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remainsteadfast/r/askFDS13/01/21 05:06 PM
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DISCUSSIONremainsteadfast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:44 PM
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I don't want to sound cruel, but if he really liked you, there's no way he would've forgotten. Have you ever forgotten about a date you were looking forward to? The only other explanation is that he did remember but chose not to message you in order to make you doubt yourself, I'd just move on. Even if he did actually forget, you don't want to put up with someone who makes a habit of forgetting things that are important to you
/r/askFDS01/02/21 10:59 PM
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I can't tell you what to do as I don't know your financial situation or the cost of abortion where you are (it's free where I live), but I will say that if you can afford it or borrow money from someone else that it's better to cut your losses to get him out of your life sooner. I'm so sorry you were cheated on, I hope that therapy can bring you some closure 💗
/r/askFDS25/01/21 10:47 PM
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I'd like to add that, as we should all know, pregnancy has a huge impact on your body, including on your emotions. A lot of what you're feeling could be exacerbated by hormones, especially in such a stressful situation, and so I think that once you've recovered from the abortion you'll be able to look at things more clearly.
/r/askFDS25/01/21 04:23 PM
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I'm glad you plan on aborting, that's the important thing to focus on while it's still early. If you have a friend or family member you can trust then talking to them would be a good idea as abortions are difficult and you'll probably need/want the support and someone to drive you, and you absolutely do not want that person to be your ex. Subconsciously you'll think he wasn't that bad if he """"supported you during a difficult time""""" and it'll make cutting him off harder. Second, CUT HIM OFF.…
/r/askFDS25/01/21 04:15 PM
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I'm also an exmuslim woman, and can really relate to you. I can only speak of the lessons I learned the hard way, but you're already doing great by realizing this and how easy it is to fall into the trap. I think the most important thing is the people you surround yourself with. When I came out as exmuslim I was kicked out, and ended up befriending people who were also having a shit time, and unfortunately self medicated with drugs and shit men. They were all nice girls but definitely full of pi…
/r/askFDS14/01/21 02:52 PM
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I second this book! I read it in the last couple months of my relationship with my ex and it was scarily accurate
/r/askFDS14/01/21 02:44 PM
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I really wish my friends were more touchy, but after years of friendship I don't know if that could change. You're right about my daughter, I definitely would not want her to be in this situation. I try my best to project an image of strength, even if I'm not always feeling it. Maybe on some level being treated like shit is familiar, but I really thought I was past that. I definitely do need to stop drinking alone. It's not like I'm getting hammered, but I never even used to keep alcohol in the …
/r/askFDS14/01/21 02:40 PM
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Thanks a lot, that's really nice of you to say. But yeah I was clear that there will be no gf privileges, even the leftovers in my fridge are off limits lol. I'm not his mom or his therapist, I've learned that lesson way too many times. But I haven't really set any limits or tried to clarify what's going on since I felt like shit about myself for even being in this situation, knowing he's LV and that I never did this type of thing in the past (since I was always in a relationship). But honestly …
/r/askFDS13/01/21 07:29 PM
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