articles in news papers.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 05:34 AM
5

Well then, since you seem to indicate you do understand his style of writing, I challenge you to tell me the main topic of the following sentence: 'In this case we have women’s solipsistic nature that prevents the insight necessary to self-govern themselves with regard to how instant gratification of their base needs for attention is affecting their personalities and the decisions they make because of it.' Is it: A. Women's solipsistic nature preventing insight. B. Women's solipsistic nature pre…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 05:11 AM
17

Rollo as a writer has the tendency to cram in multiple topics into one big ass long sentence where he replaces common words for lesser known synonyms. As a non native, he is one of the very few writers I need a dictionary when reading his articles. And then I still have to dissect the sentences because of the multiple topics. To me this is an over the top writing style. Which is a shame, because the content is excellent. I once asked him why he can't / refuses to write for the common folk and no…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:47 AM
1

I'm having a hard time not seeing this as hippy bullshit. I need hard science to backup your experiences. I did a 10 day Vipassana retreat and besides it being absolutely hellish for my back, it did nothing really. It was a nice experience, especially that one girl on day 9, and gave me an insight into how my mind works, I was not convinced it was something I should be doing it daily. Especially since there are so many meditation flavors out there all claiming relief of suffering.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 02:02 AM
2

I recently read that all the research on mindfulness is hampered by small sample size, turning negative results into neutral or even positive conclusions and the unwillingness to publish research that contradicts the current trend.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 02:01 AM
2

Jesus, an hour and a half... I'm happy if I can lift for an hour.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 01:58 AM
4

To get to the part of OP, most of us need to go through dating hell, much like salsa hell. And when you emerge a better man at the end of it, you basically start to give a lot less fucks and just be plain in what it is what you want and you take in rejection without it affecting you too much. If you're not a natural, like me, you need to do the mileage to get skilled at wrapping in a girl with your words. Because I certainly don't look like an alpha. So I need to do it with charm. So for some it…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 10:35 PM
1

We are all eager and jump on the bandwagon. Totally understandable. But we need to remind ourselves that nothing is permanent, love, life and women. It comes and goes.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 06:57 AM
1

What is up-selling exactly in the context of interaction with women?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:53 AM
1

That was enjoyable to watch. Never heard of Craig Ferguson. A natural. That first girl could barely contain herself and rubbed his desk endlessly.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 10:01 AM
1

I'd like to upsell shortly before they arrive for a date. 'Hey, the weather is actually nice, I wanna go to the beach. Are you up for it?' If they say yes, and they all do, I inform them I pick them up by car and of we go. It works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:19 AM
-1

Explain, I'm too lazy to Google.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:13 AM
8

I'd like to emphasize that eye contact is as tricky as it is golden. Especially golden. It should be the first skill you should train as it is a relatively safe way to learn to flirt. Especially for the insecure guys like I once was. It's a subtle way of opening up a girl without actually approaching. It is also a perfect way to gauge if a girl is reciprocal. And it is as simple as just looking at each other and not look away. So there you have it. No reason not to try it. Small disclaimer. If I…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:07 AM
10

It won't be trench warfare if one learns to put up boundaries and enforces them. I learned that the hard way. Besides, key is not giving a fuck if that is not what they want. Tell them they are free to go. Release yourself from the desire and burden to need to be with someone. And do you. Forget all that crap of women not being attracted to a supplicating, compromising dude. It's crap because then you are looking at yourself from a womans perspective. So many posts, replies and outside sources d…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:04 AM
47

Yeah, nicely said but apparentely you haven't been raised by a borderline mum with anger issues. It takes a long time of deprogramming evolved coping strategies and maladjusted cognitive patterns. Parents can seriously screw with their kids mind. It takes some hard reset to see your own inner workings and it is seriously hard work overcoming engrained patterns.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 04:06 PM
1

But what if you want to raise a family.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:32 PM
3

Will the link or my account be banned if I put a link to something outside Reddit? Anyways, first hit in Google suggest an orgasm for rape victims to happen between 20 and 50% of those victims. So not the 90% that that noob claimed. Especially interesting is women who never orgasm in their marriage, but did when raped.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 06:16 AM
10

Wasn't that debunked lately?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 02:03 PM
1

My reasoning about visible fat would be that it undeniably show that the fat person in question was able to provide himself with an abundance of food, hence the preferred choice as a partner. Because if he can get that much food to get fat, he probably has good skills and would be able to feed offspring.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 08:26 PM
1

What do you mean with drive is inherited and how does it relate to my question?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:25 PM
3

What's actually the research behind this? I'm mean, muscled and fat seems to me that it signals the right genes: strong and abundance of food. Or is this Hollywood / media ingrained cultural phenomenon?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 07:26 AM
2

I have the same experience. Great looking girl and the sex was awesome. She had a decent job, nice family and lived a healthy, frugal lifestyle. I thought I found a suitable one. One to share my life with. I entered the relationship too quickly and I gave away my commitment like it was on after-sale. The good vibe that was there, was suddenly gone. And enter her angry fits out of nowhere, snarky remarks aimed to maim and her indefinable thirst for perfection. Everything went downhill the moment …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:46 AM
2

When breaking up women go to great lengths to put the blame on the ones they discard. TRP states over and over, that if a relationships goes south, you fucked up somewhere. My struggle is dealing with that conviction that whatever happened, it was I who could have prevented it, turned the tide or made a difference. But I haven't, didn't or just couldn't. And no matter what the girls does or how she behaves, it's me who failed. The consequential guilt makes me feel like a worthless piece of shit.…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 07:44 AM
1

Everything is brainwashing.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 03:04 PM
3

Unnecessary, but typical American angst for the progressive left having some sort of secret agenda to change the US into a communist, evil, entity. I suppose this thought will reverberate here, but it feels like an empty phrase throwing it out for the sake of it. Vote different.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 03:45 PM
1

You obviously enjoy it, why else do you still keep her around. I'm not judging you. I get it, drama is like a hot pepper sauce you sprinkle on your life to spice things up.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:12 AM
1

I knew damn well I could not hit her back. At the same time, I couldn’t think of what else to do. There is no such thing as an unwinnable shit-test. And shit test or not...you failed to guard your own boundary, massively. Draw up your boundary for fuck sake, make it clear that her pathetic behaviour is childish, verbally put her in her place, restrain her, be physically aggressive with a calm demeanour if she keeps ignoring your boundary. Let her feel you can snap her wrists like twigs. Don't wa…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:07 AM
1

Why do we even care about this?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 09:17 PM
6

So, you're not in the States, right. Which means you where in another country and you hooked up with a local broad in that country? Pronouncing love after one month of dating is awfully quick, let alone marrying.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 05:40 AM
5

Or girls think long-term and short-term. Short-term, than muscular is fine. Long-term, than fit is fine, otherwise there is too much competition from other girls.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 06:04 AM
3

Yes. You show a girl a boundary. If she chooses to ignore it and crosses that boundary anyway, it's up to you decide if you wish to keep a girl who has no respect for your boundaries. Guys who think they might lose someone by enforcing his boundary, is going to be too flexible with his wishes, needs and self-respect. He might think she just had a bad day, or maybe he sees it wrong or whatever his mind spins up for to serve a reason not to stand up for himself. I've been there and it's a shitty p…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:17 PM
1

Indeed a role model, as in I sniff a troll in that perfect story. Sounds written a bit too much from the perspective of Pete to begin with and in essence it's TRP porn. I'm not buying this is real. But good theoretical exercise.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:10 PM
1

Maybe the have figured how to be content with what they have. Unless our natural programming of desiring more and more.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:14 PM
3

Which drugs are safe to take alone, which ones are best done with a trusted, sober friend and which one should be taken together with a friend or girl?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 08:43 PM
1

It's not sad, besides, who gives a fuck how you get your women. It takes balls to approach, that's what separates it from online fishing for pussies. But Tinder can be meaningful to learn to game women when you go on a date. But approaching is gold.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:56 PM
2

The no contact mandate is for the guys suffering from oneitus. Those are the ones who are susceptible to fall back into their own grave when an ex comes bye and says hello.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:29 PM
2

I have a great admiration and deep respect for my mother. She stuck to my dad's side till his last breath. She took care of him more and more while that damn cancer progressed in his body. This is rare.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 06:06 AM
18

Women are attracted to only three things in a man's character. Humour, passion and confidence. Sickness, complaint, victim mentality isn't one of them.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:29 PM
-5

True. Good male shit tests well. Fake sickness and see what the girl you have high LTR hopes for does.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:28 PM
3

Awh, yes, the great, fucking, reversed & illogical modus operandi of a woman. I bet the Machiavellian in you is high fiving himself.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:27 PM
1

Coool, Ilya Repin on your Twitter thingy. Ever see his work in real life?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 06:10 AM
3

Lol, looking at Will Arnetts pictures, he has this slight head tilt in practically all of them. Really weird looking.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 08:07 AM
7

The anger comes from finding out I believed a lie. Whose lie was it? It may have started as someone elses, but I made it my own. I for one, and I suspect a boatload of subscribers here, believe or used to believe their own lies. It's easier to say you're brainwashed by Hollywood, the femininist imperative and whatnot. But the fact is, you choose to believe it. With overwhelming evidence that all that you believe, is a lie. I won't point fingers to anybody accept the man in the mirror. It was I w…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 06:25 PM
3

Which is a good thing. Keeps you sharp and ready. Works wonder for other aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 09:00 AM
1

That's what I suggest he should do. But I think he prefers to crash & burn and tell me later we were right.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 03:16 PM
2

Exactly my feeling. A big, grandiose opening and honestly, meager content. But hey, he is an endorsed contributor and ECs words are gospel. Tinder is the culmination of judging books by their covers. So really nothing fundamentally new in this topic. I believe the gist of his topic is people claim a lot of things and pretend a whole lot more. To counter that is either to judge them as they stand or alternatively, pour alcohol in them and then see them as they are. I think.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 06:13 AM
1

So, do I get it right: you're average in every aspect of life, but you are unique...? I thought your post is about judging books on their covers. But your cover however is special? Sounds pretty much like double standard.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 06:01 AM
1

Do wivey material even go to clubs if one wishes to find and LTR a girl?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:47 AM
4

I care about my family. I don't see what my life has go to do with that. I'm not the one to preach or be a savior. I want some material my brother can reflect upon.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 04:13 PM
3

Saved. Red pill, redpill, Greene, Robert, 48, laws, research.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 02:08 PM
5

Not always snare. I dated a single mom and told me straight she was looking for someone to share the burden. She was a squirter though, which was nice to experience.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 02:02 PM
1

A mental exercise I use to enjoy being massaged, is to close my eyes and imagine how her hands are touching my skin. This works the same with being blown. By imagining a mental picture of what's happening, you're much more in the moment. I found out I enjoy whatever it is that is happening to its fullest extend.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 04:41 AM
1

How about: 'You're just saying that to get me aggressive. It won't work. What's really on your heart dear?'
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 09:27 PM
1

Vacations...always were either a string of fights or when you go for the first time, a real deception. Last girl I went on vacation with kicked my balls endlessly after the second day. Pre-MRP, I was gutted. Tried to reason with her, only sunk deeper. It was bad. I was bad. But fuck her too, she showed her true colors and became a vicious creature.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 09:24 PM
1

A&A is now my default setting since . They say something dicey to test the water? A&A. They accuse me of being a player? A&A. They tell me they doubt if they should stay? A&A. Sure, my BP mindset is still lingering a bit, it's there, feeling hurt, wanting to defend myself, graving to get the last word in. Accompanied by a fragile ego and miserable sense of self. But not with A&A. This stuff works! And not only with women. And by not defaulting to weak sauce mindset, I feel more relaxed and sure …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 09:01 PM
1

Well, they all seem to want me for LTR. I guess it's my emotional unavailability and lack of attention that makes it 'game on' for them.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:18 AM
2

The basis for me is hanging out at my place. I cook some fine dinner, fuck them while something is cooking or they help making the dinner. We play a game/watch a movie/sit on the couch, which usually ends up for fuck round 2. In the meantime, when they are gone, I rarely text them. From the start I let them know how bad I am with texting, so they know what they get. Not much, but when they are at my house, it's gonna be good. Two plates at the moment with great bodies. Not complaining at all.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:36 PM
2

ultimatecad gone? edit: his entire profile is gone... Was there a warning?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 08:29 PM
5

It's not necessarily top 1% or 0.5%, it's just that what is available that seems better than what she is currently having. Hell, even the dog-walker is better because he makes her laugh and desired.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 06:19 AM
2

Gasp, did you made whinemoreplease delete his entire profile?? To be honest, I rarely liked his replies and I won't miss his predictable dismissiveness. He often had a good point though, but his deliverance seemed so counter-productive.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 04:47 AM
7

I like how you turned the (quite understandable) rant on its head and told OP to enforce boundaries. Nobody snatches something out of my hand. And when they do, I take it back immediately & tell them it's rude and I will not stand for it. However, with the ungrateful co-worker and the neighbours, it's more dicey. If one would seek the confrontation and tell them a boundary was crossed, it's difficult not to sound like a whiny little loser. But I'd still do it, risking sounding like a whimp. I wo…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:26 PM
4

Does the same apply for guys?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 03:08 PM
1

I understand where you coming from. I'm not talking about hippy bullshit energy balance shit. More the innate behavior we have as a species, as in a women naturally ejects or rejects when she perceives her partner as too weak. In that sense I meant balance. If you're off too much (too weak, too depressed, too whatever), a woman, by nature, has an inborn response, balancing out, in the grand scheme of Darwinism, nature.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 09:14 AM
2

I need to stump that lesson into my skull.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 10:07 PM
8

So your daughter lives with you?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 10:06 PM
12

Sex, female energy, convenience, the dishes, a warm meal. Cleaning.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 10:01 PM
12

The point is, if you view men and women as equal, as humans, then you are bound to think you can open yourself up to your girl like you do to your buddies. You know, because she is human, right? She'll listen and understand. Which oddly enough she will. But it will partially (or completely) erode the image she built of you in her mind. An image that is far from reality. But she doesn't realise that, she only feels the emotions that is generated in her own mind using that image. Destroying or tai…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 09:58 PM
25

Weird to hear me say this, but after countless dates, girls, plates and failed LTR's, I've reached a point where it seems I don't expect anything substantial from them anymore. If I need support, I go to my friends. Male friends.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 09:53 PM
2

Yeah, it's some sort of automatic balancing act. Shifting too much to the soft side, except a blow from the corner you least expect it. It's natures way to rebalance and redshift whatever the fuck needs balancing.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 09:39 PM
2

But Rollo Tomassi posts on both subs. Confused.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:32 AM
2

I only hope this subs remains 'unsuccessful' in terms of amount of subscribers, which you are clearly implying. This way the message is not diluted by an angry teen-mob circle-jerking the same rant over and over without understanding or reflecting it. TRP has it's place. So does MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 06:15 AM
1

Isn't the real value of this sub that it is tiny in the amount of subscribers and it not being a one-man show? The larger the hoard, the more numbed down the message it is and the more diluted the message becomes, being frozen in development by censorship by one person?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 06:11 AM
2

Interesting question. Why didn't we? Why does the blue pill mindset seems to be default by nature, even without the unrelenting avalanche of blue pill speak, thinking and propaganda.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:59 AM
2

I've seen girls struggle real hard to overcome their inner disturbance when their ever changing needs are not met. I applaud the ones who can vocalise that their mind is utter chaos.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:56 AM
4

Not necessarily oneitus per se. It runs deeper: it's a poisonous mix of devastated ego, lost hope of ever finding another one like her again, fear of being alone forever, crushing negative self-talk, chemical in balance in the brains (depression) and what not. Probably add fat and unattractive to the mix as well. That combined gives a nasty recovering after a breakup prior to discovering and understanding the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 06:12 AM
11

This, this a 1000× times. Make sure you drenched the red roses in your own, fresh blood. Girls totally fall back head over heels in love again if they see that pure form of devotion. Begging on your knees and crying how much you miss them is naturally the basics. Should work 10 out of 10. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 06:05 AM
1

There was a post recently about women and self-control. You might find it interesting. I get where you coming from. Most women are like that, but a lot of them differ in the amount of self-control they can muster. And often when a girl wants strange dick, it usually means the dick at home has lost some or most of its value. Like I said and I'll say it again, women are a mirror.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 07:33 PM
1

If you are the rock, the vessel that contains the water and an excellent leader, than yes. Women are a mirror. They show what you allow to show. Like what was said above your post, teach women how to treat you.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 07:26 AM
1

I'm still feeling my way around being dominant and not be domineering with my plates. It helps though that I let my heart get ripped to pieces in my former bluepill years, the foolish 'being in love' doesn't rear it's head anymore and I feel free to leave or go when I please. That feeling of freedom and abundance was completely foreign to me 3 years ago. And now that plus being more stoic helps to refine my interaction with women to better understand how they work.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 07:23 AM
1

Fantastic comment sir. You should make a post. It's an important topic so many guys struggle with. And it would be of immense value to new-comers and hardlearners. Adding several scripts as examples would clarify how to practice the theory. Or real life examples if you have them. Valuable comment that deserves a better spot than being hidden in someone else's post. Usually people refer to the theory of keeping frame, but a lot of guys need more fleshed out guidance.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:41 AM
1

Haven't seen a post of u/Omlala on the main sub for quite some time. Is he still actively contributing?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 09:23 PM
3

I also notice girls react when I grab their arms and pull them apart forcefully. They feel my strength, are literally pinned by my hands and cock thrusting in and out and my body. Or in doggy style, take one arm and put in on her back. Add the other one and hold both wrists with one hand, while the other hungrily grabs whatever part needs grabbing. Total submissive position. Add pulling hair to the mix and the juices makes it almost too slippery.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:33 PM
17

I read numerous times here that women are like a mirror. I agree, in any kind of relationship the both of you are a mirror. And then sometimes posts like these pop up from respectable writers. Shifting the blame solely on women can be quite relieving. But these posts often have a lack of taking on responsibility of ones actions and words. If you lost your hobby, energy, time, money and what not because of a woman, you let it happen too.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 04:03 AM
1

Don't you dare discredit The Notebook.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 09:41 AM
21

Well, the way this girl and many like her present themselves in their choice of clothes, the amount of make-up, their use of words & intonation and their general appearance, they filter themselves out as candidates for plate or LTR material. Boyfriend in question should not have stuck his dick in this one.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 03:32 PM
1

I do strategically compliment a girl on her appearance when I honestly like it. It could be her dress, her perfume or her hair. In that order of frequency, with the latter happening rarely. It makes them feel good around me. Whatever I want from them, it gets easier. On the other hand, if I would dole out compliments like free candy, it has no value. Using compliments sparingly works.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 05:53 AM
4

What tastes better, a piece of steak you eat every day or once a month? It seems the researchers are looking at the extreme penis dysfunctions in comparison to porn. The grey area is usually where everybody resides, but researching the grey area is too difficult. Instead we extrapolate from the extreme to the grey. I am by no means a no fap believer, but I do believe in the effect of a no porn, fap once a week. Sex just feels much better and the sensation of coming is more intense. The drive to …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 05:44 AM
1

I'm not implying that at all. Look, you have an inner demon that is sabotaging everything you think. It's main focus is the size of your dick and subsequently you not being manly/good enough because of that. It is utterly convinced manhood is defined by the size of a man's dick. Not being long enough by a set arbitrary standard, your whole view of the world has become utterly skewed. How are these thoughts helping you? Are they? I can't communicate my thoughts with you as long as that saboteur i…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 08:50 PM
2

I can see you feel you're missing out. But honest to god man, there is so much more to life than fucking women. When my life as I knew it dissolved into a bottomless pit of despair 4 years ago I had a track record of 2 girls. At the age of 37. And my last relationship of 11 years with one of those girls had a dead bedroom for 9, nine, years. We both missed out. Or so I thought. I fucked a busload of women in the last two/three years and girls are meh. What once was an unobtainable goal, somethin…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:59 PM
1

Drop the insecurity, somebody's dick size is not going to help you.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:52 AM
2

The stink is the biggest anti boner to me. But when a girl says she doesn't like anal, challenge accepted
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 11:44 PM
2

Everlasting happiness coupled with satisfying sense of safety and foreverness. Duh
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 11:36 PM
13

Don't put it on you. If you enjoy cuddling, fuck it. If that's your spiel, enjoy it. If the girl doesn't like it, she simply is not your girl. We make the mistake that, once they are in our sphere of influence, every girl can be coaxed into certain behavior we want & enjoy. Some girls just don't match with you and you force that what you want. That shit doesn't work. Identify does girls with whom you clash on a subconscious level, next her and move on.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 11:07 PM
1

What about taking in everybody's idea's, statements & bro-science and try out these things for yourself and keep what works. If you experiment, you'll eventually find out that dominance is a huge pleasure multiplier for the ladies and great attraction builder.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 11:03 PM
7

They usually curl up in my armpit.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:06 PM
2

I got one for you, weed lube. Google it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:04 AM
1

Common, it's so obvious it's cute. Like that gayoillube guy with his t-shirts. This poster found a niche and is trying to build something here. Watch and enjoy. Or just ignore. Complaining...meh.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:02 AM
2

I'm waiting for someone to comment to make their online dating profile fit this strategy.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:59 AM
1

I get dismissive real quick when a girl yawns openly and not apologise. She obviously has better things to do, so have I. And I'm happy to be the one to do the nexting. Not sure about the tingles, she looked very pissed and insta-blocked my number on WhatsApp. I guess, since her profile picture was gone.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:39 AM
6

Last week I had a date with a girl. She looked beautiful and whatnot, but I didn't enjoy her personality and her views on life. After blatantly jawning in my face, I got up, took a piss and when I got back I told her I wasnt feeling it and was leaving. She looked shocked and in disbelief tried to acknowledge what I said. She then asked why I didn't wait for her to finish her drink? I said why would I and why would it matter? I didn't wait for the dust to settle, so I stood up and left. I'm done …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 09:22 PM
1

Look at her mum if you want to extrapolate her looks +20 years.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:35 AM
1

Go on boxing or any martial full contact art, form a group of male only friends and do shit together. Display social status and these masculine activities.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 08:50 PM
4

You underestimate the strong desire to connect and belong. If a guy was low on the social ladder throughout his early childhood up till his early twenties, he can't see and suppress these strong emotions. Instead he acts upon af it is the logical thing to do. Women give the false impression of belonging if you are not careful. It's true what people say here, a women can't and will not give the love you received from mummy. They love you for the potential and the right mix of feelings you give. A…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 08:47 PM
1

Bred to deformity, that is what most small dogs are, deformed.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:03 AM
3

Looks like a scripted comedy show with actors. But what do I know, I'm not from the US. Maybe this is prime time televisized journalism.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 12:40 AM
2

Something only hurts when we already believe it ourselves. Usually girls dig it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 09:22 AM
3

Something only hurts when we already believe it ourselves. Usually girls dig it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 09:22 AM
3

Listen to archwinger. She has been hugely disrespectful. You don't lock your partner out of the house in the middle of the night. You do not treat people like that. I understand you are attached to her, maybe fear the looming lonelyness. And maybe you think it was a bad episode. Unlike men, women don't remember the good times, the times value was added and being great partners. A great partner would never look the doors to get back at you. No, she treats you like shit. Utter shit. That is a boun…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 06:32 AM
1

Such an expensive app
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 05:05 AM
12

She what she wants to do with the money? She wants to display the wealth to all to see. This is basic human nature. Up the SMV visibly. I wonder if she is doing her part: blowjobs on the spot, taking it up in the ass, showering him with compliments, being a grateful and submissive girlfriend, etc. I guess not if the guy is implying to dump her.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 06:41 AM
99

When she asks questions about you as a person, she is feigning interest. In reality she is collecting ammunition and poking for weak spots. Be careful what you say to whom.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 08:32 AM
3

Aren't you promising the horde of beta's here the exact same shit, but repackaged? Not to say you're wrong, but maybe, maybe the middle ground is viable and that there is not one solution to a failed sexual life, but many.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 07:05 PM
2

Well, report back dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 09:42 AM
-6

This captain didn't dump his crewman. Maybe he wasn't trying to save this ho. Maybe he let her stay because she was pregnant of his child. So amuse me. Was I wrong in saying that women are & act like children and that men are the captain of a relationship or family? If a real ship indeed goes down, the responsibility of the well-being of the ship and its occupants is with the one in charge. Even if his crew fucks up, the captain is also the one who is held responsible. What did he do? Was he awa…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 08:54 AM
-1

For the sack of my argument, I put the blame on the ineffectiveness of his leadership and the judge taking him down on that. I understand that in reality it wasn't the case.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 08:42 AM
5

Well, we do promote patriarchy here and we do say women are the most responsible teenager in the house. With us men as leaders of the family and relationships, it's measuring with two different units when we demand equal rights and at the same time claim leadership because we believe (and rightly so) men are better at being a responsible leader. So, in this case the judge blamed the captain for his ineffective leadership. In a true patriarch society, would we hold women to the same standards whe…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:19 AM
27

If justice is served by the amount of dollars you have to throw at a lawyer, then there is no justice.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:11 AM
0

I don't need metal to channel anger or disgust, for I am not angry or disgusted by something. Nor do I need to compensate anything. Just fucking rock and all its subgenres without bluepill lyrics.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:33 PM
1

If you can happily sing along with Rihanna or Kanye, more power to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 05:41 AM
1

I don't enjoy the musical sound of hip hop, rap or heavy metal. I do enjoy the sound of indie, alternative rock (not heavy, more like QotSA), but if I can hear the lyrics, doesn't matter how catchy the tune is, I starts to bother. And mostly the lyrics contain bluepill mindset.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 05:40 AM
6

There’s one minor downside to this.. when you have sex with a woman after 1 month of nofap you will drown her. It beats lumpy cum cause you wacked your balls for eternity. I love waiting for a long time and then have sex. There was this one streak of 77 days when I came back from a long cycling travel and coming then was like coming for the first time. Mind blowing explosion, vision became red and the condom filled to the brim. Perfect.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:47 PM
6

Same boat. Fucking this girl with an A+ body, but my dick is like mweh. I'm fearing my dick has been widowed. Several girls before this plate, there was this special one, because sex was truly awesome. I really miss it, it was just perfect. Wet pussy always, she came extremely quick, my dick just slid in without needing hands, perfect boobs, nice body, moaned softly, showed great willingness to be fucked...just perfect. Damn, I really miss fucking her.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:39 PM
5

My capabilities of coming relates directly to their hotness. Bad breath? Unpleasant odor? Bad kisser? Not a feminine body and attitude? Loose pussy? Went to the fishmarket and forgot to clean up? Twisting and twirling my nipples as if on an OCD overdrive? Moaning with a volume that beats the one from a firetruck? God forbid it, trying to dominate... No cum for you. I come the quickest with hot, willing and submissive girls. Especially when they can come easy. Fucking gift from god.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:34 PM
2

It's not black and white. It's not attitude alone or looks alone. A well build man can still fuck it up when he opens his mouth and mr. Game & Frame still loses out on a lot of female willingness and interest when not looking masculine/attractive. With that said, attraction starts with what the eyes see. Don't be fooled by what you heard when growing up. A woman is attracted by what she sees first. This is what /u/archwinger is saying: the foundation is your body, the way you look. A muscled bod…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 06:37 AM
2

In essence the both of you agree with each other. The extremes that are used, fat boy needing impeccable game and the jacked Chad getting laid without gaming, meet in the middle when we apply it to ourselves. You don't need to look perfect, you need to look good enough. You don't need to have PUA-masterskills, you need to have decent enough game. All women desire a George Clooney/Gerard Butler/Sam Worthington, just as we long to fuck pretty and young women. But women are acutely aware of their o…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 11:56 PM
3

I wish you were not planning to delete this account. Comments like this are so valuable.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 07:22 PM
1

Can that be done technically to another username? Including the comments?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 08:37 PM
1

I see posts where the username is deleted, but the comments and posts is still accessible. It's a loss to the community if great posts with equal comments are lost.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 08:34 PM
1

What about him?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 08:32 PM
1

Here's a man with solid personal advice, refreshing. Trying to negotiate sense, desire, logic...it's a all water to the ocean. A futile attempt to improve things. Instead you lead by example without using words. This is so fucking important. My LTR's failed when I used words to convey what I wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 12:25 PM
3

Can only access Reddit on mobile. What does TPM means?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 10:32 PM
1

Studying philosophy = nope
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 08:01 PM
1

Did the program after nine months changed your body? I prefer to want both strength and aesthetics.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:16 AM
1

What's the difference with Greyskull?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 01:50 AM
1

I mean redpiller fucking a slut with a bluepill boyfriend. Both boyfriend and redpiller end up here sharing there story.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 01:29 AM
1

How did your body look before you started and how does it look now? Does 5x5 adds muscle?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:05 AM
1

Is GSLP meant for beginners?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:04 AM
1

Why is progression fucked with 5x5? Aren't you adding more weight as you progress? And with lower body do you mean lower torso?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:55 AM
1

Noob reporting in, trying to make sense of all the lingo used. So, if I get it right, what you are saying is that more volume (total amount of weight pushed or pulled in an exercise (3 sets multiplied by total amount of repetitions multiplied by used weight) builds more muscle and/or strength. Correct?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:52 AM
1

Noob reporting in, trying to make sense of all the lingo used. So, if I get it right, what you are saying is that more volume (total amount of weight pushed or pulled in an exercise (3 sets multiplied by total amount of repetitions multiplied by used weight) builds more muscle and/or strength. Correct?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:52 AM
2

Did this scenario ever happen? It would be beyond insightful.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:42 AM
1

I'd like to try this. What dose do you use yourself?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:58 AM
1

Caffeine makes me not want to sleep in easily. How does it work with you when combining both chemicals?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:40 PM
1

Why would you mix the two?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:39 PM
2

I did the same, a 10 day Vipassana course in Belgium. The meditation was an interesting experience, but not one I would repeat. The backpain was truly and utterly hellish. The chanting horrible to the ears, the food surprisingly tasty and the insights very valuable. One day 9 I couldn't resist. Talked to a girl after dinner, when mingling was allowed. When mingling was forbidden after the last evening meditation we escaped the patrols and made out in the basement. But yes, cultish.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 03:20 PM
3

They are aware of the fact. I girl I dated, 28 years old at the time, revealed after careful probing, that yes, she was aware that guys are looking less at her. Being rational in general, nope.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:51 AM
1

So, with all being said and done, what can I do that serves my interest the best? What should I do to maximise my own chances of healthy, strong and smart offspring? And how can I best serve their success?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:06 AM
3

Could you PM me the link of that author installing a keylogger to spy on his wife?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:48 PM
1

Or leave a trail that doesn't hurt you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:39 PM
4

Use yubikey to enter a password without typing it. The combination with Lastpass is a killer.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:37 PM
6

We are analysing this way too much. She is just pissed she is not on his yacht fucking him, like the young models are. And thus she projects her own insecurities online. Done, case closed. Nothing to see here.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:28 PM
5

You were not blinded by the fact of how well you liked these girls, you got blinded by your own hamster which is incompatible with current society. We all got one. And it wants to bond with a girl, it wants to love. It's a balancing act of being aware of your own weakness (seeking validation, your urge to love & giving out commitment like candy) and your strengths (physical strength, emotional rock, solid frame) and walk that thin line that separates those two worlds. It's fucked up we have to. …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 06:54 AM
4

You are so right. Last girl I dated shot that vicious ammo at me. I was baffled. It came out of nowhere, unexpected, new and meant to hurt. Beta me didn't drop here or eject, because that would have been the smart thing to do. I kept trying to make it work, but she was... being a woman. It's a tough pill to swallow to be the one who always is at fault, no matter what a girl did. It's you. Your frame is not strong enough, you fail to set a strong boundary, you reek of hope and willingness, you gi…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 09:29 PM
2

What's wrong with bodyweight fitness?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:44 PM
1

Where do you get that 1 billion from?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:50 PM
3

I wish there was a redpill brotherhood in every city in the world. The gains insights we could make together. The dying part struck core. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 04:34 PM
3

Sounds like an okay club to me, would join it in a heartbeat. But the average age of 62,5 here is a dealbreaker. I got the number from research paper from a freemason I found online. Thanks for your reply.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 02:29 PM
8

What I know about freemasons, here in The Netherlands, is that is mainly successful men working in the higher echelons of business, white and seeking answers to questions like what is the meaning of life. Average age is 62,5 here. Not quite the appeal to be honest. I haven't attended an opening evening, but I'm slightly curious and wonder if the claim that all men from all layers of society is actually true. How does your loge look like? How red pill is freemasonry? Is it about the comradery?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 02:09 PM
2

Yeah. There is something odd when you grow up. When you were young, you could make friends much more easily than today. My best summerbreak was with a group of friends from a summerjob. The group split after each of us left for a different destination: uni, college, other work.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 01:28 PM
1

Oddly enough just women. But I see it spill over to other areas of my life. I do have goals, read my edit of the original post.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:59 PM
3

I lost the fat, gained a wee bit muscles. You suggest lifting more fixes this lethargic feeling towards women?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:57 PM
1

I don't have a MAP. I haven't read the MRP sidebar. Perhaps I should.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:56 PM
5

Once the shrouds fell from my eyes, it was so painfully obvious my whole existence was based on validation seeking behavior and lifestyle. Can't say it's quite the case anymore, so if it's not validation grave, what else could cause this drop in feeling and caring for women?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:55 PM
1

Yeah, that would be great.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 09:42 AM
1

More like a rhetorical question. But still, if you care to answer.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 05:20 PM
7

Exactly, I'm hearing the same words over and over from different girls. It just doesn't do a thing anymore.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:19 PM
2

If there is always somebody else, why bother in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 01:39 PM
10

Since TRP I've noticed I just am not able to fall in love anymore like I use to in my teenage years. I'm seeing the same patterns, behaviors and all kind of colored flags in all the women I date. I love girls, but they have indefinitely lost their mystic since indulging in red pill theory and practice.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 01:37 PM
1

The opposite of what guys find attractive here. Not sure what you are getting from this male sub.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 10:38 AM
2

Good for you mate, I wish I was that smart when I was younger. At 40 I'm switching careers, because I got stuck in a dead end. The dead end being me btw. Lazy ass addicted piece of nothing. Blue pill since birth, lost 11 year LTR because of the above. Finally figured life out. Red pill is a great toolbox to get out of life what I can. Found it two years ago. Reschooling myself from designer to teaching kids. Love it, but no money to be made there. Relationship wise it's a different story. All gi…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 10:34 AM
2

Damn, the i is so close to the u
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 07:02 PM
1

So we have, for one time payment (starting at 70 USD or more) three apps that does the monitoring of text, messaging and much more typed input: Easy Spy Auto Forward Highster Mobile And for 5 USD the app Cerberus, but with the risk of being blacklisted when caught spying.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:58 AM
2

I'm asking you for suggestions, not Google. The information on Google on touchy subjects like this is always shady at best. Not a lot of good intell out there on this.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 02:33 AM
5

Which tracking apps do you suggest for android phones?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 01:22 PM
2

Your post you link to has been removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 10:10 AM
1

Unrefined coconut oil here in The Netherlands is solid at room temperature and quite expensive. What kind of oil do you buy? Is it solid as well?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 10:27 AM
2

Wow, that one has to do that to cover oneself from own daughter.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 10:09 AM
1

Yeah, the one thing I'm so surprised is women initially saying no to raw-dog penetration and after a bit of warming up of the area & generating a steady flow of pussy-juice, you can glide right in without protection. But I absolutely love and enjoy it much more without a condom wrapped around it. And the idea of coming inside a girl, is a thrilling thought. And I feel so much more, especially her wetness. It becomes quite the challenge to stop, wrap it up, and quickly stick it in before it gets …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 07:33 AM
1

If you mean physical, than yes. If you mean emotional, maybe. If you mean brotherly love, then no. I hug my buddy when I see him. I don't need to hold his hands or kiss his face to strengthen the bond. We do that by being together and doing stuff. Bitches come and go, male friends stay.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 09:53 AM
11

I would argue there is a fourth reason why men gravitate to Red Pill and that is because they were force fed feminism all their lives. I was wondering about that lately. I sometimes catch myself thinking that, but then again I had plenty of examples throughout my youth that healthy male role models: Indiana Jones - Amused Mastery and frame Sylvester Stallone as Rocky and Arnold Schwarzenegger (Lift) I don't know where it was coming from, but being muscled meant being dumb. You compensated the la…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 09:35 AM
1

Doesn't surprise me as I see how much girls intensely enjoy being fucked. I honestly believe girls feel more and better than us men.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:37 AM
7

I thought I was the only one. The feeling of apathy when you spear another pussy. I view dating more or less as work. Going on countless dates to hone my skills. And be ready in the rare event I catch a goody. Good luck with the LTR
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:23 AM
6

For one male, seventeen females reproduced. Stating 1:17 had sex is catchy, but nog what the article writes about. The hypothesis in your linked article (thnx) suggests something cultural like power-wealth combo that made males take it all. But nothing conclusive. Current number is 1:4 to 5. Anyways, lift. As usual.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:18 AM
6

The promise of companionship, the availability of sex on a regular base without much effort, the shared experiences, are all concepts guys float on when entering a long term relationship. Except, we keep forgetting that companionship should be sought-after among our male friends, which covers the shared experiences and the regular sex can be had with plates. Although it does take more effort initially. But the hunt in itself fuels our masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:12 AM
1

Single, 40 year old. I have the same heavy questions. I had an 11 year relationship when the former SO 'what's her name' decided to jump ships. I don't blame her, I was a former shadow of what I could have been. But I had these dreams of white fence, kids and the rest. I fucked up and the only low fuck count girl I knew is gone. And since discovering the red pill, whatever I hoped for I just don't see it happening. All the girls I dated or date with have fucked too many guys. And often girls dat…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 02:24 PM
6

Porn is a bad thing if you cannot control your urge. I've been there. And it influenced the way how I enjoyed real sex, my performance and my drive to get women naked in my bed. I had a period of not getting a hard one or had trouble maintaining one, because I satisfied my sexual desire a day or morning before solo. When touring on my bicycle last summer, I refrained from porn and masturbation for three months. I got awfully horny at the mere sight of a girl. I had a hard dick when spotting a ho…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 07:36 AM
3

Well then, it's not you then. If a girl digs you, a few texts really can't destroy attraction. Something else is at play here.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:24 AM
4

I'm not so sure. To be honest, I think they sensed a bit too much betaness in your behavior in real life. Once a new girl starts changing her opinion of you for the worst, there is not a whole lot you can do. They hamster away every word you say. They twist and turn it, until it suits the narrative they created in their mind. It boggled my mind for a long time when my last chick acted happy, but behind the scenes, her hamster used the clashes we had as yet fuel to speed up her fucking hamster to…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:14 AM
4

Even though it doesn't feel like this in the moment, what happened to you is a gift. A gift of knowledge. What you now experience is a period of grief and severe heartache. And that's fine. Let the pain run its course. You can't really shortcut the pain of the first shitty breakup. The first always hurts the most. To get away from it, takes time, multiple rejections, failed attempts at other relationships and from each instance you learn to be stronger, you learn to adept. In time, you will see …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:00 AM
2

If they find you attractive online, what you say is not that important. If they doubt a bit, for whatever reason, you want to polarize. Force them making a decision. It's there where text game is fickle.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:44 AM
4

You're selling yourself online. They pictures are your brochure. To prevent girls faking interest to get validation through attention, you want to close the deal preferably now than 20 texts further down the line. I stopped chatting endlessly and just go for sealing the deal ASAP. And that's getting their number. Then the next play start.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:42 AM
16

Since using Omlala's guide, the line 'What are you looking for' and the following 'What's your number' I'm being accused of being very direct & bossy and yet they do give their numbers. It's fascinating. I just leave it at that. As long as it polarizes. I want them to make a choice and follow my lead. If they submit through text, date wise it's much easier. I open convo by calling them a funny name. Instead of hi, it's 'hi oliebol'. The word means a piece of traditional Dutch food around New Yea…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:16 AM
3

They usually work on themselves at the end of the LTR, because she has set her eyes on a new target. Cold-hearted they are.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:42 AM
1

If we are able to build robotic unicorns where you can stick your dick in, real women will look pale in comparison and we end the world as we know it. No guy in its right mind will even consider to swap his loyal robotic partner for the fickle and bitchy nature of women.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 08:03 PM
17

Honestly I'm not surprised you got banned. You indirectly implied women asked for it. Now, whether that's true or not, this is canon fodder for the trigger happy SJW mods. Mold your statement in their lingo and point of view to leave an impact. Hinting that feminism is a wrong turn we took, giving of a smell of sweeping generalisation of minorities, rejecting the embrace of human fucking kindness, yadda yadda, is directly translated to misogyny, racism and egotistical self-centeredness. Hence a …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:38 PM
1

I wouldn't be so sure of that. I remember an article of decades ago on bone findings from humans from the stone age. According to what the archaeologists found, some bones were broken and healed. Suggesting people took care of each other. We all have that longing of belonging and safe haven. It's as natural as the polygamous nature of people. So with that said, I suspect we indeed play an absurd single player video game with no real winners. Absurd because obviously we have this innate need for …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:25 AM
5

I'd like to vet girls first before allowing them access to my location.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:40 AM
14

Don't tell me that's what happened to you. For fuck sake, really?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:42 PM
27

How are you going to next her? Ignoring, telling her why (seems fruitless) or vague text explaining you guys don't fit?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:32 PM
14

My favorite position. Especially because of the view. The same goes for them. They love putting their hands on your arms and ass and feel how you take them. And it's easy to move one or two legs up, turn her on one side to get a fantastic view of her round ass while your dick goes in and out. And from there it's easy to progress to laying her on her belly, spreading her legs with yours and taking her from behind. Besides, most girls tend to wait for you to put them in a position anyway. So missi…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:02 PM
2

A healthy family is something I'm working hard for as my goal. Finding a girl for that with Red Pill knowledge is however quite a different beast then it used to be. Thanks for you're awesome post, quite enlightening.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:36 PM
1

Lack of sex is a symptom of the state of the relationship. It signals the attraction level of the man and it usually isn't the cause of ending of an relationship.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:34 PM
1

Could you be more specific about the videos? All I find is bunch of people doing runs naked, not a single guy.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 04:00 PM
5

Escalation point no. 2 is ballsy. Can't believe it works, but it being ballsy, it could.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 09:09 AM
1

As a 40 year old, I find your posts quite informative. Hence the replies and questions. Unlike you, I am active online with success. I don't do day game yet. Still quite a steep step to take to be honest. I do however approach with context. Like at the climbing gym, parties and incidental 1-on-1 meetings. With moderate success. It's hard to put a value to them or myself. But I guess online I attract between 6-7 HB girls. I find my game working best at that range. So I guess I'm 7. Like you I onl…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:18 AM
2

Yes, but a no-name musician? That is definitely flipping the script. Another version of a beta variant for women? I know the other variant is being a slut. Slut = beta version. But supporting a guy financially, sounds like a different animal to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:55 AM
1

I tried to fuck below my minimum attractiveness, but my dick refuses to play along when a chubby bitch lays spread wide open in my bed. I need to feel attracted for things to work. Although pussy starvation and a rather dark room helps a lot.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:59 AM
6

That's weird, like flipping the main gender script.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:31 AM
43

You stop living for them and start living for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:10 AM
47

Do the community a favour and grab a couple of screenshots.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 10:25 PM
3

Maybe it was an 8 in his eyes. Taste differ.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 10:46 PM
3

/u/omlala 's former roommate was, like he described, like this. Bigger pussy slayer than sir Omlala himself. Maybe they are one and the same.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 10:45 PM
2

This is a great gift, I hope he can instill the discipline to train hard & consistent.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 11:15 AM
8

Lol, neck tattoo's. Ain't women just great? Thanks for the laugh.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 09:55 PM
3

The market is not broken. It's taking on a victim role by saying that. So to counter their high demands in the meantime you are improving your own value: lie, just spin the story they want to hear. Be vague about stuff you want to hide. We're plate spinners anyway. Don't start spinning if the plate is not fuckable. Don't bother opening one that gives of an air of inflated opinion or better, just rudely bring them back to reality. You got to have some basic attractiveness for this to work. Girls …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 09:39 PM
1

Willing to walk away
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 01:15 PM
1

Status does has an influence. Same girl, trailer trash origine, or middle to upper class girl?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 03:46 AM
0

Wait, double spacing automatically generates a period to the end of a sentence? Which phone?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 07:20 AM
2

Wow, that's a new high, or low, of total insane female behavior. I mimic what they're doing. Crappy sentences (wod ur doib) is met by crappy sentences, correctly written sentences are replied with same correctly written sentences. My method is a bit more fluid.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 07:03 AM
1

I'm confused. Did she make a fuss about you adding a . at the end of your sentence? Period = point = . ?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:55 PM
2

Exactly this. A profile and how a girl perceives it, determines a guys value in her eyes. Being witty, charming or clever with words does not. You can't add value by text, as girls are just as motivated visually as guys are. I speak from experience. I used to be, that chatty, happy witted guy, but getting numbers and dates was a real chore. And success rate was low, 1/20 - 1:30. When following Omlala's guide, the numbers and dates started coming. Girls complain about it me being bad at chatting …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:48 PM
1

Exactly, you worded it better.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:38 PM
1

This. Bouldering is much more social. Although you still can game chicks who climb in pairs. Competition is stiff though.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 09:23 AM
3

Great reply about boundaries. Could you expand more on the boundary and LTR part of your post? I think most guts fail at this part of a relationship and could use some more insights, explanations and examples.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 05:06 AM
22

I like to argue that the needy beta behaviours have been around for thousands of years too. Being beta is inheritably normal male behaviour and it didn't drastically interfere with male-female relationships too much in the past as cultural and societal forces kept them bound together. I'm not talking about anything past the mesolithic era, as when then enter the field of guestimation and should be left to the experts. Back to point, couples were forced to live with each other, through good times…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 04:05 AM
42

You sound defeatist. Let's see if from a more broader view. Hobbies get your sorry ass of the couch and outside your house. You'll meet people there. If you're lucky, you'll find a hot single babe, or a large group of people you can chat to, befriend, get invited over, meet their friends, and suddenly you have a larger group of people with a larger amount of ladies. Maybe on the way to it you meet someone, or maybe someone sees you and approaches you. It is infinitely better than doing nothing. …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 07:31 AM
1

You always need to go to the other side to swing back somewhere in between that best suits you.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:35 PM
2

This dude needs some serious mental restructuring, before he applies our well intended advice on gaming.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 12:11 AM
5

Dude, this was beyond painful to read. Partially because I've been this drooling dork OP was. So I can relate, although barely. But fuck me, this is some sad shitty shit you just put up here. Don't. Do. It. Ever. Again. Get it in your system. NO GIRL IS SPECIAL. They will NOT love you back as you so desperately want and obviously can't give yourself. I really want to punch it into your droopy face. You don't need a girl to feel worthy. Or loved. Or needed. Or whatever the fuck you think a bitch …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 12:05 AM
2

Meet moms with strollers. They just fucking barge into anything, expecting like Moses that the crowd, bicycles, cars and trucks move out of their way. Last weekend one of those 'super' moms hit me full force. I just chuckled, thought 'Yup, precisely as predicted.'
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 12:38 PM
3

They are both a million times better options than gaming, fapping, binge eating, doing nothing. It's not a contest about which online course is the best. They are each worthy pursuits to better oneself. And thank you very much for the link, I was looking for one exactly like that.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 06:30 AM
1

However there is little tolerance here for victim puke, the rawest, most unpleasant form of emotions to read through.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 11:35 PM
1

Haven't researched it, but there was something here in the comments months ago about lowered fertility and creampies from different men.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 10:32 PM
1

Last attempt at LTR the girl corrected het count the next day. Went from, 7 to twelve. Can't put my finger on it where it belongs in the RP theory.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 10:30 PM
2

Big and tiny dogs are deal breakers for me
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 10:27 PM
1

You make a fair point, but are quite unwilling to see why the gun metaphor is so appealing to the RP crowd. Hence the resistance. The metaphor 'assume the gun is always loaded' implies that a woman has the capability to hurt your sorry ass, don't expect otherwise when you get close to the gun and start interacting with it. You're never safe. You gotta remember a lot of readers and posters here are guys who have been hurt deeply. Guys who never saw it coming. Guys who fell into depression, addict…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 09:47 AM
1

I guess the mods missed this comment.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 09:31 AM
3

New red pill doctrine: smoke, makes you look like a bad boy. Old married hags will flock to your feet. You are addicted, it ruins your lungs, costs you money, you smell like an ashtray and you thinks it's cool? Not sure to call you a young fool or just an idiot. Be smart and start treating your body with the respects it deserves. Also, edit your post according to the guidelines. It's shit. Edit: and you're a drug addict as well. Way to go homie. I bet you don't need to lift too, right.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 11:29 PM
1

How to get it out of her? Pour in some drinks and man juice and then pry it out of her filthy mind?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:13 PM
1

I just watched I French movie, La Famille Bélier, and I thought about your course on sign language. The movie is about a farmers family who are deaf, except the daughter. You're going to like it. Available as download and perhaps on Netflix.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 11:35 PM
1

High jacking an old thread. I have a question Omlala. I've been playing on Tinder for a month now. Dated this blond end of October. Fucked on first date. Second time she comes to my place, did the deed and she left for work (nightnwork). The girl is nothing spectacular. Nurse, 25± (forgot her age), very tight body, none existent personality. Besides the nice body, nothing of her interests me. I decided to go dark on her. No texting. See what would happen. Nothing. She did not initiate texting. N…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:10 PM
2

I'm bathing in the anger phase, hence hatred. I still love them do.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:11 AM
2

And they still be an old whiny hag. F ck women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:56 AM
9

Attractive ladies who had it all in their prime usually grow into old hags, unable to deal with reality aka the lost free attraction their body used to generate out of thin air. I prefer to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:48 AM
1

Not my mom. Definitely conditional when growing up.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:38 AM
3

As a new guy, highly appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 09:37 AM
15

If it wasn't for your comment.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:53 PM
2

Why do you care? She is into you or not. Not much to do if you're not in an established relationship or marriage. Don't ponder on the why's and what ifs. Just soft next her, she is NOT special. Get that in your thick skull. She is not special. We men are unfortunately programmed for oneitis, and you have it sir. Recognize your oneitis and be aware when it influences your thoughts. If you're hurt, I hope you got hurt deep. Because that will lit a fire under your ass. And again, what /u/SexyDeviI …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 02:09 PM
10

I'd like to add another, additional look on texting. If you text to much, it is unavertable that you build up an unrealistic projection of this person. The more you text, the more you fill in the gaps of how she is and start believing in this image you created of her. I've experienced it many times, texting a lot and then meeting a girl usually results in a disappointment for both sides. Nobody can live up to the made-up ideal, the expectations are way off. I keep my texting lighthearted, fun an…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 02:03 PM
2

And he delivers, sweet.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 12:21 PM
2

Could you expend on what you took from the book from Eric Berne?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 12:18 PM
5

We need a mod in here. Dumbasses giving shit replies.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:54 AM
1

Just fucking ignore this bullshit. Your time is spend better elsewhere. If they don't like how you roll, tough luck.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:03 AM
1

I'm going to assume the background is online dating, say Tinder. First, do not step into her frame. Responding to her shit is stepping out of your frame. Don't be bothered by her comments. Just ignore and inject some fine narcism. Or be brief like: yup, been busy. How's your day? Also, play ten girls at the same time. Gives you abundance and no tolerance to bullshit like this. Eventually you won't even respond to shit like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:52 AM
-8

Preferably glaze her stupid face. Aim for the eye.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:43 AM
1

Gha, her parents don't care and it's a weak sauce attempt of striking back. Dump her and her stuff. This warrants a rock hard next. Simple text, this is not working and no contact. Disrespecting a man in front of a crowd? Fucking bitch.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:41 AM
-1

Detachment from idealism. That rings very true.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:38 AM
0

A knuckle.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:30 AM
1

No. Just be vague about the ending by saying it's not working out. An be void of any emotion. Their hamster will not and cannot compute this sudden rejection and no response. It also breeds some good grounds for some pump and dump later if guy in question wishes to go that route.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:30 AM
4

No.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:29 AM
2

I edited some extra shit in. And I understand. Shit like this guts a man.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:21 AM
1

You've got a point there. I enjoy meeting girls, getting into their pants and use them as warm, moist dick rubs. I'm becoming an asshole. It's bewildering to me that this is actually happening. I thought I was a decent chap, but I now use them till I'm done with them. Society is getting destroyed by feminism and the free sex-market. And I actively am participating. I wish it was different. But fuck it, I'm not going to stand on the side. I'm in it for me now.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:14 AM
1

I am angry because women are not held accountable for their actions. I am angry because they look sweet, cute and caring but with a flip of a switch they turn into life-destroying monsters, they act rational, but they are not, they say the love you, but they manipulate you into commitment by these words and never ever really love you, they demand insane high levels and standards from you, but not for themselves, they lie, they bend the truth but expect honesty from you. They don't want to hear a…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 03:44 AM
19

Assume the worst and multiply it. You know what's up. She's spreading her legs for someone else. There is nothing to salvage anymore. The relationship you value, is gone. Don't give her the satisfaction of ending the relationship. Take the lead and tell her the two of you are breaking up because it's not working. And leave it at that. No explanation, no emotional vomit. Show nothing to her. If you want to strike back, and you rightly should, do it like this: no explanation, no contact. Break dow…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 11:38 PM
1

Thanks mate, appreciate your reply.
/r/askMRP13/12/15 04:15 PM
1

My best buddy got herpes and the way he describes it it is absolutely horrible. His entire head covered with sores, takes at least a week to get over it and the moment he stops taking his medicine, it gets back, worse than the last time.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 08:07 AM
2

Sources or this is bro-science.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 08:01 AM
6

The one thing I learned in my failed ways with girls: don't give them the satisfaction of closure. To really hurt them, as you tried with your text, is to completely ignore them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 07:51 AM
1

So having a muscular body adds so much value that others are much more forgiving or accepting of your mistakes, quirks or behavior?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 07:35 AM
1

My last attempt at a LTR, the girl corrected her n-count a week later after she gave me her first answer. From 7 to 12. She told me it was all for relationship purposes, or in other words, she wanted to have a relationship with the guy she decided to fuck with. She ended up with two LTR's. Three if ours count (less than a year). This is the same girl that boasts about her friends saying she had Christian values (not slutting up). After our first fit, which without saying she instigated, later th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 11:23 AM
1

My ex-bitch story to the t. Yeah for hypergamy. Fucking women, since the red pill I have lost all respect for them.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 10:29 PM
8

I guess it's me then, who is angry and bitter. Damn.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 04:38 PM
4

I believe mods, the elders and flaired posters are exempt of the formatting rule.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:10 AM
12

I thoroughly enjoyed your post. Especially the message that a woman is not attracted to YOU, but to a guy LIKE you. Women fall in love with a mental construct of you. And that's about it. Rather one of the biggest lies out there. And I highly doubt if women themselves are aware of their own fallacy. Yes, they'll say they love you. They'll say you're special and awesome. And that they'll never leave you, blabla. But the real you is also at times a weaksauce and that version of you they hate and l…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:04 AM
2

As I see it, it seems you are too much focused on her. As I understand frame, frame is not a way to manipulate a woman, but it is to be unaffected by her words and by things outside your control. And you do what seems best for you, not for her. MRP is of course geared towards men in LTR's. So the benefits spill over into your LTR. So, zoom out a bit and focus on what you want. But don't take my word for it, listen to the elders.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 03:46 PM
2

Denial is a strong motivator to keep following a hopeless route.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 04:45 PM
5

I like your metaphor. If you fail on the man-part, you're defenseless against women's hypergamy. Just like the frog. Her 'sting' devastates or destroys you. If however you are a man, stoic and unmoved by a womans hypergamous nature, you have an outer shell that protects the softer innersides. The sting doesn't penetrante anything. And it's time to next her. OPs is in dire need of an outers shell.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 12:36 AM
7

Never read the book, but if OPs story matches said book, it warmed the women up to the role OP wants them to play. Smart.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 05:38 AM
2

Are there resources out there about facial and body language geared towards men reading women, or is this insight gained by dating hundreds of women?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 05:37 AM
2

He wasn't seeking advise, he was walking around with his emotions and dumping them in the hopes of gaining the ungainable answer or just to feel better. I've done it and it doesn't work. Talk all you want, you won't hear something that lightens the burden. It's better to invest all your thinking time in you, instead of her.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:38 AM
1

Mothers, the undoing of young men.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:35 AM
1

But with zero suggestions to better himself. Stating the obvious, which OP already did, has no value.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:13 AM
2

Interesting point you make here. In my LTR, dead bedroom started around the two year mark.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:03 AM
1

I'm living in Europe. Marriage is not what I want. I want to create a stable long term relationship, enough to create offspring and raise them well. What age gap is acceptable for a LTR to work?
/r/askMRP24/11/15 09:17 PM
1

Golden tip, thanks mate!
/r/askMRP24/11/15 09:14 PM
17

Try putting yourself in his shoes and perhaps you would realise how strong the scarcity mentality is of a guy. He put her pussy on the well known pedestal. Most of us did one time in our life.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 12:10 PM
2

There is hardly any social or cultural inhibitions in modern western society that prevent women from their hypergamous nature. They have it all now and the burden to keep things together solely rest on the shoulders of men. Women can run free and cause amok without a single shred of blame or consequences.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 07:29 AM
4

Your experience is 100% the same like mine, except the part of me dumping her. I loved her and had not the strength and insight to self-protect and nuke the LTR. Faster than a blink of an eye she was with a new man. Disregarding the guy she left like a piece of trash. And then it's tough not to feel bitterness and hatred towards women. Realising AWALT is a hard fact of life doesn't help either to combat this negative feelings. But it is the fallacy that there is a special girl out there combined…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:56 AM
3

And cost a fortune in ink. Or you're smart and you refill the cartridges at a refill station. Or even better replace them when the ink runs dry. I'm starting to appreciate this analogy more and more.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:07 AM
1

What constitutes as a long distance relationship? Two different cities, one hour driving? Only seeing each other in the weekend. Isn't very relationship some form of long distance?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 07:44 PM
1

It shows how much men unconsciously grave existential validation through being loved by the other sex. And the male hamster distorting reality to have the illusion of being loved. It also explains the rage when finally reality sinks in.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 06:59 AM
1

How have you been practicing keeping your wits & your cool calm together? I have the tendency to let my emotions flare up and influence my decision making in the midst of confrontation. Like a mist coming over me.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 10:53 PM
1

Outsiders downvoting all comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 10:19 PM
4

I think my story is actually very valid. It shows a guy can change at any age, and that it takes a lot of hard work, strong choices and also setbacks. Besides, this sub is for alpha and beta guys. I doubt that redpillers are the majority here, I suspect it may be the opposite. But who knows. My point: I very much enjoy reading progress stories of men getting out of a bad rut and claiming back their lives and direction of it. It is inspiring.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 09:51 PM
134

I get what you're aiming at, but the made up example is too generic and generalising. There are guys being fat fucks in their 20's and looking awesome 15 years later because they decided to change. Like I did, started three years ago and I'm 40 and never looked and felt better than this in my life. After a relational meltdown, I shed weight, I quit smoking, stopped drinking, took on my gaming/screen addiction and released myself from stuffing my body with crappy foods. It has been, is and will b…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:42 PM
9

You're right. Unfortunately guys usually take womens words serious and they do need a reminder now and then. The 'no shirtless selfie' is a concept used often by women and has a hint of a suggestion that shirtless pictures are a no-go. The poster is reminding us shirtless pictures and their effect depend on the context, which adds value to the sub.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 07:11 AM
19

All their pride and games become amusing, child-like, and amused mastery comes naturally to you over time. You start noticing patterns in their behavior, the same tricks, the same expressions, you truly start seeing through most girls. Your game gets better every time. You start learning how to play different types of girls, you develop new "images" of yourself for different types of girls, all sorts of useful shit. You start being a lot more selective, you stop valuing individual girls so much.…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:00 PM
6

Do you ever start feeling something for them or have you passed that station long time ago & you intend to never visit it again?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:41 AM
1

I said I grabbed her titties after 10 days. But whatever, most people like to downgrade my experience to fail-level. Crazy chick btw.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:30 AM
1

Yeah, 66% in 2009/2010 of US adults is overweight or obese.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 10:20 PM
2

So how to have control over this need for drama? It sounds better to be in control of the supply instead of waiting to be ambushed by your dopamine addicted wife, longing for a shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 07:34 AM
3

Tasker app, is this an android app?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 07:22 AM
3

I did one, a 10 day course. Ended up extremely horny and made out heavily with a chicken in the basement of the Vipassana building. I can guarantee you, after 10 days of no jerking of & a mind thinking for hours and hours about sex (the only escape you have, daydreaming), it will make any woman into a 10+. But it was worth it. The meditation part is very, very hardcore. But you don't build a habit in 10 days.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 11:07 PM
0

Enlighten us with a synopsis, we prefer the know how above you shoulds
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 11:02 PM
-5

Breathing in your balls, weird hippy shit. I prefer the straight explanation of focus on breathing in and out and bringing your wandering attention back to the breathing. I don't even know how the fuck I am supposed to breath in my balls.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 11:00 PM
1

Could you explain 'Intentions' with an example. The only way for me to gauge a girls intentions is to listen to what see says.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 05:45 AM
29

You went off into a weird fucking tangent.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:32 PM
6

Bullshit. Just be realistic and accept your current value. If beer-bellied 35 year old John Wankalot desires models, yeah, your advice is appropriate. But a nice girl with okay tits, body and personality will do just fine for sex. You don't have to be Mr. Perfect to attract these girls and have plenty of sex. Perfection is unobtainable as it is non-existent. Before someone goes off, this doesn't mean to strive and work hard to obtain that ridiculous masculine perfection and corresponding life. I…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:29 PM
6

Always try not to take it personal even thougg women blame you in any shape or form.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:19 PM
2

I do the good old 'are your hands cold?' question and offer my open and warm hands see what they do. Works like a charm as girls hands are always colder than mine.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:17 PM
5

Saved to come back and read that pdf. This is the reason why I love reddit.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 01:14 AM
2

It's like a captain stating he is getting off the ship while there are no other ships to change to. And thus making his statement unbelievable. His wife has to see other ships without captains and getting dangerously close. That will make her to want her captain to stay with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 08:02 AM
1

Your wife has to see other women flirting with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:59 AM
1

The kiss on the forehead and NP comment is being repeated here as to not be seen as butthurt. But I'm a MRP student, I thought 'you want me just for sex' was a comfort test. Back to the books.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:46 AM
1

Am I right to rephrase it as OP not seeing the comfort tests? And thus the wife shutting down? Or is this a major battle and he failed a gigantic shit test? And after reading BPProfs post, OP's wife must see other women being drawn to him? As in using the right push / dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:37 AM
1

If you care to share, what kind of part does your ex-wife have in the life of your daughter?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 07:10 AM
50

You're pointing to a truth that is hard to swallow. And it is hard because we make the mistake of viewing women as equals, with the same sense of loyalty, reason and accountability as our close male peers. Because that is how most men are. Loyal, reasonable and accountable to a certain acceptable degree. But we get furious when women show their nature. Which is vomit-inducing hypergamy. Resulting in disloyalty, distorted reality to justify their actions and blaming the other side of the bed for …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 06:58 AM
2

I understand. But I thought the whole RP theory is based on the male being desired by the female. And she shows her desire by sleeping with him.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 07:23 PM
1

It seems it is purposely prefered to ignore the issue at hand, which is excessive use of force resulting in an significant death rate of civilians by the hand of the law. Add that to the mix of the rage killings at schools, accidental deaths of kids and teenagers by improper handling or storage of firearms and the plain insanity of the corporate media. And you have nice cocktail of cosy real life televised violence. Death sells. Apparently. Waiving with the Bill of Rights and claiming gun owners…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 01:12 PM
2

I distinctly remember reading several times that sex is not negotiable. But this sound like it does. What gives?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 12:47 PM
3

Or a ratio of 1:18.3. One kill vs 18 kills in the US. Significant difference.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 12:32 PM
1

Could you bring that 1000 vs 4 into more perspective by making it a ratio of population? Now the numbers say nothing.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:36 AM
-4

So survivalists are beta males, is that what you're saying?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:43 PM
3

me too please. Curious as to what and how the tested it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:38 AM
1

neither is immunity conclusively proven.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:38 AM
3

Reasonable....if only.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 08:48 PM
1

Why avoid pistol squats? Proper progression is key.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 10:50 PM
2

Are there any mirrors? All links are dead.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 12:06 AM
5

How is this not a troll post?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:23 PM
2

Through this fucked up pain we find the strength and will to build a better us. One that can cope with the sad shit issues that is ruining or destroying our lives. I hope OP finds strength in most of the replies
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 10:44 PM
0

Well let, guess I got lucky. On the other hand, how a pussy looks doesn't interest me, so I might not gave seen any abnormality. It did function perfectly though.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 06:43 AM
5

His true colours come to surface.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 05:53 AM
2

But you have a seriously damaged relationship with your parents for them to sweep in and take your daughter without so much of a word of warning or communication about their plans. They could have sat down with you, proposed to take care of your daughter the next few weeks while you sort things out. You're not painting the complete picture here.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 05:49 AM
1

That's also true. But don't let whatever you find take control over you. Keep it for later.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 02:29 PM
7

Dig only if you can handle what you find.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 11:41 AM
1

Totally right. But I see myself still doing it. The hurdle for me is with the girl I dated, was that I took her words seriously. This was just before I discovered MRP. And I still catch myself doing it, knowing full well that I shouldn't give so much value to her words. Apparently this concept is hard to master.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 06:30 AM
1

If you think about it, you want the best genes from both sides. In your theory only the top males get to reproduce together with all the female. Wouldnt you want the top males only reproduce with the top females and visa versa to unsure divine progress of genes? Probably too oversimplified. But what do you think?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:38 PM
1

Okay, he's a recent situation: I got a lets-not-see-each-other-anymore-phonecall. I'll leave out the specifics of our history, otherwise it derails the question. All you need to know, met her 1 year ago. Broke up 4 months ago. Hooked up again 2 months ago. My intention was for the sex. But I guess that was a covert contract to myself. Sex has been totally awesome because of me trying out Daniels 'Sex God Method' idea's. But I want to build a family. So her goes: she phoned me. We chatted a bit a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 02:54 PM
2

You are right, but how?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 02:10 PM
1

At least tell me you kept the gun.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:30 AM
2

7.) Taking peoples words serious.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 10:27 AM
2

This! 99.9% of guys do not have the balls to approach. Doing so and getting flaky numbers, has more feet into improvement than waiting for the opposite side to throw their phone numbers to you. Of course if you happen to skip like a million in between steps and become a muscled half-god with the social status of a rock star with a vast fortune, more to you. But honestly, dragging your fearful ass and approach over and over again commands my utmost respect.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 10:13 PM
3

Basically approach all girls to whom your dick says yeah. That is my first filter. Whether it's on Tinder, the street, uni, etc. Just think yup, I'd like to have that and approach. You're bound to hit something. Like hail of lead coming from a shotgun. Dating truly is a numbers game. If it is easy sex you want, I suggest you focus on your everyday girl / girl next door with tight bodies. In my experience they tend to be the most willingly to be led and fucked. The younger the easier. And tight b…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 08:14 AM
3

True. Our brains are hardwired to spot, internalize and replay ad infinitum negative experiences. If a girl unsubconsciously sees beta behavior and she is not your wife, you have been labelled. Remember how hard it is to change peoples view of you despite small or huge leaps of changes? Well, same goes for women and their minds, their hamster turns, twists and fabricates a story that suits whatever they are feeling in the moment. Uncomfortable = you, unhappy = you, unsure = you, etc. Better to s…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 07:09 AM
1

None or maybe the breakup phone conversation was a shittest. Fucking weird. But from what she told me, I believe I kept failing past shittests in her imagination. I honestly don't know how her hamster works.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 10:41 PM
1

The interesting part, there were none in the last two months.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 10:29 PM
1

That is how women work. Out of or never in love, you do not exist.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 10:04 PM
3

I knew before hand it was doomed from the start. Actually I knew it was doomed after the first failed weekend-away. But damn, the sex was awesome, she cooks great, has a nice body and has good other LTR traits. I tried to pull something that I couldn't pull. So I rekindled it purely for sex, but the oneitis surfaced its ugly head. Luckily I was wise enough to invest in other plates to dampen the sting. But still, I really need to get outcome independent and build a rock-solid frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:55 PM
1

A covert contract is like giving a massage and hoping to get laid, right? So what could be his underlying motivation to take the wife out for a walk? Nevermind, I didnt read your reply properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 04:09 PM
2

Currently not in a LTR, but been in one for 11 years. But wow, never realised a GNO as going to a fuck market. The concept of forbidding your partner to go out late at night to cafés is foreign to me. And to be honest, creating a scenario where I say no, seems wildly possessive to me. Where do you draw the line? The type of venue? Her friends you hardly know? Time she goes home? Here in Holland I enjoy going out for a drink with my buddy. I can see a future partner wanting the same thing. But th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 07:00 AM
1

If she thinks she is in the same boat as her sister and needs to go and "Find herself" (yeah I did the Dr Evil quote marks by hand) she can go but I will then take it as her and me being in the same situation as her sister and husband ie. Not giving a fuck about each other. The way I interpret this line and the context was that he knows what's up (SS Cheating on the horizon commanded by SIL) and he fired a warning shot off her bow. He showed he is calm, cool and fine with the idea of his first m…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:29 AM
1

How so?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 06:11 AM
2

add this: 'in this moment' to make it complete. So when she says she loves you, she actually means that she really loves the image she has made of you inside her hamster hive. She is totally in love with him, in this very moment, because he is perfect. And moments happen to be very fleeting and you happen to be anything but perfect. That's why the real you pisses her off for not being the same as the perfect you. And now the real you have to bear the brunt of her termpertantrum. I've heard a lot…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 08:24 PM
75

The guys is a saint as well. I think we have witnessed an alpha widow in the making.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 11:50 AM
1

How about clothes, a lot of clothes are made from plastics.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 10:13 PM
2

I'm not sure what to think anymore nowadays. I have one friend who is almost a millionaire, dominant in the relationship, yet he gets fucked once every three weeks. And then I have another friend who looks like a less taller version of George Clooney. He is loved instantly by random girls and women and fuck me if I didn't see it with my own eyes, but once we were cycling to our sport venue, we passed teenage girls on horses, and they were yelling if he was single. Teenaged girls and he looks lik…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:10 PM
1

From my experience since my nuclear meltdown of a breakup and the subsequent red rising from the ashes some years ago, girls seem very happy to give the milk out for free. Except from the one girl I wanted it from during the fucking 9 year long dead bedroom spell.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 12:57 PM
1

It's so bizarre. You have one party seeking out another for commitment. But the moment that other party shows equal or more commitment, the chances of it ever working are ruined.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 12:42 PM
1

That bitter tastes is what all newbies taste here. It will go away eventually.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:42 AM
7

Small ceavat, a pause is not deadly per se. I had a first date with a Tinder girl yesterday and we had those silences. It felt awkward at first but if you feel relaxed and happy with yourself, a pause can just be a moment of silence. We ended up at her place and we did the deed. So the deadly, awkward pause doesn't have to be the end.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 10:38 PM
5

If you haven't kissed or fucked and you still talk for hours... then you're doing something wrong. Fuck her first, then decide later if she is a keeper. For the love of Red Pill God, do not develop oneitus before that or ever. If you do, you will give her the power to destroy you. So don't.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 09:37 PM
1

'Yeah you're right, but why do you only have size B tits?'
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:32 PM
4

Wear a condom, don't touch that vagina and then your dick. STD alarmbells are ringing like mad here.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:30 PM
3

I would have dumped her ass after mocking your car, ignoring you and the fucking disrespectful turn up of the volume. Next for damn sure.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:28 PM
7

Maybe you have a malfunction in your women-choicer. Or you take them way, way, WAAAAAY, too serious.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:26 PM
4

What? You break off the hair. DEVI rampage. I'll try it out next time.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:23 PM
0

A lot of readers in MRP are already in a marriage. This should help the guys with pedestal issues to see that sex is not a reward. It is an activity you both enjoy. Take that out and then what else has the wife to offer. Also since this is a mostly American inspired sub, there are a bunch of Christians who have marriage as a goal in life to achieve. How unwise it might be with your current laws, MRP offer ways to avoid the obvious landmines in marriages and learn how to defuse or reflect them.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:16 AM
-1

The 70% divorce rate is not solely because of trust reasons. I think /u/ceasarfecit is advocating something else here. Maybe likes attract likes and in order to attain something, you got to give some leeway.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:09 AM
2

PC? Can you help me out here?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:04 AM
5

Solid point. I agree on the part of younger guys not getting into a LTR just yey. But if they happen to do want one or are older, /u/trplurker post refines the original post. Basically instead of permanent demotion, I believe trplurker is trying to advocate something like three strikes and you're out. In regards to the dog metaphor we're using, I'd like to add this note: your molding your dog to be a life long companion. So you don't release the dog into the wild after one major error. No, you h…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:58 AM
6

Dude, we are here to discuss things that work, not to pick fights.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:39 AM
17

Goddamn, this has been a fucking basic error in my whole dating system. Good fucking plus physical attractiveness meant relationship if I liked the girl. And I usually liked the girl because of the awesome sex. Taking that away and then what? Now a girl has to do her part. Makes a whole lot of sense of my inevitable pedestalizing of girls I am intimate with. I never understood why, despite my grasp of TRP theory, I keep putting bitches on the pedestal. But now it makes fucking sense, finally! Th…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:14 AM
2

Well, that's the thing, isn't it. For example 'Go lift' is such a strong dogma around here and parroted by everyone that even asking for proof, is ridiculed. And that's why I choose the words doctrine. A doctrine is a set of believes. Now probably a majority of us don't need scientific proof that a muscular body is highly attractive, because it's so obvious. But how does it go with the rest of RP doctrine? Because a lot of what is being repeated here is anecdotal and by that, a set of believes. …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:20 AM
5

No sir, pure TRP bred, finest you can find around here.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 09:05 PM
20

I skimmed the beginning and it quickly became apparent that OP bases a lot of his value on external validation. OP confuses social status with external validation. Red Pill doctrine specifically states external validation will never be enough. TRP explains that the red road of self-improvement is based on internal validation first, external validation comes second. I lift because I choose to lift, I choose to invest in my body instead of I lift to get veejays. Getting pussy because of your muscl…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:26 AM
1

It's mainly about shit tests and the likes and preparing.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 12:21 PM
2

Well, maybe nature wants something else than what we have culturally applied.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 10:36 AM
1

I'm talking about walking away. You live with your partner, you love your partner and you get attached to your partner. Of course willing to walk away is in the back of your head. But easier said than done, me thinks.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 10:35 AM
1

Her orgasm happens because I do DEVI. I was fucking my girl in the morning. In the morning she is not as vocal (moaning) or active than during the day. I came, she didn't. She comes very easy. My dick stayed hard, yeah me, went for round two. This time while whispering in her ear how I love taking her body and how she is my sweet little slut and boom, she came within seconds. I also love to tell her not to come. The sheer struggle on her face to suppress a climax is priceless and when she does..…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 07:22 AM
0

Yeah, made that mistake with a girlfriend of a friend. Dude got lost real quick.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 06:44 AM
2

MRP and TRP differ because some guys want to be in a relationship for several reasons. That does not automatically mean being blue pill. You know what it's said here, LTR is TRP on hardcore mode.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 06:32 AM
2

Give it some time. Also, I believe Archwinger is respected in the MRP sub. So I'm sure he is reaching the right people.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 06:30 AM
1

But those desires do not mix, so it sounds odd for a woman to have both innate desires from a biological point of view.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 06:28 AM
2

Good point. But when I think about it, don't we all strive to mold a partner so that the two of you form a functional and effective team. A team that has more benefits besides a wet pussy? I'm currently dating, but if I would commit, I certainly want to have more than pussy. And shaping a woman into a good wife doesn't happen overnight. It is an investment. And since I know I would get at least a bit attached, simply walking away sounds more difficult than it is prescribed here. Any thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 06:07 AM
0

I'm confused a bit here. Don't we all get some form of attachment to the person we share our lives with? Perhaps it is my Blue pill ideal, but I would want to love my partner. Especially if we live under the same roof and we'd form a team that function well. And then walking away suddenly isn't so easy anymore.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 06:02 AM
5

Could you describe her behavior and how you handle it? I learn best from examples.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 05:58 AM
6

It is. Especially since that post about how martial arts can improve confidence. Your post is a nice reminder of a side effect of fight-training.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 07:31 AM
1

I hope you take NiftyDolphins reply to heart then.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 06:36 AM
0

I've asked guys at MRP, but even they won't or refuse to come up with an answer. Point is, what can I expect from a girl. What is realistically obtainable when striving for a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 03:55 AM
0

I'd like to have kids with a partner that I go well with, preferably even love. But since the redpill I find women absolutely boring, hypocrite and shallow. Perhaps I'm in some phase and I learn to love women as they are later on as I progress. But for now, ugh, dating is utterly boring.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 03:47 AM
1

Ah, if it isn't mr. Testosteron Therapy himself. Haven't seen him for quite some time. Stunning body but with the help of steroids.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 02:42 AM
3

Back in the days, how about current time?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 09:36 PM
1

hagiographic = idolizing or idealizing.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 08:37 AM
1

Is there any difference in their eyes?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:22 AM
2

Could you link to one or more through the archive?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:08 AM
1

Finally somebody saying something sensible.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:05 AM
1

That's a girl following her biological behavior, nothing new here. Perceived male weakness => male failure to convince the female part he is a high value male, or satisfying feeling of safety. Hence the branch-swinging.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:49 AM
0

Basing your reply on the assumption she has not been married as being marriage unworthy material and thus low quality genes is a rather weak counterargument. There are many possible dynamics at play here. She could be alpha widowed. Feeling lonely, driving her to seek past experiences with new male prospects. But ultimately abandoning ship because she dated beta bucks and they don't compare to imagined male ideal. She could have inherihated a great deal of money, therefore fishing in the Tinder …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 03:41 AM
2

Ah, that's why gay guys fuck like rabbits.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:08 PM
8

Ah, that's why gay guys fuck like rabbits.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:07 PM
2

How do you douche it out? My water pressure is nothing and being distributed like rain. No probing hose to flood the a-hole.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:06 PM
2

Thanks for pointing out the hypocrisy. For a moment I was being swayed by her reasons of doing stuff she hated doing. But then again she kept the mementos of the acts she hates doing now and she did those acts to please her ex.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:02 PM
5

This seems like it is written from the perspective of Will: I went to hug him on my way out, instead he just guided me out the door and slammed it shut behind him. Odd way to write about it if it happened to you.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 04:53 PM
1

That is why a journal is more effective.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:08 AM
2

Solid reply. Your inner voice behaves often like a woman. It's hypocritical, severely biased, fundamentally insecure, relentless perfectionistic and talks most of the time utter shit. The thing is, we are never taught to Not believe our own thoughts. We naturally assume what we think is right. But it often is not. A simple exercise usually brings the wrongness to the surface. You're feeling shit, down the drain. Not because that woman dumped you or you became unemployed, but because you think yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:07 AM
3

Don't be a fool. Marriage is TRP hardcore mode. If you fuck up, then you can say your popcorn line.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 07:21 AM
1

Iniate somewhere else, in the car, through sexts, during brief moments of privacy in shared areas. A quick groping or add slapping goes a long way. Think in possibilities rather then impossibilities.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 08:26 AM
1

Fuck somewhere else.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 08:11 AM
1

You gave an answer to a question I didn't ask.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:19 PM
1

I am going to assume you are talking about the western sense of self, not the Buddhist interpretation. But either way, no disrespect to you as a person, but your post sounds like hippy shit ramblings. A bird does not have the same brain capacity as a human. A flock of birds certainly does not have the complex social constructs that make humans as they are as a whole. As you know, a bird does not go to work in public transport, have to deal with co-workers and bosses and coming home to a family a…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:57 PM
1

But isn't letting go of ego in direct contrast of our biological need and drive to construct a social image to be accepted? Hence why it is so damn hard to let go of the ego. I find the concept of ego quite esoteric.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:53 PM
2

Sounds like therapy might help you with part of yourself not allowing the good things of life, like happiness and sex. Build muscles, fake it till you make it and push yourself out of your comfort zone. Eat healthy, have a tight sleep regime and hygiene, start projecting your longtime desires and goals into achievable smaller daily goals. As with everything, baby steps at a time.
/r/becomeaman10/10/15 06:18 AM
13

Bragging was implied by comments I believe. He was an idiot by telling he bought a Cartier jewel box on eBay and putting a silver plated ring in it. The real fucking deal here is that this beautiful piece of hypocrite of a woman went to the jeweler to get it taxed.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:00 PM
2

Solid post. The crux is in the emotions as ego is a rather vague concept to most. It is our perception of our imagined status and things not going as expected. It is our own emotions that fuck things up if you let them control your actions. We mostly are not even aware of them rulling our thoughts. I recall somebody was making a serie of posts/topics with the last one dedicated about emotions. Was that you? I haven't read much in depth about primary emotions like rage, love, contentness, sadness…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 05:27 AM
1

Are you talking about yourself in the third person?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 08:59 PM
1

Jelqing, never heard of that word. What does it mean?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 01:02 AM
4

Yeah, or just hit themselves in the neck with a blunt object to mimick a bite mark. I find this post hilarious. Without bite mark = invisible. With, everybody suddenly show interest. I find this dubious.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 04:13 PM
1

Sources please, enlighten us with knowledge. Otherwise it sounds like bioscience.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 07:31 AM
3

I tried to find Mark Mansons method, but Google and the search function on Mansons website gives me nothing. Could you PM a link or quote his website here?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 07:26 AM
5

I find resisting fapping after sex pretty much the biggest hurdle to take. Especially when I have a nice streak going, say a week, have great fucking sex because of the nofap, I almost instinctively have a deep urge to come, hence the urge to fap.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 09:56 PM
3

Husband only marriage counselling sounds like a fucking goldmine if you'd be able to get the word out it is effective. But it's being said here that a man really has to get to the point of no return, the pit of despair, the devastated heart, etc, if then and only then a man is ready to be taught red pill. So TRP will probably never go full mainstream in current society as it is not a fix. It is one gigantic paradigm shift, only digestible once a man has lost too much and graves the will to impro…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:10 AM
1

Yes, as if they are missing some core mental abilities to progress further on the path of self-reflection. The moment women get close to red pill dogma's and truth (some fucking proper introspection and taking responsibility and will to change and improve, aka male abilities) , their brain goes: too much effort, can't compute, hamster released. Basically: it doesn't feel right, slut released. Edit: in the context of starting post.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:04 AM
6

They are good men. Yet unfortunately don't know that being the Great husband is working against them. It's fucking sad shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:59 AM
8

Don't go there, it's not worth it. What they say, is just the way how women are. All of them. This is normal behavior.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:57 AM
3

You think so? I would rather argue they completely lack real insight. Yes my husband is great, yet I fuck around doesn't strike me as particular self-aware. They walk around the real golden nugget but not one of them touches upon it. If women start saying something like, my gosh, I'm not sure what's happening to me, but I'm suddenly getting all wet since my hubby leaves without mentioning where to, seems perfectly happy with or without me, when I see him with that slutty colleague of him, etc et…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:54 AM
6

Every friend has character flaws, even a best friend. With women it happen to be the same thing usually.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:45 PM
2

Sure, DEVI stands for: Dominance - The basic thing every woman wish for, consciously or unconsciously, is feel the male dominance. No better way to display our superior strength is in bed. Emotion - As you know by now, woman love experiencing a wide array of emotions, bad or good. Push the boundaries. Variety - Constant repetition is the death of your sex life. Change everything. Place, duration, intensity, emotion, dominance, immersion, etc. Immersion - Being there with her. Getting out of your…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 08:39 PM
1

About time we have a "OMFG look, fucking AWALT, AGAIN!' screaming thread we're unpluggers can project their own anger/failures/sadness/pain.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 06:43 AM
1

It's a catchy phrase to say and sulk at the implied unfairness of how feminism are treating men. It is one of the bigger dangers of online fora and its cultural legacy. We start screaming mantras without any form of factual background check.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:35 AM
1

And for each one of those three, there are more recommended supplements
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 09:00 PM
1

It's like curing acne with lead. My pimpels die, yeah lead.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:52 PM
2

I totally and completely rely on anecdotal evidence backed up by feelz and Dr. Placebo.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:49 PM
2

It's funny to see someone saying to another one, you're having a shifty attitude... with a shifty attitude.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:48 PM
1

Uh, you got me confused. Taking one after meal. And taking one on an empty stomach. If I take one after my meal, my stomach is filled. Or do you mean like 6 hours after a meal?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:42 PM
-1

Well, a few subtle hints here and there will go a long way. Infiltrating subs with different accounts, dropping craftily constructed comments with suggestions for a supplement from a certain brand. It's doable and plausible that marketeers do it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:25 PM
1

First thing it says on examine that it is not proven that it raises testosterone levels in healthy men.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:19 PM
0

Silence, my body is saying something.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:01 PM
2

I'm anything but an expert or oracle. But even I can tell you you've failed. This reeks of putting an entitled bitch on a pedestal. I know, she is probably beautiful and sexy and you probably masturbated your dick raw imagining spraying your load in her over & over. Dear Lord, we've all been there. But still, it's not worth it. It never will be okay to leave your frame (no fucking burgers) versus sending over a friend with a burger (wtf?) to her place. Just don't. Don't do that again. Are you fu…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 09:43 PM
1

Thnx!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 11:01 AM
6

I've been severely depressed since my teenhood and I actually never knew. Since forever I had negative thoughts about myself, my future and my surroundings. I just thought life sucked, no matter what you did. The difference of how I feel now is so mindblowingly better than ever before. I honestly have no idea what it exactly is that makes me feel and do so much better. I just feel fucking good. Everything snowballed into an attitude of positivity, mindfulness and improvement after a break up tha…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 06:59 AM
0

I'm on the opposite side of your story. My girlfriend is like a guy, comes easily. Especially when I let her go through some DEVI waves. Amazing, but after a few pumps I think, WTF, already?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 05:46 AM
1

I'm reading Sex God Method and the one part that is difficult for me is the use of foul language. In my own language words like slut, bitch, nice little whore. etc, just don't translate well enough. But nice book.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 05:40 AM
2

I train kids, mostly girls, to climb. Age between 7 and 13. It's a perfect training field to practice dealing with shit-tests. I'm just amazed at how little big girls (grown women) differ from little girls.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 06:26 AM
1

Thank you, actually one that read the book/website.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:56 AM
4

There is no her anymore. It's you. It has always been you, but we men often lose our own out of our sights. And these sights become filled with a women. It's a losing struggle from then on. Focus on you and you only.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:47 PM
22

I love this sub. So full of wisdom, wise words and life changing insights. How we ever got labelled as a hate group is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:45 PM
7

View women as children. And basically men as well. It's not to feel superior or better than them, it's to shield yourself. Would you take a kid serious if it yells at you that you're stupid, that it hates you or says demeaning things about you? No, of course not, it's a fucking kid, what do they know? Viewing people as kids, stops you from pedestalizing their words and messages directed at you. Very liberating and it allows you to consider what message you accept and what you return to sender.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:39 PM
2

THIS! We often come to the TRP and fail to grasp the message that everything we do, we do it for ourselves. But often we tend to improve to get a girl, but that is not the essence. We do it solely for ourselves with no hidden contract to attract bitches. Raised SMV and the rest is just a fucking byproduct.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:34 PM
5

It's ridiculous we go through so much pain and despair for a lost loved one, while that particular one is fucking other guys and erased you from her brain. The hard part here is that is the way woman are. Not bad or good, it just is. I'm with you man. We must move on, to improve, and build a better us.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:27 PM
6

I do still think about the oneitis from long ago, but it's more of a voluntary intellectual exercise and there is no emotional charge left to it, whereas before it seemed to be an involuntary obsessing, whether emotionally charged or not. Been there. The pathetic daily and totally involuntary obsessing of the one that got away accompanied by a dump-truck of guilt, victimpuke and depressive feelz, practically disappeared overnight when after two years I finally found the strength to ask for a mee…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:21 PM
5

Yeah, those fucking soul crushing breakups can be so empowering and liberating. Yeah you! I don't know what happened, but since reading more and more about being a man and what it means, I feel totally grounded and at ease with myself. Pure acceptance of what's there and what's not there. For the very first time in my life I can say I really do feel happy and content. Life has become sort of a bliss and fun thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:02 PM
0

No disrespect to the great maester of the manosphere, but can somebody translate this to plain English? I mean, every time I think I know English, I fall flat on my face when trying to understand posts from Rollo and Illimitablemen. Admittedly, English is not my native language, so naturally my level of understanding is lower than that of native speakers. But still, words like litigious, assuredness, allay or constructs like the feminine-centric commodification of sex, unilaterally feminine cont…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 12:01 AM
1

No, that should be psychiatrist. Men, are they wonky.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 11:47 AM
4

Shitloads of money can be earned as personal motivator. If you like yelling people out of their beds early in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:00 AM
3

What can you do on rest days? I love indoor climbing or rock climbing. And still have 9 lessons of yoga. Should I do those on rest days?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 09:58 AM
0

The devil is in the details. The post briefly touches upon the strong conviction I had that there was an opening for sex. I do not wish to puke a wall of text so all TRP readers get a good grasp of the situation. Some did. Result? Downvoting and telling me to suck it up. I understand where it's coming from and is meant well. Sort of. It's a shame I can't link the ex to FWB guide that was posted here two weeks ago. I used the guide to set this up. I could have had sex with her last week, but I ch…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 07:20 AM
15

Our beta ways make bitches out of women. And it makes monsters out of bitches. So AWALT doesn't apply here, like you said. ABBALT, as in, All Beta Bucks Act Like That would be better. Good work getting your masculinity back, it's nice to read field reports like this one.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 10:52 PM
0

Perhaps I should have worded it more clearly. I have the opinion and believe she longs for the good times we had in bed. And I have the intention to make use of that.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:45 PM
0

Not fucked her. I'm steering her towards FWB, because I definitely sense an opening for sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:44 PM
1

That was indeed the purpose.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:40 PM
1

True, I did give off that vibe. I kept my distance, not touching her. But than I saw a hint of boob and I lost it. Damn it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 03:13 PM
1

The "Christian values" was mentioned months ago btw. And yes, quite bizarre.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 03:12 PM
6

I wanted to see Man from U.N.C.L.E. that night. She tagged along and paid the tickets.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:51 PM
2

I will make clear it's sex only.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:25 PM
1

That's still a whopping 228 grams per day if you weigh 76 kg. I lost 131 grams a day when I cycled 2600 km in six weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:40 PM
1

Yup. It's a decent sub with dedicated moderators. Like Antranik, he's a great guy and his website has great resources. BWF is about proper form, disciplined action and making dedicated, measurable steps to reach a certain goal. Much like MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:18 PM
2

For me gaming was an escape. I have been addicted since I was a little kid. It had to stop. Or my life would. So I quit. I put the time into bodyweight fitness, keeping the base clean and organized, social contacts and, journaling, reading and playing the guitar. It's not easy and relapse now and then. Gaming is a bottomless pit in which you dump the only valuable thing in life, your time. I'm getting grey hairs here and there and it reminds me how short life is and probably will be. Better do s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 09:03 AM
2

I picked a bodyweight fitness program from the sub and sticking to it. It feels great strengthening your body. I see it as a retirement investment primarily. I won't deny it. I'm also a bit vane, it helps training hard. BWF is the cheap version of going to the gym and in my unprofessional opinion, you train a whole lot more smaller muscles besides the big ones. At home I have a crappy squat rack. I incorporated deadlift and squats into the beginner routine. Feeling stronger every week (noob gain…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:13 AM
3

Sitting is death.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 12:21 PM
1

If it's chemical, than the emotional rollercoaster he experiences should be present before he read manosphere related books and articles. And you're right about WMP. It worked best when I was being a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 12:19 PM
1

Where's /u/whinemoreplease when you need him?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:07 AM
36

The basics: Lift Read sidebar of MRP Lift more Hangout with male friends Do stuff around the house Do not seek validation from your wife Basically up your SMV. Cultivate the skill to recognize her tests and start living your life for you, not her. But I'm just parroting MRP, go there and read more about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 08:29 AM
3

Yup, as if he is not a human being. One of the better example of solipsism out there. She even keeps her whoring outfit as some kind of sick trophy. I hope the beta guy finds it way to the manosphere.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:30 AM
2

Good work, original post with links are 0 bit sized files. Yours work.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 09:56 PM
1

Lead by example.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 10:54 PM
12

Surviving victims of the lads who laid down their lives. We know there are war brides. But are there, so to say, widow brides? I remember reading something about this. Perhaps in Rollo Tomassi book, The Rationale Male. Women are over you so much more quicker than you over them. So, I don't want to downplay the grief of women whose men they lost. But in conjuction with war, everybody loses. Men their lives, women their men. And if I could pick, I'd rather live and have the female capacity to move…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:08 AM
3

Yeah, so how does it work out for them? Interesting to see real combat experiences vs. set of drills. There must be some article out there highlighting the effectiveness of men when the are in combat together with women. Where women at the battlefront during the early Israeli wars? We need more sources, but I'm too busy.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 10:55 AM
1

Now I'm confused. If you do something and she doesn't appreciate it, you say you stop doing it. Isn't that a covert contract? I do A and if you don't give B, I stop giving A.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 11:15 PM
1

So how do you reply when your partner comes up to you and says we need to talk? My beta urges me to react in a positive way, as in: sure, what's on your mind? 'No we don't.' wouldn't sound appropriate, but that could be my fear of confrontation. If I'm imagining one of my climbing-kids (all girl brigade) that I teach would come up to me and ask me the same question, I'd still say yes. But would cut the talk short if it was nonsense. Tryong to figure out when to be the oak and when to apply firm …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 10:49 PM
-1

NMMNG covers this in detail. Read it again. Which part? Can't remember reading that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 09:53 PM
1

yeah, a lot of nerves apparently.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:46 PM
1

You entered her frame when you called her a cunt. Why even bother? What do you do when a little kid says something insulting to you? You laugh, don't take it serious and say something like awh, that's so cute and pet her head. Paying attention to her for an hour or engage in exchanging of insults doesn't seem RP. I get the feeling you're trying to remain stoic, RP, but still get tempted into engaging in their verbal attacks. Not worth it and not staying within your own frames or boundaries. And …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:42 AM
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So how's the sex between them?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:34 AM
3

Makes them go batshit insane. See how they hamster away the relationship with warp speed.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 04:19 AM
1

And so your food, if you've ordered, is getting cold/wasted, while your wife eats alone in the restaurant? Seems like there are no winners in this situation / in the short term. Long term might be different though.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 04:06 AM
1

And why, care to share that?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 11:09 PM
1

There is no difference really when it comes to boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 10:59 PM
1

Just curious about the details here. So you take the kid for the second and last time to your car. What happens next? You leave him there?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 10:57 PM
4

Here in Dutchland it is recommended to heat cold water, instead of using hot water from the tap. And that's because of the hot water being in contact & going through copper heating and plumbing system. So you get too much copper in the water. It was in a consumer testing magazine made by a well respected institute.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 09:07 PM
1

Don't mess with (single) women that own dogs. It is almost never a good thing. I dont know what it was, but when I looked at dating profiles like tinder or okcupid, the girls with more than 1 picture of her and her dog, I always lost interest.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:54 PM
1

"in this moment I really feel like...yaddiyaddiya"
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:50 PM
1

If only I understood his writings...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:47 PM
5

This screams like a link to me. [https://vimeo.com/93815930] (I think I found it) Hm, forgot the code for links: https://vimeo.com/93815930 copy paste it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:36 PM
2

Agreed. I should have added, but was too lazy to, that even though the way he operates here usually stings initially, but in afterthought he makes you think hard whether it's true or not and what you should do. Or shouldn't. I hope he continues the same way, he is valuable to most newcomers, even though they don't see it in that moment of hurt ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 04:11 PM
2

Awh man, now everyone is on to him and you've ruined his modus operandi. But yeah, I had the same train of thoughts. Who the fuck was he to call me this and that. And first instinct was that I'm gonna let him know how shitty his reply was. I quickly realized, why do I even put time in this nonsense? I have better things to do then arguing with someone who only is going to reply in the same matter and plenty more of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 11:16 AM
2

Yeah, it baffles me that women do this. It just blows my mind that they are not able to see their lunatic behavior in the moment. Honestly, if it weren't for the kids, I dumped that crazy ass on the spot. Or would I be too harsh as most women are capable of this outrageous behavior and so the next girl is pretty much made of the same crap?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 11:40 PM
2

Sometimes I start to think it's better to start out as a beta in a marriage, chisel your body into a muscled monster, learn alpha behavior and become the captain of your ship and set destinations, then doing all of that shit as a single. It seems women love guy's climbing up. Better to start low with a wife than without one.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 11:34 PM
1

Thanks for background story.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 08:43 PM
1

ugh, hurt ego's still fragment the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 10:31 AM
9

The one thing that changed properly has been the lighting. If you do before / after pictures, make them under the same lighting.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 06:11 PM
4

Yeah, if the HISTORICAL moment was meant sarcastic, I would ditch her plate, eat mine with big smile and do something nice for me. Like going to a shooting range and pop holes in a cut-out target of disrespectful wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 10:03 PM
1

Help me out, CL stands for?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:10 PM
3

Interesting to study more about female roles in collapse of societies.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:05 PM
1

From his blog: Even if you’re just peripherally aware of the events in the sphere you know that things have been more than a bit unsettled for the past 5 months. I really dislike involving myself in the manosphere’s PR, but as one of the primary writers (one of the three ‘R’s as it were) I’m sometimes compelled to do so. I would much rather be writing about what I do than writing about the ‘sphere itself. I don’t do this for a living, nor do I have any plans to ever make it my vocation. I enjoy …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/15 11:46 AM
5

Not really. Most comments are on +1. It looks like a mod has shadow-banned him.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:36 AM
-19

Blue pill tendency, come on, this is standard behavior.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:34 AM
4

Yeah, I definitely would have the same feeling. But if a person ask a question or is digging for the truth, he should think deeply if he is ready to accept the one answer or truth he doesn't want to hear or know. In his case, it definitely would affect me and the way I see the kids. And then not knowing is better for all involved. It would be the greatest possible betrayal for a guy though. Fucking AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:32 AM
12

This is odd. His comments are not visible in this thread. Is he shadow-banned?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:25 AM
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Sometimes it better not to know. What are his options? Drop support and his love after 11 and 16 years? Be even more angry at his ex-bitch? Nah man, he shouldn't dig deeper. Do it at birth. And then decide.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:18 AM
2

I got a feeling your vision started to blur when you read anythingmuslimanything. The guy merely puts up some aspects of a culture which are interesting to discuss in RP regards. He was not stating he adores Daesh or IS or let's introduce sharia or whatever the fuck it's called. Plus, you're probably thinking of the barbaric excesses of this culture. And the culture you have a mental image of, is most likely heavily influenced by media. Don't think for a second excesses are representative or tha…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 03:19 PM
2

MRP easy mode is you'd ask me. If you're still a beta bending backwards buck, married life, shit, life in general, can still be hell. She'll make sure of that. Mohammed might have a point, but if you pull it of, it being a LTR or a marriage, till the end, these days you'd star in a Avenger movie.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 03:10 PM
2

Provide more details in your post, otherwise the whole post has no real substance. Without it, the mods most likely will delete it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 09:13 PM
0

Awh, look how cute you are. Being all red pill and masculine by insulting. Keep it up. I read your comment and wondered if Einstein failed to produce offspring. Because that was implied. In fact he did produce children. And same goes for Alexander the Great. He had offspring too, though they died before reaching adulthood. Did not bother to Google the rest. Maybe pick other famous men of history before you use them for your argument.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 06:08 PM
0

Wait, Einstein had no offspring? Oh wait, he did.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:23 AM
1

Christ, is that true? Any resources on that?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 07:34 AM
1

Water under the bridge and all. I think r/whinemoreplease generally wants to help, but pounds hard when he sees ego and loves to surf on the tidal waves of hurt ego and feels. Read this post of his: http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3gkhum/z/cu05uxp It might interest or help you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 07:54 PM
1

Don't bite the mod troll bait. Nothing good can come from it. Just ignore.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 07:46 PM
2

I found his body language at the end signalling total disinterest.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:15 PM
1

Yeah, and then claim success instead of before hand.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:34 PM
2

If the water and weather is warm. Only dudes where I surf.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:31 PM
1

You just described the story of my ex and my former beta ways. Except she tried to hook up with a colleague of hers, married with children. Once he filled her up, he was done.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:30 PM
1

Vadim of Honest Signalz is very sociable and fun in his day game.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:20 PM
0

I read it as Paulo Callawhore and 50 shits of grey.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:18 PM
2

Half the comments tactfully send the same message.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:08 PM
1

It gives the appearance of mastery to the writer. Maybe they have it, maybe they don't. In interviews Rollo Tomassi is much more clearer than in his book or articles.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:03 PM
1

Well thank you. I definitely did not get that from the original piece.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:01 PM
1

A judge once said that if you can not explain the law to a layman using normal/simple language, you actually do not have a real understanding of the law. I find it commands respect when you can break down something difficult in normal words and sentences.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:56 PM
1

The Rationale Male same story. Too much use of $10 words. Had to use the dictionary far, far more than any other English book I've read.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:52 PM
1

:) thnx
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 11:33 AM
4

Besides the initial blabla, thanks for giving an answer nonetheless.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 03:59 PM
2

Helpful, especially connecting my/our beta behavior with a woman's behavior. It it sucks, I'm doing something I shouldn't or it's a signal I should become better at what it is triggering her behaviour. Solid thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 01:33 PM
4

It's unnecessary to be pedantic. I'm quite interested in what makes a LTR or marriage work to reflect if what I want from a partner is attainable. Look, I'm trying to get LTR's to work, but they keep getting stranded. Perhaps my expectations are unattainable or in need of some tuning. Give a dude a break.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 10:58 PM
3

I actually didnt miss that part. It's exactly why I am curious what his partner is giving him that makes his LTR worth it. And that is why I ask him. But since you're in a LTR too, what does your partner add to your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 10:35 PM
3

Haters gonna hate. And with the overload of AWALT stories, it's easy for them to feed off it and hate more.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:04 PM
12

According to Rollo Tomassi a woman is not interested in who you are, but what you are. Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:59 PM
4

Jesus man, you make a LTR sound like being with an ungrateful kid that tries to feed off your emotional stability by constantly throwing shit tests at your armor. What's in it for you if I may ask? And is it worth the hassle?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 09:37 PM
2

What he said as tips and suggestion. Good conversion post. Well done mate.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 08:18 AM
5

The point is not a lot of guys seem to be able to answer this rather straightforward question. All I get is that maintaining a healthy LTR is solely the responsibility of the man. And to me it seems like it is an circus act where we have to walk on a loose rope at lethal height where crap, shit and utter nonsense is spit at you at a never ending rate of fire. And it is expected that we hold our balance and maintain the act. And if you fall, on your way down you see you are already replaced by th…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:48 AM
8

Truly pathetic and ultimately so sad. Yes, sex is great and yes, please give it to us in abundance. But what we really want is loyalty, trust and companionship. Throwing your lips around a cock to keep a gut, ffs, there is no dignity to be found there. Only utter disgust and contempt. OP handled it well. But the whole thing must have hurt like hell.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:25 PM
3

So what is Rollo Tomassi getting out of his LTR? He's in one and quite happy about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:51 PM
8

Naturally the basics are obvious, which pretty much is sex and company. Taking care of is something we give to them. But what do they bring to the table, what can they do for us. What's in it for us in a LTR besides the basics? Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:12 PM
1

Okay, yeah, I now understand it much better.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:09 PM
7

They cheat because of feelz
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:41 PM
1

So what is frame to you, in your own words? Also, how does frame translate beyond women and into daily life?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:33 PM
1

Good to read there is light at the end of the red tunnel.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:31 PM
5

How does a woman enhances a guy's life?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:27 PM
1

What is wit in relation to TRP?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:20 PM
3

OP failed to make that point at the end. Thanks, I sometimes need to be spoon-fed RP because the taste and overpowering betaness is still in my mouth.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:20 AM
8

Make it, you will help guys out there.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:18 AM
3

Ah, so you hold someone's past against them, conscious or unconsciously.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:06 AM
9

According to Rosso Tolassi you don't find a good woman, you make one. It's on page 52 of his first book. He didn't tell how BTW.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:49 AM
6

I did... twice. One offered ten bucks for me to lick her V and another fatty Iranian couchsurfer who boasted about her sexual escapades (trio, old guys, blabla). Oh, three times. My god, another couchsurfer, this one from Germany. HB 4 in dark light, body bordering at fat. But I felt horny and wanted to see if her tities were as nice as I projected and thought they would be (oh hell yeah). Her mind said no, her body screamed yes, never seen a pussy get afloat on it's own juices. But her constant…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:50 PM
1

You might not want to see Darwin's Nightmare then.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:28 PM
2

When studying mathematics in uni we got the theory, an example and how to solve it based on that theory. The example functions as a vehicle to make the theory understandable and applicable. Then we got to math problems where we had to apply the theory. Finally, practice made perfect. Your excellent blog posts remain theory at best. To me, and dare I say to a lot of readers out there, still unapplicable. So, if you would describe a situation / example explaining the theory, it is definitely going…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:14 PM
1

Same her. Good theory, but it needs examples.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:05 PM
0

In my experience in my main LTR, my ex tolerated me being sick for one day. She was caring and sweet. After the second day, she started to be disapproving. Also, she jumped ships when I got severely depressed at work. Now, I'm not saying this to put blame at her. I was definitely not a proper partner and failed at points where I shouldn't. But so far, seeing my own experiences, hearing the stories of women I dated, yes, all women are like that. It is not a strawman, this is nature at work. Edit:…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 07:35 PM
3

Yeah, I have made that mistake my entire forty fucking years. Jesus fuck.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:19 PM
5

Very good to remind us. I have always found it a bit dualistic, this heavy emphasis on how to deal with women when it is being repeated that when bettering yourself on a wide array of subjects the dames will come and yet what do we almost exclusively talk about...? Women. I'd love to read much much more about keeping frame in interactions with anybody, not just women. Or how one trains himself to keep his emotions in check. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:17 PM
3

I think William James said it best : The deepest principle of human nature is the craving to be appreciated. —William James As social beings we have a psychological need to be respected and accepted. Best buddies, friends for life, etc. fulfill that role perfectly. If you're lucky, your parents and any siblings too.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:32 PM
1

So the question begs to be asked, what value does a good woman add to a LTR?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:33 PM
3

So the question begs to be asked, what value does a good woman add to a LTR?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:31 PM
1

So the question begs to be asked, what value does a good woman add to a LTR?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:30 PM
-3

That's swell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 05:39 AM
1

Yeah, true that mate. I'm having a hard time with it though. My last LTR ended because I just did not recognise her shittests or knew how to properly respond to it. It is like being sucked into an emotional vortex that is not mine or I feel anger/rage/utter disappointment and let it show. I found dealing with our fights or her tantrums tough. And we both held grudges against each other. She for me putting up boundaries and sticking with it. And me for believing the utter, random shit she sometim…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 08:53 PM
1

The whole fucking pill is based on what women unconsciously and consciously find attractive. All the good advise is mostly geared towards making you a more attractive subject of her desire. It is being said that getting a good woman is a side effect of TRP. But I bet the majority of guys here who are improving and rebuilding their lives do it for pussy mainly.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 07:49 PM
1

Point 5 is a little unclear. Could you expand?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 07:35 PM
1

The whole purpose of meditation is to become aware of the thoughts and gently bring it back to your meditation.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 09:44 PM
1

And here I was, hoping you were just Joe average with a middle income...
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 09:23 PM
2

I'd coin the term Red Knight if I could.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:00 AM
2

Looks get attention. Devotion comes after you play the Game.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 09:16 AM
4

Nothing. Just referring to a post on ze Internet. And besides, weight loss always happens in the kitchen. If you lift, run or do triathlons, fat loss is ultimately done in the kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 06:41 AM
1

And on which side falls narcissism?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:45 PM
1

Can I have a 1000 virgins in heaven instead of the $1 per down vote?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 09:17 AM
1

Yup, dated such a girl. She had a great body, came easily and loved to be dominated in bed. But outside the bed, she told me she didn't want to give up her life in her city, hated making concessions and refused to listen to logic and claiming her tantrums & emotional disrespectful shit as: 'but I felt it like that'. And no, I'm not going to apologise. 29 years old. She'll will find her beta boy to cather to HER needs and wants. I will find an intelligent and submissive wife.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:12 AM
4

Sounds like what a good dad would do.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:02 AM
0

Leave while your digital hide is still intact.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:21 PM
0

Leave while your digital hide is still intact.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:21 PM
2

Because the project their fantasy guy on you. And they would do anything to please this guy.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:16 PM
1

I should get a dog and be forever happy.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:04 PM
2

If you're lucky you got it from your mom.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:03 PM
1

I'm doing something different, my LTR last 7 months and are usually on the decline 2 months before that.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:03 PM
1

I'm reading the Rationale Male, but Jesus fuck, every paragraph is littered with deftly words. I'm resorted to using a dictionary to actually understand what Rollo is saying. But he could have used less wordy words. And he doesn't to sound intelligent or make the content more sound. In his interviews he uses everyday language and the message is so much clearer.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:00 PM
1

Yeah, oddly enough it's not a working against me when I open up. I still fuck them. But I do got the feeling that showing my former beta omega life ain't working for me for LTR.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:48 PM
1

Meh. What doesn't kill you, fucking hurts like hell.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:31 PM
4

Happened to me. 11 years and my ex spread her legs within days of her new crush. She just jumped ships. Currently rebuilding and refitting this former wrack, while never ever letting a woman on board again. Yes, she may attach her lines. But that is as far as I allow a woman to get close.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:30 PM
9

According to Robert Glover of No More Mr Nice Guy, healthy walking is embracing the feeling, without the need of porn or fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:08 PM
1

You first need to have phone numbers of those girls. But before that you need to approach girls to get these numbers. And you approach because basically you want to conquer and fuck women. I fail to see how one can push an abundance mentality in this. Even of you have 10 options, you'll need to resupply. Girls lose interest and drop off. So where do the new numbers come from?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:04 PM
2

This was my first place to encounter the manosphere and TRP. European, perhaps it's that.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:44 AM
1

Oh yeah, last girl I dated came when I entered. I was her ultimate fantasy man who had it all. When reality didn't match her unrealistic and unobtainable idea of what kind of Man she wants, things went sour quickly.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 03:35 AM
2

Yeah, not sure what a man get out of a LTR that can't be had from spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 03:22 AM
1

Giving a compliment is being nice. Nice has a wide basis. Being nice when a girl throws a tantrum, just to keep the peace, is being nice to her. But sure as hell ain't being nice to yourself. Nice is misused in this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 09:09 PM
1

Holland?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 08:57 PM
3

Yeah, but ignoring is different than being indifferent.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 09:45 PM
1

So basically most flairs should be replaced by [Theory]? I suppose people will circumvent this new rule and use the flair [FR] for posting their thoughts. I would. I think your new rule is a good rule and encourages people to think more deeply about what it is they want to share. I'm finding this sub getting filled with: Here is what you should do. But these posts are like the ten commands and not much how and why it works, just fucking do it, because look at me. But do you think it limits peopl…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:15 AM
1

I thought it was only visible once a flair is added?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:04 AM
2

And why is it good, care to add a little more of why? Otherwise I won't feel tempted to Google this person and his theories.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:00 AM
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It's basically a slightly different way of saying what you say plus an added part of why you think this theory works or is beneficial. So instead of saying: You should travel alone. You say: The benefits of travelling alone and why it is helpful.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 04:58 AM
4

As an European I have no idea what you just wrote.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 07:12 PM
1

Good jab! I wonder what reasoning went behind that girls acting. Was she with somebody else? As in, did she cheat?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 08:02 PM
4

I find the LTR articles in the sidebar lost in an overload of plates articles. Pointing towards the sidebar in general is like pointing to the library and say, it's all there. With one exception, ours is not indexed. The sidebar could definitely use a separate chapter for specific LTR articles.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 07:51 PM
1

Had the exact same words being said to me by my former LTR to be. The 'it' were some rude things said in her emotional outburst and could NOT and would not see how these words landed at me. She didn't apologise and failed to see it from my perspective. Actually not failed, she didn't even try to attempt. Cause she just felt it like that in that moment. So it MUST be true, therefor I can and will not apologise. Even if I don't believe my own words now. It was the defining, what the actual fucking…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 12:21 AM
15

As a Dutchman, I find that particularly true about American women.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 09:35 PM
5

How does this compute with TRP's Captain/first mate Dynamic?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 09:29 PM
13

An LTR in it's child shoes has just ended two weeks ago. It went basically like poster said. Little bit of drama from her side. Me sensing it was the end. Said: sorry, it's not working. I'm taking you home. Didn't say a word, the entire time. She stressed that if I wanted to talk SHE would be extremely glad to talk. I said nope, not my style. A week later she brought my stuff and took hers. We talked little and after an hour I send her home again. The urge to contact her (to basically get some f…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:11 AM
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What the fuck, why all the downvotes. OP is telling the truth here. US marital laws are crazy, so that's why the mantra 'Don't get fucking married, you fool!' is being repeated ad nauseam. But it is NOT a synonym for all women are fucking crazy and should be either avoided, shamed and disrespected or plated and used & abused. Creating a LTR is considered level 1000 of gaming and keeping frame. It's fucking tough dealing with the standard female shit and it's a damn worthy attempt to attain a hea…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:20 PM
0

But how does one keep and maintain a long term relationship if one would like to have one to make and raise kids? It takes two to tango.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:18 AM
0

It's because all of us here know that this is one of the few places, if any others, where you can come and vent out your fristrations with women and the system in general without being ostracized. We come here because we know how it feels to be hurt, to be cheated on, to do what you were "supposed to do" and have life just punch you in the jaw in return. True that. Try defending TRP outside TRP. You'll get skinned alive, here is room to be.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:36 AM
3

I was dumped after 11 years of LTR. Basically replaced by a guy at her work. In hindsight, pretty much the way she left her ex for me. No time in between. I was fucking depressed at that time in my life and I became severely depressed when the LTR-floor vanished underneath me. Because I truly believed in for good and worse and the rest. Yes, she would never cheat on me, yes she would always be there for me, yes things will magically go better, blabla. But no, the relationship was broken, the sex…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:27 AM
1

That takes a considerable investment of time and effort. One does not love fully, committed and truly without the above.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:19 AM
0

Dude, walking is a fucking awesome way to smooth ones nerves down, talk to a person without having to be forced to sit face-to-face and you're doing something instead of just fucking sit somewhere and look at stuff or each other. It is my no. 1 thing I do first with women. Walk, talk and get a feel of someone. I agree that meetups for singles is a waste of just about everything. But then again, fear of failure keeps people pushing towards such events. Approaching someone out of the blue because …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 08:45 AM
3

Saved, to be read later. Thanks in advance, seems like a great post to read.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 08:38 AM
8

All things are impermanent. The trick is to know it, find and learn a way to detach oneself and still enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 08:37 AM
4

And learn his own nature. And not the masculine, muscled kind. But how he deals with his emotions.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 07:39 AM
1

Opposite attracts. I call that bullshit. You attract what you are. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 09:38 PM
2

Trying to help while making a juicy TV-production at the same time. I sense a little contradiction here. But in the end, everything and everybody is stone crazy. Enjoy the ride I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 09:37 PM
2

Holy fucking hell. Who in his right mind marry that?? I mean, something that vicious and totally out of touch with reality is bound to attract the same kind. With that said...a sudden realization: all those horrible stories we read here, how many of the OP's actually have the bravery to look at themselves and own their part? She must be either extremely skilled in hiding here evil demeanor or the guy just never learns to put up boundaries and guard them. Or either you are just like them. Also, n…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 08:39 PM
21

Depressing as fuck. Hang in there mate.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 05:58 AM
1

I honestly don't know if I would actually even want the marriage to continue when the wife gets disinterested, withholds intimacy (yeah, that's what fucking is also) and pretty much declared me unlovable. I'd say, me time and better spend time where it counts: work, kids and hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 06:12 PM
1

I don't understand. What do you mean?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 07:43 AM
2

This is something that always nagged inside my skull. I've been doing all different kinds of 'improvement', where in reality I was just changing parts of me to be better liked by women. Not real improvements just for and by me.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:59 AM
1

Both parts start out very hard. One sucks all the way through, the other starts to suck less by each step you take. But it's hard till the end.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:21 PM
2

Indication of interest. It starts pretty much with the eyes. Good way that worked for me was starting to catch and hold gaze of women. Any women. You'll start to see differences and from there on the rest follows: proximity, accidental touch, the works.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:50 AM
0

There can be only one reply: (Binary Solo)https://www.google.nl/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&ei=pESOVeSML8H4UJiOgLgB&url=http://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DIa9N_wZaoa4&ved=0CBwQtwIwAA&usg=AFQjCNHy-h02wjHbi_CcNjfeRxE3OyMkQA
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:38 AM
9

If all women have the potential, what help does screening do? Sometimes it seems the whole bad part of females is brought out of them when we, we men, lose game, frame or fame. It seems nowadays we're fucked any way we spin it. Our inevitable moments of strength and weakness that come in like ebb and flow, make it seem like almost any relation is going to drown in the end.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 05:58 AM
14

Yeah, funny to think Socrates as a PUA.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 05:36 AM
1

Do you have it as a epub or pdf? The one in the download is the one from Hammond, but it is old school English with a lot of hefty words I don't understand. I'm none native English speaker, and the Gregory Hays version on Amazon seems much more understandable.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 07:15 PM
1

Thanks for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 11:56 PM
3

Even I had sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:07 PM
1

What is a high partner count?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 06:59 AM
1

Your wording here appear not very stoic to me...
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 05:53 AM
1

Never mind dude, let the hamster hamster. No point arguing with women. They will always ignore the obvious and irrefutable logic and attack full on force unimportant side-details and declare victory. As always. Girl has double standards (she has no problem fucking a guy in a relationship, but the other way round is suddenly bad. Which BTW didn't happen), is insecure (doesn't understand why he didn't want to fuck her and judge the looks of his GF as average, hence can't comprehend why the guy was…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 09:50 AM
2

Excuse me? She was willing and wanting to fuck this guy. Guy says no, have GF. She thinks, his GF is average looking, why doesn't he want to fuck me? Also, she lives far away, she would never find out. And yet here you are, measuring with double standards. Where does he actually crosses them, hm? By a simple text message? Where & when did he actual cheat? How am I to take you serious when you only highlight one side?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 09:42 AM
3

I'm going to drop this golden nugget here, from OP's last thread: The guy realizes I thought it was a date and apologizes so he is aware I'm attracted to him. I'm also in a very sexy outfit (mini-skirt and heels). The guy continues to invite me to one on one friend dinners some of which last 4 hours. Why hasn't he tried to fuck me? He does have a gf but she's very far away and would never know. I also know what his gf looks like now and she's quite plain/average. Sooo....guy sends a text comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 06:13 AM
7

What the actual fuck. This sounds like an excellent way of destroying a lot of good things. And besides, assumptions are the mother of all fuckups. See it as a game. Enjoy the flirting and don't be a hamster by putting the responsibility of guarding ones own boundaries in the hands of others. EDIT: I skimmed the other thread. She goes out on a date last week with this guy, dressed for war and wanted to be fucked by this guy. Guy mentions his GF and controls his sexual desire. One whole week late…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 03:32 PM
3

One thing doesn't exclude the other. Maybe he wants both, screw you AND hang out with you. And what is wrong with a normal human desire? And it seems you are putting it all on him. Where lies your responsibility, have you looked at your own behavior and true desire of why you want a close male friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 03:27 PM
13

You mean normal male behavior...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 03:21 PM
2

I make silly assumptions based on photo's. Just whatever shit comes to my mind and go for the number quick. Works pretty good. Or random mindpuke bordering insult. When I get the number, it basically tells me the girl wants to fuck me.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:13 AM
5

This post is much more open. But hard science is for the most people pretty much like a belief. I don't have the knowledge and perhaps the intellectual intelligence to decipher and understand a written scientific research. And usually we read a journalists or bloggers summary of it anyways, so what is research worth to most of us out there? Also, so much science is being hampered by confirmation bias and if you into Karl Popper, scientific research is nothing more than a hypothesis. So people te…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:17 AM
5

just ideas that they made up Yeah, try denigrating, see how that works out...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:01 AM
1

Wait, you have to pay for a kid that's not yours? Even if you didn't know about it? That's cruel.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 07:24 PM
1

Nah, I'm just wondering if girls/women from anything but a healthy two-parent family & upbringing are a risk for a LTR. I want a LTR and so I do give a fuck. I don't give a single iota about his wife though and her fucking hypergamous nature & birthing another man's kid.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 07:23 PM
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Come on man, could you say the same when you are actually in the same shoes? There is this two-year old, helpless little fellow he love. And now he's suppose to drop the mom & the kid like he doesn't care at all suddenly. He's been loving the kid, and unbeknown to him from Chad Thundercock, like it was his own from day one. This is some fucked up shit that happened to him and it takes time to process and say farewell to. The bitch needs to be dumped instantly, but the kid... jeez man. Fucking fu…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:11 AM
1

I wonder where she comes from: single-mother family, broken family or happy mom&dad family.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:07 AM
1

How would it have been played out the Machiavellian way, could you paint the scenario? And how do we turn our male love for women off to gain the fucking upper hand in a relationship? I'm having 'can't compute' error inside my brain. I mean, taking in a position of not giving a fuck if a woman is gone or not versus loving the woman and thus not wish to force a woman out of one's life.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:38 PM
1

He'll get there. His madness is growing. Hopefully he is infuriated enough to eject. Both will learn for the best I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:32 PM
5

Don't fuck with single mothers, I concur. I dated one and she said it in my face that she wanted a guy so she shouldn't have to bear the burden of raising two kids alone. I thought, well fuck that, I'm not going to be your diaper washer and raising some dudes kids while he is still in the picture while you take a nap. Nope, no & never. She was a squirter, which was interesting.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:30 PM
2

Yeah, I made a mental note too when I read 'new'.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:27 PM
3

Yup, he yearns for mothers love. But props for exposing himself like he did.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:26 PM
19

Show some empathy, TRP is not standard lesson material in schools. You only learn it the hard way. And obviously it fucking hurts for this guy. If only he knew.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:25 PM
1

The wife is getting ripped to pieces in the two threads.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:20 PM
0

I thought hypergamy was based on the notion that women have the tendency to eject from a current relationship (long term) to hop straight into a new one with a guy they deem more favorable. Not so much as in marrying up in regards to their own social status, but more in comparison with their previous partner who they judge to be of lower status in whatever form or shape women see that particular status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 07:31 PM
1

The resistance to disciplining and correcting behavior has been quite overwhelming.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:57 AM
3

Well, I have had oneitis since forever. Until actually now. It's foremost the urgency & the desire to obtain something than solely the want of this specific girl. The itching to date and try out new women to see if they fit me is still very much here. Lords knows how plenty of women I meet on a weekly basis with whom I flirt with but refrain from obtaining their phone-numbers. I understand the concept of riding on one horse and betting on several. But reality is that you need to ride all of them…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:55 AM
3

And it’s true, women aren't evil, and we do talk negatively about females most of the time, but that is the purpose of this whole fucking sub. But it kind of paints a picture of women who are not worth the investment for any kind of LTR.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:26 PM
2

It isn't. And titles are not editable.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:51 PM
2

A friend of mine, late 30's, always resisted having kids. Postponed until almost breaking point of his LTR. When he got his daughter, he told me he wished they did it sooner. Because then he has more time to spend with her and see her grow up and mature. Also our body ages, better to have kids in a reasonable shape than with hip-replacements and Alzheimer. The kids wish...kind of covered with the teaching. But I'm totally at lost what love in reality means for a woman. I'm this dumb guy who stil…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:50 PM
8

I always pondered about this question: How come women expect and want us to be their replacement daddies, but why is the opposite not accepted?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:48 PM
1

Truth to be told, I teach kids from 7 to whatever to climb safely. And being the consistent, stern and masculine teacher that I had to learn to be to make the teaching work, makes me, AFC for sure, realize a lot of the RP has merit.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:14 AM
1

How about kids instead of cats?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:01 AM
1

Dude, spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 07:06 PM
16

Don't pity yourself, deal with the cards you've been played with.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:49 AM
1

Care to do the same as OP; making a list of the things he learned?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 05:23 AM
2

Care to explain it more in detail? Why was it life changing, what insights did you develop that made your life better?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 11:29 PM
1

Thanks mate, I appreciate your reply. I don't really believe in the red pill, unless I desire a submissive partner. And that is not what I want. I'm just looking for cues how to handle emotional outburst and hurtful stuff she says during her sudden mood swings. When she was all teary and obviously hurt to the bone, I felt speechless, numb and an ass. Although deep down I am convinced I did nothing wrong. Listening and explaining why I said what I said and how I said it with all the well-meant re…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:56 PM
1

I don't really believe in the red pill, unless I desire a submissive partner. And that is not what I want. I'm just looking for cues how to handle emotional outburst and hurtful stuff she says during it. When she was all teary and obviously hurt to the bone, I felt speechless, numb and an ass. Listening and explaining why I said what I said and how I said it with all the well-meant reason I possessed, it was contra productive. It only fueled the heat and she was not able to see give an inch, eve…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:56 PM
3

Awesome comment, it's good to get feedback from someone who knows me so well. Thanks mate, helpful reply!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 07:55 AM
-1

I'm Dutch dude, I told from the beginning. Pretty/good whatever the fuck. I'm not her to justify why I like candle-light, I just fucking enjoy it. Girls also happen to find it attentive, so fuck it if you don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:55 PM
0

Guilty on all fronts. My SO told me in my face I lose attractiveness when I do the above.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 03:47 PM
2

You aren't treating her as an equal, you're treating her like a princess. Is she treating you like Royalty? No? There goes your equality argument. What did I wrote that says I treat her like a princess? I'd like to reflect, but I'm obviously ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:43 PM
1

You are trying way, way too hard to make her happy and love you. You spent this whole post simpering about how she is not appreciative enough of your loving, tender blah blah blah. I'm not really seeing where I am trying so hard to make her happy and love me. Could you quote me where you think I'm doing it? Only at the end of your post do you finally consider, for a moment, that perhaps she finds your efforts unattractive, despite what all those movies told you about how women love that sort of …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:41 PM
1

I have no fucking clue anymore. I wish to believe the following is possible: I'd like have a girlfriend with whom it is us against the rest, a real sense of home and team-geist. I scratch her back, she mine. Fiercely loyal to each other, supportive in getting the best out of each other and total acceptance of each others quirks. Or whatever, I don't know man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 03:31 PM
4

Thanks for the reply. And yeah, eye-opener about being manipulative and what she is doing. This pill is bitter and hard to swallow. If I want a family I have to treat her like I treat the kids I teach to climb. I was hoping for something else.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:20 PM
1

Hell yes!
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:25 AM
1

Home, for first dates, parks, the beach, walking the streets. Anything actually.
/r/seduction22/11/14 08:29 AM
1

I know man, I know. But honestly, you can do it too. Getting turned down always beats not trying. And by trying you learn, grow, adopt and get more at ease. It works.
/r/seduction21/11/14 10:56 PM
13

From a fat couch potato to, well, whatever it is that I am now, all the 8 points are so true. I didn't read the text, but I suppose those 8 rules are superseded by rule no. 1. And rule no.1, if there is any, is to go out and be vulnerable. Just try stuff. Get rejected, get lucky, get succesful, get whatever. All this talk, top tricks, and top 10 lists mean nothing if you don't go out there and give it your best shot. It's the only true teacher and I promise you, it will get you where you want to…
/r/seduction21/11/14 01:31 AM
1

I feel bad afterwards because their level of interest doesn't match mine. And then it feels like I giving them an artificial carrot.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:41 PM
3

Yeah, I think he meant to say it conveys confidence when you look at one eye and then the next. It's true. Also, I find it more relaxing when I spot people shifting their gaze to my other eye. Unless they oscillate at a frequency of 60 Hrtz. Makes me very nervous.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:02 PM
5

Eye contact. Start practising today. You will learn as you go. Tip: be the last to look away.Usually it takes two to three seconds before the girls looks away. If it takes longer, break contact because you spotted something more important. Tip 2: Do not stare but look. Really look at their eyes. What's their colour, the shape of the pupil. How are they looking at you. Study eyes. Tip 3: Smile, gently. As if you yourself are almost unaware you are smiling. Imagine you really like them and put tha…
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:54 PM
1

No. 3 seems like the most obvious thing you can differentiate and I thought ALL the guys are doing that.
/r/seduction03/06/14 11:51 PM
2

I think pickup finds it motivation and energy on some deep, instinct level. A deep drive of men to mate. This source of energy is the perfect fuel for guys out there with social anxiety to life a more fulfilling life by finding that in fact they do have confidence, they do have something to offer and that actually girls can and will be interested in them. So for some of us, I do believe it is an essential skill. A skill to crawl out of there man-cave and find a truly wonderful world out there, d…
/r/seduction03/06/14 11:19 PM
2

Confidence comes from knowing who you are, and owning it. Not being afraid to toss it on the table and go "That's me." without worrying about what people will think. This is it. Being vulnerable and totally okay if somebody is going to reject you. In fact, you'll be surprised what happens if you lay yourself out there in the open.
/r/seduction03/06/14 11:08 PM
1

Whatever your age, profession or any other circumstances. There have been three distinct things that once I practised it in real life, clicked in a profound way. And as I believe it is universal, it might do the same for you: In order of progression: One. Just start dating women. A bunch of them. Start somewhere. We all want to date miss perfect and miss beautiful from the start. It ain't going to happen. Just start with anybody and have a good time while being a decent chap. You don't need to m…
/r/seduction03/06/14 11:06 PM
1

Girls and guys fall in love with the promise of more. The believe of being better with him. IT could be money, it could be personality. But in the end, people seek more. The seek something they can't fulfill by themselves.
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:55 PM
1

I dont understand, care to explain?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 06:08 PM
-6

Wait, you assume he is skinny or fat, and point to an image of a perfect chiseled body that makes women want you. And then you say there is not cheat code? WTF man? What is it? Get a hot body and fuck them all, or be lonely forever with that poorly shaped body. Sounds like a fucking cheat code to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 11:28 AM
-24

Really, what kind of women you guys date with? Is this redpill thing aimed at golddiggers? Or is this pandemic to the Unites States? Your media sucks big time, in general. In the sense that it instills wrong concepts of happiness, purpose and well-being in the minds of kids, young people and anybody who watch and listen to media. Don't blame women for wanting that ring sprinkled with gold and diamonds, because that is what the see everyday on TV. I'm not sure where to place the redpill concept h…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 11:17 AM
1

Jesus fucking christ. Where the fuck am I. How did I ended up here in the first place. This pill you guys talk about, this bitter pill, is on the complete opposite side of the spectrum I operate at. I know I am needy as fuck, craving mummy-love I never fully got as a child, but this, this redpillthing is something near impossible to digest. I'm at stage 1 and 4. Done 2 and 3. 5 seems like an unattainable illusion, don't even know what it is about.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 09:50 AM
1

They way you describe how you don't give a fuck sounds it wouldn't fit my personality. It might be just a bit too cocky, too arrogant. Aologies in advance if I sound judgemental. That's not what I am here for. I'm wondering if you yourself see it like that too? Do you consider yourself perhaps slightly arrogant, because of your new IDGAF approach to what girls and others think of you? I do find that dressing up nicely and being well groomed does attract more attention of women. But I also succes…
/r/seduction04/02/14 08:28 PM
2

So dressing nicely does matter?
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:49 PM
2

*Smiles
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:46 PM
1

Uppoints for the update. But boy...you overthought this one. But you learned from it I see.
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:19 PM
9

Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:16 PM
3

Yeah, so more or less you do it for yourself with that last, slightly emotional, text.
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:15 PM
0

How would you put it than? *Nice meeting you and all the best for the future? *It's been great chatting with you, have a nice life? *Nice moment we shared, I'm sure the next girl will be as nice as you were? Just spitballing shit here...help me out.
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:10 PM
5

Just passing by and reading like 1% of your post. But isn't the whole reason WHY the girl texts back after your “ok, well it looks like you aren’t interested. Nice to meet you and moving on!” because they HATE being rejected? So they text back to be back into the NONE-rejection poul. Great, or so it seems. If they didn't dig you from the beginning, how well does this bode for the future? What are your thoughts on this?
/r/seduction03/02/14 07:08 PM
1

Is it? Do you really beat the anxiety of approaching beautiful women by approaching women you don't find beautiful?
/r/seduction22/01/14 08:32 AM
1

Old post so I suppose this will be overlooked by Nick, but here goes: Whenever I get a girls phone number, I always quickly push to actually use a phone for what it is meant for, talking to eachother. I find that asking a girl out on a date is much, much easier once you talked to them. This is especially true for online dating, because you become less like a threat and more like a human. Girls screen, and they screen hard. Talking to them on the phone, making them laugh and you become interestin…
/r/seduction22/01/14 08:26 AM
1

Yes, confidence is key.
/r/seduction07/01/14 10:45 AM
1

From one of the comments: Quit your bitching when he gets home, let him chill Have sex with him. Often. All the time if need be. Make him that [GORRAM] sandwich Tell him how big/strong/smart/manly he is ALL THE TIME. They tend to forget. Let him zone out. He is not ignoring you, men just have moments of brain freeze. Laugh at his jokes. Even if they aren’t funny. Make yourself look pretty. The more feminine you act the more it reminds him he is a man. Never talk about other men, even if they are…
/r/MensRights30/08/13 12:00 PM
1

Interesting
/r/seduction16/02/13 10:47 AM
1

Say it in your head and then comment on her sweater or painted fingernails or earring or whatever. Objectiving their body just turns them into no-monsters. Appreciating there wonderful taste in fashion on the other hand...
/r/seduction24/11/12 09:51 AM
1

Don't be nice to get affection/attention. It's not authentic. edit: Owh...I read you just said it on impulse, not to stick your dick in her.
/r/seduction24/11/12 09:49 AM
4

Shittest alert
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:53 PM
2

Dude, the help that is being offered here, is amazing. TAKE IT! Send detailed reports, provide pictures, sneak in a mike when you go out hunting during day time. Don't feel offended by the doubt. Prove them wrong.
/r/seduction18/11/12 10:50 PM
2

Flawed. If they really wanted to find out if the GUITAR makes the difference, then they should have send the other picture with the smiling man holding a chainsaw or a rocket propelled grenade something completely unrelated with music. OKCupid blog had a nice post about this. Attributes increase attractiveness. An object gives somebody reason to talk about it.
/r/seduction10/11/12 05:28 PM
3

Alright now high five the computer and get the fuck out there. Made me smile.
/r/seduction08/11/12 12:42 PM
1

Don't sweat on it, it's not important.
/r/seduction06/11/12 11:25 AM
11

and old. But perhaps still not overused?
/r/seduction05/11/12 03:55 PM
1

Stopped what?
/r/seduction03/11/12 08:48 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction02/11/12 09:16 AM
1

What are the other traits? What other lof of things I can do to make them happier?
/r/seduction01/11/12 03:11 PM
1

Care to expand on that?
/r/seduction01/11/12 03:10 PM
1

Ouch...
/r/seduction01/11/12 03:09 PM
1

Can you elaborate on this?
/r/seduction01/11/12 02:54 PM
2

Where are the books titles btw?
/r/seduction01/11/12 02:50 PM
2

Bring it on!
/r/seduction01/11/12 02:50 PM
4

Salsa. It is just pure erotic and it's all about being close to the opposite sex. It ain't easy in the beginning. But once you master it, it is a powerful weapon in your arsenal of dating skills.
/r/seduction29/10/12 12:24 PM
2

Plato: "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle."
/r/seduction29/10/12 10:27 AM
4

TL;DR: Be you. Do what you want. And don't give a fuck. Be relaxed wherever you are and remain unfazed when something isn't going your way. This stuff also belongs here as well.
/r/seduction29/10/12 08:14 AM
29

Yeah. Although I felt the post was helpful, I also feel like there is frustration surfacing here and there. And so it doesn't really resonate with me. But if it works for OP and his ladies, good for them.
/r/seduction29/10/12 08:06 AM
5

I don't know about this. My style is not the opposite, but a mixture. I do tell them how their body and looks turn my dick into cockrock and how badly I want take them. But I also give them a full pleasure treatment before I have it my way.
/r/seduction29/10/12 08:04 AM
1

Yeah, me too. Probably against all rules, I texted her the moment I got home. I thought about it and decided she would like it. She texted back when she got up.
/r/seduction29/10/12 02:52 AM
1

Exactly! She didn't want me to go there...yet. But if she only knew my tongue & finger skills.
/r/seduction29/10/12 02:34 AM
22

Kino (with boob guide): Since I am out of a long relationship (11 years), I don't know how to show affection to a woman without putting all my love into it. I just behave as if they are my girlfriend and lover at that moment. Girls enjoy this. And you know why, girls want to feel to be loved. Even if it is just for one night, for one moment. Who doesn't? And guys, if you are allowed to go for the boobs, be creative. Build up the tension and try not to start grabbing and squeezing her boobs like …
/r/seduction28/10/12 06:01 PM
2

Don't understand what it was what you wrote that got you relatively so many downvotes. But I agree with you, knowing about PUA-stuff makes you already aware of yourself and makes you recognize certain behavior from yourself and from the opposite gender. And that in itself is quite potent stuff.
/r/seduction28/10/12 11:56 AM
1

Can somebody explain point 18 to me? I never quite understood passive aggressiveness.
/r/seduction26/10/12 11:06 AM
1

They can! Only difference with my male buddies, is that I wouldn't mind having sex with my female buddies. And besides. Girls know girls....if you catch my drift here. Dudes know...well, usually other dudes.
/r/seduction26/10/12 09:49 AM
0

Tadaa And I can google, too.
/r/seduction18/10/12 07:39 PM
2

True.
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:12 PM
1

I've read my fair share of posts, but this one, this one hits home. It's all about fear and conquering fear. Like many others, I too read and read and read, hoping to gain some profound insight that cures it all. It won't. Heading on fears is the only way. Thank you for this post. It should be put on the sidebar.
/r/seduction17/10/12 10:09 PM
1

And I upvoted all of you. Just because I can.
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:38 PM
1

Sad, but true.
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:37 PM
1

Love you man
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:36 PM
3

Lets see: You know how to cook. Check. I love cooking and I love it even more to cook for guests. You should come and taste my moroccan tanjin. My friends love it. You're well traveled. Check. Been all over Europe, been to Morocco and China. Seen my fair share of different cultures and adventures. You know how to dance Check! I love dancing and I recently joined a salsa class. I suck at it, but I am learning and will become good at it. You're constantly growing. Hell yeah! Life begins where your…
/r/seduction17/10/12 09:34 PM
3

1 week. You think that would be enough for people being together for 8+ years.
/r/seduction07/10/12 06:40 AM
1

Yes, yes and yes. OP's post is just a part of a larger process of grieving out the pain. In no way should this post be seen as the endall solution to emotional pain of a breakup. There is more to it than is. But it is a good start once the sharp edge of the pain is gone.
/r/seduction07/10/12 06:39 AM
2

Exactly what I'm aiming at, just to have more options. Or any option...
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:47 PM
2

This looks cool.
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:08 AM
1

I don't understand why they have to dress up like that to 'show' they are a buddhist. But it is an interesting listen.
/r/seduction04/10/12 09:48 PM
1

Actually. The more I think about it, the cheaper I feel. I'm not going for cougars anymore, unless they're shit hot.
/r/seduction30/09/12 09:32 PM
10

whispering on a loud dance floor. Yesterday I said something to a girl on the dance floor, she said something back. Couldn't hear it, even when I almost stuck my ear in her mouth. It's impossible for me to talk on a dance floor with a woman. Usually their voice is drowned in the music.
/r/seduction30/09/12 05:49 PM
1

I don't think I was willing to give more.
/r/seduction30/09/12 05:47 PM
8

Owh yeah mate. It's our eternal curse. If I am totally not interested in a girl and not give a single fuck, they're on to me like glue. When I like a girl, and thus give a fuck, it is the other way round. I need to give less fuck and be outcome independent.
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:47 AM
1

Could you supply me with a link to that apartment guide?
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:24 PM
11

Awesome man, just awesome. Needs way more upvotes and comments. Thanks!
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:06 PM
2

Wow...this resonates deeply with me. Jeez. Powerful stuff you wrote there. It feels like you unchained me.
/r/seduction27/09/12 09:26 PM
2

Sword fighting...
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:33 AM
1

What's improv lessons? Too lazy to Google.
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:32 AM
1

That's the spirit!
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:31 AM
4

Nothing. Short story: With my ex-GF, I was miserable, no self-esteem or confidence, became fat, lived in emotional terror, etc. How come I read this over and over? What makes us stop enjoying life when we are with our SO? Wtf is going on? I was like that. Couchpotato, gaming, drinking and getting fat. Lost every ounce of self-esteem and whatnot. I hated myself. Naturally, I got dumped after 11 years when I was at my lowest. I really want to understand the dynamics behind this. Why do we stop liv…
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:28 AM
2

Nice post archaicfrost. What I did before: *Absolutely nothing. Sit at home, play games, drink, ruin my relationship. What I do regularly NOW: *Climbing, two/three times a week *Salsa, once a week *Surfing in the weekends, if the waves allow for it. Things I tried that didn't stick: *Krav Maga. I did it before for half a year. Tried to get back to it. But climbing is so much more fun. Things I still want to try: *Running *Mindfulness/meditation *Singing! *Being able to play a musical instrument.…
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:03 AM
1

which list?
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:28 PM
1

Slightly needy/creepy. Just go for it IRL. Don't make excuses or find ways in which you think it might be easier. You'll be so damn proud of yourself if you make the effort and show him your interest. FB won't do it for you, you're gonna have to do it yourself. You can do it.
/r/seduction24/09/12 08:50 PM
1

Ask your dad to impersonate as taxi-driver and write in real bad handwriting "Taxi" on your fathers car. Or just pretend you don't know your dad and let him still drive you around.
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:56 PM
1

NOPE
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:53 PM
5

When I don't give a damn. But usually then I really don't give a damn and I'm completely oblivious to any IOI's. Cause I don't give a damn. Damn.
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:13 PM
-3

Fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:13 PM
2

Damn this game, if only I could FAKE being totally not interested. Somehow my game works like this. I like a girl, I let my attraction show by asking for a date. I get the "NOPE" and than I instantly become myself, don;t give a flying fuck anymore, say whatever I want and BAM, they're suddenly all interested. But now I'm fucked of course, since the doubt kicks in and I don't know whether to go for it and risk a instant repeat dump. I love the game when I am not physically attracted, and I totall…
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:08 PM
4

I'm fucking GOD in the game when I am not interested. I know EXACTLY what you mean buddy. The game is cruel.
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:07 PM
1

Nope, judging from his game, he is probably insecure as well. He will totally misinterpreted this. Just fucking ask him. And if you fail, you'll probably mourn for the rest of your life about how cruel life has been to you and that no guy does even come close to this mystical man of your life you never really talked to.
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:58 PM
1

What? Are you serious? You are a girl, your powers are embedded in your genes. That's why you girls rule over guys. Just show some hint of flesh and skin, and he will be drooling all over the place. If I was a girl...gosh, I knew EXACTLY how to do it. Just flapper a bit with your eye-lashes, let him feel the soft breeze. That stuff works. Or just rip open your blouse and ask him what he thinks of your ballonies. You do risk the chance you will be classed as needy. But, live starts where your com…
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:55 PM
2

But if it is...come back in 5 years and show us the pics of the wedding.
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:51 PM
1

I mean, what are the odds?
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:50 PM
1

Ohw...you wish.
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:50 PM
1

He's interested but his game sucks. But that's okay, since you like him as well. Show him you like him as well, but do it just a bit. You don't want to come over as needy.
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:49 PM
7

Well, one issue I have with the outer game, is the abundance of material out there, free or paid. Which guru to follow? David Deangelo? Neil Strauss, Richard la Ruina, David Wygant, Ross Jeffries, etc etc etc etc etc etc... And they all have so much, it's insane. I bought the book from Neil Strauss, but even though it is entertaining, I won't be peacocking around at bars and clubs. I bought the online book from David Wygant, get spammed to death everyday and was not drawn in the book to read on.…
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:52 PM
23

For the lazy ones amongst us
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:42 PM
1

Haven't found a good translation for this one opener to my language (Dutch)....it's just not the same. :(
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:39 AM
1

My experience is when you dance alone on purpose AND having FUN doing it, girls come to you. At least that's what sometimes happens to me. I honestly don't know how I dance and how silly/good it's being rated by others. And I don't give a damn really. Usually the more outgoing girls will flock to you to engage in some sort of conversation or just want to dance with you. I usually ignore them because I don't dance to get in touch with girls. I dance to have fun.
/r/seduction03/09/12 09:39 PM
3

Listen to this guy. He IS talking the truth. You might think, it's impossible. But it's not. It's only impossible if you never try. So fucking TRY. You are your own master of happiness and fulfillment, so stop being a dick to yourself and take that step. It might seem impossible, but once you make it, you'll see it's not a big deal after all. So, get your ass moving into the direction you want (not a girl, but something YOU really want). You can do it!
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:45 AM
2

Hear, hear: STOP FUCKING CARING! And enjoy life!
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:39 AM
1

The deal about dancing is to have fun. Have FUN. That's all there is to it. If you dance like you are having the time of your life, girls WILL notice this and WILL be interested in you. You will be confident in their eyes and they want to know more about you. If you hate dancing, don't do it, find something else. Or try salsa lessons. Just dance, and dance for yourself. If you think of nothing but the music, do NOT be bothered with thoughts "Owh, I may look silly, what will they think about me?"…
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:38 AM
4

Dude, just take your bike or your feet, go out and approach people. Young, old, man, woman...whatever. It doesn't matter. Just have fun. It might not be today, but maybe tomorrow things will surprise you beyond what you imagine. Just started enjoying life for YOU and nobody BUT you. Don't organize parties and what not to be the focus of social attention. It won't work. Do things for YOU. Forget the rest. This stuff works!
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:32 AM
4

Next... I know you don't want to hear this, as you're probably in full one-isme mode, but if she says no and even states she thinks of somebody else, she is NOT worth your attention. You think she is...and believe me, I know where you are, but she is not. Trust me on this. And trust the rest of us commenting on your topic. This is awesome combined knowledge, free for you to use and learn from. We ALL have been where you are. Release this fixation you have. You must. Move it back to you and enjoy…
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:15 AM
1

Okay man. Didn't know. Reposted as suggested.
/r/seduction28/08/12 03:27 PM
1

In love - infatuation. Translation thingy going on her. It's not real love of course, just the start of feelings. I have been in love before and glad to know the difference. It probably will backfire badly when I go nuclear. But I do not want to be in the fucking friendzone.
/r/seduction28/08/12 03:23 PM
1

BTW, I'm redecorating my house. It's a fucking mess beyond repair and lacks total soul. I rather not take a date there at the moment. Any other idea's?
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:35 PM
1

Jeez, I've only known her for 3,5 weeks, seen her four times now with climbing. I didn't know it is suppose to go faster.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:32 PM
1

It's mind boggling. When I asked her for a real date and when she said no, I made it clear I don't want to be in the friendzone. It's either everything, or nothing at all. Unfortunately I'm in love I'm afraid. Haven't slept the whole night, trying to figuring out what's going on. You don't do that when you're not in love I assume. She absolutely loves go climbing with me, repeatedly states she enjoys my company through words, eye contact when she thinks I'm unaware, eye-locks and teasing back. S…
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:48 PM
2

It is all a choice. Remember that next time you do something you think it's the old you. You have a choice NOT to do it and do something differently. Maybe this helps you, a quote from Galway Kinnell. “We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some comple…
/r/seduction18/08/12 05:42 PM
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Lol, arm candy. But yes, showing bits of your true self without acting an act or following a script is better if you genuinely like a girl and want to have more fun with her than just plain sex. Otherwise, it really doesn't matter if it is sex you want. And on that note: My best friend is a true pickup artist, although he doesn't realize it. He dates girls constantly, his age or well below his. Actually ANY age. But one thing painfully stands out. Even though he is constantly on the hunt for pus…
/r/seduction18/08/12 05:35 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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