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Field Reportrepfive305/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 06:27 AM
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Field Reportrepfive305/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 07:33 AM
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Imagine paying for advice from this guy using movies as proof of what women want
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 04:30 PM
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Again every orbiter is affected. They would love to show they like their girl and squeeze her hand. And those guys do give them signs like that but it never works. But instead she chases the dude who gives no fucks about her. Every time I had a huge crush on a girl I was affected and rarely got them cause it showed. Showing you want to fuck her when she’s been very sweet, nice, loving and earned it, ok. In general letting a girl affect your emotions is the absolute worst possible advice Women wa…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 04:29 PM
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Yeah from a guy who’s validation and attention is very difficult to obtain and is fleeting
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 04:08 PM
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Bro. No. You sound like a novice. They say that’s what they want. 99% of guys that orbit girls are “affected” by those girls. A friendzoned guy I know just told me the girl said she “just wants a yes man”. He should believe her because she said it? You’re really going to let a girl tell you what they want? Beyond clueless. This having 11 upvotes in this sub is embarrassing.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 09:45 AM
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I know what you mean, you gotta learn on your own. But imo clear information quicker to the truth helps so much. I learned so much from AMS by watching 15 of his videos that would have taken me 5+ years to learn on my own.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 01:52 AM
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They're "feminist" with their logical brain but get turned on by the opposite. You're exactly right, she has no idea how the world works.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 05:44 PM
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Imo don't shoot again. Hot girls who are good at stringing guys along will give off IOIs just to keep you as a orbiter. Out of principle I won't ask out again if it's a rejection like OP's. I've experienced it before. If she wants you she'd bring it up now. The rest I agree with though
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 05:39 PM
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Are you in Utah by chance? Boyfriend and they never banged? The ex may not be fully redpilled, but he sounds close just from what you described. Now maybe he texted her 30 times while she was dancing "I don't trust you" which would come off jealous af. Very different.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 05:36 PM
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I've been there. Logicking my way into "of course she likes me". Nope. It sucks. Maybe she will someday when she truly gets the sense you've moved on and don't care. Not right now at all. OP is correct, pull back. Forever. Unless she makes a move.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 05:33 PM
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When it comes to this I follow Tate’s advice. He says if she wants to go off on a girls trip, or in this case hang out with a group of guys with her girls, he tells her he can’t take her seriously. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. If she wants to be in a relationship with you, pushing those boundaries should make you “not take her seriously” instantly. You can show your boundaries are strong by not allowing things early on. This is another reason I love…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 06:44 AM
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Much better source of protein People really just convince themselves of anything
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 01:35 AM
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Lmaoo wow. Didn't even know this was you bud, I follow the sub, not you.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 06:52 PM
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Losers say life isn't a competition. They upvote these posts in droves and OP feels vindicated. But in reality, he has less muscle mass and makes far less money cause he wants to watch his Netflix shows. But nice, he has 70 upvotes on reddit, good job getting McDonalds workers and office workers making like 70K to agree with you. I recommend anyone reading through this to question it. See these kinds of things as opportunity to keep grinding. You can do it. 95% of your competition will find any …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 01:56 AM
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Found the clip. It's from 38:28 - 46:00: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=htYdpp0LxOE&t=2308s&ab_channel=ProfessionalMisogynist Recommend the whole thing as well, he knows his stuff
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 03:35 AM
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Great point. It is good to be able to take things seriously as well. What I meant is I hate the always agree and amplify. Searching online, almost every suggestion for handling shit tests is to agree and amplify, and then I've seen people take that to extremes where it's just not funny at all to me. Something like "I've slept with every girl on the planet twice, I've had to change my phone number 100 times" is too much for me, but I see examples like that everywhere. Something in Andrew Tate's P…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 11:14 PM
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Depends on the situation for me. Imo for questions that are bait to prove yourself it’s not worth answering it period unless you’ve seen them for a while. Like 1 year back I met a hot af girl at a club. Had a good convo then I had to walk away from the convo and lost her. 20 mins later I run into her at her groups table. There were 2 other dudes clearly going for her. One was 6’5” and better looking than me, but I’m jacked af. This topic came up. The tall dude said 150, can’t even remember what …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/23 04:15 AM
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Huh. Get walked over cause I'm a man who doesn't answer questions like a goofball? Agree and amplify isn't the only way to pass shit tests. In fact it's the worst way imo.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 05:46 PM
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Hate this approach personally. Always sound like a goofball.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 05:32 PM
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Yeah I've always hated the pickup artist approach. Sound like goofball with all the agree and amplifying. Not sharing shows you have a solid frame and that you aren't a clown.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 05:32 PM
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This is why you must wait for the girl to bring up a relationship. My bluepill roommate literally asked a girl to be his gf after the 4th date a few weeks ago 💀. You can imagine what happened.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 06:53 AM
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Yeah so much of it is about how they perceive your level of interest. I’m so thankful for AMS because he completely changed how handle I flakes and texting. You must be very patient and show her you have options by being over unneedy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 06:51 AM
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Ah. I have a bud exactly like this. He goes out to bars once every 6 months. Then always says “I need to go out more and practice” but he’s afraid of rejection. So he never goes out.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 06:34 AM
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Yeah you must basically only show that you’re the man. Happened across the short subreddit the other day and one post I read was about how when a guy and his wife wanted to have kids, she wanted a sperm donor because of all the trauma he had brought up to her about being short and they ended up divorced.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 04:03 PM
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So much of it is how you act too. I know so many tall guys who will never come close to a 9 or 10. My brother is 6’5” and ended up with an overweight girl. A gym bud of mine is 6’2”, absolutely jacked, and strong as shit. He’s with a 5 and he’s a pussy. You have gotta have that idgaf mindset and be hard to get for girls. They must have that chase feeling and you can create it, even if you’re short. I’m 6’2” and jacked, but I was 6’2” and in pretty good shape 7 years ago and got one girl per year…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 01:52 AM
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Correct me if I’m wrong but that isn’t even “frame” right? That would just come across as desperate. A test of frame would be if she said “no thanks you’re ugly as fuck and bad at sex”. If he cried, weak frame. If he was unreactive emotionally and told her to leave for disrespecting him, strong frame.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/23 05:13 AM
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I would have called out the AFC for not giving me a water too
/r/TheRedPill08/04/23 10:16 PM
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It’s crazy how little game most guys have, and how they refuse to learn it. One bud went on 3 dates with a girl, then she told him she was going to Florida for spring break. He told me on the 4th date he was gonna ask her “what they were” and then when that didn’t go well and she ended it, he phrased it to me as “she broke up with me.” I’ve tried countless times to teach him game but he refuses. He’s “not the kind of guy that plays with girls”. Clueless
/r/TheRedPill18/03/23 06:47 PM
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Good post, but this is not something bluepillers say: don’t buy her drinks or gifts -that’s chauvinistic to expect sex for them and would put pressure on her! Bluepillers definitely buy girls drinks because they think that is how they can win them over. By showing they’re a beta provider.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/23 03:20 PM
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Haha why are you so upset? The point is simple. I “flaunt” my money by wearing expensive stuff, but the thing that matters is confidence. I got to play with her vagina because of my confidence, he lost cause he was flaunting out of insecurity. Get it? You needing to emphasize the details of my story like that detracts from it sounds like you have some insecurities yourself haha.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/23 04:31 PM
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Imo you don't have that bad of a problem. I'm kind of similar. You will learn a lot about women from these approaches. But the key is you need figure out why you aren't successful. Once you figure it out, you'll see why doing things other than constant cold approaching is the way. From my own experience, this is why my constant cold approaches didn't work the best: women want the best. you have to improve your financials, your body, and your game. Cold approach only helps with understanding some…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:07 AM
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Can’t seem like you have nothing else going on so I’d text her its no problem she cant make it but Im busy the rest of the week. Then text her in 2-3 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/23 05:29 PM
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Huh. The best wins. Feel free to justify being a loser however you want
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 05:45 PM
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He isn't saying this at all. He said 90% should be on your purpose. On your purpose isn't being drunk at the club for most people.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 01:04 AM
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Pulling girls in the states is easier due to feminism, you'll just get shit tested harder and you have to be more dominant. It's hard to do. But there are so many loser men in the US because they tiptoe around.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 01:03 AM
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He didn't say build your wallet. He said mission, network, and IG. Every aspect makes a difference. I've personally slept with a women who was married to a millionaire. Dude was a total loser who happened to have money. She took advantage of him. But he didn't have it all. Only money. Your IG can show confidence, preselection, money, and status. Yes you can pull without it as I pulled the married woman without it, but you're wrong that they don't give af about it.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 01:00 AM
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Haha my dude, your initial post discussed initial interactions with women. Getting a phone number is even beyond that. By your own metrics you've had zero success with women lmao. Strange attempt at gatekeeping. I'm giving actual examples of changing women's opinion and all you've said is you can't talk your way into getting a girl. It is beyond obvious who the rookie is. You are literally a rookie if you haven't been cold approaching and only wait for iois. Not wasting my time with you anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 11:34 AM
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If you read my examples and can't understand the amazing game I'm teaching, you're the rookie. It's very clear to anyone experienced what I did is advanced. You're focused on the phone number when you should be focused on the game. If you understood getting women you'd have noticed the game, not that I merely got a phone number. You are placing way too much emphasis on looks and status. Have you never heard the phrase "men fall in love with what they see, women fall in love with what they hear"?…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 11:18 AM
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Cold approaching a girl isn't chasing. Tate has said that he does it himself.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 10:59 AM
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I was demonstrating how using words and game can change a woman's opinion of you. They both showed disinterest from my looks alone otherwise I would have had choosing signals without gaming both of them. Yes if I was in the bottom 1% of men looks wise they wouldn't have been interested, great point. Believe me I have slept with more girls than you could ever hope to imagine having Lmao sure you have.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 10:55 AM
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There is no special combination of words you can say that make them attracted to you Absolutely wrong. Not only can you, learning game will let you keep a hot girl who does give you choosing signals once she shit tests you. Game is hard to learn and is not the same as becoming a high value man. Just look at Adam Levine. Insanely successful and has zero game. In fact there are so many rich celebrities with ugly ass wives cause they never learned game. Approaching women who have not given you choo…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 08:28 AM
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25% of marriages end in divorce if both are at least 25. I’d reckon most of those divorces are blue pulled guys who don’t understand women
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 08:12 AM
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Wtf not all companies and people lie
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 08:06 AM
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the girls I want are only those who want me That’s BS have you ever seen Donald Trump cold approach any of his SuperModel wives or when Kim Kardashian Asked SNL for Pete Davidson's number Very few are as rich or as famous as these 2. That’s my goal but in the meantime I still want women. If you find a 6 that is in love with you put her on the team I promise No
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 09:56 PM
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Personally I love Andrew Tate. Unlike OP he has extremely good game. Have listened to several podcasts in full and he leaves a few nuggets here and there that make it obvious he knows women. I agree with like 85% of what he says overall, but he knows the game. For example in one podcast he mentions a shit test from women of complaining about the seat being up. He says how he handles it by calmly telling the girl to pee at home, she says sorry she wants to stay, and then he will literally tell he…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 09:51 PM
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Fucking idiot Experienced men can see from 1000 miles away you don’t get girls. Game is extremely nuanced. It takes lots of practice. If you are the guy to get this upset for no reason, I can tell you have zero game. You will blow up over a mean shit test from a 10. I’ve had girls ignore me at bars, a bud or even random guy say “fuck that bitch she’s not even cute!” to me when she was a 9+, then I ended up hooking up with or fucking her. Even if you wait for choosing signals, girls will eventual…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 09:47 PM
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You can be in love imo, but it takes a lot of experience for it to be realistic. If you aren’t able to walk away from love due to disrespect what you have will never last. I was a victim of that for a while. I’d get oneitis and no matter what I’d stick around for the same girl. I’d say I’m not a hardline redpill guy, but very close. I personally think women can be just in love as men, but they get there in a different way than men.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 11:21 AM
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In my experience you become more and more alpha until you settle. If you settle down with a girl now, you’ll be this beta guy who’s in pure love and doesn’t strive for much. I always had incredibly high standards for girls, so I couldn’t settle. I face rejection after rejection for years as I improved. I used to be just like you. I was very bluepill and so beta it’s hard to imagine. I’ve completely transformed. And it wasn’t faked. I tried to fake being alpha but that backfired. I’d have a panic…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 10:34 AM
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But being a beta male and having low testosterone levels probably both plays a role in me being a 24 year old Duh. I was the beta of the group in high school and got zero girls. Slowly over time I became a leader and now at 31 I have tons of options. Do what you want with your life but if you care you are weeding out your own genes from existence. The u/Subotom version of a human is currently failing and is not going to pass on genes. You're "ok" with sucking because you don't realize what the b…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/22 06:59 PM
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Not a normal ioi. If you get a shit test do not “isolate and close” like described in the post. If you pass the shit test you will get real iois. A shit test is more like a indication of pre interest.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 07:01 PM
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I learned both.
/r/seduction21/10/22 06:14 AM
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Just wrong imo. In middle school I couldn't make jokes myself, but was a weird kid who just sat at the table with popular funny kids. They let me into their friend group, and over 5 years I developed an insanely good sense of humor. Like 1 year in I remember trying to make a joke and everyone just sat there silently cause it was a horrible joke. I looked like a "pale imitation" right then, but I slowly figured it out over time. Trying and failing is key. You gotta learn what does and doesn't wor…
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:30 PM
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Not really. Believe it or not but this is just a frame and shit test of the guy OP is talking about. Does he get embarrassed and stop? Or does he learn even more, apply principles, write a book, start touring and become famous for it? Like Tyler from RSD
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 01:11 AM
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Same with in person. Met a girl at a bar 6 months ago who said the dude she just talked to claimed he was redpilled then freaked out when she rejected him. She was going on and on about how dumb redpill was. I didn’t even react to what she said, changed subjects, and 20 mins later we were making out like crazy.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 01:07 AM
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It is. And it’s great. Soo many people are average nowadays. So easy to stand out
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:01 AM
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I was legit like this in college and a few years after. Doing 30-45 mins of cardio on an exercise bike every day does wonders for me. Helps calm anxiety so much. You gotta do it for like 2 weeks straight to feel the full benefits though. Cause sometimes on the 3rd day I'll actually feel kinda worse after and more anxious, but after a week or two it can completely transform your brain. It's hard to believe til you do it. Lifting weights does not do it for me, so I do 2 a days. Cardio morning, lif…
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:23 AM
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Do the opposite haha. Like Seinfeld
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:20 AM
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You make your own luck. Unless you have a severe disability
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:20 AM
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“I don’t want to appear rude, sorry if I did” pfft why are you apologizing. Who cares
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:19 AM
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This. The most jacked natty guy I know is a pussy. His face is like an 8 and his body is a 10. His gf is a 4. Yeah “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and everything but fuck that. He’s settling cause he’s an absolute pussy that refused to do anything about it probably out of fear.
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:17 AM
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If you cross a street for a girl or make strong eye contact she gets the hint. Maybe that’s too much even. You don’t need to necessarily let her know you’re attracted to her. Flirting and escalation by themselves is enough.
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:14 AM
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The only one that reeks of virgin is you. Being too nice is a turnoff.
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:40 PM
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Umm raise your standards then. Has nothing to do with other guys. All of you here are coming across as low value. High value guys do get hot girls and don’t settle..
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:34 AM
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No.. and there’s a middle between treating a girl like shit and treating her like a queen. A high value man understands game. They get girls. A high value man will not constantly treat a girl like a queen. Sometimes sure, and it should be mutual.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:32 AM
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Part of being a high value man means you understand game and can’t constantly treat girls like a queen
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:30 AM
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Yep that’s true.
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:43 PM
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You shouldn't immediately go for digits and a date in your first sentence, but it is not unreasonable to ask for her number the first time you interact with her. Sometimes playing it too slowly can hurt you. Makes you look like you're unsure or don't have the confidence to make a move.
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:29 PM
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Hell yeah man! I had soo much anxiety growing up. It held me back so much. I was in absolute fear of the popular girls in high school and college, but was in absolute love with them haha. I've completely changed that and approach super hot girls even if I'm nervous af, but I need to do it even more. I've started a side company now, but I've avoided doing in person sales due to anxiety. We need to grow as much as possible bro. This is part of why I love Kanye. Every super aggressive song is him b…
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:09 AM
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Yep true. And you can try to not allow it in other ways besides cutting people out of your life. Say "that's not cool" and if nothing changes withdraw attention. But yeah, I'd advise anyone reading this to be careful in cutting people out that aren't a random girl you just met. Had a friend who cut people out of his life constantly for the smallest reason. We were good friends for a year and I saw him cut out 2 mutual friends for no good reason except in an attempt to be manipulative and make hi…
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:52 AM
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This right here is why gaming girls is so difficult. There are sooo many nuances in how to handle poor treatment. When do you call a girl out? When do you agree and amplify/make a joke out of it? The absolute key is not letting mistreatment affect you. It doesn’t make you mad because you are a high value person and you’re the prize. So if you freak and call the girl a bitch you lose. Imagine you were an absolute chad and while you’re at the bar you had 5 girls texting you begging you to come ove…
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:34 PM
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50% - 80% do. Google it. Very simple to find
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:48 AM
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Not really prostitution. She didn’t gain anything from this besides sex.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/22 09:08 PM
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I don’t know what you’re saying
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:12 PM
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Oral. Like 16% have genital
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:26 PM
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No he means oral herpes
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:25 PM
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Oh yeah my b I didn’t read that part
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:27 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:46 PM
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So you're saying commenting about your beliefs means you probably take action on those beliefs? Wild.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:40 PM
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Yeah, you. Who gives af if you date a 18-22 year old. They're adults. edit - Lmao my comment was +8 til the guy below commented. how does me "telling on myself" mean anything. now it's -3. Reddit is strange.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:31 PM
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Good to hear. I'm hoping to become even more disciplined
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 07:37 AM
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Same here. I've always tried to choose work/lifting over clear time wasters like going to movies or watching netflix. Now I'm 30 in tip top shape making 6 figures and it's so obvious I made the right call. Many say their college years are the best of their lives. But at 30 I'm fucking hotter and more girls than I ever fucked in college, in much fewer nights of going out. Motivation and discipline trump all.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 05:45 AM
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I'm a happy man when I'm fucking a 20 year old who just lays there. Will take that any day over a 30+ with wrinkly skin. The best is my 28 year old bud was dating a 33 year old. She was always bitchy and ended things after 2 years of dating. Now he's dating a 25 year old with a way better body and that ex is freaking the fuck out. She's trying hard to get them to all hang out together, probably so she can try scheming her way back into his life. It's hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 05:42 AM
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Thanks man. Thankfully my oneitis for her ended a while ago. Yep just gotta keep working to improve. You'll get there dude, keep fighting. Just remember that everyone gets down. The winner is who gets up the fastest.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:33 AM
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Yep you can reject them if you want. Although once you figure out the game I'd advise against calling them "dumb bimbos". You have to be unphased by whatever they throw at you. You approach and reject you hard af? Fine, you'll meet other girls. She chooses another guy? Fine you have other options. A good reason for this is that girls will use this as a shit test. That girl that you approach at a bar that rejects you hard af will often watch how you react after. Do you get all mad and call her a …
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:27 AM
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How old are you? You sound like me when I was 18 to 22. If you work harder than anyone it will pay the fuck off. When I was 22 I told a 6/10 "I always lose" in a sad tone after she rejected me. I did fine in school but felt like a loser. 8 years later I'm jacked af, make 6 figures, have figured out the game, bang 8s and 9s all the time, and have tons of confidence. All cause I worked hard on approaching girls and lifting tons of weights.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:22 AM
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Success is the best revenge. Had some oneitis for a girl I met at the gym a year and a half ago who ended up choosing a good looking drug dealer over me. I was at the end of a cut around 180lbs (which I took too far) when I met her. Saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time in 10 months. I'm now 205 13% and look fucking incredible. The best feeling ever was after we made eye contact, she kinda followed me around the gym for a bit, then started loudly dropping weights out of frustration fo…
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:19 AM
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A lot of them are legit intimidated. In terms of them actually attacking me? I've considered it and try to be more aware of my surroundings now. I've become the guy I used to worry about in high school taking the girl I liked. And damn I hated that guy haha.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:13 AM
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I'm finally there. Making girls crazy over me who had rejected me even a year ago. I'm just basking and grateful I never gave up. Not planning on stopping though, wanna go even higher.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:10 AM
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Well girls definitely care more since guys are often providers, but I personally want my kids to be smart. There is evolutionary incentive to going for girls with ambition and smarts. I have definitely noticed I am way more interested in a girl if she is smart than if she isn't, but really it's only if she is far above the rest. Like if she went to Harvard or is a doctor/engineer. But if it's just a pretty solid school I don't care, probably cause I went to a pretty solid school. Like 6 years ag…
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:03 AM
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Yeah I'm 30 now and it's so obvious. Most of the hot popular girls from my high school who would go for guys like OP describes are now overweight with much lower quality guys. I also have several college dropout friends. They are all with ugly ass fat girls, or can't keep a girl. One of them has even been forced into an open relationship which he pretends is a good thing, but he doesn't get any other girls cause he's fat af. Part of working on yourself means approaching tons of girls and figurin…
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:55 AM
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Ohh I misread what you were saying. I thought you were saying he shouldn’t say “don’t talk like that”. I agree the divorce thing was wayy too far.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 08:18 PM
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You can’t control her actions and words, nor should you want to. “Don’t talk like that.” Are you just saying he didn’t phrase it well? Cause otherwise I think its good to not allow that behavior
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 07:16 PM
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He threatened it first which probably caught her off guard imo. He took it wayy too far.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 07:12 PM
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Don’t think there needs to be a goal. If you think she’s cute go for it. Groups/friends are tough and I usually avoid unless it’s a bar or I’m with a bud.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 02:02 AM
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Keep going for it. As the other guy said you’ll get desensitized. My first approach was absolutely terrible. I visibly and audibly shook and talked nonsensically. The key is to not think about it and just automatically go for it. Before that first approach I sat there for 20 mins thinking of how it would go. Now I just instantly go for it
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 01:59 AM
0

Where did I ask for advice
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:45 PM
1

Haha projecting in what way? Telling a rando they have deep insecurities is sus. Why are you trying so hard to bring me down?
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:15 PM
1

I don't understand what you're saying. But my self image is based on my work ethic and belief in the knowledge I have. I look around and happen to also feel superior to most guys. I don't care if there are other guys around me who are better than me. There are enough girls to go around.
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:14 AM
-5

Imo feeling superior is fine. I'd rather be arrogant than the opposite. I know I'm amazing because I'm in incredible shape, have a great job, am constantly working on a side company, and will shoot my shot with hot ass girls when others are afraid. If every guy was the same I'd have no reason to feel amazing about myself, and I'd have a hard time getting girls. Luckily most people put in no effort into their lives. If you work on yourself even a little you can get into this "I am amazing mindset…
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:35 PM
1

You should
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:28 PM
2

Uhh wtf are you talking about. This girl already ghosted him. Guys with no options are the ones who will wait around for a girl and continually send her texts hoping she finally responds. That isn't a bullshit head game. I recently banged a girl who the next morning told me about some guy who keeps messaging her on IG. She keeps blocking him, yet he will make a new account to message her. He'll totally get her someday right? After I fuck her a few more times and dump her maybe. A guy having self…
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:53 PM
1

Yep. Over 3 years that anxiety will fade and you will turn into a different person. You'll get used to it. Your views on girls will completely shift and won't align with friends as a result. I know from experience. Guys are in awe of me now when I effortlessly go up to a beautiful girl, talk to her, dance, make out with her, and get her number.
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:26 PM
2

How is it hurting dude if he sends her another text? Holy shit you are absolutely clueless. It actually would hurt him to send another text, both with the girl, and his own image of himself. It shows the girl he doesn't have options. He's a low value guy who gets hung up on a girl who doesn't reciprocate because he has no one else to talk to. Sending that text means he has no self respect. Regardless of what she thinks, he needs to think of himself higher. He needs to embody "it's her loss" and …
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:19 PM
1

Haha I've been thinking about writing a book tbh
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:48 PM
10

how she’s been thinking about getting fucked by you all day This is actually alpha haha. The beta would be saying how you've been thinking about fucking her all day.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/22 09:09 AM
-1

It is absolutely mortifying. What an atrocity. Who gives a shit
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:48 AM
9

No it was a pure shit test. I had been showing interest and was flirting heavily. There were other similar statements from her as well that I can't recall, but essentially indicators of disinterest. It was more because I was coming on strongly. She went cold first and then I went cold. I passed by not allowing that kind of treatment and I didn't freak out. What you're referring to rarely happens. It's what guys wrap their heads up into and think "oh she totally actually likes me, her indicators …
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:10 AM
8

This post should be stickied haha. The game is like a mix of showing confidence, coming up with ways to make her miss you, and showing that you are high value. I view approaching a girl at a bar/in person as the beginning of the game. So if she rejects you hard, it is not over. What do most guys think here? "Oh man this sucks, that girl was super hot I would have dated that girl. I kind of just want to go home now". The view from a game perspective in this situation is "what can I do to increase…
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:19 AM
1

Yeah NYC and Chicago are the only places I'd want to live in the world. I love big cities with large skyscrapers and everything close together. Makes me feel like I'm on the cutting edge of society, and have the best opportunities to meet people and start businesses.
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:39 AM
1

Word yeah I’m sure Chicago is legit too. Haven’t been there since I was 10 though
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:05 AM
2

Where do you live? It will vary. Often the places with a higher cover/bar tab cover is better, but if you talk to lots of people you’ll hear of good spots. There are a few in NYC with a $200 bartab cover with tons of models. I prefer this because I can get those girls now, and there are so many more of them. Some bars will give tables and bottles away to hot girls for free. Unfortunately a lot of my friends do not want to pay $200 because they can’t afford it and they can’t get those girls anywa…
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:55 AM
6

Before I say my height, let me tell you that I’ve been this height for 15 years, and I got very few hot girls until I figured out the game 3 years ago. In high school, the most popular friend in my friend group was 5’9” and he dated this girl who I had had a crush on for the 4 years before they met. I didn't get her cause I was a pussy and couldn't even talk to her. Similarly at a bar I went to recently I talked to a 9 for 30 mins, but it turns out she was using me to make a 5’8” jacked, super a…
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:51 AM
1

From college 7 years. But I studied accounting in college. I always made sites on the side. Personally I think I’m top tier because I spend so much of my free time working on a side company, so I’m coding wayy more than the average coder.
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:47 AM
1

Lmao yeah personally I think she’s a 6-7 but went with 7 here. Where do you live? I’m in nyc and one night of going out you’ll see 20-30 girls who are on the same level as her. When I go to a regular packed bar with no cover there’s usually a max of 1-2 girls that are hot af. Sometimes none.
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:44 AM
3

I don’t believe you’re actually this dumb. What did I say that’s so wrong? Not wanting to settle in life? Wanting to get an attractive girl? Wanting to get a smart girl?
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:16 AM
7

It isn’t a ton. Like 5-10%. I guess being in good shape might have something to do with it cause I do not look like a software engineer.
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:59 PM
-7

Huh because I want a girl who’s attractive?
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:57 PM
1

Watch a video of her like the one where he buys her a gift. I agree in some of those pics she looks hot. The vid it’s clear.
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:53 PM
2

If you’re in nyc sure haha
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:51 PM
3

Haha yeah been working on that too. Read in a texting guide somewhere that they strongly believe a girl can feel the emotional state behind a text you send. I never call though
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:51 PM
2

Watch a video of her
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:45 PM
4

Yes open by telling them your world of warcraft levels and report back.
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:25 PM
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Just the wrong mindset imo. The less you talk to girls the more likely you are to catch feelings for inferior girls. It should be the same as playing football for him. He works so hard so that he can figure out nuances in how to get around an OL in 10000 situations. If he didn't he'd have been stuck and outmatched by a high school OL and called it quits there, just like he is with this girl. So it's technically "fine". You don't have to try to strive for anything in life. But why settle? Looks a…
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:22 PM
234

Personally I attempt to be flirty throughout the evening, so if it's a platonic vibe I take it more as a shit test and maintain frame/don't allow it by not being as expressive. One time this girl was clearly giving me vibes that she wanted to friendzone me or at least that she wasn't interested. Like she said her friend might be interested in me and she might set me up. I basically went quiet on her and made moves to end drinks early. Clearly worked cause as I walked her back to the subway she d…
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:44 PM
22

Agreed man. I'm still learning too. I mainly have issues with text game now. I often come across as desperate even when I'm not. But now that I frequently make out with/bring back 8+s I'm fully confident I'll figure it out.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:38 PM
1

Well I will say my brother has bad social skills and is actually severely underpaid. His friends from his same graduating class are making 260k+ already. So yes it does play a role, but competency plays a huuuge role as well. It's easier to be promoted from within if you have connections, but getting a good job is easier if you are competent imo. I've interviewed 120+ people for engineering positions over the years, including referrals from coworkers and friends. I only approve people who ace th…
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:36 PM
-9

100%. If you go all in on a good career, good body, and working as hard as you can to figure out seduction you'll get there. Like no offense but if you look at some super successful people like Aaron Donald you'll see why it's so important to go for all 3. He should be dating a 10 but instead he's with a 7 likely because he doesn't know wtf to do around girls.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:24 PM
36

30 years old. Didn't start getting the girls I was remotely interested in until 27 and now 3 more years of lifting and figuring out the game I'm seeing a ton more success. Finally have complete confidence I will get a 9+ long term. Crazy considering where I was in college with girls.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:21 PM
118

This. I've found good job + amazing body puts some girls on easy mode who would have been impossible for me 10 years ago. Girls in college I'd be in love with even though I had never said a word to them. Just the other week I went up to one of these girls at a club thinking I was in for a rejection and a night of having to game her hard if I wanted to have a chance with this girl, and instead she smiled, offered me a shot from their table's bottle service, and grinded on me for an hour. The effo…
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:45 PM
3

Lawyers who make a lot are prestigious
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:43 PM
1

You have to be good. It's the same with engineering. Lowly software engineers can pull in a mere $60k doing web development work. This is what I made when I started cause I didn't study it in school. Now I'm a senior software engineer making 160k with stock options. My bro went to a good law school and makes $200k before bonus. It's all about how good you are. Just having the title isn't enough.
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:42 PM
15

Definitely after imo. I'm able to afford going to bars full of models with high covers that I would never fathom when I was in college. Also the confidence I've gained is insane.
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:38 PM
135

It's the same as being jacked imo. It definitely helps, but personality and game is the most important. When I walk in a room girls are automatically more interested in me cause I'm in amazing shape. Night and day compared to 10 years ago. I've noticed some girls also being very impressed and showing iois when I tell them I'm a software engineer. But when I have poor frame/come across as desperate, girls still aren't interested. However both have helped tonns because I had no game growing up. Th…
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:33 PM
10

A part of game is showing you have options and that a harsh rejection doesn’t affect you. It’s just on her to give you an ioi
/r/seduction30/08/22 12:30 PM
3

Gotcha I'm not sold on the double text but everything else you've said I agree with. Might test out the double text myself
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:19 PM
1

How does that double texting work for you? If it gets to that point I've always figured it was dead and move to make other plans without texting her again until she says something.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:58 PM
2

Count calories to gain weight.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:45 PM
5

Send me a pic and I'll give you my thoughts haha
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:41 PM
1

I don't fully agree with A. If she's shy then the way to get in contact would be reaching out via text/social media which she did. Going up in person could result in a rough public rejection that girls are afraid of
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:06 PM
2

Yeah fair enough. You've convinced me.
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:41 PM
2

The girl has found a way to reach out 2/5 times I've done it. Once in person, and once via a mutual friend getting us to hang out again as a group. I think I may stop for the reasons you mention though. She may view it as you being butthurt. Thinking back it has only worked with the 2 girls that absolutely knew I was not one to get upset and had a lot of options.
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:35 PM
2

I view it as a game strategy. A hot girl who is non compliant expects beta orbiters to stick around, sending them messages, liking their posts, etc. It's something I rarely do, but has driven a few girls crazy when I've blocked. It is exactly a "burn that bridge" move. She looks you up, can't find you and thinks "oh shit I shouldn't have treated him like that" and finds a way to reach out to you. I once banged a girl, and she told me the next morning she has this orbiter who she keeps blocking o…
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:25 PM
0

Uh yeah you don't want to try to "talk things out" in a situation like being ghosted.
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:12 PM
-1

Like I said "It’s really fucking simple and has nothing to do with insecurity, ego, ashamed, etc."
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:07 PM
-2

Haha wtf not at all. Once I fuck a girl I lose interest and want to find someone new. I’m not catching feelings. I won the prize and want to win another prize. It’s really fucking simple and has nothing to do with insecurity, ego, ashamed, etc.
/r/seduction29/08/22 05:46 AM
1

Then why are they grossed out by you physically? And those aren’t mutually exclusive
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:08 PM
1

are grossed out by us physically So you're saying you're not in good shape? No offense, but I have found that hotter girls are more open to more masculine men. They get 1000s of nice skinny guys approaching them, get tired of it, and see that true confidence, masculinity, and a guy who can get lots of girls isn't common.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:04 PM
2

Ah yeah, I guess that's different then. My 40ish is over 12 years. Although 25 have been in the past 3 years but that's just because my game has skyrocketed.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:38 PM
1

Man you have so far to go. I'm 8/10 face, 6'2", in amazing shape, and get rejected frequently. Once you learn it's all a game, everything in your post disappears. And everything in your post is why you keep losing. It's a vicious circle. I used to be the same 10 years ago. 10 years ago I was rejected by a 6 and literally said to her "I always lose" repeatedly in a sad tone (I was drunk af). It was very depressing. Girls want to see that you have confidence and that what they do doesn't affect yo…
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:33 PM
5

He's generalizing women. I don't this woman called him trash.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:11 PM
1

I mean I would assume he asked her out and got her contact info. She could have canceled with him over text.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:10 PM
5

Sounds like you're describing yourself. Personally I've been with a little over 40 and I have not lowered my standards. I'm not gonna bang lower than a 7, but that doesn't mean I want a relationship with them. I'm just not ready to have something serious as I continue to focus on growing myself.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:44 AM
8

The world rewards those who risk being inappropriate at times. THIS. Breaking boundaries is the key to life imo. One of my favorite motivational stories is about Kanye before he was famous. He was a well known producer, and he wanted to be a rapper, but the record label wanted to keep him as a producer. One time there was a big meeting with execs and Jay-Z. Kanye got up on the table and started rapping. Everyone in the room was like "Kanye we get it, get down from the table." But he wouldn't, an…
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:14 AM
9

Yeah this is her personal preference. I've gone on dates with girls I met at the gym, and gotten rejected hard by girls who weren't at the gym and acted like I crossed a boundary by talking to them elsewhere. Like one time at a park where everyone was sitting on benches around a fountain, I approached an 8 and she said "dude can't I just sit in peace?" If that girl came to r/seduction she'd say "don't approach at parks it's creepy." Really it just makes me think she's insecure about her looks, a…
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:04 AM
2

I honestly say the gym is not a good place That's a fine opinion, but the gym is my hobby, and I've gone on many dates from there. Some girls aren't about it, and those are the ones who seem to rarely go to the gym. I'll often see girls one time and then not see them again for months. Those are the ones I've found to be weirder about being hit on at the gym. I don't see how it's creepy just because you're wearing workout clothes. Sounds like something in your head. Girls at bars are often wearin…
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:00 AM
10

It's a shit test. See how he reacts to an insult. You gotta be mentally strong. It takes practice. Calling a girl a c*** which I assume is what you did is the wrong mindset. You can't show what they do affects you. If she says something real mean the best approach is to calmly and in a dominant tone say "that's not ok" like you would to a child. But if you get visibly upset you lose. Many times I've gone out to bars, got rejected hard by a girl and then a rando guy or a buddy will say "wow what …
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:32 AM
0

None. Best of luck with trying to bait other redditors all day champ. Done responding
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:12 PM
0

Haha I’ll try bro. Girls just can’t resist
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:43 PM
0

Yikes haha. How insecure are you. Tell me you get zero hot girls without telling me you get zero hot girls
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:10 PM
0

Lmao except I’ve had guys message me saying they need to get back in the gym and asking for advice..
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:56 PM
1

Lmao damn you are insecure. No I do very well in person, hook up with 9s all the time. You’ve never heard about successful attractive guys having issues with girls cause they have no game? I have several gym buds who are tall, 7+ face, have good jobs, in amazing shape, and do terribly because they have no confidence. Two in particular are absolutely ripped. One has a 5 for a girlfriend. The other cannot get a girl to save his life and loses it when he’s rejected. Again like I said, I put no effo…
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:48 PM
2

Ig clearly has an algorithm. Something like stories that are viewed longer/people pause on are shown to more people
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:32 PM
8

100% learned. I had no natural game growing up. My first 3 years in nyc I banged 1 girl per year. 2019 I finally figured out that it’s all a game and I banged 13 in one year (mostly from bars). Milestone for me cause I banged 12 in 4 years of college. Also my standards have always been high. I wasn’t one to go back with a 4 if I struck out with hot girls. It was always 7+s or bust for me.
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:50 AM
-3

There’s a difference between personal preference and labeling it as “super cringe and douchey”
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:49 AM
1

Ahhhhh no. This is where advanced game comes in as well that you don't get from street approaches. Rejection can be a game. I've ended up making out with or fucking several girls who rejected at first. Basically show it doesn't affect you and dread game. Then it's on the girl who rejected to give you an IOI.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:50 AM
2

Grow even more this year. Talk to hotter girls who still make you tremble. But well done. My first time was similar. I love that feeling of adrenaline and going for things that everyone else is afraid of. No one wants to put in the work to meet girls, lift heavy ass weights, start a company, etc. It's amazing, I'm growing so much.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:47 AM
13

Yeah like half the girls I'm interested in in real life look worse in their social media pics.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:41 AM
9

Well I don't put much effort into my pics, but I'm the same. I'm 6'2" 205 lbs about 13% fat and my job clearly indicates I make well over 6 figures. And I get girls much worse than me on apps. 7s max. In real life I get 9s frequently at bars.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:39 AM
1

Same here. When I post shirtless pics or gym selfies they get wayyy more views than any other stories I post. But yeah, I'm also in tip top shape.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:35 AM
3

Completely unrelated things wtf..
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:34 AM
-3

Including the Rock? People who are ig fitness models? Where is your imaginary line drawn? I strongly believe anyone who thinks like this is very insecure and not very social. Not someone I would be interested in.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:33 AM
1

They do. When I post gym selfies I get way more ig story views than when I post some other random ig story.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:28 AM
1

Will you lower the pool of ladies who would be interested in you? Possibly. Haha wat
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:27 AM
4

How is it not also inspirational? It's all your frame. 4 years ago I was deathly scared of posting a gym selfie. Now I can do it no problem. It takes massive balls to post gym selfies and people know it. Also, what you're saying is equivalent to "don't approach girls you're interested in, it's painfully transparent and douchey". Who gives a fuck. Only pussies won't do it.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:26 AM
8

Who cares if it's douchey haha. Also from experience, posting gym pics gets a tonnnn of attention. When I post some random story of something I'm doing (not gym related) I'll get 80-120 views. Whenever I post a gym selfie, shirtless selfie, etc, I get at least 200 views every. single. time. I have about 400 ig followers for reference. I am also in tip top shape, though. I'd probably get much fewer views if I was not in good shape.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:23 AM
2

some girls will approach. most will not. if most guys won’t approach think about girls lol
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:33 PM
1

Tate paid to do this by Soros etc in order for men's rights etc to be outlawed and push for new anti terror laws against men You forgot to take your anti psychotic prescription
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:29 AM
3

Read paragraph 4 (out of 5) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/wk0ulr/comment/ijl3hn5/
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:29 PM
2

7 is huge. Everyone gets nervous. I used to focus on it so much that hiding anxiety was my identity. Now I don’t think about it at all
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:41 PM
1

Just not true. A super hot girl the other day gave me a shit test saying I must have a uti for some reason I can’t remember. I passed by emphatically agreeing I do have one.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:14 PM
6

Bruh wtf. Peeing in the pool was my first thought too. That’s a more common assumption than saying someone is hot in front of tons of people. His thought was fine, I think his agree and amplify went too far.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:29 PM
3

You can approach and give off that vibe. Approaching leads to this conclusion because without an indicator of interest there’s no reason to go for a phone number etc. It’s complex and that’s where shit tests and reading the game come in. Many times at bars I’ve initiated an interaction only to be rejected hard, and then I later fuck that girl. That initial rejection often sparks the interest and the beginning of the game with that girl. It’s a balancing act. I have several attractive friends who…
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:57 PM
4

Classic. “just have no idea what you are doing” and not explaining anything. It is a numbers game. I know tons of guys who just sit back, never approach, and therefore never get laid. While I get rejected a ton and laid a ton.
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:55 AM
4

I’m done waiting I'm curious what you've done to try to make things better. Life is hard on everyone. Most people are like you actually, and have little success. The thing that drives success is hard work. Sounds shitty when you're depressed, but the solution to depression imo is hard work. You're already at the bottom so why not? Follow the David Goggins path. Force yourself to suffer - as in work extremely hard. I don't mean multiple minimum wage jobs or something, but exercise like crazy, get…
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:03 AM
1

Well I think coming across as confident is the most important thing. At a bar I'll often approach and just say "hi. whats your name?" There are a lott of differing opinions out there. Some say you should be direct and tell them they're cute. But from personal experience that only works on girls who rarely hear that or if you're clearly higher value than them. Hot girls have very tight game cause they get tons of guys approaching. They hear "you're hot" etc 100 times when they go out. I prefer sh…
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:01 AM
1

You can get there dude. That adrenaline rush from talking to girls is insane. You should be proud afterwards because you're doing something most guys are too afraid of. That's the only way to grow. I would always have that mindset after walking away from a girl I hit on. "I'm a goddamn champion for going for it. Very few people do this." Another piece of advice is when you're feeling down, try to get up as quick as possible. Everyone on earth gets down. The way you beat everyone else is by getti…
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:10 PM
2

This is the exact mindset you need. It’s a long, hard road, but that’s why when you look around at bars most guys are losers who don’t even try talking to girls. Most don’t want to take on the challenge or they live in denial. In college I was awkward af with no confidence. I’d have massive crushes on beautiful girls I’d never talked to. Now at 30 I’m a completely different person. Me going out and not at least making out once per weekend is an anomaly. I made with two 9s on Friday lol. These we…
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:32 PM
1

You can be respectful, self-motivated, have goals, and hook up with a lot of girls. Just because you don’t like that doesn’t mean I there’s something wrong with it. My comment was in a response to a guy saying only 6’2” guys with a big dick can hook up with a lot of girls. My response was saying that that’s not what matters. Mindset matters the most. My success clearly proves my point. If I wanted I could also choose to just settle down with a girl who doesn’t like that instead. But I’d rather f…
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:15 AM
10

Failure and constantly trying your best to improve. Failure is how you learn. Approach and get rejected by 1000 girls. In college I was a wreck. No interest from girls and a loser mindset. I literally one time in college said to this 6 who rejected me “I always lose” in a sad tone. I’m 30 now and fucked a 20 year old 8.5 last weekend. Why? Because for years I went for it over and over. Figuring out what I was doing wrong. My personality is completely different because I have genuine confidence n…
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:24 PM
-2

It’s sad because the reason you don’t get girls is your mindset. I’m 6’2” with an above average dick size. I did pretty poorly in college, and after college I fucked only 1 girl per year for 5 years. At 27 I started to get it. My mentality was just terrible. I showed neediness, and that I was a bitch. If a girl rejected me I would show it. I’d pout and say “ok whatever” in a hurt tone. At 27 in 2019 I fucked 13 girls. More than I fucked in 4 years of college. Girls want a champion who can get ot…
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:11 PM
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Lift weights and approach girls. If you wanted to be in the NBA would you just sit on your ass and watch one game once a week? No you’d hit the gym for 6+ hours per day. Then you’d lift weights for an hour. It’s the same for girls. Become social. Approach as many as possible. Figure out nuances in what you do wrong. Or be like 95% of guys and settle with someone worse than you.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:58 PM
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I’d say experiment with different things to see what works. I started to see more success when viewing talking with girls from a game perspective and coming off very confident, but not like a complete fuckboy. So some examples. I recently went to a bar full of models. $200 bartab cover to get in. I go up to a 9.5 and try to strike up a convo. She doesn’t even say a word to me. No response and looks away. In similar situations you’ve probably thought “damn, see? I get nowhere with girls”. But I’v…
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:44 PM
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Go 90% of the way for a kiss. Wtf is up with this sub and consent recently you don’t need them to explicitly say yes. I’ve had sex with over 40 girls and never once asked them. If you’re at your place and make a move to take off their clothes by like unbuttoning a shirt, them not ever stopping you is enough to take off their clothes.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:19 PM
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Well you said in the OP you are struggling with girls because of your awkwardness and nervousness. So partially, yes. But really they try to pick up on indicators. Using information in this sub can quickly help you make progress. Not showing desperation, and showing as much confidence as you can are 2 great starts. Have a few drinks and go to bars to cut down on nervousness at the start. You will get better over time.
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:29 PM
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Women want the best. I was in denial for a long time. But think about most guys. Most guys would definitely choose a 10/10 girl over a 7. Girls are the same, but care about confidence a little more. They want the guy who can get girls, and someone who is out of their league, just like guys want. You being nervous around them automatically tells them they are higher value than you.
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:40 PM
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Game and frame starts mattering more the more exposure she gets to you. Exactly. I love daygame but the absolute best ways to meet girls are 1) a place where you see the girl often and 2) a bar/club where you’ll be around them for a few hours. Girls interest skyrockets when you have good game and frame. Last weekend I went to this bar full of models with my bud who is very new to seduction. I approached a 9.5 and got rejected hard. She didn’t even acknowledge me. I went back to my bud and my bud…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/22 03:47 AM
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They know right away if they wanna find out more about you This isn’t true. Girls are often slow to show interest, especially hot ones, and they want you to pass shit tests. Here’s a long story about a recent instance of this. Just 3 weeks ago me and my buds talked to this group of girls at a bar. Two 7s, two 8s, and a 9. The 9 stayed back and wouldn’t even talk to us at first. Turned out I had gone to the same school the 9 currently goes to so her friends brought her in the convo. I’m 30 and sh…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/22 03:40 AM
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I’ve never seen science saying that’s the best. If you read book of pook my experience aligned exactly with the weights he posted.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 12:52 PM
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I’ve found rehearsing to cause more anxiety. Now you’re thinking about this girl all the time and want the script to go according to plan. Better to have it come off the top of your head imo.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:12 AM
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I was pic one for a while and was not getting high quality pussy.. getting much bigger than that helped a ton. But nowhere near the second. Just don’t take roids.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 07:56 AM
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… highly doubtful she forgot about a dinner. This isn’t incel at all…
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:50 AM
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The feeling when walking away afterwards that you actually went for it is the best feeling ever. Even if you failed.
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:27 PM
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A lot of them don’t, but of course some of them do. Saying none do is ridiculous tho
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:19 PM
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That’s fine. I’ve had girls say “I just want to work out”. And I have no problem with that. Hopefully most on this sub can handle rejection at least somewhat well. But also in my experience if I don’t talk to a girl I rarely see them again, so now I’ll go for it if I think they’re cute. Most girls at my gym are not consistent.
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:02 PM
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Who cares? They’re not going to reject a guy just because he’s in a class with them. If a girl says that it’s a shit test.
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:20 AM
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I don’t understand this. I’ve dated several girls from the gym. It’s the same as daygame. “Don’t bother them they’re just trying to work out”. “Don’t talk to them at the cafe they’re just trying enjoy lunch” “Don’t talk to them at the park they’re just trying to enjoy their day.”
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:19 AM
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I would have said “no” but not walked away
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:53 PM
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grabbed her and kissed her Not this
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:52 PM
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There is definitely a time to call girls out, and depending on how you do it they can become more interested. You have to show that it doesn’t make you mad/sad, but that you are a dominant leader. Gives them tingles. But then it’s her move. She has to give a massive ioi or make a move for you to ever try again. Do not delve into the “why” with them. The why could be it’s a shit test. You’ll never get an actual answer.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:13 PM
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Yeah most actually think it’s ballsy. I’ve had people call me creepy after the fact before, and it doesn’t bother me. Frame. Fake it at first but over time you really start to realize you are a goddamn champ for going for it. I’ve been going for it for so long now it’s second nature. I’ve completely changed as a person. I’ve said it before but friends etc think I’m such a winner with no fear it’s insane. If they had met me 10 years ago you’d have thought I was hopeless. 7 years ago I visibly sha…
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:17 PM
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Once you game more hot girls, you'll realize part of the value girls will place on a guy is his ability to have confident, short, fun texts. It takes practice and I'm still working on it. > She was intentionally being vague Exactly. It's like another form of a shit test. How do you respond when she is being vague? Treat her like you would if you had 100 options. Maybe one more short, fun/flirty text, and then move on if she's giving you nothing. Maybe freeze out, text again in 1 month. I have a …
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:25 PM
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Yep. I’ve gotten into incredible shape and it gives me a huge in. I’ll get glances and iois from girls now I never got 3 years ago. But my game is weak in a few areas. But getting that initial in is helping me learn so much. A year ago in particular I caught oneitis for a girl I never even fucked. She was a 9.5 and worked at a place I frequented. I’d fuck up game-wise then do something super alpha and she’d show interest again. This went on for months. But I was able to figure out and correct a …
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:33 AM
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Trying and failing is how you succeed. You just gotta adopt that mindset. It’s painful, but you learn so much. When I was in 7th grade I had no friends. I sat at a lunch table with some popular kids and I wouldn’t say much. They didn’t know me I just sat down haha. They were hilarious. After a few months I started to talk some more, but I had no sense of humor like theirs. They let me in and I was kinda the loser in the group. But I was able to practice my humor and after a few years I had figur…
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:22 AM
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Wtf is this racist shit
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:45 AM
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Cold approach is good, whether at the bar or in daytime because it shows confidence. The hotter the girl is, the more likely she is to know the game. Her giving a signal to a guy she’s interested in before he’s doing anything is a risk. They know to get the high value guy, she has to show she’s high value herself and doesn’t show too much interest. I’ve found with hotter girls if they’re interested they’ll come near you, but won’t give you any other indication before you’ve made some sort of mov…
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:39 AM
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Yeah you shouldn’t be downvoted haha. You’re spot on. Just have to remember that most in here don’t get many girls and have been pussified by current “norms”.
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:58 PM
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Or you’re a pussy. Youre fitting into the frames of others. Let’s not pretend you don’t find 18 year olds attractive. You have this mindset cause you aren’t a leader.
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:54 PM
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Haha who cares
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:53 PM
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You gotta lift a lot for a noticeable affect with women. But tbh your attitude is the same as most guys. My view is why not work to continually improve yourself. The harder you work the more your value increases with women.
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:41 PM
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Who cares. Do hundreds of approaches then. This is a tough world. Work on increasing your value too. Lifting weights, learning more etc
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:44 AM
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If your mindset is failure is permanent. In reality it's a numbers game. That's the same as asking Michael Jordan if missing several shots in a row would make him give up. He'd say "uhh no wtf are you talking about?" It hasn't clicked for you yet. Failure is what makes you great as long as you don't give up. Unfortunately that's why most aren't great. They give up. Another quick story, when I was in college, I would fall in love with these beautiful girls I had never even talked to. What would I…
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:35 AM
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The tldr of my comment above is this: approach girls and fail. Failure and trying again is the key to success. It’s how you learned to walk, and everything else. It is not a long shot. It is hard, but when you go for it, even when you fail, you get an adrenaline rush and think “wow I’m so proud of myself for even going for it”. Go for it and fail. Just try. And try. And that’s how you’ll succeed.
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:20 PM
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Tall and ok looking haha. Confidence is the most important thing.
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:04 PM
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This. It is so hard to take that leap the first few times. Takes massive courage and most guys never do.
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:58 PM
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No. The other day I went out and was rejected by quite a few. One cute girl said “dude just leave me alone.” But I got 2 numbers from 2 cute girls. 2/10 or so. And my approach wasnt very good on most of them. On the street when they were walking the other way. Many girls won’t even stop in that situation.
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:37 PM
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Your mindset is just completely wrong. Sure, getting 9s and 10s would take you years to figure out. But the only way to get those girls is to go for it. The longer you put it off, the longer it will be until you get good enough to get the types of girls you want. If it takes 3 years of approaching 10 girls a day to figure out how to get a 9+, then if you don't start til next week, it'll take 3 years and one week from today. 1) Cold approach works. When I started I was a nervous wreck with zero c…
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:41 AM
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I disagree that girls don’t have game. Many don’t have game, but 9s and 10s do. It’s just different than our game in many ways. It is bitchy, playful, chasing based. And a lot of it is reading the males game and reacting. When you go up to a 10 and she’s a cold bitch, that’s her form of game. Cold bitch can only be won by those with confidence and who understand game themselves. I’ve hooked up with many girls who I’ve approached and they flat out said “no” to me. One example, I was waiting for d…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/22 04:39 PM
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It truly does help. I was always very funny, and slightly social. But I would also get anxious and care too much what people thought about me. I started forcing myself to befriend guys and girls at the gym I go to 6 years ago. Now I’m in tip top shape and friends with so many people, that I become desirable to both girls and guys. At bars I’ve had several people come up to me and say “dude I know you from the gym!” And I don’t recognize them at all. Makes me feel famous haha. Happens once per mo…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/22 04:27 PM
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Same with approaching girls. Starting out I was insanely nervous af approaching a 7 sober. Now I can go up to a 10 with only a little nervousness. That not only builds confidence with girls, but guys too. I’ve had other buds say “you have no fear” and it becomes clear very few go for it. I have confidence purely from experience. I have done far more than what other guys do, and all the failures I’ve endured with girls means I know what to say and what not to say. There’s no thinking or worrying …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 02:46 PM
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No just the wrong mindset to leave the group. I mean if you have some mental block with your friends where you can’t become equal then maybe. Just try to lead more in your group. That’s a great opportunity for you to grow. I actually had a buddy recently leave my friend group for this exact reason. And that process was very embarrassing for him and pointless. He was just shy around girls and learning TRP. I gave him plenty of space to improve. Now that he left he’s able to be the leader of his o…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 04:36 PM
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Very true. It gives you an in though which is huge. If you get jacked and also constantly go for it you’ll learn eventually. But a lot of guys get jacked and hope that’s enough. I have a bud who is in perfect shape but he loses it if a girl rejects him. As you’d expect he only ever hooks up with 6s
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 08:09 PM
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Exactly. Hotter girls also know and follow the game better than ugly ones. While hot ones aren't approached much on the street, they have tonnns of guys from friend groups who all love them and orbit them. This is how hot girls learn game. And if you know the game you can get them easily. Like you said, ugly girls are mad at the world. They also don't know what to do when you approach and talk to them. I've often found when I flirt with an uglier girl and then ask for her number, she'll reject a…
/r/seduction24/05/22 05:39 PM
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Good post. To the unexperienced, this sounds too good to be true, but to the guys who go out there and approach this is the reality Agreed. I find it very difficult to explain game to my inexperienced friends who rarely hit on girls. They find it very hard to believe. And on the lifting part, obviously it’s been said 1 million times, but until you get to the top 1% you really don’t understand how much of a difference it makes. In college 10 years ago no hot girl batted an eye at me when I was 6’…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 07:55 AM
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When somebody screws you, screw them back in spades. Revenge is profitable This can be taken wrong. A girl rejecting you and then getting revenge on her is absolutely not what you should do. You only want revenge on those who have a lot of power over you and your mind. This is the opposite of outcome independence. For war revenge may be useful, for 99.99999% of people on this forum it is terrible advice.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/22 07:49 PM
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Yep. Read some of the Book of Pook recently and there was something along those lines of your last paragraph I really liked in there. A good reason to withdraw attention is that the other guy will likely fuck it up at some point. Especially nowadays, people are single more than ever and don't want to settle down. Outgaming another guy will often mean sitting back and letting him shoot his shot and messing up. All the while he'll be thinking he's ahead cause you're not talking to her.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 06:21 AM
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Tbh I think it might be 37-40. I'm 30 now, and have seen several guys in their late 30s pull mid 20s. I recently met this one 10 at a bar who was 29 who was super into me. She was disappointed I was 30 and said she's looking more for someone around 40. Lots of grinding and making out, got her number, then she left me on read the next day. Wish I was 10 years older haha I'd be destroying this girl rn.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 06:11 AM
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Happens an infinite number of times with hot girls* Think this is why going for it constantly is so important. I was raised bluepill af and it took years to figure out how to do things. After going for it thousands of times I see the nuances now and in the last few years my success has skyrocketed. Simple things like when to withdraw interest and by how much took me a ton of failures to figure out. I used to catch feelings too easily which always lead to situations like the OP. Now I find myself…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 06:00 AM
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I disagree with your writing example. If you want to be a writer and work at it for 100+ hours per week for years you’ll make it very very far. Most who fail are lazy. I’m not saying you’re guaranteed to be a best selling author, but if you truly go all out you’ll end up very well off. That’s where I am with engineering. I always constantly work on side companies. Unsuccessful so far and on my 3rd side company grinding to make it work. But because of how hard I work, my full time job is as a sen…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/22 06:26 AM
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Damn did I write this post? "Of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these, ‘It might have been.‘" was a quote I was told when I was 10 and it changed my the course of my life. I know people are saying "read the side bar" but this shit needs to be beat into your skull. There are choices constantly to win and go for it or to settle. A bud asked me to go to some shitty movie a few days ago. The options were, sit back relax and watch a movie with an average dude, or work on my side compa…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 05:38 AM
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dislike playful banter from a very early age until they hit puberty and only if they like you You absolutely nailed it. This is why it's so hard for guys to learn game and how women work. All of it comes down to if they're actually into you. It took me years of practice. An example I give of this is once I was in line at a bar that had those movable fences as a barrier for the line. These 2 hot girls walked by and right as they walked by me a dude walking by them the other way catcalls the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:01 AM
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I'm good looking, in great shape, and tall. I'd say my game is very good. I've had several girls get security on me over the years. I think that's just what some do to see how you react or jealousy. One time I hit on this group, and the 2nd hottest of the group was into me, but I made it clear I was into the hottest one. The 2nd hottest ran and got security after I rejected her, although I may have been too harsh. She told security I wouldn't leave them alone when she had just been all over me 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:48 PM
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Betas are hilarious. They’ll post left and right about treating women right, not hitting on them at the gym or even ever etc, then wonder why girls go for the bad guy. I stumbled across the Grace Boor (ig model) subreddit, and it’s full of guys bashing her bf. Apparently someone wrote her a long love letter and the bf burned it on his ig and betas were in dismay saying she needs to break up with him. I love that shit haha.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/22 05:14 PM
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Who cares if they have headphones on
/r/TheRedPill23/04/22 03:53 AM
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Girls are often doing different routines than the guys normally do. Ask her about it. And nah at least at my gym it’s not 50%. Probably like 10% are in a relationship at all.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/22 03:18 AM
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If you see her frequently then approach but don’t necessarily number close. Be more casual about it. If you don’t see her frequently then go for it imo. As long as you can handle rejection we’ll there’s no reason not to.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 09:24 PM
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Approach. Tease her by saying she’s not lifting enough weight. Can play it slow if you see her often. If not and she seems interested ask for a number. Do not freak out if she rejects, even if it’s harsh.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 09:18 PM
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And that’s with liquid courage. Seeing a hot girl on the street during the day? Probably 98% do nothing and 1% catcall. I have a bud who’s good looking, makes 250k, and is very confident. And hooks up with the ugliest girls cause he never goes for it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 02:38 PM
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This is key. Very few actually do it though. Even those that read this forum.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 03:32 AM
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As an American I fucking love it. Means more pussy for me since I know how it actually works.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 08:54 PM
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Yeah "gymcel" is basically a shit test. Read somewhere else on here that no matter what you do that's great, women will shit test you. If you lift they'll ask "why are you so big? are you insecure about your body?" etc. That's why you need to develop inner game and confidence. So no matter what someone says, it doesn't affect you. There is no combination of words that would break you.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 08:51 PM
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This is just lack of confidence. I used to be like this as well. Including the holding in my gut part. For me getting over it was realizing I worked harder than everyone else (for body image issues) and truly believing I can get hot girls, so even if some girl rejects the fuck outta me it’s truly her loss. Unfortunately that confidence didn’t come until I started seeing some success taking back 10s to fuck. Took years. On a tangent now, but now I feel like my game is so good I can get almost any…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 06:10 PM
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Exactly. It’s all practice and effort. And gotta have that mindset towards everything in life imo. Otherwise only your girls will be hot but you’ll be poor or vice versa. Like Aaron Donald lol. Saw a vid with him and his gf recently. How can you be a top NFL player and date a 7? Cause he only focused on NFL and probs gets nervous around hot girls. Def a thing cause my dad was a top hs basketball player in his state and told me a story where a girl sat next to him and was starstruck by him and to…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 06:44 PM
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if you introduce yourself to a girl do you go for a handshake or a fistbump? It doesn't matter. Just do it with confidence. Similarly, I went out with a bud recently who has no game and knows it. I ended up making out and dancing with a girl all night, and later on we were all talking and he asked her for advice. She told him to lose his plaid long sleeve shirt and get a shirt like mine (henley shirt). Except, what he was wearing was fine. I know guys who wear plaid often and do just fine. Here …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/22 07:59 AM
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I find I have way better success with hotter girls in person, and consider myself an 8+. I also figure out within seconds if I'm interested instead of having to commit myself to a night with a girl who may be catfishing/giving me unrealistic pictures.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 05:14 AM
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Frame. I guarantee people have called me a creep. Don’t let it affect you. You have to know the path you’re on which is growth. Worrying what some rando thinks of you now means you’ll miss out on 5 years of practice that would land you your dream girl. Unless you live in a town of like 2000. Even then, work on flirting with girls. Plenty of ways to do it without going over the top.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 08:22 AM
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Are you a bit socially sheltered? Cold approach to become less socially sheltered. It's so easy to find a reason to not cold approach, but you will learn so much if you do it. 8 years ago I would shake and my voice would crack when cold approaching girls. Now I'm a beast at it, and people assume I've always been the most confident dude. Recently I had a bud literally say to me “you have no fear.” Practice makes perfect. You not going for it is also practice. You're practicing coming up with a gr…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 06:12 AM
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Why would you not cold approach if you're an 8+?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 05:56 AM
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One chick in particular would intentionally orchestrate scenarios to get me to mate guard, it gets annoying. Jesus I've had this happen too. For me it happened when I failed a shit test with a girl who was pretty interested in me. I didn't text her as much as I should have leading up to a big planned event, she then decided to not go with me, and I acted whiny and needy. I also developed oneitis, and it turned into 6 months of hell of constant shit tests. I passed each and every one, and she see…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/22 12:20 AM
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This or if at a bar and talking to randos, I've been both scolded and told "these girls aren't interested in you" by a dude, and been boxed out of the group by a guy. In most cases it's obvious the girl he's with is way out of his league. Recently happened and ran into the same girl a week later at the same bar. She started following me around trying to get my attention haha.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 11:48 PM
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Being butthurt about it is as unattractive as mate guarding That's why you show it's not ok without coming across butthurt. You can withdraw attention, and go talk to other girls. It's a shit test. Happened a few years ago where I was the guy being flirted with. It was a company party, and a 7.5 coworker started flirting with me a bunch in front of her bf who didn't work there. I was into the girl so I was flirting back a ton too. The guy acted confident as can be, and left the party by himself.…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 11:42 PM
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This is why you need to get fit at all costs. Cut back on drinking, or whatever you need to hit the gym for 12-15 hours per week. In the past 5 years I've gone from ok shape to fucking top 0.1% and it is night and day. That on top of constant practice approaching girls and I can see it in both girls and guys eyes when I approach a group. I've been mate guarded often and I love it. Makes the girl more interested in me. But again, you will only ever experience this if you practice your ass off, an…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 11:31 PM
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If you show you don't care but continue to treat her like she's yours, she'll assume there will be no negative consequences if she chooses to do things with other men I can agree from experience. I fucked a married girl recently and this was basically it. She said he generally showed he doesn't care so she would go out and meet other guys every Saturday. And to be clear he does not know she's cheating.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 11:25 PM
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Yep. "It's just your turn" is cause she really wasn't into you enough. I'd always have flings with a hot girl here and there and nothing worked out. After years and years of lifting and improving my smv and game, girls are finally coming to me instead.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 11:15 PM
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If a girl is at least somewhat interested she can offer her ig instead. It’d have to be a very rare scenario that I would unprompted give my number after she rejected giving me hers. Like only if she seemed super interested but said no because her bf was literally with her. I think the mentality has to be that you are the prize. Giving your number out like that in general, even if she hit you up in 25% of cases, comes from a lack of abundance deep down imo. I say that cause I did that often in t…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 09:49 PM
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Often times leaving the option for her to call comes across as desperate. Many many times in the past I would hit on a girl, ask for her number, and then if she said no I’d leave her mine. Never once got a text. I have way more success with those who reject me by showing I’ve moved on. It shows you have abundance to truly not care if a girl is interested. One of these methods is blocking on social media, but should be used sparingly. About 1/3 of my blocks results in the girl getting in contact …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 04:18 PM
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“I know a lot of pickup artists talk about winning a girl over even if she has a boyfriend. Is that really worth it to you?” “I have a boyfriend” is a common shit test. I’ve gone from average to very high value now, and it’s beyond obvious now. To make it clear I’m in tip tip top shape, 6’2”. I met up with 3 buds at a bar, who were with a ton of their average work friends who I’ve met before. Like a total of 12 guys, and a few were talking to a 9. They’re all average not in shape guys. I said hi…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 11:22 PM
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Over time after reading hundreds of posts and articles and putting it into practice, you start to internalize the OP as you become more confident. I was always talkative, but now I naturally tone it down when necessary. So you could say it’s a fake it til you make it approach, but it’s also practice makes perfect.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 05:00 PM
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It's all about making progress, and realizing that failing is a part of the progress. If you think failure is where you're going wrong, that is the only issue. Once you change your mindset to realize that failure is a part of the process, you'll start to improve. I am jacked af at 30. When I was 18-22 in college I was more like the OP. I was decent at school, and funny, but was not in good shape nor was I getting girls. I would hit the gym 3-4 times a week for 45ish mins, and made very little pr…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 03:18 AM
3

By realizing getting through pain is what takes you to the next level. Biggest one for me was rejection. I never got girls despite being 6'2" and decently attractive. At 22 I had moved to Utah for a job and knew no one. No sex for 8 months (cause I lived in a mormon area as a non mormon, and had no game). Then one day I decided I'm gonna have to fight. I went to the local mall and nervously talked to girls every weekend for 2 months or so. Probably approached 80-100 girls. I vaguely remember the…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 02:54 AM
8

My game has been improving a ton over the past year and suddenly have my first married woman. Met her a few months back at a bar. She got my insta, and I found out before she left that she's married. I dm'ed her a little and she acted way less interested. I sent a "bad boy" kinda message and she responded coldly, then left me on seen. I didn't react, and then a month later I sent a short feeler and she exploded with interest. She's coming over tonight haha
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 02:16 AM
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Same. I'm several years in and have reaped the rewards, but I still have a lot of progress to make.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 02:08 AM
11

Even if your game isn't good right now, by being here and putting in the work in real life, you'll be ahead of 95% of guys in the future.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 02:06 AM
1

I see what you're saying. Yeah that would definitely be weak frame.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 12:25 AM
2

I'm about 6 years in haha so I'd say that 7-8 years is probably right. I feel like I have another year of growth left.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 12:24 AM
3

Agree with that. Yeah I've come a long ways but still have work to do. Appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 12:21 AM
3

A great piece of advice I read is you shouldn’t set rules like “I don’t play games” until they’ve come begging back to you. Then you lay the rules and punish them for treating you poorly. Can be sexual punishment like making her give you an aggressive bj or really whatever you want that you think fits the crime. I’ve never been in anything real serious but have seen it plenty while single. If I try to set rules for a girl who isn’t interested shell think I’m overreacting. Several times a girl fl…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 11:07 AM
1

What should you do in this situation?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 10:56 AM
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Exactly. If you are the prize, you’ll get a girl who matches your level and it’ll fuck with you if she leaves. Had it recently where I had oneitis for a girl I was way above. Fucked up and she left. I truly didn’t care cause even though she’s hot I know deep down I can do much better. And she knows it too. She’s started going crazy for me as expected. But I know once I get a girl on my level it won’t be so easy to show indifference.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 10:50 AM
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No.. Weak frame is more like you give in to what others want instead of doing what you want, not that you think you’re great but you’re not. What you described as strong frame could apply to the weakest mental midget ever as long as he knows he’s a weak mental midget.. And actually your example of weak frame could be strong frame. Maybe something happened where you didn’t do something people would expect an alpha to do. Like approach a girl. So some people you’ve just met think you’re timid. But…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 10:31 AM
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Ahh gotcha so you'd send that to A pretending you accidentally texted the wrong girl and that there was a B you had lined up for that night. If woman A doesn't respond do you ever text her again. Like say "oh wrong person" or anything?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 08:02 PM
3

So much wrong with this mindset but I was kinda similar at 19. You have a pussy/victim mindset. Lift weights consistently, cut out videogames, and realize you are putting in more work than most. You HAVE to develop the mentality that you are the prize. You are far away. It took me 8 years from when I was 19 to get there. Start now.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 07:45 PM
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Agreed. I've found it works 100x better to respond with actions rather than words. Withdraw attention and she'll get the hint. The "Tell that bitch" is the wrong mentality. She is not a "bitch" for flaking. She is a girl who probably has tons of guys trying to get with her. Perfect example, I was in line at this bar a month ago, a 9 and her friend walk by. I talk to them a little and told them to hop in line with my group, and then outta nowhere this rando from the street runs up to the girls an…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 07:30 PM
2

I simply text her back telling them that "I have free time" and if "she wants to go out" What do you mean by this? If a girl flakes last minute how do you respond?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 07:19 PM
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I would leave out "I texted a friend to know if she was free"
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 07:15 PM
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Yep it is so so hard to get where I am. Going to the gym is a habit now but every once in a while I feel like skipping a day, and then realize how crazy it is that I’m this consistent. Anyone in very good shape has my full confidence. Even if they lack somewhere I know they’re one of the few that can truly commit to something and go all out, so they’ll be the ones to improve where they lack. And agreed. Most of these girls have no reason to be confident besides their looks. Drive, discipline and…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 04:16 AM
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It's a combo of that and mentality. I know plenty of jacked guys who are weird as fuck and have no game cause they stopped at thinking the gym was enough. You have to go above and beyond in every way possible to pull the best.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 09:31 PM
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Exactly. I was terrible with girls in college, and there were definitely some good looking tall guys who had success, but one dude in particular absolutely SLAYED. Every girl loved him. He was the most jacked non steroid user, probably 5'11", and as confident as is probably possible. I was just some super observant, kind of funny, skinny college kid who witnessed the 10s I had massive crushes on all fall in love with this guy, and then they'd probably go hook up with some skinny tall guy cause h…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 09:26 PM
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Nah he showed us what a typical beta response is with the "make noise to scare off the burglar". Saying "I'd go bash his head in" or "I'd go kill him" is fine.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 06:09 PM
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Use the oneitis as motivation. What I've found is by the time I'm actually much higher SMV I've completely stopped thinking about her. Cause it takes a looong time to improve SMV. Had huge oneitis for a girl 2.5 years ago. She rejected hard cause I was so blue pilled. Now she's dating some fat ass guy and I'm clearly 100x better than what she can get. Feels good here, and now I can get girls more attractive than her with ease.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 05:44 AM
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“Be rejected but” sounds like you have no clue what you’re doing. He fucked her and you wouldn’t have..
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:35 PM
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Lmao it’s to show I was successful in more than just making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:25 PM
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Alpha is not angry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:14 PM
2

I have a buddy who did exactly this. Also a relative who got into relationships with ugly girls because he didn’t want others to think he was incapable of getting a girl (yes he told me this unprompted because his therapist said it was important to tell people).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:09 PM
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Lol there’s literally nothing you can say because I have lived it over and over and over. I’ve failed so many times that I now understand. Every single super hot girl will shit test. And to be clear I fucked her at her place not just made out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:00 PM
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I’m curious where you live because in NYC it is most certainly a game with how many options there are. I have personally experienced countless shit tests. Two weeks ago I was at a bar and said “hey” to a very attractive girl passing by. She said “no” in a very aggressive mean way. I responded “no? No problem” in about as confident a way as you can imagine. 5 mins later she walked by me again and said “are you stalking me?” I said “I think you’re stalking me I haven’t moved.” Another 10 mins late…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:24 PM
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The games men play are in direct response to what the girl does.. if she showed full interest in a guy and he was also very interested they’d be in a committed relationship rather quickly. You’re making this way simpler than it actually is. Girls shit testing is a form of game. If you don’t respond correctly you lose. I’ve never met a girl who doesn’t shit test in some way. From the very beginning girls are playing games to see if the guy is worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:03 PM
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It isn’t avoid commitment. It’s avoid commitment with those who haven’t shown they deserve it. In fact you would avoid commitment with a party girl who sleeps around. And I disagree that it’s a soft next if you don’t get sex right away. But soft next is still gaming to make the girl more interested, so I don’t see how even if that were the case it would remove non party girls from the equation. Why would you have a sit down conversation with someone about boundaries and expectations from the beg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:26 PM
1

I have and u sound like an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:53 PM
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Not at all. What makes you think it’s only uncommitted party girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:56 PM
1

So 100% of girls experienced trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:55 PM
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🙄 no how old are you? 3rd definition https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=lol&amp=true&defid=1406597
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:59 AM
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I disagree. That would be a conscious effort. Shit tests are mostly subconscious. I believe it’s evolutionary to weed out weak men who can’t protect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:26 AM
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A lot of trp is improving the type of girls you would normally get with. I coulda dated some low value girls back in the day, but I’d much rather date high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:23 AM
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This past weekend a girl made out with my buddy and guided his hand to finger her in the bar. I walked up to tell my bud I was leaving and she grabbed my crotch. She was having her bachelorette party.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:20 AM
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My bud just cheated on his girl this past weekend lol. She has no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:19 AM
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Yeah those that say this don't actually understand PUA or Redpill. No means no but can be a shit test. But a passed shit requires that the girl comes back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:33 AM
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The problem is it takes a lot of experience to understand shit tests. Guys read about it and people online say it's a good thing if you're being shit tested. Guys get confused and think any rejection is a shit test, therefore follow girl around bar/outside (because it's a good thing right?). But a shit test is not an indicator of interest. If you pass they may start showing you IOIs and that is when you make moves. Not when you are being shit tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:33 AM
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Models are tall. I’m a guy and prefer girls 5’6” to 5’10”. I’m 6’2” for reference
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 08:02 PM
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Just look at the study in this thread. "After one or two weeks off, you won’t suffer a significant drop in strength, power, body mass or size" implies that there is some drop, just not significant.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 08:18 AM
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I crack up any time people on here give me advice. Guarantee I’m more jacked than 99% of this board and not taking anything besides creatine and beta alanine. 10 days you would lose a little. It’s common sense.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 04:28 AM
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Yeah you will lose some muscle. Not much but you will. And yes, you could have lifted for 8 or 9 out of 10 days. Those days are lost progress..
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 08:49 PM
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you won’t suffer a significant drop in strength, power, body mass or size – or witness a noticeable gain in body fat You will lose some amount of muscle though after 10 days, and you will lose 10 days worth of progress or at least maintenance.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 08:27 PM
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This hot girl who works at my gym posted an ig story several months ago about a rando beta guy having lunch delivered to her at work with the caption “the members at my gym are the best!” Recently I came to the gym and was hungry so I asked if she had any food to give me. She was shocked lmao. Love playing the reverse card
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 09:31 AM
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Hey do you have an update on what happened?
/r/newTRP20/08/21 02:38 PM
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Yeah that’s solid. Def easy for them to burnout if you move them too fast. Most people I give advice to never listen. Had one guy approach me saying he should take roids a few months ago (I think he thought I took them) but I told him he’s not lifting enough and has to count calories. He hasn’t changed lol. Same to you dude. Hope for gains in your lifting numbers and muscle as well even if that’s not your goal 😉
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 04:14 AM
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Yeah for a newbie I’d start then at 4 days, but would transition to 6 days after 6ish months if not sooner. Hard to commit when you’re just starting out though. Yeah at 8-10 hours you’re definitely up there compared to most.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 04:07 AM
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What body fat percent are you? How many hours a week are you in the gym? Every guy I’ve met with lowish body fat and is jacked who do fewer days than me do at least as many hours as I do in the gym. For example a bud I recently met does 5 days/week, but 2.5 hours per session. He’s about as big as me. I do 10-12 hours/week in the gym, usually 12. I’m 206.5 13% bodyfat. I did about 7 years of counting calories at 4-5 days/week, and then switching to 6 days/week consistently for 2 years made a gian…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 03:54 AM
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To be clear I made so much progress after going to 6 days per week. I was not already in the best shape at all when moving to 6.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 12:14 AM
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They can. I didn’t use to think I could and lifted 4-5 days/week as that’s what I read a lot online. Once I found out the most jacked non steroid user in college lifted 6 days/week that changed my perspective.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 11:02 PM
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I do push pull legs twice a week. Lots of time to recover for each muscle group
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 10:53 PM
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I’m 29 and handle it fine. I’m the biggest and best in shape guy I know.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 10:52 PM
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if you're not gaining enough muscle, you're probably not working out hard enough. This. 3-4 days a week is not enough. If you’re not on roids ideal is 6 days/week imo
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 09:03 PM
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Yeah I see what you mean. For me I'm very redpilled as the only real good thing I had going for me was height. Everything else was shit besides face being ok. I had zero confidence, constant anxiety, zero game, and no muscle. It was very hard for me to gain muscle at first, but for me it was just needing to lift 6 days/week and iifym. I also eat terribly, although I ate really well for a few years but that didn't seem to help at all. And agreed that some people have horrible genetics, so it kind…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 04:26 AM
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Interesting, I’ve never been much of a dating app guy. Can’t get success there for some reason. I’m 29 and 6’2”. You? And kinda understand the blackpilledness, although doesn’t black pill mean you don’t think you can improve your situation? Years ago I could have ended up with like a 7 in something long term, but am now completely confident I’ll end up with a 9+.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 04:00 AM
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Exactly this. Any time I go into a bar Im on easy mode compared to 2-3 years ago for me. The hottest girl there starts eyeing me like crazy right away. I’ve had an 8 come up to me literally within 30 seconds of me entering a bar, buy me a tequila shot, and tell me she doesn’t have a gag reflex. Even dudes have come up to me and said “oh you lift lift huh” and another dude said “you’re where I want to be”. And I think guys on roids are at a disadvantage. It looks different, and the amount of ment…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 03:03 AM
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It really is easy haha. My pics are pretty unique. Anyone that has seen my IG pics would recognize the ones I plan on sending.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 09:03 PM
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No because I have similar pics on my instagram and don't want anyone to be able to match it to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 08:50 PM
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Where do you live, what college did you go to and where did you grow up? If none of those match me I'll send you body pics.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 08:43 PM
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why does almost everybody quit lifting weights Imo because they didn't go far enough. I was in solid shape 2-3 years ago, but didn't get great results with girls. I was probably in the top 5-10% of guys shape-wise and it barely made a difference. I committed hard during covid, and everyone I know has noticed how much bigger I got. I am the most jacked guy not on steroids I know (top 0.5%). And it has helped absolutely immensely. Hottest girls at the bar are instantly into me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 08:41 PM
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Because it doesn't matter Lmao. Once you get in very good shape you notice the difference. I go to any bar and girls look at me like crazy. I pick up the hottest girl in the bar most of the time. 5 years ago girls didn't bat an eye at me. Being in shape also helps improve your game faster. Because you see how girls will shit test, and then come back. Whereas when you have lower SMV, girls won't come back. So while you know a girl being mean and you handling it well is a passed shit test, you don…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 08:37 PM
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Those answers don’t look like they’re in the correct order
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 04:33 PM
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Seriously what a shitty story. How does this post have 90 upvotes. I met a girl at a bar the other day and she said there was some major asshole who she rejected and he freaked saying he knew the game cause he's redpill. Most here are fucking clueless.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 10:29 AM
1

On that topic you can also agree and amplify. How you say things is sooo important.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 05:02 AM
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Add in the entitlement and tik tok making them all turn into BPD schizos This might be the dumbest thing I’ve ever read in my life
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 05:33 PM
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Yeah yeah yeah Colombian girls are way better in every way I’m sure
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 04:09 AM
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It’s fucking so dumb haha. Don’t have it on hand now but the fat rate is actually very similar between Colombia and non rural states in the us. You can find hot girls in any country.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:28 AM
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It's the contrary actually. When I hit on girls at the gym all the guys are shocked. Buds will come up and be like "holy shit dude nice work that girls hot". Even if the girl rejects you others will give you props. I've had guys I don't know come up to me and say "damn dude I always see you talking to the hottest girls." Recently talked to this smoking hot girl. Got her number but could tell she wasn't into it. Talked to a bud a little later and he said "dude you have no fear in your heart." He …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 05:31 AM
1

Exactly my mindset. I want 5+ kids. That's either 2 girls or a young girl. If I'm talking to a 27+ year old it's to have sex and only sex.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 02:13 PM
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Yeah think there's a clear difference in the type of person they do this to. If you aren't a bpiller most "venting" is an excuse to see you so you can make a move.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 09:30 PM
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Now, how many guys have you met who really get this shit? 1? 2? 5? 10? 20? Even guys you think get it, don’t. Dude I knew several years back was super high value. Real good looking, tall, in top shape, and was dating a 10. He lost her after a few months then completely fell apart. Lost muscle cause he lost motivation, and lost confidence. He easily coulda swung a 9 at the worst but now he’s on 6s and 7s lol. Don’t let that be you.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 09:15 PM
1

That and seeing girls in places you frequent. People usually say don’t shit where you eat, but I meet so many girls at the gym it’s crazy. You can have several shorter convos with a girl then ask her out. Girls have said no to giving me their number the first time only for me to get it at a later date.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 10:42 PM
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Very few young guys have low T and I doubt it. My dad was a top long distance runner in college. You’d think I’d struggle to put on muscle cause I have his genetics. Once I switched to 6 days a week and counted cals it became a breeze (over several years of course).
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 10:31 PM
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They’re doing something wrong if they haven’t put on muscle. That was me my first 3 years of college. I wasn’t counting calories and was only going to the gym 4 days/week.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 10:27 PM
2

Remember reading a thing on transmission of herpes a few years ago. Condom cuts the risk of getting herpes in half.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 06:34 PM
2

It's essentially a shit test. Girls aren't actively aware but they're trying to test the frame of guys on reddit. Are the guys bitches who will do as they are told, or will they do whatever the fuck they want?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 06:22 PM
1

Good one
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 02:40 PM
0

Lmao you’re just completely making that up. Wanting to get laid more is not insecurity. It can make people more secure as they improve if they were insecure, but that is not at all a requirement haha
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 02:14 PM
2

Pretty fucking obvious not everyone will be in great shape. That isn't black pill. Anything in life takes effort. My intention was to motivate, not say it's impossible.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 04:38 PM
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No we won’t all make it. Very few will, even those reading this. You have to put in more effort than most to be in better shape or better X than most.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 10:26 AM
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Good one
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 09:57 PM
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Like what?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 09:11 PM
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No. Ignoring a girl on a date and actively flirting with another girl is not PUA. That will never ever work.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 07:37 PM
1

300$ Huh?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 06:36 PM
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That isn't redpill in any way. Someone who misunderstands how to do something isn't representative of the truth of redpill. Redpill is pretty clear that a date should be very fun, exciting, and physical escalation. That guy is a moron.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 06:31 PM
1

That’s unrelated.. the question is why do older guys want younger girls..
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 04:49 AM
0

It's not that deep lol. Younger girls are more attractive. Simple.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 04:57 PM
4

Nice list. I’m enjoying u wasting ur time
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 07:16 AM
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so u waste ur time following a subreddit u disagree with so you can try to insult us.. who is the loser here?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 10:20 PM
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I'm convinced that anyone who claims others are autists are autistic themselves. As a non-autistic person it rarely crosses my mind that someone else might be autistic to some degree. At worst I'll think "that dude is strange." I'd imagine if you're autistic it's on your mind a lot that you are autistic.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 10:13 PM
1

I generally knew it at 20. And I was still fucking terrible at getting girls. Experience is everything, and truth is most people still won't go for what they want in life cause they're scared.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 09:26 PM
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Lol at this sub being quarantined.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 04:50 AM
2

Imo counting calories is the most important, and hitting macros. I personally eat terribly but am in better shape than 99%. Everyone assumes I eat well but it’s just iifym. Limiting sugar and saturated fat is good too, but personally I don’t do that.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 04:49 AM
4

I've learned the most from two 9-9.5s that I had real good connections with rejecting me hard. 9s are very good at weeding out weak guys. They shit test you like crazy and will do little nuanced things to see if you just know how to pass a shit test or if you're truly a winner. In both cases I saw them often, and they both ended up rejecting me hard. The first I took horribly, but then recovered quickly. The second I took very well as my game had improved a ton since the first. And then suddenly…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 09:49 PM
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You need to get to the point of believing in yourself for some reason that you need to figure out. It truly gives off nuanced body language that girls look for. Cause guess what? That other guy who isn't balding has 5 girls he's talking to and probably not that strong of frame. I've seen very hot girls chase hot guys, then end up with less attractive guys who had strong frame. I've noticed now that when I go up to a girl at a bar, and when she rejects me, she'll often watch how I'm reacting a fe…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 09:33 PM
1

Well I got the info from Jeff Nippard who cites his sources well, but can’t remember the video. And I myself train to failure and am jacked 🤷‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 08:17 PM
1

Yeah just saying talking about grammar isn’t necessarily autistic
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 08:47 PM
1

I love when people on this sub call everything autistic
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 07:40 PM
2

A/an is based on the sound not that it’s a vowel. However I don't think you would use that here. He should have omitted "an", not sure the grammatical reason, but that just sounds right.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 06:21 AM
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Bar I went to tonight was finally packed. And I clearly worked harder than everyone else over the past year. I was the most jacked guy there. Girls were giving me looks like crazy.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 06:19 AM
4

No I was very close with family. Personally I believe it stems from “I want this girl to bear my children.” I have a high sense of self worth and I get oneitis occasionally. Like once every 2 years.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 06:16 AM
-1

How are you all so dumb? People in Brazil have a mutation to be more attractive on average? Starting to think this sub is full of Brazilians
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 05:47 AM
4

Most fat girls I know anything about are from Alabama, Arkansas, etc. Worked with a super fat girl in NYC. From Arkansas. She had 2 super fat friends. One was also from Arkansas and the other from Kansas. Looking at the data by state you can see that too. Rural states, especially those from like Ohio and south are wayy fatter than the rest.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 02:40 AM
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Nice if you’re going by overweight then 61.7% of people in Brazil are overweight. https://agenciadenoticias(dot)ibge(dot)gov(dot)br/en/agencia-news/2184-news-agency/news/29208-one-out-of-every-adults-in-brazil-were-obese-in-2019-and-primary-health-care-was-positively-evaluated
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 10:16 PM
-1

$5 says u and zyzzguido are the same person. And good for u. I’m not autistic
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:48 PM
2

The us does not have a 70% fat rate but nice
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:47 PM
-6

Ur resorting to name calling cause ur clearly wrong haha. You seeing hot girls at a club means zero. Glad ur done!
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:21 PM
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Nah you’re wrong haha. Pretty obvious. I’m glad there are hot girls in other countries and the US is the worst. Tell me more and link some studies you’ve done besides going to clubs in various countries.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 09:15 PM
-2

Ah yeah evolution randomly dictated that the imaginary line created by humans around Brazil would hold more attractive girls. U must be a genius.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 08:51 PM
-4

Lol if you stay out of the very rural Republican states the obesity rate is comparable to others. I personally like very white girls, so I love the US and Europe. Brazil doesn’t hold a candle to the US.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 07:55 PM
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Nice but Pretty good chance it's the #1 country in the world with the hottest women. No.. that just means they’re your type lol. This is the same with colleges in the us. “Wow this school has the hottest girls in the country.” I’ve heard that at 5/5 of the colleges I visited friends at over the years.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 05:53 PM
1

No. I play by my rules. I don't care what her rules are, you're the one asking her about her rules. And wtf are you talking about? I'm not thinking about possible shit tests. This is an example of a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 01:54 PM
1

You don't need to ghost if she's not in your frame. Most girls aren't at the beginning. She's giving you a shit test to see if your frame is stronger than hers. No need to know anything about her frame.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 09:01 PM
2

an interesting discussion on how she wants people to react when she says she is sad or something else, so you learn really something from her real inside brain/engine. That sounds like you're learning how to fit into her frame.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 06:25 PM
9

It works so much.. not even a question. You have to be a moron to think it doesn’t.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 05:54 PM
0

I would equate this feeling to being the most in shape guy in the room. It gives you a lot of confidence knowing you worked harder than everyone there. The upside of being in better shape is that everyone else knows it too without you saying a word, while knowing how to fight someone will pretty much never come up and never be useful.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 07:57 PM
24

Shit nvm we’re all autistic
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 06:12 PM
8

I’m not actually mad haha, was trying to emphasize how dumb of a trend it is.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 01:15 PM
97

Lol this sub is so fucking stupid sometimes. Seemingly every post someone claims op must be autistic. Just stfu
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 05:47 AM
1

I was gonna respond but then your genius line of move on clown made me reconsider. He is bodybuilding wtf are u talking about clown?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/21 02:52 PM
0

A lot on here say they won’t, but I think of this sub as more of a self development toolkit to get the best girl you can.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/21 03:51 AM
1

Exactly haha. I've literally had a hot girl go out of her way to embrace another guy in front of me cause she knew where I'd be just to see if I reacted. Shit was straight out of a movie and right after it happened I was like holy fuck there's a god and he's telling me this girl is taken. Then put it together later that it'd be impossible for that to happen unless she literally directed out a skit to see my reaction. I've had another girl who doesn't live close to me run by my apartment complex …
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:57 PM
3

Huh? How you look is very important. That’s literally what bodybuilding is for..
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 07:30 AM
1

I have abs at 195, 12% bodyfat.. good news is you're only 23. Another bulk or two and you'll be much bigger. But also studies have shown that the rep range you lift in doesn't matter that much. What matters is lifting to failure.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 06:39 PM
2

Yeah I'm 195 12% body fat and 6'2" completely natty. Guarantee a lot at the gym think I'm on roids.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 06:38 PM
3

Yeah even 4 years 185lbs 10% is doable. I didn't do it right, and it took me about 10 years. I'm now bulking, 195, about 12% at 6'2". Girls check me out like crazy. They wouldn't bat an eye at this 165lb dude lol
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 06:37 PM
3

100% agreed. There was 1 girl in particular I had maajor oneitis for 2.5 years ago. After I fucked that up I realized I could never fuck up like that again with a girl I liked. Since then I’ve become the best in shape guy in my gym not on roids and my game is rock solid. Just recently had much smaller oneitis for a girl who is a 9.5. That has cleaned up some minor parts of my game, and I’m super proud that I don’t care too much about losing her. This is gonna be a good summer. Also that’s awesom…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 05:58 PM
1

No, if this is your mindset you are going to fail more than you should.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 04:10 PM
3

Yeah you learn the most from rejection. My game improved dramatically from talking to very hot girls who ended up ghosting me and then I could trace back every fuck up I made.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 04:06 PM
3

Looks still matter. Short fat dude with the same amount of confidence as a really handsome dude will not do as well.
/r/seduction26/04/21 02:43 PM
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On top of this, you need to practice more than you think. Hot girls are incredible at coming up with new shit tests that will completely catch you off guard. You have to truly have strong frame and a lot of confidence to pass. The only way to get there is a lot of practice.
/r/seduction26/04/21 02:41 PM
2

I know what you mean. It sometimes takes the tone from friendly banter to "oh this guy is gonna try to take me out". I think what you're actually feeling is a shit test. Had that from a girl yesterday who is like a 6 haha. Asked for her number and her tone shifted from fun to kind of serious. It's almost a "how will he react if I act not too interested?" They're seeing if you suddenly get nervous, can no longer look them in the eyes, etc. I'd say talk to more girls and ask for their numbers, inc…
/r/seduction26/04/21 02:37 PM
3

This is why continuing to game is so important. If you do it over and over and over again, you will never feel self conscious doing it. One story of mine is there was this one bar that had a section with the worst set up. They had these stools around the edge, and raised seats as well, with a giant open floor in the middle. It looked like the middle was a stage. I walked by this section and there were a few cute girls talking in the middle, while tons of people were sitting around the edges. My …
/r/seduction26/04/21 02:07 PM
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Additional point, approaching in person is 1000x better than anything digital. Simply because very few guys do it, especially sober. Girl I went out with last week is an 8.5, and she said I'm the first guy in 4 years who has approached her at the gym. Guarantee there are hundreds of guys sending her messages on dating apps.
/r/seduction26/04/21 02:00 PM
3

Maybe it's just a made up example, but this is basically a different view of why passing shit tests is attractive to women.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 06:25 AM
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Yeah this is basically just a shit test lol. Good explanation as to why passing shit tests is attractive to girls.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 06:24 AM
1

Seriously. He got lucky that Elon touted it. Elon made a bunch of stupid people money.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 03:34 AM
8

Still a matter of degree. Now if you find out your homie is osama bin laden then it’s a problem
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 03:24 AM
3

And hey, if more people are aware of RP, it will be harder for guys to stand out from the rest. One of those ways is lifting as you can't figure that out in 10 mins like you can with googling how to pass a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/21 05:42 PM
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Yeah I guess I was speaking more from a front end perspective because I’m a front end engineer. I’d say it depends on how hard you work. I’ve gone far above and beyond, and asked for raises on my own. I’m the only engineer to ask for a raise. Everyone else is kind of quiet and accepts their salary. But we’ve grown as a company a lot and I’ve helped teach others, built new projects from scratch, and literally saved us 50k/year by analyzing our AWS infrastructure and writing an 5 page report in my…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 07:34 AM
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Personally, I learned when I wanted to build a complex project and was forced to learn. If you keep looking for tutorials you're not gonna get as far imo. But when you really try to build something complex, you'll come across tonns of problems that you'll solve with a simple google search, but aren't in any tutorials.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 07:20 AM
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Yes. But imo you really have to care. I was a full time student for accounting (and partied a ton etc), but had an insane passion to start the next big social site. When you really care and spend 30 hours a week coding instead of watching Netflix, suddenly you start to get good. Landed a job paying 45k in Utah after college, and a year later moved to NYC and got a job making 65k. Now I make 140k. But to be clear, this passion is why I'm making 140k. 65k and 45k jobs were on marketing teams. I sa…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 07:08 AM
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It's so easy looking through resumes to find bullshit. Most of the BS people link are the shittiest portfolio sites ever, or something tiny like a todo list that probably took 5 hours max. The best was this one project that had over 150k lines of code. There were like 100 commits too. But if you looked at the actual history, the 3rd commit was 149.9k lines of code. Clearly just copied this giant project from someone else. Also when I cloned it and ran locally it was absolute shit. If you're good…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 07:01 AM
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Yeah that's cause it's about confidence, not about being an asshole. You don't have to speak out against things you don't like. Remaining silent works very well, and makes people not hate you as much.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 10:10 PM
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It could be. I’d have to see studies on it or try it myself, but since PPL 2x per week works for me I’m gonna stick with it for now. Imo volume is the most important. If you go 6 days/week 1.5+ hours each time, lifting hard the whole time with 1.25 min rest between sets, you will get huge no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 04:25 PM
1

Well it matters for how big you wanna get
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 05:22 AM
4

Yeah it took me forever to get to this point. I knew his program and still didn’t implement it for years. Find a park with a pull up bar. For first 2 months of lockdown I filled a giant backpack with soup cans and candles etc. It weighed about 50-55lbs. Did push-ups with that on my back til I got weights on Craigslist. Had 0 in person gym for 6 months in NYC. Hardly lost any muscle. I won’t lose and that’s the mindset you need imo.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 10:47 PM
2

Well being in the top 1% physically is key imo. There was a dude who I went to college with who was absolutely jacked, but not on roids. There was a group of bars everyone went out to, and a few times over the years I was with a group of people and we happened to walk by this guy. Each time girls in our group would ask “woah who is that?” After we walked by. 1 year after college he posted his workout routine which I’ve followed closely for the last 2 years. Essentially 6 days a week of PPL, 1.5-…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 09:53 PM
1

Why not go to the gym 6 times/week
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 04:43 PM
1

This shouldn't be an opinion question. I'd love to see data on this
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 04:41 PM
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I was in Miami when I was not elite. It was rough. It took me 5-6 years after leaving college there to become elite. If you work harder than me you can get there sooner. I didn't start really lifting 6 days a week til about 2 years ago and that alone has put me on a different planet. Make a note of the girls who are interested in you now and make that your motivation. I remember 4 years ago there were 3 girls I was gaming in my gym, and they were all lifting near me one day. I was so disappointe…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 04:35 PM
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Agreed. Especially as you grow. They assume you should still be on their level, and if you really start to pass them it hurts them. But of course when it comes to them judging someone famous, they usually don’t blink an eye when the famous are cocky or arrogant.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 04:54 AM
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I lift 6 days a week for 1.5-2 hours, and my "off" day I do 30 mins of supplementary lifts. I'm the most jacked non-steroids user in my gym. Michael Phelps did hours a day every day for 5 years in a row. Zero days off. Your body adjusts. When I went from 5 to 6 days a week, I literally started seeing 20% more gains. It was absurd. It's pretty simple. If your body can't handle it, it makes your muscles bigger. Really don't think rest day is as important as some make it out to be. Just get good sl…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 08:11 PM
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Nice post, but.. within half an hour of knowing each other, she is texting me sexual fantasies she'd like to carry out with me I don't believe you
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 02:34 PM
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Actually. I disagree with you here in certain cases. I’m not going to pursue her any more, but I don’t think this is a good case for blocking. This isn’t the same as “blocking to get them to fuck you.” This is blocking them cause you’re mad imo. If there was sexual tension with a girl it is possible you still fuck someday. I’m muchhh higher value than this girl. So idk what her deal is, but I could def see her reaching out in a few months and us getting drinks and fucking.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 05:37 PM
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Appreciate it bro. Yeah I'm fine with that.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 04:44 PM
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Gotcha, so won't actually turn into sex after 2nd flake? Just kinda revenge? Yeah I meet plentyy of other girls that she'll see me with haha
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 04:34 PM
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So I'm testing this out. Girl who shows interest keeps flaking and I see her often. How do you go about actually turning this into seeing them outside of casual?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 04:18 PM
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No problem dude! There was an article i used 2 years ago from the most built natty bodybuilder at my school to base everything off of. That site was unfortunately removed so always good to give back. If you’re feeling sore jumping from 3 to 6 days I would take an extra day off every once in a while over the next month, but I’ve found the body gets used to it pretty quick. Make sure you eat a lot!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 04:41 PM
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Well then you didn’t count calories correctly haha. Eating fewer calories than your body needs will make you lose weight. It works for everyone
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 02:10 PM
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Why is it the easiest? Easiest is counting calories imo. It’s all calorie deficit. I eat what I want and just lost 30lbs. Easy
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 01:39 PM
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Yeah PPL twice a week. Had always done 4-5 days a week for years, and then decided to really commit to 6 days/week 2 years ago. The difference is insane. Literally been 20% more gains than 5 days/week. Just 6 weeks after committing to 6 days/week a gym bud came up to me asking what I was doing cause I had such good progress in such a short time. For every exercise I do: 4 sets with 1 min 15 sec rest interval timed. After 4 sets, I drop weight and do 5 sets of myo reps (which are just reps to fai…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 05:11 AM
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It’s essentially the same as cutting any calories. I just lost 30 lbs only by eating at a deficit. Ate plenty of sugar
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 02:38 AM
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Lmao you're clueless. I'm in the best natty shape out of anyone at my gym. Hit your macros, hit your calorie goals, and hit the gym 6 days/week for 1.5 hours per session. Not 5 days. Not 6 days some weeks. 6 every week. Do it for years and you will be where I am. I am literally eating a plate of sour patch kids and cookies right now.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 09:56 PM
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100% agree. I'm a true warrior cause I have a few extra cans of soup in my cupboard? Wtf lol. To me the warrior mindset is working fucking harder than everyone. Gardener mindset is "let me grow 3 veggies in case the world falls apart." Bitch if the world falls apart you better believe I'm stealing your veggie plants.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 07:23 PM
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That little improvement over time makes such a big difference if you stick with it. Years of being in ok shape, ok at game, and I slowly improved til there was a sharp and clear increase in quality and quantity of girls. I used to bang 1-2 girls a year throughout my early to mid 20s (although I’m the type to go home instead of take back an ugly girl). And I tried real fucking hard lol. At a certain point you start to get it. I started to learn how often and how hard to lift, and understand how t…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 10:06 AM
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K closed gym girl earlier this week. Work in progress brotha. And how was it energy at all? I just texted “No probs”
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 06:56 PM
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Genius interpretation. It’s almost like you read my post. I’m helping people that are like how I used to be
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 02:14 AM
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Don't block imo. If a girl rejects I usually will freeze out for 1 week, and then try one more time via text. And I don't start with asking them out after freeze out. I'll send one text to see if they even respond, then ask out in next text. If a girl is interested but was shit testing you, she will find a way to get back in contact with you. If 1 or 2 freeze outs fail, don't block, and move on.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 03:08 PM
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Yeah I've heard that from a lot of people. "she's focused on her workout". I think everyone wants to meet someone they like, and I think it's easier with the pandemic. Fewer people are approaching cause it's something you aren't really "supposed" to do. I usually do 1 of 2 things at the gym. ask them something random about their workout. Example is last week a girl was using one of those giant weighted balls and lifting it overhead and throwing it into the ground. I just asked her what bodypart …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/21 02:59 PM
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100% agreed. There is a lot of failure in person, but it works very well when it does
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 07:53 PM
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Agreed with everything except I think it's easier to meet girls in person than online. It's easier because fewer people do it now. It takes lots of balls to do it in person, and that is instant HMV. It is almost impossible to convey that via messaging before meeting someone in person. Obviously you should be in a big city to do this frequently though. That's a big part of why I live in NYC.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 06:51 PM
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I agree partially, being smooth comes from not hesitating, but it also comes from practice and tone. I used to be too excited talking to girls, and while I was funny, it was too much. I've cooled off as I've started to believe in myself more and realize I don't have to impress anyone. Having that tone of the "cool guy" is very important imo. It's like calm, collected, saying something funny and not caring if it lands or not because you know it's funny. Just takes practice.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 06:26 PM
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It's possible, but probably hard to pull off. I personally used to do the block/unfriend route, a loong time ago and it did not work one time out of the 15 or so times I did it. Unless you already have their attention and interest it won't work imo.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 06:01 PM
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Personally I disagree for where I lift. Maybe it's just cause I'm used to it. I agree when it comes to work environment though. Or at least you'd have to let it build for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 05:53 PM
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Haha interesting, I prefer taller girls around 5'7 - 5'11. I'm 6'2
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 05:50 PM
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Yeah from my perspective it's like think of how you'd treat a 6 you didn't care about, but were willing to smash. You wouldn't come up with some intricate lie with the 6. I actually had similar happen with a 6 recently. Got her number and I texted her a few times but I didn't even want to hang so I stopped. Ran into her the next week and decided to ask her out for the weekend. She said yes but later texted me saying "actually I can't get drinks because there's a guy I'm talking to and don't want…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 05:44 PM
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Yes I agree with you in general. This is something I noticed that was different from the classic "respond to shit tests with agree & amplify". I do think the only way to get good is going for it yourself. But for the less experienced guys this can help with frame. I "followed their lead" in the past even in very subtle ways and that hurt my game. When you talk to enough girls this comes naturally as you have other options so you just don't care.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 05:39 PM
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Agreed. This girl is actually a little short for me. She has an almost perfect body, but didn't know what she looked like cause of the mask. Got her insta at one point and she's hot as balls lmao. Gets around too cause she had pics all over the world with very good looking dudes.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 05:31 PM
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Now that I've gotten better, I really don't think they're being brutal anymore. It's like truly a game in their minds. Crazy how much my mentality has changed over the years. Kicker for me was a girl 2.5ish years ago that I loved, and I was better than her in every way. I went to a 10x better school, had 3x better paying job, better looking, in better shape, wittier, etc. And it was absolutely clear she liked me. Her friend even told me she was interested. But she kept rejecting me hard, and I w…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 05:27 PM
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No, he's not. How is it "creeping"? We flirted for a month. Got her #, texted her, went well til she made up an excuse. Didn't care, went back to the gym as usual at my normal times, then she was there when they only ever have 1 worker. I said "why are there 2 of you tonight?" And she said "I'm off the clock, helping my friend out." You can try focusing on one tiny aspect of my story, but I simply left a lot of details out. My game is fire. I get several numbers a week at the gym. Guys like you …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 04:58 PM
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Didn’t give her a chance to reschedule cause it was bs to begin with. She had to have known her schedule when I asked, and her “working” was actually the following morning at 5am. I had asked 7pm Monday. She coulda met for a drink or two, or changed it to 5 or 6pm very easily. And I didn’t cut her off. Was gonna do a freeze out then she was there off shift “helping her friend work”.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 01:38 PM
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Agreed on point one. 2, in person flirting and continued flirting via text.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 01:34 PM
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If you will see them again in passing I wouldn’t respond and then talk to them in person without mentioning it. If not, then freeze out for increasingly longer periods over time (1 week, then 2-4 weeks). After 1 freeze out I usually never text again, but it depends a lot on how much interaction there was to getting her number in the first place. In the case of 9.5 it was a lot of in person flirting, so I felt confident it wasn’t done. Also if a girl is interested she will likely not let it die. …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 01:05 PM
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I see what youre saying, but I would guess most are not doing it as a power move but out of being upset.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 12:59 PM
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Think it depends. In my experience milfs are easier in general and don’t put up shields as much
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 08:48 AM
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Tbh u sound mad lmao. She told me she was off the clock. And I’m assuming she was there for me cause she was dressed up af and nervous af. I’m blessing u with a glimpse of my game. Leave the sub if you don’t want reports
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 08:43 AM
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Imo, you need to get to a place of never blocking. That means you care. I'll post another example this week where this same 9.5 rejected me hard in front of 5 other gym-goers. It is purely a shit test, that 99.5% of guys fail. They'll get mad, go home, block her, and avoid talking to her. You cannot care at all imo. Especially with hotter girls. That does not mean you will get them all. But if you care you get none
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 07:40 AM
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"Doing this shit for not just me, but for you" if you actually used this line, and aren't trying to mock this subreddit, you got lucky. Maybe she's deaf or something, cause that makes it sound like a oneitis type deal where you're already too into her.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 06:33 AM
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I know that exact feeling. "What is confidence?" I had a guy tell me my freshman year of college that I had no confidence. I legit had never thought about what that actually meant. For me, I built it from always going for it and working harder than everyone. I know when I walk into a room I am in the top 1% of guys physically, and that I will talk to any girl. On top of working incessantly on side projects. I have not met anyone who will walk up to girls like I do no matter what. The crazy thing…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 05:50 AM
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100% this. Knowledge/experience is EVERYTHING. People who met me in the past 2 years know me as an alpha dude who’s smooth af with ladies. You have no idea how many times I fucked up talking to girls, got insanely nervous, sent beta texts, had massive oneitis etc, to get to my current spot. My favorite one was I talked to this girl at the gym about 5 years ago. I got super nervous planning out what I was going to say. I walked up to her and was literally shaking. You could hear it in my voice. I…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/21 05:27 PM
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100%. EVERYTHING in life is this way. EVERYTHING. 99% of people don’t get it somehow. The more consistent effort you put into something the better you will be at that thing. 5 years ago I’d pull about 1/25 girls. And I was a nervous wreck. Today at prepandemic bars I take a girl home 50% of nights and the other 50% I could if I wanted to take home an uglier girl. That’s from 5 years of going for it and talking to rando girls, 5 years of massive rejections, and 5 years of lifting and improving my…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 04:20 PM
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It’s crazy how few men know that shit tests are an ioi. I’ve gone out to bars with friends who try to pull me away from girls and they’re like “dude she’s not interested at all.” Then I go and hook up with the girl and they’re baffled. My favorite one was this girl who shoved the shit out of me. Any random guy would think oh fuck he got rejected hard. My buddy came over and told me I had to stop. But we had been flirting like crazy all night and I had showed extreme value by talking to pretty mu…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 06:09 PM
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Yeah and from the other side, I used to be always slightly too needy with girls. Just a few words here or there in texts, and then they later knew my withdrawn attention was purposeful punishment and that I was a needy beta. Had the same thing happen recently with an 8.5, and withdrew attention. 1.5 months later I sent her an insta dm and she’s going crazy over me lol. I truly truly believe that you cannot fake it though. You need to get to a point where you believe you truly are the prize. I wa…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 09:37 PM
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Ah yeah you have some good points
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:17 AM
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You will for sure get 1/25 I guarantee it (for seeing in person again for a date, not necessarily sex). The 1/25 was back when I lived in Utah. It was various things but not at bars cause I lived in a mormon area. 1/2 - 1/3 is in NYC now, at the gym. So it is preselecting girls who work out and will probably be more interested in a guy who works out. At bars in NYC I go back with a girl about the same ratio (1 out of every 2 or 3 nights out), but will talk to several girls throughout the night. …
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:39 AM
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Well the reason it usually takes longer is because beginners don't start out lifting 6 days a week, 1 hour+ at a time. They start out at 3-4 days a week like I did, and gradually increase. You will not gain 20lbs of muscle in year 1 if you lift 4 days a week, under an hour each time. Speaking from experience haha. A year ago I went from lifting 5 days/week to 6, and literally saw so much of an increase. Completely changed my physique for me.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:32 AM
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Back when I was just starting approaching, and just an average DYEL guy (about 6 years ago), I would get a date with about 1/25 girls I approached. This included girls I rejected after meeting them, so I would go on a date with about 1/15 that I wanted to. Sounds low, but as a dude who also got super nervous approaching, I think it wasn't bad considering I only approached girls I thought were cute. After 7 years of lifting, and getting much better at talking to girls because I kept practicing, i…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:25 AM
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I mean if you're below average going for a 9 then yeah that's gonna be hard. Not impossible though. But if you're below average going for a below average girl you'd do well in real life. And whats stopping you from improving yourself? What's great about it is most people won't put in the effort, so if you do you'll quickly rise above the others in your current level.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:15 AM
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Dude it is soooo much better approaching. And once you do it enough to be slightly good at it you kill. Crazy how few people approach now. You are instantly 10x more attractive approaching even if you stumble over your words. Out of all my approaches I've only had one girl in the last year who was turned off because it was clear I was good at approaching. She still gave me her number but ended up ghosting.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:09 AM
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"Doesn't take long to reach the natty limit" Yes.. it does. You can get pretty jacked after 6+ years of lifting. A lot of people assume I'm on roids and I am not.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:04 AM
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Haha what? A lot of these girls are at 70+ guys but the best guys you know are at 40? Math doesn't add up.. There are girls at your same n count. And maybe half of the people to relationship_advice are sluts? Who cares. Just work on yourself and if a girl is a slut, reject her. It's all depends on what you want. If you want the super flirty, hot girl that knows how to talk to guys, she's probs been with a lot of guys. Same with the guys that are like that.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 09:35 AM
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Biggest thing for me was negging. I did that several times and it just didn't work. Girls like confidence. I was mixing up being manly and telling it how it is with negging. You don't need to neg. You can still have confidence and unwavering in your opinion without bringing others down.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 09:34 AM
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Wow. Crazy because I've been thinking about posting something very similar. When I was in my early 20s I was a bitter dude that didn't understand why I couldn't get girls. I would chase, chase, and chase nonstop. I would read some pua stuff which helped some but my insecurities and neediness would always shine through. That is until about a year ago (late 20s now). I really started to get into good shape after 6 years of lifting, and over the past 9 months I've had sex with 13 girls, and really …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 09:28 AM
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